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Speaker 1: Hello, chip Hi, I love that with yat on. Oh

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Speaker 1: were you about to say something?

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Speaker 2: This is our first time recording with you and your

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Speaker 2: new like sexy little nook.

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Speaker 1: Oh, in my new nook. I need to post about

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Speaker 1: this on Instagram because I set up I call it

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Speaker 1: my little sound booth. In my house. It was like

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Speaker 1: there was this random nook. I always think this about

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Speaker 1: house is like what are you supposed to put there?

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Speaker 1: You know, like it's those weird spaces. And then all

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Speaker 1: of a sudden it dawned on me, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: that's the best sound in my whole entire house. Why

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Speaker 1: have I not made that into a sound booth yet?

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Speaker 2: How are you lit from behind? Is there a lamp there?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Me and my friend we like decorated this space.

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Speaker 1: She did like some functua shit, and then we lit

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Speaker 1: from like behind this chair and in front of it

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Speaker 1: so you can see into the nook. Even case I

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Speaker 1: want to post things on you know, Instagram, that's kid,

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Speaker 1: I'll post it for you guys.

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Speaker 2: You guys can see it.

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Speaker 1: Cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like it's the It's like it's good energy.

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Speaker 2: You'll be comfortable there too, it's.

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Speaker 1: Supposed to be on brand. Can you tell? It's like

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Speaker 1: my podcast picture it's got like a disco ball and

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Speaker 1: this well, because you know, I mean, i'd be talking

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Speaker 1: about heavy shit in here.

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Speaker 2: Speaking. We might have some heavy ship to talk about today.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well you just made it sound like you're about

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Speaker 1: to shit your pants, and that's.

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Speaker 2: The word heavy might be associated with what we talked about,

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Speaker 2: heavy flow, if you will.

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Speaker 1: So let's just go ahead and jump into what Chip

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Speaker 1: loves to send me on Instagram. To start, Chip more

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Speaker 1: than any human I've ever met, gets China expert ads,

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Speaker 1: well expert, let's use that term loosely. He gets served

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Speaker 1: ads and like any sort of meme about vaginas, like

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Speaker 1: it is like nothing I've ever seen. It's like you

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Speaker 1: put that out there at one point because you thought

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Speaker 1: it was funny to act like you were a vagina expert.

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Speaker 1: And now Instagram and your algorithm has listened and you

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Speaker 1: get like literal ads about anything related to vaginas, and

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Speaker 1: like diagrams.

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Speaker 2: Like I love to send them to her and be like,

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Speaker 2: just in case you didn't know, here's all your erogenos

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Speaker 2: zones and she's like banks, like do you.

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Speaker 1: Think my own body. Yeah, it's always really funny coming

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Speaker 1: from Chip. But since this week was Valentine's Day and

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Speaker 1: we have been talking about love and sex all month

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Speaker 1: and we will continue to do so. Chip actually sent

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Speaker 1: me one of the ads that he got served and

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Speaker 1: it was really interesting to me. Do you want to

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Speaker 1: tell the listeners about the ad? Chip?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's from Cotexs. I guess they only do

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Speaker 2: they make tampons or are they just a p.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you're the vagina expert.

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Speaker 2: The artwork has a pad on it, so I'm gonna say.

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Speaker 1: I think they do anything. It's like play Text, Tampax,

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Speaker 1: co Text, those are the brands.

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Speaker 2: Why do they all end an X?

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Speaker 1: Because you want to like X yourself when you have

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Speaker 2: I guess so. Anyway, So so this was a site

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Speaker 2: were amplifying the story that Cotexts was doing a promotion

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Speaker 2: around Valentine's Day. I'll read you the post. It says,

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Speaker 2: please Dan, cotext is helping to sorry. Cotex is hoping

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Speaker 2: to normalize conversations around periods, and more specifically period sex

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Speaker 2: with a new Valentine's Day campaign. The Menstrual Hygiene brand

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Speaker 2: truffles made with libido boosting Shatavari, as well as four pads.

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Speaker 2: According to a survey conducted by Cotex, nearly forty percent

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Speaker 1: Well, we're also recording this. It's going to go up

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Speaker 1: after Valentine's Day. So I think that means they did

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Speaker 1: Interesting thing a pad man, you lose me at pads.

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Speaker 1: Are you trying to say that they're they're pitching this

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Speaker 1: That's like, yeah, well, it's for all things, bowel movements,

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Speaker 2: And I feel like if I apply that sort of thing,

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Speaker 2: males probably have zero understanding. It's just something that they

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Speaker 2: Like, I'll read the three statistics. One of them I

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Speaker 2: Fifty four percent of women are open to having period sex,

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Speaker 1: So that was the one that set me off. You

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Speaker 1: But it's our body's process for releasing, so like we

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Speaker 2: is a great time. Yeah, well, you know the Jina

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Speaker 2: have some period sex. Have you have you had period sex?

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Speaker 1: Have I had periods? Okay? Have you met me?

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Speaker 1: Yes, how does it different a little bit?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Okay? So here I will say I have a

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Speaker 1: and that's because we start ovulating. Yeah, your body literally

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Speaker 1: And I'm just like, nobody should be shaming women. We

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's actually kind of perfect because the first day

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Speaker 2: Let's go and you Also, the law also stipulates that

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Speaker 1: They're the men who don't have period sex for sure.

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Speaker 2: They're the ones that shame women for starting their periods. Yeah, sad,

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Speaker 2: I know where do we go from there? Like I'm

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Speaker 1: There's a surprise.

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Speaker 2: The reason why I'm asking.

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Speaker 1: I've just never been shamed, so I'm really like, I

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Speaker 1: That's how I came to this world. I can do.

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Speaker 2: How would you feel? How would you feel though? If

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, you have to respect anybody's preference in sex.

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Speaker 2: Would you be like, slow down, partner, I'm not that

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Speaker 2: Thing, would you mask? Would you mask you? So you

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Speaker 1: Because if you did, then that would be the end

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Speaker 1: Like, well, that's what I would say that. Oh you

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Speaker 1: But if you're gonna get thrown off because it's a

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Speaker 2: I wonder if most guys aren't into it because they

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Speaker 1: be I am totally okay with I mean, like the

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Speaker 1: answer that most women would appreciate. I am totally okay

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Speaker 1: with it. But it's your body, So whatever you're comfortable with,

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Speaker 1: so that like the woman is making the decision. If

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Speaker 1: that's if they're actually comfortable, I mean, they should answer truthfully,

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Speaker 1: but like if they genuinely don't care, then put it

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Speaker 1: back in the woman's court of what she's comfortable with, right,

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Speaker 1: and also reiterate it does not bother me at all,

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Speaker 1: Like you know, it is what it is right. We're

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Speaker 1: all adults here, kind of thing, you know, like more

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Speaker 1: on that in line.

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Speaker 2: With that, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: Any other questions for me, doctor ship.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I'm going to go write my vagina Bookina by.

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Speaker 1: A gay man.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if anyone's ever like, if any men have

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Speaker 2: ever done that play.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what a good question. It just stumps

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Speaker 1: us both, So get on the Google box and figure

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Speaker 1: it out. I mean, according to doctor brighton dot com,

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Speaker 1: it says, as long as you feel comfortable, sex during

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Speaker 1: your period is a good thing. It can bring you

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Speaker 1: closer to your partner, relieve minstrel cramps, may shorten your

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Speaker 1: period and even make sex more enjoyable.

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Speaker 2: The shortening the period sounds like a real bonus.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, the biggest bonus of all.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's like it's even if you're single, you

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Speaker 2: got to find someone like night one just like knocked

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Speaker 2: us out of me.

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Speaker 1: You're like, can you help me get rid of this thing?

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Speaker 1: For quicker? Better than pads? Well, yeah, better than mine?

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Speaker 2: All.

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Speaker 1: Let me just tell you, since you don't know this either,

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Speaker 1: pads do feel like wearing a diaper, and then we.

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Speaker 2: Can't imagine what it feels like to have that. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I have balls, but like they're situated differently than a pad,

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like.

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Speaker 1: It would just sure, we don't have to deal with that.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like it would just feel like a

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Speaker 2: bunch of underwear, like crammed the you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of a diva cup? Yes?

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Speaker 2: I have? You wear that on the inside though, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I tried it once. It was way too messy

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Speaker 1: for me. I mean, my friend said that means I

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Speaker 1: did it wrong, But I was like, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to if that was wrong. I don't even want to know, right, Like.

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Speaker 2: I just was like, it just sounds like it is

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Speaker 2: a recipe for disaster.

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Speaker 1: Oh I get it, and it actually is probably healthier

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Speaker 1: than a tampon, but yeah, better.

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Speaker 2: For the earth and all those things. But sure, you know,

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Speaker 2: if you run the risk of spilling it all over

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Speaker 2: your friend's floor, if you're ever there watching a movie

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Speaker 2: or something like that was.

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Speaker 1: Very specific and feels like maybe you have a story.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I just was envisioning like you're trying to

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Speaker 2: empty and going everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it did, That's what happened. It was like then

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Speaker 1: it was all over my hand and it was just like, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is messy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, then you had to cut your hand off, and

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Speaker 2: yeah myself it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, we digress. But anyway, that was we just

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Speaker 1: wanted to like, we're to hear this month to normalize

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Speaker 1: topics around sex and love, and I love that Cootex

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Speaker 1: really just kind of went for it.

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Speaker 2: It went for it and clearly resonated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So it was funny because the most liked comment was

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Speaker 2: funny because it was negative in a humorous way. It said,

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Speaker 2: let's discuss the real atrocity here thirty five dollars for

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Speaker 2: five chocolates and four pads. Hell no, you know, it's

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Speaker 2: like you would expect the thing, like there to be

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Speaker 2: some negative feedback. That was really high, but I loved

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Speaker 2: that it was like, actually one that was humorous. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I also think like they really did smart about putting chocolates,

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Speaker 1: Like when you're on your period all, I mean, chocolate

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Speaker 1: is like you definitely crave it. Yeah, chocolate, French fries

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Speaker 1: and all the things.

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Speaker 2: The second most like comment, it's funnier too. It's a

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Speaker 2: it's funny too. It says a warrior is never afraid

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Speaker 2: to get blood on his sword.

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Speaker 1: Wow. I mean that's true. That's what. Literally, that's why

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Speaker 1: I was like, there's guys who are out there shaming

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Speaker 1: people because every guy that I've ever experienced that with

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Speaker 1: is like I don't care at all, and they really

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Speaker 1: just want to have sex. So they're like that is

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Speaker 1: not going to stop me. Yeah, yeah, there's massacre is

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Speaker 1: a little bit wild sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Somebody said, but why four pads are not like a

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Speaker 2: large towel.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's what because that's what you put down

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Speaker 1: like that. If you're nervous about period sex, you just

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Speaker 1: got to prepare, like you put a towel down so

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Speaker 1: it doesn't get all over the bed or the couch

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Speaker 1: or wherever you're having sex. And then you just usually

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Speaker 1: I try to do a white towel because you can

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Speaker 1: bleach them, yeah pro tip right there.

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Speaker 2: Or a black towel and you can't see anything.

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Speaker 1: Well there you go and you just wash it. But yeah,

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00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: like you just anything that's like not going to stain.

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Speaker 1: It is blood, so it could stain, but yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: just really not that big of a deal. Think about

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Speaker 1: the extual irrication, you know, look at the plus sides here.

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Speaker 2: I mean, sex is already messy.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's always opportunity for awkwardness like weaving and

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Speaker 1: other things like well, you know, sex is just like

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Speaker 1: there's the funny stuff that happens, and you could let

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Speaker 1: it deter you, or you could just laugh about it

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Speaker 1: and keep moving on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Hey, if you let it deter you, you have less sex.

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Speaker 1: So amen.

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Speaker 2: It reminds me of this one of my favorite memes.

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Speaker 2: That's like, people who think farts aren't funny are the

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Speaker 2: real losers here Because you live the same amount of weight,

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Speaker 2: you have to live just as long and have the

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Speaker 2: same amount of arts. Wow, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's like you might as well think it's funny.

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Speaker 1: Just laugh about it, yeah, or like be in awe

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Speaker 1: of how amazing our bodies are. Yes, that's our that's

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Speaker 1: our tips for you guys on this topic of period sex.

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Speaker 1: If you have any thoughts for us, you can always

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Speaker 1: email us at the edge at velvetsedge dot com or

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Speaker 1: leave us a voicemail. I've loved getting the voicemails from

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Speaker 1: you guys. I cannot wait. Next week I'm going to

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Speaker 1: record my first solo episode with a voicemail question, which

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Speaker 1: is awesome. I'm super excited about that. You can find

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Speaker 1: that in a link in my bio on Instagram which

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Speaker 1: is at Velvet's Edge, or on the bio in chips

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Speaker 1: Instagram which is.

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Speaker 1: And as you guys go into the weekend and you're

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Speaker 1: having all the period sex ever, hope Well, I could say,

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Speaker 1: I hope you're living on the edge having all the

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Speaker 1: period sex you want. I hope you always remember to

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Speaker 1: a casual I kind of actually work. Really. That was

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Speaker 1: our new tagline, All the time

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Speaker 2: Period Okay, bye bye two