WEBVTT - The One With Janet Caperna From The Valley 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:09.360 Hello, gorgeous. It is Lala Kent. Welcome to the Give 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:13.280 Them Lala Podcast. We're fresh off of We've had Halloween 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:19.640 Happen booky season. Janet showed up to trigger treat well. Hi, 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:20.560 Janet Caperna. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.000 Hey, I'm so excited to be here. 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:23.919 More excited. 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:24.720 I love it. 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:28.040 We're very excited because you kill it on Sheena's podcast. 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:31.200 Thank you, you're like seasoned in the podcast world. 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:33.440 Thanks, don't you think? Yeah, it felt like the right 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:35.599 thing to do. Jared, Jason and I have our own 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:39.599 now too, and it Yeah, if I love podcasting. 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:44.199 Let's talk about that first. What made you go, you 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:46.959 know what, we need to start a podcast? Because not 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:48.920 to throw shade at anybody, even I sit here and 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.959 I'm like, there are a million in one podcast that 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:56.000 trio though with you, your husband Jason and then your 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:59.600 gusband Jared yep, what is the dynamic like and what 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:01.960 would you say your podcast is? Like? Like, what do 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:02.760 you guys talk about? 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:05.280 I love it, so I love to chat and I 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:07.720 feel like that's all I do. So it felt right 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:09.720 for me to have one. And I felt like she 0:01:09.800 --> 0:01:11.800 and I kind of gave me training wheels with hers, 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:14.240 like I got to co host and it wasn't you know, 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:16.720 my podcast, but I got to be around regularly and 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:18.640 I was like, I really like this, So I wanted 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:20.000 to do my own, but I wanted it to be 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:23.000 a little bit different than everybody else, and I didn't 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:25.200 want it to just be me. So I was like, Okay, well, 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:27.600 I definitely I would love Jared on And then I 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:29.920 was like, but Jared and Jason have such a great 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.920 dynamic where that you don't see that often, and so 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:34.520 I was like, it'll be fun if the three of 0:01:34.600 --> 0:01:36.920 us do it. And now we also called Jason like 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:39.400 our legal expert, so Jared and I will be in there. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:42.720 We'll be like, Jared'll be like, she literally did this, 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:45.200 and Jason was like, but wait, did she actually do that? 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:46.960 And he's like, well no, and he's like, well, then 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:47.960 you need to say allegedly. 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.160 We live and die by allegedly yes. 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:54.720 And so it's like a fun, interesting, you know, dynamic 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:56.480 the three of us that I don't think you see 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:58.920 very often, and we just talk shit on there. 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:03.000 I love that. Now you're on a show called The Valley. 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:04.160 I've never heard of it. 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:05.800 Oh my god, it's crazy. 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:10.120 You just finished season two, and I am well aware 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:13.960 that Bravo will have my head and your head on 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:16.320 a platter if we deep dive into it, So I'm 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:21.400 going to stay away from it. But I do want 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:25.520 to know. Was it weird when you first started filming 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.399 and you're like, they're like, just live your life. When 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:31.320 someone tells me to do something that I do pretty 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:34.080 much every day, I suddenly forget how to do it. 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:34.440 Yes. 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:37.600 Yeah, it's an awkward thing. Like they'll be like, you know, 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:40.280 You'll like, we'll be over this morning just whatever your 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:42.760 morning routine is. And I'm like, so you want to 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:45.160 watch me? Like scroll on TikTok, I like. 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:45.960 Take a shit. 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:49.919 Yeah, Like my morning routine is not beautiful. I'll tell 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:50.120 you what. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:52.320 I'm like, what am I supposed to I don't know 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:55.000 it is. It's like suddenly you like realize you have 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:56.080 hands and you're like, what am I? 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:58.240 What am I supposed to do with these? What do 0:02:58.280 --> 0:02:59.240 you change? Right? 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:02.119 Yeah, it's weird. And the whole process it really does, 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:04.480 I think take a year to get used to because 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:07.080 when you film, you get close to the crew and 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:09.400 the people who are around all the time, so it 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:11.280 feels you kind of in a weird way. Do you 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:14.320 forget that cameras are there, or it feels comfortable that 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:18.800 cameras are there. Then time passes before it airs, and 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:22.680 that's a whole other beast and situation Gary, And you 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:25.640 watch it all back and then you see everybody's perception 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.880 of it, and so it really is like a full 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:31.040 year of like getting in it before you really realize 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:31.520 what it is. 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:40.120 I feel like Jason the first season was very much like, oh, 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:42.600 this is strange. And then I feel like not only Jason, 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:46.520 but most people and just what I've seen when I 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:49.960 see a new season of Housewives where it's like a 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:53.120 brand new city, brand new people that are just like 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:56.880 bride eyed and bushy tailed, And then come the second season, 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.720 they know the drill and you never know is that 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:04.040 you're right? Isn't my turn? I don't know right? And 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:07.080 if you go past a few seasons, you're gonna have 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:08.040 more than. 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:09.280 One bad run. 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:12.560 Yeah, and it can sometimes take you out. Do you 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:15.000 feel like season two you kind of have been able 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:18.360 to adjust to, like, Okay, I know when to quiet 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:21.360 the noise, I know when to not look. We talk 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:22.279 about this all the time. 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:25.600 I don't know if I learned my lesson season one 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:29.120 per se it's interesting and it's you know, I actually 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:30.960 used to like make fun of she next you'd be like, well, 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:32.880 season four, and I'm like, well, what year are you 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:35.599 talking about? Like she lives her life and seasons, But 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:39.120 it really is like that now, and it's crazy because 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.880 it is a different chapter. So season one, I was pregnant. 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:45.760 Season two, I had just stopped breastfeeding right before we 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.719 started filming so that I could really like have a drink, 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:51.240 get in the mix right, And that was a totally 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:53.040 different thing for me, like being able. I had never 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.600 had a drink on camera before. I don't know if 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:57.640 it was a great idea. 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:01.040 You know, there there are seas, and this is what 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.680 this is what I try to tell, Like when people 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:08.520 are now in this environment, you know, the cringe moments 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:12.480 that you sometimes have where you look back or like 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:15.280 you watch it and go, oh my gosh, I never 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:19.360 should have acted that way will one day become iconic 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.920 and funny and funny and you'll be able to laugh 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.400 about it. And I try. When I'm having all the 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:27.760 anxiety in the world about a season or a moment, 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:30.000 I'm like, there's going to be a day where we're 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:33.080 all like super old and we're going to look back 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:35.400 and we're going to forget all of those like little 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:39.279 nuances and just remember that we were on a really 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:40.200 cool show. 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:44.479 I had the core experience with this group of people, right, 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.080 and you're bonded and a really maybe even like trauma 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:48.440 bonded and the trauma bonded. 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.040 I have a question, what is the worst part of filming? 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:57.200 The filming, mentally waiting for it to release or when 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:59.000 it releases. And I feel like that's a thing for 0:05:59.040 --> 0:05:59.920 both of you, Like, what. 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.919 Is the worst part of like in all three stages? 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:07.800 Yes, is it filming what you filmed and waiting for 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:10.320 it to release and thinking what is everybody gonna fucking 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:10.760 think of me? 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.359 Or having people watch you through it. 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:16.600 I think there's pros and cons to each. During filming, 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:20.000 it's just a it's a busy time because you're doing 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.000 so much and it all happens so fast, and you're 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:25.320 just kind of like you kind of almost have to 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:28.680 like pause, like doing laundry or like anything that like 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.440 you're like everyday life kind of has to pause because 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:35.839 you're just like busy. Right afterwards, once I'm done, I 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:38.720 don't have anxiety about it. I feel maybe I should. 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:41.080 But right now that we're in that in between the 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:42.880 quiet time, I like this time a lot. 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:43.160 Well. 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.520 I feel like, because you're real and honest, the people 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:47.479 who weren't, who were like, oh god, I feel like 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:49.320 that's their shittiest time. 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:52.480 I have moments I'm looking I'm like that, I'm like, oh, 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:56.440 that's going to be bad, or like okay, like my 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:58.960 mom might be like what the hell were you thinking? 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:01.479 I love you know, during the whatever, So I know 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:03.799 I'm going to have moments that I'm not super proud 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:06.560 of or that I'm not looking forward to rewatching. But 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:08.520 right now, what can I do about it? It's going 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:10.760 to be months and months, So I try to enjoy 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.560 the quiet, get back into like laundry and organizing my 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:15.760 house and doing all the boring shit that like you 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:17.000 don't necessarily have time to. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.040 Go back to being a normal human yes. 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:22.960 And just enjoy the basic everyday life when it's airing, 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:25.480 I will say, I think for me, that's the most 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:29.560 anxiety I have, Oh my god, because sometimes you even 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:32.680 you know, when I'll see an episode and I'm like okay, yeah, 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:35.119 all right, I you know, I said what I said. 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:38.080 I think that they summed up how I felt really well, 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:41.840 that was fair and I think people are gonna understand. 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:44.240 And then the audience sees it. There you go twenty 0:07:44.240 --> 0:07:47.920 four hours later and they're like, fuck her, and I'm like, what. 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:51.080 You're like, I came across so great in that episode. 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:55.040 I was logical, right saw both sides or those times. 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:58.080 Where I'm like, I'm like, oh man, that I shouldn't 0:07:58.080 --> 0:08:01.320 have said that one thing, and it's in and everybody's 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:03.120 going to drag me for it, and people breeze right 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:05.560 past it. So I would say, like, the hardest part 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:09.440 is you can't ever feel like you can watch something 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:11.600 and feel like, oh it's super great or it's horrible, 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:15.560 and it might not be what everybody else thinks. 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:17.040 And you know what we're gonna say. 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:19.600 I was just going to say, from first season to second, 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:23.280 what did you find out you enjoyed more or less? 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.280 You know, I think second season I just was like 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:29.360 I realized I just need to stop and enjoy the process. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:31.760 I'm like, okay, when first season it was like, oh 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:33.440 my god, when is this going to be over? And 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:35.920 it's just it was you know, I was pregnant, so 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:36.720 I was also just. 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:37.560 Like very hormonial. 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:39.720 I couldn't wait for everything to be done and to 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:42.760 get back to just like being a homebody right and 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:45.640 now second season, I was like, it's as soon as 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:48.120 you start saying like, oh I need a break, it's 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:50.719 over in a heartbeat and it flies by. So I 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:54.400 could kind of reassure myself season two, Okay, enjoy the time, 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:57.120 and you know, know that you get to see your 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.400 friends like every day, you know, when we're not filming 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:02.920 with each other frequently, but during filming, it's like you 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:04.720 get to see everybody every day. Like try to actually 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:08.960 enjoy and then wait for it to be over, because 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:10.200 it'll be over. It flies by. 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:12.760 I know. It's really sad. Don't even get me started 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:15.760 on time because I have a very I don't know 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:18.640 if it would be called an unhealthy relationship with time, 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:21.840 but it brings me to my fucking need when I 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:24.760 think of time passing and things being over and done, 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:27.520 and I feel like when you film a show like 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:30.280 back in the day, like you never know where you're 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.680 gonna end up, right totally, and you always end up 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:35.160 in a place where you're like wow, and as time 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:37.800 goes by, You're like, I wish that I would have. 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:39.959 I get asked this all the time too, by the way, 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:43.920 like what would you tell your younger self? Or what 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:48.280 would you tell season four you? And it reminded me 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:51.920 of there's this new movie that has come out, so 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:53.880 I want to talk about the movie trailer. And this 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:55.600 is what prompted me, because I also want to know 0:09:55.640 --> 0:10:00.079 what you think, Janet. So there's this movie that I 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:03.480 I saw this weekend and it's called My Old Ass 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:05.800 and it's gonna be on Amazon Prime. But basically, the 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:08.240 movie is about an eighteen year old girl who takes 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.679 mushrooms and the trip she goes on brings her face 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:14.760 to face with her older self, and of course her 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:17.520 older self is telling her all the things that she 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:20.559 should and shouldn't do in her life. And it made 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:23.559 me start thinking what I would tell my younger self 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:26.920 if I had the chance. So Easton and Janet, I'm 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:29.560 sure you guys have some things that you would like 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:33.240 to warn your younger self about, and I want to 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:36.640 know what those things would be. If you could go 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:42.400 back in time, whether it's yay hi last season, what 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.160 would you tell your younger. 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:47.280 Selff you know. I think I would actually tell myself, like, 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:50.640 it's all gonna be okay, just do it and let 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:55.400 myself actually make the same mistakes because now you know, 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:57.360 everything leads you to where you are now, and I'm 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.800 happy where I am now, so I wouldn't. I'm also 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:02.600 afraid of like butterfly effects, stuff like if you change 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:06.280 one thing, then the smallest thing like that could disrupt 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.080 the whole big picture in the future. So it's like 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:11.760 I would tell myself, like, it's all everything's going to 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.440 be okay. You're going to go through some shit, but 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:14.520 it's all going to be okay. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.800 I love that. I'm scared of things like that too, 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:20.720 though I'm like, one little change and the whole picture different. 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:25.400 Oh my god, I really know like him, what. 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.920 Would you tell your younger self teas to not be. 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:30.439 Afraid to put yourself out there, Like, don't worry about 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:33.440 other people's opinion of you. You know who you are 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:38.800 and then their success and failure, so always try and 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:40.560 you'll learn from it. So I would just say, put 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:44.120 yourself out there and don't be afraid to try. 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:44.920 Yeah and fail. 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:49.199 I love that ours are all very like cute and sentimental. 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:51.560 I think if I could go back and tell my 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:54.320 younger self something, I think I'd go back and be like, 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:57.080 I'm just here for the ride, like don't listen to me. 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:59.400 Like I may know what the future holds, but like 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:01.480 it looks pretty fucking awesome, So just like do the 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:03.800 damn thing. The one thing I'm gonna tell you, though, girl, 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.880 is like, you know how you are a drinker. You're 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:09.200 soon gonna be an AA and that's all good, like 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:12.440 you're gonna thrive in it. But like maybe don't like 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:16.040 say stupid things that you're gonna regret tomorrow, those things, 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:20.199 like just shut up. You know that's fair, because like 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:24.719 you said, one one thing that would be different, the 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.320 entire picture looks different. And I can go back in 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.079 time and say I wish I wouldn't have done X, 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:32.240 Y and Z. Well, then ocean wouldn't be here, you know, 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:34.600 so so wouldn't be here. So I love. I love 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:38.080 everyone's answers for sharing that I know. 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:43.600 I often think back to I when I first met Sena. 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.920 I was staying at an airbnb that was in Hollywood. 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:48.719 My friend and I went to a bar that was 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.840 walking distance from our airbnb. We asked the bartender, like 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.240 what's cool in La to do? Like what should we 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.960 do today? The bartender was like, you should go to 0:12:57.000 --> 0:12:58.800 the Mandria and they have a pool party, and that's 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:04.319 where I met Sena and life all happened. Like I 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:06.079 always joke I'm gonna write a memoir one day that's 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:08.960 like I owe my life to Sheena. She that's amazing 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.240 because if I wouldn't have met her, I wouldn't be 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.760 doing the valley and wouldn't have this whole life now it's, 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:17.000 you know, become my career. I wouldn't have met Jason, 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.160 so I wouldn't have had my baby, my husband, Like 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:23.160 so much has come from my friendship with Shea A lot, 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:26.560 my friendship with you. Literally where I'm sitting here right 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:28.720 now is all because of that one day. And it's 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:30.760 because this one bartender told us to go to this 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:36.160 pool and I started a friendship that then started a relationship. 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:39.320 Like everything. So I often think back, like if I 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:42.440 would have gone somewhere else that day, my life would 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:44.000 be completely different. 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:47.280 Totalfe, Yeah, wows. 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:48.640 I think back to you, like if I wouldn't have 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:51.120 picked that airbnb that was near that bar, It's like 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:54.000 all these little choices that you don't think. You're like, oh, 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:55.719 which airbingb, I know this one or this one. I'll 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.800 just pick this one and it ends up like leading 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:01.160 you down this path. That's now you know my life 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.280 would literally be completely different. 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:03.960 Wow. 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:06.400 I'm very happy that you said that and this was 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:06.920 the topic. 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:11.240 You grow wild that the movie My Old Ass would 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:14.720 take us on such an incredible journey of being grateful 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:18.880 for the life choices that we've made. Ever wish you 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:21.680 could have a talk with your younger self in My 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:26.120 Old Ass starring Aubrey Plaza and Mazie Stella from Amazon, 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:30.680 MGM Studios, Elliot's wise cracking older self gets the chance. 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.960 My Old Ass rated R, coming soon to Prime Video. 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:39.440 So Jannet and I we've been friends for a really 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:42.160 long time. It's so interesting because when people see me 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.080 post with you, they're like, she's trying to get on 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:47.360 the valley. I'm like, honey, I'm a fucking star. 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:51.400 More like I've tried to drag La La onto the valley. 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.280 No, we've been friends for a really long time before 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:59.680 the Valley even existed, and you and I took our families. 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:02.160 You were kind enough to invite us to go trigger 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:04.480 treating with you. It's so much fun. It was so 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:05.840 much fun. What were you? 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:06.800 Oh? 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:07.840 So we were food. 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:12.200 Cameron was a hot dog, yes, son, he was so 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:13.320 cute as a hot dog. 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:14.200 He was adorable. 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:17.440 And then I was a hamburger and Jasma's French fries. 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:18.720 And then Jared was a donut. 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:23.360 Yes, and it was Oh, I'm gonna tell the story. 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:26.240 I'm just gonna round this back one time. So we 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:29.240 were I left so Sa at home with the night nurse. 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:32.600 Ocean decided to be a skeleton that night. I wanted 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:35.120 to dress her as Cinderella, but there's no telling her 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:37.000 what she's doing. When she has her mind made up, 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:38.320 you can fuck right off. 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:41.800 I was gonna ask, what's the process for asking her? 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:43.720 Do you just say, hey, you have to dress up? 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:45.080 Like I feel like this is the first year that 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:47.440 she could be like picky about. 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:48.120 What she dresses up. 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:51.280 Every day she dresses up as a princess everything. But yeah, 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:55.320 I asked her. I gave her options because she is 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:57.320 all over the place, so I kind of have to 0:15:57.360 --> 0:15:59.960 bring her back down to like giving her a cup 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:03.480 full of options, and then she picks. So she went 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:06.760 to a party the day before Halloween as a princess 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:09.240 and then to trick her treat as a skeleton, and 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:12.640 she loved her face paint, right. The plan was Cinderella 0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:16.520 for her, and so so was going as Gus Gus. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:20.440 Sosa didn't even dress up because she was adamant that 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:22.320 she was going to be a skeleton. I'm like, well, 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:24.800 now Sosa is just gonna look like all right, which 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:27.800 is still cute but also sounds very hard for me 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:30.560 to have to deal with pushing her around. And the 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:32.760 reason I say I'm weird with time is I looked 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.440 at ocean and was like, next year, she's going to 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:39.400 be a fully different human being, you know. Like she 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:44.080 went with her dad on a vacation. It was one week. 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:48.160 She came back saying her ours. So what was once 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:52.280 summer moon is now summer moon. Oh no, I hate 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:52.640 it too. 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:55.800 No, it was off growing up. 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:59.560 So time brings me to my niece. But I had 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:02.280 the best time with you guys, because it's always just 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:06.240 lighthearted and fun. And Jared, who's who I call your 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:11.640 guys band? Yes, I walk up because Cam can't walk yet. No, 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:14.040 he's a stroller trigger treater. 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:16.160 Oh the best, the best, guy. 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:19.879 Yeah, And I walk up to this house and I 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:22.240 have pretty cool shoes on, right, and I'm with Ocean 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:26.359 and we're like trigger treat and the woman says, wow, 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:29.040 your dad has such cool shoes on. And I look down. 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:31.719 I'm like, they are cool shoes, but like, on what 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:32.399 planet do I. 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:33.040 Look like a dad? 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:37.399 And I was like whatever, you know, four California. You're right, 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:40.159 I'm wearing both hats. And then I look behind me 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:43.080 and Jared got these chrome shoes on that light up. 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:45.439 Who could not look any ganger? 0:17:45.520 --> 0:17:49.400 Right, I mean in full glam. Also he had full glamy. 0:17:48.880 --> 0:17:54.560 He had sprinkles drawn on his cheeks, like and full glam. 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:56.480 So he did. He certainly did. 0:17:56.520 --> 0:17:58.480 But you know what, he could be a dad with 0:17:58.600 --> 0:17:59.880 full glam, with a. 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:04.439 Like he goes the amount of times a day that 0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:07.920 I get you know, your husband is this, that and 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:11.400 the other when he's with Jamy. Yeah, they just constantly 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:12.679 think that that's your baby daddy. 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:15.320 I've had people Jared and I were at the grocery 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:18.200 store once and he was pushing Cameron. I was pushing 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:21.880 the cart and it's always old people. It's like seventy 0:18:21.880 --> 0:18:24.520 five plus. They stop, they're like, I don't have anywhere 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:26.159 to be, so you don't have anywhere to be. I 0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:27.920 need to stop and like just tell you how cute 0:18:27.920 --> 0:18:30.639 your baby is. For like twenty minutes, this old couple 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:32.760 stopped us and was like, I see both of you 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:36.840 in him, and I was like, wait, looking at Jared, 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:42.080 my husband, but father of my child, I'm like, I 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:45.320 get it because we're together, like chat and pushing him 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.240 around the grocery store. I'm sure we looked like a 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:49.680