1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this one's for you. This guy says, Hey, 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: this is Matt. I need your help. I've been asked 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: to be the best man at my best friend's wedding. 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 1: The problem, though, is that I can't stand his fiance 5 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: dot dot dot with a passion. I hate how she laughs, 6 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: I hate how she gossips. I hate how she's threatened 7 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: to hold back sex until he's ready to have kids. 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: In short, I can't stand her at all, and he's 9 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: going down a path that I just can't support. Still, 10 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: he's my best friend. This guy is really my dude, 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: uncle Steve. Do I just be his best man and 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 1: be there for him? Or do I say no and 13 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: hope our friendship can withstand it? 14 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 2: Wow? 15 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, dog, qu're talking about friendship. If 16 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 3: you ain't gonna stand buy, you got to. That's what 17 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 3: Philians do. Dog, you go and you be your boy's 18 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: best man. You got ask to be the best man, 19 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 3: not the bride'smaid. Come, I give it what you think 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 3: of her, she withholding sex till they have a baby. 21 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 3: That ain't your business. You don't like the way she laughed, 22 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 3: he do? But what's wrong with you? How you all 23 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 3: up in it like this. I can't stand her with 24 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 3: a passion. You need to grow your up. He's and 25 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 3: let me tell you something. He gonna put her in 26 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 3: front of you. Do you understand that? And that's the 27 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 3: way it goes. Now, you go up there and be 28 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 3: his best man. I don't care how you feel about her. 29 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 3: He asked you to be the best man. You not 30 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 3: the bridesmaid food. I don't like up until you trip 31 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 3: and full what you got to like her? 32 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: Foe with a passion? 33 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: He didn't ask her to marry him. Why you passing 34 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 2: judgment on? 35 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 3: That? 36 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 2: Is she gossip? 37 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 3: So? 38 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: I don't like the way she laughed. 39 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: So like the way she laughs. 40 00:01:55,000 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 2: She withholding sex until they have a baby, so she 41 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 2: know the man. 42 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: She don't mistreat the man. You just don't like her. 43 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 3: What's she not marrying? 44 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: You? 45 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 2: Man? How did this dude got to be? 46 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: You know? 47 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: He got to be at his twenties? Ain't nowhere he man? 48 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: He didn't say to be. 49 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: He didn't say his name is Matt, but he didn't 50 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 1: say he was. 51 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,959 Speaker 2: Put your mask on the hand, the rings over and 52 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 2: move on. 53 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 3: Man, That's all you got to do. Some of her 54 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 3: passing judgement. That's why you're by yourself. 55 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: Now do the bachelor parties and the toe Yeah, man. 56 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 2: Do all that stuff you posted what you're tripping for. 57 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 3: Ye it's well when it come to do the speech 58 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 3: and the best man get a speech? 59 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: Now you give that to somebody else? Ye you talking? 60 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: I hate her? 61 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 2: The bride and grooves stupid. 62 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: This one's from Jamella. She's twenty five years old. She 63 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: has a great job, a big, supportive family. All her life, 64 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: she said, she's made bold choices, but only after thinking 65 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: it all through. She says, now I have decided that 66 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to have a baby. I'm not in a relationship, 67 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: but my job offers maternity leave and my parents can 68 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: help after that. I also have a couple of potential 69 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: fathers in mind, and they're both on board. My mom 70 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: supports my decision, but my friends were shocked. My mind 71 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: is made up, so I'm not looking for advice on that. 72 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: But how do I convince my friends that this isn't 73 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: such a crazy idea? She's twenty five. Her name is Jamelle. 74 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 3: Well, you ain't a matter of fact? You know you 75 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 3: don't want no advice? What you call us for? Uh huh? 76 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 3: The fact that it matter is I think you crazy. 77 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 3: That's not where we're at. I'm with your friends. Uh huh, 78 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 3: you know I thought this through. She says she thinks 79 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: her choice is through. Okay, cool, didn't go ahead and 80 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 3: do it and needs to do as you think is 81 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 3: great choices. 82 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: That's up for it. 83 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 3: Now are they up for making the baby? Are they 84 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 3: up to being a dad? Because anybody can be a 85 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 3: far Yeah, but what you want to give your child 86 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 3: is a dad. Yeah. Now you need to find out 87 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 3: what they talking about all this? Yeah, oh yeah, I'll 88 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 3: do it with you. 89 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: Hell okay, everybody now, they're. 90 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: Just gonna walk away and then your child not have 91 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 3: a relationship. 92 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 93 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm with your friends. I think you're crazy. You 94 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:28,119 Speaker 3: don't know everything. Crazy, stupid young people today make me sick. 95 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 2: Oh ya, I said pretty, I said what I. 96 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 97 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: more of this crazy show. You're listening to The Steve 98 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.