1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: Forever. 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: Hi guys, Hey Sydney, we're here at the Unofficial Expert 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: and it's just wonderful. 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: I'm so happy. Really, yeah, you got some this morning? Now, definitely, 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 1: I definitely did not. Did you know. I'm just in 6 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:19,119 Speaker 1: a good can I'd be in a good movie. Bit. 7 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 3: I would just want to know why it's the new year, 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 3: you know, Okay, but I want to know why. 9 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: You know. 10 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 2: Somebody laid hands on my shoulders and just said be positive, 11 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 2: and I feel that energy. 12 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so just be best. That's exactly the best. Yeah, 13 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: I'm reclaiming that. Be best. That's great. Yeah. Wow, okay, 14 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: so you're not gonna ask me how I'm doing. I'm 15 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: doing great. Thank you. I knew you were going to 16 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: be great, but look at you did it. I'm looking 17 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: at I was going to be great. I'm looking at 18 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: you and I'm like, wow, Marie is doing great. Wow, fantastic. 19 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 3: Okay, not a sting of makeup one, just living my 20 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: best life, fresh face, just being best. 21 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: Let's see how many times you can say best, be best? 22 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, listeners, every time you hear be best, you got 23 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: to drink something. 24 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: No, no, no, every time you hear be best, Venmo me 25 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: two dollars. 26 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: Best okay, okay, Venmo her one dollar and then me one. 27 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: Since I said two dollars, so I can give you 28 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 2: a dollar. You know what, Sydney, you are definitely not 29 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 2: being best. 30 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 1: So how are you doing? I'm doing okay. 31 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 3: I've had this weird thing where I haven't been able 32 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 3: to sleep past five thirty. 33 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: In the morning. What. Yeah, yes, it's crazy. Wait what why? 34 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: I asked Alexa. I woke up today. 35 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 3: I was like, Alexa, what's insomnia? And she was like 36 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 3: insomnia and she was saying what causes it? Like if 37 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 3: you eat too much the night before, if you have anxiety, 38 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, that must be it. 39 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: I must just be anxious. Really no, yeah, but like 40 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: you go to sleep, you just wake up early? 41 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no, I'm going to bed at the 42 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 3: same one thirty two am that I always go to bed, 43 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: and then I'm waking up at five thirty in the 44 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 3: morning and cannot go back to sleep. That's not enough hours. 45 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 3: It's like four hours maybe three hours of sleep. 46 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: Well, let me tell you, your face does not show it, 47 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: my friend. 48 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,119 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much for six hours last night. 49 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: So thank you so much. Oh we got to work 50 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 2: on that. Yeah. 51 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: No, I think I'm gonna be okay. 52 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, your body's just getting ready for you know, or 53 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 2: the work you bought them. 54 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 1: No, I think I'm just anxious about like that. 55 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's that's fine. It's all the work that 56 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: you're about to be putting in. It's good anxiety. Yeah, 57 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 2: it's great. 58 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, speaking about work that I'm about to be 59 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 3: putting in this week, I was an expert at. 60 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: Acting like a rich lady. Let's do that, let's do that. 61 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: I like that. 62 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 3: I like that well because I love looking at other 63 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 3: people's apartments and like seeing how people live. I like 64 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 3: seeing like how they put their furniture out, so I 65 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 3: could be like, okay, yeah we're doing tofted leather. 66 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: Okay. 67 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 3: You know so I like street easy is one of 68 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: my favorite websites, Like it should be my homepage. I 69 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 3: use it every day, like I'll be looking at apartments, 70 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 3: and I said, I set the societ Easy is a 71 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 3: website where you can find apartments in New York. And 72 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 3: I don't know if they have it in other states, 73 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: but I set it to like the budget to like 74 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 3: ten thousand dollars what and then I just like, look 75 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 3: at well because I want to see if I had, 76 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 3: if I could afford to spend one hundred and twenty 77 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 3: thousand dollars a year on rent, how would I how 78 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 3: would I live? So I've been looking at apartments, So 79 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 3: that's what's. 80 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 1: You about to be making? Okay, let's find down now. 81 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 3: Absolutely one hundred percent, absolutely no wow. If I was 82 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 3: going to be making that much money, then I would 83 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 3: be sleeping like a babasis. So I so I went 84 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 3: to see some apartments this week. That's how fake rich 85 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 3: I was acting. But they were like two thousand dollars apartments. 86 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I went, so when are we moving? 87 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 3: Well? 88 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: And that's the thing. 89 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: Too, Like my lease is not up technically until September, 90 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: so I'm not moving. I just want I like house hunters, 91 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 3: like that's HGTV is my jam when I'm at my 92 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 3: mother's house. I love apartment and house things. So anyway, 93 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 3: it's crazy that you've just been growing up two But 94 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 3: you got time, you got friend, I've been up for 95 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: ninety three hour street. So I went to see an 96 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 3: apartment in it was like a one bedroom in this brownstone, 97 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 3: and my sister was like, I fel like you're wasting 98 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 3: these people's time. No, the brokers, No, she was. It 99 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 3: was an open house. When we were walking in people 100 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 3: walking out, there was a lady waiting in her car. 101 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 3: So we walked in together and the lady thought we 102 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 3: were a lesbian couple. 103 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know her. She was like, 104 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: how long have you guys been together? 105 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 3: And we were like no, we just met downstairs and 106 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 3: she was like, okay, so, but you're gay and I 107 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 3: was like, ma'am, this apartment is ugly. And then I 108 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 3: went to go see a loft yesterday like a beautiful 109 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 3: but so it's this big open space one thousand square feet. 110 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 3: It was two bathrooms for some reason, right next to 111 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 3: each other, and there was a washerreet drier in the 112 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 3: middle one of the bathrooms, and then the bed was lofted. 113 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: But I couldn't stand all the way up. When I 114 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 1: went up. How much was this? It was like two 115 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: thousand Find it out, girl. We got to get out 116 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: of this least because I feel like we could get 117 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: this right now. That's not that's not what my money is. 118 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: Oh my, that's not what my money. 119 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 3: But you know, you know, putting positivity, I'm doing like 120 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 3: an in person vision board. Now I'm going to see places. 121 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 3: And my mom was like, you shouldn't be looking at 122 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 3: apartments till October. And I was like, m you gotta start. 123 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 1: Now, yeah, because you want to know what you you 124 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: want to have an idea, and I'm asking real quick. 125 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, how's the school district? 126 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 3: You know? 127 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: Is that a school? Is that a projects? I'm like, 128 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: how loud are the gunshots at that? Like, I'm now, 129 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: you're wasting these people time. Kids. The guy that I 130 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 1: saw yesterday, I wasting his time. 131 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 3: And he was like, we have another thing opening up. 132 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 3: I don't know, like what you're moving date with be. 133 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I'm real flex I'm real flexible. 134 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: He was like, we got something to open up February first. 135 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 3: I was go ahead and email me. When that, Oh 136 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 3: my god, I feel like you're you're prepping for a 137 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: character or like a role, like this is a. 138 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: Role right now. Listen, you're running shopping. 139 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 3: I'm window shopping inside and looking out the window at 140 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 3: the street. 141 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: Sis car as a broker, I will beat your ass. 142 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: I mean, somebody me today and was like, I sent 143 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 3: you a bunch of lofts because that's all I. 144 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: Want to look at now is lofts. 145 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, ideally I need like twelve hundred schoolre feet 146 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 3: and They're like, okay, great, I want to be I 147 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 3: want to be loft in my dreams. 148 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 2: So I feel like it's gonna come death and I'm 149 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: all for it. I mean, I'm just glad I'm not 150 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 2: a broker because I'll be like, what But I'm not 151 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: telling them. I'm not like, actually, I'm just browsing. They 152 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: know your first and last day. I'll google your first 153 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: last thing on my phone number and my email address. 154 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 1: Speech, I go right off, let me see you. Just 155 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: Marie Foster, I. 156 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 3: Mean, Marie Foston dot com is up and running. Yeah, 157 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 3: you know, the website is updated. Sidney, what the hell 158 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 3: were you an expert at this week? 159 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: Hmmm, I'm an expert and uh I'm gonna go to 160 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,679 Speaker 1: the Bahamas for my birthday. Yes, sello. 161 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 2: So I've just been looking at like bathing suits, h 162 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: things that will make my. 163 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: Butt look good. Your butt looks good? No, no, no, no no. 164 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: See it's there's a difference between having like pants that 165 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: make your butt look good, but then a bathing suit. 166 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 2: There's only a little bit of fabric on an ass. 167 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 2: So I'm looking at stuff that's like things that I 168 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 2: can really thirst trap. 169 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm thirst trapping Brazilian pet thung. 170 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: Like a string almost, But I need the fabric to 171 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: like lift shit up and rearrange the labia like I 172 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 2: need stuff to push things I. 173 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 3: Want to Sounds like you're gonna get a full covered suit, sis, 174 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 3: a string is not gonna support the butt. 175 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: Listen. 176 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: I just want to do as much as I can 177 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 2: to do this earth, on this earth. 178 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: To be Beth. 179 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: And I feel like I don't utilize my body enough. 180 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 2: You know, I have it? 181 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: Why not? Like I don't have any picture I don't 182 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: have any nudes in my in my phone. No, that's 183 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: a lie, friend, I don't. 184 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe it's a new phone, because I feel like, 185 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 3: you know, used to like four years ago, I barely 186 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 3: post my body or take pictures of it. 187 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: And I'm just like, what the fuck does it look like? 188 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 2: I just took a picture of my vagina the other 189 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 2: day to be like, is it okay? 190 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: Is it good? You got? 191 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: You took a picture of your vagina to send to 192 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 3: somebody just or just so you could zoom in and 193 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 3: see what's happening. 194 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: You gotta look at your body. Well, you know, sex 195 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: and the City says you gotta use like a hand 196 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 1: mirror and like look at it. Nah, sins, I was 197 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: using my pixelated six since you had to put it 198 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: on portrait mode. Portrait mode, Yeah, I don't have that. 199 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: I don't have that. 200 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 2: I was just looking at it because I haven't like 201 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 2: looked at it in a minute, like I know it's there. 202 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 3: You had any gray hairs down there, asking you know, 203 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: because oh wow, you pluck those? 204 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 2: Nah, man, you know what. I'm living my best life 205 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 2: in twenty nineteen. So if it's a great hair, it's 206 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 2: a gray hair there, I'm being like Angela Bassett and 207 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 2: Wakanda just all white. 208 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: Oh wow, oh wow. 209 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: But sure, okay, yeah, sure, sure, I'm sure I'm gonna 210 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: be in the Bahamas with like a cane just has 211 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: my shit out that one gray hair, just like sipping 212 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 2: a cocktail, a mocktails, no, an old fashion okay, wow, yeah, 213 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 2: like a sazarak a sidecar. 214 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: That's exactly that's what my vagina will be drinking, a 215 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: dirty ass smart yeah, I see. Oh and then and 216 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: then one more thing. 217 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: It's I've been writing like little notes to myself just 218 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 2: to remind myself, like you're amazing, or you know, you 219 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 2: were thinking that bad thought. That's a bad thought, that's 220 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 2: not real. 221 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 1: Where are you writing these notes? 222 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 3: I'm like on paper, yeah, but like in like, do 223 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 3: you have a book that's like dedicated to this so 224 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 3: you can look through No, no. 225 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 2: No, no, wherever I am, if I'm like home, if 226 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 2: I'm like if I have like a little napkin or something, 227 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to remind myself that my thoughts are 228 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 2: not real. 229 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: Sis. 230 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 3: I love this, except for like when you're out and 231 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 3: you're doing it on a napkin, people might could think 232 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 3: you crazy. 233 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 1: That's fine. I want I want people to think. This 234 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: is what I think you should. You should get a 235 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: you should get a gratitude jar. 236 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 3: You should get a jar, like a pretty jar from 237 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 3: like the Dallar store near me has like really nice ones. 238 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 3: And then you just like put little strips of paper 239 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 3: and write a thing whatever your whatever you're reminding yourself, 240 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 3: write these notes and then drop them in the jar. Girl, 241 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 3: that's real Pinterest, real blogger on in Still, I've had 242 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 3: this jar for three years and there are three pieces 243 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 3: of paper in it. 244 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying so you can see it. 245 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 3: Like, and if you're feeling away at any time, just 246 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 3: pick one up, read it, throw back in the jar 247 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 3: or throw it away that way, like because I'm asking 248 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 3: where you're writing, Like where you're keeping these because you're 249 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 3: writing them. But like when you feel away and raining, 250 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 3: it doesn't make you feel better. 251 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 1: You should be able to look back at what you wrote. 252 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: Tso yeah, I'm just afraid that I'm gonna open the 253 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 2: jar and I'm read this stuff and I'm like, damn, 254 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 2: I was thinking that, or girl, what's going on? 255 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: It's supposed to be positive stuff that I thought you 256 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: were writing. 257 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: No, I am writing positive set, but I'm also writing 258 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 2: like the bad thought that I have to remind myself 259 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 2: it's not real. 260 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 3: Well, don't keep the bad stuff, keep the good stuff, 261 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 3: put the good the positive things in there. 262 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 2: Well, speaking of writing, oh my god, Yes, that we 263 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 2: have today is the writer writer of the freaking year, 264 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 2: like every great show that I'm like, oh, I'm really 265 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: into that. 266 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:29,199 Speaker 1: She been on it. 267 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 3: She had a Peabody Award. Okay, Twain literature. She brought 268 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 3: the award to the pod today. She got a little pinned. 269 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: I am. She's got a quill on the table, ink 270 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: and everything. 271 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 2: Yes, so she's she's a writer, she's a stand up 272 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 2: she is moving to l a. 273 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: Yes, she is our bad luck expert, though, give it 274 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 1: up for me. Trudge your horri me, Trudge you're harry? 275 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: Can I say right? Mitro Jahari mi Jhari. 276 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 4: I wish I was. I wish I could bring a 277 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 4: trophy around places with me. 278 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 3: You should as when I when I win my Golden Glow, 279 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 3: It's gonna be everywhere. It's going to be in the uber. 280 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 3: I'm gonna save two seats. Somebody be like, I need 281 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 3: a car for me and the award. 282 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 2: Nah, I'm just gonna have it on my home screen, 283 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 2: you know, and then drop my phone down. 284 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: So, oh yeah, that's me mine. I'm gonna roll up, 285 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: roll it up in like a yoga mat and just 286 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 1: like carry it. But I never go to yoga. I'm like, ma'am, 287 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: is that a golden Yes? 288 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 3: It is also about it, Jay tim Ammy. 289 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: She's working on that. He got right. That's gonna happen 290 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: for for sure. Intro What does your name mean? 291 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 4: My first name usually translates to something like friend or yeah, 292 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 4: like and it's it's like translates in a few different 293 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 4: languages to some variation of friend, and then last name 294 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 4: Jihari is something like jeweler or something like that. Friend jeweler, friend, 295 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 4: so jeweler friend, Jacob the Jeweler. 296 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 1: Oh that's what you are. That's what your name, Jacob 297 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 1: the Jeweler. I love it, Jeweler to the stars. 298 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 4: My middle name is Joy MJJ. 299 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: I like that, MJJ. So you're moving to l A 300 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:13,839 Speaker 1: mm hmmm. Are you excited about it? 301 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 4: I am. I'm like in the middle of it right now, 302 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 4: so I'm pretty miserable. But really just like going through 303 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 4: all my ship and like sending it to myself. 304 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: Are you moving everything? Are you selling stuff? 305 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 4: I'm selling stuff and just like giving stuff away. 306 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: Just give a stuff away? Would you give it away? 307 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 3: How come you didn't bring them back? Love seat or 308 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,119 Speaker 3: coffee table is waiting. 309 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:37,239 Speaker 1: For us here if you want anything, No beautiful turtlenecks, 310 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,839 Speaker 1: because I know you got those, no accessories we. 311 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 3: Can have. 312 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: Come want and take your clothes off so we can 313 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: take it right. I feel like you have vanity in 314 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: your house. 315 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 4: I want that. 316 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: I don't have that. 317 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 4: I don't have that, but I want that. 318 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 1: I won't want you to have vanity. 319 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 4: My room too small? 320 00:13:56,040 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: Ah, get are you looking for lots? Like not even 321 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: if there are lofts in lay. 322 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 4: Me and Patty got a little house, which is like 323 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 4: very exciting. 324 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, pat yes, I'm here for that. Y'all 325 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: got a pool? No pool? So y'all are friends and 326 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:16,479 Speaker 1: gonna be roommates. Yikes? 327 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 4: Well we live together now, well like on and off, 328 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 4: like she always stays with me. Patty has been traveling 329 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 4: for like the past year, so yeah, we've been. We've 330 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 4: been sleeping in the same bed for months, out of 331 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 4: the air. 332 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 2: Maria is the type that's like I feel like, even 333 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: with dating somebody, you don't want anybody really sleeping like no. 334 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 3: I mean I've been sleeping in a queen's eyes bed 335 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 3: by myself for like, I don't know, ten years. I 336 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: don't want to, Like I feel like when someone else 337 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 3: is in the bed be hot. Like I can't really 338 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 3: sleep like the snowflake that I am, Like I sleep 339 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 3: like a starfish. 340 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 4: I do not move. I sleep on my stomach, no pillow, 341 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 4: face down pillow. It's so it's gross and I don't 342 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 4: know support, no lumberport. 343 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: I feel like Patty's the type that might want to snuggle. 344 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 4: Though I'm a big snuggler. I love I love being 345 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 4: in the same bed with somebody really friend or partner. 346 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: With the man on or the ac running, or you just. 347 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 4: Like a cracked window or something. 348 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 2: Teach your Vbory went to DC and we had to 349 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 2: share an air mattress. And when I tell you, the 350 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 2: dread that was on Marie's face, like I gotta sleep with. 351 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: This bitch, And I was all over the place because you. 352 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 3: Sidney seems like somebody like I feel like if you 353 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 3: look at us, you would feel like I sleep in 354 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 3: like a little ball. 355 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 1: And you know, Sydney sleeps wild, wild And this is 356 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: the air mattress, mind you. And then didn't you pop 357 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: the air mattress the air mattress. 358 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 2: I was taking all the cover. Marie was like, oh, 359 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 2: we're not doing this for two more nights. 360 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 4: Sharing an air mattress is fuck an air mattress, solow 361 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 4: is problematic. 362 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're just like, it's just me in this bag 363 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: of wind. Listen. I feel like me and will be 364 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: fine in the bed, you know. So if I come 365 00:15:58,440 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: visit you and. 366 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 3: L yeah, I would suffocate each other. If you said 367 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 3: this would both die some mother die together. Peabody Award, 368 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 3: you know, like that old couple on the Titanic. You 369 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 3: guys are just okay. 370 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 4: That is beautiful. We're the band. 371 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: We go Yeah, what are you. 372 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 4: Gonna be putting down to the ship. I'll be violent 373 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 4: on the base where he's been on a boat for 374 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 4: an hour. 375 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 3: I'm somebody who has picked up someone else's kid and 376 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 3: is like she's all like, I'm the dude just like 377 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 3: elbow and women in the face, Like, but I'm younger 378 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 3: than that. 379 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 1: So Mitra, you were you're like an expert of bad luck. 380 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: Now how did this start? How did this happen? 381 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 4: Like I think first one was a lot in high school. 382 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 4: I injure myself a lot, like not a lot of 383 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 4: bad stuff. That's usually my fault. So like, for example, 384 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 4: I'm a soccer player. I played like from five till 385 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 4: now and kind of like Beckham and I I I 386 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,480 Speaker 4: usually play like forward or mid and that's like who's 387 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 4: shooting on goal? And I one time was getting like 388 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 4: throttled by this chick. 389 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: She kept like that sounds gay throttled. 390 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 4: I was getting pounded out by this. 391 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 3: Number nine, rattled by this chick that just kept pounding. 392 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 4: Pounding, pounding, and she I got really upset and I 393 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 4: took this. I took like the angriest shot on goal 394 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 4: that I'd ever taken. It bounced off the goal post, 395 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 4: hit me in the face, and when I came to, 396 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 4: I was blind in one eye. 397 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: Wait, you would right chaws and one eye? 398 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:53,959 Speaker 4: You were Stevie was actually about me. 399 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: Wait, you hit the ball so hard that it bounced 400 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: off the post. Hit you with hit you in the face. 401 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 3: He didn't hit the girl that you were mad at 402 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 3: in the face in the face. You're a blind and 403 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 3: one eye blind eye. 404 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 4: When I came to and one of them for two weeks, 405 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 4: it was so scary. And so when I came to 406 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 4: one of the parents on the sidelines, like came over 407 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 4: and he was like, I'm a doctor. I'm a doctor, 408 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 4: and yeah he I told him. I was like, I 409 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 4: was crying. I was like, I can't see out of 410 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 4: one of my eyes. And he's like, okay, well, it's 411 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 4: either going to be an inflamed iris or detached retina. 412 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 4: So if you have a. 413 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:31,640 Speaker 1: Detached I just like titched when you said. 414 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,199 Speaker 4: That, and he was like, if it's a detached retina, 415 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 4: it's going to be like this forever, and so I'm 416 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 4: just like hysterical. 417 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 3: I'll tell you that right the whole time he's try. 418 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 1: It might be a let me look look at my 419 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 1: Google detached. So you're sobbing, sobbing, sobbing one eye. 420 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then it was like a lot of testing 421 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:56,919 Speaker 4: and all that kind of stuff, and it ended up 422 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 4: being an inflamed iris. But for like years, one of 423 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 4: my pupils was way bigger than the other. 424 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god. So people were like, are you high 425 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 1: a little bit? 426 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 4: A little bit? 427 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: What did the eye look like? To other people? 428 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 4: It looked pretty much the same, except for my my like, my. 429 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: Pupil was so one black eye. 430 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it really it was like you couldn't really see 431 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 4: like the other parts of it was just the iris. 432 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 1: So you could not see anything. 433 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 4: No, and then gradually it came back and then it 434 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 4: was like a finger sort of blocking the bottom half 435 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 4: of my eye. 436 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 1: And then when you phone screen and the camera clear, 437 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 1: it's just like that. 438 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 2: So when you were going out, did you go out 439 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 2: while you had that one eye not working, because you'd 440 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: be in the club and you're like, well, I. 441 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 4: Was in high school, but but yeah, I was. I 442 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 4: was pretty much just staying home in the dark. It 443 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 4: was like, very sensitive. 444 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:50,959 Speaker 1: Is that what go out? I would just use it. 445 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 3: I can't really death perception must have been trash. It 446 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 3: was like were you walking into walls and stuff? 447 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 4: I'm sure. I just remember being so scared the whole time. 448 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: Terrified. I'm scared. 449 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 2: I would lean into it. I would just want all 450 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: the sympathy. 451 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I would really love if you guys could 452 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: take me out, you know, because I'm like partially blind. 453 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 1: Like since we're in third period right now, we'll text 454 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: you after that. I'm like, can you just do the 455 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 1: test for me? Because I can't really see you? 456 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,239 Speaker 4: Should I mean you can. It's something no one can 457 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 4: prove it. You can do it. 458 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 3: If I'm asking both of you guys, if you guys 459 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 3: were blind and I for like life, would you do 460 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 3: an eye patch or like a soup bang? Okay, would 461 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 3: it be eyepatch or a leah swoop over the eye? 462 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 4: Would you need it? Like if you're if you're blind. 463 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. 464 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 3: I feel like I gotta do something dramatic. I feel 465 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 3: like I feel like I would do an iPad. 466 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 4: I would definitely do patch or not do bang because 467 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 4: I got curly hair that looks fucked like. 468 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 1: I feel like he would do a swoop bag. You 469 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: would just wear color contacts, you know what. I'll just 470 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: wear color to the lazy, to the man. I would 471 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: just get blue contact, like you know, you know, you 472 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: gotta be different. 473 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 2: Just the sapphire eyes, amethysts, amethysts, purple, yeah, purple. 474 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 4: I get you some purple color content. And that was 475 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 4: a big thing in my high school. People loved those 476 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 4: purple contents. 477 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 3: But my brother had a pair I haven't, and we cried. 478 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 3: We were laughing at him so hot. Peoplere like, your 479 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 3: black ass. You think he thought he was Elizabeth Taylor. 480 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 4: There were so many girls in my eyes who were like, no, 481 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 4: these are just my eyes. This is just the way 482 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 4: that I look. 483 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 2: Well, I have them, and I got them from the 484 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 2: beauty supply store, so they were a bootleg and they 485 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 2: turned my eyes like bloodshot red. 486 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: So I had. 487 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 2: Purple eyelids, no purple eyes, and then everything around it 488 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 2: was pink. 489 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: And they were like, you look like a labrat. What's 490 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 1: going on? You look crazy? 491 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 4: Well you were, you were they were testing the product. 492 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought you're gonna see you got them from 493 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 3: New Street. 494 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 495 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 3: I think my brother might have got his own Canel Street. 496 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 3: I don't know how red his eyes got, but we laughed. 497 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,199 Speaker 3: He got like a bunch of colors. He got like gray, 498 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 3: he got hate, and we were like, this is terrible. 499 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 2: Why not you gotta you gotta try it. Don't kno 500 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 2: get to you try it? Uh, So you got your 501 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 2: vision back? 502 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 4: Got vision back. 503 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: Then. 504 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 4: The next one was I I was getting Uh. I 505 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,719 Speaker 4: was making cookies when I was in high school. As 506 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 4: was rough for. 507 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: You are you while you were making these cookies? 508 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 4: I was not, which will uh? I wish I was 509 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,119 Speaker 4: because you'll okay. So I was getting I was holding 510 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,360 Speaker 4: the cookie the cookie sheet, trying to get the cookies off, 511 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 4: and they were a little bit burnt. And I had 512 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 4: a metal spatula and I jammed the metal spat like 513 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 4: this actually got stuck. I jammed it into my finger 514 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 4: the other hand. Yeah, on the other hand, so like 515 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 4: blunt force trauma, and it I got cut open and 516 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 4: I I didn't really like it happened. It was so 517 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 4: hard and so like fast, so fast that I didn't 518 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 4: really feel anything. 519 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: So you got blood on the cookies, got blood on 520 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 1: the cookies, just not all. So I was eating the 521 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: cookies and my mom came into. 522 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 4: The living room and she was like, uh, what's going on. 523 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 4: It was like bleeding profusely and these cookies is cute. 524 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 4: I was like, no, it's no big deal, it's fine. 525 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 4: I like cut myself on this Bachelor whatever, it's fine. 526 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,679 Speaker 4: And I was like gushing blood and my mom was like, 527 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 4: we have to go to the hospital. And I was like, 528 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 4: I don't know, and it was fine. So I like 529 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 4: got her to take me to Wendy's on the way 530 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 4: to the hospital and then we got there. By the 531 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 4: time he got there, was in like agonizing painter had 532 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 4: I like cut it like. 533 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 1: All the way to the bone. 534 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 4: I needed six stitches. I still have the scar. 535 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: It's okay. But what kind of cookies were you making? Yeah, 536 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 1: with the chocolate chip or oat Mi chocolate chip. Yeah, 537 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: I mean that's worth it. 538 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 3: That's worth it. Do you remember what you got from 539 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 3: Wendy's on the way that I remember? 540 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,640 Speaker 4: I got to mcflury and fries and dipped in the 541 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 4: mcflurry yes, yes, yes, oh yeah, frosty. 542 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 543 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 4: I've been thinking about mcflury's a lot recently. 544 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: Do they still make me. 545 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 4: They still do an extra OREO. I've been really wanting one. 546 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 4: I can't do dairy really right now. 547 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,959 Speaker 1: None of us can. We're not really supposed to be 548 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: having we're not. 549 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 4: And I I'm trying to just I'm trying to actually 550 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 4: listen to my body and not force dairy into it. 551 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 1: Oh, you get a mentality right now. 552 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 4: It's because I keep fucking like shitting my pants. Okay, 553 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 4: So this is another one one time. So there's two 554 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 4: of them. 555 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:29,360 Speaker 1: Many times. 556 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 4: That's too many times, I know. Yeah, I have no idea. 557 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 4: And so I was walking out of this. The first 558 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 4: time was when I was walking out of my boyfriend 559 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 4: at the time, his place. Okay, it was like New 560 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 4: Year's Eve twenty sixteen. 561 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: So the anniversary is upon us. 562 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 4: Oh, the anniversary is upon us. And I'm walking out 563 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 4: of the place, and then like a block away from 564 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 4: his apartment, I ship my pants and it's like freezing outside. 565 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: Wait, wow, were you on dria? Yeah? No, I have 566 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: cheese pizza, Like, what's up. 567 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 4: I really don't remember what led to it. I just 568 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 4: remember being like this had never happened to me before, 569 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 4: and I was like. 570 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 3: I don't know, Oh, this is what happened, you needed 571 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 3: to poop real bad. You didn't want to poop it 572 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 3: his house because you were like, oh, he go, no, 573 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 3: I took a dump in here. 574 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 1: Let me went home. 575 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 3: And then you know, the closer you get to your house, 576 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 3: the more you feel it. And it must have been 577 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 3: like right around the corner from your house. 578 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 4: I was half an hour walk away from my house. 579 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: Walking you get a caboo. I said it was cold. 580 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 4: It was cold New Year's he's in a skirt and 581 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 4: tights or. 582 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:39,199 Speaker 1: Like tragedy, tragedy. It was fucked. 583 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,360 Speaker 2: So you know what, that's the best thing to do 584 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 2: if you have tight because it's tight, you know it 585 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 2: just it's in there. 586 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 3: It's slowly sliding down, your sliding sliding. 587 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 4: So I was like, okay, well I can't go back 588 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 4: up there. 589 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 2: I hold on what kind of stool was it? Was 590 00:25:54,800 --> 00:26:01,640 Speaker 2: it hard or was it? So you need to get 591 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 2: some more vegetables in your life. 592 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 4: I mean, I've made some significant changes since. It really 593 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 4: put a lot of stuff into perspective because the moment 594 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 4: that happened, I was like, oh, mortality is upon me. 595 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 4: I cannot control my body. Everything is deteriorating. I'm not 596 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,160 Speaker 4: in control or or. 597 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 2: I don't know, I might be getting into your business 598 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 2: too much. But if you had did like anal that week, 599 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 2: you know, direct them is not that strong. 600 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,120 Speaker 4: Sadly a little loose, sadly, just diet had not been 601 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 4: ass fucked. 602 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 3: So but so what do you do because I feel 603 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,120 Speaker 3: like I'm not getting an uper is gonna not I'm. 604 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,880 Speaker 1: Not getting this New Year's Eve. You can't get it cacked. 605 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 4: And I was like, I gotta go home and I 606 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 4: got to like get ready for New Year's So I 607 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 4: this is like during the day I was leaving my 608 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 4: boyfriend's place. 609 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,640 Speaker 1: You took you pulled your pants when the sun was up. 610 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 4: The sun was up. 611 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 1: This was during the day, This was during the this 612 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 1: is a nightmare. 613 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 4: It was nightmare. And so I'm like it was over 614 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 4: by like the Graham l So I was like, okay, 615 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 4: no Variety coffee has like an alone bathroom, Like I 616 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 4: can be alone in a bathroom. 617 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 1: Okay. 618 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 4: So I go there crying, obviously crying because I was 619 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 4: like I already eliminated the option to go upstairs. I'm 620 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 4: not gonna go upstairs. 621 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 3: No, you can't go back to his house and be like, 622 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,919 Speaker 3: hey left something in the bathroom and then jump in 623 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 3: his shower with all your clothes. 624 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: Why not how long have you guys put you guys together? 625 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 4: We I mean this was like that we've been together 626 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 4: for like almost a year at this bitch. If you 627 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,719 Speaker 4: don't know you've been take this doodoo this well I 628 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 4: know now I know. And then that if I if 629 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,119 Speaker 4: you can't go back in the house when you ship yourself, 630 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 4: then they're not You're not meant to be a year. 631 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 1: It's not even about being meant to be, Like we've 632 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: been banging for a year, like you know me. 633 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 3: I know I've I've fartied in the bed like I'm 634 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 3: sure you've seen his kid marks. 635 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I know reason why. 636 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 4: I should have accepted the morning sign that it was 637 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,959 Speaker 4: not not the match he had a roommate. 638 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 2: Listen, this is the true test on your ship on yourself. 639 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 2: Then go back to your man's place. If he takes 640 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 2: you open arms, y'all are meant to be? 641 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: I know that is I love. I do know what 642 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: you du that's cool with me? Do in my pants? 643 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 1: That's not my type. 644 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 2: No, But what if if he's like, oh my god, babe, 645 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 2: are you okay? Let me help do you want me 646 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,880 Speaker 2: to do you want me to wipe from front to back? 647 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 3: No, No, Sydney, that's not the man for me. He 648 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 3: gonna say that in his vows. But we're gonna be 649 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 3: in front of all our friends and family, and he's 650 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 3: gonna be at the Altar leg I'll take you even 651 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 3: when you poop your pants. 652 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,240 Speaker 1: Yeah're gonna be like Mari pooping her pain. 653 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 2: That's great, first of all, but in order for it 654 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 2: to be for sickness or health, listen, that's the sickness 655 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 2: in my pants. 656 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 4: It's a sickness. 657 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 658 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 4: So I go into variety coffee sobbing, I use dish 659 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 4: soap like that are handsome, sorry, hands not in But 660 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 4: like I was like, I gotta get it off the legs, like. 661 00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 3: So, how far did it? Because everyone listening needs the vision, I. 662 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 4: Would say, like, uh, like upper thigh because it's tight, 663 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 4: so like it was sitting there. It was sitting there. 664 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 4: So I threw the tights in, the underwear away and 665 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 4: eye I'm in this short little like you had no skirt, no, 666 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 4: and I didn't have anything with me because I wasn't 667 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 4: anticipating shitting myself. 668 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 2: So you're so the So the Labia was exposed to 669 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 2: the elements, exposed, the absolutely exposed. 670 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 4: I'm crying. I called my friend. I was like walking back, 671 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 4: and then I realized that I had forgotten my keys, 672 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 4: and so I had to wait for my friend, for Catherine, 673 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 4: we were living together at the time, Cohen to to 674 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 4: let me into the place. So it was a long time. Wait. 675 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: Did you walk half an hour to your apartment? Yes? 676 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 1: In a skirt with no draw one. 677 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 3: Yes, Well you're not afraid that you're going to just 678 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 3: be spraying poop out of the skirt. 679 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 4: I felt like it had it was over. 680 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,479 Speaker 1: Got everything out because if you because listen, if you're 681 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,479 Speaker 1: shooting yourself, you will. I'm as well, let let's the 682 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 1: rest out. You know, you got wow back. 683 00:29:59,000 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 2: Now? 684 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: Wait, were they expensive with their Wolford because I'd be 685 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 1: mad if they were like one hundred dollars tis. I 686 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,760 Speaker 1: was like, well, we're gonna have to preserve this. 687 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no, they were like they 688 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 4: were like Walt full on, like Dwayne Reid. 689 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: Oh girl, how did they even hold the doodle? Those 690 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 1: things left and right? 691 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 3: Wait, so you don't have one. It wasn't leggings. It 692 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 3: was like legitimate stock it was it was stocking. 693 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 1: She had pooping on your feet. 694 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 4: Honey, it was it was dark. 695 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: No, no, next next door, next door, we got that's 696 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 1: a lot. Oh my god, did you tell anybody that 697 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 1: you pooped your pants? 698 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 4: I mean I told people later. 699 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 3: I you were like like now eighteen. 700 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 4: I needed I needed time to like feel okay about 701 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 4: myself again. 702 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 3: But honestly, I'm looking at you in a different lay 703 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 3: of course. I mean it happened three years ago. 704 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 4: Just know that. Yeah, well know that, I'm I'm I'm 705 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 4: past it. 706 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 1: It made you strong because it happened again. 707 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, it did happen again in a party city. 708 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, So you're looking for costumes. 709 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 4: So this one actually even worse than the stockings one, 710 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 4: Let's get it because I had worn athletic shorts that 711 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 4: day and gone commando and I shipped myself in party city. 712 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: What is in your diet? Friend? A lot of corn? 713 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 1: What's up? Like? Why a fiber? 714 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 4: I could not I could not tell you what it was. 715 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 4: My Well, it was my friend's bachelorette weekend and a 716 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 4: wedding weekend. So like I had been drinking a lot 717 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 4: of you. 718 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: Like yo, tequila makes the stomach just not Yeah. 719 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 4: It was so it was so dark, I mean, but 720 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 4: great pop it was dark. No, no, the emotionally dark. 721 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 4: It was emotionally dark to be in that space. 722 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: Okay, So you had all some athletic shorts. 723 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 3: What I think those I think like small joggers with 724 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 3: like the like the high cut like on the side, 725 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 3: and like they have like those sewn in white breasts. 726 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 4: Yes, it was a small jogger with a built in underwear. 727 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: Friend my friends like. 728 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 4: And they were tight too, And I never I never 729 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 4: go commando, Like this is like the maybe the first. 730 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: Time you need to start traveling with an extra set 731 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 1: of drums. 732 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 4: Well now now I know. 733 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, but would the panties make a difference, like 734 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: you would have shipped on everything. No, I feel like 735 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: the shorts. 736 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 3: No, I need like a full costume change. It's built 737 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 3: in draw like panty. But they're loose. 738 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 4: They're loose, they're they're not meant to be worn alone. 739 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 3: But right, Yeah, So so okay, first of all, what 740 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 3: were you looking for? 741 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 4: I was looking for like fun bachelorette party. 742 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 1: It was worth Dick straws. Okay, great, got it. 743 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 3: And you're looking through and you had no warning or 744 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 3: you just like you were like, oh, I feel little funny. 745 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,719 Speaker 4: I like wasn't feeling great, but I was just like, 746 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 4: I think I'm just tired. I'm traveling, and like there'd 747 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 4: been a wedding and then back to back. There was 748 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 4: going to be that in a bachelorette party, so you. 749 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: Know, so what I was feeling, what I were you 750 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 1: in when? Is that? I was? 751 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 4: I was looking at Lais like hawaii am I remember 752 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 4: standing by because I just was like I was like, wow, 753 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 4: like party city smells so bad. 754 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my, oh you didn't even 755 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 3: realize that you got to get your butt tightened. 756 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: Yes, it's fuck you gotta do. 757 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 4: It's not okay. 758 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 1: What happened? 759 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 4: I'm not in control? 760 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 3: Wait what happened? You cooped yourself? And then what happened? 761 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 3: You walked home like squished. 762 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 4: I went into the single cell bathroom at the party city, 763 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 4: locked myself in and washed my shorts in the sink. 764 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: And then did they have like a little dryer? You 765 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: were like yes, and they're not, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am. 766 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 4: I was in there for a full like at least 767 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 4: twenty minutes. 768 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, absolutely, ma'am. Hello, are you okay? If you're 769 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: not buying anything, you have to leave? Yeah? 770 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 4: What And I did finish the transaction because I was like, 771 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,160 Speaker 4: I'm not going to come back return. 772 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 1: To the scene. 773 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 2: No, imagine you buy stuff because you just like I 774 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: just should in on myself and in the bathroom, so 775 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 2: I have to buy something also. Okay, so this is 776 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 2: because for the visual listeners, So you're watching your doodoo 777 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 2: shorts in the sink? 778 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 3: Are you having to smush some of the poop down? 779 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 3: Because not sanitary? 780 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 1: Friends right now? 781 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,320 Speaker 4: But what else? What else? 782 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: What? What do all in that sink? You're a poopoo expert, 783 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: It's what you are, expert. Yeah. 784 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 2: I would never want to have sex because I would 785 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 2: be afraid that something was going on my bone was 786 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 2: just gonna open up. 787 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I have. 788 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 4: I think I've got my my wife a little more 789 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 4: figured out. 790 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: Now, Okay, it is dark and moving forward. 791 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,880 Speaker 3: Okay, just before every time you leave your house, just 792 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 3: maybe in a little zip bag, throw some clean draws 793 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:44,360 Speaker 3: in it just in case. 794 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, you just back up. 795 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 4: Okay, I have another uh this uh, this is much 796 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 4: more recent. I got a migraine for the first time. 797 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:55,760 Speaker 4: I've never had a migraine before. 798 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:56,400 Speaker 1: They're terrible. 799 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 4: They're terrible, and I and I didn't know what was happening. 800 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,959 Speaker 4: I like, I'm really don't even get headaches very often, 801 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 4: and I was, but it was all the stuff like 802 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 4: look like the next day, I was like, oh, I 803 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 4: think that's what that was. I was having, Like I 804 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 4: was sensitive delight, I was really nauseous and like just 805 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 4: and then I had I was going to see my 806 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 4: friend's family took me to see that Harry Potter Broadway play. 807 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 4: They like had an extra ticket. It was so nice. 808 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 4: It was like it was it was great. 809 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,840 Speaker 3: You're not going to drag it, okay, she said nice 810 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 3: because when women call men nice, that means they're ugly. 811 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,839 Speaker 1: They're like, well they tried, You're You're like, oh, when 812 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 1: your friends are like and you're like, he's he's really nice, 813 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 1: he's alive. 814 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, nice, that means he's ugly. 815 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,760 Speaker 4: I loved it because, like, for a couple of reasons, 816 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 4: I just had like a really like major loss that week, 817 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 4: and it was very nice to go see something very 818 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 4: like familiar and just spend the day doing that and 819 00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 4: like a new story within like a childhood that the 820 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 4: thing that was important. 821 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 1: To me, So you were just happy to be this. 822 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,360 Speaker 4: Really you didn't pay, so I did not pay, and 823 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 4: like the production value is like crazy, Like it's just 824 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 4: it's like it's just a huge spectacle. It was really 825 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 4: it was. 826 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 1: Is that show still on Broadway? M hmm, okay, I've 827 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,400 Speaker 1: never seen any of that many movies. 828 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 4: It was really fun. 829 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 1: Do your friends have extra tickets? 830 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 3: I don't like extra extra, extra tooth likes. 831 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 1: I'll see loose tickets. 832 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:31,399 Speaker 4: I'll make a call like your bet so you're you're 833 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,360 Speaker 4: I'm having I'm on my way to see Harry Potter 834 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 4: and I'm like in Times Square and I get out 835 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 4: of the I take a lift because I was feeling 836 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 4: sick and I knew that I was gonna throw up. 837 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:42,839 Speaker 4: I was like, I just know that this is going 838 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,760 Speaker 4: to happen. I need to find a bathroom. I feel 839 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 4: so fucking sick. I'm running around Times Square. 840 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: Why did you just throw up? Out? It's Time Square? 841 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: It was dirty. Well, everybody's always thrown up. 842 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 4: You'll see. 843 00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 1: Uh. 844 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 4: So the only trash cans I can find like the 845 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 4: male slot ones, so you have to like pull open 846 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 4: and it's like at a little bucket. So I'm not 847 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 4: going to throw up there. Then I go into like 848 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 4: the Europa Cafe. There's a million person line. I was like, 849 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 4: I need to and then I just ran out and 850 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god. So I'm like, you 851 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,799 Speaker 4: know what, I'm actually just gonna get in line for 852 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 4: the show and I'll just throw up when I get 853 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,400 Speaker 4: in there. I think I'm feeling okay. 854 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 1: You think you can wait that long? 855 00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 4: I was like I sort of felt like I felt 856 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,399 Speaker 4: the panic go down a little bit and I was like, okay, 857 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,399 Speaker 4: let's see this moment. Just get inside the place. 858 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 1: We know you don't really have control of your body 859 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 1: like that. 860 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, so, you know how. So I go 861 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 4: see my friend and six of her family members give 862 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:37,960 Speaker 4: her a hug. She's like, how are you doing. It's like, 863 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 4: I'm really good. I'm gonna throw up. And then I 864 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 4: threw up on the street in front of her whole 865 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 4: family and one hundred fifty people in line for Harry Potter. 866 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,719 Speaker 1: And then you just be like she's pregnant, you know now. 867 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 1: Then you're just like wiping your face and. 868 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 4: I was like water, yeah, I was like And then 869 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,719 Speaker 4: we went for a walk and I was like, I'm 870 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,279 Speaker 4: really scared. I don't think they're going to let me in. 871 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 4: And then there are two entrances, like different parts of 872 00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 4: the streets. We just got in line at the other edge. 873 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,840 Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like that in New York City people 874 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 2: are always throwing up. 875 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,359 Speaker 1: It's totally fine, it's nothing new. 876 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 4: Nobody like make it. There's nowhere to go. 877 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 3: I was like, would you not just throw up on? 878 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 3: Like planning to throw up in the street is what 879 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 3: I'm saying. Like I didn't want between two buildings. 880 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 1: She's a classy woman. Yeah she shits in her pants, 881 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 1: but she doesn't throw up. Okay, she's not not published that. Okay, 882 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 1: she was raised better than that. 883 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:28,240 Speaker 4: I'm scared. I'm so scarred. I was like, I can't. 884 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 4: I'm trying to save myself from those situations. 885 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:37,040 Speaker 3: I feel like I've only ever thrown up sober in public. 886 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 3: I think I was gonna say once, but I think 887 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:40,240 Speaker 3: it was twice. 888 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 1: Now were you hungover? 889 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:42,480 Speaker 3: Wait? 890 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 1: Didn't you throw up in the train station? I threw up? 891 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 3: I and you cause I feel it. You feel when 892 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 3: you're about You're like, oh no, I'm abut to throw up. 893 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:52,440 Speaker 3: You had to get off the train because like smells 894 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 3: and I was hungover and I was on my period. 895 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 3: That's what That's what it was. So like smells and 896 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,360 Speaker 3: colors and people talking with busy mess you'll have a 897 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 3: bad period, I mean I did that day. Yeah, And 898 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 3: I jumped off the train and I threw up in 899 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 3: the garbage and then I was like, Oh, the train 900 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 3: is still here, I. 901 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 1: Can get back on. 902 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 3: But the moment that I was thinking about was I 903 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,880 Speaker 3: think I was going to an audition or something. And 904 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,680 Speaker 3: I wasn't hungover and I wasn't sick. I just felt 905 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 3: funny and I was in I was on the like 906 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,400 Speaker 3: in Greenwich Village or something like that, and just it 907 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:24,880 Speaker 3: was like a little construction area. 908 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 1: I threw up kept it moving, and. 909 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 3: It was like a bunch of dudes like working across 910 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,680 Speaker 3: the street that were just like watching me walk away. 911 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 3: And somebody was like, that's nasty, and I was like, 912 00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 3: you're nasty. 913 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,480 Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. Yeah, that's what happened. 914 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 2: I threw up in a cab during the day and 915 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 2: the guy was so nice because he thought like, oh, 916 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 2: you're just pregnant, Like it's fine. 917 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,359 Speaker 1: And he threw the cab or you threw a hanging 918 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 1: out the window in the cab. I wasn't in an uber, 919 00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: it was a yellow cab. But oh. 920 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 2: He was like, oh, you know what, just take care 921 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,080 Speaker 2: of yourself to get something to eat. I know you 922 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,720 Speaker 2: and the baby are going through a lot. 923 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,920 Speaker 1: He's like, I know you're probably a single mom, and 924 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: I picked you up from Harlem, so I know you're 925 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 1: doing bad. 926 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,320 Speaker 2: Wait, have you ever threw up and pooped at the 927 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 2: same time that happened to me? 928 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 1: I don't think food poisoning. 929 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 4: I oh, I haven't had food poisoning. 930 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 1: I've never had it. You've had everything else at all. 931 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,239 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, I'm surprised. I have not had food poison. 932 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 1: What's the what's the next story? 933 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,359 Speaker 4: I got? I got all the main ones. Uh oh yeah, 934 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 4: I ship only blood at work one time. 935 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 1: Whoa, that's not doodoo, that's you're just dying. Yeah. Yeah. 936 00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 4: This was when I was at Full Frontal. 937 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:48,920 Speaker 1: Front Samantha by that show. 938 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and I it was like the my it 939 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 4: was the first it was we were it was the 940 00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 4: first day of work. It was the first safe work 941 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 4: and we were going to It was like this crazy 942 00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 4: few weeks because we were filming an episode that was 943 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,680 Speaker 4: like taking we were filming it on a bus and 944 00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,760 Speaker 4: then the next week we're going to the Republican National Convention. 945 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 4: In the following week we're going to the Democratic National time. 946 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:08,959 Speaker 1: That would blood too. So I was like. 947 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 4: The most stressed I'd ever been in my life. And 948 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,359 Speaker 4: I was like, are like a person had just left 949 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 4: the show and so there was just like a lot 950 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,839 Speaker 4: of like extra work to do and picking up that 951 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 4: slack and so everyone was just freaking the fuck out 952 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,359 Speaker 4: and it was all new stuff. And then I went 953 00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 4: to the bathroom and I was like I looked down 954 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 4: and it was just blood. 955 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,120 Speaker 1: And I was like, sure it wasn't beats. 956 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,640 Speaker 2: If you had beats that day, Okay, because I've been 957 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 2: there many times, You're like, am I. 958 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 1: Beats will turn your pee even like a little bit radio. 959 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:38,120 Speaker 4: Just definitely. 960 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:43,359 Speaker 1: But that morning you had done anal Yes, So that morning, oh. 961 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 4: Yes, I forgot. 962 00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 1: Oh you forgot the astro glide quite dry. It happened 963 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:55,680 Speaker 1: to all of us. 964 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you've had a hard time with the butt, 965 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 2: But I feel like there is some positives, Like you've 966 00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:03,440 Speaker 2: written for a lot of ships. 967 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you poop, but you're employed. 968 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, my body is completely disintegrating from the inside out. 969 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,359 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, if something is happening, have you gone 970 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,320 Speaker 3: to the doctor to figure out, like after you pooped blood? 971 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 1: Did you? 972 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,880 Speaker 4: I did finally go to like a just a primary 973 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 4: care doctor. 974 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 1: After that. 975 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 4: I'm really like, I'm really bad about like maintenance sis. 976 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,520 Speaker 1: Me too, but all of us. You got to listen 977 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 1: to your body. 978 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that wasn't enough for me to be like 979 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 4: I should I should have like a primary care physician. 980 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 1: You had any shirts? You're right? Yeah, m w g A. 981 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,760 Speaker 3: So I'm on that insurance, ok, Writers Guild of Where America. 982 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,719 Speaker 1: So you should definitely be checking out that. But every 983 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: other month. 984 00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, so things are better, Things are okay. But it 985 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,239 Speaker 4: was just it was just stress. They were like, if 986 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,320 Speaker 4: this keeps happening, you need to go to the hospital. 987 00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,360 Speaker 4: But I think this is stress. 988 00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,759 Speaker 1: No, I didn't know that was a thing. I didn't 989 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 1: know that was effective stress. 990 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 3: I'm stressed. I should be pooping blood. Yeah, my buddy 991 00:42:58,600 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 3: is perfect. 992 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,759 Speaker 4: What do you do for your sleep? Because I have 993 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 4: really terrible, terrible sleep and like habits, not really sleep habits, 994 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 4: but if I'm anxious, I I've been sleeping like four 995 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 4: hours a night for the past few weeks because I'm 996 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 4: about to move and I'm so worried about that, Like 997 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 4: what do you do to let me. 998 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 1: Tell you what I've been drying? 999 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,800 Speaker 3: This is well because when I was a kid, it 1000 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,400 Speaker 3: would take me forever to fall asleep. Now I can't 1001 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 3: stay asleep. Yeah, so i'd like listen to music. I 1002 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,760 Speaker 3: have you done like ASMR, Like I tried that. 1003 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,399 Speaker 1: Melatonin is good. I really I. 1004 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,480 Speaker 3: Don't take anything because I don't want to have to 1005 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,040 Speaker 3: like depend. 1006 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,760 Speaker 4: On well, I'm I'm I'm really scared of pills. 1007 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,160 Speaker 1: I don't like melotonin. 1008 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:42,120 Speaker 4: Is melotonin? 1009 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 1: I do you just drop? 1010 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 4: I like melotonin because I would never do like a 1011 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,239 Speaker 4: sleeping pill, just because I know that. Like I'm a 1012 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 4: really obsessive, like addicted person, So I. 1013 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,040 Speaker 1: Say, do that. So how does the It's just that 1014 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:55,479 Speaker 1: you get this at the drug store. 1015 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can just get it at like yeah, you 1016 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:58,520 Speaker 4: can just get it at a drug store like a 1017 00:43:58,640 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 4: Pole Foods or whatever. 1018 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 1: And to take these drops and you take one or two. 1019 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,759 Speaker 4: You can do drops, you can do pills. I do 1020 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 4: the pills just because that's just what I buy. And hm, 1021 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 4: it's just it just like helps you. It helps me 1022 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 4: at least like get through a night. And I don't 1023 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 4: do it like every night. But if I'm like I've 1024 00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 4: had like three days in a row where I just 1025 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 4: cannot fucking stay asleep, I take one. 1026 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 1: And you gotta sleep. It's so important. I mean, what 1027 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:21,840 Speaker 1: the thing that I've. 1028 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:24,719 Speaker 3: Been doing is I'll smoke some Indica before I brush 1029 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,479 Speaker 3: my teeth and then just hope that like it makes 1030 00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 3: me fall asleep. 1031 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,360 Speaker 4: CBD helped me a little bit too. I still prefer melotonin, 1032 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,880 Speaker 4: but because I don't, like, I don't like to smoke. 1033 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,880 Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not like a big weed person, but 1034 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,239 Speaker 4: I like doing CBD because it just like I like, 1035 00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,040 Speaker 4: I like stuff that like guides you to sleep without 1036 00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,880 Speaker 4: making you do it. It just like relaxes relaxes you 1037 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 4: a little bit. 1038 00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:50,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because I'm trying, Like I what I've what 1039 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,320 Speaker 3: I've also been doing is like I'll get in the 1040 00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 3: bed with my laptop and like watch something until I 1041 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,920 Speaker 3: fall asleep. But I don't want to. I don't like 1042 00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 3: I'm trying to have like a laptop free, phone free. 1043 00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 4: Bacause that's that's like that contributes to bad sleep too. 1044 00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,879 Speaker 3: The screens, well, I'm not I won't watch, I'll put 1045 00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 3: it on and I'll listen. Yeah, Like last night I 1046 00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 3: was watching Blue Planet on Netflix. 1047 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,560 Speaker 4: Oh and you know what. You know what helped me 1048 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 4: too is like having having something in your room that 1049 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 4: like hums all night. Like I have a I have 1050 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:23,560 Speaker 4: like a humidifier. 1051 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:29,839 Speaker 1: In my Yeah the humanifier doesn't hum, but the fan does. 1052 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's good having having, just like or people people 1053 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 4: really love. I don't have this, but people love like 1054 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,279 Speaker 4: white noise machines and stuff just to. 1055 00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:41,920 Speaker 3: Have, Like there's a there's an app for that too, 1056 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 3: Like you'll have like rainforest sounds, like, oh yeah, I've 1057 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:46,400 Speaker 3: matched it to get to it. 1058 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,880 Speaker 1: There's like stuff like that on Spotify, like sleep Sounds. 1059 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 3: I was listening to the rainforest yesterday, but the birds 1060 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,440 Speaker 3: were too loud that I can't like they were like 1061 00:45:54,760 --> 00:46:00,080 Speaker 3: and you're like this monkey gotta go. I mean, I 1062 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,600 Speaker 3: don't know, but I do like the sound of the rain. 1063 00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,839 Speaker 3: And when I lived in La I missed the rain. Yeah, 1064 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:08,279 Speaker 3: because like I'm because it's nice every day. Yeah, so 1065 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:09,880 Speaker 3: you're like I gotta go outside, Okay. 1066 00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm from I'm from Ohio, so I'm like very 1067 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 4: used to like constantly changing weather. Yeah, so that'll be 1068 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 4: an adjustment. 1069 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:23,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, February winter in LA. You're gonna be happy. 1070 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 3: Happy, Absolutely, you're gonna be happy, Like we gonna be 1071 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,839 Speaker 3: walking through the snow and you're gonna be like, look 1072 00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 3: at me. 1073 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:29,959 Speaker 1: In my tank top. 1074 00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,840 Speaker 2: But like the thing about stress is like it doesn't 1075 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 2: matter about the weather, Like if you just stress, it's 1076 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 2: just gonna happen. 1077 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,680 Speaker 1: So like, yeah, and you are in a lot. 1078 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 2: Of writer's rooms, so I'm sure that is stressful as well. 1079 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I realized that, like I well, I 1080 00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 4: realized first of all that I like, I mean, all 1081 00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,279 Speaker 4: this stuff I told you about definitely led to it. 1082 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,759 Speaker 4: But like working in a at a desk all day 1083 00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 4: it's so bad for your body, and just knowing that, like, oh, 1084 00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,439 Speaker 4: I like when I was like I was a job 1085 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 4: last summer that I couldn't sit for more than ten 1086 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,319 Speaker 4: minutes at a time because my back hurts so bad. 1087 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:11,879 Speaker 3: It was you were stressed because you're like I deserve more. 1088 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 4: Well, it's just like watching the news all the time 1089 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,919 Speaker 4: was part of it. But also just sitting hunched over 1090 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,120 Speaker 4: all day so fucking bad body. 1091 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,080 Speaker 1: Screen is not good for your eyes, not. 1092 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,640 Speaker 4: So just like taking the initiative to be like, Okay, 1093 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 4: my body is breaking down. I'm twenty five, I'm in 1094 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:30,240 Speaker 4: agony all the time. 1095 00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not good. 1096 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, and just being like, oh, if I go to 1097 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 4: the gym and do like any amount of work at 1098 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,080 Speaker 4: all and have like core strength, I will not be 1099 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:39,839 Speaker 4: in pain all the time. 1100 00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,279 Speaker 3: You think I should get a standing desk or one 1101 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,799 Speaker 3: of those like ball things that people sit on to 1102 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 3: like force them to sit straight. 1103 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:48,880 Speaker 4: I did get one of those chairs, and then I 1104 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 4: was like, well, I'm still like weak and in pain. 1105 00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 4: I could just work out and I'm not like shit vegetables. 1106 00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:59,120 Speaker 3: Huh, let's talk about the diet. Do you eat out 1107 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:02,000 Speaker 3: a lot? It sounds like you really like Wendy's and 1108 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:02,800 Speaker 3: make flirry. 1109 00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,920 Speaker 4: I'm really not a fast food person here, just because 1110 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,759 Speaker 4: it's not convenient. Like if i'm if, I'm still going 1111 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:12,600 Speaker 4: to be like walking to get somewhere somewhere eat something 1112 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 4: that doesn't make me feel bad. I'm not like a big, 1113 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,480 Speaker 4: like foody person. I really am. 1114 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,600 Speaker 3: So what like, on a on a regular day, what 1115 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 3: would you like would you get up and have breakfast 1116 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:21,760 Speaker 3: at your house? 1117 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:22,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1118 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 4: I mean it depends, like if I am when I 1119 00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,960 Speaker 4: am like working on something, I like, it's hard for 1120 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,280 Speaker 4: me to think about anything else. 1121 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 1: You've seem very on the go, you know, like you 1122 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 1: let me grab a go girt. 1123 00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm really like, food is not a priority for me. 1124 00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:44,560 Speaker 3: Your body is literally starving and bleeding out the butt 1125 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 3: should I. 1126 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 4: Am like really trying to be better about it, but 1127 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,600 Speaker 4: it's more just like something that I have to do 1128 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,080 Speaker 4: and not something that I enjoy. 1129 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,320 Speaker 1: And I'm trying to eat this. Uh do you drink water? 1130 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:56,560 Speaker 5: Like? 1131 00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:57,280 Speaker 1: Can we talk. 1132 00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,000 Speaker 4: About the water? I do? I do drink water? 1133 00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,680 Speaker 1: Looks great? Ye're not dry? Yeah, it looks hair looks healthy. 1134 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,400 Speaker 4: I went to Diva Curl for the first time and 1135 00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:10,479 Speaker 4: got Diva Curl is like this place is like Diva Sean. 1136 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,839 Speaker 4: They're like they're they're like just for curly hair. And 1137 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,200 Speaker 4: I've never I guess I've just never had a good 1138 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,440 Speaker 4: haircut before. Okay, and this woman like goes they like 1139 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,839 Speaker 4: go curl by Curl and it's just for curly hair. 1140 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:23,799 Speaker 1: And how much did a haircut cost? 1141 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:27,239 Speaker 4: Nine dollars? It varies like on their website it was 1142 00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,400 Speaker 4: like from eighty five to like one hundred and seventy 1143 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:30,000 Speaker 4: five or something. 1144 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 1: That's terrible, especially if you're not really getting haircuts like that, 1145 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 1: you got to treat yourself. 1146 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 4: It was so nice and so worth it because it 1147 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,719 Speaker 4: like changed the texture and like volume of my hair. 1148 00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,959 Speaker 4: Like they go to people who know what they're doing, yeah, 1149 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:42,800 Speaker 4: and I never do. 1150 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,239 Speaker 1: Sure is a very messy bun type individual. It's like, 1151 00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna throw it up, you know, I'm just 1152 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,040 Speaker 1: riding and whatnot. No, baby, I'm just gonna I'm gonna 1153 00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:52,440 Speaker 1: toss it. 1154 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:56,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe throw a scrunchy, like a real yesterday, a 1155 00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:57,160 Speaker 3: thick white scrunchy. 1156 00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,800 Speaker 1: Yesterday, I said, Sis, what are we doing? 1157 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 4: I'm a scrunchy girl because I have a big, curly hair. 1158 00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 4: But it's also really fine. So it's like the little 1159 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,560 Speaker 4: the little elastics don't hold it. But I need I 1160 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,239 Speaker 4: need something right now. 1161 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 3: Let me see, I got a little one right now. 1162 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,320 Speaker 3: Mitra is the type to put a pant on our hair, talking. 1163 00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:14,440 Speaker 1: About like. 1164 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,360 Speaker 3: Side like the ones that people were in the nineties 1165 00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:20,160 Speaker 3: like won full House. 1166 00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:23,080 Speaker 1: Those are the like the thick, yes white. 1167 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,200 Speaker 4: That is my my my go to scrunched fabric. 1168 00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 3: Somebody sent me on the train ones and they gave 1169 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,520 Speaker 3: me a card and they were like it was for 1170 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,120 Speaker 3: a curly hair salon and they're like, we specialize in 1171 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,040 Speaker 3: curl like cutting and washing. And I was like, well 1172 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:37,040 Speaker 3: this is a week sir so. 1173 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:40,000 Speaker 1: But I took the card. 1174 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:41,360 Speaker 3: I was like, oh wow, thank you. I was like, 1175 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,799 Speaker 3: I'm not paying two hundred dollars for a haircut. But 1176 00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 3: how often do you get your haircut? 1177 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 4: I don't go very often. I go like, I mean, 1178 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:49,719 Speaker 4: I'm really lazy about it. 1179 00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,839 Speaker 3: So I think we're technically supposed to go. Somebody said 1180 00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,120 Speaker 3: like every three or four months. 1181 00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:56,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I probably do. Like I probably get my 1182 00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,359 Speaker 4: haircut like twice a year, not very often. 1183 00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 1: You're very cash, you know, you just like we'll get 1184 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,880 Speaker 1: there sitting. How often do you get your hair trimmed? 1185 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 3: Right? What? 1186 00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:07,160 Speaker 1: Why? 1187 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm not good at taking care of 1188 00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:13,759 Speaker 2: my hair. I'm using throwing hats with hair on it, 1189 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:15,840 Speaker 2: so I'm not really in the hat. 1190 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:17,160 Speaker 1: But the hair is like part of the hand. Hmm. 1191 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 1: I'm not really into maintaining. 1192 00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:22,800 Speaker 2: But whenever I do get my hair, it's like, oh wow, 1193 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:24,799 Speaker 2: I still have hair on top of my head. 1194 00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:26,520 Speaker 1: I shouldn't. I don't take care it looks good. 1195 00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,840 Speaker 3: Every time you post like the blowouts and stuff on Instagram, I'm. 1196 00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:31,439 Speaker 1: Like, wow, the how they can help you. 1197 00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 2: No, but like we got to take care of ourselves 1198 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:35,200 Speaker 2: and our bodies. 1199 00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:36,080 Speaker 1: We deserve it. 1200 00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 2: I mean, when we get fifty, it's gonna show that 1201 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 2: we did not put. 1202 00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,799 Speaker 1: In the time we really trying. You are, I see it? 1203 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 4: You know this this year has been the year that 1204 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,239 Speaker 4: I've been trying, just like going to the gym, eating better, 1205 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,320 Speaker 4: but also just like yeah, like I'm like, oh, I 1206 00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,400 Speaker 4: want to like spend money on stuff that makes me 1207 00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:53,279 Speaker 4: feel nice, and. 1208 00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:55,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like we're at that age now where 1209 00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,240 Speaker 3: we deserve, like and we're working. 1210 00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,759 Speaker 1: We're all working hard like we deserve Like, oh I 1211 00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,120 Speaker 1: saw this, I like it. I'm buying it for myself. 1212 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:05,080 Speaker 4: I And there's like such a sense of shame about that, 1213 00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,840 Speaker 4: like my my my dad is an immigrant and like 1214 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:08,920 Speaker 4: everything was successive. 1215 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,239 Speaker 3: Are you a daughter of immigrants? And that's what they 1216 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:12,399 Speaker 3: make us feel like. 1217 00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 4: So like going to therapy was a big deal for me, 1218 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,520 Speaker 4: Like I've been going to therapy this year and that 1219 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:19,640 Speaker 4: is like I called my family and was like I 1220 00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,120 Speaker 4: decided it was going to be really open about going 1221 00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:24,759 Speaker 4: to therapy because we're not a mental health family, and 1222 00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,640 Speaker 4: like anything like that is it's like, oh wow, like 1223 00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:33,040 Speaker 4: you're really like liberally, I'm really American right now, and 1224 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 4: I would never tell my family if I was going 1225 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:36,759 Speaker 4: to therapy. Well, and it was like everyone was like 1226 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:40,359 Speaker 4: why what what happened. It's like, well, like nothing like 1227 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:42,040 Speaker 4: happened happened. 1228 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:45,680 Speaker 3: Like did somebody touch you on the train And You're like, no, actually, 1229 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,920 Speaker 3: you just never touched me as a child, That's what happened. 1230 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,280 Speaker 4: So that has been like a huge conversation. But really anything, 1231 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,160 Speaker 4: it's like, oh, I'm getting a nice like a nice 1232 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,239 Speaker 4: pair of pants. Why am I not getting like the 1233 00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 4: cheapest version of this? 1234 00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I want to conversation on the phone 1235 00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 3: last night yesterday. 1236 00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:06,239 Speaker 2: Listen, full price for anything is absurd to me at 1237 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:06,720 Speaker 2: this moment. 1238 00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 1: But I was like, you know what, I love the. 1239 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:12,000 Speaker 2: Pants look great, they make me feel good, but looks 1240 00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:13,719 Speaker 2: my butt looks like powful. 1241 00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, why not spend the. 1242 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 2: Thirty nine dollars that I could have gotten for twelve 1243 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 2: dollars if I switched to TEG But whatever, you know, 1244 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,640 Speaker 2: like I deserve to pay full price sometimes, and so 1245 00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:25,560 Speaker 2: we all deserve something. If you want to get a 1246 00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,799 Speaker 2: broker and look at lofts when you're not gonna get it, 1247 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,239 Speaker 2: why not it makes you happy. 1248 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,520 Speaker 1: I don't have I don't have the money do it. 1249 00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:32,760 Speaker 1: It does make me happy. 1250 00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:36,360 Speaker 3: Also, I don't have a TV, and you know HGTV 1251 00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,960 Speaker 3: is on Hulu. But I want to see these places 1252 00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,880 Speaker 3: in birds. It makes me happy. 1253 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:45,200 Speaker 1: And I'm not spending any money. 1254 00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just showing up like, oh wow, Actually, Sydney, 1255 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,120 Speaker 3: if you're busy next week and you want to come. 1256 00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:53,480 Speaker 1: With a lost one, we could go. We could be 1257 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,480 Speaker 1: a couple. It can make we can make it like 1258 00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:57,000 Speaker 1: a scene. 1259 00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,799 Speaker 3: I mean, remember you hit me up the other day 1260 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 3: and you're like, let's do something not comedy related. 1261 00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,760 Speaker 1: Let's go look at some loss. I'm down. 1262 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,359 Speaker 3: Actually, we're gonna have an unofficial expert meetup and it's 1263 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:10,680 Speaker 3: just also on a bunch of listeners looking at loss. 1264 00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:11,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1265 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:16,879 Speaker 3: We're a polyamorous family and the nineteen of us. 1266 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 1: I love it. It's so good. 1267 00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:22,880 Speaker 3: But you're gonna be in LA So that doesn't mean 1268 00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,560 Speaker 3: you're going to be like eating healthier and you're gonna 1269 00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:26,640 Speaker 3: be hiking and stuff. 1270 00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 4: I do find myself more inclined to make healthy choices 1271 00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:31,719 Speaker 4: out there, just because I physically feel like you. 1272 00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,520 Speaker 3: Have to, and also the sun is shining and you 1273 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,279 Speaker 3: feel like the vitamin D is good for you. 1274 00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, and there's just such a culture of it here. 1275 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:41,160 Speaker 4: I definitely drink more here and like take worse care 1276 00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:43,560 Speaker 4: of myself. I'm way more inclined to be like a 1277 00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:45,279 Speaker 4: workaholic here than there. 1278 00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:47,880 Speaker 2: I feel like in New York we are real people, 1279 00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,799 Speaker 2: but we don't take care of ourselves. And I feel 1280 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,040 Speaker 2: like in La people are really surfaced, but they're healthy. 1281 00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 1: So it's like, so I want to figure out what 1282 00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,719 Speaker 1: the what the middle is? Where are you going to 1283 00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 1: live while you're in La Echo Park? Okay, that's like 1284 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:04,240 Speaker 1: that's a cool little area. 1285 00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:06,960 Speaker 3: But I feel like if you were closer to the beach, 1286 00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:08,840 Speaker 3: like Venice or something. 1287 00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,160 Speaker 1: Like that, it might be you might even be like a. 1288 00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,160 Speaker 3: Little tiny bit healthier because you like you like they 1289 00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:14,600 Speaker 3: gonn see my collar boats today? 1290 00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 1: Okay? Are you gonna be wearing Are you gonna be 1291 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,279 Speaker 1: wearing turtlenecks? In La? 1292 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:22,759 Speaker 3: I think I'll still dress like shit. People in La 1293 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,400 Speaker 3: can't dress. Literally, every time I went out there, it 1294 00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,279 Speaker 3: was like super casual. It was like, just this is 1295 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:28,760 Speaker 3: a meeting. 1296 00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:31,759 Speaker 4: Everybody looks the same and everybody looks like shit, It's 1297 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:35,280 Speaker 4: like it's very yeah, it's there's no like personality. 1298 00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,839 Speaker 1: No, it's a lot of in l A is this? 1299 00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,680 Speaker 1: I mean everybody? Who do I see who I'm following 1300 00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:43,840 Speaker 1: on in LA or like dress? 1301 00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,840 Speaker 3: Well, yes, that's for the gram, but in real life 1302 00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:48,520 Speaker 3: the people in LA do not know how to do. 1303 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:53,960 Speaker 4: It feels very like like yeah catalog, Yeah, it doesn't 1304 00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 4: look like. 1305 00:55:55,360 --> 00:56:01,479 Speaker 3: People like as wow, right there it's rough. 1306 00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 4: But I was thinking of what seal When I was 1307 00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,160 Speaker 4: a cattle I was like, what the only was a catalog? 1308 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,680 Speaker 1: Don't you do that? Now? Was a staple for me. 1309 00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,840 Speaker 3: I feel like Delia's was. I mean, I got the catalog, 1310 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:14,319 Speaker 3: but I don't think I've ever coming back? 1311 00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:14,600 Speaker 2: Right? 1312 00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:14,799 Speaker 1: What? 1313 00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:15,080 Speaker 4: No? 1314 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:16,279 Speaker 1: Why for who? 1315 00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:17,279 Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know who? 1316 00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,520 Speaker 1: Are you going to shoot for? Delias? What's going on 1317 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:19,960 Speaker 1: in the job? 1318 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 4: I feel like did I just make that? 1319 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 1: I just made it up? 1320 00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:26,840 Speaker 4: The listeners, Well everybody heard it here first Delia's is 1321 00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 4: coming back? 1322 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:30,200 Speaker 1: Okay, what's uh? What's next for you? 1323 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,600 Speaker 3: Since you uh hopefully are only going to have good 1324 00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 3: luck in twenty nineteen. 1325 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 4: I'm I I am still waiting to hear back about 1326 00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:39,080 Speaker 4: jobs and stuff. 1327 00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,480 Speaker 1: But oh, you're not moving to LA four a job. 1328 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,640 Speaker 4: The job she is. 1329 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,600 Speaker 1: You're like, I know, you know, you don't want to speak. 1330 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 1: I just quick. There's no saying. 1331 00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,400 Speaker 4: There's no paperwork, so I don't. I don't believe anything 1332 00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:55,839 Speaker 4: until contracts have been okay. 1333 00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 1: See this, this walking sleeps this, I mean. 1334 00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:02,359 Speaker 3: Me too, Just like, do I even have a job, Yeah, 1335 00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,400 Speaker 3: y'all do don't worry every day at six o'clock in 1336 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:05,600 Speaker 3: the morning, yeah, yeaheah, it's fine. 1337 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:06,719 Speaker 1: And then you're like, I'm gonna go to the gym 1338 00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:08,920 Speaker 1: and you're like, it's too dark outside of six am. 1339 00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:09,319 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1340 00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,759 Speaker 1: Still yeah. The sun comes up at like eight in 1341 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:12,320 Speaker 1: New York. 1342 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:13,399 Speaker 4: And then goes down at two pm. 1343 00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:16,720 Speaker 3: Yes, we have light for it was like, is this Alaska? 1344 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:17,840 Speaker 3: Are we living in last? 1345 00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 4: Is it always like this? Why am I so much 1346 00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 4: more aware of it this year? 1347 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:21,880 Speaker 1: Right? 1348 00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:25,520 Speaker 3: Because the sun sets in the winter here now at 1349 00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:28,320 Speaker 3: literally four thirty in the afternoon, and then the sun 1350 00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 3: doesn't come up until seven thirty. 1351 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,320 Speaker 4: I feel so stupid because I'm like, I truly am 1352 00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:34,400 Speaker 4: like this can't be. 1353 00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 3: How it always was, right, born and raised here and 1354 00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 3: still like is this is this my first winter? 1355 00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,600 Speaker 1: I feel that way. I'm like, wait, where have y'all 1356 00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,280 Speaker 1: been underneath the rock? I'm like, this happens all the time. 1357 00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 1: You remember it. 1358 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 3: Like the sun set yesterday it was literally three fifty eight, 1359 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,200 Speaker 3: and I was like, it's so dark. 1360 00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 2: But you know what, as a depressed person, it don't 1361 00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:58,320 Speaker 2: matter if the sun is up or the fucking is down. 1362 00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 2: I'm like, it's always feel like eight o'clock, nine o'clock 1363 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:02,440 Speaker 2: for me. So I don't care. 1364 00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? What? What are you 1365 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:06,160 Speaker 1: gonna do for this year? Uh? 1366 00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,320 Speaker 2: Well, I got my health care, so that getting that therapy, 1367 00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,840 Speaker 2: and you know, if they get those some meds in there, 1368 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:14,880 Speaker 2: some sold off, I'll take that as well. You know, 1369 00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:18,160 Speaker 2: whatever will lift my spirits, give it to me, manifesto. 1370 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:19,760 Speaker 2: If you want to crush it up, if you want 1371 00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:21,760 Speaker 2: to put it in a juicy juice box, I'm here 1372 00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:22,160 Speaker 2: for it. 1373 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,680 Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah, So that's that's mainly what I'm going to 1374 00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:28,680 Speaker 1: be working on. Health. Yeah, mental health. 1375 00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,880 Speaker 2: But I wanted to ask, like, what do you have 1376 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:34,880 Speaker 2: any advice for people who are having like bad luck, 1377 00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:36,360 Speaker 2: Like shit just keeps happening. 1378 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:39,200 Speaker 1: Literally, shit keeps happening to them. 1379 00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:41,520 Speaker 2: And it's like, how do you maintain how do you 1380 00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:42,920 Speaker 2: like keep your spirits up? 1381 00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:44,800 Speaker 1: And how do you like make fun what you're doing? 1382 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,280 Speaker 3: You went to party city and you probably waited online 1383 00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,160 Speaker 3: and them soggy as shorts for you poop? 1384 00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:51,160 Speaker 1: I did uh so money, have. 1385 00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,240 Speaker 4: A you know, have a good attitude about it. Laugh 1386 00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:56,640 Speaker 4: at yourself. It is fully disgusto and you gotta just 1387 00:58:57,160 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 4: lean into that. Also practical stu ups to prevent it 1388 00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:02,240 Speaker 4: from happening again. 1389 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, you should, like you should be this is like 1390 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,080 Speaker 3: a cartoon or a TV show, Like you should be 1391 00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 3: writing this as a show. 1392 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,240 Speaker 4: I think I truly feel like this year I took 1393 00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,480 Speaker 4: responsibility for all the bad stuff that was happening with 1394 00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,440 Speaker 4: my body, and I do feel a million times better. 1395 00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,360 Speaker 4: And I was like for a while, I was like, well, 1396 00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:21,160 Speaker 4: I mean I can't. I can't possibly change anything about 1397 00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 4: my life. I am the way that I am. And 1398 00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:24,600 Speaker 4: then it was like, oh, I guess going to therapy 1399 00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,160 Speaker 4: and going to the gym and not eating like shit 1400 00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:27,959 Speaker 4: all the time actually does help. 1401 00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:30,160 Speaker 1: Weird, so wen days it's not good for to ask 1402 00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:33,280 Speaker 1: girl is not tols. Yeah. 1403 00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:35,320 Speaker 4: Also butt giggles, we're calling them beagles. 1404 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:36,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1405 00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,959 Speaker 2: And then the stuff the bad luck was like spread out. 1406 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:41,960 Speaker 2: But like, have you ever had a situation where like 1407 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:43,600 Speaker 2: back to back to bad where he was like, damn, 1408 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:44,840 Speaker 2: I can't catch a fucking break. 1409 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 4: I feel like that happens like once a month where 1410 00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,280 Speaker 4: there's like, you know, three days where I'm just like, wow, 1411 00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 4: everything is so so bad. 1412 00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:52,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, And when. 1413 00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 3: They say bad things happen in threes, and I don't know, 1414 00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,760 Speaker 3: but sometimes sometimes you be looking like, oh, wow, something 1415 00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:04,360 Speaker 3: bad happens, so to more bad and it'll be like 1416 01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,440 Speaker 3: you swipe your metric card and you like smash into 1417 01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,479 Speaker 3: the thing. Yes, it doesn't go through in your level. 1418 01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:10,200 Speaker 3: That was the second Beth. And it's like it's not 1419 01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:11,840 Speaker 3: that bad. Yeah, it's not that serious. 1420 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:12,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1421 01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 1: I mean you be pooping your pants. That's pretty bad. 1422 01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 4: That's pretty bad. So but I feel like also just 1423 01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:19,240 Speaker 4: like letting myself feel bad instead of being like I 1424 01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 4: have to I have to I have to get out 1425 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:22,960 Speaker 4: of this. It's like no, I can feel sad for 1426 01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,040 Speaker 4: like an hour and then get over it. 1427 01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:29,200 Speaker 1: Like are you superstitious? I'm not. Oh, okay, yeah, same. 1428 01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:33,280 Speaker 2: I feel like it Also it is like the energy 1429 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,479 Speaker 2: that you put out there. If you're thinking like bad 1430 01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:38,040 Speaker 2: stuff is always going to happen to you, then it's 1431 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:40,800 Speaker 2: gonna come your way. So like I had like lost 1432 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,520 Speaker 2: my wallet and then some shit had filled through, and 1433 01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:46,120 Speaker 2: then I was having issues with like the person that 1434 01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,040 Speaker 2: I was dating, and I was just like, oh my god, 1435 01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:51,000 Speaker 2: everything bad just keeps happening, and it just more shit 1436 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,400 Speaker 2: was piling it. Yeah. Stuff also also felt like I 1437 01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 2: was inviting this bad shit to happen to me. 1438 01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 1: Well. 1439 01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,440 Speaker 4: And it's also like, on the other hand, just like 1440 01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:03,160 Speaker 4: not beating yourself up, like letting yourself experience the bad emotion. 1441 01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,200 Speaker 4: I feel like there's such a culture of like no, no, no, 1442 01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:07,320 Speaker 4: don't feel bad, just feel good instead, And it's like 1443 01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:10,000 Speaker 4: let yourself feel the bad emotion, but also like not 1444 01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:11,440 Speaker 4: being so hard on yourself. 1445 01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:13,880 Speaker 3: I mean, sometimes you want to wallow in it. You 1446 01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 3: want to sit in that like bunk, like oh my god, 1447 01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,400 Speaker 3: everything sucks, and then like you wake up the next 1448 01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:20,760 Speaker 3: day and you're like, all right, well, let me call 1449 01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:22,040 Speaker 3: a friend or go see a movie. 1450 01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:22,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1451 01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:25,520 Speaker 4: I feel like allowing myself to like sit home and 1452 01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:28,040 Speaker 4: just like lay down and not do anything and feel 1453 01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:29,880 Speaker 4: bad and like watch the things I need to watch 1454 01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:31,440 Speaker 4: and eat the stuff I need to eat to just 1455 01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 4: like feel okay. And then the next day you're. 1456 01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:38,200 Speaker 1: Like, maybe not eat the stuff that you beata, maybe 1457 01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:39,080 Speaker 1: not eat what you eat. 1458 01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:42,240 Speaker 3: But I mean, yes, you know, sometimes sit in it, 1459 01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:45,840 Speaker 3: and I think that that's something that we feel weird 1460 01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,040 Speaker 3: or bad about, but like we should. Sitting at home 1461 01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:51,439 Speaker 3: by myself sometimes is my favorite thing to do. Yeah, 1462 01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,440 Speaker 3: I don't want to talk to nobody. I've been putting 1463 01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:55,400 Speaker 3: my phone on do not Disturb and leaving it on 1464 01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:58,880 Speaker 3: that and that for me is like the best part 1465 01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,240 Speaker 3: about having a phone in twenty nineteen. 1466 01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:03,360 Speaker 1: It's just being like I don't want. 1467 01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:06,280 Speaker 4: To talk to nobody, yeah, and like yeah, like being like, oh, yeah, 1468 01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 4: it doesn't matter if I respond to this email at 1469 01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:10,520 Speaker 4: eight pm or if I wait till like eight am 1470 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:11,080 Speaker 4: the next day. 1471 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,120 Speaker 1: Right, it's like me, it's going they're either way. 1472 01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:14,240 Speaker 4: They're not at work, so. 1473 01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:19,960 Speaker 3: I mean I wait like weeks, Like Google will like 1474 01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:22,080 Speaker 3: nudge me and be like did you want to respond? 1475 01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:23,200 Speaker 1: You'd be like, Okay. 1476 01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,560 Speaker 4: That nudge thing is like a disease. I hate that 1477 01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:28,920 Speaker 4: all right, I guess I'll do it me. 1478 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:30,960 Speaker 1: Sure. This was freaking fantastic. 1479 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:33,400 Speaker 2: I know so much more about you than I didn't know, 1480 01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 2: and I'm so glad that you were so open. 1481 01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:39,640 Speaker 1: About it and you definitely leaned into the shit. It 1482 01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:42,480 Speaker 1: was great. Can you tell us what's uh? What's going 1483 01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 1: on next? Are you? 1484 01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:45,480 Speaker 2: You can hit us with your Instagram? You got any 1485 01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:47,400 Speaker 2: shows anything you're gonna plug? 1486 01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:47,720 Speaker 1: Oh? 1487 01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:51,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean shows we're doing. It's a guy thing, 1488 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 4: me path me, Pa, Patti Harrison, and Catherine Cohen do that. 1489 01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:57,600 Speaker 4: We're doing one in Chicago. I do think both shows 1490 01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,080 Speaker 4: are sold out now. 1491 01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,320 Speaker 1: But okay, whoops, right, oops. 1492 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,520 Speaker 4: But that's January eighteenth for the tomorrow and ever knows 1493 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,800 Speaker 4: festival at the Hideout, which is an amazing venue that 1494 01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,280 Speaker 4: if you live in Chicago you should support because there 1495 01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:13,600 Speaker 4: is some uh construction going on around it that can 1496 01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:15,680 Speaker 4: keep it from getting from standing. 1497 01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,360 Speaker 1: What's your what's your Twitter? On your Instagram? 1498 01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:22,720 Speaker 4: Twitter is at tweet r a j o u h 1499 01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,360 Speaker 4: A r I tweet your Johari ha ha, and then 1500 01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:29,520 Speaker 4: Instagram is at m I t r a j o 1501 01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:31,440 Speaker 4: u h a r I at mitra Jari. 1502 01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,920 Speaker 2: Yes, please follow everything. Amazing about Mitra. We love her 1503 01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 2: and then obviously follow everything that we're doing. Yes, we 1504 01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:43,640 Speaker 2: have an unofficial expert live life for the Brooklyn Podcast Festival. 1505 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:46,400 Speaker 3: Yes, sponsored by Pandora O. 1506 01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:48,440 Speaker 1: But there. I mean, I don't know what they're going 1507 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:51,480 Speaker 1: to give us. It just says, but they're on all 1508 01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:53,640 Speaker 1: the flyers level. That means Pandora. 1509 01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 3: Yeah are you giving is it Pandora like the jewelry or. 1510 01:03:58,840 --> 01:03:59,920 Speaker 4: We're gonna give you a charm for. 1511 01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 2: We don't know, We have no idea, but we're gonna 1512 01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:06,760 Speaker 2: be there. We have amazing guests. It's January the eleventh 1513 01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:10,240 Speaker 2: at Union Hall. By all the tickets. 1514 01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:11,360 Speaker 3: Well, let's tell them who the guests are. They know 1515 01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,400 Speaker 3: who the guests are. It's Matt Rogers, Yes, y'all known 1516 01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:19,160 Speaker 3: love from and Molly Austin, our sex date expert, who 1517 01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,280 Speaker 3: y'all are still messaging us about to be like, well 1518 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:22,160 Speaker 3: she's still banging. 1519 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:23,040 Speaker 1: That dude, just flying her around. 1520 01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:26,600 Speaker 3: Yes, come hear all the stories. She's gonna update you 1521 01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:28,480 Speaker 3: on all of her everything business. 1522 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then p D. Diabrew who was he was 1523 01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:32,560 Speaker 1: our hood expert. 1524 01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:36,440 Speaker 2: Is our very first guest, our very freaking first guest, y'all, Okay, 1525 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:37,520 Speaker 2: it's all full circle. 1526 01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:39,040 Speaker 1: This is great. 1527 01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,400 Speaker 2: Also, you know, review us, make sure you comment, rate 1528 01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:43,880 Speaker 2: or whatever. 1529 01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:47,720 Speaker 3: Pile at the Patreon. We're still doing these fabulous bonus episodes. 1530 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 2: For we are and just support our brand. It's very 1531 01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:52,960 Speaker 2: it's very you know, no, it's not. 1532 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:54,960 Speaker 4: It's great. 1533 01:04:57,040 --> 01:05:03,440 Speaker 1: Okay, guys, be best Forever. 1534 01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:08,160 Speaker 5: This has been a Forever Dog production executive produced by 1535 01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 5: Brett Boham, Joe Silio, and Alex Ramsey. For more original podcasts, 1536 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 5: please visit Foreverdog Podcasts dot com and subscribe to our 1537 01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:22,480 Speaker 5: shows on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. 1538 01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:25,560 Speaker 5: Keep up with the latest Forever Dog news by following 1539 01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:29,880 Speaker 5: us on Twitter and Instagram at Forever Dog Team, and 1540 01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:31,920 Speaker 5: liking our page on Facebook.