1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: DNA tests could destroy your family as you know it. 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 2: Here are five stories that get increasingly more crazy to 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 2: prove her point, Starting with number five. 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: DNA test revealed my dad is not my biological father. 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: My mom is still lying about her. Should I confront her? Yeah? Dah. 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: What do we think, Carrie Sam No, totally, no, totally 7 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: or yes. 8 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 3: Totally yes, yes, yes, I think even if it could 9 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 3: destroy the family, I think go for it, because are 10 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 3: you going to carry the weight of the knowledge that 11 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 3: your mom is lying? 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: That is the question. But there's only one way to 13 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: find out. O Highway go to be three nine and 14 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 1: eight says this is going to be a long one, 15 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: so buckle up. A little background. I am going to 16 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,639 Speaker 1: be thirty in a couple of months. I have two 17 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: older sisters that are half siblings. We share the same mother. 18 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: She was married before getting together with my dad. I 19 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: also have a younger brother that I have thought of 20 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: as my full sibling. There are a number of reasons 21 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: I have wanted to get a DNA test, but never 22 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: had the guts to do so. Because you're opening Pandora's box. Yeah, 23 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: until recently Pandora's box opened. I never talked about this 24 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: with anyone other than my spouse. But two years ago 25 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: I went to my brother and asked if he would 26 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: do a DNA test with me, which would reveal if 27 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: we are indeed full or half siblings. 28 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 4: I wonder what made her come to the. 29 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 2: Conclusion, Yes, why are you suspicious? There's got there's got 30 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: to be something right. Yeah, there's some skeletons, which. 31 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: Is kind of interesting because they were told they were 32 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,119 Speaker 1: half siblings and are like, maybe are we full? It's 33 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: usually the opposite, I know, were they told they were 34 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: half siblings. I believe you're right. I don't think I 35 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: want you my brother. Well, they did say I also, 36 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: I also have a younger brother that I thought was 37 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: my Oh maybe some foreshadowing in our mix, but I 38 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: see you in the comments, if you see what's about 39 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: to happen. I wanted the DNA test because I do 40 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: not have a father listed on my birth certificate, so 41 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: that us is why when my mom was pregnant with me, 42 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: she didn't tell anyone until she was about six months along. 43 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: She was not with anyone at the time, so family 44 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: members asked a lot of questions about who the father was, 45 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: and she never gave it up. Huh, No one was 46 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: there at the hospital when I was born. It's like 47 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: a mystery box. God. She has told stories of answered 48 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: questions I've had as a kid or an adult where 49 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: things didn't really add up, and my mom lies all 50 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: the time. I honestly wouldn't even believe her if she 51 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: told me the sky was blue? Damn stopping really quick, 52 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: pitstop right here, frama. Do we think that OPI is 53 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: going to find out that they're not full siblings? 54 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 2: I mean, by the fact that Opie said, I thought, yeah, 55 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 2: I was my brother, I'm thinking possibly not. 56 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 5: Moreover, why would she make a big post about it 57 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 5: if it wasn't true? 58 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: Exactly? We're on Reddit, of course. 59 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 2: Come on, I'm really going to be some tea and 60 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 2: we're gonna sip it delightfully. 61 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: Oh yes we are. Some late nineteen two months ago, 62 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: my brother and I finally went forth and did the 63 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: DNA test. As no surprise, sure enough, we are half siblings. 64 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that spicy one of these daddies ain't adding up. 65 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: This wasn't shocking to me, but obviously I had a 66 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: lot of questions. My mom at this point still had 67 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: no idea that we took the test. So I asked 68 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,399 Speaker 1: my sisters, who were seven and ten at the time 69 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: that I was born, if they knew anything about her 70 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: pregnancy when I was born, when I was growing up, 71 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. They gave me the information they could, 72 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: as well as another family member. At this point, I 73 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: called my dad and let him know that we took 74 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: a DNA test, and he told me he always knew 75 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: and that it would change nothing. What. Wow. 76 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 2: So the Dad's like, I know you're not my kid, 77 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 2: but I still think if you that's honestly great because 78 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: we've read stories where it's like, oh, you're not my 79 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 2: kid biologically. 80 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: Bye, after like twenty plenty years. 81 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 2: I mean, at that point, come on, you gotta have 82 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: some kind of bond, right unless you want to do 83 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 2: the whole. 84 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: Time, unless you knew the whole time. 85 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: I also love how op he's kind of sherlocking their 86 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,559 Speaker 2: way through this stories like I went to the as, 87 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 2: I went to the uncles, I got the DNA test, 88 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 2: like going deep. 89 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 1: Oh super Sherlock vibes. 90 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, forensic DNA, Oh god, investigation. 91 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: Let it be known, it also changes nothing for me. 92 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: I just wanted to know if my mom was really 93 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: lying to me all those years sounds like she was. Yeah, yep. 94 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: I started asking questions, piecing together information back to our 95 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: Sherlock vibes. Turns out, when my mom and dad got together, 96 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: she was twenty three and he was about twelve years old. 97 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: What y'all the math literally ain't math. And I'm thinking, well, well, 98 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: so here's here's the breakdown. Here's a breakdown. This dad 99 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: isn't his dad? 100 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 4: Yeah? 101 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, So the whole time, did Opie not know the 102 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: dad's age? I mean, I don't know. 103 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: You've seen in the news with like the teachers hooking 104 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: up with their like eighth grade students. 105 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it does happen. It happens. But I think what 106 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: op is saying here is like that, like, oh, it's 107 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: obvious now because of the age difference. 108 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: You never I thought you were Sarloco, But you never 109 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: questioned that your dad was twelve years old. 110 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: It's a pretty big clue. 111 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 5: Maybe maybe she had a maybe they had a hunch, 112 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 5: which is why they did yeah, why they. 113 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: Did the test. Yeah, it's it does seem that op 114 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: kind of like low key new and the dad knew 115 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,679 Speaker 1: the whole time because he was probably like I didn't 116 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: give you a baby when I was twelve years old. 117 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: You know, some kids start shooting early. Shooter's gonna shoot 118 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: me shooting now, Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on, 119 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: more context into the story. They were not officially together, 120 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: but she definitely started the grooming process at that point. Wow. 121 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: He went on to get emancipated and started CouchSurfing, often 122 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 1: living at her house. When he he was seventeen, they 123 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: broke up, he moved on and next thing you know, 124 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: she comes in and says, I'm six months pregnant and 125 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: it's yours. So basically right around the time he was 126 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: becoming an a legal world. That's illegal. That's illegal. 127 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's bad. 128 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 2: Probably, yes, that is illegal. Yes, this woman is a peto. 129 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: Yeah. She had spent years grooming him and making him 130 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: whatever she wanted him to be. What, to the point 131 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 1: where he would believe anything she said. Well, because he 132 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: it was a child. He was super. 133 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 4: Impressionable, literally a teenager. 134 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 1: I mean, if you're groomed for years and like basically 135 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: fully brainwashed, like and also a dude dating an older chick. Yeah, listen, 136 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna believe whatever she said whatever? Yeah, yeah, yaikes, dude, 137 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: he fully believed I was his child, so he moved in. 138 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 1: He didn't go to the hospital when I was born 139 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: because he was under age. 140 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 4: God has screwed up, guys. 141 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: This is sure fucked. He was never listed on my 142 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: birth certificate because my mom always had some story about 143 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 1: how that was. 144 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: Illegal because he was seventeen, because you would have been imprisoned. 145 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 4: Oh, this is nasty, gus. 146 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: Anyways, when I was three years old, they officially split 147 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: and he started asking for a visitation with me. My 148 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: mom said no, So my dad was going to take 149 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: it to court, and that's when my mom revealed that 150 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: he was not the biological father. Worst time to find out. 151 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: I feel so bad all the whole time, literally, since 152 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: he was three and twenty years old. Why father when 153 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: I was twenty years old? 154 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 4: Why did he stick around? 155 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I like respect it, yeah, but it's like 156 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: at that point, it's like, Yo, you got roomed, bamboozled 157 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: all of these things and you. 158 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 2: Don't even have a relationship with the kid yet, So 159 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 2: I choose to stick to someone who is obviously so manipulative. 160 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: Good question. Knowing this, he went back to be with 161 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: my mom because that's the only way he would be 162 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: in my light. That makes sense. I mean, we'll think 163 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: about this. He's seen this kid from birth to three. Yeah, 164 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: and maybe at that point, so. 165 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess at three you probably have a relationship. Also, 166 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 2: I wonder if part of him, like a twisted like 167 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 2: fedep way wants to be with her style. 168 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: Maybe he might want to be with her still. Also 169 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: maybe he's like, I want to be an adoptive father 170 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: of this kid. Maybe maybe a little of both. Possibly 171 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: A year and a half later, they together had my 172 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: brother and went on to stay together as a couple 173 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 1: until twenty twelve, when they officially split for good. Wow 174 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: ever married or anything like that, but still a very 175 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: nasty split. 176 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 6: Wow. 177 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 1: My dad also let me know during that time he 178 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: was living with her off and on after he was 179 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: emancipated because he's literally a freaking child. Yeah. She would 180 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: throw parties at the house and all the young boys 181 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 1: and theyghborhood would come over and basically do whatever they wanted. 182 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: Why what, God, he gave me a name of who 183 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: my potential father could be, so he probably knew, hey, 184 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: this is someone who is a regular at the Wow. 185 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,439 Speaker 1: He probably saw what was going on. Oh my god, 186 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 1: And since all of us has come out. I have 187 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: had family and friends come to me and give me 188 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: another name of who it could be. I believe it's 189 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: either one of these two people, but that's not really 190 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: what's important here. Having all of this information under my belt, 191 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: I finally confronted my mom. I told her I did 192 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: the DNA test, why did the DNA test, and what 193 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: the results were. At first, she laughed and told me 194 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: to stop joking and called me a brat what sauce? Dude, 195 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: sausag fuck? When I sent the legitimate results, she said 196 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: it was impossible. DNA tests were just wrong. 197 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: They're like, right, ninety nine percent of the time, Like, yeah, 198 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 2: I think it's a ninety nine point four percent or something, But. 199 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: Sam, this is the one percent. Yeah, this is this 200 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: is one six percent it happens. Imagine being part of 201 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: the point zero six percent? Like that would that would suck? Yeah, 202 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: it's like, babe, I swear I didn't do it. Babe, 203 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: I don't know either. It's point zero six percent, Buddy, 204 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: what do you think it is? 205 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 2: And that's people out of every thousand people are just 206 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,719 Speaker 2: like you're one of the six that would be if 207 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 2: we found why get multiple DNA tests that is true. 208 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 2: That is true if we found those stories part of 209 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 2: the point. 210 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: DNA test done. Gone, Yeah, that's crazy exist, I'm sure. 211 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: So I needed to do the test again, what according 212 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: to my mom, oh, to see if he was part 213 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: of those six out of the thousand. She has spent 214 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: the last two months making me feel crazy telling me 215 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: the DNA test was incorrect. I did a paternity test 216 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 1: as well, which gave the same result to what she 217 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: says is also wrong. Okay, she said, my dad so 218 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: somehow forged the results to persuade me away from her. 219 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: All the DNA tests he. 220 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 2: Packed into the mainframe of the DNA test place. 221 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: No attacking into anything, lady. There have been so many 222 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 1: lies I have learned over the last thirty years. 223 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 4: Jesus Christ thirty years. 224 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: Thirty years. She is a classic narcissist, through and through. 225 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: Like I mentioned earlier, I didn't do this test because 226 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: I wanted to know if my dad was my biological father. 227 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to know if my mom truly lied about 228 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: it for the past thirty years. Family members, friends, version 229 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: even neighbors I grew up next to have come forward 230 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: and said that she has spoken to them about this 231 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: years and years ago. That's almost like a thousand times worse. Yeah, 232 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: family knows that everyone knows. 233 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 4: Right, why is she lying to her directly? Like what 234 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 4: are you getting out of that? 235 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: My god? Truly? And like, also, why would you tell 236 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: everyone like neighbors. 237 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,599 Speaker 2: Why wouldn't the friend and neighbors say anything to ope. 238 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,319 Speaker 1: Friends and neighbors. I could see that that's not your 239 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: place talk one to weigh in on, but close family. 240 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's maybe they're just like, hey, really, I 241 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 2: don't want to open up this can of worms it up. 242 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, And we've actually had this question come up on 243 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:16,559 Speaker 1: the show, which I'll ask you all right now, if 244 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: you're a semi close family member, do you intervene when 245 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: no one else will. 246 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 5: That's a really tough one because it's like, do you 247 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 5: really want to invite. 248 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 2: That it will cause drama in your own life? For sure? Yes, 249 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 2: I guess It's like, do you genuinely think this will 250 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 2: help the kid? 251 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? Is this actually going to improve the people that 252 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 1: it's affecting negatively? I think that is a good question 253 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: to ask. Now, everyone assumed that I already knew and 254 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 1: were shocked that I was just now finding out. I 255 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,439 Speaker 1: have so many emotions regarding all of this. My head 256 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: is reeling over the fact that I don't know who 257 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: my biological father is. Obviously major trust issues considering my 258 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: mom lied for thirty years it is still lying. Yeah, 259 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: I'm having a bit of an ide identity crisis because 260 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, who am I? And it's just been so owhelming, truly, 261 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: But I mean, who are we in this universe? 262 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 2: I mean just I can only imagine and my mom 263 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 2: isn't even like I'm having those same questions. 264 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: And my mom didn't hook up with a twelve year old, 265 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 1: so like. 266 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 4: Jesus correct when you put it in that perspective like. 267 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: That, Okay, imagine what hope thinking. I'm hoping this is 268 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: a place I can come to vent, maybe get some 269 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: support through people who understand crazy parents. And I'd also 270 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: like a little validation that I'm not crazy, that two 271 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: DNA tests are going to be accurate. That is the 272 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: end of you are not crazy, op, You're not crazy, 273 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: And that's all we have. That's it now, That is it? 274 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: That is all we have right now? 275 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 2: Well, all right, I think the first thing we need 276 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 2: to find out and this is a Riley question U 277 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 2: and we can look it up in the background. How 278 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: accurate are DNA tests? That is true because I imagine 279 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 2: there are a couple people each year or whatever when 280 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 2: they do DNA tests that it's like, I'm part of 281 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 2: the point six percent. 282 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 5: Nine point nine Wow? Point zero one percent nine? 283 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: Is that is? There? Is there more numbers after that? 284 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: It's like ninety nine point nine like like how many? Oh? 285 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 2: Great questions, like what what's how many stigfigs we're talking? 286 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 1: You know? How many? 287 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 2: Oh? 288 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 6: Sometimes a lot of conditions can make mistakes when processing 289 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 6: the sample. 290 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so when it's done right, it's ninety nine point 291 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 2: nine and nine, but it could be there could be 292 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 2: like some inaccuracies from human error. Ninety nine point nine 293 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: to nine percent. Wow, that's crazy. So for sake, figs, 294 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: I think I think that's how sig figs works. 295 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: I have no idea how that. I I like figs. 296 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: You like figs. 297 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 2: SIK fix figs. Significant figures? Oh way about back in 298 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 2: like the biology and physics stays. 299 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: The only significant figures I know is growing mom bank account. Hey, 300 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: go oh, I respect that. 301 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 2: Only significant figure I know is Riley's hot bod. That 302 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 2: figure crazy and it's super significant. 303 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: Dude, it's the most significant. How do you feel about 304 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 1: that this isn't helping me Riley to teach you math 305 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: right now because it's not gonna work. It's not gonna work. 306 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,359 Speaker 6: Okay, why don't you get carry in on this? 307 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: So first quick question to you both and everyone watching? 308 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: Did we wake Riley uncomfortable? Just there for the first 309 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: time ever? 310 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 6: Like, I'm cool with you guys, willing may be like 311 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 6: carrying in. I'm like, guys, whoa. 312 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 1: On the phone? Okay, yeah, Sam, Samn, sister is here 313 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: and we're all in here. That's going to be a part. 314 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 6: I used to women like giving me compliments. That's my fault. 315 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 4: Okay, you're all good. 316 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: The first question is for me, is the dad the 317 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: ahle for revealing the truth? No? 318 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: No, no, I mean he's able for not revealing the 319 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 2: truth earlier? There we go thirty years, Like, that's way 320 00:15:58,840 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 2: too late. 321 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: Because the mom she's sounds like a narcissist all this stuff, 322 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: and dad actually cared for him. 323 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like the dad should have told op at 324 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 2: eighteen at the very latest. 325 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, eighteen feels eighteen feels good. 326 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, at some point something was up though. 327 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 2: Right was suspicious there's questions from like, I think we've 328 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 2: talked about this before. I think it was in relation 329 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 2: to like when do you tell your children about drugs? 330 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 2: And the answer was like at the very least when 331 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 2: they ask. 332 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it was literally this It was 333 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 1: like when do you tell your kids your father is 334 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: not your real father. 335 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 2: Something like that, Yeah, or when they're suspicious and then 336 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 2: you give them the truth. So yeah, I think Opie's 337 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 2: dad is the asshole for not saying further. Obviously the 338 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: mom like literal offender. 339 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. 340 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 2: Literally, yeah, so obviously the a hole by op not 341 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 2: the a hole for being the sure lock that op 342 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 2: is in finding out the truth of this whole family matter. 343 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: Final question, where does op go from here? 344 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 4: That's a tough one. 345 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 2: Just go to the Ti Betan Monastery to figure out 346 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 2: your place in the world. 347 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 4: That's one. 348 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, to understand if you're a jaguar or something. 349 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 2: Big mushroom trip, Joshua Tree Church a good possible paths. Yeah, yeah, 350 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 2: I think I think you need some mental healing. Yeah, 351 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 2: you need to kind of discipline. 352 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, go on a giant spirit question something for yourself, 353 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 1: maybe jose get a massage. 354 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, it sounds like like when the North Koreans figure out, 355 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 6: like what is actually happening in the world. It's not 356 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 6: just under the dictator. This was what this sounds like. 357 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 4: Treat yourself. 358 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of Koreans, a massage and Eddy Petty that. 359 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: Everything? My God? Who needs rice when you got fleek nails? 360 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: Speaking of treating yourself, do we have another story? I 361 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:05,439 Speaker 1: think we do. Let's go off, treat me into it. 362 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 2: I will treat you and feed you this story directly 363 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 2: into your mouth. I told my dad who his real 364 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 2: dad is? 365 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? 366 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 4: Oh that's something like inception shit. 367 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, for real, your dad is my dad? 368 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 2: Yes, spin the top to see what's real in this 369 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: crazy world. So this comes from panel of judgments and 370 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 2: they say my grandmother got pregnant with my father around 371 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 2: age sixteen, rather early. My grandmother has always manipulated my 372 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 2: father and he is a mama's boy. She brought my 373 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 2: dad as a child in front of a man who 374 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 2: denied being the father. Rough, They're just like, this is 375 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,360 Speaker 2: your dad, and the guy said nah. 376 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: No, no God. 377 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 2: In twenty twenty one, I started to have more serious 378 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 2: health issues. I asked my grandmother about health issues for 379 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 2: both sides of the family, since my biological grandfather passed 380 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 2: away when I was about one. Since my doctors couldn't 381 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 2: find answers, I decided to do an ancestry DNA test 382 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 2: and asked some closer DNA matches about my family's medical history. 383 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 2: The results I got did not match my biological grandfather's family. 384 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: So this is, yeah, we're going up a level. We're 385 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,880 Speaker 2: going up a level. Wow, we have the technology. 386 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 1: We really do. Though. 387 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: My grandmother confessed he wasn't my biological grandfather and gave 388 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 2: me his dad's real name, saying she didn't know much 389 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 2: because they were so young, and to ask her sister 390 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 2: for more info on their side, who told me all 391 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 2: she knew. There was one family name that didn't match 392 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 2: to my mom's side or the person my grandmother said 393 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 2: was my grandfather when asked. So basically we just found 394 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 2: out the grandmother sleeping on the side with someone who 395 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 2: was not what originally Opie thought was her grandfather. H Yeah, 396 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 2: so there is a different rand daddy somewhere out in 397 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 2: the universe. 398 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 4: Oh geez. 399 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: And that makes it worse because that's a whole extended 400 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 1: family level. Yeah, as a massive lineage. 401 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 5: It was like a long, long historical story spanning like decades. 402 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: Yes, decades and generations. 403 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 2: I reached out to the closest cousin with that last name, 404 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 2: and from what I told him, only one person matched, 405 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 2: but he didn't have his number. I asked about health 406 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 2: issues and he mentioned a couple, but one specifically is 407 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 2: an autoimmune disease, which would explain my symptoms. My doctors 408 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,879 Speaker 2: check for it and they believed I had it since birth. 409 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. 410 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 2: This autoimmune disease was also causing my blood sugar to 411 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 2: drop below twenty around twenty twenty one, so I could 412 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 2: have died or had a stroke slash heart attack. 413 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: That's something we never even consider. Yeah, is there like 414 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 1: a uh health implications of our health? Wow? 415 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 2: I also recently found out about muscle damage and heart 416 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 2: issues and I'm only in my twenties. So I found 417 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 2: a yearbook pick of the guy. So the guy that 418 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 2: OPI thinks could be the dad, the biological grandfather grandfather. Yeah, 419 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,160 Speaker 2: and so we found a picture of the guy at sixteen. 420 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 2: My cousin told me about on ancestries. Right, so finds 421 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 2: a yearbook picture of the biological quote unquote grandfather at sixteen, 422 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,879 Speaker 2: and Op showed this picture of the biological grandfather to 423 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 2: their family, and the family thought it was the dad 424 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 2: because the biological grandfather looks so similar to Op's dad. 425 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 1: Right, which is a big sign, which is a big 426 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: sign that they're probably related. Right. 427 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 2: I had asked my grandmother a few different times if 428 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 2: she recognized the name of the man that might be 429 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 2: the biological grandfather, and she said, no, someone about the 430 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 2: same age as my grandmother. And the guy confirmed they 431 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 2: all went to the same high school and said, my 432 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 2: grandmother was at the guy's house. 433 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: Every single day. 434 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 2: What do you think they were getting up, Tom, You 435 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 2: know they were riding listen into the radio doing. 436 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 1: The twist in shower. Yeah, jacky with it. 437 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 2: John said, I reached out to a possible first cousin 438 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 2: to talk to her about it first, but her father 439 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 2: and uncle saw and told her grandfather. Oh, So reached 440 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 2: out to a first cousin and are like, hey, I'm 441 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 2: actually gonna tell I want to tell the source the grandfather. 442 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,640 Speaker 2: So reached out to a first cousin that possibly is related, 443 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: and then they immediately told the grandfather. 444 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 1: Right. 445 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 2: So, the potential biological grandfather called me that day and 446 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: confirmed that he knew and was quote unquote with my grandmother, 447 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 2: saying she told him she was pregnant but didn't say 448 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 2: who the father was and then left town for good. 449 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 5: Oh. 450 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 2: He said he never denied his kids, which is what 451 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 2: all mutual friends and fam said. So, but he was like, hey, 452 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 2: I was down to raise the kids, but she just 453 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 2: skipped out. She wouldn't give him the chance. He wanted 454 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,679 Speaker 2: to speak with him and build a relationship with the 455 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 2: father he's father. I told my father telling him not 456 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 2: to take anything out on grandmother because we don't know 457 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 2: her reasons. I figured out who his real father is 458 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 2: and what he said, and that he could call when 459 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 2: sash if he was ready, Which is crazy to tell 460 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 2: your real dad to tell your dad who their real 461 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 2: dad is. 462 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, insanity. 463 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 2: He talked to grandmother, who manipulated him into not wanting 464 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 2: to talk to his biological dad. No, he said, she's right, 465 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 2: I'm wrong, and also, just don't worry about the DNA proof. 466 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 2: She called, saying I went behind her back speaking to 467 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 2: my girlfriend and accused me of talking to her sister 468 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 2: about him, as she was the only one who knew 469 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 2: about him. Knew about the biological grandfather, So she is 470 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 2: basically confessing's I knew? Why did you tell him? How 471 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 2: dare you tell his own family knew about them? But 472 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 2: that's where I caught her lie about not knowing the 473 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,399 Speaker 2: name of the guy I researched, and it proved she 474 00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 2: was intentionally hiding who my grandfather was despite me having 475 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 2: serious health issues, because literally Op's life is kind of 476 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 2: on the line. Yeah, So am I the asshole for 477 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 2: telling my father who his biological father is? 478 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 4: No, I don't think so. 479 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 5: There is so much stuff on the line, Like Opie's 480 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 5: health issues, for one, can't really be dismissed one hundred. 481 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 5: That's not something you can just lie about. That's actually 482 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:24,199 Speaker 5: really fucked up. 483 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if we've come across that situation where 484 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 1: it's literally like, yo, I have a health issue that 485 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: is directly tied to my ancestry in heritage. 486 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 2: And that's why a lot of people do like DNA tests, 487 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 2: Like I actually have a DNA test sitting in my 488 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 2: room right now. 489 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: I did see it. Yeah, I might. 490 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 2: Get an injection this weekend that makes you live thirty 491 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 2: percent longer, and so I have to do a DNA 492 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 2: test before I get the injection in Austin. 493 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 1: My how the turntables have turned? Yeah, I know, so 494 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: I might find some shit shit I'm not ready saying. 495 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: I might read his own Reddit story on this podcast. 496 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 1: Mom are you my mom? My dad? I've seen both 497 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 1: of his parents. It's a pretty safe bet that both 498 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 1: of their children are and d Sofia looks exactly like me, 499 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 1: so underal clones. Have you seen Sophia? 500 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I've seen videos of her from it is. 501 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: It's a little scary to be honest. Yeah, yeah, famine 502 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: a wig. I've seen the comments. My gosh, damn, put 503 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: some respect on Sophia's name. Go on, not to dissube, 504 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: but not this guy. Why would you say, gosh, that's brutal. Yeah, 505 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 1: that is really tough, pretty brutal. 506 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 2: But you know what, I want to be brutalized with 507 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 2: every day, all day. Twenty four seven, three sixty five. 508 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 2: What this next story, Carrie, Let's do it? 509 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 5: Am I the asshole for using my partner's DNA to 510 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 5: create a provocative artwork without their consent, leading to a 511 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 5: family scandal in strained relationships? 512 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 4: What do we have here, y'all? 513 00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 2: DNA I'm imagining like a Jackson Pollock painting that only 514 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:06,360 Speaker 2: appears under black light and uses their significant others sperm 515 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,919 Speaker 2: to show up, and so it's just sprinkled on the 516 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 2: canvas and it's. 517 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: Like DNA art. Do you need to be a biologist 518 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 1: to decipher this message? Is it like a cruel secret 519 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: hidden message that only like freaking doctorate level like scientists. 520 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 1: I think it's just painting. 521 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 4: Jackson pology. 522 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 1: I mean truly, I mean that that could be what 523 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 1: this is yo, okay, which is a very fancy way 524 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: of saying that you have a and you named the okay, 525 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 1: it's a it's it's your way. 526 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 2: This is kind of fucked up, but it's your son 527 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 2: sperm and you name it Jackson, and it's a Jackson 528 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 2: Pollock because you're Jack and the son, or. 529 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: If your name is Jack and you're like son, I 530 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,479 Speaker 1: have a gift for you, your fallen brothers and sisters. Oh gosh, 531 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: these babies are yours. I would definitely burn that rest 532 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: in peace solve you would babies? How yeah? What? Yeh? 533 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: Damn if if from my daddy sack be like if 534 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: you didn't get burn it as to inhale it. No, 535 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 1: I definitely do not want to inhale. That definitely, No, 536 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 1: that is not the infusion oils that I'm looking to sniff. 537 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:20,880 Speaker 4: You want to get into the story real quick, let's 538 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 4: do it. 539 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 5: I am a professional artist and I've been with my 540 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 5: partner five years. We have an adventurous relationship and often 541 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 5: try new and unconventional things, both in and out of 542 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 5: the bedroom. 543 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 1: In and out. Okay, I feel like we're going to 544 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: get into some kinky ship really Yeah. 545 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, Well it's art. It's provocative art using uh fluid. Yeah, 546 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 5: that's what I'm pretty. 547 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:45,359 Speaker 1: Sure it's a Jackson. 548 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think I think it's going to be 549 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 2: some bodily fluid. 550 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 551 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 5: So he's been always incredibly supportive of my career and 552 00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 5: we frequently brainstorm artistic ideas together. That's a cute couple 553 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 5: goals like that. A few months ago, I came up 554 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,400 Speaker 5: with the idea to create an art installation that incorporated 555 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 5: actual DNA from both my partner and me. 556 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 2: Okay, how are you getting the DNA? What kind of 557 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 2: DNA we're talking about? 558 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 5: So I thought it would be a unique way to 559 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 5: explore themes of love, intimacy, and the interconnectedness of human beings. 560 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 5: To make it more provocative. I decided to use intimate 561 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:28,119 Speaker 5: fluids for the DNA samples without discussing it with my 562 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 5: partner beforehand. 563 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,919 Speaker 1: So what does she do? Did she like blow them? 564 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 2: And then she's like, wait, I just gotta go to 565 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 2: the bathroom really click and then just like put it 566 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:36,640 Speaker 2: in a test too. 567 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 4: We're like, they like used a condom, and then after 568 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 4: the condom that that screwed up. 569 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 1: I think that is the theory. I think that is 570 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: the one collecting it. That's so weird. It's like that 571 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: Turkey based kind of thing. 572 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 5: That's fine basically, So I assumed as the artist he 573 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 5: would be on board given our history of unconventional things together. 574 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: I want to know what about the other things. 575 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd be curious to know. 576 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 5: I spent weeks creating the installation, which included a large 577 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 5: abstract painting that used the fluids as part of the medium. 578 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 4: I'm telling you it's Jackson. 579 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 1: Pollock how much fluid. 580 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 5: I was extremely proud of the final result and submitted 581 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 5: it to an art gallery where it was accepted for 582 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 5: an upcoming exhibition. WHOA, that's a big fucking deals big. 583 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 5: I mean it must have been great. I mean the 584 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 5: art artwork must have been great, but yeah, right, yeah, 585 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 5: So to celebrate, we decided to host a small party 586 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,959 Speaker 5: for our close friends and family, where I would unveil 587 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 5: the artwork before the public exhibition. 588 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: Yeah like you're oh, like, honey, how did you make 589 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 1: this piece of art? 590 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 2: Well, first, I milked my assott, Oh it's so white 591 00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 2: on the canvas. 592 00:29:58,800 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 6: Why does this spell like bleak? 593 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 4: So here's where the problem began. 594 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 5: At the party, I revealed the artwork and explained the 595 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 5: concept behind it, including the use of our intimate fluids 596 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 5: as part of the medium. That's real bold telling your family, 597 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 5: I use my partners. 598 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm say he's hearing this for the first time in 599 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: front of all of his friends and family. 600 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, my partner, who was hearing this information for the 601 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 5: first time, were shocked and visibly upset. Of course, our 602 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 5: family and friends were also stunned, and the reactions were 603 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 5: a mix of shock, disgust, and fascination. The party atmosphere 604 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 5: quickly turned uncomfortable, and some guests left early. 605 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 2: This couldn't handle the beautifulness of the art. It's avant garde. 606 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 2: Art is meant to cause reactions, honestly, honestly, like like 607 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 2: real talk. If they had such a strong reaction, then 608 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 2: the artist is probably doing something right. 609 00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 4: That is true. But also, isn't there an ethical opponent 610 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 4: of making art in a way that doesn't harm. 611 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 1: It's fucked up. Yeah, it's still fucked up. The art 612 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 1: if op had just told the partner and the partner 613 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: was okay with it, Yeah, I don't know why she 614 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: didn't say anything. Why why not? I guess we're about 615 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: to find out. 616 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 5: But yes, exactly the next day, my partner's conservative parents 617 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 5: found out about. 618 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 2: The artwork The world Rightley, Riley, really quick, I'll ask 619 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 2: the question after its after the Christian Afterwards. 620 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 5: They demanded we remove the Peace from the exhibition and 621 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 5: destroy it, claiming that it was a disgrace to the family. 622 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 5: I refuse, standing by my artistic vision and my right 623 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 5: to express myself as I see fit. My partner, however, 624 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 5: feels betrayed by my action and wishes I consulted him 625 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 5: before creating the installation. 626 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 2: Exactly, No fucking shit, no ship common courtesy to ask 627 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 2: your boyfriend if you could use his semen. This is 628 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 2: so the patent say is relationship one oh one? Yeah, 629 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 2: it's just baffling. 630 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 4: Why she never asked that is asshole behavior. 631 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 1: Guys, Yeah, for sure. 632 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 5: So since then our relationship with the partner's family has 633 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 5: become extremely strained. They've made it clear that they disapprove 634 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 5: of our choices and feel humiliated by our artwork or 635 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 5: by the artwork. Additionally, some of our friends have distanced 636 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 5: themselves from us, uncomfortable with the idea behind the installation. 637 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 5: My partner and I are being accused of taking our 638 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 5: art too far and for involving our families in something 639 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 5: they consider obscene and inappropriate. 640 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:35,600 Speaker 4: So, folks and. 641 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 5: Friends and families and everyone else, am I the asshole 642 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 5: for using my partners and my DNA to create a 643 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 5: provocative artwork without their consent, leading to a family scandal 644 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,959 Speaker 5: and strange relationships? Or am I justified in expressing our 645 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,479 Speaker 5: love and creativity in any way I choose, even if 646 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 5: it means pushing boundaries. 647 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 2: I think it's an easy asshole on this wye sor asshole. 648 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like, here's my question. If OP 649 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: had asked the partner is this okay? And then the 650 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 1: partner was like yeah, and then I think I feel 651 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: like they could have been okay, or at least having 652 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 1: a sit down conversation to for op to be able 653 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 1: to express here's why I want to do this, Here's 654 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: what it means to me, here's you know, the important 655 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: of our art to me. I think the partner could 656 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 1: have come out of that being like, yeah, that's okay, 657 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: and probably he just didn't want to like show it 658 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: in front of all of his friends and family, you know, 659 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: and tell them the word es. 660 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 2: Actually, if they're conservative like Riley Riley, if you were 661 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 2: dating an every girl, here we go and you're like, hey, parents, 662 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 2: like my girlfriends having this big show, excited for you 663 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 2: to see it, and then your girlfriend made an announcement 664 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 2: that it was used using little pieces. 665 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: Of you, what would their reaction be? 666 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 6: I mean, I think my grandparents would be very upset. 667 00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 6: They'd be like wtf. Yeah, my parents would be a 668 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 6: little disappointed. My dad would freak out. He'd be like, 669 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 6: this is like crazy, why are you doing this? Like 670 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 6: your comes on this painting? 671 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 4: I mean like that, yeah put it like that. 672 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:13,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 673 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 6: So like I would be like do I know about 674 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 6: this walking in or am I just so you know? 675 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: You know, you know that when. 676 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 6: I would be like like this, where did you get this? 677 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,800 Speaker 6: And we keep this in the house. It doesn't go 678 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:26,920 Speaker 6: outside of here. 679 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, at a minimum not Like It's one thing to 680 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 1: like put it in an art gallery where it's like 681 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 1: your like parents and stuff probably aren't going through. It's 682 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 1: another thing to put it in their faces and be like, 683 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: this is my husband's seed. Yeah, and the seeds of 684 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:42,359 Speaker 1: the fruitful tree. 685 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 6: And depending on like I like money she's getting off 686 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 6: of it, I want a piece. I mean, if it's 687 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 6: like in an exposition, like I don't know what that. 688 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: Looks like, I'm like almost like almost like that's kind 689 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 1: of dope if he's on board. Yeah, yeah right, I 690 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,240 Speaker 1: think it so, so I think it totally. 691 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 2: It's the asshole behaviors to really change if she just 692 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,360 Speaker 2: says something yes, like hey, we're gonna do this, and 693 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 2: then I think the other thing that's the asshole is 694 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 2: showcasing it to like a conservative audience that like like 695 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 2: his family. Yeah yeah, Like I think that's maybe a 696 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 2: little assholey to to do that. But the the the 697 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 2: cream of the crop asshole behavior is stealing his seed 698 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 2: and not telling him. 699 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 4: I don't think they read the room very well. 700 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 1: No, No, they did not. No, you know, some people 701 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 1: just don't understand great art apparently. 702 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, some people say great art's got to be controversial, 703 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 4: whether you. 704 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 6: Like it or not. 705 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love to know from you guys like, 706 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,760 Speaker 2: do you think this is asshole behavior? Put your answers 707 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:41,399 Speaker 2: in the commons, bulow and do you want to see 708 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 2: a Riley inspired painting? But your big protein's got some 709 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 2: big protein to throw on that. 710 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: He If you love us, make sure to subscribe. We 711 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: love you and see you tomorrow