Speaker 1: Let's service. Hey, we's at this lip service and we
Speaker 1: are back. The whole crew is here. I'm Anjeluye, I'm
Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire, I'm Loria, and we
Speaker 1: got a little mo here with us. Hey. Now I
Speaker 1: do have to start it off on a somber note
Speaker 1: and say rest in peace to combat Jack a k A.
Speaker 1: Reggie Oh. Say, he was one of my loyals him
Speaker 1: and it was actually first in the same week for
Speaker 1: both of them to pass away. Rest in peace to
Speaker 1: Edwards as well. You know, obviously Reggie is one of
Speaker 1: the people that owns the Loudspeaker's network with that lip
Speaker 1: services on and so it was just you know, we
Speaker 1: just got to give a shout out to his family.
Speaker 1: We're really close with Kim, his ex wife and his
Speaker 1: four children and everything. So um, yeah, we appreciate everything
Speaker 1: that Combat Jack did because even just starting a podcast
Speaker 1: network so early on in the game when people weren't
Speaker 1: even thinking about that, and then bringing all these podcasts
Speaker 1: to with it just was really monumental. You know, his
Speaker 1: background as an entertainment lawyer, because he was your lawyer
Speaker 1: a little more and actually not practicing law anymore to
Speaker 1: follow his passion, you know. So I'm sure earlier on
Speaker 1: that law was a lot more lucrative than trying to
Speaker 1: start a podcast network. But it does show you that
Speaker 1: while you're here, like, pursue whatever you're passionate about, and
Speaker 1: while it might not pay off at first, in the
Speaker 1: long run, it really can. So the one thing I
Speaker 1: always think about is like, I would hate for something
Speaker 1: unfortunate to happen and I didn't follow my dreams, right, Like,
Speaker 1: I really just got said, yeah, I'm sorry, prayers go
Speaker 1: out to his family. You know, it's like holidays and
Speaker 1: you just never know his cancer. Yeah, like, but then
Speaker 1: three days later, yes, right right, all right, well let's
Speaker 1: I know you don't want us to get the show started,
Speaker 1: so we are going to do that now. Obviously all
Speaker 1: of us read the blogs all the time, right, And
Speaker 1: one thing we were talking about is men who um
Speaker 1: paint their nails and things like that, because I saw
Speaker 1: they had one of the cast members him Loving Hip
Speaker 1: Hop A one was on and they were talking about
Speaker 1: how he's, you know, painting his nails. There was a
Speaker 1: little clapback situation. So we were talking about guys who
Speaker 1: paint their nails and how do we feel about that?
Speaker 1: So Carl was painting his nails nooe, only well he
Speaker 1: gets a manicures. I just now got him on getting
Speaker 1: notices because I was like, you have really nice hands,
Speaker 1: because you know, man hands they have to look like
Speaker 1: they're digging in dirt, shoveling shit or they just have
Speaker 1: so I love him. Men have nice hands. And he
Speaker 1: has really nice hands. But the feet, babe, because he athlete.
Speaker 1: So he gets his hands done and so the girls like,
Speaker 1: you should let me put the clearer. And I was
Speaker 1: like he was like the clearer and he was like
Speaker 1: not a one of the classes that. No, the jail
Speaker 1: it helps so the nails won't like break in it.
Speaker 1: He was gonna get a jail manicure. No, the clear jail.
Speaker 1: So it looks like it looks nice to me, yeah,
Speaker 1: because no, but he's not coming home. No nail polished,
Speaker 1: so the jeal is okay or no, the buff up
Speaker 1: and it looks like it looks shiny. There's nothing on it.
Speaker 1: It's just the way they not like a tip, that'sh care.
Speaker 1: What about if it's clear polish. No, no clear polish,
Speaker 1: because he doesn't want stuff like that and besides, like
Speaker 1: he boxes that that's thirty and no clear nail polish.
Speaker 1: It's shiny and it's it wasn't peel. It's a rap,
Speaker 1: Like I don't like the clear polish. Guys like to
Speaker 1: me that ship is no polish. But about shine, it's fine.
Speaker 1: What about black polish? No, No, it depends on this personality.
Speaker 1: Some people have like that weird vibe about them and
Speaker 1: then I get it. But some people they play like
Speaker 1: they were and I'm just like, okay, you're doing this
Speaker 1: for attention exactly. I think if they got that rocket
Speaker 1: roll thing going on, like a little louzy, very kind
Speaker 1: of you know, seezy from Philly. And what's crazy is
Speaker 1: is that my brother in law used to date his
Speaker 1: mother and I'm just like, always puts this up, so
Speaker 1: we think that might be my nephew. Hello when I
Speaker 1: tell you we got kids everywhere and everywhere. But he
Speaker 1: like he didn't show the move. I'll let you know
Speaker 1: if oh yeah, that's your cut. You know everybody else
Speaker 1: in Philly like does that. It's just like some someone's
Speaker 1: doing I was like, what is that. It's like I
Speaker 1: don't know. He came out like like he can get
Speaker 1: away with it because like he just has just his
Speaker 1: person like him maybe like a whiz Khalifa, the exex
Speaker 1: ex tentptations him contact black. It's just so it's kind
Speaker 1: of a young black but not like a younger thing
Speaker 1: is but yeah, because it's like but it's it's more
Speaker 1: like a grunge like a grunge rock type of thing. Remember,
Speaker 1: because I know white guys that was you know, that
Speaker 1: painting nails. But they were, you know, wearing the scuffed
Speaker 1: up docks and the parents be rich and have all
Speaker 1: that money they got trust for long hair and the
Speaker 1: trench coats like uh, like the Columbine kids, you know what.
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's a little scary, you know. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: actually described. Honestly, I went to art school, so I'm described. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I went to high school with but they wore
Speaker 1: black nails. What about like, okay, what if it was
Speaker 1: like jeezy or not? Like you don't remember when you
Speaker 1: I just instantly thought about that picture was going around
Speaker 1: Instagram with the soldier Jesus see jeezy. I wouldn't see
Speaker 1: fab I wasn't the castle Nova and certain people Davies, No,
Speaker 1: they just to y'all man they just like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's for the ones that just like sing like the
Speaker 1: kiddie song. Right? Would I want anybody that I'm dating
Speaker 1: to have black nails and nothing against whoever feels like yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just not and I like about but read then no,
Speaker 1: no pad, no above her shine black or clear. I
Speaker 1: feel like for a guy I wouldn't. I'm automatically look
Speaker 1: a him and be out. He must be gay. Have
Speaker 1: I seen black and clad like a right? He's just differently.
Speaker 1: I don't think Neil Polish make you gay, but red Mo,
Speaker 1: come on, I mean, you know what the way the
Speaker 1: world is now because people so sense of to him
Speaker 1: and you can't say nothing. Whatever you want to do
Speaker 1: and it makes you happy, you satisfied. If you want
Speaker 1: to shave your head and have your balls hanging up,
Speaker 1: just do your things like you can't say nothing of
Speaker 1: people no, because they said you let him man walk
Speaker 1: into girl bathroom like yeah, what if the guys who
Speaker 1: get like plastic surgery like l L with the apsh
Speaker 1: l L that don't lot They said, l had got
Speaker 1: that thing. We got a river, they said him, they
Speaker 1: said de'angelo, they had said everybody, they said everybody getting
Speaker 1: it now now. I used to red for D'Angelo and
Speaker 1: he did work out every single day. He had the
Speaker 1: personal chain of Mike Jenkins and every single day he
Speaker 1: was in the gym. He did not know damn ass
Speaker 1: clastic jury. Yes, I don't think that. I can't speak
Speaker 1: for anyone. He need to have does a field video, Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: he was working out every single day like video footage
Speaker 1: because that's a that's an athletic body and from the
Speaker 1: side he went from to that, I don't know. No,
Speaker 1: he really was like because I worked I worked for
Speaker 1: his UM label and so every day I scheduled like
Speaker 1: his workouts, but it was Mark Jenkins that was his
Speaker 1: personal trainer, and he really was working out like because
Speaker 1: he gained man and the one thing that he loved
Speaker 1: doing was like he wouldn't go to the studio. Have
Speaker 1: you seen him lately though? Maybe that thing like media hurt. Yeah,
Speaker 1: said he was not thinking all that ship goes away.
Speaker 1: You can work out hard for years as soon as Yeah,
Speaker 1: classic surgery definitely goes away. Out to me, that's a maintenance. Yeah,
Speaker 1: definitely all change. Like you So guys getting't like lifo
Speaker 1: anything like if you were dating a guy. He had
Speaker 1: like you know, the spare tire. That happened to me.
Speaker 1: He didn't get lippo. But if he wasn't get bo,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be mad. His little spirit tire was weird.
Speaker 1: His little spirit tire was so weird that he always
Speaker 1: wore like hoodies or like a like a man poopa
Speaker 1: a hole around like the Italian with that. That gave
Speaker 1: me that's a big guy. He wasn't a big guy.
Speaker 1: You know. He didn't have like, you know, a fat body.
Speaker 1: He just had this weird stuff he needs. He got
Speaker 1: LiPo because yeah, that's that's a good That's what's the book.
Speaker 1: It was to the point where he always wore like
Speaker 1: Adida's track jackets or like a hoodie. She went waste
Speaker 1: going out somewhere and he couldn't waste chain. It might
Speaker 1: not have been bad for him. Well, I mean, yeah
Speaker 1: this remember the man wat sharing that to push. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we had one. He didn't Are you serious? We got
Speaker 1: a video forage to him. Prima Donna came up and
Speaker 1: he had it on. I don't know if you used
Speaker 1: after she gets I got a whole bunch of them,
Speaker 1: I call her like that, but they hustle them, didn't
Speaker 1: they like sue her because they said it didn't work. No,
Speaker 1: who for real shallotte works on me? I couldn't breathe.
Speaker 1: I'll be up in the thing like this. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't close your last and I can't bring I can't
Speaker 1: be smashed. Shove you. So if that guy Gez with
Speaker 1: the spare tire decided he wanted to use a waist
Speaker 1: chainer in the house behind closed doors, don't come outside
Speaker 1: in it. But you'll be fine later with him with
Speaker 1: his waist chain Do that on your own time. The
Speaker 1: zip up ones, because you know they got the jones
Speaker 1: if they wasn't make you sweat, the sweat jones, the
Speaker 1: marshall work out and stuff. Yeah, and then you take
Speaker 1: it off and be all sweat and stretched out, like
Speaker 1: just just just put that. That's not good because that's
Speaker 1: water weight that you lose when you spread it out,
Speaker 1: so then it comes right back as soon as you
Speaker 1: drink some water. That's from what I've heard. I would
Speaker 1: not have been mad at him for trying to diffuse
Speaker 1: the situation, right, you know, because that's what would not
Speaker 1: have been man when you have taking care of him
Speaker 1: after that life out, Yes, I would have about yourself
Speaker 1: to see like that. Oh my god, I would have
Speaker 1: made sure he took his percocets. Man, he had thirties, fifties.
Speaker 1: Maybe I could push the things. Hello, hello got at
Speaker 1: her birth? What did that pey? But the man got
Speaker 1: like lip fillers, that's something, or like people that makeup artists.
Speaker 1: He gets those, but I didn't know he had him.
Speaker 1: But he's your makeup artists. But if a dude just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm feeling the type of where I want a little
Speaker 1: plump down. That's like, that's weird, Like whatever makes I
Speaker 1: think a guy could get a nose job if you
Speaker 1: don't like that. If you play football and it got broken.
Speaker 1: He was in Dubai and got hit on the foe Willard, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like what if this knows he just didn't like it. No,
Speaker 1: like like Owen Wilson knows. You know, the lords make
Speaker 1: him money. That's what I'm saying. I'd be like, come on, babe,
Speaker 1: let's go signature that. Like Dr Miami. He don't do noses, right,
Speaker 1: yeah he does, he actually does. Really he was he
Speaker 1: specializes in not he he specialized that everybody just everybody,
Speaker 1: you know Dr Southower when he first started doing plats
Speaker 1: of surgery. That was his specialty, noses, noses, And that's
Speaker 1: wh whose specialty is that? Doctor massif massive from the
Speaker 1: from Botched like that. I like that when they be
Speaker 1: fixing people's life. Now, what about if a guy wanted
Speaker 1: to get like, say, his ass was super flat, because
Speaker 1: when I was gonna say, we don't need it. He
Speaker 1: don't need that. No male bbs, just a little fat chance.
Speaker 1: I keep I don't like guys who have come letly
Speaker 1: flat assides. Have you ever seen guys? Oh? I don't
Speaker 1: like it either, Like you gotta have like not a
Speaker 1: big gass at all, but like a tiny bump. You
Speaker 1: might have had some hips like that guy off show
Speaker 1: was that was it? Living single? One of them sitcoms?
Speaker 1: She was? He had hips? You know who I call
Speaker 1: hips that bullshitgy show like hips man hips. Looking at
Speaker 1: that man for some hips. That's weird to me. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry a man would a flex. But like anything, if
Speaker 1: a man walked like that, if he had that, it
Speaker 1: just gives me child predator. Yeah yeah, I just got
Speaker 1: kids in his baby. Yeah he scared me. I'll keep
Speaker 1: driving them a little box man. Yelp. The mystery machine.
Speaker 1: So what surgeries? Is it? Okay? You think so? You
Speaker 1: think a nose job is okay? Correct? Geez, you're saying, uh,
Speaker 1: if he really liked the issue and he has to
Speaker 1: get like, well, I think that's okay. I think a
Speaker 1: man can bleach like for even skin to sort of
Speaker 1: like what about botox? No, I think the hair transplant
Speaker 1: is good. The lebron okay, So yeah, that's what I
Speaker 1: That's what I think is acceptable hair hair things. Honey,
Speaker 1: it's acceptable to go bald, like if you want your hair.
Speaker 1: I know a guy and his ship looks crazy and
Speaker 1: he got the whole line back there. I didn't know
Speaker 1: what was going on he got Yeah, he did it,
Speaker 1: but he didn't look like they didn't do a good job.
Speaker 1: And that was an episode on. But the thing's embarrassing.
Speaker 1: Why Bossy doesn't work anymore is because because I know.
Speaker 1: I know guys, you know I deal with grown ass man.
Speaker 1: I'm not remember the haircloth man, I was actly. That's
Speaker 1: an issue that a man in his thirties has. They
Speaker 1: have seen it. I just take it off. Guys, get
Speaker 1: me seating hairline is even younger than that. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you too. Don't when I was I take his
Speaker 1: hat off, you baby. Put that on my ex boyfriend
Speaker 1: when we were like twenty four years old, he was
Speaker 1: like had every seat in hair line. Yeah, yes it
Speaker 1: was bad. You know what. He used to shave his
Speaker 1: head ball but you know that should grow back mad
Speaker 1: quick that night. Yeah, you know what, that just made
Speaker 1: me feel like pussy hand with Instagram me that was
Speaker 1: going around where the kids was getting punished for being
Speaker 1: for being bad, and I even had child, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: do that because I was, Okay, well when they're they're
Speaker 1: don't you well, you can't watch that baby green, don't
Speaker 1: great hand. I'm not a child five years old. No,
Speaker 1: but they ain't get no good job because they failed school.
Speaker 1: But when I was seeing, when I was seeing what
Speaker 1: happened when bosley is that you have to take a
Speaker 1: drug to maintain it. It's called prop petsia. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: the propecia um they it turned out that it was
Speaker 1: making men really depressed. They were losing their erection, but
Speaker 1: they got haired up. Yeah, so you have to like,
Speaker 1: so the guy's getting bothered. They have to choose between
Speaker 1: the propitia, you know, a good hairline or their dick.
Speaker 1: Of course, they're choosing their dick. So yeah, so the
Speaker 1: boss is no good no more. After Propitia has all
Speaker 1: those lawsuits and they have a bunch of loss. What
Speaker 1: about ESPN for brogane is a maintenance thing. That's another
Speaker 1: thing for when you get like hair trans caton stuff.
Speaker 1: I don't think none of stuff that now guys are
Speaker 1: doing like this new thing. It's like a form of
Speaker 1: micro blading, like the way the girls are doing the
Speaker 1: that's that's what everybody's doing and it looks really good.
Speaker 1: That's it's the way to go. It does. You don't
Speaker 1: have to take any after medicine. It's permanent. But don't
Speaker 1: you have to keep getting it done because micro blading,
Speaker 1: you have to get that done. Like it's probably a
Speaker 1: little maten what then is micro But it's like okay,
Speaker 1: so don't hurt like that they say, they said raised
Speaker 1: little hair strokes. It looks like hair strokes. But they
Speaker 1: do it with but it's like a tattoo um with
Speaker 1: a blade. It's like a tattoo needle with no engine.
Speaker 1: Is the only last six months because the tattooed, you know.
Speaker 1: But after a while, after a lot of maintenance, after
Speaker 1: a lot of doing it. You won't have to do it.
Speaker 1: You'll probably have to do it, like once a month
Speaker 1: you wash your face just went away. Yeah, Now what
Speaker 1: if that man who wearing makeup? Or TV if you
Speaker 1: like hosting a sports show or something like that, or
Speaker 1: you're going a movie. But what about when you leave
Speaker 1: the set and then you go on to the strip club?
Speaker 1: Should you get some white to the face. You're just
Speaker 1: gonna walk up in the place with your face beat.
Speaker 1: I feel like that might be a little weirder. It
Speaker 1: be like, let me stop and go get some makeup wipe?
Speaker 1: So did you got to basually put them on you?
Speaker 1: We have thats gone. You can want the backroom man's
Speaker 1: always want to lashes and everything better brown because they
Speaker 1: don't funk with their ships. Once you start glowing, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, they don't work around with it.
Speaker 1: I feel like a waistman. A man has good lashes
Speaker 1: and good brows, I'll be jealous. I'm quick to um
Speaker 1: tell a man that he has nice brows and ain't
Speaker 1: always be bottom ones that look like dear eyes. So
Speaker 1: let's say you went out with a guy and it
Speaker 1: turns out he did have on a little tints of moisturizing,
Speaker 1: asking like he got he got natural lash extensions to
Speaker 1: let's be that's not fair. We get to do that.
Speaker 1: We have a bad David tied bags in our eyes.
Speaker 1: Let me put a little makeup because a lot might
Speaker 1: appreciate a little tints of moisturizer. Because that's just lo
Speaker 1: even that that's not depends on brandy mercy validation. That's
Speaker 1: a lightweight a grease. What if he had a pimple,
Speaker 1: But if it had a pimple and he puts some
Speaker 1: concealer like you know, no, no, no, he had a
Speaker 1: pocket because then he said it with the powders like
Speaker 1: and then sprayed with I can't have a pipetic a
Speaker 1: girl have a pimple, it's the end of the world.
Speaker 1: Everybody is zooming, Like, look at that pimple on the heay,
Speaker 1: she looked crazy. But if a guy has on this
Speaker 1: kind of like I used to make mona mole. Let
Speaker 1: me shall be right quick, sharp shing weird glue made
Speaker 1: that big three d I you silly. We're talking about
Speaker 1: human dildos earlier too, right as far as like a
Speaker 1: man that we just really just want to have sex
Speaker 1: with and don't want anything else from him. Now, do
Speaker 1: you think that that's a situation that could last for
Speaker 1: like a year? Could you have sex with a man
Speaker 1: I have no feelings for him? But me, I know
Speaker 1: you can't. I can't have sex with nobody. I'm not
Speaker 1: married to them, period. Even before you were married. Before
Speaker 1: I was married, was a thought, let's just be clear.
Speaker 1: But once I got married, I was just like I
Speaker 1: just realized I was just giving myself away, just like
Speaker 1: I was like so fun. Yeah, I was like, like,
Speaker 1: once we do we go together and were married, it's
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, because I don't like people
Speaker 1: like that. So I got exactly how I feel. I
Speaker 1: don't really like humans. Like once we have that, it's
Speaker 1: like like that's the way if I've been on for
Speaker 1: at least like two three years, Like once we have sex,
Speaker 1: I said, we go together. I'm staying around, right, I'm
Speaker 1: sticking through. Don't you think you have to go through
Speaker 1: you at that phase though? Everybody? And if you didn't,
Speaker 1: then I think you're gonna you're you're gonna, yeah, you're
Speaker 1: talking about this, it's gonna have That's what I said.
Speaker 1: It's good to go through your thought phase in your
Speaker 1: twenties and then you know, but because if not, you're
Speaker 1: gonna go through your thought because all right, I started
Speaker 1: my thought phase like between nineteen because I lost my
Speaker 1: Virginia at nineteen, so between nineteen and twenty four. So
Speaker 1: I think that that's like colleges, but I didn't. But
Speaker 1: I have Jordan's and my daughter about to be sixteen,
Speaker 1: and I don't want her to, like I don't want
Speaker 1: her to go through it, but she had today everybody,
Speaker 1: and I thought face wasn't really thought it wasn't just
Speaker 1: like all right, everybody in the head like I can
Speaker 1: still count on my hands. Because I grew up real
Speaker 1: strict holiness Christian, so I used to think if I
Speaker 1: had sex, I was gonna burn in hell until I
Speaker 1: had and I was like, well, my little go away
Speaker 1: at nineteen, Well it was that experience like the first time,
Speaker 1: the first time, I hated it. I hated it after
Speaker 1: because it's like hell and the boys like y'all never
Speaker 1: ask for this again. I was like, I cried. I
Speaker 1: was just like wow, like I saved myself, like you yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was like and I used to lie in
Speaker 1: school and be like, yeah, girl, we did it. And
Speaker 1: I did and he was lying on your pussy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but when you but dry humping, you know, because I
Speaker 1: was dry humping and that's it was in the South.
Speaker 1: But when you actual penetration, that ship hurts. But honestly,
Speaker 1: to this day, it really still hurts because I'll tell
Speaker 1: you my kind of college just told me the way
Speaker 1: that my vaginal cavity is, the way it's shaped. It's
Speaker 1: like a teenager. So my ship is tight and all
Speaker 1: my kids are sin serious, so my ship is still
Speaker 1: like this is my knigg stretch. But hur hurts every
Speaker 1: time you have sad, not every time, but it's just
Speaker 1: like wait, you know you have to scooch where you
Speaker 1: like like like you still ale, yeah, because other than that,
Speaker 1: like people like yeah, suck the ship out of me.
Speaker 1: You don't have to like just just slip the hand,
Speaker 1: slip the hand and trust smart feel big like that ship.
Speaker 1: Like I don't see how girls from people like this.
Speaker 1: I want to stop the thirteen what bit you try
Speaker 1: to die? They can't fit, you know, the little one.
Speaker 1: But listen, babies could come out of there. Anybody you
Speaker 1: could fit, Like, yeah, that's true, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: even want a baby to come out of there, like
Speaker 1: to me, that's just like because they said it never
Speaker 1: it's really that's a real surgery though, like that it
Speaker 1: is you're really cutting through your body like layers, layers
Speaker 1: and layers and an I don't. I mean, I'm good
Speaker 1: with one kid. I don't. The regular giving birth was
Speaker 1: it's pretty intense. That it's harder. That's way worse. It's recovery.
Speaker 1: But you know it's crazy. I guess my doctor she
Speaker 1: told me, um, she was just like, you're I'm also
Speaker 1: like a freak of nature. Because I went in my
Speaker 1: last he just turned two, so I went in at five,
Speaker 1: he was out. I was up by ten o'clock hating
Speaker 1: doing the name name like like, but they taught me
Speaker 1: to because you can't get that before you gotta move
Speaker 1: your feet and everything. You gotta move your um, your
Speaker 1: you know, your body parts, and then they take you
Speaker 1: to your room and then you still have your cather
Speaker 1: and stuff. And but like I was like, can I
Speaker 1: get up? I don't. I have anxiety and I can't
Speaker 1: sit still. So once the baby, I'm like, all right,
Speaker 1: what were doing when we're back in the study, let
Speaker 1: me take But we don't get that. But there are
Speaker 1: some people that like, how do they have a baby?
Speaker 1: Maybe two days later go on the movie premiers, like
Speaker 1: I saw then Kevin Hart wife just had a baby.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna listen to me. I was. I wasn't
Speaker 1: senior in high school when I had my daughter. And
Speaker 1: I had her on a Tuesday, and I went back
Speaker 1: to school on Friday, tight jeans and heels, and well, yeah,
Speaker 1: after I gave birth to my son, I was. I
Speaker 1: got up and I remember I had the energy to
Speaker 1: walk around and everything, but I mean for me to
Speaker 1: go out and everything, I could barely hold my pee.
Speaker 1: I can't even imaginally doing anything. Yeah, I was just
Speaker 1: falling out. Not my ant sides weren't falling out, Like
Speaker 1: I remember thinking that I was gonna be able to
Speaker 1: come out the hospital and put a girl on and
Speaker 1: snap back and everything. But people, I didn't feel normal,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't feel normal for at least like a
Speaker 1: month after I gave birth. Like it's amazing. I don't
Speaker 1: have any kids. I love to hear these stories for
Speaker 1: having a baby. Everybody's experiences like totally different, Like really,
Speaker 1: because there are people who have c sections, like I
Speaker 1: never want one of those again. I'm like I don't
Speaker 1: want to go through labor. I've seen my friends sections.
Speaker 1: I know a couple of people that lost blood, had
Speaker 1: blood trans But I just later, you know, seem like
Speaker 1: a chance. I was like, um, yeah, did y'all see
Speaker 1: loving him? Hope? You know they're talking to playing babies
Speaker 1: and stuff. Anything has a baby, she take picture, even
Speaker 1: a baby. She just those are the wants, I said,
Speaker 1: those are the like she has the baby making body. Honestly,
Speaker 1: your body when people let themselves go, that's on you.
Speaker 1: But your body is not supposed to be over after
Speaker 1: you have a child. I hate, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: hate the person, but I hate what people just turned to.
Speaker 1: The sloppy, slobbing least slob. You have a bag. And
Speaker 1: then you wonder why your baby, Like did you wonder
Speaker 1: why he out here? Yeh me always in the script
Speaker 1: club dancing. He might as well sign a death brows.
Speaker 1: And she my best friend is pregnant with twins right now,
Speaker 1: and she is huge, you know, and she's like twins
Speaker 1: some people be you didn't even be showing their baby
Speaker 1: be nine pounds. My god daughters as twins. And and
Speaker 1: but people kids trying to do it too quick? Yeah
Speaker 1: quick I mean when I gave birth to my kid.
Speaker 1: Always really um, I've always been a very vain person
Speaker 1: and I like to look at myself in the mirror
Speaker 1: like everybody else. But when I gave her some of
Speaker 1: my kid, like I had like anxiety about wanting to
Speaker 1: him to be okay, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: I didn't. I forgot about myself that I got so
Speaker 1: skinny I got I turned into a skinny stick because
Speaker 1: I wasn't eating. I had so much anxiety and stress
Speaker 1: of being That's what happened to me too, I swear.
Speaker 1: But a kid, you don't know. You don't realize even
Speaker 1: when you're pregnant your first kid, like you're about to
Speaker 1: have anxiety for the rest of your life. Depression, Like
Speaker 1: that's a lot of stuff that comes with it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you never know when it's gonna hit. And they give
Speaker 1: you these and then they give these little quizzes now
Speaker 1: to make sure you ain't at the number eight because
Speaker 1: my stress level and you don't know your stress levels,
Speaker 1: which is anxiety is so high. You just like because
Speaker 1: you want everything to be so perfect, and I just
Speaker 1: want to make sure why is he crying like this?
Speaker 1: And why is it? Oh my god debate. But sometimes
Speaker 1: they're perfectly all right, but you naturally stress yourself. Like
Speaker 1: when I first had my son, I didn't go out.
Speaker 1: I didn't go party. I didn't go drink nothing for
Speaker 1: like five months, for like five months because I was
Speaker 1: so I didn't want to leave my son to anybody.
Speaker 1: I didn't try to his father. I didn't truy someone
Speaker 1: anybody with his father, not even anybody with my mother.
Speaker 1: I don't want to know what everyone feel like that
Speaker 1: I think with the first one. But now I'll be
Speaker 1: like trying to keep Yeah, I feel like I don't
Speaker 1: feel like I'll be like that with with another one.
Speaker 1: If I didn't have another one, because now on tricks
Speaker 1: and all the things, Like I couldn't even sleep because
Speaker 1: I was like stalking my son all the time he
Speaker 1: would be sleeping, I'll be watching him. But I think
Speaker 1: I created now my daughter like sis. My daughter thinks
Speaker 1: she's my sister. Sis. She's like sis, what we're doing for?
Speaker 1: She's so pretty and I was, and that's what she was.
Speaker 1: You're so pretty and nicely sink to her. Now she
Speaker 1: thinks what she walks in the room, you post the
Speaker 1: same time. But she's such a sweetheart, and like, God,
Speaker 1: bless me with some amazing kids. Now something else that
Speaker 1: none of us because none of us in this room. Besides,
Speaker 1: you have been married, right, sever times? Yeah, a couple
Speaker 1: of times. How do you know when it's time to
Speaker 1: walk away? Because there's a lot of people obviously marriage
Speaker 1: it's difficult, right, and it's a lot of work. And
Speaker 1: at certain times people are like, hey, I'm done with this,
Speaker 1: I can't take it anymore. Or sometimes you're like, you
Speaker 1: know what, we're going through a really rough patch and
Speaker 1: we gotta figure it out. How do you know? All right?
Speaker 1: I just can't all right. The first time, I shouldn't
Speaker 1: have got married, but I was like, I want to
Speaker 1: have kids and I don't want to just have a
Speaker 1: baby faver, so let's get married. And we got married,
Speaker 1: like I knew him, but like six weeks after dating,
Speaker 1: we got married and then I got pregnant thing, and
Speaker 1: I was just like okay, and he it was just wrong,
Speaker 1: but I knew I do. I walked away from that
Speaker 1: because he started cheating and I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm a cheat too. I did that cheap back sis
Speaker 1: and it wasn't I was just like, that's not right,
Speaker 1: And then I saw what it was doing to my daughters,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't want them to meet nobody,
Speaker 1: no nigga like you. And I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm turning into what I didn't want to become. So
Speaker 1: I was like, we gotta break it up because they
Speaker 1: want to start hating you and not being around you
Speaker 1: and septing that. No. Then the second one, I just
Speaker 1: married him because I wanted to make the first one
Speaker 1: man because I know I shouldn't have best with him.
Speaker 1: But now we we have two children together, and well
Speaker 1: that don't care. I canceled them out. They don't even
Speaker 1: count to me. But I was like, I'm out. Like
Speaker 1: I was so depressed, and uh, this part makes me
Speaker 1: cry because my daughter, she came to me one day
Speaker 1: she was like, mom, I my kids knew that I
Speaker 1: wasn't happy, and I had pulled myself away from the
Speaker 1: industry and friends and like people that I was really
Speaker 1: close with, like even fab and everybody, like I wasn't
Speaker 1: coming around because I was just like, well, maybe I
Speaker 1: should just stay home and be a wife and be
Speaker 1: people's mother and just sit home and just do nothing.
Speaker 1: And I just felt like a reclusive, and once I
Speaker 1: started feeling like I wasn't myself, not a little mo
Speaker 1: but Cynthia, and I lost sight of who I was.
Speaker 1: I said, oh, hell to them now, and I literally
Speaker 1: picked up and left and like, now with my marriage now, Honestly,
Speaker 1: I was like, this is the one I should have
Speaker 1: been with from the whole time, because he's been chasing me.
Speaker 1: What's crazy was I said I was married, I was
Speaker 1: twelve years, a slave because the first and six, but
Speaker 1: for fifteen years because he's he's a young boy. He'd
Speaker 1: been chasing me for fifteen years and he was fifteen
Speaker 1: when he first tried all at me. So you do
Speaker 1: the math, all right, now? Let me Now, we've seen
Speaker 1: y'all have issues too, We've seen the couple's court and everything,
Speaker 1: and you're like, like, I'm not I'm gonna make sure
Speaker 1: that this works out. Because he did admit that he's
Speaker 1: had some issues in the past and that he used
Speaker 1: to be a thought also, and then he got with
Speaker 1: you and now he wants to make things right. How
Speaker 1: do you know that? You know? Because this happens in
Speaker 1: relationships all the time. The guy messes up everyone's relationship, right.
Speaker 1: The guy messes up and then you're like, Okay, you
Speaker 1: have a choice. Now do I give him another chance
Speaker 1: or do I not give him another chance? How do
Speaker 1: you know that it's worth it? You just know because
Speaker 1: you're like, all right, I'm gonna play. I'm gonna play
Speaker 1: like I didn't notice what happened. And if we see
Speaker 1: this bitch, we're gonna jump together. But like, first of all,
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, like when you saw the couple's
Speaker 1: court that was from years ago, we just remade it first,
Speaker 1: so it's just like it seems like it's new. So
Speaker 1: I'm just like and because in a scorpio on me
Speaker 1: is just like like you know, you're fing with like
Speaker 1: you know, like you know what I have access to, Nigga,
Speaker 1: I can ruin you, I can destroy you, and I
Speaker 1: won't have to funk any of your friends. One thing
Speaker 1: I don't do is I don't cross pollinate this pussy
Speaker 1: nobody in your What's crazy is is that as soon
Speaker 1: as people saw us on the TV, people all like, oh,
Speaker 1: like I'm from North Philly to get at me, and
Speaker 1: I'm just like, yo, like people are just really weird
Speaker 1: like that. But one thing I did notice that I
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm not gonna be as accessible. And
Speaker 1: I was just like, yo, you have to a lot
Speaker 1: of men don't realize who they are, Like my husband now,
Speaker 1: he's a professional box and I'm like, I see what
Speaker 1: I knew. It came with the territory. His best friends
Speaker 1: are Danny Garcia, Adrian Brona Boa, like Victor Ortis. These
Speaker 1: are people house we stay at like these are that's
Speaker 1: like our family. So I'm just like, Okay, I get it,
Speaker 1: and I know what comes to the territory, but I
Speaker 1: will be a bitch the funk up, Like I don't
Speaker 1: play that ship. So it's just like like you either
Speaker 1: cut that ship out and let's let's let's clear this
Speaker 1: late because then you have to realize to what type
Speaker 1: of bitches you messing with that run to tell the
Speaker 1: blogs niggas. Let me tell you, I ain't know Angel,
Speaker 1: but my nigs don't tell the funk you're doing. What
Speaker 1: happened to the quiet side pieces or whatever? You know,
Speaker 1: the hush mouth media? Yeah, and people really And I'm
Speaker 1: just like, like, who raised Who's raising these bitches? But
Speaker 1: at the same time, don't you look at it like
Speaker 1: he chased you for all these years? Got you. Why
Speaker 1: fucked that up? Like a lot of people don't realize
Speaker 1: if he liked like sometimes to this day was like Dad,
Speaker 1: like I really got you, and he's still like like damn,
Speaker 1: And I was just like, okay, damn, it's not that hard.
Speaker 1: Really in life, anybody you want you can really have.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to everything. I agree with that. If you
Speaker 1: there's some people in life like well, I don't know
Speaker 1: I speak things in existence. How did he get you? Anyway? Like,
Speaker 1: how did it even after all that time? Made you say,
Speaker 1: because we've just been kicking it for all the years,
Speaker 1: because all right, fifteen years ago, like when who was
Speaker 1: on tour with what's two thousand two? Because he's he
Speaker 1: grew up with Beanie Seagull was his Like that's BBC
Speaker 1: young Ball, so that's like his uncle. So when I
Speaker 1: was torn with the rock back then, like those years
Speaker 1: and missing and us, like, he was around and I
Speaker 1: was just like, alright, So his cousin that's locked up.
Speaker 1: Everybody know him. His name is Woo and everybody knew
Speaker 1: who because he had a murder mill that was from
Speaker 1: Philly and he used to come up always. He used
Speaker 1: to be around Violat a lot so he was always
Speaker 1: the young boy that was around. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: he's so cute, like the boy with the gay hair,
Speaker 1: the boxer ball. So then finally once he matured, he
Speaker 1: was like, he's like, yo, you're ready for me yet,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh my god. But I'm always because
Speaker 1: I was in Baltimore and Baltimore and Philly just like
Speaker 1: it always yeah and be like I don't like Philly, Philly,
Speaker 1: I don't like by the same thing in each other
Speaker 1: city Hello, eating eating strength and damn crabs Hello. So
Speaker 1: it's just like it was like the same thing. So
Speaker 1: it almost seemed like inevitable. But like once we clicked,
Speaker 1: we just start like he was like, yeah, I got you,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I because I'm I'm a piece
Speaker 1: of bird, Like I'm are you sure that you can
Speaker 1: handle this? Because I'm a lot. My my mouth, my attitude,
Speaker 1: my mood swings. Some days I want to be little mold,
Speaker 1: some days I want to be synthy. Some days I
Speaker 1: don't want to be bothered, some days don't want to
Speaker 1: be kindered. Tomorrow when I take you away up something like,
Speaker 1: some days you gotta be able to deal with it.
Speaker 1: And a lot of people think that what you see
Speaker 1: on TV is what you get at home. Some days
Speaker 1: I'll be like, what the fun was we thinking? And
Speaker 1: then some days he'll be like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: can love you, but this is one time in life
Speaker 1: I can honestly say that I am in love. That's
Speaker 1: good for you. You know. I have a question because you,
Speaker 1: as you said something earlier about getting married after you know,
Speaker 1: you have sex after you get married. So was that
Speaker 1: the first marriage that you did that? With that? After that?
Speaker 1: He was like, all right, whoever I deal with from
Speaker 1: this first marriage, from now on, I'm not having sex
Speaker 1: until I get married. It was just like, because I
Speaker 1: was raised holiness Apostolic Christian, it was honestly supposed to.
Speaker 1: We were toward you aren't supposed to lose your virginity
Speaker 1: until you're married. But since I didn't marry the person,
Speaker 1: I lost my virginity too. I was like, Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't want to just be out here thoughting and bopping. Listen,
Speaker 1: if you want to be with me, then you're gonna
Speaker 1: have to marry me, and you're gonna have to meet
Speaker 1: my dad and you have to go through the motions.
Speaker 1: So it's not no, just like, oh, we getting married,
Speaker 1: like you have to meet the parents. Now you put
Speaker 1: your foot down, like and this is what you gotta do.
Speaker 1: Now my kids, that's totally different because with my with
Speaker 1: my first marriage, I didn't have any children, so we
Speaker 1: had children together, but he had children from previous relationships
Speaker 1: and with that baby mothers like, I'm so glad, Like
Speaker 1: my baby fathers need to give me a trophy and
Speaker 1: a crown. Because when I say, I don't call them,
Speaker 1: I don't ask for anything. They don't have my phone, umber,
Speaker 1: I don't have their day, know where I live. I
Speaker 1: don't know where they live, no communication whatsoever. I don't
Speaker 1: think kids are old enough to communicate with them on
Speaker 1: their own. So they were born. Yeah, it's like that's
Speaker 1: how it should be, Like for real, what do we
Speaker 1: need to talk about. I'm gonna make all the decisions
Speaker 1: because I know at the end of the day, I
Speaker 1: knew every time, even though we were married and I
Speaker 1: gave birth, I was like, you know what, there's a
Speaker 1: chance we may not be together. So listen, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: bring the shot in the world if I if I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to take care of it, don't
Speaker 1: even get on this don't even go through the motions.
Speaker 1: Do what you gotta do so that he can they
Speaker 1: communicate directly with their kids or how does that work?
Speaker 1: Do you think it would be a more ideal situation
Speaker 1: if y'all were like cool with each other once, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna scop you on something I have nothing to say, Like,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, like, I literally love botomized niggas out
Speaker 1: of my life. I was like, I don't remember anything, damn. Like,
Speaker 1: if you sit right there, I'll be like, who that
Speaker 1: I should baby father? No virgin Murray Jesus? So when
Speaker 1: when when did he get to meet the kids? He
Speaker 1: met them? Man? So because people are acting really know
Speaker 1: funny about that, Like when you see it blides remember
Speaker 1: the day deal they made it back like Sierra and
Speaker 1: they made such a big deal out of it and
Speaker 1: she ended up marrying him. But people being always in
Speaker 1: people business. One thing about me is I don't be
Speaker 1: in people business like that. I don't be caring. That's
Speaker 1: why I'm like, how do these blogs survived? That's too
Speaker 1: many people that care about other people's lives. I don't
Speaker 1: be caring. I'd be like, as long as that child
Speaker 1: is safe and doesn't look like because you could tell
Speaker 1: by child's countenance or they are be like oh no,
Speaker 1: but you can look at the way he is with
Speaker 1: that Sild'm like, yo, that baby is happy. So when
Speaker 1: would you want them to be in a stable environment?
Speaker 1: And people always start being uh oh future through a
Speaker 1: subtweet out and just like that, and then you cause
Speaker 1: friction between a relationship that you really had no business
Speaker 1: tampering with and that has been married. I think people
Speaker 1: should keep their hands off. I think, yeah, but people
Speaker 1: they just have people. I'm drinking water, mind of my business,
Speaker 1: You're not buch Because I look at the comments section
Speaker 1: at that time that it was posted, I was like,
Speaker 1: y'all just be at work, Like what jobs do y'all have?
Speaker 1: Y'all so rich or everything? But like with my kids,
Speaker 1: because when we actually started dating, I was still with
Speaker 1: R and B divas of l A, so we were
Speaker 1: in l A. He didn't actually meet them until I
Speaker 1: came back to the East Coast and that was like
Speaker 1: about five months later. And then I didn't even let
Speaker 1: her hit it until like, yeah, like the first time
Speaker 1: you see I made and I wasn't even divorce ship
Speaker 1: bang the gather well the ink wasn't even damn dry.
Speaker 1: I was Maryly, you have to be separated four year
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, yes that they did a
Speaker 1: lot of places. I think you have to be separated
Speaker 1: for California. As long as you'll be like, oh we
Speaker 1: irreconsolable differences and alienation affection, they'll be like today, yeah
Speaker 1: tonight fail like like a relationship will lives longer if
Speaker 1: you do weight in the beginning. I think relationships last
Speaker 1: as long as you want them to. You have to
Speaker 1: want to make it work. Because the old me, like
Speaker 1: if she would have been like that, out have been
Speaker 1: like you know what, like it's too many niggas out
Speaker 1: here because it's some cute like and I just really thing.
Speaker 1: So you've been to Dominican Republican had no work done yet,
Speaker 1: so and yet you know, everybody just we'll catch the flights.
Speaker 1: We know, but you know, you just get to the
Speaker 1: point where you just like, you know, I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: this work. My parents have been married for what they've
Speaker 1: been together for forty two years. They've been married for
Speaker 1: forty something like what I want, Like I love my parents.
Speaker 1: I'm like, how do you do with my dad said,
Speaker 1: we're just weird like that. My parents are actually they're
Speaker 1: leaving today. They're taking my daughters and they're going on
Speaker 1: they're going on the cruise and to the Bahamas with
Speaker 1: my um aunt and uncle that I moved back to
Speaker 1: New York with when I became little mo. Dy've been
Speaker 1: married for sixty years, so in my family were married.
Speaker 1: They are like, that's how we My sister's married. Like
Speaker 1: everybody and my family we're married. We don't just go
Speaker 1: together this noe nobody being. There's nobody that's just a
Speaker 1: baby mother. And if you are, we'll be like you
Speaker 1: better get you a husband. That's how it is. And
Speaker 1: you meet the whole family and our family like my
Speaker 1: last name is loving. That's my giving last name. So
Speaker 1: we like that's how we really are. People love my
Speaker 1: family like your how's your dad? People love us. That's
Speaker 1: just how we are. We're just warm, we're welcoming. So
Speaker 1: that's why whenever I get done wrong, people just like
Speaker 1: you didn't deserve that, because that's not how it was raised.
Speaker 1: I never saw my dad yell at my mom, disrespect
Speaker 1: my mom, never saw my mom, never heard my mom
Speaker 1: and dad cursed, never saw them drink liquor, like their preachers.
Speaker 1: But they my parents went on toll with me and everything.
Speaker 1: So it was just like everybody's called the fake ass
Speaker 1: Cosby's and stuff like that, to the point where I
Speaker 1: used to be like, well, why do we have to
Speaker 1: have a dad? Nobody else has a dad? And now
Speaker 1: growing now that I'm older and wiser, I'm just like,
Speaker 1: you know what, that's the reason why I have confidence.
Speaker 1: I don't have no self esteem. I mean, I get
Speaker 1: over ship quick, you know what I mean. But at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, like I have that balance
Speaker 1: because that's where I come from, and that's what honestly,
Speaker 1: I think I've been in search for all my life.
Speaker 1: That's like, let's man, get a fish up. That's why
Speaker 1: I can sing love songs like that, and mothers be
Speaker 1: like yeah, man, yeah, Like baby, I'm trying to play
Speaker 1: against like it's your long we gonna go together ship,
Speaker 1: trying to sing like you on the ship, singing my
Speaker 1: heart out. You'll be singing in bad in the bedroom. No,
Speaker 1: you know that's like you on the mic, the mike
Speaker 1: right out, all right. They like that you sing. But
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy is that you know I'm a singer.
Speaker 1: I'm probably sing like once out of the week because
Speaker 1: it's so much other stuff that I did like. But
Speaker 1: other than that, Yeah, because people like, oh, girl, if
Speaker 1: I can sing like y'a'll be singing all the time.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, you wouldn't be. If I can and
Speaker 1: I was in that man, i'd definitely be singing a
Speaker 1: little song every now and then. People like, yeah, but
Speaker 1: like that should just because I can really sing. But
Speaker 1: it's just like, who don't we baby, if you don't
Speaker 1: go to sleep and watch just walking, David shot up,
Speaker 1: I don't thinking take second songs like about a second Yo,
Speaker 1: so lost favorite songs you can't tell you you sing
Speaker 1: and you could be in the bedroom about to like
Speaker 1: it's about to go down to you about licking, I'm
Speaker 1: be singing signs about like about if you like if
Speaker 1: you're singing it just it just feels like weird. But
Speaker 1: if the music is playing like them love songs like
Speaker 1: I got a song now called thirty minutes I could,
Speaker 1: I can almost guarantee you everybody's gonna be preggingt off
Speaker 1: this one. I know certain songs that because I think
Speaker 1: songs have they conjure up certain spirits in the spirit
Speaker 1: of eros is love, and that's what I put into
Speaker 1: my music. So like a girl came to me. She
Speaker 1: was like a matter of fact at Jeys pressure age
Speaker 1: and she was like, oh my god, a little more.
Speaker 1: I just love you and I may love to all
Speaker 1: your songs. And I'm like, okay, baby bothered up. But like,
Speaker 1: I know when I put out certain songs and music
Speaker 1: what I want people to feel and so far, like
Speaker 1: I just did a show on Philly What's the Day?
Speaker 1: But for the Escape tour, as soon as I came out,
Speaker 1: I know how I had made like but I know
Speaker 1: how people want to feel and I make you get
Speaker 1: in your back. What's the song called thirty minutes? Yeah
Speaker 1: I can oh man, my phone is broke the and
Speaker 1: that like the soft porn. But okay, now do y'all
Speaker 1: feel yourselves? Yes in the bedroom, yes, and what do
Speaker 1: you do? But for the for the video shoot, oh
Speaker 1: I got it's crazy that isn't like okay, so now
Speaker 1: in the video shoot, I can't tell that because because
Speaker 1: us the way loveing hip hop is set up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but all right with the video shoot, it's crazy that
Speaker 1: you can film yourself. See how you have a camera
Speaker 1: for You're like, yeah, bitch, I'm gonna tell them this day,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make this thing all the way. But if
Speaker 1: somebody else is filming, people like, oh my god, don't Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh my god, give me a
Speaker 1: purpose that because because now there's another person there filming.
Speaker 1: So if it's so, what's crazy is it's a bit
Speaker 1: that had three sons, four songs and all this ship
Speaker 1: before her life. I was like, why do not? I
Speaker 1: used to be scared before, But why am I scared now?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Now I think, yeah, why was I
Speaker 1: so lit before? And what's the crazy people being? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but now you came. You probably in the house now
Speaker 1: you think when you're younger, just like you don't have
Speaker 1: fair when you're young you lot of inhibitious. That's what
Speaker 1: it was. You're like a housecoad. You know. The household
Speaker 1: is that's some deal thing. When you go, that's the
Speaker 1: granny show around yourself. It's a blanket throw to pick
Speaker 1: up the kids from school and whoop, they asked, I
Speaker 1: want one of those. They're like a snug little snuggies
Speaker 1: and they got a hole in it right here. And
Speaker 1: you lost the and you lost the bell. Bell gotta
Speaker 1: hold it together. The thing's being comfortable. That's a sexy
Speaker 1: picture of thanks that image of you don't house. No,
Speaker 1: I was naked, like I don't. That's my mommy thing.
Speaker 1: But when I stick to day a mom, then I
Speaker 1: probably have like three of them joys with the whole
Speaker 1: and we walking. But my kids be busting my mom.
Speaker 1: Tell my mom, I'm like, yo, get out of keep
Speaker 1: busting in. We're wasting allowed to my parents room growing up.
Speaker 1: These kids nowadays, they're just a lie. I wasn't either that.
Speaker 1: We wasn't get get from that little on my dress up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we wasn't allowed to watch cable. My kids be putting
Speaker 1: it on on YouTube on my mom. Look at this,
Speaker 1: look at wild and now has this taion his name said,
Speaker 1: see you extensions. It's not like extension. It's not like
Speaker 1: it's all the way down extension. Yeah. He going to
Speaker 1: jail for a while. So yeah, the holidays are coming up,
Speaker 1: right obviously, so do y'all like exchange presents and everything? Right?
Speaker 1: So the kids nothing when they go to my mama house.
Speaker 1: They do because my mom and a Christian. These kids
Speaker 1: gonna have a Christmas. So it's crazy because they't no
Speaker 1: tree in the house, so I went all right. So
Speaker 1: our neighbors they had like I ain't for Cnthius or Passetius. Okay,
Speaker 1: I call him Poissetti the red Jaws. My son was
Speaker 1: picking all the things. I was like, no, those are
Speaker 1: Christmas things. So he doesn't know. And when we were
Speaker 1: in the um King of Prussire Mall, he saw the
Speaker 1: bit he was like, oh, mommy, I want those balls.
Speaker 1: So he loves best ball. He taking them all off
Speaker 1: and throwing them. He didn't realize what Santa Claus was.
Speaker 1: He was like, no, So they don't know. But when
Speaker 1: they go to my mom house, the eight year old,
Speaker 1: five year old, the older kids they know, but the
Speaker 1: two year old, oh, he doesn't know anything. But in
Speaker 1: January with presidents that like with you and Carl, you
Speaker 1: know how often, like do you give him presents all
Speaker 1: the time or is it just like his birthday all
Speaker 1: the time every week? Like you know what I love
Speaker 1: about him and he from North Philly. So the fact
Speaker 1: that like last night we were at a party and
Speaker 1: he just came to me with a book. He always
Speaker 1: goes lady and buys them all and he'll give me
Speaker 1: a whole munch and then he'll give him the people
Speaker 1: at the club to see that, like you never um capital,
Speaker 1: rich capital. I saw y'all rich capital and he did
Speaker 1: it the night that you were saying, like right, you
Speaker 1: know at the bar, we always at rid the cat,
Speaker 1: but he always buys all the roses and passed him
Speaker 1: out to me. He was like, you know, just make
Speaker 1: people feel you know, all right, because you just don't
Speaker 1: know what type of day, so I said, But then
Speaker 1: always I also saw somebody get out of line, pop
Speaker 1: the ship out of like you don't play because sometimes
Speaker 1: you know. We was at this place called Hope. It's
Speaker 1: a new place in Phillips downtown. This girl I saw
Speaker 1: you on that show and you are a piece of ship.
Speaker 1: He was like, bitch, I will everybody and feels a
Speaker 1: bitch I will beat you the funk up. So she
Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry, I didn't know, but that is
Speaker 1: when people see you on TV, they they feel like
Speaker 1: they know you and they can say anything to you,
Speaker 1: and they don't know like get the fun up. We
Speaker 1: already to People see you on the internet and they've
Speaker 1: been following you for years and that Suz and so
Speaker 1: on and so forth, and they feel like they know you,
Speaker 1: but you know, you know what I put on the internet.
Speaker 1: You don't really know me in real life, Like people
Speaker 1: get really comfortable in person. Somebody deemed me yesterday and
Speaker 1: one thing about me. And I learned this my dad
Speaker 1: growing up. My dad used to make us read books
Speaker 1: and write essays. So every Monday through Friday we have
Speaker 1: to read a book and buy Sunday handing the essay.
Speaker 1: And so he taught us how to deal with people.
Speaker 1: And so I know how to pull out of people
Speaker 1: what you really want to say? This girl, I said
Speaker 1: at the lake up sis I saw. I know you
Speaker 1: did your thing at the concept of the night, but
Speaker 1: that outfit you had on wasn't really conducive to Islam.
Speaker 1: And you follow Listen. She was like, you find your
Speaker 1: husband should be let you know about the raj June
Speaker 1: and this and that. I said, bit, shut the funk up.
Speaker 1: Suck my dear, because I said, you know what I said,
Speaker 1: Why is you worry about what I got on? First
Speaker 1: of all, if you really want to get down to
Speaker 1: you shouldn't even be on social media because it's not
Speaker 1: that's kind. Let's just be real someone, bitch. First of all,
Speaker 1: you know that that I said see that first exactly,
Speaker 1: that's what you wanted to say, And that's not even
Speaker 1: you in your abbey hole. Funk out of here, and
Speaker 1: you're never gonna say it to my face. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna get close. No. That's the worst when when people
Speaker 1: try to mention you but shade you at the same time, like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan, but I'm just trying to give
Speaker 1: you something like nobody asked for your own advice, like
Speaker 1: what you to commemorate it? One thing about people like yeah,
Speaker 1: the alphad was cute, but no you I love you more,
Speaker 1: but that alpha was taking Did you sold your head on?
Speaker 1: But you said your kid's hand that want to that
Speaker 1: in the stylist too funny they'd be like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: need a stylist. People always trying to tell you what
Speaker 1: to do with wi to put it with worry about
Speaker 1: So don't worry about me and what I'm doing wor
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what to do with your kids.
Speaker 1: Your money. That's the new thing. Oh, I see you
Speaker 1: getting a couple of dollars now, bitch, don't act new.
Speaker 1: You just got five from the radio station. Bitch. That
Speaker 1: that that little that little check, that wasn't that was
Speaker 1: asked to make my money, not having to be at
Speaker 1: work every single morning. Hello would think I used to
Speaker 1: drive I mean to DC every day. UD We used
Speaker 1: to get up at two o'clock in the morning, and
Speaker 1: I was just like, that's why. I'm just like, I
Speaker 1: know that nigga love me. And then he would we
Speaker 1: would leave by like ten am, ten thirty, get back
Speaker 1: to Philly by twelve thirty. He being the gym by
Speaker 1: four pm till six sometimes seven thirty, and we start
Speaker 1: all over again. And I make my kids lunch every
Speaker 1: night that were home, pick out their clothes and all
Speaker 1: that stuff. So like this little motion that ship is cool.
Speaker 1: But me being a mom, the domestic, the O c
Speaker 1: D going around, Oh my god, that's a fingerprint on
Speaker 1: the count. I have such an O c D and
Speaker 1: drops me crazy. I'm like, oh, please don't tell us
Speaker 1: while your hangars. Now, what about taking pace and people
Speaker 1: for both of y'all, Like, I know there's rules of
Speaker 1: you know, I remember I had a briefriend that would
Speaker 1: be really mad if I took a picture with somebody
Speaker 1: and they put their arm around me. Oh yeah, there's
Speaker 1: certain etiquette because you know a lot of people come
Speaker 1: up and I mean, it comes to territory. Can we
Speaker 1: take a picture? Yep, let's take a selfie and he
Speaker 1: said one and done. We're not gonna have no photo
Speaker 1: shoot because then people will start telling to wait, my,
Speaker 1: like my, you shouldn't you should have thought about a
Speaker 1: lash on those. That's why I would tell people just
Speaker 1: have some glasses and some gloss and you and you live. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because people would try to have a photo shoot and
Speaker 1: then um, I went to a restaurant the other day.
Speaker 1: Then sometimes I want like I'm on my way to somewhere,
Speaker 1: and because I'll be one thing about me is I
Speaker 1: see everything a bitches. Big brother out this bit. I
Speaker 1: went to this restaurant to go eat and I wanted
Speaker 1: to eat leave because we was going to Jessy pressure
Speaker 1: party after that day. So the girl comes to my comments,
Speaker 1: that was you a after restaurant? You didn't even want
Speaker 1: to take no picture? In some autographs but you ain't
Speaker 1: asked you saying hey, you look like little mo. So
Speaker 1: I said, don't you hate when people do that? This
Speaker 1: is happening to remember the guys to tell the guy no,
Speaker 1: he was like, look like that girl on the thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Ray was. He was like, that'sh you. I was like Nope.
Speaker 1: All the time, Like sometimes I've done it in front
Speaker 1: of you. I'll be like, no, I'm not. I don't
Speaker 1: know what that is, but you're not. I think she's pretty. People.
Speaker 1: You know, it's all about people's approach rights. Say hey,
Speaker 1: I know you don't want to be seen right now,
Speaker 1: but I love you. I saw you at the thing.
Speaker 1: They'd be like, I say no to that. You can't
Speaker 1: say what you say het you look like bitch. I'm
Speaker 1: eating on me and when I eat, I don't like
Speaker 1: to be like put a bib on and cut my food,
Speaker 1: but I want to eat. I gotta go. But you
Speaker 1: know what, the same places that you go, you know
Speaker 1: you're gonna see people, Like we went to the next
Speaker 1: game at the back Lace. You know, when I go there,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see people. And so I'm like in the
Speaker 1: and might want to take pictures. I'm fine with that
Speaker 1: because I know I'm there. But if you out like
Speaker 1: that was out. But when I'm if you Christal shopping
Speaker 1: at Target and decide to stop at lunching a grocery store,
Speaker 1: trying to just run in and get the look at gunna,
Speaker 1: but this phone. Have you ever been some when you
Speaker 1: saw somebody like this, but maybe like the snake, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, so I'll just be like this. I'll be
Speaker 1: sitting on like a dup me. I take the train
Speaker 1: with Day and I got off the train and somebody
Speaker 1: posted a picture of me on the train and I
Speaker 1: was looking dumb and I was like looking at my phone.
Speaker 1: I had my double chain because I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I want to sue people like that dude, because if
Speaker 1: I did that to them, they might be like I
Speaker 1: have been just trying to exploit dollars. They could do
Speaker 1: anything or anything that's suck up. I'd be like you,
Speaker 1: and I'm one of the coolest people, like if you
Speaker 1: walk up came out. But sure, that's the reason why
Speaker 1: I want to be famous again. Hello, but if you
Speaker 1: want you look, I thought you was a little more.
Speaker 1: But she's talking. Her lips is bigger. Yes, I was like,
Speaker 1: now she's talking her listens y right, it's not mean, yo.
Speaker 1: People tries it little no lips. That what about him
Speaker 1: taking pictures with people? To like if he's pictures with
Speaker 1: a woman. We have this thing because pr has told
Speaker 1: us new ways to pose because a lot of people
Speaker 1: in these allegations and because we can't listen. We don't
Speaker 1: need no more scandals. Hand around the imagine Johnson point Yohnson,
Speaker 1: the peace signs always getting too oh yeah, but or
Speaker 1: just but if you put your arms around people, it's
Speaker 1: a way to you don't touch that because people say,
Speaker 1: touch my bucket, I'm calling. We're not doing know Rick
Speaker 1: Ross and Johnson Lyn pictures. You're not going to hand
Speaker 1: around the booty. We're doing get around the shoulder. You
Speaker 1: have to have had a lot of scandal though so
Speaker 1: far already, but hasn't ever a months broken you like
Speaker 1: almost broken your relationship anyway, because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, like I always say, you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna really pull up so you can send them what
Speaker 1: you want to if you ain't pulling up, like if
Speaker 1: you're not pulling up me like like like I know
Speaker 1: what people trying to do, and then I know the
Speaker 1: messages people have sent me like yeah, but if you
Speaker 1: pay me five thousand, I'll make this go away. But
Speaker 1: you should have got that money from which because I
Speaker 1: ain't cutting ship right who I hope nobodyn't leak my
Speaker 1: steaming nudes and my steamy text messages. But my niggas
Speaker 1: never tell you keep saying that, like you had some ship. Okay,
Speaker 1: he's he's come fast, right, so you're cheating on him
Speaker 1: to know, Okay, So I'm not talking about before that.
Speaker 1: I mean I've never cheated. Yeah, Cheating is the it
Speaker 1: is giving someone It's not the actual act of intercourse.
Speaker 1: Cheating is giving someone time attention, Like if you get
Speaker 1: somebody time. Now, if it's just like, because all right,
Speaker 1: you're cool. So if my husband's like, yo, can I
Speaker 1: go holl and be like yo, what you think? Like
Speaker 1: it's just certain people that's cool. But then there's certain
Speaker 1: people that you'd be like, not that bit on the
Speaker 1: type time, so let me let me go ease, and
Speaker 1: you know we're gonna go talk to them like yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's just etiquette and everything is
Speaker 1: I fail. Like if he was high at me about something,
Speaker 1: I'll hit you up and be like, oh, just so
Speaker 1: you know exactly hit me up about this, aw you
Speaker 1: doing that? That stuff I would do. But then something now,
Speaker 1: if it was a surprise for me, I would be
Speaker 1: like I wanna be you ain't tell me. But some
Speaker 1: people be on some sneaks to be like yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: like and I've seen it because I damn, I don't
Speaker 1: even want to listen. I run all the social media accounts.
Speaker 1: I'll just put it like that, and I'd be again,
Speaker 1: Danny bit you want to die and then be thinking
Speaker 1: is him and I'd be like, no, bitch, this is me.
Speaker 1: I will lure your ass somewhere with something flammable and
Speaker 1: you will be smiling for the rest of your life.
Speaker 1: But I'll play by my husband. I don't play by
Speaker 1: my husband, yes, because one thing, you know, one thing
Speaker 1: I've learned and my mother taught me this too. I
Speaker 1: don't mess with nobody husband. That's one thing I don't do.
Speaker 1: I can't say I didn't do it before, but I'm
Speaker 1: just like, damn mine. I did not know the dude
Speaker 1: was married, and it was crazy. Is I found out?
Speaker 1: When was that not not Twitter? What was before my Space?
Speaker 1: And you know, she came to me like I was
Speaker 1: on top eight. No she she she was like she
Speaker 1: was on my page and she was like talking crazy
Speaker 1: little mom was trying to ruin a happy home. And
Speaker 1: I was like this when I first came out, and
Speaker 1: I was like my cousin used to run my social media.
Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, no, I'm not. He was like,
Speaker 1: my mother will whoop me, and I'm grown. So she
Speaker 1: came to me late on in life and she apologized.
Speaker 1: She was like, now, I know you didn't know like
Speaker 1: he was deceiving you because I was just like, yo,
Speaker 1: he never had none of his kids around. I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: like and it was a white boy at that white boy. Yeah.
Speaker 1: You know what's so funny. Earlier today, right before you
Speaker 1: came in, he was talking about white boys, like who
Speaker 1: in here? Because Jesus dated a white boy? Loriall hasn't.
Speaker 1: I haven't, Stephanie has how How did you? What did
Speaker 1: you think about dating white guys? Um? Personally? Sorry Dan,
Speaker 1: but you know, because there's a white man in the room.
Speaker 1: For me, personally, it's not my taste. I like black men.
Speaker 1: I like my Latino men, you know, that's what I like.
Speaker 1: It was like a short lived relationship. I like dark
Speaker 1: penis because even my Latin you know, guys are dark.
Speaker 1: You're not opposed to it. So I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: not my taste. And you know what, I've never spoken
Speaker 1: about this, but the last time I dated a white
Speaker 1: guy because I thought about it. And he was really great.
Speaker 1: He used to take me. I didn't sleep with him,
Speaker 1: I didn't have sex with him, but he was really great.
Speaker 1: He bought me a lot of nice things. He um.
Speaker 1: He used to take me to Broadway shows. He used
Speaker 1: to take me the five star das all the time,
Speaker 1: like he was. He was courting me really nicely. But
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Um. I didn't like the way
Speaker 1: he talked about other races. I didn't like the way
Speaker 1: he talks about black people. And I didn't like the
Speaker 1: way he talked about Latinos. This is like this hid
Speaker 1: and done the Trump in them all sha yeah, not everybody,
Speaker 1: but honestly, yeah, the one I was where he just
Speaker 1: and then one time he used the N word, you
Speaker 1: gotta kill you know what I mean? And I didn't
Speaker 1: like without without saying disrespectful things, but like dancing around
Speaker 1: it like if I wasn't around, you wouldn't be you
Speaker 1: would be if you were, would differ, you know, it
Speaker 1: would be a different tone, Yeah, you would be like
Speaker 1: And I remember even one time we were in and
Speaker 1: we were in the car because he used to get
Speaker 1: like a suv to drive us to the shows or
Speaker 1: to dinner or whatever. And I remember we were sitting
Speaker 1: he was having a conversation with the driver and I
Speaker 1: was sitting there listening to something. I had to kind
Speaker 1: of check him one time, like he was talking about
Speaker 1: it was around the time when Trump was about to
Speaker 1: be elected president and he would they were talking about that,
Speaker 1: and I had to kind of like check him, like listen,
Speaker 1: like I'm sitting here in Puerto Rican, but you know,
Speaker 1: like let's not forget like I'm black, and I said,
Speaker 1: I basically told him, like I'm black too, you know,
Speaker 1: even though I am six African. And he did one
Speaker 1: of those two minute I keep checking my email. Yes,
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing before that. This was before
Speaker 1: that time, and I'm one of those people who always
Speaker 1: feels really woke, you know what I mean. I'm one
Speaker 1: of those people always feels really woke. So I had
Speaker 1: to check him, like, listen, my assetors were raped at
Speaker 1: torture and like you need to understand who you said,
Speaker 1: that's true, Like I see my complexion, but I'm black.
Speaker 1: I had to explain it to him, and he felt
Speaker 1: like so bad, like he felt like like like he
Speaker 1: felt like he was offending me, but he was offending me,
Speaker 1: and I remember I had to check him on that. Remember,
Speaker 1: I'm glad you made that point because remember the thing
Speaker 1: on social media with the boy that happened the other
Speaker 1: week with everybody donate on that money. But then when
Speaker 1: black kids be meaning and stuff like that, nobody want
Speaker 1: to send them a doin thing? What did they don't
Speaker 1: make the money for it? Yeah, because it wasn't the
Speaker 1: family they started to go from me. It was somebody
Speaker 1: who didn't even know them. He started because people do
Speaker 1: that all the time, like they see something elself to me,
Speaker 1: they started to go fund me for someone. So it
Speaker 1: wasn't the mom that started to go from me. It
Speaker 1: was a stranger, right, And then they ceased it and
Speaker 1: every after Yeah, that one of my homeboys, well my
Speaker 1: nephews football, like he's eighteen now, but he just got
Speaker 1: arrested and his band was a hundred fifty thousand, So
Speaker 1: do we trying to raise fifteen thousand and go fund me?
Speaker 1: Shut it down? So I was like, but he was
Speaker 1: supposed to go through the playoffs and we're trying to
Speaker 1: get this money up so he can go, but they
Speaker 1: stopped it. Go fund me, don't play that because they
Speaker 1: said they don't finance like bills, so go fund me.
Speaker 1: They'll they'll have money sitting there. But when you try
Speaker 1: to cash out, what's the school they want to receipt? Yeah,
Speaker 1: they better I'm mad at that way. Do they refund
Speaker 1: the people or do they just because that's why they Yeah,
Speaker 1: like protusand dollars to the racist people got their money back.
Speaker 1: Listening Alright, knew sing wasn't right with that story. Like
Speaker 1: any time I see a little white boy, I feel
Speaker 1: like this. People see ship on social media and they
Speaker 1: jump on a banda. They get on the train really fast,
Speaker 1: they don't even know where the train is going, and
Speaker 1: they see a celebrity post, a celebrity post. Gotta be
Speaker 1: true and how to be true? Like my advice for people, wait,
Speaker 1: wait like three days, wait seventy two hours before you
Speaker 1: jump on. You can't even report a person missing. So wait,
Speaker 1: you know what it was? I think said that video
Speaker 1: and all you see is a little kid crying about
Speaker 1: that ship broke my heart. So it did. And the
Speaker 1: truth is, like, in general, there's a lot of issues
Speaker 1: with kids being bullied and kids like killing themselves and
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Prebirth alcoholism, that that's that's something, that's
Speaker 1: the mother. She's probably drinking. But like because my my
Speaker 1: my aunt is a nurse and she could literally sit
Speaker 1: there and depict everything. And my best friend is an
Speaker 1: O B G Y yes, and he'll say, no, that's
Speaker 1: somebody and be like that person got such in something
Speaker 1: like she like, I can tell about it. But then
Speaker 1: you know, as it they unfold, you're like, Okay, well
Speaker 1: the parents were racist, and you know, so maybe the
Speaker 1: kids were harassing him because of that. Maybe he was
Speaker 1: saying some things at school. We don't really know what
Speaker 1: it is, but I do feel like any child that
Speaker 1: I feel like it's you know, it's hard like with
Speaker 1: kids because we can't hold. My son was just bullied
Speaker 1: and I said, go to and beat him to funk
Speaker 1: up and up. When he got suspended, he he was
Speaker 1: on love and Hip hop that Monday. That Tuesday, the
Speaker 1: boy bullied him. That Wednesday, my son beat his ass.
Speaker 1: He would suspended that Thursday and Friday because even jealous
Speaker 1: because he couldn't be because he had got three He
Speaker 1: was like, my got three girlfriends now left and then
Speaker 1: little basketball my son had. My husband told him listen
Speaker 1: you box and we went in there, and I was
Speaker 1: just like, let me just let you know, like you
Speaker 1: know when you're going there to the dean and the principal.
Speaker 1: So what did my child do? He was like, Yo'll
Speaker 1: talk my son straight up, beating the funk up. You're
Speaker 1: gonna learn. You're gonna learn today, but you won't mess
Speaker 1: on no more. He he had no problem since now.
Speaker 1: But if I just said having three girlfriends there, you're like,
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, that's not right. What Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: when he broke up with one and he's switching the
Speaker 1: mouth my star, Like here you thinking he thinks he's
Speaker 1: Chris Brown? Like what's crazy? Is this because of who
Speaker 1: I am? So I was like, if you've been good, ima,
Speaker 1: Chris Brown, I'll call my face stopp and so he Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was talking to Chris Brown last night and that's
Speaker 1: why I was with Like he'd be going to school
Speaker 1: bragging and he was like, can you believe when I
Speaker 1: bring like he had thirty dollars at school up to there.
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm thinking about paying for everyone. They
Speaker 1: have to to dress down, you have you get you
Speaker 1: have to pay a dollar. I'm thinking about paying for
Speaker 1: my whole class. I said, No, the hell you some
Speaker 1: people in my class don't have the mass. But bullying,
Speaker 1: that's such an important asked you that you have to
Speaker 1: you have to raise your kids to not be the bully.
Speaker 1: You know, you you know your kids have a good heart.
Speaker 1: If you raise your you're raising good people. But it's
Speaker 1: like you have to teach your kids not to be mean.
Speaker 1: So that just doesn't even happen. But you know, it
Speaker 1: happened to all of my children, and all my children
Speaker 1: always prevailed. My kids are they're so like they're very introverted.
Speaker 1: And my daughter got it. She'll be thirteen. In February,
Speaker 1: a girl was bullying her. She was crying when my
Speaker 1: daughter gets stressed because she has like she has a
Speaker 1: couple of health conditions and I had took her to
Speaker 1: the doctor and I was like, well, why is like
Speaker 1: her period has stayed on for she had started her
Speaker 1: period when she was like one started at nine and
Speaker 1: one started at like eleven, and it stayed on for
Speaker 1: a long time. And I was like, she stressing out
Speaker 1: and that come to find out, she was like that
Speaker 1: was causing her to stress, and so I was like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, the girl did a neighbor like, don't let
Speaker 1: how bullying. So the girl told my daughter, if you um,
Speaker 1: if you don't, if you try to make her to
Speaker 1: not be friends with me, I'm gonna hurt you in
Speaker 1: a way that you'll never forget kids, and I'll kill
Speaker 1: your whole family. They move, boom, they moved, but they
Speaker 1: made them sign this packed but they was like, it's
Speaker 1: a no bullion thing. I said no, but my daughter
Speaker 1: was stressing, and I said, I brought it to y'all attention.
Speaker 1: And because these schools get funding and they're supposed to
Speaker 1: that no bullying thing, like they're supposed to move that situation.
Speaker 1: But there's so many kids that that they're bullying starts
Speaker 1: at home. So what I'm talking about they come to
Speaker 1: school and they're they're looking for attention or something. They're
Speaker 1: gonna pick on who you think is weak. But I
Speaker 1: don't raise my kids to be weak. They may be quiet,
Speaker 1: maybe they may you know, fall back a little, but
Speaker 1: you like, even teachers sometimes be bullying the kids. Like
Speaker 1: I had a problem on my niece and and a teacher.
Speaker 1: We wanted to go up there and beat the bitch ass,
Speaker 1: but you can't handle. You have a handle way too,
Speaker 1: and so it suck I don't know if I'm and
Speaker 1: my teacher, if my son's teacher acting up, I don't know,
Speaker 1: we're pulling nub my brother. That's because my mom is
Speaker 1: a school teacher, and she tells like they're certain corricula,
Speaker 1: there's certain this protocol. They have a follower. So if
Speaker 1: you're not tell you can't tell kids to shut up.
Speaker 1: You can't tell kids like you can't talk the kids
Speaker 1: that way because some kids aren't like they respond different,
Speaker 1: and there's some kids that act out like sometimes you
Speaker 1: have to pull that child to the side. But while
Speaker 1: you're yelling at that they might be hungry. You don't know,
Speaker 1: they might be going home and be an abuse. So
Speaker 1: you have to honestly take time, like that's what you
Speaker 1: signed up for. Yeah, I remember I was I did
Speaker 1: this ever an education semester when I was in college
Speaker 1: and I was teaching six and seven grade in Washington Heights.
Speaker 1: Washington Heights to school was Dominican, and so there was
Speaker 1: one black kid in the class and they used to
Speaker 1: make fun of him all the time because the rest
Speaker 1: of the class is Dominican. But there was only one
Speaker 1: black kid and it was bad because like his family
Speaker 1: didn't have a lot the money. He was the youngest.
Speaker 1: He had like all hand me down clothes every day.
Speaker 1: He used to wear the same thing all the time.
Speaker 1: But when I tell you, they were so mean to
Speaker 1: this poor kid. I felt like ganging up at him
Speaker 1: all the time. And I used to feel bad, like
Speaker 1: I would be like that, that hurts my feelings. I
Speaker 1: don't like that. Shut But you know it's just certain
Speaker 1: things like and try to help him. Yeah, I bought
Speaker 1: him lunch every single day, and and I gave him
Speaker 1: extra attention because and they thought I was Dominican too,
Speaker 1: by the way, because you know we're they always speaking.
Speaker 1: All Dominicans think everybody's Dominican because there's no luck. Yeah
Speaker 1: they Doman. Anybody know when they're Dominican and not Puerto
Speaker 1: Rican could talk? Yeah. Happy. So my father was so
Speaker 1: racist against Dominicans, and he's Puerto Rican. I mean he
Speaker 1: was so he was racist against them Rians, the Puerto
Speaker 1: Ricans that grew up here and are here for the longest.
Speaker 1: The Porto Ricans Dominicans here, they fight, but over there
Speaker 1: they love each other. Here they fright. He used to call. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know at first, I was I'm talking about
Speaker 1: he said this when I was like six. I didn't
Speaker 1: get it at why what's the beef? Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know what's the beast? Like you know what somebody told me.
Speaker 1: I don't know fel like you know, there there are
Speaker 1: they are darker than Amergan American culture. They're still an
Speaker 1: underlying beef between They say light skinned girls and yeah
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and it's like like good hair bad. You
Speaker 1: know what they say though, what I was told because
Speaker 1: they felt like Puerto Ricans had to join America. So
Speaker 1: that's why Dominicans don't like Puerto Ricans like where our own.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. I'm y'all ran to go
Speaker 1: be part of America like you I was told, So
Speaker 1: I don't know, like wow, yeah, but you know, I
Speaker 1: don't even speak Spanish, so I don't feel like. I
Speaker 1: feel like Dominicans and Puerto Ricans looks different. I feel
Speaker 1: like even the ones like the lighter ones and the
Speaker 1: darker ones, like the darker you could tell the difference
Speaker 1: between a dark Puerto Rican and a dark Dominican, Like
Speaker 1: for me, I think I could sell it differently. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Girls, I know all the black girls love
Speaker 1: to go to the Dominicans allons to get that blowout. Everybody,
Speaker 1: get your ticket, get your ticket. But if you gonna
Speaker 1: take Puerto Rican restaurant to get your head done, you're
Speaker 1: gonna Dominicans. And like you said, it's in and now,
Speaker 1: real quick, real fast in the Dominican salon and after
Speaker 1: they'd be bouncing like you gotta be on fire, tell
Speaker 1: them out. This is it for you, right, this is it.
Speaker 1: You're good, You're happy. It's forever. Yeah, hopefully, because like
Speaker 1: right now as I feel right now, it's forever. But
Speaker 1: I mean you just never know. God my something the works. Fuck,
Speaker 1: I gotta be fu up like I was about to
Speaker 1: get it. What about more kids though? Of course, yeah,
Speaker 1: you just got the hand in the milk because its
Speaker 1: collectively together. We got like six and the possible not
Speaker 1: but that I've given births. You have two girls and
Speaker 1: three boys, and I'm just like it's just in my mind,
Speaker 1: I feel like I just gotta even it out. Got
Speaker 1: to come through that pussy. We gotta okay, yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: basically yeah, you gotta schedule So one c section, I said,
Speaker 1: sometimes they do fbacks, but they don't um encourage them
Speaker 1: anymore because they said a lot of people have him
Speaker 1: and hem and drink because like it can bust. And
Speaker 1: you know, why would you even want to get natural birth?
Speaker 1: You already did it five times that way because I
Speaker 1: don't have to go through I don't have to say
Speaker 1: be like, oh, that's one thing about a C section
Speaker 1: that's convened. You get to schedule and you know what
Speaker 1: we're gonna do it. You know, said the people are
Speaker 1: planning their pregnancy and their c sections because they're like,
Speaker 1: let me hit pregnant here and then I want to
Speaker 1: go to like cool. They was like, yo, people were scheduling,
Speaker 1: like my show was on Tuesday night, So if I
Speaker 1: got my c section Manday afternoon, snatch. And now one
Speaker 1: thing I love about my doctors too, if you have
Speaker 1: a great doctor, sometimes they'll study cosmetic surgery on the side.
Speaker 1: And I was told that, yeah, that's what I was
Speaker 1: told that. That's why a lot of sacks because a
Speaker 1: lot of people they wasn't swing them back even and
Speaker 1: you gotta tell me, I want them Invisible City, Like
Speaker 1: you have to tell them, I want the invisible sits
Speaker 1: just and I want to just I just like just
Speaker 1: just snatch me. And she's like, girl, you know that
Speaker 1: you need insurance for that because these people out here
Speaker 1: hid these medicaises. I got doctor to box doctors when
Speaker 1: they look like I bet you're trying to murder you
Speaker 1: in the walking Dad who brough you back to Collo?
Speaker 1: It's the brain she got the girl? Are you going
Speaker 1: back to leveon Hip Hop next season? Yeah? I don't mind.
Speaker 1: I love reality TV. I love living my life out
Speaker 1: what I want you to see in front of the world,
Speaker 1: or what people think or how people think that I
Speaker 1: should react. One thing, like when we did the Couple's
Speaker 1: Court and like when all of that stuff was coming
Speaker 1: out because I don't even know what episode. He did
Speaker 1: a lot of detective test and everything. Believe that's there
Speaker 1: was an app, got a lot of text app right
Speaker 1: now we ask you to questions. This is this is
Speaker 1: my lot detext look me in my you can't look
Speaker 1: me in my no, look at my eyes? Did you?
Speaker 1: Did you not? And you want me to do you had?
Speaker 1: Could you? Could you handle? Like you just gotta Sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta square square them up in the eye and
Speaker 1: just be like yo, then don't do don't do that
Speaker 1: again because that hurts and you have to sometimes you
Speaker 1: have to let people know what hurts, Like when you
Speaker 1: get said oh no, no, oh babe, you burn my scalp.
Speaker 1: You got too close to the edge. I don't accept that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a little pass, but don't do
Speaker 1: it again. Don't do it again. And you believe that
Speaker 1: he won't or you just better not yeah, or if
Speaker 1: he do, I better not find out because then because
Speaker 1: then there's gonna be war because I turned my cheek
Speaker 1: so he knows. But like when I say I got
Speaker 1: cheeks trying to get apology, When you get an apology
Speaker 1: from a real man that has never apologized to any
Speaker 1: woman in his life and they look you in your
Speaker 1: I s a, I apologize, I'm sorry for um. When
Speaker 1: they apologize and item and they're just like, yo, all right,
Speaker 1: you got it. I accept that. Yeah you got a
Speaker 1: song about it yet, Oh yes, I like to hear it.
Speaker 1: But you know, I've learned a lot because, like I said,
Speaker 1: I'm not an angel. But one thing I never I
Speaker 1: don't intentionally hurt people. That's not that's not how it
Speaker 1: was raised. But my scorpio sting my my, my, my
Speaker 1: get back was epic. So that's what I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't even like bringing that part
Speaker 1: out anymore because that's that's not even cute, that's not ladylike,
Speaker 1: that's tacky. That now, that's tacky. But I don't yeah
Speaker 1: a bit a bit four point now. But it's like
Speaker 1: eventually twenty four no more them song My songs is
Speaker 1: eight twenty years old, just like come like everybody has
Speaker 1: to grow up at some point, and so this is
Speaker 1: my growing up. I'm mature, mature, yes, very little out.
Speaker 1: We thank you so much for coming through. We appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Very special. Yeah, like a sap racky and because like
Speaker 1: we got like we gotta keep this going, like I
Speaker 1: had a great time, Like thank you all so much
Speaker 1: for having me, like for real, I honestly needed this
Speaker 1: with you. But I do want you to sing in
Speaker 1: the bedroom next time, you know about what the day
Speaker 1: she wants you to think. I just want you to
Speaker 1: sing on the day you will be the title of
Speaker 1: your bedroom song that you're about to do. I got
Speaker 1: a couple. One is called first time was Now I'm
Speaker 1: talking about dirty dirty, Um, what's your specialty? What's your specialty?
Speaker 1: I think that was my favorite baby's big super super slash,
Speaker 1: super hand featuring, but the real Super had because because
Speaker 1: then you want to know what was so big about Super? Yes,
Speaker 1: to me, it was just like but they said they said.
Speaker 1: Mr Market has said. I met him in l A
Speaker 1: one time. He was like, if he was up here,
Speaker 1: he said that they were five. Yeah, he said. I
Speaker 1: was like, that's crazy, that's crazy. That's the best thing
Speaker 1: he had, he said after the first time, he had
Speaker 1: to get it back. He said, they had to bring
Speaker 1: her back because I had to redeem myself. And you
Speaker 1: know what's the best when you're sucking somebody's take so
Speaker 1: gay and they don't want to come but they can't
Speaker 1: help it. No wait, wait, wait, No, I didn't say
Speaker 1: I gotta show. I gotta show that I can't win
Speaker 1: like smell like bleaching son. I know, I always gotta. Yeah,
Speaker 1: didn't walk out though, that's good, but yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna do. I gotta do one of those
Speaker 1: songs like a play on word for real dude that
Speaker 1: I just gave me. We're gonna be in the bad
Speaker 1: room singing that gonna bet because I listened Lurie. I
Speaker 1: think it's corny, but I like to listen to music
Speaker 1: like when I have sex. I like to have a
Speaker 1: playlist and I can't handle quite. I'd be like, I
Speaker 1: like listening to I feel like every guy said. I was, yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I was just to swing my baby the other
Speaker 1: day and then we was playing a few sat and
Speaker 1: I it was a little I like, I man like
Speaker 1: some songs. It was liked up. I was like, right
Speaker 1: now you start really stroke you know something. Sometimes you
Speaker 1: gotta have ranches. Sometimes you gotta hear quickie, something really rocking,
Speaker 1: slap in your ass. You don't be watching walking down
Speaker 1: and be like you get it out. Yeah, staking leg
Speaker 1: in the bed, but like you pull the muscle trying
Speaker 1: to get rid of it. You moving your legs. The
Speaker 1: best thing you do is twerk in the bedroom. That's
Speaker 1: twerk on that dick. I'm telling you that future album.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you I don't have time, like I feel
Speaker 1: like we're get into it, like I'm a hole on
Speaker 1: one second. Let me get that, let me get the music.
Speaker 1: Let me wait. The bluetooth a connecting connect. I'm like
Speaker 1: calling yes to it. You like, but if you're met
Speaker 1: and it's slick like he you know he got the
Speaker 1: beat tool right there, you know exactly I got I
Speaker 1: gotta do is I got Yeah. Plus I also feel
Speaker 1: like sometimes you sit at home and like a lot
Speaker 1: of times we don't take the time to do this,
Speaker 1: but like have a night where y'all have like a
Speaker 1: bottle of wine or you know whatever, have a nice
Speaker 1: night at home where it's like relaxing, you're having conversations,
Speaker 1: having desserts. Music is already playing. That's my favorite. That's
Speaker 1: my favorite sex. Yeah, because that don't happen all that
Speaker 1: off to see see the music being on that and
Speaker 1: that's fine. But I ain't gonna be like we about
Speaker 1: the hold on one second, you know. And I recommend
Speaker 1: y'all do a playlist together. We did at the other end.
Speaker 1: You had to do it right, Steph, you do a
Speaker 1: playlist together at the house. I made something forgett now,
Speaker 1: y'all got songs together, had some wine and we made
Speaker 1: a playlist together. Like we were making He was like,
Speaker 1: you like this song. Yeah, we got a crazy night.
Speaker 1: That was so. It was so it was such a
Speaker 1: full night, like we we drank, we a we we talked,
Speaker 1: we argued, we made up, we had sex. That's that's
Speaker 1: litt Now that's lit. You gotta do it because as
Speaker 1: you know, music is so important, like for what it
Speaker 1: is that you know in the bedroom, for everything in
Speaker 1: your life, Like you relate a song to something you know,
Speaker 1: like you could think of a parody of life. I
Speaker 1: remember I was in Miami when that song came out
Speaker 1: and we was in the club, Like you remember so much,
Speaker 1: you remember certain songs remind you of a certain person.
Speaker 1: In some songs, you're like, I can't even hear that
Speaker 1: song and remind me of so and so. Oh no, please,
Speaker 1: there's music I can't listen to because it reminds me
Speaker 1: of ship that I don't want to remember. Right, I
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like music, Um, it's always connected
Speaker 1: to a part of your life. And honestly, that's the
Speaker 1: way it's it is that mean, it's it's passupposed to
Speaker 1: make you feel away. There's certain songs so you'd just
Speaker 1: be like okay, but there are certain songs that she'd
Speaker 1: be like God the and of the rolled the boards
Speaker 1: to boards song, I can't listen to that graduation I cried, Yes,
Speaker 1: mom a crying. And I love boys to Men like
Speaker 1: they're like my favorite boy band ever in life. And
Speaker 1: that song I'm listening to boys some Man's greatest hits
Speaker 1: and then I'm crying. I'm in the middle of my makeup.
Speaker 1: You know what album was always typing for Joe to see.
Speaker 1: Remember they had that, Yeah, they had the fast part
Speaker 1: like me too, and I was like seven, there's nothing
Speaker 1: I was like that I want to get. But that
Speaker 1: second album, which was the Shoulder after part of the Hotel,
Speaker 1: you know, the one that it was like half of
Speaker 1: it with slow songs and then the other half. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was Devonte was in his bag with that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: everybody loved Devonte at that time. Sorry Mary, right, that
Speaker 1: was married just kidding, but he was just kidding. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was it was having in rights and then turned
Speaker 1: into a thing. Three one of them is No, one
Speaker 1: of them is regularly Dalvin Dalvin Dalvin Mr Dalvin DeVante
Speaker 1: was still works right man. That wasn't No. He's the
Speaker 1: one looked like shape. He's still I've seen them before
Speaker 1: him at the Babble. I think he had passed her.
Speaker 1: Now It's like it's probably something different because all of
Speaker 1: them come from church, so like for them to take
Speaker 1: that dress crazy something some ship didn't happened that week.
Speaker 1: You actually escaped all of that, Like you didn't end up.
Speaker 1: You know a lot of things happened with singers and
Speaker 1: I don't. I was in that area when everybody was
Speaker 1: popping Molly's and Ease. I was a partner and he
Speaker 1: was around all those people from the hip hop world
Speaker 1: and the R and V. I was like, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna get caught up in that because I sort of like, people,
Speaker 1: hold up, brother, just pop five X pills and Lasayalis
Speaker 1: and a via. I said, that's gonna die like people
Speaker 1: was like he didn't the next week, real like. But
Speaker 1: when you're young, you're just having fun. But some people
Speaker 1: was just doing stuff and I'm like, yo, you had
Speaker 1: a pocket and I was like, no, let me just
Speaker 1: go to my room. I used to always be scared.
Speaker 1: I did not. I just used to think I was
Speaker 1: gonna get kidnapped and thrown in the trunk. So we
Speaker 1: would literally do our shows. I would go to my room. No,
Speaker 1: you probably working and get kidnapped and put it in
Speaker 1: the trunk. You did the right thing, real rep. I
Speaker 1: would do my right to my room. People we want
Speaker 1: to hang out, Nope, good night, because I never have
Speaker 1: no little most candles back then, nope, nothing. You ain't
Speaker 1: never seen me with a picture of alcohol, a couple,
Speaker 1: a couple of licking minds and water. Right now, it's lemonade.
Speaker 1: That was that wasn't water? We put out of that
Speaker 1: and I'm joking. I knew my wig was leaning back again.
Speaker 1: Little thank you so much. You know, we appreciate you.
Speaker 1: We'll come into your podcast that Yep, it's gonna be lit.
Speaker 1: So just just let me know. I'll hit you up
Speaker 1: when we and we're gonna we're gonna go up with
Speaker 1: get because we could curse on my and letsten we
Speaker 1: always and I just want to save me personally. I
Speaker 1: always appreciate you, like I know he was always had
Speaker 1: a good report, you know, even from when I first
Speaker 1: met you. A lot of people don't act like that.
Speaker 1: But I love the way that little Mom has always
Speaker 1: been super cool with me. I always consisted she showed
Speaker 1: up to the juice by grand opening, but then like
Speaker 1: you ain't coming around, and then nobody told me she
Speaker 1: just popped up. It was a surprise. I wanted some juice, it, yes,
Speaker 1: And I love I love supporting like like that because
Speaker 1: that's outside of the norm. Like you, you're doing stuff
Speaker 1: outside of the box. And I love supporting every movement
Speaker 1: when somebody does something that's like, that's dope, and I
Speaker 1: was just like, yo, like that's cleaning somebody's life, and
Speaker 1: the different ones you have to so freaking dope. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we love doing things outside the box. I love things
Speaker 1: inside the box too. She like things that nothing that
Speaker 1: we out