WEBVTT - EP #58 - The Compton’s Survive An Insane Car Wreck + Dad Hacks For Babies On Flights | For The Dads 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.360 Sure, you're ready. Ready. 0:00:01.440 --> 0:00:03.360 We got a lot to talk about on this, Yes, this, 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:06.840 we just talked about how we need to get started 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:08.719 recording because this is gonna be a long one. 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:09.360 Yeah. 0:00:09.400 --> 0:00:13.040 This today's episode. This is Operation this is Operation shot Collar. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:14.120 Yeah. 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:16.840 Two week vacation in Italy. You had a week vacation 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:20.320 down in thirty eight. Yeah, done at Grayson Beach greaton 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:21.720 beach great and beach great. 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:25.040 I say Grayson Grayson great name too and low key. 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:27.840 They're kind of similar Italy. It's like the beaches on 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:30.240 Italy very much remind me of thirty eight big time. 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:32.280 Anytime in thirty eight. It's like, do I feel like 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:32.920 I'm in Italy? 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:38.559 You jokingly you have gotten flak on the internet for 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:42.159 saying thirty eight is the Italy of the United States. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:45.919 Come on, it is, come on, come on. I know, 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:49.960 like it's funny and I know I get I know 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:52.400 he get joked on for it. But I'm thinking, dude, 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:56.040 it's if you've been to both, it's right there, go there, 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:58.240 just go there, just go there. 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:01.640 Tell well he's wrong. Yeah, yeah, if you don't agree. 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.240 Because I just went to uh, I think it was Carol, Carol, 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:07.679 Caroli something somewhere close to Venice, but the beach of 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:11.319 carol Ah and it I'm looking out at the beach 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:16.080 by the way that's saying there powder incredibly soft powder. Sure, 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:17.959 I'm saying, you don't even need to take along, like 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:19.520 when you're washing off your feet when you come on 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.320 like the boat walk of the concrete and got the 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:26.680 little shower, it trickles off. Bro it's powder bong, dc mo. 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:28.880 It was phenomenal. I thought it was a thirty eight 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:31.400 Papa Team six. Welcome to another episode of four the Dads. 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:33.160 I hope the coffees. I do hope the vibes are hotter. 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:35.600 We have a lot to talk about on today's episode 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:39.720 again vacation Breakdown. We got a ton a ton of 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:42.400 comments that flooded in on our social media's at for 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:45.759 the Dad's Pot and our YouTube comments and our Spotify comments. 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:46.919 And since your. 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:50.200 Boy was international, I am curious because a few fellow 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:53.880 mates on the travel patim on the back say, hey, 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:56.080 I love the for the Dad show. So if you 0:01:56.400 --> 0:02:01.880 just could in Europe, in Europe, oh yo, if you 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:05.000 just could for me PT six audience, Mama Team six, 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:07.880 Mal Team six whatever, all of the team sixes. If 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:11.080 you can just comment where you're commenting from. I would 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:16.360 personally enjoy scrolling the feed and seeing how far we 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:21.040 have reached. I would like that checking in from blank Yes, yes, 0:02:21.400 --> 0:02:24.960 but again, people's been hitting us up on socials, YouTube, Spotify, 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:25.600 We're everywhere. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:26.720 Make sure you're subscribed. 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:28.400 That is the best thing you can do for the 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:31.520 show is making sure you are following and subscribed and 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:34.560 commenting on all of our channels. We love our community. 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:36.519 It is a strong community. We have a lot of 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:38.040 stuff to read throughout the show. If you want to 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.680 be featured on the show, again, all you have to 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:43.040 do is comment on YouTube, comment on Spotify, on our socials. 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:44.080 Our boy Deep he. 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:48.360 Grabs them, gives us a bunch of massive rollodecks to 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:49.960 speak to when we are on the show. That's how 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:51.680 you get featured. We also have a hotline six on 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:54.280 the Dads. You call and leave a voicemail win loss 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:57.160 event to the boys. Whatever you want to do. Let's 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:59.960 dive in. Where do we want to even start? 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:03.839 Man Well, I sent you a tweet that I thought 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:04.840 was hilarious. 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:05.760 Oh the freezing. 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:09.200 We do have a you know this isn't part of 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:14.200 the the new dad shout outs that we have coming 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:14.840 up on the show. 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:16.679 But Saram did send me on the ft D. 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:18.880 Here we go. We have a new dad alert. This 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:25.799 one is from our boy, Adam Singer. Congratulations, congratulations Adam. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:30.160 He says, it's Friday. This is on X my man. 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:33.359 Adam Singer says, it's Friday. We should post some good 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.240 news to the timeline God willing. I'm gonna be a 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:42.280 father in November. Get over your oh shit, not nihilism. Nihilism, 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:43.480 what does that mean? 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:48.920 An nihilist is I've seen this, yeah, but you know 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:51.040 the memory. I'm not that. I'm not sure. I don't 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:52.080 have a Sean McVay brain. 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:55.240 An nihilist is almost in the belief of nothing like 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:56.480 you're you're, You. 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:59.480 Don't want any of the isms at all. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:02.840 You just strip yourself away, get over yourself, get over 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:05.440 your nihilism and have a kid. It's why we're here 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:08.440 after all. Come on, shout out, Adam Singer. This isn't 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:11.560 written in Before the Dads, This isn't tagged by the 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:13.680 old Papa Team six community. This is something we just 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:18.200 came across on the internet and just a phenomenal reply 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:23.520 by Freezing Cold Takes. Freezing Cold Takes on Twitter says congrats, 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:27.599 and then drops a couple screenshots of Adam Singer in 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:30.880 the past. This is Adam Singer responding to people in 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:36.240 twenty twenty twenty twenty one and their comments of Adam 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:41.400 Singer responding to people about having kids, saying things like 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.240 I already don't want kids. This is why we don't 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:47.680 have kids and don't want any or or don't have kids. 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:50.919 Don't buy any physical things ever for any reason. Do 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:55.280 whatever you want in markets, or have no kids and 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:57.520 do whatever the hell you want. Just know that every 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:00.560 time I pause, that means he's doing another comment. This 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:05.200 I'm reading this is six total comments, and I'm sure, yeah, yeah, 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:08.960 there you go, production, production, production. This is why I 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:12.160 have dogs and no kids. This is why we don't 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:16.520 have kids. Problem solved. But now years later, five six 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:19.080 years later, Adam Singer is now having a child. He 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:22.920 came back around God willing get over your nihilism, then 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:29.800 have kids, He replied to Freezing Cold Takes underneath Oh 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.680 did he I have changed my mind on this important topic. 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:38.120 That's like last week with Greg what is something that 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:40.720 you feel like you had an opinion? That you had 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:42.640 an opinion on a long time ago and have now 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:43.400 changed your mind. 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:45.840 Yeah, this is Adam Singer. Now he's changed his mind. 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:48.560 That's gotta be I mean, that has to be. 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:52.479 Parenthood kind of summed up as far as I haven't 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.200 experienced it too much, but there are so many things 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:59.239 that I held as truth when I was late teens, same, 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:02.719 early twenties, and now I'm just like, oh my gosh, 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:04.840 my whole world has been blown up. 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:05.200 Yeah. 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:07.280 You know, being a young lad back in the day, 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:08.720 it's when you were gonna have kids. You're gonna have 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:11.360 a boy. He's gonna play every sport. He's gonna be 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.280 the best, he's gonna be in the he's gonna be 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:17.360 playing in the big leagues. When people cancel plans, what's 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:18.760 so hard about canceling plans? 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:19.720 Like, you got a. 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:23.120 Kid who cares, figure out a way to get a babysitter. 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:27.120 You know, you kind of judge your you judge your mates. Yeah, 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.000 you judge your boys when they have to cancel on 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:30.000 the bus. 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:31.839 Everybody mowned and growned. 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:36.159 When Taylor was like, yeah, hosting a family dinner like 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:39.880 weekly is pretty difficult. Everybody's like, oh, oh yeah, no, 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:42.600 Taylor's like, what you got ring Wall your kids got 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:43.120 there is hard? 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:46.080 Yeah, yes, you don't get it. 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:49.440 It is you see a true progression of how it 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:53.279 is your preconceived notions as you get older, when you 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:55.280 get close to having kids are getting married. Then when 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:59.120 you do get married, you complete buds training and you 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:02.280 become a true Pop Team sixer. Your mind changes all 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:04.120 the time, so you can't hold it against. 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:04.400 Him, dude. 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:08.240 Special shout out to Kevin who we met at eighth 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:11.360 and Roast. They were getting their anatomy scan. 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:15.280 Yeah, that was crazy. Sherman and I were getting a 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:16.160 coffee yesterday. 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:19.720 This was crazy dude at the favorite watering hole, coffee 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.560 hole eighth and Roast over off of Charlotte. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:24.600 No free shoutouts, all the free shodows, no free shoutout 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:26.120 because I did take an l while I was there, 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:31.400 just oh mass well. The worker was like, oh what 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.040 are you got going on the just working a little bit? 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:34.080 Oh what do you do? I was like, oh, we 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:36.720 have a podcast, and like oh, so you don't really work. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:40.600 I laughed it off, just kept walking. 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.560 Right before that, he goes and what's the day on it? 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.760 He's like, well, and so he like, you know, it 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:48.640 takes a sharpy. What do y'all got going on? And 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:52.200 as he like literally says, oh so no work, puts 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:55.120 a period behind will and puts see you work. 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:57.200 I sat down next to Sherman, I have my coffee. 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:58.480 I was like, I'm so fucking pissed off. 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:03.520 It's like that that truly fucking fired me up. That 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:04.239 got me mad. 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:09.440 But when we were there, what was his wife's name is? Kevin? 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:13.760 Oh No? Did start with the A. I thought I 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:17.800 started with a K, like Kelsey starts with k no. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:20.760 But it was like it was like Kaylee or Kayla, 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.120 like I had an a sound to it. 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:30.520 Either way, Hey Kayla Yahyayla and Kelsey God, I hate 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:33.400 it Kylie. She was so fired up. Kevin was in 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:36.560 the bathroom. Sherman I sit down, and it's you have 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.559 the entire coffee shop to pick a spot to see, 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:40.640 to pick a spot to sit on. Sherman, I just 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:42.440 choose to sit on like the love seat where we're 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:45.520 just directly next to each other, arms touching, and we 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:47.160 just sit on the little love seat next to the 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:49.520 j O. She pops up over our shoulder and she's like, hey, 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:53.560 my husband he's in the he's in the bathroom right now. 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:56.800 We actually just got done with our visit on like 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:59.320 having a baby. We're going in for another appointment here soon. 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:02.200 And he loves your guys' show. He's gonna hate me 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:05.320 for this. He's gonna hate me for this. And we 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:07.679 just talked shop. Kevin came out. We congratulated him on 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:10.679 completing Buds training and now becoming a future member of 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:11.480 Papa Team six. 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:14.679 He was stoked, and then we we literally just talked 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:18.320 about their anatomy scan. It was so funny how weird 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:21.960 the timing was of them leaving the anatomy scan seeing 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.800 their baby for the first time. This guy listens to 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:28.320 a dad podcast because he's having said baby and is 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:31.320 excited about it. Sees the two hosts of the dad 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:33.960 podcast and it is like, yeah, I just saw you know. 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:37.240 You saw my daughter rog him over to the barista 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:40.440 and be like, this is work, buddy, this is work. 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:41.640 This is what I do. 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:44.800 You see the impression we're making all about the show. 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:50.000 Kevin, you shouldn't have done that. 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.400 That would have been brilliant, But that was That was 0:09:52.400 --> 0:09:55.920 a cool moment too, because Kevin's by like both the 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:58.240 guys are right here. There's they're literally with nobody else 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.200 and they're sitting arm in arm next to each other a. 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.360 Park bench sized love seat, like we're talking the tiniest 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:07.040 love seat. Will and I went there to like talk turkey, 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.200 and obviously we're gonna sit across from each other, and 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:12.560 Will just parks it on that bench and the other 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.080 bench was comically far away if we were to talk, 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:17.560 so I had to Papa Squad next. 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:21.200 I had to Papa Squad. Now it does you know? 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:22.720 I wonder if Kevin feels the same way because we 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:24.120 have a follow up here from last week. We had 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.760 somebody on Instagram make a comment four days ago. 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:29.160 It's now edited, but it's it says Will and Sureham. 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:31.439 This is from d lazy Will and sure Him act 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:35.960 like raising kids as rocket science and they're in they're 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.680 try to uncrack the code. He even edited it and 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:42.760 still couldn't spell it right. And they're trying to crack 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:43.160 the code. 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:47.520 Wait, he's saying it's easy, and I don't know what 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:47.960 he's saying. 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:51.080 I feel like it's a negative vibe in the comment section. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:55.920 He definitely feels like that. He's just like they're sitting there. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:57.720 They're trying to figure out how to do it. You 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:02.200 fucking do it, dude. Oh, it's a show all about 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:05.000 how to do something that's super fucking eas It's. 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:09.040 Comments like those that just like internally make you boil 0:11:09.120 --> 0:11:14.160 for a moment because I just Barista. Yeah, it's probably 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:19.280 the Barisa on a burner account that make you boil 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:21.240 because it's like you just know, it's. 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:23.520 Like, that's not what we do. We're not doing that. 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:27.040 We're not doing that. We're enjoying the moment. 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:29.360 We're in the moment right now, and we're just talking 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:29.800 about it. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:30.640 That's all we're doing. 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.199 Yere like, oh so good, you guys talk about fatherhood. 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:36.520 Try making a moocha? Yeah, have you listened to the show? 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:38.760 And if they say, no, hey, how about how about 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:41.320 go and just check out the show? You would know 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:43.200 that you wouldn't say a comment like that if you 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:46.040 just checked out the show. No, I'm good on that. Okay, 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.280 you're just projecting your own bullshit. You just want to 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:50.720 be a hater for no goddamn Reese, will sure try 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:51.719 making a frappuccino. 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:56.000 Tell me how easy that is? We have another flashback? 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:58.040 Or what do we call it greg Or. 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:01.400 Greg's Got a Lot of Love Love Greg episode. 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:06.679 Uh Mike Beviquah eighty four on YouTube. I think Greg 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:09.440 and I read the same parenting book. I have a 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:11.840 fifteen year old daughter, and I found myself agreeing with 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:16.760 Damn near every bit of advice, question, success, failure, situation 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:19.800 that he brought up. She's my stepdaughter, and my wife 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:23.040 tells me that she and I have a weird relationship. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:25.560 But it's good to note that it's actually pretty normal 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:29.000 since it looks exactly like Greg and his daughters minus 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:31.520 the front row at the Taylor Swift God stirt, I 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:34.480 haven't done that yet. Great, so don't forget to take 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:36.480 out the trash. They never forgot to take out the 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:41.079 Thank you, Mike. This was from Maggie Moo on YouTube, 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:45.600 Top three sold. Nothing beats Grandma Maxine playing checkers. Greg 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:46.120 is the best. 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:49.760 Oh let's go, Maggie Moo, Meggy Moo. I take that, 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:54.880 Grandma Maxine. That's that is a story. That's a story, dude. 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:58.200 The teeth falling out in the middle of checkers, going 0:12:58.240 --> 0:12:59.000 into a stroke. 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:00.559 What would your grandfather? 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:00.880 Saying? 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:01.240 It good? 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:08.800 He's like, uh, Mac, you gotta move and I'm there, Mac, move. 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:11.120 And she's just kind of. 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.080 Sitting there quietly and I'm just sitting there. You know, 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:15.160 I forget how old I said. I was like seven 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:16.440 eight ors something like that. 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.120 Damn it, Mac, scene you gotta move. Then her teachers 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:26.240 fall up. I was like spread into the living room crying. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.400 Bro Mac and my grandpa. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:31.120 And again for people that are newly tuned in, my 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:38.600 grandpa at this time was legally and I can laugh 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:42.360 like these are my grandpa. Yeah, yeah, my grandpa was 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:46.560 legally blind and my grandma was legally deaf, like she 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:50.280 had insane antennis for like hearing aids. 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:52.840 My grandpa had these specs. 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:55.280 On that he just could Yeah, he can only see 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:56.120 like silhouettes. 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:01.600 So they complimented each other. Well, he just say he 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:03.600 just saw that the silhouette wasn't moving. 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:05.160 He just saw the silhouel as a movie. And I 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:07.520 was like, Grandma, it's your turn. He's like, Mack, you 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:12.360 gotta move, damn Max, you got And then I run screaming. 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:14.360 Obviously I'm telling the story over again. I run screaming 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:17.080 into the living room. My grandpa again, since he's legally blind, 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:18.600 he still doesn't nessarly know what's going on? 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:21.280 Yeah, Grandma just rocked back. Grandma back, seen rock back 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:24.160 and her teeth falling out, and he's like, I haven't 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:29.760 her teeth fellow, her teeth fellow. We gotta call it's 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:31.200 just us three in the house. 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:33.680 Yeah, you had to help get her in the car 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:35.800 and stuff. Right, Where did your dad come over? 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:37.800 No? No, this was like they had to get they 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:40.400 had to roll in the bed, the stretcher and everything 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:41.160 into the house. 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:43.800 Which was the story where you were actually. 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:45.360 The skinny one to like get it through the door 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:46.640 on the way out. But they had to get her 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:49.040 on the stretcher. Oh my gosh. And she was good 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:51.960 from it, she was, Yeah, she survived. 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:53.080 What was the story? 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:56.320 Where was it mac that fell out to pick up 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:57.560 when your dad was backing up? 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:00.920 Yeah, now this this is from my dad. Like I 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.280 wasn't there, but my dad said he was taking her 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:05.120 to a hair appointment. My grandma she would always get 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:07.560 a perm. She always have all the old women they 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:09.640 love to get the popes. She'd be wearing it was 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:12.480 a gown every day, some floral gown and then she'd 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:13.160 rip a perm. 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:13.600 Huh. 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:16.320 But my dad was taking her to the beauty salon 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:19.840 one day. Yeah, it was I never knew of my 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:21.560 dad taking her to her hair point. It was always 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.440 my mom. It really was just always my mom. So 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:25.280 this is like one of the very rare times my 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:26.760 dad had to take her to her appointment. 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:30.320 But it's his mother, his mother, it's my dad's mom. 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:34.160 And he gets her up into the gets her up 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:36.280 into the truck, helps her start to get in, and 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:38.840 then as he kind of seventy five percent fully gets 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:42.200 her in, he thinks she's going to finish getting fully 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:42.680 in the truck. 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:44.600 He starts walking around to the other. 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:46.800 Side, and as he gets into the car and slams 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:53.160 and slams in side of the door, she tips out. 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:54.120 Brother. 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:57.160 That had to be the driest thud of all times. 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:02.880 Like a very subtle, very small little hill in the 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.560 front yard. So she landed in grass. Oh no, she 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:11.200 landed on the sidewalk and then rolls in the grass. Yeah, yeah, 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:11.800 damn it. 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:12.040 Back. 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:14.040 Yeah, that one might have got her. That one might 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:14.360 have got her. 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:14.520 Hip. 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:16.320 There were a couple of times she cracked it. She 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:24.120 cracked she corracked her. Oh no, back this one, yes, 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:26.520 Greg goes in top three, So top three. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:29.760 So this one comes from stupendus. 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:31.400 STUPIDU says six. 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:34.160 Soed boys get out there and wash that truck at 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:36.720 night when the daughter is coming home from the date. 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:40.400 Excuse is that it was too hot during the day 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:43.840 and I didn't want any water spots. Don't forget to 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.040 ride that chalkway, boys, don't forget it. 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:50.920 That's some game from stew That's some game. That's some game. 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:53.480 Fifteen minutes in, I already told my husband he needs 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:57.600 to watch love Greg's outlook, especially a look ahead, since 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:58.760 he has older kids. 0:16:58.800 --> 0:16:59.440 BS. 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.160 He isn't too bad to look at either. That one 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:11.160 comes from E. M. K. Burd O. She is defender, 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:13.000 not too bad to look at. 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:17.480 She wouldn't subscribe to Youth Youth Sports Inc. Let me 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:19.120 go get a look at old Greg. Oh, he calls 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:24.640 the games all on Sundays Fox. Okay, Greggy boys football 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:27.240 thing ain't too bad, ain't too shabby. 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:28.920 Kind of like this stuff. 0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:32.040 The biggest take because I even went home after we 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:35.040 recorded that episode. It was telling my wife because we 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:37.720 we we don't talk about it like often because we 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:39.200 know we're kind of far off from it, But every 0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:40.800 now and then we bring up the idea of like 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:44.400 technology and phones and iPad, like just yes. 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:46.359 When is gonna be the age? And you kind of 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:47.600 like we're years out. 0:17:47.480 --> 0:17:49.680 We're doing the thing where we're gonna where we think 0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:52.200 in our heads we're committing to something early. Now we're 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:56.040 obviously not obviously, but chances are we're going to change her. 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:58.240 Mind by the time we get to whatever that point is. 0:17:58.280 --> 0:17:58.480 Yeah. 0:17:58.520 --> 0:17:59.760 Yeah, But something. 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:02.879 I took away from Greg's episode was when he talked 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:07.520 about failing inside the house that really like resonated with me, 0:18:07.680 --> 0:18:10.200 is like, you know, they're going to get exposed to 0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:12.159 a lot of things, and when we were on the 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:15.120 topic of like tech and phones and everything else, he's 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:17.159 like wanting them to fail inside the house so that 0:18:17.200 --> 0:18:20.040 way they're at least around you to talk through whatever 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:24.280 the issues that might arise from those things that they're 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:25.320 getting exposed to. 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:28.080 Yeah, yeah, that was that was a good one. 0:18:28.240 --> 0:18:30.919 That was one where I was like, uh, oh, I 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:34.199 can get on board. I could be talked into something 0:18:34.240 --> 0:18:37.760 there with the idea and the philosophy of they're failing 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:40.159 around us, so we get to help be the teacher 0:18:40.200 --> 0:18:40.800 in those moments. 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:44.359 Yeah, And it's like one of those very first it 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:47.200 was like one of your first three lessons of the week. 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:51.000 Was that horse trainer talking about like the your grip 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:53.000 on the reins of a horse is like your grip 0:18:53.040 --> 0:18:56.440 on the reins of your child, of like allow them 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:59.040 to fail to be there when they fail to help 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:00.640 them learn from failure. 0:19:00.880 --> 0:19:03.360 Like, Yeah, it all kind of coincides with that. 0:19:03.720 --> 0:19:07.359 This is the rocket science. That's the rode we're trying 0:19:07.400 --> 0:19:08.639 to crack from my man. 0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:09.200 D L A Z. 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:09.720 Yeah. 0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:12.440 Yeah, he's got to figure it out, though he does. 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:17.240 He figured he gotta you give him a phone. Yeah, 0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:21.960 rocket science. Father they take the crack and the cold. 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:26.840 These two guys discovered fatherhood. 0:19:26.960 --> 0:19:32.320 Oh by the shirt lead the comment what a phony dude, 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:37.720 what a bus a cash grab dude, I can what. 0:19:37.840 --> 0:19:39.960 I would love to meet people like that though, because 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:43.240 you know he's it's those people that would be like, oh, well, 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:43.879 what's all. 0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:46.760 That's what I'm saying, You're never going to meet them. Ever, 0:19:47.400 --> 0:19:52.080 the negativity that I've experienced online throughout the years, I've 0:19:52.280 --> 0:19:55.680 never never met any of these people or have been 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:59.200 told things like that in person, ever, Yeah. 0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:01.879 Because it would be crazy, like if somebody like truly 0:20:01.960 --> 0:20:04.040 came up to me in the grocery store and was 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:11.639 like Dad podcasts be like, oh yeah, yeah. 0:20:09.960 --> 0:20:15.560 You a scientist, had another poopy diaper again a great 0:20:15.600 --> 0:20:17.200 show kid, and just walked off. 0:20:17.440 --> 0:20:18.520 I would belly laugh. 0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:21.800 I would belly laugh in that moment because I would 0:20:22.760 --> 0:20:24.560 so like that was incredible. 0:20:24.640 --> 0:20:26.440 You gotta say, oh, somebody needs a nap. 0:20:27.960 --> 0:20:31.399 Somebody didn't get there, ba ba, I got an extra 0:20:31.400 --> 0:20:32.320 binky in the pocket. 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:33.159 You need a binky. 0:20:33.320 --> 0:20:36.960 Hey, that's my dad, by the way, that's one of 0:20:37.000 --> 0:20:38.600 my dad acts, binking in the pocket. 0:20:38.720 --> 0:20:41.159 I put a bankie in the pocket when we were 0:20:41.200 --> 0:20:43.960 going out onto the beach because I was like, I bet, 0:20:44.840 --> 0:20:47.600 I just bet that that binkie's gonna hit the sand. 0:20:48.240 --> 0:20:52.199 Jill already has six extras in the bag, very packed, 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:57.240 but she doesn't have a quick draw mcgral binkie right there, dude, 0:20:57.240 --> 0:20:59.800 that feeling, there was no better feeling. And you can't 0:20:59.840 --> 0:21:03.600 tell tell anybody about the sneaky beankie. It just sits 0:21:03.600 --> 0:21:05.640 in your pocket. You don't let anybody know about it. 0:21:06.000 --> 0:21:09.359 And then when that one beankie gets dirty, Oh. 0:21:09.240 --> 0:21:10.720 No, no, no, sweetheart, I got when I put one in 0:21:10.760 --> 0:21:12.760 my pocket when we were at the You don't have 0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:13.480 one you didn't prepare. 0:21:13.480 --> 0:21:16.320 We did you get that one? We'd you find that one? 0:21:16.720 --> 0:21:19.000 Is it even clean? You know if dad stays on 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:21.159 his toes, hey, you know, I stay ready. 0:21:21.280 --> 0:21:23.000 But that was why my dad hacks. It's a good 0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:25.760 dad hack. Extra banky dude. How was vacation? Let's not 0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:29.919 have into vacation, dude. Vacation was so good. It was 0:21:30.119 --> 0:21:36.360 crazy fun. It was very resting and relaxing, like we 0:21:36.440 --> 0:21:39.840 did a time. Jill is a mover and a shaker 0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:43.000 and a doer, wants to go on it adventures, very 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:44.080 much like Charles. 0:21:43.880 --> 0:21:45.159 I was going to say, I feel like you're just 0:21:45.200 --> 0:21:46.560 breaking down my wife right now. 0:21:47.320 --> 0:21:50.480 There was a lot every single day we're doing stuff, 0:21:51.040 --> 0:21:54.000 but there was a lot of relaxing stuff that we 0:21:54.119 --> 0:21:58.480 also did of just like hanging out pool side for 0:21:58.960 --> 0:22:01.879 you know, two to three hours. We were letting Scarlet 0:22:01.960 --> 0:22:05.520 take naps as long as she wanted because Jill was 0:22:05.600 --> 0:22:08.160 under the assumption of and people can take this as 0:22:08.200 --> 0:22:11.360 a dad hack or a mom hack or like whatever, 0:22:11.640 --> 0:22:13.560 but she was like, Scarlet's not going to sleep that 0:22:13.600 --> 0:22:16.800 well anyways because she's in a new spot. Yeah, let 0:22:16.800 --> 0:22:19.560 her just take some long naps in her new little 0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:22.919 pack and play bed that we got for her little crib, 0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:25.680 And so Scarlett was taking like these two and a 0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:28.440 half hour naps, three hour naps, and we just let 0:22:28.440 --> 0:22:32.560 her nap once instead of two in a day, so 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:34.560 Jill and I would get to have like three hours 0:22:34.600 --> 0:22:37.000 to ourselves of just like hanging out by the pool, 0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:38.359 getting to be a couple. 0:22:40.400 --> 0:22:41.840 Dude. It was unreal. 0:22:42.119 --> 0:22:46.240 Got to go probably my favorite moment of the trip. 0:22:47.320 --> 0:22:50.480 I had this like awesome moment, dude, where we got 0:22:50.480 --> 0:22:53.479 to go to this part of Greaton Beach where like 0:22:53.560 --> 0:22:57.520 the true National Park is or the state park, sorry 0:22:58.200 --> 0:23:02.920 of it's like a hected beach. So the beach quite literally, 0:23:03.040 --> 0:23:05.680 I've been going to this beach since nineteen ninety three 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:08.800 when my grandmother was living down the road. That beach 0:23:08.840 --> 0:23:11.520 in its dooms looked the exact same as if you 0:23:11.600 --> 0:23:15.760 took a picture from nineteen ninety three, it's exactly the same. 0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:18.560 Got to go there with my aunt on my mom's side, 0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:23.119 her sister and take Scarlet there for her to like 0:23:23.320 --> 0:23:27.399 see the ocean for the first time and experience that 0:23:27.520 --> 0:23:31.200 with like a sunset come in, dude, and I had 0:23:31.280 --> 0:23:35.720 like a crazy moment out there I was balling crying, 0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:38.720 and not like audibly crying, like it was just coming 0:23:38.720 --> 0:23:40.679 down quietly, and I was keeping it to myself. 0:23:40.720 --> 0:23:43.080 When you say balling crying, Like the the viewer and 0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:45.879 the listener they're thinking they're shaking. They're thinking you're shaking. 0:23:45.960 --> 0:23:49.760 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, they've seen me where I on here. 0:23:49.920 --> 0:23:53.119 It was a very it was a very controlled you know, 0:23:53.240 --> 0:23:56.040 tears just kind of streaming down my cheeks. But I 0:23:56.040 --> 0:23:59.440 had sunglasses on, so nobody was really like a strong 0:23:59.680 --> 0:24:02.600 stone crust, oh dude, And it was like it was 0:24:02.720 --> 0:24:06.480 like healing almost. I can't describe that feeling of like 0:24:06.640 --> 0:24:13.119 getting to show my daughter a place that formed me 0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:17.800 as a young individual, of like showed me what love 0:24:18.080 --> 0:24:24.040 was from a family members showed me what adventure was. 0:24:24.200 --> 0:24:27.280 And being brave enough to go deep in the ocean, 0:24:27.520 --> 0:24:31.119 and learning how to do cartwheels on the beach and 0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:34.600 playing with my grandma, and like all these little moments 0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:37.280 are all tied to like this little stretch of beach 0:24:38.080 --> 0:24:40.280 and I like got to take my daughter out there, 0:24:40.320 --> 0:24:43.520 and then I got to we set her down the 0:24:43.560 --> 0:24:46.560 sand and she literally screamed at the ocean and started 0:24:46.600 --> 0:24:49.639 crawling towards it like a baby sea turtle. She was 0:24:49.680 --> 0:24:53.359 obsessed with the water. I'm sitting there just you know, 0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:56.800 the silent tears coming out. I'm biting my lip. I'm 0:24:56.800 --> 0:24:59.399 so proud of her, and I'm so stoked in the 0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:00.440 moment of like, oh my. 0:25:00.400 --> 0:25:03.040 Gosh, she loves this place. I picked her up. 0:25:03.080 --> 0:25:05.960 I found a little sandbar probably like forty or fifty 0:25:06.040 --> 0:25:09.199 feet out into the water, and just held her on 0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:11.600 the sandbar and I was just talking to her. I 0:25:11.680 --> 0:25:16.040 was like, your dad loves this place more than anything 0:25:16.200 --> 0:25:19.640 in the world. This is my favorite place. Like everything 0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:22.760 around here, this is like what I love to look at. 0:25:23.040 --> 0:25:24.840 And when I think of my happy place, I like 0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:28.400 think of here. And I love you more than that, Like, 0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:31.639 I love this place even more because I've gotten to 0:25:31.680 --> 0:25:34.320 take you here now, and I hope you love it. 0:25:34.800 --> 0:25:36.679 I hope you enjoy it, and we're gonna have like 0:25:37.240 --> 0:25:40.600 a ton of fun in the years ahead, hopefully of 0:25:40.680 --> 0:25:43.639 continuing to like come to this spot and make memories. 0:25:44.040 --> 0:25:45.960 If you love this place as much as I do, 0:25:47.440 --> 0:25:49.360 you might be a camp in girl. Yeah, you might 0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:51.920 be a sports camp girl, which is fine, But if 0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:55.800 you love the beach, we can come here whenever you want. 0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:57.080 When you laid that on her? What she say? 0:25:57.640 --> 0:26:02.879 She went, So she was on this shoulder right here, 0:26:03.040 --> 0:26:04.720 and she was sitting there and she was looking out 0:26:04.760 --> 0:26:07.480 into the ocean and she put her finger out and 0:26:07.520 --> 0:26:08.640 she pointed and she went. 0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:14.560 No, no, no, down. I said, that's right, honey, that's right. 0:26:15.040 --> 0:26:16.120 And I kissed her on the cheek. 0:26:16.840 --> 0:26:21.000 Dude, I give her a little kiss my phone because 0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:23.040 I took this note. 0:26:24.160 --> 0:26:26.240 I can't wait too. That mean England's over there. 0:26:26.280 --> 0:26:30.320 So yeah, yeah, and we beat their ass. Dad she did, Honey, 0:26:30.920 --> 0:26:32.640 we were bikes. 0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:33.640 I had, uh. 0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:38.880 Like a similar moment where we're sitting there and we're 0:26:38.920 --> 0:26:41.440 laying on the bed, mama shower, and I want to say. 0:26:41.440 --> 0:26:43.600 Scotty was already down to sleep and Rue was going 0:26:43.640 --> 0:26:45.360 to do a sleepover with us, like sleep in our bed. 0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:50.639 And Rue and I had gotten back from one of 0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:52.879 the little shows that they do down the down in 0:26:52.920 --> 0:26:55.840 the kids club are the hotel area where they're. 0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:59.119 Doing like a metal razy dude. It was nuts, it 0:26:59.160 --> 0:27:01.120 was nuts. Those look so set. 0:27:01.280 --> 0:27:05.680 Yeah, they were epic. Rue was enthralled looking at all 0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:08.840 these things going on. She's engaging. Anyway, we're on the 0:27:08.880 --> 0:27:11.240 back end the tail end of the trip and I'm 0:27:11.280 --> 0:27:14.080 laying with her in bed. She's got her pjs on, 0:27:14.240 --> 0:27:16.200 she's got this she wanted to wear like a two 0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:19.000 two over top. This's like rough two two and I'm 0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:20.679 a sweetheart, we can't. We don't see if you're going 0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:22.800 to sleep in our bed, you're not rocking it to 0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:23.320 to to bed. 0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:25.159 Oh damn. She took it off, but she's. 0:27:25.040 --> 0:27:26.879 Like holding in bed and I'm laying and I was like, 0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:29.480 and I'm trying to like set the tone because Rue's four, 0:27:29.640 --> 0:27:33.680 Like we're having some conversations at this age. It was like, hey, sweetheart, Candet, 0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:36.320 I tell you something, and she was like what. I 0:27:36.320 --> 0:27:38.359 was like, come closer, and she like nestles up to me. 0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:42.400 I was like, I love doing vacation with you so much. 0:27:42.440 --> 0:27:44.960 I've had so much fun this week and I just 0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:46.919 want you to know I love you so much and 0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:48.960 I can't wait to keep doing stuff like this with you. 0:27:49.560 --> 0:27:52.200 And I'm just trying to have a moment with her, 0:27:52.920 --> 0:27:55.760 and she just looks at me and she goes hey dead. 0:27:55.800 --> 0:27:58.160 Then I go yees, sweetheart, thinking we're in the moment, 0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:01.480 and she goes, can I snug on my two tuo? 0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:02.800 Like it's a stuffy tonight. 0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:07.280 I was like, you get off me, dude, Get off 0:28:07.320 --> 0:28:07.600 the bed. 0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:10.560 Yeah, get off the bed. After the magic show. This 0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:12.320 was either the night before or two nights before. I 0:28:12.359 --> 0:28:14.520 was like, dude, Rue, I like grab her hands and 0:28:14.520 --> 0:28:18.040 I'm looking at her and I go, dude, how much 0:28:18.200 --> 0:28:21.600 fun did you have today? Because we were on the beach, 0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:23.480 we had the water sides and stuff like that. How 0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:26.080 much fun did you have today? And she just looks 0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:28.240 at me because she goes, look at your nose when 0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:30.040 I do this, and she just like grasp my nose. 0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:34.560 Get off, I. 0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.880 Said, Scarlett, you see that sand dune over there. You're 0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:40.520 uncle Jordan and I. When we're little kids, we would 0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:43.360 go play armymen on that sand dune with these little 0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:47.400 green army men. We play there for hours and we played. 0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:49.440 There's so much that if you go and dig in 0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:52.720 that sand dune because it's protected and they don't get touched, 0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:54.960 you could probably find some of the army men that 0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.760 we played with. I've been able to find some throughout 0:28:57.760 --> 0:28:59.960 the years. And she looked at me and she went 0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:07.160 and I just fell the nice the hell you, Hanna, 0:29:07.280 --> 0:29:08.360 What the fuck was that? 0:29:08.560 --> 0:29:10.680 Dude? That's her cracking a coal one of that man, 0:29:13.760 --> 0:29:15.000 that was her cracking a cold. 0:29:15.000 --> 0:29:17.280 One moment, I look at my wife, so why are 0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:19.280 we doing all this vacation? She she ain't gonna remember 0:29:19.280 --> 0:29:20.000 any of this stuff. 0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:22.480 Why are we doing this? It just needs to be 0:29:22.520 --> 0:29:25.480 you and me. Let's get a sitter. What do we 0:29:25.520 --> 0:29:27.080 do leave the kids for two weeks? 0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:28.280 She doesn't get it. 0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:34.440 Hey, Scarlet, by the way, has been doing dramatic squeezes 0:29:34.640 --> 0:29:37.560 and I was like, I literally wanted to bring this 0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:40.040 to the podcast because I was. 0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:41.320 Like, do babies do this? 0:29:41.880 --> 0:29:44.720 Where she'll just grab food when we eat with her 0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:48.080 at dinner, and she'll squeeze it in her hand like 0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:50.840 super hard, and she'll look at me. She'll just lock 0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:55.840 eyes with me and start going and then all of 0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:58.840 a sudden she'll go and like sit up and have 0:29:58.960 --> 0:29:59.840 like the nicest smile. 0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:03.400 I'm like, is she constipated? Like why is she doing that? 0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:04.960 Do your kids do that at all? 0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:07.680 They would go through like Scotty both through like when 0:30:07.720 --> 0:30:09.800 they're around that age, Like I feel like they're just 0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:12.440 getting used to being able to like figure out something 0:30:12.480 --> 0:30:16.080 else that's new, like being able to squeeze, because they 0:30:16.080 --> 0:30:18.760 would do that or like smush food or like just 0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:21.280 be violent with food, yes, or like when they can 0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:24.120 finally learn to drink and they're just like downing it 0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:25.720 over and over, or they're just learning to tip it 0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:27.480 back and they just keep tipping it back over and 0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:31.360 over just because, Yeah, they're Like Scotty, now she can 0:30:31.440 --> 0:30:33.080 learn that the milk can drip out of her bottle, 0:30:33.120 --> 0:30:34.760 so she'll just sit there and like shake the bottle 0:30:34.760 --> 0:30:36.080 and have fucking create a mess. 0:30:36.360 --> 0:30:38.720 Scotty's a wolverine. Scotty. 0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:42.040 The whole reason we called this episode or I called 0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:45.960 this episode Operation shot Collar, is because that is what 0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:50.880 needs to be on Scotty's neck. Scotty, she is an animal. 0:30:51.760 --> 0:30:56.479 She's an Australian cattle dog. She needs to run. She 0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:59.000 needs to move, yeah, at all times. 0:30:58.760 --> 0:31:01.480 And heard the people into an area where she can 0:31:01.560 --> 0:31:02.560 interact with them. 0:31:02.400 --> 0:31:07.160 Climbing everything. She's just a busy body. Scotty's hard. Even 0:31:07.200 --> 0:31:08.960 before we went on this two week vacation, my wife 0:31:09.000 --> 0:31:10.360 brought it up to me and she wanted to do 0:31:10.440 --> 0:31:16.520 big vacation. I'm like, sweetheart, it's going to be so 0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:20.880 tough with Scottie, like she has shown us time and 0:31:20.960 --> 0:31:24.760 time again, whether it's a thirty minute car ride, an hour, 0:31:25.160 --> 0:31:29.920 four hours driving to thirty eight. She's shown us time 0:31:29.960 --> 0:31:30.680 and time again. 0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:35.760 She don't give a fuck man because Scotty, don't give 0:31:35.760 --> 0:31:38.080 a fuck because Scott and Zilla. 0:31:38.760 --> 0:31:41.760 She don't operate like that. No, she's very different than Rue. 0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:44.960 Ru wasn't like a perfect sweetheart child. But Rue is 0:31:45.080 --> 0:31:48.640 much calmer. Yes, she had a much calmer personality than 0:31:48.640 --> 0:31:51.840 Scotty did. Yes, she could sit and relax. She's got 0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:55.680 more patience to her. Scotty, doesn't we go on this 0:31:55.760 --> 0:31:59.720 adventure the flights. I'm just telling you it's ain't going 0:31:59.760 --> 0:32:02.600 to be a walk in the park. Yeah, and boil 0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:02.960 was not. 0:32:04.840 --> 0:32:08.200 Hey, there's a tweet because you're about to get into 0:32:08.200 --> 0:32:10.880 a story and it's gonna answer this guy's question. 0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:14.920 Yeah. This came from Connor Sears. 0:32:16.040 --> 0:32:18.560 Connor said, Hey, I need some dad hacks from the 0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:22.160 Sikas out there. About to go on my first flight 0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:25.080 on Thursday with my two month old. Any tips or 0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:28.120 hacks that you would have for your boy. Much appreciated. 0:32:28.920 --> 0:32:31.120 That's a good one, good writing. Who's that from Connor 0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:34.200 Sears x dot com formerly Twitter. 0:32:34.640 --> 0:32:37.960 I would say the number one because it's a two 0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:41.520 month old, so you're very much in the newborn you're 0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:44.120 in the newborn phase. I would say, I don't know 0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.280 when his flight is, but if you can time it 0:32:46.360 --> 0:32:49.440 to where whether you delay the bottle or if you're 0:32:49.480 --> 0:32:52.480 going and the it would be an early bottle. Whenever 0:32:52.520 --> 0:32:55.080 you take off, whatever you're gonna do, time the bottle 0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:57.520 as you're ascending out of the air, because it helps. 0:32:57.840 --> 0:33:00.840 It helps keep their ears what from pop? It helps 0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:02.120 keep their ears from popping. 0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:03.720 Or their ears to pop. 0:33:03.880 --> 0:33:05.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah, because at that age too, it's like 0:33:05.760 --> 0:33:07.800 after they get the bottle, it's usually you bottle, they 0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:10.080 fall asleep or take a nap, but hitting the bottle 0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:15.360 as you're taking off to minimize as much danger as possible. 0:33:15.400 --> 0:33:17.280 Two month old, I don't feel like is as bad 0:33:17.360 --> 0:33:19.880 now again, two month old might even be easier. 0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:22.280 Might but we don't want to put that on travel. 0:33:22.920 --> 0:33:24.400 We don't want to put that on we know, we don't. 0:33:24.440 --> 0:33:26.200 We don't family shod we don't parent shame, We don't 0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:26.760 parents shame. 0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:31.719 When we traveled with Scarlett, uh, right around that two month, Yeah, 0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:35.280 we sleep deprived her right before the flight. So whatever 0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:38.280 that little stretch of two hours was that she would 0:33:38.280 --> 0:33:39.040 have napped. 0:33:39.280 --> 0:33:39.520 Yep. 0:33:40.000 --> 0:33:42.440 Play play play play play play play play and you 0:33:42.520 --> 0:33:45.560 are staying up. And as soon as you get on 0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:51.320 the plane, and that plane gets on the tarmac, baba baba. 0:33:50.360 --> 0:33:53.360 That's you cooking. You're cooking right there. 0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:55.800 Because they're gonna ears, are gonna pop, they're gonna eat. 0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:57.920 And then they Yeah, and if it's if it's an 0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:00.360 early flight, that's all good. Like we would still you know, 0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:04.560 we wake Scotti orrew up even earlier, early, because they're 0:34:04.560 --> 0:34:06.600 still gonna be tired. But to your point, you play 0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:07.920 with them, You keep them up because you know they're 0:34:07.920 --> 0:34:10.279 gonna fall asleep again. Yes, Jack, keep them awake. I 0:34:10.320 --> 0:34:12.680 know you want the bottle. You might give them, uh 0:34:12.719 --> 0:34:15.120 and I'm guesstimating. Obviously it's been a minute. It's been 0:34:15.800 --> 0:34:19.880 over a year since Scotty's been in that range. But 0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:23.880 let's just say, you know, they have a five ounce bottle. 0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:24.600 I'm making this up. 0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:25.279 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:34:25.360 --> 0:34:27.640 You might give them an ounce before you make the 0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:30.120 trip to the airport, if they're fussy, if they're pissed off, 0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:33.000 if their rattle just enough, just enough, like hey, you 0:34:33.000 --> 0:34:35.239 can have a little snack. But the main event. The 0:34:35.280 --> 0:34:37.919 main course is gonna happen when you take off? Oh yeah, 0:34:38.480 --> 0:34:39.080 on the plane. 0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:41.800 Oh yeah, and we're gonna get that tummy full. Yeah, 0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:42.520 you're gonna be. 0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:45.880 Hungry and you're gonna be sleepy. Yeah. Yeah, that's the 0:34:45.920 --> 0:34:46.560 meve Connor. 0:34:47.120 --> 0:34:50.000 What's the myth with Scott Zilla that when there's gonna move. 0:34:49.880 --> 0:34:50.719 It's hang on and prey. 0:34:52.080 --> 0:35:00.920 Hey you're laughing, dude, I I have, I have. It 0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:03.560 never felt like the right time of telling Charro because 0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:07.160 we were even over. The travel back was a full 0:35:07.200 --> 0:35:09.680 twenty four hours because a flight got delayed. We were 0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:11.840 in the airport, the first airport for a few hours. 0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:14.279 We landed in Newark. We were delayed so much we 0:35:14.280 --> 0:35:16.399 had to rebook the second flight all the way back. 0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:19.040 We had to rebook the Newark flight. No, we're supposed 0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:21.640 to be in Nashville by six pm on Saturday. Yeah, 0:35:21.800 --> 0:35:25.560 we didn't take off from Newark until nine thirty at night. 0:35:25.760 --> 0:35:29.680 We landed in Nashville at eleven pm. Italy time is 0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:33.120 seven hours ahead, so we essentially operated a full twenty 0:35:33.120 --> 0:35:36.200 four hours. Because our first flight in Italy was supposed 0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:39.160 to take off from Venice at eleven am. That didn't 0:35:39.200 --> 0:35:42.960 happen until one thirty, so we were delayed quite a bit. 0:35:43.120 --> 0:35:48.560 We spent probably a total of eight hours in airports. Yeah, 0:35:48.640 --> 0:35:50.880 and then obviously the long flight from Venice to Newark 0:35:52.200 --> 0:35:52.960 it was a grind. 0:35:53.040 --> 0:35:55.319 That's not even delayed, that's just derailed. 0:35:55.600 --> 0:36:01.480 Yeah, and you were asking, how do you there's no 0:36:01.560 --> 0:36:04.120 stopping Scottie the whole saying you can never stop him. 0:36:04.120 --> 0:36:07.160 You can only hope to contain him. That is scott Zilla. 0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:11.960 Fortunately there was a sickoh a tier one. Johnny shout 0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:15.480 out Johnny from Buffalow, who was sitting next to us, 0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:17.960 that I'm just having a rapport with him before we 0:36:17.960 --> 0:36:19.359 get on the plane. I see that he's sitting next 0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:23.319 to us, so I'm just saying, hey, Johnny, this one 0:36:23.360 --> 0:36:27.600 right here. She's gonna be hard. You're gonna hear. I 0:36:27.680 --> 0:36:30.480 just want to apologize that. He's like, oh, buddy, he 0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:32.759 had his girlfriend with them, maybe fiance, maybe wife, I 0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:36.480 don't know. And we were doing the old joke he 0:36:36.520 --> 0:36:38.400 needs some birth control. This will be the birth control. 0:36:39.320 --> 0:36:41.000 It's a ping punk ball in the tornado. 0:36:41.120 --> 0:36:44.120 Yeah. Unfortunately, the family behind us, they had a young 0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:48.600 maybe eight nine months old, so we were kind of 0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:51.920 we were in a good we weren't alone, but we 0:36:51.920 --> 0:36:54.600 were just letting people know this one right here. 0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:58.440 Hey, if you hear crying when we're over the Atlantic, 0:36:58.680 --> 0:36:59.200 that's me. 0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:02.759 And my wife who's listening right now. 0:37:03.960 --> 0:37:08.480 The respect that I have for her, yeah, the guilt 0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:12.000 that I hold because she had to be the one 0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:13.480 that dealt with Scotty. 0:37:14.640 --> 0:37:15.799 The majority of the time. 0:37:16.680 --> 0:37:19.279 I did my best, and I could even tell when 0:37:19.280 --> 0:37:21.239 she's at her breaking point. She's like, you take her, 0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:22.680 you gotta take her, and I'm taking I know I 0:37:22.719 --> 0:37:24.600 got to take her, and in just in the back 0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:28.280 of my mind, I also know she's gonna be screaming 0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:30.320 for you again when this happens. 0:37:30.560 --> 0:37:32.400 And it's not minutes and minutes. 0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:35.680 This isn't the Rolodex where we travel and Charlie does 0:37:35.719 --> 0:37:38.120 everything with the kids. Like again, RU operated a little 0:37:38.120 --> 0:37:43.719 bit differently. This parental preforation that Scotti has for mom 0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:48.960 right now is obsessive. And I felt so bad for 0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:53.080 my wife because I snuck a thirty minute nap in. 0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:56.440 She stuck no napping during. 0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:59.120 The duration of that I thought four hours an eight 0:37:59.160 --> 0:38:01.840 hour flight, Yeah, Charlie didn't really Charlie didn't really sleep 0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:07.080 on that tomorrow because Scotti just wants Charle. But then 0:38:07.120 --> 0:38:09.640 she wants Charles and she's on Charroo. But again she's 0:38:09.640 --> 0:38:13.040 a busy body. She wants down. Charlie just wrestles with 0:38:13.080 --> 0:38:15.480 her the whole time because Scotty wants to stand, she 0:38:15.520 --> 0:38:18.200 wants to do stuff. And even when you're wrestling with her, 0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:21.759 Scotty's got that grin, that little shit grin and laugh 0:38:22.160 --> 0:38:24.960 that you're playing with her. And then she gets to 0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:26.640 a point to where she's mad and you just put 0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:28.080 her on the ground to wur She's walking up and 0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:30.600 down the aisle. We're letting her run around. But Scotty's 0:38:30.640 --> 0:38:34.200 not scared to make friends. So Scotti will the couple 0:38:34.239 --> 0:38:35.839 in the back that like the eight nine month old, 0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.400 she's like baby baby. I'm like, yeah, baby. She just 0:38:38.480 --> 0:38:40.000 wanted to play with that baby the whole time. And 0:38:40.040 --> 0:38:43.480 then she, the sweet mother of the child, starts doing 0:38:43.560 --> 0:38:44.600 high fives with Scotti. 0:38:45.680 --> 0:38:47.440 Thank you mother of that child, Thank. 0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:50.400 You mother of that child. And she did phenomenal. But 0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:53.680 in our head, it's like, you don't want this baby 0:38:53.760 --> 0:38:55.399 just sitting here. You don't want Scotty just in there. 0:38:55.520 --> 0:38:58.799 You're doing high fives for hours hours, but Scotty will 0:38:58.800 --> 0:39:02.880 do that. Grab Scotty and Scotty's just again you're fighting 0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:03.680 with her. 0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:05.080 The whole time until you can get her down. 0:39:05.120 --> 0:39:07.560 For some that Scotty maybe on the duration of that 0:39:07.640 --> 0:39:11.040 twenty four hour travel probably slept a total of three 0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:12.240 hours four hours. 0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:16.319 Oh perfect, good, yeah good, But it was. 0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:25.080 The flight home was extremely, extremely, extremely difficult. It almost 0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:27.480 there were moments to where we made comments to each 0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:31.319 other this might have ruined our entire vacation because we're 0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:34.640 gonna need another. We're gonna need another, We're gonna need 0:39:34.719 --> 0:39:38.360 soft tissue, deep tissue massages. We almost need another vacation 0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:42.680 from this hell that we've put ourselves in traveling back 0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:44.760 from Italy because of Scotty. 0:39:45.160 --> 0:39:45.520 Scotty. 0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:48.920 I love you, We love you, Scotty love Scotty's dad 0:39:49.520 --> 0:39:49.920 loves you. 0:39:50.120 --> 0:39:55.319 Scotty is a shitload of fun. Her personality is incredible. 0:39:55.560 --> 0:40:00.640 She has a blast. But she just does not sit still. Breakfast, 0:40:00.960 --> 0:40:03.840 doesn't sit still, has to get down dinner, sees a slide, 0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:05.359 side slide, doesn't eat. 0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:06.040 She's got it. 0:40:06.120 --> 0:40:10.200 She's again when I say Australian cattle dog, Yeah, she's 0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:12.640 like an animal where you have to let her down 0:40:12.680 --> 0:40:14.560 and just feed her on the side of the table. Yeah, 0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:16.440 you just have to let her take bites. Yeah, so 0:40:16.440 --> 0:40:18.560 she can run around, climb stairs. And again she's only 0:40:18.560 --> 0:40:21.120 twenty months old, so you're still having a monitor at 0:40:21.120 --> 0:40:22.880 all times because she could easily slip. 0:40:22.920 --> 0:40:24.480 She slept and felled plenty of times. 0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:27.600 Oh absolutely, and it is right back to it, if 0:40:27.600 --> 0:40:29.759 not faster and more after it. 0:40:29.840 --> 0:40:33.239 After she falls, that's not gonna slow her down. 0:40:33.400 --> 0:40:35.839 And some she takes a thump and she just gets 0:40:35.920 --> 0:40:38.000 right back up and tying, and I like, well, we 0:40:38.000 --> 0:40:41.320 stop breathing because right or just like watching her and 0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:43.520 observer he she gets up and keeps it moving, Like 0:40:43.600 --> 0:40:44.160 is she gonna cry? 0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:46.399 She's not gonna cry. She's tough as shit, she is. 0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:51.239 I've never seen anything encapsulate a child's personality like that 0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.239 video of the bounce House where you were poolside, and 0:40:54.360 --> 0:40:58.760 Will has this video where he's filming Scottie from super 0:40:58.760 --> 0:41:04.080 far away and Scotti is purposefully jumping into this ballpit. 0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:07.399 That is like she that toy was like a big 0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:08.000 girl toy. 0:41:08.280 --> 0:41:10.960 You're talking about the bounce house. Yes, there is no ballpit. 0:41:11.280 --> 0:41:15.280 Oh there, she's jumpings even more sense. She's jumping off 0:41:15.480 --> 0:41:19.959 the bouncy house onto the ground perfect like there's no. 0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:22.360 Ballpit at the bottom, good two feet. 0:41:22.600 --> 0:41:26.480 Yeah, and she just continually climbs and is jumping and 0:41:26.560 --> 0:41:30.920 is basically just putting her legs out completely straight, hitting 0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:33.480 her butt on the ground. On one of them, she 0:41:33.760 --> 0:41:35.839 hits and you kind of see her head go and 0:41:35.880 --> 0:41:37.400 you behind. 0:41:37.160 --> 0:41:39.879 The phone, oh, you kind of just watch her. 0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:42.160 And then all of a sudden, her head pokes out 0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:45.600 from uh, underneath the bounce house and she looks at you. 0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:47.320 And just hit my smiling. 0:41:47.719 --> 0:41:51.959 She's a psycho, she's a wolverine man because she's trying 0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:53.920 to jump off the bounce house and hit the bouncy 0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:55.840 part with her butt and kind of propel herself. 0:41:55.920 --> 0:41:56.600 Yeah for her. 0:41:56.760 --> 0:41:59.880 One time she hits the bounce house and just poured 0:42:01.160 --> 0:42:03.600 face chest on the ground. She pops back up, gets 0:42:03.680 --> 0:42:07.400 back on it. Yeah, she's uh, she's tough. With the 0:42:07.520 --> 0:42:12.200 vacation a plus. Good vacation was a plus. So we 0:42:12.280 --> 0:42:14.480 hit three different spots. We were gone for two weeks. Yeah, 0:42:15.360 --> 0:42:19.200 so we did like three or four nights in Austria. 0:42:19.560 --> 0:42:21.760 And while we were in Austria, we're like in the Alps, 0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:22.279 the whole time. 0:42:22.600 --> 0:42:24.239 So we hit On one of the days we go 0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:29.080 out hit the gondola, We climbed some mountains. Another day 0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:33.759 we go out to Hallstat Holstat Halstat, which is essentially 0:42:33.800 --> 0:42:39.200 where Frozen got inspiration for. So we wanted to take 0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:43.640 Ru to go see you know where Frozen was. This, 0:42:43.640 --> 0:42:45.960 This is where aarondel is. This is where Hanan and 0:42:45.960 --> 0:42:49.040 Elsa are. She sees the castle or not the castle, 0:42:49.080 --> 0:42:51.760 but the church with the big clock ship. Where's the castle? 0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:53.120 I don't know. We gotta find them. 0:42:53.880 --> 0:42:56.040 But we went there for a day, took a trip 0:42:57.160 --> 0:43:00.160 that was amazing. Then we go over to the the. 0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:05.719 Dolomites, Dolomites, Dola meat, the Dolomites, the Dolomites, the. 0:43:07.400 --> 0:43:13.000 Sunweese hotel resort, phenomenal, phenomenal spot. 0:43:13.080 --> 0:43:14.160 Everything's like farm, the. 0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:18.919 Table they have like lama walk, so Scotty, she loves 0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:21.279 her stuffy the lama. That's her safe space. So they 0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:24.759 have lamas there. Scotti is in all Islamas. We get 0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:27.520 to go on a lama walk. Rue gets to ride 0:43:27.520 --> 0:43:29.279 like a pony Trill rode a horse. They go on 0:43:29.320 --> 0:43:30.040 a horse walk. 0:43:30.160 --> 0:43:31.400 Oh damn. Yeah. 0:43:31.560 --> 0:43:35.160 We go out to what is it loose loosen, loose on. 0:43:35.920 --> 0:43:37.560 We make a trip there for a day to where 0:43:37.560 --> 0:43:39.560 we go and have a picnic. We're out, you know, 0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:45.160 around just playgrounds, enjoying ourselves. But the Dolomites incredible. Yeah, 0:43:46.040 --> 0:43:52.160 and then we our third stop was Carol Carole Carole Carole, 0:43:52.880 --> 0:43:55.200 which is by like an hour outside of Venice. It's 0:43:55.200 --> 0:43:56.600 on a beach, so we got a beach vibe, we 0:43:56.640 --> 0:43:59.080 got the mountain vibe, we got the beach vibe, and 0:43:59.840 --> 0:44:02.960 there was a well, there's water slides at each hotel, 0:44:03.080 --> 0:44:07.080 which I didn't know about. Y'all were ripping those water slides, ripping, 0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:08.880 bro y'all were ripping those waters. 0:44:09.080 --> 0:44:11.560 Rue loves the water slides. 0:44:12.600 --> 0:44:14.719 There was one that you can't go on, like the 0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:18.440 first part we were at in Austria. They had it 0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:22.600 was like this water park, this indoor water park game 0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:28.720 five or six different slides. I'm talking simple ones, medium ones, 0:44:29.200 --> 0:44:31.480 ones that are two that are three stories up. 0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:31.799 Yeah. 0:44:31.840 --> 0:44:33.279 Yeah, one of them you had to do on a 0:44:33.360 --> 0:44:36.200 raft because in the middle of the in the middle 0:44:36.200 --> 0:44:38.719 of the water slide, it's like this half pipe you 0:44:38.760 --> 0:44:41.439 get shot out into, you know, then you go back 0:44:41.440 --> 0:44:43.359 in the total then you come out the exit on 0:44:43.400 --> 0:44:45.640 like a little half pipe before you come up. And 0:44:45.680 --> 0:44:47.560 then the other one was just like a speed demon 0:44:47.600 --> 0:44:51.840 one all enclosed circular, going all around the little indoor 0:44:51.880 --> 0:44:52.960 water park area. 0:44:53.040 --> 0:44:54.560 Yeah, and the ones on the third. 0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:57.560 Floor you couldn't ride if you weren't at least nine 0:44:57.640 --> 0:44:58.200 years old. 0:44:58.400 --> 0:45:00.719 Oh damn hits them both? 0:45:00.840 --> 0:45:04.319 No, yeah, how'd you swing that? 0:45:04.640 --> 0:45:06.600 They don't have great security there. Come. 0:45:07.400 --> 0:45:09.239 It was more like asking Rue, hey, would you want 0:45:09.280 --> 0:45:11.680 to do this? I would hold her on the one 0:45:11.719 --> 0:45:13.839 with the raft I went down at first. You can 0:45:13.920 --> 0:45:17.080 kind of my own instinctual guest could do this one 0:45:17.200 --> 0:45:19.360 or not if she wants to. We could do this 0:45:19.400 --> 0:45:22.000 one where I hold her Yeah, yeah, but the other 0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:25.520 one no, or you can't go on that one. 0:45:25.560 --> 0:45:26.239 She didn't want to. 0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:29.560 On day one, Parks, we were with our former neighbors 0:45:29.800 --> 0:45:31.080 that were good friends with shut Out. 0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:31.600 Yeah. 0:45:31.719 --> 0:45:34.680 Shot at the Paler's. Paler made Travel. She's a travel 0:45:34.719 --> 0:45:36.120 agent who helped put this trip together. 0:45:36.160 --> 0:45:38.600 For that I forgot about it. She's as stud Megan. 0:45:39.360 --> 0:45:42.320 They have two kiddos around Roue's age, Parks who's five, 0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:47.359 Livy who's four, and Parks He's he's one that gets 0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:49.439 after it. He doesn't want to do the big dog slide. 0:45:49.440 --> 0:45:52.680 It's the red slide, big red slide. He doesn't want 0:45:52.719 --> 0:45:54.879 to do it. This is on day one, so I'm like, good, 0:45:55.040 --> 0:45:57.239 you wouldn't want to do this one anyway. It's dark 0:45:57.280 --> 0:45:59.320 the whole way down, it's fast, it fucking jerks you 0:45:59.360 --> 0:46:01.040 around a little bit, and again you've got to be 0:46:01.040 --> 0:46:03.359 at least nine to get on this one. Day two 0:46:03.400 --> 0:46:06.000 comes around, Rue gets an itch that she wants to 0:46:06.040 --> 0:46:08.200 do it, so we're going on to the top and 0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:10.480 I'm like, man, I really don't know. I'm saying, I 0:46:10.560 --> 0:46:12.799 really don't know. I'm I can kind of push the 0:46:12.840 --> 0:46:14.719 boundaries if I'm like, I think Ru could do it 0:46:14.760 --> 0:46:17.640 if she if she's confident and she wants to, then 0:46:17.640 --> 0:46:19.759 I would be more instinctual on like letting her do it. 0:46:19.760 --> 0:46:21.680 But I'm like, let dad do this one again because 0:46:21.680 --> 0:46:23.560 I've done it like several times, and I'm like, I 0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:26.319 don't think this is gonna work. So I'm sitting there, well, 0:46:26.320 --> 0:46:27.920 would I tell her to like cover her eyes the 0:46:27.920 --> 0:46:30.480 whole time down? YadA, YadA, YadA. So I go down first, 0:46:31.040 --> 0:46:33.120 speeding all the way down. They have this monitor that 0:46:33.200 --> 0:46:36.000 shows you your times on how fast you get down 0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:38.640 to the bottom. Me and my boy Brian, Brian Paler, 0:46:38.960 --> 0:46:42.000 we're trying to like break our records from the day before. 0:46:42.040 --> 0:46:44.560 We're trying to get sub seven sub seven seconds on 0:46:44.640 --> 0:46:46.120 getting all the way down that side on the big 0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:46.600 red slide. 0:46:46.640 --> 0:46:47.160 Sub seven. 0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:51.920 That's hard to do it, hard, hard, my boy rookie. 0:46:52.320 --> 0:46:52.560 No. 0:46:53.239 --> 0:46:55.719 So I go down the first time because I'm trying 0:46:55.719 --> 0:46:57.160 to test it out for Rue. I'm trying to go 0:46:57.200 --> 0:46:58.839 as kind of as slow as i can to see 0:46:58.840 --> 0:47:00.719 what I could tell Rue if she as go on this. 0:47:01.520 --> 0:47:03.400 I get to the bottom of my wife Charles. She's 0:47:03.400 --> 0:47:05.200 standing in the hold in Scottie. I get out of 0:47:05.200 --> 0:47:07.399 the water and I'm like, man, I'm gonna be honest, 0:47:07.400 --> 0:47:08.840 I don't think I don't think Ruth should do this. 0:47:09.120 --> 0:47:11.680 I think she could get hurt, even if she wants to. 0:47:11.719 --> 0:47:13.960 I don't think she should do it. Yeah, And she's like, well, 0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:18.239 she's up there right now. She's with Brian though. So 0:47:18.520 --> 0:47:20.520 I'm at the bottom and I look all the way 0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:23.799 up and I'm like, Brian, Brian, he like looks over 0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:26.560 the rail and I go, don't let her do it. 0:47:26.840 --> 0:47:30.120 He looks down at me and goes she's already went down. 0:47:30.239 --> 0:47:33.000 No panic and su me because I'm like. 0:47:33.040 --> 0:47:37.440 Oh God, like this isn't gonna be good. Ruth's flying 0:47:37.520 --> 0:47:38.320 down this slide. 0:47:38.960 --> 0:47:41.040 I get in the water because there's about ten feet 0:47:41.080 --> 0:47:43.239 of like narrow water that you get int too, where 0:47:43.239 --> 0:47:45.239 it's like up to shin level that like you're like 0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:48.560 standing in there as you explode into the water. I'm 0:47:48.560 --> 0:47:50.680 like standing there, waiting on just looking at the dark 0:47:50.719 --> 0:47:53.399 abyss of this tunnel of this red slide for Rue 0:47:53.400 --> 0:47:55.120 to come out, just wondering, Oh my god, is she 0:47:55.200 --> 0:47:58.400 crying already? Like what's happening? I hope she's okay. She 0:47:58.520 --> 0:48:01.280 shoots out of this slide, standing there and she's underwater 0:48:01.320 --> 0:48:03.719 for a second. She comes up and I go, I go, 0:48:04.719 --> 0:48:07.200 how was it? And she's like she's like stands up 0:48:07.200 --> 0:48:08.040 and gets everything together. 0:48:08.080 --> 0:48:12.960 She goes good and she rips that thing for the 0:48:12.960 --> 0:48:15.000 rest of the day, Oh dude. 0:48:15.760 --> 0:48:18.160 And honestly a massive relief because I was, legitimately I 0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:20.040 was like, no, I ain't no way, Brian, no, no, no, 0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:20.960 shut it down. 0:48:21.160 --> 0:48:24.640 She's already on slide bro shout out Brian. 0:48:24.960 --> 0:48:31.040 Shot just real probably just following him up the stairs. 0:48:31.080 --> 0:48:35.920 He's like, hey, where's your dad at I told her, sorry, I'm. 0:48:35.760 --> 0:48:37.839 Gonna let daddad test this out for you. I'll say 0:48:37.960 --> 0:48:40.280 you can do this. But she didn't wait for my signal. 0:48:40.520 --> 0:48:42.520 She's like, oh, Brian could tell me if it's good 0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:45.160 or not. Brian, go down it. Yeah, sure kid. 0:48:45.560 --> 0:48:48.040 These slides are long enough to where it's got stop 0:48:48.120 --> 0:48:52.360 lights up above at the entranced lifeguard. 0:48:52.360 --> 0:48:53.760 So once you yeah, there's no lifeguard. 0:48:54.000 --> 0:48:56.480 So once you go, it's sitting there on red light 0:48:56.520 --> 0:48:58.680 and it gets to the bottom, then a green light's like, hey, 0:48:58.760 --> 0:49:00.200 let's the next person know that they can go. 0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:02.480 Shout out Italy. I like that. 0:49:02.560 --> 0:49:08.640 Ye dude, that's so epic. What a coming of age 0:49:08.760 --> 0:49:10.920 moment because that's the type of stuff that you bring 0:49:10.960 --> 0:49:13.839 to the lunch room where you're like, oh, by the way, 0:49:14.000 --> 0:49:15.920 went down and slide that you have to be nine 0:49:15.960 --> 0:49:16.520 to go down? 0:49:16.880 --> 0:49:19.919 Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. She loved it, bro, And I'm 0:49:19.920 --> 0:49:24.400 talking every spot was. There's pros and cons to each spot, 0:49:24.600 --> 0:49:27.719 but we loved them all. Like the trip was incredible. 0:49:28.239 --> 0:49:30.680 We got hit. Oh my god, it's been so long. 0:49:30.760 --> 0:49:33.920 I forgot about that. When we left Austria. The driver 0:49:34.040 --> 0:49:35.920 that we had that was chauffeur in us to is 0:49:35.960 --> 0:49:38.960 a four hour drive. Again, all of the travel, so. 0:49:38.880 --> 0:49:41.680 Traveling there, four hour drive. 0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:45.600 From Austria where we were at to the Dolomites was 0:49:45.600 --> 0:49:49.240 four hours. And then from the Dolomites down to the beach, 0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:52.840 yeah that was an hour outside of Venice and Cairole, that. 0:49:52.840 --> 0:49:55.680 Was a four hour drive. Yeah, so all of the travel, 0:49:56.000 --> 0:49:59.279 that chaos, that stuff is exhausting and it's hard as fuck. 0:49:59.680 --> 0:50:02.160 Beauty full sights though, I'm sure beautiful sits. 0:50:02.160 --> 0:50:04.319 I got a little car sickness because again, you're just 0:50:04.360 --> 0:50:07.239 in this and you know your boy's gotta you're in 0:50:07.320 --> 0:50:09.800 the you got a little things are crazy at driving 0:50:09.920 --> 0:50:15.440 narrow roads. And we left the first stop Austria to 0:50:15.520 --> 0:50:18.640 go to the Dolomites. We weren't even outside of the 0:50:18.680 --> 0:50:20.920 street off of our street from the hotel. When we're 0:50:20.960 --> 0:50:24.280 about to embark on this four hour drive, our driver 0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:27.759 pulls out, he kind of got He slow rolls a 0:50:27.840 --> 0:50:31.240 stop sign and we get fucking smacked by a car. 0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:34.919 Yeah, you got hit by You got in a car wreck, 0:50:35.000 --> 0:50:37.040 bro on your vacation. We got in a car wreck. 0:50:38.080 --> 0:50:40.359 And this dude, he was already talking a little too much, 0:50:40.400 --> 0:50:43.080 like being too super nice. I'm like, bro, just listen, 0:50:43.120 --> 0:50:45.359 it's gonna be a long drive. Like just we got 0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:47.680 four hours, man, yeah, rud. They're like they're already complaining 0:50:47.719 --> 0:50:49.759 a little bit, like we got a ride ahead of us. 0:50:49.800 --> 0:50:51.120 You got a ponytail, we get it. 0:50:51.239 --> 0:50:53.440 Yeah, that little fucking rat tails got that should have 0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:54.439 been the tail right there. 0:50:54.760 --> 0:50:55.279 May is not. 0:50:57.040 --> 0:50:59.920 He ain't got this bud. Yeah, we're not even now, 0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:01.680 we haven't even left the area. 0:51:02.400 --> 0:51:04.319 And we pull out and I feel him kind of 0:51:04.400 --> 0:51:08.240 slow roll this stops sign, but I'm not necessarily looking, 0:51:08.400 --> 0:51:10.480 and I see my wife because she's on the driver 0:51:10.640 --> 0:51:12.440 side of the van, and so is Rue in the 0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:16.680 back seat in her car seat. And I hear Charles 0:51:16.719 --> 0:51:19.319 start to say something. I look over and again it's 0:51:19.480 --> 0:51:23.720 he stops. It's a highway to where cars are flying 0:51:24.160 --> 0:51:27.480 probably going forty miles an hour, thirty forty miles an 0:51:27.520 --> 0:51:30.680 hour on the on this mountains. Yeah, kilometers they do 0:51:30.760 --> 0:51:37.080 the km's there. I canna meat there, And Charles says, 0:51:37.160 --> 0:51:39.040 I mean, I look over and I see this car 0:51:39.080 --> 0:51:42.360 coming to where it's inevitable. What's gonna happen unless they 0:51:42.440 --> 0:51:44.640 rip it to the left. But there's on coming traffic 0:51:44.680 --> 0:51:48.680 coming the other way, and just sure enough, everybody's able 0:51:48.719 --> 0:51:51.960 to stop, but this car smacks us on the front tire. 0:51:52.360 --> 0:51:54.960 We get show gage shot like, we don't know what 0:51:55.000 --> 0:51:56.880 the fuck happens. We're all paying it. I'll look over 0:51:56.920 --> 0:51:58.480 at char you all right, look over at Rue. We're 0:51:58.520 --> 0:52:00.000 checking on the kids, everybody. 0:52:00.000 --> 0:52:00.560 He was cool. 0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:03.000 He looks back to us as everybody, Okay, buddy, what 0:52:03.040 --> 0:52:03.960 the fuck was that? 0:52:04.960 --> 0:52:05.600 We get out of the car. 0:52:05.760 --> 0:52:08.399 The bumper and everything smashed in his car? You can 0:52:08.480 --> 0:52:10.440 he could barely back it up. He's like, car's broken. 0:52:10.480 --> 0:52:13.680 Car don't work. He can't drive us to the Dolomites. Now, 0:52:14.160 --> 0:52:16.200 he came from I forget where he came from, but 0:52:16.280 --> 0:52:17.719 it was a five hour drive for him to come. 0:52:17.760 --> 0:52:18.960 Whatever company he's with. 0:52:19.320 --> 0:52:21.239 I'm like, how far were you to get to us 0:52:21.239 --> 0:52:23.520 because we're kind of out there in the Alps, and 0:52:23.520 --> 0:52:25.000 he's like, it took me about five hours. I'm like, 0:52:25.040 --> 0:52:26.879 oh my god, look at chart. I'm like, I don't 0:52:26.920 --> 0:52:30.320 know if we're fucking getting to the Dolomites today because 0:52:30.400 --> 0:52:32.400 I don't how the company works. 0:52:32.400 --> 0:52:33.000 I have no clue. 0:52:33.040 --> 0:52:35.759 This is like a smaller town that we're in when 0:52:35.760 --> 0:52:37.960 we were in Austria and. 0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:39.560 It was bad. 0:52:39.680 --> 0:52:42.160 The other car that hit us, their cars, their front 0:52:42.160 --> 0:52:45.520 of the cars like smashed in. Fortunately she lived like 0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:49.120 right around the corner. Her mom bikes down. No, yeah, 0:52:49.480 --> 0:52:51.799 cops come everything, and We're just kind of standing on 0:52:51.840 --> 0:52:53.960 the side of the road. They're talking Italian and shit, 0:52:56.160 --> 0:52:58.359 and I'm just thinking, how are we going to get 0:52:58.440 --> 0:53:02.640 out of here? And we megan or traveledger who they 0:53:02.680 --> 0:53:04.400 were still there. They were about to go to Germany 0:53:04.400 --> 0:53:05.839 for a couple of days when we when we were 0:53:05.840 --> 0:53:09.960 going off to the Doomites. And fortunately we just found 0:53:10.040 --> 0:53:12.400 this big this taxi service that had a vehicle that 0:53:12.520 --> 0:53:16.040 was big enough that we just paid euros to like 0:53:16.120 --> 0:53:19.360 we got to get there, Like, we can't stay back, 0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:21.799 we can't just hang back. We had no clue how 0:53:21.800 --> 0:53:24.120 we're going to get to the Dolomites. Cause he's fucked, 0:53:24.160 --> 0:53:25.920 he's scared for his life. He's like, I'm gonna get 0:53:25.920 --> 0:53:28.840 fired him. Oh yeah, you probably should. Yeah, like you 0:53:28.920 --> 0:53:33.520 got a family in the vehicle. Yeah, And buddy, I 0:53:33.600 --> 0:53:35.759 saw it. I don't know what you said in Italian 0:53:35.800 --> 0:53:37.799 to everybody else and what the lady was saying that 0:53:37.920 --> 0:53:40.680 was I don't know what went down, but you slow 0:53:40.800 --> 0:53:45.400 rolled that stop sign. Yeah, And he was scared for 0:53:45.440 --> 0:53:47.080 his life, and he's like, let me try in. He's 0:53:47.120 --> 0:53:48.879 trying to call his company and my boss blah blah 0:53:48.880 --> 0:53:50.160 blah and say, hey, we're gonna get a taxi. 0:53:50.200 --> 0:53:50.920 We're gonna be all good. 0:53:50.960 --> 0:53:53.239 He's like, no, please don't do that, like, please let 0:53:53.280 --> 0:53:55.520 me get I was like, buddy, how long is this 0:53:55.600 --> 0:53:57.760 driver gonna take to get here? You took you five hours? 0:53:57.760 --> 0:54:00.239 Like where's this other guy gonna come from? He didn't know, 0:54:00.800 --> 0:54:02.759 And I'm like, we're just gonna get this taxi. He's like, 0:54:02.800 --> 0:54:05.120 I don't have the money to pay for your taxi, 0:54:05.120 --> 0:54:07.600 and like you don't have to pay for the taxi. 0:54:07.600 --> 0:54:09.239 We're just gonna get the taxi. He's like, you might 0:54:09.280 --> 0:54:11.680 tell my boss that. I'll tell your boss whatever you want. 0:54:11.800 --> 0:54:13.600 Or like, are we gonna ask for a refund? Like yeah, 0:54:13.600 --> 0:54:15.239 you're goddamn right, we're gonna ask for a refund. We 0:54:15.200 --> 0:54:17.279 didn't get out of the parking lot. We just got 0:54:17.320 --> 0:54:22.680 in a car wreck, buddy. Yeah, and uh, anyway, we 0:54:22.719 --> 0:54:25.320 take the taxi, we get to the Dolomites. 0:54:25.239 --> 0:54:28.439 And god, yeah, I don't know where that or that guy. 0:54:28.600 --> 0:54:30.319 He seemed like scared enough. I don't know, like what 0:54:30.360 --> 0:54:33.919 the company is he worked for, But dude, we got 0:54:33.920 --> 0:54:34.920 smacked by a car. 0:54:35.200 --> 0:54:38.360 Shout out to y'all staying in it and hope for 0:54:38.440 --> 0:54:39.399 the best for that guy. 0:54:39.400 --> 0:54:42.320 But I hope he's not professionally driving for a while. 0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:46.400 Yeah, he started. I could tell he felt bad. Clearly 0:54:46.480 --> 0:54:49.360 he's yea, he felt bad. I'm with you. I'm just 0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:51.279 trying to figure out. We get to the Dolomites, bro, 0:54:51.680 --> 0:54:55.400 We're all good. Everybody's safe. Nobody's dinged up. Could have 0:54:55.440 --> 0:54:58.640 been bad bad if you a couple more feet for him, 0:54:58.680 --> 0:55:02.400 that's his door. Yeah, any farther, that's my wife. Any farther, 0:55:02.480 --> 0:55:08.480 that's Rue in the back. Yeah, we were We were lucky. 0:55:08.560 --> 0:55:11.640 He was lucky. He was lucky. He was lucky. Yes, 0:55:12.200 --> 0:55:13.560 we were lucky. He was lucky. 0:55:13.640 --> 0:55:18.680 Like it very unfortunate situation. But at all the spots 0:55:18.760 --> 0:55:22.080 we're at due incredible time. Well honestly so, it was 0:55:22.160 --> 0:55:24.480 just so nice to be kind of gone. It takes 0:55:24.480 --> 0:55:26.440 a few days to get fully checked out because we're 0:55:26.480 --> 0:55:30.840 seven hours ahead, get fully checked out out of everything 0:55:30.840 --> 0:55:32.680 back home, when I was never really fully checked out 0:55:32.680 --> 0:55:35.040 because there's stuff going on here at the shop moving parts. 0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:35.520 That happened. 0:55:35.520 --> 0:55:38.480 But as far as like getting to enjoy vacation, getting 0:55:38.480 --> 0:55:41.040 to be with the family, just us four taking on 0:55:41.200 --> 0:55:45.080 all these different all these different stops. The cost is 0:55:45.239 --> 0:55:49.000 it's it's expensive and exhausting and it's very chaotic at times. 0:55:49.440 --> 0:55:53.120 But the payout, the getting to see Ruin, Scottie and 0:55:53.200 --> 0:55:57.040 us just have a good time over in Italy, it 0:55:57.080 --> 0:55:57.800 was a plus. 0:55:57.880 --> 0:56:00.799 What what was your krack of cold one of the trip? 0:56:00.840 --> 0:56:01.359 Would you say? 0:56:01.440 --> 0:56:05.000 Crack cole one hard man and crack a cold one 0:56:05.040 --> 0:56:06.640 is brought to us by Biologo. 0:56:06.800 --> 0:56:08.480 Of course, when we look at these new new and 0:56:08.520 --> 0:56:10.879 improved cans, you got classic grape I'm on right here, 0:56:11.160 --> 0:56:14.680 the new flavors Raspberry Subert. But you got a little 0:56:14.760 --> 0:56:18.360 ginger ass. 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The architecture beautiful, the city wonderful. 0:57:04.560 --> 0:57:07.920 I hear all everywhere. It's marble flooring everywhere. 0:57:08.480 --> 0:57:13.799 Yeah yeah, I mean the stone there's marble all the 0:57:13.840 --> 0:57:16.560 streets and things like that. Very narrow, it's all water. 0:57:16.720 --> 0:57:20.680 There's no like car traffic anywhere. It's very cool to experience. 0:57:20.880 --> 0:57:25.360 Hot day yeah, upper eighties, round ninety okay, very hot day. 0:57:25.640 --> 0:57:28.400 We spent an entire day there because Charro she wanted 0:57:28.440 --> 0:57:31.600 to shop there because again, if you shop like over there, 0:57:31.640 --> 0:57:33.400 you can get purses and stuff. 0:57:33.040 --> 0:57:35.960 Like that for cheaper. Oh way cheaper, yeah, way cheaper. 0:57:36.040 --> 0:57:38.600 Oh yeah, because that's where going on that she wanted 0:57:38.600 --> 0:57:43.320 the girls to see Venice, and it was again hot. 0:57:43.720 --> 0:57:47.520 I wasn't. It's not an experience that I would do again. 0:57:47.880 --> 0:57:50.120 I'm glad I did it, but would I go back 0:57:50.160 --> 0:57:55.480 and do it again? Probably not really? Yeah, Venice, Yeah, Venice, 0:57:56.000 --> 0:57:57.320 VENI veniez ch. 0:57:58.160 --> 0:58:00.760 That's that's surprising you did, did you know? 0:58:01.400 --> 0:58:03.720 Maybe it was because of just the overall experience of 0:58:03.800 --> 0:58:06.800 having two kiddos with us. I was because you're doing 0:58:06.920 --> 0:58:10.640 nothing but walking the entire time. And I'm not talking 0:58:10.840 --> 0:58:13.640 just walks like you gotta because again it's it's like water, 0:58:13.680 --> 0:58:16.160 it's canals and shit like that. Ever, so there's bridges 0:58:16.200 --> 0:58:18.480 with stairs to go over top. So we had the 0:58:18.480 --> 0:58:21.320 stroller and I'm having to carry the fucking stroller over 0:58:21.440 --> 0:58:24.680 all of the bridges and stairs. Some people would help 0:58:24.680 --> 0:58:26.200 out every now and then, but it's just it's your 0:58:26.240 --> 0:58:27.680 it's your boy bending over our root. 0:58:27.720 --> 0:58:29.040 Can you get out? Can you walk over the thing? 0:58:29.320 --> 0:58:32.840 I gotta carry fucking thirty pounds we got on this stroller. Yeah, 0:58:32.880 --> 0:58:35.240 because your backpack up like you got all the bells 0:58:35.240 --> 0:58:37.640 and whistles to last a day out there, because you 0:58:37.720 --> 0:58:39.520 take it. We took an hour drive to get out 0:58:39.560 --> 0:58:41.919 to Venice. Once you're in it, you're there. We're taking 0:58:41.920 --> 0:58:44.040 the gondolas. The gondola ride was wonderful. 0:58:44.080 --> 0:58:46.560 I bet that was sick. So sick did they seeing 0:58:46.600 --> 0:58:46.919 it all? 0:58:48.000 --> 0:58:51.080 Oh no, no, no, now that you say that, they 0:58:51.120 --> 0:58:52.160 kind of pissed me off that they didn't. 0:58:52.280 --> 0:58:54.040 Yeah, what what's up with that? 0:58:54.920 --> 0:59:00.000 Sing to me in a delly or Venetian guy was 0:59:00.000 --> 0:59:02.240 It's very clear that they do Venetian over here. 0:59:02.360 --> 0:59:05.800 Okay, Yeah he's different. Hey buddy, you do whatever you want. 0:59:06.080 --> 0:59:06.800 Yeah yeah, yeah. 0:59:06.920 --> 0:59:09.680 He doesn't like the tourism that's taking place in Venice. 0:59:09.720 --> 0:59:11.920 He's like ever since the nineties, ever since like COVID. 0:59:12.080 --> 0:59:13.720 Oh yeah, last thirty year has been a bit of 0:59:13.720 --> 0:59:16.440 an uproar for the locals. Oh yeah, commercialize it a 0:59:16.480 --> 0:59:16.880 little bit. 0:59:17.360 --> 0:59:17.640 Yeah. 0:59:17.680 --> 0:59:20.640 There there was some airbnbs, airbnb's, there was some big 0:59:20.760 --> 0:59:22.960 music festival that really sut them off. 0:59:23.080 --> 0:59:26.520 Yeah, he's got some he's got some stuff in the basement. 0:59:26.880 --> 0:59:29.360 Yeah yeah, yeah that he was sharing inventing to us 0:59:29.520 --> 0:59:31.479 as we're tourists coming over there. 0:59:31.600 --> 0:59:34.080 Hey, you keep our city alive and are able for 0:59:34.200 --> 0:59:35.440 us to pay for our livelihood. 0:59:35.520 --> 0:59:37.360 But also fuck you don't come here. 0:59:38.160 --> 0:59:42.400 Yeah yeah, you're our bread and butter, but we hate you. 0:59:42.520 --> 0:59:42.760 Yeah. 0:59:42.800 --> 0:59:46.760 But the fifteen thousand steps, the ninety degree heat again, 0:59:47.680 --> 0:59:48.480 would I do it again? 0:59:48.560 --> 0:59:49.320 Probably not. 0:59:50.720 --> 0:59:55.920 That Venice feels to me, probably equally to Paris, as 0:59:56.000 --> 1:00:00.120 like a city of romance, a romantic place for you 1:00:00.160 --> 1:00:02.400 to go there with Charro. You're sitting down to dinner. 1:00:02.480 --> 1:00:05.480 The glasses of wine are cheaper than the glasses of 1:00:05.520 --> 1:00:09.800 sparkling water. You got a full belly, Apasta. You're holding 1:00:09.840 --> 1:00:13.280 your girl's hand underneath the moonlight. You're walking over these bridges. 1:00:13.640 --> 1:00:18.080 You're you aren't even walking anywhere, dude, You're strolling. That's 1:00:18.160 --> 1:00:18.800 what Venice. 1:00:18.880 --> 1:00:22.920 If it was me and my wife, yeah, in September, yeah, 1:00:23.480 --> 1:00:24.280 I would go again. 1:00:24.480 --> 1:00:25.919 Yeah, because you're right. 1:00:26.680 --> 1:00:29.720 A lot of what I'm saying is baggage and PTSD 1:00:30.400 --> 1:00:33.240 from the day we had. I'm glad we did the day. 1:00:33.400 --> 1:00:36.200 I'm glad the fame, I'm glad we decide. I'm glad 1:00:36.200 --> 1:00:39.280 my wife leads us to do heart stuff and sweetheart, 1:00:39.320 --> 1:00:41.120 as you're listening right now, I'm not saying I want 1:00:41.240 --> 1:00:43.040 I want you to just continue to lead us. And 1:00:43.040 --> 1:00:44.560 then when I bitch and moan about it every now 1:00:44.560 --> 1:00:46.800 and then, you remind me you like doing heard stuff. 1:00:46.840 --> 1:00:48.800 I do enjoy that we do heart stuff, yeah, every 1:00:48.800 --> 1:00:52.160 now and then. Yeah, And you love her, Oh I 1:00:52.200 --> 1:00:52.480 love it. 1:00:52.600 --> 1:00:53.400 I love my wife. 1:00:53.480 --> 1:00:56.560 Yeah, love her. She is a fucking rock star. Yeah, 1:00:57.920 --> 1:00:59.920 But a lot of that is the PTSD. Of the 1:01:00.280 --> 1:01:04.120 entirety of the day because I'm like, when we fucking 1:01:04.120 --> 1:01:07.800 getting back, like the kids are getting Scotty chasing birds everywhere. Yeah, 1:01:07.840 --> 1:01:09.720 we're trying to enjoy a nice lunch, which we were 1:01:09.720 --> 1:01:11.480 in the shade, and we enjoyed a nice lunch like 1:01:11.520 --> 1:01:14.480 in this big like open area where the church is 1:01:14.560 --> 1:01:15.080 sitting there. 1:01:15.280 --> 1:01:16.760 It's like one of the historical spots. 1:01:16.840 --> 1:01:17.040 Yeah. 1:01:17.080 --> 1:01:20.600 Yeah, we're like the oldest cafe sits to where it's 1:01:20.640 --> 1:01:22.760 just like outdoor umbrella. You know, they got the umbrellas, 1:01:22.760 --> 1:01:27.760 they got the seating. Let Scotty run around chase the birds. 1:01:28.240 --> 1:01:31.200 The seagulls that we heard are aggressive. Oh they are 1:01:31.440 --> 1:01:34.080 very Scotty, a little more aggressive. Yeah, even in thirty 1:01:34.080 --> 1:01:37.840 eight the goals are aggressive. They know where oh buddy, yeah, 1:01:37.840 --> 1:01:39.280 I know where they get get picked up from our 1:01:39.320 --> 1:01:41.680 table and it's like birds and seagulls just coming to 1:01:41.720 --> 1:01:44.360 fight over the bread. Yes, no, oh shit, like grabbing 1:01:44.360 --> 1:01:45.280 the kids getting away. 1:01:45.440 --> 1:01:47.800 Jill went into the ocean with Scarlet and the bag 1:01:47.840 --> 1:01:49.880 was unintended and I had like a towel kind of 1:01:49.960 --> 1:01:52.320 laid over me, and I was underneath the umbrella, so 1:01:52.440 --> 1:01:55.160 the birds thought I was sleeping and I saw them 1:01:55.280 --> 1:01:58.360 laying and start working their way yeah over to our bag, 1:01:58.400 --> 1:01:59.320 and I gave them. 1:01:59.200 --> 1:02:05.800 A little He took off real quick. Yeah, my crack 1:02:05.840 --> 1:02:06.480 a cold one. 1:02:07.520 --> 1:02:10.640 Jill and I got to do a date night and dude, 1:02:11.200 --> 1:02:16.520 epic epic date night of like feeling young and like 1:02:16.760 --> 1:02:19.960 hanging out with your beach crush kind of date night. 1:02:20.560 --> 1:02:25.040 It was fun, dude. We took bikes all the way 1:02:25.120 --> 1:02:28.720 from our rent house. We were like way back back 1:02:28.760 --> 1:02:32.360 back by the Public if people have been to thirty 1:02:32.400 --> 1:02:36.240 eight by the Public's grocery store near Watercolor. 1:02:36.800 --> 1:02:37.120 We're in. 1:02:37.360 --> 1:02:41.640 So that's like pretty inland from the beach as far 1:02:41.680 --> 1:02:46.240 as like staying on thirty A. But it makes the 1:02:46.280 --> 1:02:48.320 bike ride that much more fun because you're getting to 1:02:48.320 --> 1:02:51.000 go through all these little trails and stuff to get 1:02:51.000 --> 1:02:54.760 to Seaside. And we took the bike trails like in 1:02:54.800 --> 1:02:57.680 the pitch black and just had our little iPhone flashlights 1:02:58.400 --> 1:03:00.760 as we're going down these little sandy as all the 1:03:00.760 --> 1:03:04.919 way to Gosh, buddn Allies. I was about to say, 1:03:04.920 --> 1:03:07.520 I've been there so many times. To button Allis. We 1:03:07.560 --> 1:03:11.480 went up on the rooftop deck of budonn Allies. It's 1:03:11.520 --> 1:03:14.160 like pitch black, but you can like hear the ocean, 1:03:14.560 --> 1:03:17.400 but you can't really see it. And the date night 1:03:17.600 --> 1:03:20.600 was on July fifth, I believe because there was still 1:03:20.640 --> 1:03:23.640 some fireworks like going off just randomly on the beach. 1:03:23.680 --> 1:03:26.040 There would just be like a little bottle rocket or 1:03:26.080 --> 1:03:29.200 a little artillery shell or like a Roman candle would 1:03:29.240 --> 1:03:34.520 just like go off in the distance. And uh, Jill 1:03:34.560 --> 1:03:35.800 and I a. 1:03:35.720 --> 1:03:36.600 Little cheat code. 1:03:36.600 --> 1:03:39.240 This isn't a dad hack per se, but it could 1:03:39.320 --> 1:03:42.200 be if you're on a budget and you want to 1:03:42.240 --> 1:03:46.200 save a little money for date night. Jill nice is 1:03:46.200 --> 1:03:48.400 a dead heck, it's a dad hack. It's a date heck, 1:03:48.480 --> 1:03:52.280 it's a date hack, dude. Jill was like, because we 1:03:52.320 --> 1:03:54.240 had eaten a little bit before we went out, and 1:03:54.280 --> 1:03:56.720 she was like, hey, the would you want to just 1:03:56.760 --> 1:04:00.120 split the file at? And I was like, yeah, that 1:04:00.160 --> 1:04:02.560 actually sounds pretty good. And then when we ordered the 1:04:02.600 --> 1:04:05.600 file at some of those steak places will be like, hey, 1:04:05.640 --> 1:04:08.680 do you want a lobster tail or a crab cake 1:04:08.760 --> 1:04:11.600 with your file at? It's only this much more. And 1:04:11.640 --> 1:04:14.439 then when we were splitting the crab cake in the flea, 1:04:14.720 --> 1:04:17.040 we ended up getting the crab cake with it. I 1:04:17.040 --> 1:04:19.560 was like, dude, that's the ultimate date hack of all 1:04:19.640 --> 1:04:23.840 time is get the nice, expensive filet and then only 1:04:23.880 --> 1:04:25.840 for a little bit more, you get a whole lobster 1:04:25.920 --> 1:04:28.360 tail or a whole crap cake with it, and then 1:04:28.400 --> 1:04:30.680 you just split that. 1:04:30.680 --> 1:04:31.840 That's basically two. 1:04:31.960 --> 1:04:39.080 You know what I'm saying, ah Nath and dude, it 1:04:39.160 --> 1:04:46.480 was so good just eating those crab cakes, having adult bevies, giggling, dude, 1:04:46.520 --> 1:04:49.160 as we're like riding our bikes back and just like 1:04:49.360 --> 1:04:51.919 all the young energy that's down there. There's a lot 1:04:51.920 --> 1:04:54.040 of families with like kids, but there's a lot of 1:04:54.080 --> 1:04:57.760 teens too, and just all these teens like running around 1:04:57.840 --> 1:05:01.680 and like getting into trouble and flashlights everywhere, and you 1:05:01.880 --> 1:05:05.320 just hear people like in the distance yelling and having 1:05:05.400 --> 1:05:08.040 fun and just like riding down those little trails with 1:05:08.240 --> 1:05:09.360 you know stuff, Dude. 1:05:09.680 --> 1:05:12.640 It was fun. That was like a really solid. 1:05:12.280 --> 1:05:16.880 Day night and just getting to like as much fun 1:05:16.920 --> 1:05:20.680 and dude, as easy as Scarlet takes it on us 1:05:20.840 --> 1:05:21.800 like a. 1:05:22.040 --> 1:05:22.800 Knock on wood. 1:05:22.920 --> 1:05:25.680 It's just like the continued story of Scarlet is just 1:05:26.800 --> 1:05:30.040 she will not stop taking it easy on us. It's crazy, 1:05:30.480 --> 1:05:34.000 Like that's awesome. It's awesome, like the entire vacation. It 1:05:34.080 --> 1:05:38.040 was just like all smiles, all giggles, I want to 1:05:38.040 --> 1:05:40.680 do anything and everything. Oh, we're going to a restaurant. 1:05:40.760 --> 1:05:42.960 I'm not even gonna cry once. I'm just sitting there. 1:05:42.800 --> 1:05:46.120 Like, dude, how blessed are we? This is crazy? 1:05:46.880 --> 1:05:50.200 And getting to see my grandparents or her grandparents interact 1:05:50.240 --> 1:05:52.040 with their that's really cool. 1:05:52.240 --> 1:05:54.760 How h How hot was it out there? It was hot. 1:05:54.840 --> 1:05:57.440 I was gonna say when when we were over in 1:05:57.480 --> 1:05:59.320 Italy and they were like a couple of hot days 1:05:59.360 --> 1:06:01.640 because they had like heat warning stuff in. 1:06:01.840 --> 1:06:02.760 The Italy portion. 1:06:03.320 --> 1:06:06.280 When we were in Austria where the Palers they came 1:06:06.320 --> 1:06:09.520 from Italy before they got to Austria, and they're like, 1:06:09.520 --> 1:06:11.680 hopefully it cools down, because there was like a heat wave. 1:06:11.760 --> 1:06:14.360 Like the Europeans they don't believe in ac very much 1:06:14.680 --> 1:06:18.520 at all, right, so you're kind of sweaty. But we 1:06:18.640 --> 1:06:20.120 fortunately were in a week where it was like in 1:06:20.160 --> 1:06:21.720 the eighties. But I guess the week before was like 1:06:21.720 --> 1:06:23.160 in the nineties and they were having like all these 1:06:23.160 --> 1:06:25.640 heat warnings and everything else. But when I checked the 1:06:26.160 --> 1:06:29.320 weather app for Italy to like look ahead, it first 1:06:29.320 --> 1:06:31.560 popped up on Nashville and I want to say, in 1:06:31.640 --> 1:06:34.840 Nashville last week, did it ever hit one hundred? I 1:06:34.880 --> 1:06:37.120 know it was in like the upper nineties, right, I 1:06:37.160 --> 1:06:39.360 saw it was like that all week long. I was like, fuck, man, 1:06:39.400 --> 1:06:41.920 it is hot. So I'm sure down in Florida it 1:06:41.920 --> 1:06:43.000 was probably hot ast shit too. 1:06:43.320 --> 1:06:43.880 It was super. 1:06:44.200 --> 1:06:47.760 Third of July was ninety seven. I think the feels 1:06:47.800 --> 1:06:50.280 like was like one oh six. When I was on 1:06:50.320 --> 1:06:54.320 the golf course, dying felt good though, Yeah. 1:06:54.160 --> 1:06:56.440 Especially when you get in those shade portions. But yeah, dude, 1:06:56.920 --> 1:07:00.320 that hot man, Like you're like that sticky what Then 1:07:00.320 --> 1:07:01.920 when you get done, you're driving back, you just. 1:07:01.840 --> 1:07:03.840 Feel so goddam you just feel so like, you know, 1:07:03.880 --> 1:07:05.560 I need a shower so bad. 1:07:05.800 --> 1:07:08.560 Now there's a good feeling of like really really hot day, 1:07:08.600 --> 1:07:10.560 whether you go spend all day outside and it is 1:07:10.600 --> 1:07:12.520 that come home and you take me like a four 1:07:12.560 --> 1:07:15.880 o'clock nap to hit the couch after a good shower 1:07:15.960 --> 1:07:17.280 and you just you're out. 1:07:17.480 --> 1:07:19.120 We might be one of the best feelings ever. We 1:07:19.200 --> 1:07:19.640 had that. 1:07:19.600 --> 1:07:21.440 After our Venice day, because that was like, that was 1:07:21.480 --> 1:07:23.440 a long day. We spent all day over there in Venice, 1:07:23.480 --> 1:07:26.080 and then when we're traveling back, we get back. We 1:07:26.120 --> 1:07:28.160 go to dinner right away, like we changed real quick. 1:07:28.200 --> 1:07:30.560 Go to dinner right away. You can tell we're ready 1:07:30.560 --> 1:07:32.760 to get to the bedtime portion and put the kids down, 1:07:32.800 --> 1:07:34.880 and then you just get a moment. Oh yes, Scotty 1:07:35.000 --> 1:07:37.120 was already knocked out, ready to go. Ru wanted to 1:07:37.160 --> 1:07:38.800 see one of the shows, the magic shows that they 1:07:38.840 --> 1:07:41.960 were doing downstairs. But when you hit the shower afterwards 1:07:42.000 --> 1:07:43.640 and then get in the bed, oh that's a. 1:07:43.640 --> 1:07:46.400 Crack cold nothing like it. Incredible. 1:07:46.560 --> 1:07:51.760 My Sunday getting back, We got back on Thursday, came 1:07:51.800 --> 1:07:56.640 into the office Friday. Then Sunday I did this huge mowing. 1:07:56.760 --> 1:07:59.000 I was telling Chef I had this huge mowing day 1:07:59.360 --> 1:08:00.920 because I had a lot of catching up to. 1:08:01.000 --> 1:08:01.360 Dude. 1:08:01.520 --> 1:08:05.520 PG six would have been not happy with the way 1:08:05.560 --> 1:08:09.400 my yard was looking, and I gave it the royal treatment, dude, 1:08:09.400 --> 1:08:11.800 Like I really moved for a long time out in 1:08:11.840 --> 1:08:14.600 the sun. Didn't put any sunblock on, Shame on me. 1:08:15.280 --> 1:08:18.679 But I got that sun kiss dude on Sunday from 1:08:18.680 --> 1:08:21.040 being out like that perfect amount of time where it's 1:08:21.120 --> 1:08:25.120 not like a true sunburn, but like the sun zaps. Yeah, yeah, 1:08:26.160 --> 1:08:29.559 came inside just like Jill let me nap on the couch. 1:08:30.960 --> 1:08:34.040 You hit that cold shower after you've been like outside 1:08:34.080 --> 1:08:36.759 like that. You gotta do it right away, right away. 1:08:37.800 --> 1:08:40.360 But first zap yourself with the hot water. Stop the burn. 1:08:40.520 --> 1:08:41.840 Then the cold water, dude. 1:08:42.240 --> 1:08:44.680 Yeah, because you wait too long in the ac you 1:08:44.680 --> 1:08:45.719 start to get a little cold. 1:08:45.800 --> 1:08:48.400 Yes, yes, Then the idea of a cold shower gonna 1:08:48.439 --> 1:08:51.120 leave your brain a little bit. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 1:08:51.160 --> 1:08:52.559 And then get on the couch. Dude. 1:08:52.880 --> 1:08:56.040 Oh, I'm literally like wincing in my seat right now. 1:08:56.080 --> 1:08:57.760 It was like one of the best naps ever. 1:08:57.880 --> 1:08:59.800 You're not only wincing your seat. I see Deeke over there, 1:08:59.800 --> 1:09:02.240 he's gripping. Oh, he's got something to get off of 1:09:02.280 --> 1:09:02.759 his chest. 1:09:04.320 --> 1:09:08.519 I genuinely was just curious how Bochi went. Oh how well, 1:09:08.560 --> 1:09:09.840 Oh my gosh. 1:09:09.560 --> 1:09:12.560 Dude him as a whole story he did for Scarscar's 1:09:12.560 --> 1:09:15.000 first birthday that his dad almost ruined that I would 1:09:15.000 --> 1:09:16.719 love for him to recap on the show. 1:09:17.479 --> 1:09:20.760 Thank you, dude, Deeke, Thank you okay, dude. 1:09:20.880 --> 1:09:23.720 And by the way, I know, a couple of weeks 1:09:23.760 --> 1:09:25.879 I went by Scarscar did turn one. 1:09:28.800 --> 1:09:33.400 One July third, Happy birthday, Happy belated birthday to scarscar 1:09:34.880 --> 1:09:39.600 first birthday, Dude, you want a dad hack hubachi ubachie. 1:09:39.720 --> 1:09:39.960 Dude. 1:09:40.600 --> 1:09:42.400 It's it's a such a good. 1:09:42.200 --> 1:09:44.559 Meal and it's not the most expensive meal in the world, 1:09:44.880 --> 1:09:47.599 and you feel like you're having fun doing it. And 1:09:47.760 --> 1:09:54.120 Scarlet was losing her her fucking mind, dude the entire time. 1:09:54.280 --> 1:09:57.840 How was she when the fire happened. It was the 1:09:57.960 --> 1:10:01.439 perfect amount of like stoicism in her face where she 1:10:01.600 --> 1:10:05.520 was intrigued and impressed but like really studied. 1:10:05.040 --> 1:10:06.800 It and wasn't scared at all. 1:10:06.960 --> 1:10:10.320 No, and like it was kind of like leaning forward, 1:10:10.400 --> 1:10:13.439 like she was in her high chair and she's leaning 1:10:13.479 --> 1:10:17.759 forward the entire time, looking like this. And then oh, dude, 1:10:17.760 --> 1:10:20.519 this was the other great thing is her word that 1:10:20.600 --> 1:10:24.720 she was fixated on all week was dadad And we're 1:10:24.760 --> 1:10:28.080 staying with my parents, so I look like dad of 1:10:28.120 --> 1:10:33.480 the sentry because every five seconds is just literally dada 1:10:33.840 --> 1:10:37.240 dada like during the hibachi, like and she's looking over 1:10:37.320 --> 1:10:40.680 at me and being like ah, Like a couple of 1:10:40.720 --> 1:10:43.439 times she would squeeze her fists and yell at me, 1:10:44.080 --> 1:10:46.800 so like let me know, like check this shit out, 1:10:46.920 --> 1:10:50.160 check that shit out, dude. He did the fire torches, 1:10:51.160 --> 1:10:54.040 he lit like fire torches on fire and was juggling 1:10:54.080 --> 1:10:57.160 the fire torches and scarlet the entire time, had her 1:10:57.280 --> 1:11:00.719 hands up like this and just wasn't smiling, wasn't screaming, 1:11:00.800 --> 1:11:05.519 and was just locked in watching her enjoy that hibachi meal. Dude, 1:11:05.560 --> 1:11:09.960 like she was truly in hog heaven. And then we 1:11:10.120 --> 1:11:12.160 and I'll get into the story of my dad almost 1:11:12.800 --> 1:11:15.200 he didn't ruined hibachi night, but it's a funny story. 1:11:17.280 --> 1:11:20.800 We forgot to get Scarlett a cake. We forgot to 1:11:20.840 --> 1:11:21.840 get Scarlett a cake. 1:11:22.240 --> 1:11:23.599 And I didn't even. 1:11:23.520 --> 1:11:26.439 Think about it. Jill didn't even think about it. It 1:11:26.520 --> 1:11:28.519 was just a collective everyone forgot. 1:11:28.600 --> 1:11:30.519 Yeah, you go and get a cupcake or something. 1:11:30.640 --> 1:11:33.840 Habachi guy after he does the torches, he goes, all right, 1:11:33.880 --> 1:11:37.080 I'm gonna start cleaning up. I hope you guys had 1:11:37.080 --> 1:11:38.960 a good night, you know, gives us a little bout 1:11:38.960 --> 1:11:42.679 blah blah blah biania, start cleaning up, Please enjoy your meal, 1:11:43.120 --> 1:11:45.880 and goes back to like his truck was one of 1:11:45.920 --> 1:11:49.080 those mobile Hibachi services, so they like come to where 1:11:49.080 --> 1:11:49.679 you're staying. 1:11:49.880 --> 1:11:51.479 Oh shit, that's all Stuard. 1:11:51.520 --> 1:11:56.200 It was so sick and not expensive at all. Like 1:11:56.240 --> 1:11:58.600 you're pretty much kind of paying what you would for 1:11:59.439 --> 1:12:02.840 actual it was just like a twenty dollars service fee 1:12:02.880 --> 1:12:03.400 for the base. 1:12:03.400 --> 1:12:04.840 I was gonna see it maybe like an extra thirty 1:12:04.880 --> 1:12:07.680 bucks on top to come to your house and du 1:12:07.720 --> 1:12:10.680 who bought you? That's awesome? It was so sick. So 1:12:10.840 --> 1:12:12.800 he sneaks off to his truck. We're just kind of 1:12:12.800 --> 1:12:13.240 sitting there. 1:12:14.120 --> 1:12:19.080 He comes around with birthday cake and candle and starts, 1:12:19.439 --> 1:12:22.400 happy birthday to you, and I'm like, oh my god, 1:12:22.960 --> 1:12:26.000 I totally forgot about the cake. Sets that cake in 1:12:26.040 --> 1:12:28.880 front of Scarlet. Scarlett doesn't know how to blow it out, 1:12:28.920 --> 1:12:30.960 so we blow it out for her, but we made 1:12:31.000 --> 1:12:33.400 it like she blew it out, take the candle. 1:12:33.080 --> 1:12:35.679 Out, attacked it. Dude. 1:12:35.720 --> 1:12:37.679 I got some videos, so I'll send to you, Chef. 1:12:38.840 --> 1:12:40.720 I have never been more proud of my daughter in 1:12:40.800 --> 1:12:43.200 my entire life. I've told you on this podcast that 1:12:43.280 --> 1:12:45.400 she does like that little demon voice where she just 1:12:45.640 --> 1:12:50.680 constantly will go like because I do it to her, 1:12:50.720 --> 1:12:52.639 and she'll do it back, and she thinks it's funny. 1:12:53.600 --> 1:12:56.200 When that cake got in front of her, she literally 1:12:56.240 --> 1:13:03.040 started going like an animal over its prey and she 1:13:03.240 --> 1:13:06.680 started throwing her face into the cake She's never had 1:13:06.760 --> 1:13:10.240 cake before in her life, and she knew I throw 1:13:10.320 --> 1:13:12.639 my face in this. She gave it some test kind 1:13:12.680 --> 1:13:16.680 of like yeah, put her mouth on it, and she goes, oh, 1:13:16.760 --> 1:13:19.479 I know how to eat this, and just start slamming 1:13:19.560 --> 1:13:24.840 her face into it and before each time going am um, 1:13:25.439 --> 1:13:27.920 and it's just taking the icing off of this cake 1:13:28.040 --> 1:13:30.240 and looks up at me like she did during the hubachi, 1:13:31.200 --> 1:13:33.240 and the sugar was starting to hit her, like after 1:13:33.320 --> 1:13:36.160 three or four minutes, and she did one of those 1:13:36.240 --> 1:13:38.960 hand clutches and truly like set up. Have you seen 1:13:39.000 --> 1:13:42.759 the cotton candy girl that jiff that's like super famous 1:13:42.840 --> 1:13:45.000 on the internet where the girl has the cotton candy and. 1:13:45.040 --> 1:13:49.400 She's like does that show chef will pull it up? 1:13:49.600 --> 1:13:49.920 I will? 1:13:50.439 --> 1:13:53.479 Scarlet did that like full on sugar rush and looked 1:13:53.479 --> 1:13:58.320 at me and went and like did a warrior scream, 1:13:58.640 --> 1:14:02.040 like look what I just did to this cake. Dad, God, 1:14:02.120 --> 1:14:06.000 I was proud of my daughter. It was incredible. What 1:14:06.160 --> 1:14:09.280 a birthday. It was a birthday. And then the story 1:14:09.360 --> 1:14:12.480 that's so funny, dude, is I was going to do habachi. 1:14:13.680 --> 1:14:15.240 Just is this one with your dad? This is with 1:14:15.320 --> 1:14:15.639 my dad. 1:14:16.040 --> 1:14:18.479 I was going to do Hibachi to surprise my family 1:14:19.840 --> 1:14:24.280 for Scarlett's birthday. Do the mobile Hibachi service. I'm getting 1:14:24.280 --> 1:14:26.560 all this stuff, like, I'm filling out the menu to 1:14:26.680 --> 1:14:29.360 like get all this stuff for it, and all I 1:14:29.479 --> 1:14:33.160 need is the address of the house. And I'm like, Dad, 1:14:33.200 --> 1:14:36.800 what's the address of the rental home? He goes, No, Son, 1:14:36.880 --> 1:14:39.080 you can't send stuff to the rental home. This is 1:14:39.080 --> 1:14:41.519 all via texts. Can't send stuff to the rental home. 1:14:41.920 --> 1:14:44.400 You have to send it to this renting place and 1:14:44.439 --> 1:14:47.360 then you go pick up your package there. I go, Great, 1:14:47.960 --> 1:14:50.320 not looking to send a package. I'm looking for the 1:14:50.640 --> 1:14:51.800 address of the rental home. 1:14:53.240 --> 1:14:55.679 Yeah. Sure, it's kind of like this whole ordeal. 1:14:55.760 --> 1:14:58.920 They really told me they don't want people shipping packages 1:14:59.360 --> 1:15:00.360 because the namehood. 1:15:00.360 --> 1:15:02.720 They don't want any drivers. So it's got to be 1:15:02.840 --> 1:15:07.120 to the to the rental office. Dad. Again, Great, I 1:15:07.360 --> 1:15:10.719 love that. I'm not I'm not sending. Nothing's getting delivered. 1:15:10.840 --> 1:15:12.879 Nothing's getting delivered. I just need the address. 1:15:12.960 --> 1:15:15.960 I need the address for something that I'm wanting to 1:15:16.000 --> 1:15:17.120 do for Scarlett's birthday. 1:15:17.680 --> 1:15:18.280 Well, what is it? 1:15:19.640 --> 1:15:22.280 Okay, So it's a surprise that's going to be for 1:15:22.360 --> 1:15:25.960 Scarlett and the family and I'll let you know on 1:15:26.120 --> 1:15:28.599 the day what it's going to be, but right now 1:15:28.800 --> 1:15:32.320 I'm prepping this. It's a surprise, all right, So if 1:15:32.360 --> 1:15:35.679 I could get that address, that'd be sweet. My mom 1:15:35.800 --> 1:15:39.960 then says there's like three hours of no reply, and 1:15:40.080 --> 1:15:43.759 my mom goes, hey, papasherm we call him. He's also Sherman, 1:15:43.840 --> 1:15:48.000 Hey publisher, can we get that address? Still no reply. 1:15:48.600 --> 1:15:50.640 I'm sitting there talking to Dieg. I'm like, what the 1:15:50.920 --> 1:15:53.680 WTF question mark is going on? Whole day passes, my 1:15:53.800 --> 1:15:56.560 dad doesn't send the address, so I'm still waiting for 1:15:56.680 --> 1:15:58.400 the address of this rent house that we're going to 1:15:58.720 --> 1:16:02.360 and the first text from my dad that next morning. 1:16:02.960 --> 1:16:05.160 Hey, guys, I'm thinking about it could. 1:16:05.000 --> 1:16:08.160 Be fun to do a mobile hibachi service for Scarlett's 1:16:08.200 --> 1:16:13.960 birthday for dinner. They actually can come to your house 1:16:14.600 --> 1:16:17.799 and they can do it. I found this mobile hibachi service. 1:16:18.479 --> 1:16:23.200 It's the exact same one that I was looking to do. Dude, 1:16:23.400 --> 1:16:26.400 I went up to Deeke. I mean, I was not 1:16:26.640 --> 1:16:30.640 actually heated at my dad. I was pissed, though. I 1:16:30.760 --> 1:16:33.920 was pissed because I'm like coming into that age where 1:16:33.920 --> 1:16:36.400 I like I can plan stuff, I can do stuff, 1:16:36.520 --> 1:16:39.240 I'm a dad too. Now, Dad like I can make 1:16:39.280 --> 1:16:43.679 some moves. I'm like, you read my freaking mind, dude, 1:16:43.680 --> 1:16:46.320 and you beat me to the punch. And then at 1:16:46.360 --> 1:16:48.960 that time, my Dad's like, hey, I'll treat you know, 1:16:49.240 --> 1:16:51.040 like this is my idea. I would love to treat 1:16:51.160 --> 1:16:55.000 for dinner. So I'm like, okay, like twist my arm. 1:16:55.240 --> 1:16:56.799 You know this sucks. 1:16:57.320 --> 1:16:59.439 But dude, just getting beat out by your getting out 1:16:59.479 --> 1:17:02.120 daddd by your dad. Isn't that kind of a testament 1:17:02.160 --> 1:17:04.200 to how like father, like son. 1:17:04.360 --> 1:17:06.120 You guys both had the same I would be tripping 1:17:06.160 --> 1:17:09.320 out going Hey we both had great minds, think alike. 1:17:09.439 --> 1:17:10.759 Yeah, great minds, think alike. 1:17:11.000 --> 1:17:13.080 I Also, I was just seeing how much I'm like 1:17:13.200 --> 1:17:17.080 my dad, dude on this trip of worrying for Scarlet. Yeah, 1:17:17.360 --> 1:17:19.600 and I'm trying to really put a button on that 1:17:19.760 --> 1:17:24.120 of like not try not to worry too much with Scarlet. 1:17:24.560 --> 1:17:26.479 And I'm seeing a little bit of my dad come out. 1:17:27.200 --> 1:17:29.960 It was so funny watching my dad because he was 1:17:30.000 --> 1:17:32.320 a worry wart with my brother and I with Scarlet. 1:17:32.400 --> 1:17:36.320 It's times ten. You were talking about the heat. Thank god, 1:17:36.439 --> 1:17:39.280 Jill's a nurse. He told us we couldn't go outside 1:17:39.320 --> 1:17:42.360 one day, Like he told Jill it was too hot 1:17:42.400 --> 1:17:45.680 for us to go outside, and Jill was like, it, no, 1:17:45.840 --> 1:17:49.160 it's not. He's like, it feels like one oh five 1:17:49.240 --> 1:17:51.560 and it's this and blah blah blah, you can't. She 1:17:51.680 --> 1:17:54.000 can't go out to the pool, and Jill's like, she 1:17:54.120 --> 1:17:56.519 absolutely can. She'll be in the shade, she'll be in water, 1:17:57.200 --> 1:17:59.479 so her body temperature will be down. I bring a 1:17:59.520 --> 1:18:02.240 waters so she's gonna be hydrated. I also have fruit 1:18:02.320 --> 1:18:04.400 snacks and she's gonna be eating blah blah blah. She's 1:18:04.400 --> 1:18:07.840 gonna be fine. And my dad is just pacing through 1:18:07.920 --> 1:18:11.040 the kitchen for the next hour thinking that my daughter's 1:18:11.080 --> 1:18:14.320 gonna die of a heat stroke. But then once I'm 1:18:14.360 --> 1:18:17.040 outside and I'm like watching Scarlet in the pool and stuff. 1:18:17.120 --> 1:18:19.720 I've even am kind of to myself like, hey, is 1:18:19.760 --> 1:18:21.559 it too hot for it? Because it you know, blah 1:18:21.560 --> 1:18:23.720 blah blah. I saw the way that Jill had to 1:18:23.760 --> 1:18:25.599 talk my dad down, so I'm like, I don't want 1:18:25.640 --> 1:18:25.800 to be. 1:18:25.840 --> 1:18:28.519 Worry war Dad. I'll chill. Don't need two of them, 1:18:28.600 --> 1:18:30.519 don't need two of them. I'll chill out. 1:18:31.720 --> 1:18:34.880 Jill gott in this golf cart that we rented and 1:18:35.040 --> 1:18:37.040 just put Scarlet in her lap and like buckle the 1:18:37.080 --> 1:18:39.360 seatbelt around Scarlet like in her lap. 1:18:39.680 --> 1:18:42.400 And in my mind, I was like, I don't know how. 1:18:42.360 --> 1:18:45.120 I feel about that, but it's okay, it's okay, everything's 1:18:45.200 --> 1:18:47.439 safe and it'll be fun. I'm driving the golf cart 1:18:47.439 --> 1:18:49.800 and it'll be all right. And my dad comes out 1:18:49.840 --> 1:18:51.720 and like sees that, and I could tell my dad 1:18:51.840 --> 1:18:55.200 was biting his tongue so hard. We pulled out onto 1:18:55.240 --> 1:18:58.000 the main road. My dad, whoa, whoa, wait, what are 1:18:58.040 --> 1:19:00.000 we doing where we just she's not in the baby seat, 1:19:00.360 --> 1:19:03.720 she's on a baby seat. And my mom thankfully was 1:19:03.760 --> 1:19:05.200 there to kind of pat him on the leg and 1:19:05.280 --> 1:19:08.960 be like it's okay, like everything will be good. 1:19:09.080 --> 1:19:11.560 Yeah, I would love to see I would love to 1:19:11.600 --> 1:19:15.000 see your stress level over in Europe, because if you 1:19:15.040 --> 1:19:17.200 get a cab or something, there's not a baby seat, 1:19:17.200 --> 1:19:18.200 you just have him on the lap. 1:19:20.720 --> 1:19:24.560 Dude, you had Scotty in the lap during that wreck. No, no, no, no, 1:19:24.760 --> 1:19:28.720 Scotty was in a car seat. You're talking yeah yeah yeah, yeah, 1:19:28.760 --> 1:19:29.320 yeah yeah. 1:19:29.360 --> 1:19:32.559 Yeah, just in like casual, like you get a cab 1:19:32.680 --> 1:19:34.680 or something like that, or a taxi, you just be 1:19:35.120 --> 1:19:36.599 used to sitting them like on your lap. 1:19:36.920 --> 1:19:38.640 Yeah, first time you're kind of like, oh shit, is 1:19:38.720 --> 1:19:42.320 this is this even legal? Oh? But that's funny. 1:19:42.360 --> 1:19:45.519 I do have a question please for the Papa Shirm story. 1:19:47.280 --> 1:19:49.120 It sounds like this is before you guys went to 1:19:49.680 --> 1:19:53.680 Florida and you were trying to play the bachi. Yes, 1:19:55.479 --> 1:20:00.040 So my question why didn't you just give him a 1:20:00.120 --> 1:20:04.600 shout on the phone when he when he's call up 1:20:04.680 --> 1:20:07.760 day after the second response he gave where everybody with 1:20:07.800 --> 1:20:09.840 their parents would get frustrated because they're doing the thing 1:20:09.960 --> 1:20:12.080 that something's like, hey, I don't need you to tell me, 1:20:12.200 --> 1:20:14.439 I just need the address. When he gives you the 1:20:14.520 --> 1:20:18.759 second reply, why not just when he's trying to explain 1:20:18.800 --> 1:20:20.439 it and you're trying to be like, hey, it's a surprise. 1:20:21.080 --> 1:20:24.120 At that moment you pick up the phone and say, hey, 1:20:25.880 --> 1:20:29.280 I'm doing this thing. Maybe even tell him. 1:20:29.200 --> 1:20:32.240 That about your idea so that way he doesn't get 1:20:32.320 --> 1:20:36.360 to where he quote unquote out there. Yeah, that's a 1:20:36.439 --> 1:20:37.040 good question. 1:20:37.479 --> 1:20:41.800 I would say that that week I was like very 1:20:42.040 --> 1:20:46.760 heavily editing, and my mind was very much heavily on 1:20:47.439 --> 1:20:53.120 editing slash prepping for trip to where I would look 1:20:53.240 --> 1:20:56.240 up and like hours had passed because I was getting 1:20:56.280 --> 1:20:57.559 so blocked into work. 1:20:58.479 --> 1:21:00.680 I don't think it was like a true avoidance of 1:21:00.760 --> 1:21:03.320 my father. It was more so I'm just like, okay, 1:21:03.320 --> 1:21:05.360 I just simply need the address. Let me just send 1:21:05.400 --> 1:21:07.719 me the fucking address. When he did drop the BATCHI 1:21:07.800 --> 1:21:09.320 how did that go? Did you get on the phone 1:21:09.320 --> 1:21:11.560 with him, ma'am? Yeah, and I called him cocksucker. 1:21:11.760 --> 1:21:12.000 Yeah. 1:21:12.200 --> 1:21:15.560 I was like, that was the surprise that I was 1:21:15.640 --> 1:21:18.439 going to do. So that's actually kind of crazy, uh, 1:21:18.920 --> 1:21:23.880 that that happened that way. But you know, he very 1:21:23.960 --> 1:21:26.200 much he doesn't want to step on my toes and 1:21:26.320 --> 1:21:28.600 he doesn't want to He knows that he can be 1:21:28.680 --> 1:21:32.240 a control freak sometimes, yeah, and be a worry ward sometimes. 1:21:33.080 --> 1:21:35.559 And he has done a very good job of allowing 1:21:35.680 --> 1:21:39.080 me to be a dad in places that I need 1:21:39.160 --> 1:21:41.880 to be a dad. And so he was like, oh, well, son, 1:21:43.040 --> 1:21:45.880 you know, if it's I'll set it up, I'll get everything, 1:21:46.120 --> 1:21:48.320 and you just vin moo me like that way, you're 1:21:48.360 --> 1:21:50.760 paying for it. If you want to pay for it, 1:21:51.000 --> 1:21:52.960 you know, I don't want to take that. Like he's 1:21:53.160 --> 1:21:58.040 very much like he does a good job of realizing, hey, 1:21:58.040 --> 1:21:59.920 I don't want to step on my son's toes here. 1:22:00.640 --> 1:22:03.799 Like the Atlanta trip where we're going for the Baylor 1:22:03.800 --> 1:22:08.680 Auburn game, I had like gotten hotel stuff planned out. 1:22:08.760 --> 1:22:11.519 My dad is already booked. 1:22:11.960 --> 1:22:16.759 He's already booked and unbooked four different hotels for the trip, 1:22:17.520 --> 1:22:20.639 and each hotel was like closer and closer to the stadium, 1:22:20.920 --> 1:22:22.640 because I was telling that that the stadium is like 1:22:22.720 --> 1:22:25.000 not the nicest part of town. No offense to Atlanta, 1:22:25.080 --> 1:22:26.760 It's still they're great. 1:22:27.600 --> 1:22:29.439 It's a great city, but. 1:22:30.080 --> 1:22:32.439 There's some other places where I was like, hotels would 1:22:32.439 --> 1:22:35.320 be great. My dad's more convenience wise. I want to 1:22:35.360 --> 1:22:39.120 be directly out of the stadium into a hotel. And 1:22:39.240 --> 1:22:41.600 he's very type A and so once he gets on 1:22:41.680 --> 1:22:46.360 those type A things, starts booking, unbooking, booking unbooking. That's 1:22:46.400 --> 1:22:48.600 when I kind of put my hands up. I go, 1:22:50.400 --> 1:22:52.200 he's going to be a big old ball stress if 1:22:52.240 --> 1:22:55.080 I try and come in here and change stuff. 1:22:55.479 --> 1:22:56.840 I'll let Dad choose the hotel. 1:22:57.840 --> 1:23:00.639 Got you, So that a little bit of that played 1:23:00.760 --> 1:23:04.080 into the Habaji thing, But no, no part of me 1:23:04.280 --> 1:23:06.760 was like truly pissed at him. 1:23:06.840 --> 1:23:10.360 Yeah, if that makes sense, just momentarily. Yeah, because you 1:23:10.400 --> 1:23:13.240 were trying to execute I you're trying to execute. Yeah, 1:23:13.280 --> 1:23:14.320 you simply needed the address. 1:23:14.439 --> 1:23:16.280 I had a huge dad loss by the way, on 1:23:16.439 --> 1:23:21.800 the trip, Yeah, a massive dad loss. We went to 1:23:22.360 --> 1:23:22.960 the dad loss. 1:23:23.040 --> 1:23:26.599 Is that much more fun because this was directly before 1:23:26.920 --> 1:23:30.559 our pictures, our family pictures on the beach. If you've 1:23:30.600 --> 1:23:32.720 ever seen me smiling in a photo, you can know 1:23:32.800 --> 1:23:35.800 when I'm truly smiling and happy in a photo. My 1:23:35.920 --> 1:23:39.160 eyes are very dead in these family photos, and I'll 1:23:39.200 --> 1:23:41.240 send some to Chef where he can put them up. 1:23:42.080 --> 1:23:45.080 I'm forcing a smile in these photos. You can see 1:23:45.120 --> 1:23:47.680 it in you can see it in my eyes. I 1:23:47.760 --> 1:23:48.840 had a major dad loss. 1:23:50.240 --> 1:23:52.880 Please share. Pt. Six is going to fry me on this. 1:23:53.400 --> 1:23:53.840 That's okay. 1:23:55.200 --> 1:23:59.080 When we set up our lease house in spring Hill, Tennessee, 1:24:00.000 --> 1:24:07.320 Property Management Group, some of our utilities are also paid 1:24:07.400 --> 1:24:11.720 through the website that we pay our rent too. 1:24:12.040 --> 1:24:13.120 Okay, okay. 1:24:14.200 --> 1:24:18.799 You set up all your utilities water, gas, and electric, 1:24:18.960 --> 1:24:21.760 it's all three different companies and internet, and you have 1:24:21.880 --> 1:24:25.320 to show proof of all these things to the rental company. 1:24:26.040 --> 1:24:29.160 So in the process of showing proof to the rental 1:24:29.240 --> 1:24:33.360 company that I had set up these services. I had 1:24:33.920 --> 1:24:37.240 put all of these services in my brain that they 1:24:37.360 --> 1:24:41.560 all get paid on this one website. One of the 1:24:41.640 --> 1:24:46.920 services gets paid individually. Well, that would be the electric bill. Oh, 1:24:47.040 --> 1:24:51.200 one of the guests, that would be the electric bill. 1:24:52.479 --> 1:24:56.400 And as we know, wonderful suite, incredible and he can 1:24:56.520 --> 1:25:01.439 land them watch out, ladies. Intern Chris, Yeah, was at 1:25:01.560 --> 1:25:04.639 my house and I got a great text. I'll send 1:25:04.720 --> 1:25:08.040 that as well, the screenshot to chef Hey Sherman. The 1:25:08.160 --> 1:25:10.960 power's out at the house and I'm looking at the 1:25:11.400 --> 1:25:12.160 breaker box. 1:25:12.960 --> 1:25:16.280 I don't know what to do, and he's watching your house. 1:25:16.320 --> 1:25:17.920 He's got the boys over, doesn't. 1:25:17.680 --> 1:25:19.960 He he's got the boys over, he's got my dog's there. 1:25:20.640 --> 1:25:21.760 And the power just goes out. 1:25:21.880 --> 1:25:25.200 And it's in the nineties. Oh in Nashville, Tennessee. Hot. 1:25:25.800 --> 1:25:30.040 It's hot, and we're about thirty seconds from taking family photos. 1:25:30.080 --> 1:25:34.120 And I see that text. I call him instantly. 1:25:34.640 --> 1:25:37.040 I say, hey, can you look at my neighbor's houses 1:25:37.400 --> 1:25:39.360 on either side and across the street and tell me 1:25:39.439 --> 1:25:40.080 if the power's on. 1:25:42.000 --> 1:25:45.439 He goes, oh, yeah, you know, everybody's got their lights on. 1:25:45.560 --> 1:25:48.000 It looks like I go, it's a really good impression. Okay, 1:25:48.080 --> 1:25:51.320 I'll go look. I'll go look, Sherman. You know, Sherman, 1:25:51.360 --> 1:25:53.840 It's fine. This happens all the time at my house 1:25:54.280 --> 1:25:57.040 growing up. We'd lose power all the time. It's really 1:25:57.160 --> 1:26:00.439 no big deal, no big deal. We're just playing UNA 1:26:00.600 --> 1:26:01.320 in the living room. 1:26:01.479 --> 1:26:01.519 No. 1:26:01.920 --> 1:26:06.320 Truthly, he was being so sweet, like, this is literally 1:26:06.760 --> 1:26:07.480 the conversation. 1:26:08.120 --> 1:26:09.720 Do I need to go check the break There's a 1:26:09.800 --> 1:26:11.519 breaker box on the outside of the house. 1:26:11.600 --> 1:26:14.400 I can look at. I go, Chris, it's not that man. Uh, 1:26:14.560 --> 1:26:17.400 let me hold on one second. I hang up, and 1:26:17.479 --> 1:26:20.080 I fucking lost it when I got off the phone 1:26:20.439 --> 1:26:23.840 because it all the dots were connecting. I was like, 1:26:24.160 --> 1:26:27.240 it's got to be power, like the power bill. It's 1:26:27.280 --> 1:26:28.840 got to be that I haven't been paying the power 1:26:28.920 --> 1:26:33.400 bill rather, you know, however I set it up or whatever. 1:26:34.640 --> 1:26:38.640 And so I lost my cool in the moment and 1:26:39.120 --> 1:26:39.360 was like. 1:26:39.720 --> 1:26:41.880 Fuck, dude, why would this happen? 1:26:42.160 --> 1:26:42.200 This? 1:26:42.400 --> 1:26:44.240 Of course, this fucking happens the last day. It was 1:26:44.240 --> 1:26:45.280 our last day of vacation. 1:26:46.400 --> 1:26:48.080 And as I told you all on this podcast before, 1:26:48.200 --> 1:26:50.000 Jill told me, if we ever come back to a 1:26:50.080 --> 1:26:52.080 house without power, I will leave you. 1:26:52.520 --> 1:26:56.280 She gets very angry because Sherman has a sherman has 1:26:56.360 --> 1:26:58.479 made this mistake in the past when we were at 1:26:58.520 --> 1:27:02.640 an apartment complex. Now you like, hey, Sweeter, you might 1:27:02.680 --> 1:27:04.840 get your wish. Yeah, you might get your wish. Honey, 1:27:05.160 --> 1:27:10.400 you get a new man. So I lose my cool 1:27:10.400 --> 1:27:10.880 in the moment. 1:27:11.120 --> 1:27:12.880 Jill has saw me to calm down, but she's also 1:27:13.000 --> 1:27:14.600 saying how embarrassing this is. 1:27:16.760 --> 1:27:17.519 For poor Chris. 1:27:18.880 --> 1:27:21.000 My mom and dad are there, and again I'm always 1:27:21.080 --> 1:27:24.120 trying to illustrate to my dad. I've got it, I've 1:27:24.160 --> 1:27:27.320 got things covered. I'm a dad. Now, I'm a full 1:27:27.360 --> 1:27:30.280 grown ass man. I can handle it. And I could 1:27:30.320 --> 1:27:34.040 tell that Dad was really trying to stay hands off. 1:27:34.360 --> 1:27:37.400 He was like, I do not need to interject in 1:27:37.479 --> 1:27:42.880 this moment. And then realize that the power bill was 1:27:42.960 --> 1:27:45.640 on a separate app that I had to download that 1:27:45.760 --> 1:27:48.320 I remember setting up because this was two months ago 1:27:49.200 --> 1:27:53.120 and I had a fraud alert with my debit card 1:27:53.800 --> 1:27:56.080 at the beginning of June, so this. 1:27:56.200 --> 1:27:56.840 Was a while ago. 1:27:57.680 --> 1:28:00.880 Not realizing when I have that fraudle for those three 1:28:01.000 --> 1:28:05.320 days that I didn't like get it reset with my bank, 1:28:06.000 --> 1:28:10.160 my autopay hit for my power bill on the app. 1:28:11.200 --> 1:28:13.880 When I downloaded that app, I also said, would you 1:28:14.040 --> 1:28:16.679 allow this app to send you a notification? No, because 1:28:16.680 --> 1:28:19.519 I do that with every single app. So the app 1:28:19.560 --> 1:28:22.599 had been sending me notifications since the beginning of June 1:28:22.800 --> 1:28:26.160 of We tried to process your auto pay and the 1:28:26.240 --> 1:28:29.439 bill didn't go through. And so what what was that 1:28:29.640 --> 1:28:33.240 July like seventh or like eighth? 1:28:33.560 --> 1:28:37.800 Yeah, so full month. It was like a sixty dollars bill. Dude, 1:28:38.200 --> 1:28:42.880 that was two hundred and ninety one dollars. Yeah. Did 1:28:42.920 --> 1:28:44.479 you have to call to get it back on? Yeah? 1:28:44.560 --> 1:28:45.680 So so how did this all? 1:28:45.800 --> 1:28:49.560 How the Thankfully to Chef's point, I called Chris. I 1:28:49.640 --> 1:28:53.879 tell Chris, hey, I fucked up majorly. This is the situation. 1:28:56.280 --> 1:28:58.760 Just paid the bill. I'm going to try calling the 1:28:58.800 --> 1:29:01.760 company da da du Hang tight, We're gonna get you 1:29:01.840 --> 1:29:03.960 a hotel room. We're gonna put you in a hotel. 1:29:05.560 --> 1:29:07.720 And he, of course, Chris is, I can just go 1:29:07.880 --> 1:29:10.120 back to my place with with your dogs. I just 1:29:10.200 --> 1:29:12.360 take him because he's got his own place in Tennessee. 1:29:13.600 --> 1:29:15.519 I was like, no, Chris, where like, we don't want 1:29:15.560 --> 1:29:17.680 you drive in, you know, with the dogs and all 1:29:17.720 --> 1:29:20.000 that stuff. There's a hotel right down the road that 1:29:20.120 --> 1:29:23.280 you can go and come back on. I hang up 1:29:23.320 --> 1:29:25.800 with him, and I go trying to find the number 1:29:25.960 --> 1:29:30.679 of this power company because it's seven pm. Power place 1:29:30.760 --> 1:29:34.880 is closed. I'm getting voicemails. I'm like, God, I'm cooked. 1:29:35.040 --> 1:29:37.080 This is the part where I'm really freaking out, the 1:29:37.520 --> 1:29:41.040 part that was a huge dad loss, because Jill's just 1:29:41.120 --> 1:29:46.000 watching me unravel in this moment. And thank god, spring Hill, 1:29:46.040 --> 1:29:49.120 Tennessee has an auto system that right when you pay 1:29:49.520 --> 1:29:51.960 it comes back on in like ten minutes. So as 1:29:52.040 --> 1:29:55.000 I'm like calling all these numbers that I'm trying to 1:29:55.040 --> 1:29:57.120 find for this power company, I just get a text 1:29:57.160 --> 1:29:59.680 from Chris and it's like, let there be light and all. 1:30:00.160 --> 1:30:03.640 So I'm like, oh my god, you're kidding. He was like, 1:30:04.000 --> 1:30:06.680 oh yeah, everything's back on. Everything's good, and dah dah dah. 1:30:06.720 --> 1:30:12.160 I was like, oh my gosh. So Jill really chalked 1:30:12.200 --> 1:30:15.840 it up to, Hey, all that stress, all that dog 1:30:15.920 --> 1:30:18.400 cussing that you're doing, all that bad attitude that you 1:30:18.560 --> 1:30:22.519 had that you went into our family pictures with, and 1:30:22.640 --> 1:30:25.800 then we get out of family pictures and you're able 1:30:25.880 --> 1:30:29.920 to resolve it in twenty minutes, and like, I don't 1:30:29.920 --> 1:30:33.200 want to see, like, don't unravel in moments of stress, 1:30:33.560 --> 1:30:36.479 like be a problem solver and just solve the issue 1:30:36.520 --> 1:30:39.920 at hand. You complaining about it is not going to 1:30:40.000 --> 1:30:43.200 fix anything, especially in front of your daughter, in front 1:30:43.240 --> 1:30:46.160 of me, in front of your parents, Like you could 1:30:46.160 --> 1:30:49.080 have handled that way better. Yeah, because I lost my cool. 1:30:50.000 --> 1:30:51.880 You could see it in my face and the family pigs. 1:30:51.960 --> 1:30:52.640 I was not having it. 1:30:52.920 --> 1:30:55.519 Dead in the eyes, dead in the eyes. Still great 1:30:55.600 --> 1:30:57.800 family pigs because Scarlet and Jill look so cute and 1:30:57.880 --> 1:30:58.800 sweet on the beach. 1:30:58.960 --> 1:31:04.000 Yeah, they're looking at you, looking at the family the ladies. Yeah. Yeah, 1:31:04.120 --> 1:31:05.840 that's a tough that's a tough l. It was a 1:31:06.160 --> 1:31:08.160 tough l in front of the people that you love. 1:31:08.080 --> 1:31:10.280 That you wanted to prove you got it, your grown 1:31:10.320 --> 1:31:13.320 ass man, grown ass man that doesn't know how to 1:31:13.360 --> 1:31:14.080 pay the power bill. 1:31:19.320 --> 1:31:19.479 Hey. 1:31:19.680 --> 1:31:21.439 I asked Chris if he let you know and how 1:31:21.479 --> 1:31:23.240 he let you know? Because I did alarm him that 1:31:23.439 --> 1:31:25.840 like this is a situation in which your wife could 1:31:25.920 --> 1:31:28.799 leave you. Yeah yeah, he said he did you justice 1:31:28.800 --> 1:31:29.679 and everything was okay. 1:31:30.560 --> 1:31:30.840 Justice. 1:31:30.960 --> 1:31:32.600 Yeah, But then I asked him about posting all the 1:31:32.640 --> 1:31:34.760 videos online. He's like, well, I didn't think of that one. 1:31:35.560 --> 1:31:38.400 Oh yeah, well, Jill doesn't have Twitter, so he so 1:31:38.560 --> 1:31:42.320 he is fine. And no point that I think grace 1:31:43.200 --> 1:31:46.439 was served by Chris. He could not have been more 1:31:46.560 --> 1:31:48.360 gracious in that moment. 1:31:49.240 --> 1:31:49.519 Truly. 1:31:49.640 --> 1:31:51.800 If somebody's gonna be staying at your house and watching 1:31:51.840 --> 1:31:54.960 your house and your power go out, you want Chris 1:31:55.040 --> 1:31:55.559 in that house. 1:31:55.760 --> 1:31:57.800 It's Chris. You want to entered. 1:31:57.920 --> 1:31:58.120 Chris. 1:31:58.400 --> 1:32:01.360 Chris is a sweetheart heart. He was talking a little 1:32:01.360 --> 1:32:03.200 bit of ship on the vacation. I was kind of 1:32:03.240 --> 1:32:05.880 crapped on Will a little bit. Oh he did, he's 1:32:06.200 --> 1:32:07.200 taking an end zone. 1:32:07.040 --> 1:32:07.840 But it wasn't a good one. 1:32:08.520 --> 1:32:08.720 Yeah. 1:32:08.960 --> 1:32:10.280 He did about the resorts. 1:32:10.600 --> 1:32:14.800 Yeah, he was like, uh, what was it seemed judgmental 1:32:14.920 --> 1:32:16.920 on his just from the get go. He saw the 1:32:16.960 --> 1:32:17.679 first photos. 1:32:17.760 --> 1:32:19.439 Yeah, he saw the first couple of things that Will 1:32:19.560 --> 1:32:21.800 was posting, and he was just like I just thought, like, 1:32:22.479 --> 1:32:24.599 you're spending two weeks in Europe and you're not leaving 1:32:24.640 --> 1:32:25.160 the resort. 1:32:25.920 --> 1:32:30.320 Yeah, so resorts and yeah, fair question, like he doesn't 1:32:30.360 --> 1:32:32.680 know what he doesn't know? He's walking with Wamas. Why 1:32:32.800 --> 1:32:35.240 is he doing that? Yeah, like, oh, they're not going 1:32:35.320 --> 1:32:38.080 to leave the resort. Why you come to Disney and 1:32:38.160 --> 1:32:42.759 then now you're in a resort there. Yeah, it's probably 1:32:42.800 --> 1:32:43.600 more expensive. 1:32:44.240 --> 1:32:46.800 And he's a you know, he's innocent, he doesn't know 1:32:46.920 --> 1:32:50.599 he's a he's a goon beret. He's a goom beret. 1:32:50.720 --> 1:32:52.519 And I kind of just asked him questions and let 1:32:52.600 --> 1:32:54.400 him talk most of the time. And it's like, well, 1:32:54.479 --> 1:32:56.240 that's an interesting take. I appreciate you. 1:32:56.360 --> 1:32:58.559 And get to the answer too. And he's like, well 1:32:59.040 --> 1:33:01.160 then you know, you posted other stuff and I'm like, okay, 1:33:01.160 --> 1:33:02.040 they're doing I'm like, so. 1:33:02.080 --> 1:33:06.120 You're just judging the vacation a whole time, which again 1:33:06.640 --> 1:33:09.000 I'm like, Chris, what would you He's like, you know, 1:33:09.160 --> 1:33:11.519 we go backpacking or get you know, go out and about, 1:33:11.600 --> 1:33:12.360 and yeah. 1:33:12.240 --> 1:33:13.479 I'm like, well, yeah, we've done it. 1:33:13.600 --> 1:33:16.400 We did a bunch of stuff like day excursions, like 1:33:17.479 --> 1:33:20.479 you know, two different days at each different spot. We're out, 1:33:21.439 --> 1:33:24.439 we're out going, we're out exploring, like we're out doing stuff. 1:33:24.920 --> 1:33:26.720 Not that I got to defend my position, but I'm 1:33:26.800 --> 1:33:29.400 curious and fascinated. Like, Okay, so you got some judgment 1:33:29.439 --> 1:33:31.280 going on on a two week vacation out in Italy, 1:33:31.720 --> 1:33:34.600 which is fair because he also brought up which I 1:33:34.680 --> 1:33:38.760 know parents and people have the question in their mind, 1:33:38.880 --> 1:33:42.880 like why go on trips if the kids aren't going 1:33:42.960 --> 1:33:43.479 to remember. 1:33:44.240 --> 1:33:45.679 It's like your story at the beach where you're. 1:33:45.560 --> 1:33:47.599 Telling Scarlet, I'm showing her where I'm going, us going 1:33:47.640 --> 1:33:49.840 to Italy, Like there is a part of you. It's like, oh, 1:33:49.880 --> 1:33:53.000 they're not going to remember the vacation. But I feel 1:33:53.040 --> 1:33:55.920 like what's valuable and this can be like the the 1:33:57.120 --> 1:33:59.400 like the lesson, the lesson of the week. But I'm 1:33:59.439 --> 1:33:59.960 thinking of my head. 1:34:00.000 --> 1:34:01.680 I kind of like Chris talk and I'm not like 1:34:01.800 --> 1:34:03.760 responding to him back, and I'm kind of busting his 1:34:03.840 --> 1:34:05.720 balls because of spress. You know, he's trying to walk back. 1:34:05.760 --> 1:34:07.519 I see you guys. It seemed like an A plus. 1:34:07.600 --> 1:34:09.479 It was like an awesome you know, nine out of ten, 1:34:09.560 --> 1:34:10.679 ten out of ten vacation. 1:34:11.800 --> 1:34:12.800 I'm like, well, yea, it was. 1:34:12.880 --> 1:34:15.840 It was a phenomenal vacation. I think the trip like 1:34:16.360 --> 1:34:17.439 traveling with your kiddos. 1:34:18.080 --> 1:34:18.679 I asked Chris. 1:34:18.760 --> 1:34:21.880 I'm like, hey, if you and your wife want to travel, 1:34:22.000 --> 1:34:23.880 like my wife a core value of hers that Like 1:34:23.960 --> 1:34:26.080 when I think about my wife, I think of adventure. 1:34:26.160 --> 1:34:27.200 She loves to travel. 1:34:27.320 --> 1:34:29.639 I'm more of a like a home body, even though 1:34:29.960 --> 1:34:31.960 I would say evidence wise, Willie see might be the 1:34:32.000 --> 1:34:36.439 most traveled in the office. But with Charro I see adventure. 1:34:36.560 --> 1:34:39.439 She wants to vacate. She wants to go and see 1:34:39.479 --> 1:34:41.439 the world. She wants to go and just see stuff 1:34:41.560 --> 1:34:45.920 and explore and experience. And she's also firm on she 1:34:46.040 --> 1:34:48.599 doesn't want the kids to hold us back on doing 1:34:48.680 --> 1:34:51.560 things just because we have kids. Like I get like 1:34:51.640 --> 1:34:53.240 from Chris to standpoint, you can do a lot of 1:34:53.280 --> 1:34:55.120 stuff around America, which we have done a lot of 1:34:55.120 --> 1:34:57.800 stuff around America, but Charlie also wants to get international. 1:34:58.320 --> 1:35:00.800 Do some of the noses going to be No, it's 1:35:00.800 --> 1:35:03.160 going to be exhausting, but still wants to choose, like, 1:35:03.320 --> 1:35:05.559 let's go to these other parts of the world because 1:35:05.560 --> 1:35:07.439 she wants to see them. She'll love for the kids 1:35:07.439 --> 1:35:12.200 who experience them and for the for people that think, like, well, yeah, 1:35:12.280 --> 1:35:13.479 but they're also not going to remember. 1:35:13.640 --> 1:35:14.240 That's fair. 1:35:14.800 --> 1:35:18.120 But I don't think. I don't think the trip's value 1:35:18.760 --> 1:35:22.760 is in memory as much as it is also in capacity. Yeah, 1:35:22.800 --> 1:35:24.519 Like I feel like something I take away from it, 1:35:24.640 --> 1:35:26.680 like when I think on it is like the kid 1:35:26.800 --> 1:35:30.960 that travels, you know, that's on has taken ten different flights, 1:35:31.280 --> 1:35:34.439 has eaten different foods in different parts of the country, 1:35:34.600 --> 1:35:37.080 different parts of the world. The kid that's that's sleeped 1:35:37.120 --> 1:35:40.519 in unfamiliar beds and unfamiliar settings. I feel like it 1:35:41.080 --> 1:35:44.840 cultivates a different baseline for kids who don't or for 1:35:44.960 --> 1:35:48.160 parents and people who don't travel for where like for example, 1:35:48.240 --> 1:35:50.800 like when we got back, Ru this morning wants to 1:35:50.920 --> 1:35:53.800 like make her breakfast now because every breakfast you'd go, 1:35:53.880 --> 1:35:55.920 you go downstairs, you'd go whether they have a little 1:35:55.920 --> 1:35:59.760 buffet or a little menu to select from. Ru's exploring 1:35:59.840 --> 1:36:01.479 the I want to go and get her orange juice 1:36:01.520 --> 1:36:03.080 on her own, going to get her food on he all. 1:36:03.160 --> 1:36:05.040 She's very independent, wants to do things on her own. 1:36:05.360 --> 1:36:07.080 So this morning she's like, Dad, I want to make 1:36:07.120 --> 1:36:09.240 my yogurt. Can you get out my kid's knife and 1:36:09.320 --> 1:36:12.560 my kid's cutting board. I want to cut the strawberries. 1:36:12.680 --> 1:36:14.719 You want to do these different things to where there's 1:36:14.800 --> 1:36:16.800 like her sense of wonder and her sense of like 1:36:16.960 --> 1:36:19.320 doing different things. She's not bringing it back because she 1:36:19.479 --> 1:36:23.200 remembers now that, hey, I did these things over over 1:36:23.600 --> 1:36:26.679 in Europe, like I want to do my own confidence. Yeah, 1:36:26.680 --> 1:36:29.519 it builds confidence, It builds like you know, a lot 1:36:29.600 --> 1:36:33.439 of the like the episodic memories that they're gonna have. Yeah, 1:36:33.520 --> 1:36:35.880 she's not gonna have those, but a lot of like 1:36:36.040 --> 1:36:38.040 the trips and everything else. I feel like a kid's 1:36:38.120 --> 1:36:42.080 understanding of identity in family, identity is the patterns and 1:36:42.200 --> 1:36:45.479 repetition that they have doing other things to where that'll 1:36:45.560 --> 1:36:48.080 be kind of cultivated in them that they will have 1:36:48.320 --> 1:36:50.439 for themselves as they get into the next phase of 1:36:50.479 --> 1:36:53.240 their life, even though they might not remember the trip 1:36:53.320 --> 1:36:55.599 to Italy, the fascination I have, which I love when 1:36:55.600 --> 1:36:57.679 I listen to your story about you talking to Scarlet, 1:36:57.720 --> 1:36:59.760 about you having all these memories and love for that 1:37:00.240 --> 1:37:02.920 the beach, whether or not, I mean, she's one, she's 1:37:02.920 --> 1:37:06.080 gonna remember that conversation or not. The idea and hope 1:37:06.880 --> 1:37:09.040 is something I told Chris. I was like, one day, 1:37:09.120 --> 1:37:12.160 I hope, I hope we cultivate something with my kids 1:37:12.240 --> 1:37:14.639 to where when their parents they want to go back 1:37:14.720 --> 1:37:16.720 to some of these spots that we visited, that they 1:37:16.760 --> 1:37:19.599 see photos in that they went and visited when mom 1:37:19.640 --> 1:37:21.479 and dad took them to those places, that they want 1:37:21.520 --> 1:37:23.760 to take their kids to it and remember like, oh 1:37:23.840 --> 1:37:25.840 my mom and dad, we did this photo in this 1:37:26.120 --> 1:37:30.320 place and now they're giving it to their children and 1:37:30.960 --> 1:37:33.800 to the point because again you can just call it what. 1:37:33.880 --> 1:37:34.120 It is. 1:37:34.640 --> 1:37:38.880 Very exhausting, it is expensive, it is fucking chaos. But 1:37:39.120 --> 1:37:41.800 choosing to do like letting our kids know, we choose 1:37:41.880 --> 1:37:44.439 to do these big, hard things with each other because 1:37:44.439 --> 1:37:47.000 again it's like when it's just you four, or when 1:37:47.000 --> 1:37:48.600 it's just you and the family and you're in the 1:37:48.640 --> 1:37:51.320 middle of that chaos, that shit is fucking hard, that 1:37:51.439 --> 1:37:54.200 shit is difficult, but you are doing it together like 1:37:54.320 --> 1:37:55.880 the whole thet strength of the wolf is in the pack, 1:37:55.920 --> 1:37:57.280 and the strength of the pack is in the wolf, 1:37:57.600 --> 1:37:59.519 like you are cultivating a lot of these things with 1:37:59.640 --> 1:38:02.000 your family. So those are a lot of the takeaways 1:38:02.000 --> 1:38:05.680 that I almost you're almost when I sit and try 1:38:05.760 --> 1:38:08.240 to reflect on it in like the hard moments when 1:38:08.280 --> 1:38:12.720 we are on vacation of just having that perspective. I 1:38:12.840 --> 1:38:14.559 know there was one moment which is like a crack 1:38:14.600 --> 1:38:16.760 a cold one with Charo to where we were sitting 1:38:16.760 --> 1:38:19.360 there by the pool. We were having a moment to 1:38:19.400 --> 1:38:21.439 read your boy, by the way, whether you want to 1:38:21.439 --> 1:38:24.280 include audiobooks or not, two and a half books down, Hey, 1:38:24.400 --> 1:38:28.639 come on, yeah, yeah, one read one listen to one 1:38:28.640 --> 1:38:31.240 and a half Listen to come On. But we were 1:38:31.240 --> 1:38:33.320 sitting there reading pull Side because the kids were in 1:38:33.400 --> 1:38:36.799 the kids club where they're like playing, they're doing alto crafts, 1:38:36.840 --> 1:38:38.400 they're doing all these things to where mom and dad 1:38:38.439 --> 1:38:41.519 can have a moment and she's like, we're doing a babe, 1:38:41.520 --> 1:38:42.920 and I just look over at it and I'm. 1:38:42.760 --> 1:38:45.080 Just like, dude, we really fucking are just doing it. 1:38:45.640 --> 1:38:48.120 Like this shit is hard, and sometimes I like resent, 1:38:48.280 --> 1:38:50.439 Like I like resent you for it because we're in 1:38:50.479 --> 1:38:53.400 those moments of suck and I know you're leaning on 1:38:53.520 --> 1:38:55.160 me and I'm leaning on you, and I know you 1:38:55.320 --> 1:38:57.880 have to take a lot of the brunt of the 1:38:58.000 --> 1:39:01.680 kiddohs because they're just it's mom a lot. I was like, 1:39:01.760 --> 1:39:05.839 but it is cool because if it was just me leading, 1:39:06.560 --> 1:39:08.760 there would be a lot of the reasons that I 1:39:08.800 --> 1:39:11.360 would have to wait to travel would be, you know, 1:39:11.479 --> 1:39:14.680 you're chasing the next thing ambitiously career wise. Hey, once 1:39:14.720 --> 1:39:16.320 we get to this dollar amount, or once we get 1:39:16.360 --> 1:39:18.760 to this status, or once we get to this position. 1:39:18.840 --> 1:39:20.360 Then we can look back and travel. 1:39:20.720 --> 1:39:22.479 But the fact that we've knocked out a lot of 1:39:22.560 --> 1:39:24.560 these different spots that Charles wanted to go see and 1:39:24.680 --> 1:39:27.200 do and take our kids to and how much experience 1:39:27.200 --> 1:39:29.800 our kids have had in airports and traveling and doing 1:39:29.880 --> 1:39:32.240 things to where you got to You gotta be durable, 1:39:32.280 --> 1:39:33.960 You got to be like pliable and learn on the 1:39:34.040 --> 1:39:36.960 fly and be fluid, and shit's going to be rocky 1:39:37.040 --> 1:39:39.840 at times. But the fact that we are choosing to 1:39:39.920 --> 1:39:41.920 do those things, it's like, it is sick that we're 1:39:42.000 --> 1:39:45.280 just out here right now in Italy. Yeah, reading a 1:39:45.320 --> 1:39:47.439 book next to the pool, and our kiddos are just 1:39:47.520 --> 1:39:48.320 having a blast. 1:39:49.080 --> 1:39:52.719 It's like those action movies or those spy movies where 1:39:52.920 --> 1:39:55.639 you'll have like the two spies or the two action 1:39:55.800 --> 1:39:57.840 heroes with you out there and they be like, hey, 1:39:57.920 --> 1:40:01.640 remember Portugal, Like, oh god, we're not doing Portugal, are we? 1:40:02.320 --> 1:40:03.160 Yeah, we're doing it. 1:40:03.280 --> 1:40:06.120 And then they're like, do some crazy motorcycle jump. Hey, 1:40:06.840 --> 1:40:09.080 that is like what you're doing with Trial right now, 1:40:09.200 --> 1:40:15.160 is you're like building that callous if you will of like, hey, 1:40:15.280 --> 1:40:17.400 remember the ship we went through in Venice. 1:40:17.200 --> 1:40:18.120 Due to thousand percent. 1:40:18.280 --> 1:40:20.960 And then when the kiddos get old enough and you 1:40:21.080 --> 1:40:23.320 can give them shits for how hard it was with 1:40:23.400 --> 1:40:25.520 them in those moments and laughing about. 1:40:26.120 --> 1:40:29.080 We can handle this because this doesn't even touch the 1:40:29.200 --> 1:40:33.080 car wreck in the fucking Alps and having to figure 1:40:33.120 --> 1:40:33.960 all that stuff out. 1:40:34.080 --> 1:40:34.839 This is easy. 1:40:35.200 --> 1:40:39.000 Yeah, it's good for the parents too, and great minds 1:40:39.160 --> 1:40:43.320 think alike. Will my lesson of the week, Take your 1:40:43.400 --> 1:40:48.040 kids on adventures big or small. Let's go, dude, big 1:40:48.200 --> 1:40:52.640 or small. I put bike rides, fishing hikes, swimming, a 1:40:52.760 --> 1:40:55.760 late snack trip before bed, a beautiful spot to watch 1:40:55.840 --> 1:41:00.320 the sunrise or sunset. Just those little adventures so you 1:41:00.439 --> 1:41:03.719 can take if you're on a budget, or the bigger 1:41:03.760 --> 1:41:06.880 adventures of like a vacation, take your kids on those, 1:41:07.479 --> 1:41:11.559 because it dude, being a counselor at a summer camp 1:41:11.720 --> 1:41:14.479 and seeing the kids that we would go on these 1:41:14.600 --> 1:41:18.280 like week long truly, like week long canoe trips down 1:41:18.320 --> 1:41:22.280 the White River in Arkansas, and you can see it 1:41:22.439 --> 1:41:26.160 in the kids that have been out doing hikes and 1:41:26.280 --> 1:41:27.760 doing all that stuff. And you put them in a 1:41:27.840 --> 1:41:30.559 canoe and you hand them an ore and they're like, okay, yeah, 1:41:31.120 --> 1:41:33.200 like I could do I could do a canoe. You 1:41:33.280 --> 1:41:35.360 hand them a fishing pole, They're already got the worm 1:41:35.439 --> 1:41:38.920 halfway on the hook. You're like, kiddo's got it. Yeah, 1:41:39.479 --> 1:41:41.760 he's got it. Even if he's ever fished before, he 1:41:41.880 --> 1:41:43.559 gets it. He knows what he needs to be doing. 1:41:43.880 --> 1:41:45.400 He's got it. And then you got the other kids. 1:41:45.920 --> 1:41:49.960 I'm wet, I'm wet. You're like, yeah, dude, you're wet. 1:41:50.000 --> 1:41:53.680 You're outside. Welcome to the outdoors, you know what I mean. Like, 1:41:54.320 --> 1:41:56.680 it builds a lot of character, and it builds a 1:41:56.760 --> 1:42:01.400 lot of experience for kiddos and does little adventures right. 1:42:01.360 --> 1:42:02.479 In that confidence aspect too. 1:42:02.520 --> 1:42:03.960 I know there were a few times where we're leaving, 1:42:04.080 --> 1:42:05.560 you know, we drop them off a kid's clip for 1:42:05.600 --> 1:42:07.880 a couple hours, and they'd be kind of beside themselves, 1:42:07.960 --> 1:42:11.400 kind of sad. Scotty would just Scotty was tough. Hey, Ru, 1:42:11.560 --> 1:42:13.680 Rue was being a great big sister. Say sweet up 1:42:13.720 --> 1:42:16.920 before you go playing in your area. It'd be sick 1:42:16.920 --> 1:42:18.599 if you could say in this baby area right now. 1:42:18.720 --> 1:42:20.960 To help Scotty just adapt and know mom and dad 1:42:21.120 --> 1:42:22.560 is going to be gone, and you just you be 1:42:22.680 --> 1:42:25.000 her friend, like yeah, be the familiar face for her, 1:42:25.439 --> 1:42:27.840 because again, they're around kids where it's like other languages, 1:42:28.000 --> 1:42:30.040 other stuff. Ru'd come out of it and tell us 1:42:30.080 --> 1:42:32.960 about one friend that she made, and again it's like 1:42:33.400 --> 1:42:36.000 over there in Europe they know about four or five 1:42:36.120 --> 1:42:38.720 different languages at a time. It makes me feel like 1:42:39.800 --> 1:42:41.599 us just knowing English, it makes me want to learn 1:42:41.600 --> 1:42:44.040 a new language. But it's fascinating to me that the 1:42:44.080 --> 1:42:47.000 Europeans can just be fluid in all of these different languages. 1:42:47.400 --> 1:42:49.840 But to know you're you come out of it, and 1:42:49.920 --> 1:42:51.920 Rue tells you about a friend she made, and just 1:42:52.000 --> 1:42:55.040 the confidence that I feel like Ru has garnered from 1:42:55.439 --> 1:42:58.160 stuff like that, Like she now looks at waiters and 1:42:58.160 --> 1:43:00.639 waitresses wants to tell her tell them what her order 1:43:00.720 --> 1:43:02.560 is when she used to be very shy about that. 1:43:03.400 --> 1:43:05.160 And even something as simple as wake enough to go 1:43:05.280 --> 1:43:07.360 see a sunrise and stuff like that, to where you 1:43:07.400 --> 1:43:08.960 got to get them up early. They don't really know 1:43:09.040 --> 1:43:10.880 they're complaining they're doing this, dude, I just want to 1:43:10.920 --> 1:43:12.880 take you to go watch the SunFest sept forst say 1:43:12.920 --> 1:43:14.320 it's gonna be worth it, It's gonna be worth it. 1:43:14.600 --> 1:43:16.320 Then you get there, you watch the sunrise. Maybe it's 1:43:16.360 --> 1:43:18.439 not even they're doing things where it doesn't feel like 1:43:18.479 --> 1:43:20.920 it's worth it, but just going through those little moments 1:43:21.479 --> 1:43:26.840 of friction to start to create patterns and repetition for 1:43:27.080 --> 1:43:29.759 whether they're gonna remember it or not, like it will serve. 1:43:30.040 --> 1:43:31.920 It's going to serve not only you, but serve them, 1:43:32.000 --> 1:43:33.960 serve the family, serve all of that stuff. 1:43:33.760 --> 1:43:37.200 So and help give them some identity in themselves of 1:43:37.840 --> 1:43:39.479 you know, I don't know if I can do this. 1:43:39.760 --> 1:43:42.200 What are you talking about? When you were do you 1:43:42.320 --> 1:43:45.720 not remember and Italy when you went down the red slide? Yeah, 1:43:45.800 --> 1:43:47.800 that red slide's way bigger than this thing. 1:43:48.040 --> 1:43:49.280 Yeah, oh yeah, you're. 1:43:49.200 --> 1:43:53.000 Right that, Oh sweetheart, This forty minutes is gonna fly by. Hey, 1:43:53.040 --> 1:43:54.920 a little bit ago, it was two hundred minutes when 1:43:54.920 --> 1:43:56.800 we were gonna get there. You took a nap. One 1:43:56.840 --> 1:43:58.960 hundred minutes went away. If you lay your head down now, 1:43:59.040 --> 1:43:59.920 maybe you'll sleep through the red. 1:44:00.840 --> 1:44:02.200 Just be patient. We're gonna get there soon. 1:44:02.360 --> 1:44:05.880 Just all of this stuff that is fucking exhausting in 1:44:06.000 --> 1:44:08.479 the moment, it's just it's like embracing the fucking suck 1:44:08.640 --> 1:44:11.879 like the good dude it is because. 1:44:12.320 --> 1:44:16.880 We go ahead. I'm just gonna say, we're also the same, 1:44:17.040 --> 1:44:18.960 like I know me, I'll sit there back. Yeah, why 1:44:19.080 --> 1:44:23.800 do we like? This stuff is exhaust hell. 1:44:24.120 --> 1:44:27.560 Getting Scarlet to the beach, just getting her to the 1:44:27.800 --> 1:44:30.400 beach ship, all the things you gotta take and car. 1:44:30.400 --> 1:44:31.280 And be prepared for. 1:44:31.520 --> 1:44:35.439 Will shout out Jill, shout out Jill, like just love you, honey, 1:44:35.479 --> 1:44:38.639 and you're an absolute demon on getting stuff prepped. 1:44:39.240 --> 1:44:40.240 A true sick out. 1:44:40.400 --> 1:44:42.200 I'll be standing there like, oh, we just need the 1:44:42.240 --> 1:44:45.160 water bottles and a couple of snacks. Let's hit the voicemails. 1:44:45.160 --> 1:44:46.400 Six and one the dads you want to call in 1:44:46.520 --> 1:44:49.040 leave a story, event, win, lost whatever. Six on one 1:44:49.080 --> 1:44:51.599 of the dad's call evil voicemail. Well, I'm worried about 1:44:51.600 --> 1:44:53.439 this first one. I just saw the title of it. 1:44:54.320 --> 1:44:56.679 I'm not gonna spoil it. I'm just gonna hit play. Okay, 1:44:57.560 --> 1:45:02.799 this is not gonna be good boys. 1:45:03.720 --> 1:45:06.960 Cole Lighter and Calling from the Great White North Rocky 1:45:07.080 --> 1:45:11.519 Mountain House, Alberta, Canada. A little late to the party, 1:45:11.600 --> 1:45:14.759 but I had to tell this story because my wife 1:45:14.840 --> 1:45:20.200 forgot Father's Day. Sunday night or Sunday morning, I guess. 1:45:20.880 --> 1:45:23.160 Wife comes in at five point thirty in the morning, 1:45:23.280 --> 1:45:26.160 baby monitor in hand to ask me to get up 1:45:26.200 --> 1:45:30.879 with our daughter. So of course I get up. No problems, 1:45:31.680 --> 1:45:34.120 nothing like going to watch a little Sunday Morning. Miss 1:45:34.320 --> 1:45:36.760 Rachel learning how to count again because I'm a oil 1:45:36.880 --> 1:45:41.519 real dad. Not long after that, my son, four year 1:45:41.520 --> 1:45:45.360 old son gets up, comes and joins the party, making breakfast, 1:45:45.439 --> 1:45:49.160 having a good time. Not long after that, my wife 1:45:49.240 --> 1:45:53.720 gets up, not a word said nothing. We go a 1:45:53.800 --> 1:45:57.920 couple hours when from the kitchen I hear, oh fuck, 1:45:58.800 --> 1:46:04.080 I forgot it's Father's Day. Oh just wandering? 1:46:05.840 --> 1:46:06.120 Do we? 1:46:06.360 --> 1:46:06.479 Uh? 1:46:06.840 --> 1:46:09.160 Obviously I still have that in the pocket that I'm 1:46:10.240 --> 1:46:12.479 or do I use it on a little golf trip, 1:46:12.800 --> 1:46:14.760 a little a little bit of this, a little bit 1:46:14.760 --> 1:46:17.720 of that. Obviously, shockwave happened. 1:46:17.479 --> 1:46:21.599 Because she felt terrible because of course, yeah, love. 1:46:21.439 --> 1:46:24.920 The pod voice, keep it up that out. 1:46:26.280 --> 1:46:30.080 Oh man, he's in a good spot. Oh great, it's 1:46:30.360 --> 1:46:33.439 you know, it hurts in the moment, but just look 1:46:33.600 --> 1:46:34.800 look what you can now. 1:46:34.800 --> 1:46:38.839 Read right like you all the experts tell you everything 1:46:38.960 --> 1:46:41.719 is a negotiation, and look and look inside your house first, 1:46:41.800 --> 1:46:44.599 like every conversation you're having, you are negotiating with your wife, 1:46:44.640 --> 1:46:47.200 with your kids, with your loved ones, with your kiddos. Yeah, 1:46:47.680 --> 1:46:51.840 and now in the game, cards are stacked a bit, 1:46:52.200 --> 1:46:53.040 cards are stacked. 1:46:53.920 --> 1:46:57.599 Look at that, yeah, because that's on top. Yeah, Dad's 1:46:57.640 --> 1:46:57.960 on top. 1:46:58.960 --> 1:47:02.679 Whether you want to take us any data of his choosing, 1:47:03.200 --> 1:47:06.680 because he now has the leverage any whether it's a 1:47:06.720 --> 1:47:09.000 golf trip, whatever it is, whatever you want it to be. 1:47:09.200 --> 1:47:11.800 You now you now have that. Hey, honey, I'm I'm 1:47:11.920 --> 1:47:14.280 headed out. I'm going golfing. No, honey, remember we have 1:47:14.439 --> 1:47:18.120 what huh Oh that's weird. What Now he does need 1:47:18.160 --> 1:47:18.479 a plan. 1:47:19.040 --> 1:47:21.599 If you're going to just give any power to wifey, 1:47:22.080 --> 1:47:25.680 just make sure it's planned. But you're now not confined 1:47:26.400 --> 1:47:29.160 to a day that was already specified. Yes, now you 1:47:29.360 --> 1:47:33.120 have a rolodex of your choosing. Yes, you you don't 1:47:33.200 --> 1:47:34.559 have a Trump card? 1:47:35.200 --> 1:47:36.080 Uh? If you will? 1:47:36.200 --> 1:47:39.760 You just you have a you can plan accordingly. You 1:47:39.920 --> 1:47:43.200 have a Father's Day card that is now you can 1:47:43.320 --> 1:47:44.679 use it whatever day you want. 1:47:44.680 --> 1:47:47.719 And I'll cash this in. Yes, similar to a shockwave coupon. 1:47:47.920 --> 1:47:51.080 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, so bummer that sucks. 1:47:51.479 --> 1:47:55.080 That sucks, but also congratulates, gives him a Father's Day 1:47:55.120 --> 1:47:58.560 coop or sorry, a coupons, a shockwave coupon, a shockwave 1:47:59.080 --> 1:48:00.519 and to put a bow on it, to put a b. 1:48:00.640 --> 1:48:04.200 On it, just because we hope you haven't a good father. 1:48:04.280 --> 1:48:05.880 So yeah, we want to celebrate. We want to make 1:48:05.920 --> 1:48:06.560 this right with you. 1:48:06.840 --> 1:48:13.639 Yeah, shout out Canada oil he was an oil field guy. Yeah, Alberta, Canada, Alberta, Canada. 1:48:13.760 --> 1:48:16.519 Roughneck. Here we go, last voicemount. 1:48:19.320 --> 1:48:21.160 Fella's what's going on? 1:48:21.360 --> 1:48:21.920 How we doing? 1:48:22.600 --> 1:48:24.840 I was just listening to the last episode and you 1:48:24.840 --> 1:48:27.479 guys are talking about Shirm getting best at Ever. I mean, 1:48:27.560 --> 1:48:32.320 first off, sherm, congrats. Maybe deserve, maybe not deserve to 1:48:32.720 --> 1:48:36.599 see a beast. But I was thinking through Father's Day 1:48:37.200 --> 1:48:40.920 a fellow pet sixer myself. Notice all these other dads, Okay, no, 1:48:41.240 --> 1:48:43.800 his best dad ever, best at ever? And I want 1:48:43.880 --> 1:48:47.360 to know, as as a gamer, as as someone that 1:48:47.640 --> 1:48:51.280 likes competition, what the fuck they did to deserve best 1:48:51.360 --> 1:48:53.360 at ever? You know, you have a guy out here 1:48:53.360 --> 1:48:54.840 who's been a dad for six months. 1:48:55.040 --> 1:48:56.360 You know, God bless him. 1:48:56.360 --> 1:48:58.400 He's in the transies. Were you telling me that's the 1:48:58.479 --> 1:48:59.120 best ad ever. 1:48:59.720 --> 1:48:59.920 I'm not. 1:49:00.000 --> 1:49:00.599 I'm gonna sit here. 1:49:00.600 --> 1:49:03.320 And so I told my wife, you know, if you 1:49:03.400 --> 1:49:06.040 put a little post out there, she said, I'm the 1:49:06.080 --> 1:49:07.200 best dad to our son. 1:49:07.880 --> 1:49:12.360 Well obviously because competition is very low. Yeah, thank you. 1:49:12.360 --> 1:49:14.280 At the end of the day, we need to cut 1:49:14.400 --> 1:49:17.439 back on the old best dad everything. It's not you sure, 1:49:17.800 --> 1:49:18.800 we'll give it to you, buddy. 1:49:20.640 --> 1:49:23.599 Six months ain't no year. Six six months ain't no year. 1:49:23.640 --> 1:49:25.320 And thank you. I'm undeserving. 1:49:25.479 --> 1:49:30.479 I mean I hated bringing in that uh framed photo 1:49:30.880 --> 1:49:33.519 that said best at Ever. Like it killed me on 1:49:33.600 --> 1:49:36.040 the inside to like bring that in here and display 1:49:36.120 --> 1:49:38.240 that on my desk because I don't want to rub 1:49:38.280 --> 1:49:39.080 it in people's face. 1:49:39.160 --> 1:49:40.559 Yeah, you don't want to rub in our faces. 1:49:40.680 --> 1:49:43.240 But if Jill is giving that, like if I received 1:49:43.280 --> 1:49:48.639 that award, I'm gonna display it. But I don't go, Hey, Truman, young, 1:49:48.720 --> 1:49:49.240 best at ever. 1:49:49.439 --> 1:49:52.280 Nice to meet you. I'm not that guy. I'm not kidding. 1:49:52.320 --> 1:49:55.080 You could be, but you choose not to choose to be. 1:49:55.439 --> 1:49:57.599 And nor do I think I am the best at ever? 1:49:58.240 --> 1:50:01.519 I know I'm you know we said we stay here 1:50:01.560 --> 1:50:03.360 on this podcast. We joke a lot, right. 1:50:04.720 --> 1:50:08.040 We have a lot of haters out there, A lot 1:50:08.080 --> 1:50:11.000 of haters out there. We sat on this podcast. Doo 1:50:11.080 --> 1:50:13.160 thinks he's the best dad Animore. He got a one 1:50:13.240 --> 1:50:16.400 year old. It's a coffee monk, dude, get over your seat. 1:50:17.040 --> 1:50:20.439 That doesn't mean you're the best dad. Ain't rocket science, 1:50:21.000 --> 1:50:25.439 You ain't cracking no code. What's the name on it? 1:50:25.720 --> 1:50:29.160 What's the name. Oh, so what are you doing today? Working? 1:50:29.600 --> 1:50:29.720 Oh? 1:50:29.800 --> 1:50:30.479 Working? Nice? 1:50:30.680 --> 1:50:30.760 Uh? 1:50:31.120 --> 1:50:36.040 Do you have any kids too? Oh so you're your dad? Yes, okay, 1:50:36.200 --> 1:50:40.040 that shi it's easy. So so what do you do 1:50:40.160 --> 1:50:41.640 for like, oh, we got a podcast? Oh so not 1:50:41.720 --> 1:50:42.120 really work? 1:50:42.200 --> 1:50:46.599 Yeah, so you're not working. But dude, shout and shout 1:50:46.640 --> 1:50:51.200 out to this guy and I get it there. Nobody 1:50:51.360 --> 1:50:54.120 is the best dad ever? Maybe Dan Gable was Dan 1:50:54.160 --> 1:50:54.760 Gable a dad? 1:50:56.400 --> 1:50:57.080 Yeah, he. 1:50:58.760 --> 1:51:02.800 Fathered a lot of sing children. He did, so maybe 1:51:02.920 --> 1:51:05.439 Dane Gable's the best dad ever. And we'll just we'll 1:51:05.520 --> 1:51:07.439 leave it at that. And we got to frame those 1:51:07.560 --> 1:51:08.600 his best dad ever? I do? 1:51:09.360 --> 1:51:10.800 I do? And I couldn't, you know. 1:51:11.160 --> 1:51:13.000 I didn't want to look Jill and Nys and go, honey, 1:51:13.080 --> 1:51:15.560 I didn't earn this, Like who voted on this? 1:51:16.200 --> 1:51:16.920 You know what I'm saying? 1:51:17.120 --> 1:51:20.200 Yeah, you can't just go to Walgreens and go buy 1:51:20.320 --> 1:51:23.120 this and then you know, title me the best at ever? 1:51:23.200 --> 1:51:25.080 Was There's a lot of hardworking dads out there. What 1:51:25.160 --> 1:51:25.920 does I say to Will? 1:51:26.120 --> 1:51:27.920 What does that say to the other dads who have 1:51:28.080 --> 1:51:30.680 not only father children, but have raised them to be 1:51:30.760 --> 1:51:34.200 adults and they're successful adults and kids that they're very 1:51:34.240 --> 1:51:36.120 proud of and happy with. And their kids are like, 1:51:36.240 --> 1:51:39.360 you know, you got some weathered, experienced fathers out there. 1:51:39.439 --> 1:51:41.680 Yeah, they're pushing eighty right now. They did a hell 1:51:41.760 --> 1:51:44.360 of a job. Speaking of best dads. 1:51:44.400 --> 1:51:48.120 Ever, I would be remiss if we didn't close with 1:51:48.280 --> 1:51:52.960 the congratulations to Jeremy Klomp bringing in his sweet, sweet 1:51:53.080 --> 1:51:54.760 baby girl, Miss Laney, Miss. 1:51:54.880 --> 1:51:59.559 Laney, Lady Club, Lady Clump, and Lindsay Jeremy. 1:51:59.600 --> 1:52:02.840 Congrats, guys, we had another baby in the office and 1:52:02.880 --> 1:52:05.240 it's a sweet baby girl named Laney Klump. 1:52:05.360 --> 1:52:07.560 We got the curse still alive. Come on, baby, you 1:52:07.680 --> 1:52:09.880 work in this office. You have daughters. Come on, you 1:52:10.040 --> 1:52:13.800 have daughters. Man Taylor or Taylor should be popping here 1:52:13.800 --> 1:52:14.600 any moment. I know. 1:52:15.320 --> 1:52:17.080 So that could either happen this week next week. But 1:52:17.200 --> 1:52:20.639 another congratulatory will be coming soon. But shout out the Clumps. 1:52:20.680 --> 1:52:24.720 Shout out baby Laney. Another thing I would another thing 1:52:24.840 --> 1:52:30.080 that I would need to say, big shout out to Dominic. 1:52:30.840 --> 1:52:33.720 I met Dominic at the Newark Airport. I believe we 1:52:33.760 --> 1:52:35.800 were about to get on our flight to Nashville. I'm 1:52:35.840 --> 1:52:38.120 talking exhaustion at the time. I'm rolling ruin our little 1:52:38.120 --> 1:52:43.719 Pulley suitcase. She's crying, Mama had to go change Scottie. 1:52:43.760 --> 1:52:45.679 But we're finally getting to that nine thirty flight. 1:52:45.840 --> 1:52:49.880 It's been We're on the last leg of the whole flight. 1:52:50.040 --> 1:52:50.720 So I hit my man. 1:52:50.800 --> 1:52:52.360 He's like, hey, are you willing. I look at him 1:52:52.360 --> 1:52:54.559 with the dead look. I'm like, oh, yes, sir, kind 1:52:54.600 --> 1:52:55.760 of smiling like you see this. 1:52:55.840 --> 1:52:56.760 One crying like. 1:52:58.560 --> 1:53:00.280 Man, he wanted to pull out his phone and just 1:53:00.320 --> 1:53:03.160 say that he's been listening before the dads, going to 1:53:03.200 --> 1:53:05.559 pull out his phone and show and show his kid. 1:53:05.880 --> 1:53:09.880 And he was just fired up to meet me and 1:53:10.000 --> 1:53:12.320 talk about for the dads. And when he was talking 1:53:12.320 --> 1:53:17.519 about his kiddo, he was legitimately was garnering like tears 1:53:17.600 --> 1:53:23.360 in his eyes talking about I felt like I was 1:53:23.439 --> 1:53:26.160 in the moment with him again. Exhaustion was we we 1:53:26.320 --> 1:53:29.760 were we we were on e yeah, and I was 1:53:29.920 --> 1:53:31.720 sharing the moment with him. I wish I could have 1:53:31.760 --> 1:53:33.560 been in it with him even more because it was 1:53:33.640 --> 1:53:35.880 very fleeting, like charl walks like, hey, we got like 1:53:35.960 --> 1:53:38.360 the priority, the priority boarding with the kiddo's. We need 1:53:38.439 --> 1:53:41.320 to get up, we need to get out. Yeah, but 1:53:41.479 --> 1:53:45.040 shout out Dominic. It was a phenomenal interaction. And to 1:53:45.160 --> 1:53:48.400 see him legitimately tear up as he's talking about his 1:53:48.520 --> 1:53:50.519 kids just want to talk about the show and everything else. 1:53:51.520 --> 1:53:54.920 That was very heartwarming. And I appreciate you, Dominic for 1:53:55.640 --> 1:53:56.760 introducing yourself to me. 1:53:57.040 --> 1:54:01.000 Let's go huge shout out to you. He'll main anonymous 1:54:01.000 --> 1:54:03.599 because I didn't get to meet him. Only shout out 1:54:03.640 --> 1:54:05.400 I got in thirty eight guy driving by in a 1:54:05.439 --> 1:54:08.920 golf cart, Hell yeah, sir, Hell yeah, as the golf 1:54:09.000 --> 1:54:13.080 cart flies fast and I just turned and so on that. 1:54:13.439 --> 1:54:16.800 Last leg from Newark to Nashville, Scotty was starting to 1:54:16.880 --> 1:54:18.000 like fall asleep. 1:54:17.720 --> 1:54:19.280 For like ten twenty minutes at a time. Then we'd 1:54:19.280 --> 1:54:19.800 have to get moving. 1:54:19.840 --> 1:54:21.400 We're trying to hold her off to fall asleep on 1:54:21.439 --> 1:54:23.920 the plane, but she gets so where she's beyond exhausted, 1:54:24.040 --> 1:54:28.560 crying like screaming. I'm talking bloody fucking murder, screaming to 1:54:28.680 --> 1:54:30.479 where we're trying to get to the point. 1:54:30.320 --> 1:54:31.120 Where we're leaving. 1:54:31.880 --> 1:54:36.440 We're we're leaving the dock or whatever from the airport 1:54:36.840 --> 1:54:38.680 to drive out to take off the fly. So that's 1:54:38.720 --> 1:54:44.320 like a good ten to twenty minute process. Scotty is screaming, wrestling, 1:54:44.440 --> 1:54:47.600 choral wrestling, holding her, shaking or doing the physical. I'm 1:54:47.680 --> 1:54:49.720 holding her, I'm like sweetart like keeping a low voice. 1:54:49.920 --> 1:54:55.080 We're round everybody. The flight attendants are sitting up there. 1:54:55.080 --> 1:54:57.240 Everybody's trapped in. You can't be on the ground whatsoever. 1:54:57.320 --> 1:55:00.960 Scotti is just beside herself, bro talking. We went through 1:55:01.080 --> 1:55:03.400 war there at the end. But to the point where 1:55:03.440 --> 1:55:05.480 we get off the flight, A couple of gentlemen come 1:55:05.520 --> 1:55:09.760 over and just pat like, you guys did good, because 1:55:09.760 --> 1:55:10.720 that's one where no. 1:55:12.840 --> 1:55:17.520 Man, that's when you know, dude, when you're getting physical 1:55:17.600 --> 1:55:19.040 pats on the physical pats. 1:55:19.160 --> 1:55:21.960 Hang in there, dad, Yeah, Hey, you guys did a 1:55:22.040 --> 1:55:25.880 great job because we stayed composed and poised, like got 1:55:25.920 --> 1:55:27.480 a little and a couple of violent shakes in there, 1:55:27.520 --> 1:55:30.240 like please, Scottie, for the love of God, just fall asleep. Yeah, 1:55:31.400 --> 1:55:34.280 but couple, you guys did good in there. 1:55:36.440 --> 1:55:38.720 You did it. We did it. We're live. 1:55:38.760 --> 1:55:40.120 We're finally getting on the other side of the jet 1:55:40.200 --> 1:55:43.160 lag too. Take the trash out, take the trash out. 1:55:43.240 --> 1:55:44.920 Love you appreciate you. We will see you next week 1:55:44.960 --> 1:55:46.840 and we will come and shout out a lot more. 1:55:46.720 --> 1:55:49.000 Of the comments. We love you, guys, We love you. 1:55:49.960 --> 1:55:52.600 Take up the trash. Where are you from where? Yeah,