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Speaker 2: It's a family event. What else are you expecting him

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, you're building a family. Why can't I

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Speaker 1: But we got a long solo episode today for y'all.

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Speaker 1: We are really excited. Put I miss Sam in the

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Speaker 1: comments if you love and miss our boy Sam. But

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Speaker 1: are you you ready to get it? Riley always let's

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Speaker 1: by saying, my wedding is scheduled for April because my fiance,

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Speaker 1: and I really like that idea too. I have an

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Speaker 2: That, arrangements, something nice, something so great, something so great.

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Speaker 1: But They refused to tell me what it was until

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Speaker 2: I know there's days about you, but let me just

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Speaker 1: Fuck so I forgot Oh no, I got it. I

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Speaker 1: Well we lost that one. I was instantly mad and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, don't be flip flopping now.

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Speaker 1: You can't just crap your a hole over here and

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Speaker 1: I mean, not a bad game plan. Can you imagine

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Speaker 1: Classic Bro's gonna be pros am I right, guys, Oh

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Speaker 1: Nobody's winning, everybody's losing. Yeah, Okay, we'll keep going. My

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Speaker 2: We'll give me the better if you make your grandmother cry,

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Speaker 2: That's a dark place to be if you make your

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I ended up speaking with my

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Speaker 1: I mean, that is the trump card, right Wow. Imagine

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Speaker 1: Actually, bro, everything is just stepping from the brother. The

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Speaker 1: This is like the fastest turnaround into okop history, right here?

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Speaker 1: Am I right? Riley? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: My boy's out here doing it. Okay, that's it, point

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Speaker 1: Right, reverse psychology. I tell him I won't and then

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Speaker 1: I have very good security hired for the wedding. They'll

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Speaker 1: toss out my brother like bouncers in a heartbeat. Wow. Okay, Riley,

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling right now? Riley? Dude?

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Speaker 2: This is I mean, you know, like the crabs in

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Speaker 2: He's like, Okay, if I can't have love, you aren't

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Speaker 2: It's him and his grandma pulling up like that, them

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Speaker 1: That's the scenario right now, one hundred percent. Yeah, his

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Speaker 1: You would not let beloved brother have his proposal at

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Speaker 2: Like dude, Yeah, yeah, I wish I could say he

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Speaker 1: know it and we're going to read it right now. Oo. Update, Well,

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Speaker 1: my brother came pounding on my front door again a

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Speaker 1: If I could, like Opie's a little cold blood, I'd

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Speaker 1: me paying for somebody else. You can in an uber,

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00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: but stay around to the end if you want to

433
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,440
Speaker 1: see that one. I apologized and mailed them a check

434
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: for their trouble. It's been a few days since that happened,

435
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 1: but the crap didn't end there. So I'm going to

436
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 1: be making another post very soon. Wow. Okay, so we're

437
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 1: like not even at the wedding yet. Oh, I'm like, okay,

438
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,159
Speaker 1: So here's a question for everyone right now. Do we

439
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 1: think Op is the a hole for being so kind

440
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: of like removed from dealing with his with his brother

441
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,880
Speaker 1: and because of all of the things, all the bs

442
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:57,639
Speaker 1: that the brother has done. Riley, you're the voice of

443
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: the people right now.

444
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 2: Okay, Like brothers thirty Bro, and he's acting like this,

445
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 2: and like Op he's twenty six, and like his older

446
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 2: brother's not even acting right, Like I could see where

447
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,919
Speaker 2: the lack of compassion's coming from. But I'm always like,

448
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 2: if you just hear him out, because in a way,

449
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 2: older brother's looking at you and being like you ruined

450
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 2: my relationship and you got me kicked out of my house.

451
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 2: Like that's what older that's like, what's going through older

452
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 2: brother's head, I believe, and like you just got to

453
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 2: be like you still got to remind him, like, hey,

454
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 2: I love you man in some way, shape or form.

455
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 2: Is he the a hole? He's justified? I would say,

456
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 2: op he is justified in the way he's acting, but

457
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: he could have yea more compassion towards his brother totally.

458
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say he's just over that line of

459
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 1: being the ale not obviously, like everything he's saying is true,

460
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 1: like his brother like can't just like give in to

461
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: what he wants and his brother did. He made his

462
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: own bed and now he is laying in it puke

463
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: at all, so you know, there's no one he can

464
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 1: blame for but himself. But like, yeah, dude, I'm just

465
00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: a magic if I saw I've been just like, dang

466
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 1: you he sack a crap just to take a shower,

467
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Golly, I don't know if

468
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: I could sit there and watch that just you know,

469
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what, in fairness, Opie did the

470
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 1: right thing, took the bottle away and paid him for

471
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: the taxi home, So you know he didn't he wasn't

472
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 1: just like all right, boom pos a tour on him.

473
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 1: But Riley I think we need to see what happens

474
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: in this next update. There's another update? Uh oh, yeah,

475
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 1: there is all right update. Well, it's been a ride,

476
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 1: you can say that, OPI A fair bit has happened

477
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: since my last post, so I thought it'd be best

478
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 1: to wait until I'm married and settled in my honeymoon

479
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: to speak to everyone. Wait, so does that mean we

480
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: get the wedding story? I think so. I've never this

481
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: might be the most anticipation I've felt for an update

482
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 1: in this entire history of the show. I so desperately

483
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: want to see if the brother crashes it. Firstly, I

484
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,360
Speaker 1: want to say that I don't know crap about taxes

485
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: other than I pay them. But someone here questioned how

486
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,919
Speaker 1: I could write off the money I was giving to

487
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 1: my parents month for their mortgage, and I honestly thought

488
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: I could, But a person who actually does taxes contacted

489
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: me and said that that was impossible, or at the

490
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: very least shouldn't be possible since I have partial ownership

491
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 1: of the house. And that made me curious that I

492
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: may be breaking the law. Interesting. Well, I looked into it,

493
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: and long story short, the person who was doing my

494
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 1: taxes no longer is. I took my question so the

495
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: owner of the tax firm and explained to him that

496
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 1: that guy who was doing my taxes was getting me

497
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 1: roughly one third ride off on the money I was

498
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 1: paying to my parents monthly. Well, the owner said he'd

499
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 1: recheck the records himself and said he'd call me later.

500
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: It took a few days, but he told me that

501
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,920
Speaker 1: the guy who was doing my taxes did a few

502
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 1: things that he shouldn't and that he had a previous

503
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: record of doing this. The firm fired him, and the

504
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: owner apologized profusely and asked me not to take my

505
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: business elsewhere. I believe in supporting local businesses and shot

506
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: from them where I can, so I told them as

507
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 1: long as my records are clean, I'll stay with them,

508
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: and he assured me that he'll make sure everything is.

509
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 1: I do find it stupid that the owner didn't fire

510
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: my former tax guy after this first offense, and I

511
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: get the feeling that he rugswept a lot of things.

512
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: But he's assured me that my taxes will be done

513
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 1: by him personally from now on, so I'm gonna give

514
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: him the chance to make everything right. Wow, what a

515
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,719
Speaker 1: side quest that came from this whole story. He realizes

516
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: like his tax guy was like embezzling money from his

517
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 1: contribution to his parents' mortgage.

518
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 2: That was like one sentence in that Reddit post and

519
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 2: it ended up into someone getting fired.

520
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: Right, Oh my, this man is just a living Reddit podcast.

521
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 1: My god. Since my last post, my parents have also

522
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: managed to rent out both of their spare rooms. Both

523
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 1: tenants are young women who are first time renters. Maybe

524
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: so they should be like, hey, we've got a fine

525
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 1: looking thirty year old man, baby, if you live with him,

526
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: we'll give you a discount on the rent.

527
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 2: They're recruiting, right, yeah, exactly.

528
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: They're recruiting, and they've each taken a room. Both are

529
00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: pleasant enough, but I've barely spoken to them. My parents

530
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: say they're good tenants, so we'll see how everything goes.

531
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: My father has also begun remodeling the attic into another

532
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: room that he can eventually rent. It's going to be

533
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,239
Speaker 1: a slow process as he doesn't have a lot of

534
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: time to work on it unless it's on the weekends,

535
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: but he's determined to get it done now onto the

536
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: period for my wedding. The build up, well, my grandma

537
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: went mental as if she wasn't already. Apparently, after I

538
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: told her off on the phone about a month ago,

539
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: she went off her rocker even further and actually lashed

540
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: out at my brother, which is something I thought she'd

541
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: never do with how much she loves and enables him.

542
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: After about a week, a neighbor heard all the commotion

543
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: and ended up going to check on her. She attacked

544
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: him over it. Oh, oh my god.

545
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 3: Police recalled and took my grandma into custody for a

546
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 3: psychiatric hold, and she tried to attack one of the

547
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 3: officers as well. Oh my god, Cranny is throwing hands, dude,

548
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 3: How how.

549
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: Did this brother do all this? Dude? He is unraveling

550
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: everyone's lives right in front of their eyes. Opie's kind

551
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: like tax embezzlement. But Grandma is getting arrested and thrown

552
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: into a psych ward like, my goodness. But she's a

553
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 1: frail little old lady with false teeth. Not a lot

554
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 1: that she could do to one of them. My parents

555
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: went in to see her, but visitors weren't permitted until

556
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 1: the three days were over, and when they were there,

557
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: my parents met with her and told me she was

558
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: hamming it up and playing the victim and trying to

559
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 1: get my parents back on her side. My mother said

560
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: my grandma was still blaming me and also saying that

561
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: she still had a right to be at my wedding.

562
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: Grandy's getting sucker punched the freaking prieste at this point,

563
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: like I knew I do punch you wait in the

564
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: face for my frinkled over on his head.

565
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 2: She needs more about getting out of jail and not

566
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: going to the wedding.

567
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: Right, you have priorities, Grandy, priorities, my grandma, she would

568
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: always say. She would hold up her cute little arthritis

569
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: riddled hand and she would be like, you want to

570
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: taste my shoot bone from my grade. He was reading

571
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: to throw hands at any moment it was.

572
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 2: On site, on site, any dumb drop of a pin,

573
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: she's there.

574
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: Ready to go. Well, my mother let her have it

575
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: by saying that she lost that right after everything she did,

576
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: like attacking this the stranger. Oh my god, I'm just

577
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: I'm in just complete disbelief over your guys. I'm gonna

578
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: be honest with you, all the lies and the gas

579
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: flighting and being mad at me for something as petty

580
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: as getting married before my man child older brother that

581
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: she outright said was her favorite grandson. Meanwhile, my brother

582
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: was chilling in her house because he had it all

583
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: to himself until my grandma wasn't allowed to return home. Also,

584
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: did the brother not even like try to like stuck

585
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: her or like go see her or something like is

586
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: he just like, oh, perfect, now I could do my

587
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 1: Star Wars marathon?

588
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 2: This is great? Good God, she attacked him. I wouldn't

589
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 2: want to go see my grandma. She'd try to attack me.

590
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yo, granny, what no, no, No, she

591
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,479
Speaker 1: didn't attack him. She attacked the neighbor that was, uh

592
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: what coming home after? Yeah, it was. It was a

593
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: neighbor that was coming in because they were like fighting.

594
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 1: She was finally like yelling at the brother like for once,

595
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: and then so a neighbor came over and then she's like, oh,

596
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: oh you getting a piece of his too, baby. That's

597
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: crazy total for the freaking neighbor.

598
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: Dude, Dang, I'm so convinced she probably she probably laid

599
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,959
Speaker 2: a few on him though, Like if they were biting

600
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 2: that much that a neighbor came over, like, he's probably like.

601
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: I think it was like a yelling commotion, but like, yeah,

602
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: still an absolute mess. I don't know.

603
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't check up with my Grandmam she did something

604
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 2: to go to jail, I'd be like, okay, and I

605
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: was there, I saw it happen.

606
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: Wait a second, Wait a second, I had in a

607
00:30:56,320 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: conflience over your officer, oh Man. Don't have much information

608
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: from that point since my parents didn't bother to see

609
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: Grandma or my brother again thus far and dang, I

610
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: cannot blame them. Next is my wedding, dude, I'm so excited.

611
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. The outdoor venue my wife and I

612
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: picked was beautiful. There was a good sized man made

613
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: pond with paddle boats and plenty of wild ducks and frogs.

614
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: Though the ducks came right up to people begging for food.

615
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: We brought some loaves of cheap wheat bread so the

616
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: kids in the family could toss them to the ducks.

617
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: The venue was also near a golf course, so kids

618
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: were having fun hunting for lost golf balls like they

619
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: were Easter eggs. They also found a lot of them,

620
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: and that was some good, wholesome fun. Yes, I did

621
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: have security there, and yes, my Grandma did show up

622
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: and tried to get in, even though her invitation had

623
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: been officially rescinded. She still had the paper one that

624
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: she'd gotten in the mail, since she refused to return

625
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: it after being uninvited. My brother wasn't with her, but

626
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: she drove two miles by herself just to try and

627
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: get into my wedding. Granny is determined. You gotta give

628
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: her that she is. She is out here. She showed

629
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: up acting sweet, but then turned into a crazy bee

630
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: when the guard refused her entry. She screamed out my

631
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: name and demanded to be let in. Oh my god,

632
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: that would be so embarrassing. You're at your wedding and

633
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: like everyone's like toasting and dancing, and then your Grandma's like, oh,

634
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: I know you're in there. You gotta let old Granny

635
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: rash spank you, little boy. You can't have the Handchecarity forever.

636
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: You know, Grannie's got it on site.

637
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking of like the cousins that haven't seen

638
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,479
Speaker 2: Grandma in a while and they're like, oh, Grandma, hey,

639
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: and she's just like going ballistic.

640
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: Guards are like, ma'am, step back, ma'am, maybe you're not

641
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: allowed in here. I'm just imagining like in the in

642
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: the security room, op just has like two pictures. It's

643
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: a mugshot of like a ninety year old little woman

644
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: and then a mugshot of op just like holding a bottle.

645
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: Oh oh God, do.

646
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 2: Not let them in.

647
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: No, don't do it. And she refused to leave until

648
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: she spoke with me. That was until security threatened to

649
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: call the police. Crazy. Don't want to go back to

650
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: the pin bro, She's already done that time. She doesn't

651
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: want to go back to that life. She ended up

652
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: screaming at him and then waddling back to her car

653
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: and that was it for that. But that was not

654
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: the end of the story. Oh no, Because now that

655
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 1: the only person still talking to my grandma was my

656
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: older brother, I guess she was taking things out on him.

657
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: No family scapegoats left for her to yell at, so

658
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: she started going crazy on my brother since he was

659
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: under her roof. Now I know this because he sent

660
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: me a letter since I blocked him on everything but

661
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: snail mail. God, when you literally your only choice is

662
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: to deliver a letter, you are just blocked on all platforms.

663
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: My goodness. I got the letter after coming back from

664
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: my honeymoon. It was a letter with a mixed apologies

665
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: and blaming me He said that he was sorry for

666
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: wanting to propose at my wedding, and he sees how

667
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: crummy it would have been to try that, and that

668
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,359
Speaker 1: I was right about him being underhanded and trying to

669
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: ask his ex to marry him in front of so

670
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: many people. Correct. But then he said he was angry

671
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: he didn't get to go to my wedding because I

672
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 1: couldn't overlook his traumas. Then he said he was sorry

673
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: for letting Grandma treat me the way she did for

674
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: so long, because now he's getting some of that himself.

675
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 1: Then blamed me for getting Grandma so worked up in

676
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: the first place over yelling at her and then not

677
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 1: letting her into my wedding. Opie, you were getting so close,

678
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: or Opie's brother, you were getting so close money, so

679
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: freaking close. Then he went on to blame me for

680
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: our parents kicking him out of their house and being

681
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: stuck with Grandma because she's driving him up the wall.

682
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,280
Speaker 1: They didn't kick him out, he left when they wanted

683
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: him to pay rent properly, so now he's apartment hunting.

684
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: He did apparently ask my parents to move back in

685
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: with him, but they outright refused and told him to

686
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: get his own place. And that's about it. On that

687
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: And on a side note, my brother's ex girlfriend still

688
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: has not reached out to or spoken to anyone in

689
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: my family since she last spoke with me. Not that

690
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 1: I blame her. I barely know her anyways, and we

691
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,760
Speaker 1: have no mutual friends. I checked her social media recently, though,

692
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: and she seems just fine without my brother in her life. Gosh, yeah,

693
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, OPI's brother doesn't sound like the best

694
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: boyfriend ever. I'm gonna I know it's a bold statement

695
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,760
Speaker 1: to make, but I'm planning my flag on that one. Riley.

696
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's a little bold, but I think I

697
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 2: think there's some truth to it.

698
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, just a little bit, right. Yeah. So if she

699
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: reads this, I'll just say good for you. Live well

700
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: and don't ever let crazy like my brother back in again.

701
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: And to my brother, whom I know will likely find

702
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 1: this and read this soon, get a life, man, Stop

703
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: blaming your crap on me and grow up. You're on

704
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 1: your own and the rest of us aren't going to

705
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: hold you up anymore. And if you do manage to

706
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: date again, don't screw it up last time. You and

707
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: I both know why things didn't work out with your ex.

708
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: And I hope you realize now that running to Grammy

709
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 1: and getting drunk won't help you anymore. When you're thirty

710
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: years old, the world doesn't revolve around you, so let

711
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: it go. As for me, the honeymoon was great. We

712
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: went out on the road and made it all the

713
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: way to the coast. My wife also insisted on going cycling.

714
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: I'm not much of a bicycle rider, but it was

715
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: fun to go a couple of miles down a coast road.

716
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: Ended up dead tired. Need to get in better shape.

717
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: And Riley, believe it or not, we still have more

718
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: updates to this story. That wasn't it, Noboddy. I don't

719
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: want to know. I don't want to know. Pribley's afraid,

720
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: don't do it to him. I can't. Oh my gosh,

721
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: but Riley, we got to the wedding. I will admit

722
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: I did want to see the brother try crash a letter.

723
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: I cannot lie to you. I wanted to see the

724
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: absolute mess that would have been. I honestly wasn't expecting

725
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: the grandma to do it.

726
00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, two hundred miles Like dank, she was committed.

727
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: This one thing Granny is it is committed but okay,

728
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:08,720
Speaker 1: So right now we have Granny who's like basically totally

729
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: fallen out, has just completely gone off the rails, literally

730
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: been thrown in jail. We also have Opie's brother, who gosh, dang,

731
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: it was just just just so close, so close to

732
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: coming back around and then he wasn't. I do want

733
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: to ask again, I know we asked on the on

734
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 1: the last update, everyone watching Riley, do we still feel

735
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: at this juncture, is Opie being an a hole? You know,

736
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: get you know, like get a life, get a job, Like,

737
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: is Opie being the a hole?

738
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't say so. I hate that, Like the brother, well,

739
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 2: the letter, the letter was crazy, like the hole back

740
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,399
Speaker 2: and forth, like you're high and then you're cold, you're

741
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 2: yes and then your no. Like his brother's a piece

742
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 2: of crap, Like he's not an a hole, he's he's

743
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 2: letting out fly and he's fed up. I know this anymore,

744
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 2: and I don't have to, so like good for him

745
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: for like standing up to it.

746
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I think like it's it's a very

747
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: very reasonable thing at this point to be like, listen,

748
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: you have caused so much insanity in my life, Like

749
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 1: I can't keep engaging with you if you're just gonna

750
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: keep doing this over and over and over and over

751
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: and over again, Like there's only so many times you

752
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: can barf on my lawn and try to propose at

753
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: my wedding before I'm just throwing my hands up, like

754
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do anymore with you, Like.

755
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 2: I'm really glad, Like the parents went on a good path.

756
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,399
Speaker 2: Like the parents for a minute were like it wasn't

757
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 2: looking too good, but now they're like, that's right. They're

758
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 2: doing great.

759
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:37,319
Speaker 1: Honestly, the biggest plot twist parents of any parents in

760
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: Okop history. Like usually it's like, okay, the parents are delusional.

761
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 1: They're just going along with you know, the antagonist of

762
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: the store like that always seems to go. But they

763
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: were on the brother Side'm just a flip switch and

764
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 1: they completely changed overnight.

765
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:56,439
Speaker 2: They're in the housing market renter thing. Now they're doing great.

766
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 2: They're making it happen.

767
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: They're making it happen. Dude, we need to have a

768
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,720
Speaker 1: hall of fame for like the Okop Hall of Famers

769
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: of like wildest thing, you know, parents turning around in

770
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: an instant. I want to think what's what's what's one more?

771
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: Can we muster up one more.

772
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 2: A wholesome one to do with the violin?

773
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, wholesome award of the year? Absolutely, that would

774
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: be a fun thing to do, like a an end

775
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: of the year. Actually, that's kind of fun.

776
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 2: I know how this would happen, and I know who

777
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 2: would have to watch every single video from the past

778
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: year and make this happen.

779
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: I am not getting on board of this idea. My

780
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 1: thought was similar to how you thought of the cello guy,

781
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: who like of our memory because that's the only ones

782
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: like worth anything?

783
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 2: What was the biggest standouts of the year. We might

784
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 2: have to do that. Should we tease them? Should we

785
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: tease them on what we're doing at the end of

786
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,479
Speaker 2: the year. Maybe they don't figure it out, they'll figure

787
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 2: it out.

788
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: Leaving him hanging I like it. I like it. Well,

789
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: there's one thing we won't leave him hanging with, though,

790
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 1: Riley said. The next update another one. All right, my boy,