Speaker 1: All right, you found the brand new Second Date podcast today.
Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and hey, thanks
Speaker 1: for being here Today's Second Date. I'll just say this.
Speaker 1: I think it'd be really interesting if people left in
Speaker 1: the comments with the weirdest question you can ask on
Speaker 1: a first date is oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how much blood does your body hold?
Speaker 3: Huh that?
Speaker 1: Or what kind of duct tape is your favorite?
Speaker 4: Although you cast the blood type, that could be useful.
Speaker 1: How about do you mind if I take my tooth out?
Speaker 5: Oh that?
Speaker 1: It definitely happened to you before. I just the one.
Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting. I went on one date with
Speaker 1: one guy and he was so hot until he took
Speaker 1: his front tooth out. It really just changes a person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you had to take it out before before he ate. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So anyway, not ours. We want to know yours because
Speaker 1: there is definitely definitely an odd one in today's Second
Speaker 1: Date updates. Leave it in the comments, or if you're
Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app, you can actually give us a voicemail,
Speaker 1: so do it there as well, and let's get this
Speaker 1: second day started.
Speaker 4: Second Date up Date we have a textboard at seven
Speaker 4: eighty five nine two where listeners can send texts into
Speaker 4: our show, and unfortunately sometimes we do have to block
Speaker 4: people if they cross the line with us.
Speaker 1: It's been so long since I've blocked anyone, though, like
Speaker 1: I feel like years.
Speaker 2: Anytime you come out the girls or you're like Brooks
Speaker 2: a B word, you're blocked. Ye okay, only I can say.
Speaker 1: That's happening very often because we're blocking.
Speaker 4: If you're rude to any of us. Blocked, if you
Speaker 4: criticize our hero of the week because you didn't like
Speaker 4: my choice, block, if you compliment me and tell me
Speaker 4: that I'm cute and fancy, blocked. I'm a shy boy.
Speaker 1: I don't like compliments that come on scaring listeners are
Speaker 1: so nice.
Speaker 2: We are not blocking.
Speaker 4: People too nice if you ask me blocked. That's why
Speaker 4: one of our listeners, Aaron, reached out out to us
Speaker 4: because he's confused after he got blocked by somebody and
Speaker 4: he has no idea why we fight.
Speaker 2: The urge to compliment Jeff or you will be blocked
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: He's gonna say, was it Jose, Yeah, I'll.
Speaker 2: Block you right away.
Speaker 4: Aaron, what's up man? Welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Hey guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2: Don't you talk about about the girls.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry he called you guys.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I didn't care. What is happening, Aaron?
Speaker 1: How are you doing?
Speaker 5: Oh? I'm doing good. I'm a little confused as the
Speaker 5: why I got blocked, but I was sold. Maybe you
Speaker 5: guys can help me out with that, hopefully.
Speaker 2: Did you say anything mean against people blocked? Here?
Speaker 1: I was taking unsolicited pictures or what? I'm curious are
Speaker 1: you blocked?
Speaker 4: Are you talking about text?
Speaker 1: Social media?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 1: What are you blocked on?
Speaker 2: Good question?
Speaker 5: She blocked my number? Oh?
Speaker 1: Really personal?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so tell us about this woman who blocked you.
Speaker 4: What's her name?
Speaker 5: Okay, so her name is Jenna Ed. We matched on
Speaker 5: Hinge and we went on one kind of date.
Speaker 1: What do you mean kind of date? Was it like
Speaker 1: one of those pre dates where you just meet for
Speaker 1: coffee for twenty minutes to see if a real date's
Speaker 1: worth it.
Speaker 5: So as soon as we matched, we started talking and
Speaker 5: then we were hanging out like an hour later.
Speaker 1: What oh yeah cool, on the same day that you matched.
Speaker 5: Yeah, how well? So she told me that she was
Speaker 5: taking her dog out for a walk. So I said, Hey,
Speaker 5: I haven't got my cardio and yet today, why don't
Speaker 5: I come with you and we can just talk.
Speaker 4: Oh, oh, you invited yourself to her dog walk?
Speaker 2: Okay, you random alexis your dog walker with this'll be
Speaker 2: a good date if a guy.
Speaker 1: Was dogs with guys all the time, Yes, it.
Speaker 2: Was a good, good idea.
Speaker 4: You walk the guys too little lesha on them and
Speaker 4: oh no, but I do make.
Speaker 2: Them clean up the dog poop.
Speaker 4: You don't want to do that.
Speaker 1: Why did you just make so hopeful when he asked that.
Speaker 4: I didn't know that that was a service. If it's
Speaker 4: offered out there, I got to look it up. But
Speaker 4: how did the dog walk go with Jenna?
Speaker 5: Uh? It was mostly small talk. It was kind of
Speaker 5: more like a pre date than anything where we were
Speaker 5: looking to know each other.
Speaker 1: And that's okay, I mean that to be expected. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what was the like chemistry or attraction level?
Speaker 5: I thought I was taking something up?
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: She didn't seem like she cut it off, Like how
Speaker 2: did it end?
Speaker 5: So? Yeah, we were talking about hinge and how are
Speaker 5: you doing on Hinge? And I ended up making a
Speaker 5: joke where like, uh, yeah, I ended up having to
Speaker 5: delete Hinge because I just I had a full in
Speaker 5: box and people kept trying to talk to me and
Speaker 5: get with me. And it ended not long after.
Speaker 1: That that was to be That was supposed to be
Speaker 1: a joke.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought it was a joke.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have so many people in my inbox that
Speaker 4: I just had to delete.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you said it to us. I didn't would have
Speaker 2: taken that as a joke. It sounds legit.
Speaker 5: Yeah. See, I maybe I messed up and she just
Speaker 5: thinks I'm full of myself when I was just trying
Speaker 5: to be funny.
Speaker 4: Sure, but that doesn't seem like enough to want to
Speaker 4: block your number from every wanting to contact you.
Speaker 1: Did things change after that moment?
Speaker 5: Uh? Not real? It ended not long after that, So
Speaker 5: I don't know. Maybe she wanted to cut it short.
Speaker 4: Is it possible that you're just a really slow walker
Speaker 4: and it pissed her off? Or yeah, you got to
Speaker 4: match her stride for stride?
Speaker 1: Just one of those guys who walks in front of
Speaker 1: the woman the whole time, like a step and a half.
Speaker 1: It drives me nuts.
Speaker 4: How's you're walking?
Speaker 5: I felt like I matched her stride for stride, but
Speaker 5: I wasn't really focused on that.
Speaker 4: Okay, let's say you got to pass on the walking
Speaker 4: what else could it.
Speaker 5: Have been, Brooke.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just wondering when you got blocked, did
Speaker 1: you like leave the date and immediately she blocked you
Speaker 1: or was there a couple of texts back and forth beforehand?
Speaker 5: Question. I tried texting her maybe half hour later, and
Speaker 5: it was it didn't go through. So it seems like
Speaker 5: she blocked me almost immediately.
Speaker 1: Tell you were blocked. It never it just never says delivered.
Speaker 2: Never check months later, still got delivered. Yeah, I through
Speaker 2: my text.
Speaker 4: We're all experts on different areas of dating in here,
Speaker 4: So okay, how long has it been since you got blocked?
Speaker 5: Been about a week at this point, you guys, what.
Speaker 1: If it's just an accident. What if she just got
Speaker 1: like you don't have two left thumbs and she has.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes I actually hit buttons in my
Speaker 1: back pocket or something, and like she's like, why isn't
Speaker 1: this guy calling me? That's a hopeful.
Speaker 2: In her pocket? Confirmed?
Speaker 1: You never know what the right butt sheet can do.
Speaker 4: Walk a dexterous cheek back there.
Speaker 5: But I mean, yeah, hopefully that's did. But I had
Speaker 5: a good time with her. I'd like to see if
Speaker 5: there was something more there.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, she should definitely give you another.
Speaker 4: Chance or at least an explanation for why you've been blocked.
Speaker 4: We're gonna call her right now. Hopefully she hasn't blocked
Speaker 4: us already, but if she answered, I'm sure a lot
Speaker 4: of people have. But if she picks up, we'll ask
Speaker 4: her all the important questions and try and get you
Speaker 4: your second date update right after this.
Speaker 5: Thank good?
Speaker 4: All right, man, hold on second date update. Just to
Speaker 4: recap real quick if you miss part one. One of
Speaker 4: our listeners, Aaron, hung out with a lady and that
Speaker 4: happened within an hour of matching. They were on a
Speaker 4: dog walk together.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: The crazy part is that walk only lasted a half hour.
Speaker 4: An hour later, he was already blocked. I mean, this
Speaker 4: girl works fast. Yeah, and we're trying to help Aaron
Speaker 4: get some answers about what he did wrong or maybe
Speaker 4: it was just a miscommunication that caused him to get blocked.
Speaker 4: We don't really know.
Speaker 2: At least we can pinpoint like an hour and a
Speaker 2: half time frame.
Speaker 5: Yea.
Speaker 1: We asked all about whether she liked him and what
Speaker 1: it was like with him. We never asked did the
Speaker 1: dog like you?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: Did the dogs like he? Shother did one bite the other.
Speaker 1: I don't think he had a dog. I don't think
Speaker 1: she was just joining him on apologies if he had a.
Speaker 4: Dog too, Aaron, could you get a read on Jenna's
Speaker 4: dog's feelings towards you.
Speaker 5: I think he was kind of focused on the walk.
Speaker 5: He gave me a sniff, he sussed me out, but
Speaker 5: he wasn't.
Speaker 4: Super that's not good.
Speaker 1: I see. I think that's okay as long as there's
Speaker 1: no growlly like nipping.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean growling and nipping on my dates. That's
Speaker 4: a good thing.
Speaker 2: Right from the beginning.
Speaker 4: I'm dying to get nipped.
Speaker 1: Butts.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I don't know any last words erin before
Speaker 4: we dial the number.
Speaker 5: At the very least, I hope she answers, and I
Speaker 5: hope she telled me what I did wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good attitude going in to learn something.
Speaker 1: I like that.
Speaker 4: Let's set that bar super super low. So here we go.
Speaker 4: I'm dialing the number right now. Let's see if she
Speaker 4: picks up.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 4: Hey is this Jenna?
Speaker 3: This is this.
Speaker 4: This is a actually radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 4: in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, who Yeah, there's a lot of us in here.
Speaker 4: We're a radio show and we do this segment that
Speaker 4: you're on right now called a second Date Update. We're
Speaker 4: hoping to pry a little bit into your personal life,
Speaker 4: if that's okay.
Speaker 3: Second Date Update, Yeah.
Speaker 4: That's where we help our listeners who've gone out with
Speaker 4: somebody and they felt like there was a connection. We
Speaker 4: try to be the investigators to figure out why a
Speaker 4: second meetup hasn't happened, or if something went wrong during
Speaker 4: the date. Yeah, and one of our listeners reached out
Speaker 4: about you, named Aaron.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, respond We figured you might not have the
Speaker 6: best reaction because we heard that after the date you
Speaker 6: blocked him and he just doesn't know why or if
Speaker 6: that was on purpose.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, No, I definitely blocked him on purpose.
Speaker 4: Okay, So what we know is that you guys went
Speaker 4: on a dog walk and it didn't seem to last
Speaker 4: very long. So maybe you could tell us your version
Speaker 4: of the hangout and that would help us understand a
Speaker 4: little more clearly.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I guess to start with, I thought he'd
Speaker 3: show up with his dog too.
Speaker 2: Wow, I assumed he had a dog already. The girls
Speaker 2: had to correct me.
Speaker 1: Why would you assume that.
Speaker 3: Well, because we met up to walk our dogs, so
Speaker 3: I thought, But we met up to walk my dog.
Speaker 3: He literally just wanted to walk with me while I
Speaker 3: walked my dog.
Speaker 1: That just sounds like a miscommunication. Mad me say, you
Speaker 1: need to get his cardio in for the days.
Speaker 4: I would have blocked him for that too.
Speaker 3: That's not why I blocked him.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So are you saying you're disappointed that he
Speaker 1: didn't have a dog?
Speaker 3: I was surprised, but I got over it quick. It
Speaker 3: wasn't that big of a deal. We were getting to
Speaker 3: know each other.
Speaker 4: So where did the date shift for you in your mind? Well?
Speaker 3: Then he asks me, so what's your credit score? Should
Speaker 3: I be worried?
Speaker 1: Well, he sounds like he's trying to be funny.
Speaker 4: He told us that there was a few jokes that
Speaker 4: he tried to make and they didn't quite land.
Speaker 3: It did not sound like a joke. He actually wanted
Speaker 3: to know.
Speaker 1: Did you tell Did you tell him?
Speaker 3: No? I didn't tell him. I thought it was so
Speaker 3: out of line.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's less like intense than it used
Speaker 2: to be.
Speaker 1: People in a thirty minute conversation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really quick. I mean I don't even
Speaker 3: know that we should be talking about that on a
Speaker 3: fifth or a sixth date.
Speaker 1: Okay, at different comfort levels when it comes to money.
Speaker 2: Okay, because some couples have joined accounts eventually and some
Speaker 2: don't talk about expenses.
Speaker 4: So is that where you felt like he crossed the line?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I mean fifteen minutes in and he's asking me
Speaker 3: about my finances.
Speaker 4: I all sure he.
Speaker 1: Wasn't joking though, Like when you didn't tell him, what
Speaker 1: kind of response did he give you?
Speaker 3: We both just kind of laughed it off, but he
Speaker 3: definitely still seemed like he seriously wanted to know.
Speaker 4: Okay, it's possible that it was a joke and it
Speaker 4: just didn't come across the right way, and the best
Speaker 4: way to find out is to have you well again,
Speaker 4: well to at least have you talked to him about it,
Speaker 4: because you might not know this, Jenna, But Aaron's on
Speaker 4: the other line right now, listening to this conversation.
Speaker 3: The guy I blocked is on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, him yet, But you say it that way, it
Speaker 1: doesn't feel as fun.
Speaker 5: Yeah. True.
Speaker 4: Hopefully he has an explanation though, Aaron, are you there?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Hey jokester, Hey, you.
Speaker 1: Want to know your social Security number.
Speaker 4: Next date to or at least say something to Jenna.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry I made you feel uncomfortable. It's just in
Speaker 5: today's dating culture. I'm trying to find a long term
Speaker 5: partner and I'm right and not waste time.
Speaker 3: See, I knew you weren't joking. I knew you actually
Speaker 3: wanted to know my credit for that's a lot.
Speaker 4: But he wanted to know it for honorable reasons, because.
Speaker 1: He wants to be with you forever. Unless you have
Speaker 1: a score of under seven fifty.
Speaker 2: Yes, loans, love is not real.
Speaker 4: That's got to change how you feel about it a
Speaker 4: little bit, right, Jenna.
Speaker 3: No, not at all.
Speaker 2: Oh man, man, and you see how that's kind of weird.
Speaker 2: What if she's the love of your life and she
Speaker 2: has a bad credits.
Speaker 1: I mean it's not very romantic.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well, to be honest, I was kind of asking to
Speaker 5: see if you'd be interested in like a no string
Speaker 5: attached financial compensation thing.
Speaker 2: What m hmm, like a sugar d excitation.
Speaker 1: What are you asking?
Speaker 5: Well, it's awkward to talk about on the radio.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, full of control over what you say and
Speaker 4: don't say.
Speaker 2: I feel like texting this is awkward as well.
Speaker 1: Do you know what he's talking about?
Speaker 3: I mean, it sounds like he's looking to be my
Speaker 3: sugar daddy.
Speaker 4: That's how it sounds, suss.
Speaker 1: I heard it as he wants you to be the
Speaker 1: sugar mom. That's so he's asking your score?
Speaker 4: Can you clarify eron?
Speaker 5: Get closer to what she said? I don't like that term.
Speaker 5: I don't see it like that. I would just see
Speaker 5: paying for companionship, not the weird stuff.
Speaker 2: Got it? So you'd be paying to have her on
Speaker 2: your arm, and that's all.
Speaker 1: If she's the one getting paid. Why is her credit
Speaker 1: score matter?
Speaker 5: Well? I need to know if it's something she's interested in.
Speaker 5: If her credit score is low enough, then you can
Speaker 5: build that.
Speaker 1: I see you were looking for a low credit score
Speaker 1: this whole time.
Speaker 3: I was thinking of a wait a minute, you want
Speaker 3: to help her life and like financial.
Speaker 1: There's a different app you should go on.
Speaker 4: The hints. I just can recommend four of them. But Jenna,
Speaker 4: are you are you hearing this?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm hearing Its.
Speaker 4: Pretty shock sounding.
Speaker 1: Are you interested in something like that?
Speaker 3: I mean, this is definitely not the way that I
Speaker 3: expected this to go. I mean, I was with you, guys.
Speaker 3: I thought that he was making sure I had a
Speaker 3: flawless credit score here. I mean realistically, I think depending
Speaker 3: on the amount of money, anybody you could be interested.
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait a second, we have to reach What does
Speaker 2: this mean?
Speaker 1: Hold on like this? This is a totally different type
Speaker 1: of relationship, certainly is.
Speaker 5: But jin you are interested?
Speaker 3: I don't know. I've never really thought about it.
Speaker 4: Do you do this first opportunity?
Speaker 1: Is it like an offer letter that gets passed over?
Speaker 1: Or how do you work out the details? Block him
Speaker 1: to text the details?
Speaker 5: If she would unblock me, then maybe we could talk
Speaker 5: about it between.
Speaker 2: No, I want to hear you don't hear about how
Speaker 2: much money he's gonna pay.
Speaker 1: This is so strange, Like at the beginning of this,
Speaker 1: I thought that you were upset because you were looking
Speaker 1: for something forever.
Speaker 5: But you're just It could definitely turn into that. I'm
Speaker 5: open to that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, steps started.
Speaker 1: I feel like there's anything that sounds too good to
Speaker 1: be true. Jenny, you need to be careful of.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's brooks jealousy coming out. Have to listen now
Speaker 4: that they're in love, Like, wait a second, forever forever.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying yes, but I am open to thinking
Speaker 3: about it.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, maybe you're open to the idea of unblocking
Speaker 4: Aaron and meeting up with him one more time, and
Speaker 4: we would pay for it, so you too could discuss
Speaker 4: the terms of the future of your relationship.
Speaker 2: The sugar aunts and Uncle.
Speaker 1: I feel like this. We're going to pay for it?
Speaker 4: Yeah, pay for it, jeff Well, he's going to pay
Speaker 4: for everything else not if at least buy the cup
Speaker 4: of coffee that they talk over.
Speaker 5: We don't even need to go out. I can send
Speaker 5: you a couple of texts we can see if you're
Speaker 5: into it.
Speaker 4: Okay, a little little negotiation STARTERA Well, that saves us
Speaker 4: money and I love that. So it's up to you, Jenna,
Speaker 4: will you or will you not unblock Aaron?
Speaker 1: That could be a new segment.
Speaker 4: The whole thing.
Speaker 3: I think I'll unblock him.
Speaker 1: Whoa romance dad.
Speaker 4: Looking Jeffrey in the morning. Attention to lady listeners with
Speaker 4: low credit scores. Aaron is looking to supplement your financial
Speaker 4: hardship as long as you are willing to walk your
Speaker 4: dog with him.
Speaker 2: You won't know.
Speaker 1: How hard that was for me to finally get it
Speaker 1: that he was looking for low credit scores. Yeah. By
Speaker 1: the time.
Speaker 4: The funny thing was at the start of the call.
Speaker 4: I mean he had a deep voice and he just
Speaker 4: seemed like kind of a sweet, shy guy.
Speaker 1: But he was like remember, he's like, Oh, I made
Speaker 1: that sarcastic statement trying to be funny. Maybe I came
Speaker 1: off to braggy.
Speaker 4: But once she got onto the phone, he wasn't messing around.
Speaker 4: He went right to the payment, companionship negotiation talk.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think it was all business. I don't even know
Speaker 4: if I want an update on this one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean there's not a lot of heart in it,
Speaker 1: that's for sure. We can assume what's going to happen.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there was like a middle fee we could get. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't know about that one. What I do call
Speaker 4: the pimp. What I do want is for all of
Speaker 4: our listeners to find our second date updates on our YouTube. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I want that for everybody. And wherever you get your podcasts,
Speaker 4: you can always find them at Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,