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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with morgane.

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Speaker 2: Part one scene with a member of the show, Well.

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Speaker 1: What's up friends, Happy weekend. Abby's joining me on Best

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Speaker 1: Bits this weekend. What's up, Abby?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: You ready to talk about some wedding conversation?

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Speaker 2: Are you? No? I mean you're there? We to We are.

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Speaker 1: I've gotten lots of questions and people wanting to know

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Speaker 1: how our wedding planning is going.

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Speaker 3: Not havyized to each other but individual nice shocker. No,

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Speaker 3: Abby and I are not getting married, but we are

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Speaker 3: getting married to other people.

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Speaker 2: We are.

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Speaker 1: So how is it going for you? Have you even

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Speaker 1: looked at anything or have you started what's your feelings thoughts?

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Speaker 2: I really haven't. I have not, not even a little bit. No,

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Speaker 2: There's just been a lot happening in both of our lives.

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Speaker 2: That is just like, that's not I guess on the

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Speaker 2: front burner right now. Yeah, it's a full time job, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It is, Abby. The amount of things like I've started

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Speaker 1: to look, I've started to like creep in. When I

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Speaker 1: have a couple extra minutes here and there, I'll look

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Speaker 1: at different things, and I think I have a baseline now,

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Speaker 1: at least for what I want.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's awesome, but it's so overwhelming.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that right now. Like I start

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Speaker 1: to think I have one idea and I kind of

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Speaker 1: go down the path and then something like goes a

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Speaker 1: brick wall. I'm like, Okay, turn around, next idea, and

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Speaker 1: everything just keeps moving moving pieces of all the time.

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Speaker 1: Oh I bet.

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Speaker 2: And even like dates too, That's what I'm nervous about.

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Speaker 2: Like they go so fast.

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Speaker 1: That there's people who have planned for like three years. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they've had their they had their venue picked out before.

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Speaker 2: They got engaged. Right, Uh huh, couldn't be me?

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Speaker 1: Was not me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Same, I have nothing. But the good news is, as

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Speaker 1: I do think we've at least narrowed it down to

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Speaker 1: being that we would like to have a however you

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Speaker 1: want to word it, elopement, private ceremony, micro wedding somewhere

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Speaker 1: in the mountains with our immediate family only, and we

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Speaker 1: get like, have the ceremony, we have a fun little

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Speaker 1: weekend with everybody, and then we come back here we

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Speaker 1: have a party with all the people whoever wants to

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Speaker 1: come and just celebrate. Not a saram, not like a reception.

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Speaker 1: It's just like a party. Free food and free drinks

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Speaker 1: and music, a party, party vibes. I'm not going to decorate,

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Speaker 1: not spending thousands of dollars on flowers and you know,

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Speaker 1: who knows what wherever, just a big party to celebrate.

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Speaker 1: And then the goal and the dream is to go

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Speaker 1: to South Africa for our honeymoon.

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Speaker 2: Ooh that's awesome. Oh my gosh, yeah, you do have

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Speaker 2: it kind of.

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm meaning like a structure, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like I'm meaning ideas and thoughts.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I've never thought to go to Africa,

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Speaker 2: and I think it's like it's like the Safari and

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Speaker 2: all that. And see, I'm just such. I don't want

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Speaker 1: I'm the same as you. I don't. I don't feel

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Speaker 1: that way. But I also a circle of life doesn't

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Speaker 1: bother me as much as hunting poachers does in that capacity.

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Speaker 1: So as long as I'm not witnessing that side of it,

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Speaker 1: like nature being nature, I can handle a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to handle it super well. I cry

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Speaker 1: when any animal time, Like I cry if I actually

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Speaker 1: step on a snail. So here I am.

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Speaker 2: You've done that. That's so sad. Oh it was horrible.

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Speaker 2: It was horrible. Aby.

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Speaker 1: I literally went inside and cried because, Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: I told you one time, or I've talked about it

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Speaker 1: on Best Bits where I went to rescue a turtle

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Speaker 1: walking out to get it, somebody hit it ran over it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, And I can never get this sound

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Speaker 1: The circle of life bothers me. But I'm also a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I've heard nothing but good things. They're like

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Speaker 1: And but trying to figure out, you know, there's a

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Speaker 1: because they're both have immunal compromise diseases. It's just like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that will end up panning out

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Speaker 1: best safe way. Like, Honestly, the thing that's been the

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Speaker 1: hardest for me in general is that Remmy and Hazel

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Speaker 1: are my number one priority of life. They have been.

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Speaker 1: You know that you've watched them and both of them

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Speaker 1: having their recent diagnosis, Remy with Addison's disease, Hazel with

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Speaker 1: kidney disease. I've just added a bunch of layers to

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Speaker 1: our life. You know that nobody ever plans for but

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Speaker 1: my number one request for a wedding night. I've told

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Speaker 1: my fiance that from the day that I met him,

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Speaker 1: I said, if this works out, Remy and Hazel will

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Speaker 1: and trying to get them like we're And then my

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Speaker 1: other one was that I wanted to be married in

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Speaker 1: the mountains. But the mountains to me are Colorado, right, Colorado,

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Speaker 1: I can't do certain travel with Remy. I can't put

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Speaker 1: means road tripping, which means taking more time off, which

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Speaker 2: And I'm talking a long ride too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she barely does the road trip to Wichita well,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna make it happen. And okay, never mind, I'm gonna.

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Speaker 2: Go back on that. Do you have a general date?

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Speaker 1: Like general, because it's gonna be like an elopement micro wedding.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to and I want it in nature.

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Speaker 1: That's also something that I really want that particular, like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which is that's good? That makes it.

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Speaker 1: Yes huge, So potentially the fall I would love to

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Speaker 1: have it falls this year favorite Yeah whoa yeah, be ready. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Because again, like when you do the elopement and stuff,

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Speaker 2: All that stresses me out When you say vendors. I'm

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Speaker 2: and they were so excited like writing things down. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: It was helpful. I mean, it's cool to see what

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Speaker 1: Well, I think that's the coolest thing about wedding sous.

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Speaker 1: There's endless options. You can really do whatever you want

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Speaker 2: I know. Oh man, Like I've talked to some of

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Speaker 2: and they were really nice weddings, But I mean, so Nashville,

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Speaker 1: I'm not also like, I do you feel like you're

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Speaker 1: I'm not a big I don't need a five course dinner.

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Speaker 2: No, especially with people around, Like there's no way you're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like the whole nice course meal. I'm like a

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Speaker 2: And I'm happy, right yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And so like those nice weddings also just don't

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Speaker 1: But if it was my wedding and I just want

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Speaker 4: Do you know?

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Speaker 3: I know that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, I agree, Yeah, because I've been at both

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Speaker 2: types and I like them both. It's really nice to

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Speaker 2: just have like a really nice meal served you, yep.

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Speaker 2: But also I love the buffet because you can just

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Speaker 2: like casual. Yeah, which I'm more casual than like formal. Same,

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Speaker 2: we're casual girlies, yes, yea, we are.

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Speaker 1: I had a friend that had a late night Mac

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Speaker 1: and cheese bar at her wedding then I still.

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Speaker 2: Think about it. That's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Everyone's dancing and it was like the late night snack

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Speaker 1: and it was a mac and cheese bar, like build

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Speaker 1: your own. I still think about that a lot.

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Speaker 2: That's what I want to do. It's like something when

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Speaker 2: You're like, okay, what can we bring out? That's like

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Speaker 2: somebody I knew how to French fry bar. See like

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Speaker 2: That was the best.

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Speaker 1: And see if I can do like a party here.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I can implement some of those fun

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's just drive down to the beach and go

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's what I'm most excited for because

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Speaker 2: Why would I ever do that? Why would I get

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Speaker 2: like when you come back, you could also.

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Speaker 1: You know, the best part, you can do whatever the

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Speaker 2: want to do what you want, you like the small

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Speaker 2: wedding and then come back and have the party. But

439
00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,560
Speaker 2: I'm also like, oh, I want them at the wedding too,

440
00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:25,320
Speaker 2: and then we could just do a reception right after.

441
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,360
Speaker 2: So both, Like I want to do both, So how

442
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:29,440
Speaker 2: do you decide which one?

443
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Speaker 1: And I think a lot of sadly, a lot of

444
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,040
Speaker 1: it comes down to money and budget at the end.

445
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:34,360
Speaker 2: Of the day.

446
00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, and figuring out just what works best

447
00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:42,560
Speaker 1: and how it works and what you want ultimately, because

448
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,959
Speaker 1: there are so many outside factors in it, right, and

449
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:49,040
Speaker 1: just people who just want I can't believe how many

450
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:50,440
Speaker 1: people are just like I can't you know, I can't

451
00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:52,480
Speaker 1: wait for your wedding and I can't. I'm like, wait, what,

452
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,720
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I'm having a wedding, I

453
00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,760
Speaker 1: do how you can't wait for it? Yeah, that's crazy,

454
00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,760
Speaker 1: you know, right, And because that's kind of a societal

455
00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:03,720
Speaker 1: thing where we've been. You know, you get married and

456
00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:07,919
Speaker 1: everybody comes, and that's what happens, huh. But then in

457
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,760
Speaker 1: my head, I'm like, you think there's a wedding, I

458
00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:13,120
Speaker 1: don't even know why wedding's happening and when is happening, and.

459
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 2: It's impossible to invite everybody, you know, and you know,

460
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:19,239
Speaker 2: like everybody thinks that if they talk to you, they

461
00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,280
Speaker 2: might it's hard, and that is hard. Where do you

462
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Speaker 2: do the cutoff? That's another thing too. Oh that's what

463
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Speaker 2: cut make.

464
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Speaker 1: That's how exactly. That's how we got to the micro

465
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:33,439
Speaker 1: wedding idea was because we started spiraling when we like

466
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,040
Speaker 1: were like, Okay, we're going to do close just our

467
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,560
Speaker 1: immediate family, and then we do like our wedding parties.

468
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 1: But then the moment we started adding the wedding parties,

469
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,960
Speaker 1: it was like a trickle down effect. It just things

470
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:48,040
Speaker 1: kept eating added. I was like, what this went from

471
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Speaker 1: micro to.

472
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Speaker 2: Macro real fast? Oh my gosh.

473
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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, back all that, back up immediate family.

474
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,919
Speaker 2: Wait, do you know how many do you want bridesmaids?

475
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Speaker 1: Well, if we get if we do an elopement style,

476
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 1: there's really just not that Yeah. So I think I

477
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Speaker 1: do a trip with my friends just to celebrate with

478
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Speaker 1: them and just give people different opportunities to celebrate, whether

479
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 1: they want to come to the party or whether they

480
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Speaker 1: want to come and do a trip together and kind

481
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Speaker 1: of loop that trip in with like what would be

482
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Speaker 1: a bridal shower or whatever. I just don't I don't

483
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 1: want people to spend a bunch of money either, you know.

484
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, because I know that's a valuable right now.

485
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Speaker 1: And if I do a trip, I want them to

486
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Speaker 1: want to go on the trip for it to be

487
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,679
Speaker 1: an actual trip versus just another bachelorette party.

488
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Speaker 2: And I have to think, because like I love going

489
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Speaker 2: to weddings, Oh my gosh, like sign me up, no

490
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,120
Speaker 2: matter where it is, I want to go. But it's

491
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: like some people they don't. I always think that, I'm like,

492
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Speaker 2: what if they don't want to? What if it's too

493
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Speaker 2: much trouble for them, because it is a lot if

494
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Speaker 2: you have kids or pets, like, it's a lot. Well,

495
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 2: I know, out of town.

496
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Speaker 1: Their responsibility to say no, you know, and at least

497
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Speaker 1: they got the invitation, because that's what everybody wants at

498
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Speaker 1: the end of the day, is ination, yeah, to then

499
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 1: say no. But that's the other thing. Kid free wedding

500
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 1: Mars will be kid free party or ceremony besides our

501
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:18,239
Speaker 1: immediate family and our nieces essentially. So that's another thing

502
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 1: too that adds a layer. People have a whole lot

503
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Speaker 1: of opinions on that.

504
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 2: Oh my, oh yeah, yeah.

505
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Speaker 1: I would imagine if you had a wedding here, I

506
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't be kid free because he has kids, right, it

507
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 1: could just be his kids that come. Would you have

508
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: a kid free wedding? Yeah?

509
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Speaker 2: I would, yes, uh huh. I feel like every wedding

510
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 2: I've been to has been kid free. Well no, not really,

511
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 2: not really actually no, because they're.

512
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Speaker 1: Like yeah all the way. No, just none of them.

513
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Speaker 2: Never mind, I do remember them, like, and it's always

514
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,400
Speaker 2: like when it's really quiet in a church, Yeah, they

515
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 2: have to like take them out or something. But mm hmm.

516
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 1: That's another aspect for sure, and that adds even more.

517
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Speaker 2: That's stress. I get stressed on anything. But actually I

518
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know. We'll see. No, I would

519
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: want it to be a kid for I think.

520
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: You're like a being s farmball. This is like me

521
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: when I keep choosing a different thing.

522
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 2: Me in real time planning. Yeah, in real time. You're

523
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 2: doing it in the.

524
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: Rabbit hole with me, cure down the rabbit hole.

525
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 2: I hate it. I hate doing that. Yeah, I hate

526
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 2: it here too. Oh my head hurts.

527
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: Oh that's so bad.

528
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. That was real time of me being like,

529
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 2: oh no, well actually huh oh no, wonder he's annoyed.

530
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: It's okay. You will figure it out. And it's like

531
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Speaker 1: Both of our fiances have been great about it. They

532
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 1: both want what we want at the end of the day.

533
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 1: And my fiance is the same. He just wants to

534
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: celebrate with our friends at the end of it all.

535
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: And he's like, however we want to do that. We

536
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: could have a.

537
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 2: Party at the house for all I care.

538
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: He's just very well, key chill, yeah, yeah, which is

539
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 1: that's good.

540
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is good, just to be happy. We're similar. Yeah,

541
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Speaker 2: it's not like, Oh, I'm inviting five hundred people to

542
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,719
Speaker 2: my wedding and I'm having it a castle. I don't know.

543
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: I did think about that. There's a true elopement. People

544
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 1: go to the Dolomites in Italy.

545
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 2: Oh my, okay, well that's and I have for.

546
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: The actual like to just do it in Italy where

547
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 1: the place is I know, but I can't bring roomy

548
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: and haze. Also, oh knocked that out for me. Oh well,

549
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: but the okay, am I wrong on this? Tell me?

550
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Because you've been to North Carolina and

551
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 1: the Smokies, right, yeah, and you've obviously been out west

552
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: the mountains out west. Do you think the Smokies in

553
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 1: North Carolina mountains are mountains compared to like the mountains

554
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: in the west.

555
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 2: No, right, I don't think there are.

556
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 1: Mountains like landscape whatever.

557
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 2: The actual they're so beautiful, the ones in like North Carolina,

558
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 2: like the ones east, they're so pretty, but I don't

559
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 2: actually like think of them as being full blown like

560
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 2: take your breath away mountains, like when I was out

561
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 2: for the Broncos game. I mean, you see those and

562
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 2: you're just like, oh my gosh. I mean, I still

563
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 2: think they're really pretty, but they're not quite like the

564
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 2: ones in Denver.

565
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the peaks of them.

566
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not as high, are they.

567
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 4: No?

568
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 1: The Appalachian Mountains and Smoky Mountains. No, those are the

569
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: only two like major mountain ranges that I'm aware of

570
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: over here on the East Coast. I might just like

571
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: brief knowledge right now without googling, But no, and I

572
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 1: have a lot more fourteen footers like the actual Outpine

573
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: my mountains and stuff out west.

574
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: But maybe it's just because my viewpoint, like I've seen

575
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 2: the rocket like from far away and so you get

576
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 2: that full effect. I don't know if I've gone far

577
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 2: enough east to actually see that. I don't. It's harder

578
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 2: to see them because it's just so hilly. You don't

579
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 2: get just this full on.

580
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: Few everything in my research because I'm I keep trying

581
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 1: to find videos of elutements just everywhere to see where

582
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: I can manage and know they're not anywhere near each other.

583
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:03,439
Speaker 1: I really feel like the mountains of an East are

584
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: just more rolling, ginormous structures, and then the mountains out

585
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: west are like peaks, true, like jagged edged peaks, you

586
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And that's what I think of

587
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: as a mountain.

588
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. They're more they have like this blue

589
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 2: look to them, like in Denver. You know, it's like

590
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 2: blue and I don't know, it's like the.

591
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: Cores light can. Yes, there we go, your mountain of

592
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: your If the mountains are blue, it's cold or change. Yeah,

593
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 1: I'm the Cans.

594
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 2: I know what you're saying. I know what you're saying.

595
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: The mountains are white or blue.

596
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 2: I can't remember.

597
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: I think it's blue if they're blue, and then you

598
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: drink it because it's cold or whatever. But yeah, And

599
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: that's that's another thing I struggle with, is because it's

600
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 1: not the true mountains that I think of to get

601
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: married in. But I'm just a mountain girly like I

602
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: belong in a mountain top. It's what it is.

603
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 2: That's why I want to get married in one.

604
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll move back there someday.

605
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 2: Hey, maybe you could.

606
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: This is this is why I haven't talked about any

607
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: wedding planning.

608
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 2: Same. Oh my gosh, I get that text like daily,

609
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 2: Hey have you you have any plans? No, They're probably like,

610
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 2: what are you doing? I'm like, oh my gosh.

611
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: Well, in all spare niling, most people get engaged and

612
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: they have their wedding plan in like two months.

613
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 2: Yeah they do.

614
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: I have two friends that got engaged, one that got

615
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: engaged the month before I did, one that got engaged

616
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 1: the month after me. Both have already sent out there

617
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: saved the dates.

618
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 2: And I've already know they haven't that's to send me out.

619
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 2: They need to chill, they need to like slow their role.

620
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 2: Oh gosh.

621
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: I was like, dang, good for you guys. I don't

622
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: know anything.

623
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

624
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 1: No.

625
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 2: I've seen a lot, like on the Nashville Like there's

626
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 2: girls groups or whatever on Facebook and they're all like, hey,

627
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 2: just got engaged yesterday, Like when when am I supposters

628
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 2: send to save the dates and like all this stuff

629
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 2: like hey, we already picked the venue. I got engaged

630
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 2: last week. But blah blah blah, I'm like, oh my gosh, okay,

631
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: clickive up.

632
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: That's insanity to me. I bringame. I was just enjoying

633
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: being engaged for a hot minute, you know, like, I know,

634
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: have a ring on my finger. I'm just getting used

635
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: to bringing the ring with me everywhere. How could I

636
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: even think about like the second part of that.

637
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 2: I actually applaud them. That's pretty cool. I wish I

638
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 2: was like that. I wish I was just like, okay,

639
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: oh we got this place, this date. Uh oh, we

640
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 2: got our invite lists. Okay, we're good. I wish I

641
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 2: could do that.

642
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:23,719
Speaker 1: I love that for people.

643
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: I do love that.

644
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 1: For you could not be secret? What is your secret?

645
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I know. Okay, you would have think too.

646
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: We were the Pinterest generation. We grew up on Pinterest

647
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: and we pinned everything. I had a wedding board. Everybody

648
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: did nothing on that. Pintrean's board is the same for

649
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: me today, I am not the same human.

650
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 2: That's kind of funny.

651
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: Did you ever have a wedding picturespoort?

652
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: Not?

653
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 2: Really? No, I was that type that I don't like

654
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 2: to get my hopes up. I don't like to plan

655
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 2: for things that I don't know if are going to happen.

656
00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: Worst case scenario, girl, I see you, It's all happened.

657
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pland for it.

658
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. I was, Yeah, I

659
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 2: mean I did like a generic one, I guess, just ideas.

660
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: But you should have seen the things that were on

661
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: my pinder's board from when I was a teenager.

662
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 2: What was it.

663
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: There was all kinds of colors in different directions that

664
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: did not match each other, mind you, and just different ideas.

665
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: I really thought I wanted a barn wedding, which I love.

666
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: Barn weddings are so beautiful. I don't I've drastically changed

667
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: who I was as a teenager.

668
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 2: That is. That is very interesting. That's cool. It's cool though,

669
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: it's cool to look back on. Yeah, it's funny.

670
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: But nothing the same. Like I even thought I wanted

671
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: an engagement ring that had a sapphire diamond or green

672
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: I can't remember what the green ones are called.

673
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: Is it emerald?

674
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: Yes, Emerald. I thought I had those pinned because those

675
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: are the rings that I thought I wanted. Then I

676
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: went in person when we went rings shopping. I was like,

677
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: never mind, you didn't like it. I was like, maybe

678
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: that's like a a fun anniversary gift at a certain point. Yeah,

679
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: because I loved them, but they just didn't scream engagement

680
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: ring to me when I was actually putting them on

681
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: and stuff. But yeah, I've gone through a few lives.

682
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: You know you have well now what you have is

683
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 2: I guess it matters, But it is interesting to look

684
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 2: back and see what you used to have.

685
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: Did you think he wanted to bech wedding when you

686
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: were a kid? Do you remember that? Cause clearly now

687
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: you've always been like as an adult, but were you

688
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: as a kid.

689
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, I definitely was. Huh, But I just didn't

690
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: think a wedding was there, you know, like my mom

691
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 2: got married for the second time to my stepdad at beach.

692
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: And that introduced it.

693
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was more like recent. I guess. I

694
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: always thought like a wedding had to be in a church,

695
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: walking down the aisle, Like that's just what I pictured

696
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: a church to be, you know how a wedding, you know,

697
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 2: like even the emoji or whatever on your iPhone, it's

698
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 2: like a church. And then like the love or a heart.

699
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 2: I just always thought it had to be like this

700
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 2: formal lock down the aisle and do that. So that's

701
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 2: kind of what I always pictured. But now I'm like, no,

702
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 2: that's that's not me. To be in like a inside

703
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 2: I don't.

704
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: Know inside, not to be in a church.

705
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding, not to be inside and like quiet,

706
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 2: like I don't like where you can hear like just

707
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 2: every pin drop. Yes, that always there's something that. Yeah,

708
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 2: we're casual.

709
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you and I are both casual for sure. So

710
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: there's our entire wedding updates.

711
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 2: Awesome, we're making progress. You're making progret but.

712
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, that's literally what I'm making.

713
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 2: That's about it. Not quite progress, but plog wess oh man.

714
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: So maybe we'll both be married by the end of

715
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: this year or maybe next year.

716
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. You never know.

717
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 4: No.

718
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 2: I do kind of feel better though, because I thought

719
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: I was way behind.

720
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: No, I'm I'm with you, honestly, Like work just kind

721
00:31:59,960 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: of dominates my life a little bit, and so it's

722
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: hard to focus on other things. And I'm also trying

723
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: to have a social life and take care of my health,

724
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: and both of my dog and cat are going through stuff,

725
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: and it's just hard to make something a priority. That's

726
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: another full time job, truly it is.

727
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I mean that's wedding planners, which I thinking

728
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 2: about hiring yah planner to help me.

729
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: I see why they're important. I see why the services

730
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: are necessary. I get it all understandable. So we'll see.

731
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: But maybe maybe by fall i've done it.

732
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, tad a little not. Oh my gosh, that's crazy.

733
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: I don't know.

734
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna take a break, welcome back, talk about

735
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 1: some other things outside of wedding things. I really loved

736
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: my consistency in that in both of those breaks. Right

737
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: before I said wedding things.

738
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 2: Wedding things. Yeah, yes, I.

739
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: Really appreciated that about myself. Okay, outside of wedding planning,

740
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: what's going on in your life right now?

741
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 2: Oh? Not much. Trying to survive. Trying to survive.

742
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: You mentioned you were about to start training, Yes.

743
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 2: So yeah, I need to start doing that now that

744
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 2: the weather's getting nicer. Yeah, because I'm doing the half

745
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 2: marathon again the Saint Jude won in Nashville that I

746
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 2: do every year. It's in April, so I need to

747
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 2: start training for that society. Yes, but you did just

748
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: add something to your plate for sure, Yes I did,

749
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: which I mean, I just like, don't work out that

750
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 2: much anymore. It's bad and I love working out, So

751
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 2: that's been another thing. I'm like, Oh, I just need

752
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 2: to get back to my routine of working out. It

753
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 2: makes me feel better.

754
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: I feel that I've been trying really hard to work

755
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: out in the mornings before we come into work because

756
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: that seems like the only time in my life, and

757
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: even trying to do that, I haven't succeeded super well

758
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: these last couple months. Also, it doesn't help because in

759
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: my whole health journey, I learned that a lot of

760
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: the stuff I was doing was more harmful for my body,

761
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: like a lot of the workouts and stuff that I

762
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: was doing because because of the stage that I was

763
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: in of how all bad my body was just taking

764
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: hits left and right, that I wasn't allowing it to

765
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 1: have even recovery, if you will, because it's what you

766
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: know you grow up, if you play sports at all,

767
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: you're just trained into that mentality of you work out

768
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: every day and you'd lift weights and you'd go hard, right.

769
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: And I kind of had to really flip the script

770
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: on that, and so now it's hard for me to

771
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,479
Speaker 1: get up to go work out because I'm like, well,

772
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: technically it's not like the best thing for me.

773
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: It's a rest day and tomorrow's a rest day. Well,

774
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 2: get started.

775
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: Walking is super important and that I don't do enough

776
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: of and I've been trying to because we work setentary jobs.

777
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: Oh I know, and I don't get near enough stuffs in.

778
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: So that's kind of become a focus for me, is

779
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: trying to just walk more. Yeah, but then you learn

780
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 1: leave lose body masks. The whole thing it is.

781
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 2: I know, I feel like I am like I have

782
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 2: no muscle anymore, like none, you know, and I want

783
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: to get back to that. I just feel so weak.

784
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 2: I hate feeling weak. It is not a good feeling.

785
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 2: You're not weak, though pretty weak. Did you try and

786
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 2: lift your phone and you couldn't you would then? Okay, okay,

787
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 2: did you try and lift a box and you couldn't? Remember?

788
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 2: One time you and I we like arm wrestled in

789
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 2: the green room. It was like dirt like a bit

790
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 2: we were doing oh yeah, and I just wanted to

791
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 2: see and I think like you almost snapped my arm,

792
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 2: Like I think I gave up and I was like, no,

793
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: let's not even try it.

794
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 1: Okay, but in all fairness, that was like prime morganim era.

795
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like two years ago.

796
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: I was in full gym rat mode. So give yourself

797
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: some grapes.

798
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you.

799
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 1: There now, I don't know that I would be able

800
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: to do that.

801
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,359
Speaker 2: Okay, let's go. I'm just ready.

802
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: I'm wrestling.

803
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 2: No, I don't have any muscles. Well, I'm exciting for you.

804
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 1: This will be good.

805
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 2: Thanks. Yeah, I just need to get back and run,

806
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 2: get those endorphins going.

807
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: Because dorss make endorphins, make you happy. Why can't I

808
00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: speak words in the studio.

809
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something about these walls. They're so gray. I

810
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:07,439
Speaker 2: don't know, sad. They make you tongue tied. I don't

811
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 2: know that's true.

812
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: But okay, exciting marathon training is upcoming. You add more

813
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: to your plate, but also fun.

814
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh I do it every year. It's I have to.

815
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 2: It's just like there, but it just came up really

816
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 2: fast a year.

817
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: Do you have to start with training again even though

818
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: you've done it every year? Do you feel like you

819
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 1: have to retrain each year?

820
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, it goes away really Yeah, it's.

821
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: Like trying to speak a language.

822
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 2: If you don't practice it, it goes away, right, because you

823
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 2: don't want to get injured, Like when you just go

824
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 2: out and do no miles and then you just do thirteen,

825
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 2: you can get injured, like shin splints are like my

826
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 2: hip's always hurt and stuff. So you just don't want

827
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: to get that.

828
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: When I guess each year you're getting older and your

829
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 1: body changes as you get older.

830
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 2: Definitely, probably like twenty years ago, I would have been

831
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: fine just going on and running one. But now I'm like, oh,

832
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 2: you gotta train and you gotta strengthen those muscles that

833
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: like you're using, which I just don't do. I don't

834
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: do like the hip. You know, there's a lot of

835
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: hip muscles that are in there.

836
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,800
Speaker 1: Oh, I get all kinds of videos on social media

837
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: for hip mobility. I'm like, is that some kind of

838
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: sign do I need this or something?

839
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 4: May?

840
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, hip stability.

841
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 1: Awest, you can start working on your hip mobility.

842
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 2: I'm on a hip mobility plan.

843
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

844
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 2: That from Morgan's algorithm, you get wedding stuff and hip mobility.

845
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: And that was a hunch of the monkey.

846
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 2: It's about all this on my algorithm, right, now that's

847
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: the cutest thing in the world. Is it sad? Because

848
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 2: they were like bullying him right, Oh, it's heartbreaking, And

849
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: that's why he went to hug the little monkey.

850
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: They gave him the stuff to orangutang because he got

851
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: abandoned by his mom. They hand raised him for a

852
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: couple of weeks and then they were reintroducing him to

853
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,959
Speaker 1: the troop and that's when they start bullying him because

854
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: he's a little different. Because once an animal has been

855
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: not necessarily touched, but just interacted with humans on a

856
00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: certain level, there's something that happened and when they try

857
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: and integrate again, it either can go super smooth or

858
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: it doesn't, and it takes time. So it's super sad

859
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: to watch him get bullied.

860
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: That's I hate it. I've only really seen like the

861
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 2: pictures of him like grabbing ring. It's so cute. I

862
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: know he's not on my algorithm, no will be.

863
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, we talked about it.

864
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 2: It's listening well and like that.

865
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: The thing that I love about Punch too is that

866
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: I feel like it's bringing more awareness too, because that

867
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: enclosure that he's in is horrible. I've seen a lot

868
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,320
Speaker 1: of people talking about how like depends on the monkey,

869
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 1: and they're more known for rocky environments and terrain. But

870
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's not even a little bit of grass,

871
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: not even like some like everybody needs to touch grass.

872
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: Is it just like concrete? Yeah, that's all I've seen. Yeah,

873
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: And so that breaks my heart. So I feel like

874
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 1: it's bringing some awareness to that of just being more

875
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 1: aware of the things that you're supporting and in going to.

876
00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 2: And it's weird where is that.

877
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,320
Speaker 1: It's in Japan? And I think it's in a zoo

878
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: in Japan, But zoo's everywhere are hard, you know, like,

879
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: of course there's always some good ones, but a lot

880
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 1: of them aren't.

881
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 3: I know.

882
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 2: It makes me sad, And.

883
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 1: Then I watch Oh my gosh, I mentioned that on

884
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: part two of the podcast this week, I'm talking about

885
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: Sea Spearcy. Did you hear that us talking about that?

886
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 2: I did, Yeah, I haven't. I didn't see it, so

887
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: I want to know. It's gonna be sad.

888
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,479
Speaker 1: Don't tell you it's horrible. It's horrible, but you should

889
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: watch it. What's it on It's on Netflix. Horrible. I'm

890
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: telling you it's horrible. You will be sad. It's heartbreaking,

891
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: but it's also having the information and the knowledge to

892
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: do better, you know, and if we close our eyes,

893
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: it's only gonna get worse. So it's like one of

894
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,240
Speaker 1: those it's a catch twenty two. I hated watching it, genuinely.

895
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 1: There was times I had to look away.

896
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 2: Oh man, but it just.

897
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so then everything that falls from that just

898
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: makes you think about everything, any thing about like you know,

899
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: SeaWorld and aquariums and all kinds of things. And then

900
00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 1: again I go down another rabbit hole.

901
00:39:59,719 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 3: I know.

902
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 2: Oh see, all of that makes me sad too. They're confined, see, And.

903
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: This is also why wedding planning is hard. Is that

904
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 1: just like I'm good, I'm happy, I'm in a really

905
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 1: good relationship, I'm so in love. Life is great, but

906
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: like also life is not great. I'm like ninety percent

907
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: of the things, And so wedding planning just feels like

908
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: so right.

909
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 2: I don't know how to explain it. It just doesn't.

910
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 1: It feels detached.

911
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's just so much like heavy stuff going

912
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 2: on out there that it's hard to plan something happy

913
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 2: exactly that's happening and.

914
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: That's supposed to be a happy thing, and I don't

915
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: want it to be dooming gloom over that. Uh huh,

916
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: So I want to plan it when.

917
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 2: I'm happy, right, So, I know, but I don't.

918
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: See a foreseeable future where I'm like not dooming gloom.

919
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 2: I know who time? Oh okay, maybe uh twenty eight,

920
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 2: I'm just getting just waited a few years. No, it

921
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 2: has to get better. We must get better.

922
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I'm watching more documentaries, just trying to

923
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: be more informed, understand what's going on, so then I

924
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 1: can make more informed decisions.

925
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

926
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: Do you like seafood? No, okay, well then you'll be good.

927
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 2: Don't You'll be good, but I but that's why I don't,

928
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 2: because I don't like that they get caught and you

929
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 2: kill them.

930
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's a lot of just the commercial fishing

931
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: industry in general, and how just horrible it is in

932
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 1: a lot of ways. And we could be doing better, right,

933
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: there's always ways we could be doing better. But so, yeah,

934
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: if you eat seafood, it's hard, it's gonna be a

935
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: hard watch, for sure. But if you don't, you know,

936
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,479
Speaker 1: you're already one step closer to doing better.

937
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel bad. I feel for them. I

938
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 2: feel feel for the crabs being taken out and they're suffocating. Yeah,

939
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 2: like stuff like that.

940
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, it's a lot of that. It's more, it's

941
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 1: more information on all of it. Crabs aren't in this one,

942
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: but sharks and no, I don't want to know.

943
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 2: I already know if they did sharks the fins Yeah nope, no,

944
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 2: See that like literally breaks my heart. I want to

945
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 2: cry right now because I know it's just so messed up.

946
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 2: That's so messed up.

947
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, humanity makes me sad.

948
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: I hope you have a terrible days.

949
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: I know, I know.

950
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 2: So anyways, anyway, come Hell's happy anything.

951
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: Happy weddings for thirty minutes. I think we're good, okay,

952
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: but we you know, all over the place we are,

953
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: it's hard, Like genuinely, I'm just in a place where

954
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: it's hard to feel happy all the time. And I'm

955
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 1: somebody who's genuinely an optimistic person, and I see the

956
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,319
Speaker 1: world in a way that we should be living in it.

957
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 1: But it's hard to not feel the heaviness of what's

958
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: just going on out there in general anywhere with everything.

959
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, right now on my TikTok is like

960
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 2: nineties nostalgia and stuff you know, and I'm like, oh

961
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 2: my gosh, I'm gonna go back.

962
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 1: To that simpler time.

963
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 2: Yes, like just before phones and all that, like when

964
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: it was aim. I just remember like getting on my

965
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: computer and then you'd put like the away thing on.

966
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 2: I'm like eating dinner br B and I'd like make

967
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 2: it different colors and like you didn't talk on there

968
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 2: until you came back to the computer. Like just simple

969
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 2: like that.

970
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 3: Hm.

971
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 2: If people had so much fun there were no phones

972
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 2: like out yeah, just like living in the moment.

973
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: Out in nature all the time and you're living your life.

974
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:10,919
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, simpler times, that is. I think that's

975
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: a big part of also why people are craving nostalgia

976
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: right now, truly, is it goes it takes us back

977
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: to a different time at a happier time. Also, you

978
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: know you were kids. If you were a kid in

979
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: the nineties, then you're thinking back to reverting as a

980
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 1: kid and you just didn't have the same you didn't

981
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: have the knowledge that you have now.

982
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 2: That's true. More innocent, just like ignorance is bliss, just

983
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,320
Speaker 2: really and maybe it was happening, but I don't remember

984
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: it being this crazy out there. Yeah.

985
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: I mean there's always things happening, right, There was always bad.

986
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 1: There's always been bad in the world, but we are

987
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 1: more highlighted now because of our ability to have things

988
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: at our fingertips at all times.

989
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 2: And it being recorded and then we see it.

990
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, so there's it's a blessing and a curse. Right,

991
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 1: It's it's knowledge and we have more information now than

992
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: we've ever had before, and we get to have that

993
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: knowledge and we get to do something with it. But

994
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: on that flip side, it's also understanding that we now

995
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 1: have that knowledge that isn't good and there isn't things.

996
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 1: There's certain things you can't do anything about, right, and

997
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:12,919
Speaker 1: you only have control over so much.

998
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 2: But which is a problem for me, Yeah, because I

999
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 2: want to like, I want to help everything same and

1000
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 2: I want to just be like, make it stop. But

1001
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 2: we can't. We can act like everybody did. If we

1002
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 2: all did, then we can make a difference.

1003
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 1: We can all you know, true one collective. Yes, there

1004
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: is a belief that like everybody's consciously awakening together right

1005
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: now and it's going to be a moment in time

1006
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 1: that something happens. I don't know that that's true, but

1007
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people talking about.

1008
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 2: That, hopefully in a good way.

1009
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a good way. I think I know, but

1010
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. There's always also that saying where it's

1011
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: bad things have to happen for good things to come

1012
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: out into the open or whatever whatever that saying is.

1013
00:44:55,360 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 1: So who knows. Anyways, Okay, that's not happy. Note it

1014
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: hasn't been happy in your life right now?

1015
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 2: And on a good water something happy?

1016
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: What is something happy that happened in your life in

1017
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 1: the past week.

1018
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 2: I don't know. Something I know, something anything, anything? I

1019
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 2: had nothing happy.

1020
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: You're not helping us to end on a good note anything, I.

1021
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 2: Don't I haven't felt good this week. It's been a

1022
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: rough week, okay, allergies or something.

1023
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: What about going back to the month in the past month.

1024
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: We're ending February, so this is a great place. I'll

1025
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: share that we went and I talked with Mike d

1026
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: about it, but it's still like, oh gosh, just wrings

1027
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,240
Speaker 1: in my head all the time. Is visiting the residence

1028
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: at Apes Garden, which is a senior living facility, and

1029
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: we gave him Valentines.

1030
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:45,240
Speaker 2: That's so cute.

1031
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: It was so special, and he keeps propelling me forward.

1032
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 2: Honestly, I love that.

1033
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, so maybe that's a good thing that people can take.

1034
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: If you need some hope in your life, or you're

1035
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: feeling a little doom and gloom like Abby and I,

1036
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: or things are just a little rough and life is

1037
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 1: hectic and whatnot, then volunteer. Volunteering always makes me feel

1038
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: back to earth, something about just being with people and

1039
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: doing something that makes all of us feel good and

1040
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 1: benefit from. Is good for your body, good for your mind.

1041
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I love that so much. Old people are

1042
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: so cute and sweet. Before I was before. Yeah, sorry,

1043
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that wasn't very nice. No, But before I

1044
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 2: like worked in radio, I I did my internship at

1045
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 2: a health and wellness center and it was a cardio

1046
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 2: pulmonary rehab place, yeah center, And they were like exercising

1047
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 2: under supervision, like we would take their blood pressure and

1048
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: stuff during it. And that was like my all time.

1049
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 2: It was the greatest thing ever because they like treated

1050
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 2: me like their granddaughter, and I was like, they were

1051
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 2: like my grandparents. They were so sweet. I just felt

1052
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 2: like part of their lives and I was like, I

1053
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 2: love this. When they like graduated from the program like

1054
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 2: I wanted to, it was the saddest thing ever, Like

1055
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 2: I was happy for them that they were like they

1056
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: made it through and were able to be on their own.

1057
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 2: But I was like, oh my gosh, I'm going to

1058
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 2: miss you Bill, not Bail.

1059
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: I know they're so sweet.

1060
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 2: I know I didn't mean to say like old people,

1061
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 2: but it's people are sweet. It's all right.

1062
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,399
Speaker 1: I was guilty of it too before I started working

1063
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: with that community. But the it's just rewarding. They have

1064
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: so many stories to tell and they.

1065
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 2: Have a lot of love to give. But that was

1066
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 2: the most fulfilling thing I had ever done.

1067
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: And maybe that's what we all need, is more fulfilling

1068
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: things in our life we do, So maybe that can

1069
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: you know, I'm I know that I'm holding onto that

1070
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: and hopes to do some more volunteer stuff to continue

1071
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: that because it's the only time where I truly feel

1072
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: like a little weight lifted. I'm just Okay, this is

1073
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,240
Speaker 1: where I'm supposed to be, this is what I'm supposed

1074
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: to be doing. Yeah, move in this.

1075
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 2: Direction, and you know they're going to remember that forever.

1076
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: Like that's so cute to like come in and just

1077
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,399
Speaker 2: give them like something small, but it means so much. Yeah,

1078
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 2: especially for those they don't have family that visit or anything,

1079
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 2: you know.

1080
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:58,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, and see that makes me down in a sad place,

1081
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna go there. So I need a

1082
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:02,439
Speaker 1: good thing from you for this past month.

1083
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 2: No, I don't know. It was Valentine's Day. Yes, he

1084
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 2: brought me flowers, wrote a super cute card. He's really

1085
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 2: good at writing, and it was just super sweet.

1086
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 1: Did you feel loved this month?

1087
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 2: Felt loved? I did?

1088
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Speaker 1: Did you feel supported this month?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Did you have any good meals this month?

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00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 2: Sh sure? Yeah?

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00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: Eat any good food?

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00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 2: Yeah? We always have good food. Oh. I tried a

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00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 2: foe for the first time. Okay, did you get it?

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00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 2: Fu pho?

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00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: Yeah it was fu.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's like my new favorite thing. Really, it's really good.

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Speaker 1: You're not super adventurous of food, so I'm impressed.

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Ry butts and salads yep, So fun is an adventurous

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Speaker 1: take for you.

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Speaker 2: Good. Yeah, it's weird they put so much stuff in

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00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 2: it because I'm very picky. Yeah, like I would rather

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00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 2: just have ramen noodles, like nothing.

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00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 1: Is straight up noodle.

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00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but this they put like an egg and like

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00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 2: all this and he liked it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we found good.

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00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 2: We did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're getting not here before I go back down

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00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 1: a rabbit hole and Abby find me and keeps digging

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Speaker 1: holes for.

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Speaker 2: Me to go down. No, everything's great. I can't see outside,

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Speaker 2: but I'm sure it's sunny.

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00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 1: It's all gray in here in the studio running That

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Speaker 1: does not help anybody. Why didn't they make these studios

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00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: of the walls blue or purple or red or right?

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00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 2: What's a pleasant color? Because it could be anything but gray.

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00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: You know what's funny is my favorite color has kind

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Speaker 1: of become brown. And it's funny because that's a neutral,

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00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 1: and that's like a kind of a sad color. Every

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00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 1: associate's brown with like mud or poop.

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00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: No, I love brown. I was wearing all brown yesterday.

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00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 1: I loved your brown out thick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 2: See, we did it.

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00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: We found some good things. Yay, all right, Habby.

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Speaker 2: What's your Instagram? Abby Lee Anderson, and I'm at web

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Speaker 2: girl Morgan.

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Speaker 1: You can follow the show at Bobby Bone Show. Thanks

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00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: for being here on our to talk.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, don't worry, be happy everybody.

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Speaker 4: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

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Speaker 4: for listening. Be sure to check out the other two

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Speaker 4: parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all social

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Speaker 4: platforms Bobby Bob.

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Speaker 2: Show and follow ed web girl Morgan

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Speaker 4: To submit your listener questions for next week's episode.