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Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to stuff mom never told you?

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Speaker 1: From house to works dot Com. Hey there, and welcome

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Speaker 1: to the podcast. This is Kristen, This is Molly, So Molly. Today,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go into the oh zone. I don't talking

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Speaker 1: about and do you. Today we're going to discuss the

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Speaker 1: explosive discharge of neuro muscular tensions at the height of

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Speaker 1: sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of

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Speaker 1: semen in the male and by ivaginal contractions in the female,

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Speaker 1: in other words, the orgasm. Yes, today we're gonna talk

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Speaker 1: about orgasms, but don't don't get too excited out there.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna try and make it as boring as possible. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna We're gonna take the spice out of this.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go neuroscience and evolution with these puppies. No,

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Speaker 1: no getting crazy in the studio at ten thirty on

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Speaker 1: a Thursday morning, Christon, we're gonna go. We're gonna go

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Speaker 1: sign typic. We're not gonna go Cosmo. We're gonna go

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Speaker 1: a little national geographic, little more scientific Americans little textbookie,

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Speaker 1: little textbook. So but it will still be fun, of course, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I mean it's a very unique thing that can

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Speaker 1: happen in the body, and uh, what's really going on

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Speaker 1: in an orgasm in your brain? In your brain? First

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Speaker 1: we talk about what what's happening in the body, Yes,

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Speaker 1: talking about the body, and then will show how the

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Speaker 1: body sends all these messages to the brainy. So, Kristen,

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Speaker 1: when I gave you that line about explosive discharge of

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Speaker 1: neuro muscular tensions, that was from that was from the dictionary. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that was old Merriam Webster. Yes, that's how they define

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Speaker 1: an orgasm. But what's actually happening with the body is

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Speaker 1: when you have an orgasm, in both males and females,

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Speaker 1: your rectum starts contracting, uh approximately every point eight seconds.

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Speaker 1: Fun fact out there and some contractions going on. But

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Speaker 1: that's really the only world toes. But everything else there's

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Speaker 1: voluntary less voluntary muscle control. You're losing a little bit

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Speaker 1: of control. Yeah, that's sort of one definition, I guess. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so it actually had a loss of bodily body control,

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Speaker 1: but that is actually also happening. Um, and we've got

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Speaker 1: the spasm. Ng. Yes, you're just saying curl toes. We've

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Speaker 1: got muscles all over the body starting to spasm of

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Speaker 1: their own free will. Okay. And then we've got all

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Speaker 1: these pleasure chemicals saturining the brain. We've got released of oxytocin,

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Speaker 1: muscles in the vagina and the uterus contracting. So lots

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Speaker 1: of muscle contractions. But why do they all contract I

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Speaker 1: think we should talk about the nerves. The nerves, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is all we have nerves to think for orgasms.

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Speaker 1: She isn't really that surprising because all of our sensations

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Speaker 1: of touch and feeling and all that are related to nerves.

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Speaker 1: UM and our genitalia contain an insane amount of nerve endings,

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Speaker 1: which is a large part of why um orgasms are

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Speaker 1: so intensely pleasurable. For instance, Molly, the claris alone has

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Speaker 1: hypogastric nerve that transmits sensations from the uterus and the

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Speaker 1: originally Kristen orgasm kind of hard to study because you've

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