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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today let

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Speaker 1: a second date update. His name is Keith. What's up, Keith?

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, how's it going? Oh my god, Keith. I

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Speaker 1: I cannot believe what actually happened on your first date.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a second, But first off,

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Alison? Alison? How did you meet Allison?

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Speaker 1: We met through an online dating site. Okay, that's pretty normal.

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Speaker 1: I just haven't dated very much, and my friends finally

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning date. You know what I'm hearing

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing her phon number right now. Here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Alison. Yes, this is Alison. Alison.

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Speaker 1: This is Jubil from Rook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you good? How are you? I'm good? Who's

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what that is. Well, it's a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Keith told us about your date. Oh really, what do

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Speaker 1: it's romantic? No? I was completely shocked. It was one

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Speaker 1: That's sweet that he says that. But I mean we

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Speaker 1: he was crazy. Yeah. Yeah, it changes things a little bit,

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Speaker 1: line and wants to talk to you. Are you kidding me? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not, Hey, Alison, Oh my god, what do you want.

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Speaker 1: I just want a chance to explain myself. I told you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I know that what I did

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Speaker 1: you're right, I get that, But can you honestly say

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Speaker 1: only one who was feeling something. No, I was. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I liked you at first, and you seem normal, and

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Speaker 1: I definitely felt a connection. But when you broke into

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Speaker 1: that makes sense, that's totally fair. I'm not crazy. I've

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Speaker 1: I just felt it. I got washed in that moment.

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Speaker 1: what other reckless decisions you'll make down the line. Dude,

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Speaker 1: I will red flag, is what she's saying. I understand. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get it. Stand how that could be a red flag,

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Speaker 1: who will vouch for me. You want to supply references

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Speaker 1: to Alison Will I will? I think I think this

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Speaker 1: is important. I don't. I don't want to lose this

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's a shame because I liked him too.

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Speaker 1: I'm just not looking to get married tomorrow. I'd like

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Speaker 1: about marriage. So you did like him though, Yeah? I did. Well,

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Speaker 1: Then why don't you give it one more shot and

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Speaker 1: for it, Alison. Before you answer, I just I need

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Speaker 1: I was in an emotional place already. A blame it

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Speaker 1: just gets to his heart. Man, Alison, will you go

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Speaker 1: don't know. This whole thing is just so weird. You

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Speaker 1: cannot blame her, you guys, the only thing I'm proposing

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Speaker 1: Can you forget about the wedding proposal on your first

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Speaker 1: you can do it. It is um. If you guys

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Speaker 1: think it's a good idea, I do. I think it's

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Speaker 1: he handles himself. I mean, he's not totally crazy. Right there,

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Speaker 1: you said he's totally crazy. I changed my mind again.

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Speaker 1: I said he's not totally crazy. Yeah, you just got

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Speaker 1: I I just can't. I'm sorry. I can't, man, all right,

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Speaker 1: what happen? We were there and then I don't know? Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What did we learn? What have we learned? Though? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that this is all about learning? What did we learn

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Speaker 1: from today's second date update? That love isn't real? We've

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Speaker 1: learned that, But we've also learned no rom poms before

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Speaker 1: your next date? Okay, broken jewel in the morning,