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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It is Lala Kent. Welcome to the Give

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Speaker 1: Them Lala Podcast. We're fresh off of We've had Halloween

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Speaker 1: Happen booky season. Janet showed up to trigger treat well. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Janet Caperna.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'm so excited to be here.

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Speaker 3: More excited.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: We're very excited because you kill it on Sheena's podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, you're like seasoned in the podcast world.

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Speaker 2: Thanks, don't you think? Yeah, it felt like the right

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Speaker 2: thing to do. Jared, Jason and I have our own

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Speaker 2: now too, and it Yeah, if I love podcasting.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about that first. What made you go, you

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Speaker 1: know what, we need to start a podcast? Because not

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Speaker 1: to throw shade at anybody, even I sit here and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, there are a million in one podcast that

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Speaker 1: trio though with you, your husband Jason and then your

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Speaker 1: gusband Jared yep, what is the dynamic like and what

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Speaker 1: would you say your podcast is? Like? Like, what do

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Speaker 1: you guys talk about?

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Speaker 2: I love it, so I love to chat and I

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Speaker 2: feel like that's all I do. So it felt right

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Speaker 2: for me to have one. And I felt like she

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Speaker 2: and I kind of gave me training wheels with hers,

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Speaker 2: like I got to co host and it wasn't you know,

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Speaker 2: my podcast, but I got to be around regularly and

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Speaker 2: I was like, I really like this, So I wanted

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Speaker 2: to do my own, but I wanted it to be

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Speaker 2: a little bit different than everybody else, and I didn't

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Speaker 2: want it to just be me. So I was like, Okay, well,

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Speaker 2: I definitely I would love Jared on And then I

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Speaker 2: was like, but Jared and Jason have such a great

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Speaker 2: dynamic where that you don't see that often, and so

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Speaker 2: I was like, it'll be fun if the three of

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Speaker 2: us do it. And now we also called Jason like

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Speaker 2: our legal expert, so Jared and I will be in there.

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Speaker 2: We'll be like, Jared'll be like, she literally did this,

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Speaker 2: and Jason was like, but wait, did she actually do that?

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Speaker 2: And he's like, well no, and he's like, well, then

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Speaker 2: you need to say allegedly.

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Speaker 4: We live and die by allegedly yes.

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Speaker 2: And so it's like a fun, interesting, you know, dynamic

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Speaker 2: the three of us that I don't think you see

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Speaker 2: very often, and we just talk shit on there.

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Speaker 1: I love that. Now you're on a show called The Valley.

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Speaker 3: I've never heard of it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: You just finished season two, and I am well aware

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Speaker 1: that Bravo will have my head and your head on

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Speaker 1: a platter if we deep dive into it, So I'm

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Speaker 1: going to stay away from it. But I do want

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Speaker 1: to know. Was it weird when you first started filming

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Speaker 1: and you're like, they're like, just live your life. When

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Speaker 1: much every day, I suddenly forget how to do it.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's an awkward thing. Like they'll be like, you know,

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Speaker 2: You'll like, we'll be over this morning just whatever your

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Speaker 2: morning routine is. And I'm like, so you want to

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Speaker 2: watch me? Like scroll on TikTok, I like.

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Speaker 3: Take a shit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like my morning routine is not beautiful. I'll tell

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Speaker 4: you what.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what am I supposed to I don't know

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Speaker 2: it is. It's like suddenly you like realize you have

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Speaker 1: What am I supposed to do with these? What do

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Speaker 1: you change? Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird. And the whole process it really does,

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Speaker 2: I think take a year to get used to because

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Speaker 2: when you film, you get close to the crew and

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Speaker 2: feels you kind of in a weird way. Do you

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Speaker 2: forget that cameras are there, or it feels comfortable that

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Speaker 2: that's a whole other beast and situation Gary, And you

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Speaker 2: watch it all back and then you see everybody's perception

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Speaker 1: I feel like Jason the first season was very much like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it can sometimes take you out. Do you

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Speaker 1: feel like season two you kind of have been able

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I learned my lesson season one

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Speaker 2: per se it's interesting and it's you know, I actually

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Speaker 2: season four, and I'm like, well, what year are you

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Speaker 2: talking about? Like she lives her life and seasons, But

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Speaker 2: it really is like that now, and it's crazy because

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Speaker 2: it is a different chapter. So season one, I was pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Season two, I had just stopped breastfeeding right before we

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Speaker 1: You know, there there are seas, and this is what

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Speaker 1: this is what I try to tell, Like when people

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Speaker 1: are now in this environment, you know, the cringe moments

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Speaker 1: about it. And I try. When I'm having all the

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Speaker 1: nuances and just remember that we were on a really

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Speaker 2: I had the core experience with this group of people, right,

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Speaker 2: and you're bonded and a really maybe even like trauma

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Speaker 4: I have a question, what is the worst part of filming?

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Speaker 1: Is the worst part of like in all three stages?

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Speaker 4: Yes, is it filming what you filmed and waiting for

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Speaker 3: Or having people watch you through it.

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Speaker 2: I think there's pros and cons to each. During filming,

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Speaker 2: it's just a it's a busy time because you're doing

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Speaker 2: But right now that we're in that in between the

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Speaker 2: quiet time, I like this time a lot.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 4: I feel like, because you're real and honest, the people

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Speaker 2: I have moments I'm looking I'm like that, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 4: Go back to being a normal human yes.

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Speaker 2: And just enjoy the basic everyday life when it's airing,

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Speaker 2: you know, when I'll see an episode and I'm like okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And then the audience sees it. There you go twenty

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Speaker 2: four hours later and they're like, fuck her, and I'm like, what.

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Speaker 1: You're like, I came across so great in that episode.

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Speaker 2: Where I'm like, I'm like, oh man, that I shouldn't

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Speaker 4: I was just going to say, from first season to second,

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Speaker 2: You know, I think second season I just was like

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Speaker 2: it's just it was you know, I was pregnant, so

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Speaker 2: I couldn't wait for everything to be done and to

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Speaker 2: now second season, I was like, it's as soon as

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Speaker 2: it'll be over. It flies by.

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Speaker 1: I know. It's really sad. Don't even get me started

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Speaker 1: on time because I have a very I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it would be called an unhealthy relationship with time,

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Speaker 1: but it brings me to my fucking need when I

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Speaker 1: think of time passing and things being over and done,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like when you film a show like

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Speaker 1: back in the day, like you never know where you're

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Speaker 1: gonna end up, right totally, and you always end up

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Speaker 1: I get asked this all the time too, by the way,

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Speaker 1: like what would you tell your younger self? Or what

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Speaker 1: would you tell season four you? And it reminded me

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Speaker 1: what you think, Janet. So there's this movie that I

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Speaker 3: I'm very happy that you said that and this was

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Speaker 1: You grow wild that the movie My Old Ass would

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Speaker 1: Old Ass starring Aubrey Plaza and Mazie Stella from Amazon,

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Speaker 1: My Old Ass rated R, coming soon to Prime Video.

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Speaker 1: So Jannet and I we've been friends for a really

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Speaker 2: And then I was a hamburger and Jasma's French fries.

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Speaker 4: I's over here trying to be as gay as he can.

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Speaker 1: wear makeup too, and now she's telling us that she

438
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,880
Speaker 1: wants to put makeup on Easton because boys can wear

439
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 1: makeup too.

440
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:35,720
Speaker 2: You have to let her.

441
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 4: You don't think it's like a massage on the face.

442
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:39,520
Speaker 4: I'm looking forward to it.

443
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,679
Speaker 2: I'm like, you guys, need you need to do a

444
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 2: like a TikToker or whatever the kids are doing these

445
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,359
Speaker 2: days of the process of my make up. Yeah, and

446
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,440
Speaker 2: then you need to have her do a voice over

447
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 2: of like and this is me putting on eyeshadow.

448
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:56,119
Speaker 1: Jannet, You're a fucking genie. And I'm I was like,

449
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,919
Speaker 1: thank you, no, absolutely doing that. And while we were

450
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,399
Speaker 1: trick or treating you guys. So I don't know if

451
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,160
Speaker 1: any of you guys have been living under a rock,

452
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: but the La Dodgers took the motherfucking World Series. You guys,

453
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 1: when I get a whoop whoop in it?

454
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 2: Amen, you're such a sports girl.

455
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,679
Speaker 1: Now, well, I live with like dudes who constantly.

456
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 4: Like we'll be over at the other house'll walk in

457
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 4: and go, why aren't you at our house watching it?

458
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,880
Speaker 4: So we'll stumble on over to her house and then

459
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:25,719
Speaker 4: she'll watch it with us.

460
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: The house just feels alive. And I got dinner with

461
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 1: Stossy the other night and we were talking about sports

462
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 1: sports because Game four was on and we didn't take

463
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:38,360
Speaker 1: it until Game five in New York. But she was like,

464
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,199
Speaker 1: we had a phone now, and she was like, I

465
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 1: just don't you know, Like I'm not into it, she said,

466
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 1: but I do love when Bo has football on on

467
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,959
Speaker 1: Sundays because she goes. Even when it's just myself, Bo

468
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 1: and the kids, it feels like the house is alive

469
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,960
Speaker 1: between like the game and cheering and then Bo's reaction.

470
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that's why I'm into the sports.

471
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that. I actually I have never really

472
00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 2: thought about like that because I'm not a sports girl.

473
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 2: But there is something that's like active and alive, and

474
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,359
Speaker 2: there's always like it makes you feel like cooking something good.

475
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:08,880
Speaker 4: I was just about to say, I know a lot

476
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 4: of like people, even dudes that just like taking care

477
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 4: of the people.

478
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:13,440
Speaker 3: So they're making the.

479
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 4: Food while we're all watching football.

480
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 3: But they just love to do that. It's like taking care.

481
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 3: They like to host.

482
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 1: Yes, there's something about it where you just feel like there's.

483
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 4: Something about friends.

484
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, I don't like being that person though I do. Okay,

485
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 1: so you can be you can be the host. You

486
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 1: hosted the Utah youth football game a few years ago.

487
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 1: I remember, yeah, it was amazing. But while we were

488
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: trigger treating, we saw already a legend Freddy.

489
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:45,440
Speaker 4: I didn't know.

490
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 2: I was just like, there's a tall guy and everybody

491
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 2: as he's walking by, everybody is turning around like oh

492
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 2: my god. And I'm like, the fuck is this guy?

493
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 2: And I think Cass and Jade, who were with, they

494
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 2: were like, oh my they Cass is like a heart doctor,

495
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:07,160
Speaker 2: Jade's a school teacher. Like they don't no offense, care

496
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 2: about like this stuff.

497
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 1: No, not at all, Like they're like, oh, it's so funny.

498
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: You guys are on TV.

499
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: They don't care about it's so cute.

500
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 2: So when I saw them fan like both of them

501
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: they're huge Dodgers fans, they were like, oh, oh my god,

502
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: oh we love you.

503
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

504
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 4: And I was a kid so much.

505
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 2: I was like, is that one of cass his friends?

506
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 2: Does he know this guy?

507
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 1: Like? And why is he acting so weird around him? Foster?

508
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 2: I was like, what's going on? And I think your

509
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 2: mom was like, you don't know who that is.

510
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 4: And I was like, no, Lisa, she wouldn't have known

511
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 4: who that was.

512
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: She definitely did.

513
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 4: She does now.

514
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: Well, he was the MVP of the entire series. I

515
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 1: mean he was hitting home runs each game.

516
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 4: He's hitting home runs on and off that field.

517
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 3: I saw his wife.

518
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 2: I think he has like three kids.

519
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: He does just as cute.

520
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 2: He was declining photos, which I told I felt bad.

521
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 2: Somebody ran up and was like can I love you?

522
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 2: Can we take and he was like, I'm just trying

523
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 2: to have a night with my kids. And I'm like

524
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 2: he would have to do that because if you said

525
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 2: yes to one, he was so packed it would have

526
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 2: been his whole night would have just been that.

527
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: And he was one day coming off one day of

528
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 1: winning the so they won the World Series, trigger treating.

529
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 1: The next day was the parade.

530
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, he had to go home and go to bed

531
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 4: and wake up bright.

532
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: And early, and I'm sure that he had a drink.

533
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: But he was like with his family as they all

534
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: are on the bus during the parade, and he had

535
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 1: a yourbamate in his hand like he's like, full on.

536
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:28,400
Speaker 2: Dad, is that how you say that?

537
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 3: What is it?

538
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: How do you say it? Your mate? You are from Ohio.

539
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 1: Also say Reese's peanut butter cups.

540
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 4: No, I don't like that from you.

541
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 1: Wait, how do you say Reese's and you want your

542
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 1: mate your maamte? Isn't that right? Producer John's it's your mate?

543
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 3: I have no idea.

544
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 4: He's over there shaking.

545
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 2: Hear somebody say a word for the first time, and

546
00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 2: you're like, oh fuck, I've been saying, yeah, you.

547
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 4: Don't they have giant yellow vans.

548
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a kombucha or whatever.

549
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I've.

550
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: Interesting only you though, Like you say, we're going to

551
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 1: Las Vegas.

552
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 4: And then when I asked you how Vegas?

553
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 2: Las Vegas?

554
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 1: Is that not? How you know?

555
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 2: I don't hear it? And then begel?

556
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 4: Everybody says, I say that weird, No, we'd we're having

557
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 4: words after.

558
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 1: This, how Jason, how Jason proposed? And she was like

559
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: he brought in a bunch of begels. I was like,

560
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 1: I have to stop. I will punch you in the

561
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: throat if you ever tell this story again and call

562
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: it a begel.

563
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: Let me tell you it is the it is ruined

564
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,959
Speaker 2: by proposal story. Now when I try to tell people,

565
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 2: like what happened when Jason proposed, I say, in reality,

566
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 2: he went and got Hank's bagels, which our favorite?

567
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 1: Are you stually got Hanks? It's hangls?

568
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 4: Anyway, Hank's bagel.

569
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 2: Now, when I tell the story, I go, he went

570
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: and got breakfast, because every time I say it, people like, wait, wait,

571
00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 2: he got what? And I'm like, fuck it, never mind,

572
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna tell anybody.

573
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: Never mind bagelsaels, yeah, a little Ohio.

574
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 3: Maybe all start saying it that way.

575
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I am.

576
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 2: Avoid the word now.

577
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm glad because that's the whole reason why I wanted

578
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: you to say it properly, Because I'm like, no one's

579
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: gonna care about your gorgeous ring and the fact that

580
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: you're marrying that amazing man. Not only is your husband hot,

581
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 1: he's like the sweetest human on the planet.

582
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 2: It really is. I don't deserve him. People on mine

583
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: often are like, why is he with her? And I'm like,

584
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, bitches either, Okay.

585
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:42,880
Speaker 4: He must be done.

586
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 1: He's book smart, and.

587
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: Don't bring this up with him because I don't want

588
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 2: him to realize that he should be with someone better.

589
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,120
Speaker 1: Right, maybe if they wrote a book about you, then

590
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: he would read it and be like, this seems like

591
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 1: a bad one.

592
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 2: You know what, it is the only reason he's with

593
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 2: the android.

594
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: Oh that's his one flo.

595
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 2: I'm like, you could have had like a brain surgeon

596
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 2: rich lady who was also a supermodel, but you texted

597
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 2: her and it was green and she ghosted you.

598
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: That's one hundred percent. We've actually spoken about that on

599
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: the podcast. I was like, Janet, divorce him the green messages.

600
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: He sucks up the whole group chat.

601
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 2: I know, but he's perfect in every other aspect of

602
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: life other than the green texting.

603
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: Well, by the way, I fully agree with you dismissal.

604
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: It's like he's a real freaking gem, and I'm so

605
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 1: happy for you guys. I want to know who wears

606
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: the pants in your guys' relationship.

607
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 2: Would you say on the surface me like on every day,

608
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: I'm like okay on the foundation Jason one thousand percent.

609
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: But a lot of people don't see that. I feel like,

610
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: and I feel like, especially when you watch us on

611
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 2: the Valley, you would probably be like, oh, Janet's run nightmare. Yeah,

612
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 2: the nightmare running stuff, bitchy like all of those things.

613
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 2: But like Jason lets me get away with a lot

614
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 2: of little things I will say, like I'll be like,

615
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 2: will you do this? And I am annoying in that sense.

616
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 2: When he comes to me and says like, hey, this

617
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 2: is how we're going to do things, I'm like one

618
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 2: hundred percent and I fully trust him and I let

619
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 2: him take the lead in that sense. So a lot

620
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: of the big decisions we make in life, a lot

621
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 2: of the everyday stuff I'm calling the shots on right,

622
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 2: big stuff. Jason calls the shots.

623
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: Okay, I think that's healthy. Yeah, very How do you feel,

624
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: like what's the game plan? I always wonder when people

625
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: are in partnerships, like how does the going out work?

626
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 1: Like how does it work where it's like I want

627
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,719
Speaker 1: to have girls' night or he wants to have guy's night.

628
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: Is that like a big discussion. Is it a planned

629
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: thing where he's like, hey, in two weeks, i'm gonna

630
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: do this, put it on the calendar. What is it like?

631
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 2: I mean, we love our friends, we're both also such

632
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 2: homebodies now that it's we don't go out nearly as often.

633
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 2: So when one of us wants to do something, it's

634
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 2: normally like somebody's birthday or something that's you know, more fun,

635
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: or you know more important, and it's yeah, normally, hey,

636
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 2: we have a shared calendar, and it's like, hey, in

637
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 2: you know, next Thursday, do you have anything? I want

638
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: to do this with my friends. And I'm like next

639
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 2: Thursday and free, you go do that and I'll make

640
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: sure i'm home with the baby, especially if my mom's

641
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 2: not here. But yeah, as long as as long as

642
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,479
Speaker 2: it works on the calendar, we both just yeah, let

643
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 2: each other do our thing. Because it's not like either

644
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 2: one of us are like going out, you know, even

645
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: like twice or three times a week unless there's no

646
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: a very good, strange reason, right, like you're filming a show, yeah,

647
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 2: or there's like three birthdays that week and it's all

648
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 2: you know, something like that. But like for the most part,

649
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 2: it's like, yeah, once a week probably he goes out

650
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 2: with his friends, once a week. I go out with mine.

651
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: We also love doing stuff together, so when my mom's here,

652
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 2: were like, ditch that baby, let's go do something.

653
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like your foundation is you guys are obviously intimate

654
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,719
Speaker 1: with each other, but I think the foundation has to

655
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: be you guys have to be best friends, because that's

656
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: what's going to keep I mean, listen to me I'm

657
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: talking like, I know relationships when I haven't had a

658
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: functioning one since I was like twelve seventeen. Really, but

659
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: when you guys are parenting because you're relatively new at motherhood, right.

660
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 2: Almost eleven months in so yeah, the.

661
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: First year, I still feel like I'm a new parent.

662
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: With Ocean, I'm like, what are we doing?

663
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 2: It's new every single day they start learning to do

664
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 2: stuff and you have to parent those things right.

665
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 1: And by the way, it doesn't get easier with a

666
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: second kid because it's like, well, you're not giving me

667
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: the same kid where I know what to expect, Like

668
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 1: I don't. It's a whole new the whole walks.

669
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

670
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 2: I had never thought actually going to fucking pop.

671
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 4: Huh.

672
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 2: I'd have never I'm like, okay, I know how to

673
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: do this phase.

674
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: You're right, what if the kids do?

675
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: Is there a different kid?

676
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: No, you feel hurt me. You feel more comfortable in

677
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: motherhood with the second, but it's still like, oh, this

678
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: is new. I don't really know what to do about

679
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: this type of stuff. Huh. You know I thought that,

680
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: so what would you say? The most challenging part of

681
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: becoming a mom has been.

682
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 2: Not letting guilt get to you. Okay, you have to

683
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: have balance, like going out once a week with your friends.

684
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: Do it if you have, you know, this time in

685
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: your schedule and it works with leaving your kids somewhere safe,

686
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 2: just go out. And then I would say like dividing

687
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 2: and conquering all the new to do list things, right,

688
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: Like there's all this new stuff that you have to do,

689
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 2: so like how to manage that effectively, like you know,

690
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,239
Speaker 2: cleaning the bottles, Like who's going to do that?

691
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: Who?

692
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 2: And how are we managing? How are we doing all

693
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 2: this and getting it used to a whole new routine.

694
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: But I would say, like not letting the mom guilt

695
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,959
Speaker 2: get to you is tough and it's a constant. Like

696
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 2: sometimes I'll be like I need an hour. He's napping.

697
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna sit and like do something, and then

698
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 2: forty five minutes in, I'm like, why am I doing this?

699
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 2: I should be doing all this other stuff? So you

700
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: have to like find the balance of like give yourself

701
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 2: the hour and then get your shit done.

702
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: I feel bad for it, right. I always wonder if

703
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: that is something that women feel all over the world

704
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: or if it's an American thing where we have been

705
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: like shoved into these positions of like you can sleep

706
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: when you're dead. You know, I don't like you're you're

707
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: never doing enough.

708
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 3: You should be doing something.

709
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: If you have time to chill, then you have time

710
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: to do this.

711
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 4: And it's like, well, I kind of just want to chill,

712
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 4: though I lie to myself and just say it's my

713
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 4: launch break.

714
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 3: I like that, I'm on launch break whatever.

715
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: I like that.

716
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 2: It's also we're also seeing every other mom's highlight reel

717
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: on social media, so you look at everybody else's thing

718
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: and you're like, wow, she got so much shit done

719
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 2: in the day, and you have to remind yourself like

720
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 2: you're not seeing all the in between, you're not seeing

721
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: the downtime, You're not seeing all of that. But it's

722
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 2: really easy to compare, I feel like to other people.

723
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: My favorite mom content is when people are like, my

724
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 2: kid is fucking stupid and here's why yes today, yes, yes,

725
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:03,239
Speaker 2: like or like admitting failure like I'm drowning today, what

726
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 2: do I do? And I'm like, thank.

727
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 4: God with me.

728
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 1: As much as I hate the term relatable queen, it's

729
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: like I really do love it and feel seen.

730
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 4: What do you do when you find an hour, Like,

731
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 4: what do you do for downtime?

732
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: For you?

733
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 4: Even at night? When something a bubble bath? What do

734
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 4: you do for you? Which?

735
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: I love a bath.

736
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 4: I love a bath. I love that you're busy as hell.

737
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: You deserve yes, And now half the time i'm when

738
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 2: I have a bath, it's with Cameron. So it's like

739
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 2: to be by myself in the bath.

740
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: Isn't it nice?

741
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 2: Nice? Honestly? Just sometimes I just like to mindlessly scroll

742
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 2: and like binge, watch Housewives, just kind of do something.

743
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: It just takes me out of life for a second

744
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: and I can just look at dumb shit.

745
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: I love that too. Yeah, like getting a good book.

746
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: But I will say I always go to Housewives. And

747
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: if I don't have a new one to watch, my

748
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: go to is watching og Roney because there's nothing better

749
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: an og Are you caught up?

750
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: I'm caught up on Orange County, love it, Salt Lake. Okay,

751
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 2: I need to binge Potomac, but I'm not.

752
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 3: There Yet's pretty good, Okay.

753
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 4: I love doing all of them.

754
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: And I just met Karen Huger the Grand Dam for

755
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 1: the first time. Where did you meet her?

756
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 2: She was at the direct TV party. Okay, let me

757
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 2: tell you I be lined to that woman and I

758
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,360
Speaker 2: was like, I love you, I love you. She was

759
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: so fabulous. She was super sweet. She actually stoodn't talk

760
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 2: to me for like fifteen minutes. She was super nice.

761
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I have heard of your show. I'm like,

762
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: there's no way she's heard of our show, like mad

763
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 2: for sure, yeah, yeah, yeah, The Valley or whatever. But

764
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: she was like, she was so nice. I just it's

765
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 2: that's like, probably for me, one of the like the

766
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 2: most fun things is I've been a Bravo fan for

767
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 2: so long. Yeah, being a part of it and seeing

768
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 2: these people in the flesh and then being able to talk.

769
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,839
Speaker 4: To them and just I don't know, on the same level.

770
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,919
Speaker 2: It's yeah, I just party with them and chit chat.

771
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 2: It's just so fun to be able to be like,

772
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 2: I love you, girl, No, truly.

773
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: Like That's what's made it hard though, is especially doing

774
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: this podcast, because we do recaps and just like how

775
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: we feel, and I always feel like I have to

776
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: first state like I love all of them because I

777
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: know how the sausage is made totally, and just because

778
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: someone has like a bad a bad season or they

779
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: say something that maybe I'm like, er, it's like, that

780
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 1: doesn't really just embody who that person is, So let's

781
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: just stick to what was on TV. Yes, you know,

782
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: it's hard because I'm like, I know how the fans work,

783
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 1: and I'm like, someone's gonna listen to this, someone's gonna

784
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: cut it, someone's gonna send it. And I'm not in

785
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: the DM, so I don't know what anyone says about

786
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: me because I'm terrified of the DM. It's a scary,

787
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 1: hairy place.

788
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 4: Halloween every year round in.

789
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 1: There, year round it. No, that's what it's called.

790
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: I watched differently now too, when it's after you're on it,

791
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 2: You're like, that could be their the worst one thing

792
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 2: they said, you know, and for months and it's the

793
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 2: thing that people are gonna see the most. So I

794
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: give everybody a much bigger grain of salt after experiencing

795
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 2: it myself. Yes, I'd yell out my mom, I'm the

796
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 2: way over here. I was on the phone with my

797
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: mom and I was like, I'm going to law this podcast.

798
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 2: She's like, Oh, what do you guys have talk about.

799
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, we're recapping stuff. My mom watches Orange County too,

800
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: and I was like, so I'll probably talk you know

801
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 2: some of the Housewives, some of this stuff because you

802
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 2: tell her that Alexis Blina needs to go. I do

803
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 2: not like her. That woman is just running her mouth everywhere.

804
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: And I go, mom, that's what people say about.

805
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: Me, because it's crazy when you can be like.

806
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 2: Running her mouth everywhere. I like, I run my mouth everywhere.

807
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, Alexis Blino probably is a mom somewhere too.

808
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 2: That's like, my daughter is actually a very lovely, kind person,

809
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 2: just like you say.

810
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: You know what, though, I actually believe Alexis probably is

811
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: a very kind and lovely person. Let's jump into OC

812
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: because it was the finale. Yeah, let's jump right in,

813
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: bend right over. Tomorrow is the well, the first reunion.

814
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: I'm so feting excited. But Alexis, I think could be

815
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: a gem. But she's attached herself to this John Jay,

816
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: I am not a I only go off of my experiences, right,

817
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: so I can only look at someone and go, huh,

818
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: this reminds me of ABC and D. And because I'm

819
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: not an idiot, I know how the alphabet works. I

820
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: know that two plus two equals four. This guy's probably

821
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: a narcissist. I'm just gonna go with that. I'm really

822
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: worried about her, and the flashback scene of her talking

823
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: to Tamra being like, he's the one, He's so great,

824
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: and he like goes to the confessional and is like,

825
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: she's the one. I'm gonna there's no doubt in my mind.

826
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be with her forever, and they like flash

827
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 1: back to him saying the same thing to Shannon.

828
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 2: It's a yike se.

829
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 4: It's a yike Well, Shannon. Her kind of remind me

830
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 4: of the same person, what Shannon if Shannon was younger.

831
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 4: I feel like that's just a Lexis, like he's attracted

832
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 4: to the same person. Looks wise, like they look similar

833
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 4: to me. I don't know if that's just me, but

834
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 4: like when I look at.

835
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: The man's perspective and he just looks nothing. Easan's like

836
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: she's blonde, the other one's blonde. Good bodies. They wear dresses.

837
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 2: Like Alexis Bilino. And I've gotten comments on my Instagram

838
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 2: being like you and Johnny j Are never going to work,

839
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 2: and I want to reply and be like.

840
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I want on the wrong page.

841
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: Hopefully it doesn't work with him because I'm married to

842
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: someone else.

843
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 1: You're like, oh no, do you think it won't work

844
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: out because I had a baby with another man and

845
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,439
Speaker 1: marrying him behind Johnny Jay's back.

846
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 2: I have seen I did see Alexis and Johnny Jay

847
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: at the Direct TV and the US Weekly party together,

848
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 2: So they're making I've seen them make their rounds on

849
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:37,319
Speaker 2: the red carpet too.

850
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: I didn't say hi to them.

851
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 2: Comes with a harder hit, keep going they I was.

852
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 2: I wasn't caught up yet when I ran into them,

853
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 2: so I was like, oh, I don't I don't know

854
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 2: what to say.

855
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 1: But what were they like? Were they camera hungry?

856
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 2: They were walking the carpet and doing everything. So but

857
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: there's there's shows airing right now, so it's that's what

858
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 2: they're supposed to do. But they for somebody who said

859
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 2: that he wasn't interested in that, let me tell you. You

860
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 2: can tell when people aren't interested and don't want to

861
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 2: do the things because they don't do the things. He

862
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 2: was definitely getting in the mix. It seems like he is.

863
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,399
Speaker 1: He's got confessionals with Alexis. It's like beyond and he's

864
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: trying I'm really trying to clear my name. I'm like,

865
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: clear your name by going away, right. People continue to

866
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: talk about you because you keep appearing on our television

867
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: front body. Yeah, yes, and like it's very annoying that

868
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: you see Shannon who's obviously upset and she wants to

869
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,919
Speaker 1: be done with you, right, but you continue to take

870
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: her into like this legal pit of hell and then

871
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: also show up in her place of work. You're a dog,

872
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:51,720
Speaker 1: I agree, dog. I love when they flash to Ryan

873
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: and he's in that like pretty horrific suit ye, but

874
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: actually was tailored really well, so you weren't sure. You're like,

875
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,919
Speaker 1: is it super bad or is it really fucking good?

876
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 1: I can't tell? But he got it on Amazon and

877
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: the theme was like tacky bridesmaids and another reason to

878
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 1: like really be annoyed at Alexa Alexis what's her name again,

879
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: Alexis Alexis Billino. She wasn't even in a tacky wedding dress.

880
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: Her hair was tacky as fuck.

881
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 2: You don't tell everybody to dress up taki or in

882
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 2: something bad, or it's like when you tell everybody like

883
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: come over, I'll be in sweats, and then you come

884
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 2: over in sweats and that person's all dressed up, You're like,

885
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: fuck you, fuck.

886
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: You, fuck you. Your karma is that you're uncomfortable and

887
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 1: I'm not right. So you may look good, but I'm

888
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: sure you feel good, but I feel good. And when

889
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 1: you get to your thirties, you just want to feel good.

890
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 1: When you feel good, you look good exactly. I'm worried

891
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,479
Speaker 1: for jen because she's very sweet, and at the very

892
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: end of the episode, everything comes out that he's like

893
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: laundering money, right allegedly allegedly.

894
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 3: Do we think he's that dumb?

895
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:58,720
Speaker 1: What do you mean? I think a lot of people

896
00:40:58,719 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 1: are that dumb.

897
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 4: I mean, are dumb and laundering money? Are you that

898
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 4: stupid to see what happened to Jenshaw and all of

899
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,359
Speaker 4: that and then bring it to television?

900
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 2: Oh it's saying like, are you that dumb to go

901
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 2: on TV knowing you're doing something legal?

902
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

903
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 3: Like and then just saying yeah, I think could pick

904
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 3: me up.

905
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 2: Narcissists never think they're gonna get caught.

906
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: Thank you. I was sitting here and I'm like, I'm.

907
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 4: Not well, you hand to get caught when you blab

908
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,280
Speaker 4: about it on a housewives, Like, if he wasn't under pressure,

909
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 4: you just did it to yourself.

910
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: But I think most narcissists feel like they're invincible.

911
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 2: They've gotten away with it for so long that it's

912
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 2: just like, yeah, you know what, I haven't had consequences

913
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: for my actions for the last twenty five years, and

914
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 2: I've been doing all this stuff to make all this

915
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,839
Speaker 2: money or whatever. It is, like, why would you think

916
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 2: you're gonna get caught? You've gotten away with it for

917
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 2: so long.

918
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:48,399
Speaker 1: Right, No, it's pretty wild. And what was the most

919
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: heartbreaking is Jen who's like older, older than us, asking

920
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: Gina after she's like, Gina says you, this is like

921
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: not good for you. You cannot marry him, Like he's not

922
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: good for you? And she goes, but what about him

923
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: isn't good for me?

924
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 3: Everything?

925
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:10,760
Speaker 2: Oh god, it's really I mean, it's hard. It's honestly,

926
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 2: it's hard being in his relationship with a giant red flag.

927
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 2: It's also so hard watching your friends do that, especially

928
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 2: if they aren't seeing it.

929
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: Well because their hearts aren't involved and hers is. It

930
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: would be like the way, take the way you feel

931
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:29,399
Speaker 1: about Jason and then take everything about Jason and what

932
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: he does for a living out of it. Just take

933
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: how you feel about him and add all the red flags.

934
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 1: Do you think you could see past them?

935
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 2: That would be tough. I mean now, like if I

936
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: was that, if we were engaged and I found out

937
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 2: that he was in some sort of shady business practice,

938
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 2: I would call it off.

939
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: You would have to. I don't know what she's doing.

940
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like now I'm like, so now you get your

941
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 4: ducks in her own name and get the hell out.

942
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 2: But honestly, if he was doing something illegal now too,

943
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 2: or like allegedly whatever.

944
00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 1: Word I have to say, this is all alleged allegedly, you.

945
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,359
Speaker 2: Know, that would also be it's a betrayal of like

946
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,240
Speaker 2: you were doing all of this, It's almost like cheating.

947
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 2: If he was running illegal or shady business practice behind

948
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 2: the scenes and was keeping that all secret from me, Like,

949
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: that's almost like an affair in my mind.

950
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 4: Well, how I feel like if he's gonna do all

951
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 4: that shady business, his whole life has become shad.

952
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. I think so too. And I always

953
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: tell people like if, well, actually I learned this from someone.

954
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 1: There was like this guy and I cannot remember, but

955
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 1: he was a really good dude, and I believe he

956
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 1: was a lawyer. And he said not Jason, don't but

957
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 1: he said to me, I don't do deals. I've gone

958
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: out with men on business trips and they met and

959
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: they're messing around on their wives. He said, I immediately

960
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: put my guard up and do not work with them,

961
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: because if you could do that to your wife, what

962
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: the fuck could you do to me.

963
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: I've seen this clip before, and I toally agree. The

964
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 2: person you're sleeping every night, you're gonna lie to and

965
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 2: go to bed dirty and all that. Of course you're

966
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 2: gonna scam me for some cash. One hundred less to

967
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 2: lose there than there is in a marriage, So I

968
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 2: completely agree. I mean, I think the same thing when

969
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 2: I see people messing around and doing things.

970
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: I'm seeing parallel. So you're caught up on Salt Lake.

971
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: There's this new girl, Brittany, and she's kind of like

972
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: stolen the show with her relationship, and it's so strange

973
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: to me. I think it's because she's like technically dating

974
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 1: in Osmond, but it's so crazy to see these women

975
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:35,479
Speaker 1: ignore all the red flags there. They're much not much,

976
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,919
Speaker 1: but they're like in their late forties early fifties, much

977
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: older than the two of us, and I just can't

978
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: even imagine letting this shit fly, especially now that I

979
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: have two children. These women like this, Brittany is completely

980
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: up in the night.

981
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 2: It's wild. I mean, the guy is literally like, well,

982
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 2: I guess we just can't be together. Carry on, and

983
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: she's like like it's like he's literally telling you to

984
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 2: your face, I'm not promising you anything. I don't want anything.

985
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 2: We're friends, and she's like not moving on. I'm like,

986
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 2: get out of there.

987
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: She obviously I don't know if she practice Mormonism practices

988
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 1: Mormonism because Angie rolls up to her house this like

989
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: Mormon campfire is something that the Mormons do, and Angie

990
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: brings her wine. Oh yeah, and Brittany's like it is

991
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: so inappropriate and Angie's like, I've seen you drink wine

992
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: on multiple occasions. Like what's so inappropriate about it? So

993
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that she.

994
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 3: Two fair has.

995
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 1: Sex, right, Yeah, she's not a true I think that's

996
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: what's fucking her up.

997
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 4: She's trying to be Mormon but not living a Mormon life.

998
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: Well, I think the guilt weighs heavy on her. But

999
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: I also think what's messing with her mind when this

1000
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,720
Speaker 1: guy who's like very handsome is telling her I cannot

1001
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 1: be with you and give you what you want, but

1002
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: he'll certainly throw the dick. She's confusing his words and

1003
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: intimacy and Easton and I talked about this on a

1004
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 1: Podcas asked a while ago that she because she was

1005
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: in the Mormon Chirts church for so long, she doesn't

1006
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: understand what a friend with benefits is. She's letting the

1007
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,760
Speaker 1: dick cloud her where she thinks intimacy is love Yep.

1008
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 2: In Mormonism, you're supposed to wait till marriage.

1009
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she won.

1010
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 4: And you're only supposed to make the man happy.

1011
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 2: Doesn't butt stuff not count?

1012
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 4: And you can marinate so shoving it in there and

1013
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 4: just flirt away.

1014
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 2: Was it you that just told me about marinating recently?

1015
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 2: Because I had never heard this term. I think it

1016
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: was at your house, so I was like, what what is.

1017
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 3: This braggot soak?

1018
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:38,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh. In her confessional, she talks about her mom's

1019
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 1: relationship with her dad and it was a fairytale romance

1020
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,240
Speaker 1: they met and how long six.

1021
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 4: Days they dated, got engaged, got married within what like

1022
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 4: a couple of months I think, and then have been

1023
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 4: married yeah.

1024
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: Something fifty three years. And I'm like, Chase that my

1025
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 1: love that's called Papa wanted to put his dick in

1026
00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: your mom.

1027
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 2: Okay, except not the rule of like relationships. Most people

1028
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 2: who probably get engaged after six days probably doesn't last.

1029
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: I've only seen two other that I can recall, two

1030
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 1: other cities where the men the husbands of the Housewives

1031
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: have had scenes together. How do we feel like you're

1032
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: on a show with dudes husbands? That's what the show

1033
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: is based on, right, Housewives is about the chicks.

1034
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 4: Right.

1035
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 1: I have seen the men have their their little scenes

1036
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: on og Beverly Hills, and I've seen it heavy on Jersey. Yeah, Jersey.

1037
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 2: I was going to say that Jersey is heavy.

1038
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 4: The dudes could have their own show on Jersey.

1039
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: Right, So how do we feel about do you like

1040
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: seeing husbands scenes? My favorite line was Justin, which is

1041
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: Whitney Rose's husband, where Lisa Barlow's husband John reaches out

1042
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,760
Speaker 1: to Justin and says, you know, we should get together

1043
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 1: and talk about what happened in Justin's I'm just going

1044
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: to be straightforward and telling you know sounds good.

1045
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, be any more straightforward. Yeah.

1046
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,479
Speaker 3: They never talk to him again.

1047
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: Do you like watching the husband scene?

1048
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: I love it. I actually think it makes for some

1049
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 2: of the best TV. I think some of my favorite

1050
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 2: seasons are when the husbands get involved, and I do

1051
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 2: think it's part of the reason that The Valley and

1052
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 2: vander Pump are both heavily watched and very successful because

1053
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 2: it adds a dynamic that you don't see. And there's

1054
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 2: something about when something happens with Jason, I'm right there

1055
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 2: with it, you know what I mean, And then it

1056
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 2: kind of crosses over and you see this. It's just

1057
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 2: a different dynamic. I think on Orange County, you know,

1058
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,240
Speaker 2: with Ryan jumping in and there's you know, and Tarma's

1059
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 2: husband and him getting into it, it adds a whole

1060
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 2: other level where I'm like, oh, this is good.

1061
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,959
Speaker 1: Like you feel like the stakes are higher, stakes.

1062
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 2: Are higher, and you see a different you see that

1063
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 2: person with their like mama bear energy. You know, it's like,

1064
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 2: don't come after my husband or you know, don't come after.

1065
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 4: I was just about to say half the fighting between

1066
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 4: the dudes is because of the wives.

1067
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 3: It's all because of the wives.

1068
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,760
Speaker 4: And they're like standing how I look did the Justin

1069
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 4: fight with what John John? Yeah, is both of them

1070
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 4: were just trying to stand up for their wives, not

1071
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 4: knowing like take that out. They would have been just

1072
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 4: standing having a drink together, not doing anything.

1073
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:23,720
Speaker 3: It's the wives.

1074
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,280
Speaker 4: They got them into it, and I like it because

1075
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 4: it does make the stakes higher. And I love to

1076
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 4: see these men acting cool and chill and all that,

1077
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 4: and then when.

1078
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 3: Shit hits the fan, you see that real person come out.

1079
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 3: You're like, never seen that guy?

1080
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you're about to squash.

1081
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 4: Oh, shut because you're chilling. Now, I really get to

1082
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,320
Speaker 4: see you. Like, No, if the guys go like I've

1083
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 4: seen and I was just about to see, I've seen

1084
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 4: the producers and the cameraman and I really hit the van.

1085
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:53,879
Speaker 3: They're not keeping them back.

1086
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 2: No, It's very like.

1087
00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 3: That's it.

1088
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 4: They need those type of curity cards on your guys's shows.

1089
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: No the men for real though, Yeah.

1090
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 3: Because men that's the other thing.

1091
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 4: Women will fight and baker and all that, but they'll

1092
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 4: leave it.

1093
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 3: Men.

1094
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 4: You saw it with Justin kind of like, I don't

1095
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 4: think he was angrily stepping at no.

1096
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: No, No, What's John would have gone his ass beat?

1097
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 3: Oh John?

1098
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: John stepped in aggressively.

1099
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 3: I would have been pissed off.

1100
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 4: And I like Justin when he was like, I don't

1101
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 4: think I owe them an apology right now. It's like

1102
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 4: you owe justin one John, you just come in and

1103
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 4: shove them, stay out of it. It's like, well, you're

1104
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 4: kind of putting yourself into it. So instead of doing that,

1105
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 4: how about you just grab me, like tap me and

1106
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 4: just be like, come and talk to me.

1107
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 3: Let's stay out of it.

1108
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:44,240
Speaker 1: Well and even say the fuck word he just said,

1109
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 1: don't call my wife a fucking fucking don't see the

1110
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: fuck word to my wife.

1111
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 2: Oh, she came over your wife's fucking liar, wife's fucking liars.

1112
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 2: I don't say my wife's a fucking liar. And then

1113
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: she's like, you said the EF word.

1114
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 4: I'm like, wait a second, don't come at me accusing

1115
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 4: my wife of something, and I'm just a I'm that's.

1116
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: What I So they had replay because there are times

1117
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: where I go toes and I'm like you did this

1118
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 1: and they're like, no, you did this, and I'm like,

1119
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: I think that might be true.

1120
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 2: That's one of the hardest things I think about being

1121
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,440
Speaker 2: on these shows, and maybe something that the audience doesn't realize.

1122
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 2: It's like when something a heated moment happened, somebody says something,

1123
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 2: then it sets and it sets everything off. You don't

1124
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,839
Speaker 2: you don't call producers the next day and say, hey,

1125
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 2: go ahead and send me over that. I wish they

1126
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 2: would send over the fodge, but like, you don't. You

1127
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 2: can't watch it immediately, so then you're like, okay, this

1128
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 2: is how I remember this, and you maybe sometimes go

1129
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 2: too hard and like I'm right, you're wrong, and then

1130
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:35,479
Speaker 2: it airs six months, a year, whatever it is later

1131
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 2: and you're like, oh shit, you I did start this

1132
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:39,720
Speaker 2: right whatever.

1133
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 4: You blackout sometimes when you're like not drinking, but just

1134
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,799
Speaker 4: like the filming blackout, it's all black out here.

1135
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 3: Sometimes my god, I.

1136
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: Leave here and go what did we even talk about?

1137
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 2: I normally remember roughly what I said season one because

1138
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 2: I was pregnant and completely sober. Everybody called me the

1139
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 2: next day and they're like, how did this happen? I'm like, well,

1140
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 2: first you said this, then this person said this, then

1141
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 2: this person stood up. Like the episode where we were

1142
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 2: all at the Madre on having dinner and everyone got

1143
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 2: into it in the hallway. It was like Jesse, Luke, Michelle, Okay,

1144
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 2: everybody's yeah, screaming at each other that night, Everybody's like

1145
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 2: how did we because it happened so fast? How did

1146
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 2: we get here? And that was another one where like

1147
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 2: producers ripping people apart and getting in the middle, and

1148
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 2: you know it's not good when you see.

1149
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 4: All the producers jumping in.

1150
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also an interesting position being when you're filming

1151
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: with a partner, you want that partner to stick up

1152
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: for you in certain stuff, but you also don't want

1153
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 2: them to jump in too much.

1154
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 4: It's like and become part of It's a tough thing. Yeah.

1155
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 2: When Jason's you know, in something and something's going on

1156
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 2: and he's you know, having heavy talk with somebody or

1157
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,879
Speaker 2: somebody says something to him, it is like a moment

1158
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 2: where you really have to take a look at it

1159
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 2: and say, do I jump in and defend him or

1160
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 2: do I want him to jump in and defend me

1161
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 2: right now? Or can I handle my own and do

1162
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 2: I got this? And would I be like mad at

1163
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 2: him if he jumps in, because you experience both. I've

1164
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 2: had times where I'm like, where were you on that one? Jason? Yeah,

1165
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:03,919
Speaker 2: I'm like didn't you hear it? He's like huh what,

1166
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 2: Like I'm like never mind. Or there's times where it's

1167
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 2: like he jumps in and I'm like I'm like, I

1168
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 2: got this you stay back there.

1169
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: Yes, it's hard to.

1170
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 4: Being a guy because if I was Jason and You're

1171
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 4: gonna fight, I'm like, do I need to tap on?

1172
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: Right? Walk a fine line?

1173
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 2: I think as a duke, it's and it's a case

1174
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 2: by case scenario of like, you.

1175
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 1: Know, they also walk the line of if I jump in,

1176
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 1: am I going to be looked at as someone who's aggressive?

1177
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 4: Right?

1178
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,320
Speaker 1: I think it would be really hard to be a dude.

1179
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 1: Like as a chick, we can kind of go toes

1180
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: and do the whole damn thing. Whereas a dude, if

1181
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 1: he inserts himself to protect his wife when it's girl

1182
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: on girl crime, the other chick could easily say like, whoa,

1183
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: you got a little aggressive, and immediately that label is

1184
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: not great. It's a it's a very it's a trigger word.

1185
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, and once you're kind of labeled at that, you're

1186
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 4: kind of stuck there.

1187
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my god, I know you wear it forever.

1188
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: I mean, these Bravo fans, they do not let you

1189
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: forget your past. No speaking of past.

1190
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:05,439
Speaker 2: It's almost like they have it on video.

1191
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: It's almost like they could watch it anywhere. I was

1192
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,479
Speaker 1: watching Potomac and I've always told people do not sleep

1193
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: on Potomac. Since season one, I was like, this is gold.

1194
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: This season they have a not an entirely new cast,

1195
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: but they let go of Robin Dixon and Candice Dillard.

1196
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: I got nervous because I thought both of those women

1197
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: were extremely like they needed them. They were heavy hitters

1198
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: in the game. I was sad to see them go.

1199
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: But they've replaced them with some even heavier hitters.

1200
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:37,720
Speaker 2: I'm excited.

1201
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 3: No, it's good.

1202
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:40,479
Speaker 1: It's really good.

1203
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, you would tell me.

1204
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: So rather than breaking it down, I'm going to ask

1205
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,280
Speaker 1: you guys how you feel about certain things. The first

1206
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: one is they're they're celebrating Wendy's birthday and suddenly it

1207
00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 1: becomes like this whole conversation of people throwing shade. And

1208
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: then it's immediately bringing up everyone's past and it's like, well,

1209
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 1: you dated a drug dealer and she's like when, and

1210
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: they're like the boyfriend before this, and it's like okay,

1211
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: well you used to be a stripper, and I'm like okay.

1212
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,240
Speaker 1: This is where filming a show gets really, really sticky,

1213
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:25,240
Speaker 1: because it is all about bringing in new blood because

1214
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: we number one, just need new faces, but we also

1215
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 1: need other people to kind of take the punches. When

1216
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:37,359
Speaker 1: you signed on for The Valley, were you at all

1217
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: nervous about things that you have done in your past

1218
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: may come up or were you like, I'm not worried

1219
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: about that. I'll talk about it if it's brought up.

1220
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 1: And is it fair for people to hold you to

1221
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: your past? Like this entire dinner was everyone holding each

1222
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: other to their past?

1223
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,720
Speaker 2: I think it's one of those things. Kay, there's always

1224
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 2: I feel like a thread in every cast or every

1225
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 2: show where if you pull that thread, everything's gonna unwrap.

1226
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: I actually feel like you saw it on Orange County recently,

1227
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 2: between especially when you have close friends that are now

1228
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 2: on the outs, when all when one secret comes out,

1229
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, you want to tell them that secret.

1230
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:16,280
Speaker 2: I feel like it happened on Orange County with Tamra

1231
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,399
Speaker 2: and Shannon. They both you know, or had each other's

1232
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 2: backs for so long, so as soon as one of

1233
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 2: them said, oh, well you did this, it was like

1234
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 2: gloves off, gloves off. We're going back and forth, and

1235
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 2: you have a lot of AMMO when you've been friends

1236
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 2: with somebody for fifteen years like they have been.

1237
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what's wild is the receiving person is like,

1238
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 1: can the both of you just shut the fuck up,

1239
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: like the only person affected, you're trying to prove that

1240
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: the other person shitty. You're both shitty breads, be quiet, right?

1241
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,840
Speaker 2: I totally agree. And on a personal level, you know,

1242
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 2: when Jason and I before we agreed to have cameras

1243
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 2: in our lives, we sat down and we went through

1244
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 2: and we were like, what's the worst is what's the

1245
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 2: worst stuff from our past that we think could come up?

1246
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 2: Is there enemies or people we don't talk to, or

1247
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: ex'es or anything that were afraid of and if there are,

1248
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 2: let's talk it out now and then decide if we

1249
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 2: want to be more public people or not. And I

1250
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 2: think everything that we kind of discussed it was like, yep,

1251
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 2: you know this might come up, like I've been married

1252
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 2: and divorced, Like there could you know there could be

1253
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 2: stuff there or you know, in past relationships. Sure nothing

1254
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 2: though that I was like, we can't do this. I

1255
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 2: think anything that you bring up from my past now

1256
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 2: I could answer to and say like maybe not, you

1257
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 2: know proudly. I wouldn't be like, yeah, I'm happy I

1258
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 2: did this, but I don't. I'd be like yeah, I

1259
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 2: fucked up back then. I shouldn't have done this thing,

1260
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 2: and I've grown from it and here's how I've learned

1261
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 2: or whatever. So I think you do before you, you know,

1262
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 2: agree to be a public person, you do have to

1263
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 2: backtrack and think, like, what's the worst thing I've ever

1264
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 2: said or done that could be thrown in my face?

1265
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 2: And how would I answer to it now? And I

1266
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 2: just think as long as you're authentic and you are

1267
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 2: okay with like, I think hiding thing is the worst

1268
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 2: thing you can do.

1269
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: Well it is, you know, from personal experience, Season five

1270
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 1: was a nightmare and me hiding my relationship. Cut to

1271
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: season seven where it comes out that I ate Ariana

1272
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: out in the back of Sandoval's car, and it would

1273
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 1: have been a huge thing, but because we just kind

1274
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 1: of talked about it, it like lived for five seconds

1275
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 1: and died. Like there's something And I think mia on

1276
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,440
Speaker 1: Potomac has conquered the art of like I was a stripper,

1277
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 1: I fucked around on my husband while I you know,

1278
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: during the time that my child was conceived and my

1279
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:33,960
Speaker 1: new boyfriend who I've been with on the side since

1280
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 1: high school it may be his child, and everyone you

1281
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: know is sitting there going like Wow, this is pretty wild.

1282
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: But no one's sitting there being like yeah, talking about

1283
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: it because she just lays it all out there, let's discuss.

1284
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 2: But if it was somebody else uncovering it, like in

1285
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 2: a scene without oh, then it's a big one person

1286
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 2: spreads it, then it's a whole episode and potentially a

1287
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 2: whole season talking about.

1288
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:59,320
Speaker 1: That, right. We also have on Potomac the Grand Dam

1289
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: who was allegedly gotten a dui and not know that

1290
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: she's got.

1291
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 2: Okay, so she's got until after I posted with her and.

1292
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 4: They did a whole list of her ticketing.

1293
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 1: They did, and it was long.

1294
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 3: It was a laundry list.

1295
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 1: But I love The Grand Dom too, And in her interview,

1296
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: please don't drink and dry, I do love the Granddam,

1297
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,919
Speaker 1: and it's we're now kind of seeing two shows run

1298
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: parallel when it comes to like The Granddam Karen and

1299
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: Shannon on oc and I think when you're a part

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Speaker 1: of a show where like you're able to drink and

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00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: many women do it and they're totally fine. Right, I'm

1302
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 1: not naming any of these women alcoholics, but their cast

1303
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 1: members are raising red flags about their drinking, and I

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00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 1: want to know, Janet, because I think about this all

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00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: the time. We're a part of shows where you're supposed

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00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:58,479
Speaker 1: to live your authentic life and everything is out there

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00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 1: and let's mention it all. Well, do you think that

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01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 1: something like this someone's drinking problem or lack of should

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01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: be spoken about on camera or do you think that

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01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 1: conversations like that should take place on the off season

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01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 1: and then just spoken about, like what happened during that

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01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 1: time on camera.

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Speaker 2: It depends. I would say, if the person while they're

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01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 2: filming is getting trashed or like, it's very obvious while

1315
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 2: you're filming that this is a problem, and maybe even

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01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 2: it's if it built up from time you weren't filming,

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01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 2: but while you're filming you're noticing red flags with drinking,

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Speaker 2: then I think it's okay to say, hey, you did

1319
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 2: this thing on camera? Hm, how can I not mention

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Speaker 2: that it's been an ongoing problem?

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01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 1: Okay? Well what about these women who they got into

1322
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 1: accidents allegedly they got into accidents and then it's posted

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01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: about and it's all when cameras are down off season

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01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 1: and they're having to attend court at some point. Is

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01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 1: that fair game to talk about on camera? And say,

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01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 1: I think you have a drinking problem.

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01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 2: I think it's fair to talk about it on camera

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01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 2: because it happened and it's news. So it's like, you know,

1329
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 2: the audience that puts you on this show, they're seeing

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01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 2: these articles they wanted to drew about it. Yeah, so

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01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 2: I think it's it's also just totally how you address it.

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01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 2: If if you take full accountability and you lay out

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01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 2: a plan of how you plan on changing, and your

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01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 2: behavior is aligned with that plan, then I think people

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01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 2: should give you a little bit of a break. But

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01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 2: if you're coming in and nothing seems to have changed,

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01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 2: you don't seem to have learned your lesson at all,

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01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 2: and you're still heavily drinking, then I think your friends

1339
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 2: should be able to say, hey, this is worrisome. I

1340
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 2: think camera went hard, like I think.

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Speaker 1: She always goes hard though. That's who she is. She's

1342
01:01:56,640 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: she's got grit, and yeah, I relate to her because

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01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 1: I deliver you a package covered in shit. But if

1344
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: you can dig real nice and deep, you'll find that

1345
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: my heart's in the right place.

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01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 2: I think she's calling, you know out what she's seeing,

1347
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 2: and I think that that's also what you have to

1348
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 2: do when you're on a show, you can't just sit

1349
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 2: there and ignore everything. Otherwise it'd be the most boring

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01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 2: thing ever.

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01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 4: As a viewer, you signed up for what you're doing.

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01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 4: I want to see it all same I do tell you.

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01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 4: You guys are on this TV show to show it all,

1354
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 4: show me at all. You signed your life to it.

1355
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 4: You could have said no, show me everything, okay.

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01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 2: I I think if you want to hide something from

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01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 2: the cameras, if you're having an affair, if you have

1358
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 2: a drinking problem, if you have a skeleton in your

1359
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 2: closet and you don't want it to come out during filming,

1360
01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 2: protect it, hide it, but don't do the thing like

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01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 2: if you like, you know, if I was having an

1362
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 2: affair and I keep it completely quiet whatever and it

1363
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 2: doesn't come out, fine, But if I'm telling my castmates

1364
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 2: and friends about it off camera and saying like.

1365
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm then it's fair game. Then of course.

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01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 2: They're going to bring it up. So that's one of

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01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 2: those things. If you want to hide something, keep it

1368
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 2: like you hide it, but you can't expect your castmates

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01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 2: to hide stuff. If you're doing things off camera that

1370
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 2: are sneaky.

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01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 1: Right, and like, don't hide skeletons in your closet, like

1372
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:23,439
Speaker 1: maybe sparing them in the backyard and then like dig

1373
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 1: where you're going to have the foundation for a.

1374
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 2: Pool, or open your closet, show everybody the skeleton, and

1375
01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 2: they will forget about it five minutes later.

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01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 1: If you're just like, yep, here it is right, Like,

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01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 1: did I really see that? I'm not quite sure. Would

1378
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 1: she have put it on full display if it was

1379
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 1: a big deal? Yeah? God, I love that you have

1380
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: a soothing voice. Thank you. I love listening to you.

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01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: Thank you. At the end of each episode of the

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01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 1: Give Them Lalla podcast, we do an ache and relief

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01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: of the week Easton, would you like to start us off?

1384
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 3: Oh? Fuck, my ache of the week?

1385
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:55,919
Speaker 4: Let's try to come up with one.

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01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 3: Huh.

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01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: Okay, do you want me to go first?

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01:03:57,920 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 3: Go first?

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01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: Okay. My ache and relief are one in the same.

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01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 1: We'll start off with my ache. My ache is that

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01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 1: my ride or die Jessica is no longer going to

1392
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 1: be working for me and she will no longer be

1393
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 1: on the podcast. My relief is that she is going

1394
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: to go spread her wings. I fly and fly and

1395
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: we wish her all the best. I love her more

1396
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: than anything. And I'm so excited to see what she's

1397
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 1: going to do in her future.

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01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:27,919
Speaker 2: Me too.

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01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 3: It's bright, it's very bright future ahead of her.

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01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: Yes, what's yours?

1401
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 4: T T?

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01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 3: I mean I think that's my ache.

1403
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 1: Is it?

1404
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just losing her. It was family.

1405
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 4: But I want her to go and be successful in

1406
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 4: all the things that she's wanting in life. And I'm

1407
01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:44,800
Speaker 4: excited to see her shine and do all the things

1408
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 4: that she's wanting to do.

1409
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 1: Aimen to that.

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01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 4: So that is my ache is just restructuring the the life.

1411
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:53,600
Speaker 4: The life it so well. But yeah, that's the ache,

1412
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 4: is just losing her. And then the relief is just

1413
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 4: it's been life. Yeah, did you feel really good?

1414
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? I feel good. I've been.

1415
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 1: Are we allowed to say it? What you're ninety days?

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01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 4: I mean that's the thing because they say they don't

1417
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 4: want to bring it to television.

1418
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: And shit, well I broke that a long time.

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01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 4: Well yeah, I'm ninety days sober to anyone who gives

1420
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 4: a shit we a s Yeah. Yeah, it's like a

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01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 4: little pink cloud back.

1422
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 3: I got a little chip. So it's like I got

1423
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 3: my reward.

1424
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, So now I feel good, Like my relief

1425
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:28,439
Speaker 4: is just I feel very good.

1426
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 1: Good, no weed, He's just wow.

1427
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 4: I'm sleeping amazing now, like I'm tired.

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01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 1: I would say it takes.

1429
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 2: I was a huge stoner then quitting. I quit for

1430
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 2: a while, and then I obviously had to quit when

1431
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 2: I was pregnant breastfeeding all that. I feel like, ninety

1432
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 2: days is the mark where it's out of your body.

1433
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 2: That's how I feel, like, did you get the sweats

1434
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 2: at first and stuff?

1435
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I was shaking, like at night, I was

1436
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 4: like restless legs, Like I would just get up and

1437
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 4: like walk around.

1438
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 2: And ninety days, I feel like is when your system

1439
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 2: like fully clears something. Yeah, shit, and you can feel

1440
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 2: like like I normal again.

1441
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:04,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I'm my body and mental is all one again.

1442
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 4: Yeah like nothing, Yeah, like all my chakras are aligned.

1443
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 1: Right, totally feel Yeah. Well, we're very proud of you, teach.

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01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 1: You're welcome, Janet. Do you have an ache and relief?

1445
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 2: I will say, Okay, this weekend I had my Jason

1446
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 2: was out of town, so my ache was like missing

1447
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 2: him and like our chill weekend vibes. But my relief

1448
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 2: was realizing that I can take care of my own

1449
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 2: baby for seventy two hours without my mom, without Jason,

1450
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 2: without Jared. It was just the two of us this weekend.

1451
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 2: Jared's a big help in our.

1452
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 4: Favorite even when he comes over, I'm like, yess.

1453
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's so good with all the kids. Cameron. Jared's

1454
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 2: number one favorite for Cameron. Right now, if I'm holding

1455
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 2: Cameron and Jared walks in, he lunges out of my

1456
01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 2: arms into Jared's arms. So Jared's currently number one. Jared

1457
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 2: I could tell. He's like, I'm sorry, and I'm like,

1458
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 2: enjoy this. You're the chosen one.

1459
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 1: I know, right, I'm not bothered by it.

1460
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 2: You'd be number one. Yeah, fine, but yeah. We had

1461
01:06:59,920 --> 01:07:03,040
Speaker 2: a whole weekend where I had nothing except for Cameron

1462
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 2: and I and we stayed home all weekend and we

1463
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 2: did a couple of things, but we, like, for the

1464
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 2: most part, just chilled and I was like, Okay, I

1465
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 2: was worried that this was gonna I was gonna be

1466
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 2: exhausted and this was gonna be really hard, and I

1467
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 2: did it.

1468
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: You did it.

1469
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:16,919
Speaker 4: Yes, that's the hardest job.

1470
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 1: It was tough, but I now know that you survived.

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01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 1: We're so happy for it. It is intimidating sometimes I

1472
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:24,440
Speaker 1: look at my kids, and I'm like, it's just you

1473
01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: and me.

1474
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 3: What's it called.

1475
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 4: They left and we had a night nurse coming.

1476
01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 3: Thank god. I had to stay with the baby.

1477
01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 4: For twenty minutes and it took fucking it felt like

1478
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 4: four hours. Was staring at talk about you guys.

1479
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 3: If this thing dies, I'm gonna die.

1480
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Lets on that note Easton. We'll have

1481
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 1: you at it twenty minutes. Thank you guys so much

1482
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 1: for listening to the Give Them La La podcast. Janet

1483
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 1: having me, You're so welcome. We can't wait to have

1484
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:51,360
Speaker 1: you back on again.

1485
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 2: Yeah wait, I would love to.

1486
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 1: You're amazing and you guys are amazing. Remember that the

1487
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:59,919
Speaker 1: bonus episodes come out on Mondays. That video dropped same day,

1488
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 1: and you can watch this episode on YouTube on Friday

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01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 1: at nine am Pacific time. I love you, bye.