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Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,

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Speaker 1: Come on, dieg me now, one and only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: got a radio show. Okay, I got something for you today.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a conversation this morning about my understanding

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Speaker 1: of grace now that I've gotten older and I've come

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Speaker 1: in to a better understanding of a lot of things

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Speaker 1: I didn't know about when I was younger. This is

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Speaker 1: just my interpretation of grace. Now once again, y'all listen

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Speaker 1: to me. I ain't nobody's pastor, I ain't nobody's minister.

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Speaker 1: So you know, I'm pretty sure you can go to

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Speaker 1: church and get a far more extensive definition of one

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Speaker 1: I'm giving you. I'm just talking to people. You know.

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Speaker 1: Grace is this thing that that God provides for us

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Speaker 1: and Grace's just things that you get that's really undeserving,

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Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I look at my life as

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Speaker 1: it is today. You know. Look, I work hard and

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Speaker 1: I have faith in God that I do so things

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Speaker 1: look at it that way. I have been the beneficiary

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Speaker 1: will be far abundant and exceedingly in anything you could

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Speaker 1: think of. His grace supersedes anything you could possibly imagine.

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Speaker 1: You know, the goals that I set and the aspirations

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Speaker 1: he gives you far more than that. He gives you

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Speaker 1: what He has for you, not what you can see.

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Speaker 1: You can't see all he has for you. It's impossible.

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Speaker 1: Who are you? How can you possibly imagine what he

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Speaker 1: What in your wildest imagination could have made you think

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about lining yourself up with God's grace, which

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Speaker 1: it can't be bought. If it could, if it could

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Speaker 1: discovering what it is, it's this goodness that God shines

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Speaker 1: on you simply as a reward of some type for

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Speaker 1: his love for you and for you attempting for you,

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Speaker 1: attempting to do right, not because you get it right.

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Speaker 1: Because if He judged us purely on how we are

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Speaker 1: the right and wrong of it, we would all be doomed,

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Speaker 1: Nobody's perfect. Man. Now I understand what my mother was

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Speaker 1: If I could have planned my life the way it is.

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Speaker 1: God's goodness is better than your goodness. God's goodness is

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Speaker 1: better than your mother's goodness. It's better than your wife's

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Speaker 1: His goodness man covers some stuff you can't even imagine.

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Speaker 1: Would you not bewailed to be a beneficiary of his grace?

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Speaker 1: And that grace can't be bought. Like I said, it's free.

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Speaker 1: gonna start next week. I'm gonna start at the new year. Now,

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Speaker 1: to bless you. You know, man, you know, do you

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Speaker 1: end of that. I'm just giving you a little cheap analogy.

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Speaker 1: But do you feel what I'm saying to you? Start

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Speaker 1: you and provided for you that you ain't even see coming.

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Speaker 1: That you know, you keep calling them blessings and I

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Speaker 1: But man, have you thought about the stuff that didn't

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Speaker 1: that's been grace and I'm beneficiary of it. And that's

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Speaker 1: available to everybody that wants sun. Next time you're talking

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Speaker 1: That's that's better than money. You're listening, Ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Lean on me

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Speaker 1: when you're not dumb, and I'll be here. I'll help you.

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Speaker 1: play it on the pimo Ladies and gentlemen. Uh, That's

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Speaker 1: how I felt this morning. Lean on me when you're

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Shirley Strawberry, Colin Pharrell, Mississippi, Monica, the Mouth

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Speaker 1: of the South, Junior Boy, Ladies and gentlemen, drum roll,

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Speaker 1: my god, yeah, top man. How y'all doing good? How

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Speaker 1: are you good? Yeah? Where have you been? All of that?

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Speaker 1: We have questions? We have questions. Boy, I got a battle.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I ain't know nothing. Yeah. Then I

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Speaker 1: Then I had to retract several statements I had made

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Speaker 1: relationing you up like sneakers. I seed you can't say that, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I can't. What happened? I got called from some family members, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh lord, when you know, you know, you know, I

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Speaker 1: mean when you're talking to old people, you hear that.

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Speaker 1: look all right, I guess I'm gonna have somebody call

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Speaker 1: you what you you're talking to me right now? It

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting up in hill. I call him his ass

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Speaker 1: ain't as I'm sorry, what the hell you mean today?

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Speaker 1: It was your place? That tam Why is she talking

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Speaker 1: about the lady? Gentlemen, we come back, Yes, thank you,

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Speaker 1: nephew Tommy Pool explanation. Yes, sir, gall you mominel around

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Speaker 1: Show right after this. Nephew, Tommy, you're listening show, all right?

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Speaker 1: We are back. Um, if you're just joining us. Nephew,

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Speaker 1: Tommy is back and we're gonna find out where he's been.

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Speaker 1: We're so happy that you're back, Tommy. We didn't know

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Speaker 1: to say this. Hill Oh. I found out two days

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Speaker 1: after what had happened. And Tommy's been out, Now how long, ladies,

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Speaker 1: he'd been out a month and we've had a lot

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Speaker 1: of people. Where's Tommy? Yeah, what he'd have did? Now? Well?

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Speaker 1: I know, yes, ladies and gentlemen, nephew tim man, how

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Speaker 1: do I even start? Um? Thanking God? That's first and foremost.

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Speaker 1: I can paint the picture for you. Everybody knows I'm

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Speaker 1: a I'm a guy that likes to work out all

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Speaker 1: your neck. You might want to get get that checked out.

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Speaker 1: I said, all right, cool, so I go get it

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Speaker 1: Celtics coach Emia Duca has been suspended for the twenty

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Speaker 1: a female member of the Celtics staff. Late last week,

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Speaker 1: xix X NBA star player and commentator Matt Barnes posted

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Speaker 1: a video of himself talking about Uduca's suspension, and he

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Speaker 1: said it was a terrible decision for him to be suspended.

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Speaker 1: He has since posted another video retracting his support for Duca,

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Speaker 1: and he explains why take a listen and I clearly

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Speaker 1: have to stay last night without knowing all this facts,

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Speaker 1: I spoke on email Eudoka's defense and after finding out

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Speaker 1: the facts. After I spoke, I raced what I posted

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Speaker 1: because this situation in Boston is deep, it's messy, it's

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Speaker 1: a hundred times uglier than any of us thought. And

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Speaker 1: that's why I raced what I said. Uh, some thing's

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Speaker 1: happened that I can't condone. I can't back and it's

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Speaker 1: not my place to tell you what happened. If it

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Speaker 1: ends up coming out, it ends up coming out. But

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Speaker 1: that was the reason why I raced my post last night,

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Speaker 1: because after I posted it, I got a call from

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Speaker 1: someone who had all the details and it's deep. So man,

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Speaker 1: praying for everybody involved. Um, you know, hope everyone gets

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Speaker 1: through this. If he retract it's mate. It's the same

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Speaker 1: version role from Frisco. Same y'all. See, I was asking

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Speaker 1: a problem where his level of forgiveness then went off. Yeah,

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00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: now I can't forgive. I'm been gonna win with man

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Speaker 1: because your whole marriage played out in the NBA. The

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Speaker 1: whole thing of it is, Man, It's just it's sad

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00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: because of the Internet now that all these problems have

446
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: to get added out. All dirty laundry is now aired

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00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: out publicly, and it don't give you a chance to

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Speaker 1: rest nothing. And that's the sad part of all of this.

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Speaker 1: But what, however ugly and whatever information you found out,

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Speaker 1: can I tell you something it ain't nothing new? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: this because let me whatever it is. There are no

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Speaker 1: allegations right now of any an appropriate sexual advances, you know,

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Speaker 1: and so you know, I don't really know all the facts.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I just watch how people are so ready

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Speaker 1: to jump on the beating him up bandwagon and let's

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Speaker 1: cancel him and get him to lose his job because

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Speaker 1: he did something a whole lot of humans. Dude, Hey, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let me ask you this and the guys, Junior, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: what is he? A great coach? Is a good coach?

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Speaker 1: That's what I want to know. Yeah, I know the

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Speaker 1: one too. Yeah. I remember Nia being just being there

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Speaker 1: cheering him on all of that. He's just not a

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Speaker 1: good cheater. He just didn't know what he was. That's

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Speaker 1: what we missed. Yeah, yeah, that effer perspective to what

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Speaker 1: you do. I give you another example. Okay, Sean Watson

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Speaker 1: can get all the massages you won't. He just got

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Speaker 1: to stop turning over all his trouble star, stay on

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Speaker 1: your stomach. Damn. Massarick heard it over to Sean. A

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Speaker 1: lot of coach team. To answer your question, surely is

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Speaker 1: a great coach he got he got he got a

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Speaker 1: very young team to the NBA Final and they love him. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: call it because he's out. What my question is, have

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Speaker 1: you been hearing like I saw Stephen A. Smith talk

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Speaker 1: about this on ESPN, the fact that he because he

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Speaker 1: is African American, We know that there are things that

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Speaker 1: go on the NBA, NFL, all types of leagues, behavior

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Speaker 1: of coaches, of players. But the fact that we know

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Speaker 1: about this, did the Celtics organization leak this out? And

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00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: now this man is being dragging like you want to

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Speaker 1: public opinion? This is a that I have about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that the Celtics basketball organization would want

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Speaker 1: this hour. I think because of the Me Too movement

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Speaker 1: and women's rights now. I think when that affair got

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Speaker 1: out in the office and people found out, I think

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Speaker 1: that was an uproar within the organization involving people who

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Speaker 1: had nothing to do with the affair accusing him because

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Speaker 1: he was in the head coach position and this girl

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Speaker 1: was in a subservient position that he should not have

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Speaker 1: done that. Now he was wrong, but legally, what did

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Speaker 1: he do and when you get people coming out because

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Speaker 1: they don't. You can't do that to her. And all

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Speaker 1: is here and the woman ain't said nothing, is it?

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00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: Is it just one lady? There's so many different rumors

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Speaker 1: about who it is. Yeah, for the Celtics organ right,

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Speaker 1: I just I smell a white woman, carl. I just

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I just feel like, wait a

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Speaker 1: minute and lost time. We gotta say this though, And

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Speaker 1: the fact that it was on our girl. He cheated

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Speaker 1: on our girl Nia Long. Now we loved me a

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Speaker 1: long queen, if we loved Ni Along. We're mad for her.

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00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: We're mad with her, We stand with her, We love

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Speaker 1: us some Nia Long. Yeah, and she's serious. Yeah, for

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00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: their support and everything. Yeah, they share together, they share

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Speaker 1: a son together. All of that all right, coming up

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Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have some music

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Speaker 1: news with our girl Carla. Right after this. You're listening

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00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: to show, all right, So we've been talking about this

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Speaker 1: whole Boston Celtics coach Emi a Duca and his cheating

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00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: on Nia Long and all of that, and you know

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Speaker 1: the circumstances. We don't know much about it, but we

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00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: do know that we love us TONI along. We do

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Speaker 1: know that Nia Long and Emi Aduka have been engaged

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Speaker 1: since twenty fifteen. She broke her silence about the alleged

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Speaker 1: affair in an interview with People magazine, saying, quote the

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Speaker 1: outpouring of love and support from family, friends, and a

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Speaker 1: community during this difficult time it means so much to me.

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Speaker 1: I asked that my privacy be respected as I process

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Speaker 1: the recent events. Above all, I am a mother and

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Speaker 1: will continue to focus on my children. The couple share

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Speaker 1: a son together, and Nia has an older son from

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Speaker 1: a previous relationship. Source as close to the Celtics told

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Speaker 1: TMZ Sports that Nia had just permanently moved to Boston

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00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: two weeks ago and that she and Uduka were house hunting. Right,

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Speaker 1: So this is just a mess. It just really is.

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Speaker 1: I mean, go ahead, I was just saying. Then there's

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Speaker 1: a rumor on TMZ saying the woman that helped coordinate

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Speaker 1: that travel is it's part of this scandal. She could

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Speaker 1: be the woman. So it makes it even more like

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Speaker 1: what kind of too Yeah, yeah, so we don't know

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Speaker 1: what that's true, like that where you know where everybody

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Speaker 1: at dirty, but you know what though, See it's like

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00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: this first of all, this shouldn't even be a news story.

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00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: That have been no criminal charges pressed. There have been

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00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 1: no criminal accusations. So now what we are just been

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00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 1: privy to is we off into some We are privy

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00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: to some people's personal lives, right that have been stories

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00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: of infidelity everywhere, yea, and people work through it and

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00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: keep their life back in check. You know, I don't

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00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: know this man at all, except I'm a fan of

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00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: his is on the basketball court and I saw Nia

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Speaker 1: at the game, and I've always been a fan of Nils,

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00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 1: and so you know, I was just like wow, pulling

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00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: for him. And then the question became, they've been engaged

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Speaker 1: since twenty fifteen, why they not married yet? Because things

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00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: are not in order anymore. People don't live their lives

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00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: in no order no more. Should you get married become subjective?

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00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: It's not there's no order to this anymore. So I

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00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 1: wish they could get a chance to work it out,

549
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: because it don't have to be relationships. And then some

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00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: people say it is that our women go. If you

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00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: cheat on me, I'm out. But did they find a house?

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00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 1: At least they have somewhere to stay out? Nobody want

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00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: to saying Boston right now, Tommy. Tommy's back somewhere. I mean,

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00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: we're gonna go through something that through some in a

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00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: nice house. This was halle Berry. Tommy, be right there

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Speaker 1: with me. Uh, we're gonna go talk to Jesus and

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00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: we'll be back in a minute. Right after this, you're

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00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 1: listening show all right? It is fall now and sister

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00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: Hoteil drop by, um wait here, you know, come morning everyone.

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00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take up a lot of time doing

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00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: the praise and worship service. I just want to do them.

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00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 1: I'm when I come on the radio, I had to

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00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: be more business. I've been told, you know, just get

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Speaker 1: to the what you call it? Said missus, Hey Colline

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00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:56,839
Speaker 1: Shelley or miss Simmy Junior. Man, Hey boy you back, Yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: I heard you was not doing well. Look at God.

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00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: Yes he's killed your body. You came some free. Yes man,

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Speaker 1: you're saying, oh, that ain't nothing but the Lord. That's

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Speaker 1: all it is. Because you know eight of my husband's

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00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: just passed from cansel. Oh okay, I didn't all of

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00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: them didn't. They had it. They didn't all die from it?

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Speaker 1: To them, was any cocks and dies? I choked one

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Speaker 1: of them. This is where Wait, Well, I choked and

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Speaker 1: wilyhead counsel. Then I just go a pay minute. When

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Speaker 1: they came to the house, he passed, can we get

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00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: to wire here? I don't know what it is. We're

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Speaker 1: her phone. Well, we wanted to ask you a question,

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00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: you know, the saying, um, uh no white before Memorial Day,

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Speaker 1: no white after Labor Day. So think things how you're

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00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 1: a mother of the church and you wear white all

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Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, does this put you in a dilemma?

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Speaker 1: Will you never have never? White? White? White? White white?

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Speaker 1: I'm a missionary and that's the color. I'm a missionary.

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Speaker 1: I ain't saying nothing to that girl, Lisa Ray What

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Speaker 1: is you over here? Phone? Lisa rayin in no church. No,

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00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: we don't know that. I care you where. Whether she

587
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: do come, she gonna be seating people. Be an usher.

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00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: That's if you wear it on the first because that's

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00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 1: how colors on the first Because you know, I'm on

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00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:39,320
Speaker 1: the missionary board and the Usher boat and first Sunday

591
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: we wear white. Everybody called it a white out, all right.

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00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be clear on that. The other

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Speaker 1: thing is, do you have any advice for uh Nia long?

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00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: You know, um, where you know, I feel sorry for

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00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 1: she's such a pretty girl and young and everything. But

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00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 1: you know you can work through a husband that has

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00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: a moment's empathy. You know, huh, That's what I've seen

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00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: for there, just a lot of making. What do you mean? Well,

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00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: you know, if you just let people's work through it

600
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: they self, they can work on you. I asked several

601
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: husbands that was that had done some things outside of

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00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: our relationship. Oh, how hand when I kicked the girl

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00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: ass own to make you feel better at least if

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00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: its need of gone a man kiss, I asked, you

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00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 1: feel a whole lot that about it then, and then

606
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: created him. I'm gonna kick my ass and go over

607
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: that again. See what happened to you? I need all

608
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: that money brought in here for me, your kids, And

609
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 1: now you shut up. He ain't liowed to talk at

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00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: the house for two years and then you know, you

611
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: go where you want to go. You know, when you guys,

612
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 1: you can get some things you had never got before.

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00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: They still love each other. He got made them stay.

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00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: He's a main You know he made a mistake. But

615
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: you in this fast world now, you know, women's cheat.

616
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: Everybody mad at him. That gun ain't louse hut nothing.

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00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: We know she probably still buy tickets and placing people.

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Speaker 1: M Unca dobbo. He ain't got the he woa dobbock

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Speaker 1: adua unca dobbo the domain the coach. Yeah, Indian duke.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh emy a duker. That's his name. Oh I knew,

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Speaker 1: Oh I that email dude, I knew his grandfather. Did

622
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: you big dadda do that down? Then that's a big dadda.

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00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: Do that down. Then his daddy's name will look here,

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00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: and then they named his son. Right now that he

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00:43:55,120 --> 00:44:03,439
Speaker 1: goes out, all right, we'll have more of Hardy Morning

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Speaker 1: Show coming out. Hi, and just a minute right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening to Morning Show if you're just joining us. Nephew,

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Speaker 1: Tommy is back and we're going to find out where

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Speaker 1: he's been. We're so happy that you're back, Tommy. We

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Speaker 1: didn't just say this hill. Oh. I found out two

631
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 1: days after what had happened. And Tommy's been out, now

632
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 1: how long, ladies? Maybe he'd been out a month and

633
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 1: and we ain't had a lot of people where Tommy what? Yeah,

634
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: what he'd have did? Now? Will I know? Yes, ladies

635
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Nephew Tommy man, how do I even start? Um?

636
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 1: Thank god, that's first of almost m all right, so

637
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: let me see if I can paint the picture for you.

638
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: Everybody knows I'm a I'm a guy that likes to

639
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: work out all the time, try to keep myself in shape.

640
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: So my trainer actually got me a stretcher who stretches

641
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: you once a week. So this guy was stretching me

642
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: and found a lump on my neck and he had

643
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 1: to push way out. He send, you got a lump

644
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: on your neck. You might want to get that checked out.

645
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: I said, all right, cool, So I go get it

646
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: checked out. Go to my primary doctor, and he says,

647
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, but let's be safe. She sends me

648
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: to a your nose and throat doctor. Your nose and

649
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: throat doctor drains and then says, I think that's a cist.

650
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: So he trains. He said, but let's be safe, and

651
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: he sends me to another doctor. They get a biopsy.

652
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 1: He said, we're gonna take some sales and see what

653
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: we get there. I don't get a call back. So

654
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm in Miami shooting, ready to love. It's May eighteen.

655
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: My wife is there with me. We're having a good time.

656
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: Doctor calls and says, you have thyroid cancer. And I'm

657
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: just on the set. Man. I can't believe. If my

658
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: wife wouldn't have been with me that day, I don't

659
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: think I would have made it through. So I have

660
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: been diagnosed with thyroid cancer, got my surgery done in

661
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: August to twenty four. They completely got it, every bit

662
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: of this cancer out of me. While they were in

663
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 1: there removing my thyroid, they found more cancer in my

664
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: esophagus and cleaned all that out. So I told my

665
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: wife when I closed my eyes, I say, I just

666
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 1: want to wake up, and I just want to see

667
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: you looking at me. That's all I want. I woke up.

668
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: Wife is looking dead at me. You say, you're good boy.

669
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: You made it through every little bit of it. It's

670
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: gone all up. It your cancer free. You don't even

671
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: know chemotherapy, none of that. You good. But I don't

672
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 1: know that they had to go through my esophagus, she said.

673
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: But then she say, but say what is the butt?

674
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 1: He said, you have a track in your in your

675
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: in your throat and it's gonna have to be there

676
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: for a minute. So I had to have that for

677
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 1: about three weeks and I am at this point cancer free.

678
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: I am. You know, my voice has been through a struggle,

679
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 1: so now it's slowly coming back. But by the grace

680
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: of God, man, I'm still here. I'm blessed. Um. I

681
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: think this is probably one of them. This is the

682
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: biggest task I've ever had in my life ever. And

683
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 1: I'm grateful for for you guys, a radio family, praying

684
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: for me, just being able to have a job like

685
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: this that allowed me to go do something like that,

686
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: and and you got my back, man, So I'm I'm grateful.

687
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: It's amazing when God puts you in time out and

688
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: tell you you gotta wait for a minute and put

689
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: you on mute. And I've been on mute for about

690
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 1: a month and I'm slowly coming back. So um, I

691
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: don't know any other way to tell you, man, Just

692
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: to hear Steve said all the time that God is

693
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:21,240
Speaker 1: in the blessed business. And okay, yes, sir, yes, okay,

694
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 1: it's okay. We're so glad you're back. Well, hey man, listen, bro,

695
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 1: we show glad you're back and everything, man. And I

696
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: think it's I think you opening up and sharing your

697
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 1: story with so many people. First of all, it's a

698
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 1: great testimony. You know. Yeah, like I was saying to

699
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 1: you before, Man, a lot of times God passes us

700
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 1: through these tests for the testimony, and you got a

701
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: mic man. And there are a lot of people as

702
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 1: getting this diagnosis, and it's a lot of people gonna

703
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: get this diagnosis. And everybody don't have to think it's

704
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: the end because millions of people survived this. So what

705
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question, man, what's been your

706
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 1: attitude about getting better? And what's been your attitude through

707
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: the whole processes when you heard it? What was your attitude?

708
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: I just I just weren't gonna give up. I just,

709
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: I just, I just refused to give up. I just

710
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: had to desire to to beat it, to do whatever

711
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: I gotta do. I mean, especially when you got you know,

712
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: I got a beautiful family, man, wife, kids, I got

713
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: a lot to live for it. I love my job.

714
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: I love doing what I do for a living. So

715
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm my whole mindset is I will I will not

716
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 1: let you defeat me. It wouldn't. I will not let

717
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 1: it happen. So I just kept fighting every man, every

718
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: morning I wake up. I'm just I was in fighting

719
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,959
Speaker 1: mode the whole time, and I'm still waking up every morning.

720
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: Let me ask you, did the doctors say anything to

721
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: you or like this is the mindset you have to

722
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: have or did you just decide that yourself. Did you

723
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 1: get anything from them along the mental requirements? You can?

724
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: You can, you can. You can talk to people from

725
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: a mental perspective if you need to. But but you know, man,

726
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: I have my wife there, I have my mother there.

727
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: I had some soldiers with me. I like, you never

728
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: know how big your village is until something happens to you.

729
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: And I was able to see how big my village was,

730
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 1: how many people really had my back and I and

731
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: I just you know, I just I just felt my

732
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:33,919
Speaker 1: father coming up out of me, like I'm not I'm

733
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: not giving up. I got too much to live for.

734
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 1: What you're saying is true. You don't know how big

735
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 1: your village is to your hut on fire exactly. You

736
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: find out who in the village. Until your hut on fire,

737
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 1: you have no idea who in the village even care,

738
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: who coming with water, who pulling you out, who coming

739
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: in to get you. That's an amazing statement. You know what, man,

740
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: I say this to you, Steve, It's not until something

741
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: happens that you start to respect the gift that God

742
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: has given you. You know what I'm saying, just just

743
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: the gift. I mean, these, these two vocal cords I

744
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: got mean the world to me. And this this just

745
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: just that gift alone. Man. I think I think back

746
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: in the past, how much how many times I've taken

747
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: that gift for granted? How many times I just expected

748
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 1: it to be that? Hey, time to doing the whole time?

749
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 1: How long were you silent? Though? Man? I was silent?

750
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 1: Probably a good three weeks to a month. Just don't

751
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: straight silent? Wow, and and and and you know, man,

752
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: to have to write down everything on the board and

753
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: tell everybody what you want, what you're trying to do,

754
00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: it's it's, uh, that's a whole different world, man, Oh

755
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 1: different world. Let me let's go back for a moment. Tommy.

756
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: I want to ask you something. How did you You

757
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,800
Speaker 1: didn't have any pain initially or anything? You knew nothing?

758
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: I had nothing. All I did was I was just

759
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: trying to y'all know me. I'm always trying to lose

760
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: weight before it's time to shoot the TV show. So

761
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 1: I had got stretching me. He just felt something way

762
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: down in my neck while you straight. I mean you

763
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: got a little lump there, yea, I said, okay, you

764
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: said that. He said it might not be much, but

765
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 1: you know, go get it checked out. I got it

766
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 1: checked out. So one doctor started it from sending me

767
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: this place, this place, that place. Finally they did a

768
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 1: biopsy and when they called me, they said, hey, you

769
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: you have thyroid cancer. And I was just I was devastated.

770
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:53,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, immediately I got in picked me up mode.

771
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: All right, let's let's not let's let's let's get into

772
00:52:56,239 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: the fight mode. But I wouldn't say this, no pity party. Man.

773
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: I'm coming back. My voice is getting better each day.

774
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: If you hear I'm coming to your city, you better

775
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: get them tickets because I got a story to tell. Yeah,

776
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: yoke for a man. All right, nephew, glad you're back.

777
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 1: Look at God. Thank you Lord. Coming up at about

778
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, it's my Strawberry letter for today.

779
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 1: The subject is my wife's co worker's feet. Right after this,

780
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 1: you're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. It is

781
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you

782
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting or more. Please

783
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. All

784
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: you have to do is click submit Strawberry letter. We

785
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,800
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live like we're gonna do

786
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know,

787
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 1: it could be yours, nephews back, oh, buckle up and

788
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here it

789
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: is strawberry Annie sounds sexy. You hear all that. You

790
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 1: hear that right? I know, right like you don't want

791
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: to hear that subject My thank you, nephew, welcome back again.

792
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: My wife's co worker's feet is the subject. Dear Stephen Shirley.

793
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 1: I'm a fifty five year old married man and my

794
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: wife and I work in the same building, but for

795
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,800
Speaker 1: different companies. I'm able to dress down for work, but

796
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: my wife has to always dress up and be jazzy

797
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: because she interacts with the public. Her office is full

798
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 1: of dime pieces in their early thirties, and everything on

799
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: these women is right where it needs to be, if

800
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,919
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Me and my coworkers love

801
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: to sit in the courtyard watching the women come and go.

802
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: I started following one of the ladies on I g

803
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: because She is a most beautiful woman I've ever seen,

804
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:57,479
Speaker 1: and on top of that, she smiles and makes eye

805
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 1: contact with me whenever I see her. What I love

806
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: most about her is her pretty feet. They're the sexiest

807
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: part of her, and they had their own Instagram page.

808
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 1: I secretly looked at her ig footpage for months until

809
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,959
Speaker 1: my wife saw me and took my phone. She kept

810
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: my phone for two days and I was a nervous

811
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 1: wreck when I got it back. I made a fake

812
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 1: IG page so I can see pictures of my wife's

813
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: co workers pretty feet without my wife knowing it. I

814
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: thought I had outsmart at her this time, but she

815
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 1: caught me again. She went into my settings and found

816
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: the fake ig account attached to my real account, and

817
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 1: I was busted again. She saw all of the mojis

818
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 1: and the comments that I left under her co worker's pictures,

819
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 1: and she started crying. She didn't react how I thought

820
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: she would at all. She told me that my actions

821
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: made her feel unpretty and undervalued. That broke my heart,

822
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: and I cried too. How can I hurt my soul

823
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: mate like this? I saw this harmless entertainment, but now

824
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 1: she's so hurt and broken because of me, how do

825
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: I restore my wife's confidence in herself and in me. Okay,

826
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: let me get this straight. You're about to ruin your marriage,

827
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:20,360
Speaker 1: and all this is over some feet. You've got to

828
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 1: be kidding me. I mean, I know people have all

829
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:26,320
Speaker 1: kinds of fetishes, and food fetishes are big, and people

830
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: are really into feet. But to do what you did

831
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: this was just so stupid. I mean, yeah, you say

832
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: you like her feet, but admitted you like her too,

833
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 1: and you went too far. I mean you're stalking her

834
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: on Instagram and commenting and putting little emojis on her page.

835
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 1: This woman, your colleague works. Your wife's colleague works in

836
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 1: the same building and place as your wife, and this

837
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,799
Speaker 1: is right under your wife's nose. It's disrespectful. And now

838
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 1: your wife's hurt and feels undervalued and unpretty, like she said,

839
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: and she doesn't try stew and rightfully so so this

840
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 1: was not harmless entertainment as you call it. And now

841
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,280
Speaker 1: your wife is blaming herself, which a lot of women

842
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,919
Speaker 1: do when their men do things like this. And it's

843
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: not the wives, it's just that their husbands, you know,

844
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: get stupid. I mean, you created a problem in your

845
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: marriage where there was none. So now it's your job

846
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 1: you ask how you can fix this. Now it's your

847
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 1: job to do everything you can to reassure your wife

848
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 1: that she did nothing wrong. You have to ask her

849
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: how you can possibly make this up to her and

850
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 1: do what she says. And you're gonna have to be

851
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: patient with your wife as you guys work through this.

852
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 1: And in the meantime, you got to stay off Instagram,

853
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: stay out of the courtyard with the fellas checking out

854
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:46,479
Speaker 1: the women, and stop making eye contact with this woman,

855
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: leave her alone, focus on your wife and your marriage,

856
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: and just stop doing stupid stuff, because this was stupid.

857
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: Steve for real mirth, surely say it at best, even

858
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: lose your wife over some damn feet and you stupid.

859
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: Ain't no food like an old food, and you just

860
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: old food. Let me tell you how stupid you. I'm

861
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 1: anna fify you, old man. Man. My wife and I

862
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 1: work in the same damn bill. I'd have been quit

863
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:33,920
Speaker 1: that job long time ago. Really transfer me out, put

864
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: me across town something. Your wife always gotta dress up

865
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: and be jazzy because she interacts to the public. You

866
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: able to dress down for work her office. This is

867
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 1: how I know you old, her office full of dime pieces.

868
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: Put the hell say that we are and we are old?

869
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: Dude that thank he a player to see that's your

870
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: real problem. The dime pieces in their early thirties, and

871
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 1: everything on these women's right where it need to be,

872
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: if you know what I mean? Now we don't what

873
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: sits whe they started moving people lass around on their stomach.

874
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: The last time you've seen the one with some breasts

875
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 1: on her knee? Kelp? What do that mean? And everything

876
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 1: on these women is the right where it need to be? Where? What? What?

877
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 1: You don't even know how to describe being a player

878
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 1: with your old man, if you know what I mean? No,

879
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what you mean. Hell you mean think

880
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: a ass statement. Me and my co workers love to

881
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: sit in the courtyard. Or ain't nobody gonna see that?

882
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: You and your co workers sitting in the court yard

883
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: watching women come and go. I started following one of

884
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 1: the ladies on ig because she's the most beautiful woman

885
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: I've ever seen. And on top of that, she smiles

886
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: and make eye contact with me whenever I see her.

887
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: Now she don't, Now she don't, that's your damn imagination.

888
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 1: She'll eye contact a smile at you, well you know,

889
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: she cock eys. She's smiling at the man next to you.

890
01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 1: Hold on, Steve, hold on that your old ass damn pieces.

891
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

892
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject

893
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: my wife's co worker's fate. We'll get back into it

894
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening morning show. All right, Come on, Steve,

895
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 1: let's recap today's crazy strawberry letter and finish up with

896
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 1: your response. The subject is my wife's co worker's feet.

897
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: What this old fool over here and wrote this letter? Tumber?

898
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 1: He fifty five, he married, he worked in the same

899
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: bill and his wife he dressed down because his job

900
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: he don't require him dress up. His wife got to

901
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: be jazz and everything and all who went her wife

902
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: work around a bunch of thirty year olds in the office,

903
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 1: and they died pieces. M Yeah, that's how he described.

904
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: He's so old they die pieces and everything and everything

905
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 1: on these women is right where need to be. If

906
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 1: you know your favorite line, Oh hey, old ass player, No,

907
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 1: I didn't really know what you meant by that. If

908
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: you refer to their breast is up there by their

909
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 1: chest and they foot's right behind they pelvet. Ain't that

910
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:29,120
Speaker 1: where it's supposed to be. That's where it's supposed to be. Yes, yea.

911
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 1: When the last time you saw a woman unless she

912
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 1: was old, with her breath down in her knee, Well,

913
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 1: last time you've seen it? You know, breasts like where

914
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 1: they posted. So let's save all these ignorant ass statements. Then,

915
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: my co workers love is sitting in the court y'all

916
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 1: watching the women coming go. Didn't you just say that

917
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: you and your wife work in the same building. It

918
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: you don't think words and got around the building that

919
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: all of me are sitting in the court y'all work

920
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: watching people. I started following one of these ladies on

921
01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 1: ig because she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.

922
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 1: On top of that, she smiles and make eye contact

923
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,439
Speaker 1: with me whenever I see her. No, she don't. It's

924
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: your imagination, dog, how the baddest chick in the building,

925
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 1: won't you? She the finest woman you'dn't ever seen, and

926
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: she won't you? Boy? Stop. What I love most about

927
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 1: her as her pretty feet. They're the sexiest part of

928
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: her and they have their own Instagram page. I secretly

929
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 1: looked at her It's ig footpage for months until my

930
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:40,520
Speaker 1: wife saw me and took my phone. She kept my

931
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 1: phone for two days. I was a nervous wreck when

932
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 1: I got it back. I made a fake IG page

933
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: so I can see pictures of my wife co workers

934
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: pretty feet without my wife knowing it. Now right there,

935
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 1: you're thinking, my man, great move right away. I thought

936
01:02:57,040 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 1: I had outsmarted her this time. You ain't done nothing

937
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: smart in this whole damn letter. Now you have made

938
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: a fake I G page and you said I thought

939
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 1: I had outsmart at Hood this time. Wait a minute,

940
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 1: didn't she bust you on the phone. Yes, Ain't you

941
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: the same one that think this girl is looking at

942
01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 1: you every time you out? Ain't you the same one

943
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: that's still calling women damn pieces. Ain't you the someone

944
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: to work in the same office as your wife, but

945
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: you sit in the courtyard with your friends looking at women? Yeah?

946
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 1: This year? Right? Yeah, I thought I had outsmart at

947
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: hood this time. M But she caught me again that well,

948
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 1: that ain't taking long. She went into my settings and

949
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: found the fake I G account attached to my real account,

950
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: and I was busted again, Cause you stupid, You ain't

951
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: out smart nobody, you stupid, I thought, and I and I,

952
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: and she saw all the emojis in comment right, there

953
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: were fifty five emojis. Emojis. Yeah, why are you fifty

954
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: five with heart? What is? What? What? What? Which one?

955
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: What is you putting next to the feet? Yeah? Which

956
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: one is? To her? Show? Want to know? And have

957
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 1: you figured out how to make your hands black yet?

958
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: Because you probably ain't. You need to learn how to

959
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: make your emojis head dark, skin on. It's so stupid ass,

960
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: you're still sitting in out white prayer of hands. I

961
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: hate when black people praying for me and seeing white hands. Hey, hey,

962
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 1: act like you praying for me. I could pray for

963
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 1: me fifty five, stupid ass with them white hands on

964
01:04:57,280 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: everything COMFID and stuff. I gotta pardon to be sending

965
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: me stuff. I just delete this text anytime me sending

966
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: me again. Yeah, you know why you got busted again

967
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: because you fifty five. It's too old to think that

968
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 1: you can do anything text savvy. You think you the

969
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: first person created a fake page. Stupid, Now listen to this.

970
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 1: She saw the emojens in the comments that I left

971
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: under the co workers pictures, and she started crying. She

972
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 1: didn't react high how I thought she would at all.

973
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 1: She told me my actions made her feel unpretty and unwanted.

974
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,480
Speaker 1: That broke my heart, and I cried too. You can

975
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: stop all that because I ain't say right now, you

976
01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 1: can't outcry woman, So you can stop all this crying

977
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 1: too trying to, because that's stupid. You can't outcry her.

978
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 1: You don't cry with me. Had we had a dull

979
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 1: last We'll do that right here, and then let me

980
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: tell you something he would see. I saw that as

981
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 1: harmless entertainment, but now she saw her broken because of me.

982
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 1: How do I restore my wife's confidence in herself? And

983
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 1: you probably can't because you probably because your wife feet

984
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 1: probably ain't that flat. That's the problem. See, one of

985
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 1: the whole problems you've gotten this letteris your wife feet.

986
01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 1: She no hoofey, it ain't fit to be like. And

987
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 1: now she found out that's what you really like, and

988
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 1: now she ain't got it. She's dish. We gotta go

989
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: all right. Listen. It's up on Instagram at Steve harveyfm

990
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 1: dot com to comment, youth, you can't check out this

991
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:39,960
Speaker 1: Jewberry Letter podcast on de Man Got Out Next. It's Junior,

992
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 1: and we'll see what he wants to talk about today.

993
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

994
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: it's time for Junior, and you have some questions for

995
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: Steve Junior. Yeah, yeah, I do, I do. Uh, you know,

996
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: you know I'm about about the weekend of this thing. Hey,

997
01:06:57,880 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 1: before you do it, I want to share with your

998
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 1: time out or Junior part for his marriage. You would Yeah,

999
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 1: let me hear the poem. Here it is, I's married

1000
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 1: now be here. Oh my god, yeah, go ahead, my dog. Yeah,

1001
01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 1: they just didn't you know. You know, I just keep thinking.

1002
01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 1: I just want to I just want to be to

1003
01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: a great start. What's what's some advice how you can

1004
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: give me about being a husband now? Because I'm a

1005
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: single no more, and my thought process got to change.

1006
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 1: I can't have the same thought no more. And what

1007
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: kind of what kind of thought the process you got?

1008
01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: Right now? Well? You know talking, I keep I keep

1009
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 1: saying stuff like I'm just me. Yeah, And it's not

1010
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 1: how old change your pronown how old? Forty four? See

1011
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: you've been doing this for forty four. It's just in you.

1012
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 1: It's hard to teach your old dog new tricks. But

1013
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:02,920
Speaker 1: Carlin said it as your pronoun is no longer I

1014
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 1: it's your pronong is never me, it's hubbed. Your thought

1015
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 1: can't be what you won't. It's got to be what

1016
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: do she won't. But then you gotta act like it's

1017
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:22,519
Speaker 1: what we won't, even though it's only what she won't,

1018
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 1: because what she won't might not be the same thing

1019
01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: as what he won't. Who's on first base? What's on what? Yeah?

1020
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:39,800
Speaker 1: Are you? I'm trying to you see how confused that sound? Yeah,

1021
01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 1: that's what you in now, sir, I'm in confusion. That's

1022
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 1: ball of confusion. Has nothing to do with this old

1023
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: question you had me. But that's what I'm in. What

1024
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 1: else you want to know? Okay, So I got to

1025
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 1: think of something nice to do every single day, fun

1026
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 1: every day. Told me something marriage company that ended my marriage. Oh,

1027
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 1: he said, it's not your job to make another person happy,

1028
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 1: nor should you make that your job. You can't make

1029
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 1: another person happy. That's a state. I don't care how

1030
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 1: hard you try. That's a that's a job that cannot

1031
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: be happy. Oh all right, uh jor no, it's just

1032
01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 1: allowed to remember, not be forgetting the first But you're

1033
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 1: gonna forget it a whole lot of turns. All right, listen,

1034
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Junior, this

1035
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:46,240
Speaker 1: wasn't you. Okay, this was not you. But wait until

1036
01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:49,559
Speaker 1: you hear what happened to another room on his wedding day.

1037
01:09:50,439 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: Right out, do it? Yeah, you're listening, Steve Harpy warning show. Well, Junior,

1038
01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: this has nothing to do with you. Okay, so you

1039
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 1: can relax on this one. But it is a wedding

1040
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 1: story about a groom though us. Too soon, too soon,

1041
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,640
Speaker 1: All right, here, we're gonna try it. We'll try it.

1042
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:21,640
Speaker 1: A groom recently tried a poorly planned and poorly executed

1043
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:25,720
Speaker 1: stunt on his wedding day. He tried to enter his

1044
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 1: wedding ceremony on a dirt bike, and he skid it

1045
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: and was thrown off the bike. Bride to be was

1046
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:38,759
Speaker 1: horrified as he was rushed to the hospital. He broke

1047
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: his collar bone and he needed five stitches in high man,

1048
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 1: he want to do it. I want to do it.

1049
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:51,559
Speaker 1: That's what he want to do it. Oh man, that's

1050
01:10:52,360 --> 01:11:02,120
Speaker 1: I've ever seen standing Bravo. I'm gonna break my collar.

1051
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 1: I thought about that many times in my life. I

1052
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 1: just never had the character do. I stayed out all

1053
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 1: night long when I was about twenty eight years old

1054
01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:14,559
Speaker 1: and about twenty six years old, I stayed out all

1055
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 1: night long, didn't make it back home. I was seriously

1056
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 1: contemplating wrapping my car around a telephone that's going to

1057
01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 1: check into the hospital because I didn't have a lie

1058
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: together in my mind. Man, my man, congratulations, big man. Yeah,

1059
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:36,000
Speaker 1: we're just gonna to do this later. Yeah, let me

1060
01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: come in hot myself. I'm oh man, everything stitches in

1061
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 1: his head. Yeah, yeah, got two more years. He got

1062
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 1: up for two more years being single. He can be

1063
01:11:57,560 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 1: single for two more years. Yeah, that's you, beautiful cold feet.

1064
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 1: I'd have heard it all. Man, come in on the

1065
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:10,640
Speaker 1: dirt fight. He told his boy. Ain't nobody else get hurt. No,

1066
01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:13,680
Speaker 1: see that, he told his boy. And I'm gonna come

1067
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 1: down now from me in hot. Y'all move over. I

1068
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 1: don't want to hit half. I don't wanna come dead

1069
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 1: at y'all. Y'all move out the way. I'm gonna hit them,

1070
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 1: break and listen to him live. I will be in

1071
01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 1: the air. He broke his collar bone, got on that

1072
01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 1: tree that was the one she wanted to get married,

1073
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 1: and almost time all you here, Holly, Yes, running and

1074
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: I love it. And this buddy, his buddy had had

1075
01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:05,920
Speaker 1: a bottle with faked he had to use alright, boys

1076
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 1: knew man, man, man, you know when you hit the

1077
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 1: brakes man, Yeah, yeah, that's gonna put me in the end. Though.

1078
01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 1: How hard was his grooves been laughing? Let me tell

1079
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 1: you something man that afternoon? Yeah no, they was laughing

1080
01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 1: the night before when at the basket party when they

1081
01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 1: were playing it. When that did happened though, and they

1082
01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:39,160
Speaker 1: found out he had practiced collar bone and busted his head. Dog,

1083
01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 1: they couldn't breathe. They had to make sure he was

1084
01:13:42,560 --> 01:13:45,600
Speaker 1: all right though. I tried to cut that after that.

1085
01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:56,320
Speaker 1: I ain't after that hike to cut that bike. I'll

1086
01:13:56,400 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 1: tell you we messed up the bridem ya. I know

1087
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 1: bride daddy, Yeah he knew what was up. Yeah, oh

1088
01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 1: he did out. Yeah. Man, he didn't like great room anyway.

1089
01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 1: He boom or len, What do you learning? All right?

1090
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, Carlo's up

1091
01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 1: with music news for today. We'll talk about it right

1092
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening all right? Here we are Carla,

1093
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: our girl with some music news. What you got Carla,

1094
01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 1: what's going on. Well, the I Heart Music Festival was

1095
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 1: over the weekend. It was epic. It all went down

1096
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:06,679
Speaker 1: at the T Mobile Arena in Vegas. Avril Levine, Black

1097
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:10,200
Speaker 1: Eye Peas, Lina Richie, Oh my goodness, you know black people,

1098
01:15:10,320 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 1: Lionel Richie, the legend himself. Yes, ll L couj Megan

1099
01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 1: No Stallion, rock and roll legend, Pat Benatar, Sam Smith,

1100
01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 1: Diddy Diddy. It was two nights Friday and Saturday night again.

1101
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,320
Speaker 1: Shout out to the legend Steve. We love us from

1102
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:31,679
Speaker 1: Lionel Richie. He went back to the eighties. He performed

1103
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 1: a lot of songs you know from his solo days,

1104
01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 1: dancing on the ceiling Hello, Oh yes, sir, that's it.

1105
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:44,960
Speaker 1: That's the jam, Jam Jam. He also sang brick House

1106
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 1: Commodore's got the crowd on their feet yep, yes, Lina

1107
01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:54,120
Speaker 1: Richie is looking good, looking good. So if you missed it,

1108
01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 1: if you miss the iHeart Music Festival, don't you worry.

1109
01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 1: You can check it out October seventh and eighth on

1110
01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:06,080
Speaker 1: the c W two Nights Special, eight p m Eastern.

1111
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 1: So that's October seventh and eighth. If you miss the

1112
01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:12,400
Speaker 1: iHeart Music festival, and there it is. It was nice.

1113
01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:18,439
Speaker 1: Vegas was on fire. M all right, thank you, Carla. Well,

1114
01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 1: Tommy's back to play. Would you rather with us? So

1115
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 1: we'll do that at thirty three minutes after the hour? Yeah,

1116
01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:28,720
Speaker 1: for a whole week by my film? Yes, yeah, come on,

1117
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 1: it was epic. Would you rather at thirty three minutes

1118
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: after right after this you're listening to show? All right,

1119
01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: the nephew is back in. It's time for would you rather,

1120
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:43,120
Speaker 1: like Steve said all last week, Tommy, he did it

1121
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 1: by himself. It was epic. Before that it was just

1122
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 1: Junior and Steve. But now you're back, here we go.

1123
01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 1: Would you rather, wait a minute, would you rather have

1124
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 1: extra big eyes or would you rather have an extra

1125
01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 1: long tongue? I'm gonna take that tongue? Yeah, take that. Yeah,

1126
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:09,240
Speaker 1: you don't get you don't. You don't get nothing for

1127
01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 1: having big nothing, man, I beg Yeah, you can get

1128
01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:20,400
Speaker 1: some things done that. Surely you're seeing extra stuff. You

1129
01:17:20,439 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 1: don't even need to see that. Ain't it's coming about me? Coming?

1130
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 1: She got big ass. She don't see nothing extra. It's

1131
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:34,200
Speaker 1: just closer. Wow, it has nothing to do with me.

1132
01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:39,040
Speaker 1: All right? Um, would you rather you wear your wife's

1133
01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:42,719
Speaker 1: worn undy's or would you rather she wears your worn undy?

1134
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 1: Which one I'm not. I'm not gonna get in jacket's

1135
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 1: brows like whatnot like that? So no, I'm gonna leave

1136
01:17:55,720 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 1: that long. Not like that? All right, argument after this? Yeah,

1137
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, if if I put

1138
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:11,599
Speaker 1: her draws on all, its gonna be as a daughter strap. Okay,

1139
01:18:12,160 --> 01:18:19,720
Speaker 1: moving on? Rather, Yeah, y would you rather laugh at

1140
01:18:19,800 --> 01:18:23,320
Speaker 1: everything your wife says? Laugh at everything she says that?

1141
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:26,400
Speaker 1: Would you rather frown when she talked? Those are your

1142
01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:34,320
Speaker 1: I got that? Hey? Come on, hey, it's all a kay,

1143
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 1: good morning's over active? Yeah, team, Well, I would choose

1144
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 1: frowning hers. Okays, go from that because if you laugh,

1145
01:19:00,560 --> 01:19:04,040
Speaker 1: Let's see a lot of these subjects ain't funny. Um,

1146
01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:07,679
Speaker 1: what's so funny? Because that's the next yea yeah, uh

1147
01:19:07,880 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 1: what you laughing at? It's so funny? What I fell

1148
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:17,639
Speaker 1: in the tube last night? M h your baby called

1149
01:19:17,680 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 1: and she in trouble at school? Uh huh? All right, listen,

1150
01:19:24,320 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 1: thank you. That's today's round of would you rather with

1151
01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:33,120
Speaker 1: the nephew? Back again? Junior? Yeah, we thought you were

1152
01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:38,639
Speaker 1: right there, right, Yeah, coming up at forty nine minutes

1153
01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 1: after the hour, our last break of the day and

1154
01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one. We have a very

1155
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 1: special remark. We're gonna do a re enactment. Oh oh okay,

1156
01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 1: we'll find out what that's about right after this. You're

1157
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 1: listening show here we are, guys, last break of the day.

1158
01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:59,679
Speaker 1: Earlier we did the story about a groom. It wasn't

1159
01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:02,679
Speaker 1: about you, junior, but this was this did really happen.

1160
01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 1: A groom recently tried to poorly plan and poorly executed

1161
01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:10,240
Speaker 1: executed stunt on his wedding day. He tried to enter

1162
01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 1: his wedding ceremony on a dirt bike, and he skidded

1163
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:17,360
Speaker 1: and was thrown off the bike. His bride to be,

1164
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 1: of course, was horrified, and he was rushed to the hospital.

1165
01:20:21,360 --> 01:20:24,639
Speaker 1: Now he broke his collar bone. He needed five stitches

1166
01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 1: to his head, five stitches in his head. What would

1167
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 1: what would make somebody do something like this? I don't

1168
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 1: I don't get Ladies and gentlemen, we are here at

1169
01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 1: the church, and our boys down at the edge of

1170
01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:39,400
Speaker 1: the street getting ready to roll right in here and

1171
01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:42,760
Speaker 1: be ready to be married. And ladies and gentlemen, here

1172
01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:44,600
Speaker 1: he comes we're gonna I think we can hear that

1173
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:50,439
Speaker 1: motorbike right now. I think we can hear him yearing up. Yeah, yeah,

1174
01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 1: oh yeah. Hey, let me change something. I told her

1175
01:20:56,240 --> 01:20:58,880
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it. I tried to find

1176
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:01,280
Speaker 1: a way to get out of here, and I just

1177
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:04,720
Speaker 1: want to do it. I'm not ready for marriage. Yeah, man,

1178
01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:08,120
Speaker 1: but I think I found a perfect way, yeah, to

1179
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:12,920
Speaker 1: not castle and not be a no show. I'm gonna

1180
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 1: ride up these steps, what full speed to come down

1181
01:21:19,600 --> 01:21:22,600
Speaker 1: the aisle? Come on, man, but two buddies are in

1182
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:26,519
Speaker 1: on it, like I'm on. Connor, Come on, I'm not

1183
01:21:26,880 --> 01:21:31,439
Speaker 1: using any breaks. Don't do it. I'm gonna slam into

1184
01:21:31,520 --> 01:21:36,880
Speaker 1: that altar and I'm just gonna deal with it. You

1185
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:40,000
Speaker 1: deal with it, You deal with it. Let's start this

1186
01:21:40,160 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 1: motor Let's get up out of here, let's take off

1187
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:59,519
Speaker 1: the step. Let's go. Yes, yes, my god, I love it.

1188
01:22:01,360 --> 01:22:06,080
Speaker 1: How are you? How are you feeling? How right? Can

1189
01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:12,639
Speaker 1: you talk? What is that noise? The girl? What? Connor?

1190
01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 1: Connor and my old cape? Yeah? Well you your your

1191
01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 1: head's busted wide over. We can see the white meat.

1192
01:22:20,280 --> 01:22:26,559
Speaker 1: I mean, I know your collar bone is sticking straight

1193
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:29,800
Speaker 1: through your tuck seed on. You see that? Great? That

1194
01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:33,320
Speaker 1: scrass just what I wanted. Yeah, I mean we talked

1195
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,479
Speaker 1: about it. We talked about it, We discussed it. Is

1196
01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 1: this what you wanted? I didn't want to stick that

1197
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 1: far out, but yeah, yeah, I just want to be

1198
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 1: I know, what's gonna pop out? Like my god, it's

1199
01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 1: sticking straight out. Yeah, it's sticking straight Yeah. Yeah. Did

1200
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 1: I cut my head? Ah? Yeah? Pretty pretty, pretty bad.

1201
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 1: There's there's blood running down to your ear. You're gonna

1202
01:22:55,680 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 1: you're definitely gonna need stitches. What is she doing? Well?

1203
01:23:01,120 --> 01:23:06,479
Speaker 1: Right now, she's he's crying, he's falling out, and she's

1204
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 1: she's completely fading's faa but her dad is there. Okay, good,

1205
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:18,360
Speaker 1: she's fading and I'm incapacitated. Uh, she's gotta be no

1206
01:23:18,439 --> 01:23:21,600
Speaker 1: wedding the day pal, No, there's no way. Definitely not

1207
01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:24,160
Speaker 1: a wed. I think we did it. Hey, did somebody

1208
01:23:24,240 --> 01:23:27,920
Speaker 1: call her ambulance? There's there's an ambulance on the way.

1209
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 1: But now your mom's your mom wants to talk to you.

1210
01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to her. You gotta knock yourself out.

1211
01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:38,200
Speaker 1: What do you want? What you want to talk about it?

1212
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:40,519
Speaker 1: I mean she just wants to make sure she's on you.

1213
01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:42,960
Speaker 1: All right, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, go get her,

1214
01:23:43,000 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 1: go ahead, honey her. Are you okay? Hey Mom? Yeah,

1215
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:53,360
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I don't move, don't move, don't try to move.

1216
01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:57,920
Speaker 1: I just gotta get out of here. Mom. What what

1217
01:23:58,040 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 1: are you talking about? I gotta get out? Look at

1218
01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:03,120
Speaker 1: what what do you mean? What am I talking about?

1219
01:24:03,240 --> 01:24:07,720
Speaker 1: The ambulance is coming? Okay, great, hey Mom just leaving. God,

1220
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:09,679
Speaker 1: just go get dad. I want to talk to dad.

1221
01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:14,439
Speaker 1: Oh God, my mom is okay? Talk to day dad.

1222
01:24:16,439 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 1: Where's my dad? Honey, go get your son? Dad? Yeah,

1223
01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 1: who's gonna be to Steve? That's what I ain't got

1224
01:24:32,479 --> 01:24:38,880
Speaker 1: but one damn voice? So I get that's on you? Son? Son?

1225
01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 1: What I read my daddy? Who wouldn't got mom? Baby too? High?

1226
01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 1: Lord son, Lord Junior Sun my little brother in hill Son.

1227
01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:59,240
Speaker 1: That's as low as he. So what were you thinking?

1228
01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:04,760
Speaker 1: What was that? I've been? Damn well, Dad, like your

1229
01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:14,200
Speaker 1: voice change. I gotta sound like I below him? He Dad, Yeah, listen,

1230
01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:16,400
Speaker 1: I know you raised me to do the right thing,

1231
01:25:16,479 --> 01:25:18,160
Speaker 1: but I just couldn't do it. Ahead and get out

1232
01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:21,000
Speaker 1: of it, damn get out of here. I come and

1233
01:25:21,080 --> 01:25:23,920
Speaker 1: do it. You did great far as I'm concerned. Give

1234
01:25:23,960 --> 01:25:30,640
Speaker 1: more awesome quiet Mama. The bride wants to know if

1235
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:32,880
Speaker 1: you wouldn't you'd like to carry it on and get

1236
01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:35,479
Speaker 1: the service done at the hospital. Probably not gonna be

1237
01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:37,080
Speaker 1: able to do this for a couple of years. Man,

1238
01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 1: it looks like this color bone up and I think

1239
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:43,320
Speaker 1: on the way to the hospital, I think a little.

1240
01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:47,559
Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose my memory. I'm not gonna know who

1241
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:55,240
Speaker 1: the hell any of you are playing, gonna die. Hey, y'all,

1242
01:25:55,320 --> 01:25:57,479
Speaker 1: y'all have a great date. Talk to God. I'm sure

1243
01:25:57,520 --> 01:25:59,800
Speaker 1: he'd loved to hear from you. Y'all, stay in peace.

1244
01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:20,439
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