1 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: And now another gray moment from twenty twenty five Alvis 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: Duran in the Morning show. 3 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Wow. 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 3: If you look closely, no matter where you go in 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 3: this world, you'll see the influencers dotting the mall or 6 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 3: the sidewalks around the city, dancing to some rhythm they 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 3: hear in their head and or going out to a 8 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 3: restaurant and you know, recording themselves on their phone while 9 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 3: they're eating a waffle. And sometimes they just they're in 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 3: the way. I mean, I know there's there's an importance 11 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:39,279 Speaker 3: to influencing. I guess I don't know. I guess we 12 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 3: need them, yeah. 13 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 2: But sometimes there's just I saw a video the other day. 14 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 3: This woman was sitting there at a restaurant and they 15 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 3: brought her a bill at the end of her lunch, 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 3: and she was recording, of course, the whole time on 17 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 3: her phone. She's like, no, no, no, no, I'm an influencer. 18 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 3: I shouldn't pay for this. I'm doing you a favor. 19 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 3: But they're like, we don't know who you are. You 20 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 3: should know who I am, and should know that I'm 21 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 3: a vegetarian. You serve me meat and whatever. And I'm 22 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 3: looking at this self. The self importance in this dumb 23 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,559 Speaker 3: woman's mind was just gross. Weren't you at a party 24 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 3: not too long ago? Gandhi were a bunch of influencers 25 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: and it was just like a night of living Hell. 26 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 4: Yes, I have been to I feel like a few 27 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 4: of them lately, and a ton of influencers show up. 28 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 4: And to your point, I know why they're there. You 29 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 4: want to spread the word, you want to tell everyone 30 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 4: you're here. There was no joy among the majority of 31 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 4: the people who were there. Nobody was interacting with each 32 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 4: other or trying to talk to new people or really 33 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 4: just having a moment with a really cool event. It 34 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 4: was just all about how many times do I take 35 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 4: this one picture which was one hundred and fifty and 36 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 4: how can I make it look great? And it just 37 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 4: went back. It took me back to the thing we 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 4: talked about all the time, which is people are so 39 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 4: much more concerned, it seems, with what things look like 40 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 4: versus what things feel like. And I'm like, Okay, these 41 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 4: pictures and everything, they're going to look great online. But 42 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 4: I was here and I know what this was actually like. 43 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 4: And I felt like the weirdo because I was cracking 44 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 4: up with my friends and I felt like that noxious 45 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 4: a hole. Who's the only person laughing there? Like we're 46 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 4: allowed to still do that. 47 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 2: Right of course? 48 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 3: Yes you No, I encourage it. I mean they're sucking 49 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 3: the joy out of your night. So there's this guy 50 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 3: we follow. I love this guy is his name is Dottie. 51 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 3: I think D A A D I Dottie Dad Dotty snacks. Yes, 52 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 3: he's the best. 53 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: You've seen him? Right? No, he goes he mocks these influencers. 54 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 3: Oh my god, guys, we had to go down and 55 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 3: get the Macha flavored waffles. 56 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, the Indian guy, right. 57 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 3: I actually sent him a message and we want you 58 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 3: on our show because he makes fun of influencers and 59 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 3: they and they get mad at him and they're threatening 60 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 3: to sue him all the time. He is gold amazing, 61 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 3: this guy, and he's spot on with his views. I mean, 62 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 3: I mean I could play him. It's not edited, he 63 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 3: may curse. I'm afraid to play it live. 64 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: What is it for people to follow? 65 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 5: And D A A D. 66 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 3: I snacks snak his family U has they have some 67 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 3: South Asian popcorn? The family recipe handground to Indian resipices 68 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 3: is whatever. It sounds great, And I said, come on 69 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 3: our show we'll talk about your popcorn and by boy 70 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 3: talk about how you love to call out these influencers, 71 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 3: and he said he wants to wait until until they 72 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 3: have more product to give away or something. 73 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I like him. He he's great. 74 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,679 Speaker 5: He really hammers it home, you know, because we all 75 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 5: think and feel the same way about some of the influencers, 76 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 5: and this guy just nails it and he goes right in. 77 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 4: I just want authenticity. That's it. Just be authentic. If 78 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: you go somewhere, have a really good time, cool show 79 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 4: the good time that you're having. I don't just want 80 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 4: to see these like stoic faces, not smiling and just 81 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: standing getting in the wave of everything. 82 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: Don't you think they would a lot of times they 83 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: just come and get their picture and leave. 84 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 2: Yes, you know the list and look he's posting. 85 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 3: A New York City influencer posts their to do list 86 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,119 Speaker 3: and it's like the most asinine things the life they're living, 87 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 3: these these influencers. 88 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: No offense but events, okay, total offense. 89 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 6: Yes, n well, you know, not to defend influencers, but 90 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 6: I will. I mean that's kind of what we do. 91 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 6: But that the thing that's different about your mouth The 92 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,359 Speaker 6: thing that's different about I'm about to pay you a 93 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 6: couple of the thing that's different about us is we're 94 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 6: very selective about what we actually do talk about, right, Yeah, 95 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 6: So like Danielle and Gandhi, some of us are so 96 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 6: Danielle and Gandhi just went on a vacation and I 97 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 6: could tell that they were actually having a good time. 98 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 6: It was amazing the entire time they were quote unquote influencing, 99 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 6: right because we're we actually have integrity. 100 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 5: I just hate when they run into these mom and 101 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 5: pop small businesses and then shake them down for free 102 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 5: product or to be paid, and then if you don't, 103 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 5: then they go ahead and do the opposite and they 104 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 5: will crush you. 105 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: How we not even had an experience. 106 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: People are trying to make a living and sell their 107 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: products and make some money, Like you know what I mean, Like, 108 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: don't go in and ask for free crap. 109 00:04:58,480 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: I tell you what if you want to be an influence. 110 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 3: And I know that Dottie has I hope I'm saying 111 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,919 Speaker 3: his name correctly. I don't want to, because he's he 112 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 3: deserves it to be pronounced right. 113 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 2: I guess. 114 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 3: But he actually found a guy, an influencer who went 115 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 3: to a restaurant and said, oh my god, you've got 116 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 3: to come try this. This food is from It's a 117 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 3: world flavor restaurant with cuisine from another culture and you know, 118 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 3: stuff you would never really get in other restaurants in town. 119 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 3: You've got to try. He highlighted this guy. He actually 120 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 3: gave him a good report. And I want to see 121 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 3: more influencers doing that. Yeah, if they go into go 122 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 3: into a place and give it a lot of hell, 123 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 3: then it's like, okay, well all right, it sounded. 124 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 2: I'd rather you give me good reasons to go someplace. 125 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 4: For sure. Our friend Dino with the pin Care, she 126 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 4: deals with this a lot because she has a makeup 127 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 4: line and a lot of people will reach out to 128 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 4: her asking for free product, or they'll try to tell 129 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 4: her I got your products and I loved it. If 130 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 4: you want me to review it, give me more for free, 131 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 4: and she can see if people have actually purchased, and 132 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 4: a lot of times they haven't. And it's like, Dina 133 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 4: is a small business. So when you come and you 134 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 4: say I just need product for my entire bridal party, 135 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 4: that's crazy. You can't do that to small biz. 136 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: That's crazy to them. 137 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 3: All right, So influencers. I do love following influencers in 138 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 3: the wild. Yes, on Instagram. Do you have like a 139 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 3: fly on the wall view of people out in public, 140 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: you know, trying to get the right shot on their 141 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 3: camera and they look like idiots? Like we were actually 142 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 3: at a resort in the Caribbean not too long ago, 143 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 3: and we were at by the pool, you know, and 144 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 3: have some cocktails, and there was a guy with his 145 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 3: camera phone and a girl who was posing in these 146 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 3: provocative poses I guess, and he was trying to get 147 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: it just right, and they did it. It was like 148 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 3: an hour of them trying just to show her, you know, 149 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 3: being sexy. I guess at the pool at this right resort. 150 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: I mean, they look so they looked so embarrassing. 151 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: If it takes you that long to pose in a 152 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: sexy way, you're probably not sexy, you know what I mean? 153 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 2: Be easy. I just in a snap, look at this 154 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 2: sexy turn right around? 155 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 4: Sure, bam, wh what up? 156 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 5: Nate. 157 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 6: You'll see them in New York City a lot, the 158 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 6: Instagram boyfriend or the Instagram husband. Yeah, And I just 159 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 6: my heart goes out to these poor guys because they're 160 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 6: trying to get this shot. 161 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: And then they get yelled at no higher zero point five. 162 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 6: I feel so bad for these poor guys and they're 163 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,119 Speaker 6: they're just becoming a photographer, trying to do this photo 164 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 6: shoot for their girl. 165 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 2: And I get it. 166 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 4: If it pays for stuff, I understand you want to 167 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 4: go and you know, live your life that way and 168 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 4: not have like a job job and capitalize on what 169 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 4: you can. 170 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: But it's just exhausting. 171 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're gonna have There's a respect factor too, 172 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: you know, just get up, influencer, be cool. 173 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: Would you