WEBVTT - BONUS: This Is What He’s REALLY Thinking 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.160 Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent. 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:08.880 Welcome to Untraditionally, Lala, Hey, gorge Welcome to the bonus 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:10.760 episode of Untraditionally, Lala. 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:14.239 I am here with T. T. Easton. How did you 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:15.920 feel about the regular episode? 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:17.279 Yah, back at home? 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:18.400 Did you feel at home? 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:18.759 Yeah? 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:20.400 Hopefully everybody else felt the same. 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:23.599 I think they will because there were a lot of 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:24.520 people asking for you. 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:26.520 I know people were dming me, but I didn't know 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:30.000 what to say, so I ghosted them. 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:34.200 You mom, Yes, yeah. 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:35.520 Well that's what I you know when you're in east 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:36.800 and it's just what they called for. 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:40.960 So I'm rolling deep with the fan today because I 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:44.240 told you guys, I think last a couple of weeks 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.200 ago that I was struggling with my anxiety. That's been 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:54.760 pretty debilitating, and I feel like it has subsided because. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:56.920 I think I think. 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:00.400 I'm starting to find my groove. But also I've been 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.400 looking forward to an appointment that I'm having today to 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:03.600 get on a peptide. 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:05.720 Can I tell you how excited I am for you 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:06.000 on that? 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:06.480 Really? 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:07.520 Yeah? 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:11.200 I feel like a different human, Like, oh, the past 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:18.160 month has been Yeah, Like I. 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:18.680 I can't even speak about it. I just feel very easy. 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:20.680 It's a feeling you can't explain, yes. 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.200 But like it feels like my body works. That makes 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.520 me connected with my body now. 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:28.720 So apparently there's I think eight or nine different kinds 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:31.800 of peptides. So I'm going to go into my doctor today. 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:36.200 It's actually funny enough. Her name's Lee at skin Tide Aesthetics, 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:37.959 and I've been going to her for quite some time 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:42.959 for little things like botox pe where I go, Yeah, 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.160 I go to her, and then I love doctor Diamond. 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:46.880 Those are like the two people that I trust the 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:48.960 most with my face face. 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:50.600 But Lee also. 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:57.640 Just she has spoken volumes about these fucking peptides, and 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:59.320 I've been hearing about them a lot. So that's what 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:01.520 I'm gonna go do to day, and that's why I 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:03.880 have Mama and te Te. But not that I would 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:05.760 ever need a reason to roll deep with the fan. 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:09.160 I was gonna say the fact that you need a reason, 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:11.480 we're usual, we go on. 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:14.920 Okay soon, I'm hoping today that you can man explain 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:17.519 do you know what that means? Explain from the point 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.880 of a man. Thank you some things for us women? 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:21.200 Cool? 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.280 Do men really hate when women wear red lipstick? 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:28.880 Okay? Let me not speak for all men. I don't 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:29.280 love it. 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:30.840 What do you not like about it? 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:34.760 I just don't like it. There's just I don't know. 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:36.680 It's like a taste of a food for me. There's 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:39.079 no explanation. I just don't love it. 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:44.480 You know, As a woman, I am very very particular 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:46.640 about makeup, and I too. 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.840 There are certain women who I'm like, oh my gosh, 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:51.600 a red lip on that person is. 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:53.880 But I don't want to red lip every once in 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:58.359 a while. But I was just going to share day. 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:01.320 But I think it's and I loved it on Mimi. 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:03.440 Yeah, And I think it's like, say, yea, if I 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.840 had a wife and I was fifty and she was 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:06.440 wearing red, I'd be like, Okay, I love this. 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:07.799 I think it's right now. 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:11.560 I don't love a huge pop on a girl that 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:12.840 I'm interested in. 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.520 I don't know how I don't love it. Let's just 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:16.280 put it that way. 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.520 If it's once in a while, if I'm dating a 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:20.200 girl and we're going out and she pops on a 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:22.440 red I don't mind. But like an everyday thing, I 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:23.640 don't love a red lip now. 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:25.720 Okay, when I get older, I think I'm gonna go 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:29.680 fully gray and have super long red nails into a 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:30.320 red lip. 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:33.000 Yeah, and I want to try to Miami. 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:34.400 No, I changed my mind. 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:37.720 Thank god, you were really off the rock or that day. 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:39.200 What did I say? 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:44.200 You were gonna get like giant f boobs, platinum blonde, 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:47.400 long nails, and you're gonna move to boke A ratone 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:51.720 or some shit and in a retirement fifty five and older. 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:53.520 And I was like, my sister. 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.360 Is losing her fucking mind. 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:58.400 Could you imagine me coming in and being like, I'm 0:03:58.440 --> 0:03:59.880 just gonna go up to the mountains. 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:01.400 Forget the hair shaved. 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:05.640 I'm just gonna get a I'm gonna hang waits for 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:08.240 my penis to see how big it can get, and 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.960 then I'm just gonna hang. You'd be like, Easton, what 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:11.840 the fuck are you on? 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:15.560 Well, now we know why I'm getting on peptides well 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:17.640 needed because everything is going. 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:20.159 A little everything's getting just a little too quirky. 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:23.040 You know, do you guys notice when a girl changes 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:24.240 her hairstyle. 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:30.160 Drastically? Yes, Like if somebody comes in with bangs, I'm like, ah, 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:34.560 you got bangs. If somebody got if like a girl, 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:36.839 I won't lie. There's been times where like mom gets 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:38.640 her hair done and I'm like, how fuck did you do? 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:40.480 She's like, do you like my hair? 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.440 Like? Yeah, I love it, but I have no roots. 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:51.720 So yeah, with with those hands, you can't get a. 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:52.240 Beautiful go. 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:58.920 You literally are like the guy who what is his 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:00.240 name who does the. 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:04.400 Krabby patties, mister crabs, mister Crabs? Is that his name? 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:09.000 Yeah, I'm pretty sure you're mister crab. And you walk 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:13.719 like him too. Yeah, I love. 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:13.920 You, Mom. 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.920 You're you're by the way, you're a star and your 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:19.560 hat is still crooked and it's. 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:23.000 Been over an hour. Yeah, can I tell you what. 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:28.880 You look like? Right? 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:30.960 Do men like it? 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:33.880 By the way, though, as a woman, I notice if 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:37.560 a man changes his facial hair. I notice if a 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:42.760 man fades his hair differently. I notice every little detail. 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:43.880 See. 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:47.600 I know, but this is man explaining because. 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:50.280 You guys got to understand. We'll never understand women like 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:53.599 this man said, he made a video. Girls put nails 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:56.360 on top of nails. They have a twenty minute nightly 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.800 routine with three different oils and then eight. 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.120 Different So your nightly routine last night and it was 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:04.560 pretty excessive, and you're you have painted. 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:07.040 Nails nails on top of nails. That's a gel. 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:08.560 That is a gel nail. 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:11.640 Fuck. So maybe I understand women. 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:13.880 That's why we're asking you. 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.440 But like that's where I'm saying, like, how can I 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:18.880 you guys change? Do you like my nail color, my 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:21.839 new hair, my love color? I outline my lying eyes different? 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:22.279 Do you like that? 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:25.880 It's like, holy fuck you do every day like beautiful 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:29.200 sweetheart Jesus Christ. I don't know what's different. 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:32.000 Do men like it when women make the first move? 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:33.880 Hell? Yeah, I do you do it? 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:35.520 Well, that's because you're not an aggressor. 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:38.000 Yeah, I'm not an aggressor. See, I don't like speaking 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:42.680 for all men. I'm very different because there's some mormal man. Yeah, 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:44.039 I know, don't come up to me. 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:46.159 I know what I like. I'll go get down. 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.400 You sound like the guy from Beauty and the Beast. 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:50.839 Yeah, no, I like. 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:53.440 I like a girl when she makes like not even 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:56.839 the first move, but like comes and says the I 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:57.360 mean as a. 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:58.200 Move the first word. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:00.000 Yeah, I would say. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:03.000 Then, Yeah, I like that because sometimes I get deterred 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:07.080 by like how there are like meat men and it's 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:10.480 like but you feel no, I see girls and it's 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:14.440 like they're either getting trampled by meat men and then 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:15.600 getting dismissed. 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:17.840 And then I see and I'm like, you have had 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:20.280 such a shitty night. I'm just gonna let you be. 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:24.400 You have gone through the ringer, my gal, and I'm 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:25.960 not going to be number fifty four. 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.040 Oh he's not so sweet? 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:30.280 Yeah, but no, Like I'll see girls and if there 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:31.960 is a cute girl and I'll see like two dudes 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.640 go up, and I'm like, you know what, why would 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:35.160 I do that to her when she may just be 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:37.200 trying to have a good night, but if she were 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:39.880 to come and make movies? Like all right, totally, but yeah, 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:42.080 I'm not an aggressor. I like to I like when 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:44.000 people enjoy their nights. And I don't know why you 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:45.880 came out. Are you just with your girls to be 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:47.240 with your girls or did you come out. 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:49.360 To get dick? I don't know. Yeah, so if you 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:51.080 did come throwing. 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:52.280 It in here, I do this sweat. 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:54.679 If not, though, like I just want to leave you Bee. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:57.840 I think you're very respectful and I like this. Do 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:01.640 you guys really mind if a woman texts for like, 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.680 if a girl texts you first, is it kind of 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:05.720 like I'm not into this. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:09.080 No, But then again, it's like, is it a first 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:11.120 text every day? Is it? Oh? 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.920 Yeah, Like the conversation was dead, and then an hour 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:18.240 and a half later, you're texting me again first to 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:18.880 keep it going. 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:19.920 Then I'd get annoyed. 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:24.200 But like if wait, see, I would think if I 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:27.960 if the roles are reversed going back and forth. 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:30.800 Let's just say I initiated. 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:32.160 The conversation and we went back and forth and it 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:33.959 kind of fell flat, and he was the last one 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:36.520 to text, and I just didn't respond, and then he 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:40.720 sent another I would then think, Okay, he's interested enough 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:42.720 to keep this because the conversation's done. 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:46.000 Yeah, but he's then doing a follow up. Yeah, So 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:48.440 would you think that's annoying if she did a follow up? 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:55.480 No, I'm saying like there's so many different like you know, 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.000 like different narratives that could be. But like if we're 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:01.560 talking your story and she'd text me again, I'd be like, hell, yeah, No, 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:02.360 I wouldn't. 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:03.880 Care at all. I would like that. 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:09.040 It's all just so I can't speak anybody but myself. 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:12.400 Like that's the thing, what do you think of double 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:19.000 texting them? Even if you're into her? Yeah, like that 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:20.559 would make you not into her anymore. 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:22.240 Yeah. Like, I don't like the double text. 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.640 I like when people like write the paragraph and like 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:27.720 return return and then the second return return, And like, 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:30.240 if you're talking about three things, don't send me three texts. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:31.360 I don't know. That's just me. 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:36.160 I okay, what about a bro code broke? 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:38.400 Oh, like cheating and your brother. 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:43.760 Let's just say you and your friend. He's not like, 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:45.880 he's not like a best friend. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:47.120 He's just like a homie, right. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:49.640 Oh, bro code like and he likes the girl, but the. 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:53.200 Girl actually likes you. And you're like, I'm interested in her. 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:56.240 Do you say, like, I can't happen because my homie 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:59.800 likes you. Yeah, yeah I think so too. 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:01.960 Here's the thing. It's happened before. 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:05.840 And a buddy of mine, not like a close close buddy, 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:07.400 but like a buddy of mine. This was in Utah 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:10.440 liked a girl and I liked her. She didn't like him, 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:13.840 and she was interested in me. I wanted to be nice, 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:16.320 so I told her like, hey, nothing can happen because 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:18.600 he likes you. So unless you guys have a conversation, 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:22.240 I'm not doing anything. And she and that's where I 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:23.520 put it on the girl, because if you like me 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.560 enough to go have that conversation, then I know it 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.880 that like it's worthwhile if you don't have a conversation. 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:29.480 No, she did. 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:31.920 She was like, hey, I know that. You know. We 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:33.800 talked for like two months though three months and then 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:37.000 I moved out here. Oh yeah, no, and it was yeah, 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:38.760 but it was I told her that, like, I would 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:41.240 never do anything with her until she had a conversation 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:44.000 with him, because she needed to set the record straight 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:46.320 of how she didn't like him, because he was like, 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:49.600 I think she's interested in me, that it buddy, she's not. 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:52.280 Oh yeah, that's not up to me to tell you. 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:53.240 That's up to her. 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.120 So I have a question for you. 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:08.400 Do guys stand up to other men when it's just 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:11.160 the guys and someone says something disrespectful about a woman. 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:14.800 Yeah, Yeah, that's what's so fucked up, is like I 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:19.880 got good friends, Like, I'm not around dudes who disrespect women, 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:24.680 like verbally, even just in the presence of us. 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:28.080 Yeah, I think most people, not most. I'm not gonna 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:29.120 say most to and I will. 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.400 Keep away from the people like the dudes who do, 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:33.320 Like I hate locker room talk. 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:35.440 Yeah, and I want to make something very clear with you, 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:38.600 is like there were some comments. 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:42.479 When you refer to when you use the word bitches. 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:48.440 Bitches, and I just have to say, like I I 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:50.880 don't take a you guys know, there was a full 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:54.640 montage of me using the word bitch in I think 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:57.720 Season nine, Like, I love that word so much. I 0:11:57.760 --> 0:11:58.600 don't take offense. 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:01.160 I could get better at using it because I do 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:04.440 freely just throw out bitches because I feel like because 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.400 I'm like Lisa my bitch. 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:10.160 Hey yeah yeah, no, so I do. 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:12.800 But like I will say to the people who do 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:14.959 have a problem with me saying I'll get better at 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:16.360 throwing it out there. 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:18.320 But when I do use the word bitch, there's no 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:19.960 like negative connotation. 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:25.560 No, yeah, bitches, yeah yeah, the bitch word. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:26.439 I love the bitch word. 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.079 I picture all of us bitches up in the clip. 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.240 I don't even say you're being a bitch anymore because. 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:35.800 Offended, you're just a bitch, bitch, a good bitch, slap you. 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:37.960 I don't like that if. 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:39.960 You're being a bitch, you're not even deserving of the 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:41.400 word bitch. 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.400 Because that's a female dog, and we love our female dogs. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:48.920 Bernie's lily. She never had puppies. She's not a bitch. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:50.880 You have to have puppies. 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:53.959 A female dog is like, I'm a bitch. Yeah, you're 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:54.360 a bitch. 0:12:56.080 --> 0:13:00.160 If can I tell you something about my ex boy 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:04.040 friend who his friend was going in on me and 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:06.760 called me a bit and my ex boyfriend ended up 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:10.640 beating the shit out of him outside and the guy 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:14.520 came back and apologized no with a gun. Oh, yes, 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:16.240 it was very scary. My dad wouldn't let me go 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:17.839 to his house for like a really long time. 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:20.280 Good for an our deceased father. 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:23.959 Back to the point of me saying, I hang out 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.440 with like really good friends, like when we talk about 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.400 like dates, like my friends are like. 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:29.880 She was beautiful. 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:33.440 We talked about her family and and it's like we 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:37.760 have good conversations, like her kids were perky. 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:39.719 I was thinking, like, I can't wait to get you home. 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:41.520 It's like if I'm hanging out with that guy, I'm 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:44.079 not hanging out with that guy. 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.040 Yeah, no, I know. 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:49.679 Oh, and you're so sweet. Do you believe in once 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.760 a cheater, always a cheater. I used to believe that. Oh, 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:53.880 I don't know that I do anymore. 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:56.400 I don't Here's the thing. I can honestly say, I've 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:59.199 never cheated. I've only had two girlfriends. First one six months, 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:01.440 my second one was like the long one, yeah, like 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:05.440 two years. I've never cheated, not even in the midst 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.960 of like entertaining. 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:15.040 Yeah, I yeah, I don't know, because I would never cheat. 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:16.520 So I'm not gonna be like if I did cheat, 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:19.040 what I cheat now, Like I'm trying to deep dive 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:24.080 in myself, but I think, yeah, wow, so. 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:26.280 You believe that a leopard can't change its spots. 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:28.880 I want to say yes, But I'm a man and 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:31.160 I know a man's brain, and it's like, if you 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:33.160 got away with it once, you'll do it again. 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:36.000 And even if you break up, you lie to yourself 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:36.440 like that. 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.800 Wasn't a relationship, she wasn't this, And then when you 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:40.840 find that new one, you're like, well, I cheated last time, 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:44.360 And then yeah, you're just in this continual thing. Can 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:47.200 people change when they find the right one? Maybe, but 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.240 it's like, why are you cheating on all these women 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:49.960 to find the right one? 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:50.800 Just yeah? 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:52.440 And I think it's also an age thing, Like if 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:54.440 someone tells me like, yeah, I cheat all my girlfriend 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.800 in college, I'm like, Okay, well, now you're thirty something 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:01.400 years old, I can't it's going to hold you to 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:04.120 like what you did in college college. 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:07.640 I will I take cheating on the chin. 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:10.640 When it's like twenty eight, twenty nine, I will say 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.000 sand of all I think could be loyal just because 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.480 of the backlash that everything came with that now he 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:19.320 has he had, he had to change his spots to 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.440 continue to be what he is. 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:25.640 I disagree because I still believe that he is a narcissist, 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:31.800 and just give him time and like the narcissist loves 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:34.080 the newness and excitement of a relationship. 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:38.600 And what I've learned is not all cheaters are narcissists, 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:40.440 but all narcissists are cheaters. 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.320 So the moment some the moment I see red flags 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:48.120 of someone's narcissism being exposed, I'm like, Okay, I know 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:50.880 that your behavior will always be the same. You'll always 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:54.280 find something shinier and newer and think that that's the one. 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:58.000 But just allow it time and it will fade. Even 0:15:58.040 --> 0:16:00.480 if it's like ten plus years, it always goes away. 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:04.160 I will I all agree I agree to that? Will 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:08.200 every will anybody? Let scanned of all down? Or is 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:09.680 he going to have to live with that over his 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:12.520 head for ten years because if he does, I don't 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:13.160 think he would. 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:15.960 No, no, no, that's my thing. It depends on who. 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.960 If you're in the Bravo universe, yes, people are going 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:21.000 to constantly remind him that that happened. 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.120 And I think with him getting car out of it, 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:23.920 there it is. 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:26.600 So that's where I'll say, he'll change his spots if 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:30.800 he gets out of Scanned of All and if he doesn't, 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:32.000 but we're out of it. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:33.200 Most people like if. 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:37.720 Hev universe, people don't talk about it. 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:39.080 No one knows about it. 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:43.360 Okay, but America's got talent. Yeah, when he first did it, 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:46.280 what was all said? He got famous for being a cheater, 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:47.880 so that is his make. 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.960 He said, I went through a really difficult scandal and 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:53.800 all the judges were like, I don't. 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:55.440 I know, but no, But like now when you know 0:16:55.560 --> 0:16:58.280 of him, that's it, like you know, how do you 0:16:58.360 --> 0:16:58.640 what is? 0:16:58.800 --> 0:16:58.960 Oh? 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:02.200 I'm Tom Sandval, Oh what do you do? Uh? Scan 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:04.120 of All is like the biggest thing. So all I'm 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:06.560 saying is what he would say. He's not even ever 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:09.800 heard of Scan of All. He was on things like. 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:14.200 Sports, which it was very fat at the time. 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:17.360 But that's where I'm saying sand of aal will continue 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:21.119 to change his spots as scan of all is always 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:24.000 a thing, as if she gets out of that. 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:26.800 But I believe he's a narcissist. 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:30.720 I don't think he looks at himself as that person. 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:32.959 It's the same as my ex. 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:35.919 No, but you're I think all is good, and it's like, 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:37.560 do you realize how the outside world looks at you? 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:40.480 They're like, I'm fine, I have plenty of friends, I'm 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:43.439 a good guys. 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:46.200 Even reading his own comment section. 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:48.680 They don't believe that. They think it's everyone else's problem. 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:51.400 I'm saying they will continue to. 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:54.240 Do so what they do because in his mind nothing 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:56.120 was ever his fault. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:57.840 Yeah, how did this go? 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.040 For me? Asking if once a cheater always. 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:03.080 Is here because we just revamped into that. 0:18:03.640 --> 0:18:06.159