1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: The greatest power I think that you can have in 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: any kind of conflict. 3 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 2: Two things. 4 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: One say sorry if you're actually sorry, because then it 5 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:12,399 Speaker 1: moves the process along because would someone going to keep 6 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: arguing with you after you say you're sorry like you 7 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: admitted it, or in a situation where you want no 8 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: contact with them, saying nothing gives you all the power 9 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: in the world. Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is 10 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:29,159 Speaker 1: a production of iHeartRadio. 11 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to this week's pregame. You know the drill. 12 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: You've send in questions, we answer them and this segment 13 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: this week is brought to you by Macy. So first 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: time goo Hey, Lizzie eight go into Easter brunch with 15 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 1: my boyfriend's family. 16 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 2: What do I wear? Help? 17 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:47,599 Speaker 1: Oh? 18 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: This is good boyfriends family so hard for me. 19 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,599 Speaker 1: East Side really a hard one because it's such a 20 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: transition because sometimes it's still a little chilly, and sometimes 21 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: it's and you feel like because it's on is shining, 22 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: you want to be like maybe like spring light and breezy. 23 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 24 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: I find Easter difficult. Okay, well let's make this easier. 25 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: My suggestion is, if you're going to boyfriend's, go to Macy's. 26 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: But if you're gonna go uh to your boyfriend's house, 27 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: I always like to air on the side obviously of 28 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: being a little bit more feminine and demure and not 29 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: like tits out and like looking, you know, with like 30 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 1: some short little dress like I think back on, like 31 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: as a kid, my mom always gave us, like made 32 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: my mom Kathy what a goal. She would make us 33 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 1: these dresses because they didn't have any money, but they 34 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: like easter dresses and so like fun prints, like you know, 35 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: like an easter dress, like be girly and kind of fun. 36 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, that's my vibe. O pasture is like 37 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: a fun spring dress. And then if the weather isn't great, 38 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: like you can just throw on like a I'm wearing 39 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: a sweater, like a just a jacket a shot that 40 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: what maybe seal some kind of like sweater or whatever 41 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: jacket thing that goes with it. 42 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:58,919 Speaker 2: Nothing too heavy. 43 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, I like the idea of being cutesy and 44 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: kind of girly if you're going over to the boyfriend's house, 45 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: especially with the family. 46 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: You gosh, I better get on this. 47 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: Yeah I struggle, I'm honest, I know, but floral print. 48 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 2: I gotta what about a long skirt. I feel like you. Okay, 49 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: this this is my idea. 50 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: If I'm going to be Danielle for a second, your 51 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: style is, I'm going to put it on a skirt, 52 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: a long skirt. It has like a floral print on it, 53 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: so it's like the feminine thing. But then you can 54 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: wear like, ah, I'm gonna tell you a short, like 55 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: not white, like a crop T shirt, not where your 56 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: stomach's out, but like you know where you don't have 57 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: to tuck it in, like a short kind of T shirt, 58 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: so it's like casual on top, and then accessorize it 59 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: with like some fun necklaces, some color things like that, 60 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: so it's casual on top, but then party on the bottom. 61 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: Easter Party hop on over here. I gotta get on this, okay. Also, 62 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: just my little bunny hop pop pop shout out to 63 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: miss Rachel Ali starts favorite and least favorite household chores, 64 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: least favorite purging. I need to do that putting stuff 65 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: away my favorite. I love a vacuum gal. 66 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 2: I like to vacuum. Oh that's good, that's cathartic. 67 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 1: You know what I've been really into is the when 68 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: your couch is pilling like it has these little like 69 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: things on it, like sweaters, and when they pill and 70 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: they get the balls of things. I got this little 71 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: machine thing and it picks off all the little like 72 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: things on the couch. 73 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: It's yeah, sweat thing. 74 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like doing that on the couch. That's cathartic. 75 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: Vacuuming is good, especially with dogs. That's always like a 76 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: quick vacuum. I don't like the dishwasher full at full disclosure. 77 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: I'll do the like I'll open it and if it's clean, 78 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: I close the door back and then hope Steve empties it. 79 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: Because I don't like the dishwasher emptying. I don't know, 80 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: it's not like it's just it's just not really my vibe. Yeah, 81 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: that's my least favorite, probably not dishwasher boating it really well. Yeah, 82 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: do you feel pressure because I feel like Jarrett would 83 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: be particular about where you'd put stuff in because he's 84 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: so organized, Like you put the wrong cut up in 85 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: the wrong space. Who designed the dishwasher spaces either too? 86 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: Because some of them. I'm like, this makes sense. 87 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: I agree. I agree. We's km R three. 88 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: What to do or say when someone in your office 89 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: clips their nails for fifteen minutes at work? Knock it off. No, 90 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: there is a time and place say these things. No, honestly, 91 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: it's not acceptable, And I get it if you don't 92 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: want to be contentious in a work environment. I would 93 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: just do something like this, be like, oh, we're doing 94 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: that at work. Okay, I didn't know that we were 95 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: doing that now at work, clipping our nails. So with 96 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: the tone you can get it across yeah, or the 97 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: facial like I just did. I feel like I do 98 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: the real like oh yeah, yeah, oh we're doing that now, 99 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: Be like, oh, do you want me to? Since you're 100 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: clipping your nails, why don't I just paint my nails 101 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: because everyone's going to love that smell in the workplace environment. 102 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 2: No, how about one time I was on. 103 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: A flight and a woman pulled out fingernail polish and 104 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: started painting her nails. You know how the ammonia of 105 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: fingernail polish, how potent it is in a closed no 106 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 1: air circulation area. 107 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 2: Forget smoking on an airplane. Stop painting your nails. 108 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: Why about the people that clip their nails on the plane. 109 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: I've had that, and I've also said, as to a 110 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: lady that's filed her nails. 111 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: Do you know how disgusting. 112 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: That is. I'm like, you know what else I have 113 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: an issue with on planes? And when I see the 114 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: person next to me pull out that laptop, I feel 115 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: like that's me shit, aggressive keystrokes when I'm sitting there 116 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,919 Speaker 1: trying to enjoy my mood. I'm just praying the Wi 117 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: Fi goes out so then that person can stop working. 118 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: I mean stop. That was the lady next to you, 119 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: to Tampa the whole. That's exactly what I'm taking. 120 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 2: You knew it. You knew it, just pounding away on 121 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: that keyboard. I get it. You gotta get work done. 122 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 2: But a little softer, huh. 123 00:05:58,240 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: Next? 124 00:05:59,400 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: All right? 125 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: Anonymous husband micro cheated over a year ago, and I'm 126 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: still not over it. 127 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 2: Should I be ryan? Is that being cheated like online? 128 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 2: Is that like liking something? I feel like I just 129 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 2: saw this. 130 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: I guess we'd be like cheated a little. But either 131 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: cheat or you don't. To me, there's no there's no like. 132 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: You can try to soften cheating all you want, whether 133 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: it's emotional, whether it's like like what, No, either cheat 134 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: or you don't. The word shouldn't be involved in the description. 135 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: If it's not something negative. Micro Macro does it matter. No, no, 136 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: and it's on a way shirt. 137 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 2: I don't think so I'm still not over it. No, 138 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 139 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: I am somebody who has a not doing this shit 140 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: policy anymore with a lot of stuff like Okay, we're 141 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: getting it, yeah, Bryan, Okay, go ahead. Read the description 142 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: micro cheating involves behave that leads someone to question their 143 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: partners emotional or physical commitment to the relationship. 144 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, this is a little different. 145 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: Okay, I'd like to redact my previous statement I don't 146 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: get it, okay, with the description of micro cheating involving 147 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: behavior that leads someone to question their partners emotional or 148 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: physical commitment to the relationship. That leaves a lot of 149 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: room for interpretation. But I've been in a situation before 150 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: where I've definitely not approved of like something that Steve 151 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: has said, or like put like I don't know, like 152 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: an emoji like a fire emoji or a heart emoji 153 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: in a text to another like chick, and it's like 154 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 1: early on, and I'm like, uh no, we're not doing that, Like, 155 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: don't leave room for interpretation for that person. Because I 156 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: always think that if I'm that girl and I'm getting 157 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: that from a guy that has a girlfriend. Now I 158 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: get there's varying scenarios. I'm not even putting this one 159 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: on Steve. I'm just saying, like I could send a 160 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: hard emoji to Michael Straighthand and Steve wouldn't think anything 161 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: of it. It's like my brother, like I love you, 162 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: saying but like it's if there's any question or to 163 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: this description room for interpretation. I don't think you have 164 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: to like break up with the person, but you shouldn't 165 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: be in a relationship where you have questions that can't 166 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: be answered. I guess I love I agree, I agree, 167 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: I love Ryan so much. He's continuously adding, now Kurt's involved, 168 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: so cute. Ryan also adds, so maybe like inappropriate texting 169 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: or overly flirty conversations with other people, but not total 170 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: outright infidelity. And then Kurt adds small breaches of trust 171 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: that aren't a physical affair. 172 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: You guys are great. 173 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: I love you that you guys should be answering these 174 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: questions because I'm just into a no nonsense policy, and 175 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: I know that there can be an opportunity sometimes to overreact. 176 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 1: So I do feel like I try, or I would 177 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 1: in this case, I try to understand, but not if 178 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: it here's the bottom line. This is a very confluent answer. 179 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: So just delete everything we've said. For me, it's very simple. 180 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: If it makes you feel shitty and it makes you 181 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: question the person, then we got a problem. 182 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 2: Period. Stop. 183 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: End of story. Doesn't mean you have to break up 184 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 1: with them, but you need to work on the relationship 185 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: and that person needs to work with you to make 186 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 1: you feel more comfortable. 187 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: Period. 188 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: Because if you're having to question, then you have to 189 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: keep digging, and then there's more and you. 190 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 2: Know, where there's smoke, there's fire, kind of a feeling. 191 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 1: I also will ask the question here that I ask 192 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: or say sometimes not about micro cheating, just about other 193 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: things in life. My husband micro cheated over a year 194 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 1: ago and I'm still not over it. 195 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 2: What's going on here? Yeah? 196 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: Because is there more to it than just the micro cheating? 197 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: If I feel like there's more to this story? Also, 198 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: there's more to this story with this I know, but 199 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: I just feel like there's more happening, you know, Yeah, 200 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 1: because it's not just about a text, or it's not 201 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: just about making you feel uncomfortable, like there's other stuff happening. 202 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, I'm with them. 203 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: Why the we're almost no. No, I'm just saying to that person, Oh, yeah, 204 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 1: I'm sorry too. 205 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 2: I don't like that. 206 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: I hate okay being in a relationship now where Don't 207 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: get me wrong, there's still times we're like I'll like 208 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: be hmm, whatever, and that's fine, that's normal. That actually 209 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: means you give a shit. I don't think that you 210 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: should like be completely void of like any emotion. Like 211 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: if you're like I don't care for my boyfriend sheets, 212 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: it's like, well, then we shouldn't be together. So it's like, 213 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: it's always okay to be like, hey, I don't love that, 214 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: or I don't whatever. But I'm not interested in being 215 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 1: in a relationship where I'm constantly having to wonder or like, 216 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 1: and especially it's your husband. There should be full confidence 217 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: in the situation. 218 00:10:56,080 --> 00:11:01,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on here? So this one's interesting. 219 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: This next one, Mojo Bolan, my ex's sister reached out 220 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 1: and wants to get a drink. 221 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 2: Should I go? 222 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm friends with my first I love having to qualify 223 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 1: that I'm friends with my first ex husband's sister, and 224 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: I adore her. Her name's Jen, and I just I 225 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 1: just I consider her a sister. So I think It 226 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: depends on your relationship. I have zero communication with my 227 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: ex husband, but I her and I just have our 228 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 1: own relationship, so I don't know go for it depends 229 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 1: on the situation. 230 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 2: I agree with that, totally depends on him. Yep. Nixt 231 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 2: Joseph Capp. 232 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: How do you deal with someone after they ghosted you 233 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 1: and you still see them at school? 234 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 2: I don't know. I norm I agree. 235 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: Ghosted you, then guess we did it to you, go 236 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: right back at it, put that mirror right back in 237 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 1: front of their face. 238 00:11:59,120 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 2: I would. 239 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: I would pretend that that person didn't even exist. If 240 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: they say hi, keep going, And if they have the 241 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: nerve to say to you, what's your problem? 242 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 2: Just by the greatest power. 243 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:11,119 Speaker 1: I think that you can have in any kind of conflict, 244 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: two things. One say sorry if you're actually sorry, because 245 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: then it moves the process along. Because would someone going 246 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: to keep arguing with you after you say you're sorry 247 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: like you admitted it, or in a situation where you 248 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: want no contact with them, saying nothing gives you. 249 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 2: All the power in the world. 250 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 1: It will drive that person absolutely nuts because then they're 251 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: going to just keep being like they want you to react. 252 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 2: So by you not reacting. 253 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: You control all the powers, so they go to power 254 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: back completely. 255 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 2: Yep, say nothing. 256 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 1: Christy Reddicker husband and I want to take our ten 257 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: year old to his first NFL game. He is a 258 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 1: big Bills fan, but we live in Pennsylvania. Bills play 259 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: Steelers and Jets. Do you go to a game at 260 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 1: Do you go to a game at the Steelers at 261 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: MetLife in New York? Or go all out to a 262 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: game and Buffalo? Go all out sister Buffalo, Buffalo, Buffalo, Buffalo, 263 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 1: especially because he's a big Bills fan. That is one 264 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: of the great environments in sports, especially if you can 265 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: go to a night game there. We've had the privilege 266 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: of doing that with Thursday Night Football and it's just 267 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: the tail getting. I know he's only ten, but like 268 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 1: expose him to a little bit of the down and 269 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: dirty stuff. 270 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 2: I think it's great. I just go and. 271 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: Make it an experience. It's something he will never forget 272 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 1: and yeah, you're gonna do it. Go big and go 273 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: to the restaurant we went to that Ryan Fitzpatrick to 274 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: what was going on to that restaurant? 275 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 2: Good? Oh gosh, I could look it up. 276 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 1: I have it on my Instagram. Check out my Instagram 277 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: or Chris's. I don't know if you posted it. It 278 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 1: was so amazing. Shout out to Ryan Fitzpatrick. Let's ask 279 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: Ryan Fitzpatrick right now what the restaurant is? H He's 280 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: good because it's worth Hey, Bud, what's the restaurant Buffalo 281 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: that we went to? 282 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 2: When we were there? 283 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 1: Aaron and I are giving someone advice over to go 284 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: in Buffalo Bills game Italian so good with the meatballs. Meatballs. 285 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: Let's see if he responds to the next a few minutes. 286 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: If not, then we're off and running. Also, can we 287 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: talk about Ryan Fitzpatrick's Christmas gift to me because it's 288 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: on this text chain it is It is a yetti 289 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: with his face on it. God, he's fucking great. He 290 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: had a gift. He had it sent to the ranch 291 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: and there was like this box and there's all these 292 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: boxes and I opened it up and imagine just opening 293 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: a box and that's what you see. I go, did 294 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: you send me, okay Christmas gift to the ranch? He goes, 295 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 1: I sure did. I said, God, your fucking dream boat, Christy. 296 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: When you do take her son to the Bills game 297 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: in Buffalo, send us pictures. Let us know how it went. 298 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: Very excited for that moment in his life. That's like 299 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: taking Macadode all Do to Disneyland. That's, you know what, 300 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: so fun, really excited about the schedule release like that 301 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: is so fun, like just I mean for a number 302 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: of week reasons because then we get to see where 303 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: we're going at least for the a few weeks for you. 304 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: And it's just like it's like Christmas morning being like 305 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: who's playing who? What's happening? Oh? 306 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, the things. 307 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: All right, we will let uh, we'll add that in 308 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 1: on a font because we don't need to stick around 309 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: and waiting for a response. Okay, guys, I'd like to 310 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: say this. This segment was brought to you by Macy's 311 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: Shop now at Macy's dot com or in store. 312 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 2: I better go there for my Easter outfit. I'm stressed 313 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 2: out over this now T shirt on top, scirt on bottom. 314 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 2: That's what I would do if I were you. 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