1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. We got it for you here. 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: It is the straw. Very little subject. I can't get 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: back in bed with him. Subject. I can't get back 4 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: in bed with him. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am dating 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: a man that I considered to be my soul mate. 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: We have a long distance relationship, but we see each 7 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 1: other often. He always comes to visit me, and I 8 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: would always make sure that my house was clean. I 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: would go out of my way to impress him. This 10 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: past weekend, I went to visit him for the first time. 11 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 1: After driving for four hours, I got to his house 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: and I was immediately shocked and disappointed by what I saw. 13 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: His house was absolutely filthy. Before I could even hug him, 14 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: I couldn't help but blurt out, I thought, you're cleaned up. 15 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: We went back and forth on what he thought was 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: clean and what my interpretation of clean was. I decided 17 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: to do the cleaning myself, and he agreed to help me. 18 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: My first priority was to clean the bedroom where I'd 19 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: be sleeping. I started with the bed to put clean 20 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: sheets on it. As I pulled back the covers, I 21 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: discovered a huge piece stain on his mattress. I almost 22 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: got sick from the sight and smell of it. I 23 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: called him into the bedroom and he got defensive and 24 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: had the nerve to say I was doing too much. 25 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: He said that his sheets were already clean, and it 26 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: was an old stain on the mattress. I could not 27 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: believe that this fine, handsome, well spoken man wet his bed. 28 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: I was devastated and turned off. As tired as I was, 29 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: I got back in my car. All right, listen, guys. 30 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: As tired as I was, I got back in my 31 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: car and drove for another four hours back to my 32 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: own house. We talked on the phone, but I can 33 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: tell he's still embarrassed. I don't think we can get 34 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: asked this. If it's a medical issue, then I can 35 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: be supportive and help him through it, but he will 36 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: not talk about it with me. He's really the best 37 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: man I've met in years. Please help me. What should 38 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: I do? Well? How nice of you uh to drive 39 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: all that way and just, you know, get right and 40 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: dive right in into cleaning and everything. Um, oh my god, 41 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 1: this would really be a deal breaker for me. Um, 42 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: I don't think this guy is your soul mate. UM, 43 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: I think you have to have more in common and 44 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: and let's just start with the basics here. Um. You know, 45 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: you gotta be clean, you gotta have some good hygiene. 46 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: That is just the basic requirement in a relationship. I 47 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: mean the question to me, though, is this urination situation? What? Yeah? 48 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: What's going on here? I mean is this a medical 49 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: like incontinent problem or is he just lazy and and 50 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: just doesn't get up to go? You didn't make that 51 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: clear in the letter. Um, he didn't seem to be 52 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: bothered by it though when you pointed it out. Uh. 53 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: If it is medical, he needs to see a doctor immediately. 54 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: This can't go on in a grown man wedding the bed. 55 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: You gotta go see a doctor. Uh, and get the 56 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: situation taken care of. I say, um, try and talk 57 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 1: to him again about it, you know, not in a 58 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: nagging kind of way or anything, but in an adult, loving, 59 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: caring and concerned way. If he still doesn't want to 60 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: talk to you about it, you might have to walk 61 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: and leave him alone. Um. And it's unfortunate because you 62 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: you think this guy's you're so made and you really 63 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: like this guy, Steve, I must jump right on this letter. 64 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: I disagree, Shirley. This could be her sale sold me 65 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: you're soul making hair problems and issues. People complete each other. 66 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: Now this woman had been dating his man. He's absolutely wonderful, 67 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: everything is going perfect. He's always comes to a house 68 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,839 Speaker 1: in her house is spotless. She goes to his house, 69 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: his house trifling. I know, that's surprised. Filthy, you know, filthy. 70 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: You know he don't clean, you don't clean up. I 71 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: don't know, and not every man I know is a 72 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: germophobic like you know who. A lot of men are 73 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: not that neat. You know. I like having a nat 74 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: clean house, but I have a tendency to throw some 75 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: stuff down and I lest some dishes stack up. It 76 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: don't bother me. It bothers my wife that dishes are 77 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 1: stacked up. It bothers my wife that out and threw 78 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: something in the flow. Now we don't we were not. 79 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: We haven't got to that yet. That's your style of 80 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: comedy is a little bit more aggressive and forwards. Just 81 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: allowed to it. Now. I just want him to allow 82 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: me to get to it as I don't know. I 83 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: don't be in his punk ass pranks they punk as Yeah, 84 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: there is now back to the letter, you know, to 85 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: get his ass out of it. Ship. Okay, talk to him. 86 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: I don't say nothing doing them praying ever interrupted one 87 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,679 Speaker 1: ain't never jumped on. Hey me too, say something about 88 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 1: me too when you come on. That was he don't clean. 89 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: That's not big of a deal you you can help 90 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 1: him clean. You did it yourself. Here the problem you 91 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 1: pulled back the covers and it was some p in 92 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: the bed now here. We wasn't wrong when you pulled back. 93 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: You didn't say how old he was. But listen to me, 94 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 1: I pete is different from baby pete. This p is 95 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: strong moan. You need it. It's got things in it. 96 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: It's got pot lookal in it. Penicilla, college, green juice. 97 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: Here us all listens in there. Yeah, insolently. He could 98 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: be died better instantly. It's all listens in that urine. Now, 99 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: if it's been under that quilt and you open it up, 100 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: it don't be shocking. And you can't have a soul 101 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: mate with a week bladder. Now, yere's the problem. You 102 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: got back in your car and you drove back to 103 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: four hours. You was disgusted and hurt that he didn't 104 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: think enough about you to clean up before you came. 105 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 1: He thought he cleaned up, but he didn't forgot. See, 106 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 1: he'd been messing junkie so long he forgot, he forgot 107 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: all about the piece that he thought it was gonna dry. 108 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: What he thought he'd be dry by now, I'm just 109 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: telling you what he thought he figured about time y'all 110 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: getting the better to be there. And then you ain't 111 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: gonna notice that he don't know he that he's dating 112 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: a blood hound. O God, that you're gonna smell it? 113 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: What is that? So now you got you got a 114 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: lot backed up on it. This relationship is salvageable. And 115 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: I will tell you when we come back how you 116 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: can about the business of salvaging this relationship, because I 117 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: don't know that you should throw a good man away 118 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: because he has possibly a medical condition that requires the 119 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: right help, and we can get somebody clean down houses. Right, 120 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: She said that she can be supportive and help him 121 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: through it. All right, come on, let's get to part 122 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: two of your response to today's strawberry letter. I can't 123 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: get back in bed with him. And the reason she 124 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: can't get back in bed with because she didn't went 125 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: to this man's house. He's been coming over there all 126 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: the time. She drove for out the man house, filthy 127 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: is trifling. She helped him clean up, and then she 128 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: go in the bedroom and pulled back the sheets. She 129 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: trying to clean the sheep, but it got a big 130 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: peace stain on him, and it was strong now, she said, 131 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: the man pee in the bed. The seats was already clean. 132 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: He said, and that's the old stain, that stain I 133 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: had peet on that last week. That's not fresh to 134 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: tripping fall. She couldn't believe this was fine, handsome, well 135 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: spoken man. It's the bed I've devastated. As tired as 136 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: I was, I got back in my drove back another 137 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: four hours back to my own house. Then we talked 138 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: on the phone, but I can tell he's still in bass. 139 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: I don't think we can get past this. If it's 140 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: a medical issue, then I can be supportive and help 141 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: him get through it. But he would not talk to 142 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: me about it. With me, he's really the best man 143 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: I've met in years. Please help me. What should I do? 144 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: You gotta get through to him. You gotta get him 145 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: comfortable talking about what's wrong. Look, I love you. I 146 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 1: think we have something and I'm willing to help you 147 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: and share you share your life, but I need you 148 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: to be open and honest with me. Tell me what's 149 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: going on so I can help you with it. Because 150 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: if you pee on me, see, this is the real problem. 151 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,719 Speaker 1: She's scared to be laying up there and then you 152 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: pee on her. That app to tell you right now 153 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: that that's gonna cause a break up. They don't like 154 00:08:54,880 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 1: that though. They don't like that. Now, if you got 155 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,319 Speaker 1: to be in the bed with it depend on, that's 156 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: gonna cut down on the sexiest be coming down. You're 157 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: on snuggle all of them. You got the damned apple 158 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: because you're black, ain't we for damn? It's just over 159 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: here with a hole in it. You're just peeing on people. 160 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 1: You're just in here. We're just talking. All of a sudden, 161 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, the big get warm. We just 162 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: can't be doing it. We up just watching TV. We 163 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: got the we're sitting up on the headboard. We're watching 164 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: TV in the bag. We got the bowl of popcorn 165 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: tween our legs. Now, all of a sudden, you're hot, 166 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: real popcorn extra button. The hell is going on him? 167 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: Why is your popcorn hot and soggy? And why didn't 168 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: you tell me you were sitting over that peel he 169 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: didn't want to talk about it. I could have got 170 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: up a got out your weight. He doesn't want to 171 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 1: talk about sit your ass up in here and just 172 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: peeing in this bad The bathroom is right there, she said, 173 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: let me get him county tail steps in. You in 174 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: the bathroom to set your lad's the ass up here 175 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: and pee it again. They're not gonna make it, but 176 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: you gotta find a way to help him. There's a 177 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: couple of solutions. I don't know how old is. I 178 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: don't know if they're eighty or the forty and and 179 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: that I don't know. We're gonna have to get a 180 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 1: calf or something on this board so he can just 181 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 1: pee onto the pie all that's on the floor. I 182 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: don't know what it is. I don't know how old 183 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: they are. But she drove for hours, so she eighty. 184 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. No eighty old person can drive for 185 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: a while without nod. I'm gonna stay for I think 186 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 1: you have something there when you say forties, yeah, she's gonna. 187 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: When she got her own house and he got his 188 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: own house, so they both accomplished something. She took that 189 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: long drift. Now we've had a story similar to this 190 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: that lady that was going to astronaut lady that put 191 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: that astronaut suit on and drove nine hundred miles and 192 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: just pet on herself in an astronaut suit, got our 193 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: head on everything but the helmet on, just driving, driving 194 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,839 Speaker 1: and peering, stopping, getting gas and pee and didn't even 195 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: get out. Give me eight dollars. I can make it. 196 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 1: Well we I think you should say, Look, I love you, 197 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: I want to stay with you, but if you don't 198 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: share with me what's going on, I can't help you. 199 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 1: And if you won't allow me to help you, that's 200 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: gonna cancel our relationship. You're the best man I've met 201 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: in a long time, and I believe I'm the best 202 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: woman you've met in a long time. As a matter 203 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: of fact, I don't think there's another one and living 204 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: that's gonna crawl up in the fields, bab not if 205 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna be in the p and on. You know. 206 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: That's what I said. Some kids somewhere that I don't 207 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: know nothing about. She didn't mention kids. Well, I'm just 208 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: asking because maybe the baby pet in the bed. But 209 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: I can tell you right now that ain't baby. Years now, 210 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: that grown man as you and when you peel back, 211 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: you smell on homeless. Yeah, she said she almost got 212 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 1: sick from the sight and smell of it, strong yellow. 213 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: Then when she called him to the bathroom, he got defensive. 214 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: It was his. Yeah. I was down at Venice Beach 215 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: one time years ago, and I was trying to help 216 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: this homes dude that I saw him rummaging through the 217 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: wage can. So I bought him two sandwiches and gave 218 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,559 Speaker 1: him to him. But when he came over to get 219 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: him from me, that boy was so strong. Good lord, 220 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: good lord, I did. I gave him two hundred dollars 221 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: and him you could back up now, man, it's on you. 222 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: And then wind was coming off the ocean. Because we 223 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: was down at Venice Beach, there was nothing the smell 224 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: of cotton canda. Nothing was high on this hill. I'm 225 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 1: talking about gifted. We really understand you're standing. They had 226 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: the duct tape shoes on two and they had got 227 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: hot on that ashphall, please what he had in that 228 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: grocery car. But it was thinking too. He had the 229 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: air condition and that wrapped up in the top. Was 230 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 1: trying to figure out where he was gonna plug his alpack. 231 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: But lord, no, You can't be standing in front of 232 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 1: this app when you cut it on that much. I 233 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: do know. What you cannot do is blow. You can't 234 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: plug that air condition up that's in that grocery car 235 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: and stand in front of it and shift that wind 236 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: towards people. We gotta go where you go, ahead and go. 237 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 1: But I'm just tetching you. That's how I smelled that before, 238 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: and that's how I know that there ain't no baby pep. 239 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: All right, listen, you can email us or Instagram what's 240 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letters and email us or whatever, 241 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: but wash first, email us and Steve Harvey FM UM 242 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: and this Thursday, don't forget at one thirty pm you 243 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,959 Speaker 1: can please join me for the Strawberry Letter Live after 244 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: show on Facebook and you can check me out at 245 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: my girls Shirtley on all social media too. Alright, you're 246 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show