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Speaker 2: Hi Cheekies, I am from Florida. I'm actually Brazilian. I'm

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Speaker 1: You are a badass, Melissa, first of all. And I

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Speaker 1: So thank you Chantelle. And talking about tacos. Oh my gosh, dude,

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Speaker 1: Kate. Thank you first of all for your question, and

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