Speaker 1: Second dat day. If you're not on a dating app,
Speaker 1: how else are you meeting people out there? Nowadays? It's
Speaker 1: a great question, you're not yea, yeah, especially these days
Speaker 1: right one of the one of the most popular options
Speaker 1: is to meet through friends. Yeah, and that can work out.
Speaker 1: You have a lot of friends. But it makes me
Speaker 1: think back. It makes me think back to my experiences
Speaker 1: on this show because I think of all of you
Speaker 1: as my friends, at least they did over the years.
Speaker 1: You purposefully set me up on terrible dates. But it's funny, Like,
Speaker 1: it's not funny. What do we talk about studio Once
Speaker 1: having breakfast with a young lady and everybody mocked me.
Speaker 1: So funny, I go on dates myself. I mean, we're
Speaker 1: not gonna make fun of the girl you're going out?
Speaker 1: Would that? Yeah? Okay? Well, the whole thing is, I
Speaker 1: don't really know about being set up by friends anymore.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a good thing. But that's
Speaker 1: how Mark met a woman that he went out with recently, Abby, Mark,
Speaker 1: Are you sure these people are really your friends that
Speaker 1: set you up? Was this all a ploy to get
Speaker 1: you on this show? Honestly, I have no idea. My
Speaker 1: buddy Brian, you know, best friends my entire life, so
Speaker 1: or so you think, well, yeah, so he sets me
Speaker 1: up with this girl he's known for a little while,
Speaker 1: but we've never actually, you know, hung out or anything. Okay,
Speaker 1: And what did he say? I mean, did I mean
Speaker 1: he obviously like pitched it to you? Right? Yeah he said?
Speaker 1: What did he say you'd love about this girl? Well,
Speaker 1: you know she's outdoorsy, she loves hiking. Does it often?
Speaker 1: You don't have to lie Mark, Yeah, he said that
Speaker 1: she was hot. Yeah, yeah, that's yeah. Yeah, I know
Speaker 1: you're dancing around, but it's okay to admit that they
Speaker 1: set you up because she was a active Yeah. Well
Speaker 1: I think he knows me and of course, yeah, okay, good.
Speaker 1: So what was the lead up to, uh going out
Speaker 1: with Abby? Did you see each other in person? Did
Speaker 1: you talk on the phone? Text? Well, we texted a
Speaker 1: little bit, but primarily we were just DM through Instagram. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I got to see all kinds of pictures. I was
Speaker 1: very happy. Boy. I was in the Navy, so I
Speaker 1: like doing some crazy stuff and so oh navy man. Oh,
Speaker 1: I mean my brother in law was in the Navy,
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't call him a crazy dude, what were
Speaker 1: you doing in the navy. I've heard so many things
Speaker 1: about Nabe being super cool and then also, well it's
Speaker 1: like tux marines. I don't know, but we don't care
Speaker 1: for them. I know it's true. My dad was a marine.
Speaker 1: My brother in laws in the Navy. They've always said, yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't really get along to the Okay, Well, back
Speaker 1: to Abby, how was your date with her? I thought
Speaker 1: it went really well. What did you guys do? We
Speaker 1: talked before? She makes pretty good money, which I was
Speaker 1: interested in because I myself I have my own business.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you? Did you ask her how much
Speaker 1: money you made her? I mean, how did that come up? Well?
Speaker 1: In a lot of the photos I saw, she always
Speaker 1: looked very nice, very put together, very professional. And I
Speaker 1: met her after she got off work, and she did
Speaker 1: she looked beautiful. Um, she definitely has this very high
Speaker 1: level job. Okay, all right, that's good. I mean that's
Speaker 1: attractive someone who has goals and it has a good career,
Speaker 1: absolutely right. Plus, rich people have that like rich smell,
Speaker 1: you know the smell I'm talking about, right, Mark? Oh,
Speaker 1: she smelled very nice, Yeah, wealthy smell. I don't know though,
Speaker 1: Sometimes I've seen a lot of girls that have designer
Speaker 1: purses or Louis Vaton's. They're broke, they spend all. Then
Speaker 1: he met her after her high paying jobs. You're right there.
Speaker 1: So how was your connection with her on a personal level? Well,
Speaker 1: I thought it was pretty good. I found out she
Speaker 1: was in the Peace Corps. Cool. The Navy's not beefing
Speaker 1: with the Marine Corps, not currently, but you never know.
Speaker 1: I guess a good happen. Okay, don't leave that up
Speaker 1: to the coast Guard. Yeah yeah, well no one, not
Speaker 1: the colost guard. Okay, sorry, didn't bring that up. We
Speaker 1: keep getting sidetracked from your date. But you're a very
Speaker 1: interesting guy, you are, so tell us anything else memorable
Speaker 1: about your date. Okay. So it was the end of
Speaker 1: the night. We pull up to her house. I am
Speaker 1: buckle because I think I am going to go in
Speaker 1: for a kiss. Okay, So I go and she turned
Speaker 1: and I practically wind up kissing the car door window.
Speaker 1: So either she had no idea what I was doing
Speaker 1: or I just totally misfread every phone. Yeah yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean it's a pretty bad one. And the thing is is,
Speaker 1: if a girl wants a kiss at the end of
Speaker 1: the night, she'll linger she's not yeah, and like some
Speaker 1: ninja move or something. Yeah, So I don't know. What
Speaker 1: do you think, Mark, what do you think turned her
Speaker 1: off during your date? Well? I thought I did it
Speaker 1: just that everything right. You know, I was a gentleman.
Speaker 1: I would open the car door everything I've pulled out
Speaker 1: for a seat when she was going to sit down.
Speaker 1: What did you do wrong? I feel like sometimes I
Speaker 1: just come off as a little it's a little too engaged.
Speaker 1: Maybe this is like read a job interview and they're like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of a perfectionist. That's my flaw. Oh you're
Speaker 1: too perfect from her? Okay, too much? Yeah, I listened
Speaker 1: too hard. You know how those Navy guys are. They're
Speaker 1: just too good. Yeah. Well, here's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: We're we're gonna play a song. You just drop anchor
Speaker 1: stay where you are. We'll come back. We'll call Abby
Speaker 1: before you try and get you your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, thank you so much. And I don't think
Speaker 1: that's a Navy saying, Jeff. If you're just tuning in
Speaker 1: for the second date update, we've got Mark on the phone.
Speaker 1: Mark is a former Navy man who served honorably for
Speaker 1: his country out on the open seas, but recently he
Speaker 1: was dishonorably discharged from his first date with a girl
Speaker 1: named and Mark. I forgot the most important question. If
Speaker 1: the navy's in town, why wasn't I informed about this?
Speaker 1: Usually I'm at the docks holding the bottle of bubbly,
Speaker 1: So can you just please maybe text me next time
Speaker 1: you guys are gonna dock? Absolutely? Absolutely, thank you, Mark,
Speaker 1: always hanging out at the port. Mark's date ended with
Speaker 1: him going in for a kiss, but Abby did a
Speaker 1: last second spin move to get out of it, and
Speaker 1: he told us the only reason he could think of
Speaker 1: for why he's not getting a call back is that
Speaker 1: he did his date too perfect. Yeah, he was too engaged,
Speaker 1: too interesting, too good looking. That's probably which Mark, as
Speaker 1: a fellow perfect man, I feel you brod. You guys
Speaker 1: common It happens all the time. Oh my god, No, Mark,
Speaker 1: the one thing we didn't ask you. You were set
Speaker 1: up by friends. Have you checked in with your friend
Speaker 1: to see why Abby isn't calling back if they know anything.
Speaker 1: I talked to him, but I kind of avoided talking
Speaker 1: about the subject because I know he's going to talk
Speaker 1: to her pretty soon, and I just want to touch
Speaker 1: base with her or get like a third party perspective,
Speaker 1: because I really did. I thought I was a gentleman
Speaker 1: and I do pretty well, and I unfortunately date a
Speaker 1: lot of gold figures here and there. And you already
Speaker 1: told us that she had a job in plenty of
Speaker 1: money yourself. All right, let's move forward. Yeah, let's just
Speaker 1: let's just get to the call. Will dial Abbey's number
Speaker 1: and find out why she would dare reject mister perfect?
Speaker 1: You ready? Yeah, i'd like to know. Okay, I'm a
Speaker 1: dot the number right now. Hello, Hi, I'm looking to
Speaker 1: speak with Abby. Yeah, this is Abby. Hi Abby. My
Speaker 1: name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Oh okay, okay, are you familiar with
Speaker 1: the show a little bit? We'll take it that works
Speaker 1: for us. Yeah, thank you, thank you for listening even
Speaker 1: a little bit. So the reason that we're calling is
Speaker 1: we're doing something called a second date update. If you
Speaker 1: don't remember what that is, it's where if you go
Speaker 1: out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,
Speaker 1: you can email our show and we'll reach out to
Speaker 1: that person for you to figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, and so recently you went out with a
Speaker 1: guy named Mark. Yeah, and now you're you're not calling
Speaker 1: him back. Mark says he had a great time with you,
Speaker 1: and he's hoping to understand better why you've been ghosting him, because,
Speaker 1: according to him, it was a pretty flawless date. Now, wow,
Speaker 1: that's interesting because he was really set on. He feels
Speaker 1: like he did everything right, open doors, paid for dinner,
Speaker 1: mentioned that he's in a navy, listened intently. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: mentioned he was in the navy. I wouldn't say he
Speaker 1: listened intently. I feel like I heard a lot about
Speaker 1: just everything he's doing, all about the navy, all about
Speaker 1: this business. And I don't feel like there's anything Grandpa
Speaker 1: listen too. I didn't really get to talk one of
Speaker 1: those people you're just saying that. He talked about himself
Speaker 1: the whole time on the day, didn't ask you any questions. Now,
Speaker 1: it was pretty one sided, Okay. I mean sometimes I
Speaker 1: feel like that happens when people are nervous and they're overcompensating.
Speaker 1: Do you think that could have been it? No? I
Speaker 1: think he was perfectly confident. You think he was perfect No? Oh,
Speaker 1: I heard, I thought, I mean, confident isn't bad? Was
Speaker 1: it more like egotistical? He just really thought himself. And
Speaker 1: then look at the end of the night, you know,
Speaker 1: we're leaving, there's like a homeless guy in the parking
Speaker 1: lot and he hands me his phone. I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: get a picture of this for me, and he like
Speaker 1: takes money out of his wallet and wants me to
Speaker 1: take a picture of him giving money to the homeless person.
Speaker 1: And then he posted it, like right there in front
Speaker 1: of them on Instagram and said making money's not hard.
Speaker 1: Being inspirational shouldn't be either. Oh my god. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm done. Okay, So you don't support
Speaker 1: him giving money to homeless people? Is that what's happening? No? No,
Speaker 1: I don't support him being a That's what I don't support.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And he's just like using a homeless
Speaker 1: person as a prop for likes like that is that's cool? Man,
Speaker 1: doing a good favor for people. Don't post it that
Speaker 1: it takes away all the good favor. Way hold on.
Speaker 1: I guarantee each one of you in this room has
Speaker 1: done something good for charity and then posted about on
Speaker 1: your social media. Difference between participating in a charity right
Speaker 1: and wanting people to also donate, Okay, and a call
Speaker 1: for action. That's why he did it. Sounds like he's like,
Speaker 1: you guys can be inspirational. I'm doing my part. You
Speaker 1: guys can do yours. There's a difference between that and
Speaker 1: like literally giving someone just some change, taking a picture
Speaker 1: of it and then saying it's all about me. It's
Speaker 1: about how inspirational I am. It's never about helping the
Speaker 1: other person. It's about what I did started. I see
Speaker 1: what you're saying. It's just hard to tell, you know,
Speaker 1: when you're right when you're dealing with a lot of
Speaker 1: attention every day. So it's hard, that's true. I mean
Speaker 1: I do like attention. Yeah. So so here's the thing, Abby,
Speaker 1: you felt like it was a disingenuous move because after
Speaker 1: he gave him some money, he posted about it online. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just I don't know if it's just to
Speaker 1: impress me or if he just says this all the time,
Speaker 1: but either way it was If it was just to
Speaker 1: impress you, he would have left that moment between you
Speaker 1: two absolutely, and like taking the photo like it was
Speaker 1: premeditated even Yeah, and that's one of the reasons they
Speaker 1: didn't want to kis him. At the end, I was
Speaker 1: just like, ah, yeah, you should have kissed the homeless guy. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well at this point, Abby, I do have to tell
Speaker 1: you something you might find even more disturbing. Okay, I
Speaker 1: need to tell you. Marksman on the other line listening,
Speaker 1: and he heard everything that just said. He wants to
Speaker 1: talk of course. Yeah, Mark, you there? Hi? Abby? Oh
Speaker 1: why did you say it like that? Mark? He is
Speaker 1: not happy. Well, I'm yeah, I'm disappointed a little bit. Abby.
Speaker 1: I feel really bad that you got the wrong idea.
Speaker 1: A lot of things are about reputation, and if something
Speaker 1: gets documented on Instagram, it's good for your reputation, especially
Speaker 1: if you're doing something kind, you know, And I really
Speaker 1: think that's important. And maybe somebody you know sees that
Speaker 1: and they think, oh, all right, here's five dollars and
Speaker 1: in my case, here's twenty because I have a lot
Speaker 1: of money. Okay, I mean, I mean that was a
Speaker 1: great He did it for his reputation. Abby, Why don't
Speaker 1: you understand? Oh I know, No, I mean, Mark, here's
Speaker 1: the thing. It's great to do nice thanks for people, Okay,
Speaker 1: but like you don't need to like put it on
Speaker 1: the internet. You don't mean. I mean, I'm I just
Speaker 1: think in the future when you're out with other girls,
Speaker 1: who's not like the right move. You're not impressing anybody
Speaker 1: to be nice. Just to be nice. You don't need
Speaker 1: to go out of your way to show how nice
Speaker 1: you are. What do you think, Mark? I just think
Speaker 1: if you're not going to post about it, then who
Speaker 1: sees it? Like really, who needs to see it? Defense
Speaker 1: you're trying to say you're spreading the word of getting
Speaker 1: charity is good, Yes, spreading the word. But you're a
Speaker 1: rich person. You're just supposed to share money. She's got you, Mark,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even think we're asking the important
Speaker 1: question here, the most important in question, which is Mark,
Speaker 1: how many likes did you get on that post? Was
Speaker 1: it worth it? Yeah? I got about seventy five, all right?
Speaker 1: And how many likes did the homeless man get? Well,
Speaker 1: that's seventy five people that maybe would be giving to
Speaker 1: a homeless person today because Mark signaled that it's a
Speaker 1: good thing to do. Thank you. I told you guys,
Speaker 1: that was a great person. That's okay, that's guys. I
Speaker 1: gotta wrap it up like I'm at work. Clearly I'm
Speaker 1: not going out this guy again. Well, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on, But before you go, Abby, I need to
Speaker 1: ask you, would you like to go out on one
Speaker 1: more date with marcause we'll pay for it. Now, we
Speaker 1: don't have as much money as Mark does, but well,
Speaker 1: we'll pay as much as we can and we'll post
Speaker 1: this podcast about the charity you do. I like how
Speaker 1: we're lecturing Abby, who was in the Peace Corps. This
Speaker 1: is ridiculous. Yeah, it's gonna be a hard now. I think,
Speaker 1: don't blame you. That's not very charity bull of you. Yeah. Mark,
Speaker 1: I think you just kind of need to like reevaluate
Speaker 1: why you want to do kind things for people and
Speaker 1: find a better reason. Or I could just go out
Speaker 1: with a hotter girl because I have lots of options.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, people with lots of options always call us
Speaker 1: for help. Well, actually, Mark, if you're wanting a girl
Speaker 1: that appreciates money, our social media coordinator Lexus are you.
Speaker 1: Are we talking billions? Billions? We're talking a couple of
Speaker 1: hundred thousands. Thus, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning