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Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast?

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Speaker 2: Fine Elsie Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's a fifteen minute morning show. Hello everybodyandhi, we

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Speaker 3: have straight Nates, Danielle Garrett, Garrett. That was scary, yelling Garrett,

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Speaker 3: I'm sumy. Hi, So why did I kick this one off?

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Speaker 4: If you had something you wanted to talk about?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So we know that dating changes all the time,

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Speaker 3: and I think that there are a lot of things

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Speaker 3: that people used to do that if you do them now,

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Speaker 3: are very creepy and an immediate like turn off state killer.

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Speaker 2: Tell me, yeah, was this a one one time chivalrous

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Speaker 2: list that is now because because some of the things

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Speaker 2: we were talking about before were just like what yeah,

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Speaker 2: that used to be like one of the things on

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Speaker 2: the on the list if you must.

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Speaker 4: Do if you turned on an episode of I don't Know,

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Speaker 4: I Love Lucy or leave it to Bieber, I'm sure

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Speaker 4: this would be what Wally does when he picks up

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Speaker 4: his picks up his best gal, right right, his best gal? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So okay, I mean I only have a couple. I'm

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Speaker 3: sure you guys probably have more. I think getting in

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Speaker 3: a car with somebody when you first meet them, going

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Speaker 3: out on your first date. I think that's exceptionally creepy.

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Speaker 6: So a guy who picks up his date, yes, is creepy.

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Speaker 3: I don't think he's creepy. I just think it's a

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Speaker 3: creepy act. Like it might still be nice, but I

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Speaker 3: just there's so much weird stuff going on. And now

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Speaker 3: you have ubers, you can walk places.

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Speaker 7: I've had three first dates. I've picked one of them up.

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Speaker 7: The other two I met somewhere.

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Speaker 3: I know they just don't care about dying.

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Speaker 8: This is crazy, but they getting an uber though, Like

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Speaker 8: I mean, right, it's kind of the same thing.

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Speaker 4: Generally before you know, when I was thinking, you generally

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Speaker 4: just meet someone something. Yeah, I feel like that's the way.

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Speaker 9: But back in the day, it wasn't like that. Remember

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Speaker 9: it was like your parents would say, he has to

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Speaker 9: come pick you up at the house. We have to

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Speaker 9: say hid him first, and he has to come.

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Speaker 10: To the door to get you.

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Speaker 1: But my dad dick.

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Speaker 9: But think about that, like that's kind of scary nowadays,

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Speaker 9: Like Gandhi's right because like you know, they can come

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Speaker 9: pick you up, but who the hell knows what happens

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Speaker 9: when you get in that car.

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Speaker 3: And also I don't want you knowing where I live

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Speaker 3: until you know there's something established and I feel safe

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Speaker 3: around you. Also, Danielle, to your point, meeting the parents.

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Speaker 6: Too quickly and creepiest ship.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to do that right.

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Speaker 2: Well, mentioning about flowers giving flowers is creepy.

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Speaker 3: I think too soon.

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Speaker 10: I want to do that, you guys, yelled at me.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because you like texted someone and then want

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Speaker 3: to send them flowers.

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Speaker 10: You do that, Guys, I.

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Speaker 4: Think you need to be in a relationship with this

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Speaker 4: person and the other person needs to know that you're

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Speaker 4: in the relationship. You need to agree that you're in

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Speaker 4: a relationship, not just you.

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Speaker 8: Scott, what if on the card he says, do you

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Speaker 8: want to be in a relationship with the flowers.

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Speaker 4: In and of itself? Kind of creepy? Like, how does

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Speaker 4: that conversation even happen anymore? Because that's always a tough conversation.

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Speaker 4: When are we dating? I don't know you had that

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Speaker 4: conversation anymore. I think they probably have.

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Speaker 10: I don't know that I could.

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Speaker 8: I think you just come to a mutual agreement where

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Speaker 8: you don't talk about it, kind of like when your

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Speaker 8: parents don't talk about sex with you growing up, you're

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Speaker 8: kind of like, oh, you know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we know what's going on, but you can't not.

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Speaker 3: Talk about it and then expect something from somebody else

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Speaker 3: because one of you thinks you're dating exclusively and the

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Speaker 3: other one doesn't. I feel like that's when cars get

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Speaker 3: key and tires get slashed and just weird stuff starts happening.

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Speaker 4: So, Scottie, how's this list coming along for you?

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Speaker 10: I need more more things creepy.

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Speaker 6: I'm calling bullshit.

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Speaker 2: This is a double standard because I think if the

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Speaker 2: guy is really hot and he does all of the above,

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Speaker 2: he's not creepy all of a sudden.

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Speaker 3: So I think there is definitely that's that's the difference

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Speaker 3: between creepy and romantic, right, because we all saw fifty

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Speaker 3: shades of gray.

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Speaker 6: Yes, that man was a lunatic.

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Speaker 3: He was showing up in her house. He was just

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Speaker 3: doing the weirdest stuff and she didn't mind cause it

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Speaker 3: was what if somebody did that that you were not

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Speaker 3: attracted to, you would call nine one one so.

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Speaker 4: Fat Tom Brady rule.

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Speaker 10: Remember that skip from Saturday Night.

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Speaker 2: Live, one of my favorite skits of all time, Ruth

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Speaker 2: plain Is it's a black and white sketch from the

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Speaker 2: nineteenth supposed to be the nineteen fifties, and it says, hairs,

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Speaker 2: how you're just supposed to conduct yourself at the office.

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Speaker 5: Willie decided to approach Amanda for a date. Let's see

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Speaker 5: how he does, and it was Fred Armison dresses like

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Speaker 5: a like a nerdy, like weird looking guy in the fifties.

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Speaker 1: Say Hi, Hi, Amanda, it feels creepy just watching dinner.

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Speaker 6: Very polite, polite, okay, And then she goes, that is

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Speaker 6: where he went wrong. Now let's see so and so

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Speaker 6: walk it, you know, you know, do the date.

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Speaker 2: And Tom Brady walks in pretty much with his dick out,

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Speaker 2: wearing tiny whities and then bare chest, and he goes, Hi, Amanda,

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Speaker 2: would you like to go out on the date?

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Speaker 6: And then she's like, oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 6: This is the difference between the two.

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Speaker 2: Be hot to be attractive number two, don't be don't

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Speaker 2: be unattractive.

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Speaker 3: Scotty has that going for him. He's attractive. Yeah, he's Okay,

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Speaker 3: that is unattractive.

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Speaker 10: I get it right.

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Speaker 6: That's code of conduct. Workplace edit etiquette on how to.

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Speaker 3: Uh like confidence? People want confidence?

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Speaker 10: How do you build that?

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Speaker 6: No, you have to be hot with confidence. You can't

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Speaker 6: just have. I actually a lot of confident people are

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Speaker 6: attractive who will actually just say the wrong thing.

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Speaker 4: And then before they are people that aren't as attractive

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Speaker 4: that are super confident and.

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Speaker 3: They're in you know what I mean totally, And then

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Speaker 3: you see people who are hot with no confidence, and

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Speaker 3: you're like, what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 3: Like, what's going on?

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Speaker 8: It's weird because Scotty has no confidence, but Scary has

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Speaker 8: a ton of confidence.

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Speaker 9: So you, Garrett, that's so rollo turn a dark Wow.

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Speaker 4: Now wow, you're like your confidence.

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Speaker 6: Thank you?

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Speaker 9: Just to write amount I said, you know, there is

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Speaker 9: that overconfidence, but you're like, you're just a f and

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Speaker 9: douche bag.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're confidence without.

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Speaker 4: Somebody being rocky confidence not yeah.

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Speaker 3: Another line, confidence without being cocky, yeah, romantic without being creepy. Somehow,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I just it seems so different than

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Speaker 3: than the stuff you watch on TV where it's like

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Speaker 4: I just do ever.

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Speaker 9: I think it's tough for Scotty right now though, and

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Speaker 9: anybody else who hasn't dated in a long time going

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Speaker 9: into the dating world now, because it's so different than

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Speaker 9: it used to be, and there's so many new rules

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Speaker 9: and new things that are creeping with creepster and don't

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Speaker 9: do this and don't say that, and you know, sometimes

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Speaker 9: I think you're just trying to be cordial and it

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Speaker 9: comes across as like, yeah, too much, too soon.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: Well, the dating world has also changed drastically, drastically in

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Speaker 4: the last ten to fifteen years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well social media, specifically with.

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Speaker 4: Social media, I mean with online day.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I know, the last time I was dating,

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Speaker 7: like online dating was just in.

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Speaker 10: Its infancy, yeah.

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Speaker 7: You know, and I went out with one girl that

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Speaker 7: I met on j date and it was miserable. So

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Speaker 7: I never did that again, and luckily, well whatever. Now

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Speaker 7: it's just it's a whole different story. And I'm not

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Speaker 7: going to do the dating apps. I just think they're

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Speaker 7: too creepy. I had a friend of mine who showed

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Speaker 7: me swiping through I'm like, these people aren't even real.

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Speaker 6: That happened to me.

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Speaker 9: I when when I was dating, same thing. It was

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Speaker 9: just starting to come about these dating apps. And so

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Speaker 9: I remember meeting a guy in a bar. I made

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Speaker 9: sure to meet him in a place he didn't look.

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Speaker 9: I don't know who the person was that showed up.

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Speaker 9: But the picture he sent me was not the and

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Speaker 9: I was like, what the So I think I sat

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Speaker 9: then I ended it really early and that was it.

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Speaker 7: Well, everybody's going to put their best, absolute best picture.

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Speaker 1: Ever, that wasn't a picture. I don't even think it

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Speaker 1: was him. It was the egg from Twitter.

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Speaker 3: Furiously, Guys, what's the hardest part about the year? The

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Speaker 3: one dating?

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Speaker 4: Right now?

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Speaker 3: What's what's tough for you?

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Speaker 10: I think I fall too hard, too fast.

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Speaker 1: That's my problem.

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Speaker 7: Three because I've been out of it for so long.

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Speaker 7: I don't really know, Like that's that's the feeling that

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Speaker 7: I get.

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Speaker 10: What do I know?

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Speaker 7: I don't know anymore, you know, so I have to

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Speaker 7: kind of, I guess, take things a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Slower, yeah, and be somewhat uninterested just the right amount

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Speaker 2: of But that's.

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Speaker 10: Not who I am.

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Speaker 2: I can't know, no, meaning like you don't want because

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Speaker 2: it'll overcompensate for him being too over zealous.

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Speaker 7: So what you're saying, So when they say, hey, you

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Speaker 7: want to go out to dinner, I'm like, nah, I

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Speaker 7: don't think so.

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Speaker 6: No, I don't be negative about it like you know what.

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Speaker 6: Let me check my schedule. Let me see, uh, let

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Speaker 6: me see when we can do this, uh what may

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Speaker 6: be good for me? And we'll try and coordinate.

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Speaker 4: Never do dinner on a first date ever. Go and

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Speaker 4: have a drink. Go and have a drink. It's much

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Speaker 4: less of a commitment, much less investment.

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Speaker 1: Have your one but light, Scotty, b No.

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Speaker 10: Let me tell you something. Going out.

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Speaker 7: I've been drinking too much because I get nervous, so

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Speaker 7: I drink more than normal, and I think that might

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Speaker 7: be messing me up a little bit.

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Speaker 6: You know what I need to do, Scotty. This is

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Speaker 6: what needs to happen.

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Speaker 10: You and I need to go out.

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Speaker 4: We need to get you an ear piece, and I

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Speaker 4: need to do the whole syourger act thing, and I

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Speaker 4: need to tell you what to say.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be like a scene from Impractical Jokers.

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Speaker 2: This is a practical joker, because then you're gonna whisper

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Speaker 2: the wrong thing in his ear, Scotty, or.

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Speaker 6: We're talking about kilding the lily.

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Speaker 8: He's gonna be ordering sausage at the restaurant.

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Speaker 9: You're gonna have that girl fall in love with you,

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Speaker 9: and then she's gonna be day in Scottie.

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Speaker 10: But it's really your He's gonna die and I'm not gonna.

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Speaker 6: Name comes out from behind the curtain.

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Speaker 1: We're playing.

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Speaker 3: We're all cereals.

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Speaker 6: What's your favorite time?

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Speaker 10: Do you know how much a stamp is? So I do?

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Speaker 4: You're a fun guy, You're a nice guy. You're a

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Speaker 4: a catch man. Don't don't feel like the people you're

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Speaker 4: pursuing are the catch. You're the catch, and you know what.

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Speaker 9: You treat people with such respect and kindness, and you're

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Speaker 9: such a loving person. I don't know about he knows

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Speaker 9: you're going to be so good for somebody, Like there's

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to look at the entire dating pool

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Speaker 2: of what's out there with guys, and you know what,

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Speaker 2: you are in a minority.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to Did you just ask him to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because because you see what you're up against.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And if you take a look at what you're

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I've got a lot to offer.

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Speaker 10: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: It's so hard to It's so hard to get into

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Speaker 10: It's like, oh my god, I got to do it

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Speaker 3: You're going too hard, too fast. I got to go

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Speaker 3: outside and play, like, just have fun, play it around.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to have fun, and it happens.

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Speaker 1: It happens.

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Speaker 9: Don't go out looking for like, oh my gosh, my

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Speaker 9: a good time. Like she says, go out with your friends.

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Speaker 6: Go out and just for practice.

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Speaker 2: You should just go out with somebody that you're you're

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Speaker 6: Like you're like take it or leave it. That's that's

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Speaker 6: the woman you should start dating, because this.

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Speaker 3: Way, well that's horrific.

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Speaker 4: And mean.

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Speaker 3: Find a five and waste her time.

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Speaker 6: No, not waiting, I mean like.

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Speaker 2: Just just kind of like get out all those nerves

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Speaker 4: Up.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it'll be a whole big mess.

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Speaker 1: You need to go into that date thinking I'm gonna have.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have a great date, not where we're gonna

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Speaker 4: go on our seventh winning anniversary.

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Speaker 10: I'm just gonna prall U under my blanket and watch

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Speaker 4: Well maybe you should.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's someone out there that we would want

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Speaker 3: Like to Daniel's point though, and you and I have

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Speaker 3: talked about this, I think you should stop focusing so

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Speaker 10: I'm actually really not focusing on that at all. Yes

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Speaker 10: you are, I'm not God, I am not.

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Speaker 3: I will pull out our text messages. No, no, I

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Speaker 3: I think that you should just go have fun, like

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Speaker 10: You and me having text messages have a bad history,

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Speaker 10: so let's not.

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Speaker 4: I hate to say this, Scottie in a public form.

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Speaker 4: I think you'd be a terrible wingman.

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Speaker 1: I think he'd be hilario.

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Speaker 3: He'd make you look great if you were.

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Speaker 4: You know, I would want to help him, you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean, Like.

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Speaker 10: I really, you know, I don't. I don't think I

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Speaker 2: I just everybody, No, it's not about a needing help.

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Speaker 2: It's about being available. Remember we went to Hoboken that

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Speaker 2: night we were all hanging out.

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Speaker 10: Oh my god, I closed those bars down. Man. That

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Speaker 10: was some late night.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But the but my, my larger point is we were

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Speaker 2: us that could have may or may not have led

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Speaker 2: to some things, and it didn't that night. But the

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Speaker 2: point is you were out there, you were having fun,

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Speaker 2: you were concentrating on your friends, and then something else.

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Speaker 2: You know, you put yourself in those situations more, and

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Speaker 2: I guarantee something will come along.

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Speaker 6: And really at least expect it.

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Speaker 10: I don't think I want to meet bar people.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, going to your blanket, watch movies.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, Scotty, manifest it right now. Who is the

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Speaker 3: person that you want to meet?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 10: I really don't know.

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Speaker 3: You just have a list of all the things you

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Speaker 3: don't like.

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Speaker 10: Yes, okay.

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Speaker 8: I think we just need to get on the phone

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Speaker 8: with Scotty before any date and just like inflate his

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Speaker 10: You guys will make me all nervous and then I

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Speaker 9: Go and he has to take a ship.

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Speaker 6: That's the problem, that is the problem.

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Speaker 9: Gets nervous and then he has to run to the

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Speaker 3: You know, do can we talk about what's been the

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Speaker 6: What's the problem?

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Speaker 7: I just think I think about all you assholes stuff,

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Speaker 7: and I think about God to going, and.

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Speaker 10: It just ruins everything.

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Speaker 6: I can't.

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Speaker 10: I don't know how to get.

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Speaker 2: Somebody you're not in the moment with that person you

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Speaker 10: Who you guys? Because you guys will make me insane.

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Speaker 1: You had a dream of us last night.

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Speaker 6: God, maybe you love us too much.

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Speaker 9: You can't date anyone else.

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Speaker 10: You guys make me nuts, And that's all I can

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Speaker 10: think about.

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Speaker 4: That's God.

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Speaker 6: I love it.

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Speaker 3: I'm happy to be part of your makeout session.

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Speaker 10: No, I love it.

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Speaker 6: You're supposed to be thinking about us while to make

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Speaker 6: it last longer. Goddamn it, that's think about us.

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Speaker 1: I know what Scotty thinks about you, trust me.

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Speaker 10: That's not you, guys.

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Speaker 8: I know what Scotty thinks about He's I know the

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Speaker 8: exact person Scotty thinks about.

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Speaker 10: Great, it's not any one of us.

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Speaker 1: Yes, as soon as the cameras go.

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Speaker 3: Off, he told us, like multiple times.

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Speaker 2: I thought, oh yeah, but that's when you think about us,

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Speaker 2: not while you're talking or kissing or other.

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Speaker 10: Because my problem that I might think too hard and

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Speaker 10: it'll just go away.

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Speaker 9: Oh my god, you're really thinking.

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Speaker 8: Like I need, I need, like you know at this points,

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Speaker 8: let's just run Scary, do the tongue thing and close

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Speaker 8: your eyes, Scott.

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Speaker 4: At the same time, well, we expect an update on

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Speaker 4: your dating life tomorrow and then on especially on Monday.

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Speaker 10: No, no, I got the kids this weekend.

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Speaker 1: We should do a second date update.

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Speaker 7: Yeah no, I mean they've I've had second dates on

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Speaker 7: all of them already.

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Speaker 6: You have had third dates?

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Speaker 10: No, I don't know, on a date.

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Speaker 9: I want you to think of this, no.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no no no no no no no.

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Speaker 6: No no no no no no, no no at the same.

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Speaker 2: Time with all of you guys.

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