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All thanks to Live Nation 11 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: The City, then New Straight Jason. Let's hear that sounds 12 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: Hey girl, I like them jeans. Let me get up 13 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: in them. Yeah. I would feel fairly confident that you 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: were not, in fact hitting on a woman if you 15 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: were to deliver the message in that way. We Fread 16 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: Show is on. It's Thursday, January fifteenth. Spread Show is here. 17 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: Hi Kaitlin, Hello, good morning, Paulina, Hey morning. Oh hey, 18 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: hi ke King, good morning. Because Shelby Shelley is here. No, 19 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: I have a little some extra there. I was like, 20 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: oh wow, yeah, a good morning to me too. 21 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: Well, thank you to you and only you. 22 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: I appreciate that. She'll be Shelly Oney one hundred bucks 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: in the showdown. If you could stab her fifteen game 24 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: win streak, hand her loss number seventy seven, then that 25 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: money is yours. Next hour, we'll get you headlines, the 26 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: biggest stories of the day, the entertainer of port and blogs. 27 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: Those are coming up. The throwback thrown out name that 28 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: tune battle is on the way, waiting by the phone. 29 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll get to that. We're 30 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: paying bills this morning. Thirteen chances to win one thousand 31 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: bucks in. All you have to do is listen to 32 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: us for the keyword every single hour. 33 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 3: What are you working off with a ports k straight 34 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,199 Speaker 3: from prison to the masked singer? 35 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 2: Would you do that? I gotta tell you who it 36 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: did it? 37 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: Well, you might need to and pay some legal bills. 38 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: Well that's a good point. I mean, the these lawyers 39 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: don't pay for themselves. This guy, what's his name, Alan 40 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: Jackson didn't pay for himself. 41 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 2: Gosh, I'm just like miss it's crazy. 42 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 3: I can't stop thinking about him after he pulled out 43 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 3: of that case. 44 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 2: The riiners, Nick Reiner. 45 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: I can't either make because when he sings Chattahoochee for me, like, 46 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: it doesn't get any better than that. Alan Jackson. By 47 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: the way, the the Karen Reid defense attorney. If if 48 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: follow the whole Karen Reid thing, which if you didn't, 49 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm sure in the next year there'll be Netflix docuseriies, 50 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: Netflix animated animated depiction. There'll be like an animated series 51 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: of it. I'm sure there's gonna be a major motion 52 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: picture coming out. You know, she's writing a book. She 53 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: was just on Good Morning America since she has no money, 54 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 1: because which I mean I would think that now is 55 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: when you're going to catch and then she can. Also, 56 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: she's being sued by by the dude's family too, so 57 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: I think if she loses that, then any money she 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: makes off all this other stuff that she's gonna do, 59 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 1: you know the I'm sure she'll do a Vegas residency. 60 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, whatever, what do all the famous 61 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: people do when they need money? That all the things 62 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: I mentioned. 63 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're only fans. 64 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: Karen read only fans. 65 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 2: So she was just on GMA. 66 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, she was on GMA. I saw the clip like yesterday, 67 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:54,839 Speaker 1: the day before. 68 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, sure that must be why she's ghosting Jason 69 00:02:57,680 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: and I that was your birthday. 70 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: Guess, Karen Reid. 71 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 2: Yes, we had Karen and can read. I was so excited. 72 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: Yes, you gampy Karen read. 73 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 2: Yes, she's gallping around GMA and all. Yeah, places upset. 74 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: You were upset. 75 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 2: We were we were gonna have her before all of that. 76 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: But you booked Karen Read for my birthday and acut 77 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: an acquitted murderer. Yes, yes, Karen read on this program. 78 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that must be why she was like so responsive 79 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 3: at first, and now she's ghosting. 80 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 2: She said, the bigger platform right. 81 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: Right, She's like, Yep, I am truly moved. I truly, 82 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: I am truly touched. Wow. Wow, I would have come 83 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: to work for that. 84 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 3: Oh really, I was wondering if I should have told you, 85 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: Like maybe he wouldn't want to leave early if he knew. 86 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean so, if you're new to the show, 87 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: my birthday, Kei and I have the same birthday, November 88 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: twenty eighth, and so we you know, exchange birthday residence. 89 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: And you had said that one of my gifts was 90 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,839 Speaker 1: that you had booked you know, the guest of all 91 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: guests for our show. And if you're not familiar. I 92 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: don't know how you can't be. But you know the 93 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: Karen Reid trial last year, she and I want to 94 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: make sure I get everyone's names in here because I 95 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: don't want to be inappropriate. Well, I mean, I can't 96 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: help it. But yeah, so Karen Reid was accused of 97 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: killing her police officer boyfriend, and I want to for 98 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: some reason, his name is escaping me, which I don't 99 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: mean for it to. John O'Keefe. Is his name, John O'Keefe. 100 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: And there was all this evidence, and I don't know 101 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: how you could have missed this, But the case lasted, 102 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: or the trial rather lasted a few weeks, and it 103 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: was on TV everywhere. And the whole thing was she 104 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: was acquitted of it. The story was that some a 105 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: very cold winter, blizzardy night in Boston, she apparently allegedly 106 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 1: let ran into him, or like ran him over with 107 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: the back of her car. She says she didn't do that. 108 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: But there's all this other controversy about the house they 109 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: were at and the people who were inside the house 110 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: and their relationship to him, and how much they didn't 111 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: like her and how they all turned against her. And 112 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: you know, I will say this if you if your 113 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: house is the scene of a murder scene or you 114 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: know where I live a murder allegedly occurred. What I'm 115 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: not gonna do if I didn't do anything is sell 116 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: the house like the next day, like bulldoze everything all around. 117 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,039 Speaker 1: I mean, there was you gotta go read up on 118 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 1: this like it really there are these twists and turns, 119 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: and I don't think she did it. I really don't. 120 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: And she was well, she was acquitted of it, but 121 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: that doesn't necessarily mean she didn't do it. But the 122 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: jury says she didn't do it. And now I agree 123 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: with you, and now her family or his family rather, 124 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: I'm having a hard time with details this morning, John O. 125 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: I'm just so I'm just flabbergases. 126 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: Really, I'm so sad. I would have loved that reaction. 127 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: Like someone all over my words. I can't even say 128 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: a sentence like I I hate, I'm so sorry. So 129 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,679 Speaker 1: she was acquitted, she's being sued by his family civilly, 130 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: which may have something to do with it. You know 131 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: that her attorney's name is Alan Jackson. He made news. 132 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: He's like the Johnny Cochrane of this era. And if 133 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: you don't know who that is, go look that up 134 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: if you want. But anyway, so for my birthday, you 135 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: had said you booked a special guest that I wouldn't believe, yeah, 136 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: and that she would be on the show on December seventeenth. 137 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, well we wound up going 138 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: on vacation a day or two early for Christmas, and 139 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: so you're like, well, we'll just rebook the person. It's fine, 140 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: And she has since ghosted us. And I just now 141 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: in the last five minutes learned, as you said it 142 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: that Karen Reid, it was my birthday present. She was 143 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: your birthday present. 144 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. She my girl still has an AOL. She has 145 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 3: like no social media, so she was hard to track down. 146 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 3: But I'm really bummed that she stopped answering us. But 147 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 3: now I see why she has better options. 148 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,119 Speaker 2: Stars. Are you gonna tell me about the other one? 149 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: The other one? 150 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 2: Yeah? What are you doing? I don't know what she's 151 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 2: doing one right? Yeah, please tell him about the other one. 152 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 4: We had Janet Jackson, you know, we had her there too, 153 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 4: ready to talk to you. 154 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 3: Man. 155 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, you know what. 156 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: I don't know how old Janet is, but I saw 157 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: her in concent last year and I'd get with old Jane, 158 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: and I don't care I get with young Janet. I'd 159 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: get with old jan and I get with Janet. 160 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 3: I saw you in concert because you were across the 161 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 3: stadium from me, and there was one light that was 162 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 3: on you the entire time you were dancing your little body. 163 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: Ye you took a picture of That was so random. 164 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: It was like, for whatever reason, there was one spotlight. 165 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 2: On me, just on this tall man at Janna Jackson. 166 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: Nineteen thousand people in this arena, and there's a spotlight 167 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: on me for some reason, so you could showcase my 168 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: six to five terrible white people dance moves. 169 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: You were really getting into it. 170 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: But I have to tell you, a very nice, lovely person. 171 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: But I went with someone who was I don't know, 172 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: early to mid thirties, younger than me, but something like that. 173 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: She didn't know any of the songs, nothing, And I 174 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: have to tell you I judged her for that. You 175 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: don't know any Janet songs? Nothing? 176 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 2: Right, Come on, now, she's missing. I liked her. 177 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: I don't know that's why, but I'm sure there are 178 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: lots of reasons why she's well. She's by the way, 179 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: we just talked about a murderer, alleged murderer. So no, 180 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: she's not missing. She's very much alive, okay, And she's 181 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: alive and doing well, I presume. 182 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 3: But bring these women around, I feel like it's my childhood. 183 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 3: And then I get attached and they leave. 184 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: Oh well, you know, sometimes I mess it up. Sometimes 185 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: they mess it up, you know. So I'm not sure, 186 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: but that didn't really bode well for her that she 187 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,119 Speaker 1: didn't know any Janet Jackson songs. I feel like Janet 188 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: Jackson is an artist that transcends all generations. 189 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: I agree, that's us for sure. 190 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: And it's my responsibility and my sisters, for example, to 191 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: teach Polly in that generation, you know, of the five 192 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: and the three year olds may have my nieces, it's 193 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: it's my responsibility to make sure they know that music 194 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: like it's you just gotta do it. It's it's one 195 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: of those things they gotta know. Yep. And no one 196 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: loved her enough to teach her, I guess, And that's sad. 197 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: And I didn't love her, but I tried to teach her, 198 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: and I don't know that it worked that well because 199 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 1: now she's nowhere to be found. All right, let's get 200 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: the headlines in just a second. I'm blown away. I'm 201 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: really I'm blown away by the thoughtfulness. Really, it's one 202 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: of the nicest things anyone's. 203 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 3: Ever done for me, I know, but I really wish 204 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 3: it worked out and then your cake. You know, this 205 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 3: year we didn't have good birthday luck, you know, fiasco. 206 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: I mean, has Jason Brown the private investigator slash doesn't 207 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 1: take no for an answer? Guy's he gotten on the 208 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: case with this? Like is he really? Yeah? 209 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:27,239 Speaker 3: We're She's like fully like, onto bigger and better things. 210 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: What is bigger and better than a radio program? Well, 211 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: but she already did it, so now she should have 212 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: some time. 213 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 3: Okay, So I mean we can circle back for like 214 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 3: the fourth or fifth time for sure. I called her 215 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 3: her cell phone and left a really long voicemail like 216 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 3: pleading with her because I too want this, and. 217 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: She didn't call me back. 218 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: Karen Reid, I have Do you have Karen Read's number? 219 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? 220 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: Wow, wow, wow wow. All right, I'm sorry, thank you, 221 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your thoughtfulness. That really touches 222 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: me in a special place. It does. Headlines biggest stories 223 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: of the day, next Fread show Friend's biggest stories of 224 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 1: the day. All right, so did your Verizon phone at 225 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: work yesterday because a lot of people were complaining about it, 226 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: and they're apologizing now for a widespread outage. Over one 227 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: point five million customers of Horizon when without service yesterday. 228 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: The widespread telecommunications outage lasted for several hours and was 229 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: reported in cities across the country. Service came back late 230 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: last night, and Verizon apologized for the inconvenience and said 231 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: that they did not see any indication of a cyber attack. 232 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: The company also said it plans to provide account credits 233 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: to customers affected by the outage and apologize in a statement, explaining, 234 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: today we let many of our customers down and for 235 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: that were truly sorry. They expect more from us. The 236 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: outage affected nine one one systems as well in several cities, 237 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: which is kind of scary. Users who are still experiencing 238 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: issues should restart the devices to reconnect to the network. 239 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: There were some astronauts in space, you guys. One of 240 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: them got sick and they had to bring them back 241 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: to Earth. An ailing astro I returned to Earth with 242 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: more than three others yesterday, ending their space station mission 243 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 1: more than a month early. In NASA's first ever medical evacuation. 244 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 1: SpaceX guided the capsule to a middle of the night 245 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: splashdown in the Pacific near San Diego, less than eleven 246 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: hours after the astronauts egged at the International Space Station. 247 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: Officials have refused to identify the astronaut who developed the 248 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: health problem last week or explain what happened, citing medical privacy. 249 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 1: While the astronaut was stable in orbit, NASA one of 250 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 1: them back on Earth as soon as possible to receive 251 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: proper care and diagnostic testing. The entry and splashdown required 252 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: no special changes or accommodations, according to officials, and the 253 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: recovery ship had its usual allotment of medical experts on board. 254 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: That's bad. Yeah, it had to be really bad. If 255 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: you're in first time ever that you're in space. They're like, Noah, 256 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 1: call the uber, get them back. 257 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 4: I love how they just get them back so quickly. 258 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 4: When Butch and Sunny are up there for you know, 259 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 4: all that time. 260 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: Now, that is a very good question. Yeah, why was 261 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: that of the case. Jim Sunny were up there for 262 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: what like seven years? Right, if you remember they were 263 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: supposed to be up there for. What was it? Let 264 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: me get the stats on that. It was like a 265 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 1: couple of months. They were up there for over a 266 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: year because they couldn't get him back. But then these 267 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: they'd go right up there and get them. 268 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 2: I thought they were supposed to go for like nine days. 269 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: Let me see here, nine month mission aboard International Space 270 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: Station after after their initial eight day trip was extended 271 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,839 Speaker 1: due to technical issues. You think you're going to space 272 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:31,479 Speaker 1: for eight days and nine months later you coming back, right. 273 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 2: But this person was sick and they just went on 274 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 2: up there. 275 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, Okay, Yeah, something's up with them. If 276 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 1: you want to know the way that you go straight 277 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:42,599 Speaker 1: to hell, let me tell you right now, because I 278 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: can tell you if you're curious about how to get 279 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 1: to one way ticket to help. Burglars reportedly targeted Greg 280 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: Biffles North Carolina estate less than a month after the 281 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 1: NASCAR veteran died with his family in a plane crash. 282 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 1: The Ideal County Sheriff's Office says the deputies were called 283 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: to the lake Driver's property about six pm last Thursday, 284 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: where a backpack, firearms, memorabilia, and about thirty grand in 285 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: cash were reported missing. No suspects have been publicly identified, 286 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: and the investigations ongoing. Forceable entry into the home was reported, 287 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: and authorities believe the suspect or suspects accessed a safe. 288 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: No one else was at home at the time, so 289 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: he sadly and tragically loses his life in a plane 290 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: crish with his family and two others and you go 291 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 1: rob his house. 292 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 2: Oh my, yeah, that's low, that's dirty. 293 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: That's one way tickets kind of stuff. Right now, if 294 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: you want to go to the twenty twenty eight LA Olympics, 295 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: registration is now open. It's your chance to begin the 296 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: process of getting tickets to the Los Angeles Olympic Games. 297 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: It's the first chance to secure time slots to purchase 298 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 1: tickets for all events. The first episode registered tickets dot 299 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: LA twenty eight dot org. After getting registered, participants will 300 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: be entered into a drawing and then people will be 301 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 1: randomly assigned time slots to buy tickets during future ticket drops. 302 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: The twenty eight LA Olympics opening ceremony is July fourteenth 303 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: of twenty twenty eight, with competition wrapping up on July 304 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: thirtieth of twenty twenty eight. If any of the new Olympics, 305 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 1: any of you been to the Olympics before? 306 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 3: No, But why do I feel like Pauline is going 307 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 3: to try to like pull up the day of and 308 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 3: like get some sort of like VIP pass and maybe 309 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:17,959 Speaker 3: might be able to do it. 310 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 2: Like I feel like you're going to try to like 311 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 2: go to the Olympics. Well, I'm actually trying to. We'll see, 312 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: I bet do the super Bowl. I'm trying to pull 313 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 2: up and see what I can do with that. 314 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 1: Okay, pull up and see what I can. 315 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 2: Do with cast. 316 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 5: So the you know, bad Buddies performing, right, So I 317 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 5: guess there was like a casting. 318 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 2: No, nobody's talking about that. Everyone's super happy with that. 319 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope no, like not one person doesn't want 320 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 1: him to do it. 321 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, no, it's not polarizing at all. So basically 322 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 5: he I guess had like an audition thing. I don't 323 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 5: fo's for dancers or for people like near his like 324 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 5: in the front somewhere. 325 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 2: For the camera. 326 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 5: You had to be like a certain high a certain way. 327 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 5: Well I still apply butayh well, I think it's for 328 00:14:58,040 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 5: the camera, and I think it was for the dancing part. 329 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 5: I don't know that was really the weight part of 330 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 5: it that up, but it. 331 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 2: Was a certain how you had to be like five 332 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 2: eight or something. 333 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: I don't know why. 334 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 2: Again, I don't know. I believe there about five feet okay. 335 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I still auditioned, like I want to be 336 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 5: that d Lulu where I believe I can get a 337 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 5: job that I don't qualify for. So I was like, 338 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 5: and but the thing is, it's like two weeks. You 339 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 5: got to be available at the end of them. Like 340 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 5: we did that here. We all got a job we 341 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 5: didn't qualify for here, So you know that's the time 342 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 5: of my book. Yeah, so we do it again, Yeah, 343 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 5: do it again. But I might need two weeks off 344 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 5: of work, Fred, So I'll put the PTO. 345 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: I need two weeks off of work. 346 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: I don't I guess one Super Bowl before I guess if. 347 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 5: You're in that that we're so you gotta you gotta 348 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 5: be there for two weeks. So I'll be moving to 349 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 5: the Bay for two weeks. I'm not five eight, but 350 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 5: I'm gonna go. 351 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 3: I just see this little Paulina like not getting the moves, 352 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 3: and yeah, I need. 353 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: To be there that bad Yeah, and I. 354 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 5: Will apply for a job that I don't qualify for. 355 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: Now is the restraining order lifted? Because many years ago 356 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: Bad Bunny was in Chicago for the NBA All Star Game, 357 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: and you showed you I had a press pass using 358 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 1: our show name, yes, and then dressed as a carrot. 359 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: Wasn't it correct? And you dressed as a carrot? And 360 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: then you went to the like the media day to 361 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: meet him and you were escorted out. So do you 362 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: think that has something to do with it? The fact 363 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: that maybe you're on some kind of a list somewhere. 364 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure I'm on that. You know, the face 365 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 5: recognition thing too at a concert, I'm sure I'm on that. 366 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 5: Lit I'm on every list you can think of. Somehow 367 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 5: make my way in that. Caitlin says, it always works out. 368 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 5: I went to Puerto Rico, had no problems there. Can't 369 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 5: promise here though, can't promise I'm back on North American you. 370 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 2: Know, soil. I don't know if they got me on 371 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 2: a list, but I'm still applying for this. 372 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: I still feel bad about how you were at the 373 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 1: Bad Bunny concert in Puerto Rico and I was there 374 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: in the casita with John Hamm and I was waving 375 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: at you and I was like, hey, but I couldn't 376 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: get you in. There was something about that list. Again, 377 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: they were like, well, she and she's not five eight. 378 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: They said you have to be five eight to get in. Yeah, 379 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 1: so unfortunately you weren't able to attend. But John Hamm 380 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 1: and I got we we we really had a great time. 381 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: It was in the meme. It was him and John Hamm. 382 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: Exactly in the club. If you look carefully in the 383 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 1: background when he moves his head, I move mine too. Friends. Yeah, 384 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:12,679 Speaker 1: it was a great show. And Venito is what a 385 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: generous guy, you know, really just a kind gentleman. And 386 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: I was telling him the whole time, I have this friend, 387 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 1: but she's only five feet tall, so I don't know. 388 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 1: And he said, no, okay, she can't come back. Sorry, 389 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: And it was to really say he said, uh, Lociento's 390 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 1: what he said to me, actually, And so yeah, anyway, 391 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: it turns out that there's the latest story about the 392 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: nastiest thing in your life that you didn't think about. 393 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: I feel like every week we do a story about 394 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,439 Speaker 1: something else that's really filthy, you know, like it was 395 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: your phone, and then it was your air pods. Probably 396 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 1: nobody's thinking about that. Your air pods, I guess, are 397 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: nastier than your phone. Because I know, Caitlin, you clean 398 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: everything you buy those little white pies and you do it, 399 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: but like I don't think most people do. I can 400 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: honestly tell you I've never cleaned my AirPods before. Never, 401 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: I've never thought to do that. But now it's the 402 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 1: office water cooler. Aientists are warning that your office water 403 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 1: cooler might not be as refreshing as you think if 404 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: you have About seventy studies found that water dispensers and coolers, 405 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: the once many people assume are cleaner than tapwater, often 406 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: harbor more bacteria then the water coming straight from the tap. 407 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: Researcher stated slimy biofilms can form on internal tubing, spickets 408 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:24,719 Speaker 1: and filters, letting bacteria thrive even after cleaning, and some 409 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: samples around the world a large majority of dispenser water 410 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 1: exceeded recommended safety limits. Experts caution that, especially for people 411 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 1: with weaken immune systems, this could pose a health at risk, 412 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,920 Speaker 1: and they suggest that regular thorough cleaning and careful maintenance 413 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:41,120 Speaker 1: of coolers if you're relying on them for your daily drink, 414 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 1: is very important. Something else I didn't realize is, like, 415 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: you know, people use humidifiers when they're sick or otherwise, 416 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,959 Speaker 1: but I guess if you don't clean those or if 417 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 1: you put just regular water in them, then you're breathing 418 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: in just kind of regular water, nasty stuff. I guess, 419 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: so those aren't Those aren't great either, apparently. 420 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,920 Speaker 2: Yikes, Like what can I do? 421 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 3: I feel like, do nothing, eat nothing, drink nothing, watch 422 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 3: that kind of. 423 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: What I mean. I mean like every day we're supposed 424 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,199 Speaker 1: to look out for something else that people have been 425 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: using for the last, you know, seven hundred years. They've 426 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 1: had water coolers for seven hundred years, right, And so 427 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, like like we have a 428 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 1: and people are I can't you know, I can't do this, 429 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: I can't do that. I won't ingest this, I won't 430 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: ingest that. But yet it turns out that a lot 431 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: of the things that we're doing is the alternative. They're 432 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:28,159 Speaker 1: not good either. So I feel like we're all just 433 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: sort of rolling the dice. Each day we get out 434 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 1: of bed and just walk outside the house. You know, 435 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: you don't want to drink out of plastic water bottles, 436 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 1: But then you know, a waymo comes by and run 437 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: you over because there's no driver, you know. And it's 438 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: like I did all this and I went and bought 439 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 1: all these special kind of water this and then and 440 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: then the waimo came around ran me over because there 441 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: was no driver didn't see me. And then what was 442 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:47,640 Speaker 1: all that for? 443 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 2: You really shouldn't drink out of plastic water bottles. 444 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: Well, but it turns out you shouldn't drink out of 445 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 1: the thing that has the water in it to pour 446 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: into the bottle I'm supposed to be drinking out of. 447 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: You're not supposed to rink out of that now either. 448 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: Then okay, but I you know, I think there's a 449 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 1: brief he's saying this, and then there's another thing, and 450 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,360 Speaker 1: Karen Reid was gonna be on the show, you guys. Sorry, 451 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 1: unfreaking believable. And finally, a traveler at Pittsburgh Airport got 452 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 1: more than he bargained for it baggage claim because his 453 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 1: baggage didn't show up as a bag. It showed up 454 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: as each item of clothing from his bag, one by one. 455 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,119 Speaker 1: And I guess there's video of this, but first it 456 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: was a sock, and then another sock, and then a 457 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: piece of underwear, and then another piece of underwear, and 458 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: then another sock, and before long his bag showed up 459 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 1: in a video that's now gone viral. He and his 460 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 1: sister watching disbelief as the first pair of socks and 461 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: underwear roll pass on the carousel, then another sock and 462 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 1: another pair of briefs, before his suitcase finally arrives empty 463 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 1: of undergarments. There's no official explanation that baggage handlers and 464 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: frequent travelers say the most likely because is that the 465 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: bag ripped open during handling and his stuff came out 466 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 1: one by one. 467 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 2: Oh, talk about germs. I'd burn all that stuff. 468 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: Like one of your thongs comes down, the amazing Kiki's 469 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 1: only thong comes down. 470 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 4: I would have just walked away thongless, like I would 471 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 4: have just left it there. 472 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you don't claim it at that point. No, 473 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 1: I'm not picking up my thong and being like, oh, 474 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 1: this is definitely mine. Like, no, not doing that. It's 475 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 1: like get to know your customer's day. It's National bagel 476 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: Day today and National hat Day today as well. Karen's 477 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 1: entertainment report is on The Fresh Show. 478 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 3: Lee and Justin Bieber have sent a cease and assist 479 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:31,680 Speaker 3: letter to. 480 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 2: That TikToker that we talked about this. 481 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 3: Week, named Julie, demanding she take down videos claiming their 482 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 3: marriage is abusive and tied to addiction. I think that 483 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 3: was the one that people thought Hailey reposted. The couple's 484 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 3: lawyers says the clips are outrageous, false, defamatory and wants 485 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,360 Speaker 3: the videos removed and the content creator who stopped making 486 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,360 Speaker 3: those claims online. The TikToker, however, says her post were 487 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 3: opinion based commentary about relationship dynamics and that she has 488 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 3: a right to share her views. She also says she's 489 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 3: even got death threats amid the drama, and accuses the 490 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 3: Beavers of trying to silence her free speech. I don't 491 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 3: think this is the first time that Haley's tried to 492 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 3: go after people legally online for what they've said about her. 493 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 2: So we'll see how this turns out. Because it's interesting. 494 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 3: That's like, mostly what TikTok is is people opinions sharing 495 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 3: their opinions, right. 496 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 5: So I watched her videos. It actually came up on 497 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 5: my things, did it? So I kind of dedobe a 498 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 5: little bit. But I don't know, I mean, like, do 499 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 5: I love what she said like no other woman and 500 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 5: her relationship and she's a mom, you know, so I'm like, 501 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 5: that's kind of like not great, but it was also 502 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 5: so opinion needed, and I just feel like she's being silent. 503 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 4: Is she staying in it as a fact though, Like 504 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 4: is she saying this is facts. 505 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: Or she just no right? 506 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 2: I think she just kind of points out past things 507 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 2: what she observes. 508 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 3: But I guess I would have to like re listen 509 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 3: to the wording to see if she says it, because 510 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 3: that will probably be the deciding factor. 511 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 2: What I do know is that did. 512 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 3: You guys see that video of Justin getting out of 513 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 3: the car ahead of Haley and running in with his 514 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 3: friends and left her sitting in the back of the car, 515 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 3: Because that's not opinion based. 516 00:22:57,080 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: That just looked crazy. I don't think that. Several videos 517 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 2: he leaves her to walk by herself, I don't, right. 518 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 5: And she's like kateboards away at one point too, Like 519 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 5: another video. 520 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 2: Literally would just get out on the other side, Hey, 521 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 2: come on now. 522 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 3: Right, it's a wild look to leave your wife just 523 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 3: like walking there on her heels and you're like running in. 524 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,880 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's crazy, but so crazy. Moving on, 525 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 3: I don't often do masked singer updates. 526 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but it was a. 527 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,679 Speaker 1: Pretty big because I'm always wondering. 528 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 3: I know, well, you don't have to wonder any longer. 529 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 3: The mystery duo, the Croissance, I know you were texting 530 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 3: me trying to figure. 531 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 2: Out who they were. 532 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: They were I was wondering. 533 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 2: I wish then that would make sense why she was 534 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: ghosting me. 535 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 3: But they were unmasked the Croissans early in the episode as. 536 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 2: Todd and Julie christly straight from prison. 537 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 3: Their clues were about spending time apart being canceled. That 538 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 3: pointed straight to the straight to their real life legal saga. 539 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: Later in the show, lay who I don't I don't know? 540 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 3: That was a character's name. That was Tiffany Haddish, So 541 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 3: that's who she was on astas and was joking and laughing. 542 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 3: Of course, the late grateful dead legend Bob Weir will 543 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 3: be remembered in his hometown of San Francisco this weekend 544 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 3: with a special commemoration of his life and career. Homecoming 545 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 3: celebrating the life of Bobby Weir will be a free 546 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 3: public gathering moving through SF this Saturday and remember and 547 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 3: to remember Bob. They write that Bob's music, spirit, and 548 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 3: humanity shape to generation. I would say multiple and said 549 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 3: together we will pay tribute in the community and collective 550 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 3: heartbeat that he created, which is some real hippie spit 551 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 3: if I ever heard it. 552 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,639 Speaker 2: That's very grateful. Dead Corps. 553 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 3: They want to be clear that this is not a concert. 554 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 3: There will be no live performances. Instead center around gratitude, remembrance, 555 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 3: and togetherness, along with special tributes to. 556 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 2: Honor the late artists. 557 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 3: By the way, In related news, singer Zach Bryan says 558 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 3: one of the most meaningful gifts he ever got came 559 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,679 Speaker 3: just days before his wedding from his new wife, Samantha Letard. 560 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 3: After four months I have to put in there, she 561 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 3: surprised him with a guitar that wants below long to 562 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 3: Bob Weird. Now, what makes us crazy is remember they 563 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 3: just got married. In less than two weeks later, he 564 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 3: passed away, So that's pretty crazy, said The instrument means 565 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 3: the world to him and called it the timing surreal. 566 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 3: He feels like he is holding a piece of music 567 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 3: history at a moment that now. 568 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: Carries extra weight. 569 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 3: If you are a new friend of ours and you 570 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,399 Speaker 3: would like to follow us on social you can do 571 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 3: so Instagram, Fread Show Radio, Fred Show Radio on YouTube. 572 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 3: We also have the Fred Show, TikTok and The Fred 573 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 3: Show on demand on the free iHeartRadio app. 574 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 1: So we have money, which Shelby shelling the showdown next 575 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 1: hours eleven hundred bucks. We're paying bills almost every hour 576 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: this morning a thousand bucks. You could win by listening 577 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: to us waiting by the phone is coming up? Why 578 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 1: does somebody get ghosted now? Paulina, Pauline, I love you 579 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 1: so much, your mine, my sister me EDMANA. Yes, you 580 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:55,760 Speaker 1: you are a handful and you know I know that 581 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm your work friend and argue believe if you believe 582 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: in this kind of thing, maybe your work husband in 583 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:05,159 Speaker 1: some regards, but your actual husband, I think, and I 584 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: think you have your hands full with him by the way, too, 585 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: Like let's let's go both ways on this. Like, I 586 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: don't think this is one side. I think everyone's got 587 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 1: their hands full here. But you you wrote this morning 588 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 1: on our sheet that you we've reached a tipping point 589 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: in your financial situation in the house, in the in 590 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 1: the in the marital home. Yeah, and you have a 591 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: bit of a spending problem, you know what, Yeah, I do, 592 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,360 Speaker 1: I'll admit it. 593 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 5: The first step is emitting right and is accepting that 594 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 5: that is true. 595 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 2: I do have a little bit of a spending problem. 596 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 5: I like to swipe a card okay often, or type 597 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 5: the numbers in or even Apple pay Okay, I like 598 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 5: Apple pay too. 599 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 2: That's so easy and fun. 600 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, you know you get a bill for that. 601 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 602 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 1: Well the problem is. 603 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 2: I don't see the bill, and that has become a problem. 604 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 1: So this car that you're talking about in your Apple 605 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: pay or whatever, they're attached to an account that he 606 00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,239 Speaker 1: that he would technically pay for. 607 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 5: Yes, so we don't have a joints account, like we 608 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 5: don't have like a joint checking or even a joint 609 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 5: well maybe a savings we do. 610 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 2: We have one for our daughter, but we didn't want 611 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 2: to do that. No, he certainly didn't. 612 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 5: I'm also a believer though, like even if you're married, 613 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 5: you should have your own thing, but also like you know, 614 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 5: combine to like you need to do both. That's my 615 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 5: hot take. I'm not here to argue about it. But 616 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,679 Speaker 5: the credit card deal, he did put me as an 617 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 5: authorized user, so I got the credit card too. It 618 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,680 Speaker 5: was nice, you know, I got to boost my credit 619 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 5: a little bit, have a little bit of a credit line. Okay, 620 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 5: but what happened was I started using it as a 621 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:37,199 Speaker 5: primary source of like spending anything would go on there, right, 622 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 5: so the coffee, bas diapers, which already was agreed upon, 623 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,359 Speaker 5: like I'll put the baby stuff on there. And the 624 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 5: plan was at the end of the month, when the 625 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 5: bill comes, you pay it in full and if you 626 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,639 Speaker 5: have the money, if you're not gonna have the money, 627 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 5: don't spend the card. 628 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 1: Right. 629 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 5: It's become a little excessive with me because I'm a 630 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 5: girl who's like, I'll do this later. I'll handle it later. 631 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 5: I'll get to it, you know, when I get to it. 632 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: No kidding, I have no idea. 633 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's me. Oh, even financially, that's me. 634 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,920 Speaker 5: So I used to get good morning messages from my 635 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 5: husband and they were very very kind, but they would 636 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 5: always end with stop. 637 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 2: Using the card. Stop using the credit card. And I took. 638 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 5: That lightly, all right, I took it a little lightly. 639 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 2: I was like, all right, yeah, you say that, but okay, oh. 640 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:22,199 Speaker 5: Mom, I've officially been banned from using the card, and 641 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 5: if I have to use it, I have to ask 642 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 5: for permission. Now, Oh boy, I have to ask before 643 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 5: I use this card. You guys, I have never asked 644 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,640 Speaker 5: a man for anything in my life. This is really 645 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 5: hard for me. I don't want to ask anybody for nothing, 646 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 5: and I have to ask him to use a credit 647 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 5: card because he knows my spending is bad. 648 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: I want to be clear about this though, just just 649 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 1: so we're all on the same page. This is not 650 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: a shared account. I mean, even if it were, maybe this, 651 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 1: depending on the circumstances, would be reasonable. But like, this 652 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 1: is not an account where you're putting money in and 653 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: he's blocking your blessings here, like and he's saying you 654 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: can't take money, your own money out. This is this 655 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 1: is hey, look, this is I'm going to pay this, 656 00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: but the use of it needs to be for our child, 657 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 1: for food, and like, here are the things that I'm 658 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 1: willing to spend money on, not your coffee, your fast food, 659 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: your shopping. 660 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 2: Your blowouts. 661 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: You're Brasilian blowouts. Okay, So I just want to be clear, Like, 662 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 1: this is not a matter of we have a joint 663 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: bank account, because I've heard of this one before where 664 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 1: everybody contributes all their money, but then one person gets 665 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 1: to choose how the money goes out. That's not fair. 666 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: But this is like you had an agreement, Like we're 667 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: gonna I am going to provide with my portion of 668 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 1: the money that we make for this family the following things. 669 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: And then you sort of decided, well, and it's also 670 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: going to include the following more things that I decided. 671 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's definitely including everything and anything. And it's getting 672 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 5: real bad. And I told myself because I was like, 673 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 5: I'm going to be responsible and I'll pay it at 674 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 5: the end of the month, like whatever I put on there, 675 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 5: whether it is the coffee or it is the lunch 676 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 5: or whatever, I'm going to pay it, Like that's the 677 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,280 Speaker 5: responsible thing to do. And then life be life in 678 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 5: and sometimes I don't get to it right and I 679 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 5: don't get the bill. So I think I've been a 680 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 5: little blind to that. I do blame myself for that. 681 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 5: And I told myself, this is my year to get 682 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 5: financially good, like I'm going to get it together. Your 683 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 5: word was disciplined, right, My work was disciplined. So my 684 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 5: husband said, Okay, we're going to discipline you and take 685 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 5: this card away. So now I have to ask for 686 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 5: permission to use it in terms of like if I 687 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 5: want to buy something outside of like you said, Fred 688 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 5: the baby. 689 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 2: Or our you know, our needs in the home, toilet 690 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 2: paper things like that. 691 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: Well, I want to know eight five five, five nine 692 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: one one oh three five you can call in text 693 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: the same number, Like how do you deal with this 694 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: in in your marriage when when one person is a 695 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 1: spender and the other person is not, Because I don't 696 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,239 Speaker 1: know how I would do with that, Like I I 697 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: honestly am not even sure if I could be with 698 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: someone who didn't share at least similar sort of financial 699 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: goals or principles as the ones I was raised with 700 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: because my parents they I don't know my mom. My 701 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 1: mom to this day acts like she lived there and 702 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 1: during the Depression. She didn't. She did not live during 703 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: the depression like my now her parents did and so 704 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: and I guess her parents' parents did. But we were 705 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: always raised that with the exception of a few things 706 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: OUs in a car and except's really expensive, Like as far 707 00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 1: as frivolous items are concerned, if you don't have the money, 708 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 1: then you can't. I have it, and that's the end 709 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 1: of it. Like I didn't have a credit card until 710 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: I was much much older. And I get that not 711 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: everybody can live that way, but I mean, it is 712 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: sort of the responsible way to live. But I don't 713 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 1: know that I could necessarily get with somebody who thinks 714 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 1: that I just and I'm not saying this is you, 715 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: but just spends and spends and worries about it later. 716 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 1: I think it's like two entirely different mindsets, and so 717 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 1: I sort of wonder, like, how do you guys, how 718 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 1: are you going to Ultimately, of course you're going to 719 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 1: make it work, but like this is what it comes to. 720 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: I guess like he has to be like you can't 721 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 1: spend any money anymore because but is he being too rigid? 722 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 3: You know? 723 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: Is there something in the middle. I don't know. 724 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 2: No, I feel like, honestly, like it's time to check 725 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 2: me a little bit. 726 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 5: Like I'm not mad at it because this has been years. 727 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 5: I mean, if you want to call my mom same thing, 728 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 5: she loves to spend. I'm not a saver, Like I'm 729 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 5: really not, and that's bad. I'm thirty three years old, 730 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 5: like I have a kid now, Like I want to 731 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 5: be more responsible because I want my kids to be 732 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 5: in a good position, you know. And my mom was 733 00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 5: like like your mom too, Like my mom would not 734 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 5: spend a dollar if she didn't have to, Like she 735 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 5: is very much like I'm keeping my money, you know, 736 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 5: and she won't spend it whatever. So like, I don't 737 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 5: know where I got this from. I really don't. Maybe 738 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 5: it's not to go back to therapy. 739 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 2: So I really don't know where this came from. 740 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 4: The first step acceptance. I'm exciting you are taking the 741 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 4: first step. 742 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 2: I am who I am. That's good. 743 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 5: But I want to work on it like I do 744 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 5: because I want to be financial responsible. Why wonn't you 745 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 5: guys look at me next year and be like, oh, 746 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 5: that girl, she don't. 747 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 2: Try to save. 748 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 1: When we talk about this, people will say like, well, 749 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: that's a privilege, you know, Fred, that's a privileged take 750 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 1: like some people can't afford to live like that. But 751 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: the thing is that if we like break it down 752 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: a little bit, I'm not talking about housing. I'm not 753 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 1: talking about you know, medical expenses, I'm not talking about school. 754 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about you know, things where we don't 755 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 1: have to just cash money laying or hundreds of thousands 756 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,959 Speaker 1: of dollars or whatever to buy these things. But I 757 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: am talking about coffee, and I am talking about eating out, 758 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: and I am talking about like, you know, the stuff 759 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,640 Speaker 1: at this at the mall that you want the clothing 760 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: items and the things that you want that aren't a necessity. 761 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 1: I think there are people that will buy that stuff 762 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 1: anyway on a credit card and they don't have the 763 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 1: cash right now, and they'll worry about later, and it 764 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: accrues debt and interests, and then you accrue dead and 765 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: then before long you got a little bit of a problem. 766 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't think that that's necessarily a privileged statement to make, 767 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 1: because I do think that a lot of people, if 768 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 1: they chose to, could dial back on stuff that's sort 769 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 1: of the kind of stuff that you can buy when 770 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: you have a little extra money, as opposed to the 771 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 1: kind of stuff that becomes part of your life. It's 772 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: not a necessity, like you know, it's a luxury. It's 773 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 1: something I hope everybody if they want to, can have. 774 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: If you want to eat out more offer and you 775 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: want to have Starbucks or dunkin or whatever every morning, 776 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 1: But like if you don't have the money, then maybe 777 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 1: you got to make coffee at home, and then maybe 778 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 1: you don't rack up, you know, interest on these little 779 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: payments that turn out to be really big things that 780 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: you then have to spend years trying to pay off. 781 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 1: So I don't. I guess I don't know if it's 782 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: it is a privilege, but I'm not sure if it's 783 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: a privileged thing. But some would say that. 784 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, what about like well yeah, because like if all 785 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 5: the Amazon packages that come to the house, right, Like, 786 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 5: let's be real, like I don't I don't need that, 787 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 5: you know fifty you know whatever set that I'm wearing. 788 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 2: I love a good set right hands on the top. 789 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 2: You might need to, yeah, but like not if I 790 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 2: can't hook you. Okay. 791 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,320 Speaker 3: My my thing is when he texts you and he says, 792 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 3: you know, baby, good morning, babe, beautiful, whatever the hell 793 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 3: he says, you love you, You're the best wife, you're hot, great, rack, whatever, 794 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,839 Speaker 3: And then he says, but don't use the card. What 795 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 3: why is that something that you thought was just like 796 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 3: a suggestion or like something that's just like, eh. 797 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 2: He doesn't really mean it. You know, I like to 798 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,319 Speaker 2: test people. Maybe that's what it is. 799 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 5: Really, No, kidd I say that, friend, okay, like what 800 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 5: part of you. 801 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 3: Is like eh, he doesn't really He's telling me that 802 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 3: every morning, but he doesn't really he means it. 803 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 2: Now, guys, Yeah, I'm in trouble. You're a little I 804 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 2: love Paulina. 805 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 1: But even at work, I'll be like, Paulina, I don't think, 806 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 1: let's not do that, and then you'll you'll do it 807 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 1: a couple more times, like you'll test it just to 808 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,879 Speaker 1: make sure I was serious, and it's like, hey, you know, 809 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:57,800 Speaker 1: or like we'll talk about something that we're gonna like 810 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 1: it's a suggestion. He's like, that's no, that wasn't no. 811 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: We got to do that actually, like we're gonna have 812 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: to go ahead and do that. So I can see that. 813 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 1: I can see that at home where it's like, oh, 814 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 1: he was just he was just thinking that. But he'll forget, 815 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 1: you know, he'll forget about that thing when then the 816 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,720 Speaker 1: bill comes and you no, he wasn't kidding. Hey David, 817 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:18,279 Speaker 1: how you doing? 818 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 3: Hey? 819 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:20,000 Speaker 6: Fred? 820 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 2: How you doing? 821 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 1: David? Hey, thanks for calling, thanks for listening. How do 822 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,680 Speaker 1: you do this? I don't know? Are you married? I mean, 823 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 1: do you and your wife or partner whomever? Do you 824 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 1: guys have like different spending philosophies? And if you do, 825 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:31,800 Speaker 1: then how do you how do you make that work? 826 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 3: So we decided ever since we got to gather that 827 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 3: current money's her money, My money's my money. 828 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 1: But as far as the bills get paid. We have 829 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:45,719 Speaker 1: a joint account. Okay, I like that so bad. So 830 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:50,399 Speaker 1: I don't ask you, but let me ask you this. Okay. So, 831 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 1: so the bills get paid because you both contribute to 832 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,920 Speaker 1: an account that pays the bills. But then, like, if 833 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 1: there's extra stuff and she doesn't have any money to 834 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 1: pay that because she's a spender and she went and 835 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 1: spend it on a bunch of other things. Are you ever? 836 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 1: Are you ever bitter? Do you ever resent? Like, well, 837 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 1: why do I have to pay for the vacation because 838 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: you went out and bought a bunch of other crap? 839 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,320 Speaker 1: Like because I would think that would be a problem too. Okay, 840 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 1: So you don't care. You just accept that anything that's 841 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 1: not a co mingled thing is is she can go 842 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 1: blow all of that. You don't care. 843 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, I long have. 844 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, say, if she 845 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,840 Speaker 3: needs money for gas or something, then of course her husband. 846 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 1: I got her back. Okay, all right, well Central you 847 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 1: got a dialed in. Thank you David, all right, thank 848 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 1: your Fred. Yeah, because I don't know, I mean I 849 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,800 Speaker 1: feel like, okay, so we're both contributing to the bills 850 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 1: and everything's covered. Maybe we have like a savings goal, 851 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 1: so we both contribute to that. But then I feel 852 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 1: like I might get bitter when it comes time for 853 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,520 Speaker 1: something extra and there's no money left because you spend 854 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 1: all your money on that, so now I have to 855 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 1: cover it. But maybe then you build that into that 856 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 1: shared budget too, and that way whatever's left really doesn't matter. 857 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: And if you go blow all of that, then who cares? Right? 858 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: Does that make sense? 859 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I got How do you do it? 860 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: Oh? 861 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:07,839 Speaker 2: Oh, oh, well, you know, I don't know. I am 862 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 2: a I do it. I feel like I do a 863 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:10,319 Speaker 2: good job. 864 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 4: And I think I got this from my sister of 865 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 4: I know how to make cheap things look really expensive, you. 866 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. 867 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 4: So people look like, oh, that's luxury, and I'm like, no, 868 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 4: not really. You know what I'm saying. This is from 869 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,240 Speaker 4: fashion over this from she. So I live well below 870 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 4: my means, Like I drive forty five minutes to work 871 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 4: every day because I live somewhere that's cheaper, you know 872 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,840 Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like, I always live below my means 873 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 4: because I cannot fathom the feeling of not having money, 874 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 4: like I've never I've been working since I was sixteen, 875 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 4: I've never knack on what, Thank the Lord, never have 876 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,839 Speaker 4: not had a job. So I don't even like when 877 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 4: my bank account gets to a certain point, I get upset, 878 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 4: my stomach hurts. I'm not I'm like having a malfunctioning 879 00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,319 Speaker 4: so I will go find another job before I get 880 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 4: to a certain point of like not having So I 881 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,399 Speaker 4: don't really like we don't have this deep issue. It's 882 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 4: just like the bill. I know the bills are going 883 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,279 Speaker 4: to get paid because I'm going to work to make sure, 884 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 4: and then he's got to work to make sure. But 885 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 4: if we were to ever split, I have a stash 886 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 4: where I'm going to be Okay, you notice it because 887 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:06,879 Speaker 4: I don't you. 888 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 1: Sound like my mom? Ye, Like it's like, oh yeah, 889 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,840 Speaker 1: that's all the money we have. No, my mom is 890 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 1: banking money on the side in case my dad ever 891 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,279 Speaker 1: accept No, they got plenty more money. Is she just 892 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 1: ain't telling him about it? And I love my dad, 893 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: but he's the dummy for letting her do all the money, 894 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: all the money, but he's help me care of well. Yeah, 895 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 1: in so if you ever actually I have to say, like, 896 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,240 Speaker 1: and I've said this many times and I'm not ashamed 897 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:35,839 Speaker 1: of it, but like, my parents work very very hard. 898 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 1: They provided us with a very you know, honestly privileged life, 899 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 1: like I'm very very grateful, sent me to college and 900 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:43,880 Speaker 1: did all this stuff. But then when I was done 901 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: with college, they were done with me. And the most 902 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: valuable financially maybe maybe maybe all the way around they 903 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 1: were doing with me completely never heard of them. Again. 904 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,439 Speaker 1: The most valuable lesson I think that they ever could 905 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,480 Speaker 1: have instilled in me is is some financial responsibility. Hey, 906 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 1: you want that item, you want to go buy that 907 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 1: at the mall. That's fine. Then then you can mow 908 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:03,840 Speaker 1: the lawn, you can go work at the you know, 909 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,040 Speaker 1: my dad's factory. You can do this, you can do that. 910 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: Here are the ways you can get the money. But 911 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,480 Speaker 1: if you don't have the money, you can't have it. 912 00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,360 Speaker 1: And again I hear people they're going to write up 913 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,320 Speaker 1: here and say, but what about you know, that's privilege 914 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 1: and what about this? But I'm not talking about I 915 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 1: know that people have a hard time making ends meet 916 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 1: and bill and they're living paycheck to paycheck to survive. 917 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 1: That's not what I'm talking about, you know. I'm talking 918 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,640 Speaker 1: about like the frivolous stuff that we don't have to have, 919 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:30,040 Speaker 1: and I'm with you, Kiki. Like the idea that I 920 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: would be spending more than I can pay. I don't know. 921 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:37,399 Speaker 1: I would like stay up on crap. I would stay 922 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,240 Speaker 1: up at night, right, not not living, that's hard enough. Hey, Karen, 923 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:41,799 Speaker 1: how you doing? 924 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 4: God? 925 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 1: How are you hi? 926 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 6: Karen? 927 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 1: So your husband's the spender? How do you do that? 928 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:56,719 Speaker 6: Oh? It made me crazy at first, but again I 929 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 6: made him pay everything at the end of the week, 930 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 6: all the credit cards. We used two supper cards, and 931 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 6: it has to be paid at the end of the week. 932 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:12,359 Speaker 1: Done okay, And then as long as he does that, 933 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 1: then then you don't care what he spends be on. 934 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:20,879 Speaker 6: That as long as it's paid off, and like there's 935 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 6: you know, a certain amount going into savings. It taught 936 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 6: him that, you know, when you've got like a thousand 937 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,400 Speaker 6: or fifteen hundred at the end of the month on 938 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 6: the credit card that you didn't realize you were racking 939 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:36,080 Speaker 6: up when you pay it every week, it's like, oh, 940 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,280 Speaker 6: maybe I will make a sandwich for lunch today. 941 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:41,720 Speaker 2: Yes, it's what you thought about. 942 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,279 Speaker 1: I see. So you make it work, Karen. Thank you, 943 00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:47,879 Speaker 1: have a good day. You two be you all right? 944 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,800 Speaker 1: Pee well, we're putting you on an allowance. 945 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,880 Speaker 5: Honestly, Like, look back when you're a kid. Here's your 946 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 5: ten dollars a week whatever, moll of the grass, like, 947 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 5: that's where I'm at. 948 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna you know what, Hobby's going to give 949 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:02,279 Speaker 1: you a gift card at the beginning. What he's gone 950 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,800 Speaker 1: into it, going more Fred Show next 951 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:06,360 Speaker 5: I