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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Hello, call it crew, and welcome to another

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Speaker 1: episode of College Short and Sweet. Now, last time my

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Speaker 1: side piece was on the show, I promised you guys

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Speaker 1: that he wouldn't be back, and yet here we are.

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Speaker 2: Matt, he's back.

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Speaker 1: He's back, just can't be with us here today. So

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Speaker 1: I had to scrounge.

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Speaker 2: You had to scrape from the bottom the bottom of

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Speaker 2: the barrel, and you end up with me.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, this is kind of perfect because today,

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Speaker 1: you guys, we're going to dive straight and we are

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Speaker 1: talking about weddings, wedding stress and anxiety, and this is real.

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Speaker 1: So actually you are the perfect person to really because

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Speaker 1: we can dive into our own wedding. But I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: read some stuff first. Okay, this is from the New

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Speaker 1: York Post proof that wedding planning is hell planning. Wedding

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Speaker 1: is so expensive and stressful that six in ten couples

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Speaker 1: married in the last year seriously considered eloping.

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Speaker 2: We did too, Yeah, because it was so overwhelming. It's

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Speaker 2: at many points we were like, let's just consider this.

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Speaker 1: Also, my family are so annoying. Silence, He's beings so

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Speaker 1: diplomatic right now, his eye, his eyeballs are agreeing that

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Speaker 1: his mouth is a math. Come on, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to say that we were going to lope to remember where.

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Speaker 2: Why we were tell the story of why though, like

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Speaker 2: after the whole first venue and.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well even before that. Okay, but this is true.

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Speaker 1: So Matt and I we I had I'd seen a

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Speaker 1: picture of this place in like a magazine and it

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Speaker 1: that money, maybe we just vrbo rent sort of airbnb,

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Speaker 1: rent a house for a week, and that allows for

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Speaker 2: I'm just very close friends and family have a big

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Speaker 2: party on the beach.

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Speaker 1: And we found the place and we went to go

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Speaker 1: see it and we and it was like, U unbelievable,

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Speaker 1: so beautiful look down on the beach. I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to see the water. And we got we got it.

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Speaker 1: We got a date in and we sent out invites

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Speaker 1: very you.

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Speaker 2: Know, we got we got kind of far along.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we started like planning, like how the food was

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Speaker 2: We had worked on our synchronized dance for like months.

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Speaker 1: And months, flying off the roof of it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was gonna be agnized dance. Okay.

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Speaker 1: But it burned down yep, which probably was an omen

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Speaker 1: when you think about it, do you ever wonder I.

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Speaker 2: Don't think we ever saw that, as did we ever

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Speaker 1: Right now, it could be it could have been a

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Speaker 1: bad sign. As we'll see, that took a downer. We

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Speaker 1: weren't prepared for that, okay anywhere anyway. So yes, it

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Speaker 1: then we considered a looping Yeah, and I was into it.

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Speaker 1: Why why was I into it? What was my main reason?

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Speaker 2: Because you you were worried and stressed about your family.

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Speaker 1: Were any of my concerns realized?

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Speaker 2: But that was the reason I didn't want to elope.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because of the entertainment.

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Speaker 2: What the potential was and what could happen.

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Speaker 1: Well, let me just just so you guys understand listening

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Speaker 1: to this, because I've never told this story before. My

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Speaker 1: concerns were valid. My dad somehow we were at a

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. I don't know who he was talking to.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't He was talking to everybody, but people, not

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Speaker 1: do you remember what happened?

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Speaker 2: Your dad disappeared?

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Speaker 1: Yep? And where was he?

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Speaker 2: No one knows, no one.

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Speaker 2: He had a little two stoned and just walked away.

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Speaker 1: No, he couldn't find his room.

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Speaker 2: He couldn't find his room. He wandered from room to

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Speaker 1: Is what was reported back to me the next day.

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Speaker 1: For as he put it.

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Speaker 2: Hours, your dad had a great night.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean possibly, possibly, who knows.

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Speaker 2: They were also traveling and there was a lot of

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Speaker 1: And yes, it's tempting to do an elope.

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Speaker 2: And here's why I still think, if be honest, if

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Speaker 2: we could do it again, I think we had the

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Speaker 2: most beautiful wedding in the world, but I would consider

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Speaker 2: it eloping. I think there's something romantic and sexy about

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Speaker 1: There is and do you know what it is too?

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like you can elope and have like

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Speaker 1: a honeymoon at the same.

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Speaker 2: Time, it feels a little more selfish.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're going to talk about the biggest anxiety. Did

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Speaker 1: you know the wedding planning is more stressful for men?

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Speaker 1: According to the Huffington Post. According to a survey, twenty

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Speaker 1: three percent of men said they found planning the big

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Speaker 1: sixteen percent of women said the same. Why do you

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Speaker 1: think it is an exclusive?

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Speaker 2: Matt, there's a good question. Why is it more stressful

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Speaker 2: for men. Yeah, why, I do think there's an expectation

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Speaker 2: and I feel like a lot of these situations, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: to this level of perfection that as a partner. Wait, wait,

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Speaker 2: you're worried that it's not going to meet though you

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Speaker 2: know it's not going to be perfect, it's and so

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Speaker 2: that's what I'm here as well.

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Speaker 1: Well, I just interpreted the girl has a lot of expectations,

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Speaker 1: which is stressful for the men.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thanks for thanks for doing that. To what I said, Well,

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Speaker 2: what are you saying? I'm saying, And in most cases,

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Speaker 2: I think that expectation is being dictated by the bride.

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Speaker 2: Is that? Can I say that?

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Speaker 1: Oh God, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'll say something else.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. No, no, no, no no. That was what came

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Speaker 1: out of your mouth, and you'll get canceled for it.

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Speaker 2: But are we gonna have a talk later?

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Speaker 1: Probably?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I trying to make sense of someone.

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Speaker 1: What's interesting, though, is do you not feel that twenty

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Speaker 1: it to be perfect. Yes, you're saying it's but women

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Speaker 1: are like only sixteen percent of women feel that way,

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Speaker 1: that it's like the most stressful life event, but more

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think it's pressure from the girls. I

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Speaker 2: as a whole. Whether it's male or female, you want

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Speaker 2: So if one of the partners is more into it

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Speaker 1: What I'm hearing now, though the women are more into

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually had thoughts and opinions of things.

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Speaker 1: Hayden was at our wedding too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was two. Do you remember what we gave

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Speaker 2: At the time, she had a lot to say, way

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Speaker 2: And she just sat there looking at the whole time.

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Speaker 1: We said, zip I.

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Speaker 2: Remember, I remember when we walked with her down the

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Speaker 1: And and you walked down the aisle with her. That

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we do have some call it crew submissions.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for this? So we threw it out

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Speaker 1: to them and we said, what is your experience where

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Speaker 1: things were stressful? What are moments you had? All the things.

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Speaker 1: Ellianna said, We pretty much missed the whole reception because

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Speaker 2: Didn't we do it at a certain time while other

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Speaker 1: No, we were worried that we were miss that like hour,

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Speaker 1: very short time limit on it. I remember we were like,

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Speaker 2: I do feel like at weddings that period when you're

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Speaker 1: And making them entro on forever.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it can be like two hours. No, it's insane,

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Speaker 2: But Yeah, I thought we were pretty good with.

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Speaker 1: The Yeah, I say, put a little parameter on it

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like there's so much going on. There's

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Speaker 2: so many people that you you know, that are there.

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Speaker 2: It feels like that always takes longer than it should.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, you read Hailey Ayley.

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Speaker 2: Although my wedding was perfect, I re grit trying to

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Speaker 2: please everyone. We talked about this recently because I feel

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Speaker 2: like the majority of the first half of our reception,

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Speaker 2: I was so worried about, yeah, making everyone happy and

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Speaker 2: making sure Hayden was good and you know, buddies I

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Speaker 2: hadn't seen in a while, and you know my family.

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Speaker 2: You know, you're checking on people because you're technically hosting. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I wish I wouldn't have focused so much on that, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because I feel like I didn't even see you for

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Speaker 2: like the first half.

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Speaker 1: You see me one minute.

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Speaker 2: I was at a different wedding.

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Speaker 1: You know that, Molly said, grease stains on the bottom

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Speaker 1: of my wedding dress from getting out of the car.

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Speaker 1: Why do we have to wear white? It really doesn't help. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think we can, you know what, No, but not

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Speaker 1: even wear like a blush or something. I agree. White

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Speaker 1: is very difficult and it is stressful, like you're kind

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Speaker 1: of drinking your champagne like away from your body, or

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Speaker 1: like you can't feel like you can eat any because

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Speaker 1: Ask you a question?

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Speaker 2: At the moment, Like literally, I can't.

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Speaker 1: Do podcasts with you because it just gets you proposed

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Speaker 2: What's question you gotta finish?

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Speaker 2: You're shared because you sharded. I'm gonna say this because

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Speaker 1: Like, it would have been endearing. Remember that moment that

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Speaker 2: Honestly, you did not shark, do I. So we're good.

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Speaker 1: I really, I'm seriously I don't know if I can

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Speaker 1: I know you, I know, but it's like I'm regretting it. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Again, I feel like the expectation is of the day

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Speaker 1: Consider eloping. Ask yourself a question, would you enjoy it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I think being present is a big thing because

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Speaker 1: You do feel like you have to please everybody, and

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Speaker 1: Technically a destination, but it's a destination for other people.

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Speaker 1: Flying in Yeah, yeah exactly. Yeah. I could have done

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Speaker 2: I love the speeches.

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Speaker 1: What speech are you specifically talking just all of them? No,

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Speaker 1: he got up, he sang can you feel of love today?

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Speaker 1: Are you joking?

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Speaker 2: If we Elope, I would still in by your dad

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I would have rather someone sharded. I would have

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, maybe consider a lopeing. Okay, you read Poppy.

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Speaker 2: Poppy, I'm eighteen and single, but I stress about wedding.

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Speaker 2: Oh take up about my wedding a lot. But if

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Speaker 1: A lot of girls stress about this because we're wearing white.

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Speaker 1: I never thought about that. I'm thinking about that. Poppy's

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Speaker 2: But what if the only available date for the wedding day.

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Speaker 2: Literally right at the beginning. What do you do?

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Speaker 1: Listen, you need reinforcements. You wear the pad and you

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Speaker 1: wear the tampon and you you figure it out. You

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Speaker 1: we had a guest ask if they could bring their

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Speaker 2: That seems like this, No.

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Speaker 2: Each and Ala. When I was seven, I was the

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Speaker 1: It is nerve wracking. I have to say. She was

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Speaker 2: But I feel like if you're aware of all of

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Speaker 2: All these eyes looking at you, everyone's you know dressed.

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Speaker 2: It's it's it's a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yes, well, once again, kind of regret you coming on.

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Speaker 2: I think I did a little better this time.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you did. We you know, it's

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Speaker 2: It's I feel like I was doing well until the shark.

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Speaker 1: Question that did send us off course a little bit

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Speaker 2: It through me, It threw me through me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't come across those kind of questions.

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Speaker 2: Kind of a story, to be honest. Of all the

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Speaker 2: it never crossed my mind once that I would shot

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, I never worried about a diarrhea situation. But

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Speaker 2: People do well, watch out, watch out. That's Camille's advice.

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Speaker 2: Watch out.

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Speaker 1: No, maybe's packed some pepto advice. That is actually good

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Speaker 1: advice because you never know what can.

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Speaker 2: Happen, never having oysters prepared. That's the.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, Okay, clearly you're never coming back on again.

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Speaker 2: I'll be back, thank you, definitely coming.

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Speaker 1: Back you guys, Thank you once again for tuning in.

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Speaker 1: I hope you don't regret this as much as I do,

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Speaker 1: but we will be calling this the end of the episode.