WEBVTT - Episode 121 Feat. Lil Mo

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<v Speaker 1>Let's service. Hey, we's at this lip service and we

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<v Speaker 1>are back. The whole crew is here. I'm Anjeluye, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire, I'm Loria, and we

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<v Speaker 1>got a little mo here with us. Hey. Now I

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<v Speaker 1>do have to start it off on a somber note

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<v Speaker 1>and say rest in peace to combat Jack a k A.

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<v Speaker 1>Reggie Oh. Say, he was one of my loyals him

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<v Speaker 1>and it was actually first in the same week for

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<v Speaker 1>both of them to pass away. Rest in peace to

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<v Speaker 1>Edwards as well. You know, obviously Reggie is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the people that owns the Loudspeaker's network with that lip

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<v Speaker 1>services on and so it was just you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>just got to give a shout out to his family.

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<v Speaker 1>We're really close with Kim, his ex wife and his

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<v Speaker 1>four children and everything. So um, yeah, we appreciate everything

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<v Speaker 1>that Combat Jack did because even just starting a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>network so early on in the game when people weren't

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<v Speaker 1>even thinking about that, and then bringing all these podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>to with it just was really monumental. You know, his

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<v Speaker 1>background as an entertainment lawyer, because he was your lawyer

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<v Speaker 1>a little more and actually not practicing law anymore to

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<v Speaker 1>follow his passion, you know. So I'm sure earlier on

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<v Speaker 1>that law was a lot more lucrative than trying to

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<v Speaker 1>start a podcast network. But it does show you that

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<v Speaker 1>while you're here, like, pursue whatever you're passionate about, and

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<v Speaker 1>while it might not pay off at first, in the

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<v Speaker 1>long run, it really can. So the one thing I

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<v Speaker 1>always think about is like, I would hate for something

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunate to happen and I didn't follow my dreams, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I really just got said, yeah, I'm sorry, prayers go

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<v Speaker 1>out to his family. You know, it's like holidays and

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<v Speaker 1>you just never know his cancer. Yeah, like, but then

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<v Speaker 1>three days later, yes, right right, all right, well let's

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<v Speaker 1>I know you don't want us to get the show started,

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<v Speaker 1>so we are going to do that now. Obviously all

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<v Speaker 1>of us read the blogs all the time, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>one thing we were talking about is men who um

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<v Speaker 1>paint their nails and things like that, because I saw

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<v Speaker 1>they had one of the cast members him Loving Hip

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<v Speaker 1>Hop A one was on and they were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>how he's, you know, painting his nails. There was a

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<v Speaker 1>little clapback situation. So we were talking about guys who

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<v Speaker 1>paint their nails and how do we feel about that?

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<v Speaker 1>So Carl was painting his nails nooe, only well he

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<v Speaker 1>gets a manicures. I just now got him on getting

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<v Speaker 1>notices because I was like, you have really nice hands,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, man hands they have to look like

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<v Speaker 1>they're digging in dirt, shoveling shit or they just have

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<v Speaker 1>so I love him. Men have nice hands. And he

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<v Speaker 1>has really nice hands. But the feet, babe, because he athlete.

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<v Speaker 1>So he gets his hands done and so the girls like,

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<v Speaker 1>you should let me put the clearer. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>like he was like the clearer and he was like

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<v Speaker 1>not a one of the classes that. No, the jail

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<v Speaker 1>it helps so the nails won't like break in it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was gonna get a jail manicure. No, the clear jail.

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<v Speaker 1>So it looks like it looks nice to me, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because no, but he's not coming home. No nail polished,

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<v Speaker 1>so the jeal is okay or no, the buff up

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<v Speaker 1>and it looks like it looks shiny. There's nothing on it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just the way they not like a tip, that'sh care.

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<v Speaker 1>What about if it's clear polish. No, no clear polish,

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<v Speaker 1>because he doesn't want stuff like that and besides, like

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<v Speaker 1>he boxes that that's thirty and no clear nail polish.

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<v Speaker 1>It's shiny and it's it wasn't peel. It's a rap,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't like the clear polish. Guys like to

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<v Speaker 1>me that ship is no polish. But about shine, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>What about black polish? No, No, it depends on this personality.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people have like that weird vibe about them and

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<v Speaker 1>then I get it. But some people they play like

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<v Speaker 1>they were and I'm just like, okay, you're doing this

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<v Speaker 1>for attention exactly. I think if they got that rocket

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<v Speaker 1>roll thing going on, like a little louzy, very kind

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, seezy from Philly. And what's crazy is

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<v Speaker 1>is that my brother in law used to date his

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<v Speaker 1>mother and I'm just like, always puts this up, so

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<v Speaker 1>we think that might be my nephew. Hello when I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you we got kids everywhere and everywhere. But he

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<v Speaker 1>like he didn't show the move. I'll let you know

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<v Speaker 1>if oh yeah, that's your cut. You know everybody else

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<v Speaker 1>in Philly like does that. It's just like some someone's

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<v Speaker 1>doing I was like, what is that. It's like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. He came out like like he can get

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<v Speaker 1>away with it because like he just has just his

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<v Speaker 1>person like him maybe like a whiz Khalifa, the exex

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<v Speaker 1>ex tentptations him contact black. It's just so it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a young black but not like a younger thing

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<v Speaker 1>is but yeah, because it's like but it's it's more

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<v Speaker 1>like a grunge like a grunge rock type of thing. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know white guys that was you know, that

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<v Speaker 1>painting nails. But they were, you know, wearing the scuffed

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<v Speaker 1>up docks and the parents be rich and have all

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<v Speaker 1>that money they got trust for long hair and the

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<v Speaker 1>trench coats like uh, like the Columbine kids, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, that's a little scary, you know. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually described. Honestly, I went to art school, so I'm described. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I went to high school with but they wore

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<v Speaker 1>black nails. What about like, okay, what if it was

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<v Speaker 1>like jeezy or not? Like you don't remember when you

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<v Speaker 1>I just instantly thought about that picture was going around

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram with the soldier Jesus see jeezy. I wouldn't see

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<v Speaker 1>fab I wasn't the castle Nova and certain people Davies, No,

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<v Speaker 1>they just to y'all man they just like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's for the ones that just like sing like the

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<v Speaker 1>kiddie song. Right? Would I want anybody that I'm dating

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<v Speaker 1>to have black nails and nothing against whoever feels like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not and I like about but read then no,

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<v Speaker 1>no pad, no above her shine black or clear. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like for a guy I wouldn't. I'm automatically look

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<v Speaker 1>a him and be out. He must be gay. Have

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<v Speaker 1>I seen black and clad like a right? He's just differently.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think Neil Polish make you gay, but red Mo,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, I mean, you know what the way the

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<v Speaker 1>world is now because people so sense of to him

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't say nothing. Whatever you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>and it makes you happy, you satisfied. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>to shave your head and have your balls hanging up,

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<v Speaker 1>just do your things like you can't say nothing of

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<v Speaker 1>people no, because they said you let him man walk

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<v Speaker 1>into girl bathroom like yeah, what if the guys who

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<v Speaker 1>get like plastic surgery like l L with the apsh

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<v Speaker 1>l L that don't lot They said, l had got

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<v Speaker 1>that thing. We got a river, they said him, they

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<v Speaker 1>said de'angelo, they had said everybody, they said everybody getting

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<v Speaker 1>it now now. I used to red for D'Angelo and

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<v Speaker 1>he did work out every single day. He had the

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<v Speaker 1>personal chain of Mike Jenkins and every single day he

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<v Speaker 1>was in the gym. He did not know damn ass

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<v Speaker 1>clastic jury. Yes, I don't think that. I can't speak

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<v Speaker 1>for anyone. He need to have does a field video, Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>he was working out every single day like video footage

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<v Speaker 1>because that's a that's an athletic body and from the

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<v Speaker 1>side he went from to that, I don't know. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he really was like because I worked I worked for

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<v Speaker 1>his UM label and so every day I scheduled like

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<v Speaker 1>his workouts, but it was Mark Jenkins that was his

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<v Speaker 1>personal trainer, and he really was working out like because

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<v Speaker 1>he gained man and the one thing that he loved

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<v Speaker 1>doing was like he wouldn't go to the studio. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you seen him lately though? Maybe that thing like media hurt. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>said he was not thinking all that ship goes away.

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<v Speaker 1>You can work out hard for years as soon as Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>classic surgery definitely goes away. Out to me, that's a maintenance. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely all change. Like you So guys getting't like lifo

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<v Speaker 1>anything like if you were dating a guy. He had

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, the spare tire. That happened to me.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't get lippo. But if he wasn't get bo,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be mad. His little spirit tire was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>His little spirit tire was so weird that he always

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<v Speaker 1>wore like hoodies or like a like a man poopa

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<v Speaker 1>a hole around like the Italian with that. That gave

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<v Speaker 1>me that's a big guy. He wasn't a big guy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. He didn't have like, you know, a fat body.

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<v Speaker 1>He just had this weird stuff he needs. He got

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<v Speaker 1>LiPo because yeah, that's that's a good That's what's the book.

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<v Speaker 1>It was to the point where he always wore like

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<v Speaker 1>Adida's track jackets or like a hoodie. She went waste

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<v Speaker 1>going out somewhere and he couldn't waste chain. It might

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<v Speaker 1>not have been bad for him. Well, I mean, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>this remember the man wat sharing that to push. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we had one. He didn't Are you serious? We got

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<v Speaker 1>a video forage to him. Prima Donna came up and

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<v Speaker 1>he had it on. I don't know if you used

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<v Speaker 1>after she gets I got a whole bunch of them,

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<v Speaker 1>I call her like that, but they hustle them, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>they like sue her because they said it didn't work. No,

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<v Speaker 1>who for real shallotte works on me? I couldn't breathe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be up in the thing like this. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't close your last and I can't bring I can't

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<v Speaker 1>be smashed. Shove you. So if that guy Gez with

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<v Speaker 1>the spare tire decided he wanted to use a waist

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<v Speaker 1>chainer in the house behind closed doors, don't come outside

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<v Speaker 1>in it. But you'll be fine later with him with

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<v Speaker 1>his waist chain Do that on your own time. The

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<v Speaker 1>zip up ones, because you know they got the jones

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<v Speaker 1>if they wasn't make you sweat, the sweat jones, the

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<v Speaker 1>marshall work out and stuff. Yeah, and then you take

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<v Speaker 1>it off and be all sweat and stretched out, like

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<v Speaker 1>just just just put that. That's not good because that's

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<v Speaker 1>water weight that you lose when you spread it out,

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<v Speaker 1>so then it comes right back as soon as you

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<v Speaker 1>drink some water. That's from what I've heard. I would

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<v Speaker 1>not have been mad at him for trying to diffuse

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<v Speaker 1>the situation, right, you know, because that's what would not

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<v Speaker 1>have been man when you have taking care of him

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<v Speaker 1>after that life out, Yes, I would have about yourself

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<v Speaker 1>to see like that. Oh my god, I would have

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<v Speaker 1>made sure he took his percocets. Man, he had thirties, fifties.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I could push the things. Hello, hello got at

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<v Speaker 1>her birth? What did that pey? But the man got

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<v Speaker 1>like lip fillers, that's something, or like people that makeup artists.

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<v Speaker 1>He gets those, but I didn't know he had him.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's your makeup artists. But if a dude just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling the type of where I want a little

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<v Speaker 1>plump down. That's like, that's weird, Like whatever makes I

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<v Speaker 1>think a guy could get a nose job if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that. If you play football and it got broken.

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<v Speaker 1>He was in Dubai and got hit on the foe Willard, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like what if this knows he just didn't like it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>like like Owen Wilson knows. You know, the lords make

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<v Speaker 1>him money. That's what I'm saying. I'd be like, come on, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go signature that. Like Dr Miami. He don't do noses, right,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah he does, he actually does. Really he was he

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<v Speaker 1>specializes in not he he specialized that everybody just everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>you know Dr Southower when he first started doing plats

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<v Speaker 1>of surgery. That was his specialty, noses, noses, And that's

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<v Speaker 1>wh whose specialty is that? Doctor massif massive from the

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<v Speaker 1>from Botched like that. I like that when they be

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<v Speaker 1>fixing people's life. Now, what about if a guy wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get like, say, his ass was super flat, because

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<v Speaker 1>when I was gonna say, we don't need it. He

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<v Speaker 1>don't need that. No male bbs, just a little fat chance.

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<v Speaker 1>I keep I don't like guys who have come letly

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<v Speaker 1>flat assides. Have you ever seen guys? Oh? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like it either, Like you gotta have like not a

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<v Speaker 1>big gass at all, but like a tiny bump. You

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<v Speaker 1>might have had some hips like that guy off show

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<v Speaker 1>was that was it? Living single? One of them sitcoms?

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<v Speaker 1>She was? He had hips? You know who I call

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<v Speaker 1>hips that bullshitgy show like hips man hips. Looking at

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<v Speaker 1>that man for some hips. That's weird to me. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry a man would a flex. But like anything, if

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<v Speaker 1>a man walked like that, if he had that, it

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<v Speaker 1>just gives me child predator. Yeah yeah, I just got

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<v Speaker 1>kids in his baby. Yeah he scared me. I'll keep

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<v Speaker 1>driving them a little box man. Yelp. The mystery machine.

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<v Speaker 1>So what surgeries? Is it? Okay? You think so? You

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<v Speaker 1>think a nose job is okay? Correct? Geez, you're saying, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>if he really liked the issue and he has to

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<v Speaker 1>get like, well, I think that's okay. I think a

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<v Speaker 1>man can bleach like for even skin to sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like what about botox? No, I think the hair transplant

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<v Speaker 1>is good. The lebron okay, So yeah, that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I think is acceptable hair hair things. Honey,

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<v Speaker 1>it's acceptable to go bald, like if you want your hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I know a guy and his ship looks crazy and

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<v Speaker 1>he got the whole line back there. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on he got Yeah, he did it,

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<v Speaker 1>but he didn't look like they didn't do a good job.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was an episode on. But the thing's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>Why Bossy doesn't work anymore is because because I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know guys, you know I deal with grown ass man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not remember the haircloth man, I was actly. That's

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<v Speaker 1>an issue that a man in his thirties has. They

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<v Speaker 1>have seen it. I just take it off. Guys, get

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<v Speaker 1>me seating hairline is even younger than that. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you too. Don't when I was I take his

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<v Speaker 1>hat off, you baby. Put that on my ex boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>when we were like twenty four years old, he was

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<v Speaker 1>like had every seat in hair line. Yeah, yes it

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<v Speaker 1>was bad. You know what. He used to shave his

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<v Speaker 1>head ball but you know that should grow back mad

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<v Speaker 1>quick that night. Yeah, you know what, that just made

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<v Speaker 1>me feel like pussy hand with Instagram me that was

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<v Speaker 1>going around where the kids was getting punished for being

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<v Speaker 1>for being bad, and I even had child, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that because I was, Okay, well when they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>don't you well, you can't watch that baby green, don't

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<v Speaker 1>great hand. I'm not a child five years old. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but they ain't get no good job because they failed school.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I was seeing, when I was seeing what

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<v Speaker 1>happened when bosley is that you have to take a

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<v Speaker 1>drug to maintain it. It's called prop petsia. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>the propecia um they it turned out that it was

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<v Speaker 1>making men really depressed. They were losing their erection, but

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<v Speaker 1>they got haired up. Yeah, so you have to like,

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<v Speaker 1>so the guy's getting bothered. They have to choose between

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<v Speaker 1>the propitia, you know, a good hairline or their dick.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, they're choosing their dick. So yeah, so the

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<v Speaker 1>boss is no good no more. After Propitia has all

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<v Speaker 1>those lawsuits and they have a bunch of loss. What

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<v Speaker 1>about ESPN for brogane is a maintenance thing. That's another

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<v Speaker 1>thing for when you get like hair trans caton stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think none of stuff that now guys are

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<v Speaker 1>doing like this new thing. It's like a form of

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<v Speaker 1>micro blading, like the way the girls are doing the

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's what everybody's doing and it looks really good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it's the way to go. It does. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to take any after medicine. It's permanent. But don't

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<v Speaker 1>you have to keep getting it done because micro blading,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to get that done. Like it's probably a

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<v Speaker 1>little maten what then is micro But it's like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so don't hurt like that they say, they said raised

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<v Speaker 1>little hair strokes. It looks like hair strokes. But they

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<v Speaker 1>do it with but it's like a tattoo um with

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<v Speaker 1>a blade. It's like a tattoo needle with no engine.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the only last six months because the tattooed, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But after a while, after a lot of maintenance, after

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of doing it. You won't have to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll probably have to do it, like once a month

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<v Speaker 1>you wash your face just went away. Yeah, Now what

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<v Speaker 1>if that man who wearing makeup? Or TV if you

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<v Speaker 1>like hosting a sports show or something like that, or

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<v Speaker 1>you're going a movie. But what about when you leave

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<v Speaker 1>the set and then you go on to the strip club?

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<v Speaker 1>Should you get some white to the face. You're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna walk up in the place with your face beat.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that might be a little weirder. It

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<v Speaker 1>be like, let me stop and go get some makeup wipe?

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<v Speaker 1>So did you got to basually put them on you?

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<v Speaker 1>We have thats gone. You can want the backroom man's

0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:06.479
<v Speaker 1>always want to lashes and everything better brown because they

0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:11.359
<v Speaker 1>don't funk with their ships. Once you start glowing, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, they don't work around with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a waistman. A man has good lashes

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<v Speaker 1>and good brows, I'll be jealous. I'm quick to um

0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:24.399
<v Speaker 1>tell a man that he has nice brows and ain't

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<v Speaker 1>always be bottom ones that look like dear eyes. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's say you went out with a guy and it

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<v Speaker 1>turns out he did have on a little tints of moisturizing,

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<v Speaker 1>asking like he got he got natural lash extensions to

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<v Speaker 1>let's be that's not fair. We get to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a bad David tied bags in our eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me put a little makeup because a lot might

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate a little tints of moisturizer. Because that's just lo

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<v Speaker 1>even that that's not depends on brandy mercy validation. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a lightweight a grease. What if he had a pimple,

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<v Speaker 1>But if it had a pimple and he puts some

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<v Speaker 1>concealer like you know, no, no, no, he had a

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<v Speaker 1>pocket because then he said it with the powders like

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<v Speaker 1>and then sprayed with I can't have a pipetic a

0:18:27.600 --> 0:18:30.080
<v Speaker 1>girl have a pimple, it's the end of the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is zooming, Like, look at that pimple on the heay,

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<v Speaker 1>she looked crazy. But if a guy has on this

0:18:35.840 --> 0:18:40.159
<v Speaker 1>kind of like I used to make mona mole. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me shall be right quick, sharp shing weird glue made

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<v Speaker 1>that big three d I you silly. We're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>human dildos earlier too, right as far as like a

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<v Speaker 1>man that we just really just want to have sex

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<v Speaker 1>with and don't want anything else from him. Now, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that that's a situation that could last for

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<v Speaker 1>like a year? Could you have sex with a man

0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:10.879
<v Speaker 1>I have no feelings for him? But me, I know

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<v Speaker 1>you can't. I can't have sex with nobody. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>married to them, period. Even before you were married. Before

0:19:16.800 --> 0:19:18.440
<v Speaker 1>I was married, was a thought, let's just be clear.

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<v Speaker 1>But once I got married, I was just like I

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<v Speaker 1>just realized I was just giving myself away, just like

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<v Speaker 1>I was like so fun. Yeah, I was like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>once we do we go together and were married, it's

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know, because I don't like people

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<v Speaker 1>like that. So I got exactly how I feel. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really like humans. Like once we have that, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like like that's the way if I've been on for

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<v Speaker 1>at least like two three years, Like once we have sex,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, we go together. I'm staying around, right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sticking through. Don't you think you have to go through

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<v Speaker 1>you at that phase though? Everybody? And if you didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>then I think you're gonna you're you're gonna, yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about this, it's gonna have That's what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good to go through your thought phase in your

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<v Speaker 1>twenties and then you know, but because if not, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go through your thought because all right, I started

0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:07.080
<v Speaker 1>my thought phase like between nineteen because I lost my

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<v Speaker 1>Virginia at nineteen, so between nineteen and twenty four. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that's like colleges, but I didn't. But

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<v Speaker 1>I have Jordan's and my daughter about to be sixteen,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want her to, like I don't want

0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:19.800
<v Speaker 1>her to go through it, but she had today everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought face wasn't really thought it wasn't just

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<v Speaker 1>like all right, everybody in the head like I can

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<v Speaker 1>still count on my hands. Because I grew up real

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<v Speaker 1>strict holiness Christian, so I used to think if I

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<v Speaker 1>had sex, I was gonna burn in hell until I

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<v Speaker 1>had and I was like, well, my little go away

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<v Speaker 1>at nineteen, Well it was that experience like the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>the first time, I hated it. I hated it after

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like hell and the boys like y'all never

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<v Speaker 1>ask for this again. I was like, I cried. I

0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:48.040
<v Speaker 1>was just like wow, like I saved myself, like you yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like and I used to lie in

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<v Speaker 1>school and be like, yeah, girl, we did it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I did and he was lying on your pussy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but when you but dry humping, you know, because I

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<v Speaker 1>was dry humping and that's it was in the South.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you actual penetration, that ship hurts. But honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>to this day, it really still hurts because I'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>you my kind of college just told me the way

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<v Speaker 1>that my vaginal cavity is, the way it's shaped. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a teenager. So my ship is tight and all

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<v Speaker 1>my kids are sin serious, so my ship is still

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<v Speaker 1>like this is my knigg stretch. But hur hurts every

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<v Speaker 1>time you have sad, not every time, but it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like wait, you know you have to scooch where you

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<v Speaker 1>like like like you still ale, yeah, because other than that,

0:21:41.880 --> 0:21:44.159
<v Speaker 1>like people like yeah, suck the ship out of me.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to like just just slip the hand,

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<v Speaker 1>slip the hand and trust smart feel big like that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't see how girls from people like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to stop the thirteen what bit you try

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<v Speaker 1>to die? They can't fit, you know, the little one.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen, babies could come out of there. Anybody you

0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:11.240
<v Speaker 1>could fit, Like, yeah, that's true, you know, I don't

0:22:11.280 --> 0:22:13.000
<v Speaker 1>even want a baby to come out of there, like

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<v Speaker 1>to me, that's just like because they said it never

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<v Speaker 1>it's really that's a real surgery though, like that it

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<v Speaker 1>is you're really cutting through your body like layers, layers

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<v Speaker 1>and layers and an I don't. I mean, I'm good

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<v Speaker 1>with one kid. I don't. The regular giving birth was

0:22:32.440 --> 0:22:39.840
<v Speaker 1>it's pretty intense. That it's harder. That's way worse. It's recovery.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know it's crazy. I guess my doctor she

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<v Speaker 1>told me, um, she was just like, you're I'm also

0:22:46.800 --> 0:22:49.439
<v Speaker 1>like a freak of nature. Because I went in my

0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:52.480
<v Speaker 1>last he just turned two, so I went in at five,

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<v Speaker 1>he was out. I was up by ten o'clock hating

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<v Speaker 1>doing the name name like like, but they taught me

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<v Speaker 1>to because you can't get that before you gotta move

0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:09.400
<v Speaker 1>your feet and everything. You gotta move your um, your

0:23:09.920 --> 0:23:12.119
<v Speaker 1>you know, your body parts, and then they take you

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<v Speaker 1>to your room and then you still have your cather

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. And but like I was like, can I

0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:18.880
<v Speaker 1>get up? I don't. I have anxiety and I can't

0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:21.040
<v Speaker 1>sit still. So once the baby, I'm like, all right,

0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 1>what were doing when we're back in the study, let

0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:26.359
<v Speaker 1>me take But we don't get that. But there are

0:23:26.359 --> 0:23:28.320
<v Speaker 1>some people that like, how do they have a baby?

0:23:28.400 --> 0:23:30.520
<v Speaker 1>Maybe two days later go on the movie premiers, like

0:23:30.920 --> 0:23:36.240
<v Speaker 1>I saw then Kevin Hart wife just had a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna listen to me. I was. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>senior in high school when I had my daughter. And

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<v Speaker 1>I had her on a Tuesday, and I went back

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<v Speaker 1>to school on Friday, tight jeans and heels, and well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>after I gave birth to my son, I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>got up and I remember I had the energy to

0:24:00.000 --> 0:24:02.560
<v Speaker 1>walk around and everything, but I mean for me to

0:24:02.640 --> 0:24:05.639
<v Speaker 1>go out and everything, I could barely hold my pee.

0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:09.399
<v Speaker 1>I can't even imaginally doing anything. Yeah, I was just

0:24:09.520 --> 0:24:12.719
<v Speaker 1>falling out. Not my ant sides weren't falling out, Like

0:24:12.760 --> 0:24:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I remember thinking that I was gonna be able to

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<v Speaker 1>come out the hospital and put a girl on and

0:24:17.200 --> 0:24:20.600
<v Speaker 1>snap back and everything. But people, I didn't feel normal,

0:24:20.760 --> 0:24:23.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't feel normal for at least like a

0:24:23.080 --> 0:24:27.280
<v Speaker 1>month after I gave birth. Like it's amazing. I don't

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:29.080
<v Speaker 1>have any kids. I love to hear these stories for

0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:33.000
<v Speaker 1>having a baby. Everybody's experiences like totally different, Like really,

0:24:33.040 --> 0:24:34.560
<v Speaker 1>because there are people who have c sections, like I

0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:36.360
<v Speaker 1>never want one of those again. I'm like I don't

0:24:36.359 --> 0:24:39.640
<v Speaker 1>want to go through labor. I've seen my friends sections.

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<v Speaker 1>I know a couple of people that lost blood, had

0:24:41.960 --> 0:24:44.560
<v Speaker 1>blood trans But I just later, you know, seem like

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<v Speaker 1>a chance. I was like, um, yeah, did y'all see

0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:51.000
<v Speaker 1>loving him? Hope? You know they're talking to playing babies

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. Anything has a baby, she take picture, even

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<v Speaker 1>a baby. She just those are the wants, I said,

0:24:59.600 --> 0:25:02.800
<v Speaker 1>those are the like she has the baby making body. Honestly,

0:25:02.840 --> 0:25:05.320
<v Speaker 1>your body when people let themselves go, that's on you.

0:25:05.359 --> 0:25:08.160
<v Speaker 1>But your body is not supposed to be over after

0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>you have a child. I hate, you know, I don't

0:25:10.800 --> 0:25:13.040
<v Speaker 1>hate the person, but I hate what people just turned to.

0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:16.240
<v Speaker 1>The sloppy, slobbing least slob. You have a bag. And

0:25:16.240 --> 0:25:18.640
<v Speaker 1>then you wonder why your baby, Like did you wonder

0:25:18.680 --> 0:25:20.480
<v Speaker 1>why he out here? Yeh me always in the script

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:27.440
<v Speaker 1>club dancing. He might as well sign a death brows.

0:25:28.000 --> 0:25:30.120
<v Speaker 1>And she my best friend is pregnant with twins right now,

0:25:30.200 --> 0:25:34.320
<v Speaker 1>and she is huge, you know, and she's like twins

0:25:34.880 --> 0:25:37.400
<v Speaker 1>some people be you didn't even be showing their baby

0:25:37.400 --> 0:25:40.320
<v Speaker 1>be nine pounds. My god daughters as twins. And and

0:25:41.880 --> 0:25:45.720
<v Speaker 1>but people kids trying to do it too quick? Yeah

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:47.960
<v Speaker 1>quick I mean when I gave birth to my kid.

0:25:48.000 --> 0:25:50.840
<v Speaker 1>Always really um, I've always been a very vain person

0:25:51.359 --> 0:25:53.359
<v Speaker 1>and I like to look at myself in the mirror

0:25:53.560 --> 0:25:56.240
<v Speaker 1>like everybody else. But when I gave her some of

0:25:56.280 --> 0:25:59.560
<v Speaker 1>my kid, like I had like anxiety about wanting to

0:25:59.640 --> 0:26:01.760
<v Speaker 1>him to be okay, you know what I mean, Like

0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:05.120
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I forgot about myself that I got so

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:07.840
<v Speaker 1>skinny I got I turned into a skinny stick because

0:26:07.880 --> 0:26:10.800
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't eating. I had so much anxiety and stress

0:26:10.840 --> 0:26:14.520
<v Speaker 1>of being That's what happened to me too, I swear.

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:17.920
<v Speaker 1>But a kid, you don't know. You don't realize even

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:20.399
<v Speaker 1>when you're pregnant your first kid, like you're about to

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:25.399
<v Speaker 1>have anxiety for the rest of your life. Depression, Like

0:26:25.520 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 1>that's a lot of stuff that comes with it. Yeah,

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:28.920
<v Speaker 1>you never know when it's gonna hit. And they give

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:30.960
<v Speaker 1>you these and then they give these little quizzes now

0:26:31.240 --> 0:26:32.960
<v Speaker 1>to make sure you ain't at the number eight because

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:35.399
<v Speaker 1>my stress level and you don't know your stress levels,

0:26:35.480 --> 0:26:37.600
<v Speaker 1>which is anxiety is so high. You just like because

0:26:37.600 --> 0:26:39.679
<v Speaker 1>you want everything to be so perfect, and I just

0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:41.639
<v Speaker 1>want to make sure why is he crying like this?

0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:45.400
<v Speaker 1>And why is it? Oh my god debate. But sometimes

0:26:45.400 --> 0:26:48.199
<v Speaker 1>they're perfectly all right, but you naturally stress yourself. Like

0:26:48.240 --> 0:26:50.120
<v Speaker 1>when I first had my son, I didn't go out.

0:26:50.160 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 1>I didn't go party. I didn't go drink nothing for

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:56.680
<v Speaker 1>like five months, for like five months because I was

0:26:56.720 --> 0:26:58.639
<v Speaker 1>so I didn't want to leave my son to anybody.

0:26:58.680 --> 0:27:00.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't try to his father. I didn't truy someone

0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:03.840
<v Speaker 1>anybody with his father, not even anybody with my mother.

0:27:05.200 --> 0:27:08.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to know what everyone feel like that

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I think with the first one. But now I'll be

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 1>like trying to keep Yeah, I feel like I don't

0:27:12.840 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'll be like that with with another one.

0:27:14.840 --> 0:27:17.680
<v Speaker 1>If I didn't have another one, because now on tricks

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:20.160
<v Speaker 1>and all the things, Like I couldn't even sleep because

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I was like stalking my son all the time he

0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:24.360
<v Speaker 1>would be sleeping, I'll be watching him. But I think

0:27:24.359 --> 0:27:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I created now my daughter like sis. My daughter thinks

0:27:27.400 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 1>she's my sister. Sis. She's like sis, what we're doing for?

0:27:32.000 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 1>She's so pretty and I was, and that's what she was.

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>You're so pretty and nicely sink to her. Now she

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:38.280
<v Speaker 1>thinks what she walks in the room, you post the

0:27:38.280 --> 0:27:43.720
<v Speaker 1>same time. But she's such a sweetheart, and like, God,

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:46.760
<v Speaker 1>bless me with some amazing kids. Now something else that

0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:48.679
<v Speaker 1>none of us because none of us in this room. Besides,

0:27:48.720 --> 0:27:51.280
<v Speaker 1>you have been married, right, sever times? Yeah, a couple

0:27:51.320 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 1>of times. How do you know when it's time to

0:27:53.080 --> 0:27:55.359
<v Speaker 1>walk away? Because there's a lot of people obviously marriage

0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:58.439
<v Speaker 1>it's difficult, right, and it's a lot of work. And

0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:01.240
<v Speaker 1>at certain times people are like, hey, I'm done with this,

0:28:01.320 --> 0:28:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I can't take it anymore. Or sometimes you're like, you

0:28:03.640 --> 0:28:05.480
<v Speaker 1>know what, we're going through a really rough patch and

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:07.800
<v Speaker 1>we gotta figure it out. How do you know? All right?

0:28:07.840 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I just can't all right. The first time, I shouldn't

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:13.320
<v Speaker 1>have got married, but I was like, I want to

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:14.760
<v Speaker 1>have kids and I don't want to just have a

0:28:14.760 --> 0:28:18.439
<v Speaker 1>baby faver, so let's get married. And we got married,

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 1>like I knew him, but like six weeks after dating,

0:28:22.040 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 1>we got married and then I got pregnant thing, and

0:28:24.600 --> 0:28:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I was just like okay, and he it was just wrong,

0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:30.960
<v Speaker 1>but I knew I do. I walked away from that

0:28:31.080 --> 0:28:33.639
<v Speaker 1>because he started cheating and I was like, all right,

0:28:33.640 --> 0:28:36.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm a cheat too. I did that cheap back sis

0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:38.400
<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't I was just like, that's not right,

0:28:38.480 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 1>And then I saw what it was doing to my daughters,

0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I don't want them to meet nobody,

0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:44.240
<v Speaker 1>no nigga like you. And I was like, oh my god,

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm turning into what I didn't want to become. So

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:48.240
<v Speaker 1>I was like, we gotta break it up because they

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 1>want to start hating you and not being around you

0:28:50.320 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and septing that. No. Then the second one, I just

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:55.160
<v Speaker 1>married him because I wanted to make the first one

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 1>man because I know I shouldn't have best with him.

0:28:57.560 --> 0:29:00.840
<v Speaker 1>But now we we have two children together, and well

0:29:01.000 --> 0:29:02.720
<v Speaker 1>that don't care. I canceled them out. They don't even

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:04.480
<v Speaker 1>count to me. But I was like, I'm out. Like

0:29:04.960 --> 0:29:07.880
<v Speaker 1>I was so depressed, and uh, this part makes me

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:09.880
<v Speaker 1>cry because my daughter, she came to me one day

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 1>she was like, mom, I my kids knew that I

0:29:12.600 --> 0:29:16.240
<v Speaker 1>wasn't happy, and I had pulled myself away from the

0:29:16.320 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 1>industry and friends and like people that I was really

0:29:18.400 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 1>close with, like even fab and everybody, like I wasn't

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 1>coming around because I was just like, well, maybe I

0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>should just stay home and be a wife and be

0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>people's mother and just sit home and just do nothing.

0:29:29.040 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 1>And I just felt like a reclusive, and once I

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.160
<v Speaker 1>started feeling like I wasn't myself, not a little mo

0:29:33.520 --> 0:29:36.080
<v Speaker 1>but Cynthia, and I lost sight of who I was.

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, hell to them now, and I literally

0:29:38.080 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 1>picked up and left and like, now with my marriage now, Honestly,

0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is the one I should have

0:29:44.280 --> 0:29:47.000
<v Speaker 1>been with from the whole time, because he's been chasing me.

0:29:47.080 --> 0:29:48.880
<v Speaker 1>What's crazy was I said I was married, I was

0:29:48.880 --> 0:29:54.440
<v Speaker 1>twelve years, a slave because the first and six, but

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:57.720
<v Speaker 1>for fifteen years because he's he's a young boy. He'd

0:29:57.720 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>been chasing me for fifteen years and he was fifteen

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:01.920
<v Speaker 1>when he first tried all at me. So you do

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:03.760
<v Speaker 1>the math, all right, now? Let me Now, we've seen

0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 1>y'all have issues too, We've seen the couple's court and everything,

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:09.000
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, like, I'm not I'm gonna make sure

0:30:09.040 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 1>that this works out. Because he did admit that he's

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 1>had some issues in the past and that he used

0:30:13.840 --> 0:30:16.320
<v Speaker 1>to be a thought also, and then he got with

0:30:16.360 --> 0:30:18.400
<v Speaker 1>you and now he wants to make things right. How

0:30:18.400 --> 0:30:20.720
<v Speaker 1>do you know that? You know? Because this happens in

0:30:20.760 --> 0:30:24.000
<v Speaker 1>relationships all the time. The guy messes up everyone's relationship, right.

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:26.720
<v Speaker 1>The guy messes up and then you're like, Okay, you

0:30:26.760 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 1>have a choice. Now do I give him another chance

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 1>or do I not give him another chance? How do

0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:35.200
<v Speaker 1>you know that it's worth it? You just know because

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 1>you're like, all right, I'm gonna play. I'm gonna play

0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:39.920
<v Speaker 1>like I didn't notice what happened. And if we see

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:44.000
<v Speaker 1>this bitch, we're gonna jump together. But like, first of all,

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:47.240
<v Speaker 1>a lot of stuff, like when you saw the couple's

0:30:47.280 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 1>court that was from years ago, we just remade it first,

0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:52.719
<v Speaker 1>so it's just like it seems like it's new. So

0:30:52.760 --> 0:30:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like and because in a scorpio on me

0:30:55.600 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>is just like like you know, you're fing with like

0:30:58.720 --> 0:31:00.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, like you know what I have access to, Nigga,

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:03.680
<v Speaker 1>I can ruin you, I can destroy you, and I

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:05.640
<v Speaker 1>won't have to funk any of your friends. One thing

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:07.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't do is I don't cross pollinate this pussy

0:31:07.960 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 1>nobody in your What's crazy is is that as soon

0:31:11.000 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 1>as people saw us on the TV, people all like, oh,

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 1>like I'm from North Philly to get at me, and

0:31:16.360 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, yo, like people are just really weird

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.560
<v Speaker 1>like that. But one thing I did notice that I

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, I'm not gonna be as accessible. And

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, yo, you have to a lot

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:28.080
<v Speaker 1>of men don't realize who they are, Like my husband now,

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:31.280
<v Speaker 1>he's a professional box and I'm like, I see what

0:31:31.600 --> 0:31:34.040
<v Speaker 1>I knew. It came with the territory. His best friends

0:31:34.040 --> 0:31:39.440
<v Speaker 1>are Danny Garcia, Adrian Brona Boa, like Victor Ortis. These

0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.560
<v Speaker 1>are people house we stay at like these are that's

0:31:41.680 --> 0:31:44.080
<v Speaker 1>like our family. So I'm just like, Okay, I get it,

0:31:44.120 --> 0:31:45.600
<v Speaker 1>and I know what comes to the territory, but I

0:31:45.600 --> 0:31:47.480
<v Speaker 1>will be a bitch the funk up, Like I don't

0:31:47.480 --> 0:31:49.920
<v Speaker 1>play that ship. So it's just like like you either

0:31:50.000 --> 0:31:53.040
<v Speaker 1>cut that ship out and let's let's let's clear this

0:31:53.160 --> 0:31:55.160
<v Speaker 1>late because then you have to realize to what type

0:31:55.160 --> 0:31:56.800
<v Speaker 1>of bitches you messing with that run to tell the

0:31:56.880 --> 0:31:59.920
<v Speaker 1>blogs niggas. Let me tell you, I ain't know Angel,

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:03.720
<v Speaker 1>but my nigs don't tell the funk you're doing. What

0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 1>happened to the quiet side pieces or whatever? You know,

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:12.360
<v Speaker 1>the hush mouth media? Yeah, and people really And I'm

0:32:12.400 --> 0:32:16.320
<v Speaker 1>just like, like, who raised Who's raising these bitches? But

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:18.239
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, don't you look at it like

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 1>he chased you for all these years? Got you. Why

0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:23.440
<v Speaker 1>fucked that up? Like a lot of people don't realize

0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>if he liked like sometimes to this day was like Dad,

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:30.200
<v Speaker 1>like I really got you, and he's still like like damn,

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:33.320
<v Speaker 1>And I was just like, okay, damn, it's not that hard.

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Really in life, anybody you want you can really have.

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to everything. I agree with that. If you

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:49.200
<v Speaker 1>there's some people in life like well, I don't know

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I speak things in existence. How did he get you? Anyway? Like,

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:56.680
<v Speaker 1>how did it even after all that time? Made you say,

0:32:56.960 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 1>because we've just been kicking it for all the years,

0:32:59.120 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 1>because all right, fifteen years ago, like when who was

0:33:02.280 --> 0:33:07.560
<v Speaker 1>on tour with what's two thousand two? Because he's he

0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 1>grew up with Beanie Seagull was his Like that's BBC

0:33:10.520 --> 0:33:12.239
<v Speaker 1>young Ball, so that's like his uncle. So when I

0:33:12.240 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 1>was torn with the rock back then, like those years

0:33:14.640 --> 0:33:16.479
<v Speaker 1>and missing and us, like, he was around and I

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:20.400
<v Speaker 1>was just like, alright, So his cousin that's locked up.

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 1>Everybody know him. His name is Woo and everybody knew

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 1>who because he had a murder mill that was from

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Philly and he used to come up always. He used

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:30.800
<v Speaker 1>to be around Violat a lot so he was always

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 1>the young boy that was around. I was like, oh,

0:33:32.200 --> 0:33:34.200
<v Speaker 1>he's so cute, like the boy with the gay hair,

0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:37.280
<v Speaker 1>the boxer ball. So then finally once he matured, he

0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, he's like, yo, you're ready for me yet,

0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, oh my god. But I'm always because

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I was in Baltimore and Baltimore and Philly just like

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:48.160
<v Speaker 1>it always yeah and be like I don't like Philly, Philly,

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't like by the same thing in each other

0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:57.360
<v Speaker 1>city Hello, eating eating strength and damn crabs Hello. So

0:33:57.440 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>it's just like it was like the same thing. So

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:03.320
<v Speaker 1>it almost seemed like inevitable. But like once we clicked,

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>we just start like he was like, yeah, I got you,

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:08.759
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I because I'm I'm a piece

0:34:08.800 --> 0:34:11.040
<v Speaker 1>of bird, Like I'm are you sure that you can

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 1>handle this? Because I'm a lot. My my mouth, my attitude,

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:16.799
<v Speaker 1>my mood swings. Some days I want to be little mold,

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:18.400
<v Speaker 1>some days I want to be synthy. Some days I

0:34:18.400 --> 0:34:19.840
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be bothered, some days don't want to

0:34:19.840 --> 0:34:23.759
<v Speaker 1>be kindered. Tomorrow when I take you away up something like,

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:25.279
<v Speaker 1>some days you gotta be able to deal with it.

0:34:25.360 --> 0:34:27.239
<v Speaker 1>And a lot of people think that what you see

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:29.919
<v Speaker 1>on TV is what you get at home. Some days

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, what the fun was we thinking? And

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:33.880
<v Speaker 1>then some days he'll be like, oh my god, I

0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:35.759
<v Speaker 1>can love you, but this is one time in life

0:34:35.800 --> 0:34:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I can honestly say that I am in love. That's

0:34:39.880 --> 0:34:42.880
<v Speaker 1>good for you. You know. I have a question because you,

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 1>as you said something earlier about getting married after you know,

0:34:48.000 --> 0:34:50.279
<v Speaker 1>you have sex after you get married. So was that

0:34:50.480 --> 0:34:54.239
<v Speaker 1>the first marriage that you did that? With that? After that?

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 1>He was like, all right, whoever I deal with from

0:34:56.080 --> 0:34:59.000
<v Speaker 1>this first marriage, from now on, I'm not having sex

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:01.600
<v Speaker 1>until I get married. It was just like, because I

0:35:01.640 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 1>was raised holiness Apostolic Christian, it was honestly supposed to.

0:35:05.880 --> 0:35:08.280
<v Speaker 1>We were toward you aren't supposed to lose your virginity

0:35:08.360 --> 0:35:11.600
<v Speaker 1>until you're married. But since I didn't marry the person,

0:35:11.600 --> 0:35:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I lost my virginity too. I was like, Okay, I

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:16.840
<v Speaker 1>don't want to just be out here thoughting and bopping. Listen,

0:35:17.000 --> 0:35:19.040
<v Speaker 1>if you want to be with me, then you're gonna

0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:20.879
<v Speaker 1>have to marry me, and you're gonna have to meet

0:35:20.880 --> 0:35:22.640
<v Speaker 1>my dad and you have to go through the motions.

0:35:22.920 --> 0:35:25.239
<v Speaker 1>So it's not no, just like, oh, we getting married,

0:35:25.280 --> 0:35:26.960
<v Speaker 1>like you have to meet the parents. Now you put

0:35:26.960 --> 0:35:30.200
<v Speaker 1>your foot down, like and this is what you gotta do.

0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Now my kids, that's totally different because with my with

0:35:34.960 --> 0:35:36.719
<v Speaker 1>my first marriage, I didn't have any children, so we

0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:40.520
<v Speaker 1>had children together, but he had children from previous relationships

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:44.440
<v Speaker 1>and with that baby mothers like, I'm so glad, Like

0:35:44.920 --> 0:35:46.840
<v Speaker 1>my baby fathers need to give me a trophy and

0:35:46.840 --> 0:35:48.960
<v Speaker 1>a crown. Because when I say, I don't call them,

0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:50.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't ask for anything. They don't have my phone, umber,

0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't have their day, know where I live. I

0:35:52.200 --> 0:35:54.839
<v Speaker 1>don't know where they live, no communication whatsoever. I don't

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:57.360
<v Speaker 1>think kids are old enough to communicate with them on

0:35:57.400 --> 0:36:00.520
<v Speaker 1>their own. So they were born. Yeah, it's like that's

0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:02.400
<v Speaker 1>how it should be, Like for real, what do we

0:36:02.440 --> 0:36:04.240
<v Speaker 1>need to talk about. I'm gonna make all the decisions

0:36:04.280 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 1>because I know at the end of the day, I

0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:08.120
<v Speaker 1>knew every time, even though we were married and I

0:36:08.160 --> 0:36:09.800
<v Speaker 1>gave birth, I was like, you know what, there's a

0:36:09.880 --> 0:36:12.520
<v Speaker 1>chance we may not be together. So listen, I'm gonna

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:14.319
<v Speaker 1>bring the shot in the world if I if I'm

0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:16.080
<v Speaker 1>not gonna be able to take care of it, don't

0:36:16.160 --> 0:36:18.640
<v Speaker 1>even get on this don't even go through the motions.

0:36:18.920 --> 0:36:20.440
<v Speaker 1>Do what you gotta do so that he can they

0:36:20.440 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>communicate directly with their kids or how does that work?

0:36:23.880 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you think it would be a more ideal situation

0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:29.279
<v Speaker 1>if y'all were like cool with each other once, I'm

0:36:29.320 --> 0:36:32.879
<v Speaker 1>gonna scop you on something I have nothing to say, Like,

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:36.359
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, like, I literally love botomized niggas out

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:42.279
<v Speaker 1>of my life. I was like, I don't remember anything, damn. Like,

0:36:42.600 --> 0:36:44.160
<v Speaker 1>if you sit right there, I'll be like, who that

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:51.320
<v Speaker 1>I should baby father? No virgin Murray Jesus? So when

0:36:51.600 --> 0:36:53.840
<v Speaker 1>when when did he get to meet the kids? He

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:58.560
<v Speaker 1>met them? Man? So because people are acting really know

0:36:58.600 --> 0:37:00.960
<v Speaker 1>funny about that, Like when you see it blides remember

0:37:00.960 --> 0:37:03.160
<v Speaker 1>the day deal they made it back like Sierra and

0:37:05.000 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 1>they made such a big deal out of it and

0:37:06.719 --> 0:37:09.440
<v Speaker 1>she ended up marrying him. But people being always in

0:37:09.520 --> 0:37:11.799
<v Speaker 1>people business. One thing about me is I don't be

0:37:11.840 --> 0:37:14.759
<v Speaker 1>in people business like that. I don't be caring. That's

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:16.839
<v Speaker 1>why I'm like, how do these blogs survived? That's too

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:20.359
<v Speaker 1>many people that care about other people's lives. I don't

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:21.920
<v Speaker 1>be caring. I'd be like, as long as that child

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:24.680
<v Speaker 1>is safe and doesn't look like because you could tell

0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 1>by child's countenance or they are be like oh no,

0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>but you can look at the way he is with

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:32.439
<v Speaker 1>that Sild'm like, yo, that baby is happy. So when

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 1>would you want them to be in a stable environment?

0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:38.080
<v Speaker 1>And people always start being uh oh future through a

0:37:38.120 --> 0:37:40.399
<v Speaker 1>subtweet out and just like that, and then you cause

0:37:40.480 --> 0:37:43.320
<v Speaker 1>friction between a relationship that you really had no business

0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:45.680
<v Speaker 1>tampering with and that has been married. I think people

0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:48.640
<v Speaker 1>should keep their hands off. I think, yeah, but people

0:37:48.760 --> 0:37:52.320
<v Speaker 1>they just have people. I'm drinking water, mind of my business,

0:37:52.360 --> 0:37:54.000
<v Speaker 1>You're not buch Because I look at the comments section

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:55.560
<v Speaker 1>at that time that it was posted, I was like,

0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:58.440
<v Speaker 1>y'all just be at work, Like what jobs do y'all have?

0:37:58.640 --> 0:38:01.360
<v Speaker 1>Y'all so rich or everything? But like with my kids,

0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:04.080
<v Speaker 1>because when we actually started dating, I was still with

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 1>R and B divas of l A, so we were

0:38:05.680 --> 0:38:08.799
<v Speaker 1>in l A. He didn't actually meet them until I

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:10.719
<v Speaker 1>came back to the East Coast and that was like

0:38:11.000 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 1>about five months later. And then I didn't even let

0:38:13.719 --> 0:38:21.239
<v Speaker 1>her hit it until like, yeah, like the first time

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 1>you see I made and I wasn't even divorce ship

0:38:31.320 --> 0:38:34.719
<v Speaker 1>bang the gather well the ink wasn't even damn dry.

0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:36.879
<v Speaker 1>I was Maryly, you have to be separated four year

0:38:36.920 --> 0:38:40.960
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, yeah, yes that they did a

0:38:41.000 --> 0:38:43.440
<v Speaker 1>lot of places. I think you have to be separated

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:45.520
<v Speaker 1>for California. As long as you'll be like, oh we

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:50.120
<v Speaker 1>irreconsolable differences and alienation affection, they'll be like today, yeah

0:38:50.520 --> 0:38:54.480
<v Speaker 1>tonight fail like like a relationship will lives longer if

0:38:54.520 --> 0:38:57.959
<v Speaker 1>you do weight in the beginning. I think relationships last

0:38:58.000 --> 0:38:59.719
<v Speaker 1>as long as you want them to. You have to

0:38:59.760 --> 0:39:02.520
<v Speaker 1>want to make it work. Because the old me, like

0:39:02.640 --> 0:39:05.080
<v Speaker 1>if she would have been like that, out have been

0:39:05.120 --> 0:39:07.680
<v Speaker 1>like you know what, like it's too many niggas out

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:12.520
<v Speaker 1>here because it's some cute like and I just really thing.

0:39:12.920 --> 0:39:21.239
<v Speaker 1>So you've been to Dominican Republican had no work done yet,

0:39:21.280 --> 0:39:27.560
<v Speaker 1>so and yet you know, everybody just we'll catch the flights.

0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 1>We know, but you know, you just get to the

0:39:31.680 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 1>point where you just like, you know, I'm gonna make

0:39:33.719 --> 0:39:36.319
<v Speaker 1>this work. My parents have been married for what they've

0:39:36.320 --> 0:39:38.520
<v Speaker 1>been together for forty two years. They've been married for

0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>forty something like what I want, Like I love my parents.

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:44.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, how do you do with my dad said,

0:39:44.200 --> 0:39:46.839
<v Speaker 1>we're just weird like that. My parents are actually they're

0:39:46.920 --> 0:39:50.239
<v Speaker 1>leaving today. They're taking my daughters and they're going on

0:39:50.440 --> 0:39:52.480
<v Speaker 1>they're going on the cruise and to the Bahamas with

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:55.560
<v Speaker 1>my um aunt and uncle that I moved back to

0:39:55.600 --> 0:39:57.920
<v Speaker 1>New York with when I became little mo. Dy've been

0:39:57.920 --> 0:40:00.440
<v Speaker 1>married for sixty years, so in my family were married.

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:03.759
<v Speaker 1>They are like, that's how we My sister's married. Like

0:40:03.800 --> 0:40:05.799
<v Speaker 1>everybody and my family we're married. We don't just go

0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:09.800
<v Speaker 1>together this noe nobody being. There's nobody that's just a

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:11.480
<v Speaker 1>baby mother. And if you are, we'll be like you

0:40:11.520 --> 0:40:14.840
<v Speaker 1>better get you a husband. That's how it is. And

0:40:15.160 --> 0:40:17.920
<v Speaker 1>you meet the whole family and our family like my

0:40:18.040 --> 0:40:20.600
<v Speaker 1>last name is loving. That's my giving last name. So

0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:22.719
<v Speaker 1>we like that's how we really are. People love my

0:40:22.719 --> 0:40:26.120
<v Speaker 1>family like your how's your dad? People love us. That's

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:28.239
<v Speaker 1>just how we are. We're just warm, we're welcoming. So

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:30.360
<v Speaker 1>that's why whenever I get done wrong, people just like

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:33.120
<v Speaker 1>you didn't deserve that, because that's not how it was raised.

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:35.480
<v Speaker 1>I never saw my dad yell at my mom, disrespect

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:37.359
<v Speaker 1>my mom, never saw my mom, never heard my mom

0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:40.360
<v Speaker 1>and dad cursed, never saw them drink liquor, like their preachers.

0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:43.160
<v Speaker 1>But they my parents went on toll with me and everything.

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:46.319
<v Speaker 1>So it was just like everybody's called the fake ass

0:40:46.320 --> 0:40:48.840
<v Speaker 1>Cosby's and stuff like that, to the point where I

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:50.120
<v Speaker 1>used to be like, well, why do we have to

0:40:50.160 --> 0:40:52.279
<v Speaker 1>have a dad? Nobody else has a dad? And now

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:54.759
<v Speaker 1>growing now that I'm older and wiser, I'm just like,

0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:57.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what, that's the reason why I have confidence.

0:40:57.280 --> 0:40:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't have no self esteem. I mean, I get

0:40:59.560 --> 0:41:01.960
<v Speaker 1>over ship quick, you know what I mean. But at

0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:04.320
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, like I have that balance

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:06.440
<v Speaker 1>because that's where I come from, and that's what honestly,

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:08.359
<v Speaker 1>I think I've been in search for all my life.

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:10.759
<v Speaker 1>That's like, let's man, get a fish up. That's why

0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I can sing love songs like that, and mothers be

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:20.960
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, man, yeah, Like baby, I'm trying to play

0:41:21.000 --> 0:41:25.040
<v Speaker 1>against like it's your long we gonna go together ship,

0:41:26.160 --> 0:41:28.279
<v Speaker 1>trying to sing like you on the ship, singing my

0:41:28.360 --> 0:41:33.000
<v Speaker 1>heart out. You'll be singing in bad in the bedroom. No,

0:41:33.280 --> 0:41:38.200
<v Speaker 1>you know that's like you on the mic, the mike

0:41:38.400 --> 0:41:44.640
<v Speaker 1>right out, all right. They like that you sing. But

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:47.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what's crazy is that you know I'm a singer.

0:41:47.360 --> 0:41:50.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm probably sing like once out of the week because

0:41:50.360 --> 0:41:53.120
<v Speaker 1>it's so much other stuff that I did like. But

0:41:53.280 --> 0:41:56.279
<v Speaker 1>other than that, Yeah, because people like, oh, girl, if

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:57.719
<v Speaker 1>I can sing like y'a'll be singing all the time.

0:41:57.760 --> 0:41:59.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, you wouldn't be. If I can and

0:41:59.400 --> 0:42:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I was in that man, i'd definitely be singing a

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:03.800
<v Speaker 1>little song every now and then. People like, yeah, but

0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:05.960
<v Speaker 1>like that should just because I can really sing. But

0:42:06.120 --> 0:42:10.439
<v Speaker 1>it's just like, who don't we baby, if you don't

0:42:10.440 --> 0:42:14.359
<v Speaker 1>go to sleep and watch just walking, David shot up,

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't thinking take second songs like about a second Yo,

0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:32.600
<v Speaker 1>so lost favorite songs you can't tell you you sing

0:42:32.680 --> 0:42:34.360
<v Speaker 1>and you could be in the bedroom about to like

0:42:34.560 --> 0:42:37.000
<v Speaker 1>it's about to go down to you about licking, I'm

0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:41.160
<v Speaker 1>be singing signs about like about if you like if

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:43.400
<v Speaker 1>you're singing it just it just feels like weird. But

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:46.640
<v Speaker 1>if the music is playing like them love songs like

0:42:46.719 --> 0:42:48.799
<v Speaker 1>I got a song now called thirty minutes I could,

0:42:49.000 --> 0:42:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I can almost guarantee you everybody's gonna be preggingt off

0:42:51.560 --> 0:42:54.279
<v Speaker 1>this one. I know certain songs that because I think

0:42:54.400 --> 0:42:57.240
<v Speaker 1>songs have they conjure up certain spirits in the spirit

0:42:57.280 --> 0:42:59.439
<v Speaker 1>of eros is love, and that's what I put into

0:42:59.480 --> 0:43:01.840
<v Speaker 1>my music. So like a girl came to me. She

0:43:01.960 --> 0:43:04.920
<v Speaker 1>was like a matter of fact at Jeys pressure age

0:43:04.960 --> 0:43:06.400
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, oh my god, a little more.

0:43:06.400 --> 0:43:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I just love you and I may love to all

0:43:08.000 --> 0:43:12.440
<v Speaker 1>your songs. And I'm like, okay, baby bothered up. But like,

0:43:13.000 --> 0:43:15.319
<v Speaker 1>I know when I put out certain songs and music

0:43:15.440 --> 0:43:17.600
<v Speaker 1>what I want people to feel and so far, like

0:43:17.680 --> 0:43:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I just did a show on Philly What's the Day?

0:43:21.239 --> 0:43:23.520
<v Speaker 1>But for the Escape tour, as soon as I came out,

0:43:23.680 --> 0:43:26.360
<v Speaker 1>I know how I had made like but I know

0:43:26.600 --> 0:43:28.239
<v Speaker 1>how people want to feel and I make you get

0:43:28.280 --> 0:43:33.279
<v Speaker 1>in your back. What's the song called thirty minutes? Yeah

0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I can oh man, my phone is broke the and

0:43:38.600 --> 0:43:44.440
<v Speaker 1>that like the soft porn. But okay, now do y'all

0:43:44.480 --> 0:43:47.800
<v Speaker 1>feel yourselves? Yes in the bedroom, yes, and what do

0:43:47.880 --> 0:43:50.920
<v Speaker 1>you do? But for the for the video shoot, oh

0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I got it's crazy that isn't like okay, so now

0:43:56.040 --> 0:43:59.160
<v Speaker 1>in the video shoot, I can't tell that because because

0:44:00.080 --> 0:44:02.200
<v Speaker 1>us the way loveing hip hop is set up. Yeah,

0:44:02.960 --> 0:44:05.880
<v Speaker 1>but all right with the video shoot, it's crazy that

0:44:05.960 --> 0:44:07.839
<v Speaker 1>you can film yourself. See how you have a camera

0:44:07.920 --> 0:44:10.040
<v Speaker 1>for You're like, yeah, bitch, I'm gonna tell them this day,

0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:12.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make this thing all the way. But if

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:14.960
<v Speaker 1>somebody else is filming, people like, oh my god, don't Yeah.

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:17.120
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh my god, give me a

0:44:17.200 --> 0:44:19.760
<v Speaker 1>purpose that because because now there's another person there filming.

0:44:19.880 --> 0:44:22.759
<v Speaker 1>So if it's so, what's crazy is it's a bit

0:44:22.920 --> 0:44:25.000
<v Speaker 1>that had three sons, four songs and all this ship

0:44:25.080 --> 0:44:26.800
<v Speaker 1>before her life. I was like, why do not? I

0:44:26.960 --> 0:44:29.920
<v Speaker 1>used to be scared before, But why am I scared now?

0:44:30.360 --> 0:44:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Now I think, yeah, why was I

0:44:34.040 --> 0:44:37.239
<v Speaker 1>so lit before? And what's the crazy people being? Yeah,

0:44:38.280 --> 0:44:44.759
<v Speaker 1>but now you came. You probably in the house now

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:47.400
<v Speaker 1>you think when you're younger, just like you don't have

0:44:47.560 --> 0:44:49.719
<v Speaker 1>fair when you're young you lot of inhibitious. That's what

0:44:49.800 --> 0:44:53.840
<v Speaker 1>it was. You're like a housecoad. You know. The household

0:44:53.960 --> 0:44:55.960
<v Speaker 1>is that's some deal thing. When you go, that's the

0:44:56.040 --> 0:45:00.480
<v Speaker 1>granny show around yourself. It's a blanket throw to pick

0:45:00.560 --> 0:45:02.800
<v Speaker 1>up the kids from school and whoop, they asked, I

0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:07.160
<v Speaker 1>want one of those. They're like a snug little snuggies

0:45:07.520 --> 0:45:11.320
<v Speaker 1>and they got a hole in it right here. And

0:45:11.560 --> 0:45:14.160
<v Speaker 1>you lost the and you lost the bell. Bell gotta

0:45:14.239 --> 0:45:22.400
<v Speaker 1>hold it together. The thing's being comfortable. That's a sexy

0:45:22.480 --> 0:45:26.400
<v Speaker 1>picture of thanks that image of you don't house. No,

0:45:27.760 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I was naked, like I don't. That's my mommy thing.

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:34.840
<v Speaker 1>But when I stick to day a mom, then I

0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:37.160
<v Speaker 1>probably have like three of them joys with the whole

0:45:37.239 --> 0:45:39.319
<v Speaker 1>and we walking. But my kids be busting my mom.

0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Tell my mom, I'm like, yo, get out of keep

0:45:42.200 --> 0:45:44.680
<v Speaker 1>busting in. We're wasting allowed to my parents room growing up.

0:45:44.719 --> 0:45:47.320
<v Speaker 1>These kids nowadays, they're just a lie. I wasn't either that.

0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:50.000
<v Speaker 1>We wasn't get get from that little on my dress up. Yeah,

0:45:50.040 --> 0:45:52.120
<v Speaker 1>we wasn't allowed to watch cable. My kids be putting

0:45:52.120 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 1>it on on YouTube on my mom. Look at this,

0:45:53.800 --> 0:45:59.799
<v Speaker 1>look at wild and now has this taion his name said,

0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:05.360
<v Speaker 1>see you extensions. It's not like extension. It's not like

0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:08.360
<v Speaker 1>it's all the way down extension. Yeah. He going to

0:46:08.480 --> 0:46:11.400
<v Speaker 1>jail for a while. So yeah, the holidays are coming up,

0:46:11.520 --> 0:46:17.839
<v Speaker 1>right obviously, so do y'all like exchange presents and everything? Right?

0:46:18.400 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 1>So the kids nothing when they go to my mama house.

0:46:21.120 --> 0:46:22.640
<v Speaker 1>They do because my mom and a Christian. These kids

0:46:22.680 --> 0:46:25.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna have a Christmas. So it's crazy because they't no

0:46:25.920 --> 0:46:27.920
<v Speaker 1>tree in the house, so I went all right. So

0:46:28.080 --> 0:46:33.560
<v Speaker 1>our neighbors they had like I ain't for Cnthius or Passetius. Okay,

0:46:33.640 --> 0:46:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I call him Poissetti the red Jaws. My son was

0:46:38.000 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 1>picking all the things. I was like, no, those are

0:46:39.640 --> 0:46:42.480
<v Speaker 1>Christmas things. So he doesn't know. And when we were

0:46:42.560 --> 0:46:44.719
<v Speaker 1>in the um King of Prussire Mall, he saw the

0:46:44.719 --> 0:46:47.600
<v Speaker 1>bit he was like, oh, mommy, I want those balls.

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:49.520
<v Speaker 1>So he loves best ball. He taking them all off

0:46:49.560 --> 0:46:52.080
<v Speaker 1>and throwing them. He didn't realize what Santa Claus was.

0:46:52.200 --> 0:46:55.000
<v Speaker 1>He was like, no, So they don't know. But when

0:46:55.040 --> 0:46:57.520
<v Speaker 1>they go to my mom house, the eight year old,

0:46:57.600 --> 0:46:59.440
<v Speaker 1>five year old, the older kids they know, but the

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:03.759
<v Speaker 1>two year old, oh, he doesn't know anything. But in

0:47:04.360 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 1>January with presidents that like with you and Carl, you

0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:09.359
<v Speaker 1>know how often, like do you give him presents all

0:47:09.400 --> 0:47:12.480
<v Speaker 1>the time or is it just like his birthday all

0:47:12.520 --> 0:47:14.200
<v Speaker 1>the time every week? Like you know what I love

0:47:14.239 --> 0:47:17.640
<v Speaker 1>about him and he from North Philly. So the fact

0:47:17.680 --> 0:47:20.239
<v Speaker 1>that like last night we were at a party and

0:47:20.280 --> 0:47:22.920
<v Speaker 1>he just came to me with a book. He always

0:47:23.280 --> 0:47:26.800
<v Speaker 1>goes lady and buys them all and he'll give me

0:47:26.840 --> 0:47:28.560
<v Speaker 1>a whole munch and then he'll give him the people

0:47:28.600 --> 0:47:32.280
<v Speaker 1>at the club to see that, like you never um capital,

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:34.560
<v Speaker 1>rich capital. I saw y'all rich capital and he did

0:47:34.640 --> 0:47:36.600
<v Speaker 1>it the night that you were saying, like right, you

0:47:36.640 --> 0:47:38.560
<v Speaker 1>know at the bar, we always at rid the cat,

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 1>but he always buys all the roses and passed him

0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:42.440
<v Speaker 1>out to me. He was like, you know, just make

0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:45.239
<v Speaker 1>people feel you know, all right, because you just don't

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:47.080
<v Speaker 1>know what type of day, so I said, But then

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:49.479
<v Speaker 1>always I also saw somebody get out of line, pop

0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:55.200
<v Speaker 1>the ship out of like you don't play because sometimes

0:47:55.320 --> 0:47:57.879
<v Speaker 1>you know. We was at this place called Hope. It's

0:47:57.880 --> 0:48:00.879
<v Speaker 1>a new place in Phillips downtown. This girl I saw

0:48:00.960 --> 0:48:03.000
<v Speaker 1>you on that show and you are a piece of ship.

0:48:03.320 --> 0:48:06.759
<v Speaker 1>He was like, bitch, I will everybody and feels a

0:48:06.840 --> 0:48:09.320
<v Speaker 1>bitch I will beat you the funk up. So she

0:48:09.440 --> 0:48:12.400
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm sorry, I didn't know, but that is

0:48:12.680 --> 0:48:15.200
<v Speaker 1>when people see you on TV, they they feel like

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:17.040
<v Speaker 1>they know you and they can say anything to you,

0:48:17.360 --> 0:48:21.360
<v Speaker 1>and they don't know like get the fun up. We

0:48:21.400 --> 0:48:24.120
<v Speaker 1>already to People see you on the internet and they've

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:26.640
<v Speaker 1>been following you for years and that Suz and so

0:48:26.840 --> 0:48:28.840
<v Speaker 1>on and so forth, and they feel like they know you,

0:48:29.000 --> 0:48:31.200
<v Speaker 1>but you know, you know what I put on the internet.

0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't really know me in real life, Like people

0:48:33.280 --> 0:48:37.440
<v Speaker 1>get really comfortable in person. Somebody deemed me yesterday and

0:48:37.840 --> 0:48:39.799
<v Speaker 1>one thing about me. And I learned this my dad

0:48:40.040 --> 0:48:41.839
<v Speaker 1>growing up. My dad used to make us read books

0:48:41.840 --> 0:48:44.000
<v Speaker 1>and write essays. So every Monday through Friday we have

0:48:44.080 --> 0:48:45.839
<v Speaker 1>to read a book and buy Sunday handing the essay.

0:48:46.200 --> 0:48:48.200
<v Speaker 1>And so he taught us how to deal with people.

0:48:48.640 --> 0:48:50.399
<v Speaker 1>And so I know how to pull out of people

0:48:50.440 --> 0:48:52.200
<v Speaker 1>what you really want to say? This girl, I said

0:48:52.200 --> 0:48:54.440
<v Speaker 1>at the lake up sis I saw. I know you

0:48:54.520 --> 0:48:56.120
<v Speaker 1>did your thing at the concept of the night, but

0:48:56.200 --> 0:48:58.680
<v Speaker 1>that outfit you had on wasn't really conducive to Islam.

0:48:58.960 --> 0:49:01.040
<v Speaker 1>And you follow Listen. She was like, you find your

0:49:01.080 --> 0:49:03.200
<v Speaker 1>husband should be let you know about the raj June

0:49:03.239 --> 0:49:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and this and that. I said, bit, shut the funk up.

0:49:05.160 --> 0:49:07.799
<v Speaker 1>Suck my dear, because I said, you know what I said,

0:49:07.840 --> 0:49:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Why is you worry about what I got on? First

0:49:09.200 --> 0:49:10.440
<v Speaker 1>of all, if you really want to get down to

0:49:10.480 --> 0:49:12.640
<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't even be on social media because it's not

0:49:13.200 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 1>that's kind. Let's just be real someone, bitch. First of all,

0:49:17.000 --> 0:49:21.480
<v Speaker 1>you know that that I said see that first exactly,

0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:23.440
<v Speaker 1>that's what you wanted to say, And that's not even

0:49:23.520 --> 0:49:27.279
<v Speaker 1>you in your abbey hole. Funk out of here, and

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:28.759
<v Speaker 1>you're never gonna say it to my face. You're not

0:49:28.800 --> 0:49:31.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna get close. No. That's the worst when when people

0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:34.799
<v Speaker 1>try to mention you but shade you at the same time, like, Oh,

0:49:34.840 --> 0:49:37.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm a big fan, but I'm just trying to give

0:49:37.520 --> 0:49:41.279
<v Speaker 1>you something like nobody asked for your own advice, like

0:49:41.600 --> 0:49:44.399
<v Speaker 1>what you to commemorate it? One thing about people like yeah,

0:49:44.400 --> 0:49:46.560
<v Speaker 1>the alphad was cute, but no you I love you more,

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:48.719
<v Speaker 1>but that alpha was taking Did you sold your head on?

0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:52.759
<v Speaker 1>But you said your kid's hand that want to that

0:49:52.880 --> 0:49:56.239
<v Speaker 1>in the stylist too funny they'd be like, yeah, you

0:49:56.360 --> 0:49:58.960
<v Speaker 1>need a stylist. People always trying to tell you what

0:49:59.080 --> 0:50:02.960
<v Speaker 1>to do with wi to put it with worry about

0:50:03.400 --> 0:50:05.239
<v Speaker 1>So don't worry about me and what I'm doing wor

0:50:05.360 --> 0:50:06.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you what to do with your kids.

0:50:07.000 --> 0:50:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Your money. That's the new thing. Oh, I see you

0:50:09.440 --> 0:50:11.520
<v Speaker 1>getting a couple of dollars now, bitch, don't act new.

0:50:11.840 --> 0:50:14.400
<v Speaker 1>You just got five from the radio station. Bitch. That

0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:17.239
<v Speaker 1>that that little that little check, that wasn't that was

0:50:17.680 --> 0:50:19.319
<v Speaker 1>asked to make my money, not having to be at

0:50:19.360 --> 0:50:22.680
<v Speaker 1>work every single morning. Hello would think I used to

0:50:22.800 --> 0:50:26.279
<v Speaker 1>drive I mean to DC every day. UD We used

0:50:26.280 --> 0:50:28.080
<v Speaker 1>to get up at two o'clock in the morning, and

0:50:28.160 --> 0:50:29.640
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, that's why. I'm just like, I

0:50:29.840 --> 0:50:31.840
<v Speaker 1>know that nigga love me. And then he would we

0:50:31.880 --> 0:50:34.560
<v Speaker 1>would leave by like ten am, ten thirty, get back

0:50:34.600 --> 0:50:36.480
<v Speaker 1>to Philly by twelve thirty. He being the gym by

0:50:36.560 --> 0:50:39.799
<v Speaker 1>four pm till six sometimes seven thirty, and we start

0:50:39.840 --> 0:50:41.759
<v Speaker 1>all over again. And I make my kids lunch every

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:44.120
<v Speaker 1>night that were home, pick out their clothes and all

0:50:44.200 --> 0:50:46.839
<v Speaker 1>that stuff. So like this little motion that ship is cool.

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:49.160
<v Speaker 1>But me being a mom, the domestic, the O c

0:50:49.320 --> 0:50:51.440
<v Speaker 1>D going around, Oh my god, that's a fingerprint on

0:50:51.600 --> 0:50:56.680
<v Speaker 1>the count. I have such an O c D and

0:50:56.760 --> 0:51:01.040
<v Speaker 1>drops me crazy. I'm like, oh, please don't tell us

0:51:01.360 --> 0:51:06.919
<v Speaker 1>while your hangars. Now, what about taking pace and people

0:51:07.080 --> 0:51:09.160
<v Speaker 1>for both of y'all, Like, I know there's rules of

0:51:09.719 --> 0:51:11.479
<v Speaker 1>you know, I remember I had a briefriend that would

0:51:11.480 --> 0:51:13.080
<v Speaker 1>be really mad if I took a picture with somebody

0:51:13.080 --> 0:51:16.480
<v Speaker 1>and they put their arm around me. Oh yeah, there's

0:51:16.520 --> 0:51:19.319
<v Speaker 1>certain etiquette because you know a lot of people come

0:51:19.400 --> 0:51:21.160
<v Speaker 1>up and I mean, it comes to territory. Can we

0:51:21.200 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 1>take a picture? Yep, let's take a selfie and he

0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:24.839
<v Speaker 1>said one and done. We're not gonna have no photo

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:27.000
<v Speaker 1>shoot because then people will start telling to wait, my,

0:51:27.520 --> 0:51:30.160
<v Speaker 1>like my, you shouldn't you should have thought about a

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:32.000
<v Speaker 1>lash on those. That's why I would tell people just

0:51:32.080 --> 0:51:34.799
<v Speaker 1>have some glasses and some gloss and you and you live. Yeah,

0:51:35.080 --> 0:51:37.239
<v Speaker 1>because people would try to have a photo shoot and

0:51:37.320 --> 0:51:39.680
<v Speaker 1>then um, I went to a restaurant the other day.

0:51:39.719 --> 0:51:42.240
<v Speaker 1>Then sometimes I want like I'm on my way to somewhere,

0:51:42.960 --> 0:51:45.680
<v Speaker 1>and because I'll be one thing about me is I

0:51:45.760 --> 0:51:49.040
<v Speaker 1>see everything a bitches. Big brother out this bit. I

0:51:49.080 --> 0:51:51.160
<v Speaker 1>went to this restaurant to go eat and I wanted

0:51:51.200 --> 0:51:54.360
<v Speaker 1>to eat leave because we was going to Jessy pressure

0:51:54.400 --> 0:51:57.880
<v Speaker 1>party after that day. So the girl comes to my comments,

0:51:58.160 --> 0:52:01.480
<v Speaker 1>that was you a after restaurant? You didn't even want

0:52:01.480 --> 0:52:03.479
<v Speaker 1>to take no picture? In some autographs but you ain't

0:52:03.520 --> 0:52:06.120
<v Speaker 1>asked you saying hey, you look like little mo. So

0:52:06.239 --> 0:52:08.279
<v Speaker 1>I said, don't you hate when people do that? This

0:52:08.360 --> 0:52:10.640
<v Speaker 1>is happening to remember the guys to tell the guy no,

0:52:11.080 --> 0:52:14.520
<v Speaker 1>he was like, look like that girl on the thing. Yeah,

0:52:14.719 --> 0:52:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Ray was. He was like, that'sh you. I was like Nope.

0:52:18.239 --> 0:52:22.560
<v Speaker 1>All the time, Like sometimes I've done it in front

0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:25.040
<v Speaker 1>of you. I'll be like, no, I'm not. I don't

0:52:25.040 --> 0:52:29.640
<v Speaker 1>know what that is, but you're not. I think she's pretty. People.

0:52:30.040 --> 0:52:34.120
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's all about people's approach rights. Say hey,

0:52:34.760 --> 0:52:36.160
<v Speaker 1>I know you don't want to be seen right now,

0:52:36.239 --> 0:52:37.879
<v Speaker 1>but I love you. I saw you at the thing.

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:42.120
<v Speaker 1>They'd be like, I say no to that. You can't

0:52:42.120 --> 0:52:45.920
<v Speaker 1>say what you say het you look like bitch. I'm

0:52:45.960 --> 0:52:47.840
<v Speaker 1>eating on me and when I eat, I don't like

0:52:47.960 --> 0:52:50.160
<v Speaker 1>to be like put a bib on and cut my food,

0:52:50.320 --> 0:52:54.480
<v Speaker 1>but I want to eat. I gotta go. But you

0:52:54.560 --> 0:52:56.080
<v Speaker 1>know what, the same places that you go, you know

0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:57.759
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna see people, Like we went to the next

0:52:57.840 --> 0:53:00.239
<v Speaker 1>game at the back Lace. You know, when I go there,

0:53:00.280 --> 0:53:03.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna see people. And so I'm like in the

0:53:04.120 --> 0:53:06.239
<v Speaker 1>and might want to take pictures. I'm fine with that

0:53:06.280 --> 0:53:07.800
<v Speaker 1>because I know I'm there. But if you out like

0:53:08.000 --> 0:53:11.600
<v Speaker 1>that was out. But when I'm if you Christal shopping

0:53:11.600 --> 0:53:16.800
<v Speaker 1>at Target and decide to stop at lunching a grocery store,

0:53:17.160 --> 0:53:19.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to just run in and get the look at gunna,

0:53:20.160 --> 0:53:21.719
<v Speaker 1>but this phone. Have you ever been some when you

0:53:21.760 --> 0:53:26.040
<v Speaker 1>saw somebody like this, but maybe like the snake, I'd

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:31.040
<v Speaker 1>be like, so I'll just be like this. I'll be

0:53:31.080 --> 0:53:34.600
<v Speaker 1>sitting on like a dup me. I take the train

0:53:34.719 --> 0:53:37.160
<v Speaker 1>with Day and I got off the train and somebody

0:53:37.200 --> 0:53:38.560
<v Speaker 1>posted a picture of me on the train and I

0:53:38.680 --> 0:53:41.120
<v Speaker 1>was looking dumb and I was like looking at my phone.

0:53:41.600 --> 0:53:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I had my double chain because I was like, you know,

0:53:45.120 --> 0:53:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I want to sue people like that dude, because if

0:53:46.719 --> 0:53:48.440
<v Speaker 1>I did that to them, they might be like I

0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:54.880
<v Speaker 1>have been just trying to exploit dollars. They could do

0:53:54.960 --> 0:53:57.440
<v Speaker 1>anything or anything that's suck up. I'd be like you,

0:53:57.800 --> 0:53:59.320
<v Speaker 1>and I'm one of the coolest people, like if you

0:53:59.360 --> 0:54:01.680
<v Speaker 1>walk up came out. But sure, that's the reason why

0:54:01.680 --> 0:54:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I want to be famous again. Hello, but if you

0:54:03.920 --> 0:54:05.719
<v Speaker 1>want you look, I thought you was a little more.

0:54:05.880 --> 0:54:10.680
<v Speaker 1>But she's talking. Her lips is bigger. Yes, I was like,

0:54:10.760 --> 0:54:19.040
<v Speaker 1>now she's talking her listens y right, it's not mean, yo.

0:54:19.280 --> 0:54:22.640
<v Speaker 1>People tries it little no lips. That what about him

0:54:22.680 --> 0:54:26.000
<v Speaker 1>taking pictures with people? To like if he's pictures with

0:54:26.080 --> 0:54:29.319
<v Speaker 1>a woman. We have this thing because pr has told

0:54:29.400 --> 0:54:31.279
<v Speaker 1>us new ways to pose because a lot of people

0:54:31.280 --> 0:54:35.560
<v Speaker 1>in these allegations and because we can't listen. We don't

0:54:35.560 --> 0:54:41.480
<v Speaker 1>need no more scandals. Hand around the imagine Johnson point Yohnson,

0:54:42.440 --> 0:54:46.040
<v Speaker 1>the peace signs always getting too oh yeah, but or

0:54:46.200 --> 0:54:49.920
<v Speaker 1>just but if you put your arms around people, it's

0:54:49.920 --> 0:54:52.759
<v Speaker 1>a way to you don't touch that because people say,

0:54:53.320 --> 0:54:57.080
<v Speaker 1>touch my bucket, I'm calling. We're not doing know Rick

0:54:57.160 --> 0:54:59.000
<v Speaker 1>Ross and Johnson Lyn pictures. You're not going to hand

0:54:59.040 --> 0:55:00.840
<v Speaker 1>around the booty. We're doing get around the shoulder. You

0:55:01.000 --> 0:55:02.600
<v Speaker 1>have to have had a lot of scandal though so

0:55:02.760 --> 0:55:05.440
<v Speaker 1>far already, but hasn't ever a months broken you like

0:55:05.560 --> 0:55:09.320
<v Speaker 1>almost broken your relationship anyway, because at the end of

0:55:09.320 --> 0:55:10.520
<v Speaker 1>the day, like I always say, you know what, I'm

0:55:10.520 --> 0:55:12.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna really pull up so you can send them what

0:55:12.680 --> 0:55:14.560
<v Speaker 1>you want to if you ain't pulling up, like if

0:55:14.600 --> 0:55:18.640
<v Speaker 1>you're not pulling up me like like like I know

0:55:18.800 --> 0:55:20.320
<v Speaker 1>what people trying to do, and then I know the

0:55:20.400 --> 0:55:22.480
<v Speaker 1>messages people have sent me like yeah, but if you

0:55:22.520 --> 0:55:24.520
<v Speaker 1>pay me five thousand, I'll make this go away. But

0:55:24.600 --> 0:55:27.440
<v Speaker 1>you should have got that money from which because I

0:55:27.480 --> 0:55:30.600
<v Speaker 1>ain't cutting ship right who I hope nobodyn't leak my

0:55:30.800 --> 0:55:34.280
<v Speaker 1>steaming nudes and my steamy text messages. But my niggas

0:55:34.320 --> 0:55:40.520
<v Speaker 1>never tell you keep saying that, like you had some ship. Okay,

0:55:41.280 --> 0:55:44.279
<v Speaker 1>he's he's come fast, right, so you're cheating on him

0:55:44.320 --> 0:55:46.680
<v Speaker 1>to know, Okay, So I'm not talking about before that.

0:55:47.120 --> 0:55:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean I've never cheated. Yeah, Cheating is the it

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:53.560
<v Speaker 1>is giving someone It's not the actual act of intercourse.

0:55:53.640 --> 0:55:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Cheating is giving someone time attention, Like if you get

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:58.920
<v Speaker 1>somebody time. Now, if it's just like, because all right,

0:55:59.239 --> 0:56:01.719
<v Speaker 1>you're cool. So if my husband's like, yo, can I

0:56:01.800 --> 0:56:03.360
<v Speaker 1>go holl and be like yo, what you think? Like

0:56:03.760 --> 0:56:06.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just certain people that's cool. But then there's certain

0:56:06.000 --> 0:56:08.279
<v Speaker 1>people that you'd be like, not that bit on the

0:56:08.360 --> 0:56:10.560
<v Speaker 1>type time, so let me let me go ease, and

0:56:10.760 --> 0:56:13.040
<v Speaker 1>you know we're gonna go talk to them like yeah,

0:56:13.040 --> 0:56:15.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just it's just etiquette and everything is

0:56:15.800 --> 0:56:17.799
<v Speaker 1>I fail. Like if he was high at me about something,

0:56:17.840 --> 0:56:19.239
<v Speaker 1>I'll hit you up and be like, oh, just so

0:56:19.400 --> 0:56:21.920
<v Speaker 1>you know exactly hit me up about this, aw you

0:56:22.000 --> 0:56:24.880
<v Speaker 1>doing that? That stuff I would do. But then something now,

0:56:24.920 --> 0:56:26.520
<v Speaker 1>if it was a surprise for me, I would be

0:56:26.600 --> 0:56:29.520
<v Speaker 1>like I wanna be you ain't tell me. But some

0:56:29.640 --> 0:56:31.759
<v Speaker 1>people be on some sneaks to be like yeah, I'm

0:56:31.960 --> 0:56:35.520
<v Speaker 1>like and I've seen it because I damn, I don't

0:56:35.520 --> 0:56:38.440
<v Speaker 1>even want to listen. I run all the social media accounts.

0:56:38.440 --> 0:56:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll just put it like that, and I'd be again,

0:56:42.880 --> 0:56:45.720
<v Speaker 1>Danny bit you want to die and then be thinking

0:56:45.920 --> 0:56:47.520
<v Speaker 1>is him and I'd be like, no, bitch, this is me.

0:56:50.080 --> 0:56:53.239
<v Speaker 1>I will lure your ass somewhere with something flammable and

0:56:53.320 --> 0:56:55.239
<v Speaker 1>you will be smiling for the rest of your life.

0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:58.120
<v Speaker 1>But I'll play by my husband. I don't play by

0:56:58.160 --> 0:57:00.319
<v Speaker 1>my husband, yes, because one thing, you know, one thing

0:57:00.400 --> 0:57:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I've learned and my mother taught me this too. I

0:57:02.960 --> 0:57:05.440
<v Speaker 1>don't mess with nobody husband. That's one thing I don't do.

0:57:05.800 --> 0:57:07.759
<v Speaker 1>I can't say I didn't do it before, but I'm

0:57:07.800 --> 0:57:10.000
<v Speaker 1>just like, damn mine. I did not know the dude

0:57:10.080 --> 0:57:12.520
<v Speaker 1>was married, and it was crazy. Is I found out?

0:57:12.520 --> 0:57:15.080
<v Speaker 1>When was that not not Twitter? What was before my Space?

0:57:15.880 --> 0:57:17.360
<v Speaker 1>And you know, she came to me like I was

0:57:17.360 --> 0:57:20.400
<v Speaker 1>on top eight. No she she she was like she

0:57:20.600 --> 0:57:23.400
<v Speaker 1>was on my page and she was like talking crazy

0:57:23.640 --> 0:57:25.400
<v Speaker 1>little mom was trying to ruin a happy home. And

0:57:25.440 --> 0:57:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I was like this when I first came out, and

0:57:27.760 --> 0:57:29.680
<v Speaker 1>I was like my cousin used to run my social media.

0:57:29.680 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like, bitch, no, I'm not. He was like,

0:57:31.480 --> 0:57:33.920
<v Speaker 1>my mother will whoop me, and I'm grown. So she

0:57:34.040 --> 0:57:35.840
<v Speaker 1>came to me late on in life and she apologized.

0:57:35.880 --> 0:57:37.720
<v Speaker 1>She was like, now, I know you didn't know like

0:57:37.880 --> 0:57:39.720
<v Speaker 1>he was deceiving you because I was just like, yo,

0:57:40.040 --> 0:57:42.080
<v Speaker 1>he never had none of his kids around. I was like, yo,

0:57:42.280 --> 0:57:48.840
<v Speaker 1>like and it was a white boy at that white boy. Yeah.

0:57:49.280 --> 0:57:51.280
<v Speaker 1>You know what's so funny. Earlier today, right before you

0:57:51.360 --> 0:57:53.680
<v Speaker 1>came in, he was talking about white boys, like who

0:57:53.760 --> 0:57:57.000
<v Speaker 1>in here? Because Jesus dated a white boy? Loriall hasn't.

0:57:57.040 --> 0:58:00.360
<v Speaker 1>I haven't, Stephanie has how How did you? What did

0:58:00.400 --> 0:58:04.880
<v Speaker 1>you think about dating white guys? Um? Personally? Sorry Dan,

0:58:06.360 --> 0:58:09.840
<v Speaker 1>but you know, because there's a white man in the room.

0:58:11.200 --> 0:58:15.480
<v Speaker 1>For me, personally, it's not my taste. I like black men.

0:58:15.840 --> 0:58:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I like my Latino men, you know, that's what I like.

0:58:19.400 --> 0:58:22.080
<v Speaker 1>It was like a short lived relationship. I like dark

0:58:22.160 --> 0:58:25.480
<v Speaker 1>penis because even my Latin you know, guys are dark.

0:58:28.400 --> 0:58:30.440
<v Speaker 1>You're not opposed to it. So I mean, it's just

0:58:30.520 --> 0:58:33.200
<v Speaker 1>not my taste. And you know what, I've never spoken

0:58:33.200 --> 0:58:34.920
<v Speaker 1>about this, but the last time I dated a white

0:58:34.960 --> 0:58:37.320
<v Speaker 1>guy because I thought about it. And he was really great.

0:58:37.400 --> 0:58:39.440
<v Speaker 1>He used to take me. I didn't sleep with him,

0:58:39.480 --> 0:58:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have sex with him, but he was really great.

0:58:41.600 --> 0:58:44.240
<v Speaker 1>He bought me a lot of nice things. He um.

0:58:44.640 --> 0:58:47.080
<v Speaker 1>He used to take me to Broadway shows. He used

0:58:47.080 --> 0:58:49.240
<v Speaker 1>to take me the five star das all the time,

0:58:49.560 --> 0:58:52.640
<v Speaker 1>like he was. He was courting me really nicely. But

0:58:53.120 --> 0:58:56.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. Um. I didn't like the way

0:58:56.080 --> 0:58:58.920
<v Speaker 1>he talked about other races. I didn't like the way

0:58:58.960 --> 0:59:01.640
<v Speaker 1>he talks about black people. And I didn't like the

0:59:01.680 --> 0:59:05.800
<v Speaker 1>way he talked about Latinos. This is like this hid

0:59:05.920 --> 0:59:12.680
<v Speaker 1>and done the Trump in them all sha yeah, not everybody,

0:59:13.040 --> 0:59:15.200
<v Speaker 1>but honestly, yeah, the one I was where he just

0:59:15.640 --> 0:59:20.160
<v Speaker 1>and then one time he used the N word, you

0:59:20.280 --> 0:59:25.280
<v Speaker 1>gotta kill you know what I mean? And I didn't

0:59:25.520 --> 0:59:29.000
<v Speaker 1>like without without saying disrespectful things, but like dancing around

0:59:29.040 --> 0:59:31.000
<v Speaker 1>it like if I wasn't around, you wouldn't be you

0:59:31.000 --> 0:59:34.080
<v Speaker 1>would be if you were, would differ, you know, it

0:59:34.080 --> 0:59:40.800
<v Speaker 1>would be a different tone, Yeah, you would be like

0:59:40.920 --> 0:59:43.200
<v Speaker 1>And I remember even one time we were in and

0:59:43.280 --> 0:59:45.520
<v Speaker 1>we were in the car because he used to get

0:59:45.560 --> 0:59:48.120
<v Speaker 1>like a suv to drive us to the shows or

0:59:48.160 --> 0:59:50.360
<v Speaker 1>to dinner or whatever. And I remember we were sitting

0:59:50.400 --> 0:59:52.760
<v Speaker 1>he was having a conversation with the driver and I

0:59:52.920 --> 0:59:54.920
<v Speaker 1>was sitting there listening to something. I had to kind

0:59:54.960 --> 0:59:58.000
<v Speaker 1>of check him one time, like he was talking about

0:59:58.120 --> 1:00:00.360
<v Speaker 1>it was around the time when Trump was about to

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<v Speaker 1>be elected president and he would they were talking about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to kind of like check him, like listen,

1:00:06.480 --> 1:00:08.880
<v Speaker 1>like I'm sitting here in Puerto Rican, but you know,

1:00:09.120 --> 1:00:12.439
<v Speaker 1>like let's not forget like I'm black, and I said,

1:00:12.440 --> 1:00:14.720
<v Speaker 1>I basically told him, like I'm black too, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>even though I am six African. And he did one

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<v Speaker 1>of those two minute I keep checking my email. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what I'm doing before that. This was before

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<v Speaker 1>that time, and I'm one of those people who always

1:00:34.800 --> 1:00:39.240
<v Speaker 1>feels really woke, you know what I mean. I'm one

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<v Speaker 1>of those people always feels really woke. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>to check him, like, listen, my assetors were raped at

1:00:45.640 --> 1:00:48.479
<v Speaker 1>torture and like you need to understand who you said,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true, Like I see my complexion, but I'm black.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to explain it to him, and he felt

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<v Speaker 1>like so bad, like he felt like like like he

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<v Speaker 1>felt like he was offending me, but he was offending me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember I had to check him on that. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you made that point because remember the thing

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<v Speaker 1>on social media with the boy that happened the other

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<v Speaker 1>week with everybody donate on that money. But then when

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<v Speaker 1>black kids be meaning and stuff like that, nobody want

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<v Speaker 1>to send them a doin thing? What did they don't

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<v Speaker 1>make the money for it? Yeah, because it wasn't the

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<v Speaker 1>family they started to go from me. It was somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't even know them. He started because people do

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<v Speaker 1>that all the time, like they see something elself to me,

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<v Speaker 1>they started to go fund me for someone. So it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the mom that started to go from me. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a stranger, right, And then they ceased it and

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<v Speaker 1>every after Yeah, that one of my homeboys, well my

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<v Speaker 1>nephews football, like he's eighteen now, but he just got

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<v Speaker 1>arrested and his band was a hundred fifty thousand, So

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<v Speaker 1>do we trying to raise fifteen thousand and go fund me?

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<v Speaker 1>Shut it down? So I was like, but he was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to go through the playoffs and we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get this money up so he can go, but they

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<v Speaker 1>stopped it. Go fund me, don't play that because they

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<v Speaker 1>said they don't finance like bills, so go fund me.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll they'll have money sitting there. But when you try

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<v Speaker 1>to cash out, what's the school they want to receipt? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they better I'm mad at that way. Do they refund

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<v Speaker 1>the people or do they just because that's why they Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like protusand dollars to the racist people got their money back.

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<v Speaker 1>Listening Alright, knew sing wasn't right with that story. Like

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<v Speaker 1>any time I see a little white boy, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like this. People see ship on social media and they

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<v Speaker 1>jump on a banda. They get on the train really fast,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't even know where the train is going, and

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<v Speaker 1>they see a celebrity post, a celebrity post. Gotta be

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<v Speaker 1>true and how to be true? Like my advice for people, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait like three days, wait seventy two hours before you

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<v Speaker 1>jump on. You can't even report a person missing. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what it was? I think said that video

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<v Speaker 1>and all you see is a little kid crying about

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<v Speaker 1>that ship broke my heart. So it did. And the

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<v Speaker 1>truth is, like, in general, there's a lot of issues

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<v Speaker 1>with kids being bullied and kids like killing themselves and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. Prebirth alcoholism, that that's that's something, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the mother. She's probably drinking. But like because my my

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<v Speaker 1>my aunt is a nurse and she could literally sit

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<v Speaker 1>there and depict everything. And my best friend is an

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<v Speaker 1>O B G Y yes, and he'll say, no, that's

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and be like that person got such in something

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<v Speaker 1>like she like, I can tell about it. But then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as it they unfold, you're like, Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>the parents were racist, and you know, so maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>kids were harassing him because of that. Maybe he was

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<v Speaker 1>saying some things at school. We don't really know what

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<v Speaker 1>it is, but I do feel like any child that

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's you know, it's hard like with

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<v Speaker 1>kids because we can't hold. My son was just bullied

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, go to and beat him to funk

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<v Speaker 1>up and up. When he got suspended, he he was

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<v Speaker 1>on love and Hip hop that Monday. That Tuesday, the

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<v Speaker 1>boy bullied him. That Wednesday, my son beat his ass.

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<v Speaker 1>He would suspended that Thursday and Friday because even jealous

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<v Speaker 1>because he couldn't be because he had got three He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, my got three girlfriends now left and then

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<v Speaker 1>little basketball my son had. My husband told him listen

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<v Speaker 1>you box and we went in there, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, let me just let you know, like you

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<v Speaker 1>know when you're going there to the dean and the principal.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did my child do? He was like, Yo'll

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<v Speaker 1>talk my son straight up, beating the funk up. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna learn. You're gonna learn today, but you won't mess

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<v Speaker 1>on no more. He he had no problem since now.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I just said having three girlfriends there, you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Yo, that's not right. What Yeah, Like

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<v Speaker 1>when he broke up with one and he's switching the

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<v Speaker 1>mouth my star, Like here you thinking he thinks he's

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Brown? Like what's crazy? Is this because of who

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<v Speaker 1>I am? So I was like, if you've been good, ima,

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Brown, I'll call my face stopp and so he Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to Chris Brown last night and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I was with Like he'd be going to school

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<v Speaker 1>bragging and he was like, can you believe when I

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<v Speaker 1>bring like he had thirty dollars at school up to there.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, I'm thinking about paying for everyone. They

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<v Speaker 1>have to to dress down, you have you get you

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<v Speaker 1>have to pay a dollar. I'm thinking about paying for

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<v Speaker 1>my whole class. I said, No, the hell you some

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<v Speaker 1>people in my class don't have the mass. But bullying,

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<v Speaker 1>that's such an important asked you that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>you have to raise your kids to not be the bully.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you you know your kids have a good heart.

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<v Speaker 1>If you raise your you're raising good people. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to teach your kids not to be mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So that just doesn't even happen. But you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>happened to all of my children, and all my children

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<v Speaker 1>always prevailed. My kids are they're so like they're very introverted.

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<v Speaker 1>And my daughter got it. She'll be thirteen. In February,

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<v Speaker 1>a girl was bullying her. She was crying when my

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<v Speaker 1>daughter gets stressed because she has like she has a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of health conditions and I had took her to

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor and I was like, well, why is like

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<v Speaker 1>her period has stayed on for she had started her

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<v Speaker 1>period when she was like one started at nine and

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<v Speaker 1>one started at like eleven, and it stayed on for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. And I was like, she stressing out

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<v Speaker 1>and that come to find out, she was like that

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<v Speaker 1>was causing her to stress, and so I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the girl did a neighbor like, don't let

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<v Speaker 1>how bullying. So the girl told my daughter, if you um,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't, if you try to make her to

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<v Speaker 1>not be friends with me, I'm gonna hurt you in

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<v Speaker 1>a way that you'll never forget kids, and I'll kill

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<v Speaker 1>your whole family. They move, boom, they moved, but they

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<v Speaker 1>made them sign this packed but they was like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a no bullion thing. I said no, but my daughter

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<v Speaker 1>was stressing, and I said, I brought it to y'all attention.

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<v Speaker 1>And because these schools get funding and they're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>that no bullying thing, like they're supposed to move that situation.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's so many kids that that they're bullying starts

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<v Speaker 1>at home. So what I'm talking about they come to

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<v Speaker 1>school and they're they're looking for attention or something. They're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna pick on who you think is weak. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't raise my kids to be weak. They may be quiet,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they may you know, fall back a little, but

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<v Speaker 1>you like, even teachers sometimes be bullying the kids. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I had a problem on my niece and and a teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>We wanted to go up there and beat the bitch ass,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't handle. You have a handle way too,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it suck I don't know if I'm and

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<v Speaker 1>my teacher, if my son's teacher acting up, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're pulling nub my brother. That's because my mom is

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<v Speaker 1>a school teacher, and she tells like they're certain corricula,

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<v Speaker 1>there's certain this protocol. They have a follower. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're not tell you can't tell kids to shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't tell kids like you can't talk the kids

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<v Speaker 1>that way because some kids aren't like they respond different,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's some kids that act out like sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>have to pull that child to the side. But while

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<v Speaker 1>you're yelling at that they might be hungry. You don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>they might be going home and be an abuse. So

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<v Speaker 1>you have to honestly take time, like that's what you

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<v Speaker 1>signed up for. Yeah, I remember I was I did

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<v Speaker 1>this ever an education semester when I was in college

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<v Speaker 1>and I was teaching six and seven grade in Washington Heights.

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<v Speaker 1>Washington Heights to school was Dominican, and so there was

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<v Speaker 1>one black kid in the class and they used to

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<v Speaker 1>make fun of him all the time because the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the class is Dominican. But there was only one

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<v Speaker 1>black kid and it was bad because like his family

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have a lot the money. He was the youngest.

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<v Speaker 1>He had like all hand me down clothes every day.

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<v Speaker 1>He used to wear the same thing all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I tell you, they were so mean to

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<v Speaker 1>this poor kid. I felt like ganging up at him

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. And I used to feel bad, like

1:08:11.400 --> 1:08:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I would be like that, that hurts my feelings. I

1:08:14.720 --> 1:08:17.000
<v Speaker 1>don't like that. Shut But you know it's just certain

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<v Speaker 1>things like and try to help him. Yeah, I bought

1:08:19.680 --> 1:08:22.760
<v Speaker 1>him lunch every single day, and and I gave him

1:08:22.840 --> 1:08:25.800
<v Speaker 1>extra attention because and they thought I was Dominican too,

1:08:26.080 --> 1:08:28.360
<v Speaker 1>by the way, because you know we're they always speaking.

1:08:30.520 --> 1:08:35.080
<v Speaker 1>All Dominicans think everybody's Dominican because there's no luck. Yeah

1:08:35.240 --> 1:08:39.800
<v Speaker 1>they Doman. Anybody know when they're Dominican and not Puerto

1:08:39.880 --> 1:08:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Rican could talk? Yeah. Happy. So my father was so

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<v Speaker 1>racist against Dominicans, and he's Puerto Rican. I mean he

1:08:48.640 --> 1:08:51.840
<v Speaker 1>was so he was racist against them Rians, the Puerto

1:08:51.880 --> 1:08:55.040
<v Speaker 1>Ricans that grew up here and are here for the longest.

1:08:55.320 --> 1:08:57.840
<v Speaker 1>The Porto Ricans Dominicans here, they fight, but over there

1:08:58.040 --> 1:09:02.800
<v Speaker 1>they love each other. Here they fright. He used to call. Yeah,

1:09:03.160 --> 1:09:05.280
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know at first, I was I'm talking about

1:09:05.320 --> 1:09:07.360
<v Speaker 1>he said this when I was like six. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get it at why what's the beef? Yeah, I don't

1:09:10.439 --> 1:09:12.479
<v Speaker 1>know what's the beast? Like you know what somebody told me.

1:09:12.520 --> 1:09:20.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know fel like you know, there there are

1:09:20.320 --> 1:09:23.559
<v Speaker 1>they are darker than Amergan American culture. They're still an

1:09:23.680 --> 1:09:27.080
<v Speaker 1>underlying beef between They say light skinned girls and yeah

1:09:27.160 --> 1:09:31.640
<v Speaker 1>yeah yeah, and it's like like good hair bad. You

1:09:31.720 --> 1:09:34.000
<v Speaker 1>know what they say though, what I was told because

1:09:34.439 --> 1:09:38.280
<v Speaker 1>they felt like Puerto Ricans had to join America. So

1:09:38.479 --> 1:09:41.960
<v Speaker 1>that's why Dominicans don't like Puerto Ricans like where our own.

1:09:42.600 --> 1:09:44.479
<v Speaker 1>You get what I'm saying. I'm y'all ran to go

1:09:44.640 --> 1:09:50.240
<v Speaker 1>be part of America like you I was told, So

1:09:50.360 --> 1:09:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like wow, yeah, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even speak Spanish, so I don't feel like. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like Dominicans and Puerto Ricans looks different. I feel

1:10:01.479 --> 1:10:04.960
<v Speaker 1>like even the ones like the lighter ones and the

1:10:05.080 --> 1:10:07.479
<v Speaker 1>darker ones, like the darker you could tell the difference

1:10:07.479 --> 1:10:10.600
<v Speaker 1>between a dark Puerto Rican and a dark Dominican, Like

1:10:11.240 --> 1:10:13.120
<v Speaker 1>for me, I think I could sell it differently. I

1:10:13.160 --> 1:10:16.720
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Girls, I know all the black girls love

1:10:16.800 --> 1:10:19.799
<v Speaker 1>to go to the Dominicans allons to get that blowout. Everybody,

1:10:25.560 --> 1:10:28.840
<v Speaker 1>get your ticket, get your ticket. But if you gonna

1:10:28.920 --> 1:10:31.760
<v Speaker 1>take Puerto Rican restaurant to get your head done, you're

1:10:31.760 --> 1:10:34.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna Dominicans. And like you said, it's in and now,

1:10:35.040 --> 1:10:37.800
<v Speaker 1>real quick, real fast in the Dominican salon and after

1:10:37.840 --> 1:10:45.120
<v Speaker 1>they'd be bouncing like you gotta be on fire, tell

1:10:45.280 --> 1:10:47.360
<v Speaker 1>them out. This is it for you, right, this is it.

1:10:47.520 --> 1:10:53.360
<v Speaker 1>You're good, You're happy. It's forever. Yeah, hopefully, because like

1:10:53.720 --> 1:10:56.320
<v Speaker 1>right now as I feel right now, it's forever. But

1:10:56.520 --> 1:11:00.639
<v Speaker 1>I mean you just never know. God my something the works. Fuck,

1:11:03.920 --> 1:11:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I gotta be fu up like I was about to

1:11:05.880 --> 1:11:10.960
<v Speaker 1>get it. What about more kids though? Of course, yeah,

1:11:11.760 --> 1:11:14.519
<v Speaker 1>you just got the hand in the milk because its

1:11:14.920 --> 1:11:17.840
<v Speaker 1>collectively together. We got like six and the possible not

1:11:18.200 --> 1:11:21.720
<v Speaker 1>but that I've given births. You have two girls and

1:11:21.880 --> 1:11:24.400
<v Speaker 1>three boys, and I'm just like it's just in my mind,

1:11:24.439 --> 1:11:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I just gotta even it out. Got

1:11:26.760 --> 1:11:32.160
<v Speaker 1>to come through that pussy. We gotta okay, yeah yeah,

1:11:32.280 --> 1:11:38.240
<v Speaker 1>basically yeah, you gotta schedule So one c section, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes they do fbacks, but they don't um encourage them

1:11:41.479 --> 1:11:43.000
<v Speaker 1>anymore because they said a lot of people have him

1:11:43.040 --> 1:11:45.360
<v Speaker 1>and hem and drink because like it can bust. And

1:11:45.400 --> 1:11:47.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, why would you even want to get natural birth?

1:11:47.439 --> 1:11:50.040
<v Speaker 1>You already did it five times that way because I

1:11:50.040 --> 1:11:51.240
<v Speaker 1>don't have to go through I don't have to say

1:11:51.280 --> 1:11:55.320
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, that's one thing about a C section

1:11:55.400 --> 1:11:57.320
<v Speaker 1>that's convened. You get to schedule and you know what

1:11:57.439 --> 1:12:00.760
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do it. You know, said the people are

1:12:01.200 --> 1:12:03.519
<v Speaker 1>planning their pregnancy and their c sections because they're like,

1:12:04.080 --> 1:12:06.120
<v Speaker 1>let me hit pregnant here and then I want to

1:12:07.320 --> 1:12:10.480
<v Speaker 1>go to like cool. They was like, yo, people were scheduling,

1:12:10.760 --> 1:12:12.880
<v Speaker 1>like my show was on Tuesday night, So if I

1:12:12.920 --> 1:12:18.559
<v Speaker 1>got my c section Manday afternoon, snatch. And now one

1:12:18.600 --> 1:12:20.400
<v Speaker 1>thing I love about my doctors too, if you have

1:12:20.479 --> 1:12:23.639
<v Speaker 1>a great doctor, sometimes they'll study cosmetic surgery on the side.

1:12:23.720 --> 1:12:27.640
<v Speaker 1>And I was told that, yeah, that's what I was

1:12:27.720 --> 1:12:29.880
<v Speaker 1>told that. That's why a lot of sacks because a

1:12:29.920 --> 1:12:32.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of people they wasn't swing them back even and

1:12:32.200 --> 1:12:33.800
<v Speaker 1>you gotta tell me, I want them Invisible City, Like

1:12:33.880 --> 1:12:35.559
<v Speaker 1>you have to tell them, I want the invisible sits

1:12:35.600 --> 1:12:38.280
<v Speaker 1>just and I want to just I just like just

1:12:38.600 --> 1:12:40.600
<v Speaker 1>just snatch me. And she's like, girl, you know that

1:12:40.840 --> 1:12:43.200
<v Speaker 1>you need insurance for that because these people out here

1:12:43.800 --> 1:12:51.040
<v Speaker 1>hid these medicaises. I got doctor to box doctors when

1:12:51.040 --> 1:12:56.640
<v Speaker 1>they look like I bet you're trying to murder you

1:12:57.400 --> 1:13:00.479
<v Speaker 1>in the walking Dad who brough you back to Collo?

1:13:02.960 --> 1:13:07.519
<v Speaker 1>It's the brain she got the girl? Are you going

1:13:07.560 --> 1:13:10.360
<v Speaker 1>back to leveon Hip Hop next season? Yeah? I don't mind.

1:13:10.479 --> 1:13:13.679
<v Speaker 1>I love reality TV. I love living my life out

1:13:13.960 --> 1:13:15.719
<v Speaker 1>what I want you to see in front of the world,

1:13:15.960 --> 1:13:18.280
<v Speaker 1>or what people think or how people think that I

1:13:18.320 --> 1:13:21.200
<v Speaker 1>should react. One thing, like when we did the Couple's

1:13:21.280 --> 1:13:23.800
<v Speaker 1>Court and like when all of that stuff was coming

1:13:23.800 --> 1:13:25.479
<v Speaker 1>out because I don't even know what episode. He did

1:13:25.520 --> 1:13:32.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot of detective test and everything. Believe that's there

1:13:32.680 --> 1:13:36.160
<v Speaker 1>was an app, got a lot of text app right

1:13:36.200 --> 1:13:39.080
<v Speaker 1>now we ask you to questions. This is this is

1:13:39.160 --> 1:13:41.320
<v Speaker 1>my lot detext look me in my you can't look

1:13:41.320 --> 1:13:44.720
<v Speaker 1>me in my no, look at my eyes? Did you?

1:13:44.920 --> 1:13:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Did you not? And you want me to do you had?

1:13:48.280 --> 1:13:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Could you? Could you handle? Like you just gotta Sometimes

1:13:51.120 --> 1:13:54.160
<v Speaker 1>you gotta square square them up in the eye and

1:13:54.280 --> 1:13:56.040
<v Speaker 1>just be like yo, then don't do don't do that

1:13:56.320 --> 1:13:58.519
<v Speaker 1>again because that hurts and you have to sometimes you

1:13:58.560 --> 1:14:00.479
<v Speaker 1>have to let people know what hurts, Like when you

1:14:00.520 --> 1:14:02.559
<v Speaker 1>get said oh no, no, oh babe, you burn my scalp.

1:14:02.640 --> 1:14:06.400
<v Speaker 1>You got too close to the edge. I don't accept that.

1:14:06.760 --> 1:14:08.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give you a little pass, but don't do

1:14:08.960 --> 1:14:11.400
<v Speaker 1>it again. Don't do it again. And you believe that

1:14:11.439 --> 1:14:16.519
<v Speaker 1>he won't or you just better not yeah, or if

1:14:16.600 --> 1:14:20.240
<v Speaker 1>he do, I better not find out because then because

1:14:20.280 --> 1:14:21.960
<v Speaker 1>then there's gonna be war because I turned my cheek

1:14:22.760 --> 1:14:26.639
<v Speaker 1>so he knows. But like when I say I got

1:14:26.920 --> 1:14:31.040
<v Speaker 1>cheeks trying to get apology, When you get an apology

1:14:31.200 --> 1:14:34.200
<v Speaker 1>from a real man that has never apologized to any

1:14:34.240 --> 1:14:36.840
<v Speaker 1>woman in his life and they look you in your

1:14:36.880 --> 1:14:40.280
<v Speaker 1>I s a, I apologize, I'm sorry for um. When

1:14:40.320 --> 1:14:43.640
<v Speaker 1>they apologize and item and they're just like, yo, all right,

1:14:44.040 --> 1:14:46.479
<v Speaker 1>you got it. I accept that. Yeah you got a

1:14:46.520 --> 1:14:49.400
<v Speaker 1>song about it yet, Oh yes, I like to hear it.

1:14:55.240 --> 1:14:57.479
<v Speaker 1>But you know, I've learned a lot because, like I said,

1:14:57.520 --> 1:14:59.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not an angel. But one thing I never I

1:14:59.760 --> 1:15:02.880
<v Speaker 1>don't intentionally hurt people. That's not that's not how it

1:15:03.040 --> 1:15:08.800
<v Speaker 1>was raised. But my scorpio sting my my, my, my

1:15:08.960 --> 1:15:11.640
<v Speaker 1>get back was epic. So that's what I'm just like,

1:15:11.760 --> 1:15:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't even I don't even like bringing that part

1:15:14.320 --> 1:15:17.479
<v Speaker 1>out anymore because that's that's not even cute, that's not ladylike,

1:15:17.880 --> 1:15:22.439
<v Speaker 1>that's tacky. That now, that's tacky. But I don't yeah

1:15:22.920 --> 1:15:25.439
<v Speaker 1>a bit a bit four point now. But it's like

1:15:25.720 --> 1:15:28.280
<v Speaker 1>eventually twenty four no more them song My songs is

1:15:28.360 --> 1:15:32.240
<v Speaker 1>eight twenty years old, just like come like everybody has

1:15:32.280 --> 1:15:34.360
<v Speaker 1>to grow up at some point, and so this is

1:15:34.439 --> 1:15:41.760
<v Speaker 1>my growing up. I'm mature, mature, yes, very little out.

1:15:41.800 --> 1:15:43.680
<v Speaker 1>We thank you so much for coming through. We appreciate it.

1:15:44.080 --> 1:15:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Very special. Yeah, like a sap racky and because like

1:15:50.200 --> 1:15:52.280
<v Speaker 1>we got like we gotta keep this going, like I

1:15:52.400 --> 1:15:54.920
<v Speaker 1>had a great time, Like thank you all so much

1:15:55.000 --> 1:15:58.080
<v Speaker 1>for having me, like for real, I honestly needed this

1:15:59.800 --> 1:16:01.400
<v Speaker 1>with you. But I do want you to sing in

1:16:01.439 --> 1:16:03.760
<v Speaker 1>the bedroom next time, you know about what the day

1:16:05.560 --> 1:16:07.400
<v Speaker 1>she wants you to think. I just want you to

1:16:07.479 --> 1:16:13.400
<v Speaker 1>sing on the day you will be the title of

1:16:13.479 --> 1:16:16.120
<v Speaker 1>your bedroom song that you're about to do. I got

1:16:16.200 --> 1:16:18.519
<v Speaker 1>a couple. One is called first time was Now I'm

1:16:18.520 --> 1:16:22.880
<v Speaker 1>talking about dirty dirty, Um, what's your specialty? What's your specialty?

1:16:23.080 --> 1:16:29.879
<v Speaker 1>I think that was my favorite baby's big super super slash,

1:16:30.200 --> 1:16:38.679
<v Speaker 1>super hand featuring, but the real Super had because because

1:16:38.720 --> 1:16:43.200
<v Speaker 1>then you want to know what was so big about Super? Yes,

1:16:43.600 --> 1:16:46.200
<v Speaker 1>to me, it was just like but they said they said.

1:16:46.520 --> 1:16:48.040
<v Speaker 1>Mr Market has said. I met him in l A

1:16:48.160 --> 1:16:49.760
<v Speaker 1>one time. He was like, if he was up here,

1:16:49.880 --> 1:16:51.840
<v Speaker 1>he said that they were five. Yeah, he said. I

1:16:51.960 --> 1:16:57.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, that's crazy, that's crazy. That's the best thing

1:16:57.200 --> 1:16:58.720
<v Speaker 1>he had, he said after the first time, he had

1:16:58.760 --> 1:17:00.640
<v Speaker 1>to get it back. He said, they had to bring

1:17:00.720 --> 1:17:02.720
<v Speaker 1>her back because I had to redeem myself. And you

1:17:02.760 --> 1:17:04.880
<v Speaker 1>know what's the best when you're sucking somebody's take so

1:17:05.000 --> 1:17:06.719
<v Speaker 1>gay and they don't want to come but they can't

1:17:06.760 --> 1:17:11.320
<v Speaker 1>help it. No wait, wait, wait, No, I didn't say

1:17:11.400 --> 1:17:15.360
<v Speaker 1>I gotta show. I gotta show that I can't win

1:17:16.120 --> 1:17:25.000
<v Speaker 1>like smell like bleaching son. I know, I always gotta. Yeah,

1:17:25.560 --> 1:17:30.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't walk out though, that's good, but yeah, yeah, yeah,

1:17:30.439 --> 1:17:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm gonna do. I gotta do one of those

1:17:34.040 --> 1:17:36.519
<v Speaker 1>songs like a play on word for real dude that

1:17:36.640 --> 1:17:38.720
<v Speaker 1>I just gave me. We're gonna be in the bad

1:17:38.800 --> 1:17:42.800
<v Speaker 1>room singing that gonna bet because I listened Lurie. I

1:17:42.840 --> 1:17:44.639
<v Speaker 1>think it's corny, but I like to listen to music

1:17:44.760 --> 1:17:46.120
<v Speaker 1>like when I have sex. I like to have a

1:17:46.160 --> 1:17:48.519
<v Speaker 1>playlist and I can't handle quite. I'd be like, I

1:17:48.640 --> 1:17:53.160
<v Speaker 1>like listening to I feel like every guy said. I was, yeah,

1:17:53.360 --> 1:17:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I was just to swing my baby the other

1:17:55.200 --> 1:17:57.000
<v Speaker 1>day and then we was playing a few sat and

1:17:57.040 --> 1:18:01.680
<v Speaker 1>I it was a little I like, I man like

1:18:01.800 --> 1:18:07.880
<v Speaker 1>some songs. It was liked up. I was like, right

1:18:08.760 --> 1:18:14.400
<v Speaker 1>now you start really stroke you know something. Sometimes you

1:18:14.439 --> 1:18:18.559
<v Speaker 1>gotta have ranches. Sometimes you gotta hear quickie, something really rocking,

1:18:18.640 --> 1:18:21.920
<v Speaker 1>slap in your ass. You don't be watching walking down

1:18:21.960 --> 1:18:27.200
<v Speaker 1>and be like you get it out. Yeah, staking leg

1:18:27.280 --> 1:18:34.240
<v Speaker 1>in the bed, but like you pull the muscle trying

1:18:34.240 --> 1:18:36.920
<v Speaker 1>to get rid of it. You moving your legs. The

1:18:37.000 --> 1:18:38.880
<v Speaker 1>best thing you do is twerk in the bedroom. That's

1:18:39.560 --> 1:18:43.360
<v Speaker 1>twerk on that dick. I'm telling you that future album.

1:18:43.600 --> 1:18:47.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you I don't have time, like I feel

1:18:47.400 --> 1:18:49.400
<v Speaker 1>like we're get into it, like I'm a hole on

1:18:49.479 --> 1:18:51.880
<v Speaker 1>one second. Let me get that, let me get the music.

1:18:52.120 --> 1:18:55.000
<v Speaker 1>Let me wait. The bluetooth a connecting connect. I'm like

1:18:55.120 --> 1:18:57.760
<v Speaker 1>calling yes to it. You like, but if you're met

1:18:57.800 --> 1:18:59.640
<v Speaker 1>and it's slick like he you know he got the

1:18:59.720 --> 1:19:04.479
<v Speaker 1>beat tool right there, you know exactly I got I

1:19:04.520 --> 1:19:08.200
<v Speaker 1>gotta do is I got Yeah. Plus I also feel

1:19:08.240 --> 1:19:10.720
<v Speaker 1>like sometimes you sit at home and like a lot

1:19:10.760 --> 1:19:12.080
<v Speaker 1>of times we don't take the time to do this,

1:19:12.200 --> 1:19:14.519
<v Speaker 1>but like have a night where y'all have like a

1:19:14.600 --> 1:19:17.160
<v Speaker 1>bottle of wine or you know whatever, have a nice

1:19:17.240 --> 1:19:20.560
<v Speaker 1>night at home where it's like relaxing, you're having conversations,

1:19:21.000 --> 1:19:25.120
<v Speaker 1>having desserts. Music is already playing. That's my favorite. That's

1:19:25.160 --> 1:19:28.080
<v Speaker 1>my favorite sex. Yeah, because that don't happen all that

1:19:28.200 --> 1:19:31.320
<v Speaker 1>off to see see the music being on that and

1:19:31.400 --> 1:19:33.200
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. But I ain't gonna be like we about

1:19:33.240 --> 1:19:37.640
<v Speaker 1>the hold on one second, you know. And I recommend

1:19:37.720 --> 1:19:42.120
<v Speaker 1>y'all do a playlist together. We did at the other end.

1:19:42.400 --> 1:19:43.960
<v Speaker 1>You had to do it right, Steph, you do a

1:19:44.000 --> 1:19:46.559
<v Speaker 1>playlist together at the house. I made something forgett now,

1:19:46.600 --> 1:19:49.280
<v Speaker 1>y'all got songs together, had some wine and we made

1:19:49.320 --> 1:19:51.240
<v Speaker 1>a playlist together. Like we were making He was like,

1:19:51.320 --> 1:19:57.160
<v Speaker 1>you like this song. Yeah, we got a crazy night.

1:19:57.520 --> 1:19:59.360
<v Speaker 1>That was so. It was so it was such a

1:19:59.439 --> 1:20:03.439
<v Speaker 1>full night, like we we drank, we a we we talked,

1:20:03.560 --> 1:20:08.280
<v Speaker 1>we argued, we made up, we had sex. That's that's

1:20:11.560 --> 1:20:15.160
<v Speaker 1>litt Now that's lit. You gotta do it because as

1:20:15.200 --> 1:20:17.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, music is so important, like for what it

1:20:17.600 --> 1:20:19.960
<v Speaker 1>is that you know in the bedroom, for everything in

1:20:20.040 --> 1:20:23.000
<v Speaker 1>your life, Like you relate a song to something you know,

1:20:23.120 --> 1:20:24.760
<v Speaker 1>like you could think of a parody of life. I

1:20:24.760 --> 1:20:26.680
<v Speaker 1>remember I was in Miami when that song came out

1:20:26.720 --> 1:20:29.400
<v Speaker 1>and we was in the club, Like you remember so much,

1:20:29.479 --> 1:20:32.160
<v Speaker 1>you remember certain songs remind you of a certain person.

1:20:32.720 --> 1:20:34.200
<v Speaker 1>In some songs, you're like, I can't even hear that

1:20:34.320 --> 1:20:38.200
<v Speaker 1>song and remind me of so and so. Oh no, please,

1:20:38.240 --> 1:20:40.519
<v Speaker 1>there's music I can't listen to because it reminds me

1:20:40.600 --> 1:20:42.960
<v Speaker 1>of ship that I don't want to remember. Right, I

1:20:43.040 --> 1:20:47.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like I feel like music, Um, it's always connected

1:20:47.040 --> 1:20:49.880
<v Speaker 1>to a part of your life. And honestly, that's the

1:20:49.960 --> 1:20:53.400
<v Speaker 1>way it's it is that mean, it's it's passupposed to

1:20:53.479 --> 1:20:56.080
<v Speaker 1>make you feel away. There's certain songs so you'd just

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<v Speaker 1>be like okay, but there are certain songs that she'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like God the and of the rolled the boards

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<v Speaker 1>to boards song, I can't listen to that graduation I cried, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>mom a crying. And I love boys to Men like

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<v Speaker 1>they're like my favorite boy band ever in life. And

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<v Speaker 1>that song I'm listening to boys some Man's greatest hits

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm crying. I'm in the middle of my makeup.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what album was always typing for Joe to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember they had that, Yeah, they had the fast part

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<v Speaker 1>like me too, and I was like seven, there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>I was like that I want to get. But that

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<v Speaker 1>second album, which was the Shoulder after part of the Hotel,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the one that it was like half of

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<v Speaker 1>it with slow songs and then the other half. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was Devonte was in his bag with that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody loved Devonte at that time. Sorry Mary, right, that

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<v Speaker 1>was married just kidding, but he was just kidding. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was having in rights and then turned

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<v Speaker 1>into a thing. Three one of them is No, one

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<v Speaker 1>of them is regularly Dalvin Dalvin Dalvin Mr Dalvin DeVante

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<v Speaker 1>was still works right man. That wasn't No. He's the

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<v Speaker 1>one looked like shape. He's still I've seen them before

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<v Speaker 1>him at the Babble. I think he had passed her.

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<v Speaker 1>Now It's like it's probably something different because all of

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<v Speaker 1>them come from church, so like for them to take

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<v Speaker 1>that dress crazy something some ship didn't happened that week.

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<v Speaker 1>You actually escaped all of that, Like you didn't end up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know a lot of things happened with singers and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I was in that area when everybody was

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<v Speaker 1>popping Molly's and Ease. I was a partner and he

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<v Speaker 1>was around all those people from the hip hop world

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<v Speaker 1>and the R and V. I was like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get caught up in that because I sort of like, people,

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<v Speaker 1>hold up, brother, just pop five X pills and Lasayalis

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<v Speaker 1>and a via. I said, that's gonna die like people

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<v Speaker 1>was like he didn't the next week, real like. But

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<v Speaker 1>when you're young, you're just having fun. But some people

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<v Speaker 1>was just doing stuff and I'm like, yo, you had

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<v Speaker 1>a pocket and I was like, no, let me just

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<v Speaker 1>go to my room. I used to always be scared.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not. I just used to think I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get kidnapped and thrown in the trunk. So we

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<v Speaker 1>would literally do our shows. I would go to my room. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably working and get kidnapped and put it in

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<v Speaker 1>the trunk. You did the right thing, real rep. I

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<v Speaker 1>would do my right to my room. People we want

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out, Nope, good night, because I never have

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<v Speaker 1>no little most candles back then, nope, nothing. You ain't

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<v Speaker 1>never seen me with a picture of alcohol, a couple,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of licking minds and water. Right now, it's lemonade.

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<v Speaker 1>That was that wasn't water? We put out of that

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm joking. I knew my wig was leaning back again.

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<v Speaker 1>Little thank you so much. You know, we appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come into your podcast that Yep, it's gonna be lit.

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<v Speaker 1>So just just let me know. I'll hit you up

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<v Speaker 1>when we and we're gonna we're gonna go up with

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<v Speaker 1>get because we could curse on my and letsten we

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<v Speaker 1>always and I just want to save me personally. I

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<v Speaker 1>always appreciate you, like I know he was always had

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<v Speaker 1>a good report, you know, even from when I first

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<v Speaker 1>met you. A lot of people don't act like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I love the way that little Mom has always

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<v Speaker 1>been super cool with me. I always consisted she showed

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<v Speaker 1>up to the juice by grand opening, but then like

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't coming around, and then nobody told me she

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<v Speaker 1>just popped up. It was a surprise. I wanted some juice, it, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I love I love supporting like like that because

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<v Speaker 1>that's outside of the norm. Like you, you're doing stuff

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<v Speaker 1>outside of the box. And I love supporting every movement

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody does something that's like, that's dope, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, yo, like that's cleaning somebody's life, and

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<v Speaker 1>the different ones you have to so freaking dope. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we love doing things outside the box. I love things

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<v Speaker 1>inside the box too. She like things that nothing that

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<v Speaker 1>we out