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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today let
Speaker 1: his emotions get the best of him on his first
Speaker 1: date and now I don't even know why he's on
Speaker 1: the phone to do a second date update. If I
Speaker 1: were him, I would not want to see this girl again.
Speaker 1: I actually don't even think i'd want to go in
Speaker 1: public again. Regardless, he emailed us and wants to do
Speaker 1: a second date update. His name is Keith. What's up, Keith?
Speaker 1: Hey guys, how's it going? Oh my god, Keith. I
Speaker 1: feel like you should be embarrassed for yourself, but I
Speaker 1: don't really know why yet. Yeah, your email was crazy, man,
Speaker 1: I cannot believe what actually happened on your first date.
Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a second, But first off,
Speaker 1: how'd you meet the girl that you want to call today?
Speaker 1: What's her name? Alison? Alison? How did you meet Allison?
Speaker 1: We met through an online dating site. Okay, that's pretty normal.
Speaker 1: I just haven't dated very much, and my friends finally
Speaker 1: convinced me start doing some online dating. And I tried
Speaker 1: a couple of like the free online services, and just
Speaker 1: they were terrible. I had terrible, terrible experience. Yeah, the
Speaker 1: free ones are never good. Sounds like the memory's still
Speaker 1: haunting him right now. Oh yeah PTSD. One girl I
Speaker 1: met within the first five minute of our date, she
Speaker 1: asked me how much money I made? Do you make
Speaker 1: a lot of money? I realized it's the first couple
Speaker 1: of minutes we've met, but now I want to know, yeah,
Speaker 1: having flashbags. And when I wouldn't tell her, she literally
Speaker 1: was like, all right, well this is done, and she
Speaker 1: left and it was over. Wow. I can't believe you
Speaker 1: even continued online dating after such a horrible experience. I know.
Speaker 1: And then the worst part is it didn't get any better.
Speaker 1: I met this other girl on a date and she
Speaker 1: brought her dog, and I kid you not, she talked
Speaker 1: to a dog more than she talked to me. All right,
Speaker 1: so you've had a bad run yeah on these free
Speaker 1: So I finally was like, Okay, I'm gonna sack up.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay for like a paid service, because maybe
Speaker 1: the quality will be better, you know. So, is this
Speaker 1: the first date that you went on off of that
Speaker 1: paid site? Yeah? Yeah, and this one sounds like it
Speaker 1: went very well, I mean, at least for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: comparatively speaking, it started out great. Um, Matt Allison went
Speaker 1: to Yeah, and just from the moment I saw her, instantly,
Speaker 1: I knew like there was something there. She was she
Speaker 1: was gorgeous. I couldn't believe it. Okay, and then right
Speaker 1: off the bat, she didn't ask you how much money
Speaker 1: you were making, or she didn't have a dog with her,
Speaker 1: So that's a plus. She's also a great part. But
Speaker 1: I feel like you've lowered your standards so much compared
Speaker 1: to the other incidences that you had. Yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: I know my standards had been kind of lowered. But
Speaker 1: she was like better than I ever would have expected.
Speaker 1: She was smart, she was cute, she was sweet, and
Speaker 1: she just normal. She just seemed like a normal person
Speaker 1: that I had a really great connection with. And I
Speaker 1: you know, it kind of caught me off guard, and
Speaker 1: I just was like starting to feel like overwhelmed, but
Speaker 1: in a good way, Like I was. I was swooning
Speaker 1: and I just got caught up in the moment, and
Speaker 1: that's that's when I think I messed up. Yeah, well
Speaker 1: I could tell everybody what happened and then explain why
Speaker 1: you did this, Okay, just try and understand all the context.
Speaker 1: So so we meet, We're hanging out, the date's going great,
Speaker 1: and it just keeps getting better and better and better.
Speaker 1: And she gets up to go to the bathroom and
Speaker 1: at this point, I'm like, my heart is just like overwhelmed,
Speaker 1: like overflowing. I'm like, she's the one, like she has
Speaker 1: to be. I know it sounds crazy, but I felt it,
Speaker 1: and so while she was in the bathroom, I decided
Speaker 1: to do something crazy. Um. Yeah. So so when she
Speaker 1: gets back, she sits down and she looks at me,
Speaker 1: and she can kind of tell I have something I
Speaker 1: want to say. So I looked to her and I say, look,
Speaker 1: I know we just met, but there's something need to
Speaker 1: tell you. And she says okay, And I straight up
Speaker 1: told her I want to spend the rest of my
Speaker 1: life with her. Oh my god. Yeah, Like I break
Speaker 1: it out in hives just even hearing that, and I
Speaker 1: love love. Yeah. No, I know it sounds crazy, even
Speaker 1: you me saying it right now, But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just was in the moment. I couldn't help it,
Speaker 1: Like I would have regretted it forever if I didn't.
Speaker 1: I got I made a ring out of a paper
Speaker 1: napkin and I got down on one knee. And did
Speaker 1: everybody see this or was it? Yeah? People were like plotting,
Speaker 1: they were smiling there. What did she do? She? Uh, well,
Speaker 1: I could tell she was shocked. Um, I don't think
Speaker 1: she saw that coming. No, I guarantee she didn't. Did
Speaker 1: she think that you were joking? No, I mean she
Speaker 1: knew there's no like I was dead serious. She could
Speaker 1: see it in my face. How did she react? She
Speaker 1: was calm, She didn't like freak out, but she's kind
Speaker 1: of looked at me after everyone quieted down and it
Speaker 1: was nice about it, and she was just kind of like,
Speaker 1: this is our first date? And what did you say
Speaker 1: to her? I was like, I know, but I just
Speaker 1: feel this and I don't I can't deny it. And
Speaker 1: she was like, I think I think I should leave,
Speaker 1: and then she left. Yeah, because Keith, you sound crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm listening to lay it out there. I mean, I
Speaker 1: know I know how I sound. Did she leave you
Speaker 1: right there in the restaurant by yourself. Oh yeah, I
Speaker 1: finished my eggs Benedict alone. You've got crazy psycho stuck
Speaker 1: or proposing to you within like the first hour of
Speaker 1: meeting someone. I mean, I mean that kind of thing happens, right.
Speaker 1: You've seen rom comms when you know, you know, And
Speaker 1: I thought I thought she felt I really thought she
Speaker 1: felt the same way. Maybe she did. Maybe you know what,
Speaker 1: she ran right out of the restaurant to shop her
Speaker 1: wedding dress. I'm busy planning this whole time, and that's
Speaker 1: why she can't get back to him. Yeah. Probably What
Speaker 1: what what did she ever do to make you think
Speaker 1: that she thought that she should marry you and get
Speaker 1: engaged right there on your first date? Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: that's a fair question. Um so when we when we
Speaker 1: were talking, I like to go to comedy shows, um,
Speaker 1: you know, in my spare time. And I told her that,
Speaker 1: and she she wanted to come with me. I've never
Speaker 1: met a single woman who was excited about Yeah, that
Speaker 1: you ask for her hand in marriage on a first date. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I guess I read it wrong. Whatever. Yeah, I'm guessing
Speaker 1: you haven't talked to her since this date. No, and
Speaker 1: I have tried very hard. Yeah, I know she's the one.
Speaker 1: That's the thing, Like, and I should have just waited,
Speaker 1: played it cool. Yeah, I could have held my tongue,
Speaker 1: but I just I couldn't. All right, well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, get her on the phone, and
Speaker 1: see if we can get you, guys, second date, and
Speaker 1: then maybe you can get married after that day to day.
Speaker 1: Oh that would be amazing. All right, Well, we'll get
Speaker 1: your second date update right after this. Hang on brooking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning date. You know what I'm hearing
Speaker 1: in today's second date update? Wedding bells. Oh that's right.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is going to be the first
Speaker 1: ever second date update that ends with a couple getting
Speaker 1: married live on the radio. Over the phone. Wow, if
Speaker 1: you just tuned in. Keith is on the phone. He
Speaker 1: wants to call Allison. They met online, went out for
Speaker 1: some brunch. He got a little wrapped up in his
Speaker 1: emotions and actually proposed to her on their first date,
Speaker 1: and then she stormed out. He hasn't talked to her since.
Speaker 1: It's obvious why she's not talking to him because she
Speaker 1: thinks he's a weirdo who proposed on the first date.
Speaker 1: But Keith, here's my advice to you, man, before we
Speaker 1: make this phone call. If you fall off that horse,
Speaker 1: you get right back on. When we get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and you talk to her, propose again. Keith.
Speaker 1: Just keep proposing. She'll eventually say yes. Yeah. I'm not
Speaker 1: sure that's how that works. But I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: I think you should just go for it one more time. Keith,
Speaker 1: what's your plan here? Apologize? I mean I've already apologized
Speaker 1: so many times on her voicemail and shrewd text message,
Speaker 1: so I think she understands I'm sorry. Okay, I just
Speaker 1: want a chance to explain. All right, there we go.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dollar phone number right now. Okay, look, before
Speaker 1: you call her, if you you guys can like have
Speaker 1: my back on this, that would I need? I need
Speaker 1: all the help I can get. Yeah, you really do.
Speaker 1: In this Seconday update, I'm not gonna lie to you. You
Speaker 1: You need all the help you can get. Okay, Please,
Speaker 1: I'm dialing her phon number right now. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Alison. Yes, this is Alison. Alison.
Speaker 1: This is Jubil from Rook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: How are you good? How are you? I'm good? Who's
Speaker 1: this again? I'm sorry, I'm not This is Jebil I
Speaker 1: host the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what that is. Well, it's a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's pretty much the only explanation I can give you.
Speaker 1: There is a little bit of talking, a lot of
Speaker 1: crappy music, and we do a segment on our show
Speaker 1: called the second Date Update. I'm assuming you've never heard
Speaker 1: of that either, not familiar with it. You went out
Speaker 1: on a date recently with a guy named Keith. Oh boy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Keith told us about your date. Oh really, what do
Speaker 1: you know? Do you know that he proposed to me?
Speaker 1: We do? Yeah, he told us all about that. He
Speaker 1: says that he feels bad, but he also wanted to
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and tell you that he
Speaker 1: liked you a lot and wanted to see you again. Really,
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Okay, how did you
Speaker 1: feel when do you propose to you on your first date?
Speaker 1: I thought it was really weird. I feel like that's
Speaker 1: an understatement. Definitely has that ever happened you before? No,
Speaker 1: definitely not. It was it scary, creepy, A little bit
Speaker 1: of bulls. It was crazy. I mean when you picture
Speaker 1: getting proposed to when you're young, a little girl, you
Speaker 1: don't exactly picture it happening on the first date at brunch.
Speaker 1: Can you go no? Weird? Okay? So yeah, he told
Speaker 1: us all about your date and he said that he
Speaker 1: feels really bad and he's tried to apologize to you,
Speaker 1: and he just wanted to be able to talk to
Speaker 1: you again and see if you'd go out with him.
Speaker 1: I mean, he should feel bad. What was I supposed
Speaker 1: to do? Say yes and marry the guy? Is right?
Speaker 1: Was there any part of you that thought, like, well,
Speaker 1: it's romantic? No? I was completely shocked. It was one
Speaker 1: of those things where you just pause. It took me
Speaker 1: about three minutes to even get a reaction, and I
Speaker 1: didn't even know what to think. Yeah. So I'm guessing
Speaker 1: that the reason you aren't calling him back for a
Speaker 1: second date is because of the wedding proposed? Was there
Speaker 1: anything else? Does there need to be another reason? I
Speaker 1: don't think so that's enough of an explanation. You know,
Speaker 1: Keith did talk to us, and he's really He doesn't
Speaker 1: sound like a weird guy. He just says he got
Speaker 1: caught up in the moment, and he was super excited
Speaker 1: because you're like the best girl he's gone out on
Speaker 1: a date with ever, and he handled it the wrong way.
Speaker 1: That's sweet that he says that. But I mean we
Speaker 1: were vibing, we got along, we had, you know, a
Speaker 1: good connection at first, and I felt a spark. But
Speaker 1: when he broke into tears and started proposing, I thought
Speaker 1: he was crazy. Yeah. Yeah, it changes things a little bit,
Speaker 1: changes your whole vibe. Yeah, Alison, I do need to
Speaker 1: let you know that Keith is actually on the other
Speaker 1: line and wants to talk to you. Are you kidding me? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not, Hey, Alison, Oh my god, what do you want.
Speaker 1: I just want a chance to explain myself. I told you.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I know that what I did
Speaker 1: was crazy. I know it was insane. I got caught
Speaker 1: up in the moment. I'm an emotional person and I
Speaker 1: don't have a good excuse. I just got caught up
Speaker 1: in the moment. It's not the nineteen twenties and you
Speaker 1: don't just meet somebody and marry them up in the afternoon. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: you're right, I get that, But can you honestly say
Speaker 1: you weren't like feeling anything. Like, I can't be the
Speaker 1: only one who was feeling something. No, I was. I mean,
Speaker 1: I liked you at first, and you seem normal, and
Speaker 1: I definitely felt a connection. But when you broke into
Speaker 1: tears and proposed, I just thought you were crazy. Okay,
Speaker 1: that makes sense, that's totally fair. I'm not crazy. I've
Speaker 1: had some terrible experiences dating in the past, and like,
Speaker 1: you were so cool and normal, and I just like,
Speaker 1: I just felt it. I got washed in that moment.
Speaker 1: I got caught up in it. I feel like, if
Speaker 1: that's the kind of guy you are, then who knows
Speaker 1: what other reckless decisions you'll make down the line. Dude,
Speaker 1: I will red flag, is what she's saying. I understand. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I get it. Stand how that could be a red flag,
Speaker 1: or how I could seem crazy and unstable. I'm not like,
Speaker 1: you want to call my friends and I have people
Speaker 1: who will vouch for me. You want to supply references
Speaker 1: to Alison Will I will? I think I think this
Speaker 1: is important. I don't. I don't want to lose this
Speaker 1: potential relationship just because I messed up on the first date.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a shame because I liked him too.
Speaker 1: I'm just not looking to get married tomorrow. I'd like
Speaker 1: to date someone for a little while before we talked
Speaker 1: about marriage. So you did like him though, Yeah? I did. Well,
Speaker 1: Then why don't you give it one more shot and
Speaker 1: go out on another date? Would you like to go
Speaker 1: out on a second date with Keith? We will pay
Speaker 1: for it, Alison. Before you answer, I just I need
Speaker 1: you to know I did watch a couple of rom
Speaker 1: coms on Netflix the week before we went out, so
Speaker 1: I was in an emotional place already. A blame it
Speaker 1: on the cos I love it. It's like Katherine Heigel
Speaker 1: just gets to his heart. Man, Alison, will you go
Speaker 1: out with Keith again? I don't know. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know. This whole thing is just so weird. You
Speaker 1: cannot blame her, you guys, the only thing I'm proposing
Speaker 1: right now is a second date. I just want to
Speaker 1: do this the right way and forget about the first
Speaker 1: date and just move forward. That's all I'm asking. Alison.
Speaker 1: Can you forget about the wedding proposal on your first
Speaker 1: date and go out with Keith one more time? I
Speaker 1: know that's a lot to ask, but do you think
Speaker 1: you can do it. It is um. If you guys
Speaker 1: think it's a good idea, I do. I think it's
Speaker 1: a great idea. At least see one more time how
Speaker 1: he handles himself. I mean, he's not totally crazy. Right there,
Speaker 1: you said he's totally crazy. I changed my mind again.
Speaker 1: I said he's not totally crazy. Yeah, you just got
Speaker 1: a little worked up. You know, you're saying partially crazy
Speaker 1: though everybody's partially crazy, and it's fully saying yeah. No.
Speaker 1: I I just can't. I'm sorry. I can't, man, all right,
Speaker 1: what happen? We were there and then I don't know? Man,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What did we learn? What have we learned? Though? Okay,
Speaker 1: that this is all about learning? What did we learn
Speaker 1: from today's second date update? That love isn't real? We've
Speaker 1: learned that, But we've also learned no rom poms before
Speaker 1: your next date? Okay, broken jewel in the morning,