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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Untraditionally, Lala, Hey, gorge Welcome to the bonus

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Speaker 2: episode of Untraditionally, Lala.

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Speaker 1: I am here with T. T. Easton. How did you

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Speaker 1: feel about the regular episode?

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Speaker 3: Yah, back at home?

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Speaker 1: Did you feel at home?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hopefully everybody else felt the same.

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Speaker 2: I think they will because there were a lot of

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Speaker 2: people asking for you.

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Speaker 3: I know people were dming me, but I didn't know

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Speaker 3: what to say, so I ghosted them.

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Speaker 1: You mom, Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well that's what I you know when you're in east

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Speaker 4: and it's just what they called for.

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Speaker 2: So I'm rolling deep with the fan today because I

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Speaker 2: told you guys, I think last a couple of weeks

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Speaker 2: ago that I was struggling with my anxiety. That's been

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Speaker 2: pretty debilitating, and I feel like it has subsided because.

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Speaker 1: I think I think.

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Speaker 2: I'm starting to find my groove. But also I've been

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Speaker 2: looking forward to an appointment that I'm having today to

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Speaker 2: get on a peptide.

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Speaker 3: Can I tell you how excited I am for you

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Speaker 3: on that?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I feel like a different human, Like, oh, the past

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Speaker 4: month has been Yeah, Like I.

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Speaker 3: I can't even speak about it. I just feel very easy.

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Speaker 1: It's a feeling you can't explain, yes.

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Speaker 4: But like it feels like my body works. That makes

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Speaker 4: me connected with my body now.

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Speaker 2: So apparently there's I think eight or nine different kinds

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Speaker 2: of peptides. So I'm going to go into my doctor today.

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Speaker 2: It's actually funny enough. Her name's Lee at skin Tide Aesthetics,

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Speaker 2: and I've been going to her for quite some time

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Speaker 2: for little things like botox pe where I go, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I go to her, and then I love doctor Diamond.

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Speaker 2: Those are like the two people that I trust the

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Speaker 2: most with my face face.

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Speaker 1: But Lee also.

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Speaker 2: Just she has spoken volumes about these fucking peptides, and

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Speaker 2: I've been hearing about them a lot. So that's what

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go do to day, and that's why I

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Speaker 2: have Mama and te Te. But not that I would

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Speaker 2: ever need a reason to roll deep with the fan.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna say the fact that you need a reason,

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Speaker 4: we're usual, we go on.

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Speaker 2: Okay soon, I'm hoping today that you can man explain

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Speaker 2: do you know what that means? Explain from the point

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Speaker 2: of a man. Thank you some things for us women?

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Speaker 3: Cool?

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Speaker 1: Do men really hate when women wear red lipstick?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Let me not speak for all men. I don't

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Speaker 3: love it.

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Speaker 1: What do you not like about it?

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Speaker 4: I just don't like it. There's just I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It's like a taste of a food for me. There's

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Speaker 4: no explanation. I just don't love it.

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Speaker 2: You know, As a woman, I am very very particular

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Speaker 2: about makeup, and I too.

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Speaker 1: There are certain women who I'm like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: a red lip on that person is.

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Speaker 3: But I don't want to red lip every once in

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Speaker 3: a while. But I was just going to share day.

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Speaker 3: But I think it's and I loved it on Mimi.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think it's like, say, yea, if I

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Speaker 4: had a wife and I was fifty and she was

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Speaker 4: wearing red, I'd be like, Okay, I love this.

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Speaker 3: I think it's right now.

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Speaker 4: I don't love a huge pop on a girl that

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Speaker 4: I'm interested in.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how I don't love it. Let's just

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Speaker 3: put it that way.

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Speaker 4: If it's once in a while, if I'm dating a

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Speaker 4: girl and we're going out and she pops on a

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Speaker 4: red I don't mind. But like an everyday thing, I

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Speaker 4: don't love a red lip now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, when I get older, I think I'm gonna go

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Speaker 2: fully gray and have super long red nails into a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I want to try to Miami.

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Speaker 1: No, I changed my mind.

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Speaker 3: Thank god, you were really off the rock or that day.

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Speaker 1: What did I say?

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Speaker 4: You were gonna get like giant f boobs, platinum blonde,

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Speaker 4: long nails, and you're gonna move to boke A ratone

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Speaker 4: or some shit and in a retirement fifty five and older.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, my sister.

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Speaker 3: Is losing her fucking mind.

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Speaker 4: Could you imagine me coming in and being like, I'm

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Speaker 4: just gonna go up to the mountains.

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Speaker 3: Forget the hair shaved.

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna get a I'm gonna hang waits for

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Speaker 4: my penis to see how big it can get, and

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Speaker 4: then I'm just gonna hang. You'd be like, Easton, what

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Speaker 4: the fuck are you on?

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Speaker 2: Well, now we know why I'm getting on peptides well

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Speaker 2: needed because everything is going.

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Speaker 1: A little everything's getting just a little too quirky.

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Speaker 2: You know, do you guys notice when a girl changes

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Speaker 2: her hairstyle.

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Speaker 4: Drastically? Yes, Like if somebody comes in with bangs, I'm like, ah,

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Speaker 4: you got bangs. If somebody got if like a girl,

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Speaker 4: I won't lie. There's been times where like mom gets

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Speaker 4: her hair done and I'm like, how fuck did you do?

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Speaker 1: She's like, do you like my hair?

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Speaker 3: Like? Yeah, I love it, but I have no roots.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, with with those hands, you can't get a.

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Speaker 3: Beautiful go.

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Speaker 2: You literally are like the guy who what is his

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Speaker 2: name who does the.

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Speaker 1: Krabby patties, mister crabs, mister Crabs? Is that his name?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm pretty sure you're mister crab. And you walk

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Speaker 3: like him too. Yeah, I love.

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Speaker 1: You, Mom.

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Speaker 2: You're you're by the way, you're a star and your

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Speaker 2: hat is still crooked and it's.

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Speaker 1: Been over an hour. Yeah, can I tell you what.

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Speaker 3: You look like? Right?

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Speaker 1: Do men like it?

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Speaker 2: By the way, though, as a woman, I notice if

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Speaker 2: a man changes his facial hair. I notice if a

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Speaker 2: man fades his hair differently. I notice every little detail.

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Speaker 3: See.

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Speaker 1: I know, but this is man explaining because.

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Speaker 4: You guys got to understand. We'll never understand women like

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Speaker 4: this man said, he made a video. Girls put nails

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Speaker 4: on top of nails. They have a twenty minute nightly

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Speaker 4: routine with three different oils and then eight.

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Speaker 2: Different So your nightly routine last night and it was

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Speaker 2: pretty excessive, and you're you have painted.

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Speaker 3: Nails nails on top of nails. That's a gel.

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Speaker 1: That is a gel nail.

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Speaker 3: Fuck. So maybe I understand women.

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Speaker 1: That's why we're asking you.

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Speaker 4: But like that's where I'm saying, like, how can I

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Speaker 4: you guys change? Do you like my nail color, my

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Speaker 4: new hair, my love color? I outline my lying eyes different?

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Speaker 3: Do you like that?

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Speaker 4: It's like, holy fuck you do every day like beautiful

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Speaker 4: sweetheart Jesus Christ. I don't know what's different.

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Speaker 1: Do men like it when women make the first move?

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Speaker 3: Hell? Yeah, I do you do it?

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Speaker 1: Well, that's because you're not an aggressor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not an aggressor. See, I don't like speaking

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Speaker 4: for all men. I'm very different because there's some mormal man. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I know, don't come up to me.

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Speaker 3: I know what I like. I'll go get down.

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Speaker 1: You sound like the guy from Beauty and the Beast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I like.

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Speaker 4: I like a girl when she makes like not even

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Speaker 4: the first move, but like comes and says the I

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Speaker 4: mean as a.

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Speaker 3: Move the first word.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say.

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Speaker 4: Then, Yeah, I like that because sometimes I get deterred

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Speaker 4: by like how there are like meat men and it's

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Speaker 4: like but you feel no, I see girls and it's

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Speaker 4: like they're either getting trampled by meat men and then

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Speaker 4: getting dismissed.

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Speaker 3: And then I see and I'm like, you have had

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Speaker 3: such a shitty night. I'm just gonna let you be.

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Speaker 4: You have gone through the ringer, my gal, and I'm

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Speaker 4: not going to be number fifty four.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's not so sweet?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but no, Like I'll see girls and if there

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Speaker 4: is a cute girl and I'll see like two dudes

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Speaker 4: go up, and I'm like, you know what, why would

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Speaker 4: I do that to her when she may just be

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Speaker 4: trying to have a good night, but if she were

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Speaker 4: to come and make movies? Like all right, totally, but yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm not an aggressor. I like to I like when

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Speaker 4: people enjoy their nights. And I don't know why you

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Speaker 4: came out. Are you just with your girls to be

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Speaker 4: with your girls or did you come out.

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Speaker 3: To get dick? I don't know. Yeah, so if you

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Speaker 3: did come throwing.

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Speaker 1: It in here, I do this sweat.

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Speaker 2: If not, though, like I just want to leave you Bee.

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Speaker 2: I think you're very respectful and I like this. Do

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Speaker 2: you guys really mind if a woman texts for like,

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Speaker 2: if a girl texts you first, is it kind of

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Speaker 2: like I'm not into this.

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Speaker 3: No, But then again, it's like, is it a first

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Speaker 3: text every day? Is it? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like the conversation was dead, and then an hour

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Speaker 4: and a half later, you're texting me again first to

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Speaker 4: keep it going.

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Speaker 3: Then I'd get annoyed.

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Speaker 2: But like if wait, see, I would think if I

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Speaker 2: if the roles are reversed going back and forth.

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Speaker 1: Let's just say I initiated.

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Speaker 2: The conversation and we went back and forth and it

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Speaker 2: kind of fell flat, and he was the last one

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Speaker 2: to text, and I just didn't respond, and then he

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Speaker 2: sent another I would then think, Okay, he's interested enough

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Speaker 2: to keep this because the conversation's done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's then doing a follow up. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: would you think that's annoying if she did a follow up?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm saying like there's so many different like you know,

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Speaker 4: like different narratives that could be. But like if we're

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Speaker 4: talking your story and she'd text me again, I'd be like, hell, yeah, No,

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: Care at all. I would like that.

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Speaker 4: It's all just so I can't speak anybody but myself.

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Speaker 2: Like that's the thing, what do you think of double

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Speaker 2: texting them? Even if you're into her? Yeah, like that

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Speaker 2: would make you not into her anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Like, I don't like the double text.

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Speaker 4: I like when people like write the paragraph and like

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Speaker 4: return return and then the second return return, And like,

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Speaker 4: if you're talking about three things, don't send me three texts.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. That's just me.

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Speaker 1: I okay, what about a bro code broke?

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Speaker 3: Oh, like cheating and your brother.

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Speaker 2: Let's just say you and your friend. He's not like,

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Speaker 2: he's not like a best friend.

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Speaker 1: He's just like a homie, right.

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Speaker 3: Oh, bro code like and he likes the girl, but the.

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Speaker 2: Girl actually likes you. And you're like, I'm interested in her.

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Speaker 2: Do you say, like, I can't happen because my homie

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Speaker 2: Because that's a female dog, and we love our female dogs.

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Speaker 4: We talked about her family and and it's like we

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and you're so sweet. Do you believe in once

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I yeah, I don't know, because I would never cheat.

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Speaker 4: I want to say yes, But I'm a man and

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Speaker 3: And even if you break up, you lie to yourself

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Speaker 4: Wasn't a relationship, she wasn't this, And then when you

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Speaker 4: it's like, why are you cheating on all these women

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Speaker 3: I will I take cheating on the chin.

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Speaker 4: When it's like twenty eight, twenty nine, I will say

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Speaker 2: I disagree because I still believe that he is a narcissist,

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Speaker 1: And what I've learned is not all cheaters are narcissists,

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Speaker 2: So the moment some the moment I see red flags

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Speaker 4: I will I all agree I agree to that? Will

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's my thing. It depends on who.

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Speaker 2: If you're in the Bravo universe, yes, people are going

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Speaker 2: to constantly remind him that that happened.

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Speaker 3: And I think with him getting car out of it,

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Speaker 4: So that's where I'll say, he'll change his spots if

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Speaker 4: but we're out of it.

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Speaker 1: Most people like if.

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Speaker 2: Hev universe, people don't talk about it.

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Speaker 1: No one knows about it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but America's got talent. Yeah, when he first did it,

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Speaker 2: He said, I went through a really difficult scandal and

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Speaker 4: I know, but no, But like now when you know

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Speaker 4: what is?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I'm Tom Sandval, Oh what do you do? Uh? Scan

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Speaker 3: of All is like the biggest thing. So all I'm

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Speaker 3: saying is what he would say. He's not even ever

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Speaker 3: heard of Scan of All. He was on things like.

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Speaker 4: But that's where I'm saying sand of aal will continue

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Speaker 1: But I believe he's a narcissist.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he looks at himself as that person.

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Speaker 1: It's the same as my ex.

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Speaker 2: No, but you're I think all is good, and it's like,

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Speaker 2: do you realize how the outside world looks at you?

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Speaker 2: They're like, I'm fine, I have plenty of friends, I'm

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Speaker 3: Even reading his own comment section.

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Speaker 1: They don't believe that. They think it's everyone else's problem.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying they will continue to.

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Speaker 2: Do so what they do because in his mind nothing

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how did this go?

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Speaker 1: For me? Asking if once a cheater always.

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Speaker 2: It's just such a I know guys who have cheated

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Speaker 1: You're not a bad person.

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Speaker 2: Then there's people like people I've been with or the

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Speaker 2: men care about a woman's body count? How many dudes

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Speaker 3: Do dudes care about women's body count?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Like, yeah, girls? Oh really?

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Speaker 2: If the girl's like, I've been with like twenty seven guys,

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Speaker 1: You care how many dudes she's been with? I'm disappointed

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not I'm fine with twenty seven. I'm fine.

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Speaker 4: Like two hundred and fifty, I'm like, oh, do girls

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Speaker 3: No, I need more than You'd be like, oh, no.

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Speaker 1: Line too many miles on this car, I see it breaking.

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Speaker 3: To give out? So what is that hip going to

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Speaker 3: give out? As I'm ramming you down the highway?

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Speaker 2: I'm excited for you to have a podcast so that

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Speaker 2: you can have conversations that we can't have with each other.

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Speaker 3: And here question it's about me.

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Speaker 1: You guys, thank you.

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Speaker 2: For listening to a bonus episode of Untraditionally La La.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna catch you guys on Wednesday for a regular

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Speaker 2: old episode and again on Monday.

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Speaker 1: BA