WEBVTT - Episode 338: The Perfect Wedding (Feat. Ari Fletcher) 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:05.519 What it's lip service. I'm Antela Yee, I'm g g Maguire, 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:10.040 I'm stuh in Santiago, and I'm Ari's here with us. 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:13.360 This is your first time I lift service. So people 0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:15.239 used to always be like, you gotta get a you 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:18.319 gotta get aria. One of the most requested this is 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.880 I was talking real freaky on. Yeah, that's what we 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:24.639 heard too. But you know what, I noticed that you 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:28.080 previously hadn't really done like a lot of interviews, but 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:31.080 now you are. So what's the change with that? Um? 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:34.200 I think that I'm like, I'm a lot calm down now. 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:37.239 I like say, a lot of ships that you know, 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:39.920 it's a little wild and a lot of times people 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:43.199 could like misconstrul what I'm trying to say. So, but 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:47.240 I got it out under control now I'm ready. Yeah, 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:50.080 and listen, this happens on this show too, by the way. 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.040 People be mad at certain things that we say, and 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:55.520 I can understand that. Like sometimes you say things that 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:57.880 you would say like to your friends, and then when 0:00:57.920 --> 0:00:59.960 you say it and other people here, it doesn't sound 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.160 on the same as if you're just having like a 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:05.720 laid back conversation and you didn't mean it. In that 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:10.080 way and sometimes to be honest, like we say things 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:13.280 that are kind of sucked up, but that's life, Like 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.440 you say things and then you gotta learn from it too, right, 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:18.360 And so we've definitely gotten some backlash on this show 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:23.000 multiple occasions. Ye, so you also do have a lot 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:24.600 of things going on. Though I tell your about to 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:27.520 be in a movie, I am. I'm excited. I'm scared 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:29.560 a little bit too, but I'm mostly excited. But in 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:32.560 a role kind of fit my personality already is not 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:35.840 like nothing that's like I don't know if I'm being 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:37.400 able to do it. It's something that's kind of like 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:39.640 it's already who I really am. A little bit a 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.240 little bit like I think it is like easier, it's 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:46.039 a little against the role. Okay, so I'm a little 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:50.160 a little gangster. Yeah, you know, I think it'd be 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:53.680 cool though it's I think it'll flow it. Did you 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:56.200 take acting classes? I didn't, but I got an acting 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:59.760 coach now, so I'm about to start that up. And yeah, 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:02.560 I'm scared, but I'm ready though. You know, sometimes they 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:05.200 say it's hard to get out the character too. Do 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:08.440 you be at home acting gangster like in the movie no, 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:10.520 but maybe I should try to that. My word, they 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:13.000 call that method acting when you just like really get 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.680 into the role and you gotta act like that everything 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:22.200 I'm about to do that that he's gonna be like, 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:25.480 now hold on, okay. And then I also tell you're 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:28.919 doing something with YouTube. Yeah I am. I'm I actually 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:33.000 got a call with YouTube on Tuesday. I'm about to 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:35.519 do like a cooking series. I'll be cooking. Did y'all do? 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:40.240 Y'all see? I'll be cooking yokok. I could cook so good. 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.160 What's your favorite dish? I like pasta, so I make 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:46.320 a whole lot of pasta. I made like spaghetti, pasta, shells, 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:49.239 shrimp out part of shad. It was easy. But like, 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:53.680 I like a lot of pasta. I like tacos me too. Listen. 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:55.480 Those are the things, by the way, what you just said, 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:57.959 spaghetti and tacos that my ex boyfriend made for me 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:00.280 in the beginning of our relationship, and I he could 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:01.840 really cook. But those are the only two things you 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:06.560 can make. Wow, So you're I'm not gonna people make 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:09.400 when they can't cook that. I'm working on ox tails 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:13.760 right now. I tell you about our sales, Like people, 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.120 I cook a lot too, and people my friends love 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:18.120 my cooking. I'm always cooking from my friends and family, 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:21.560 and people always ask me do I make our sales? 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:25.400 And my answer is until somebody's old Jamaican antoe, your 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:27.760 gran he gives me their recipe. I'm not even gonna 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:29.480 try it. I'm not about to google no recipe, and 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:33.960 I need somebody's old family passed down through generations from 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.240 the island's recipe and then I'll make it. I feel 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:38.880 like like I got my grandma recipe to macaroni, and 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:41.400 it does not matter how many times I try. It 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.480 never tastes like her. Do you put bread crumbs in 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:46.600 it macaroni? Some people? Some people put them on top. Yeah, 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:50.920 I'm just wondering. I never did that. What about eggs? Yeah? 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:53.360 When you make your alfredo you're sure alfredo? Are Are 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:56.360 you making alfredo sauce from scratch? Yeah? Okay? Good? Yeah? 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:58.080 Have you ever what's the last thing you cook? They 0:03:58.080 --> 0:03:59.520 didn't work out the way you thought it was. You 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:03.560 know how you'd be trying something new? Chicken pop pie 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:07.640 that made it scratific. It's so good, though I could 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:09.840 make it good. I just made it too salty. One 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:13.000 time and the thing about there's nothing you can do 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:15.280 if you add. One time I made my green suit 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:18.279 salty and I literally poured out all of the juice 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.680 and risk them off and started over with this. Yeah, 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:25.800 and I fixed them. Could cook. I ain't gonna lie. 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:28.840 Could grill, she could cook, she'd be having all kinds. 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:31.880 I'm good with that. How did you learn how to cook? Though? 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.600 My mama watching being nosy, watching my mama, and I 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:37.640 was just trying, like stuff I'll be making now, I'll 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:39.480 just be trying and ship and they'll be working out 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:44.400 TikTok ship. And when you have to feed your family, 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:45.880 you got to cook for your child. You know, you 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:49.080 learned everything on in andet. Now you right on TikTok. 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:52.200 Like that look good? Let me try that out. My 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:54.400 friends husband told me he was like you cook like 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.360 he was like, I love your cooking because you cook 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.920 like you cook for kids. Because I make like a 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:04.000 little fun simple things. Yeah, like a little fun angel. 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:07.280 You should do a cookbook, Um, a thousand and one 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:10.440 ways to make chicken, because that's all you eat. That's 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:13.440 that you eat a lot of vegetables because I don't 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.400 even meat. I don't need sea food. I don't need pork, 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:17.719 but I do eat veggies, and I do eat chicken, 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.840 and I only eat chicken twice a week. For I 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:24.200 would love to be a vegetarian, but that's hard. Yeah, 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:26.520 I could try pest catinarian ne'ces as far as I'm 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:30.480 gonna go now. I wanted to ask you, Oh, and 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.440 you're doing a dtox. We see you drinking your water. 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:36.960 Let me ask you this about a detox, right, because 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:38.480 I did a detox ifire, I was telling you I 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:39.960 did it fast, and they told me I wasn't allowed 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:43.040 to have sex while I did it. Oh wexing from 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:46.360 that side. I don't know, it's part of the detox 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:48.919 I did. I still did it though. Maybe they didn't 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:50.520 want you to do Maybe they didn't want you to 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:54.880 swallow nonna come what. Maybe you know what what a 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:56.800 guy eats, you could taste it in his come to 0:05:57.279 --> 0:06:00.880 I can't like my way for all the time that 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:03.640 his time tastes like air. I'll tell him all the time, 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.080 like I don't think, Oh my god, taste nothing. I 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:14.159 love that he's vegan. Yeah, he's vegetarian. Vegetarians like asparagus. 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:19.760 Because you were making vegan you cook vegan. Now, yeah, yeah, 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.920 that's why I because different kinds, just like how we 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:27.240 taste different depending on what we eat. No, I swear 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:28.880 one time I was with this guy in here and 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:32.240 I was watching movies and we were busting down some 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:37.440 sour Patch kids, and later on his con tasted like candy. 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:41.560 I was like, oh my god, I'm gonna try to 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:46.920 were like the ones we were. We were like picking 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.400 through the bag. We had a big as bag of 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:53.400 so we were only hearing the red ones. And I'll 0:06:53.440 --> 0:07:00.880 swear I'll bust him down afterwards like candy. I'm gonna 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:05.200 try that out. I'll never forget that. I've spoken about 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:08.840 this before. Yeah, now, listen, if you're having sex right 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:11.320 or you're about to, you're doing for a play and 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:14.640 your second deck, are you gonna do it till he comes? 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:16.600 Or are you gonna still want to make sure that 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:20.120 like he's able to have sex and not it appearing 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:24.520 like some sometimes I will, but sometimes I won't because 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:27.560 he likes he he want to funk after you know, 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.560 like I don't don't don't finish me off, but don't 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:32.320 feel great when he'd be like hold on and then 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:36.840 you still keep going it's like right, and it's like 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:40.840 you can't take it no, but yeah, but I think 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:44.520 yeah will It was because it's like we need to fuck. 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:46.960 That's how I mean, like if I mean, I can 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.000 still get here, but it's it's like I need to 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.720 have sex after this, Like I need penetration after I 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:56.040 get some head. He can't come in and have sex. Yeah, okay, 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.640 so he can do it and then after that still 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:02.560 stay hard. Yeah, we'll be fun. What's the most times 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:06.880 you had sex in the night, m or one day? 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.160 Maybe you spent the whole day. You ever spent the 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.600 whole day at home because you're both worked the whole 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:14.520 day at home, fucking yeah, like throughout the day, you know, 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:18.080 like wake up in the morning, go do something, comeback again, 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:23.200 some spaghetti right before you got to the studio, after 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:25.680 you come on from the studio, Like a few times, 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:31.320 do you feel like you gotta send him off like rain? Yeah, No, 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:35.240 not really, because that's good when you're sending your man 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:36.640 out the house and then you don't want to leave, 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:38.599 like when he's getting ready to leave and you're like 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.120 hold on, but I think that we have we we 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:45.400 have we we we we fun a lot was it 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.680 good from the beginning, because you know, sometimes you gotta 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:50.000 teach somebody what you like, and the first like in 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.400 the beginning, is a little shaky because everybody likes different things. 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:57.200 And I feel like sometimes guys be like not knowing 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:59.439 enough about four play and trying to get to it 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.439 and you got to teach them and learning like the 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:03.319 body and what I like. But I feel like that's 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:06.720 like on both ends, you know, because I don't think 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:08.679 no man is really gonna ever, Like you can't just 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:11.240 come to me and just rock my world. Are You're 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.439 not gonna blow my mind because it's something that you're 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:15.880 not doing that I like that. I need to let 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:17.760 you know that, Like what what would you if somebody 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.080 asked you what do you like? What would you say? 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:28.120 She knows what she but she don't want to say. Um, 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:32.280 come on, I don't think that's nothing that I don't do. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.319 I feel like people, you have to meet my freakiness. Okay, 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:38.600 So like I could get real nasty, So I want 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:40.680 to make sure that you could get just as nasty, 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:46.320 Like what's your definition of nasty? We agree we didn't 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:49.040 heard it all. Some of us haven't done at all. 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:56.360 So remember we oh ship the groceries. He come the water, 0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:01.400 the groceries be involved. I ain't eating no ass See, 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:04.480 you're not that nasty. Okay, you got me on that one. 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:07.040 I'm not gonna like now. I know a lot of 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:08.679 a lot, a lot, a lot a lot of girls 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.120 that do eat s. I don't think it's not wrong 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:13.760 with that. Like, I just ain't never did it, like 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:16.360 I just but if you just had some sour bad kids, 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:23.400 I just can't see, Like, I don't know, I just 0:10:23.600 --> 0:10:28.760 have never imagined it, like you're a pescterian. I just 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:31.160 I just never all right, So what is nasty that 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:39.800 you do? Then? Since you said you're nasty, I'm gonna 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:44.079 give me it. I don't know series you do though, 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.120 because you're thinking that's something it's on the tip of 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:51.120 your time and you want to say it, but it's 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.960 on the tip of your tongue. I just be fucking 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:59.800 you know, I just be fucking. Look. So the word 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:01.520 that came to mind instigator, And I don't mean that 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:08.240 um initiator. Are you initiating? Yeah, okay, that's freak level 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.040 three had to learn how to do that. I think 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:14.120 I think I'm nasty, nasty like I've eaten but and 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:18.480 pussy and everything else. But in the beginning of lips, like, 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:22.320 what's your definition of nasty? G Like level ten would 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:24.640 be eating, But like, where else can you go besides that? 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:26.840 I mean, let's let's go down the list of things. 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.680 I haven't suck toes. I think I've done everything else 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:37.880 that's it's five. That's not nice, that's nasty. I kissed 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:44.439 maybe your feet, you get Some people think that I 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:47.160 think I used to be nastier a couple of you know, 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:49.760 a couple of years back. I think I've slowed down 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:53.520 on my nastiness, but I'm still nasty because I still 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:59.360 would let my man spit in my mouth. Like if 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:08.000 you spit his come in his mouth that stays pouring, 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:14.800 that's extreme spinning his coming. Yeah, that's extreme. Level people 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:22.520 always put it in his mouth. That's evenings. That's pick 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:25.040 your fingers in your pussy with them nails. No, no, 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:27.719 I just got you come doing a little some of 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:29.880 my first time getting long nails and so long I'm 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:34.439 having short nails, so you can't really nasty, bate, I 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:38.640 gotta give it a boy, yeah with that, But but 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:42.720 I mean my com has my moth is fabulous. He's 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:47.520 come only my mouth Angelo, Okay, you did that. No, 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:49.360 I just said I've seen a porn start doing so 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:54.360 I'm gonna. I don't like spinning. That's nobody spitting in 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:58.040 my mouth. Spend your mouth. I just think it's gross. 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:02.839 I'm amazing. It's so good. It right, So it's not 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.760 like it's like an exchange. I like grab my knife 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:09.920 even like mouth. Then you're getting his spit in your 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:15.000 mouth anyway, I'm so good, especially when it's a clean 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:18.520 somebody did just it's my water. I don't want to 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:21.679 spit in nobody's mouth either. I will. Somebody asked me 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:26.800 to do it, my mouth got mad and I like 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:28.640 kind of pretended to do it, but I didn't really 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:30.040 do it. And then I was like, this is ain't 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:34.400 me like, I ain't like no, I'm not about eating 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:40.719 ass no more. No more had a bad experience. I 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:45.280 never had a bad experience either. I never had a 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:49.199 bad experience me either. I I just don't go for it. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:51.440 But I've only done it to like a couple literally 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:54.439 maybe three people please, And in my drinking days, it 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:58.120 was a finger and everybody's ass. You're sucking you getting 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:02.960 a finger too, and nobody out no, you never got 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:06.480 about Yeah, it used to be my thing. I would 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:10.160 be drunk, I sucking dick and that boom, figuring that yeah, 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:18.040 yeah for it, yes no, and they like nudged down 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:20.320 to a sow. I'm like, it's right, he's about this. 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:24.160 Nobody's ever asked me to do that, because the kind 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:26.200 of thing you gotta just like see if they down, 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:28.600 if they but clench up, then no. No, I've been 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:32.760 I've been asked with words, but cold words like play 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:35.160 with my bass, cold words, put your finger in my 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:42.840 ask Are you sure that's I'm telling you that's what 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:45.800 he wanted. That's when I would do it. He would 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:48.280 be happy that's what he wanted. I used to be, 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.720 but now I can't even imagine doing it. I don't 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:57.640 even know where to start out of it. The man's 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:02.520 g spot is in his Yeah. So once a guy 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:06.080 gets past the part of that being uncomfortable for him, 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:09.880 then it's the greatest feeling for them, so they're going 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:12.440 to want it. I've had my finger in the guy's eyes. 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:17.400 I felt like the hardest dick ever, like so excited 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:20.000 about it. And you said you did two fingers. I've 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:24.240 done more than two, but you haven't tell us nothing 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:27.480 too nasty yet? So what makes you what I mean? Ship? 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:32.320 I guess ain't that nasty? Here? Fucking with y'all, you're 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:36.040 eating it? What about second balls? Yeah? Can you do 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:37.760 one at the time? What do you think I could 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:43.760 do too? I could do one? Yeah. You gotta put 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:47.720 it both right, yeah? Both? Yeah, and then like a 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:51.560 little massage because I like, you gotta do one at 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:54.560 the time, one at the time, Angela. Really you can 0:15:54.600 --> 0:16:00.320 start with one, depends on what do you think you 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.720 one at a time. I want to get to both, really, 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.040 you know what? Both? No? No, no, I do what 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:08.760 I'm saying. That's my goal, all right right here? Got 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:12.240 start with one with one little lickylicky look, but I 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.880 want I ultimately want both balls in my mouth for sure, right, 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.880 work up to that. Yeah. But T didn't used to 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:23.280 initiate sex, and which is shocking to me. Right. No, 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:25.840 I just was always like he gonna want to fun. 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:29.680 So I'm just wait till you're ready. But now you'll 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:33.240 be on that, yeah, jumping on that. What about do 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:36.520 you listen to music while you have sex? Sometimes? Not really? 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:39.240 Sometimes you know, play. I think you want to hear 0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:42.960 me say you loud? I could get loud. It depend 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:48.880 on it, depend on and out. But yeah, I could 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:50.640 probably count on my hands that many times you listen 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:53.200 to music? That is it? Do you speak or do 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.880 you just moan? I talk? I like to talk. I 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:57.560 don't want him to talk to me. I wanted to 0:16:57.640 --> 0:17:00.880 talk to him. I want to say something to me 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:03.520 like that ship turned me on. I like that. What 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:05.400 about do you be having an attitude? Like if you're 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:07.320 in a fight and have sex, do you be having 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:10.399 an attitude during sex? Are you just forgetting I fuck it? 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:21.880 I don't remember. Oh yeah, I like acting like, well, 0:17:22.040 --> 0:17:24.240 I'm having a fight with my man and we started sucking. 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:26.800 I like acting like a little bit in the beginning 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:31.560 of the sex around for sure, Like like like acting 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:34.280 like a little bit, like you still got editude. Yeah, 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:42.760 I don't touch me, but I having makeup sex. I 0:17:42.880 --> 0:17:45.800 like having Um I was I was in a relationship 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:47.639 and I know it's really toxic. I was in a 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:50.240 relationship with somebody on and off for a long time 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:53.399 who loves to argue, and I feel like it's because 0:17:53.480 --> 0:18:00.240 he knew the sex was gonna be fired after that argument. Yeah, 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:02.720 well used to talking about stupid ship on nothing and 0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:04.560 it would just be an arguments and then then some 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:07.760 firey sex every time. You know what I noticed about you. 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:10.119 You used to break up all the time and be 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:14.560 like I'm single, but you stopped doing that. Yeah, and 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:16.159 then what you said is doing it. You're not going 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:20.119 Away're gonna right back to the nick and they look crazy, like, 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:22.920 please stop. I ran back to the same nigga for 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:27.440 eleven years. I know all about that crazy pointless dumb 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:30.320 I saw you said that he made you like more 0:18:30.400 --> 0:18:33.520 mature when it comes to relationships, So talk to me 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:35.680 about that, like what you would like before him, and 0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:40.280 then what changed? So I would I like have an attitude, 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:43.080 packed my ship up like I'm about to leave, Like 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.240 I'm getting my sheets so i can go like just 0:18:45.440 --> 0:18:48.399 popping ship track like I'm booking flights, just doing the 0:18:48.480 --> 0:18:51.960 most like breaking ship my own money. Yeah, like and 0:18:52.040 --> 0:18:54.160 then this vision nobody asked you that, like what you're 0:18:54.160 --> 0:18:56.800 talking about, That's how i'd be, Like I spoke out 0:18:56.840 --> 0:18:59.000 our da say something before like which I got my money. 0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:01.000 I don't need you to. It's like, okay, who said 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:04.320 that You're feeling lotting secure over there. But no, Yeah, 0:19:04.359 --> 0:19:06.159 I used to do a little lame ship like that, 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:08.200 packing my stuff up back and I'm about to leave. 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:11.560 Like he's just be like, we're not about to do that, 0:19:11.760 --> 0:19:14.520 Like you're not about to leave. I don't want you 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:16.840 to leave. We've been sitting out to talk about this 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:21.639 like we're adults. Because that's the thing. When you start packing, 0:19:21.680 --> 0:19:24.679 it's like you kind of gotta leave. Okay, that corny 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:30.680 if you just don't say leave, that's really went on 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:34.840 that going nowhere and looking at your phone like he 0:19:34.960 --> 0:19:41.480 better text me right now in his house. So so 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:43.879 tell me more about like other things besides that, Like 0:19:44.040 --> 0:19:46.320 what's changed that you feel like you've been more because 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.240 people forget that you are still you're what are you 0:19:48.320 --> 0:19:52.960 twenties six? You're still that's still pretty young. Yeah, So 0:19:53.119 --> 0:19:55.840 what other things have changed for you? Um, like as 0:19:55.840 --> 0:19:58.879 far as my relationship period my relationship yea and period 0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:03.160 um because being twenty six, but all of that money 0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:06.119 two hundred thousand already in the first eight days, Okay, 0:20:06.200 --> 0:20:08.960 now in a couple of weeks in you know, but 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:11.159 that does come at the level of like if I 0:20:11.240 --> 0:20:13.040 feel like if I would have been that young making 0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:16.000 that type of money, I would have been a mess. Yeah, 0:20:16.040 --> 0:20:18.399 that's how I feel like I was. I used to 0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:20.000 when I used to get like a lot of money 0:20:20.040 --> 0:20:21.560 real fast, and the beginning, I used to be like, 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:22.960 I'm gonna go do this, I'm gonna go do this, 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:25.479 I'm gonna But now i'd be like, now we talk 0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:31.240 about stuff like building businesses and investments and investing in ship. 0:20:31.320 --> 0:20:33.360 I was never thinking about stuff like that. But it's 0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:36.360 like when I have somebody who like like I can 0:20:36.640 --> 0:20:38.720 follow after, you know, like he can teach me things, 0:20:39.280 --> 0:20:41.240 it's ship like that. Like I feel like the people 0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:45.280 who I was with before, like we either trying to 0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:47.399 figure it out together or I'm trying to tell you 0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:49.560 what you can do better, you know, without you being 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:52.800 able to teach me anything. So now it's kind of 0:20:52.880 --> 0:20:55.680 like I can tell you, I can teach you stuff, 0:20:55.680 --> 0:20:57.240 you can teach me stuff, and he could tell me 0:20:57.320 --> 0:20:59.480 even more, you know what I'm saying. What they're still 0:20:59.560 --> 0:21:01.960 growing to other. But it's still like I still got 0:21:02.040 --> 0:21:04.560 a man that I can like really learn from, Like 0:21:04.640 --> 0:21:06.960 I could grow with him, Like he's smart, he want 0:21:07.000 --> 0:21:09.760 to do real ship with his life, you know, even 0:21:09.840 --> 0:21:12.840 besides music is so much ship that he's doing, Like 0:21:13.000 --> 0:21:16.080 it's like, damn, you brought him some properties and as 0:21:16.520 --> 0:21:18.280 because he want to do ship like like he want 0:21:18.320 --> 0:21:20.879 to do ship like with his community, like so you 0:21:20.960 --> 0:21:24.000 know you could. I was the original plan was to 0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:25.680 get him a building and it's gonna be like a 0:21:25.880 --> 0:21:28.720 um like a compound and have like a studio and 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:30.600 they're just a bunch of ship that he wanted to do. 0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:32.480 And then I was like, I could just get the 0:21:32.560 --> 0:21:35.720 niggas some landing. He can just do a ship on there, 0:21:35.800 --> 0:21:38.520 you know, So what's that playing there with the land um? 0:21:38.880 --> 0:21:41.440 He I don't know if I was here what he's doing. 0:21:41.480 --> 0:21:43.600 I mean he got he he doing some properties like 0:21:43.680 --> 0:21:45.720 he um. I wanted him. I wrote him out like 0:21:45.800 --> 0:21:50.520 a whole business playing child um for like I want 0:21:50.640 --> 0:21:53.840 him to get like some um like low income like 0:21:54.040 --> 0:21:56.920 apartments for people who you know, like who got felon needs, 0:21:57.400 --> 0:21:59.880 you know, bad backgrounds who can't really get a trip. 0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:02.800 Yeah you know black people like that who can you know, 0:22:02.920 --> 0:22:05.120 get them like a second chance head no being able 0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:08.160 to rent and because people will be out here, it'd 0:22:08.200 --> 0:22:10.760 be bad. Yeah, it's been really bad, especially now you 0:22:10.880 --> 0:22:12.720