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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just falls home,

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Speaker 3: Do you just follow Anna.

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Speaker 1: Spirit where it's all the front.

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Speaker 2: Over real stuff to the chill stuff and the m

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Speaker 2: but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it

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Speaker 2: just stop you feel things.

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Speaker 1: This is Feeling Things with Amy and Kat. Oh Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to Feeling Things. I'm Amy and I'm Kat,

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Speaker 1: and we have something super fun in store for y'all today.

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Speaker 1: We don't actually even know what episode you're gonna hear.

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Speaker 1: Producer Houston is going to be picking it out, but

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Speaker 1: Kat and I are here at the beginning giving a

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Speaker 1: little intro and a little peek behind the curtain of Well,

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Speaker 1: we're dealing with an ice storm here in Nashville. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure you have heard a lot of you live here,

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Speaker 1: so you may be experienced this. You're not even listening

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Speaker 1: right now because you don't have internet, you don't have power,

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Speaker 1: you don't have anything. So or maybe you're you're charging

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Speaker 1: your phone in your car and you are listening because

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Speaker 1: a lot of people have been warming up in their cars.

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Speaker 1: I know that that was the warmest place for me

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Speaker 1: for a while. I still don't have power. Kat, on

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Speaker 1: the other hand, not to brag, but she has had

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Speaker 2: Yeah, our power never went out, but I did lose

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Speaker 1: She did lose internet for an hour. It was really

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Speaker 1: was really difficult prime times. Yeah, so Kat and I

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Speaker 1: literally just connected. She's at her house. I'm staying at

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Speaker 1: my candlelight keeping warm by the fire. But the novelty

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Speaker 1: And sometimes you'll hear us talk about Shannon in the podcast.

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Speaker 1: We came to her house. Shout out, Channon saved the day.

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Speaker 1: We've got dog, cat, kid, kids were here. We're doing

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Speaker 1: the dang thing, and Cat and I linked up on zoom.

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Speaker 1: Since my house studio is not an option, and we

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Speaker 1: recorded an entire episode. We're not going to give you

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Speaker 1: the details of it because next week when we're able

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Speaker 2: And it's just going to be even better. But I

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Speaker 2: felt like it was pretty good. Yeah, but you've taught

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Speaker 2: me whenever that happens, it's because it was supposed to happen,

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Speaker 2: and that episode was not meant to be heard in

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Speaker 1: Here's my thoughts on that. The content of the episode.

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Speaker 1: I loved it was our connection was bad because even

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Speaker 1: Everything's fine. So we had that forty five minute long

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Speaker 1: we would have been more like, hey, happy Tuesday, welcome

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Speaker 1: to feeling things. I'm Amy, pause, pause, pause, and I'm Kat.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So that episode could be better, and so we're

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna save the contents of that because Cat

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Speaker 1: all makes sense, and so what the little Nugget will

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And also it might explain why if after this,

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Speaker 1: from MJ. I know this isn't an airport and I

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Speaker 1: Today I had to hear stupid jokes about Snoop Dogg,

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Speaker 1: what you eat at Chick fil a and wear Kat

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Speaker 1: And then she signed her name.

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Speaker 2: The most wild part about that email is that she

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Speaker 1: But even if we did read it, she's not listening

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Speaker 2: This is from my experience, like you'll see that people

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if anybody after today has decided that they're

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Speaker 2: You know what's crazy is last week I sent you

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Speaker 2: So I was like, oh my gosh, this episode joke.

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Speaker 1: And this is the episode she's referring to where she's like,

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Speaker 2: That was couch talks. I don't know, but I don't

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Speaker 2: It's just not today in this you know what, you're

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Speaker 1: I'm Cat. And before we get to the feeling of

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Speaker 1: In my credit card number, I have multiple zeros, and

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Speaker 2: Well, what other numbers have abbreviations.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're I think you're normal, And if you weren't normal,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I would be like, you know, it's the

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Speaker 1: No, this is like a special language. Oh well, I

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Speaker 2: That's what it's called, or that's what her machine's called.

435
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,959
Speaker 1: It's the person is the stenographer and the machine is

436
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 1: the stenographer. The stographer snography, type writer, shorthand typewriter. It

437
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 1: just popped in my head. Obviously, cool things are talking

438
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 1: about this, things that, Yeah, things random things thought we'd

439
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: talk about. But let's get into the feeling of the day,

440
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 1: since none of this is anything to do with feelings.

441
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're feeling passionate, would you say or were you

442
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 2: feeling insecure about that?

443
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 1: I think I more so was feeling insecure that I

444
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 1: was not being clear in what I was saying. It

445
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 1: sort of threw me because you did a good job

446
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 1: faking like you knew what I was talking about, and

447
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, because I thought you were

448
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,640
Speaker 1: tracking with me, and then you go, oh, I get

449
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 1: what you're saying. So then I got defensive and I'm like,

450
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 1: damn you go, you go, You're not weird. I go, yeah,

451
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: even though I only brought it up because I thought

452
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: I was weird. I know I'm not weird, but a minute,

453
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: like a minute before I had brought it up because

454
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: I felt like maybe I was being weird.

455
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 2: So do you feel better?

456
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:33,360
Speaker 1: I feel better?

457
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: Okay.

458
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if we have any clarity, but those

459
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 1: listening out there right now, if you say oh or zero,

460
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: you are not alone.

461
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,120
Speaker 2: And that's what this podcast is all about. Okay. I'm

462
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 2: not feeling insecure passion. There might be some passion in there,

463
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 2: but I'm I'm feeling a low level of enragement of rage, okay,

464
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,879
Speaker 2: because I don't know if I have shared with you

465
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 2: on here before recently that we have purchased.

466
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,400
Speaker 1: You know, if I have shared with you before recently

467
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 1: on this here podcast.

468
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 2: Ever in this time, we've purchased a treadmill.

469
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: And breaking news, breaking news.

470
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 2: My iPad's talking to me. So we purchased the treadmill.

471
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: It was a big deal. We shopped around, we tested somehow,

472
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: I did some research, great purchase it. We go to

473
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 2: the store. You know, I'm gonna say the store because

474
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: it deserves to be.

475
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: Mentioned, like in a negative or positive way. You can decide, well,

476
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: I need to know the location before you do, because

477
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 1: I don't know if I have an affiliation with them

478
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 1: at all in any way, shape or form.

479
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 2: So it's a common store that people buy good sat

480
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 2: good sach sporting goods.

481
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: Sure, okay, we'll give it at that.

482
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 2: I won't even blame the store. I think they wouldn't

483
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 2: have known this. Yeah, I will say that, Well, part

484
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 2: of it is the store associate associate. The store wouldn't

485
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 2: have known the actual problem. That would not be their

486
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 2: perfect so good thing. We didn't say their name and

487
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 2: we're not going to Yeah, why would I ever do that?

488
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:04,120
Speaker 2: So we go to the store, the store associate, which

489
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, Doug Catherine, this probably is just like a

490
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 2: college student who's working on the weekends to make minimum wage.

491
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 2: He probably doesn't really care. That's judgment. But I will

492
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 2: say Patrick worked at this store at one point in

493
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 2: his life, and that's what he said he did. So yeah,

494
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 2: I'm like asking questions. Once we were gonna buy it,

495
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 2: he was like, do you want to get the assembly

496
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 2: in delivery? I said, well, how much is that? He

497
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:27,639
Speaker 2: said two hundred dollars?

498
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 1: Oh, I know what you thought. Right away? You were like,

499
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 1: what why would I pay someone to put it together

500
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: when I can do it myself?

501
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,479
Speaker 2: Literally, I said, well, could we do it ourselves? And

502
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 2: he said, well I did it myself in forty five minutes.

503
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,439
Speaker 2: So yeah, and I was like, then, no, we'll just

504
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,679
Speaker 2: take it with us today. He said, what kind of

505
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,479
Speaker 2: car do you drive? I told him. He said, Oh,

506
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: I'll be fine, it'll fit in there. Long story short,

507
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 2: it did not fit. Half of it didn't even fit

508
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 2: in my car. So we had to come back the

509
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 2: next day, get my dad's truck, put it there, take

510
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,880
Speaker 2: it to our house, carry it up the stairs, which

511
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 2: I had to enlist family members to come to our

512
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 2: house to do this. I thought somebody was going to die.

513
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, treadmills are heavy.

514
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 2: I didn't know that. Oh why did I not know that?

515
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 2: Why did I not think?

516
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 1: Probably because the only previous your prior experience to a

517
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: quote unquote treadmill before this. But it's one of those

518
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: walking paths from Amazon, is that why?

519
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah? And I could carry that upstairs on myself.

520
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, it's very portable.

521
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: Yes. So I was so scared during this process and

522
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 2: in the middle of the.

523
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I'm shocked. Like we've had to pay whenever

524
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: I've had to relocate my treadmill, had to pay the

525
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 1: company to come move it because I've been so.

526
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 2: Should have done that, terrified, should have done that.

527
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: But you could do it yourself.

528
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I have to admit I did not help

529
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 2: at all to carry that up the stairs, and I

530
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 2: probably would have died if I was part of that process.

531
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 2: We finally get it in there, Patrick and I set

532
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 2: it up and honestly didn't see it. Was a little

533
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 2: frustrating setting it up, but it wasn't that bad. Oh

534
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 2: before this, the sales yet it said do you want

535
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 2: to buy a mat for this treadmill? I said, do

536
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 2: we need one? We're just putting it on carpet, and

537
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 2: he said, no, it's really more for hardwood floors, so

538
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 2: you don't mess up your hardwood flooring. We also don't

539
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 2: care about this carpet anyway, because we're eventually won't we

540
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 2: want to rip it up. So he's like, oh, then

541
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: you don't need the mat, and I was like, great,

542
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 2: save more money, don't pay for the assembly, don't pay

543
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 2: for the shipping, don't pay for the mat. So we

544
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 2: get it up there, put it together. It doesn't work,

545
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh my god, so like googling stuff whatever,

546
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 2: blah blah. Then I open up the manual and on

547
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 2: the first page it says before you start like warning

548
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 2: things to know. The first thing is do not assemble

549
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 2: this and use it on carpet.

550
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: So you need the mat.

551
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it probably could have, like I don't know,

552
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 2: done something bad because I started a fire un filter. Yes, yeah, probably,

553
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: So anyway, we had to get the mat. Then we

554
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 2: had to get a plied. Weeks have gone by, We've

555
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 2: updated our treadmill experience.

556
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know all of this saga, but I

557
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: do know when you bought the treadmill, and I feel

558
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: like that was a really long time ago.

559
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: Month. Probably, Yeah, probably can't return it at this point. Well,

560
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm going to see the story up because this is

561
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 2: far too long.

562
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: If someone is currently on the treadmill right now, you

563
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: have jogged a couple miles.

564
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 2: Literally And anyway, so we had to take the treadmill

565
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 2: completely apart, which did cause a little bit of marital discord,

566
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 2: and take it apart to fix the thing. Oh my god,

567
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 2: we took the whole thing apart because we were trying

568
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 2: to get to this one screw. And then once we

569
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 2: took the whole thing apart, Patrick realized we could have

570
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 2: just lifted the treadmill up to access that crew and

571
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 2: we didn't screw and we didn't need to take the

572
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 2: whole thing apart. Yeah, so anyway, we did that, then

573
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: we lifted it up. Wouldn't you know, inside the motor

574
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: of the treadmill is completely rested.

575
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: How you don't know.

576
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 2: It's a mystery. So now we have to undo it

577
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: again and take it down the stairs.

578
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 1: The whole thing. I can't but they come pick it up. Well,

579
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 1: you sold me a rusty treadmill, so I'm gonna need What.

580
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 2: Did I do to deserve this? That's what I want

581
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 2: to know. I just wanted to be healthy. I just

582
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 2: wanted to move my body a little bit. Well i've

583
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: been walking outside now and so anyway, I.

584
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: Did not to get to be the winter months.

585
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 2: Like yeah, I did email them and send them pictures

586
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: because they had sent me like this is probably what

587
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 2: it is. Just look at this and fix it. And

588
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, this is rusted. So my hope is

589
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: that they're like, oh no, we'll send somebody there with

590
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 2: a new piece and they'll fix it. Because if I

591
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 2: have to take that thing back downstairs, I'd rather just

592
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: light it on fire. But I actually can't do that

593
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: inside my house.

594
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: No, that's not gonna happen. Okay, our hope is going

595
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 1: to be that they're going to come and fix it,

596
00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: or if it has to be removed, that they will

597
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: come and haul it away, like on the house, because

598
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: surely it needs to be swapped out. And that shouldn't

599
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: be on you to to have to handle that.

600
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 2: Just a girl. And maybe I should pretend like I'm

601
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 2: I'm a single woman living in that home and I

602
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 2: not strong enough or something, so they have to like, sir,

603
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 2: I have no family here, nobody can help me do this.

604
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, my parents don't live down the street, and that

605
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: is not my husband right here.

606
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 2: My brother don't live down the street, and they're.

607
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: Like, how uh did you get up here? You know,

608
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: just you know, one step at a time, treadmill. I

609
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: have my own issues that the treadmill works. My my

610
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: cat has claimed it as sort of her spot perch,

611
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: and so I get on it and sometimes she's cool

612
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: with it, but other times she swats at me and

613
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: and like tries to bite me. And if I'm walking

614
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: with my arms, she'll like where rarere and like she

615
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: does not want me to be on the And then

616
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: I have a little I'll have to buy you one

617
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: of these. You can get a little clear tray and

618
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: a little stand for your computer and it'll prop up

619
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: and you can walk and work. But when I have

620
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: the tray up there, there's no room for her, and

621
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: she freaks out, and I'm like, Maggie, go lay somewhere else.

622
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: That's not the big of a deal.

623
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 2: Wait, this is actually really ironic. Since she's on a diet,

624
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 2: I know.

625
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: Her favorite spot is the treatment.

626
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 2: Everybody in this family will not be exercising.

627
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 1: Yes, She's like if you're yes, because I'm currently not

628
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: feeding her in her bowl. We have to loose feed

629
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: her where you just hide food around the room and

630
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: she has to hunt for it. She has to like

631
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: work for her food and find it. But I feel bad,

632
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: so I'll hide it and then I take her to

633
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: it and I'm like, this is where I put it,

634
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: and I'm like, here you go.

635
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 2: Just so do you put like one little piece? No?

636
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: I put like or is it like a pile of

637
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: a little pile and not in a bowl? Not in

638
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 1: a bowl?

639
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 2: It just can you just like put her food on

640
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: the floor.

641
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: No, she can't eat that way anymore. She has to go.

642
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: She has to like have an ounce here, an ounce

643
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: there here. Now she's just like mine, walk around and

644
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: I'm suppar I am apparently supposed to exercise with her,

645
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: and I'm like, how do you exercise a cat?

646
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 2: How do you exercise a cat?

647
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: I mean you put like a ribbon and they bounce around.

648
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 2: But I mean, yeah, why aren't you doing that?

649
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: Well, I have to start. Car always eats her, chew

650
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 1: her little toys that we get her. Car eats it.

651
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: So then on the day I'm not going to buy

652
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: another one. Car's probably overweight too.

653
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 2: You walk car all the time.

654
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: I know, But I overfeed my pets.

655
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: Sure, I have a question why because I feel knowing

656
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 2: nothing about animals, never had a cat. So take this

657
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 2: with a grain of salt. Why can't you just limit

658
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 2: her food and take Why do you have to hide it?

659
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: This is what the vet told me to do, so

660
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: she has to hunt for it, so she's not eating it.

661
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: So that way, if you have it in the bowl,

662
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: like she's just gonna eat it all right there, and

663
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: then if it's spread out, she's like spacing out her food.

664
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: And just I don't know, cat.

665
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 2: Okay, So the real issue is that she's sedentary.

666
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: The vet said, this is the heaviest she has weighed,

667
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: and you need to cut back.

668
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 2: On her face. It's the oldest that she has ever been.

669
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 2: Of course it's the heavy we.

670
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: No, I think at some point like cat's just like

671
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: should maintain defensive.

672
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 2: The heaviest I've ever been because I'm thirty five, yeah,

673
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 2: and I'm not twelve anymore.

674
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyway, Maggie, she parks parks it on my treadmill,

675
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: and yes it is ironic because she does need to

676
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: work out. But because you've been through such a difficult time,

677
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: it's your treadmill. Once it's set up, I will gift

678
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: you the clear tray and the computer.

679
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 2: That's really nice. And what I hear in that is

680
00:32:58,680 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: that you believe that this will be.

681
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: It will it will be.

682
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 2: And what I've learned is pay for the delivery and assembly. Yeah,

683
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 2: you can't do everything yourself. Do I deserve this? I

684
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 2: think I do because I I feel like you have.

685
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 1: Other things going on that are like magnifying, like the

686
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: rage you feel towards the treadmill.

687
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 2: And it makes me what, it's not about the treadmill.

688
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: It may not be.

689
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 2: Have you thought about that that's not about the treadmill?

690
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: Okay, See I really.

691
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 2: Probably wouldn't be this upset It's just it's like something

692
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 2: I'd rather hyper focus on that than other things in

693
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 2: my life that are out of my control.

694
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, if I do that, I'm a sudden fire.

695
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 2: But it burn my house down.

696
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: But I can't do that. Cat, And if y'all see

697
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: cat in the news, No, you.

698
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 2: Want my fire alarm? Speaking of Okay, So yesterday, as

699
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: we're working on the treadmill, our fire alarm goes off.

700
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: But it was not an alarm. It was a woman's

701
00:33:55,880 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 2: voice and it's saying, she said, there's smoke in the

702
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 2: master bedroom. The alarm is about to sound. It will

703
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 2: be very loud, just so you know. And then and

704
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 2: then it was quiet, and I go, Patrick, am, I am?

705
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 2: I My initial thought, Oh my gosh, I had walked.

706
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: I wasn't with him because we okay, we just found

707
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 2: the rest. I walked in the bathroom and take my

708
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 2: contacts out, and I started hearing the woman's voice and

709
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 2: then I yelled out Patrick Patrick, and I like grabbed

710
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:28,919
Speaker 2: my shoes and I was got about to like run

711
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 2: outside because I thought my house was burning down. Also,

712
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 2: I was like, who was that? It reminded me of

713
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:36,280
Speaker 2: smart house.

714
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: I don't know.

715
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh, Okay, Disney Channel on Ritual Movie, and

716
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 2: that was a scary movie to me because the lady

717
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: was like a robot that like took care of the house,

718
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 2: but she then started taking over the house.

719
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 5: And in my head, I'm like, somebody's invaded our house.

720
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 5: We're not gonna they're gonna lock the doors, like I don't.

721
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 5: I freaked out. And then the alarm never sounded, but

722
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 5: then there's no smoke. So then Patrick was like, it's fine.

723
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 5: And then ten minutes go by, she does it again.

724
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 5: There's smoke in the master bedroom. The alarm will sound.

725
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 5: It's going to be very loud, just so you know.

726
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:11,720
Speaker 1: Was she glitching?

727
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 2: She said it clearly.

728
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: Well I know, but like glitch like was her system?

729
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: Like what was making her fire off?

730
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 4: Like?

731
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: Was there smoke in the master bedroom? No?

732
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 2: And so then well then I went and blew I

733
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 2: had a candlelitch. Oh, I had a candle on downstairs.

734
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 2: I went and blew the candle out, like surely that's

735
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 2: not it. And then thirty minutes later it did it again.

736
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 2: This time the alarm went off. So I opened the

737
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: door and I'm like, I'm out of the house, and

738
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 2: Patrick's like in the bedroom looking for smoke. I'm like,

739
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 2: get out. And then I called my dad and then

740
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 2: well I texted him. He said that those alarms are

741
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 2: norm My first concern was, why is she talking like

742
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 2: this should just be a sound and he said, new alarms,

743
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 2: fire alarms talk and she did never heard that before ever,

744
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: s anybody in this room. Never, So if that happens

745
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 2: to you one day, just know it can't be normal.

746
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,720
Speaker 2: It's not a person. And then he said to vacuum

747
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 2: it because sometimes dust gets in there. And he said,

748
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: do that, and if it doesn't work, it could be

749
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: a spider. Sometimes spiders crawl into them, so if it

750
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 2: still doesn't, if vacuuming doesn't help, then maybe it's a spider.

751
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 2: And just to take it down. And I said, well,

752
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 2: what if there really is a smoke somewhere, like in

753
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 2: the attic, and there's smoke somewhere in the night, it's

754
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 2: going to turn into a fire and then we are dead. Yeah,

755
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,919
Speaker 2: and he said it would have already been a fire

756
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 2: by now, right, okay, And then he said, if you

757
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 2: need me to come over, I will, But I don't

758
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 2: think I think Patrick wanted to take care of it himself.

759
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: He probably did, and you're like, it's cool. I already

760
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 1: texted my dad, I know.

761
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 2: I said, does that make you feel weird that I'm

762
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 2: texting my dad? And he said no, I don't really

763
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 2: know what's going on either, but you don't need him

764
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 2: to come over here at nine pm. I can take

765
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,479
Speaker 2: the fire just so he can take it off the wall.

766
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: I can do that.

767
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:59,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. That reminds me of one time my ex husband,

768
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: early in army marriage, my dad was going to carve

769
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 1: the turkey but we were hosting and that didn't go

770
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: over well. I mean he didn't say anything to him,

771
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: but he got upset and he was like, this was

772
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,919
Speaker 1: supposed to this is our Thanksgiving. I'm supposed to carve

773
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: the turkey, so your dad carved it. I think my

774
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 1: dad started working on the turkey and my ex husband

775
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: was like, our turkey. Well, yeah, he didn't he didn't

776
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 1: say anything. It was more internal. And then later he've

777
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: expressed to me that he was upset because it was

778
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: his turkey.

779
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 2: Who did he cook the turkey?

780
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think we did it all together.

781
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: I honestly, this was years ago. I mean I was

782
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: married seventeen years and that was the really part of

783
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: our marriage. So we're going back to Like it could

784
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: have been around two thousand and seven, two thousand and

785
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 1: eight at the seven, so I don't remember every detail,

786
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 1: but it just made me think of like a son

787
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: in law father relationship and how it's like newly married.

788
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 1: I'd like, if this is my house, you're her dad,

789
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,720
Speaker 1: but I'm her husband, and I'm going to protect.

790
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 2: Her, carve her turkey and carved.

791
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: That sounds interesting. It sounds like I mean something.

792
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be sexual.

793
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: It still sounded it. It doesn't have to be, but

794
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:20,320
Speaker 1: it sounded dirty. So to be clear, like Bim's actually

795
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: talking about a turkey, yes, like actual turkey, but it was.

796
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 1: It was an interesting thing. Like some of that is

797
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: just conditioning, as men are wanting to feel a certain

798
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: way in your home, you know.

799
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 2: But I feel like your ex husband was way more

800
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 2: and I could be wrong, but appeared to me to

801
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 2: be way more like handy and traditionally masculine in that

802
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: way than my husband, Like like Patrick doesn't have to

803
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: carve a turkey. Wait, oh my gosh, stop, this is

804
00:38:52,920 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 2: not so are you like that?

805
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: I love? Oh my gosh, he doesn't listen right, Okay,

806
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: I don't mean it like that.

807
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 2: He's so masculine, but he can't. Oh you know, it's

808
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 2: a carbon turkey.

809
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: He doesn't tell us, tell us how manly he is,

810
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: like like, name all the ways. Hurry, hurry, name, start

811
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: saying them. Sorry. So he's like so he loves sports,

812
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 1: he loves sports, he loves sports.

813
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 2: Go he he loves gambling, love sports.

814
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

815
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 2: Wait stop it. I don't think that would even upset

816
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 2: him because I think he knows what I mean, Like,

817
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 2: I can't like he can't. He wasn't handy like he

818
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 2: manages money. Well, I hope he does. He's I don't know.

819
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: We're just giving you our time, Okay, okay, see what Look, hey,

820
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: I guess what.

821
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 2: I love you and you're perfect for me. What I

822
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 2: meant was I feel like Ben would do probably more

823
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,439
Speaker 2: like building of things like.

824
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,879
Speaker 1: My dad definitely did not Ben. I mean, I think,

825
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 1: you know, he he could be handy, and also he

826
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 1: was gone a lot, like because he was in the military,

827
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 1: so I think, yes, could he do certain things on

828
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:36,959
Speaker 1: a plane, like could he fly an airplane? I felt

829
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: like that was always yeah, that's pretty off women flight

830
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: airplanes is not like just a man thing. But I

831
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 1: think I had to learn how to figure out things

832
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: on my own. I didn't do I hire it up.

833
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 2: So did you call it your dad?

834
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad would do a lot, and I don't

835
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: know if that really bothered Ben. To be honest, we

836
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,399
Speaker 1: didn't really talk about it, but things would just get

837
00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 1: done or I would hire people, and then I think

838
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: that was sort of our routine. So even when Ben

839
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,720
Speaker 1: would come back from deployment, I'm like, oh, I already

840
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 1: have my handyman who was not threatening, like he couldn't hear. Well,

841
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: I had this one handy man, and I think he

842
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: was like, maybe you know how you're sort of legally blind. Yeah, right, right,

843
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: but like you can see.

844
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 2: It's like a yeah, I'm legally blind, but I can

845
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: see like shapes and blobs.

846
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

847
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 2: So anyway, just I feel like I need to get

848
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 2: this out.

849
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, Patrick's not gonna listen.

850
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 2: I know, but I wouldn't want that in the ether anyway. Okay.

851
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 2: I met like traditionally masculine in the sense that like

852
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 2: the traditional roles where we kind of bend the like

853
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: I can probably hang a picture frame better than he can,

854
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 2: kind of thing. Wow is that nothing?

855
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just hitting so I think myster is the

856
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: same way her husband can design and help build a house,

857
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: but my sister is going to hang the picture better.

858
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm just saying he doesn't get mad about that.

859
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 2: He would never get mad at the I can't say this,

860
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 2: but I wouldn't expect him to care who cuts the

861
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 2: turkey at Thanksgiving because he just is like, oh, your

862
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: dad would probably do a better job at that, so

863
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 2: he can do it kind of thing. Does that make sense?

864
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: Yes?

865
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 2: I love my husband, we know you do.

866
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: It was just funny, okay, I thought, and laughter is

867
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 1: good for the soul. Like we all got a good laugh,

868
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,919
Speaker 1: and I bet you feel better because earlier you were like.

869
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: Ragie, Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you.

870
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I have other ways to reset your day. I know,

871
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: laughter that happens organically. You can't really force that. But

872
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: if you ever need to reset your day again, Like

873
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: if you're feeling ragie, you can take a raiged shower.

874
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 2: What's that?

875
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 1: So you get in the shower and you blast music. No,

876
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: you can have it hot, but you just blast music

877
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: and you rage all out, like just jam out in

878
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: the shower and sing and blast didn't feel good. And

879
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,839
Speaker 1: then yes, at the end you can do like a

880
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,879
Speaker 1: thirty second to one minute like cold spurt at the end.

881
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: But in it you picture with the water like all

882
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: the rage running down the drain. It's a raid shower.

883
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 2: I can't picture my well, first of all, where am

884
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 2: I getting? I guess you need like a boom box

885
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: in the bathroom.

886
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: Your figure, your phone, and your phone's not that loud, okay.

887
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 2: If I'm raging, I wanted them music to be louder

888
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 2: than I am.

889
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 1: Okay. I mean yeah.

890
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 2: Also, you mentioned going and throwing ice cubes earlier when

891
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 2: I was texting you.

892
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's something that I got from my therapists

893
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: a while back, or maybe even one of my kids

894
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 1: therapists is one of our mini therapists over the years.

895
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: But it was you take ice cubes and then you

896
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,919
Speaker 1: just throw them down as hard as you can onto

897
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: your driveway or your back porch or somewhere where there.

898
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: It can really safer than recks.

899
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 2: A cold shower. I really just can't wait.

900
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: The cold thing is at the end, you don't have

901
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: to do that. You can take a normal raid shower

902
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 1: and it's just you're washing the bad mood away.

903
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, a shower really does do wonders.

904
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: I journled this morning that washed hair.

905
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say, a journal in the

906
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: shower this morning, even with.

907
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: My waterproof journal and my waterproof speaker. No. I I've

908
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: washed my hair this morning and then journaled after it,

909
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: right before I had a few minutes before I had

910
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: to leave for work, and I was like, I'm going

911
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: to use this few minutes to journal because I'm trying

912
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 1: to do my morning pages again, and I what is

913
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 1: it about fresh hair? It changes everything?

914
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: Do you like to wash your hair in the morning

915
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 2: or at night.

916
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: In the morning because it's fresh air?

917
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: So I okay for the look of your hair, right, Yeah,

918
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 2: So I totally agree. There is something like recently last

919
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 2: couple of months, because I've either gone on a walk

920
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 2: at night or worked out at night or something that

921
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 2: has had me take a shower at night the best

922
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: getting ready for bed and going to sleep feeling with

923
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 2: wet hair and feeling like totally clean. I think for

924
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 2: my mental health that is better, but for like my

925
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 2: hair looking good. Yeah, I watched like wash it right before?

926
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 1: Why I can't wash my hair every day? Now? I'll

927
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 1: take showers before bed, but I will put a shower cap.

928
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 2: Would wash your hair every day?

929
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't want to. Yeah, that would take no, no, no, no,

930
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: that would take so much time to wash my hair

931
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: every single day, my friend, because my hair doesn't air dry.

932
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 2: Did you do it when you were younger?

933
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 1: No?

934
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 2: I washed my hair every single day growing up. Is

935
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 2: that not crazy?

936
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: Well? Does your hair air dry? Normalish?

937
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: You can tell when it's air dry. You'd probably be like, oh,

938
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 2: it's an air dry day.

939
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: Okay. Well, some people just naturally can do that. Like

940
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: my friend Luke married a girl and she showers and

941
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: washes her hair every single night and like crawls in bed,

942
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: but then wakes up and her hair is like perfect.

943
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: Oh you know, it's like that's not me.

944
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: She's lucky. But every night she cannot no matter what

945
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,439
Speaker 1: time it is where they are, she will be taking

946
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: a shower.

947
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:48,919
Speaker 2: I feel like that's a normal, like a new thing.

948
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 2: Like growing up, I feel like everybody was washing their

949
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,320
Speaker 2: hair every day, and then all of a sudden people

950
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 2: are like it's not good for you, or like you

951
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 2: don't have to live this way.

952
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 1: Well, I sort of trained my hair to go many

953
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: many days with washing because we heard that's what was

954
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 1: good for you, and then now you're in the opposite. Yeah.

955
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: Do you see how you see on TikTok that now

956
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: that you say.

957
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 2: Oh, I thought your hair girl told you now to

958
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:11,479
Speaker 2: use your actual ham poo or something.

959
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 1: Oh that's a hair Yeah, that was a hairstylist that, yes,

960
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,760
Speaker 1: I've gone to that said that. And also I recently

961
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 1: saw on TikTok wash your hair more, Wash your hair

962
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: more because of the dirt and something heads that we thought.

963
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 2: You think about it, it's kind of gross.

964
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:33,320
Speaker 1: Yes, we thought like it was doing more damage washing

965
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,760
Speaker 1: it too much, but actually keeping that clean is keeping

966
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,439
Speaker 1: the roots healthier and going to give your stronger, better hair.

967
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, and like, I'm sure someone will counter

968
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,919
Speaker 1: that with something else. It was just something I saw

969
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: in passing. But whoever told it to me on TikTok,

970
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: I trusted her.

971
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 2: Did you ever get light as a kid?

972
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 1: No. Stevenson just asking me that the other day because

973
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: he's had life once and we had to completely shave

974
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:53,760
Speaker 1: his head and he's like, what if I get it again?

975
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 1: And I said, it's been boy years.

976
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 2: But also for a boy, it's not a big deal.

977
00:46:58,320 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 2: You can just shave your head and we don't have

978
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 2: had that hair stuff.

979
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: Life's person come to our house and she completely took

980
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: it out, and then she looked in my hair and

981
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: to SHARE's hair everybody in the house, and we were

982
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 1: good to go.

983
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: I went to an elementary school at one point where

984
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,720
Speaker 2: we had like weekly life checks.

985
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: I think that's probably normal.

986
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 2: Normal, Like the nurse would come to our classrooms and

987
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 2: they would check all of our hair.

988
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,720
Speaker 1: Then what if someone had it? Would they be obvious?

989
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: Yes, like, hey, you over there, she's coming with me. Yeah,

990
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 2: that's found one.

991
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 1: Dar.

992
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 2: I had lice, but it was in the summer. You

993
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 2: never asked me if I did have lice. I volunteered

994
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 2: the information.

995
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:36,919
Speaker 1: Now I want to know. I'm sorry when you asked

996
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: that question. I was like, that's so weird. Stephenson just

997
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: asked me about that, and I don't think I've ever

998
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: had it, but I.

999
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 2: Had that thought because they say that lice likes clean hair.

1000
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 2: I think that might be an urban legend to make

1001
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 2: people feel better.

1002
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: Oh you're so clean, Yeah, don't worry.

1003
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 2: It's because you're so clean. But it is annoying for

1004
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 2: a girl because you have to get rid of everything,

1005
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 2: like every hair bow, every headband, every grunchy, every anything.

1006
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 2: You have to get rid of all of it?

1007
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 1: Is that what you do?

1008
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, all my headbands. Never wore a headband again. That's

1009
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 2: why anyway, riveting.

1010
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: Now, I know you have something for us regarding like cursing,

1011
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: which I'm very curious about because I used to not

1012
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: cuss ever.

1013
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 2: Ever, when did you say your first curse word?

1014
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't even think in cussing. Wait, like

1015
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: I just didn't like cusswords didn't pop into my head.

1016
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: I was never a cuss person until a cursor. How

1017
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 1: do you say it?

1018
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 2: He sounds so sweet. I was never a cuss person.

1019
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,240
Speaker 2: I didn't even think cuss words.

1020
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 1: I just did it. It was like, which was good

1021
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: because on the radio we couldn't cuss. And there were

1022
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: times where like one time I spilt my coffee all

1023
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: over the board and the mics are recording and I

1024
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: was recording something. It wasn't live. But this was way

1025
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: back in my early radio career, so like two thousand

1026
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: and six or something, and I said, oh shoot, and

1027
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: like today me now I've probably been like oh fff,

1028
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: you know, so like that was me then and this

1029
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: is me now, and I think the only thing that

1030
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: switched was I don't know. I went through a lot

1031
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: and then realized that sometimes saying a cuss word helped

1032
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: me feel better.

1033
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 2: I vividly remember my first cuss word.

1034
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: Okay, when was it?

1035
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: Me and two of my friends walked to publics. Don't

1036
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,760
Speaker 2: ask me why, and then our walk back we were like, Okay,

1037
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 2: they were cussers, I was not, and so we all

1038
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 2: took turns saying different cuss words. I think they're trying

1039
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 2: to get me.

1040
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 1: To be bad, join the club.

1041
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And then it all went uphill from there because,

1042
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 2: according to research, because is a sign of authenticity and

1043
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 2: people who which goes along with authenticity. I think it

1044
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 2: they mean like more authentic in their personality and who

1045
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 2: they are, but also are less likely to be liars,

1046
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 2: more likely to tell.

1047
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: The truth is maybe I always wanted to be and

1048
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't in my authentic self and for all those

1049
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 1: years because my parents told me the story. I don't

1050
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,719
Speaker 1: fully remember it, but when I was really little, they

1051
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: were hosting a dinner party and like a jet flew

1052
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: over our house, like a fighter jet. You know, have

1053
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: you ever had those flyover? They're so loud, and I

1054
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 1: looked up in the middle of it, and I go,

1055
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: what the F was that? I mean? And I said

1056
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: it and I was three or something. The yeah, I

1057
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 1: said the effort because my parents cused. Yeah, like my

1058
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: parents cussed, I obviously heard the SAI. No, I said, well,

1059
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say it here.

1060
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, he's the authentic, he's a good beep it.

1061
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 1: But I was like, what the was that?

1062
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 2: Oh?

1063
00:50:59,200 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 5: And then.

1064
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:04,720
Speaker 1: My parents loved hell retelling that story, of course, because

1065
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: they thought it was so cute that I did that.

1066
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: And then and I was like, what, that's so crazy

1067
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 1: because I just wasn't a cusser. And I don't know

1068
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 1: if I thought I was being bad if I cussed,

1069
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: or I didn't think I was better than anybody else.

1070
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 1: But I just didn't. Did your sister, I don't recall

1071
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: her cussing. Now, my half sister and my brother they

1072
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 1: cuss all the time. Like with my dad. They'd be

1073
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: having conversations and they I'll be like, cuss, cusser as.

1074
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,959
Speaker 2: An adult, would you curse around your mom?

1075
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 1: No? I didn't cuss so recently my mom passed away.

1076
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: Before you start came a cuss person she missed it.

1077
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: My mom quit cussing. Now she used to cuss. And

1078
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: then when she really found Jesus.

1079
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 2: Like her, Jesus doesn't cuss.

1080
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: Well, she just changed a lot about her. It was

1081
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: like a dramatic shift like and I think how she

1082
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 1: spoke was part of that. I think there were plenty

1083
00:51:57,840 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: of Christians that cuss. That's not the point. I think

1084
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: her she had to make some changes. And that was

1085
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: one thing I saw because I remember one time I

1086
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: missed the bus and she was not happy, and she

1087
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: slammed the dishwasher and said some cuss words. I mean,

1088
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,399
Speaker 1: I remember my parents cussing for sure, and I've cussed

1089
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 1: in front of my kids.

1090
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 2: Now, because you're being authentic, I want to read this

1091
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 2: because just to give the whole picture, it says multiple

1092
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 2: studies have shown a positive correlation between higher profanity use

1093
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 2: and honesty and authenticity, though the link is not absolute.

1094
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 2: Cursing is often described by researchers as an unfiltered and

1095
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 2: genuine expression of emotion, which can signal a person's willingness

1096
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:40,800
Speaker 2: to prioritize candor over politeness. So what I hear in

1097
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 2: that is people that cuss are more willing to prioritize

1098
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 2: being themselves than being nice and polite, you know, yeah,

1099
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 2: which I appreciate.

1100
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: I think that there's a mean over use of it

1101
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: at times that can be a bit much, But for me,

1102
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:01,760
Speaker 1: occasional it's just very fitting.

1103
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like nothing else works as well, nothing, you know, nothing, nothing. Well,

1104
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 2: I'm proud of you that you're now a custperson.

1105
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 1: I'm now a customerson. I know. My mom doesn't know,

1106
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: my dad maybe knew a little bit.

1107
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, because how recent was this transition.

1108
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of when it really started. It

1109
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:26,879
Speaker 1: had to have been twenty twenty, twenty twenty one.

1110
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 2: Was your ex a cust person?

1111
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:34,760
Speaker 1: Not really? But we have become cuss people together, Okay,

1112
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: Like sometimes in our co parenting will say it. One

1113
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: time he called me out for like, oh one time, Okay,

1114
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: how do they say this? Because he wasn't being he

1115
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: was kind of I need to keep this in my

1116
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: side of the street street, you know how, sometimes I

1117
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: want to make sure I tell it my side. I

1118
00:53:55,760 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: was being a little overly colorful with my language, but

1119
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: I was fired up about something and he had to

1120
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 1: let me go, and I was like, oh, you know,

1121
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:07,399
Speaker 1: now you're too good.

1122
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: Oh he was like I'm hanging up.

1123
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: Well, he was like, we just need to talk later,

1124
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: like I don't appreciate your energy. And I was like, what, okay,

1125
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: next time you say a word or two, remind me

1126
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,919
Speaker 1: of this because you're not gonna It was around then

1127
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 1: that we decided we have our code word, which is pickle.

1128
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: So and we haven't had to use pickle in forever

1129
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: in retrospect. In retrospect, I do think I was a

1130
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: little heightened. Okay, like I was here and I could

1131
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: have brought it down to Herod, but he didn't need

1132
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: to be all you know, holier than now on me,

1133
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 1: which that's me, my defensive self talking. I thought I

1134
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: was gonna say on my side of the street. That

1135
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: was not my side of the street. I take it back.

1136
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 1: I would say all of this to his face. I

1137
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: think I was defensive in that moment of like, well

1138
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: who do you think you are? And and you say

1139
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: these words too, so just wait. But now I don't

1140
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 1: feel that way he does it.

1141
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 2: There's not gonna be revenge.

1142
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: No, that was a while back.

1143
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I remember this.

1144
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: Yeah's the best job of saying on my side of

1145
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: the street.

1146
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 2: That was the thought that counts.

1147
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: Right before I told the story, I'm like, stay on

1148
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:13,839
Speaker 1: my side of the street. And then I still called

1149
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: out his because I was still I guess when I

1150
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 1: think back on it, I'm still perplexed by why he

1151
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,839
Speaker 1: went that route. But that's okay. We all have this moment.

1152
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 2: Is Alex a cuss person?

1153
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: Occasionally when it's right, I probably throw them in a

1154
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: little more than he does. But he's dabbled well good.

1155
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 2: That means that he's authentic. He is, And this isn't

1156
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 2: on encompassing. Obviously, like you said, sometimes people will overuse.

1157
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 2: There is a too far And also if you don't cuss,

1158
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean that you're a liar, yeah at all.

1159
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 2: But it is just interesting. I have a book called Swearing.

1160
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 2: It's good for you. I've been meaning to read it

1161
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 2: for like ten years.

1162
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:54,919
Speaker 1: Oh you haven't even read it yet.

1163
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 2: I did start it, but then it was just a

1164
00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 2: lot about the research of cursing and language in it.

1165
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 2: Just I think I got the gist of it from

1166
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:04,800
Speaker 2: the title.

1167
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 1: You know, another reset. I know I shared the raid shower,

1168
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 1: But another thing you can do for a reset is

1169
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: eat something cold and crunchy.

1170
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 2: That would not do it for me. It wouldn't not

1171
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 2: rage if I'm overwhelmed.

1172
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, but let's just like you're real mad and

1173
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: you get a carrot and you dip in some honeys

1174
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: hummus and then you bite down like that. Wouldn't you

1175
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: be like nothing chips?

1176
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 2: Do you think that would be? So? I don't think

1177
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 2: that if I'm angry, I want to eat. I'm one

1178
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 2: of those people who I have a lot of emotions.

1179
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 2: My appetite isn't there. What I'm hearing from you is

1180
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 2: that like the like crunch in the bite of it

1181
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 2: is gonna be like oh, but I think I'd rather

1182
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 2: throw ice or the scream in the shower or something.

1183
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 1: What about two ice? Do you chew ice?

1184
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 2: No, but my husband is always chewing ice. If there

1185
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 2: is a cup somewhere with ice in it, he's gonna

1186
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 2: eat it.

1187
00:56:54,360 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 1: That's so manly, that's yeah, what a man? What amen?

1188
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 2: I hear that chewing ice also gives you gas? So really, yes,

1189
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 2: why you're sucking down a lot of air?

1190
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 1: Oh well that's a good deterrent. Yeah. I don't stop

1191
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 1: my husband with chewing ice. You don't tell him like, hey, baby,

1192
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: that's gonna give you gas.

1193
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 2: I think I've told him that before and he's like,

1194
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 2: I can't stop. He loves it. He gets it from

1195
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 2: his dad. His dad's choose. Like if you go to

1196
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 2: a restaurant and you get a drink with ice in it,

1197
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 2: they drink the drink, but then they eat all of

1198
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 2: the ice.

1199
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

1200
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, And like if we go to like especially

1201
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 2: somewhere with good ice, Like I'm pretty sure Chick fil

1202
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 2: A has good ice. Oh yeah, if we go there, yeah,

1203
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 2: and Sonic. If we go there and we both get

1204
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 2: drinks and he finishes his ice and my ice is

1205
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 2: sitting there, have my ice too. Yes, his dad just

1206
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 2: got a Sonic ice maker, like a ice maker.

1207
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 1: That makes oh pellets.

1208
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, So probably because he wants to eat the ice.

1209
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 2: That's something that like pregnant people are supposed to like,

1210
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 2: which I don't know why why that is, but I

1211
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 2: do hear they do.

1212
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 1: Like it Probably is the crunch.

1213
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 2: Nothing sounds good oh oh.

1214
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it like gives them maybe the cold coldness

1215
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: feels good. Do you pop your knuckles? Yes? Okay, me too.

1216
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: And one of the things that my boyfriend really really

1217
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: is holding on too, even though the Internet says otherwise

1218
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: is that popping knuckles causes arthritis, and like he won't

1219
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: let his kids do it, and he's anytime I do it,

1220
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 1: he's like stop, and I'm like, have you researched this?

1221
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: And he's like.

1222
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and what did he find?

1223
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: Well, he finds that it gives aarthritis and I'm like,

1224
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: but I see here it doesn't. It's a myth. I feel,

1225
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 1: so what do we believe? I don't know, but he's

1226
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: just so, he doesn't let it go. He's not budging

1227
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: on it. It's just not couple thoughts.

1228
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 2: I won pop my knuckles like twenty times a day.

1229
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 2: I love it. It feels so good to not do

1230
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 2: that would have you'd have to have so much self control.

1231
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 2: I also love when my husband cracks my knuckles. Bab

1232
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 2: that you do so, But also I feel so good

1233
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 2: at cracking my uncle tell us more. Anyway, what I

1234
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 2: also was gonna say is that if it really did

1235
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 2: cause arthritis, I think more of us, more of us

1236
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 2: would have it, or well, sometimes I do think I

1237
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 2: have arthritis, but it's just side. The point is that

1238
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 2: from cracking my knuckles can't be but I just feel

1239
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 2: like there'd be more warnings about it. Like I just

1240
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 2: feel like that's something we heard when we are little

1241
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: and like we grew out of it, believe. Yeah, So

1242
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 2: if that really was, and I feel like at our physicals,

1243
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 2: our doctors would be like, and you're not cracking.

1244
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: Your knuckles right, you know, do your wrists pop? No,

1245
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: that's my party trick and it'll do it every time.

1246
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 2: You're like the lady at church that they do the bells.

1247
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, they both will pop. This one's not as loud,

1248
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: but it's still popping. Wow.

1249
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 2: So if you were in miscongeniality, that's what you.

1250
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: If you're towing my talent, No, my talent would Okay,

1251
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 1: that could be one of my talents. My other one

1252
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 1: would be you can line up a lot of different

1253
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: ketchups and I will tell you which one is hines.

1254
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 2: That's pretty pretty sick. Yeah, so you have a backup talent.

1255
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, Well that's cool. That's in there.

1256
01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 1: However you're feeling today, if you need to take a beat,

1257
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 1: throw some ice cubes, take a raid, shower, eat something crunchy, curse.

1258
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 2: Curse, be a cuss person.

1259
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that what I said? Yeah, you know. Just

1260
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: know that you're not alone. If that is you, we

1261
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: are with you and we hope you have the.

1262
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 2: Day you need to have.

1263
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: Bye. Bye,