1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Brooking Jubels second d I'm always surprised when we get 2 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: emails for the second date update. How many people have 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 1: like met at the gym. I just say that because 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: for me, as a guy, I just feel like I'm 5 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: gonna get smacked if I walk up to a girl. 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, we got Hunter on the phone right now. 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 1: Hunter emailed us about a girl named Holly that he 8 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: met at the gym. Right, Hunter, that's exactly right. She 9 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: works out at my gym and she's really fine. So 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: I kind of tucked it up nice master out on 11 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: a date. All right, how did you do that? Man? Like, 12 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: how do you hit on a girl at the gym 13 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: without just seeming like a creep? Well? I was very direct, 14 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: and I made sure that I set the groundwork by 15 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: sort of working out really really good around her sort 16 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: of all right, did you grunt a lot? Because usually 17 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: women really like that. I didn't grunt, but I made 18 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: sure I was all pumped and primed. Yeah. Yeah, what 19 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: did you guys do? It says in your email that 20 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: you went to a bar for drinks. Yeah, we just 21 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:01,279 Speaker 1: I mean we would right around there was a bar. 22 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: There's a bar repar gym. We went right there, and 23 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: we just hung out for a couple of drinks. Nothing 24 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: crazy or sloppy. We just we just talked and it 25 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: was great. It was just it was a fantastic date. Wait, 26 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,199 Speaker 1: you just went straight from the gym, like the moment 27 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: you asked her out and went straight to the bar. No, no, no, 28 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: well I asked her out and then we planned to 29 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: right after a workout. Okay, okay, so you got like 30 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: cleaned up or whatever and then went yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 31 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: all right, Okay, what did you like about her? Besides 32 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: that she was fine? I mean maybe that's her only quality. 33 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: I have no idea. No, No, she was great in 34 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: a bunch of different ways. I mean most of it 35 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: was that I could just say anything to her. We 36 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,279 Speaker 1: just had conversations about everything. It's like nothing was off limits. 37 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 1: It was just a really easy flowing dialogue about you know, footwear, 38 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: two tattoos. It was just like a there's like synergy, 39 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, and then how did the date end? 40 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: It ended with the kiss again, wet and drunk. So 41 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: it wasn't like sloppy or crazy, really simple kiss. I 42 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: just I mean the whole thing felt great, all right. 43 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: I like the way you describe things. Yeah, I feel 44 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: I feel like Hunter practices his first kiss. Yeah, like 45 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: the hand gently around the back of her head, the 46 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: other hand on the small of her back as you 47 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: bring her close Again. Did you try and call her? Well, first, 48 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: I was just gonna be cool about it, and I 49 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:18,959 Speaker 1: was gonna try to sort of catch her at the 50 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: gym and that kind of thing, but it hadn't seen her. 51 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: So then yeah, I called her and it was just 52 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: sort of not a lot of response. What do you mean, 53 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: not a lot, like none or some none? Oh, okay, 54 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: that's not a lot. Yeah, all right. So how long 55 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: has it been since your date. It's been a little 56 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: over a week now, over a week, all right, and 57 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,839 Speaker 1: you started a panic a little bit. Okay, how many 58 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: times have you hit her up? Man? Well, not counting 59 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: looking for in the gym, which I don't think she 60 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: knows about, like twice. Okay, I'm picture of Hunter creepily 61 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: stopping through the feel like cool about it? Yeah whatever, 62 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: you're in the women's locker room. All right, Hunter, We're 63 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: gonna call her right after this song and see if 64 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: we can get your second day update. Okay, awesome, all right, 65 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: just hang out for like three minutes rooking Jubil in 66 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: the morning. All Right, Hunter is on the phone with us. 67 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: He's a very direct dude that met a girl at 68 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: the gym and is trying to get a hold of 69 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: her and had a little kiss at the end, and 70 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: then he hasn't heard from her. Hunter. Yeah, you're ready 71 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: to get her on the phone. I am. I just 72 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,119 Speaker 1: got real nervous though. Have you ever been blown off 73 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: by a girl before? Hunter? Not a whole lot, it's happened. Yeah. 74 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: What was the reason then? Well they never called back. 75 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. We weren't doing the second Day Update yet, 76 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: we had no other resource. Al Right, Hunter, I'm gonna 77 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: call her right now. See we can get Holly on 78 00:03:50,480 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: the phone. Okay, Hello, Hey, can I speak to Holly please? 79 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: This is Holly, Holly, how are you? This is Jewel 80 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning on the radio 81 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: station Moving ninety two point five. You're a radio station. Well, 82 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: I work for a radio station. I'm a human being. 83 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: But I okay, why, I'm sorry, I don't why is 84 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: a radio station? Let me explain why. Okay. We host 85 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: the morning show and we do a segment our show 86 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: called the second Date Update It's where somebody goes out 87 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: on a date with someone and then gets blown off. 88 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: They email us to call that person and figure out 89 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: why you're calling me because I went on a date 90 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,720 Speaker 1: with someone yep, and you didn't call that person back. 91 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: That's really weird. Moving out with a guy named Hunter 92 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: who you met at your gym. Yeah, well he's tried 93 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: to call you after you guys went off for drinks 94 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: and hasn't heard from you, so he wanted to know why. Okay, 95 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: you have to realize that this is really weird. We 96 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: do normally. People are a little weirded out by it, 97 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 1: but just relax and go with it. Okay. So, yeah, 98 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: I went on a date with Hunter. Did he tell 99 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: you about our date or yeah? He said, you guys 100 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: went out for drinks and had great conversation and like 101 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: you talked about everything under the sun and it was fantastic. Well, 102 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: I just think that he doesn't really have an idea 103 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: of what first date conversation might consist of. What did 104 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: he say that was so bad? For some reason? I 105 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 1: mentioned how much work ladies take to, you know, upkeep themselves. 106 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: And I was running a little late to meet him 107 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: because I had shaved my legs okay, and then he 108 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: took that and ran with the idea of personal upkeep. 109 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: Did he talk about his part? Did tell you about 110 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: like his manscaping or something? Yes, that was definitely a 111 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: word that was used in this conversation. So you're just like, yeah, 112 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: you know, sorry about that. A little late out of 113 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: shave my legs. I got no problem. I would have 114 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: been related to I got a little five o'clock shadow 115 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: on my down there. Like he would not stop talking 116 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: about it about how he just like keeps himself so 117 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: groomed and how he likes his area to look very 118 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: nice all the time. Hold on a second, grooming is important, Holly. 119 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: That's Hunter who just said that. Hunter's on the phone 120 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: with us. Hey, Hi, Oh my god, he just heard 121 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: everything I just said. I know I was earnestly listening 122 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: to every word. And what's your excuse? Hunter? Listen. I 123 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: think you're amazing, Holly. And when I get excited, I overshare. 124 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't realize I was oversharing too much 125 00:06:54,960 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: on the grooming part. I didn't get into shapes or Olie, 126 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: I'm so uncomfortable right now. Are you more uncomfortable now 127 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: or when he was talking about the state of his junk. 128 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,679 Speaker 1: I heard all of this already, so I'm pretty over 129 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: the being uncomfortable about it at this point. Can you 130 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: see that he actually really liked you and would go 131 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: to any costs to reach out to you. Yeah, but 132 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: there's a line right like first date. I mean, you 133 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: gotta know when to hold back a little. Hunter, Is 134 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: there anything here you want to say to her? Well, 135 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: just that you know, now that we've established some lines, 136 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: I can totally observe those, and if we had a 137 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: second date, there's a whole lot of stuff I won't say. Hunter. 138 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: How do you make her feel more comfortable about doing 139 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: the second date? Update? Though she sounds like that kind 140 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: of creeped her out too. Yeah, that might not have 141 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: been on, but I just I get nervous, and I 142 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: get really excited, and I'm very excited at the thought 143 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: of going on in a second date with you because 144 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: I think, I mean, I think you're amazing. And if 145 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: I'm guilty of anything, it's over sharing. Holly will send 146 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: you out on a second date with Hunter again. If 147 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: you'd agree to go, we will pay for it. Would 148 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: you be willing to give another shot? I don't know, 149 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: to be honest with you, I don't know. I mean, Hunter, 150 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: you seemed pretty calm when I talked to you at 151 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: the gym and then we went out, and it was like, 152 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: are you just that intensive a person? No? No, And 153 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm calm in the gym because I get pretty tired. 154 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: But it's it's really, it's really you energize me, you know, 155 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: you just you know, it's you. I think you're an 156 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: awesome person and that that makes me excited to be 157 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: in the room with you. That's a pretty sweet line, 158 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: you energize me. I gotta remember that one. That's very look, 159 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: that's really sweet to hear, and it's very flattering because 160 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: I don't think that people will react to other people 161 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 1: that way very often. So thank you for that. So 162 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: what do you say, then? Why why don't you give 163 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: him another shot? You know? It's like you gotta let 164 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: me breathe a little, Holly. Could you at least, you know, 165 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 1: maybe agree to take a couple of days think about 166 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 1: it and then maybe get back to Hunter. An right now, 167 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: you're just like, Hunter, will you go out with him again? 168 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: Does this just one day? We'll pay for it. I 169 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: would be willing to do drinks again, because if he 170 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: gets a little overbearing then I it just can't be 171 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: you know, for three hours straight. All right, Yeah, so 172 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: we'll send you somewhere for drinks again. We'll buy two 173 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: of them. Okay, ter Hunter, you got your second date 174 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: sort of after a little bit of brow beating. We 175 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 1: got you a second date. That's awesome in the morning.