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Speaker 1: Atlanta Fringe Festival. Regular listeners know that that's Diana's artistic baby, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Let's go, Hey, their friends come listen. Well, Eli and

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Speaker 1: The first thing I want to talk about today just

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Speaker 1: Well? This is about that fabulous composer Tschaikovsky. We should

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Speaker 1: Know, okay, So let's say role play. I come to you, Diana.

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Speaker 2: What that's where I want to start my travel blog.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like it's an untouched piece of tourism

439
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 2: that really will rocket me to start.

440
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Speaker 1: I know the people are desperate for a nice for

441
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Speaker 1: a nice on Tupelo, but I do need to tell

442
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 1: you've got the Fringe Festival coming up. It's the first

443
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: weekend in June. What are the dates?

444
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 2: June fifth through the eleventh.

445
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 1: June fifth through the eleventh in Atlanta, Georgia. Well, there

446
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,919
Speaker 1: was a special deal going on in Tupelow that was

447
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: only June seventh, eighth, and ninth, so I went ahead

448
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 1: and got it for myself. I understand that you're upset,

449
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: but you know that this is something that I've always

450
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 1: wanted to do. Now go respond.

451
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 2: I think it's different because you're now abandoning me during

452
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 2: a very busy time.

453
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 1: When I need a lot of them to compare. Respond

454
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Speaker 1: and also the car respond.

455
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: Respond, No, you can't go to Tupelo.

456
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Speaker 1: Are you crazy?

457
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 3: How need you hear?

458
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: First of all, you.

459
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Speaker 2: Said you were going to do some work for the

460
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Speaker 2: Fringe festival, suddenly missed two days of it. At Secondly,

461
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 2: look you got a whole staff. You know full well

462
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: that several of them don't live in Atlanta.

463
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: I don't live in Atlanta either. I live in Tupelo, Mississippi.

464
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, fine, go don't call me while you're there.

465
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 2: I hope you have a terrible time user user ober Lordie.

466
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 1: It's that simple.

467
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: Just make it so she doesn't want you around, and

468
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 2: then please go to Japan in fact, for longer.

469
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: Fellas everyone, if you need some time apart from your spouse,

470
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,639
Speaker 1: just make them really want to get rid of you.

471
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 2: Be annoying as hell. I'll let you go wherever you want.

472
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: I know we say no romantic tips on this show,

473
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: but you can keep that one. That one's all right,

474
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 1: let's get away from this guy.

475
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I don't know. That One's a tough one

476
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 2: to me.

477
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 1: So I would say, uh, my verdict is not the asshole,

478
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: but uh it may be a little inconsiderate.

479
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Speaker 3: Okay, I like that.

480
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Speaker 2: I think that makes sense. Yeah again, I would be

481
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Speaker 2: if it were me, I would prefer to have you

482
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 2: with me on a trip like that, and so I

483
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 2: would probably be sitting there trying to work out a budget.

484
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: But to where Okay, this is what if can you

485
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 2: pay this much? Would that be comfortable for you? And

486
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 2: then I can cover the rest and if you feel

487
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 2: some type of way about it, maybe we can come

488
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 2: up with a payment plan or something, you know what

489
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 2: I mean. Like, because it might not be him not

490
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,360
Speaker 2: willing to pay. She might not be willing to accept

491
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 2: the payment. There's a lot of people are very proud

492
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 2: about that. So she might be like, I know, if

493
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 2: you're not going to let me pay back? Yeah, you

494
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Someone don't.

495
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Speaker 1: As someone who has been the person with less money

496
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Speaker 1: in the past, my feelings are get over yourself and

497
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: take the money while you can. My god.

498
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 2: I don't know how many people have that sense of

499
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 2: pride necessarily, but I know some people really feel strongly

500
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Speaker 2: about it.

501
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: What was pride? It's twenty twenty three.

502
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 3: Who's got pride anymore?

503
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: Dead?

504
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 2: All shame is gone, all fried is dead.

505
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: All right?

506
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,160
Speaker 2: But yes, there's other things to talk about, so let's

507
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: move on. Let's go down to that. This is a

508
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: good one. This one is from user d r underscore

509
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 2: r dearer dear, and she asks, am I the asshole

510
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: for calling my husband rude for his constant farting?

511
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm going to say no, I'm an immediately

512
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 1: say this feels like you're not the asshole For this one,

513
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 1: he's the asshole or the asshole is asshole? Who's the

514
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: asshole in a situation where farting is happening? Scientifically, the

515
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: asshole is wherever the fart is coming from.

516
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 3: That's so true. You don't need to tide to read it.

517
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: For that desition.

518
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 2: This one's easily answered.

519
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: Well, let's hear her story.

520
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 2: Well, she says, she's thirty one, her husband's twenty nine,

521
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: and he's a very gassy person. Sure, nothing wrong with that,

522
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 2: And she's exactly she said, that's everybody you know has

523
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 2: it's got to come out somehow. But he just farts

524
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 2: so much. She says, quote, it's not just letting them

525
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: slip then excusing himself. It's lift a leg, forcefully push

526
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 2: it out and laughs. Nine out of ten times, it

527
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 2: seriously sounds like he has pooped his pants.

528
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 1: Oh sir, maybe go to a doctor.

529
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 2: Like, have y'all discussed your diet? Have we talked about

530
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 2: sugar intake or something? So anyway, she says, she expressed

531
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 2: countless times that you know, she wishes that he would

532
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: kind of excuse himself and leave the room when he

533
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 2: feels one coming on in, but he never does. And

534
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 2: finally she snapped and told him that she thought he

535
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 2: was very rude and disrespectful, and he says she's wrong

536
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: because he should be able to fart in his own

537
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 2: house whenever he feels the need, and she said, you know,

538
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 2: of course, that is the one place where guests would

539
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 2: be the most acceptable, is in your own home. But

540
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 2: she's also said that she's asked him in the past

541
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 2: if he would fart like that in front of her

542
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 2: grandmother if she was in their house, and he said,

543
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: of course he would not because that would be rude.

544
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 2: So she said, pretend I'm my grandmother in that situation,

545
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 2: and he will not do it. So he thinks she's

546
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 2: being unreasonable for asking him to quote not just fart

547
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 2: loudly and dramatically every time the feeling comes over him.

548
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: But she thinks that he's being rude and disrespectable because

549
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 2: he's not, you know, thinking that she you know, doesn't

550
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: want to breathe in his nasty poop smells well, So

551
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,199
Speaker 2: who's the asshole here? Does he need? She says, am

552
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 2: I the asshole for telling my husband. He is rude

553
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 2: and disrespectful and needs to take his butt Trumpet elsewhere,

554
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 2: but trump it's great, but Trumpet amazing. Look, yeah, come on,

555
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: this sounds an easy one.

556
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: It is.

557
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 3: He's being an asshole.

558
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: It's the kind of thing where I'm like, look, someone

559
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: just asked you to not huh. That's all I ever need.

560
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: If someone says, hey, will you not do that? Right,

561
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: and they're earnest about it, it's not like a joking thing,

562
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: then okay, yeah you didn't not going to do it,

563
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: and yeah.

564
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 2: It's your own house, but you couldn't take a shit

565
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 2: on the floor either, like people would be mad about that,

566
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 2: and you can't be like, we was my house a

567
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 2: shit where I want, like, I mean, other people live here.

568
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: Bro. She's like it bothers me and if it were

569
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: someone else that it's a respect issue too, because she said,

570
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: straight upset, you wouldn't do it in front of my

571
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: grandmother because that's rude. But I'm telling you I find

572
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: it rude and you don't. You don't respect me to,

573
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,719
Speaker 1: you don't care. Yeah, yeah, that's a problem.

574
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 2: It's an issue. I think I think he's being an asshole.

575
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: This one's an easy one. Yeah, this was one. I

576
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 2: was like, you didn't need to tell the internet about this,

577
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 2: but it was very funny and Bundy user ka Rimmer

578
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 2: seventy one says, not the asshole lord above, girl, this

579
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 2: has been my life for two decades.

580
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 4: Girl.

581
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: Poor wives of the world out there have some real

582
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: problems here their farting husbands.

583
00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 2: These boys just keep dutch ebaning for decades. Uh yeah,

584
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 2: she says she or he says, I love my husband,

585
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 2: but he hasn't matured beyond the fourth grade in this arena.

586
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: It's gross and it's disrespectful to you. Yes, everyone needs

587
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 2: to break wind here and there. But when he admitted

588
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 2: that he wouldn't do it in front of grand because

589
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 2: it's rude, he shows that he knows what he's doing

590
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: is wrong.

591
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: There you go.

592
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I agree why these men are from frightening faces.

593
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: Look, I don't care about a fart. Farts are very

594
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: funny sometimes true. But there's again, if someone expresses to

595
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: you it's I don't find it funny and it upsets

596
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: me or I feel disrespected or anything like that. How

597
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: hard is it just not make a big deal out

598
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: of it.

599
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 2: Plus the joke will be funnier if it happens a

600
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 2: fewer times.

601
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, true, right now, she can't.

602
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: She can't enjoy the comedy of it because it's happening

603
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 2: to you frequently and she has feelings.

604
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:50,479
Speaker 1: About it, thank you.

605
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: But if you just stop doing it, you know, so

606
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 2: frequently you can you can pick your moment. Let one fly.

607
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 3: Oh it'll be.

608
00:30:58,240 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 2: The hope, most hilarious thing.

609
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 3: Sure, what happened to it?

610
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 2: You know? It's true. She'll be like, you played that

611
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: butt trumpet at just the right time.

612
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 3: If he's that and I have a full body or

613
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 3: castle in the wall.

614
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 5: Uh.

615
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: Oh por Tchaikovsky.

616
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 3: I don't know.

617
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: He might be fine with it. That's he's like, that's

618
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 2: what music's supposed to do.

619
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: All right, listen to response.

620
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: Catharsis, Oh my god.

621
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 1: All right, all right, well we can fart that one

622
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: away under.

623
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: Any butt trumpets out, Yes, story definitely.

624
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: Look, weddings make people act kind of crazy, and I'll

625
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: tell you that is what we're going to get into next.

626
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: We come back with some really interesting posts from the

627
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: marriage and marriage Nightmare subreddits right off this quick break.

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00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: Welcome back, everybody.

629
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 2: Okay, so our next wedding related am I the asshole

630
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 2: is from user. That's what happened you.

631
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: That's what happened you.

632
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 3: That's what happened.

633
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what happened you.

634
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,719
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't know he had a time traveler.

635
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeahs Ago gangster this one. I'm going to tell

636
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: you a story, and don't you deny it, because that's

637
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: what happened.

638
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: Yo. Well, our Chicago gangster asked, am I the asshole

639
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: for kicking my bridesmaid out of my party and says

640
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 2: that they're getting married in a few weeks. This recently

641
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: happened and they have been stressing ever since. And they

642
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 2: said one of their bridesmaids, who they call Ashley, a

643
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: thirty year old woman, is having money issues. Our bride

644
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 2: truly empathizes with her because her husband lost his job.

645
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 2: Ashley works in retail, so things are really tight. So

646
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 2: she says, when I offered her the position of bridesmaid,

647
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 2: I told her it'd be okay if she turned it down,

648
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 2: but I had no intention of changing my plans for

649
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 2: only one person. She said it would totally be fine

650
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 2: and wanted to be the bridesmaid. So I let hers.

651
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: She's the bridesmaid. Now everything's going fine and says, you

652
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: know that things kind of were going well. She tried

653
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 2: to choose sort of inexpensive dresses and shoes, she found

654
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 2: an inexpensive makeup artist in nail salon. In total, she says,

655
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 2: everything was around three hundred and fifty dollars to be

656
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: a bridesmaid in her wedding, right, buy all your shit.

657
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 2: But she's chosen to have her bachelorette at Disneyland, which

658
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: is very expensive, but it's always been her dream. And

659
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 2: the trip neared and she Ashley had nit to buy

660
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 2: her tickets, so when she asked, you know, go for it,

661
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: because at the time, COVID was still going on and

662
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 2: the parks were at limited capacity, so she was worried

663
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 2: that Ashley wouldn't be able to join them. And she says,

664
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 2: I'm also getting tickets for fantasmic dining and I need

665
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 2: the number for people coming and she's only asking them

666
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 2: to pay for half of that. She's paying for the rest.

667
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 2: So asked Ashley, are you buying this ticket? And Ashley

668
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: lost her shit on that's what happened you and told

669
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 2: her it's inexcusable to expect her to spend upwards of

670
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: one thousand dollars on all these festivities when she can

671
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 2: barely afford rent. Well, our bride came back and said, well,

672
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: you didn't have to be no bridesmaid, and you know

673
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 2: you shouldn't just do things that you can't afford. And

674
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 2: Ashley said, that's ridiculous to expect me to sit out

675
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 2: of things that I can't do, and that if she

676
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 2: if the bride wanted her to participate as a bridesmaid,

677
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 2: the bride should have paid for all of Ashley's stuff

678
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: that she had to have to participate as a bridesmaid.

679
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 2: And of course the bride said, I don't think you

680
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:33,240
Speaker 2: need to be worried about it because you're no longer

681
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 2: invited to the wedding and blocked her at everything. Wow,

682
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,919
Speaker 2: what a reaction. Yeah, some of the other bridesmaids think

683
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 2: that she overreacted and should let Ashley be in the

684
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 2: wedding again. So am I the asshole for kicking Ashley

685
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 2: out of the wedding?

686
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: That's what happened, yo, That's what happened, yo. She says,

687
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 1: I invited this girl to be a bridesmaid knowing that

688
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: she didn't have a lot of money, and said, you know,

689
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 1: you might not be able to afford anything, and the

690
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: girl said, that's cool, and then she got mad when

691
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: she couldn't afford something. Right, you know this better than

692
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 1: I do. But I think if you're setting up a

693
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: bridesmaid party and one of your bridesmaids is like, oh,

694
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: I can't afford to do that one thing, like that's okay, right,

695
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: Like you don't have to you don't all have to

696
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 1: do everything.

697
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 2: That's sort of I don't. I don't understand why. I mean,

698
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 2: it sucks to not get to go to Disneyland and stuff.

699
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 2: But like, for example, when I when we were getting married,

700
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: my bachelorette was in New York, I really wanted to

701
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: go to New York for the first time, and not

702
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 2: everybody could afford to go, and so not everybody went.

703
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 2: And it was not a problem, like nobody.

704
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: Minded because being Amaid, I didn't mind more about the

705
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: wedding day exactly.

706
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, and I understood by choosing

707
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,280
Speaker 2: an out of state destination that required a plane ticket

708
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 2: and all kinds of stuff that I was asking for

709
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,399
Speaker 2: quite a lot. So I was like, if you don't,

710
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 2: if this is not a trip you're interested in taking,

711
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: if you don't want to go to this city. If

712
00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 2: you don't have the money, I'm not. My feelings will

713
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 2: not be hurt. It's totally fine. Most of them did

714
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 2: make it happen because they actually also wanted to go.

715
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: But you know, okay, so role play Diana and Anny

716
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: my bridesmaid. I want to let you know. I know

717
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: you're really busy in early June. What are the dates

718
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 1: for the Fringe Festival again?

719
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 2: It's June fifth to the eleventh.

720
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 1: June fifth for the eleventh in Atlanta, Georgia.

721
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: That's right.

722
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: Tickets for shows or how much?

723
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:28,760
Speaker 2: Fifteen dollars?

724
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: Only fifteen dollars? You're telling me there's a full four

725
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: days in Atlanta where I can go see twenty eight

726
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 1: shows across how many venues? Seven seven venues and each

727
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 1: show's only fifteen dollars? Is there some way to get

728
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: like a bulk package of tickets? I can get a discount?

729
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: You can?

730
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: This sounds incredible?

731
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: And also free shows for kids, free.

732
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: Shows for kids. Boy, if I had a kid and

733
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: I lived anywhere near Atlanta, Georgia, I would be sure

734
00:36:55,680 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 1: to be in town on Saturday, June ten. But anyway,

735
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: get back to my wedding I'm not going to be

736
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: able to go because my bridesmaid's trip it's gonna be

737
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: that same week, so I know that you'll have a

738
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 1: hard time going. Do you still want to be a bridesmaid? Oh?

739
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, be a bridesmaid. I just won't go on the trip.

740
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: Okay, And then fast forward It's June fourth, right tomorrow, Diana,

741
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: We're leaving for Tupelo, Mississippi, for my for my bachelorette party.

742
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: Are you ready to go?

743
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not going. I have the fringe festival this week. Well,

744
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 2: I have nothing to say because I already told you

745
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 2: I wasn't going. Well, that's I guess that's my question.

746
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 2: Is she mad and Ashley for not being able to go?

747
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 2: I mean, or is it Ashley mad because Ashley can't go.

748
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: I think it's a little of both, because it sounds

749
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: like Ashley. Ashley definitely was like you should have paid

750
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: for my ticket, right, which I don't think is necessarily true.

751
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: But then the bride then kicked her out of the

752
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: wedding and was like, you're blocked on social media, you

753
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: can't come to my wedding. All this stuff.

754
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 2: Well, we have an edit here, Okay. She added some

755
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 2: information that this, Yeah, that's what happened.

756
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 1: You what else happened?

757
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 3: As what else happened?

758
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: Said some things that I forgot to mention. The price

759
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 2: was not one thousand dollars, not even close. It would

760
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 2: have been around five hundred and fifty per guest. I

761
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 2: also explained to Ashley that I would have been fine

762
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 2: with her not going, as there's other bonding activities that

763
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 2: we were doing that I can pay for. Ashley also

764
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,399
Speaker 2: called me selfish, a bitch and told me my wedding

765
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 2: wouldn't last, which contributed to me blocking her. I told

766
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: her she didn't have to come to this if she

767
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: didn't have the means to do so.

768
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: Okay, so she did say you could just not go.

769
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, this sounds to me like Ashley's kind of

770
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 2: be in the ben asshole in this situation if she's

771
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,399
Speaker 2: like because I mean a lot of the comments here

772
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 2: are saying that the bride is being an asshole because

773
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 2: she chose an expensive place and wants her friends to

774
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 2: spend a bunch of money. Okay, this one commenter, Luna

775
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: Vakuna says, if you're going to have an expensive wedding situation,

776
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: actually pay for it Otherwise you can't actually afford it,

777
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 2: I mean pay to fly fly people out and pay

778
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: for their accommodations, etc. Expecting someone to spend thousands of

779
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 2: dollars to be your frint isn't great. I don't agree

780
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 2: at all, because you don't have to go to a wedding.

781
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: People just take it so personally and you don't need

782
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: to like, Okay, we're getting married in the Maldives. Okay.

783
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: First of all, if you can't make it, of course

784
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: you can't make it. That's an insanely difficult trip to make.

785
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: But I would love for it. I would love for

786
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 1: you to be there if you can. Okay. So now

787
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 1: the people getting married have no right to be upset

788
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: about the people who can or can't go, And the

789
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: people who can or can't go or the people who

790
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 1: can't go have no right to think, oh, how dare

791
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: you make me like? Just don't go?

792
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: No, that what. It is completely voluntary to choose to

793
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 2: attend a wedding or even to be in a wedding party.

794
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 2: It is certainly true that if you're going to pick

795
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 2: expensive stuff to do or make it expensive to be

796
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 2: in your wedding party, then you need to be chill

797
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: about people who say no and not take it personally

798
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 2: in either direction. Right, But I feel like, yeah, she's saying,

799
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 2: like I told her, Hey, I understand you're in a

800
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 2: tight situation. I'd love you to be a bridesmaid, but

801
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm going to do expensive shit. Is that cool or not?

802
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:42,439
Speaker 2: And Ash just said it's cool. Yeah, Then she said

803
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 2: the most expensive thing. I told her it's fine if

804
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 2: she don't go, and that she was willing to pay

805
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 2: for other bonding things that they were going to do

806
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: together with the rest of the with the rest of

807
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: the bridesmaids or whatever. So it's not like she's like, actually,

808
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 2: I want her to dig into her wallet as soon

809
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: as possible. You know, I don't know if I'm feeling

810
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 2: like she's being an asshole.

811
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So it's more like, Diana, we're leaving tomorrow for Tupelo.

812
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: I know you can't make it because you've got the

813
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 1: ringe festival.

814
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 2: And then you say, how dare you go to Tupelo?

815
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 2: What after everything I said about having the fringe festival

816
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 2: and you're still going to Tupelo? What I told you

817
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: I had a thing. Yeah, I'm angry at you for

818
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 2: going instead of changing all your plans for me, oh,

819
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 2: which you said specifically you wouldn't do.

820
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: But I you know, it's my dream to go to Tupelo, Mississippi.

821
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 2: That's what doesn't dream of going to Tupelo, Mississippi.

822
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 3: That's what I want to know.

823
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 2: I don't what do you think? Do you know? Do

824
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 2: you not feel me on this line?

825
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: No? I think on sort of reexamining it and seeing

826
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: that edit that it does actually kind of sound like

827
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: Ashley's the one out of line here.

828
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 2: It sounds like they both went too far in the fight.

829
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: They should not have like blocked her and banned her

830
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: from the wet and stuff like that. But at the

831
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: same time, Ashley should not have called her a bitch

832
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: and said your wedding won't last time. Get me. Yeah. No,

833
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: If she did that and then she kicked her out

834
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 1: of the wedding, that's totally justifiable that, which is what

835
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: it sounds like.

836
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 2: She said that contributed to me blocking her at least,

837
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:21,399
Speaker 2: So it sounds like they both lost their temper and

838
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,479
Speaker 2: said some mean shit and now it's gone a little

839
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 2: too far. But yeah, I don't know. I just feel

840
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 2: like a wedding is about the people getting married, So

841
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 2: you can roll your eyes all day long about their

842
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 2: stupid destination wedding, but you don't have to go. You know,

843
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:37,399
Speaker 2: they're trying to make something that might be their only

844
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 2: opportunity to go to that place, or maybe that I

845
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 2: don't know. Some parents are willing to spend a lot

846
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: of money on a wedding and nothing else, So that

847
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: might be the well I'm having in the Maldives because

848
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 2: my dad's gonna pay for it, and that's the only

849
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 2: chance I have to.

850
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 3: Go to the freaking Maldi's.

851
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 2: So sorry, it's gonna be a small affair, but that's

852
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 2: what the fuck I'm doing. You know, I could see it.

853
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 2: I just feel like some people take it way too personally.

854
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,359
Speaker 2: Like you said, you just got to relax. You just

855
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 2: got to relax about these weddings. So this is how

856
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 2: it could have gone. Role play. Eli. Yeah, I really

857
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: want to ask you to be a bridesmaid, Okay, but

858
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 2: like I know you're having like some financial difficulties right now,

859
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 2: and like I just wanted to say that it was

860
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 2: totally totally, totally cool if you decide not to be

861
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 2: in my wedding party, Like I will not take it

862
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 2: personally because I'm definitely doing some like, oh kind of

863
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 2: expensive things, like I'm gonna be a fancy bitch.

864
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: For my wedding, Oh my god.

865
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 2: And I just don't need to feel pressure to like

866
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:33,800
Speaker 2: ap buy stuff that you can't afford.

867
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: Well, like, here's the deal, Okay, if you are okay

868
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 1: with me being a bridesmaid on your wedding day, then

869
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 1: I would love to do it as long as you're

870
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: aware with and cool with the fact that I probably

871
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: can't afford to go do the expensive stuff. But if

872
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 1: it's something that like you want as like a whole

873
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: bonding experience for the entire group to be doing all

874
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 1: these individual things leading up to the culmination of the

875
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: wedding day itself, and then everyone who's standing up there

876
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 1: together has gone through all these experiences together, then like

877
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: I will totally just sit out and I'm going to

878
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: come to your wedding and have a great time. I'm

879
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 1: totally gonna eat the food that you give me that

880
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 1: you're paying for. Lol, what do you think?

881
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, girl, we will never fight because we

882
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 2: are just so good at communicating.

883
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: Openness is like so key, It is like so key. Well,

884
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 1: these these two are great. I know the relationship.

885
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 2: They sound more annoying than they are.

886
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: I know. Well, all right, well let's get the hell

887
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: out of that wedding because it sounds.

888
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 2: Like it's going to be I usually do agree with

889
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 2: the majority of Reddit users, but I don't agree on

890
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: this one.

891
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: Well, slow down, now, there it is. I usually agree

892
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: with the majority of Reddit users. Is a dangerous thing

893
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: to say.

894
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: That's not what I meant. I just meant usually with

895
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 2: them the asshole. Yeah, I agree with the top commentary mostly,

896
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: but this time I do not agree.

897
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 1: Well, here comes the hate mail.

898
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, from user Luna vacunas.

899
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: Well. We're going to take a quick break and then

900
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: we'll get into some of the ask reddit questions that

901
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: people had out there, some of the weirder answers, and

902
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: we'll try and give a few answers of our own. Okay,

903
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: so stick around. We'll be right back, and we're back.

904
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 1: I want to get into there's one just called ask reddit,

905
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 1: right and people just post whatever question they want and

906
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: people decide whether or not they want to answer it.

907
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: And I thought there was some here that we would

908
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:45,799
Speaker 1: have fun with, and some very basic relationship stuff, right,

909
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: like for example, from user you Cer. There we go,

910
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: they say, what's something that makes another person unattractive to you?

911
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 2: Oh?

912
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: Top answer here was treating servers poorly, treating animals poorly,

913
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 1: talking about themselves for hours but never asking questions about me,

914
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: trying to make me jealous, and if their only sense

915
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: of humor is making fun of other people, Diana take

916
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: it away.

917
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 2: All of those, I agree with all those, but one

918
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 2: that was not in there I think is incompetence.

919
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was kind of.

920
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 2: Thinking about this because you know, and you know, guys

921
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: are always like girls love rock stars, they love a

922
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 2: guy who plays a guitar, right, Okay, And I was

923
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 2: just thinking about it, and I was like, I wonder why,

924
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 2: you know, what is the real appeal of a guy

925
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 2: who plays the guitar, Because most guys that you're talking about,

926
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 2: we've talked about high school, you know, age, they're not

927
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 2: a rock star, right right, They're just a guy who

928
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 2: plays a guitar. And what I think is, this is

929
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,920
Speaker 2: my theory, is that a guitar, first of all, you

930
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 2: had to pick it up, you had to take initiative

931
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 2: to pick up a new hobby. It shows dedication because

932
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 2: you're practicing and when you play it. But you're displaying

933
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 2: competence and confidence, and those are all attractive things, I think,

934
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:08,439
Speaker 2: And so I was like, I don't know that it's

935
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,879
Speaker 2: necessarily the music. Obviously, there's some hobbies, you know, people like, well,

936
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 2: I know how to do a yoyo real good.

937
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 3: No girls care about that.

938
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: Damn you're gonna go after the yo yo boys.

939
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 2: I mean, actually, I think a lot of girls care

940
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 2: about They probably get girls.

941
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 3: I don't know.

942
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: Honestly, a yogo girl will be super hot.

943
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:27,959
Speaker 2: A yoyo girl.

944
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:32,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, girls you come in here doing around the world

945
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 1: and walking dogs and stuff. I'm in.

946
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 2: But it was just something I was thinking about. It

947
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 2: was like, I wonder if it's not really so much

948
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 2: about the guitar, and like, oh, now you're a rock star.

949
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 2: When I look at you, I think of you know,

950
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:47,919
Speaker 2: Adam Levine or some shit Like it's just like this guy,

951
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 2: like is displaying all of the qualities that you want

952
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 2: in a person that you're gonna be with for any

953
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 2: length of time, which is somebody who has an interest

954
00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 2: in the world around him, some curiosity, willingness to put

955
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:04,800
Speaker 2: in the work practice, and then as actually good at something,

956
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,399
Speaker 2: and that's attractive to watch someone be good at something. Yeah,

957
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: I think I might have a lot to do with it.

958
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 1: I think that's a I think that's a very clever

959
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: insight into why people are attracted to guitar players. I

960
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: gave up the guitar very quickly because it outcheeed my fingers.

961
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: Oh, I know it does and.

962
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: My fingers, and it took time. It was the other

963
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 1: thing high school. I was in high school. I was

964
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: very used to already being good at the things that

965
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 1: I was good at, and to pick up something new

966
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 1: and have to like work to get good at it.

967
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 1: Buy see you later, alligator.

968
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 2: And gifted child syndrome.

969
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. So guitar didn't take then I played with

970
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 1: it more later, but confidence and dedication were not what

971
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: I was exhibiting with the guitar.

972
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,439
Speaker 2: So I just there was a kid in my high

973
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 2: school I didn't particularly care for, and then he like

974
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 2: took up the drums or something, and he was playing

975
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 2: the drums one day and I was like, oh, I

976
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 2: think I might have a crush on him. And I

977
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 2: had a crush in for like three days. You know,

978
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,240
Speaker 2: it didn't last long, but I was like, I really

979
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 2: remember being like why, I know, I don't like him

980
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 2: like there's nothing and it was cut. He looked good.

981
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 2: He was good at something. You know. It's just something

982
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,719
Speaker 2: about that and the way you look when you're good

983
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 2: at something. I think people look very attractive in that moment.

984
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: That goes a long way.

985
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 3: What about you?

986
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 2: What makes you want to what? What makes I.

987
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: Find unattractive in someone?

988
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:33,799
Speaker 2: Is?

989
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,399
Speaker 1: Man, I'm attracted to so many things, you know, very much.

990
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: Nothing you can do looks, you know what kind looks,

991
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: very attractive looks.

992
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

993
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: I just gonna go, what what are we doing here?

994
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 2: That's what people really come to this podcast? Where are

995
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 2: we kicking around interesting points?

996
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: It's you know, whether or not someone's attractive or not.

997
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 2: It's really all it comes down to.

998
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: I want to care about the rest. We could fix

999
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: the rest. No, I'm kidding. I would say something I'm

1000
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: unattracted to in people, wellhen they open their mouths and

1001
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: start talking. No, I would say it's like dispassion, like

1002
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,760
Speaker 1: when people aren't don't have anything they're like passionate about.

1003
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm really fascinated when somebody's really into something, you know,

1004
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: I think that's cool and I'll like let you go

1005
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,720
Speaker 1: off about it. You know, and if you're a talker

1006
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 1: even better. Because I'm a I think generally you'd say

1007
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 1: I'm a listener, yeah, and go for it. But when

1008
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: people are just like not, they're just kind of bored,

1009
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: they don't want to do anything. They're they're not there's

1010
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 1: nothing that excites them particular, just kind of coasting day

1011
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 1: to day. That's not very interesting to me. I kind

1012
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 1: of want to get out of there as fast as

1013
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 1: I can.

1014
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 2: I agree that is not attractive. Yeah, you can't have

1015
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 2: fun with a person like that.

1016
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:18,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I want to get to this next

1017
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: one because this is very goofy. Known pop eight three

1018
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: five five asked the question on ask Reddit. People have

1019
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 1: read it. What was your I'm dating a fucking idiot moment?

1020
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, do you have one? Oh, I don't know.

1021
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: I'll say I've been very fortunate not to date any idiots.

1022
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 2: I don't think I dated any fucking idiots. I think

1023
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 2: that was like one of the main things that was

1024
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 2: like a qualifier for whether or not we were going

1025
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:51,760
Speaker 2: to go out for any link Right.

1026
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:56,879
Speaker 1: Well, there's some great answers in here. User key Lie

1027
00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 1: two fifty said I watched a doc that explains how

1028
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:04,439
Speaker 1: sharks have electricity receptors, which they used to hunt. He said,

1029
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 1: that's not possible. Sharks are supposedly millions of years old,

1030
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: but we only invented electricity a hundred years ago.

1031
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 2: Uh oh, not a guy to go to the bookstore.

1032
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 1: With bookstore they sell those things books.

1033
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 2: You, Catherine says. He kept applying for jobs and getting denied.

1034
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 2: I was upset for him. Came to find out he

1035
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 2: was applying for jobs driving armored trucks for banks with

1036
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 2: a record for stealing money from cash registers. I didn't

1037
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 2: know at the time, but this man literally had robbery

1038
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 2: and theft on his record and couldn't understand why an

1039
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 2: armored truck company wouldn't hire him.

1040
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 1: My guy, maybe I thought he was doing that thing

1041
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: where he's like, they're gonna want someone who can't test

1042
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: the limits of what their trucks can handle.

1043
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 2: His cover letters, like, I know all of the pain

1044
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 2: points the weaknesses of your armored trucks, so I will

1045
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 2: be at hand.

1046
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: It's like the FBI hires a master hacker. Yes, I

1047
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: mean like, except dude, you got arrested, so they don't

1048
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: want No, I don't want you. You're not that good

1049
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: at it.

1050
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:16,240
Speaker 3: You got caught.

1051
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 2: It's on your record.

1052
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, like a user. Radiant Butterfly says, my

1053
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: first boyfriend was trying to convince me to do anal

1054
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: and told me it'll feel good because it stimulates the prostate.

1055
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: But I am a female. The same guy told me

1056
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:41,240
Speaker 1: once it's male kangaroos that have the babies. Oh bonus fact,

1057
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 1: we're Australians.

1058
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 3: Well, it feels like he should know this.

1059
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: Seems like he should know that.

1060
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 2: She should have been like, Oh, it'll feel good because

1061
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 2: it stimulates the prostage. She should have been like, oh,

1062
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:52,919
Speaker 2: so you want me to do it to you, Yeah,

1063
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 2: that's fine, let me put on my gloves. Gloves Sammy,

1064
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 2: not sam, he says. I introduced him to my stepsister.

1065
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 2: He said, weird you guys look nothing alike.

1066
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 1: Oh there's that voice, that male voice.

1067
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 2: That's my yeah, ubiquitous guy voice. Whoa what that's so

1068
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 2: weird man?

1069
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 1: You and your stepsister like nothing alike? Oh, dummies, how

1070
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: about a user? But it's not, Fish said. He told

1071
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: me he had a lot of inventions and how rich

1072
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: he'll be one day when he sells one. I asked

1073
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: him to tell me more and he said his best

1074
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: invention is eyedrops that, with just one application, eliminate the

1075
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: need for eyeglasses. Wow, this guy is a mailman, not

1076
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: a doctor, not a scientist, and he wears glasses. So

1077
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: I said, if these eye drops work, why do you

1078
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,800
Speaker 1: wear glasses? Well, the eye drops don't exist yet, you see.

1079
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: But when someone else actually formulates these fantasy eye drops,

1080
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: my mailman friend thinks he will get the money because

1081
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 1: he invented them by dreaming them up.

1082
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.

1083
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 1: She said she dated him very briefly years ago. He

1084
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 1: didn't have any patents, just misguided dreams. Nice guy, just

1085
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 1: a special kind of small former coal mining town kind

1086
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: of idiot. Man.

1087
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 2: I mean, that would be an incredible invention. You're fair,

1088
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 2: but it also sounds so fantastic it has to be impossible.

1089
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 1: I gotta walk up to some scientists and say, what

1090
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: about these eyeedrops and the side of the goal? Oh,

1091
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: I never thought of that. You're a genius. Let me

1092
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 1: whip it up real.

1093
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 2: Quick, right and cut you in for some reason.

1094
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: Great idea, Thomas Edison. That's pretty much Thomas Edison. Right.

1095
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 2: This question is what's a common first date activity that's

1096
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:53,720
Speaker 2: actually really stupid to do on a first date. Oh,

1097
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 2: asked by no Junk Peter, that's probably that's actually a

1098
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:59,359
Speaker 2: good it's a good think that's a good thinker, It's

1099
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 2: pretty good. The top answer was loud bar. That makes

1100
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 2: sense because you have to like scream at the top

1101
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:06,439
Speaker 2: of your lungs.

1102
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: That's you don't want to just shout at each other

1103
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 1: for your first date, right, I.

1104
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 2: Guess not, especially if you're really actually meeting for the

1105
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 2: first time, Like maybe if you already knew each other

1106
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 2: like in a friend group or something, and you're trying

1107
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 2: to go out, like you can maybe do a bar.

1108
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, it feels like if I'm really trying to

1109
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 2: meet you for the first time, bad choice. I need

1110
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 2: to pick a classic cocktail.

1111
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: And then you're like, let's let's go to as at

1112
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 1: DAR next time, where we go somewhere you know we

1113
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:36,439
Speaker 1: could sit down and talk. Yeah. Yeah. Another user said

1114
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: escape rooms. I work at one, and the amount of

1115
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,959
Speaker 1: first dates is too dang high. You have to pay

1116
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 1: for a third person because there's a three person minimum.

1117
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 1: You can't learn anything about each other because you're too

1118
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 1: busy playing. You will suck and get frustrated and Another

1119
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 1: user chimed in and said a lot of women will

1120
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: be very grateful to learn how men react when they

1121
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: get frustrated. So maybe it's a good idea for.

1122
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 2: An early date for some that's very interesting.

1123
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 1: I'll say that's cross gender too. Like you, anyone, you

1124
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: want to know how a person behaves when they get

1125
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 1: frustrated because it could be bad.

1126
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe like a group date or something that would

1127
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 2: be fun.

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00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but not.

1129
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 2: I think it's still here see them get frustrated or whatever.

1130
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,920
Speaker 2: But right, it is weird to just be two people

1131
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 2: in an escape room, even just it was you and me.

1132
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 2: I know, I mean, I'm having fun, but like I

1133
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 2: kind of wish there was.

1134
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: It's a group activity by definition, right, and it's nice.

1135
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 2: Because then people have, you know, different things that they

1136
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 2: bring to the table, so you're looking at different things

1137
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: and it all goes faster.

1138
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1139
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 2: I think that's true that it might not be a

1140
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 2: good first date. But I hear this about wanting to

1141
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 2: see how people react when they get like that does

1142
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 2: make sense.

1143
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: Third, fourth, fifth date, somewhere in there, get some friends together.

1144
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: See how y'all all get along to an escape room?

1145
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's not an opportunity to get to know someone, no,

1146
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: except for their their worst side.

1147
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 2: Now, I would gonna say a movie. I always thought

1148
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 2: it was a strange first date in some ways because

1149
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 2: you're not like you're sitting side by side and you're

1150
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 2: not really interacting.

1151
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: There's a lot of discussion on there about that, yeah,

1152
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: because somebody suggested movies, and other people said, well, actually,

1153
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: the movie's a great idea for a first date if

1154
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,439
Speaker 1: you've got dinner afterwards, because it really gives us something

1155
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 1: to talk about.

1156
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 2: Which does make sense. But I also feel like a

1157
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 2: lot of people do dinner and a movie in that order,

1158
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 2: Like they go to dinner first terrible and so it's like, well,

1159
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 2: that's something because you're doing the face to face part

1160
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 2: that you need. But yeah, it is weird to like, oh,

1161
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 2: now we have to stand around the parking lot and

1162
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 2: talk about the movie, right ideally, I mean, I don't know,

1163
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 2: maybe that's just we.

1164
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: No, I mean I always to this day I would

1165
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 1: rather do dinner after the movie, because yeah, when we're

1166
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:51,439
Speaker 1: going to go sit down and talk about it, right,

1167
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: But you know, first date, maybe you go and have

1168
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 1: a drink or something before the movie, or take a

1169
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: walk or something, and then something the movie and then

1170
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: now let's sit down and talk. Well, the movie is

1171
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: like total conversation lubricant. There's so much to talk about. Yeah,

1172
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 1: now there's always something to fall back on should the

1173
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 1: conversations start to get stale or you can't think of

1174
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 1: what to say next, or you freeze or whatever.

1175
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 2: You got the movie, Yeah, you got the movie, no problem.

1176
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 2: And plus you can see, you know how each other

1177
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 2: maybe listens to your opinions.

1178
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, especially if.

1179
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 2: They're differing opinions that can be very valuable about something

1180
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 2: innocuous like a movie.

1181
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 1: Or if they give you a damn second to talk.

1182
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 2: True, right, they just keep chatting away. Uh huh, and

1183
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 2: you're like shut.

1184
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 5: Up right, They're like, well, I don't know. I thought

1185
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 5: that this part didn't make a lot of sense because

1186
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 5: in previous movies, ant Man got really tired when he

1187
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 5: got super big, but this time, like he was just

1188
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:53,479
Speaker 5: able to get super big and it was like consequence free,

1189
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,320
Speaker 5: so he just stayed big the whole time, and it's

1190
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 5: just like became kind of overpowered, so that it.

1191
00:59:57,840 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 1: And you know, and then I look up and she's.

1192
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 2: Gone, right, I don't happened running was Oh.

1193
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: My god, did she shrink down to the size of

1194
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 1: an ant That's what happened. That's probably what happened.

1195
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 2: That's what happened.

1196
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, she realized I knew too much about the ant

1197
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 1: person the world and instead of inviting me along to

1198
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 1: be an ant man to Judgie or too focused on

1199
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 1: the science, which honestly an ant man should be. You

1200
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,280
Speaker 1: need more than just you know, jumping skills to be

1201
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 1: an ant man.

1202
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. He's not a scientist.

1203
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: I know, is it? Yeah?

1204
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 2: Have you ever taken someone to a movie and realized

1205
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 2: it was a very bad choice for a date movie?

1206
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 2: I have.

1207
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 1: I think I've told this story on the show because

1208
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: I haven't wanted to say the name of a movie

1209
01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 1: that we saw and we were halfway through it. Both

1210
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: of us hated it, but we didn't know the other

1211
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 1: person was hating it. I guess it wasn't bad because

1212
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 1: we had something to laugh about after him words. I

1213
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 1: don't know, do you if you had an experience like that? No?

1214
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 2: I just thought how funny it would be if you

1215
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 2: were like, Hey, you know what's up?

1216
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: Girl?

1217
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 2: I wanted to take you out tonight and see that

1218
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 2: new Dune Cheetle movie, and then you went to Hotel

1219
01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 2: Rwanda and you're like, oh no, this is not a

1220
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 2: sexy movie.

1221
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 3: I think this is a horrifying movie.

1222
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 1: I think you have this cool indie comedy. It's called

1223
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 1: The Girl on the Train. Do you want to go? Yeah,

1224
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: let's go. Let's come on, let's see, we'll have a

1225
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 1: good time.

1226
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 2: Everybody's getting real thirsty about Ben Affleck's penis in this

1227
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 2: one movie.

1228
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 3: And you go see Gone Girl. I don't know.

1229
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, here, it's beautiful. It's called Irreversible. Oh no, let's

1230
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: go check out that. It's a double feature with Dancer

1231
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 1: in the Dark. They're doing all these classics. Good god,

1232
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 1: I think.

1233
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 2: Just be in total silence.

1234
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, the meal.

1235
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: If anybody's not familiar with the slew of titles we

1236
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: just rattled off, it's the worst night of your life.

1237
01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 2: Oh god, depression exactly. I'm not bad movies, just very

1238
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 2: very intense. Yeah, very sad.

1239
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: There's bad date movies. Definitely bad date movies.

1240
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my goodness. Well, I don't know. I feel like,

1241
01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 2: as usual when I'm reading Reddit, I feel a little

1242
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: better about my life.

1243
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 1: Enjoy the best part of the Internet is really just

1244
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: giving yourself a little boost about what's going on out there. Like,

1245
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 1: my life pretty pretty put together, not bad. Actually, turn

1246
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: my wedding was great, could be worse. My marriage is

1247
01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 1: rock solid.

1248
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:40,480
Speaker 2: I'm not dating a fucking idiot.

1249
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 1: I would say. The only thing that we could be

1250
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: doing better than we're doing now that we learned from

1251
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: today's episode is uh, maybe enjoying the orchestra a little

1252
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:53,439
Speaker 1: more often.

1253
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: Clearly I have been missing out. Fortunately you have tickets

1254
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,640
Speaker 2: for us to go to. Oh that's right, I'd be like, sorry,

1255
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 2: Atlanta Symphony Orchestra. The standards are high. Now you're playing

1256
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 2: has to be so good.

1257
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think you're right. I think we learned

1258
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:12,840
Speaker 1: a lot today. I think we all had a lot

1259
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: of fun.

1260
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:14,919
Speaker 3: I hope.

1261
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 2: So anyway too, Yeah, y'all have to tell us what

1262
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 2: you think.

1263
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 1: Definitely. I know again you'll ask for these Reddit episodes

1264
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 1: and that's what you want. We got them. You know

1265
01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We'll do it.

1266
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 2: We're having fun it and read it to you.

1267
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: The amount of time Diana and I just sitting next

1268
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 1: to each other, like laughing about what either one of

1269
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 1: us is seeing on our phone. Look at this idiot,

1270
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: you hear this dummy set. Yeah, we'll set up a

1271
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:40,440
Speaker 1: microphone for that.

1272
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, why not?

1273
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're getting all worked up about somebody else's problem, right,

1274
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 2: and I'll be like getting all turns up, and minutes

1275
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 2: later we're like, it's actually not.

1276
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 3: Relevant time, not at all?

1277
01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 2: Why did I let this to get me worked up?

1278
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 1: Please send us some of the answers of your own

1279
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 1: for some of these questions, because we want to hear

1280
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: what you all think.

1281
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 2: Especially when you found out you're dating a fucking idiot.

1282
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 3: I would like to hear Mark.

1283
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 1: I know y'all got those stories, send them in. You

1284
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 1: can shoot us an email ridic Romance at gmail dot com.

1285
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 2: Ray or we're on Instagram. I'm at Dayamite Boom.

1286
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: And I'm at Oh Grey. It's Eli and.

1287
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 2: The show is at ridic Romance.

1288
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:23,919
Speaker 1: Thanks again for tuning in, everybody. We'll be back next

1289
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 1: week with some deep dives into history with some really

1290
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: good stories and we can't wait to catch it in.

1291
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 2: Love you, bye bye, so long friends, It's time to go.

1292
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 3: Thanks so listening to our show. Tell your friends.

1293
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:41,000
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