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Speaker 1: Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire, I'm Loria, and we

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Speaker 1: got a little mo here with us. Hey. Now I

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Speaker 1: so we are going to do that now. Obviously all

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Speaker 1: So Carl was painting his nails nooe, only well he

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Speaker 1: So he gets his hands done and so the girls like,

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Speaker 1: it helps so the nails won't like break in it.

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Speaker 1: I just instantly thought about that picture was going around

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Speaker 1: if they wasn't make you sweat, the sweat jones, the

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Speaker 1: drink some water. That's from what I've heard. I would

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Speaker 1: after that life out, Yes, I would have about yourself

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Speaker 1: Maybe I could push the things. Hello, hello got at

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Speaker 1: her birth? What did that pey? But the man got

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Speaker 1: like lip fillers, that's something, or like people that makeup artists.

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Speaker 1: He gets those, but I didn't know he had him.

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Speaker 1: But he's your makeup artists. But if a dude just like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: plump down. That's like, that's weird, Like whatever makes I

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Speaker 1: don't like that. If you play football and it got broken.

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Speaker 1: like like Owen Wilson knows. You know, the lords make

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Speaker 1: him money. That's what I'm saying. I'd be like, come on, babe,

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Speaker 1: fixing people's life. Now, what about if a guy wanted

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Speaker 1: to school on Friday, tight jeans and heels, and well, yeah,

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00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 1: after I gave birth to my son, I was. I

424
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: got up and I remember I had the energy to

425
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: walk around and everything, but I mean for me to

426
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: go out and everything, I could barely hold my pee.

427
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,399
Speaker 1: I can't even imaginally doing anything. Yeah, I was just

428
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,719
Speaker 1: falling out. Not my ant sides weren't falling out, Like

429
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 1: I remember thinking that I was gonna be able to

430
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: come out the hospital and put a girl on and

431
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: snap back and everything. But people, I didn't feel normal,

432
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: Like I didn't feel normal for at least like a

433
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: month after I gave birth. Like it's amazing. I don't

434
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: have any kids. I love to hear these stories for

435
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: having a baby. Everybody's experiences like totally different, Like really,

436
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: because there are people who have c sections, like I

437
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,360
Speaker 1: never want one of those again. I'm like I don't

438
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,640
Speaker 1: want to go through labor. I've seen my friends sections.

439
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 1: I know a couple of people that lost blood, had

440
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: blood trans But I just later, you know, seem like

441
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: a chance. I was like, um, yeah, did y'all see

442
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: loving him? Hope? You know they're talking to playing babies

443
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 1: and stuff. Anything has a baby, she take picture, even

444
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: a baby. She just those are the wants, I said,

445
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: those are the like she has the baby making body. Honestly,

446
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: your body when people let themselves go, that's on you.

447
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: But your body is not supposed to be over after

448
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: you have a child. I hate, you know, I don't

449
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: hate the person, but I hate what people just turned to.

450
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: The sloppy, slobbing least slob. You have a bag. And

451
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 1: then you wonder why your baby, Like did you wonder

452
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: why he out here? Yeh me always in the script

453
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: club dancing. He might as well sign a death brows.

454
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 1: And she my best friend is pregnant with twins right now,

455
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: and she is huge, you know, and she's like twins

456
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: some people be you didn't even be showing their baby

457
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: be nine pounds. My god daughters as twins. And and

458
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: but people kids trying to do it too quick? Yeah

459
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: quick I mean when I gave birth to my kid.

460
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: Always really um, I've always been a very vain person

461
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: and I like to look at myself in the mirror

462
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: like everybody else. But when I gave her some of

463
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: my kid, like I had like anxiety about wanting to

464
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: him to be okay, you know what I mean, Like

465
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: I didn't. I forgot about myself that I got so

466
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: skinny I got I turned into a skinny stick because

467
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: I wasn't eating. I had so much anxiety and stress

468
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: of being That's what happened to me too, I swear.

469
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: But a kid, you don't know. You don't realize even

470
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 1: when you're pregnant your first kid, like you're about to

471
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: have anxiety for the rest of your life. Depression, Like

472
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: that's a lot of stuff that comes with it. Yeah,

473
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 1: you never know when it's gonna hit. And they give

474
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: you these and then they give these little quizzes now

475
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: to make sure you ain't at the number eight because

476
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: my stress level and you don't know your stress levels,

477
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: which is anxiety is so high. You just like because

478
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 1: you want everything to be so perfect, and I just

479
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: want to make sure why is he crying like this?

480
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 1: And why is it? Oh my god debate. But sometimes

481
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,199
Speaker 1: they're perfectly all right, but you naturally stress yourself. Like

482
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,120
Speaker 1: when I first had my son, I didn't go out.

483
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: I didn't go party. I didn't go drink nothing for

484
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: like five months, for like five months because I was

485
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 1: so I didn't want to leave my son to anybody.

486
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: I didn't try to his father. I didn't truy someone

487
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: anybody with his father, not even anybody with my mother.

488
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to know what everyone feel like that

489
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: I think with the first one. But now I'll be

490
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: like trying to keep Yeah, I feel like I don't

491
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: feel like I'll be like that with with another one.

492
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: If I didn't have another one, because now on tricks

493
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,160
Speaker 1: and all the things, Like I couldn't even sleep because

494
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: I was like stalking my son all the time he

495
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 1: would be sleeping, I'll be watching him. But I think

496
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 1: I created now my daughter like sis. My daughter thinks

497
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: she's my sister. Sis. She's like sis, what we're doing for?

498
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: She's so pretty and I was, and that's what she was.

499
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: You're so pretty and nicely sink to her. Now she

500
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: thinks what she walks in the room, you post the

501
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: same time. But she's such a sweetheart, and like, God,

502
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: bless me with some amazing kids. Now something else that

503
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 1: none of us because none of us in this room. Besides,

504
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: you have been married, right, sever times? Yeah, a couple

505
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: of times. How do you know when it's time to

506
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 1: walk away? Because there's a lot of people obviously marriage

507
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 1: it's difficult, right, and it's a lot of work. And

508
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: at certain times people are like, hey, I'm done with this,

509
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: I can't take it anymore. Or sometimes you're like, you

510
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: know what, we're going through a really rough patch and

511
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: we gotta figure it out. How do you know? All right?

512
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: I just can't all right. The first time, I shouldn't

513
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: have got married, but I was like, I want to

514
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: have kids and I don't want to just have a

515
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 1: baby faver, so let's get married. And we got married,

516
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: like I knew him, but like six weeks after dating,

517
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: we got married and then I got pregnant thing, and

518
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: I was just like okay, and he it was just wrong,

519
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: but I knew I do. I walked away from that

520
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: because he started cheating and I was like, all right,

521
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: I'm a cheat too. I did that cheap back sis

522
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: and it wasn't I was just like, that's not right,

523
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: And then I saw what it was doing to my daughters,

524
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't want them to meet nobody,

525
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: no nigga like you. And I was like, oh my god,

526
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm turning into what I didn't want to become. So

527
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: I was like, we gotta break it up because they

528
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: want to start hating you and not being around you

529
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: and septing that. No. Then the second one, I just

530
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 1: married him because I wanted to make the first one

531
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: man because I know I shouldn't have best with him.

532
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: But now we we have two children together, and well

533
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: that don't care. I canceled them out. They don't even

534
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: count to me. But I was like, I'm out. Like

535
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: I was so depressed, and uh, this part makes me

536
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: cry because my daughter, she came to me one day

537
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: she was like, mom, I my kids knew that I

538
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: wasn't happy, and I had pulled myself away from the

539
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: industry and friends and like people that I was really

540
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: close with, like even fab and everybody, like I wasn't

541
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 1: coming around because I was just like, well, maybe I

542
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: should just stay home and be a wife and be

543
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: people's mother and just sit home and just do nothing.

544
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: And I just felt like a reclusive, and once I

545
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 1: started feeling like I wasn't myself, not a little mo

546
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: but Cynthia, and I lost sight of who I was.

547
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: I said, oh, hell to them now, and I literally

548
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: picked up and left and like, now with my marriage now, Honestly,

549
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: I was like, this is the one I should have

550
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: been with from the whole time, because he's been chasing me.

551
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: What's crazy was I said I was married, I was

552
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: twelve years, a slave because the first and six, but

553
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: for fifteen years because he's he's a young boy. He'd

554
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: been chasing me for fifteen years and he was fifteen

555
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: when he first tried all at me. So you do

556
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: the math, all right, now? Let me Now, we've seen

557
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: y'all have issues too, We've seen the couple's court and everything,

558
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: and you're like, like, I'm not I'm gonna make sure

559
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: that this works out. Because he did admit that he's

560
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 1: had some issues in the past and that he used

561
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: to be a thought also, and then he got with

562
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: you and now he wants to make things right. How

563
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: do you know that? You know? Because this happens in

564
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: relationships all the time. The guy messes up everyone's relationship, right.

565
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: The guy messes up and then you're like, Okay, you

566
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: have a choice. Now do I give him another chance

567
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: or do I not give him another chance? How do

568
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: you know that it's worth it? You just know because

569
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: you're like, all right, I'm gonna play. I'm gonna play

570
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: like I didn't notice what happened. And if we see

571
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: this bitch, we're gonna jump together. But like, first of all,

572
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, like when you saw the couple's

573
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: court that was from years ago, we just remade it first,

574
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,719
Speaker 1: so it's just like it seems like it's new. So

575
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: I'm just like and because in a scorpio on me

576
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 1: is just like like you know, you're fing with like

577
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: you know, like you know what I have access to, Nigga,

578
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: I can ruin you, I can destroy you, and I

579
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: won't have to funk any of your friends. One thing

580
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,719
Speaker 1: I don't do is I don't cross pollinate this pussy

581
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: nobody in your What's crazy is is that as soon

582
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: as people saw us on the TV, people all like, oh,

583
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: like I'm from North Philly to get at me, and

584
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: I'm just like, yo, like people are just really weird

585
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: like that. But one thing I did notice that I

586
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm not gonna be as accessible. And

587
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: I was just like, yo, you have to a lot

588
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: of men don't realize who they are, Like my husband now,

589
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: he's a professional box and I'm like, I see what

590
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: I knew. It came with the territory. His best friends

591
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: are Danny Garcia, Adrian Brona Boa, like Victor Ortis. These

592
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: are people house we stay at like these are that's

593
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: like our family. So I'm just like, Okay, I get it,

594
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: and I know what comes to the territory, but I

595
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: will be a bitch the funk up, Like I don't

596
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: play that ship. So it's just like like you either

597
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: cut that ship out and let's let's let's clear this

598
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: late because then you have to realize to what type

599
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: of bitches you messing with that run to tell the

600
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: blogs niggas. Let me tell you, I ain't know Angel,

601
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: but my nigs don't tell the funk you're doing. What

602
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: happened to the quiet side pieces or whatever? You know,

603
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: the hush mouth media? Yeah, and people really And I'm

604
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: just like, like, who raised Who's raising these bitches? But

605
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,239
Speaker 1: at the same time, don't you look at it like

606
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: he chased you for all these years? Got you. Why

607
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: fucked that up? Like a lot of people don't realize

608
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: if he liked like sometimes to this day was like Dad,

609
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: like I really got you, and he's still like like damn,

610
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: And I was just like, okay, damn, it's not that hard.

611
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: Really in life, anybody you want you can really have.

612
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to everything. I agree with that. If you

613
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: there's some people in life like well, I don't know

614
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: I speak things in existence. How did he get you? Anyway? Like,

615
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: how did it even after all that time? Made you say,

616
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: because we've just been kicking it for all the years,

617
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: because all right, fifteen years ago, like when who was

618
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 1: on tour with what's two thousand two? Because he's he

619
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: grew up with Beanie Seagull was his Like that's BBC

620
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,239
Speaker 1: young Ball, so that's like his uncle. So when I

621
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: was torn with the rock back then, like those years

622
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,479
Speaker 1: and missing and us, like, he was around and I

623
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: was just like, alright, So his cousin that's locked up.

624
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: Everybody know him. His name is Woo and everybody knew

625
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: who because he had a murder mill that was from

626
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: Philly and he used to come up always. He used

627
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: to be around Violat a lot so he was always

628
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: the young boy that was around. I was like, oh,

629
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: he's so cute, like the boy with the gay hair,

630
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: the boxer ball. So then finally once he matured, he

631
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: was like, he's like, yo, you're ready for me yet,

632
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh my god. But I'm always because

633
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,719
Speaker 1: I was in Baltimore and Baltimore and Philly just like

634
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: it always yeah and be like I don't like Philly, Philly,

635
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: I don't like by the same thing in each other

636
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: city Hello, eating eating strength and damn crabs Hello. So

637
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: it's just like it was like the same thing. So

638
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: it almost seemed like inevitable. But like once we clicked,

639
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: we just start like he was like, yeah, I got you,

640
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 1: and I was like, I because I'm I'm a piece

641
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: of bird, Like I'm are you sure that you can

642
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 1: handle this? Because I'm a lot. My my mouth, my attitude,

643
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 1: my mood swings. Some days I want to be little mold,

644
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: some days I want to be synthy. Some days I

645
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: don't want to be bothered, some days don't want to

646
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 1: be kindered. Tomorrow when I take you away up something like,

647
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 1: some days you gotta be able to deal with it.

648
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: And a lot of people think that what you see

649
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,919
Speaker 1: on TV is what you get at home. Some days

650
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: I'll be like, what the fun was we thinking? And

651
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: then some days he'll be like, oh my god, I

652
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: can love you, but this is one time in life

653
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 1: I can honestly say that I am in love. That's

654
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: good for you. You know. I have a question because you,

655
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: as you said something earlier about getting married after you know,

656
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: you have sex after you get married. So was that

657
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: the first marriage that you did that? With that? After that?

658
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: He was like, all right, whoever I deal with from

659
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: this first marriage, from now on, I'm not having sex

660
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: until I get married. It was just like, because I

661
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: was raised holiness Apostolic Christian, it was honestly supposed to.

662
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 1: We were toward you aren't supposed to lose your virginity

663
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: until you're married. But since I didn't marry the person,

664
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: I lost my virginity too. I was like, Okay, I

665
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 1: don't want to just be out here thoughting and bopping. Listen,

666
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: if you want to be with me, then you're gonna

667
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 1: have to marry me, and you're gonna have to meet

668
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: my dad and you have to go through the motions.

669
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: So it's not no, just like, oh, we getting married,

670
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: like you have to meet the parents. Now you put

671
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: your foot down, like and this is what you gotta do.

672
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: Now my kids, that's totally different because with my with

673
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: my first marriage, I didn't have any children, so we

674
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: had children together, but he had children from previous relationships

675
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: and with that baby mothers like, I'm so glad, Like

676
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 1: my baby fathers need to give me a trophy and

677
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: a crown. Because when I say, I don't call them,

678
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: I don't ask for anything. They don't have my phone, umber,

679
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't have their day, know where I live. I

680
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: don't know where they live, no communication whatsoever. I don't

681
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: think kids are old enough to communicate with them on

682
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: their own. So they were born. Yeah, it's like that's

683
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: how it should be, Like for real, what do we

684
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,240
Speaker 1: need to talk about. I'm gonna make all the decisions

685
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: because I know at the end of the day, I

686
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: knew every time, even though we were married and I

687
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 1: gave birth, I was like, you know what, there's a

688
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: chance we may not be together. So listen, I'm gonna

689
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 1: bring the shot in the world if I if I'm

690
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to take care of it, don't

691
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: even get on this don't even go through the motions.

692
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: Do what you gotta do so that he can they

693
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: communicate directly with their kids or how does that work?

694
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: Do you think it would be a more ideal situation

695
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 1: if y'all were like cool with each other once, I'm

696
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 1: gonna scop you on something I have nothing to say, Like,

697
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 1: I'd be like, like, I literally love botomized niggas out

698
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 1: of my life. I was like, I don't remember anything, damn. Like,

699
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: if you sit right there, I'll be like, who that

700
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: I should baby father? No virgin Murray Jesus? So when

701
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 1: when when did he get to meet the kids? He

702
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: met them? Man? So because people are acting really know

703
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: funny about that, Like when you see it blides remember

704
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: the day deal they made it back like Sierra and

705
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: they made such a big deal out of it and

706
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: she ended up marrying him. But people being always in

707
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: people business. One thing about me is I don't be

708
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: in people business like that. I don't be caring. That's

709
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: why I'm like, how do these blogs survived? That's too

710
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 1: many people that care about other people's lives. I don't

711
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 1: be caring. I'd be like, as long as that child

712
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: is safe and doesn't look like because you could tell

713
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: by child's countenance or they are be like oh no,

714
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: but you can look at the way he is with

715
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,439
Speaker 1: that Sild'm like, yo, that baby is happy. So when

716
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: would you want them to be in a stable environment?

717
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: And people always start being uh oh future through a

718
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,399
Speaker 1: subtweet out and just like that, and then you cause

719
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,320
Speaker 1: friction between a relationship that you really had no business

720
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: tampering with and that has been married. I think people

721
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: should keep their hands off. I think, yeah, but people

722
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 1: they just have people. I'm drinking water, mind of my business,

723
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: You're not buch Because I look at the comments section

724
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: at that time that it was posted, I was like,

725
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: y'all just be at work, Like what jobs do y'all have?

726
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 1: Y'all so rich or everything? But like with my kids,

727
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: because when we actually started dating, I was still with

728
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: R and B divas of l A, so we were

729
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 1: in l A. He didn't actually meet them until I

730
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: came back to the East Coast and that was like

731
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: about five months later. And then I didn't even let

732
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: her hit it until like, yeah, like the first time

733
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: you see I made and I wasn't even divorce ship

734
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: bang the gather well the ink wasn't even damn dry.

735
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 1: I was Maryly, you have to be separated four year

736
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, yes that they did a

737
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: lot of places. I think you have to be separated

738
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: for California. As long as you'll be like, oh we

739
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: irreconsolable differences and alienation affection, they'll be like today, yeah

740
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: tonight fail like like a relationship will lives longer if

741
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,959
Speaker 1: you do weight in the beginning. I think relationships last

742
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: as long as you want them to. You have to

743
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: want to make it work. Because the old me, like

744
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: if she would have been like that, out have been

745
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: like you know what, like it's too many niggas out

746
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: here because it's some cute like and I just really thing.

747
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 1: So you've been to Dominican Republican had no work done yet,

748
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: so and yet you know, everybody just we'll catch the flights.

749
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: We know, but you know, you just get to the

750
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: point where you just like, you know, I'm gonna make

751
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: this work. My parents have been married for what they've

752
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: been together for forty two years. They've been married for

753
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: forty something like what I want, Like I love my parents.

754
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, how do you do with my dad said,

755
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 1: we're just weird like that. My parents are actually they're

756
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: leaving today. They're taking my daughters and they're going on

757
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: they're going on the cruise and to the Bahamas with

758
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: my um aunt and uncle that I moved back to

759
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: New York with when I became little mo. Dy've been

760
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 1: married for sixty years, so in my family were married.

761
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: They are like, that's how we My sister's married. Like

762
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: everybody and my family we're married. We don't just go

763
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:09,800
Speaker 1: together this noe nobody being. There's nobody that's just a

764
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: baby mother. And if you are, we'll be like you

765
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 1: better get you a husband. That's how it is. And

766
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: you meet the whole family and our family like my

767
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: last name is loving. That's my giving last name. So

768
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: we like that's how we really are. People love my

769
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: family like your how's your dad? People love us. That's

770
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: just how we are. We're just warm, we're welcoming. So

771
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,360
Speaker 1: that's why whenever I get done wrong, people just like

772
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: you didn't deserve that, because that's not how it was raised.

773
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: I never saw my dad yell at my mom, disrespect

774
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 1: my mom, never saw my mom, never heard my mom

775
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: and dad cursed, never saw them drink liquor, like their preachers.

776
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 1: But they my parents went on toll with me and everything.

777
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 1: So it was just like everybody's called the fake ass

778
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 1: Cosby's and stuff like that, to the point where I

779
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: used to be like, well, why do we have to

780
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: have a dad? Nobody else has a dad? And now

781
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: growing now that I'm older and wiser, I'm just like,

782
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 1: you know what, that's the reason why I have confidence.

783
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: I don't have no self esteem. I mean, I get

784
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: over ship quick, you know what I mean. But at

785
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,320
Speaker 1: the end of the day, like I have that balance

786
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 1: because that's where I come from, and that's what honestly,

787
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,359
Speaker 1: I think I've been in search for all my life.

788
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: That's like, let's man, get a fish up. That's why

789
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: I can sing love songs like that, and mothers be

790
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: like yeah, man, yeah, Like baby, I'm trying to play

791
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: against like it's your long we gonna go together ship,

792
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: trying to sing like you on the ship, singing my

793
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: heart out. You'll be singing in bad in the bedroom. No,

794
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 1: you know that's like you on the mic, the mike

795
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 1: right out, all right. They like that you sing. But

796
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy is that you know I'm a singer.

797
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm probably sing like once out of the week because

798
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: it's so much other stuff that I did like. But

799
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: other than that, Yeah, because people like, oh, girl, if

800
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: I can sing like y'a'll be singing all the time.

801
00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, you wouldn't be. If I can and

802
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: I was in that man, i'd definitely be singing a

803
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,800
Speaker 1: little song every now and then. People like, yeah, but

804
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: like that should just because I can really sing. But

805
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: it's just like, who don't we baby, if you don't

806
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 1: go to sleep and watch just walking, David shot up,

807
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: I don't thinking take second songs like about a second Yo,

808
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: so lost favorite songs you can't tell you you sing

809
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 1: and you could be in the bedroom about to like

810
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: it's about to go down to you about licking, I'm

811
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: be singing signs about like about if you like if

812
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: you're singing it just it just feels like weird. But

813
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 1: if the music is playing like them love songs like

814
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 1: I got a song now called thirty minutes I could,

815
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: I can almost guarantee you everybody's gonna be preggingt off

816
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 1: this one. I know certain songs that because I think

817
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 1: songs have they conjure up certain spirits in the spirit

818
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,439
Speaker 1: of eros is love, and that's what I put into

819
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,840
Speaker 1: my music. So like a girl came to me. She

820
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: was like a matter of fact at Jeys pressure age

821
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: and she was like, oh my god, a little more.

822
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: I just love you and I may love to all

823
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 1: your songs. And I'm like, okay, baby bothered up. But like,

824
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: I know when I put out certain songs and music

825
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: what I want people to feel and so far, like

826
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: I just did a show on Philly What's the Day?

827
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: But for the Escape tour, as soon as I came out,

828
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: I know how I had made like but I know

829
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: how people want to feel and I make you get

830
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 1: in your back. What's the song called thirty minutes? Yeah

831
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: I can oh man, my phone is broke the and

832
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: that like the soft porn. But okay, now do y'all

833
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 1: feel yourselves? Yes in the bedroom, yes, and what do

834
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: you do? But for the for the video shoot, oh

835
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 1: I got it's crazy that isn't like okay, so now

836
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: in the video shoot, I can't tell that because because

837
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: us the way loveing hip hop is set up. Yeah,

838
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: but all right with the video shoot, it's crazy that

839
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: you can film yourself. See how you have a camera

840
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: for You're like, yeah, bitch, I'm gonna tell them this day,

841
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make this thing all the way. But if

842
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: somebody else is filming, people like, oh my god, don't Yeah.

843
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh my god, give me a

844
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 1: purpose that because because now there's another person there filming.

845
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: So if it's so, what's crazy is it's a bit

846
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: that had three sons, four songs and all this ship

847
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 1: before her life. I was like, why do not? I

848
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 1: used to be scared before, But why am I scared now?

849
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. Now I think, yeah, why was I

850
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: so lit before? And what's the crazy people being? Yeah,

851
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: but now you came. You probably in the house now

852
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: you think when you're younger, just like you don't have

853
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 1: fair when you're young you lot of inhibitious. That's what

854
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 1: it was. You're like a housecoad. You know. The household

855
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: is that's some deal thing. When you go, that's the

856
00:44:56,040 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 1: granny show around yourself. It's a blanket throw to pick

857
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 1: up the kids from school and whoop, they asked, I

858
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: want one of those. They're like a snug little snuggies

859
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 1: and they got a hole in it right here. And

860
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: you lost the and you lost the bell. Bell gotta

861
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 1: hold it together. The thing's being comfortable. That's a sexy

862
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 1: picture of thanks that image of you don't house. No,

863
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: I was naked, like I don't. That's my mommy thing.

864
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 1: But when I stick to day a mom, then I

865
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: probably have like three of them joys with the whole

866
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 1: and we walking. But my kids be busting my mom.

867
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: Tell my mom, I'm like, yo, get out of keep

868
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: busting in. We're wasting allowed to my parents room growing up.

869
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 1: These kids nowadays, they're just a lie. I wasn't either that.

870
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: We wasn't get get from that little on my dress up. Yeah,

871
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: we wasn't allowed to watch cable. My kids be putting

872
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: it on on YouTube on my mom. Look at this,

873
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: look at wild and now has this taion his name said,

874
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: see you extensions. It's not like extension. It's not like

875
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: it's all the way down extension. Yeah. He going to

876
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 1: jail for a while. So yeah, the holidays are coming up,

877
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 1: right obviously, so do y'all like exchange presents and everything? Right?

878
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 1: So the kids nothing when they go to my mama house.

879
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 1: They do because my mom and a Christian. These kids

880
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: gonna have a Christmas. So it's crazy because they't no

881
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: tree in the house, so I went all right. So

882
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: our neighbors they had like I ain't for Cnthius or Passetius. Okay,

883
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: I call him Poissetti the red Jaws. My son was

884
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: picking all the things. I was like, no, those are

885
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: Christmas things. So he doesn't know. And when we were

886
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 1: in the um King of Prussire Mall, he saw the

887
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: bit he was like, oh, mommy, I want those balls.

888
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: So he loves best ball. He taking them all off

889
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: and throwing them. He didn't realize what Santa Claus was.

890
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: He was like, no, So they don't know. But when

891
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: they go to my mom house, the eight year old,

892
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: five year old, the older kids they know, but the

893
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 1: two year old, oh, he doesn't know anything. But in

894
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: January with presidents that like with you and Carl, you

895
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: know how often, like do you give him presents all

896
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: the time or is it just like his birthday all

897
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: the time every week? Like you know what I love

898
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: about him and he from North Philly. So the fact

899
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: that like last night we were at a party and

900
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 1: he just came to me with a book. He always

901
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 1: goes lady and buys them all and he'll give me

902
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: a whole munch and then he'll give him the people

903
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:32,280
Speaker 1: at the club to see that, like you never um capital,

904
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: rich capital. I saw y'all rich capital and he did

905
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: it the night that you were saying, like right, you

906
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: know at the bar, we always at rid the cat,

907
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: but he always buys all the roses and passed him

908
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 1: out to me. He was like, you know, just make

909
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: people feel you know, all right, because you just don't

910
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: know what type of day, so I said, But then

911
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,479
Speaker 1: always I also saw somebody get out of line, pop

912
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 1: the ship out of like you don't play because sometimes

913
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 1: you know. We was at this place called Hope. It's

914
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,879
Speaker 1: a new place in Phillips downtown. This girl I saw

915
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: you on that show and you are a piece of ship.

916
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: He was like, bitch, I will everybody and feels a

917
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 1: bitch I will beat you the funk up. So she

918
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry, I didn't know, but that is

919
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 1: when people see you on TV, they they feel like

920
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: they know you and they can say anything to you,

921
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: and they don't know like get the fun up. We

922
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: already to People see you on the internet and they've

923
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: been following you for years and that Suz and so

924
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: on and so forth, and they feel like they know you,

925
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: but you know, you know what I put on the internet.

926
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: You don't really know me in real life, Like people

927
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: get really comfortable in person. Somebody deemed me yesterday and

928
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 1: one thing about me. And I learned this my dad

929
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 1: growing up. My dad used to make us read books

930
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: and write essays. So every Monday through Friday we have

931
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 1: to read a book and buy Sunday handing the essay.

932
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: And so he taught us how to deal with people.

933
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:50,399
Speaker 1: And so I know how to pull out of people

934
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: what you really want to say? This girl, I said

935
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: at the lake up sis I saw. I know you

936
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 1: did your thing at the concept of the night, but

937
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: that outfit you had on wasn't really conducive to Islam.

938
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: And you follow Listen. She was like, you find your

939
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: husband should be let you know about the raj June

940
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: and this and that. I said, bit, shut the funk up.

941
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 1: Suck my dear, because I said, you know what I said,

942
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 1: Why is you worry about what I got on? First

943
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: of all, if you really want to get down to

944
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: you shouldn't even be on social media because it's not

945
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: that's kind. Let's just be real someone, bitch. First of all,

946
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: you know that that I said see that first exactly,

947
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: that's what you wanted to say, And that's not even

948
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: you in your abbey hole. Funk out of here, and

949
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: you're never gonna say it to my face. You're not

950
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 1: gonna get close. No. That's the worst when when people

951
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: try to mention you but shade you at the same time, like, Oh,

952
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan, but I'm just trying to give

953
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: you something like nobody asked for your own advice, like

954
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 1: what you to commemorate it? One thing about people like yeah,

955
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: the alphad was cute, but no you I love you more,

956
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: but that alpha was taking Did you sold your head on?

957
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: But you said your kid's hand that want to that

958
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: in the stylist too funny they'd be like, yeah, you

959
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: need a stylist. People always trying to tell you what

960
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: to do with wi to put it with worry about

961
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 1: So don't worry about me and what I'm doing wor

962
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what to do with your kids.

963
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 1: Your money. That's the new thing. Oh, I see you

964
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: getting a couple of dollars now, bitch, don't act new.

965
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: You just got five from the radio station. Bitch. That

966
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: that that little that little check, that wasn't that was

967
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: asked to make my money, not having to be at

968
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 1: work every single morning. Hello would think I used to

969
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: drive I mean to DC every day. UD We used

970
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: to get up at two o'clock in the morning, and

971
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: I was just like, that's why. I'm just like, I

972
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: know that nigga love me. And then he would we

973
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: would leave by like ten am, ten thirty, get back

974
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: to Philly by twelve thirty. He being the gym by

975
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: four pm till six sometimes seven thirty, and we start

976
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: all over again. And I make my kids lunch every

977
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 1: night that were home, pick out their clothes and all

978
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: that stuff. So like this little motion that ship is cool.

979
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 1: But me being a mom, the domestic, the O c

980
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: D going around, Oh my god, that's a fingerprint on

981
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: the count. I have such an O c D and

982
00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: drops me crazy. I'm like, oh, please don't tell us

983
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:06,919
Speaker 1: while your hangars. Now, what about taking pace and people

984
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: for both of y'all, Like, I know there's rules of

985
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,479
Speaker 1: you know, I remember I had a briefriend that would

986
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: be really mad if I took a picture with somebody

987
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: and they put their arm around me. Oh yeah, there's

988
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 1: certain etiquette because you know a lot of people come

989
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: up and I mean, it comes to territory. Can we

990
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: take a picture? Yep, let's take a selfie and he

991
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:24,839
Speaker 1: said one and done. We're not gonna have no photo

992
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 1: shoot because then people will start telling to wait, my,

993
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: like my, you shouldn't you should have thought about a

994
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: lash on those. That's why I would tell people just

995
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,799
Speaker 1: have some glasses and some gloss and you and you live. Yeah,

996
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 1: because people would try to have a photo shoot and

997
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 1: then um, I went to a restaurant the other day.

998
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:42,240
Speaker 1: Then sometimes I want like I'm on my way to somewhere,

999
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: and because I'll be one thing about me is I

1000
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: see everything a bitches. Big brother out this bit. I

1001
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: went to this restaurant to go eat and I wanted

1002
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 1: to eat leave because we was going to Jessy pressure

1003
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: party after that day. So the girl comes to my comments,

1004
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: that was you a after restaurant? You didn't even want

1005
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,479
Speaker 1: to take no picture? In some autographs but you ain't

1006
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: asked you saying hey, you look like little mo. So

1007
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 1: I said, don't you hate when people do that? This

1008
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: is happening to remember the guys to tell the guy no,

1009
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: he was like, look like that girl on the thing. Yeah,

1010
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,280
Speaker 1: Ray was. He was like, that'sh you. I was like Nope.

1011
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 1: All the time, Like sometimes I've done it in front

1012
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: of you. I'll be like, no, I'm not. I don't

1013
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: know what that is, but you're not. I think she's pretty. People.

1014
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 1: You know, it's all about people's approach rights. Say hey,

1015
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: I know you don't want to be seen right now,

1016
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 1: but I love you. I saw you at the thing.

1017
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: They'd be like, I say no to that. You can't

1018
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 1: say what you say het you look like bitch. I'm

1019
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 1: eating on me and when I eat, I don't like

1020
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: to be like put a bib on and cut my food,

1021
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: but I want to eat. I gotta go. But you

1022
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: know what, the same places that you go, you know

1023
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 1: you're gonna see people, Like we went to the next

1024
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: game at the back Lace. You know, when I go there,

1025
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see people. And so I'm like in the

1026
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 1: and might want to take pictures. I'm fine with that

1027
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 1: because I know I'm there. But if you out like

1028
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: that was out. But when I'm if you Christal shopping

1029
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 1: at Target and decide to stop at lunching a grocery store,

1030
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: trying to just run in and get the look at gunna,

1031
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: but this phone. Have you ever been some when you

1032
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: saw somebody like this, but maybe like the snake, I'd

1033
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 1: be like, so I'll just be like this. I'll be

1034
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: sitting on like a dup me. I take the train

1035
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: with Day and I got off the train and somebody

1036
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: posted a picture of me on the train and I

1037
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: was looking dumb and I was like looking at my phone.

1038
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 1: I had my double chain because I was like, you know,

1039
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: I want to sue people like that dude, because if

1040
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 1: I did that to them, they might be like I

1041
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 1: have been just trying to exploit dollars. They could do

1042
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 1: anything or anything that's suck up. I'd be like you,

1043
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: and I'm one of the coolest people, like if you

1044
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 1: walk up came out. But sure, that's the reason why

1045
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 1: I want to be famous again. Hello, but if you

1046
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 1: want you look, I thought you was a little more.

1047
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: But she's talking. Her lips is bigger. Yes, I was like,

1048
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: now she's talking her listens y right, it's not mean, yo.

1049
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: People tries it little no lips. That what about him

1050
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: taking pictures with people? To like if he's pictures with

1051
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 1: a woman. We have this thing because pr has told

1052
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: us new ways to pose because a lot of people

1053
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: in these allegations and because we can't listen. We don't

1054
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 1: need no more scandals. Hand around the imagine Johnson point Yohnson,

1055
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: the peace signs always getting too oh yeah, but or

1056
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: just but if you put your arms around people, it's

1057
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: a way to you don't touch that because people say,

1058
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: touch my bucket, I'm calling. We're not doing know Rick

1059
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: Ross and Johnson Lyn pictures. You're not going to hand

1060
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 1: around the booty. We're doing get around the shoulder. You

1061
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: have to have had a lot of scandal though so

1062
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 1: far already, but hasn't ever a months broken you like

1063
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 1: almost broken your relationship anyway, because at the end of

1064
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: the day, like I always say, you know what, I'm

1065
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: gonna really pull up so you can send them what

1066
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: you want to if you ain't pulling up, like if

1067
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: you're not pulling up me like like like I know

1068
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 1: what people trying to do, and then I know the

1069
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 1: messages people have sent me like yeah, but if you

1070
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: pay me five thousand, I'll make this go away. But

1071
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: you should have got that money from which because I

1072
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: ain't cutting ship right who I hope nobodyn't leak my

1073
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:34,280
Speaker 1: steaming nudes and my steamy text messages. But my niggas

1074
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: never tell you keep saying that, like you had some ship. Okay,

1075
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 1: he's he's come fast, right, so you're cheating on him

1076
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: to know, Okay, So I'm not talking about before that.

1077
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 1: I mean I've never cheated. Yeah, Cheating is the it

1078
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: is giving someone It's not the actual act of intercourse.

1079
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 1: Cheating is giving someone time attention, Like if you get

1080
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: somebody time. Now, if it's just like, because all right,

1081
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: you're cool. So if my husband's like, yo, can I

1082
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,360
Speaker 1: go holl and be like yo, what you think? Like

1083
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: it's just certain people that's cool. But then there's certain

1084
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 1: people that you'd be like, not that bit on the

1085
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: type time, so let me let me go ease, and

1086
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: you know we're gonna go talk to them like yeah,

1087
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's just etiquette and everything is

1088
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: I fail. Like if he was high at me about something,

1089
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 1: I'll hit you up and be like, oh, just so

1090
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 1: you know exactly hit me up about this, aw you

1091
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 1: doing that? That stuff I would do. But then something now,

1092
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 1: if it was a surprise for me, I would be

1093
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: like I wanna be you ain't tell me. But some

1094
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: people be on some sneaks to be like yeah, I'm

1095
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: like and I've seen it because I damn, I don't

1096
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 1: even want to listen. I run all the social media accounts.

1097
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: I'll just put it like that, and I'd be again,

1098
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,720
Speaker 1: Danny bit you want to die and then be thinking

1099
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: is him and I'd be like, no, bitch, this is me.

1100
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: I will lure your ass somewhere with something flammable and

1101
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: you will be smiling for the rest of your life.

1102
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: But I'll play by my husband. I don't play by

1103
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:00,319
Speaker 1: my husband, yes, because one thing, you know, one thing

1104
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: I've learned and my mother taught me this too. I

1105
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: don't mess with nobody husband. That's one thing I don't do.

1106
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 1: I can't say I didn't do it before, but I'm

1107
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: just like, damn mine. I did not know the dude

1108
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: was married, and it was crazy. Is I found out?

1109
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 1: When was that not not Twitter? What was before my Space?

1110
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 1: And you know, she came to me like I was

1111
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: on top eight. No she she she was like she

1112
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 1: was on my page and she was like talking crazy

1113
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: little mom was trying to ruin a happy home. And

1114
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: I was like this when I first came out, and

1115
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: I was like my cousin used to run my social media.

1116
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, no, I'm not. He was like,

1117
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: my mother will whoop me, and I'm grown. So she

1118
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: came to me late on in life and she apologized.

1119
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: She was like, now, I know you didn't know like

1120
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 1: he was deceiving you because I was just like, yo,

1121
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 1: he never had none of his kids around. I was like, yo,

1122
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: like and it was a white boy at that white boy. Yeah.

1123
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: You know what's so funny. Earlier today, right before you

1124
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 1: came in, he was talking about white boys, like who

1125
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: in here? Because Jesus dated a white boy? Loriall hasn't.

1126
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: I haven't, Stephanie has how How did you? What did

1127
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: you think about dating white guys? Um? Personally? Sorry Dan,

1128
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 1: but you know, because there's a white man in the room.

1129
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 1: For me, personally, it's not my taste. I like black men.

1130
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 1: I like my Latino men, you know, that's what I like.

1131
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 1: It was like a short lived relationship. I like dark

1132
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,480
Speaker 1: penis because even my Latin you know, guys are dark.

1133
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 1: You're not opposed to it. So I mean, it's just

1134
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 1: not my taste. And you know what, I've never spoken

1135
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: about this, but the last time I dated a white

1136
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: guy because I thought about it. And he was really great.

1137
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 1: He used to take me. I didn't sleep with him,

1138
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: I didn't have sex with him, but he was really great.

1139
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: He bought me a lot of nice things. He um.

1140
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: He used to take me to Broadway shows. He used

1141
00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: to take me the five star das all the time,

1142
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: like he was. He was courting me really nicely. But

1143
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Um. I didn't like the way

1144
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 1: he talked about other races. I didn't like the way

1145
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: he talks about black people. And I didn't like the

1146
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: way he talked about Latinos. This is like this hid

1147
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: and done the Trump in them all sha yeah, not everybody,

1148
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: but honestly, yeah, the one I was where he just

1149
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 1: and then one time he used the N word, you

1150
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: gotta kill you know what I mean? And I didn't

1151
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 1: like without without saying disrespectful things, but like dancing around

1152
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 1: it like if I wasn't around, you wouldn't be you

1153
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: would be if you were, would differ, you know, it

1154
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: would be a different tone, Yeah, you would be like

1155
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 1: And I remember even one time we were in and

1156
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 1: we were in the car because he used to get

1157
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 1: like a suv to drive us to the shows or

1158
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 1: to dinner or whatever. And I remember we were sitting

1159
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: he was having a conversation with the driver and I

1160
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 1: was sitting there listening to something. I had to kind

1161
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: of check him one time, like he was talking about

1162
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: it was around the time when Trump was about to

1163
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: be elected president and he would they were talking about that,

1164
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: and I had to kind of like check him, like listen,

1165
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 1: like I'm sitting here in Puerto Rican, but you know,

1166
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,439
Speaker 1: like let's not forget like I'm black, and I said,

1167
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: I basically told him, like I'm black too, you know,

1168
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 1: even though I am six African. And he did one

1169
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 1: of those two minute I keep checking my email. Yes,

1170
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing before that. This was before

1171
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: that time, and I'm one of those people who always

1172
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 1: feels really woke, you know what I mean. I'm one

1173
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: of those people always feels really woke. So I had

1174
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: to check him, like, listen, my assetors were raped at

1175
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:48,479
Speaker 1: torture and like you need to understand who you said,

1176
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 1: that's true, Like I see my complexion, but I'm black.

1177
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: I had to explain it to him, and he felt

1178
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: like so bad, like he felt like like like he

1179
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 1: felt like he was offending me, but he was offending me,

1180
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: and I remember I had to check him on that. Remember,

1181
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 1: I'm glad you made that point because remember the thing

1182
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 1: on social media with the boy that happened the other

1183
01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: week with everybody donate on that money. But then when

1184
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: black kids be meaning and stuff like that, nobody want

1185
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 1: to send them a doin thing? What did they don't

1186
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 1: make the money for it? Yeah, because it wasn't the

1187
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: family they started to go from me. It was somebody

1188
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 1: who didn't even know them. He started because people do

1189
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 1: that all the time, like they see something elself to me,

1190
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 1: they started to go fund me for someone. So it

1191
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: wasn't the mom that started to go from me. It

1192
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: was a stranger, right, And then they ceased it and

1193
01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 1: every after Yeah, that one of my homeboys, well my

1194
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: nephews football, like he's eighteen now, but he just got

1195
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 1: arrested and his band was a hundred fifty thousand, So

1196
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: do we trying to raise fifteen thousand and go fund me?

1197
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 1: Shut it down? So I was like, but he was

1198
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 1: supposed to go through the playoffs and we're trying to

1199
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 1: get this money up so he can go, but they

1200
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 1: stopped it. Go fund me, don't play that because they

1201
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: said they don't finance like bills, so go fund me.

1202
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: They'll they'll have money sitting there. But when you try

1203
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 1: to cash out, what's the school they want to receipt? Yeah,

1204
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: they better I'm mad at that way. Do they refund

1205
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: the people or do they just because that's why they Yeah,

1206
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: like protusand dollars to the racist people got their money back.

1207
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 1: Listening Alright, knew sing wasn't right with that story. Like

1208
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: any time I see a little white boy, I feel

1209
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: like this. People see ship on social media and they

1210
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: jump on a banda. They get on the train really fast,

1211
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: they don't even know where the train is going, and

1212
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 1: they see a celebrity post, a celebrity post. Gotta be

1213
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 1: true and how to be true? Like my advice for people, wait,

1214
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: wait like three days, wait seventy two hours before you

1215
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:44,479
Speaker 1: jump on. You can't even report a person missing. So wait,

1216
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 1: you know what it was? I think said that video

1217
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: and all you see is a little kid crying about

1218
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: that ship broke my heart. So it did. And the

1219
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 1: truth is, like, in general, there's a lot of issues

1220
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 1: with kids being bullied and kids like killing themselves and

1221
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Prebirth alcoholism, that that's that's something, that's

1222
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: the mother. She's probably drinking. But like because my my

1223
01:03:09,920 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: my aunt is a nurse and she could literally sit

1224
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 1: there and depict everything. And my best friend is an

1225
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 1: O B G Y yes, and he'll say, no, that's

1226
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: somebody and be like that person got such in something

1227
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: like she like, I can tell about it. But then

1228
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: you know, as it they unfold, you're like, Okay, well

1229
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 1: the parents were racist, and you know, so maybe the

1230
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: kids were harassing him because of that. Maybe he was

1231
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 1: saying some things at school. We don't really know what

1232
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 1: it is, but I do feel like any child that

1233
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: I feel like it's you know, it's hard like with

1234
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 1: kids because we can't hold. My son was just bullied

1235
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: and I said, go to and beat him to funk

1236
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 1: up and up. When he got suspended, he he was

1237
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: on love and Hip hop that Monday. That Tuesday, the

1238
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 1: boy bullied him. That Wednesday, my son beat his ass.

1239
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: He would suspended that Thursday and Friday because even jealous

1240
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 1: because he couldn't be because he had got three He

1241
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: was like, my got three girlfriends now left and then

1242
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 1: little basketball my son had. My husband told him listen

1243
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 1: you box and we went in there, and I was

1244
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 1: just like, let me just let you know, like you

1245
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 1: know when you're going there to the dean and the principal.

1246
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: So what did my child do? He was like, Yo'll

1247
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 1: talk my son straight up, beating the funk up. You're

1248
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: gonna learn. You're gonna learn today, but you won't mess

1249
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 1: on no more. He he had no problem since now.

1250
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: But if I just said having three girlfriends there, you're like,

1251
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, that's not right. What Yeah, Like

1252
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 1: when he broke up with one and he's switching the

1253
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 1: mouth my star, Like here you thinking he thinks he's

1254
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:38,440
Speaker 1: Chris Brown? Like what's crazy? Is this because of who

1255
01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 1: I am? So I was like, if you've been good, ima,

1256
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 1: Chris Brown, I'll call my face stopp and so he Yeah,

1257
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 1: I was talking to Chris Brown last night and that's

1258
01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 1: why I was with Like he'd be going to school

1259
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 1: bragging and he was like, can you believe when I

1260
01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: bring like he had thirty dollars at school up to there.

1261
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm thinking about paying for everyone. They

1262
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 1: have to to dress down, you have you get you

1263
01:04:56,080 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 1: have to pay a dollar. I'm thinking about paying for

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01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: my whole class. I said, No, the hell you some

1265
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: people in my class don't have the mass. But bullying,

1266
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: that's such an important asked you that you have to

1267
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: you have to raise your kids to not be the bully.

1268
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: You know, you you know your kids have a good heart.

1269
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 1: If you raise your you're raising good people. But it's

1270
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 1: like you have to teach your kids not to be mean.

1271
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 1: So that just doesn't even happen. But you know, it

1272
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: happened to all of my children, and all my children

1273
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 1: always prevailed. My kids are they're so like they're very introverted.

1274
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: And my daughter got it. She'll be thirteen. In February,

1275
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: a girl was bullying her. She was crying when my

1276
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 1: daughter gets stressed because she has like she has a

1277
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: couple of health conditions and I had took her to

1278
01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 1: the doctor and I was like, well, why is like

1279
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 1: her period has stayed on for she had started her

1280
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: period when she was like one started at nine and

1281
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 1: one started at like eleven, and it stayed on for

1282
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 1: a long time. And I was like, she stressing out

1283
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: and that come to find out, she was like that

1284
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: was causing her to stress, and so I was like, well,

1285
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: you know, the girl did a neighbor like, don't let

1286
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: how bullying. So the girl told my daughter, if you um,

1287
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 1: if you don't, if you try to make her to

1288
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 1: not be friends with me, I'm gonna hurt you in

1289
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: a way that you'll never forget kids, and I'll kill

1290
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 1: your whole family. They move, boom, they moved, but they

1291
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 1: made them sign this packed but they was like, it's

1292
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 1: a no bullion thing. I said no, but my daughter

1293
01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: was stressing, and I said, I brought it to y'all attention.

1294
01:06:22,640 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 1: And because these schools get funding and they're supposed to

1295
01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: that no bullying thing, like they're supposed to move that situation.

1296
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 1: But there's so many kids that that they're bullying starts

1297
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 1: at home. So what I'm talking about they come to

1298
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 1: school and they're they're looking for attention or something. They're

1299
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:39,960
Speaker 1: gonna pick on who you think is weak. But I

1300
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 1: don't raise my kids to be weak. They may be quiet,

1301
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 1: maybe they may you know, fall back a little, but

1302
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: you like, even teachers sometimes be bullying the kids. Like

1303
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 1: I had a problem on my niece and and a teacher.

1304
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 1: We wanted to go up there and beat the bitch ass,

1305
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: but you can't handle. You have a handle way too,

1306
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 1: and so it suck I don't know if I'm and

1307
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 1: my teacher, if my son's teacher acting up, I don't know,

1308
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: we're pulling nub my brother. That's because my mom is

1309
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 1: a school teacher, and she tells like they're certain corricula,

1310
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 1: there's certain this protocol. They have a follower. So if

1311
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 1: you're not tell you can't tell kids to shut up.

1312
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: You can't tell kids like you can't talk the kids

1313
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 1: that way because some kids aren't like they respond different,

1314
01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 1: and there's some kids that act out like sometimes you

1315
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 1: have to pull that child to the side. But while

1316
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 1: you're yelling at that they might be hungry. You don't know,

1317
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 1: they might be going home and be an abuse. So

1318
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: you have to honestly take time, like that's what you

1319
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 1: signed up for. Yeah, I remember I was I did

1320
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 1: this ever an education semester when I was in college

1321
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: and I was teaching six and seven grade in Washington Heights.

1322
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:50,200
Speaker 1: Washington Heights to school was Dominican, and so there was

1323
01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:52,040
Speaker 1: one black kid in the class and they used to

1324
01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 1: make fun of him all the time because the rest

1325
01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 1: of the class is Dominican. But there was only one

1326
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:59,479
Speaker 1: black kid and it was bad because like his family

1327
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: didn't have a lot the money. He was the youngest.

1328
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 1: He had like all hand me down clothes every day.

1329
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 1: He used to wear the same thing all the time.

1330
01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 1: But when I tell you, they were so mean to

1331
01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:09,320
Speaker 1: this poor kid. I felt like ganging up at him

1332
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:11,360
Speaker 1: all the time. And I used to feel bad, like

1333
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:13,520
Speaker 1: I would be like that, that hurts my feelings. I

1334
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: don't like that. Shut But you know it's just certain

1335
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,639
Speaker 1: things like and try to help him. Yeah, I bought

1336
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:22,760
Speaker 1: him lunch every single day, and and I gave him

1337
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: extra attention because and they thought I was Dominican too,

1338
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:28,360
Speaker 1: by the way, because you know we're they always speaking.

1339
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:35,080
Speaker 1: All Dominicans think everybody's Dominican because there's no luck. Yeah

1340
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:39,800
Speaker 1: they Doman. Anybody know when they're Dominican and not Puerto

1341
01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:44,720
Speaker 1: Rican could talk? Yeah. Happy. So my father was so

1342
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:48,479
Speaker 1: racist against Dominicans, and he's Puerto Rican. I mean he

1343
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 1: was so he was racist against them Rians, the Puerto

1344
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 1: Ricans that grew up here and are here for the longest.

1345
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 1: The Porto Ricans Dominicans here, they fight, but over there

1346
01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 1: they love each other. Here they fright. He used to call. Yeah,

1347
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 1: I didn't know at first, I was I'm talking about

1348
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 1: he said this when I was like six. I didn't

1349
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 1: get it at why what's the beef? Yeah, I don't

1350
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: know what's the beast? Like you know what somebody told me.

1351
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:20,160
Speaker 1: I don't know fel like you know, there there are

1352
01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 1: they are darker than Amergan American culture. They're still an

1353
01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 1: underlying beef between They say light skinned girls and yeah

1354
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and it's like like good hair bad. You

1355
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 1: know what they say though, what I was told because

1356
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: they felt like Puerto Ricans had to join America. So

1357
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: that's why Dominicans don't like Puerto Ricans like where our own.

1358
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. I'm y'all ran to go

1359
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: be part of America like you I was told, So

1360
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, like wow, yeah, but you know, I

1361
01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 1: don't even speak Spanish, so I don't feel like. I

1362
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 1: feel like Dominicans and Puerto Ricans looks different. I feel

1363
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 1: like even the ones like the lighter ones and the

1364
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 1: darker ones, like the darker you could tell the difference

1365
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,600
Speaker 1: between a dark Puerto Rican and a dark Dominican, Like

1366
01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:13,120
Speaker 1: for me, I think I could sell it differently. I

1367
01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:16,720
Speaker 1: don't know. Girls, I know all the black girls love

1368
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,799
Speaker 1: to go to the Dominicans allons to get that blowout. Everybody,

1369
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 1: get your ticket, get your ticket. But if you gonna

1370
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:31,760
Speaker 1: take Puerto Rican restaurant to get your head done, you're

1371
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 1: gonna Dominicans. And like you said, it's in and now,

1372
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 1: real quick, real fast in the Dominican salon and after

1373
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 1: they'd be bouncing like you gotta be on fire, tell

1374
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 1: them out. This is it for you, right, this is it.

1375
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: You're good, You're happy. It's forever. Yeah, hopefully, because like

1376
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 1: right now as I feel right now, it's forever. But

1377
01:10:56,520 --> 01:11:00,639
Speaker 1: I mean you just never know. God my something the works. Fuck,

1378
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 1: I gotta be fu up like I was about to

1379
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:10,960
Speaker 1: get it. What about more kids though? Of course, yeah,

1380
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 1: you just got the hand in the milk because its

1381
01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 1: collectively together. We got like six and the possible not

1382
01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:21,720
Speaker 1: but that I've given births. You have two girls and

1383
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: three boys, and I'm just like it's just in my mind,

1384
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:26,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I just gotta even it out. Got

1385
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 1: to come through that pussy. We gotta okay, yeah yeah,

1386
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 1: basically yeah, you gotta schedule So one c section, I said,

1387
01:11:38,439 --> 01:11:41,439
Speaker 1: sometimes they do fbacks, but they don't um encourage them

1388
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:43,000
Speaker 1: anymore because they said a lot of people have him

1389
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 1: and hem and drink because like it can bust. And

1390
01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 1: you know, why would you even want to get natural birth?

1391
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: You already did it five times that way because I

1392
01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 1: don't have to go through I don't have to say

1393
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 1: be like, oh, that's one thing about a C section

1394
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 1: that's convened. You get to schedule and you know what

1395
01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:00,760
Speaker 1: we're gonna do it. You know, said the people are

1396
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 1: planning their pregnancy and their c sections because they're like,

1397
01:12:04,080 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: let me hit pregnant here and then I want to

1398
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,480
Speaker 1: go to like cool. They was like, yo, people were scheduling,

1399
01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: like my show was on Tuesday night, So if I

1400
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:18,559
Speaker 1: got my c section Manday afternoon, snatch. And now one

1401
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 1: thing I love about my doctors too, if you have

1402
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:23,639
Speaker 1: a great doctor, sometimes they'll study cosmetic surgery on the side.

1403
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:27,640
Speaker 1: And I was told that, yeah, that's what I was

1404
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 1: told that. That's why a lot of sacks because a

1405
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 1: lot of people they wasn't swing them back even and

1406
01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 1: you gotta tell me, I want them Invisible City, Like

1407
01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:35,559
Speaker 1: you have to tell them, I want the invisible sits

1408
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 1: just and I want to just I just like just

1409
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:40,600
Speaker 1: just snatch me. And she's like, girl, you know that

1410
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 1: you need insurance for that because these people out here

1411
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 1: hid these medicaises. I got doctor to box doctors when

1412
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:56,640
Speaker 1: they look like I bet you're trying to murder you

1413
01:12:57,400 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: in the walking Dad who brough you back to Collo?

1414
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 1: It's the brain she got the girl? Are you going

1415
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 1: back to leveon Hip Hop next season? Yeah? I don't mind.

1416
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:13,679
Speaker 1: I love reality TV. I love living my life out

1417
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:15,719
Speaker 1: what I want you to see in front of the world,

1418
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 1: or what people think or how people think that I

1419
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 1: should react. One thing, like when we did the Couple's

1420
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,800
Speaker 1: Court and like when all of that stuff was coming

1421
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 1: out because I don't even know what episode. He did

1422
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 1: a lot of detective test and everything. Believe that's there

1423
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:36,160
Speaker 1: was an app, got a lot of text app right

1424
01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 1: now we ask you to questions. This is this is

1425
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 1: my lot detext look me in my you can't look

1426
01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:44,720
Speaker 1: me in my no, look at my eyes? Did you?

1427
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 1: Did you not? And you want me to do you had?

1428
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 1: Could you? Could you handle? Like you just gotta Sometimes

1429
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 1: you gotta square square them up in the eye and

1430
01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 1: just be like yo, then don't do don't do that

1431
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:58,519
Speaker 1: again because that hurts and you have to sometimes you

1432
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 1: have to let people know what hurts, Like when you

1433
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 1: get said oh no, no, oh babe, you burn my scalp.

1434
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 1: You got too close to the edge. I don't accept that.

1435
01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:08,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a little pass, but don't do

1436
01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:11,400
Speaker 1: it again. Don't do it again. And you believe that

1437
01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: he won't or you just better not yeah, or if

1438
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:20,240
Speaker 1: he do, I better not find out because then because

1439
01:14:20,280 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 1: then there's gonna be war because I turned my cheek

1440
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:26,639
Speaker 1: so he knows. But like when I say I got

1441
01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:31,040
Speaker 1: cheeks trying to get apology, When you get an apology

1442
01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 1: from a real man that has never apologized to any

1443
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:36,840
Speaker 1: woman in his life and they look you in your

1444
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 1: I s a, I apologize, I'm sorry for um. When

1445
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:43,640
Speaker 1: they apologize and item and they're just like, yo, all right,

1446
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:46,479
Speaker 1: you got it. I accept that. Yeah you got a

1447
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 1: song about it yet, Oh yes, I like to hear it.

1448
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: But you know, I've learned a lot because, like I said,

1449
01:14:57,520 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 1: I'm not an angel. But one thing I never I

1450
01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:02,880
Speaker 1: don't intentionally hurt people. That's not that's not how it

1451
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:08,800
Speaker 1: was raised. But my scorpio sting my my, my, my

1452
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,640
Speaker 1: get back was epic. So that's what I'm just like,

1453
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't even like bringing that part

1454
01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 1: out anymore because that's that's not even cute, that's not ladylike,

1455
01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 1: that's tacky. That now, that's tacky. But I don't yeah

1456
01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:25,439
Speaker 1: a bit a bit four point now. But it's like

1457
01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 1: eventually twenty four no more them song My songs is

1458
01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 1: eight twenty years old, just like come like everybody has

1459
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: to grow up at some point, and so this is

1460
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:41,760
Speaker 1: my growing up. I'm mature, mature, yes, very little out.

1461
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:43,680
Speaker 1: We thank you so much for coming through. We appreciate it.

1462
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: Very special. Yeah, like a sap racky and because like

1463
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:52,280
Speaker 1: we got like we gotta keep this going, like I

1464
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:54,920
Speaker 1: had a great time, Like thank you all so much

1465
01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:58,080
Speaker 1: for having me, like for real, I honestly needed this

1466
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 1: with you. But I do want you to sing in

1467
01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 1: the bedroom next time, you know about what the day

1468
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 1: she wants you to think. I just want you to

1469
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:13,400
Speaker 1: sing on the day you will be the title of

1470
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 1: your bedroom song that you're about to do. I got

1471
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,519
Speaker 1: a couple. One is called first time was Now I'm

1472
01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: talking about dirty dirty, Um, what's your specialty? What's your specialty?

1473
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:29,879
Speaker 1: I think that was my favorite baby's big super super slash,

1474
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:38,679
Speaker 1: super hand featuring, but the real Super had because because

1475
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:43,200
Speaker 1: then you want to know what was so big about Super? Yes,

1476
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: to me, it was just like but they said they said.

1477
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:48,040
Speaker 1: Mr Market has said. I met him in l A

1478
01:16:48,160 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 1: one time. He was like, if he was up here,

1479
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:51,840
Speaker 1: he said that they were five. Yeah, he said. I

1480
01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: was like, that's crazy, that's crazy. That's the best thing

1481
01:16:57,200 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 1: he had, he said after the first time, he had

1482
01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:00,640
Speaker 1: to get it back. He said, they had to bring

1483
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:02,720
Speaker 1: her back because I had to redeem myself. And you

1484
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:04,880
Speaker 1: know what's the best when you're sucking somebody's take so

1485
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:06,719
Speaker 1: gay and they don't want to come but they can't

1486
01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 1: help it. No wait, wait, wait, No, I didn't say

1487
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 1: I gotta show. I gotta show that I can't win

1488
01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 1: like smell like bleaching son. I know, I always gotta. Yeah,

1489
01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:30,080
Speaker 1: didn't walk out though, that's good, but yeah, yeah, yeah,

1490
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:34,000
Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna do. I gotta do one of those

1491
01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 1: songs like a play on word for real dude that

1492
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:38,720
Speaker 1: I just gave me. We're gonna be in the bad

1493
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 1: room singing that gonna bet because I listened Lurie. I

1494
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:44,639
Speaker 1: think it's corny, but I like to listen to music

1495
01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 1: like when I have sex. I like to have a

1496
01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 1: playlist and I can't handle quite. I'd be like, I

1497
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: like listening to I feel like every guy said. I was, yeah,

1498
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,120
Speaker 1: Like I was just to swing my baby the other

1499
01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 1: day and then we was playing a few sat and

1500
01:17:57,040 --> 01:18:01,680
Speaker 1: I it was a little I like, I man like

1501
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:07,880
Speaker 1: some songs. It was liked up. I was like, right

1502
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 1: now you start really stroke you know something. Sometimes you

1503
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 1: gotta have ranches. Sometimes you gotta hear quickie, something really rocking,

1504
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:21,920
Speaker 1: slap in your ass. You don't be watching walking down

1505
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:27,200
Speaker 1: and be like you get it out. Yeah, staking leg

1506
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:34,240
Speaker 1: in the bed, but like you pull the muscle trying

1507
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 1: to get rid of it. You moving your legs. The

1508
01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 1: best thing you do is twerk in the bedroom. That's

1509
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 1: twerk on that dick. I'm telling you that future album.

1510
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:47,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling you I don't have time, like I feel

1511
01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 1: like we're get into it, like I'm a hole on

1512
01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:51,880
Speaker 1: one second. Let me get that, let me get the music.

1513
01:18:52,120 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 1: Let me wait. The bluetooth a connecting connect. I'm like

1514
01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 1: calling yes to it. You like, but if you're met

1515
01:18:57,800 --> 01:18:59,640
Speaker 1: and it's slick like he you know he got the

1516
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 1: beat tool right there, you know exactly I got I

1517
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:08,200
Speaker 1: gotta do is I got Yeah. Plus I also feel

1518
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:10,720
Speaker 1: like sometimes you sit at home and like a lot

1519
01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:12,080
Speaker 1: of times we don't take the time to do this,

1520
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:14,519
Speaker 1: but like have a night where y'all have like a

1521
01:19:14,600 --> 01:19:17,160
Speaker 1: bottle of wine or you know whatever, have a nice

1522
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:20,560
Speaker 1: night at home where it's like relaxing, you're having conversations,

1523
01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 1: having desserts. Music is already playing. That's my favorite. That's

1524
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:28,080
Speaker 1: my favorite sex. Yeah, because that don't happen all that

1525
01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:31,320
Speaker 1: off to see see the music being on that and

1526
01:19:31,400 --> 01:19:33,200
Speaker 1: that's fine. But I ain't gonna be like we about

1527
01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:37,640
Speaker 1: the hold on one second, you know. And I recommend

1528
01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 1: y'all do a playlist together. We did at the other end.

1529
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:43,960
Speaker 1: You had to do it right, Steph, you do a

1530
01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:46,559
Speaker 1: playlist together at the house. I made something forgett now,

1531
01:19:46,600 --> 01:19:49,280
Speaker 1: y'all got songs together, had some wine and we made

1532
01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 1: a playlist together. Like we were making He was like,

1533
01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 1: you like this song. Yeah, we got a crazy night.

1534
01:19:57,520 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: That was so. It was so it was such a

1535
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:03,439
Speaker 1: full night, like we we drank, we a we we talked,

1536
01:20:03,560 --> 01:20:08,280
Speaker 1: we argued, we made up, we had sex. That's that's

1537
01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 1: litt Now that's lit. You gotta do it because as

1538
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:17,439
Speaker 1: you know, music is so important, like for what it

1539
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 1: is that you know in the bedroom, for everything in

1540
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 1: your life, Like you relate a song to something you know,

1541
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:24,760
Speaker 1: like you could think of a parody of life. I

1542
01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:26,680
Speaker 1: remember I was in Miami when that song came out

1543
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 1: and we was in the club, Like you remember so much,

1544
01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:32,160
Speaker 1: you remember certain songs remind you of a certain person.

1545
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 1: In some songs, you're like, I can't even hear that

1546
01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:38,200
Speaker 1: song and remind me of so and so. Oh no, please,

1547
01:20:38,240 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 1: there's music I can't listen to because it reminds me

1548
01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:42,960
Speaker 1: of ship that I don't want to remember. Right, I

1549
01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:47,000
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like music, Um, it's always connected

1550
01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 1: to a part of your life. And honestly, that's the

1551
01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:53,400
Speaker 1: way it's it is that mean, it's it's passupposed to

1552
01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 1: make you feel away. There's certain songs so you'd just

1553
01:20:56,160 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 1: be like okay, but there are certain songs that she'd

1554
01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:00,920
Speaker 1: be like God the and of the rolled the boards

1555
01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 1: to boards song, I can't listen to that graduation I cried, Yes,

1556
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:12,800
Speaker 1: mom a crying. And I love boys to Men like

1557
01:21:12,920 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 1: they're like my favorite boy band ever in life. And

1558
01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 1: that song I'm listening to boys some Man's greatest hits

1559
01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:21,760
Speaker 1: and then I'm crying. I'm in the middle of my makeup.

1560
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 1: You know what album was always typing for Joe to see.

1561
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 1: Remember they had that, Yeah, they had the fast part

1562
01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:34,240
Speaker 1: like me too, and I was like seven, there's nothing

1563
01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:36,800
Speaker 1: I was like that I want to get. But that

1564
01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 1: second album, which was the Shoulder after part of the Hotel,

1565
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:41,680
Speaker 1: you know, the one that it was like half of

1566
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 1: it with slow songs and then the other half. Yeah,

1567
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:47,840
Speaker 1: that was Devonte was in his bag with that. Yeah,

1568
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:53,200
Speaker 1: everybody loved Devonte at that time. Sorry Mary, right, that

1569
01:21:53,320 --> 01:21:57,920
Speaker 1: was married just kidding, but he was just kidding. Yeah,

1570
01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:03,760
Speaker 1: it was it was having in rights and then turned

1571
01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:08,760
Speaker 1: into a thing. Three one of them is No, one

1572
01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:14,160
Speaker 1: of them is regularly Dalvin Dalvin Dalvin Mr Dalvin DeVante

1573
01:22:14,320 --> 01:22:17,760
Speaker 1: was still works right man. That wasn't No. He's the

1574
01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 1: one looked like shape. He's still I've seen them before

1575
01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:23,040
Speaker 1: him at the Babble. I think he had passed her.

1576
01:22:23,080 --> 01:22:25,120
Speaker 1: Now It's like it's probably something different because all of

1577
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:28,200
Speaker 1: them come from church, so like for them to take

1578
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:31,680
Speaker 1: that dress crazy something some ship didn't happened that week.

1579
01:22:32,320 --> 01:22:35,160
Speaker 1: You actually escaped all of that, Like you didn't end up.

1580
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:37,680
Speaker 1: You know a lot of things happened with singers and

1581
01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:40,880
Speaker 1: I don't. I was in that area when everybody was

1582
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:43,600
Speaker 1: popping Molly's and Ease. I was a partner and he

1583
01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:45,759
Speaker 1: was around all those people from the hip hop world

1584
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:47,160
Speaker 1: and the R and V. I was like, I'm not

1585
01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 1: gonna get caught up in that because I sort of like, people,

1586
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:53,560
Speaker 1: hold up, brother, just pop five X pills and Lasayalis

1587
01:22:53,800 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 1: and a via. I said, that's gonna die like people

1588
01:22:56,600 --> 01:23:00,920
Speaker 1: was like he didn't the next week, real like. But

1589
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:03,160
Speaker 1: when you're young, you're just having fun. But some people

1590
01:23:03,240 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 1: was just doing stuff and I'm like, yo, you had

1591
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 1: a pocket and I was like, no, let me just

1592
01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 1: go to my room. I used to always be scared.

1593
01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:10,720
Speaker 1: I did not. I just used to think I was

1594
01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 1: gonna get kidnapped and thrown in the trunk. So we

1595
01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:15,320
Speaker 1: would literally do our shows. I would go to my room. No,

1596
01:23:15,439 --> 01:23:17,120
Speaker 1: you probably working and get kidnapped and put it in

1597
01:23:17,160 --> 01:23:19,640
Speaker 1: the trunk. You did the right thing, real rep. I

1598
01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:22,200
Speaker 1: would do my right to my room. People we want

1599
01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:25,600
Speaker 1: to hang out, Nope, good night, because I never have

1600
01:23:25,720 --> 01:23:28,639
Speaker 1: no little most candles back then, nope, nothing. You ain't

1601
01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:30,519
Speaker 1: never seen me with a picture of alcohol, a couple,

1602
01:23:30,600 --> 01:23:33,600
Speaker 1: a couple of licking minds and water. Right now, it's lemonade.

1603
01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 1: That was that wasn't water? We put out of that

1604
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 1: and I'm joking. I knew my wig was leaning back again.

1605
01:23:44,400 --> 01:23:46,120
Speaker 1: Little thank you so much. You know, we appreciate you.

1606
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 1: We'll come into your podcast that Yep, it's gonna be lit.

1607
01:23:48,960 --> 01:23:50,680
Speaker 1: So just just let me know. I'll hit you up

1608
01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:53,040
Speaker 1: when we and we're gonna we're gonna go up with

1609
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:55,920
Speaker 1: get because we could curse on my and letsten we

1610
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:58,320
Speaker 1: always and I just want to save me personally. I

1611
01:23:58,360 --> 01:24:00,559
Speaker 1: always appreciate you, like I know he was always had

1612
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:02,840
Speaker 1: a good report, you know, even from when I first

1613
01:24:02,880 --> 01:24:04,479
Speaker 1: met you. A lot of people don't act like that.

1614
01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:06,280
Speaker 1: But I love the way that little Mom has always

1615
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 1: been super cool with me. I always consisted she showed

1616
01:24:09,920 --> 01:24:15,680
Speaker 1: up to the juice by grand opening, but then like

1617
01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 1: you ain't coming around, and then nobody told me she

1618
01:24:17,880 --> 01:24:24,000
Speaker 1: just popped up. It was a surprise. I wanted some juice, it, yes,

1619
01:24:25,000 --> 01:24:28,320
Speaker 1: And I love I love supporting like like that because

1620
01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:31,599
Speaker 1: that's outside of the norm. Like you, you're doing stuff

1621
01:24:31,600 --> 01:24:34,679
Speaker 1: outside of the box. And I love supporting every movement

1622
01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 1: when somebody does something that's like, that's dope, and I

1623
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:41,600
Speaker 1: was just like, yo, like that's cleaning somebody's life, and

1624
01:24:41,680 --> 01:24:44,360
Speaker 1: the different ones you have to so freaking dope. Yeah,

1625
01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:46,320
Speaker 1: we love doing things outside the box. I love things

1626
01:24:46,439 --> 01:24:53,479
Speaker 1: inside the box too. She like things that nothing that

1627
01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 1: we out