1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: You talk to a person the day before they're going 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: to die, they would give anything and everything for more 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 1: chance at life. Best selling author and host. 4 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 2: The number one health and wellness. 5 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 3: Podcast On Purpose with Jay Shetty. Hey, everyone, welcome back 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 3: to On Purpose, where you're choosing to listen to become happier, healthier, 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 3: and more healed. That's our mission here to leave you 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 3: feeling happier, healthier, and more healed after listening to these 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 3: conversations these workshops every single day. And I'm so grateful 10 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 3: to you for your commitment and dedication to yourself, your 11 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 3: investment in yourself and lending your ears and your eyes 12 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 3: to me. I know some of you are listening every 13 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 3: single day, so thank you and keep those reviews coming, 14 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 3: keep all of that positive energy coming. It means the 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 3: world to me. And today's guest is honestly the person 16 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 3: that I've been waiting to talk to all year. Because 17 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 3: of scheduling, we kept missing each other. I was on 18 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 3: a world tour. He's busy traveling. He's launched an incredible 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 3: new book this year helping people, and I'm just so 20 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 3: happy that we finally have him here at our La Studio. 21 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 3: I'm talking about Peter Atier the founder of Early Medical, 22 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 3: a medical practice that applies the principles of medicine three 23 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 3: point zero to patients with the goal of lengthening their 24 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 3: lifespan and simultaneously improving their health span. Peter is the 25 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 3: host of The Drive. If you don't already subscribe, make 26 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 3: sure you do, a podcast covering the topics of health 27 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 3: and medicine. Peter is also the author of the number 28 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 3: one New York Times bestseller Outlive, The Science and Art 29 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: of Longevity. This is the book that I recommend if 30 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 3: you're going to read about your health right now. This 31 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: is the book I want you to go and get. 32 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 3: Peter Rezier, Welcome to on Purpose, and thank you for 33 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 3: being here. Thank you so much, Jack, And then everything 34 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 3: I said, I was really really looking forward to this conversation, 35 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 3: and I want to dive into many aspects of the book, 36 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 3: many topics. I've also sourced questions from my team, community people, 37 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 3: real real life questions that I think people are really 38 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: struggling with. But I actually want to start with your 39 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 3: journey in your story because I've gone through similar moments 40 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 3: in my life where at a young age, I've had 41 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 3: different health challenges when I started to get the right 42 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 3: help and support, I started to realize how detrimental those 43 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 3: health challenges could be long term if I wasn't to 44 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 3: shift things. And the problem is, I've always been a 45 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 3: fairly healthy guy and had healthy habits, and so when 46 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 3: you get that kind of news, it's kind of alarming 47 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 3: and scary and can set fear into you. Now, I 48 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 3: know that in your journey, you were a generally healthy 49 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 3: person doing pretty healthy things, only to find out that 50 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 3: actually you were prone or open to a terrible disease 51 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 3: down the road. So could you walk us through what 52 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 3: it feels like to think you're healthy, to maybe even 53 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 3: feel you're doing okay, but in reality there's something going 54 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 3: on behind the scenes. 55 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I think there were two sort of 56 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: things that were a wake up call for me, and 57 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: neither of these things happen immediately. I think it's just 58 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,679 Speaker 1: sometimes the realization that happens immediately. So the first one 59 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: is I'd always been an athlete my whole life, insanely active, 60 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: potentially even you know, active to an unhealthy level. And 61 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: you know the focus of that obsession had always shifted. 62 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: But at the point in the story that we're talking about, 63 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: at this point, I was sort of an ultra distance swimmer, 64 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: so I was you know, probably in the water swimming 65 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: twenty four to twenty eight hours a week, plus you know, 66 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: other types of training. Yet you know, I found out 67 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: this is probably around fifteen years ago, that well, actually 68 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: on top of that, I was sort of insulin resistant, 69 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: I was overweight. And again not that I didn't know 70 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: I was overweight, you sort of can realize that, but 71 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: that I was sort of insulin resistant, and you know, 72 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: that's sort of the first step on the way towards 73 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: type two diabetes. It was really at that time that 74 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: I also, i think, confronted my own family history, so 75 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: just within my genes, the acknowledgment that you know, basically 76 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: every man in my family died prematurely of heart disease, 77 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: and in some cases very prematurely in their forties. Those 78 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: two realizations in my mid thirties, which also happened to 79 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: coincide with the birth of my daughter, which my first child, 80 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: was a real wake up call. And the realization that 81 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: you know, I needed to figure something out so that 82 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: I didn't just you know, march down the footsteps of 83 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: what seemed to be my destiny. 84 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 3: And even then you were in the medical profession right 85 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: or now. 86 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: Although I had actually left medicine at this point, So 87 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: after ten years of medical training, including medical school, I 88 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: became sort of disillusioned with medicine and left. So at 89 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: the time that I'm having this realization, I'm actually in 90 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: the world of finance and quite far from medicine. 91 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 3: What was your biggest fear at the time, Like, if 92 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 3: you could take yourself back to that moment, like, what 93 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 3: was the fear that you. 94 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: Had, Yeah, that I wouldn't be around to, you know, 95 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: be with my grandkids and things of that nature, because 96 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 1: I think, you know, prior to my daughter being born, 97 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: I didn't really think I would be the kind of 98 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: person who would find any joy in having kids, and 99 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: that changed in an instant the second she was born. 100 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure there are lots of people who can relate 101 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: to that, probably more so men than women, I think, 102 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 1: because this switch is a little more by when we 103 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: have kids, and then the thought of you know, I'm 104 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: not going to relive this in thirty years with grandkids. 105 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: I think that was probably the thing that was the 106 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: most motivating factor. 107 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it needs that kind of incentive to get activated, 108 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 3: and the reason I asked that question is everyone who's 109 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 3: listening or watching, I want you to think about what 110 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 3: that fear, what that challenge is for you, because often 111 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 3: fear isn't a great motivator to keep going, but it's 112 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 3: a great place to start, and our health almost starts 113 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 3: there sometimes, Like I remember that, I remember feeling like 114 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 3: Superman when I was in my early twenties and then 115 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 3: all of a sudden having certain health challenges. I got 116 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 3: into chronic fatigue, I had polyps in my throat that 117 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 3: had to be lasered out. I lost my voice for 118 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 3: a few months, and that wasn't life threatening, but it 119 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 3: was life altering in the sense that I couldn't communicate 120 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 3: in the same way. It was different getting my voice 121 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 3: back and not feeling like it was as strong or powerful, 122 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 3: and then having gut issues and inflammation issues and acid 123 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 3: issues and all of these things again like they weren't. 124 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: It's not that my life was going to end that year, 125 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 3: but it's like, you start thinking long term, and you 126 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 3: start thinking about living a unhealthier, harder life. When is 127 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 3: the right time for people to consciously start actually investing 128 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 3: in their health. And I'm going to caveat that with 129 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 3: what is generally happening and happening in the different decades 130 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 3: of our life. So what's happening between zero tooten ten 131 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 3: to twenty twenty to thirty thirty to forty forty to 132 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 3: fifty And when is the time when you have a 133 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 3: bit more control and ability to shift the trajectory of 134 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 3: your health bar any of course, major complications or surprises. 135 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: I've never actually been asked it that way, but the 136 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: way you asked it kind of makes me think about 137 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: different things the aging process. In some ways, there are 138 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: some aspects of it that are moving in the wrong 139 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: direction the moment you were born, in other words, the 140 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: moment of fetus comes into this world. There are certain 141 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: aspects of aging that are only getting worse. There are 142 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: others that are not. So you have to imagine. Now 143 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: they're talkquack about different things. So I'll give you an example 144 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: of each. Something that's getting worse the second you're born 145 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: is the damage to your arteries. So we call this 146 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: process athosclerosis. This is what leads to heart attacks and strokes. 147 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: Heart attack and stroke is the leading cause of death 148 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: in the United States for both men and women, and 149 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: globally for both men, and women, but it takes an 150 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: awfully long time. That's why you've never heard of a 151 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: baby having a heart attack. That's why teenagers don't have 152 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: heart attacks, and people in their twenties, it's almost unheard 153 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: of they would have a heart attack. But the disease 154 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: is starting right away. And we know this because when 155 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: we've looked at people who have died prematurely from other 156 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: causes car accidents, homicide, suicide, and you look at their 157 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: cornary arteries, you already see evidence of disease. So we 158 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: know that this is happening right away, and it's simply 159 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: a matter of time until it reaches a critical level 160 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: that results in disease. And of course everybody's accelerating at 161 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: a different rate based on many factors genetics, smoking, high 162 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: blood pressure, metabolic health, all these other things. But point being, 163 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: that's something for which you could technically argue it's never 164 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: too soon to start prevention. Then there are other things 165 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: in which we're actually getting better and better and better 166 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: until we reach a certain point and then we start 167 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: to demise. And an example there might be sort of 168 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: cognitive capacity, so we might have our greatest neuroplasticity in 169 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: the first few years of life. But we're also building 170 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: on that, and if we're in the right environment, we're 171 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: exposed to the right things, we're actually getting better and 172 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: better and better at our fluid intelligence, and that probably 173 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: reaches our peak sometime in our third decade. So that's 174 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: something where you know you're actually getting better and better 175 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: and better, and then it slowly starts to decline. And 176 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 1: then there are all sorts of things that are mixtures 177 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: of these things. So for example, your physical capacity, your 178 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: muscle mass, strength, power type two, muscle fibers, cardiorespiratory fitness, 179 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: all of those things are also increasing in capacity. Again 180 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: depending on which of those things we're taught talking about. 181 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: If it's power and explosiveness that probably peaks early in 182 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: the third decade, if it's strength that peaks a little 183 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: bit later, peak cardiorespiratory fitness again in your twenties, and 184 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: then those things will start to decline. What's undoubtedly clear 185 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: is for you and I were pretty much in decline. 186 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: So most people listening to this are in a state 187 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: of decline. And part of the objective I think ought 188 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: to be to slow the rate of decline as much 189 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: as possible. But there's another aspect of your question I 190 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: think is very important, right, which is like, at what 191 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: point should you start putting effort into this? And that's 192 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: a very difficult question because it encompasses a couple of things. 193 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: When you talk to a person, let's do this as 194 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: a thought experiment. You talk to a person the day 195 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: before they're going to die. I mean, they would give 196 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: anything and everything they have for more chance at life. 197 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 1: Despite how high their motivation is, there's no runway left. Conversely, 198 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: if you went into a high school and talked to 199 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: a bunch of freshmen and said I've got the program 200 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: for you that is going to add fifteen years to 201 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: your life, I mean, they couldn't be less interested. Right, 202 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 1: So there's a sweet spot somewhere where I almost think 203 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: people need to go through a little bit of decline, 204 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: kind of like what you described. It wasn't life threatening, 205 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: but you just need to realize that you're fallible to 206 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 1: sort of say, hmm, I can project this movie forward 207 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: a couple of decades. I've now mature enough to maybe 208 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: see my parents, see my grandparents, aunts, uncle's friends, people's 209 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: health deteriorate, and realize that's a bit of a reality 210 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: check that it's coming for me, but yet I still 211 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: have long enough to bend the arc of my life. 212 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: And so I think those are the two curves that 213 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: we're trying to intersect. 214 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a great answer, and I appreciate that. I 215 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 3: feel the same way it. Unfortunately, it always comes through 216 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 3: some sort of pain or some sort of reality check 217 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 3: or wake up call that gets us going. And it's 218 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 3: interesting what you were saying about cognitive function and ability 219 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 3: as well. There were studies that I read that said 220 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 3: that the average age of most successful entrepreneurs is thirty seven. 221 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 3: And it's fascinating because we live in a world right 222 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,959 Speaker 3: now where everyone wants to be a successful entrepreneur by 223 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 3: the time they're twenty one or twenty five, and we 224 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 3: put these artificial pressures on ourselves when actually there's so 225 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 3: much more to it in the genetics versus environment debate. 226 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 3: What you what's the latest in that space of like, 227 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 3: because I think we're not You said you dove into 228 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 3: your family's history. I think most of us are not 229 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 3: fully aware of our family's history, even though every time 230 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 3: I saw doctor growing up, they'd always ask is there 231 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 3: this in your family's history? Is there that? First of all, 232 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 3: how where do we need to be of our family's history? 233 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 3: How important is that for people to figure out? And 234 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 3: second of all, what is that breakdown between genetics and 235 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 3: personal environment and career and work? 236 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: You know, I think actually family history is such an 237 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: important thing. It's one of these things that we stress 238 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: to the ends degree with our patients, so much so 239 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 1: that you know, it takes them weeks sometimes to gather 240 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,719 Speaker 1: information that we want to know because we want to know, 241 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,599 Speaker 1: and we give them ten questions for each member of 242 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:10,439 Speaker 1: the family. So your parents, your grandparents, your aunts and uncles, 243 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: your siblings, Like, we want to know everything. Do they 244 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: have high blood pressure, do they have high cholesterol? Do 245 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: they take this medication? Did they take that medication? What 246 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: was their cognitive function like in the last decade of 247 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 1: their life? You know? What type of cancers did they have? 248 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: Did they have low bone density? You know, do they 249 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 1: have osteoporosis? I mean, we really want to understand every 250 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:29,599 Speaker 1: detail about it. And I think a big part of 251 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: the reason why is, contrary to what maybe people believe, 252 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: a genetic test does not give you that information. So 253 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: if you and I went out and got a genetic test, 254 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: and I don't just mean an you know, over the 255 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: counter genetic test like twenty three and meet. But I'm 256 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 1: saying if we went out and got the best whole 257 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: genome sequence money could buy, we spend thousands and thousands 258 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 1: of dollars and literally looked at every one of our 259 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: you know, twenty to thirty thousand genes, we still wouldn't 260 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: be able to impute from a standpoint what you can 261 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: gather from a very well collected family history. And the 262 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,359 Speaker 1: reason for that is most genes by themselves are not deterministic, 263 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 1: which really gets your second question. So if most genes 264 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: are not deterministic, they need something in the environment to 265 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 1: sort of trigger them. Furthermore, most conditions that we care 266 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: about are polygenic. It's easy to think of the sort 267 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: of Mendelian monogene type conditions. They get a lot of attention, 268 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: and they're important, to be sure, but the vast majority 269 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:36,439 Speaker 1: of things that people care about, cancer, heart disease, dementia, 270 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: they are not really just related to a single gene. 271 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: And in many cases we don't even know what the 272 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 1: collection of genes look like. So genes matter, But I 273 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: think we're going to get the majority of our information 274 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: by understanding our family history in terms of susceptibility, and 275 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: the environment matters greatly. And the extension of that is, 276 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: of course you have great agency over that. 277 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, and what is the best methodology for getting the 278 00:13:56,440 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 3: family history in a complete comprehensive way that's actually going. 279 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: To it can be hard if members of the family 280 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 1: are deceased. So for people your age and my age, 281 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: you know, our grandparents, I mean, at least for me, 282 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: my grandparents are long gone. Yes, so it's you know, 283 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: do your parents really remember? And part of it just 284 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: comes down to are they being prompted by the right 285 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 1: questions now? Again, to be honest, in my family history, 286 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: I have very limited understanding of grandparents because you know, 287 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: they just died long enough ago, and frankly, I don't 288 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: think my parents were necessarily great historians of this. In 289 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: my case, where the bulk of my understanding came from 290 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: was that my dad came from a very large family. 291 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: You know, there were ten kids, two that died young, 292 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: so eight that survived to adulthood, and there I was 293 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: able to elucidate really good information and really understand that 294 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: there's something very bad going on with respect to heart 295 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: disease on my mom's side, I could also see some 296 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: issues with her two siblings as well. That also gave 297 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: me a sense of you know what some predispositions might be. 298 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 3: Where can people find those questions? Well, how can they 299 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 3: connect with that approach? 300 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: No, that's a good question, I don't We We have 301 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: a program that we've developed called Early, which is like 302 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: a digital product that is our practice. I know that 303 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: it is within there, got it? Yeah? Yeah, So if 304 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: people like look for EARLY, I don't know if you 305 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 1: I should know how to do this. If you go 306 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: to like earlymedical dot com, there's a way to find it. 307 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 2: Got it? Got it? Okay? Perfect? Yeah? 308 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 3: No, I think that that kind of practical step is 309 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 3: so needed because one of the biggest things when I 310 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 3: was talking to my team and talking to the community 311 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 3: about health, one of the biggest things that came out is, Jay, 312 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 3: we're just stuck on where to start. Like, I don't 313 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 3: know where to start. I don't there's just too much 314 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 3: information out there. It's oversaturated. Everyone's telling me to do 315 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 3: this and that, and it's almost like, let's figure out 316 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: your genetic history. Like that's a great place to start, 317 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 3: because that's where we came. 318 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, this program Early is divided into twelve modules. We 319 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: think each module would take you about a month to 320 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: get through, and that's the first or second module. I 321 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: think the first module is setting your goals and going 322 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: through kind of this type of exercise, and then the 323 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 1: second module is, Okay, how do you get your family history? 324 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: How do you take that information and extract what the 325 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: implications are for you and then go from there. 326 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 3: What's your take on like full body scans and that 327 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 3: kind of testing and how often should it be done? 328 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 3: Because I think, again, what's happening. I was talking to 329 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 3: some younger people in our audiences gen Z and it 330 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 3: was just like, going to see a doctor has become 331 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 3: like not even a thought. 332 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: And I could see that. 333 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 3: In my generation, but I remember my parents' generation, like 334 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 3: my mom will still call me up and be like, 335 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 3: have you seen the dentist every six months? Like have 336 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 3: you been to the doctor every twelve months? Like you know, 337 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 3: my mom will still do that with me. But I 338 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 3: find that that kind of culture is diminishing day by 339 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 3: day because of a lack of trust, because of a 340 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 3: lack of transparency. So many different things could just be 341 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 3: laziness and complacency. What is your take on getting checks 342 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 3: which checks how often, And I guess the question is 343 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 3: how do people know how healthy they are? And early 344 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 3: is a great plan, But from the other point of view. 345 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: It depends on the type of scam. So, for example, 346 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 1: there are certain scans that are going to be very 347 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: helpful at predicting risk from heart disease. So for example, 348 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: a coordinary calcium scan for the heart or a CT 349 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 1: angiogram for the heart. Those are tests that I don't 350 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: think are absolutely essential, but they can be very helpful. 351 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 1: If you're trying to further stratify risk, you refer to 352 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: a whole body scan. So the best example of a 353 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 1: whole body scan that I think provides value is an MRI. 354 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 1: The reason being as an MRI doesn't have radiation, whereas 355 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: a whole body CT scan or a PET scan would 356 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 1: have staggering amounts of radiation. We would never want to 357 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: do that just from a screening perspective, But of course, 358 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: not all MRIs are created equal, and anytime you're doing 359 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 1: a screening test, you have to be aware of something 360 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:41,199 Speaker 1: called sensitivity and specificity, and these are really important parameters. 361 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: We've put out a lot of content on this because 362 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 1: I think it's very confusing for people. So sensitivity is 363 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: the capacity of a test to detect something if the 364 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 1: something is present. So if you're looking at a sensitivity 365 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: of an MRI scanner for cancer, the sensitivity is how 366 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 1: likely is this to detect cancer if cancer is present. So, 367 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 1: on the topic of whole body scanners, MRIs are very sensitive. 368 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: And again not all homeris are critic equal, but I'm 369 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 1: assuming we're talking about the best of the best. YEA, yeah, 370 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 1: that's good news. Means, if you go into an MRI 371 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 1: scanner and you have a cancer, the MRI is quite 372 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 1: likely to pick it up. Now, it does have some 373 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 1: blind spots, and every screening test has a blind spot. 374 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: So a blind spot that's worth acknowledging for an MRI 375 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 1: is a small calcified breast cancer that's easily going to 376 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 1: get missed by an MRI, And that's why it's not 377 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 1: a substitute for mimography. A woman would need to do both. 378 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 1: The next parameter of a screening test is the specificity. 379 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: This says, how likely is this test to give you 380 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,959 Speaker 1: a negative result if indeed the condition is not present. 381 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 1: So it's the mirror opposite of sensitivity. Here is where 382 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: those whole body scanners are abysmal. They have very low specificity. 383 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: What that translates to in English is they have a 384 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: lot of false positives. I always tell patients, look, if 385 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,919 Speaker 1: you're going to go and get the scans, and we 386 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: advocate that our patients do, but they we do it 387 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: in a much more kind of robust way where it's 388 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 1: part of a multiple system of screening tests, so that 389 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: we're covering the bases of everything and trying to attach 390 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 1: to the strength and weakness of each study. But when 391 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: it comes to that MRI, we say, look, there's a 392 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 1: really good chance you're going to come out of this 393 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: test and there's going to be some false positives we're 394 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: going to need to chase down. So I always feel 395 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,119 Speaker 1: bad when people sign up to do these scans and 396 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 1: they aren't aware of that, because it generates sometimes more 397 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 1: stress on the back end. Yeah. 398 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I went through that. We had an MRI done 399 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 3: and they found like almost like a group or a 400 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 3: cluster of things in an area and they're like, oh, 401 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 3: that could be cancer. And I had to go and 402 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 3: do a endoscopy as well, and luckily they found it 403 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 3: was nothing. But I remember for that week before I 404 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:53,439 Speaker 3: was like, that's it. 405 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 2: It's all over here. It is, you know, I need 406 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 2: to well, I think. 407 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 1: Sometimes if you're told up front, hey Jay, there's like 408 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: a fifteen percent chance I didn't I was not told 409 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 1: about that, and we want to make sure our patients understand. 410 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: And by the way, a subset of a patient's probably 411 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: ten percent decide I don't want to have the scan 412 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: because I don't want to cope with that stress. 413 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 414 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it was real. 415 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,119 Speaker 3: I was like, all right, I'm going to have to 416 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 3: get focused on figuring this out because it sounds bad 417 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 3: and I didn't have that lay up, as you said, 418 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 3: And it's really interesting. And that's what I find so 419 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 3: fascinating today, right, Like, there's managing your health, and then 420 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 3: there's the stress and the pain that comes with figuring 421 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 3: your health out, whether it's the overexposure to too much information, 422 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 3: whether it's bad information in the past, and then we're like, oh, well, 423 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 3: just forget it. I don't want to do any of it. 424 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 3: I mean, that's what I feel your book does, and 425 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 3: that's what your work does is trying to help people 426 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 3: figure out, well, let me give you all the information. 427 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 3: Here's how you can know what's good for you and 428 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 3: test it for you and write for you. One of 429 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 3: the things that I love that you talk about is 430 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 3: you talk about the need to get rid of, you know, 431 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 3: just focusing on a random diet or following a random 432 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 3: diet and actually looking at like eating habits and patterns 433 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 3: work for you, and so just putting a little footnote 434 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,400 Speaker 3: for everyone who's listening. The book will walk you through 435 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,159 Speaker 3: how to make sense of how to know what is 436 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 3: right for you, what is wrong for you, whether you 437 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 3: should do something, which I think is like the biggest 438 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 3: anxiety driver for so many people when it comes to 439 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 3: their health, when it comes to food. I think fasting 440 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 3: has become trendy. It's become a big thing that everyone's 441 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 3: talking about. You know, we hear so much about every 442 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 3: single diet in the world. There's always a new one 443 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:31,199 Speaker 3: that's coming on the surface. How have you helped people 444 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 3: one on one actually discover what's right for them because 445 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 3: I found that my eating patterns are very different to 446 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 3: the trending habits of how to eat food and even fasting. 447 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think the first thing is, as 448 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 1: you said, it's just letting people understand that the less 449 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: you can pay attention to social media fads and your 450 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: news feed on Google or whatever, the better acknowledge that 451 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 1: there is surprisingly little known about the relationship between nutrition 452 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 1: and health, and people are going to be shocked to 453 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: hear that, because I think most people think the exact 454 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 1: thay opposite. Most people think that nutrition is the most 455 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: important pillar of health, and the reality of it is 456 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 1: outside of very extreme states, that's really not true. And 457 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: the very little bit we know about nutrition just frankly 458 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:20,640 Speaker 1: speaks to the challenge of scientific inquiry into something as 459 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 1: difficult as nutrition to study. And the reason for that 460 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: is you can't study us as humans very well. We're 461 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 1: very messy subjects, so we're not like mice where you 462 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: can put us in a cage and control what we're 463 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: eating and follow us through the duration of our lives. 464 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 1: It doesn't work that way. So when you're trying to 465 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,880 Speaker 1: make inferences about nutrition in humans, you have to rely 466 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: on poorly controlled studies called epidemiologic studies, which are fraught 467 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: with all sorts of limitations that I talk about in 468 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: the book. Or if you're going to control the study, 469 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: you can only do it for a very short period 470 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: of time. There's only a short period of time in 471 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 1: which I can control exactly what you're eating. So as 472 00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: a result of that, we don't know a lot. I 473 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 1: always want to start with what do we know. Well, 474 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: we know that protein is a very important macronutrient. There 475 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,159 Speaker 1: are four macronutrients, carbohydrates, fats, proteins, and alcohol. People kind 476 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: of forget alcohol, but some import of understand it's very 477 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 1: caloric and so it constitutes a source of energy. It's 478 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: the worst macronutrient, but nevertheless it's you know, you'd be 479 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: amazed sometimes people are going to think fifteen to twenty 480 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 1: percent of their calories from alcohol if they drink enough. 481 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: So protein is really important, and it's not a source 482 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 1: of energy the way carbohydrates and fat is, but it's 483 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 1: a structural macronutrient. And so I always start with that 484 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 1: and say, look, rule number one is you have to 485 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 1: make sure you're getting enough protein. And this is especially 486 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 1: true if you're over fifty because if you're over fifty, 487 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: you start to become resistant to the effects of protein. 488 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: That's called anabolic resistance, and loss of muscle mass in 489 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 1: people over fifty is a significant driver of mortality and 490 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 1: a significant driver of a poor quality of life. You know, 491 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: if you really start to think about it. Even if 492 00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:00,119 Speaker 1: a person is of sound mind and they're not not 493 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: suffering from some intractable disease later in life, a great 494 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 1: source of misery is simply being physically unable to do things. 495 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: After that, it really comes down to what do we 496 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,160 Speaker 1: understand about energy balance. Well, we understand that too much 497 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 1: nutrition I call this over nutrition is bad and that 498 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: the body historically developed lots of tools to store energy 499 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: because that's what allowed us to evolve the way we did, 500 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 1: and up until I don't know, one hundred years ago 501 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 1: or so, that was a great skill to have. It's 502 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: now thwarting us in an environment of too much food. 503 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 1: So now this ability that we had the superpower basically 504 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: to store excess energy has become a liability. In the 505 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: United States, certainly, the vast majority of people, probably over 506 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: seventy percent of people are over nourished, and that's the 507 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 1: thing that's driving a lot of their poor health. If 508 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: you're over nourished, you have to correct that problem. The 509 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 1: way to correct that problem is to eat less, and 510 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 1: there are three strategies to do that. One of them 511 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: is to deliberately go about cutting calories. That's called calorie 512 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 1: restriction or cr The other one is called dietary restriction 513 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 1: that means limit certain things within the diet and if 514 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,679 Speaker 1: you are restrictive enough, that will indirectly also reduce total intake. 515 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: And then the third is fasting or time restricted eating, 516 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: where you create a narrower and narrower window each day 517 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: in which to eat. All of these things can work, 518 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: and all of those things have significant limitations that you, 519 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: as an individual practicing this need to know. 520 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 3: I couldn't be more excited to share something truly special 521 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 3: with all you tea lovers out there. 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And it's 550 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 3: fascinating to think that just because of a larger plate, size. 551 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 3: We're now eating larger amounts and we think it's normal 552 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,479 Speaker 3: in our time, where someone else would have think we 553 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 3: were feasting. 554 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure you still get back to Europe all the time, 555 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,360 Speaker 1: but like, look at the difference in portion sizes when 556 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: you're in you know, Italy versus the United States. It's 557 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: comical what a difference it is. 558 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 559 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,719 Speaker 3: I remember as a kid coming to the States, and 560 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 3: obviously when you're a kid, everything that's big is better. Yeah, 561 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 3: And I remember like pulling over at the gas station 562 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 3: and I'd see like this massive, like you know, jumbo 563 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 3: thing to fill your drink up in and like you know, 564 00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 3: forever refills whatever it is, and just that as a kid, 565 00:27:58,560 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 3: I was like, this is the coolest thing of the world. 566 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 3: And now you look at it and you're like, wow, 567 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,199 Speaker 3: that's you know, there's no need for that. So it's 568 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 3: fascinating also how these cultural shifts and cultural changes have 569 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,239 Speaker 3: made some of these things harder for us today. So 570 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 3: you said, cr, DR and TR those are the three 571 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 3: that people need to experiment with. 572 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:16,400 Speaker 2: Each of those. 573 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 1: Yes, Basically, if you are in that over nourished camp, 574 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 1: you need to employ some combination of cr DR and 575 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: or TR and if you're adequately muscled, that's you just 576 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: you can just focus on that. If you're inadequately muscled, 577 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,360 Speaker 1: you have the added challenge of needing to boost protein 578 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: intake to match strength training while engaging in cr DR. Try. 579 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: But the route of it is that's it. Yeah, you know, 580 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 1: the rest of it, the alphabet soup of diets is 581 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: just it's all noise. I just encourage people to not 582 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 1: fixate on the trend and just think about those different 583 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: things because you know, look, each of the alphabet soup 584 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 1: diets fits into some form of DR. I mean, and 585 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,719 Speaker 1: that's true whether you're talking carnivore or vegan or everything 586 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 1: in between. Those are just forms of DR and they 587 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 1: can all be effective, but you have to be aware 588 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: of the limitations of each and make sure you're circumventing them. 589 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely absolutely. 590 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 3: I think that one of the things that there's a 591 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 3: lot of question marks around as well from the community 592 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 3: that they were asking was nutrition, which you've beautifully clarified there, 593 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 3: but nutrition versus supplements and the need for supplements, and 594 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 3: I think I would love to hear your takes on 595 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 3: supplements that are working, types of supplements, types of ingredients, 596 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,719 Speaker 3: types of chemicals that are making a difference natural supplements too. 597 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 3: I'd love to hear your thoughts on neotropics because I'm 598 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 3: just hearing about neotropics everywhere right now. Adaptogens as you 599 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 3: just tried as well. We've been focusing on adaptogens. I'd 600 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 3: love to let's talk about your take on great supplements 601 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 3: that everyone needs to take. Not not a brand, but 602 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 3: I mean yeah, and then you take on neotropics and adaptagens. 603 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 3: That would be fantastic. 604 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely do take some supplements. I'm always 605 00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 1: careful to kind of make disclosures. So one thing I 606 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 1: do supplement, I take something called AG and I'm an 607 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: investor in AG, but I've been taking it long before 608 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 1: I invested in it, and I know the founder very well. 609 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: I'm very under the hood of exactly how their products 610 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 1: are made and sourced. And for folks who aren't aware, 611 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 1: AG is like a green that you you know, just 612 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 1: mix in with water. I drink it every morning. 613 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 2: The ones of the podcast are they okay? 614 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: Cool? And my approach to that is, if you buy 615 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: the thesis that we need to be having x amount 616 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 1: of vegetables a day, and let's be clear and be transparent. 617 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 1: I can't guarantee that that is true because we don't know. 618 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 1: That's another example of something that the epidemiology tells us 619 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 1: is true, but there are many confounders there. But my 620 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 1: view is that it's better to err on the side 621 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 1: of that's probably true than the counter. So if you 622 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: buy the thesis that you need X amount of vegetable 623 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: a day, I actually find it very difficult to do 624 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 1: that without exception. There are lots of days I can, 625 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 1: but there are enough days that I can't. So my 626 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: view of a supplement like AG is it's my belt 627 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: and suspender's approach. It's it's basically my way of guaranteeing 628 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 1: that by seven o'clock in the morning, I've met my 629 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: needs and then if I have a salad for lunch 630 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 1: and dinner as well. Perfect I went a little overboard, 631 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: but that's better than the reverse to me. 632 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 3: So that's one and age specifically talking about that kind 633 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 3: of a supplement. That's a vegetable focused supplement, that's right, 634 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 3: not all supplements that's right, specifically focused on that specific age. 635 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 636 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's another supplement I take, which is a probiotic. Now, 637 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 1: no one has been a more vocal critic of the 638 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: probiotic space than me. I have generally viewed it as 639 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 1: a space that has demonstrated no efficacy despite all the 640 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: intentions in the world. In the past year, I have 641 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: sort of changed my take. So there was this study 642 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: that came out that looked at a certain type of 643 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,600 Speaker 1: probiotic and noted that a certain type of bacteria in 644 00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: it would help with the production of then called buterrate, 645 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 1: and this was actually helping with glucose disposal. The results 646 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: of the study actually were pretty impressive. It was a 647 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: relatively short study of three month study, but it demonstrated 648 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: in the group that was actually taking this probiotic, and 649 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 1: this was in a blinded randomized trial, that these patients 650 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: with type two diabetes had a significant reduction in blood glucose. 651 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: Even though I don't have type two diabetes, I sort 652 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 1: of subscribe to the idea that everybody benefits from lower 653 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 1: blood glucose, including those without diabetes. So that's a probiotic 654 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: that I take. I don't have any involvement with the company. 655 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: The company is called Pendulum, but I take their glucose 656 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 1: control probiotic. 657 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 3: Can you walk us through a bit on glucose control, 658 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 3: because I think that's still an area that for people 659 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 3: who are not as well informed that that's an area 660 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 3: that I learned about probably in the last year and 661 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 3: a half. That has changed what I eat first thing 662 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 3: in the morning. It's changed what I'm meeting at different times. 663 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 3: Like to me, I was just like, oh, if I 664 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 3: need a boost of something, as long as it's a 665 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 3: healthy sugar, it's fine. Not only to realize that, you know, 666 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 3: causing spikes in my blood blood glucose level. So could 667 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 3: you us through that a little bit. 668 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 1: You know, Glucose is this essential, very simple carbohydrate. It's 669 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: kind of the final common pathway of most carbohydrates. There 670 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 1: are other simple carbohydrates as well, fructose being one of them. 671 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: So sugar, for example, table sugar is a is a 672 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,719 Speaker 1: molecule of fructose and a molecule of glucose. But glucose 673 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 1: is the is the most abundant carbohydrate final breakdown product, 674 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 1: and it's very highly regulated. At any point in time 675 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 1: you're walking around with you know, if you haven't eaten 676 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 1: that day, somewhere between four and five grams of glucose 677 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 1: in your blood, maybe say four to six grams of 678 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 1: glucose in your blood, which is just over a tablespoon 679 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 1: or a teaspoon rather so tiny, tiny amount, but you're 680 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: using it constantly, and therefore your liver is constantly putting 681 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: more out into your circulation, ever so delicately, and the 682 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: balance of that is so fine that if that level 683 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,719 Speaker 1: were to be just twice as much, if you were 684 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 1: to go from one tea spoon teaspoon to two teaspoons, 685 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 1: that would be consistent with having type two diabetes. So 686 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: type two diabetes is a condition where an individual can't 687 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: control the amount of glucose in their blood. This is 688 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 1: very problematic because glucose, when it becomes too high, starts 689 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 1: sticking to proteins, and it starts causing damage all over 690 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 1: the place, but primarily to small blood vessels, so blood 691 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 1: vessels in the heart, blood vessels and the kidney, in 692 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: the brain, if you're if you're in the extremities of 693 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: the toes. That's why people type two diabetes are more 694 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:33,600 Speaker 1: susceptible to amputations, kidney disease, heart disease, strokes, Alzheimer's disease, 695 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,520 Speaker 1: all of these things, anything that compromises blood flow and oxygen. 696 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: So it turns out that even if you don't have 697 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: type two diabetes, and that today is just defined by 698 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,360 Speaker 1: a threshold of average blood glucose above one hundred and 699 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 1: forty milligrams per desolater. Even if you are not in 700 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,800 Speaker 1: that category, it still appears that your mortality goes down 701 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: the lower your average blood glucose, so, meaning within the 702 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 1: normal range of glucose, lower is still better. People sometimes say, well, 703 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 1: does that just mean you know, you should never eat 704 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 1: a food that raises blood glucose. No, that doesn't necessarily 705 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 1: mean that at all. What it means is you need 706 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: to be mindful of matching your glucose consumption to your 707 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 1: capacity to dispose of glucose. And those are factors that 708 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 1: are of course highly impacted by how much you sleep. 709 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: So sleep interruptions in sleep dramatically reduce your capacity to 710 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 1: put glucose into your muscles, which means glucose levels get higher. 711 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: It also has to do significantly with how much you 712 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 1: exercise and how much muscle mass you have, so people 713 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: can have completely different tolerances for glucose. And I think 714 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: I write quite a bit about this, which is, you know, 715 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,839 Speaker 1: basically trying to understand your glucose tolerance level comes down 716 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: to matching it with your insulin sensitivity, muscle mass, activity levels, sleep, stress, 717 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:51,480 Speaker 1: et cetera. 718 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,840 Speaker 2: Absolutely, thank you so much, sorry, and I cut you 719 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:54,439 Speaker 2: off from moving. 720 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: That's okay. So so just to go back to this 721 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 1: other point quickly. So, there are lots of other supplements 722 00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 1: that I think can be really valuable. I think be 723 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,160 Speaker 1: vita are very important, especially methlated B vitamins. Vitamin D 724 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,280 Speaker 1: is very important. Many people, I think don't have sufficient 725 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 1: levels of vitamin D. I think the data on vitamin 726 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 1: D we could do an entire podcast on that. The 727 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: clinical trials looking at vitamin D levels are really poorly 728 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: done clinical trials, and so I think if a person 729 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: looks out at the literature and the literature says there's 730 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: no evidence that vitamin D really helps, I would argue 731 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 1: pretty strongly that those trials haven't asked the right question 732 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,719 Speaker 1: and weren't designed correctly. So my view is it's better 733 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,480 Speaker 1: to probably err on the side of caution and make 734 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,000 Speaker 1: sure your vitamin D is probably somewhere between about forty 735 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:34,280 Speaker 1: and sixty And if you're not achieving that through natural 736 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 1: exposure to sunlight, which many people are not, then you're 737 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,600 Speaker 1: probably better off supplementing. There are a couple of other 738 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 1: supplements I really believe in, and I think magnesium is 739 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 1: a very important one. And I think you have to 740 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,359 Speaker 1: be thoughtful about the form in which you take magnesium. 741 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 1: So you can take magnesium in a slow absorbing form 742 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 1: or a fast absorbing form that's poorly absorbed technically, and 743 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 1: I think we need both, right. So I think that 744 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: like a poorly absorbed magnesium would be like a citrate, 745 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 1: glyconate or oxide, and those actually really help with bowel regularity. 746 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 1: So for anybody who's a little bit constipated or just 747 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 1: you know, kind of needs to be a little bit 748 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 1: more regular, we always want to have in anywhere from 749 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:16,239 Speaker 1: two to five hundred milligrams of one of those forms. Conversely, 750 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:21,360 Speaker 1: I think virtually everybody also benefits from a slow absorbing 751 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: form of magnesium. The brand that I like is called 752 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 1: slow Magaga. And I don't have any affiliation with any 753 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: of these companies unless I'm disclosing it as I did 754 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:32,319 Speaker 1: with ag that Actually, you know, so most people if 755 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 1: they notice, oh I have a little bit of cramping sometimes, 756 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 1: or you know, I'm getting little palpitations called PVCs, sometimes 757 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,840 Speaker 1: those get a lot better with magnesium supplementation, so I 758 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,319 Speaker 1: think most people benefit from that. There's another type of 759 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 1: magnesium that I'm a fan of, called magnesium L three 760 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,319 Speaker 1: and eight, which is magnesium paired to a transporter that 761 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: gets the magnesium into the brain. I think there's reasonable evidence. 762 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,720 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's incredible, but I think it's quite 763 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,880 Speaker 1: good that MAGNESISL three and eight is beneficial to the 764 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 1: brain and might even have some capacity to reduce the 765 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 1: risk of dementia. Before bed, I tend to rely on ashwagonda, 766 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 1: which I believe you said is in there. So I 767 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 1: take a big dose of ashwaganda and glycine, and again 768 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 1: I take that magnesium L three and eight, and those 769 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:23,720 Speaker 1: are kind of things that I think help with reducing 770 00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,359 Speaker 1: cortisol and making it a little easier to sleep. Then 771 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 1: the final supplement that I do think most people benefit from, 772 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: and there are probably many others, but I'm just sort 773 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,799 Speaker 1: of going through a few that I can think of, 774 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,759 Speaker 1: would be fish oil. So most people probably don't consume 775 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:42,240 Speaker 1: enough marine fat to get what I think are ideal 776 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 1: amounts of EPA and DHA, which are two very special 777 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: types of fats called omega three fatty acids and EPA 778 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:57,360 Speaker 1: and DHA. I think the balance of evidence is quite 779 00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,959 Speaker 1: strong that they're both beneficial to the heart and the brain. 780 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,760 Speaker 1: EPA probably a little bit more for the heart, DHA 781 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,799 Speaker 1: probably a little bit more for the brain. I take 782 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,200 Speaker 1: a brand that I've had tested because you always want 783 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 1: to be careful about contaminants here, and it's made by 784 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,839 Speaker 1: a company called Carlson's. Again, I have no affiliation with them, 785 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:19,319 Speaker 1: but I take their EPA and DHA daily as well. 786 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 3: That's a fantastic summary for anyone who's looking. I take 787 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 3: all those things. Yeah, you know, I think that's a 788 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 3: brilliant summary. And I really hope everyone who's listening and watching, 789 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 3: you know, get those checks and tests done and grab 790 00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,759 Speaker 3: those supplements, because again, I like what you're saying that 791 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,760 Speaker 3: it's all about erring on the side of caution rights. 792 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 3: It's almost like protecting yourself being safe, rather than assuming 793 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 3: that A you get this or B it doesn't really matter, 794 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 3: you know. Is it that we used to find these 795 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 3: supplements in other forms before or as humans? If we 796 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,240 Speaker 3: always ignored this and now we've suddenly figured it out, 797 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 3: or has our lifestyle just got so stressful and intense 798 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 3: that we're needing more of all of this to to 799 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,040 Speaker 3: support the pace at which we're moving. 800 00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:04,880 Speaker 1: That's a great question. I do think that the supplement 801 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 1: world is such a slippery, dirty world that I always 802 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 1: want to throw out a disclaimer, which is when I 803 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 1: talk about these things, I'm also very diligent about the 804 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: brands that I buy, So again, I have no affiliation 805 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,359 Speaker 1: with any of these entities, but having looked at third 806 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 1: party testing, I find the brand Jerro Jarrow the brand 807 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:29,400 Speaker 1: Pure Encapsulations to be two of the most reputable companies 808 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,880 Speaker 1: out there. So I'm basically always going to try to 809 00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 1: buy from them if I can, even if I'm paying 810 00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 1: a little bit of a premium. Your question is a 811 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,320 Speaker 1: very good one, and I don't know how much you've 812 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 1: paid attention to kind of the field of regenerative agriculture, 813 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 1: but it's a topic that interests me quite a bit, 814 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 1: and the more I've read about it, the more I've 815 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 1: come to realize that I actually think part of the 816 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:55,760 Speaker 1: problem is our food today is far less nutrient dense 817 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 1: than it once was, and so I do think that 818 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 1: many of us don't get the same quantity and density 819 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:07,320 Speaker 1: of nutrients today that we did for the same caloric intake, 820 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 1: say fifty years ago. And the proponents of regenerative agriculture 821 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,400 Speaker 1: would argue that a big part of that has to 822 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 1: do with soil health. So as the health of the 823 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:22,840 Speaker 1: soil has deteriorated with more tillage, more fertilizers, less crop rotation, 824 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 1: all of these things, the net result of that is 825 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:29,239 Speaker 1: the plants themselves are less healthy. So when you're eating 826 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 1: a plant, you're getting less nutrient density. And of course 827 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,240 Speaker 1: when you're eating meat if you're an omnivore, the meat 828 00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: is also less healthy and less nutrient dense because it's 829 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,800 Speaker 1: eating a less nutrient dense plant, which is growing in 830 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:46,320 Speaker 1: a less nutrient dense soil. And so the old adage 831 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 1: that you know, it's hard to be healthier than the 832 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 1: animal you eat, which can't be much healthier than the 833 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,000 Speaker 1: plant it eats, which can't be much healthier than the 834 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 1: soil it grows in, brings this whole thing full circle. 835 00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 1: And so I suspect that that is a pretty significant 836 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 1: role in it. Coupled with the changes in our lifestyle. Right, 837 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,759 Speaker 1: so many of us would have got sufficient vitamin D, 838 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,799 Speaker 1: for example, in the past because we would have been 839 00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 1: outside more, and we would have been active more, and 840 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:11,840 Speaker 1: you know today we aren't. 841 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,720 Speaker 3: As one example, are you seeing the rise of more 842 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 3: regenerative farming and places to buy regenerative vegetables. 843 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 1: Or yeah, I mean yeah, no, it absolutely is and 844 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 1: and there there, there are, there are some great places, 845 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,359 Speaker 1: you know. Certainly, one of my sincere hopes is that 846 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 1: you know, we see we see a greater and greater 847 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 1: movement to scale this because I do think regenerative agriculture 848 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 1: is not only what I think of as one of 849 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,280 Speaker 1: the most important ways in which we can improve human 850 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:45,479 Speaker 1: health through nutrition, but but for folks who are also 851 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:50,959 Speaker 1: concerned with with climate change and the effects of anthropogenic 852 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:55,360 Speaker 1: CO two, regenerative agriculture probably has more potential to attenuate 853 00:42:55,400 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: that than anything else, inclusive of electrifying the entire transperrotation grid. 854 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:02,360 Speaker 1: And that's a pretty bold statement. 855 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 2: It is. 856 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 3: It's very bord and this so I want to dive 857 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 3: into it too, Like what gives you confidence to make 858 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 3: that bold stimula? What have you seen that has given 859 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 3: you that conviction. 860 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,920 Speaker 1: It really comes down to understanding the capacity for plants 861 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 1: to fixate carbon. I'm sure everybody understands, you know, the 862 00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,120 Speaker 1: basics of how how CO two works, right, So, why 863 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 1: why is there a concern with the combustion of fossil 864 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 1: fuels Because when you're combusting a fossil fuel, whether it 865 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,799 Speaker 1: be coal or natural gas, you're taking carbon that was 866 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 1: sequestered billions of years ago in the form of fossilized 867 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:38,400 Speaker 1: you know, organic matter, and you're now liberating that carbon 868 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,279 Speaker 1: dioxide out. So how do we get carbon dioxide back 869 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,000 Speaker 1: in the system? Well, plants do that. So plants have 870 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,960 Speaker 1: a capacity to do something that no animal does, which 871 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,560 Speaker 1: is they fixate carbon. So they fix Fixing carbon literally 872 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 1: is just the chemical process of taking a carbon out 873 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 1: of the out of CO two and attaching it to 874 00:43:55,000 --> 00:44:00,359 Speaker 1: another hydrocarbon. The way that regenerative agriculture works is by 875 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:05,879 Speaker 1: storing more and more CO two and carbon specifically in 876 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:09,959 Speaker 1: the soil. So right now, the way conventional agriculture works, 877 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,919 Speaker 1: when you're constantly tilling the soil, you're leeching carbon out 878 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 1: of the soil. And so you know, when you look 879 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,560 Speaker 1: at the mathematical models that look at how much carbon 880 00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 1: could be brought back into the ground and sequestered ie 881 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 1: brought out of the atmosphere, it's more significant than the 882 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 1: carbon that's being put out through the combustion of fossil fuels. 883 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 1: The reason I'm particularly excited about that is you're basically 884 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,400 Speaker 1: getting two winds for the price of one, right, so 885 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 1: you're reducing atmospheric CO two, but doing so in a 886 00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,799 Speaker 1: manner that's also very positive for our health because in 887 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:49,240 Speaker 1: doing that, you're increasing the soil health and by extension, 888 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,480 Speaker 1: than the nutrient density of plants and ultimately animals and ourselves. 889 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 3: What's your take on regender agriculture versus lab produced. 890 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 1: I have yet to see any evidence that laboratory produced 891 00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 1: meats and vegetables can be done really well at scale, 892 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: or that they are particularly certainly any more viable in 893 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,080 Speaker 1: terms of the nutrient density. I think in part it 894 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 1: comes down to the complexity of soil. There's a great 895 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,759 Speaker 1: book I would recommend for people who want to go 896 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,040 Speaker 1: really deep on this. I believe. The book is called 897 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:25,120 Speaker 1: What Your Food Ate, and it's a wonderful book. It's 898 00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,120 Speaker 1: a bit of a deep dive. It's a nerdy book, 899 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:32,720 Speaker 1: it's not light reading, and they go into incredible detail. 900 00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 2: About David Montgomery. 901 00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 1: Yes, and there's another author as well, Afe and Beekley yep, 902 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:43,239 Speaker 1: once you get under the hood of how complex soil is. 903 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:46,440 Speaker 1: So for example, many people talk about the human gut biome, 904 00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,839 Speaker 1: and you know, we talked a minutes ago about probiotics, right, Well, 905 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,440 Speaker 1: the human gut biome is really complicated, and we haven't 906 00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,680 Speaker 1: figured out a way to perfectly model it. I mean, 907 00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 1: maybe we're just getting to the point where we can 908 00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: figure out, if we add a little bit more of 909 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,400 Speaker 1: one bacteria, can it make a difference in the direction 910 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 1: that this thing goes. Well, it turns out that soil 911 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 1: is probably even more biodiverse and complicated than the bacteria 912 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,359 Speaker 1: in our gut. And so again, I just think it's 913 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:16,360 Speaker 1: very difficult for us to sort of play super farmer 914 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 1: and think that we can kind of replicate what nature 915 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 1: has figured out for you know, literally a billion years. 916 00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,359 Speaker 3: Well, so, yeah, so your understanding is actually that we 917 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:30,919 Speaker 3: don't know enough about the complexity of the soil, which 918 00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 3: is actually what is impacting the quality of the vegetable 919 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:39,399 Speaker 3: or hence the all the way the chain. Hence, even 920 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 3: if we can produce a vegetable or meat in a lab, 921 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 3: it won't have that same. 922 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,960 Speaker 1: That that's my take on it, which says nothing about 923 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,080 Speaker 1: which says nothing. By the way, about the scale factor. 924 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 1: I think at the end of the day, scale matters, 925 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 1: like I mean food. I think it's safe to say 926 00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 1: agriculture is the second largest industry in the world just 927 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 1: in terms of like the magnitude of what it takes. 928 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 1: You have to have solutions that work broadly, and by 929 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:11,360 Speaker 1: the way, I think that's still There are certainly proponents 930 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,680 Speaker 1: of regenerative egg who say it can be scaled, but 931 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,080 Speaker 1: I think that's an open question. 932 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 2: Still regenerative agricultures. 933 00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,520 Speaker 1: Can it be scaled to meet the needs of the 934 00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:20,279 Speaker 1: entire world? 935 00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, what are the challenges with scaling that? 936 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 1: It's a totally different infrastructure too, truthfully, right, it's not 937 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,360 Speaker 1: going to rely on as much automation, so for example, 938 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 1: like you're not going to be able to rely you know. 939 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 1: So one of the hallmarks of regeneraveagg is you're not 940 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:39,799 Speaker 1: using fertilizer, so you're not using the nitrogen of a fertilizer, 941 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 1: you're actually using the nitrogen of the animals. Another one 942 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 1: is you're not using pesticides, so you're crop rotating instead 943 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 1: of using pesticides and allowing you know, the crops themselves 944 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:53,279 Speaker 1: to generate resistance by cycling them and not letting the 945 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,799 Speaker 1: pests get used to the same crop, not to you know, 946 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,920 Speaker 1: belabor the point, but all of a sudden, the industry 947 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:02,640 Speaker 1: that is now dominant by the pioneers, the Cargills, the 948 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,439 Speaker 1: Monsantos of the world, it's going to have to look 949 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,040 Speaker 1: very different. So I think that's a big challenge, is 950 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:10,279 Speaker 1: going from big to little and then scaling little, if 951 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:10,919 Speaker 1: that makes sense. 952 00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 3: Where are the places, like if people are fascinated to 953 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,440 Speaker 3: have you been out to any regenerative agriculture farms? 954 00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:21,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, there's one outside of Austin. There's actually 955 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 1: one here in California. 956 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:24,760 Speaker 2: So it don't be many. 957 00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,319 Speaker 1: I mean there's so the one out in California is 958 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 1: called there's a documentary made about it called I think 959 00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,520 Speaker 1: the documentary is called Biggest Little Farm. It's not too 960 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,319 Speaker 1: far from here, by the way, and my kids were 961 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,759 Speaker 1: obsessed with this, so we like watch this documentary like 962 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, fifteen times, but you'll get a sense 963 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:42,359 Speaker 1: of what it looks like. But yes, no, I mean 964 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,920 Speaker 1: I think everybody can find regenerative farms near them, So 965 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,839 Speaker 1: really it's just a question of helping farmers understand why 966 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: ultimately it is in their best interest to do this, 967 00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 1: so economically it makes more sense. But look, it's going 968 00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:59,840 Speaker 1: to require the government completely changing incentive structures and changing 969 00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 1: the way they subsidize certain crops today. It's a big shift. 970 00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:03,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 971 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,040 Speaker 3: What's your take on people trying to create little farms 972 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 3: in their home, like they're like mini growing. 973 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, look, I think it's wonderful. I think 974 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 1: if you can grow your own vegetables, I mean, we 975 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,920 Speaker 1: have a vegetable garden, and there's no question that the 976 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,000 Speaker 1: vegetables we grow taste infinitely better than anything we're going 977 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 1: to buy at the grocery store. 978 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,640 Speaker 3: And how do you take care of the soil in 979 00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,840 Speaker 3: your area? You're saying because it's untouched, it naturally. 980 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 1: Has Yeah, I mean we compost our own stuff, so 981 00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 1: but it's you know, look, it's not even big enough 982 00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 1: to completely feed us. So you know, there's work that 983 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 1: goes into this. And I have friends that do have 984 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,840 Speaker 1: the time and effort to at least, you know, support 985 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:43,760 Speaker 1: themselves fully. 986 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:45,360 Speaker 2: That's beautiful. Yeah, yeah, I love that. 987 00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 3: You know. My wife's really my wife's really big on that. 988 00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 3: She wants to build a little vegetable garden on the 989 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 3: back right now in the same way, because that's one 990 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:54,239 Speaker 3: of her core beliefs as well. 991 00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: So just this past weekend, I was I had to 992 00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 1: put all this chicken wire around the fence where our 993 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,480 Speaker 1: garden is because these squirrels are figuring out a way 994 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,399 Speaker 1: to get under the fence and they're like eating all 995 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,880 Speaker 1: the tomatoes and the peppers and stuff. And it's like 996 00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:11,440 Speaker 1: my son who's eight, this is his project, and it 997 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,839 Speaker 1: just drives them nuts when the squirrels are getting them. 998 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,960 Speaker 2: So what a great age to like get connected. 999 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,040 Speaker 1: So it's so great. 1000 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the land and to the soil into growing. 1001 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:21,320 Speaker 3: That's so beautiful. 1002 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:21,799 Speaker 2: I love that. 1003 00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, We've had a gopher problem for years here and 1004 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,799 Speaker 3: it's like it's always ruining the lawn and I'm like, well, 1005 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,120 Speaker 3: if I plant vegetables here, those vegetables are going to 1006 00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:30,439 Speaker 3: be gone. 1007 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,799 Speaker 1: Yeah. You have to you have to be smart about it. 1008 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, incredible. 1009 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 3: I want to make sure that everyone knows the book 1010 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 3: dives into cancer Alzheimer's. We talked about we were going 1011 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:46,040 Speaker 3: to dive into exercise in a second. We talked about diet, 1012 00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,560 Speaker 3: you know, eating less, eating patterns. I want to make 1013 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,400 Speaker 3: sure because I don't want to either repeat things that 1014 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,520 Speaker 3: are already in the book or repeat things you've talked 1015 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,319 Speaker 3: about in other interviews, and so I just want everyone 1016 00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:58,160 Speaker 3: who's listening to know that that you know, it dives 1017 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 3: into multiple key diseases that were all struggling with today 1018 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 3: and the biggest challenges. One thing I wanted to talk 1019 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:06,880 Speaker 3: to you about, which I think you really wonderfully highlighted, 1020 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:12,640 Speaker 3: was this challenge between physical health and emotional health. And 1021 00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 3: you talk about the need for prioritizing emotional health as well, 1022 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:22,600 Speaker 3: and I've found that so much of my subtlely emotional 1023 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 3: health was so based on physical health. So what I 1024 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:29,759 Speaker 3: mean by that is I found at one point in 1025 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 3: doing all of my checks and tests that and by 1026 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 3: the way I was doing I was functioning at like 1027 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,799 Speaker 3: a really optimal level. I was just feeling tired, and 1028 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,720 Speaker 3: when we did my test, we found that my vitamin 1029 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,520 Speaker 3: D was at a ten. This was around two three 1030 00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:45,400 Speaker 3: years ago, and I realized the majority of the challenges 1031 00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 3: I was having was because I was sleeping. We rented 1032 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:52,480 Speaker 3: a home during COVID. We moved from our apartment, and 1033 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,080 Speaker 3: when we rented this space, I never slept well in 1034 00:51:56,120 --> 00:52:01,920 Speaker 3: that space because it was just the most like noisy, 1035 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,239 Speaker 3: loud area, because there were it was it was in 1036 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 3: the middle of too many animals, too many things at night, 1037 00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,560 Speaker 3: like going through the floorboards, like it was an old, 1038 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,360 Speaker 3: old space, and so there was like I was waking 1039 00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:15,920 Speaker 3: up multiple times, which I don't usually go through. And 1040 00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,799 Speaker 3: so I started to find that a lot of my 1041 00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:24,360 Speaker 3: emotional challenges, whether it's fatigue, irritability, you know, stress, because 1042 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:29,239 Speaker 3: of that environment was causing emotional challenges. But it was 1043 00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,480 Speaker 3: actually all coming from a physical space, if that makes 1044 00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:33,759 Speaker 3: sense for sure. And I think so often these days, 1045 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 3: I find a lot of us are just trying to 1046 00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 3: solve everything in our mind rather than recognizing that often 1047 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:42,080 Speaker 3: it's a chemical, it's biological, it's it's physical. So I 1048 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:43,759 Speaker 3: want to just point that out to people because I 1049 00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:45,239 Speaker 3: think a lot of us are like I could have 1050 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,840 Speaker 3: done anything to change. I was working out, I was 1051 00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 3: trying to sleep right, I was doing everything I possibly could, 1052 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,640 Speaker 3: but because my vitamin D was at a level ten, 1053 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,360 Speaker 3: there's not much you can do. And instead of apart 1054 00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 3: from taking vitamin D supplements, how where are you saying 1055 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,520 Speaker 3: this relationship? Where are you seeing this relationship between emotional 1056 00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,400 Speaker 3: health and physical health. 1057 00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 1: Well, they're absolutely linked. And you know, I think that 1058 00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 1: one of the things that I've observed, you know, my 1059 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:15,480 Speaker 1: therapists will always ask me at the beginning of a session, 1060 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:19,279 Speaker 1: is how are you doing physically? So are you in pain? Right? 1061 00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 1: Is you know, is your shoulder bugging you? Is your 1062 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 1: back bugging you? Do you have like an ulcer in 1063 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 1: your mouth or something like like literally something like that, 1064 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,279 Speaker 1: How are you rested? And how much stress are you under? 1065 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:35,279 Speaker 1: And the reason I think is those things exacerbate vulnerabilities 1066 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,560 Speaker 1: that we have on the emotional side, on the mental side. 1067 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:42,279 Speaker 1: So if you take an individual in two the same 1068 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:46,239 Speaker 1: individual in two parallel universes, but in one situation, they 1069 00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:50,319 Speaker 1: have lots of issues going on physically, right, so they're 1070 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,720 Speaker 1: not well rested, their vitamin D is low, they're in pain. 1071 00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:57,200 Speaker 1: And you have another individual for which everything is physically 1072 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 1: firing on all cylinders, and you present them with the 1073 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,920 Speaker 1: same emotional distress, You're going to see a completely different response. 1074 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,200 Speaker 1: That's a big part of why I think it does 1075 00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:11,799 Speaker 1: matter to keep your physical health in order to optimize 1076 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 1: your emotional health. But I would also argue that you 1077 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,200 Speaker 1: could still have your physical health in perfect order and 1078 00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,080 Speaker 1: not becoming close to addressing your emotional health. 1079 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:26,359 Speaker 3: When you use the term emotional health, what does that 1080 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,439 Speaker 3: constitute for you? 1081 00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,920 Speaker 1: I try to distinguish it from mental health, right, I 1082 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 1: think mental health is a subset of emotional health, but 1083 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,239 Speaker 1: it's the perhaps the more medicalized piece of it. So 1084 00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:39,480 Speaker 1: in medicine we use something called the DSM, the Diagnostic 1085 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,319 Speaker 1: and Statistical Manual. I think we're in version five, and 1086 00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:47,360 Speaker 1: that's the one that codifies psychiatric illnesses, right, everything from depression, anxiety, 1087 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,160 Speaker 1: different personality disorders and all sorts of things like that. 1088 00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 1: And those things clearly matter, But I'm talking about something 1089 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:56,640 Speaker 1: that is applicable to everyone, whereas those things might only 1090 00:54:56,680 --> 00:55:00,799 Speaker 1: be applicable to people who would meet diagnostic criteria. So 1091 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:03,799 Speaker 1: emotional health, in the sense the way I think about it, 1092 00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:08,600 Speaker 1: kind of encompasses your relationships with other people, your sense 1093 00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:14,760 Speaker 1: of purpose, fulfillment, happiness, joy, spontaneity, all of these things 1094 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 1: that every human should be thinking about, because every human 1095 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,080 Speaker 1: is a part of those things. In my case, you know. 1096 00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 1: So the book is written basically at seventeen chapters. Sixteen 1097 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:27,560 Speaker 1: of the chapters are me, you know, writing about it 1098 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:31,320 Speaker 1: as the doctor, the scientist. And then the last chapter, 1099 00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,680 Speaker 1: which is about emotional health, is me actually just writing 1100 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,920 Speaker 1: about my personal experience and my own well transformation, I 1101 00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:39,440 Speaker 1: think would be an understatement. You know, I think that 1102 00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:44,400 Speaker 1: the most important lesson for me in the past decade 1103 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:49,719 Speaker 1: has been that all the health stuff that makes up 1104 00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:53,200 Speaker 1: most of that book, how do you reduce your odds 1105 00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:55,239 Speaker 1: of getting cancer? How do you reduce your odds of 1106 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,080 Speaker 1: getting heart disease, Alzheimer's disease? How do you make sure 1107 00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,799 Speaker 1: your muscles work better? In the la last decade of 1108 00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:04,600 Speaker 1: you know, all those things, they're very important. But if 1109 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:11,360 Speaker 1: you're miserable, none of it matters. Right, If your relationships suck, 1110 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:16,000 Speaker 1: none of it matters. And I can't state that enough. 1111 00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,960 Speaker 1: But I couldn't have understood that a decade ago. You know, 1112 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:24,040 Speaker 1: I had to personally experience things going really wrong. I 1113 00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:28,160 Speaker 1: had to nearly lose everything to realize I've really missed 1114 00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:31,640 Speaker 1: the plot here and if I don't get this stuff addressed, 1115 00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:35,640 Speaker 1: then the rest of this outliving doesn't mean anything. 1116 00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,360 Speaker 2: What was the wake up quote for you or what 1117 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:38,640 Speaker 2: was the I mean? 1118 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:41,879 Speaker 1: I think you know it was essentially almost losing my family, right, 1119 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:46,200 Speaker 1: it was just being so selfish and so such an 1120 00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 1: awful person that, you know, I finally woke up and 1121 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,080 Speaker 1: realized how much I was hurting everybody around me, and 1122 00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,480 Speaker 1: I was confronted with that, and confronted with the reality 1123 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:57,160 Speaker 1: that I had no choice but to go away and 1124 00:56:57,200 --> 00:57:01,080 Speaker 1: get help to sort of address my own reasons for 1125 00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:04,680 Speaker 1: why my coping mechanisms were so negative. 1126 00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:07,600 Speaker 3: What made you so selfish and awful? Like, where did 1127 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:08,240 Speaker 3: that come from? 1128 00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,200 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, again, at the time, I had no clue. 1129 00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 1: But also at the time, I don't think I was 1130 00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:19,840 Speaker 1: even privy to understanding what I was doing. But obviously 1131 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: as I as I talk about in the chapter, and 1132 00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:26,200 Speaker 1: I what I basically learned is I think a lot 1133 00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:28,720 Speaker 1: of my adaptations had to do with, you know, certain 1134 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,400 Speaker 1: things in my childhood, some of which were, you know, 1135 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,400 Speaker 1: I describe as kind of big T trauma and some 1136 00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,640 Speaker 1: of which are frankly just little TA trauma. But collectively 1137 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:40,000 Speaker 1: they just produced a response, an adaptation. I talk about 1138 00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:42,480 Speaker 1: this sort of model of trauma where wounded children become 1139 00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,960 Speaker 1: adaptive children, and adaptive children are there to protect the 1140 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:50,040 Speaker 1: wounded children. And I think that's a remarkable trait of 1141 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:53,920 Speaker 1: us as humans, right, we are very resilient. The problem 1142 00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,480 Speaker 1: is that a lot of those adaptations become maladaptive in 1143 00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,600 Speaker 1: adult life. And I think that's really what I was 1144 00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:04,720 Speaker 1: dealing with, was so many of my adaptations, you know, 1145 00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: for example, control, drive, perfection, anger, All of those things 1146 00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:15,160 Speaker 1: served me quite well as a child, but as a 1147 00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,200 Speaker 1: husband and as a father, they were not serving me 1148 00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 1: well anymore. And all of the good that came from 1149 00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,680 Speaker 1: those adaptations, for example, a strong work ethic, a desire 1150 00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:30,720 Speaker 1: to do good, was more being done for the wrong reasons. 1151 00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:34,680 Speaker 1: It was I'll show them, I will you know, I 1152 00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,920 Speaker 1: will matter, my self esteem will be based on performance, 1153 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,440 Speaker 1: et cetera. And I think all of that had to 1154 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,480 Speaker 1: be turned on its head. For me. That was sort 1155 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:46,200 Speaker 1: of my journey, was learning how to undo all of 1156 00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:50,680 Speaker 1: the maladaptive behaviors, to try to keep the good parts 1157 00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 1: of the adaptation and then shed the harmful ones. 1158 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:56,880 Speaker 3: Why do you think it takes us? Thank you for sharing, 1159 00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:58,280 Speaker 3: by the way, and I know you go into a 1160 00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 3: more depth in the book, and I find this fascinating, 1161 00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:03,440 Speaker 3: and I think people I'm so happy that you address it, 1162 00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:06,080 Speaker 3: because I think people find it especially fascinating From coming 1163 00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 3: from you, because often they've just seen as such separate 1164 00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:14,880 Speaker 3: things and separate pursuits, but for you to unify in 1165 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,840 Speaker 3: them is really really interesting. Why do you think it 1166 00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 3: takes so many of us so long to address the 1167 00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,960 Speaker 3: very root cause of so much of our problems? And 1168 00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:28,840 Speaker 3: you partly covered it there that some of these things 1169 00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:32,560 Speaker 3: become superpowers in the material world, like they're phenomenal at 1170 00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:37,760 Speaker 3: you know, manipulating the outside world through control and perfectionism, etc. 1171 00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:41,480 Speaker 3: But then in the inner world and the family tends 1172 00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:45,000 Speaker 3: to suffer from that, Why does it take us so 1173 00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:48,800 Speaker 3: long to look backwards almost to look forwards in both 1174 00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:53,840 Speaker 3: our genetic background and are also genetic trauma in that sense. 1175 00:59:54,120 --> 01:00:00,560 Speaker 1: I don't think we want to uncover painful things less 1176 01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:03,400 Speaker 1: the pain that we're confronting is greater than the pain 1177 01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:07,240 Speaker 1: we're going to encounter by doing so. That's probably my 1178 01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 1: simplest thought as to why. I just think that, like, 1179 01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:15,640 Speaker 1: how many people without ever having experienced dental pain would 1180 01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 1: go to the dentist right like you do as a kid, 1181 01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,920 Speaker 1: because you're sort of told. But when I think about now, 1182 01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,520 Speaker 1: like why do I put so much effort into taking 1183 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,760 Speaker 1: care of my teeth? It's because I've learned how miserable 1184 01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:33,760 Speaker 1: it is when I don't. I think, until you experience 1185 01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 1: enough discomfort in the present, and in my case that 1186 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 1: came through the circumstances. I write about the pain of 1187 01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:49,120 Speaker 1: turning around and going back and exploring what happened and why, 1188 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:54,160 Speaker 1: and then embarking on the corrective steps and learning a 1189 01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 1: whole new language and a whole new set of skills. 1190 01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:00,000 Speaker 1: I mean, there's in chemistry we call that the activation energy. 1191 01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:02,720 Speaker 1: You have a chemical reaction, right, so you know every 1192 01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:06,880 Speaker 1: chemical reaction has to overcome some sort of activation energy, 1193 01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,600 Speaker 1: and the higher that activation energy, the less likely that 1194 01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:14,360 Speaker 1: reaction is to take place. So enzymes, which people have 1195 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,280 Speaker 1: heard what's an enzyme? Do an enzyme or a catalyst 1196 01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 1: will make that reaction more likely. It lowers that barrier 1197 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,920 Speaker 1: to activation. So I think what we need in our 1198 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:28,960 Speaker 1: life are catalysts. We need something, and unfortunately, I think 1199 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:33,200 Speaker 1: sometimes it often has to be painful a loss to 1200 01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:35,960 Speaker 1: force us to do that. I make a point when 1201 01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:38,320 Speaker 1: I showed up in the first rehab place I went to, 1202 01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:40,200 Speaker 1: there was this There's a woman that I met there 1203 01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 1: who could sort of see from the look on my 1204 01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:43,920 Speaker 1: face that I wasn't happy to be there. She just 1205 01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:46,760 Speaker 1: said to me in a manner that was just so perfect. 1206 01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,560 Speaker 1: She said, Hey, nobody shows up here on a winning streak. 1207 01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:51,760 Speaker 1: This is just one hundred percent true. 1208 01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:55,600 Speaker 3: How did you help the people around you that you 1209 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:59,680 Speaker 3: cared about be patient as you went through your own 1210 01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:02,920 Speaker 3: gen Because I feel like it's really interesting when we 1211 01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:06,960 Speaker 3: are trying to solve our own wounds and pain, it's 1212 01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:11,640 Speaker 3: already so hard. But because we've taken on responsibilities or commitments, 1213 01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:14,160 Speaker 3: whether that be in a marriage or as a parent, 1214 01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:17,320 Speaker 3: or even as a CEO or a boss or whatever 1215 01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,600 Speaker 3: it may be, it's like, all of a sudden, you 1216 01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:23,880 Speaker 3: have so many other commitments that you had taken on 1217 01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:26,280 Speaker 3: even before you realized you had to work on yourself. 1218 01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:29,880 Speaker 3: Did you find yourself helping them while you helped yourself 1219 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 3: to be around and be supportive as opposed to like 1220 01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:34,880 Speaker 3: tap out and say, you know what, we don't want 1221 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,280 Speaker 3: to be around? Because I think we often look at like, 1222 01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,520 Speaker 3: how are people helping us in our time of struggle? 1223 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:42,680 Speaker 3: But sometimes it's like we already committed to them, and 1224 01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:45,280 Speaker 3: then we realize that does that make any sense? 1225 01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 1: It makes a ton of sense, And I will tell you. 1226 01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,120 Speaker 1: I think it just speaks to how fortunate I am 1227 01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:53,120 Speaker 1: and perhaps why I feel I have an obligation to 1228 01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:55,480 Speaker 1: talk about it, which is I just think I was 1229 01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,960 Speaker 1: really lucky and that the people around me stood by 1230 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:02,760 Speaker 1: me and let me go through this and gave me 1231 01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,919 Speaker 1: the chance to do it and stood by me because 1232 01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:06,920 Speaker 1: I don't I don't think many people would have. I really, 1233 01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:08,840 Speaker 1: you know, I've said this to my wife many times. 1234 01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,320 Speaker 1: I describe her as like, you know, sort of hall 1235 01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,200 Speaker 1: of fame wife who didn't really need to stick by me. 1236 01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,320 Speaker 1: I think she had enough reasons to leave and take 1237 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:19,200 Speaker 1: my kids away and just say to hell with that guy, 1238 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:23,320 Speaker 1: and that she didn't. I will forever pay that forward. 1239 01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:25,480 Speaker 1: And I think the same is true of people that 1240 01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,919 Speaker 1: I worked with who knew I was struggling. I think, 1241 01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 1: deep down believed that I was not a bad person. 1242 01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:33,680 Speaker 1: I was a good person who did very bad things, 1243 01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:36,760 Speaker 1: and that I deserved another chance. I wish I could 1244 01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:39,080 Speaker 1: say I was supporting them on that journey, but I 1245 01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,560 Speaker 1: don't think I was. I think I was just reeling 1246 01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,640 Speaker 1: in pain and lucky that they stood by me. 1247 01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:47,080 Speaker 2: Well, thank you for sharing that. That's that really hit me. 1248 01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:51,520 Speaker 3: As you know, don't expect people to catch you when 1249 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:55,120 Speaker 3: you're falling, but if they stand by you, never let 1250 01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:58,439 Speaker 3: them leave you aside, because I think most of us could, 1251 01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:02,360 Speaker 3: probably the fortunate ones attest to that. I would say 1252 01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:05,000 Speaker 3: that about my wife too, I'd say that about my parents. 1253 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 3: I'd say that about the people that I'm surrounded by, 1254 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:11,400 Speaker 3: that sometimes I haven't had the capacity to help them 1255 01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,680 Speaker 3: as I help myself, even though I intend to. But 1256 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,160 Speaker 3: the problem sometimes is we do the other extreme, where 1257 01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:18,240 Speaker 3: we demand. 1258 01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 2: Them to help us. That's the balance. 1259 01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:22,520 Speaker 3: It's like the gratitude that you're displaying right now is 1260 01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 3: actually like the right, I think a wonderful balance, because 1261 01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:28,160 Speaker 3: we do either all We either go I'm going to 1262 01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:31,280 Speaker 3: solve this myself and I don't need anyone, or I 1263 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:34,160 Speaker 3: want my family to solve my problems for me, And 1264 01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 3: like we live in one of those extremes, and you're 1265 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,320 Speaker 3: actually saying, well, I had to help myself. I'd to 1266 01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:41,400 Speaker 3: admit I didn't have the capacity to help them at 1267 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:44,320 Speaker 3: the time. But now I'm just grateful and I'm humbled 1268 01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:47,840 Speaker 3: by the fact that they stayed here. Like there's some 1269 01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:51,160 Speaker 3: beauty to that and that that really resonates. 1270 01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:54,480 Speaker 1: It's probably four years after one of the events that 1271 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:56,520 Speaker 1: I write about in this book, which was when my 1272 01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:01,320 Speaker 1: son almost died. I was talking to Esther Parrel and 1273 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:03,880 Speaker 1: I was just saying, I don't think I could ever 1274 01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:09,280 Speaker 1: forgive myself for what I did. And she said, that's okay. 1275 01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:11,080 Speaker 1: I think it's okay that you remember this for the 1276 01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:13,360 Speaker 1: rest of your life. I think there's a degree of 1277 01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:17,320 Speaker 1: humility you need to carry with you forever. And I 1278 01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,320 Speaker 1: think that was a really wise thing to say, right, Like, 1279 01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 1: I think it would have been easy to have said no, no, no, no, no, 1280 01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:24,200 Speaker 1: you should just forget about this and move on. But 1281 01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:27,000 Speaker 1: she's like, no, you should remember this forever. This is 1282 01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: the humility you need to remember. And she described it 1283 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,960 Speaker 1: in a very eloquent way, which was you need to 1284 01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 1: understand that there's a monster in you and he's never 1285 01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:40,000 Speaker 1: going to go away. I'm confident you will keep him 1286 01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:42,520 Speaker 1: in the corner for the rest of his life. But 1287 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,520 Speaker 1: don't ever take an eye off him. Yeah, and don't 1288 01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:48,440 Speaker 1: ever think that just because you're better now, you're better 1289 01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:50,640 Speaker 1: for life. This is a constant process. 1290 01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:55,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, And remembering that there's a monster in you, but 1291 01:05:55,280 --> 01:05:56,400 Speaker 3: you are not that monster. 1292 01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,480 Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, he's over in the corner, and you 1293 01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:00,640 Speaker 1: have the you are the one in charge of whether 1294 01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:01,640 Speaker 1: he stays in that corner. 1295 01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:05,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it reminds me. I remember in my early experience 1296 01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:06,920 Speaker 3: of living as a monk. I said to one of 1297 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:10,920 Speaker 3: my monk teachers, I said, I just feel like I'll 1298 01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:15,120 Speaker 3: never overcome my ego, Like it just is too big, 1299 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,960 Speaker 3: Like there's two mutch to deal with. And it's not 1300 01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,600 Speaker 3: that it's coming out in an externally gross way that 1301 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,960 Speaker 3: it's manifesting. But I know it's there. You know, we've 1302 01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:27,000 Speaker 3: trained in self awareness and I can see it. And 1303 01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:28,480 Speaker 3: he said to me, yeah, it's always going to be 1304 01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:31,680 Speaker 3: there because it's not going anywhere, And he said, it 1305 01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:35,960 Speaker 3: will always act as your anchor and ground you and 1306 01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:38,560 Speaker 3: humble you even when you saw to new heights or 1307 01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,880 Speaker 3: whatever else your life brings to you. That you knowing 1308 01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:44,920 Speaker 3: that it's there is actually what will help you, right, 1309 01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:47,440 Speaker 3: you know, stay grounded, which is such a beautiful reminder 1310 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,280 Speaker 3: as opposed to like ego death and we're going to 1311 01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:51,960 Speaker 3: crush it in. It's interesting with health too, right, with 1312 01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,720 Speaker 3: emotional health and physical health. That from what you said, 1313 01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,520 Speaker 3: the first thing you said today was you know there 1314 01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:00,640 Speaker 3: are certain things from the moment you're born that that's it. 1315 01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:05,000 Speaker 3: It's already going in the wrong direction, and we often 1316 01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:06,680 Speaker 3: think of like, how do I end this? So how 1317 01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:08,640 Speaker 3: do I start this? How do I finish this? And 1318 01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:11,640 Speaker 3: it's like, well, most things are just in motion. They're 1319 01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:16,000 Speaker 3: not beginning or ending, they're just already happening. And as 1320 01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:18,080 Speaker 3: you said earlier, we're trying to slow it down, or 1321 01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,880 Speaker 3: we're trying to be aware of it, or we're trying 1322 01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:23,320 Speaker 3: to monitor it. When you were speaking about your family 1323 01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:26,160 Speaker 3: there and you were talking about that emotional wellbeing, there 1324 01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:28,439 Speaker 3: was something that came to mind. There were these two 1325 01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:32,120 Speaker 3: beautiful words you used, which one of them is used 1326 01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 3: a lot, but one of them not so much. We 1327 01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:37,200 Speaker 3: talked about joy and spontaneity. And I love the word spontaneity. 1328 01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:39,880 Speaker 3: I think it's not used enough when we talk about 1329 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:43,080 Speaker 3: emotional health. Joy is used. But the challenge I find 1330 01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:46,720 Speaker 3: today when I'm talking to people is that we're so 1331 01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:52,560 Speaker 3: overexposed to it's whether chemically we're talking about dopamine or 1332 01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:56,640 Speaker 3: whether we're just talking about like fun, pleasure, instant gratification, 1333 01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:59,480 Speaker 3: which we've talked about for such a long time that 1334 01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:04,080 Speaker 3: every thing feels boring almost it's hard for people to 1335 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:07,720 Speaker 3: get to a state of joy or spontaneity. I find 1336 01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:10,280 Speaker 3: that a lot of people have a sense of like, well, 1337 01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:12,600 Speaker 3: what's there to look forward to? It like, oh, well, 1338 01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:16,559 Speaker 3: nothing's that great, It's okay, like you know, whereas before 1339 01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,120 Speaker 3: and now it's like it feels like you've got to 1340 01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:23,200 Speaker 3: up the. 1341 01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 2: Results so hard. 1342 01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:24,800 Speaker 3: And the problem is even when you up it, like 1343 01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:29,160 Speaker 3: you're thinking that happiness is in Europe on that yacht, right, 1344 01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:32,400 Speaker 3: and it's like, even if you got there, it won't 1345 01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:35,439 Speaker 3: actually even live up to that experience that you put 1346 01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:39,839 Speaker 3: in your mind, because it was never about the physical 1347 01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,200 Speaker 3: manifestation of it. It was it was the idea that 1348 01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:46,679 Speaker 3: you've overexposed yourself to so much pleasure that now even 1349 01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:50,680 Speaker 3: the highest pleasures don't satisfy or suffice. How do we 1350 01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,240 Speaker 3: work on that? Like, what is the health and emotional 1351 01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:55,320 Speaker 3: version of approaching that problem? 1352 01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:57,840 Speaker 1: I wish I knew? I mean, and I think you're 1353 01:08:57,840 --> 01:09:00,960 Speaker 1: addressing one of the most important questions. And this is 1354 01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:05,040 Speaker 1: something I really struggle with because you know, for me, 1355 01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:07,840 Speaker 1: I and I was just talking about this with someone 1356 01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:10,640 Speaker 1: earlier today. I think about the next decade of my 1357 01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:13,800 Speaker 1: life this amazing time where I get to be with 1358 01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:16,920 Speaker 1: my kids the most. Because you know, as you're probably aware, 1359 01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:20,679 Speaker 1: the data are pretty clear that once your kids leave 1360 01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:22,960 Speaker 1: for college, the amount of time you will get to 1361 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,280 Speaker 1: spend with them is quite small. I think it works 1362 01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:29,559 Speaker 1: out to basically, you have a total of nineteen years 1363 01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:34,320 Speaker 1: with your kids, eighteen of which occur until they leave 1364 01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:37,479 Speaker 1: for college, and then one year is the sum total 1365 01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,160 Speaker 1: of time you will spend with your kids the rest 1366 01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,160 Speaker 1: of your life on average. So I look at that 1367 01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:46,960 Speaker 1: and I think I regret the time I've wasted so far, right, 1368 01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:50,000 Speaker 1: But so that's the stuff I talk about, and now 1369 01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:53,160 Speaker 1: I'm here in the future, I think, Wow, the greatest 1370 01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:56,640 Speaker 1: source of joy I really experience is with my family. That, 1371 01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:59,240 Speaker 1: to me is what spontaneity is. Right. Spontaneity for me 1372 01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:01,320 Speaker 1: is an important and the reason I brought it up 1373 01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:05,040 Speaker 1: is I'm a very rigid person by nature. Like part 1374 01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:08,439 Speaker 1: of control for me is rigidity. Deviating from my plan 1375 01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:10,840 Speaker 1: is a very hard thing to do, but I also 1376 01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 1: realize it's a very important thing to do. So, like 1377 01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm the kind of guy who makes lists on weekends 1378 01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:21,160 Speaker 1: me too, right, Like there's just like there's a list 1379 01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:23,280 Speaker 1: of twelve things that have to be done on Saturday 1380 01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:25,200 Speaker 1: and eight things that have to be done on Sunday. 1381 01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:30,480 Speaker 1: And you can imagine that that rigidity takes any spontaneity 1382 01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:33,840 Speaker 1: out of life. And one of the great things I've 1383 01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:38,200 Speaker 1: learned is how to screw the list sometimes. The other day, 1384 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:39,320 Speaker 1: when I went to get you know, I had to 1385 01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:40,920 Speaker 1: go to home depot to get all the chicken wire 1386 01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:42,439 Speaker 1: to do the thing like that wasn't on the list 1387 01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:44,800 Speaker 1: that day, but I could see that my son was 1388 01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:47,680 Speaker 1: upset that the squirrels were eating his tomatoes, and I 1389 01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:50,960 Speaker 1: was like, you know what I'm supposed to be doing, X, Y, 1390 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,000 Speaker 1: and Z, let's go to home depot. 1391 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:53,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1392 01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:56,760 Speaker 1: I think interestingly anyone who does that, which I'm sure 1393 01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:59,360 Speaker 1: is everybody listening to this at some point, can experience 1394 01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,280 Speaker 1: that those are probably the things that bring more joy 1395 01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,360 Speaker 1: than the yacht and Abiza. It doesn't mean that you 1396 01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:07,280 Speaker 1: should never go on the yacht in a Biza. Yeah, 1397 01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:08,280 Speaker 1: I think it just means that. 1398 01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:08,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1399 01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:11,439 Speaker 1: I think it just means that don't dismiss the stuff 1400 01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:14,559 Speaker 1: that's right in front of you. And again, for most people, 1401 01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:19,200 Speaker 1: I really do believe connection is that thing like just 1402 01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:24,799 Speaker 1: having intimate connection with friends and family probably provides more 1403 01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:28,559 Speaker 1: of that than any of these other kind of material things. 1404 01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:31,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think what you're saying is actually true. 1405 01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:33,680 Speaker 3: And I want to clarify that point too, that I 1406 01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:37,840 Speaker 3: actually think that when you are not missing the simple 1407 01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:40,599 Speaker 3: things that are right in front of you, then when 1408 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:43,280 Speaker 3: the big material thing is right in front of you, 1409 01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,240 Speaker 3: you won't miss that either. That's the point I believe, Like, 1410 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:49,679 Speaker 3: I think that if someone is grateful for where they're 1411 01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:51,760 Speaker 3: at and what they see and what they experience, and 1412 01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,880 Speaker 3: are able to immerse themselves in it, then the same 1413 01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:59,040 Speaker 3: happens on vacation, the same happens on the yacht as 1414 01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:01,760 Speaker 3: are thought exper like. The idea is is that the 1415 01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:06,360 Speaker 3: ability to experience a flower as a thought experiment in 1416 01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:10,599 Speaker 3: the most immersive way allows you to experience a garden, 1417 01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 3: which allows you to experience a forest, which allows you 1418 01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:17,200 Speaker 3: know it's it's that you can't really fully experience the 1419 01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:19,519 Speaker 3: forest if you didn't know how to experience a leaf. 1420 01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:22,960 Speaker 3: That idea of that much immersed and I've and I've 1421 01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:27,920 Speaker 3: personally experienced both the presence and absence of those experiences 1422 01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:32,400 Speaker 3: where sometimes I'm walking up and down here or doing 1423 01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:36,799 Speaker 3: my morning hike and you completely miss the view because 1424 01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:39,479 Speaker 3: you're on your phone, or even if your phone's not there, 1425 01:12:39,479 --> 01:12:42,400 Speaker 3: you're thinking about something and then and then second you 1426 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,360 Speaker 3: look up and you're, oh, wait a minute, like this 1427 01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:47,200 Speaker 3: was right there. And so I think we all experience 1428 01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:50,679 Speaker 3: presence and absence, and I found that beautiful. We think 1429 01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:55,360 Speaker 3: beautiful things will make us more presence, but actually will 1430 01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:58,559 Speaker 3: be absent even in beautiful things if you're not present 1431 01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:01,080 Speaker 3: for the small things. And I've seen that again and 1432 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:04,680 Speaker 3: again and again in your example, and I'm just I'm 1433 01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:06,439 Speaker 3: only picking at this because I think there's so much 1434 01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:10,040 Speaker 3: lived experience and what you're saying, and the scientific backbone 1435 01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:13,559 Speaker 3: helps too. It's like, how have you also not ended up? 1436 01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 3: Because it sounds like your kids and your family is 1437 01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,160 Speaker 3: just so important to you, which is beautiful, and I 1438 01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:19,960 Speaker 3: think that's true for so many people. But again, I 1439 01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:21,960 Speaker 3: find that a lot of the people that I'm talking 1440 01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:23,960 Speaker 3: to are living at the other extreme where they're like, Jay, 1441 01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:27,760 Speaker 3: I am so giving in to everything. 1442 01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:29,000 Speaker 2: My kids want to do, what my family wants to do. 1443 01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:31,439 Speaker 3: That I don't even have any of my own habits 1444 01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:34,719 Speaker 3: and disciplines. Right Like for you going to get Chicken 1445 01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:37,960 Speaker 3: Wire was a spontaneous moment of love for your son 1446 01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:41,800 Speaker 3: who's worried about this project that he loves, Whereas for 1447 01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:44,640 Speaker 3: some people, all they're living in is not spontaneity, but 1448 01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:48,120 Speaker 3: in urgency, and then they're not getting I was speaking 1449 01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:50,519 Speaker 3: to a friend the other day and they were telling me, Jay, 1450 01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:53,680 Speaker 3: I wake up at six am, but what happened? And 1451 01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:55,640 Speaker 3: then I was kind of walking through their schedule with 1452 01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:58,439 Speaker 3: them for the day and helping them map habits, and 1453 01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:00,760 Speaker 3: they were like, I don't know why. And I was like, well, 1454 01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:03,559 Speaker 3: when do you start cooking lunch for example that they 1455 01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:05,280 Speaker 3: as part of their day they have to do. And 1456 01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:06,439 Speaker 3: they were like twelve. And I was like, so what 1457 01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:09,000 Speaker 3: happens between six am and twelve noon? They're like I 1458 01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:10,680 Speaker 3: don't know. And I was like, what do you mean, 1459 01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:12,559 Speaker 3: Like you don't know, Like that's six hours a time. 1460 01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,120 Speaker 3: Where does it go? And then they were like emails, 1461 01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:18,040 Speaker 3: phone calls, random people, call random things up and it's 1462 01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:20,320 Speaker 3: all like I'm like, Wow, you're waking up pretty early, 1463 01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:23,719 Speaker 3: which is amazing, but now all of that six hours 1464 01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:26,479 Speaker 3: is just lost in kind of moving. How have you 1465 01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:28,880 Speaker 3: found that balance between like I love my children, I 1466 01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:30,519 Speaker 3: want to be there, but I also need to do 1467 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:33,320 Speaker 3: everything I say in this book, which takes time and energy. 1468 01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:35,839 Speaker 1: I don't want to necessarily use myself as an example 1469 01:14:35,920 --> 01:14:38,400 Speaker 1: because I also realize like I have some really good 1470 01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:40,640 Speaker 1: things going for me, which is I have like an 1471 01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:44,320 Speaker 1: amazing spouse, and I have an amazing team and all 1472 01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:47,759 Speaker 1: of these things. But what everyone around me has figured 1473 01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:49,880 Speaker 1: out is if you want to get the best out 1474 01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:53,320 Speaker 1: of me as a husband, as a father, as a friend, 1475 01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:55,639 Speaker 1: as a boss, as a colleague, whatever it is, if 1476 01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:58,680 Speaker 1: you want the best version of Peter, he also has 1477 01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:01,360 Speaker 1: to be well rested, be eating well, he has to 1478 01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:04,120 Speaker 1: be exercising, he has to be doing the things that 1479 01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:07,160 Speaker 1: he has to do every day for his mental health. 1480 01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:09,519 Speaker 1: I am actually quite structured when it comes to that stuff, 1481 01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:13,040 Speaker 1: so I'm very routined with how I do things. So 1482 01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:18,559 Speaker 1: I do not take a single call or meeting, with 1483 01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 1: very rare exceptions once a month. There's an exception to 1484 01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:25,840 Speaker 1: this rule. Before eleven am. I am scheduled without a 1485 01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:29,360 Speaker 1: break from eleven to five every single day, So I 1486 01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:33,840 Speaker 1: have six hours of pure scheduled that I consider that 1487 01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:36,840 Speaker 1: not my time, that's my patient's time, that's my team's time. 1488 01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,519 Speaker 1: That's me giving thirty hours a week to everybody. I 1489 01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:44,120 Speaker 1: get up at about six. From six to eleven is 1490 01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:49,880 Speaker 1: really sacred time. So six to seven is just coffee 1491 01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:53,439 Speaker 1: with my wife and playing with the kids. So my daughter, 1492 01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:56,120 Speaker 1: of course, no, she's still sleeping, but the boys we're 1493 01:15:56,120 --> 01:16:00,639 Speaker 1: playing board games, doing puzzles, having coffee, doing whatever. From 1494 01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:06,000 Speaker 1: seven to eight is work, Just get the emails done, 1495 01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:09,400 Speaker 1: read whatever I need to read, et ceteratcetera. From eight 1496 01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:14,000 Speaker 1: to eleven is hobby plus exercise, So every day I'm 1497 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:17,519 Speaker 1: either in the simulator, driving or shooting my bow and arrow, 1498 01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:21,000 Speaker 1: and then I'm exercising. From five till about seven is 1499 01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:24,400 Speaker 1: family time, so I'm usually cooking dinner, playing with the kids, 1500 01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:27,519 Speaker 1: going to you know, jiu jitsu, whatever it is. And 1501 01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:33,760 Speaker 1: then seven till ten is some combination of family time 1502 01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:36,640 Speaker 1: plus work. And that's where there has to be some flexibility, 1503 01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 1: like how much more work do I need to do? 1504 01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:40,439 Speaker 1: And the price I pay for that is I have 1505 01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:44,160 Speaker 1: to work on weekends too, right, Why because like I'm 1506 01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:47,559 Speaker 1: forcing the time to be spread out, and so that 1507 01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:49,840 Speaker 1: means like, yeah, there's just you know, there's other things 1508 01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:52,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to have to make sacrifices around. But I 1509 01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:54,479 Speaker 1: guess my point of that is you have to kind 1510 01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:57,960 Speaker 1: of try to take hold of the schedule a little 1511 01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:00,200 Speaker 1: bit and sort of say, like, there are certain things 1512 01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:03,880 Speaker 1: that are non negotiable. So not exercising is a non negotiable. 1513 01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:07,400 Speaker 1: Not having some time with my family is a non negotiable. 1514 01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:11,120 Speaker 1: I rarely travel anymore. I used to travel twenty days 1515 01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,559 Speaker 1: a month. I travel two to three days a month now. 1516 01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:17,680 Speaker 1: Just very deliberate and conscious decisions about how I want 1517 01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:21,479 Speaker 1: to spend my time and the importance of, you know, 1518 01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,479 Speaker 1: taking care of my body in an effort to take 1519 01:17:24,520 --> 01:17:25,240 Speaker 1: care of everything else. 1520 01:17:25,280 --> 01:17:28,080 Speaker 3: Absolutely no, and I definitely I agree. I don't think 1521 01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:31,640 Speaker 3: we want to use ourselves as examples or you know, 1522 01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:35,000 Speaker 3: as the way to do it, because everyone's so personal. 1523 01:17:35,080 --> 01:17:38,360 Speaker 3: I think it's just useful understanding that that structure is 1524 01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:39,800 Speaker 3: needed for that spontaneity. 1525 01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:42,680 Speaker 1: What might be more helpful for people to understand how 1526 01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 1: I communicate this with my wife. So my wife is 1527 01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:48,559 Speaker 1: that person who will put everybody ahead of herself. So 1528 01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:51,320 Speaker 1: what I have to help my wife do is realize, hey, 1529 01:17:51,880 --> 01:17:54,240 Speaker 1: like you need to go for a run too, because 1530 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:56,800 Speaker 1: that matters a lot to you, and you need to 1531 01:17:56,800 --> 01:18:01,880 Speaker 1: go out with your friends and have drinks once every 1532 01:18:01,880 --> 01:18:04,360 Speaker 1: two weeks because that matters, or you need to go 1533 01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:08,120 Speaker 1: and get a many petty with your daughter and actually relax. 1534 01:18:08,320 --> 01:18:10,439 Speaker 1: I'll pitch in and do this other thing because I 1535 01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:12,160 Speaker 1: really feel strongly about you doing that, and that's not 1536 01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:13,680 Speaker 1: something I would have done before. Before I would have 1537 01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 1: just sort of said, hey, it's awesome, you're doing everything. Great. Yeah, 1538 01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:18,920 Speaker 1: So I think as a spouse, you want to sort 1539 01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:22,680 Speaker 1: of really understand that as true as that is for me, 1540 01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:23,920 Speaker 1: it's just as true for her. 1541 01:18:24,080 --> 01:18:26,240 Speaker 3: I think that's the key thing in a and we 1542 01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:28,120 Speaker 3: don't have kids, but I can definitely say on a 1543 01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:32,000 Speaker 3: relationship level, it's like, just because your partner can do 1544 01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:35,759 Speaker 3: something and is doing something doesn't mean that you should 1545 01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:39,280 Speaker 3: just accept that as reality for the rest of the time. 1546 01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:41,759 Speaker 3: And I see that that's one of the biggest challenges 1547 01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,320 Speaker 3: in relationships is people feel like their role is assumed 1548 01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:48,080 Speaker 3: because of what they've done in the past, but no 1549 01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:50,439 Speaker 3: one checked with them as to whether they were okay 1550 01:18:50,520 --> 01:18:53,519 Speaker 3: continuing to do it or whether they felt good doing it. 1551 01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:56,720 Speaker 3: And we think, well, they should tell us if they 1552 01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:58,639 Speaker 3: don't like it, they would tell us like I would 1553 01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:03,320 Speaker 3: tell them. But often you find that someone so ingrained 1554 01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:05,760 Speaker 3: in playing a role that they've even forgotten that they 1555 01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:09,040 Speaker 3: have needs or who they could be or can be, 1556 01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:13,880 Speaker 3: or they feel this overbearing burden or urgency and their 1557 01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:16,280 Speaker 3: role that they just can't disconnect from it. So yeah, 1558 01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:18,880 Speaker 3: I think that's a great point to highlight, Peter. I mean, 1559 01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:20,920 Speaker 3: there's so many I really do want to talk to 1560 01:19:20,960 --> 01:19:22,920 Speaker 3: you if you still have the time. I really do 1561 01:19:22,960 --> 01:19:25,680 Speaker 3: want to talk to you about cancer, and maybe Alsamer's 1562 01:19:25,680 --> 01:19:27,599 Speaker 3: as well, because we went on a different direction which 1563 01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:30,280 Speaker 3: I wanted to go into and which I loved. But 1564 01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:32,639 Speaker 3: I want to talk to you about cancer just because 1565 01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:37,360 Speaker 3: I lost I've lost three people in my life to cancer. 1566 01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:40,800 Speaker 3: I lost my uncle, who was my mother's brother, when 1567 01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:47,920 Speaker 3: I was around gosh, maybe I was around maybe just 1568 01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:50,240 Speaker 3: about to be eighteen or something like that. He had 1569 01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:53,680 Speaker 3: throat cancer and it was tough to see him go 1570 01:19:53,760 --> 01:19:56,519 Speaker 3: through that. It was the first time someone in my 1571 01:19:56,640 --> 01:20:00,000 Speaker 3: direct circle i'd kind of witnessed the journey of someone 1572 01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:02,840 Speaker 3: and like struggling, going through pain and then you know, 1573 01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:05,439 Speaker 3: dying at a young age. He was like fifty seven 1574 01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:10,200 Speaker 3: years old. And then I saw my one of my 1575 01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:14,760 Speaker 3: probably my closest friend who I lived as a monk with, 1576 01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:16,639 Speaker 3: and he was still a monk when he passed away, 1577 01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:20,880 Speaker 3: and he had colon cancer and he was like my age, 1578 01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 3: like he died two years ago now, so like that, 1579 01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:25,840 Speaker 3: he was a bit a couple of years older, so 1580 01:20:25,880 --> 01:20:29,760 Speaker 3: like thirty five around around thereabouts. I believe some of 1581 01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:32,600 Speaker 3: that was genetic, which we found out afterwards or like 1582 01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,960 Speaker 3: during the process, and he went through tons of cycles 1583 01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:38,679 Speaker 3: of chemo and like he tried everything. Like that guy 1584 01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:42,720 Speaker 3: had spirit and resilience and everything, and it you know, 1585 01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:46,400 Speaker 3: it was tough. And then I lost my spiritual mentor 1586 01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:51,519 Speaker 3: to brain cancer in the same time frame, during the 1587 01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:54,160 Speaker 3: year of COVID. So I also missed both of these 1588 01:20:54,200 --> 01:20:56,559 Speaker 3: people's funerals because I couldn't go back to London because 1589 01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:58,600 Speaker 3: you couldn't fly at the time. So anyway, all of 1590 01:20:58,600 --> 01:21:00,679 Speaker 3: that to say, I've just lost so many people of cancer, 1591 01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:04,320 Speaker 3: and I think that's just not uncommon, which is even 1592 01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:07,400 Speaker 3: worse in one sense, like I think everyone who's listening 1593 01:21:07,439 --> 01:21:09,240 Speaker 3: is like, yeah, Jamie too, And so I think it's 1594 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:13,519 Speaker 3: so important to talk about because I don't know, is 1595 01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:15,880 Speaker 3: it one in three, one in two? I don't know 1596 01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:19,719 Speaker 3: what the stats are, but because it's so common, because 1597 01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:23,880 Speaker 3: it's so normal now and just someone having cancer. But 1598 01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:25,760 Speaker 3: at the same time it's the most painful news in 1599 01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:28,080 Speaker 3: the world because you kind of feel like you know 1600 01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:30,200 Speaker 3: where it's going to go. What have we seen as 1601 01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:37,559 Speaker 3: proven ways of preventing and confronting cancer, both holistic and 1602 01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:39,280 Speaker 3: you know, traditional medicine. 1603 01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:40,680 Speaker 1: You know, the way I sort of think about it 1604 01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:42,760 Speaker 1: is there are three things to be thinking about, three 1605 01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:46,000 Speaker 1: three categories. So the first, as you said, is what 1606 01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:48,920 Speaker 1: steps can you take to prevent cancer? The second question 1607 01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:51,400 Speaker 1: is if you get cancer, how can you catch it 1608 01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:54,040 Speaker 1: as early as possible. One thing we really do know 1609 01:21:54,479 --> 01:21:58,599 Speaker 1: is that if you treat a cancer earlier, your chances 1610 01:21:58,680 --> 01:22:02,200 Speaker 1: of beating it go up. And the longer you wait 1611 01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:04,559 Speaker 1: to treat it, meaning the later you catch it, the 1612 01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:07,240 Speaker 1: worse your odds. And then the third question is if 1613 01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:10,960 Speaker 1: you do find cancer, what are the ideal treatment strategies. 1614 01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:12,800 Speaker 1: Let's start with the first question, and this is the 1615 01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:17,679 Speaker 1: least satisfying because we don't know a whole lot about 1616 01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:22,120 Speaker 1: what's causing cancer. So we know two things for sure. 1617 01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:25,160 Speaker 1: We know that smoking is a big driver of cancer, 1618 01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:29,000 Speaker 1: and we know that obesity is a big driver of cancer. Now, 1619 01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:32,120 Speaker 1: obesity is a bit of a misleading term because it's 1620 01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:34,920 Speaker 1: just kind of an overly simplistic way to think about 1621 01:22:34,920 --> 01:22:40,519 Speaker 1: what's actually happening. The data say obesity, but really what 1622 01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:44,479 Speaker 1: it means is insulin resistance and inflammation. Those are two 1623 01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:49,679 Speaker 1: hallmarks of obesity that are present in seventy eighty percent 1624 01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:52,040 Speaker 1: of cases of obesity, and if you look at the 1625 01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:55,720 Speaker 1: data more closely, that's what's actually driving cancer. So it's 1626 01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:57,880 Speaker 1: not actually how much fat you have on your body, 1627 01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:01,840 Speaker 1: it's more how much fat is in certain parts of 1628 01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:06,520 Speaker 1: your body that are metabolically problematic. But after those two things, 1629 01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:09,760 Speaker 1: smoking and instead of obesity, I just prefer to say 1630 01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,519 Speaker 1: poor metabolic health. We have some one off examples. We 1631 01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:16,400 Speaker 1: know that there are certain types of exposures pesticide, you know, 1632 01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:19,160 Speaker 1: certain types of pesticides for example, certain type of toxins, 1633 01:23:19,840 --> 01:23:22,519 Speaker 1: but those don't account for the significant majority of them. 1634 01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:25,840 Speaker 1: So for many people, cancer is still a mystery. In 1635 01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:29,120 Speaker 1: other words, whatever it caused, whatever caused the initiation of 1636 01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:32,680 Speaker 1: the genetic mutations that ultimately led to a cancer that 1637 01:23:32,720 --> 01:23:35,639 Speaker 1: the body was not able to on its own remedy, 1638 01:23:36,439 --> 01:23:38,680 Speaker 1: is still a bit of a black box, and some 1639 01:23:38,840 --> 01:23:43,240 Speaker 1: very prominent cancer biologists actually just argue that it's bad luck. 1640 01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:46,200 Speaker 1: In other words, it's a stochastic process. So our genes 1641 01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:50,479 Speaker 1: are constantly replicating, but when mistakes are made, mutations occur, 1642 01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:53,639 Speaker 1: and some of these mutations derive cancer. And there's broadly 1643 01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:56,599 Speaker 1: speaking two types of mutations. There are mutations in tumor 1644 01:23:56,640 --> 01:24:00,240 Speaker 1: suppressor genes, so these are mutations in genes that are 1645 01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:04,320 Speaker 1: there to stop cancers when cancers appear. And then there 1646 01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:07,479 Speaker 1: are mutations in what are called oncogenes. These are genes 1647 01:24:07,479 --> 01:24:11,280 Speaker 1: that propagate cancer. So mutations in any of these things 1648 01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:14,960 Speaker 1: can actually lead to cancer. So once you sort of 1649 01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:17,360 Speaker 1: accept that you're going to do everything in your power 1650 01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:19,200 Speaker 1: to not get cancer, which is to say, you're not 1651 01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:21,800 Speaker 1: going to smoke, you're going to be as metabolically healthy 1652 01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:23,599 Speaker 1: as possible, You're going to exercise, sleep, do all those 1653 01:24:23,680 --> 01:24:25,880 Speaker 1: things right, the next most important thing is thinking about 1654 01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:28,320 Speaker 1: your strategy for cancer screening. You know, this is where 1655 01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:32,800 Speaker 1: I probably differ significantly from the mainstream, you know, establishment view, 1656 01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:37,559 Speaker 1: which is actually kind of, you know, not that aggressive 1657 01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,439 Speaker 1: on cancer screening. I would argue that we have to 1658 01:24:39,439 --> 01:24:42,519 Speaker 1: be very aggressive on cancer screening, provided we can get 1659 01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:45,639 Speaker 1: our minds around the problem we discussed a little while ago, 1660 01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:48,960 Speaker 1: which is we understand that there's going to be the 1661 01:24:49,000 --> 01:24:51,040 Speaker 1: harder you look for something, the more like you are 1662 01:24:51,040 --> 01:24:53,400 Speaker 1: to find something that isn't relevant. But if you understand 1663 01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:56,679 Speaker 1: that going in, and you're willing to accept that risk 1664 01:24:57,320 --> 01:25:01,799 Speaker 1: and evaluate each finding in a thought way, I think 1665 01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:06,040 Speaker 1: that for most people psychologically and physically, the benefit is 1666 01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:10,439 Speaker 1: a net positive one. And so that means looking at 1667 01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:13,479 Speaker 1: things that are for example, with a colonoscopy, doing it 1668 01:25:13,560 --> 01:25:16,000 Speaker 1: earlier and more frequently than is the standard recommendation. The 1669 01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:18,200 Speaker 1: stander recommendation is not to begin till you're forty five. 1670 01:25:19,000 --> 01:25:21,880 Speaker 1: We would recommend that everybody, even without a family history, 1671 01:25:21,920 --> 01:25:24,840 Speaker 1: begin at least five years before that. It also means 1672 01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:28,080 Speaker 1: repeating colonoscopies more frequently, especially in the finding of certain 1673 01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:30,519 Speaker 1: types of polyps. Whole body screening you talked about with 1674 01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:33,040 Speaker 1: certain types of MRIs. We also use something called the 1675 01:25:33,080 --> 01:25:36,040 Speaker 1: liquid biopsies. It's a blood test that looks for really 1676 01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:39,120 Speaker 1: really small fragments of DNA and the blood and can 1677 01:25:39,160 --> 01:25:42,679 Speaker 1: identify the presence of cancer and the tissue of origin. Now, again, 1678 01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:44,599 Speaker 1: none of these tests are perfect. So each of these 1679 01:25:44,640 --> 01:25:46,960 Speaker 1: tests have things that they're going to miss. But the 1680 01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:49,320 Speaker 1: idea is that the more you're layering these tests, the 1681 01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:51,800 Speaker 1: better your odds are refinding something earlier. And then the 1682 01:25:51,840 --> 01:25:55,040 Speaker 1: final point is, okay, well, what are the strategies you 1683 01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:56,840 Speaker 1: know if should you have cancer? And this is where 1684 01:25:56,880 --> 01:25:58,639 Speaker 1: I think we just have a little bit more promise 1685 01:25:58,720 --> 01:26:02,080 Speaker 1: now than we did decade ago. So a decade ago, 1686 01:26:02,640 --> 01:26:04,800 Speaker 1: because this is the first time I did this analysis. 1687 01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:08,080 Speaker 1: In the previous fifty years, so from you know, sixty 1688 01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:12,200 Speaker 1: years ago until ten years ago, the overall survival improvement 1689 01:26:12,240 --> 01:26:16,120 Speaker 1: in cancer was about three percent. Wow, it was abysmal. 1690 01:26:16,400 --> 01:26:18,800 Speaker 1: But in the past ten years it's been about another 1691 01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:23,040 Speaker 1: eight percent. And while that doesn't sound remarkable, and the 1692 01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:26,760 Speaker 1: implication of that is half the people who are diagnosed 1693 01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:29,360 Speaker 1: with cancer today will still die from cancer. It's the 1694 01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:32,680 Speaker 1: biologic insights and the trajectory that we're on right now 1695 01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:36,560 Speaker 1: that gives me much more hope. And that is primarily 1696 01:26:36,600 --> 01:26:38,640 Speaker 1: based on a couple of things. The first is the 1697 01:26:38,680 --> 01:26:42,800 Speaker 1: field of immunology has really taken off. The tools that 1698 01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:47,240 Speaker 1: we have to harness the immune system to attack cancer 1699 01:26:47,880 --> 01:26:50,840 Speaker 1: have become so dramatic. 1700 01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:52,719 Speaker 2: Immunotherapy R that's right, Yeah. 1701 01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:58,000 Speaker 1: That it really is. I think within the next decade, 1702 01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:00,400 Speaker 1: which I know seems like an infinite amount of time 1703 01:27:00,439 --> 01:27:03,479 Speaker 1: for someone who's got cancer. Right now, we're really seeing 1704 01:27:03,600 --> 01:27:06,880 Speaker 1: changes that I think are going to allow immunotherapies to 1705 01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:11,160 Speaker 1: go from the niche place that they occupy in only 1706 01:27:11,240 --> 01:27:15,799 Speaker 1: working for certain types of cancers like melanoma and kidney cancer, 1707 01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:20,000 Speaker 1: to being able to go after the holy Grail of cancers, 1708 01:27:20,120 --> 01:27:27,320 Speaker 1: which are what we call the solid organ, epithelial tumors, breast, pancreatic, colon, lung. 1709 01:27:27,479 --> 01:27:30,160 Speaker 1: These are the big cancers that do the majority of 1710 01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:33,479 Speaker 1: the killing. Fifty percent of cancer deaths are just five 1711 01:27:33,560 --> 01:27:39,360 Speaker 1: cancers lung, colon, breast, prostate, pancreatic. That's more than fifty 1712 01:27:39,400 --> 01:27:42,439 Speaker 1: percent of all cancer deaths. Until you have a solution 1713 01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:46,880 Speaker 1: for those, we don't have a solution for cancer, and 1714 01:27:46,960 --> 01:27:49,559 Speaker 1: I do believe that we are really moving in that direction. 1715 01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:52,640 Speaker 3: We've touched on this point a few times of almost 1716 01:27:52,880 --> 01:27:56,599 Speaker 3: the stress about stress for health, and that's a really 1717 01:27:56,600 --> 01:27:58,559 Speaker 3: interesting way of thinking about it. It's like the stress 1718 01:27:58,600 --> 01:28:00,599 Speaker 3: of Oh, I need to work out today, I need 1719 01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:03,200 Speaker 3: to have my supplements to the stress of I can't sleep. 1720 01:28:03,200 --> 01:28:04,200 Speaker 3: Why am I not sleeping? 1721 01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:04,559 Speaker 2: Right? 1722 01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:07,720 Speaker 3: Like, we stress about the things that are good for us. 1723 01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:11,599 Speaker 3: How have you helped your patients, How have you coached 1724 01:28:11,600 --> 01:28:13,800 Speaker 3: them through that? How do you guide people through that? 1725 01:28:13,880 --> 01:28:16,559 Speaker 3: Because I think a lot of people go, well, then 1726 01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:19,120 Speaker 3: I'm just not going to do anything, because at least 1727 01:28:19,120 --> 01:28:23,759 Speaker 3: then I'm not stressed. I don't think that's the wisdom 1728 01:28:23,800 --> 01:28:26,360 Speaker 3: and what you're saying. I don't think you're saying, well, yeah, 1729 01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:28,599 Speaker 3: it's better not to have any stress at all. How 1730 01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:31,920 Speaker 3: do you help people to engage and you know, use 1731 01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:33,880 Speaker 3: that stress in a healthy way, or how do you 1732 01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:35,439 Speaker 3: guide patients through that stress? 1733 01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:37,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I think every patient's different, and I think 1734 01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:38,880 Speaker 1: you have to sort of get to know the person 1735 01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:41,920 Speaker 1: a little bit and figure out what's the underlying issue. 1736 01:28:41,960 --> 01:28:43,600 Speaker 1: So I do think that there are a lot of 1737 01:28:43,640 --> 01:28:46,920 Speaker 1: people who frankly self sabotage, going back to kind of 1738 01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:50,720 Speaker 1: like where I was. I mean, my self destructive behaviors 1739 01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:54,200 Speaker 1: weren't coming directly at the expense of my physical health. 1740 01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:56,679 Speaker 1: They were coming at the expense of my emotional health. 1741 01:28:56,720 --> 01:28:58,240 Speaker 1: But I actually think there were a lot of people 1742 01:28:58,320 --> 01:29:01,360 Speaker 1: who have very similar stories to mine, but their manifestation 1743 01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:04,040 Speaker 1: is it's coming at the expense of their physical health. 1744 01:29:04,720 --> 01:29:08,360 Speaker 1: They are sabotaging their ability. They are coming up with 1745 01:29:08,439 --> 01:29:12,040 Speaker 1: a million excuses why they can't eat well, they can't exercise, 1746 01:29:12,360 --> 01:29:14,040 Speaker 1: they can't do this, they can't do that. And so 1747 01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:16,120 Speaker 1: you have to be able to get to the root 1748 01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:19,320 Speaker 1: of the problem. And so there are many patients where 1749 01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:21,360 Speaker 1: we just think, look, you're not going to get better 1750 01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:26,120 Speaker 1: without trauma based therapy until you come up with a 1751 01:29:26,160 --> 01:29:29,759 Speaker 1: way to care enough about yourself to stop punishing yourself 1752 01:29:29,800 --> 01:29:32,559 Speaker 1: in this way. Because I think people punish themselves in 1753 01:29:32,600 --> 01:29:35,040 Speaker 1: different ways. You could almost argue I used to punish 1754 01:29:35,040 --> 01:29:39,120 Speaker 1: myself by overdoing all of those healthy things, like some 1755 01:29:39,200 --> 01:29:41,280 Speaker 1: of the exercise I was doing was actually a form 1756 01:29:41,320 --> 01:29:43,200 Speaker 1: of punishment. So on the surface, you'd say, boy, that 1757 01:29:43,200 --> 01:29:46,040 Speaker 1: guy's really healthy, but no, he wasn't. Another thing I 1758 01:29:46,040 --> 01:29:49,240 Speaker 1: always think about is when we're in the spirit of 1759 01:29:49,280 --> 01:29:52,479 Speaker 1: trying to build new habits, sometimes perfect is the enemy 1760 01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:55,600 Speaker 1: of good. Typically, what I want is a win, and 1761 01:29:55,640 --> 01:29:57,679 Speaker 1: I think that what people just need is a win, 1762 01:29:58,360 --> 01:30:00,080 Speaker 1: and it doesn't have to be the biggest win, and 1763 01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:01,720 Speaker 1: it just has to be a win. So if you're 1764 01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:05,960 Speaker 1: looking at a person for whom nothing is optimal. Don't 1765 01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:08,439 Speaker 1: try to fix all things at once. Pick the one 1766 01:30:08,560 --> 01:30:10,920 Speaker 1: thing that you think they have the greatest odds of 1767 01:30:10,960 --> 01:30:13,120 Speaker 1: being able to make a difference on, and just work 1768 01:30:13,160 --> 01:30:15,200 Speaker 1: on that and accept the fact that the other things 1769 01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:19,360 Speaker 1: will continue to be suboptimal. But you develop their confidence 1770 01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:21,400 Speaker 1: in that one thing. How about for twenty minutes a 1771 01:30:21,479 --> 01:30:23,280 Speaker 1: day you do something active. You go and walk for 1772 01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:24,960 Speaker 1: twenty minutes a day. If you're talking about a person 1773 01:30:25,000 --> 01:30:28,599 Speaker 1: who's never lifted a finger, that would be a huge win. 1774 01:30:28,840 --> 01:30:30,920 Speaker 1: And you might do that before you get into the 1775 01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:33,960 Speaker 1: details of this type of training or that type of training, 1776 01:30:34,040 --> 01:30:36,640 Speaker 1: or we're going to tweak your nutrition and optimize your 1777 01:30:36,680 --> 01:30:39,519 Speaker 1: protein intake. I mean, that's just overwhelming, and you're probably 1778 01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:42,760 Speaker 1: just more likely to fail at everything and create kind 1779 01:30:42,800 --> 01:30:45,640 Speaker 1: of a compensatory negative reaction. But again, I don't think 1780 01:30:45,640 --> 01:30:48,040 Speaker 1: there's a paint by numbers approach. I think you in 1781 01:30:48,080 --> 01:30:49,800 Speaker 1: the way we do it with patients, I think you 1782 01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:52,599 Speaker 1: just have to treat everybody individually and by the way. 1783 01:30:52,640 --> 01:30:54,400 Speaker 1: When something's not working, you have to accept it in 1784 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:55,599 Speaker 1: pivot and try something that is. 1785 01:30:55,960 --> 01:30:58,519 Speaker 2: I think that's the keyword. Pivot. Yeah, that's a keyword 1786 01:30:58,560 --> 01:31:00,200 Speaker 2: everyone to. 1787 01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:04,200 Speaker 3: The book is called Outlive The Science and Art of Longevity. 1788 01:31:04,200 --> 01:31:06,040 Speaker 3: If you don't already have it, please go and grab 1789 01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:09,879 Speaker 3: a copy. I highly recommend it. Of course, today's conversation 1790 01:31:09,960 --> 01:31:12,679 Speaker 3: has been fantastic. I've tried to touch on topics that 1791 01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:14,559 Speaker 3: Peter may not have been asked about in a million 1792 01:31:14,560 --> 01:31:17,559 Speaker 3: different interviews. He's got fantastic interviews out there on so 1793 01:31:17,600 --> 01:31:19,920 Speaker 3: many awesome podcasts as well, so if you're more interested 1794 01:31:20,160 --> 01:31:21,880 Speaker 3: in the parts we didn't cover, please do go and 1795 01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:24,479 Speaker 3: watch those and get informed. Peter, It's been such a 1796 01:31:24,520 --> 01:31:27,599 Speaker 3: joy sitting down with you today. Honestly, there's been moments 1797 01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:30,559 Speaker 3: where I've been mind blown and moments where I've been 1798 01:31:30,600 --> 01:31:34,479 Speaker 3: taken aback and felt really in my body and really 1799 01:31:34,520 --> 01:31:37,719 Speaker 3: present where my feet are. And I'm just really grateful 1800 01:31:37,720 --> 01:31:39,240 Speaker 3: that we got to have this conversation. We've got to 1801 01:31:39,280 --> 01:31:42,640 Speaker 3: share so much incredible insights with our community today, and 1802 01:31:42,680 --> 01:31:45,320 Speaker 3: I want you to make sure that you tag me 1803 01:31:45,360 --> 01:31:49,680 Speaker 3: and Peter on Instagram, on TikTok, on threads with what 1804 01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:51,920 Speaker 3: you're learning, what you've taken away, what are the things 1805 01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:54,800 Speaker 3: you're going to apply and practice with, what's something you're 1806 01:31:54,800 --> 01:31:56,920 Speaker 3: going to experiment with this week. That would make me 1807 01:31:56,960 --> 01:31:59,439 Speaker 3: really happy is that you just take one thing away 1808 01:31:59,439 --> 01:32:01,280 Speaker 3: from this. I'm going to try that out. I'm going 1809 01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:03,400 Speaker 3: to figure this out for myself. That would be an 1810 01:32:03,439 --> 01:32:06,640 Speaker 3: awesome place to start, Peter. We end every episode with 1811 01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:09,479 Speaker 3: a final five a fast five, so these questions have 1812 01:32:09,520 --> 01:32:12,000 Speaker 3: to be answered in one word to one sentence Max, 1813 01:32:13,040 --> 01:32:15,960 Speaker 3: So Peter, these are your final five or your fast five. 1814 01:32:16,360 --> 01:32:19,120 Speaker 3: The first question is what is the best health advice 1815 01:32:19,160 --> 01:32:20,719 Speaker 3: you've ever heard or received? 1816 01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:21,960 Speaker 1: Exercise every day? 1817 01:32:22,160 --> 01:32:25,240 Speaker 3: Second question, what is the worst health advice you've ever 1818 01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:26,120 Speaker 3: heard or received? 1819 01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:26,920 Speaker 1: Do a cleanse? 1820 01:32:27,240 --> 01:32:29,559 Speaker 2: Ah? Interesting, Why that's it? Yeah? 1821 01:32:29,840 --> 01:32:32,519 Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, I just think that, you know, I've seen 1822 01:32:32,560 --> 01:32:34,880 Speaker 1: I've seen some of those things go really bad where people, 1823 01:32:35,080 --> 01:32:38,920 Speaker 1: you know, get really mucked up and dehydrated. And I've 1824 01:32:38,960 --> 01:32:42,240 Speaker 1: seen people actually take in some chemicals and compounds that 1825 01:32:42,520 --> 01:32:45,120 Speaker 1: dramatically alter liver function tests and things like that. 1826 01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:48,840 Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, all right. Question number three, what's something you're 1827 01:32:48,880 --> 01:32:49,920 Speaker 3: currently trying to. 1828 01:32:49,880 --> 01:32:55,640 Speaker 1: Unlearn continuing to work on perfectionism, unlearning or detuning it. 1829 01:32:56,200 --> 01:32:59,559 Speaker 3: Question number four, what's something that you're a very big 1830 01:32:59,600 --> 01:33:02,040 Speaker 3: proponent of but a lot of people may disagree with you? 1831 01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:04,160 Speaker 2: And they're like, I'm not sure about it. 1832 01:33:04,280 --> 01:33:12,679 Speaker 1: Maybe the importance of very heavy strength training in postmenopausal women. 1833 01:33:12,920 --> 01:33:17,000 Speaker 3: Interesting, let's dive into that, because that's that's fascinating. Really, 1834 01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:18,160 Speaker 3: how specific you one? 1835 01:33:18,160 --> 01:33:18,599 Speaker 2: That's great. 1836 01:33:18,760 --> 01:33:24,920 Speaker 1: Women postmenopause are so unbelievably susceptible to osteoporosis and osteopenia 1837 01:33:24,960 --> 01:33:27,600 Speaker 1: with the loss of estrogen. Unfortunately, many women in that 1838 01:33:27,600 --> 01:33:30,200 Speaker 1: situation are not getting hormone replacement therapy and so they're 1839 01:33:30,280 --> 01:33:34,320 Speaker 1: doubly susceptible to it. I think there's just a cultural 1840 01:33:34,320 --> 01:33:36,519 Speaker 1: belief that, you know, women don't need to lift weights, 1841 01:33:36,520 --> 01:33:39,160 Speaker 1: and if they do, it's very light. But the truth 1842 01:33:39,200 --> 01:33:41,519 Speaker 1: of it is, you really need to lift heavy things 1843 01:33:41,600 --> 01:33:45,439 Speaker 1: to make your bones stronger. And that doesn't mean it 1844 01:33:45,439 --> 01:33:48,519 Speaker 1: has to be complicated stuff like squats or deadlifts or 1845 01:33:48,680 --> 01:33:50,360 Speaker 1: things like that. But you know, one of the most 1846 01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:53,280 Speaker 1: important things is carrying, doing a farmer's carry, so holding 1847 01:33:53,400 --> 01:33:56,559 Speaker 1: very heavy dumbells in your hands and walking so important, 1848 01:33:56,560 --> 01:33:57,880 Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter how old you are. 1849 01:33:58,120 --> 01:33:59,000 Speaker 2: Got it great. 1850 01:33:59,240 --> 01:34:02,360 Speaker 3: Fifth and final question. If you could create one law 1851 01:34:02,640 --> 01:34:04,920 Speaker 3: that everyone in the world had to follow, what would 1852 01:34:04,960 --> 01:34:05,160 Speaker 3: it be? 1853 01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:09,840 Speaker 1: You must go into nature for at least an hour 1854 01:34:09,960 --> 01:34:15,240 Speaker 1: a day with no electronics and just be just be outside, 1855 01:34:15,280 --> 01:34:22,480 Speaker 1: be in nature, but be untethered to electronics or obvious distractions. 1856 01:34:22,720 --> 01:34:26,080 Speaker 3: Beautiful, Peter, that's fantastic. Thank you so much again for 1857 01:34:26,439 --> 01:34:28,559 Speaker 3: your time, your energy, your presence today. I hope this 1858 01:34:28,720 --> 01:34:30,960 Speaker 3: is the first of many times that you'll come back 1859 01:34:30,960 --> 01:34:34,559 Speaker 3: on purpose. And again, if you don't already follow Peter. Peter, 1860 01:34:34,560 --> 01:34:36,040 Speaker 3: where's the best place you'd like to be able to 1861 01:34:36,320 --> 01:34:38,840 Speaker 3: find you? I know you're on Instagram and YouTube and everywhere, but. 1862 01:34:38,920 --> 01:34:41,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think everything is Peter and Ta MD is 1863 01:34:41,360 --> 01:34:44,040 Speaker 1: all the handles everywhere, and so thank you very much. 1864 01:34:44,160 --> 01:34:44,960 Speaker 1: I really appreciate this. 1865 01:34:45,000 --> 01:34:45,320 Speaker 2: Thank you. 1866 01:34:45,479 --> 01:34:48,479 Speaker 3: If you love this episode, you'll enjoy my interview with 1867 01:34:48,600 --> 01:34:51,800 Speaker 3: doctor Daniel Ahman on how to change your life by 1868 01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:52,759 Speaker 3: changing your brain. 1869 01:34:53,160 --> 01:34:58,120 Speaker 4: If we want a healthy mind, it actually starts with 1870 01:34:58,200 --> 01:34:59,000 Speaker 4: a healthy brain. 1871 01:34:59,200 --> 01:34:59,360 Speaker 2: You know. 1872 01:34:59,400 --> 01:35:03,439 Speaker 4: I've had the blessing or the curse to scan over 1873 01:35:03,520 --> 01:35:08,000 Speaker 4: a thousand convicted felons and over a hundred murderers, and 1874 01:35:08,040 --> 01:35:09,879 Speaker 4: their brains are very damaged.