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Speaker 1: I don't even know how this all started, but that

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Speaker 1: because he looks a lot like me. Then again, I'm

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Speaker 1: him an effing idiot for not understanding how genetics work.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I'm here wondering. My dad told me

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Speaker 1: my brother is clearly going through something. His mind probably

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Speaker 1: did so, thank you. The whole thing was a lot

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Speaker 1: If he seriously thinks it was me, then I do

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Speaker 1: reached out to Mave again, demanding to know what this

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Speaker 1: Let me know what you would do if you were

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Speaker 3: Everyone in these stories is always like you know, oh,

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Speaker 2: My secret is I think everybody, hey, let's go.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of like like like the thing, like they

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Speaker 3: can't arrest all of us, Like you can't catch me

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Speaker 1: And it's legal. I'm imagining like like Oprah, like you

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Speaker 1: I guess if it's polyamory, then it's not cheating.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's we're I guess we're about to find out.

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Speaker 1: We're about to find out. I thirty two female, am

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Speaker 1: that's a long polyamorous relationship.

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Speaker 2: Clue to them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the three of us all date each other and

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Speaker 2: Okay, so they date each other and no one else.

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Speaker 1: Which ten years do that's a long relationship.

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Speaker 1: I never mentioned this to my coworkers because I never

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Speaker 1: while at work. A few weeks ago, my coworker Ken,

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Speaker 1: He apparently started telling everyone that I was cheating on Louie.

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Speaker 1: Like like at the workplace, it's kind of fucked up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It in the office, just like that's just hot goss.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it accomplishes nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not you're not You're you're not doing anyone

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Speaker 1: Can Ken. Yeah, he apparently started telling everyone that I

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Speaker 3: He's thinking like, oh man, I'm getting too too big

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Speaker 3: I'm such a big wig, Like all these small timers

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Speaker 1: You're cheating with on your boyfriend with another lady.

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Speaker 1: A few a few days ago, I was talking to

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, can you imagine You're just like sitting

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Speaker 2: Like you're a cheater when you literally aren't.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. When I said I had never cheated,

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Speaker 1: Ken confronted me with the pictures of Ruby and I

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Speaker 1: on a date from last week. Wait, so he has

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Speaker 3: He's literally like getting getting multiple senses of evidence. Also,

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Speaker 3: Ken confronted me with cheating pictures?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, what is this like? Like? But like, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, But then he goes and follows her to

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Speaker 1: That only seemed to see him and others off worse,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Oh dude, honestly, that's so amazing. Like so everyone else

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Speaker 1: A bunch of my coworkers are pissed that I hid

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how they're mad at her. I am absolutely completely lost.

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Speaker 1: They just feel like and they're trying to like just

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Speaker 2: Now, so you got it wrong? Who cares?

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Speaker 1: Just own up to being Oh my god, and Ken

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Speaker 1: Just speak just to clear something up. Ken does not

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Speaker 1: an update of what's happened so far. Yesterday, a few

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Speaker 1: When I talked to HR this morning, they were aware

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Speaker 1: Ken was definitely stalking me. He was immediately fired and

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Speaker 1: I do have a temporary restraining order before the court date,

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Speaker 1: Ken had always been a bit of a creepy, nice guy,

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Speaker 1: Louis and Ruby were able to take some time off

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Speaker 1: for all of this to be over. Thank you so

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Speaker 3: I mean literally, you're just like, Okay, this person's a

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Speaker 3: of the nth degree, I know, and like all those pictures.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't just the pictures.

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