1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: You want to watch the episode, Oh, of course you do, 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: so click the link in the episode description. Four for 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: four listening to mess you look very springtime, do I 4 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: you know what? I feel like? I just want to 5 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: get the ball rolling for that because I've had a 6 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: not enough of winter time. I used to be in 7 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: my let's hibernate bag. I'm done. Oh I'm the outside. 8 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: I don't want it anymore. I'm ready to roam the 9 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: streets without icicle doodoo on the sidewalks and wind chill factor. 10 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: To the point of the negatives, where, yes, where negative 11 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: negative fifteen, negative three degrees? Are we in Alaska? She 12 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: and the poop on the snow in New York. Some 13 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: of it look like people poop. It definitely is. Some 14 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: of it is big dog, big people pool. Hey the way, 15 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: if your dog is shitting like that, your dog needs 16 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 1: a job. You're talking. Your dog should be bringing something 17 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 1: to the table, and it should not be shipped when 18 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 1: you do some money, when you do your taxes, can 19 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: you claim your dog as a dependent? What I heard 20 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: there was like some things that is that big. You 21 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: should be able to claim the dog, you think, But 22 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: also they should be cleaning it up. They should. I 23 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: have a lot of beef with the big dog community 24 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: here in New York. It's not just big dogs, it's 25 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: all types of dogs. And the neighborhood is the big 26 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: dogs that are leaving their ships behind. It's not the dogs, 27 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: it's the people or the people the owners of the 28 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: big dogs are leaving their ship because in my neighborhood 29 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: they'll bag the poop and then toss the bag on 30 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: the snow. They do that too. That's bags of doodoo 31 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: on ice. It's on the rocks. It's so nasty, and 32 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: it's like, who raised you? Doodoo bags on the rocks 33 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: on That might be the title of the episode. That 34 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: might be it Ride that down Corporate more So, Yeah, 35 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: I'm done. I love a big code. I love outerwear, 36 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: you know that that is where I thrive. But I 37 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: think I'm ready to have a shacket, a jacket, or 38 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: you know, maybe a windbreaker. You got time, you know 39 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,119 Speaker 1: it therean jacket. It doesn't get warm in New York 40 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: until after April. I don't want to do it no more. 41 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to do it anymore. It's really actually 42 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: bringing me down. It is bringing the vibes down. Yeah, 43 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: you know, I've been thinking a lot about this recently. 44 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: I kind of this is the first winter that I'm like, 45 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 1: get while old people leave New York in the winter time, 46 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: like move south for the winter like a bird, kind 47 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: of get it? Is it just old people? Oh? Is 48 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: it not old people? 49 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 2: I think they're called not snow It's like the opposite 50 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: of snowbirds. 51 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 1: I don't think it's just old people. No, it's it's 52 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: people who have disposable income, multiple homes by coastal Yeah, 53 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: the people in a different tax bracket. 54 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 2: It's not just uh elders. They're all called snowbirds. That is, 55 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 2: like snowbirds are seasonal residents, typically retirees from northern US 56 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 2: and Canada who migrate to Florida for the winter months. 57 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, was snowbirds on the twelve Days of Christmas on 58 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: the well snow birds. You get it? Yeah, No, I don't. 59 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 1: I don't think it's just old people, Marie. I think 60 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: you got to be rich to do it. If I 61 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: had way more money, yeah, i'd be like, yo, I'm 62 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: out from January until April. I think April is the 63 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: time you could come back to New York and it'd 64 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: be safe, safe to be like, it's going to be raining. 65 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: I'd rather deal with rain than cold, snow and bad attitudes. 66 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: I can't do it all three well. In the summertime, 67 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: it's pee, poop, sweat and bad attitudes. No, people are 68 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: actually I think people are much nicer in the summer. No, 69 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: people in New York are nice the spring. When the 70 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: summer gets here and it's hot, people are nasty. Chat 71 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: log in. If you live in New York City, please 72 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: give us your you know, opinions on this. If you 73 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: live in New York Are people nicer in the in 74 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: the winter, No, they're not nicer in the winter. The 75 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: best to me, in my opinion, the best season in 76 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,679 Speaker 1: New York City is the spring because we've survived the winter. 77 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: People are happy, the sun is about to come out. 78 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: People got their knees out too early, they put the 79 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 1: coats away too soon. Yes, but we're like happy, we've 80 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 1: survived this like cold dark time. Then the summer happens 81 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 1: and it's like people are still happy, but like it 82 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: smells worse and it's hotter, and we're like a little 83 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: bit cranky. Yeah, but booty cheeks are out, people are 84 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 1: working out, they're eating fun, they're more parties. People are frolicking. 85 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: People are having more sex. So even though it smells 86 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: bad and it's so hot, it's like, but the visuals 87 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 1: oooh my eyes, they're in heaven. Are people having more 88 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: sex in the summer time. Yes, if you don't have 89 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: enough BTUs, you should not be hosting at your home. 90 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: If the BTUs are low, you gotta go. Hey, if 91 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: you don't have electricity in your home, you should not 92 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: be hosting. Because that has also happened to some people. 93 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: I don't even know who, but yeah, they have experienced that. 94 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely think I would just want to 95 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: fast forward to when it's like seventy five degrees. I 96 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: think that's when I'm That's when I'm at my peak personality. 97 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:39,799 Speaker 1: Seventy five degrees. Seventy five degrees, seventy five degrees okay, cool, 98 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: because I can appreciate not only just the weather, but 99 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: I'm more open to, you know, holding the door, holding 100 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 1: a conversation, holding space. How can I how can I 101 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:56,559 Speaker 1: have space for you if if I need a heat 102 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: heat space space space heater. Yeah you was with this, 103 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: so I would woot you How could I hold space? 104 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: And I in my mind said something about a space yeah, 105 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: you knew, you knew I was taking you. Fuck you 106 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: through it. Take me through that, take me through? Now 107 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: where does the groundhog live? Because I want to go 108 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: kick him? Well, I thought, I think this is a 109 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: new groundhog. Oh yeah, I think gen Z groundhog. I 110 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: think this is it. I think they cloned Tyrone. I 111 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: think because they all look. I don't think the groundhog's 112 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: name is but I believe that like a couple of 113 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: years ago, Phil died. But now that I think there's 114 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 1: a new groundhog. And they called him a Phil as well. 115 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: What I said, it's a good name. How long do 116 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: groundhogs live? What's the typical life span? Now? Find out 117 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: of an evil groundhog? Animal lovers tap in? Do you 118 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: have them for me? 119 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: Two to three years in the wild? Can survive the 120 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 2: six years in natural habitat? 121 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't live long. So they we have three 122 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: years of we have sixties through so many fills. Now 123 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: this is not the same film, but this feel, this, 124 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: this actual iteration of Phil. 125 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 2: When kept in captivity with proper care and no predators, 126 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,679 Speaker 2: the license can extend significantly to ten to fourteen years. 127 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: But fourteen years it's coming out the whole slow it's 128 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: seeing it's lashes. It thinks that's its shadow. It's like, 129 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: I'm going back in the house. I think this Phil 130 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: is definitely an introvert, and I think he's just saying 131 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: anything so that he could go back in. He's literally 132 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: saying nothing did pop up. And they'd be like, but 133 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying, there's somebody who translate, you know Phil and 134 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: translates for Phil. And I think he's like telling them 135 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 1: like yo yo yo, yeah, yeah, it's more winter and 136 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: then no, exactly, Sidney, do you not know what the 137 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: what Groundhowk's day is? I do growndhouse sees its shadow, Yes, 138 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: it goes back in. It doesn't see its shadow. It's outside. 139 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: It doesn't say anything. I know it didn't you thought 140 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: that I really thought that the groundhog talks. I'm talking 141 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: to Sydney Washington. I don't know what you thought, miss 142 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: MOUs And you thought that I thought that the groundhog talks. 143 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: I would hope that you when you said there's a 144 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: podcasts later foot of groundhog what they translating, miss miss 145 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: miss mail. What I was doing was an analogy that 146 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: obviously it didn't work. You know, Sydney isms. It's not 147 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: about making senses about the vibe. You're supposed to just 148 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 1: get it. You didn't, I didn't. We need a Sydney 149 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 1: translator too. Whoever you think is working with the groundhog, 150 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: hopefully if they're available, that can pop in and come 151 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: to us. But I think I really do believe that 152 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: this because now he's done it. I think like two 153 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: years in a row that is like, or three years 154 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: in a row that's like, oh, we're going to have 155 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: six more weeks of winter. That feels right though it does, 156 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: so that's why I'm like, this doesn't even make sense. 157 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 1: I think we should just scratch the whole groundhog situation. Yes, 158 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: like pardoning the turkey. His family is dead. You partnering 159 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 1: this turkey, he's gonna die next year, Like you're in 160 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 1: your mind? Your mind? Can we talk? Yeah? I just 161 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: gotta say, check on your high friends, check on your 162 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: high friends, check on your high friend. I might like 163 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: that for the title you we gotta check on our 164 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: high friends. Okay, Okay. Because I took an edible and 165 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 1: I went to a yoga class, I was like, it's 166 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: gonna hit me after the class, I'll float home, right, 167 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: That's how I take them. I'm like ah, I'm gonna 168 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: do a couple proud Warriors Sun salutations, and I'm gonna 169 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: go home. I'm gonna float back to the crib instead. 170 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: At the end of my class, I was like, I'm 171 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: gonna go to the grocery store. I gotta get some lemons. 172 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: I get to the grocery store. Edible hits me at 173 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: the supermarket. Okay, I'm there with no list. I'm there. 174 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: I got a bag. So I'm like, well, whatever it's 175 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: in this bag, I guess I'm gonna take girl. When 176 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: I tell you, I was trapped in the egg aisle 177 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: for twenty five minutes reading all the first of all 178 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,079 Speaker 1: eggs is like seventeen dollars now, so already I don't 179 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: want to pay that again. Wait, no, I thought they 180 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 1: went down. I don't know it went down. It must 181 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: have gone down from twenty to seventeen. I don't know. 182 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:21,199 Speaker 1: So I'm looking and each box, each carton says something 183 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: else hay Tree, free range, vegetarian fed da da da 184 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: da da da da. And I'm like, oh my god, 185 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: the better the life of the mother, the more expensive 186 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 1: the eggs, but also the better the eggs probably are. 187 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: But you did Okay, friends. So you just now realizing now, 188 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: no no, no, no, no, okay, I'm just saying that's 189 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: just how they You eggs used to be like four 190 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 1: ninety nine, five ninety nine, like I'd go in, I'd 191 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 1: get a cart and like I would just pick the 192 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 1: sexy brown ones because they didn't care about They didn't 193 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: care about chickens back then. Now there's more people who 194 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: are self aware. You know, the Dodo is always pushing 195 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: those viral videos. We keep seeing cows, you know, with 196 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: flowers on their head and like licking dogs. Now, so 197 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:06,119 Speaker 1: like oh my god, maybe we shouldn't be having burgers 198 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: for Fourth of July. But but back then it was 199 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 1: like kill them all. They they still don't care about 200 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: the chickens. They do care. They don't care because because 201 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: they know why the cage birds sings, So they're not there. 202 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: These are cage free, These are free wild. Yeah, there 203 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: was a somebody did a study and cage free doesn't 204 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 1: mean they have a yard. It just means they're not 205 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 1: in a cage. The chickens are still walking around like this, 206 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: they're like shoulder to shoulder. They can stand, but they 207 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: can't like move around. So basically they're living like New Yorkers. 208 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: Cage free is different than free range, oh yes, yes, yes, yes, 209 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: and free range is different than prairie prairie praised. So 210 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: I'm reading all the things and I'm I'm so high 211 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 1: that I'm feeling bad for the cartons of eggs that 212 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: don't say nothing on them, because some of them don't 213 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: say it just says eggs. And you're like, I'm like, 214 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: this chicken didn't have a yard. So you have to 215 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: stop taking edibles. No, at least that version. No, yes, literally, 216 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: the best I ordered ordered more. I love these edibles. 217 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: They're very demures five milligrams, it's cut five mill five milligrams. 218 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: Got you being an impath for the chickens, Yes, you 219 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: can't even be have impath for a damn human who 220 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: you didn't zoomed all the way to chickens. You know 221 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: why the chicken cross the road? I don't. Well, he 222 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: was trying to get to the yard, to his yard. 223 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 1: He wasn't trying to run. He was escaping girls across 224 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: the road. He was running. It was bad, It was 225 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 1: really really bad. And then I finally found some eggs 226 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: that I that I was like, I'm gonna get these. 227 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:00,120 Speaker 1: And then I opened them and they were white, and 228 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: I said, this close to Black History Month, I've got 229 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: to get the brown eggs. And now I'm there for 230 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: even longer amount of time. Anyway, the people who worked 231 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: there were I think they thought I was trying to 232 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: steal eggs or that I was doing really, really bad. 233 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: They were like, her son must be at home and 234 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: crying all alone on the bedroom floor because he's hungry. 235 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: Because he's hungry, and the only way to feed the mister, 236 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: see put a man for a little bit of money. Money, Yeah, woo, Marie. 237 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: I sometimes you take me on these edible journeys and 238 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I want to get a I want 239 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: to get in on this like I would should I 240 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 1: relapse for an edible? And then you tell a story 241 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: like this, and I said, actually, this is why I'm sober, 242 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: That's why I don't touch it. And I just want 243 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: to let you know cocaine has never had me in 244 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: the store like that, caring about some fucking eggs. Yeah, 245 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: but edibles have never made me afraid to take a 246 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: drug test. Mmmmmmm hmmm, hmmmmm. I was never afraid. I 247 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 1: just want you to know that because I wasn't taking 248 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: no tests. I'm high as a kite. Why would I 249 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: take a test when I know I did it? Right? Yeah? Right, 250 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 1: and everywhere I'm going everyone else is also on it. Yeah, 251 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: so why would be taking drug tests? That is we 252 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: took it. There you have it. We took the drugs. 253 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: If you worked with cool people, you ain't never got 254 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: to take a drug test. It's true. Range Okay, this 255 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: is crazy. But speaking of freedom, freedom, I I'm working on, 256 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: you know, elevating as a person. And um, I'm I'm 257 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: gonna do in visil Line. Well we're on the cusp. 258 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 1: It's on the cusp of invisil Line. Well, I went 259 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: in and they took the you know the photos. Yeah, 260 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: they you know, put me through the xerox machine. And 261 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: I have never like, I know how my teeth feel 262 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: in my mouth, But seeing it, I said, I don't 263 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 1: know if I would date that first. Oh yeah that 264 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: it came back and my teeth are flared like jeans flared. Yeah, 265 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: just call me Levi's like this or like this, it's 266 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: like that, like this from out the front the front 267 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: teeth come out. And I always knew I had like 268 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: an over by kind of buck ish, you know, And 269 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: so that's why I think I have issues pronouncing things. 270 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: I think that's why I trip over words, because it's 271 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: really I'm tripping over like the teeth part in the front, Sidney, 272 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: Are you sure you're not all edible right now? You 273 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: don't need them because the stuff that you say sound 274 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: like things of stoner would say. I think I have 275 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: dyslexia because my teeth are flared. Yes, yes, that's exactly 276 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: See you you are my translator, oirl. We are soulmates. 277 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: Did you see that? I didn't even have to say 278 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: much and you already knew what the fuck I meant. Girl, 279 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 1: I was making fun of you. Oh well, you're a 280 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: bad soul mate, really good because you get me, but 281 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: you also make fun of me. Okay, So your flare 282 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 1: teeth is why you beat mispronouncing stuff? Yes? And so 283 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 1: he shows me. You know, when you get a visit line, 284 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: they show you the process of how your teeth will, 285 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: you know, be fixed over time. And I sent it 286 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: to you and you were like, well, girl, it don't 287 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: look to it looks but before it looked like that before. Yeah, 288 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: and that that hurt you, saying that girl, you can't 289 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 1: you must have sent me the wrong image. No, show 290 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 1: looked like the looked like the after Bitch now stopping 291 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: now Sidney, Now no, No, it looks so the same 292 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: that I was like it didn't. You have to get 293 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 1: the wireuses. And that's why I know you don't want 294 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: the best for me, because why would you want me 295 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: to be for you? Would be for you to struggle for. 296 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: So this is this. You guys can't see the obviously 297 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 1: you won't zoom in, but this is super imposed. This 298 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 1: is this is my teeth right now? 299 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:07,919 Speaker 2: Yea. 300 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 1: And you see this and you're like, this don't look 301 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: like Sydney. If you saw this in a lineup, would 302 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 1: you be like, this is Sydney Washington's teeth. No, I 303 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 1: would not say that exactly. So I'd be like, oh 304 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:22,400 Speaker 1: my god, the geiccave man, but your teeth don't look 305 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:29,360 Speaker 1: like that? Why mead? Sometimes when you say things Sidney, 306 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 1: but your teeth don't look like that to me, but 307 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:37,120 Speaker 1: to the naked Haitian eye. But the way you described it, 308 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: I know you were like, these are If I didn't 309 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: know you, I would say that joke. But you know me, 310 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: So what would you say the glico chi man? Why 311 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: would you say that, Sidney, even knowing you and knowing 312 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: that those are your X rays, I'm saying from the front, 313 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 1: from the side, from the bottom, from the top, your 314 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 1: mouth does not give that. That's all. You're not gonna 315 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: show us the after, that before after, Okay, so this 316 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 1: is this is the after. Yeah he' zoomed in but 317 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: you see, oh yeah, and the same thing with the 318 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: eventul And they said it's maxed out, babe. This is 319 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 1: all we could do because it's that played. But he's 320 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: gonna he took more pictures and he's gonna send in 321 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 1: and see if they can maybe add some more trays. 322 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: But I think it's really like my the whole mouth. 323 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: I think the bones of my jaw, it's just it's 324 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 1: I think it's a little tilted. So I think I 325 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: probably do need braces all together. I think that's the 326 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 1: only thing that's going to actually and I'm not gonna 327 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 1: put it all back into place. I'm already this age 328 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 1: and I've gone this far with it looking like this. 329 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: I guess that's just what it is. This is this 330 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: is my final draft. No that's not true. This is 331 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: not your final draft, because we are always evolving. We're 332 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 1: always working, but like see, like let me, I've never 333 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: done this. I've never ever done but I hate when 334 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 1: some mooddy is underneath me. That's why I hate being 335 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 1: on top, because you hate what somebody's underneath you. Yeah, 336 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 1: I hate being on top because then you could see 337 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:13,439 Speaker 1: this hold on you see, Sydney, I don't believe that. 338 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: You don't you only be on top how you be 339 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 1: on top? And they'd be like you love the way 340 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: a right did you see like the like barely sis. 341 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: I don't think anybody's looking at your teeth when you're 342 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: on top. I just want you to know that something 343 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 1: else their teeth when you're on Now, that is the 344 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: type of compliment I want from you, bitch. Now, okay, 345 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,439 Speaker 1: Now is how you give it for a compliment. Now, 346 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: that's what I call a compliment. Now, that's what I 347 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: call mess. And so yeah, I it's gonna he said 348 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: four months, four months, so I'm thinking it. I'll probably 349 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: have to do it for like seven in order for 350 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: it to be like really you want to borrow why 351 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 1: retainer says it's a bar across your teeth? Read your 352 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 1: teeth are perfect. I wear the retainer every night and 353 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 1: your parents loved you, so you had braces. My parents 354 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 1: did not love me enough for the braces. I had 355 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: to beg for the braces. Bag bag bag, bag bag 356 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: bag bag, had to put post its all over my house. 357 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:19,160 Speaker 1: I remember to call doctor whatever her name is, doctor Green, 358 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:22,399 Speaker 1: doctor Green, doctor Green, because I had insurance. We had 359 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: great insurance. And my mom was like, only special people 360 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,719 Speaker 1: have gaps, and me and my sister were like, we 361 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: don't want the gap. My mother has a gap, and 362 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 1: then us, they're beautiful, that's a beautiful gap. Yeah, I 363 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 1: didn't want it. Just like a model, I said, we 364 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: got you got blue Cross, Blue Shield. They're gonna pay 365 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 1: for everything. Just take us to the doctor. And your 366 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 1: sister and me and my sister we had them at 367 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: the same time. Yeah, I think it's a certain level 368 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: of hair when parents do things like like braces and 369 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 1: make sure you have vaccinations and make sure you're not 370 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 1: wearing shoes that are too small, like they're thinking about 371 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: your future. Well it's that it's also a can you 372 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: afford to pay for the braces, But if you have insurance, 373 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 1: you're not thinking about that, you know. Yeah, Like my 374 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 1: family was very frugal, so they would get. I would 375 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 1: have a lot of hand me downs, and so I 376 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: would get shoes that were too small for me because 377 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 1: it was like, you know, my cousin's shoes, and why 378 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: were the hand me downs too small? They're supposed to 379 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,719 Speaker 1: be big exactly. So what was the you and your 380 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 1: cousin were the same age? Nope, she was younger than you. 381 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: She was older than me, but had but had I guess, 382 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: smaller feet. And so if you see my feet today, 383 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 1: it's because I was as a child, they had me 384 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: into smaller shoes and that's why I know I wasn't 385 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: loved as much. Come on, for binding. They wanted to 386 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: have holes girls, they wanted they wanted me to have 387 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: tiny toes, but they wanted my feet to look like 388 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: they were on top of each other. Sure. Yeah, that's 389 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:00,040 Speaker 1: a different type of love. Sis. Listen how tiny and 390 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: dainty her feet are. The fourth toe is on top, 391 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: is underneath the third one, so it looks like it 392 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: kind of looks like they're scissoring, which is foreshadowing. So 393 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 1: tiny sham Now today, the tiny shoes made you gay again? 394 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 1: My friend knows how to translate me the things that 395 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: I can't say. Maurice says, if your baby's feeling like this, Yeah, 396 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,679 Speaker 1: so I think I'm gonna just still do it. I 397 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: feel like it'll make a difference regardless. I was like, 398 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: I won't have this raded like, it won't fix my 399 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: overbite completely. But it's worth a try, you know, I 400 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 1: might as well do it while I have the money. Now. 401 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: I will not have this money in six months. You'll 402 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: have more money in six months because we're robbing a 403 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 1: bank allegedly set it off. But just two gals, Yeah, 404 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna use it. I'm just say we're gonna use 405 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: check gpte not for what have you come to the concation? 406 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 1: No longer using chat GPS. Say it into the camera 407 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: right now? Which one is my camera? This? All of them? 408 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: Say it to all of them. I am no longer 409 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 1: using chat GPT, Say it louder. I'm not using chat 410 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: GPT no, Moore, because yes, it's bad for the planet. 411 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: But also when you google stuff now they give you 412 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: the AI results, it isn't there, so I'm not I'm 413 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: not adding to you know, the gallons of water that 414 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 1: are being I don't even know how what it's doing. 415 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: I guess I gotta use AI to figure out how 416 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 1: it's ruining the planet. But I'm just not using it 417 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 1: because I you know, I have friends who know stuff, 418 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 1: and when I ask them a question, they answer or lie. 419 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: We need you to stop, Marie. We've made so many 420 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: I've asked chat GBT questions. I think you got all 421 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: the bits, friend, sure, but I did hear a bit 422 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: last night that really made me laugh. Okay, let's hear 423 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: it well, because chat GPT just like agrees with you 424 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 1: anytime you say something and you didn't know that, what 425 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 1: do you mean you didn't know that, Marine, No, I 426 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 1: didn't know that. I literally I got a message. I 427 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: think I talked about this on the pod. I got 428 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: a message and I responded how it felt like I 429 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 1: should respond in my heart and chat GBT was like, 430 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: you should not say that, and I was like I 431 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 1: already sent the email and they were like, lool, that's fine. 432 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: CHATBT agree with me immediately. It's like you're drunk, bestie, 433 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 1: and I'm not drunk, and I would have I agree 434 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 1: with you, and I also tell you no, so you 435 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: might as well just me. You told me no, Marie. 436 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm always telling you no, or I'll be like, Marie, 437 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: do you think that now, how would you respond if 438 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 1: you did something like that? Treat people how you want 439 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 1: to be treated. I've said that to you. You've literally 440 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: never said that to me. You treat people how I 441 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: want to be treated. Yes, you've never said that to 442 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: me at all, Sydney, I definitely have girls ever said no, Okay, 443 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 1: let's see, Okay, I will say this about Marie. Marie 444 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 1: has you know she shows love in Marie ways and 445 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 1: you know you don't. You're not always like making it 446 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:32,120 Speaker 1: rain on people, you know, in terms of gifts, So 447 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: for my birthday, she sent me flowers and she wrote 448 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: love Marie, And honestly, I was like, this is the 449 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 1: best gift I've ever received from crazy. I couldn't believe it. 450 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, can I just say that I 451 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: actually got you a gift for your birthday? It still 452 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: has nothing delivered, so, but do you know I honestly 453 00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: when you wrote love Marie, I was like I felt 454 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:04,880 Speaker 1: like Samantha in Sex and the City when Richard's part 455 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: that love Richard, like, you've never written love? What hearing is? Ever? 456 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:18,640 Speaker 1: I should cancel? No, because if the on the piece 457 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 1: of paper is enough, then I should posted it in 458 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: the dump like I wanted people to know. I was like, 459 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: she did it, y'all, she did it. I can't believe you. 460 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 1: We shamed shame me and we did in Yo. We 461 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 1: did it. We cracked the code. We cracked the Marico cracked. 462 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: It has no the word is going back in the vault. No, 463 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: you'll go hear it. It's like Haley's comment, You're not 464 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: going to hear that word from me on another fourteen 465 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,400 Speaker 1: years sway Marie did. I was like, maybe she got 466 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: her assistant to write that, and that's why wrote Love 467 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: it Is, but l u V because I because you're 468 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 1: you don't need you don't know you LUV. You don't 469 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: even LUV girl, you don't you don't need do that Marine. 470 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 1: I'm an l u r V E girl love rural View. 471 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: Why don't you love me? Yeah? That's who I am. 472 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 1: I don't know why you're so shocked about it, but 473 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 1: you know what I was shocked about. So you're saying 474 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: that you're not going to do no more enhancements on yourself, 475 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 1: but I have there's stuff about me that I want 476 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 1: to change. You know, I really want to hear this. 477 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 1: I really I don't want to see my glasses off. 478 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 1: I really this, these lines that are under my eyeballs 479 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: upset me regularly. So I've been looking into it and 480 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: I've I've found I can get a lower LEF. I 481 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 1: don't know what the I don't know what the leff 482 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,679 Speaker 1: stands for, but it's like they like some people have 483 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: like bags under their eyes. They like that's fat that 484 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: they remove the fat. And some people when they have 485 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: the lines, because they're it's too like hollow, they go 486 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 1: in there and they like rearrange the fat, or they 487 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 1: transfer fat from other parts of your body and they 488 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 1: like fill this space. Oh, I want to do that. Okay, 489 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: It's called a fat transfer. Okay. So a friend of 490 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 1: mine was like, I have the perfect doctor for you. 491 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 1: Don't message anybody. I'm gonna get the info to you. Okay, 492 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 1: I said, what's the info? He sends it to me. 493 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 1: I call them. They're like, we need you to send 494 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: us some photos of your face. First, she goes, it's 495 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:25,360 Speaker 1: a seven hundred dollars consultation fee. I'm seven hundred dollars 496 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 1: for herd look at me just to look said. She said, yeah, 497 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: but if you decide to go through with the surgery, 498 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 1: that'll be applied to the to the final balance. I 499 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: was like, I can okay, she said, but just this once, 500 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: send us some photos. She'll review them and then we'll 501 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: let you know if we can proceed this. I need 502 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 1: to see the phote. What photos you Well, you have 503 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: to send one picture of yourself not smiling, and then 504 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: one smiling and then two three quarter shots. You got them. 505 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: I got them, but I'm not showing them to you 506 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: because I took all these photos and I was like, 507 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, am I uglye I well in my 508 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 1: house taking these pictures and I was like, every single 509 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: photo felt worse than the photo before it. I'll show 510 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 1: you the pictures of them actually taking a picture of 511 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: my teeth, and I said, oh, this is not visually 512 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: pleasing at all. Sure, yeah, it's bad when you really 513 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 1: look at yourself, when you really really look at really 514 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: open your eyes and look at you, Luke, Luke, you 515 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: look at yourself for real. We're all a little bit 516 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 1: ugly on the outside, a little bit on the outside, 517 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,479 Speaker 1: and that's it. And that's why it's like, why are 518 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: we so hard on others? Have you looked yourself in 519 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,880 Speaker 1: the mirror? Have you ever seen you have you seen it. 520 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: It's like, if you really just take a look at yourself, 521 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 1: you will be so quiet and not talk about other 522 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 1: people because you'll be so wrapped up in how you look. 523 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: I think that message we should clip that and send 524 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 1: it to all the men in your life. Wait, hold on, 525 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 1: men in my life? Just oh there to the ok 526 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: even my God it is not a man. Yeah, I 527 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 1: believe God is. Every time I go, I have my 528 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: brother like, hey, girl, do what I'm there? You sleep it? Wait? 529 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: God not things. I tell you. My God is a 530 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 1: woman as well, because she don't be listening to your god. 531 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: Iss Haitian. My God does it on her own time. 532 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 1: Uh huh okay, So wait wait wait ship, what was 533 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: I just about to say. I was talking about being 534 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 1: a woman, was talking about being ugly. I said. The 535 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 1: minute you're like, did you see the Indian matchmaker? Have 536 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 1: you seen her on TikTok? No? Yeah, people will like 537 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: obviously want to be matched and they'll say, uh, this 538 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: is me, here's my photo and this is what I want, right, 539 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 1: And so guys was like, I think this guy no, 540 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: this woman was like, so I want a man who 541 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: is athletically built, and you know she wanted all these attributes. 542 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: And so the woman, the matchmaker, sends her a guy 543 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: and she's like, well, he doesn't look athletic, and they're like, well, 544 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: athletic built and like someone who's athletic is two different things. 545 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: She's like, on his thing, he works out, he works out, 546 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 1: you know, four times a week, and he you know, 547 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: he's a little stocky. But she's like, he still looks good. 548 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: This is what the matchmaker is saying to herself. And 549 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 1: so she wrote back and she said, well, you say 550 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: you go to the gym, but you don't look athletically built. 551 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 1: And she said, are you calling me fat? She said, 552 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: out and say that. I said, you don't look athletic. 553 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: So I think you should give this man a chance. Yeah. 554 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: And it's like you sometimes you see yourself one way 555 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: and then you got to ask an outsider how they 556 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: see you, and then maybe somebody else will see you 557 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 1: as that way as well. But also also, and this 558 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 1: is something that I had learned, you know, in the 559 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 1: recent years, is when you take a photo of yourself, 560 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: it's mirrored flipped. Yes, you're seeing and if you look 561 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 1: in the mirror, you only ever see yourself reflected. But 562 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 1: if you flip it. Yes, like that's what you actually 563 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 1: look like. I look better flipped. You know that there's 564 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 1: a on the phone on your photos you can flip it. 565 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: You never seen this, flip it and when you flip 566 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: it it looks different. Alex English showed me that. Oh 567 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: he said, oh you don't like to pet your hold on, 568 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 1: hold on and he flipped and I'm like, oh my god, 569 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: it doesn't better. Oh my god. Yes, but I think 570 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: that just means that we're like not symmetrical. We are right. 571 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 1: I knew that if my cucie is not symmetrical, there's 572 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: no way my face is. Cucies are like snowflakes. No, 573 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 1: two lips are the same. They're not symmetrical. Would you 574 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: get a laby a plastic no anyway, So I send 575 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: this lady my phone. Yeah, sorry, they really went off 576 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 1: on a tangent. Send this lady my photos. The surgeon 577 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: mind you, it's like non invasive, like they they go 578 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 1: like under your eye, they move the fat up, they 579 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: go under your eye. You said, it's not invasive. It's 580 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: not like you're not it's nether. They're not cutting your face. 581 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 1: It's output our outpatient surgery. They could do it at 582 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: the house. How do they do that? I feel like 583 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: they go like this, since they pull you your eye 584 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 1: and then they go and then they put it back. 585 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: That's in it's going. That's invasive. They're not cutting my face. 586 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: They're not cutting that's what That's all I'm saying. Okay, 587 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: they not slicing and dicing out. And you know, I 588 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: got keyloid's skin. I don't want to be going underneath. 589 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 1: They're going underneath. They're going. I mean, I'm not I 590 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: didn't go to I'm not the pitch school or nothing 591 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 1: like that. But they like scoop and then they readjust 592 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 1: the fat so that it fills this space up, so 593 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 1: you're the lines under my eyes will be gone. Okay, 594 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: she says, she's first of all, she's like, the surgeon's 595 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 1: only in the office Tuesdays and Thursdays. I'm like, oh, 596 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 1: she'd be working less than half awake. So you know 597 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,040 Speaker 1: what dad means. I don't know what mean? You know 598 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 1: what that means. They're doing only two surgeries a week. 599 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 1: They're only doing two days, two days a week because 600 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 1: it costs a lot of money. Excuse me, well, I 601 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 1: didn't know that. Okay, she emails me back thirty thousand dollars. 602 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:14,359 Speaker 1: She spelled out the word thirty thousand dollars. I said, 603 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 1: this must be a type of maybe she meant the 604 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 1: right three, maybe she meant your right thirteen thirty thousand dollars. 605 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,319 Speaker 1: So I responded to her today, Hey, I just want 606 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 1: to make sure I've seen this correctly. Thirty thousand dollars 607 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,279 Speaker 1: question mark. I said, that covers the lower, blest and 608 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 1: the fat transfer. She said, that's the surgeon's fee. It 609 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 1: doesn't cover facilities or faculty or whatever the hell the 610 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,800 Speaker 1: word is that. You're like, let me get the itemize, 611 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 1: let me see the atomize. What is it? It just 612 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 1: covers the world. It doesn't cover anestegia. It doesn't cover 613 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 1: the whole thing. So it's not even thirty thousand dollars. 614 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,399 Speaker 1: It's been thirty thousand dollars. Hell no, well, bitch, I'm 615 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: just gonna look tired forever because that has thirty thousand dollars. 616 00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just be somebody who wears glasses in that. 617 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,359 Speaker 1: What do you mean? But like other I googled other 618 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,239 Speaker 1: ones in the city, and it's like nine thousand. I 619 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,760 Speaker 1: called out the place in seven thousand. But it's good. Though. 620 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,240 Speaker 1: You gotta go on what is it? It's real self 621 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:18,040 Speaker 1: dot com and that shows you, uh, people's surgeries from 622 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 1: specific doctors and you could tell you know their post stop, 623 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,279 Speaker 1: like how many days in Like the average cost of 624 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: this surgery is like between it's literally it's between like 625 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:32,799 Speaker 1: three and nine. So if I'm looking at somebody that's 626 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,279 Speaker 1: charging fifteen or I'm looking at somebody that's charging ten, 627 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 1: in my mind, I'm like, oh, that must mean they're 628 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,240 Speaker 1: they're good. I'm reading the reviews and everything. But thirty 629 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:45,920 Speaker 1: k that's that's Lindsay Lohan's new faces, that's Chris Jenner's 630 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:50,279 Speaker 1: person They look good though, they look good, but they're 631 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 1: also millionaires, billionaires. They should be spending that much money. Me, 632 00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 1: little old me, your friend must be a millionaire if 633 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: they sent you to some and dar, he ain't got 634 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:03,799 Speaker 1: a discount or something, he ain't got no cold up, 635 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: you can't move on cod Yeah, he know who you are, 636 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,399 Speaker 1: Like you doing it well, But obviously it's like can 637 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: I put in blah blah blah dash whatever and then 638 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 1: right thirty percent off thirty percent off of thirty thousand 639 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 1: dollars percent of thirty thousand dollars is not enough I 640 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: need says sixty percent. He's sixty percent off because what 641 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: gol So, yeah, I just I googled like the best 642 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 1: surgeon in the city, and four popped up, and this 643 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 1: person was one of the four. So I called the 644 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,760 Speaker 1: other three just to see and what they say. One 645 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 1: told men nine thousand. Oh, we could do that. We 646 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,360 Speaker 1: could do that tomorrow. You could do that tomorrow, let's go. 647 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,919 Speaker 1: One told me nine thousand, somebody else told me six k, 648 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: and then yeah, there were thirty thousand. What is When 649 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: I found out the consultation for you was seven hundred dollars, 650 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, this is going to be a 651 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:03,800 Speaker 1: couple thousand dollars, not thirty thousand dollars. It's too much. Anyway, 652 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 1: when if and when you see me looking more refreshed, 653 00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,319 Speaker 1: just know I spent a little bit, but no, I'm 654 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: not spending that I wanted. The thing is is that 655 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 1: like what happened to me? And I think I've told 656 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 1: this story before, but when I relapsed, right, so this 657 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 1: was almost nine or ten years ago, drinking, drugging, working, 658 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 1: all of that, and so I went to a surgeon 659 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 1: allegedly he was in a medspa, but he was doing 660 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:37,440 Speaker 1: all the girls that you know, the the dancers and 661 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 1: the girls that are at the nightclub. So I go 662 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 1: and get the filler. Get the filler. And also I'm 663 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 1: wearing foxlocks. That Amina got me as like she this 664 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 1: is the first time she's ever done foxlocks ever, Like 665 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: I was the guinea pig for it. So not only 666 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 1: was I wearing hair that it was on his like 667 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,720 Speaker 1: first draft, I felt like he was doing that for 668 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 1: the filler as well, because it looked bad, Like you 669 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 1: could see the injections you can see filler. So he's like, 670 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 1: don't worry, it'll take like a week or two to settle. 671 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: Week or two come by, and I'm like, yo, I 672 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,720 Speaker 1: still look like I just got off the fucking table. 673 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 1: It looks bad. And so he went to dissolve it. 674 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:29,920 Speaker 1: And after it was dissolved, one side was way less 675 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,919 Speaker 1: than the other. And so that was many many moons ago, 676 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,239 Speaker 1: and I'm just I've been scared ever since. I don't 677 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 1: want to do it. Well, see, filler is different. The 678 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,359 Speaker 1: thing that I'm talking about is a fat transfer. They 679 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 1: take fat from my body where yeah, they don't know 680 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 1: where they're gonna get it. Maybe my thighs, but they 681 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 1: take fat from my body or there. We have pockets 682 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 1: of fat underneath our eyes. They just like they just 683 00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 1: reposition it. But I think they take it from your thighs. 684 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: I got that. You can take it from my laby. 685 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 1: I got that too. May I please have a cup 686 00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 1: of fat? That's what I need to get up off 687 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 1: when I gain a little weight. It's going crazy places. 688 00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: Shut up. It's like, hey, come in, come into my house. No, sorry, 689 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,320 Speaker 1: I'll be forgetting. There's people back there who are not women. 690 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: So should we start to go fund me? Like, what 691 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,719 Speaker 1: do you like? No, you're not gonna start to go 692 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 1: fund me. I'm not gonna start. I'm just gonna I'm 693 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:39,359 Speaker 1: gonna make more money posting content and I'll just use 694 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,839 Speaker 1: a paycheck from that to pay for this smart but 695 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,200 Speaker 1: filler is something that I want to stay away from 696 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: because it's like a foreign substance that they're injecting as 697 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: opposed to putting, you know, fat from me into me. Yeah, 698 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,320 Speaker 1: but you're fat. You probably have a lot of good fat. 699 00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,879 Speaker 1: I have a lot of trash fat. Then I would 700 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,439 Speaker 1: want to go Yeah, I would not want to move 701 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,680 Speaker 1: this type of fat that I got going on, I 702 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,319 Speaker 1: wouldn't want to put it in my face. I think 703 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:10,200 Speaker 1: this is specifically fat that only should be the lower half. 704 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,480 Speaker 1: Oh for myself, A tablespoon over that egg. My girlfriend said, 705 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: don't lose that. No, no, no, you must keep that girl. Okay, 706 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: So we'll get we'll figure it out, we'll figure it out. Okay. 707 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:30,319 Speaker 1: So threads, threads, I'm looking more on threads now, and 708 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: so that's where the mess is. More. People need to 709 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,920 Speaker 1: get on threads because you know, people are people are 710 00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:41,320 Speaker 1: writing out whole scenarios and situations kind of like Twitter, 711 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 1: but it just feels less toxic, maybe, I think. But 712 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: I was. I was following this girl and she went 713 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 1: to the you know, super Bowl or whatever. And then 714 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 1: so she's leaving the super Bowl, she goes to the 715 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 1: airport lax, and I think she's just like, you know, 716 00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,840 Speaker 1: pulling stuff out of her bag, doing like what's in 717 00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:03,400 Speaker 1: my bag? She overhears a guy on the phone with 718 00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: someone and they're like, yeah, I don't know why she 719 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 1: went through my phone. And the guy is talking to 720 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 1: I guess wherever they're cheating on their wife with. And 721 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 1: so the girl was like I guess I'm gotta keep 722 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,480 Speaker 1: rolling the tapes because I want to hear more of 723 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:27,680 Speaker 1: what he's saying. And so, uh, the guy's trying to 724 00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:31,160 Speaker 1: explain to this person he's cheating with, like you know, 725 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 1: this is the situation. Like he's saying it out loud. 726 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 1: He's loud about it. Now is he is it like 727 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: this on the phone or is he he got the 728 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 1: air pods in? I don't know, because you can't see 729 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 1: the man. You can't see the man. So she's listening, 730 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: she's pulling out and you know, our bags, we got 731 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,319 Speaker 1: so much shit in it. She's got one of those 732 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 1: crocodile burkins, so it's a big it's a big body. 733 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 1: And so she's pulling anything and everything out so we 734 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 1: could still hear the conversation. And that's true Foods in 735 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,279 Speaker 1: the Ground on journalism. If you're gonna be nosy, make it, 736 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 1: make it work. Listen. Yeah, okay, I want to know 737 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,959 Speaker 1: the whole story, your whole truth, and nothing but the truth. 738 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 1: And so he's like, I'm so embarrassed. You hear him saying, 739 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 1: he's so, are you so embarrassed? You don't sound like 740 00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:21,960 Speaker 1: an embarrassed person. Embarrassed person are whispering. Ye're whispering. You 741 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 1: cannot They're in they're invisible. Ink. Yeah, embarrassed people are like, yo, 742 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 1: meet me at such and such because I can't even 743 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: say this out loud. I don't want anybody to know. 744 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 1: You know, you have you seen the it's like a 745 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 1: it's the picture. It's Peter Griffin in the dark and 746 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:41,439 Speaker 1: he's like stepping out of the shadows. Like, yes, that's 747 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:46,360 Speaker 1: how embarrassed people move. Yes, yes, So then the guy 748 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,239 Speaker 1: is saying something and he now they are having a 749 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,520 Speaker 1: laugh about it. They're laughing. Oh yeah, No, she's so upset, 750 00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 1: she's here's a cheating on her. Yeah. So now the 751 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,399 Speaker 1: girl who's recording is like, okay, this is why I'm 752 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 1: going to absolutely post this because now you think your 753 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 1: wife is a fucking joke. And this girl used to 754 00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 1: be married. She's divorced now, and those are gonna be 755 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 1: the vigilant, the vigilantes like I've been cheated on. Oh bitch, 756 00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 1: let me, let me get in the field. And so 757 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 1: she actually describes this man to the tea and what 758 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,839 Speaker 1: time she was in the airport and what airport. Yeah, 759 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,600 Speaker 1: if you know a man that looks like that's probably 760 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 1: your husband. And he was on the phone with the 761 00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:35,839 Speaker 1: mistress or the mister because it was giving mister, And 762 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,080 Speaker 1: I said, well, what's he going to Atlanta? No, yea, 763 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:43,640 Speaker 1: it probably Chicago because that's where she's from. So fucked 764 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 1: up would you do something like that? Are you here 765 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 1: for that? Absolutely? I'm nosy as hell. If I'm shooting 766 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 1: a video and something funny is happening over my shoulder 767 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,839 Speaker 1: or around me, yeah, I'm gonna stay for a little 768 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: bit of time. You know, my phone stay charged when 769 00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,680 Speaker 1: I leave the house. You do have it. I've always 770 00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 1: got I've always got the juice. Plus I carried a 771 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 1: little brick with me to to charge it when I'm 772 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,839 Speaker 1: on the when I'm on the road a game. But yeah, 773 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:10,239 Speaker 1: to be that loud at the airport where people can 774 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:14,040 Speaker 1: hear you being messy, this is why we got to 775 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 1: get in the lounge. You got to get in the lounge. 776 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: Excuse me. I said all of that, and you were like, well, 777 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:23,879 Speaker 1: if he was in the lounge, that's not lounge behavior. Yeah. Well, 778 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying, if you if you want to talk about 779 00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 1: cheating on your wife in the lounge. They got pods 780 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,719 Speaker 1: on these little eggs and a business center. If you're 781 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,720 Speaker 1: cheating and you want to talk about it, you gotta 782 00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 1: get your ass in the business in the busy. You 783 00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,720 Speaker 1: need to be by the fax machine. If you really 784 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:40,320 Speaker 1: want to talk about it, you're cheating, you need to 785 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 1: be where they're eating right right, right, right, right right right. 786 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just like at one point, I'm like, 787 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm kind of against people filming strangers without their consent. 788 00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,840 Speaker 1: I think that's like really tacky at this point, like 789 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 1: taking taking video and then posting it for it to 790 00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 1: be funny, and the joke is not with them, it's 791 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 1: on them. I don't I don't like that. But why 792 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 1: are you saying Because Courtney B has a series that 793 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 1: she's been posting on TikTok You Love You Courtney. Courtney 794 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,000 Speaker 1: is so funny on ig and I'm I think on 795 00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 1: TikTok and it's her going out to clubs and bars 796 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,000 Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and anytime she sees a man 797 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,320 Speaker 1: wearing something weird, or if their hair is pushed back weird, 798 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:28,239 Speaker 1: or they're wearing a backpack outside, she'll make fun of them, 799 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,640 Speaker 1: including in the video. Great. So I'm just saying, hmm 800 00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: to you saying that, because I'm like, I feel like 801 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: I've seen you your name under one of the likes 802 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,400 Speaker 1: of some of these videos. So that's different. But but 803 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,520 Speaker 1: you can't say you anti putting people on social media 804 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:47,440 Speaker 1: and then be like you are into you aren't today. 805 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 1: What's the house it? Hold on? Hold on, okay, let 806 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,759 Speaker 1: me show you the difference. There was this guy at 807 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,400 Speaker 1: a concert I forgot what concert was, and he was 808 00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 1: like a bigger guy. He was he was large, and 809 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:02,080 Speaker 1: so he's dancing and having the best time of his 810 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,080 Speaker 1: life at this concert and someone filmed it and then 811 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 1: like made it a meme and then like everybody's like 812 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:12,040 Speaker 1: roasting this guy for having just innocent fun dancing at 813 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,680 Speaker 1: the concert, and everybody's making all these jokes and it's 814 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,000 Speaker 1: going viral or whatever. And then they finally reaches the 815 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,280 Speaker 1: guy they're like making fun of and he gets online. 816 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,879 Speaker 1: He's like crying. He's like, hey, honestly, I hadn't been 817 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,359 Speaker 1: out in months and this is my first time like 818 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:31,040 Speaker 1: enjoying myself and this is what I what I get 819 00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,480 Speaker 1: for trying to have a good time. I don't like that. 820 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,600 Speaker 1: I don't like that these men that are wearing the 821 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:41,839 Speaker 1: shredded jeans and the rhymestone blazers and the crazy like 822 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey hats or whatnot. They're going out confidently like 823 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,799 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm getting Autoho tonight. They actually need to 824 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,840 Speaker 1: be in these videos to remind them why not do this? 825 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 1: No more? What if? What if? I'm yeah, the guy 826 00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:00,759 Speaker 1: with the shredded rhymestone jeans is the first time he's 827 00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:04,240 Speaker 1: been out all year. He finally built up the confidence 828 00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 1: he got on his Alley Express denims and he is 829 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 1: I'm gonna shake my head until it shakes the buck off? 830 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: Is that guy with the with the ShredIt yea with 831 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:18,400 Speaker 1: the shredded chicken jeans he goes out every night? No, 832 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 1: he's not. I gotta be one night with a bad 833 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 1: outfit who's like this is this is my first night 834 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,880 Speaker 1: off in months and my friends had to drag me 835 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,240 Speaker 1: out of the house. So I put on my good 836 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 1: ed Hearty's and now they dragging me on this viral 837 00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: video online. No you don't feel bad for him, no, 838 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 1: because then she some of these guys have DM her like, 839 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:43,839 Speaker 1: oh this is so funny, but not all Thanks thanks 840 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:45,479 Speaker 1: for putting me out there. You know what I'm saying 841 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: boosting me, blah blah blah. Like they're so delusional that 842 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,279 Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, no, this is you. You're actually like, 843 00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:55,719 Speaker 1: I'm fly, like you're you're actually propping me up, You're 844 00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:59,239 Speaker 1: giving me a platform. That's how crazy these dudes are. 845 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,359 Speaker 1: So it's different. It's totally different. It's different from like 846 00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:06,880 Speaker 1: someone having wholesome, good fun and you recording that and 847 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,840 Speaker 1: then making fun of that. She's just showing these guys, 848 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:14,279 Speaker 1: She's displaying them like on some you know, what is it, 849 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:19,239 Speaker 1: project Runways done? It's fat. She's just letting you know. 850 00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:26,400 Speaker 1: She's actually the Black Joan Rivers of dragging men, the 851 00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:30,399 Speaker 1: Black Jone Rivers of dragging men. I'm not even gonna 852 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 1: put it that far. She just makes one of their 853 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,239 Speaker 1: outfits and or one thing that they got on, and 854 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,640 Speaker 1: she keeps it moving. She's not even actually really dragging them. 855 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,880 Speaker 1: This is true yet, this is true, but it is 856 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,960 Speaker 1: very nice if we're on threats. So did we find 857 00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,359 Speaker 1: the guy? As she figured out, I haven't looked yet, 858 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,240 Speaker 1: but we can. I mean, we could do this live 859 00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,000 Speaker 1: right now. Well it wouldn't be live, but we could 860 00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:54,880 Speaker 1: do it right now. No, they she said, oh a 861 00:48:54,960 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 1: girl comments gray sweatsuit. This voice sounds so familiar, she 862 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,960 Speaker 1: writes back, I think gray pants for sure. But he 863 00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,520 Speaker 1: had a white shirt on and a jacket hanging over 864 00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,759 Speaker 1: his chair, so that could have been the sweatshirt. He 865 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: was also on his laptop and talking at the same time. Yo, 866 00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 1: she's I think she's gonna find him. She's gonna find 867 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 1: this guy. She's definitely you can't even cheat in peace 868 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:23,000 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty six. Can you imagine? I hate that 869 00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 1: for you, guys. Cheating is supposed to be in private. 870 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:30,480 Speaker 1: You silentio. You're not supposed to be chatting. I'm not 871 00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:34,240 Speaker 1: here for I'm not here for cheating, But if you must, 872 00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 1: what else did you see? Undro it? So I thought 873 00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:42,240 Speaker 1: this was nice and messy. Someone asked, what's something morally 874 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:46,480 Speaker 1: wrong but not illegal, that you've done? One time I 875 00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,640 Speaker 1: was down bad and used an old coworker's number for 876 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:54,920 Speaker 1: her Kroger fuel rewards. Right now, it's just comments of 877 00:49:55,000 --> 00:50:00,960 Speaker 1: people who who have done stuff. Here's what this might 878 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:02,880 Speaker 1: be illegal. But a long time ago, I worked at 879 00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:06,239 Speaker 1: a deli that was crazy busy during lunch brush and 880 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,640 Speaker 1: for every customer who signed the receipt and left the 881 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:12,160 Speaker 1: tip part blank, I added a dollar. That's it, no more, 882 00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:16,080 Speaker 1: no less. I add we split the tips at the job, 883 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 1: so it was not for myself but the whole team. 884 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,120 Speaker 1: Somebody else said, I also have no remorse about taking 885 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,640 Speaker 1: photos of pages in cookbooks at Barnes and Noble, because 886 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:29,919 Speaker 1: ain't no cookbook worth ninety nine dollars. And I don't 887 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:32,040 Speaker 1: know if that recipe is going to work. I'll try 888 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:37,000 Speaker 1: one first thing. That's funny. That's funny, But they're adding 889 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:40,319 Speaker 1: the tip. Shame on you, Shame on you. I don't 890 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,879 Speaker 1: care if it is just a dollar, it's stealing and 891 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:46,600 Speaker 1: you're going to jail. Okay. Somebody else said, I washed 892 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,759 Speaker 1: a drug dealer drop one hundred dollar bill at the 893 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 1: gas station I was working at, and I picked it 894 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,400 Speaker 1: up when he left. He came back and looking for it. 895 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,440 Speaker 1: I said, you know, it's nothing but crackheads in and 896 00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 1: out of here. Got hundred dollars is gone. I got 897 00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:02,680 Speaker 1: dinner with that money. I like that. That's funny. I 898 00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 1: just love this thread because it's just it's it's just funny. 899 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 1: Before leaving my position, I paid for all of my 900 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:13,320 Speaker 1: annual subscriptions using the company card. Grammarly, Prime, Microsoft, Word etcetera. 901 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,440 Speaker 1: Listen you, it's not about what you can do for 902 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 1: the business, it's what the business can do for you. 903 00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:24,240 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, let me tell you something. People. People 904 00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,760 Speaker 1: are literally confessing to crimes here, which is fucking dumb. 905 00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:31,080 Speaker 1: But we love that. We are. I I honestly I 906 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,800 Speaker 1: need it. But I'm also like, you gotta be smarter 907 00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:37,799 Speaker 1: than this. You're But then I feel like when you 908 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,960 Speaker 1: post stuff like that and we're all on the thread like, 909 00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:45,880 Speaker 1: aren't we what's the word fuck accessories? Yes, aren't we 910 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:50,400 Speaker 1: accessories reading it? Yeah? How being in a thread? Because 911 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,239 Speaker 1: I'm like, shouldn't we report this person? That's the most 912 00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:59,240 Speaker 1: karen thing you ever said? Report them for? Why? Girl? 913 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:06,439 Speaker 1: There's still wow? You think you know somebody? Every day 914 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,000 Speaker 1: we see here and I learned that should we report them? 915 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,840 Speaker 1: Why would we do that? I'm getting older now, Marie, 916 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:15,719 Speaker 1: and some of the shenanigans we used to shenan years ago, 917 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,719 Speaker 1: you're not anymore. It's not setting it anymore. Should we 918 00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 1: report something that we saw on threads? I'm double tapping 919 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,680 Speaker 1: every crime, and you're like, we should tell somebody. They're 920 00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:32,400 Speaker 1: telling everybody. It's viral I'm not telling nobody nothing. Somebody said, 921 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,439 Speaker 1: I still use my high school ID card to get 922 00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,840 Speaker 1: discounts and I just turned thirty three. Okay, that's a 923 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,600 Speaker 1: win because you still look like you're in high school. 924 00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,239 Speaker 1: Or if the court still works, get the perks might 925 00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:47,840 Speaker 1: as well. I'm happy for her. I mean it was 926 00:52:47,840 --> 00:53:13,319 Speaker 1: a man. Oh yeah, I'm calling the cop. Wait, do 927 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,839 Speaker 1: we have any messages? We do not have any messages today? 928 00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,640 Speaker 1: I know. Well, I mean unless we haven't read all 929 00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,000 Speaker 1: the other ones, but we didn't make any How do 930 00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 1: we not have any more messages? 931 00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,200 Speaker 2: I mean, let's see, because did y'all do any of 932 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 2: the last we did? 933 00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,840 Speaker 1: Let's see. But also, I'm like, girl, you want to 934 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,880 Speaker 1: read something? You want to becka day? You know? They 935 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:33,879 Speaker 1: be yelling in the thing. They're like, bet I need 936 00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 1: a mic, I need a mic. Well, I have a 937 00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,200 Speaker 1: mic today. Do you want me to read it? Yeah? Yeah, 938 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:42,200 Speaker 1: maybe you better read it to me. All right, y'all 939 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:45,479 Speaker 1: got one message today? Okay? Yeah? 940 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 2: Hell yeah, Doug, I think we did use all the 941 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:49,040 Speaker 2: voice messages last time. 942 00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,920 Speaker 1: We don't have anything. I want some more. I want 943 00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,440 Speaker 1: some more voice messages. I want to hear your sexy 944 00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:58,839 Speaker 1: messy boys. I don't think we read this one. Yeah. 945 00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 2: I pulled this one last week, but the episodes were 946 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:03,040 Speaker 2: both so long last week. 947 00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 1: I don't think we got to any messages. It was 948 00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:10,439 Speaker 1: so it was a good way. You guys didn't have time. 949 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,040 Speaker 1: You were gavin so much, you didn't have time for 950 00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,600 Speaker 1: a message. Yeah. Yeah, So this. 951 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 2: Week's message Beige on Beige adjacent couple mess Hi Sidney Marie. 952 00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,279 Speaker 2: I'm writing in with my mess because I am just 953 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 2: needing an unbiased opinion about my mess in my heterosexual 954 00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:28,880 Speaker 2: beage relationship. I'm a twenty nine year old Latino woman 955 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 2: and my partner is twenty nine year old man white Man. 956 00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,759 Speaker 2: His passion is art and he was a tattoo of 957 00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,359 Speaker 2: presence for three years and a tattoo artist for six 958 00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:40,400 Speaker 2: months while also juggling his day job at a car shop. 959 00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,839 Speaker 2: The goal was to build up the tattoo business enough 960 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 2: to leave his day job. There was there were changes 961 00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,080 Speaker 2: at the shop and impacts his mental health and caused 962 00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,319 Speaker 2: him to decide to get a break from tattooing just 963 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:54,040 Speaker 2: last June twenty twenty five. During that break, his intentions 964 00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 2: were to get back in shape, take care of himself 965 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 2: since he was working nine hours plus a day at 966 00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:01,399 Speaker 2: his day job and staying at the attatoe shop in extra 967 00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,279 Speaker 2: three to four hours each night after so that's like 968 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:08,200 Speaker 2: a fourteen hour day. So he was run ragged, but 969 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,920 Speaker 2: wanting to still make time for his art and start 970 00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:12,040 Speaker 2: schooling for his career. 971 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,120 Speaker 1: While this team was on, I. 972 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,839 Speaker 2: Started why we didn't read it, but wanting to still 973 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,160 Speaker 2: make time for his art and start schooling for a 974 00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:22,799 Speaker 2: career change. Because he was unhappy with the situations all 975 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,880 Speaker 2: around regarding the weight, he started a little friendly competition 976 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,440 Speaker 2: to lose weight. We both gained about thirty towns in 977 00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,919 Speaker 2: the relationship over the three years together and it would 978 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:34,239 Speaker 2: be beneficial to both of us and the winner would win, 979 00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,560 Speaker 2: and agreed upon cash prize, oh for whoever lost the 980 00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 2: most weight by December thirty first, twenty twenty five. So 981 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,960 Speaker 2: the months passed and I'm grinding, I'm running, and I 982 00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 2: got a pilates membership and I'm going hard. The weight 983 00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,520 Speaker 2: is flying off and he's just kind of not participating. 984 00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:51,600 Speaker 2: But I also don't want to be on him too 985 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,239 Speaker 2: much because he had burnt out from tattooing and his 986 00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:56,560 Speaker 2: day job as he works at the car shop at 987 00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 2: the same time. Also, statistically speaking, women have a more 988 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,920 Speaker 2: difficult time. I'm losing weight, so maybe I have to 989 00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,799 Speaker 2: go harder for longer because he's going to dust me. 990 00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 1: So no worries. 991 00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 2: The holidays come and go, and finally I win the competition. 992 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 2: I've lost twenty two pounds, slag queen, and he actually 993 00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:16,480 Speaker 2: put on five pounds yikes. So he was really salty 994 00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:18,800 Speaker 2: about me winning and it kind of made me side 995 00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,799 Speaker 2: I because babes, we both had the same amount of time. 996 00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,520 Speaker 2: I worked hard for it, so he pays me. And 997 00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,960 Speaker 2: now he's been on this break from tattooing and only 998 00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,600 Speaker 2: working his day job, not only because obviously it was 999 00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:30,840 Speaker 2: tasking and the world is a lot right now, so 1000 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,319 Speaker 2: I get it can be heavy. But he'd been done 1001 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,640 Speaker 2: schooling so you get a better job, and it's been 1002 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,480 Speaker 2: in limbo too. But overall, the mess is that I 1003 00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,919 Speaker 2: feel like I'm someone who is very hungry for more, 1004 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,160 Speaker 2: and I think it's because I'm a LATINX first generation 1005 00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:47,799 Speaker 2: college graduate, grinded to put myself through school, and I've 1006 00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 2: been independent since I was about sixteen seventeen, worked my 1007 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,040 Speaker 2: way up to get a great finance job and I 1008 00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:55,600 Speaker 2: am actively getting a second degree. So I've always had 1009 00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,920 Speaker 2: this hunger instilled in me and he's not that way 1010 00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:00,360 Speaker 2: at all. He's okay with just being baseline, which is 1011 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,480 Speaker 2: fine for him, but is that good enough for me? 1012 00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:04,319 Speaker 1: Am? 1013 00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,640 Speaker 2: I maybe picking him apart too much. Mind you, he 1014 00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:11,320 Speaker 2: is wonderful guy otherwise thoughtful, kind, very patient, loving, respectful, generous, 1015 00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 2: family oriented, so helpful, cleans the house, always takes other 1016 00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,520 Speaker 2: tragh etcetera, et cetera. Should these things be red flags 1017 00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:21,400 Speaker 2: towards his character? Also, I don't want to seem ungrateful 1018 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 2: at all. I'm so lucky to have a straight systema 1019 00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,840 Speaker 2: partner who actually is helpful and in touch with my needs. 1020 00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,480 Speaker 2: So this could all be like girl who cares that 1021 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,200 Speaker 2: he doesn't want to work out, But it isn't about 1022 00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,880 Speaker 2: him being in shape. It's my worry that he doesn't 1023 00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,880 Speaker 2: want to better himself for himself. He doesn't go to therapy, 1024 00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:39,800 Speaker 2: so maybe he's low key to press and putting up 1025 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 2: a front. 1026 00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,040 Speaker 1: He won't say he's just he won't say. 1027 00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 2: He just says he's gonna do better when I bring 1028 00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,680 Speaker 2: it up, and he seems just bogged down by me 1029 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,320 Speaker 2: bringing up, so I just stopped. But am I being 1030 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:53,320 Speaker 2: complicent by now just ignoring it? I want to be 1031 00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:57,000 Speaker 2: a good partner and support him the way he supports me. Anyways, 1032 00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 2: thank you so much for all the last especially in 1033 00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 2: the state of the world. You guys, they brighten up 1034 00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:00,919 Speaker 2: my day. 1035 00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: Hard hands not anyways, chew Anyways, he said my sayings 1036 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,040 Speaker 1: and Marines, what you think? 1037 00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:18,439 Speaker 2: So the mess is that you don't want to work out, yes, 1038 00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,480 Speaker 2: and that in the time that they both had agreed 1039 00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,320 Speaker 2: upon a goal of losing thirty pounds, he gained five, 1040 00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,880 Speaker 2: he gained five, and she lost twenty two. So she's 1041 00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:30,240 Speaker 2: feeling hotter than ever. I'm assuming and he is not 1042 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:32,280 Speaker 2: meeting that standard. 1043 00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,760 Speaker 1: So there was nothing that you could do to be like, hey, 1044 00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm going for a run, do you want to come 1045 00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 1: with me? Dude, that wasn't an option. But if we're 1046 00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 1: we're challenging each other, why am I telling you to 1047 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,480 Speaker 1: get up and run like I'm trying to beat you? 1048 00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:52,520 Speaker 1: But if you're trying to get into shape, it's easier 1049 00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:54,680 Speaker 1: to do it if you have somebody that's kind of 1050 00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,520 Speaker 1: encouraging you along the way, like you and Dwayne did. 1051 00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,959 Speaker 1: Heart seventy five together. Well, we weren'tchallenging each other. We're 1052 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:04,320 Speaker 1: doing it together, sure, but like you can still do 1053 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:08,280 Speaker 1: stuff together and still do things separately. He wasn't doing nothing, 1054 00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,320 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like she said, you gotta 1055 00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:14,600 Speaker 1: pull out his memberships. She took the challenge seriously while 1056 00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:16,920 Speaker 1: he was watching her get up and go, and he 1057 00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:21,680 Speaker 1: was like, really, you're going for another run. You pick 1058 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 1: up some milk on the way back. He might be depressed. 1059 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,280 Speaker 1: I think he's probably depressed. It seems like he was 1060 00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,960 Speaker 1: doing a lot with the tattooing and just I mean, 1061 00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,320 Speaker 1: he's trying to, you know, make the money, but then 1062 00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,360 Speaker 1: you gotta take time off, like mental health is real. 1063 00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,600 Speaker 1: Like it just seemed he like he's dealing with a lot. 1064 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 1: That's why I wouldn't have even agreed to do that challenge. 1065 00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,240 Speaker 1: I'd be like, maybe I'm not in the headspace. Well girl, 1066 00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,000 Speaker 1: you says you Latina, and he's white, so I know 1067 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:48,400 Speaker 1: you be cooking. Maybe you need to switch with you 1068 00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,840 Speaker 1: cook it up for him. Not you said it's the dobos. 1069 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:57,960 Speaker 1: It's the a dobos. He gotta eat, you know, brown turkey, 1070 00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:01,840 Speaker 1: cook for like what his people like, you know, or 1071 01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,160 Speaker 1: you can't chimmy cherry to egg. But you gotta you 1072 01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:08,520 Speaker 1: gotta calm it down. Yeah, girl, you just gotta you 1073 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:13,400 Speaker 1: gotta give him something a little a little more lean. Yeah, 1074 01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:18,400 Speaker 1: maybe some turkey? Yeah, like maybe what is it? Per neal? 1075 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:25,120 Speaker 1: Can you per neal the turkey for him? Whatever you 1076 01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,440 Speaker 1: do to the neil? Can you do that to a turkey? 1077 01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:29,720 Speaker 2: Show? 1078 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 1: That is a traditional quarter and Thanksgiving turkey? Okay, what 1079 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:37,280 Speaker 1: you do the neil? You do to the turkey, and 1080 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,720 Speaker 1: that's Thanksgiving. I love that. So we can't we come 1081 01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 1: into your house? Okay, back, put that in your calendar. 1082 01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:49,160 Speaker 1: Or you could bring some plates, plates to board and 1083 01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:50,800 Speaker 1: then we eat it on camera and be like we 1084 01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 1: do do a little we do a little pang. Yeah 1085 01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:59,400 Speaker 1: we do. You're like, what then is I would have 1086 01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,280 Speaker 1: some notes. I would do a muck bang for Thanksgiving? Yeah, 1087 01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,160 Speaker 1: that'd be fun. Give the people something to be thankful for. 1088 01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:10,680 Speaker 1: Well sidebar on TikTok. This girl she does like a 1089 01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:12,920 Speaker 1: three part series. She's like, yeah, I just broke up 1090 01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,200 Speaker 1: with my boyfriend of five years and I didn't have 1091 01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 1: like a nothing happened. But she was just like, I 1092 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:23,520 Speaker 1: feel like I want more for myself, and she's like, 1093 01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,680 Speaker 1: I just feel like he's kind of stagnant, Like I've 1094 01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 1: grown so much and he's kind of the same where 1095 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:34,520 Speaker 1: I met him, and maybe maybe this is like the 1096 01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 1: same because she's like, he is a nice guy, he 1097 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:40,480 Speaker 1: does nice things for me. I do love him, but 1098 01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,680 Speaker 1: I want more. She's like, I'm a I come from 1099 01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,840 Speaker 1: a you know, an immigrant home. I would be doing 1100 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,760 Speaker 1: my family a disservice if I was just with somebody 1101 01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:53,000 Speaker 1: who's not working as hard as me or hard enough. 1102 01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 1: So I I get it. I get it. It's like 1103 01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:03,880 Speaker 1: so sad to say out loud. You also can't be 1104 01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:08,800 Speaker 1: mad at wanting more, No, you can't. But also eventually, no, 1105 01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:14,800 Speaker 1: scratch that word. As we grow, we evolve, and sometimes 1106 01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 1: you're with somebody for a while and it's like, you 1107 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:18,920 Speaker 1: know who you are in your early twenties, it's not 1108 01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:20,920 Speaker 1: who you are at the end of your twenties, who 1109 01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:22,480 Speaker 1: you are in your thirties, not who you are in 1110 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 1: your forties. So like, I have a friend she was 1111 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,440 Speaker 1: dating a guy for a couple of years. She got 1112 01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,640 Speaker 1: a new job, like when she first met him, and 1113 01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:31,919 Speaker 1: he had all these things that he wanted to do, 1114 01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:36,760 Speaker 1: and he never really worked at accomplishation. Meanwhile, she you know, 1115 01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:38,400 Speaker 1: she getting a new job, she got a new lace, 1116 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:39,840 Speaker 1: she got a new dish, she got a new lash. 1117 01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,120 Speaker 1: You gotta new da da da. And he was just like, 1118 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 1: I'm content here, and that's oo for you. But like, 1119 01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:48,720 Speaker 1: if you're somebody who's ambitious and you want to be 1120 01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:52,480 Speaker 1: with somebody who's also ambitious, there's a mismatch there. You 1121 01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:54,640 Speaker 1: gonna start to hate this person that you say is 1122 01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,360 Speaker 1: so nice and you care about so much. Sometimes you 1123 01:02:57,440 --> 01:03:00,240 Speaker 1: just gotta let him go. Hey, the stars on the line, 1124 01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:04,560 Speaker 1: And it's like it's a hard thing. I mean, I 1125 01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:08,200 Speaker 1: think you should give people three chances. In terms of 1126 01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:12,960 Speaker 1: three chances yet, because evolution doesn't happen overnight, it does 1127 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,120 Speaker 1: take time. I think she gave him all the months 1128 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 1: to lose thirty pounds and lost he gained five overnight. 1129 01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,800 Speaker 1: She lost twenty two. And he saw her drop that way, 1130 01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,200 Speaker 1: and he picked up five of those bounds. Okay, he said, 1131 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take this. I wanna take it to us. Marie. 1132 01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:33,560 Speaker 1: How long have you known me, like eleven or ten years? 1133 01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:37,560 Speaker 1: How long did it take me to like really start 1134 01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 1: caring about myself and working on myself and doing the work. 1135 01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:43,760 Speaker 1: I would say that, oh yeah, I'm gonna do it. Yeah, 1136 01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Like how long I 1137 01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:49,120 Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like you work on yourself every day. 1138 01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,720 Speaker 1: This is not the same you do work on yourself 1139 01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:55,880 Speaker 1: every day. It took me, literally, I don't know, like 1140 01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,200 Speaker 1: six years to actually start going to the gym. After 1141 01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:00,480 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it, 1142 01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. Yeah. But it's different for you. You're 1143 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,480 Speaker 1: a different case. Why you saying you haven't been to 1144 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,480 Speaker 1: the gym your entire Like, naturally you look like this. 1145 01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:13,360 Speaker 1: You are somebody who looks like they eat right, they 1146 01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:16,800 Speaker 1: sleep well, they go to the like. It doesn't show 1147 01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,480 Speaker 1: on you that you're not. It doesn't show on you 1148 01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:19,880 Speaker 1: that it took you six years to do that. Bitch, 1149 01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm be falling asleep everywhere. I'm always cold. There's always 1150 01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,919 Speaker 1: like some iron defish yeah, ailment, that's fucked up. Yeah, 1151 01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:31,520 Speaker 1: I don't look like I'm a mess inside. But you 1152 01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:34,440 Speaker 1: they're signs. They're signs, and you did. There were so 1153 01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 1: many times you're like, Sidney, you have got to go 1154 01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,160 Speaker 1: to that doctor. You've got to take care of yourself. 1155 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:41,080 Speaker 1: You you've got to drink water. You need a vegetable. 1156 01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:44,160 Speaker 1: You had been saying every now, would you have dated 1157 01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:47,440 Speaker 1: somebody like me? Fuck? No, not for no ten years. Yeah, 1158 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:51,200 Speaker 1: but as a friend, you're not like, well, Sydney's not 1159 01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,560 Speaker 1: growing as a person. I'm gonna be peace out. But 1160 01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:58,680 Speaker 1: that's not true, Sydney. You have been growing the whole time. Okay, 1161 01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,880 Speaker 1: now you working on stuff. I'm working on stuff. She sat, 1162 01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:05,920 Speaker 1: Her and that man both gained thirty pounds in relationship weight, 1163 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:10,120 Speaker 1: so she see it. She can see that he looks 1164 01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 1: different and he's acting different. But I don't know you 1165 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:15,600 Speaker 1: want me to drop you? Is that what you say? No? No, no, no, no, no, 1166 01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:17,920 Speaker 1: it's your two weeks. Notice I never said that for 1167 01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,440 Speaker 1: two years. Notice I'm just saying, like, if you really, 1168 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if this is the person that well, 1169 01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:26,120 Speaker 1: She's probably like, hey, I can't think about the potential, 1170 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,280 Speaker 1: like what he might be. It's like what you are 1171 01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:32,240 Speaker 1: right now on paper, You're thirty pounds of a weegh 1172 01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:33,800 Speaker 1: and it looked like you ain't doing shit. So I 1173 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,800 Speaker 1: was thirty five thirty five Yeah, so a little bonus 1174 01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:41,959 Speaker 1: I mean, is it it's a tingeon. Is the fat 1175 01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:45,480 Speaker 1: phobia of it all? Or you think you think he 1176 01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 1: gained thirty five pounds and she's fat phobic? Now I 1177 01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:52,160 Speaker 1: think you just like you, just like saying words on 1178 01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:56,480 Speaker 1: this saying work. We gotta call the p. 1179 01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:00,560 Speaker 2: I don't know who asked to do the competition. He 1180 01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,439 Speaker 2: might have introduced a competition and that didn't follow through. 1181 01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:06,880 Speaker 1: Why you didn't send us a photo? Yeah, we hey, 1182 01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:10,480 Speaker 1: we need visuals. We got We gave y' all the visuals. 1183 01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:16,560 Speaker 1: Where are our visuals? We meet? We literally need the pictures. 1184 01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:20,160 Speaker 1: Also shout out to We've been going to shows and 1185 01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:23,360 Speaker 1: do a show and Messi's are everywhere everywhere. Messies are everywhere. 1186 01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:29,520 Speaker 1: I went to Manchester, Connecticut, and they were there, so cute, 1187 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:33,400 Speaker 1: so hot, so nice. They got it. They get it. 1188 01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,800 Speaker 1: They do get it. You love us. I don't remember 1189 01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:38,400 Speaker 1: where I was, but somebody was like, I love your stuff. 1190 01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,160 Speaker 1: I think I was heard your show. No, it was 1191 01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:43,240 Speaker 1: like somebody that was working at a place that I 1192 01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:46,360 Speaker 1: was at. I don't remember where I was, but I 1193 01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: love it. It's great. If you see us, say hi. 1194 01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:53,000 Speaker 1: If you see something, you see something, say something to 1195 01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:56,360 Speaker 1: the messies as you're as head mess you gotta talk 1196 01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,440 Speaker 1: to us. We how do we know you're out there 1197 01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,040 Speaker 1: until we get merch? All right, we are on We 1198 01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,040 Speaker 1: are on YouTube, and I need more subscribers by then 1199 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:06,920 Speaker 1: we by this why this comes out? It better be 1200 01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:08,720 Speaker 1: a ten k. It better be at thirty thousand. I 1201 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:10,680 Speaker 1: need a follower for each dollar that lady thought she 1202 01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:16,240 Speaker 1: was gonna get out of here. Yeah. Hello, this has 1203 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:20,240 Speaker 1: been an amazing episode. We were supposed to have a 1204 01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:24,760 Speaker 1: guest after that, she canceled. Today. We love your girl, 1205 01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: and so yeah, keep sending us beautiful messages. Subscribe to 1206 01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:33,920 Speaker 1: notes so we don't have to read them. Yeah yeah, 1207 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,120 Speaker 1: keep them under two hundred and fifty characters. Bitch, I 1208 01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:43,200 Speaker 1: don't know's tweet? Yeah, yeah, we're doing. We're doing all 1209 01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:46,480 Speaker 1: of the mess that we can do for y'all. See 1210 01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:49,760 Speaker 1: what we see you see you next week. Stop calling 1211 01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:52,160 Speaker 1: the cops on people. I just said that, but I 1212 01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,760 Speaker 1: need to say that to the listener. Oh okay, I wouldn't. 1213 01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,400 Speaker 1: Don't do that. Call us. Better put my numbers, Yeah, 1214 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 1: whenever you want to. Oh, the cock just called me. 1215 01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:08,080 Speaker 1: Her number is seven one eight. 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