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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. You all are not

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Speaker 1: Oh you may think you're ready. Nephew, subject over seventy

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Speaker 1: and selling sexiness. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm desperate for some

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Speaker 1: sound advice. I'm a thirty six year old divorced female

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Speaker 1: with two kids. My mom is in her early seventies

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Speaker 1: and recently widowed. Her life changed drastically, so the kids

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Speaker 1: and I spent a lot of time with her. About

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Speaker 1: six months ago, I saw that my mom was getting

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Speaker 1: back into her normal routine, so I backed off a

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Speaker 1: wore jazzy new wigs that were longer than she normally wore,

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Speaker 1: secret life insurance policy that she cashed in on because

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Speaker 1: so she's fine. A week later, she had a new

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Speaker 1: me that she was doing porn. Oh oh, missy. She

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Speaker 1: came right out, and I told her, I told you,

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Speaker 1: right out and told me that she was doing porn.

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Speaker 1: I nearly lost my mind and asked her to repeat

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Speaker 1: what she said. She said it again. She's porn star,

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Speaker 1: she said. She live streams videos of herself on a

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Speaker 1: porn website for men who are attracted to mature senior women.

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Speaker 1: She said it makes her feel very sexy because all

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Speaker 1: kinds of men pay real good money to see her goodies.

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Speaker 1: I told her that it's disgusting, demeaning and trashy and

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Speaker 1: she's too old to be doing this. She too, come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I need your help right here. Hold on, she too

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Speaker 1: old to be there. She told me to kiss her

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Speaker 1: old amil beers exactly, thank you, sir. Come on, I

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Speaker 1: told her that's disgusting, demeaning it trashy. She too old

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Speaker 1: to be doing this. She told me to kiss her

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Speaker 1: old and mind my old damn British, which you broke.

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Speaker 1: I was crushed and we haven't ooken for weeks. My

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Speaker 1: on that new furniture. I am ashamed to be in

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Speaker 1: her presence. This is unimaginable and I don't know what

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Speaker 1: to do about it. Stephen Shirley, how can I talk

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Speaker 1: some sense at her? Please advise every time I think

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Speaker 1: I cannot be surprised anymore with these letters, because we

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Speaker 1: have seen and heard it all. Here you come with

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Speaker 1: this unbelievable story about a seventy year old poor Stark

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Speaker 1: who just happens to be your mama. What imagine I mean,

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Speaker 1: just imagine if this were your mother, I mean, all

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Speaker 1: of us your mama, right? This is crazy game, You're right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is this is unimaginable. I can't. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I think she's still going through

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Speaker 1: in her seventies and you can't tell her what to do.

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Speaker 1: She's grown. You know, wait this one out. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, I say, what do you say? What do

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Speaker 1: She got some new furnitures, she's good, she's feeling sexy.

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Speaker 1: How much we make it m Yeah, she didn't say that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you got to continue to talk

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Speaker 1: to her, tell her how this makes you feel, how

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Speaker 1: the kids don't know what she's doing. Necessarily, you didn't

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Speaker 1: to try to talk some sense into her. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is crazy. This is your mother. Your mother is

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Speaker 1: a border uncle Stephen to make this great. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: feel for you, I really feel for you, Steve. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, Jimmy, I'll go Yeah, come on. You

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Speaker 1: know this lady thirty six years old, divorce, got two

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Speaker 1: That means her daddy died while back. Her life changed drastically.

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Speaker 1: her house from baby. Then you went over that a visitors.

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Speaker 1: She see season good spins, but a couple of things,

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Speaker 1: and then she has new wigs. See this the beginning

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Speaker 1: of it, some new wigs that were longer there. She normal.

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Speaker 1: Your mama got had down to her. But you just

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out where you start growing this head.

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Speaker 1: At seventy did she started wearing really tight and revealing

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Speaker 1: clothes which were shocking. Then you you try to did

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Speaker 1: you did daddy leave your secret life and should now

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Speaker 1: need your daddy money, she said, she I've been saving money.

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Speaker 1: Hold on right there, hold on, we'll have part two

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Speaker 1: and Steve, she responds, coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's ACAP for you. Lady

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Speaker 1: Mama seventy and grieving overhaul recently deceased husband, but she

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Speaker 1: by it, and then she went back at one day

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Speaker 1: and she'd had the brand new wigs on in a

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Speaker 1: jazzy They were low on wigs, way longer than she

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Speaker 1: then she wearing tight clothes, which was shocking. Oh man.

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Speaker 1: I asked of her daddy if dad had a secret

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Speaker 1: life policy. She says she don't need her daddy money.

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Speaker 1: How did she say, I don't need I got money.

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Speaker 1: She was funny. A week later, you go over there,

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Speaker 1: Mama got a new Jaguar in the garage. She didn't

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Speaker 1: bought new living room and bedroom furniture. I insisted that

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Speaker 1: told me I do the pawn. Mama, What I du

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Speaker 1: my mind, and I asked her to repeat what she said.

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Speaker 1: She said it again. I d a pawn. She is

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Speaker 1: a pawn star. Wow. She live stream videos herself on

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Speaker 1: a pawn site for men who are attracted to mature

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Speaker 1: senior women. She said, it make her feel very section

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Speaker 1: because all kinds of men pay real good money to

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Speaker 1: see her goodies. See the reason they do that just

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Speaker 1: because they're seeing something they've never seen before. You see, lady,

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Speaker 1: you say that is sick. You don't even have one

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Speaker 1: never seen before. I'm sixty three, I ain't ever seen

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Speaker 1: it before. I'm curious, my damn self, what if it?

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out what condition is it in men

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Speaker 1: pay money to see stuff they've never seen before. Oh man.

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Speaker 1: I told her he was disgusting, demeaning and trashing and

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Speaker 1: she was too old to be doing this. That's when

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Speaker 1: she told me, yeah, come on, hold on, let me

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Speaker 1: bring sister old Dale in Hill called thank you, Steve,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I was just sitting in the sitting over there,

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Speaker 1: thinking to myself, they need somebody in there, sub sperience.

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Speaker 1: You need experience. Women in here, consertive. Chilly don't know

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Speaker 1: nothing about this, heming. Chilly is a good little Christian girl,

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Speaker 1: and I thank you for that shit. But let me

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Speaker 1: handle this sh She told her, Mamma, it was disgusting demeaning, trashing,

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Speaker 1: told me to kiss her old ass, and manyo, bid now, sweetie,

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Speaker 1: I didn't want it. You know, I'm trying to be

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Speaker 1: trying to answer this letter. But you thirty six, you

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Speaker 1: That's all I wanted to say, take it away. Stay.

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Speaker 1: So I was crushed. If we haven't spoken four weeks,

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Speaker 1: my kids miss her, but I refuse to take him

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Speaker 1: to visit her because only God knows what she's been

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Speaker 1: what to do about it. Stephen Shelley, how can I

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Speaker 1: talk some sense into it? You can't. She said, clock

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Speaker 1: kiss her old ass and mind my whole beds. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and that's probably wanted her go tow lines When she

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Speaker 1: that really gets the cash register ranging When she says

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Speaker 1: poee and me share it again more deal, that's what

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