Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent.
Speaker 2: Welcome to Untraditionally, Lala, Hey, gorge Welcome to the bonus
Speaker 2: episode of Untraditionally, Lala.
Speaker 1: I am here with T. T. Easton. How did you
Speaker 1: feel about the regular episode?
Speaker 3: Yah, back at home?
Speaker 1: Did you feel at home?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Hopefully everybody else felt the same.
Speaker 2: I think they will because there were a lot of
Speaker 2: people asking for you.
Speaker 3: I know people were dming me, but I didn't know
Speaker 3: what to say, so I ghosted them.
Speaker 1: You mom, Yes, yeah.
Speaker 4: Well that's what I you know when you're in east
Speaker 4: and it's just what they called for.
Speaker 2: So I'm rolling deep with the fan today because I
Speaker 2: told you guys, I think last a couple of weeks
Speaker 2: ago that I was struggling with my anxiety. That's been
Speaker 2: pretty debilitating, and I feel like it has subsided because.
Speaker 1: I think I think.
Speaker 2: I'm starting to find my groove. But also I've been
Speaker 2: looking forward to an appointment that I'm having today to
Speaker 2: get on a peptide.
Speaker 3: Can I tell you how excited I am for you
Speaker 3: on that?
Speaker 1: Really?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I feel like a different human, Like, oh, the past
Speaker 4: month has been Yeah, Like I.
Speaker 3: I can't even speak about it. I just feel very easy.
Speaker 1: It's a feeling you can't explain, yes.
Speaker 4: But like it feels like my body works. That makes
Speaker 4: me connected with my body now.
Speaker 2: So apparently there's I think eight or nine different kinds
Speaker 2: of peptides. So I'm going to go into my doctor today.
Speaker 2: It's actually funny enough. Her name's Lee at skin Tide Aesthetics,
Speaker 2: and I've been going to her for quite some time
Speaker 2: for little things like botox pe where I go, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I go to her, and then I love doctor Diamond.
Speaker 2: Those are like the two people that I trust the
Speaker 2: most with my face face.
Speaker 1: But Lee also.
Speaker 2: Just she has spoken volumes about these fucking peptides, and
Speaker 2: I've been hearing about them a lot. So that's what
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go do to day, and that's why I
Speaker 2: have Mama and te Te. But not that I would
Speaker 2: ever need a reason to roll deep with the fan.
Speaker 4: I was gonna say the fact that you need a reason,
Speaker 4: we're usual, we go on.
Speaker 2: Okay soon, I'm hoping today that you can man explain
Speaker 2: do you know what that means? Explain from the point
Speaker 2: of a man. Thank you some things for us women?
Speaker 3: Cool?
Speaker 1: Do men really hate when women wear red lipstick?
Speaker 3: Okay? Let me not speak for all men. I don't
Speaker 3: love it.
Speaker 1: What do you not like about it?
Speaker 4: I just don't like it. There's just I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's like a taste of a food for me. There's
Speaker 4: no explanation. I just don't love it.
Speaker 2: You know, As a woman, I am very very particular
Speaker 2: about makeup, and I too.
Speaker 1: There are certain women who I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: a red lip on that person is.
Speaker 3: But I don't want to red lip every once in
Speaker 3: a while. But I was just going to share day.
Speaker 3: But I think it's and I loved it on Mimi.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think it's like, say, yea, if I
Speaker 4: had a wife and I was fifty and she was
Speaker 4: wearing red, I'd be like, Okay, I love this.
Speaker 3: I think it's right now.
Speaker 4: I don't love a huge pop on a girl that
Speaker 4: I'm interested in.
Speaker 3: I don't know how I don't love it. Let's just
Speaker 3: put it that way.
Speaker 4: If it's once in a while, if I'm dating a
Speaker 4: girl and we're going out and she pops on a
Speaker 4: red I don't mind. But like an everyday thing, I
Speaker 4: don't love a red lip now.
Speaker 2: Okay, when I get older, I think I'm gonna go
Speaker 2: fully gray and have super long red nails into a
Speaker 2: red lip.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I want to try to Miami.
Speaker 1: No, I changed my mind.
Speaker 3: Thank god, you were really off the rock or that day.
Speaker 1: What did I say?
Speaker 4: You were gonna get like giant f boobs, platinum blonde,
Speaker 4: long nails, and you're gonna move to boke A ratone
Speaker 4: or some shit and in a retirement fifty five and older.
Speaker 4: And I was like, my sister.
Speaker 3: Is losing her fucking mind.
Speaker 4: Could you imagine me coming in and being like, I'm
Speaker 4: just gonna go up to the mountains.
Speaker 3: Forget the hair shaved.
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna get a I'm gonna hang waits for
Speaker 4: my penis to see how big it can get, and
Speaker 4: then I'm just gonna hang. You'd be like, Easton, what
Speaker 4: the fuck are you on?
Speaker 2: Well, now we know why I'm getting on peptides well
Speaker 2: needed because everything is going.
Speaker 1: A little everything's getting just a little too quirky.
Speaker 2: You know, do you guys notice when a girl changes
Speaker 2: her hairstyle.
Speaker 4: Drastically? Yes, Like if somebody comes in with bangs, I'm like, ah,
Speaker 4: you got bangs. If somebody got if like a girl,
Speaker 4: I won't lie. There's been times where like mom gets
Speaker 4: her hair done and I'm like, how fuck did you do?
Speaker 1: She's like, do you like my hair?
Speaker 3: Like? Yeah, I love it, but I have no roots.
Speaker 2: So yeah, with with those hands, you can't get a.
Speaker 3: Beautiful go.
Speaker 2: You literally are like the guy who what is his
Speaker 2: name who does the.
Speaker 1: Krabby patties, mister crabs, mister Crabs? Is that his name?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm pretty sure you're mister crab. And you walk
Speaker 3: like him too. Yeah, I love.
Speaker 1: You, Mom.
Speaker 2: You're you're by the way, you're a star and your
Speaker 2: hat is still crooked and it's.
Speaker 1: Been over an hour. Yeah, can I tell you what.
Speaker 3: You look like? Right?
Speaker 1: Do men like it?
Speaker 2: By the way, though, as a woman, I notice if
Speaker 2: a man changes his facial hair. I notice if a
Speaker 2: man fades his hair differently. I notice every little detail.
Speaker 3: See.
Speaker 1: I know, but this is man explaining because.
Speaker 4: You guys got to understand. We'll never understand women like
Speaker 4: this man said, he made a video. Girls put nails
Speaker 4: on top of nails. They have a twenty minute nightly
Speaker 4: routine with three different oils and then eight.
Speaker 2: Different So your nightly routine last night and it was
Speaker 2: pretty excessive, and you're you have painted.
Speaker 3: Nails nails on top of nails. That's a gel.
Speaker 1: That is a gel nail.
Speaker 3: Fuck. So maybe I understand women.
Speaker 1: That's why we're asking you.
Speaker 4: But like that's where I'm saying, like, how can I
Speaker 4: you guys change? Do you like my nail color, my
Speaker 4: new hair, my love color? I outline my lying eyes different?
Speaker 3: Do you like that?
Speaker 4: It's like, holy fuck you do every day like beautiful
Speaker 4: sweetheart Jesus Christ. I don't know what's different.
Speaker 1: Do men like it when women make the first move?
Speaker 3: Hell? Yeah, I do you do it?
Speaker 1: Well, that's because you're not an aggressor.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not an aggressor. See, I don't like speaking
Speaker 4: for all men. I'm very different because there's some mormal man. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I know, don't come up to me.
Speaker 3: I know what I like. I'll go get down.
Speaker 1: You sound like the guy from Beauty and the Beast.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I like.
Speaker 4: I like a girl when she makes like not even
Speaker 4: the first move, but like comes and says the I
Speaker 4: mean as a.
Speaker 3: Move the first word.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say.
Speaker 4: Then, Yeah, I like that because sometimes I get deterred
Speaker 4: by like how there are like meat men and it's
Speaker 4: like but you feel no, I see girls and it's
Speaker 4: like they're either getting trampled by meat men and then
Speaker 4: getting dismissed.
Speaker 3: And then I see and I'm like, you have had
Speaker 3: such a shitty night. I'm just gonna let you be.
Speaker 4: You have gone through the ringer, my gal, and I'm
Speaker 4: not going to be number fifty four.
Speaker 1: Oh he's not so sweet?
Speaker 4: Yeah, but no, Like I'll see girls and if there
Speaker 4: is a cute girl and I'll see like two dudes
Speaker 4: go up, and I'm like, you know what, why would
Speaker 4: I do that to her when she may just be
Speaker 4: trying to have a good night, but if she were
Speaker 4: to come and make movies? Like all right, totally, but yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm not an aggressor. I like to I like when
Speaker 4: people enjoy their nights. And I don't know why you
Speaker 4: came out. Are you just with your girls to be
Speaker 4: with your girls or did you come out.
Speaker 3: To get dick? I don't know. Yeah, so if you
Speaker 3: did come throwing.
Speaker 1: It in here, I do this sweat.
Speaker 2: If not, though, like I just want to leave you Bee.
Speaker 2: I think you're very respectful and I like this. Do
Speaker 2: you guys really mind if a woman texts for like,
Speaker 2: if a girl texts you first, is it kind of
Speaker 2: like I'm not into this.
Speaker 3: No, But then again, it's like, is it a first
Speaker 3: text every day? Is it? Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like the conversation was dead, and then an hour
Speaker 4: and a half later, you're texting me again first to
Speaker 4: keep it going.
Speaker 3: Then I'd get annoyed.
Speaker 2: But like if wait, see, I would think if I
Speaker 2: if the roles are reversed going back and forth.
Speaker 1: Let's just say I initiated.
Speaker 2: The conversation and we went back and forth and it
Speaker 2: kind of fell flat, and he was the last one
Speaker 2: to text, and I just didn't respond, and then he
Speaker 2: sent another I would then think, Okay, he's interested enough
Speaker 2: to keep this because the conversation's done.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's then doing a follow up. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: would you think that's annoying if she did a follow up?
Speaker 4: No, I'm saying like there's so many different like you know,
Speaker 4: like different narratives that could be. But like if we're
Speaker 4: talking your story and she'd text me again, I'd be like, hell, yeah, No,
Speaker 4: I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: Care at all. I would like that.
Speaker 4: It's all just so I can't speak anybody but myself.
Speaker 2: Like that's the thing, what do you think of double
Speaker 2: texting them? Even if you're into her? Yeah, like that
Speaker 2: would make you not into her anymore.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Like, I don't like the double text.
Speaker 4: I like when people like write the paragraph and like
Speaker 4: return return and then the second return return, And like,
Speaker 4: if you're talking about three things, don't send me three texts.
Speaker 3: I don't know. That's just me.
Speaker 1: I okay, what about a bro code broke?
Speaker 3: Oh, like cheating and your brother.
Speaker 2: Let's just say you and your friend. He's not like,
Speaker 2: he's not like a best friend.
Speaker 1: He's just like a homie, right.
Speaker 3: Oh, bro code like and he likes the girl, but the.
Speaker 2: Girl actually likes you. And you're like, I'm interested in her.
Speaker 2: Do you say, like, I can't happen because my homie
Speaker 2: likes you. Yeah, yeah I think so too.
Speaker 3: Here's the thing. It's happened before.
Speaker 4: And a buddy of mine, not like a close close buddy,
Speaker 4: but like a buddy of mine. This was in Utah
Speaker 4: liked a girl and I liked her. She didn't like him,
Speaker 4: and she was interested in me. I wanted to be nice,
Speaker 4: so I told her like, hey, nothing can happen because
Speaker 4: he likes you. So unless you guys have a conversation,
Speaker 4: I'm not doing anything. And she and that's where I
Speaker 4: put it on the girl, because if you like me
Speaker 4: enough to go have that conversation, then I know it
Speaker 4: that like it's worthwhile if you don't have a conversation.
Speaker 3: No, she did.
Speaker 4: She was like, hey, I know that. You know. We
Speaker 4: talked for like two months though three months and then
Speaker 4: I moved out here. Oh yeah, no, and it was yeah,
Speaker 4: but it was I told her that, like, I would
Speaker 4: never do anything with her until she had a conversation
Speaker 4: with him, because she needed to set the record straight
Speaker 4: of how she didn't like him, because he was like,
Speaker 4: I think she's interested in me, that it buddy, she's not.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's not up to me to tell you.
Speaker 4: That's up to her.
Speaker 1: So I have a question for you.
Speaker 2: Do guys stand up to other men when it's just
Speaker 2: the guys and someone says something disrespectful about a woman.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, that's what's so fucked up, is like I
Speaker 4: got good friends, Like, I'm not around dudes who disrespect women,
Speaker 4: like verbally, even just in the presence of us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think most people, not most. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: say most to and I will.
Speaker 4: Keep away from the people like the dudes who do,
Speaker 4: Like I hate locker room talk.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I want to make something very clear with you,
Speaker 2: is like there were some comments.
Speaker 1: When you refer to when you use the word bitches.
Speaker 2: Bitches, and I just have to say, like I I
Speaker 2: don't take a you guys know, there was a full
Speaker 2: montage of me using the word bitch in I think
Speaker 2: Season nine, Like, I love that word so much. I
Speaker 2: don't take offense.
Speaker 4: I could get better at using it because I do
Speaker 4: freely just throw out bitches because I feel like because
Speaker 4: I'm like Lisa my bitch.
Speaker 3: Hey yeah yeah, no, so I do.
Speaker 4: But like I will say to the people who do
Speaker 4: have a problem with me saying I'll get better at
Speaker 4: throwing it out there.
Speaker 3: But when I do use the word bitch, there's no
Speaker 3: like negative connotation.
Speaker 1: No, yeah, bitches, yeah yeah, the bitch word.
Speaker 3: I love the bitch word.
Speaker 1: I picture all of us bitches up in the clip.
Speaker 3: I don't even say you're being a bitch anymore because.
Speaker 1: Offended, you're just a bitch, bitch, a good bitch, slap you.
Speaker 3: I don't like that if.
Speaker 4: You're being a bitch, you're not even deserving of the
Speaker 4: word bitch.
Speaker 2: Because that's a female dog, and we love our female dogs.
Speaker 4: Bernie's lily. She never had puppies. She's not a bitch.
Speaker 1: You have to have puppies.
Speaker 3: A female dog is like, I'm a bitch. Yeah, you're
Speaker 3: a bitch.
Speaker 2: If can I tell you something about my ex boy
Speaker 2: friend who his friend was going in on me and
Speaker 2: called me a bit and my ex boyfriend ended up
Speaker 2: beating the shit out of him outside and the guy
Speaker 2: came back and apologized no with a gun. Oh, yes,
Speaker 2: it was very scary. My dad wouldn't let me go
Speaker 2: to his house for like a really long time.
Speaker 3: Good for an our deceased father.
Speaker 4: Back to the point of me saying, I hang out
Speaker 4: with like really good friends, like when we talk about
Speaker 4: like dates, like my friends are like.
Speaker 3: She was beautiful.
Speaker 4: We talked about her family and and it's like we
Speaker 4: have good conversations, like her kids were perky.
Speaker 3: I was thinking, like, I can't wait to get you home.
Speaker 4: It's like if I'm hanging out with that guy, I'm
Speaker 4: not hanging out with that guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know.
Speaker 1: Oh, and you're so sweet. Do you believe in once
Speaker 1: a cheater, always a cheater. I used to believe that. Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know that I do anymore.
Speaker 4: I don't Here's the thing. I can honestly say, I've
Speaker 4: never cheated. I've only had two girlfriends. First one six months,
Speaker 4: my second one was like the long one, yeah, like
Speaker 4: two years. I've never cheated, not even in the midst
Speaker 4: of like entertaining.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I yeah, I don't know, because I would never cheat.
Speaker 4: So I'm not gonna be like if I did cheat,
Speaker 4: what I cheat now, Like I'm trying to deep dive
Speaker 4: in myself, but I think, yeah, wow, so.
Speaker 1: You believe that a leopard can't change its spots.
Speaker 4: I want to say yes, But I'm a man and
Speaker 4: I know a man's brain, and it's like, if you
Speaker 4: got away with it once, you'll do it again.
Speaker 3: And even if you break up, you lie to yourself
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 4: Wasn't a relationship, she wasn't this, And then when you
Speaker 4: find that new one, you're like, well, I cheated last time,
Speaker 4: And then yeah, you're just in this continual thing. Can
Speaker 4: people change when they find the right one? Maybe, but
Speaker 4: it's like, why are you cheating on all these women
Speaker 4: to find the right one?
Speaker 3: Just yeah?
Speaker 2: And I think it's also an age thing, Like if
Speaker 2: someone tells me like, yeah, I cheat all my girlfriend
Speaker 2: in college, I'm like, Okay, well, now you're thirty something
Speaker 2: years old, I can't it's going to hold you to
Speaker 2: like what you did in college college.
Speaker 3: I will I take cheating on the chin.
Speaker 4: When it's like twenty eight, twenty nine, I will say
Speaker 4: sand of all I think could be loyal just because
Speaker 4: of the backlash that everything came with that now he
Speaker 4: has he had, he had to change his spots to
Speaker 4: continue to be what he is.
Speaker 2: I disagree because I still believe that he is a narcissist,
Speaker 2: and just give him time and like the narcissist loves
Speaker 2: the newness and excitement of a relationship.
Speaker 1: And what I've learned is not all cheaters are narcissists,
Speaker 1: but all narcissists are cheaters.
Speaker 2: So the moment some the moment I see red flags
Speaker 2: of someone's narcissism being exposed, I'm like, Okay, I know
Speaker 2: that your behavior will always be the same. You'll always
Speaker 2: find something shinier and newer and think that that's the one.
Speaker 2: But just allow it time and it will fade. Even
Speaker 2: if it's like ten plus years, it always goes away.
Speaker 4: I will I all agree I agree to that? Will
Speaker 4: every will anybody? Let scanned of all down? Or is
Speaker 4: he going to have to live with that over his
Speaker 4: head for ten years because if he does, I don't
Speaker 4: think he would.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's my thing. It depends on who.
Speaker 2: If you're in the Bravo universe, yes, people are going
Speaker 2: to constantly remind him that that happened.
Speaker 3: And I think with him getting car out of it,
Speaker 3: there it is.
Speaker 4: So that's where I'll say, he'll change his spots if
Speaker 4: he gets out of Scanned of All and if he doesn't,
Speaker 4: but we're out of it.
Speaker 1: Most people like if.
Speaker 2: Hev universe, people don't talk about it.
Speaker 1: No one knows about it.
Speaker 4: Okay, but America's got talent. Yeah, when he first did it,
Speaker 4: what was all said? He got famous for being a cheater,
Speaker 4: so that is his make.
Speaker 2: He said, I went through a really difficult scandal and
Speaker 2: all the judges were like, I don't.
Speaker 4: I know, but no, But like now when you know
Speaker 4: of him, that's it, like you know, how do you
Speaker 4: what is?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: I'm Tom Sandval, Oh what do you do? Uh? Scan
Speaker 3: of All is like the biggest thing. So all I'm
Speaker 3: saying is what he would say. He's not even ever
Speaker 3: heard of Scan of All. He was on things like.
Speaker 1: Sports, which it was very fat at the time.
Speaker 4: But that's where I'm saying sand of aal will continue
Speaker 4: to change his spots as scan of all is always
Speaker 4: a thing, as if she gets out of that.
Speaker 1: But I believe he's a narcissist.
Speaker 2: I don't think he looks at himself as that person.
Speaker 1: It's the same as my ex.
Speaker 2: No, but you're I think all is good, and it's like,
Speaker 2: do you realize how the outside world looks at you?
Speaker 2: They're like, I'm fine, I have plenty of friends, I'm
Speaker 2: a good guys.
Speaker 3: Even reading his own comment section.
Speaker 1: They don't believe that. They think it's everyone else's problem.
Speaker 1: I'm saying they will continue to.
Speaker 2: Do so what they do because in his mind nothing
Speaker 2: was ever his fault.
Speaker 3: Yeah, how did this go?
Speaker 1: For me? Asking if once a cheater always.
Speaker 3: Is here because we just revamped into that.
Speaker 2: It's just such a I know guys who have cheated
Speaker 2: in the past where I'm like, I know you're not
Speaker 2: a narcissist though, like that was because of the period
Speaker 2: in your life.
Speaker 1: You're not a bad person.
Speaker 2: Then there's people like people I've been with or the
Speaker 2: sand of balls of the world where it's like this
Speaker 2: is who you are. You lack the ability to look
Speaker 2: in the mirror and say self awareness, this is a
Speaker 2: me problem. It's always everyone else's problem, and they lack
Speaker 2: the ability to see reality for what it is. Do
Speaker 2: men care about a woman's body count? How many dudes
Speaker 2: that they've slept with?
Speaker 3: Do dudes care about women's body count?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like, yeah, girls? Oh really?
Speaker 2: If the girl's like, I've been with like twenty seven guys,
Speaker 2: would you be like.
Speaker 1: You care how many dudes she's been with? I'm disappointed
Speaker 1: in you Easton. Uh, yes, very disappointed.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not I'm fine with twenty seven. I'm fine.
Speaker 3: I gotta look at the girl's age, do some numbers.
Speaker 3: But if she's like, yeah, I might.
Speaker 4: Like two hundred and fifty, I'm like, oh, do girls
Speaker 4: go like if there was a guy, If there was
Speaker 4: a guy and there's two men, one had slept with
Speaker 4: five hundred and fifty women, the other one slept with
Speaker 4: fifty women, who would you pick?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you're right, but I'd also be like
Speaker 2: if he was like, I only slept with five chicks, because.
Speaker 3: No, I need more than You'd be like, oh, no.
Speaker 1: There's a happy meeting.
Speaker 4: There's a happy medium and I'm sorry, Like, thirty forty,
Speaker 4: that is not that many. We've all lived, We've all
Speaker 4: done some stuff. I'm sorry, fuck it at my age
Speaker 4: forty women. Yeah, that's only like a couple shits a year,
Speaker 4: and that's just test driving the car before I try
Speaker 4: to buy it. You know, I didn't like the test drive. Yes, right,
Speaker 4: Like that's not that many, but like I will say, yes,
Speaker 4: there is a number where I will turn off and the.
Speaker 1: Line too many miles on this car, I see it breaking.
Speaker 3: To give out? So what is that hip going to
Speaker 3: give out? As I'm ramming you down the highway?
Speaker 1: Oh my good god. I love how you're like.
Speaker 2: I'm excited for you to have a podcast so that
Speaker 2: you can have conversations that we can't have with each other.
Speaker 3: And here question it's about me.
Speaker 1: You guys, thank you.
Speaker 2: For listening to a bonus episode of Untraditionally La La.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna catch you guys on Wednesday for a regular
Speaker 2: old episode and again on Monday.
Speaker 1: BA