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Speaker 1: Subject out of control lesbian mama. Hey Steve, I am

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Speaker 1: a twenty year old online student and I live with

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Speaker 1: my lesbian mother and little brother. I've been living with

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Speaker 1: her for almost a year now, and before that I

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Speaker 1: had not stayed with her since I was I think sixteen,

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Speaker 1: but even then I did not stay with her but

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Speaker 1: only a couple of months. She has been a lesbian

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Speaker 1: all of my life and has this thing where she

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Speaker 1: gets with women. Instead of taking care of her family,

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Speaker 1: she decides to take care of theirs. At first, everything

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Speaker 1: was good. She kept begging me to come live with

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Speaker 1: her to help her with my little brother, and all

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Speaker 1: I had to do was get a job. I came here,

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Speaker 1: got two jobs, and also got with this online university.

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Speaker 1: I have had many family problems in my life, so

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Speaker 1: I am not as independent as I should be from

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Speaker 1: my age. I have lived with so many different women

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Speaker 1: and their families since I moved with her, and every

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Speaker 1: time things go wrong, she wants to put me out.

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Speaker 1: I do the best that I can with the resources

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Speaker 1: that I have, but she does in no way encourage

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Speaker 1: me or tries to help me. Right now, she is

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Speaker 1: with a woman who has three kids and no job.

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Speaker 1: I was working, but got too stressed out with school

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Speaker 1: and work that I left fast food And now I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to find a job that will fit what I

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Speaker 1: am trying to get my degree in. I promise I

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Speaker 1: am doing my best, but she feels that when things

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Speaker 1: go wrong, I am to blame. Please help. Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is a dysfunctional I know. I don't get it already,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean to me it's simply and not simply.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean it like that necessarily, But what I

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Speaker 1: see is just a dysfunctional family, period, lesbian or not.

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Speaker 1: This is some dysfunction going on. It could be your

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Speaker 1: dad doing the same thing, you know, your straight dad,

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Speaker 1: or your straight mom doing the same thing with men

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Speaker 1: instead of women. It's a dysfunctional family your mom, um,

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Speaker 1: you know, excuse me for saying this, but your mom

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Speaker 1: is irresponsible and your mom is very, very selfish. She

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Speaker 1: wants what she wants, and it sounds like she wants

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Speaker 1: a babysitter and you and someone to put the bills

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Speaker 1: or whatever. Uh. You know again, it doesn't matter if

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Speaker 1: she's a lesbian. This is a crazy mess. Um. You know,

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Speaker 1: look out for your little brother. Tell your mom you're

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Speaker 1: twenty you're grown, you know, so actually you could be

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Speaker 1: out on your out on your own. You have two jobs,

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Speaker 1: you say, uh, you're in school. This is a lot.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to live with your mom, okay, because

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Speaker 1: your mom's not thinking about you. I think you need

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Speaker 1: to get your life together and uh, take care of

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Speaker 1: your little brother and move on. Steve, he's scared, I know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know the fact that your mother's lesbian

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Speaker 1: really has nothing to do with this. I will say though,

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Speaker 1: since we are talking about it, I will make a

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Speaker 1: statement that most men don't like to hear about their mama's.

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Speaker 1: But you old mama, wow listening. Ain't you glad your

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Speaker 1: mama wasn't a while? Is you glad your mama was

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Speaker 1: just doing mamma's stiff Well the may pras you know,

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Speaker 1: cook pie and took you to church, you know, made

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Speaker 1: you bathe sometimes bathed you. How heart. It is a

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Speaker 1: little boy your mama that you donna wash yourself. I

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Speaker 1: just I missed that I had a mama that was

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Speaker 1: a mama. It's it's kind of you know, it's it's

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Speaker 1: kind of hard when you hear from people whose mama

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Speaker 1: ain't doing the mama things. Man, you know, everybody want

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Speaker 1: their mama to just be a mama. You know you're talking.

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Speaker 1: Nobody want their mamma to be wild. Your mama, Wow,

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Speaker 1: your mama bringing them in now, since your mama is

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Speaker 1: not taking care of y'all and taking care of all

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Speaker 1: these other families, I'm assuming that in her lesbian relationship,

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Speaker 1: she is the one with the haircut and the tattoos

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Speaker 1: and and and the gold tooth, and the chain and

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Speaker 1: the and the flaning her shirt butting up to her

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Speaker 1: neck with her pants tucked in and she sag and

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Speaker 1: that on. Somebody got the man up and held it

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Speaker 1: in every relationship. Don't you have something in common with

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Speaker 1: his mom though? Something coming with his mom? Yeah? Don't

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Speaker 1: you have something in common with the mother? Yeah? Well

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm a lesbian too, if that's what you ask

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Speaker 1: I have been a lesbian mind tile life, loved other

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Speaker 1: women and um. Other than that, I really don't know

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Speaker 1: what this let us got me going. I'm very confused.

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Speaker 1: I wish we didn't have this letter. I know one

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Speaker 1: thing though, your mama wild, and I'm gonna stay with that.

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Speaker 1: And I just want you to know this right here,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna eventually have to do. You why don't you

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Speaker 1: move back out of your mama house because it's wild

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Speaker 1: over that there. Your little brother, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: he learned it over there. I don't know. You know,

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Speaker 1: your mama has to change. Your mama, your mom, man,

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Speaker 1: your ma. Wo. I don't know what's going on this

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Speaker 1: no house. I'm just glad my mama was my mama. Man.

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Speaker 1: You ever just you know, you know your mother was

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Speaker 1: just your mother. Man. My mom was a church man.

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Speaker 1: You know what nobody at the house she wonte them.

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Speaker 1: You know the stockings that were single legs stockings and

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Speaker 1: had them pushed down around. I ain't you know what

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Speaker 1: I had on? Somebody house shoes from nine West, you know,

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Speaker 1: the kind of almost look off to Peter. You know

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Speaker 1: that's what That's what mama's dude, Mama, don't we bring

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Speaker 1: a bunch of women over to the house. Coming up

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Speaker 1: at forty one after the hour? Nephew Timmy's Weekend Confessions

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Speaker 1: call us eight seven seven twenty nine Steve but rights

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Speaker 1: to the Strawberry Letter. Let's hey all of that. You

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Speaker 1: know this letter about this out of control lesbian mama.

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Speaker 1: That's the title of just twenty year old online student.

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Speaker 1: I live with my lesbian mother and mother and little brother.

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Speaker 1: It never wants it in here says that this is

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Speaker 1: a girl or a guy. I'm just assuming it was

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Speaker 1: a girl. That's what i was thinking. Uh, because of

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Speaker 1: the way it's written. Um, you know now he is

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Speaker 1: the only thing about this letter. See, you could say

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Speaker 1: out of control lesbian mama and this this girl's mama

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Speaker 1: is always bringing women to the house, and he would

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Speaker 1: she would women, And all this here to show you

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Speaker 1: how to standards work. You can have these videos are

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Speaker 1: girls gone wild? And you can show all these girls

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Speaker 1: on each other, kissing on each other, rubbing on each other,

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Speaker 1: scraping their bodies against each other, and society accepts that.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, could this same letter be read over the

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Speaker 1: air if it was a young person twenty years old

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Speaker 1: who lived with a father, know who was gay, I

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Speaker 1: was bringing men by a note would be more than appalled.

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Speaker 1: Then this letter would be totally disgusting. Why is it?

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Speaker 1: And we don't find this letter totally utterly disgusting? They

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Speaker 1: have done down people who do find this. I myself,

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Speaker 1: you know, because I'm a guy, and you know I'm

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Speaker 1: looking for something minute, you know, you know there's a

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Speaker 1: little bit of that in the coming back. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: a lot of women coming back. You know, you're all right,

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Speaker 1: but you know it's it's it's still wrong for the

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Speaker 1: kids to get exposed to this. Yeah. I mean, even

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Speaker 1: if it were his or her dad, whoever wrote the

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Speaker 1: letter will say her her dad bringing a lot of

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Speaker 1: women over. I mean, you know that would still be

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Speaker 1: setting a bad example for for the children. But I

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Speaker 1: mean it's a total standard saying. But you know, it's

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Speaker 1: it gets forgiven more on this side of it. You know,

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Speaker 1: here's a woe who just ain't taking care of it

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Speaker 1: is to take care of body else's kids and ain't

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Speaker 1: taking care of So I mean, you know what, what

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Speaker 1: what can I really say about this letter? Really? You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what to tell you except

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Speaker 1: your twenty go and live your life so you can

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Speaker 1: make something out yourself. You're not fit to fix your mama.

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Speaker 1: Your MoMA ain't fit to change. You can't change people,

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Speaker 1: especially children can't change parents. You're twenty years old, Go

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Speaker 1: get your life together, go online, be what you wanna be,

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Speaker 1: study hard work, make something out yourself. You have an

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Speaker 1: obligation to you right now, then teach that to your

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Speaker 1: little brother. I think that's the best advice with you.

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Speaker 1: So y'all, don't end up like your mama, out of control. Anybody.

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Speaker 1: Come on, whether it's lesbian, you just a gay man,

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Speaker 1: you just don't want to be out of intro, so

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Speaker 1: you know, get you a career and stuff. Yeah, all right, okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go email or Instagram. What's your thoughts on

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter at My Girl Shirley. Okay,