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Speaker 2: The music business hate me because the industry ain't make

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Speaker 2: Go with what makes sense, since I know what I'm

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Speaker 2: All right, let's talk about news, all kinds of stuff

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Speaker 2: that's happening on news. A mid turmoil and Papa John's

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Speaker 3: That's right, guys, so.

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Speaker 2: Looking bad fold for John there, even though they got

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Speaker 2: rid of their CEO, who has sent sowing though you

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Speaker 2: because you know, white men do not go blindly into that.

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Speaker 3: They did not go timidly into that dark knight.

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Speaker 4: Okay, force them to go away or either pay them

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Speaker 2: Well, apparently they've lost a ton of business. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: they said revenue is expected to drop about twelve per

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Speaker 3: Two of them report I've absolutely had to cut hours.

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Speaker 2: It's heartbreaking, but I still have a label goal to

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Speaker 2: try to think about this man, This dude started all

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Speaker 2: this shit because of a small decrease in sales, which

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Speaker 2: he attributed to the NFL letting black players kneel for

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Speaker 2: his logic, all that grand standing on race and racism

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Speaker 2: and saying these black players better standing, Hell up, and

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Speaker 2: I won't take this.

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Speaker 3: I'm not standing for this at Papa John's.

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Speaker 2: We wouldn't that lend itself to make them the official

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Speaker 2: alt right put to pizza chain, Like, wouldn't that mean

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Speaker 2: that all the racist people who said, well, I might

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Speaker 2: not like the NFL anymore, but God blessed that Papa

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Speaker 1: Cause they don't support shit.

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Speaker 2: Well, also, because that's not why his numbers decreased, right,

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Speaker 2: you know, I still a mother belief that Papa John's

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Speaker 2: money went down, not because of the NFL, not because

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Speaker 3: They simply went down because not as a grub hub.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and there's a lot more competition. Literally, anything you

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Speaker 4: can think of f fast food to some of your

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Speaker 4: delivery service grew up hub Like, it's hundreds of them

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Speaker 4: literally years ago it was the Big three. Literally was

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Speaker 4: that shit. But now I grew up, it was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: We got you.

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Speaker 2: The manager of Papa John's and North Carolina says drivers

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Speaker 2: are just karen, which is reduced tips considerably because drivers

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Speaker 2: He's been forced to cut workers hours by a shift

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Speaker 3: Well, whose fault was that? We asked you, corazy?

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Speaker 2: And he said Papa john'son came out and Bowler said, no,

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Speaker 3: He said, oh, but he wouldn't give him insurance either, pizza.

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Speaker 2: More than eighty percent of Papa John's stores are independently

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Speaker 3: Seen to view them as extensions of the corporate business.

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Speaker 4: Right, why don't people understand that this is like McDonald's. Noughty, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you're a franchise, but if the McDonald's the stow, fuck up,

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Speaker 4: it's McDonald's the Stow.

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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 4: It's bitter Bob thought knowing it, it's fucking McDonald's to

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Speaker 2: Well, I feel like people do understand it, but they

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Speaker 2: don't care either way. Correct, I mean, because it's a franchise,

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Speaker 2: It's not like you get into the business that they

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Speaker 2: it's because I agree with everything that comes out of

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Speaker 2: John Schnadder's mouth, you know what I mean. You do

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Speaker 2: a lot of analytical business model work and come up

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Speaker 2: with your business model and go, Okay, what's a good

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Speaker 3: Okay, pizza? Okay, which franchises have certain fees? What in

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Speaker 2: You're not thinking to yourself as an investment, and one

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Speaker 2: day the guy mister Papa John's is gonna come out

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Speaker 2: and be a racist, And now that's a risk factor

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Speaker 3: Like, I don't think the vast majority of people think

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Speaker 4: That that's true, But you pick certain brands because of

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Speaker 4: it's one of those things where I can understand somebody

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Speaker 4: got that name on there, so people just gonna associate

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Speaker 4: y'all as one entity, even though people know that you're not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we're saying the same thing.

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Speaker 2: I understand that people will associated with that, but at

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Speaker 2: the same time, I'm like, that's what you pay the

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Speaker 2: franchising fee for you do want to be associated with

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Speaker 2: Papa John people see, you know, because you could start

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Speaker 2: Randy's Pizza Rea if you want to, Yes, you could.

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Speaker 2: The thing the problem is is with that, Like I said,

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Speaker 2: there's no way that none of its reason to say

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Speaker 3: Have foreseen this. I don't find it to be reasonable.

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Speaker 2: Maybe if they signed up about three or four years ago.

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Speaker 2: When he started talking at Yin Yang, right, I could

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Speaker 3: Right, y'all knew that he could, you know, go off

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Speaker 4: Right, Versus the people just be like, hey, I've been

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Speaker 4: I've been here almost thirty years, you know, I've been

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Speaker 4: one of the things where.

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Speaker 1: The overall company basically is going to suffer.

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Speaker 4: It's like Nigga, you had to go, you know, And

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Speaker 4: it's one of those things too, to where if it

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Speaker 4: down because it won't be worth them that.

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Speaker 1: It won't be profitable for it to them anymore.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, And I won't blame him either, because, like

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Speaker 2: I said, it's very you know, it's it's hard to foresee,

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Speaker 2: but it's also one of those things where it's a

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Speaker 2: it's definitely a risk of what they do for a living.

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Speaker 2: So you know, I can understand. Oh, thank you baby,

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Speaker 2: Sorry y'all, Karen's actually refilling my water right now, live

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Speaker 2: on the studio, So I'm just gonna play a.

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Speaker 3: Song to uh pass the time until she gets back.

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Speaker 2: I did not know I was that thirsty. I drank

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Speaker 2: a big ass thing of water in about like five minutes.

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Speaker 2: Must be from playing basketball, I don't know. All right,

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Speaker 2: let me pick a song out for you guys to

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Speaker 2: listen to. How about oh, we haven't played this in

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Speaker 2: a long time, Shennon Shark's Opus of Miles with that

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Speaker 2: yack filling the mouth with that yank call, Yesterday's skip,

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Speaker 2: how y'all need mab and hendog And now y'all got

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Speaker 2: problem with me?

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Speaker 5: Let me celebrate.

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Speaker 6: I'm on the mile on the mile yet yet yet

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna need mother, Yeah, yeah, ya ya ya Mom,

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Speaker 6: Mom the mob?

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Speaker 5: Who the mob? Yeah? Who talking creamy.

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Speaker 3: You need to quit a skill.

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Speaker 5: You need to quit a skill. You need to quit

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Speaker 5: cre You need to quit skill. You need a kid

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Speaker 5: skill kill skill, skill skill skill.

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Speaker 7: If a frog head pocket, he would carry a knife

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Speaker 7: tank stab the snake word eat it.

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Speaker 5: If a frog hand pocket, he would carry a knife

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Speaker 5: tank stab the snake. Hank.

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Speaker 3: I'm on the mile, mom, j.

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Speaker 5: Yack celebrate all right?

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Speaker 2: Back to what I was saying, Yeah, I just feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think just in general, you know, you're not

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Speaker 2: Like how you just gonna let this person say this shit? Like,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, here's some things that you know, you might

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Speaker 1: Well, that's just the way I am.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's just the way. But that don't mean I

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Speaker 1: Be a kid again. Bitch, No, I like being grown.

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Speaker 1: And I ain't got to put up with you or

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Speaker 4: You know something, thunder, Let's have a wronged you met

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it can't wear it out on people self and

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Speaker 2: Another thing, another sign of a toxic person. They feed

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Speaker 3: me this, that's tween us, then cool.

442
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 2: But at the same time, dramas isn't always just telling

443
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 2: somebody some shit. A lot of times, it's making something

444
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 2: about them. It's starting to fight just to have something

445
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 2: to fight about. It's nitpicking you till you get emotional,

446
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,159
Speaker 2: you have a response, and then using that response to

447
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 2: be like, oh my god, I'm the victim now whatever,

448
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,399
Speaker 2: and just like that kind of perpetual like fight that

449
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 2: is always going we all know people like that where

450
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 2: they just have a perpetual fucking fight.

451
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 4: It's like and it's all that's in the center of it.

452
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 4: They're always in the center.

453
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:38,879
Speaker 9: You know.

454
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 2: Or just like I said, even if like it's just

455
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,640
Speaker 2: a perpetual fight, like and it does kind of wear

456
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,120
Speaker 2: you down and and make you feel like, I don't

457
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 2: want to be around this person. They always it's always

458
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,120
Speaker 2: some shit somebody did somewhere. That's just always a problem,

459
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 2: and including me, you know, right.

460
00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 1: And also I know for me, as I've got older

461
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,199
Speaker 1: and as I begin to have.

462
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 4: More self confidence and as I begin these people that

463
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,879
Speaker 4: raised me, because a lot of times people that raise you,

464
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 4: I'm just talking about from a female's perspective.

465
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 1: Female to female, people that raise.

466
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 4: You, you have some sense of respect, You have some

467
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,160
Speaker 4: sense of well, you know, you wipe my shit ass

468
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 4: and all that stuff, But you have to get to

469
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 4: the point where you're grown and they need to respect

470
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 4: the fact that you're grown, you know, because I saw

471
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 4: sometimes I think when it comes to people, particularly like

472
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 4: a mother daughter type of relationship or like hunt and

473
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 4: type of relationships, sometimes people forget I'm fucking forty now,

474
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:38,159
Speaker 4: you know, I'm forty.

475
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm not ten. You can't intimidate me.

476
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 4: You can't come in here and boss me around constantly,

477
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 4: tell me what to do, and just think I'm supposed

478
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 4: to take your shit because you old.

479
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 1: Just because you old don't make you right, you know.

480
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,640
Speaker 4: And it's one of those things where versus cussing you out,

481
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 4: you know, sometimes it's just best for you to make

482
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 4: the right decision. And sometimes that goes back to that

483
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 4: self hair thing, you know, because you love your family members,

484
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,360
Speaker 4: but you know your auntie them a shit.

485
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: You know this, this is nothing.

486
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 4: Shot can't go surprise and get new. So you have

487
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 4: to protect yourself and protect your heart and go, I'm

488
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 4: not dealing with that. And when you went back to drama,

489
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 4: sometimes drama is bringing gossip to you, particularly if you're

490
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 4: not a gossiping person. You know, sometimes you could be

491
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 4: a person. Well, you don't gossip, You mind your business,

492
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 4: You keep to yourself. You don't know what the fuck

493
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 4: nobody in the family was doing. So when y'all get there,

494
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 4: y'all can play cards, y'all can drink, y'all can eat barbecue, fish, chicken,

495
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 4: you know, port chops, potato, salad, lemonade, high five, how

496
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 4: your kids doing, how you and you can going about

497
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 4: your life. But yet you have some family members they

498
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 4: just keep mess going on around there where they constantly

499
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 4: know everything going on and they want to see what

500
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 4: you know. That could be stressful in drama too, and

501
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 4: my family is not. Don't ask me that I don't

502
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 4: know nothing, and if I do know something, I'm not

503
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 4: telling you.

504
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's the other thing. When people bring you

505
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 3: into that drama.

506
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: It's like, well, not pick a side, or I'm not

507
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 2: talking to so and so you can't talk to them

508
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck.

509
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 3: And it's like, dog, I legitimately am an adult that

510
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 3: does not play those games, right, I'm not. So you know,

511
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 3: like if you and Aunt Jesse ain't talking, that's on y'all.

512
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 2: Like, y'all niggas need to work that the fuck out

513
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 2: because neither one of those things have anything to do

514
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: with me.

515
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 3: And if you keep pushing it, then I won't be

516
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 3: fucking with you, you know.

517
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 2: But yeah, they gas like you if your family member

518
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: continue the claims that they never said something when you

519
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 2: and everybody else knows they did.

520
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've had that happen before.

521
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 2: This shit can apply to friends too, because I've had

522
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 2: that happen before where somebody was like, you did this

523
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, the fuck I didn't. Well, I'm

524
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 2: not talking to you till you apologize for it. I'm

525
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 2: not apologizing for the thing I didn't do.

526
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 3: You can't.

527
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 2: You're not going to make me a liar like like

528
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 2: you just like you either need to like you need

529
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 2: to accept that we are living in a reality where

530
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 2: I either well, I didn't do that thing, or we or.

531
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 3: We can't fucking coexist.

532
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: But we definitely don't need to be around each other

533
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 2: because you're gonna feel like I'm gaslighting you if you're

534
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 2: convinced that some shit happened that I told you didn't

535
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna feel like you're gas like me.

536
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,439
Speaker 3: So let's just keep from around each other.

537
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:11,959
Speaker 4: Right.

538
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 1: And it's also one of the things too, where I

539
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 1: don't know if this is one of the things. It's

540
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: a guilty thing. Sometimes people want you to feel guilty

541
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: for not doing things or being around and all that stuff,

542
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 1: and you're like, no, I'm grown, I got a life.

543
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 4: I had to tell my mama that I'm like, Mama,

544
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 4: I love you, but what I'm not gonna do is

545
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 4: come up here all the time like that. That's what's

546
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 4: not going to happen. You need to find a hobby

547
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 4: and find some much to tie your time up.

548
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 1: I love you, but I have shit to do.

549
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 5: Yep.

550
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 3: They only talk to you when they need something from you.

551
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 5: Yep.

552
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 2: I've had that happen before too, Like I had somebody

553
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 2: try to pull that shit, and I was really feeling

554
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 2: bad for a second because they made me feel like

555
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 2: I wasn't there for them, and I'm like, damn, I

556
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 2: really I guess I ain't shit.

557
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 3: I really ain't fuck with you. And then I went

558
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 3: and thank goodness for cell phones and.

559
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 2: Twitter and Facebook and shit, because you have access to

560
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 2: direct messages and all this stuff. And so I went

561
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 2: and looked and I was like, wait, this person that's

562
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 2: only ever hit me up when they wanted something. They've

563
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 2: never hit me up to see how I was doing.

564
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 2: They we've never hung out just to talk like you

565
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 2: don't fuck with me, Like this is nothing but manipulation

566
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 2: at this point. So but but before that, they just

567
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 2: I think that part of me that wants to be

568
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 2: perfect for other people and have great relationships with folks.

569
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 2: They were kind of gaslighting that part of me. That

570
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 2: made me be like, oh God, what am I supposed

571
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 2: to do?

572
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?

573
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: But then I look back and I'm like, I didn't

574
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 2: do nothing wrong, you know. But yeah, they only talk

575
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 2: to you when they need something, is yeah, a real

576
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 2: big indicator.

577
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

578
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 4: And I've gotten to the point that if I have

579
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 4: family members and the owner CCE, I'm one of them

580
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 4: niggers that I'm gonna tell you right now, call of

581
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 4: ID is doing the words those things you could ever

582
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 4: gave to me.

583
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: If your number ain't got.

584
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 4: No picture, because most people I take a picture of

585
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 4: them and put so I know who it is. I

586
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 4: don't pick up the phone, even family members. I got

587
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 4: some family members that I don't got to know. And

588
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 4: I have family members that every time they called or

589
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 4: left a message, Hey, I always wanted something. Guess what,

590
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 4: I stopped picking up the phone. I didn't pick up

591
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 4: the phone. I needed that I call you back or know.

592
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: I responded again.

593
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 4: Because if I contact there's there's nothing wrong with contacting

594
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 4: people when you need something.

595
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: But if that's the only time to communicate, that's a problem.

596
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: A lot of times I have people I just call, Hey,

597
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: how you doing. I don't want anything, How was your day?

598
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 1: How your kids going? Are you stressed out? Let's just talk.

599
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: But that's how I function.

600
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 4: But I understand everybody else don't function like that, and

601
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 4: I know that could wear you down, particularly if it's

602
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 4: the same family member.

603
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,160
Speaker 1: Over and over and over again.

604
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 4: And people, your time is valuable and do not allow

605
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 4: anybody to waste your time.

606
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: But I'm you know, and people be like, well, I'm busy,

607
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: like I have things to do.

608
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 5: Yep.

609
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: And that's the other thing too, is they'll only show

610
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 2: up when they need something and then make you feel

611
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 2: bad for saying out right like wow, you really don't

612
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: you don't check on me.

613
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 3: You don't do this. It's like and you think about

614
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: your phones work both ways, Yep, you don't check on me.

615
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 2: You call to see what if you can get something

616
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 2: that's not really a friend either, it's not family member,

617
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: you know.

618
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: Yep.

619
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 4: And like I said, and I love my mama, but

620
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 4: that's one something I had to tell her too. She

621
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 4: had this, you know, just the little guilt tripped things

622
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 4: where it's like when you don't never call me, I said,

623
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 4: I'm old job, I say, ain't nothing wrong with tho?

624
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 4: Something bail you know it works both ways. Like I

625
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 4: told her, if you miss me enough, pick up call.

626
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: Me and I will call you back.

627
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 4: Do you know, Like is I don't have a problem

628
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 4: talking and communicating with you, but I'm not gonna call

629
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 4: you just for the sake of calling you.

630
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: You know, I got friends that I've known for years

631
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: and we don't talk on them. We're not I don't

632
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: have I can't sit and talk on the phone.

633
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: For you for hours on end.

634
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: People have shit to do.

635
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 2: Another one the last one. They flip floped between positive

636
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 2: and negative reinforcing. They can lash out at you, yell,

637
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: and insult you. However, once you ignore them after this

638
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 2: sensus attack, they'll likely coach you back into their trap

639
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 2: by offering you pseudo praise and support. Yeah, that's that's

640
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 2: a big sign of just like abuse, emotional abuse, that

641
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 2: like almost polar opposite approach.

642
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 3: Like what do I have to say to you know?

643
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: Kind of how abusers They go hard on somebody and

644
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 2: then they give them presents for you know, and they

645
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 2: over do the displays of affection and romance and ship

646
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 2: and then the person's like, Okay, well I guess I

647
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 2: was tripping. You just had a bad day and then

648
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 2: it's right back to knocking you down and tipping you down,

649
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 2: to wearing you down.

650
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, and and and I had to grow and mature

651
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 4: and learn because because it's a learning process, you have

652
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 4: to learn how to see signs. You have to learn

653
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 4: how to make yourself more aware and more alert. And

654
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 4: particularly me just very naive to a lot of things,

655
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 4: and a lot of times, my family members prepared me

656
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 4: for the outside world because some of those same things

657
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 4: the outside world throw at you, my family members, a

658
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 4: lot of them have some of them same characteristics. So

659
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 4: you know, when you've been dealing with your family member

660
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 4: for twenty thirty forty years, oh, you can spot this

661
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 4: stuff like a mile away before it even happens because

662
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 4: you know the characteristics, You know what you're looking for.

663
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: You can see certain.

664
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 4: Behavior patterns and you be like, oh, okay, well then

665
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 4: now you know this right here, this I'm not dealing

666
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 4: with this.

667
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

668
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 3: I'm blessed to have a pretty dope family.

669
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 2: Like pretty much everybody in my family for the most part,

670
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 2: is either self relied or we have genuine love and

671
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 2: affection for each other and positive relationships for the most part.

672
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 2: Even the parts of my family that aren't you know,

673
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: quote unquote woke to the standards of you know, whatever

674
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: the fuck the bubble of Twitter, I kind of habitat

675
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 2: in it would be called.

676
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 3: They're still like way better than the average person that

677
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 3: you just like me, Like, my family is very like.

678
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 2: Uh, like, my family is not very homophobic, they're not

679
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 2: very transphobic, they're not very they're not that religious, to

680
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 2: be honest, no offense to the religious people, but it's

681
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 2: a positive to me to not have a very religious family.

682
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 2: They communicate, they're funny as fuck, and because they're funny,

683
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 2: that's a that's a huge reason that I think my

684
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 2: family is so cool is because most of my family

685
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: is very funny, and because since they're.

686
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 3: Funny, they deal with stuff in a in a in

687
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 3: a way that I think.

688
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: Is more healthy than the like serious, brooding kind of

689
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 2: families that I've seen. So I haven't had to cut

690
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: off most of most most much of my family, like

691
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 2: most of my family, most of my family, you know,

692
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 2: I see them when I see them and ship, but

693
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 2: but there's no like anim I see like, oh God,

694
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 2: why this motherfucker.

695
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 5: Gotta show up?

696
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 4: And you know, for me and a lot a lot

697
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 4: of with me as I've grown and as I'm matured,

698
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 4: and you know, striving to be a better person easier

699
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 4: said than done. Uh, truthful that it ain't easy growing

700
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 4: and maturing and all that. You know, people tell you

701
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 4: it's easy. That's the day of goddamn lot of some

702
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 4: bullshit because you have to reflect within yourself, Like it's

703
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 4: a lot. But as I'm have grown and matured and

704
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 4: things like that, I've learned to meet my family members

705
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 4: where they are and love them where they are and

706
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 4: know my limitations with them, Like like they set the

707
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 4: boundaries on the relationship, not me. They set the boundaries,

708
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 4: and I ad just according to the boundaries that they've set.

709
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 4: And once I once you realize that, it's smoother to

710
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 4: get along with family members to know, okay, well we're

711
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 4: only going to get so close because you showed me

712
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 4: what your boundaries are and I'm not crossing your boundaries,

713
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 4: you know, for the foot, for the health of everybody,

714
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 4: and to keep this a functioning relationship.

715
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. Also, it's just kind of scary when.

716
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: You don't know where you're staying with some money and

717
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 2: they are the kind of people that's capable of gas

718
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 2: liking you and doing all those toxic things.

719
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 3: They can turn anything into something bad, anything like you

720
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 3: do call them, and it's why you calling me?

721
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 2: You know, this is harassing. I don't want to talk

722
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 2: to you. You don't call them, You never called what's

723
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 2: wrong with you? Why don't you ever call me?

724
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 9: You know?

725
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 3: If you you say something to them, it's it's just sarcasm.

726
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 3: Is this a threat? Is this a are you are?

727
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 2: Are you talking down to me? It's like you can't

728
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: even say shit to them. And if you say anything

729
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: about what they say to you, did it's a problem.

730
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 2: If you say, well, look I don't really like when

731
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: you do this, or hey, you know, did you have

732
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 2: to say this that way?

733
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 3: It's just why I don't want to be around you.

734
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 2: And shit, you know very it could be very controlling

735
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 2: and manipulative. So you have to take the power back

736
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 2: for yourself. I think the main thing you have to

737
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: recognize that your family is not necessarily gonna be the

738
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 2: ones who change right. Therefore, that's where cutting off that

739
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: toxic relationship comes into play, because the I you know,

740
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 2: I think we talk about this shit on the show

741
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 2: about forgiveness.

742
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 3: We talk about, you.

743
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 2: Know, learning how to let people make mistakes, learn, learning

744
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: how to have some patience and let people grow, Kindness, communication,

745
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 2: All these things are lovely, but all of them require

746
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 2: some form of contrition from people and some former communication.

747
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 3: Correct a lot of times your.

748
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 2: Family members and shit, especially if they're older, they don't

749
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: have any intention of quote unquote growing or any of

750
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 2: that shit for some folks, because they're like, this is

751
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 2: as grown as I get. So I think you being

752
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 2: gay is abomination, and I hate you, or I say

753
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: I love you, but I'll never accept blakeny blank. They

754
00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: might just need to get to cut the fuck off,

755
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 2: like it might. It's not a thing where you're gonna

756
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 2: convince them with any action you take that to be

757
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 2: a better person, or to be open or accepting or

758
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: what any of the buzzwords tolerance and all the ship

759
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 2: people throw around. They're never coming an inch towards that

760
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 2: side anyway, So you might as well move on with

761
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 2: your fucking life. You know, it's sad to say, and

762
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 2: it hurts to say, and it's easy to say, but

763
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 2: the truth of the matter is your life will be

764
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:26,800
Speaker 2: a lot.

765
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 3: Better because these relationships drain you mentally physically, you.

766
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: Know, like you get depressed from them. Like like like it.

767
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: It is a lot and I love my family, but

768
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: it is.

769
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 4: A lot to deal with the variations of personalities and

770
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 4: and and and different quirks that you know, people have

771
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 4: and things like that, and it can be a lot

772
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 4: to navigate a lot of that, and particularly if you're

773
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 4: like me, a very caring, open kind type of person

774
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 4: and always you know, try to try to be you know,

775
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 4: pour yourself to people and you know, be open so

776
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 4: that people can uh talk.

777
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: And communicate with you.

778
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 4: But yeah, after a while you're like, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

779
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 4: You're not gonna abuse me, and I'm not gonna allow

780
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 4: myself to be abused, you know, And you actually have

781
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 4: to draw your lines to family members.

782
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,479
Speaker 1: And it's one of those things where it's very.

783
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,919
Speaker 4: Hard, like I said, when you have these relationships where

784
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 4: these are the people that raised you, These are the

785
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 4: people took you to the basketball games, the football games,

786
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 4: these other people that came in watched you on the

787
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 4: marching band, these are the people that came to your

788
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 4: track meet like, these are people they truly love you.

789
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 4: And it doesn't mean that the relationships I quote unquote dead.

790
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 4: It just means the relationships has to change and evolved

791
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 4: as you change and evolved, because sometimes, like right I said,

792
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 4: they don't change and grow you.

793
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: You are the one that's changing and growing, so the

794
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:53,919
Speaker 1: relationship has to adapt.

795
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 2: And to them, a lot of them is like I

796
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 2: changed your diapers, So how the fuck you're gonna tell

797
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 2: me I'm homophobic or some shit?

798
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 3: Right, how you're gonna tell me? You know, I've got

799
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 3: a problem with you living out of way like or whatever.

800
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: Fuck It's like, well, yeah, the shit you taught me

801
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 2: was not all good, and you're never gonna believe that

802
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 2: because you're stuck in your ways and you don't think

803
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 2: you can learn anything from me. You think it can

804
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 2: only flow one way, so you end up in those cycles.

805
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think it's okay to cut people off

806
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 2: that are toxic to you. And I'll just reiterate this too. Everybody.

807
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 2: Everybody can be toxic to somebody, maybe not intentionally, maybe

808
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 2: not something you're actively doing. Maybe it's not these traits

809
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 2: that I'm expressing, But I think people not wanting to

810
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 2: be around you and you not wanting to be around

811
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: someone is always a bad thing.

812
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 8: You know.

813
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 2: I've had times where I've gotten a bad feeling about

814
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 2: people or I felt like we wouldn't mesh not that

815
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 2: they were bad people, but that our points of view

816
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 2: in our lives the way we navigate them are to

817
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 2: not the same. And I've tried to fight that voice

818
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 2: and been like, well, you know what, they live their

819
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: life this way, but maybe they can, you know, they

820
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 2: seem to like me, they can come kick it and

821
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 2: seem cool. And when else that shit disintegrates because we

822
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 2: don't really kick it the same, We don't view or

823
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 2: value things the same. I normally would feel bad, like damn,

824
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 2: like I didn't mean for this person to feel that way.

825
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's more healthy for them

826
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 2: to go their way and shit to a certain stent

827
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: to have never have come my way, and vice versa.

828
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 2: It's more healthy that way than it is for us

829
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 2: to continue to be around each other not fully being ourselves.

830
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 2: I rather would not be around that person, you know,

831
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 2: And and it just happens with different people, you know.

832
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 2: Social media is really exploded this in a way because

833
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 2: our quote unquote running the way more people than I

834
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 2: would now in real life.

835
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 3: Like in real life, I just didn't even kick it

836
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 3: with this many fucking people.

837
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 2: And when I talk about something I didn't don't expect

838
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 2: random motherfucker's from you know, you know, all of a sudden,

839
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 2: somebody in Texas is telling me like, well, I this

840
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 2: is what I think about this.

841
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 3: I disagree with you. Couldn't you have said it this way?

842
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:19,959
Speaker 2: And you know, that's a that's a relatively different thing

843
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: than the way I navigate my life.

844
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 3: My life is more like I.

845
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: Would tell a couple of friends when I play basketball

846
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 2: with them, or baby, if I went out to lunch

847
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 2: or dinner, we have a conversation. But I wouldn't say

848
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 2: that thing to a million people so that I can

849
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 2: get a million responses, right, So I think that's a

850
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 2: thing that has changed. But it's also healthy that some

851
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 2: motherfuckers don't get along and don't want to, you know,

852
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 2: and or even if you don't necessarily not get along,

853
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 2: but you just don't need to be around each.

854
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: Other, right, And that's okay. And the thing is.

855
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 4: Also I think that a lot of people, when it

856
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 4: come to family members, a lot of people don't want

857
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 4: to be ex size or feel like that.

858
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: The black sheep of the family.

859
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 4: But sometimes you have to do what you have to

860
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 4: do for your own mental health and for a lot

861
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 4: of times for your own sometimes safety too be like,

862
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 4: you know what, it's just best for me not to

863
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 4: be in this.

864
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: Situation and around these people. And that goes to family.

865
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,760
Speaker 1: And that's why a lot of people as they get older, their.

866
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:26,280
Speaker 4: Family ain't blood like their family and some of their friends,

867
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 4: you know, like that's who is their family, that's who

868
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 4: knows them, that's who you know they can share their

869
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 4: secrets with, they have intimate relationships with, and they trust

870
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 4: these people a lot more than family. Because that's the

871
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 4: one thing about me. The older I got, my definition

872
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 4: of family has changed. In my definition of family does

873
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 4: not always mean like flesh and blood were born within

874
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 4: the same you know, family. Sometimes some of those people

875
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 4: excuse me, believe it or not, it's complete strangers to you. Truthfully,

876
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 4: you don't know them and they don't know you.

877
00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I absolutely believe in that.

878
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 2: I dont of family, like my family isn't necessarily blood

879
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 2: all the time. Like sometimes it's you know, your friends,

880
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 2: the people that you the relationships you make over the

881
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 2: course of your life, where you like, this person is

882
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: super close to me, I would tell them something, you know,

883
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 2: it's first you know so and I don't think there's

884
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 2: anything wrong with that, you know.

885
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's not uh you know, it's one

886
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 4: of those things where uh like when you have femom

887
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 4: re unions and functions and things like that, how it's

888
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 4: a generational gap in femm re unions you have to

889
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 4: rid of bit young.

890
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:33,919
Speaker 1: A lot of times are the really really old.

891
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 4: That middle group isn't there anymore. And instead of people

892
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 4: encouraging that middle group to kind of come, it's oh

893
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 4: such and such to be there. You know, they'll miss

894
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 4: you trying to like you said, that guilt trip, that manipulation.

895
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:51,439
Speaker 4: I was like that blright, and I got those strangers looks,

896
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 4: but I was like, they'll be just fine, you know.

897
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 4: And sometimes particularly if people are used to you, if

898
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 4: people always look look at you as a child, no

899
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 4: matter your age, a lot of times they're shocked when

900
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 4: you speak up, and they're shocked when you speak back,

901
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 4: and they're shocked when you when you be like, what

902
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do is deal with this, And people

903
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 4: respond differently to that. Some people go cool, and then

904
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,959
Speaker 4: some people get angry and act like you're the problem.

905
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 4: That goes back to that abusive thing.

906
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 2: Yep, so cut your toxic family members off, cut toxic

907
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 2: people out of your life. It's nothing, it's fine. Yeah,

908
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 2: you don't have an obligation to take on that burden

909
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 2: of life. And honestly, if they want to be in

910
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 2: your life, they'll.

911
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,240
Speaker 1: Change, They will change.

912
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 3: All right, Let's go to uh segments.

913
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 1: We're just fucking with those black people.

914
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:52,720
Speaker 3: Were just fucking with those blacks.

915
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: We're just fucking with fuck with black people.

916
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 3: That's right. It's tired to play the game. We all

917
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 3: hate this black is fucking with black people.

918
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 2: The game where we go out a lot of globe

919
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 2: we find different articles that make us feel fucked with.

920
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: The willis fine points scores from zero to one hundred

921
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 2: intervals of twenty five today's contestants is everybody once again?

922
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 5: All right?

923
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 3: Everybody?

924
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 2: Anne Hathaway calls out white privilege and a passionate post

925
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 2: about the unspeakable murder of Neil Wilson. Okay, and Anne

926
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 2: Hathaway is using her platform for a powerful cause. Outraged

927
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,280
Speaker 2: by the fatal stabbing of eighteen year old Neil Wilson

928
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 2: by a white man, the Oscar winning actress that dedicated

929
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 2: an Instagram post to honoring the young black woman. Wilson

930
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 2: and her sister, who survivor attack was stabbed at the

931
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 2: Bart MacArthur station in Oakley, California, July twenty second.

932
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: Yes, the story covered right, Yes, the murder.

933
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 2: Anne Hathaway will put this on Instagram, the murder of

934
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 2: Neil Wilson, and it's a picture of Nia smiling. May

935
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 2: she rest in power and peace. She was denied here

936
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 2: in the piece. She was denied here is unspeakable and

937
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: must not be met with silence.

938
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 3: She is not a hashtag.

939
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 2: She was a black woman, and she was murdered in

940
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 2: a in cold Okay, I don't know what was Oh, okay,

941
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 2: that was okay?

942
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 3: All right? She was murdered in cold blood by a

943
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 3: white man.

944
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 2: White people, including me, including you, must take into the

945
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 2: marrow of our privileged bones the truth that all that

946
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 2: all black people fear for their lives daily in America,

947
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 2: have done so for generations. White people do not have

948
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 2: equivalents for this fear of violence. Given those givings, we

949
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 2: must ask our white selves, how quote unquote decent are

950
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 2: we really not? In our not in our intent, but

951
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 2: in our actions, in our lack of action? Question mark,

952
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,760
Speaker 2: Peace and prayers and justice for Nia and the Wilson

953
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 2: family x ex Note the comments for this post are closed.

954
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 2: Hashtag come on, black Lives matter, hashtag anti racist, hashtag

955
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 2: no excuse, hashtags say her name has tag earned the right.

956
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 3: To say her name? Come Oh damn uh.

957
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 4: Somebody got a hold of her, and somebody opened up

958
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,760
Speaker 4: her eyes and she actually looked, because sometimes when.

959
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 1: People I met, they closed their eyes and run over.

960
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: She actually looked and was like, oh, this shit is

961
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 1: really fucked up.

962
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 2: She's like, it ain't no miss Anne hath the way, Okay,

963
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 2: this ain't no Missing Anne.

964
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: It's just Anne Hathaway, right, And she was like, I

965
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: meant what I said.

966
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 4: I'm turning the comments off because I know your bast's

967
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 4: gonna say shit to me.

968
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: No, what you're not gonna do is you're gonna sit

969
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:34,919
Speaker 1: and stewing the shit.

970
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 3: Wow, I did not know that. Of course, some people

971
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 3: were upset with her.

972
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 2: Somebody called her self hating white bitch who constantly does

973
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 2: the most to get except as an approval of black

974
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 2: people online, so fucking prosthetic and cringey. Saying white people

975
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 2: would never feel feel like black people is wrong. Another

976
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 2: critic comment under older folks There's thousands of white girls

977
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 2: in the world. Who are you scared to leave their

978
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 2: homes after they've been abused, raped, and traffic by men.

979
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 3: There's many white girls who have been murdered by men.

980
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 2: Like it, Like I get it if your privilege is

981
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 2: hell and think every white woman is the same as you.

982
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 2: But that's not how it works. Racism is discussing and

983
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 2: white supremacy needs to die. But some of the stuff

984
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 2: you said is just wrong. Miss the point, statement, Hathaway.

985
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 2: Hathaway is not the only celebrities speak out for Wilson.

986
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 2: Amber Tambling also supposed to a bout her murder this week,

987
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 2: though some accused her.

988
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 3: Of shaming white women.

989
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 2: I'm waiting for your favorite white feminists to say a

990
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 2: single word about Neil Wilson. She put, and she put,

991
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 2: and that was a quote from somebody else delaying the brain.

992
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 2: And so she took that picture and put it on

993
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 2: her Instagram and said she is absolutely right. My fellow

994
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 2: white women, where is your outrage on social media for

995
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: the targeted murder of Neil Wilson in Oakland?

996
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 3: Speak up?

997
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 2: I can't hear you, Oh hi. Feminist tide lifts all

998
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:59,959
Speaker 2: female boats hashtag Neil Wilson hashtag reposts at delaying.

999
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 3: The brain like our emojis. Maybe I don't know.

1000
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 2: What I've learned over the last six months is that

1001
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 2: our issues are still not their issues. So I had

1002
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: to stop following so many of them who could be

1003
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: silent on the violence towards the US.

1004
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 3: I traded towards US.

1005
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 2: I traded their voices for at Rachel Cargo, she put

1006
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 2: like a bunch of people to follow at others. In

1007
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 2: the turn they cease the blood letting that white feminism

1008
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: offers to us, offers us transfuse life and hope and

1009
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:29,760
Speaker 2: dress my wounds.

1010
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 3: Neil Wilson, M hmm, damn. Then they're going in over

1011
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 3: there in the Instagram world. Apparently who knew? Who knew?

1012
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 4: Somebody said Reese Witherspoon had a good said has said

1013
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 4: something too.

1014
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 2: Reese Withtherspoon too, man, Well, one does never cease. I'm

1015
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 2: happy for everybody, Okay, he too.

1016
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess everybody ain't sleeping.

1017
00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess not. I tried to bring up that

1018
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 3: took her page, but wouldn't bring it up for some reason. Anyway.

1019
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: Zero Yeah, I gotta give a zero man shout out

1020
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 2: to Amber shout to end Hathaway. That was pretty dope

1021
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 2: comments and the kind of stuff people ask.

1022
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 1: For all the time, kind of stuff that people ask,

1023
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 1: you know.

1024
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: I'm sure people that I'm sure there's black people that

1025
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 2: found fault with that somehow too. I did see one

1026
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 2: brother talking about some scared for our lives daily do

1027
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 2: not presume to speak on the black experienced white woman.

1028
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 3: I was like, if you don't, get the fuck out

1029
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 3: of here.

1030
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 2: Also, somebody did that thing on Twitter where they close

1031
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 2: up the avatared person talking he had fucked up hair.

1032
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: So I was like, you know, let's not super cuts.

1033
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's not get too much into this guy's state

1034
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 3: of mind. If you know what I'm saying. Uh, let's

1035
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 3: see what else happened.

1036
00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 2: Theodore Decker who column, Theodore Decorator column, Okay, column in

1037
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 2: uh Dispatch dot com. Oh, racist words blow back on

1038
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 2: a man, family and business. Oh that's my favorite song.

1039
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 2: That's the song of the summer right there. That is

1040
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 2: a jam, that is a bop and all those things.

1041
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: I love when I love when a good plan comes together.

1042
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,879
Speaker 2: When the racist gets fired for doing some stupid shit

1043
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 2: they have no business fucking doing. Oh shit, nobody asked.

1044
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 2: Nobody asked you to be racist. I'm gonna get to it,

1045
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 2: but I need to read the article. No, I like

1046
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 2: to like to get it to the uh into the

1047
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 2: whole story first. But yeah, it's always this is one

1048
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 2: of my favorites.

1049
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 3: So what happened was there was a conversation between two

1050
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 3: strangers that begains a traffic dispute on the north Side. Okay, oh,

1051
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 3: you know the racist I love the north side.

1052
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 4: Don't they Obni City? Mm hmmmm, the north side, That's

1053
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 4: what they ate.

1054
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 3: That's their favorite, the north Side. It should have ended

1055
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 3: there on Morse Road, but it didn't.

1056
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 2: But that's where Charles Lovett left it. Jeff Whitman didn't. Oh,

1057
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 2: it's very close to white man.

1058
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 5: Feeling wrong.

1059
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 2: Whitman showed up at love It's house that alone was outstudying. Yes,

1060
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 2: that alone was unsettling. Loved's house was not right around

1061
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 2: the corner from the Tuesday morning encounter. It was almost

1062
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: two miles away. People have been shot in situation as that. Again,

1063
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,320
Speaker 2: like this, when a minor flashed of road rage escalates.

1064
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 2: Given that love It remained remarkably composed. He was so

1065
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 2: composed he had the foresight to begin recording the encounter

1066
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:52,280
Speaker 2: on his phone. Dun Dunn get you every time, phones

1067
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 2: the one true enemy of the racist right, a decision

1068
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 2: that would ensure that neither man would remain anonymous. Yeah, well,

1069
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 2: you know what, I'll give up my anonymity if you're

1070
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 2: attacking me for being a nigger and I'm just I

1071
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 2: don't know, breathing. I feel like it's gonna look worse

1072
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: on you. Is there a reason you just followed me

1073
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 2: to my house? He asks Whitmen, who sits in his

1074
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 2: van at the end of Love's driveway. At this point,

1075
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 2: it's necessary to point out that Whitmen is white and

1076
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 2: love It is black.

1077
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 3: Oh you didn't need to point it out.

1078
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 10: We knew.

1079
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 3: We being new. Yeah so, he says.

1080
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 2: Well, follows a three minute argument which love It defends

1081
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 2: himself without losing a hot more high ground, while Witmen

1082
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 2: keeps up with the invective. Loved responds to the bigotry

1083
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 2: with class and a touch of wit. So, I'm a

1084
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 2: nigger because you can't read strike the street signs? No,

1085
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 2: Whitman says, love It is a nigger because of his

1086
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 2: sense of entitlement.

1087
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 3: When did that become? When did that become the thing

1088
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 3: that makes us niggers?

1089
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,760
Speaker 4: I thought no, because he feels like we have a senciment.

1090
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:05,120
Speaker 4: You're not in your place. How dare you inconvenience me

1091
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:05,839
Speaker 4: as a white man?

1092
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 2: Seems like we can't be entitled because we're Niggers's right,

1093
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 2: That's like it would work the opposite way, the way

1094
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:10,760
Speaker 2: he suggested.

1095
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 3: He says, this is a nothing that rightly confounds.

1096
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 2: Love it this after I was coming from a white

1097
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 2: man who drove the stranger's house to deliberational slurgs and

1098
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 2: the tom clus to the lecture than the rant. So

1099
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 2: thank you for calling me a nigga and showing me

1100
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 2: how stupid you are. Have a good day, surgery your life.

1101
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 2: Love It posted video on social media. Within hours of

1102
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 2: Internet came calling on with me and how he has

1103
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 2: spoken his mind from behind the wheel of his company

1104
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 2: van with the name and phone number of his business

1105
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 2: right down the driver side door.

1106
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 9: Ah, they did this on company tip, the entitlement that

1107
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 9: he must have right instead of going on your route.

1108
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: They was like, oh, so this is why you are

1109
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: twenty minutes late?

1110
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 3: Right, Like, who has entitlement?

1111
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 8: No?

1112
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 3: Who are we saying it is entitled? Because I feel

1113
00:52:58,080 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 3: like the dude who says.

1114
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 2: I'm in my company van feeling like I should be

1115
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 2: able to call you a nigger, is the one who's

1116
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 2: actually entitled.

1117
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 3: But maybe I'm tripping case right.

1118
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:20,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, he shared his image online, overloaded his voicemail,

1119
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,240
Speaker 2: and flooded consumer websites like yeah, well hundreds of negative reviews,

1120
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 2: complete with images of.

1121
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 3: The CLAYKK and Hitler.

1122
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:28,319
Speaker 2: Your type is not one of his country any longer,

1123
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 2: nor any of your heating and cooling services ever needed again.

1124
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 2: Reason one, all of this has been has had the

1125
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 2: intended effect. It was an awful mistake and obviously I

1126
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 2: don't know how to explained. It ruined my life and

1127
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 2: it ruined my family's life, witness said. He says that

1128
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 2: in the voicemail left to me on Thursday, two days after,

1129
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 2: he most definitely didn't apologize when confronted by a local

1130
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:52,360
Speaker 2: television reporter. Now this message sounds responded, I'm out of business.

1131
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 2: I'm completely out.

1132
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 5: I'm done.

1133
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 2: I'm never working Columbus again. This is completely and thoroughly

1134
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 2: ruined my life. Stayed in the obvious here driving to

1135
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 2: a stranger's house to ask a person with racist it's

1136
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,359
Speaker 2: not a mistake. It is chosen, chose of course of action,

1137
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 2: is stupid and small minded and threatening at the host

1138
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 2: of other descriptions now attached to Whitman's name for internet attorney.

1139
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 3: On Friday, Whitman called again. He said he chose the

1140
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 3: wrong word and says he is not a bigot.

1141
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, mm hmmm.

1142
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 3: You chose the wrong word because you meant what you said.

1143
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 3: What world was trying to choose? What was What was

1144
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 3: the right word? I meant to say he was a

1145
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 3: moon cricket, and it just came out wrong. I'm not

1146
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 3: I'm not.

1147
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 2: I'm not even close to racist. Okay, I'm the furthest

1148
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 2: thing to racist. When I saw that Jiggaboo cut me

1149
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 2: off on loyl Avenue.

1150
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,399
Speaker 1: I thought he had a tail.

1151
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 3: I just don't.

1152
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 2: I don't even know why people think I am racist.

1153
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 2: To be honest, I don't know where that came from.

1154
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 1: Where would you get that from?

1155
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 2: I listen to a lot of hip hop. Okay, I

1156
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 2: just don't understand the intensity of the hate.

1157
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 5: He said. Yeah.

1158
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 2: Uh, you drove to a man's house to call him

1159
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 2: a nigger, But you don't understand the intensity.

1160
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: Of eight on the company car. You didn't even make

1161
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 1: it hard for black Uh twitters, I.

1162
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 2: Right, that's the that's the shortest episode of black That

1163
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 2: wasn't even a whole episode of black tow that wasn't

1164
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,760
Speaker 2: that's the opening credits before they started the actual episode.

1165
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 3: Right, what are you talking about? I just don't understand

1166
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 3: the intensity of the hate. Where is this coming from.

1167
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: The same hate did you spewed?

1168
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 4: Right, that's the thing you spewed to hate you, but

1169
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 4: you don't want it coming back at you.

1170
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: Right, I don't comprehend this. Don't do it then.

1171
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 7: Come down and not and look like a petty little

1172
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 7: brat by tweeting and Facebook keyness just to open up

1173
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,439
Speaker 7: dialogue so we can have that thought conversation.

1174
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:04,320
Speaker 3: In America.

1175
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:05,879
Speaker 5: You should be ashamed.

1176
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 2: You should be a shamed America put making this poor

1177
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 2: white man pay for his racism.

1178
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 3: He said that even his eighty six.

1179
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 2: Year old mother and twenty five year old daughter who

1180
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 2: uses a wheelchair have been targets a harassment campaign against him.

1181
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 2: Of course, but what about you knew you had those

1182
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: people in your life before you started calling people nigger

1183
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 2: on a fucking cell phone live recording.

1184
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 3: You knew that I can't believe they would not stop it.

1185
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 4: Me.

1186
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 2: You knew that the end of it had no fucking roots,

1187
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 2: and you didn't give a fuck because you.

1188
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: Was mad and you didn't think it the would be

1189
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 1: any consequences to your actions.

1190
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 3: He said, I'm just trying to address the rudeness. You

1191
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 3: just trying. I'm trying to address the rudeness.

1192
00:56:58,960 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 5: Huh.

1193
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 1: Somebody niggame rude, right you, But you're trying to.

1194
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:08,720
Speaker 3: But that's what you need, the address to the rudess.

1195
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:09,040
Speaker 5: And there.

1196
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 2: God, yeah, you don't get to be the guy who

1197
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 2: says that you need to stop people from being rude.

1198
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 2: You don't get what's the next thing you're gonna say.

1199
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 2: I'm really upset by people call it racial slurs and

1200
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 2: me and my family. It's like they drove to my

1201
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 2: house and parked in my driveway and called me a

1202
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 2: racial slur.

1203
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 3: And I just don't understand how you want.

1204
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 5: Can do that.

1205
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 3: Uh, he says.

1206
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 2: The way he said this suggested he saw Tuesdays acount

1207
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 2: on Morse rows and Strada broke the camel that broke

1208
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,919
Speaker 2: his back. The line abruptly disconnected. I called a woman,

1209
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 2: as he asked, and left a message. He didn't call,

1210
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,920
Speaker 2: she didn't call back. I read more online Vitro director

1211
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 2: than with men. There are consequences for your actions at

1212
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen. No, it has time for racist bs and

1213
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen consequences can come in no time at all.

1214
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 3: Zero turn can zero?

1215
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 5: Wow?

1216
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 3: This is the first. This gotta your first zero for

1217
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 3: me too. Two zeros fucking with black people back to back? Wow?

1218
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 3: Shall we go for three?

1219
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 1: I guess guess what tribe I said? Bein't playing a

1220
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 1: celebration music.

1221
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 3: Oh that's that's what you came for.

1222
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 1: That's why, that's why I knew.

1223
00:58:52,040 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 3: Oh, I have you sucker already. Oh you know what

1224
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 3: he won't be doing droving his way to his job

1225
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 3: no more?

1226
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 1: Come on, you know what?

1227
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 5: You know what?

1228
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: He wonna be driving his company car. No more? You

1229
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: be calling you been calling somebody nigga on two feet?

1230
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 5: Won't you?

1231
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 3: You need to fix the A C in his own

1232
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 3: house because he needs to cool down. He's a bit

1233
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 3: hot headed.

1234
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: A right, yes, then you gonna be following nobody else home.

1235
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 3: On the driveway.

1236
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 2: He's gonna be parked. It's his own Come on, and

1237
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 2: that's the company car too, so you know it's a wrap.

1238
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 4: It's a rap, and I think somebody said he owned

1239
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 4: the company, so that's all they had to shut down.

1240
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 3: He on gold himself on gold himself self.

1241
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so yeah, I thought we could jail to

1242
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 2: that also do yeah cool, mo, d be going a

1243
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 2: place where this man will never be going again.

1244
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 1: You be going to an deployment line.

1245
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 5: I gotta work, work, work work.

1246
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 1: That niggas gonna be going to work. Where are you at.

1247
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 5: Work? Work, work work. I go to work like a doctor.

1248
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: When I rock the mic.

1249
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 10: You got to like to wear your wit. I mean

1250
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:47,439
Speaker 10: lyrical slapping just from rapping.

1251
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 5: I'm so liberal.

1252
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 1: On c me.

1253
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 10: I got the fulltend child to make it go that chill.

1254
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 10: I got to treat that child better.

1255
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 5: We take child to.

1256
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 10: Make a rock, same child that gett know why will

1257
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 10: for film make a couple of minutes les, I.

1258
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 5: Feel a jail, but the scale like chill.

1259
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 10: But we run up the no friller, hang him in

1260
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 10: that pig actued to suck up. Hang him to the

1261
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 10: left of me because my right hand man is my

1262
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 10: mic stand and the microphone that I owned in my

1263
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 10: game land.

1264
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 1: If cheap at the stead, he can't ain't nobody in

1265
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 1: the ruck here, ain't no waist.

1266
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 10: I'm gonna hit the top just when I wanna, and

1267
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 10: it's a matter of time. Man, I'm throwing off because

1268
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 10: I know winter go ahead and hinting the classic mote

1269
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 10: wrapped that sence you running around or holding your head

1270
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 10: asking your home boy, Yo, man, you hurt what he's said?

1271
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 10: Another up, look at you, man to give him a

1272
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 10: hot fox because something like running around with him telling

1273
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 10: everybody hanging out on the block and trying to wake

1274
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:31,560
Speaker 10: up check the clock.

1275
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 3: Wat shit, I go to work, work, work, work, Where

1276
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:38,959
Speaker 3: are you at, white man work?

1277
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 1: You ain't clocking in on an ADP.

1278
01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 3: You will not be going to work here. M mm hm.

1279
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: You won't be swiping that badge.

1280
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,440
Speaker 5: Take this job and shovey.

1281
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 3: I ain't work, that's what he's he's now come on.

1282
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 5: The reason I was working more.

1283
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 6: You better not try understanding my way on the walking

1284
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 6: out the door.

1285
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 3: This job and shoulding I ain't working.

1286
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: Here no more? Ain't.

1287
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 3: You definitely will not be working here anymore.

1288
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: You want to be working in Columbus no more?

1289
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 3: You know that makes all the black people around here?

1290
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 9: Yeah, say.

1291
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 3: Sce shoes here you can take a break.

1292
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 1: I feah, I don't care.

1293
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 8: Maybe by the way, because I'm happy because I'm having

1294
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 8: come along. If you feel like heavenness is the truth, because.

1295
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 1: I'm happy, come alone, you because I'm heavy alone.

1296
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:10,439
Speaker 3: If you back to work because you really got a job, Yes,

1297
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 3: all right.

1298
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 2: Beyonce given unprecedented control over Vogue September issue.

1299
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: Cover Your Faith Could Never.

1300
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 2: So Vogue September issue every year is like the most

1301
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 2: important issue. MKA and Anna Win Tour is notoriously.

1302
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 3: A stickler curer for control. But you know who else

1303
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 3: is a stickler for control? Beyonce.

1304
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 2: So Vogue editing chief and a Win Tour gave Beyonce

1305
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 2: unpresident of control over the cover of the upcoming September issue.

1306
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 2: Sources say the Music Icon hired the first black photographer

1307
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 2: to shoot a cover in the publications one hundred and

1308
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 2: twenty six year history.

1309
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: One hundred and twenty six years out one.

1310
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 2: Hundred and twenty six years, not one black photographer shot

1311
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 2: to cover Your Faith Could Never. The publication is contractually

1312
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,920
Speaker 2: obligated to give Beyonce full control over the cover, the

1313
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:17,439
Speaker 2: photos of her inside the magazine and the captions which

1314
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 2: she has written herself and are in long form, according

1315
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 2: to two sources who are familiar with the agreement between

1316
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 2: Vogue and Beyonce but aren't authorized to speak to the press.

1317
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 3: So the other thing is Beyonce is not giving them

1318
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 3: an interview.

1319
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: Nope, she don't do that.

1320
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 3: You're just captioning her own photos. She is the best.

1321
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 2: She is better at this internet shit than everybody. She's

1322
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 2: just better at being famous than most. I don't think

1323
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 2: any people have the discipline or the wherewithal or any

1324
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 2: of that shit to be able to protect their family

1325
01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 2: and keep them private and at the same time control

1326
01:04:55,240 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 2: their image in such a way that he's literally just

1327
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 2: She's a force to be reckond with. You can't stop her.

1328
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 2: She's a genius.

1329
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: People can say, but they want to about her, but

1330
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: you don't.

1331
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 4: You don't get to the place that she's at without

1332
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 4: being smart and intelligence.

1333
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 1: You just can't and be savvy and have business sense.

1334
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 3: She's a marketing genius.

1335
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 2: Like she's always ahead of other people, you know, because

1336
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 2: I'm sure Vogue is like, oh, well, you know you're

1337
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 2: gonna have to do an interview. She's like, I'm not

1338
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 2: throwing no fucking interview right A.

1339
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 4: Guess what, you won't be having me on your cover.

1340
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 4: That's the thing she you know, her thing was like, look,

1341
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 4: if you want me, these are my stipulations, you can't

1342
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 4: be my stipulations.

1343
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 5: You know.

1344
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: It's one of the things She's like, I ain't got

1345
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: to be here, and.

1346
01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 3: Rihanna's gonna be.

1347
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 2: I think she's on Vogue September UK, the September issue

1348
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 2: in the UK right now.

1349
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 3: So yeah.

1350
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 2: Cover subjects are usually giving little to not say in

1351
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 2: their photos and are sent to cover in the week

1352
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:58,440
Speaker 2: ahead of publication, so familiar with the editorial process.

1353
01:05:58,000 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 3: Said, so.

1354
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, Beyonce is like, I'll take my own pictures and

1355
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 2: tell y'all what's going on the cover, and I'll give

1356
01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 2: you my own captions and what shots y'all use, So

1357
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 2: you're welcome.

1358
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1359
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 1: And the person that she got shooting, I think they're

1360
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:16,439
Speaker 1: like twenty three years old.

1361
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 2: Tyler Mitchell, twenty three years old. I depict black people

1362
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 2: and people of color in a really real and pure way.

1363
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 3: Mitchell, who has.

1364
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 2: Already made a splashart shooting campaigns from Mark Jacob and Gavinci,

1365
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 2: told The New York Times in December, there's an honest

1366
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 2: gaze to my photos.

1367
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 3: When tour typically.

1368
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 2: Prefers to hire photographers with more traditional experience, and likely

1369
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 2: would not have selected Mitchell for a cover shoot. According

1370
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 2: to a source familiar with Voges editorial process, it's not

1371
01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 2: the reason of twenty three old black photographers photographing Beyonce

1372
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 2: for the cover of Vogue is because Beyonce used her

1373
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 2: power and influence to give him that assignment.

1374
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty obvious.

1375
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 2: One hundred and twenty three years and twenty six years,

1376
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 2: they've never picked one. I don't think you don't have

1377
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 2: to say because of his age, she wasn't gonna pick him.

1378
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 3: He's black.

1379
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:06,959
Speaker 2: Anna went Tour wasn't gonna pick him. Now, he'll probably

1380
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 2: be able to get his pick of a litany of

1381
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 2: different jobs. Now, he'll be able to turn jobs down

1382
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 2: now because of this. The cover is also likely to

1383
01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 2: be win Tour's last September issue, according to four sources

1384
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 2: familiar with her plans. Vogue parent company Conde Nash repeatedly

1385
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 2: has said the editor is not leaving a magazine. Anna

1386
01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 2: Wintor is incredibly talented and creative leader whose influence is

1387
01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:32,640
Speaker 2: beyond measure, said the CEO of Conde Nast Tuesday in

1388
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 2: a statement to the huff Poe, she's integral to the

1389
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:38,840
Speaker 2: future of our company's transformation that has agreed to work

1390
01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 2: with me and definitely and her role as editor in

1391
01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 2: chief Vogue.

1392
01:07:41,600 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 3: And artistic director of Conde Nast.

1393
01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 2: Beyonce's last Settiment issue cover was twenty fifteen and was

1394
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 2: shot by Mario Testino, a photographer Wintor had worked with frequently.

1395
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 2: Testino has not worked for Vogue since being publicly accused

1396
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 2: of sexual misconduct in the New York Times report Polished

1397
01:07:57,480 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 2: in January, right, and Beyonce didn't get to pick that

1398
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 2: she was like again, she was not given the same

1399
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 2: level of control over that cover of the issue, but

1400
01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 2: it still made ways that she did not participate in.

1401
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 3: The interview for it, something that had not happened in

1402
01:08:09,520 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 3: several years with non model cover subject. She's also not.

1403
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 2: Granted Vogue to sit down interview for this September issue

1404
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 2: as well. The New York Post was first to report

1405
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 2: beyon Say with Grace the cover of vogue September issue

1406
01:08:20,080 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 2: this year. Stormy Daniels is also expected to be featured

1407
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 2: in the September October issue of Vogue after being photographed

1408
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:28,520
Speaker 2: by Anti Leebel with VI's.

1409
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 3: Uh, a spokeswoman for Vogue, declined to comment with her.

1410
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 2: Poe reached out for publication several months ago after hearing

1411
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 2: about the possibility.

1412
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 3: Of Daniel's being featured in the magazine.

1413
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:40,559
Speaker 1: So, uh yeah, I on even read Vogue. I bet

1414
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 1: you I have a copy of it, a hard copy too.

1415
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,679
Speaker 3: M zero to one hundred.

1416
01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:48,920
Speaker 4: I'm not I am fucked with for the fact that

1417
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 4: that baby, I mean not that, not that baby, but

1418
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 4: that that that young man is the first young man,

1419
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 4: black young man, probably anybody of color actually to have

1420
01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 4: that in one hundred and twenty six years.

1421
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,760
Speaker 1: But zero because Beyonce. The thing is.

1422
01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 4: Beyonce and and Lebron James and some of these other

1423
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 4: people are doing the ship that people want them to do.

1424
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 1: They they're in these positions.

1425
01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 4: And they're actually reaching and giving back and doing these

1426
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 4: great and marvelous things. And I'm not knocking people for

1427
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 4: out here putting people on the map, because he would

1428
01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 4: probably be set for the rest of his life, on

1429
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 4: his career, because I guarantee those pictures are gonna be

1430
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:29,839
Speaker 4: fucking gorgeous.

1431
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1432
01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 3: Zero for me, I'm not fucked with at all.

1433
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1434
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 3: I get why people will be fucked with about how

1435
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 3: long it's been. But the streak is over. That it's over.

1436
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:45,080
Speaker 3: I'm happy for everybody involved.

1437
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:47,920
Speaker 2: And I stay in the queen because your fave would

1438
01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:50,719
Speaker 2: never even have the fucking would.

1439
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 3: Not even have the balls.

1440
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:54,600
Speaker 1: Amain to fucking be like.

1441
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 3: But we're gonna do it my way.

1442
01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 1: Right, Oh else, I'm not what is gonna happen? I'm

1443
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 1: not gonna do this all right?

1444
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:05,440
Speaker 2: She just lifts all fucking boats around her consistently, constantly,

1445
01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:09,360
Speaker 2: and there's nothing you can say bad about her period.

1446
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:13,640
Speaker 2: All right, let's get into some other stuff. Let's do

1447
01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 2: some uh guess the race? All right, I need to

1448
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:20,599
Speaker 2: get back to my guest the race music.

1449
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 3: Though it was partying a little too hard.

1450
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: We were partying hard on mm hmm.

1451
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:30,479
Speaker 3: Now that it's time for some guests stor race.

1452
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:36,040
Speaker 1: That's right, This guest the race time. Now that is

1453
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 1: time for some guest story race. That's right, this guests

1454
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 1: the race time.

1455
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 3: That's right.

1456
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,760
Speaker 2: It's time to gus the race. The number one game

1457
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 2: across all the podcasts.

1458
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 3: That we need to play. News arkis from all over

1459
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 3: the globe, and.

1460
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 2: We got our contestants today, Karen and the Chatter to

1461
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:57,960
Speaker 2: guests the race, and of course they all play along

1462
01:10:58,000 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 2: and they're all racist.

1463
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:02,559
Speaker 3: All right, Let's see the first one.

1464
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:08,639
Speaker 2: A halfless finger gun robber chased off by painting shops

1465
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 2: from painting shops. A robbery who pretended he had a

1466
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 2: gun by sticking his finger in his pocket, but was

1467
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:17,679
Speaker 2: seen off by two businesses he tried to rob.

1468
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:19,559
Speaker 3: Has been jailed. That's pathetic.

1469
01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 2: Ryan Caley demanded cash from a tesco and a bookmaker

1470
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:28,759
Speaker 2: in Painton, Devon, but fled when his bluff was called.

1471
01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 2: He also tried to break it to a homebo was

1472
01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 2: confronted by the eighty seven year old householder.

1473
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 3: Oh he is bad at robbery.

1474
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 1: Finding of the career.

1475
01:11:36,479 --> 01:11:39,479
Speaker 2: Baby Cally admitted to attempted robberies at a burglary and

1476
01:11:39,560 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 2: was jailed for three years and four months. The court

1477
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:45,200
Speaker 2: heard fifty three year old Collie went into Tesco at

1478
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:48,320
Speaker 2: Bedford Shops on twenty two to April and threatened to

1479
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:52,000
Speaker 2: shoot staff unless they headed over cash and tesco.

1480
01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 3: A cashierd told him, if you're going to do it,

1481
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 3: then get on with it.

1482
01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 1: Oh wouldn't.

1483
01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 3: It's picked the nat That's some Clinton's who try. Quint

1484
01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 3: Eastwood like what.

1485
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 1: Did I look, I got twelve dollars shift fuck it,

1486
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 1: do what you got to do.

1487
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:08,960
Speaker 2: Nigga, I would die for this five twenty five hour

1488
01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:11,759
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. I already work at Tesco.

1489
01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 2: How much worse can it get? Right staffing the bookmaker

1490
01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 2: also refused to give him money and said they will

1491
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 2: call the police.

1492
01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:21,719
Speaker 3: He was tracked down five days.

1493
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:24,280
Speaker 2: Later when he broke into a house thinking for it

1494
01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:27,040
Speaker 2: by an eighty seven year old who also saw him off.

1495
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:30,680
Speaker 3: Duh damn. He just mad into all the people that

1496
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 3: didn't have nothing to lose.

1497
01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 1: It says eighty seven. You definely ain't got nothing to lose.

1498
01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 3: I'm ready for the devil to come get me.

1499
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:39,599
Speaker 1: I know, either you or him.

1500
01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 3: Come on, I'm ready sentencing him.

1501
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 2: The judge said, fortunately people stood up to you, even

1502
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 2: if they didn't think you had a real gun.

1503
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 3: They could not be short.

1504
01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 2: And the lady who told you the clear off must

1505
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 2: have been fearful of what you might have done if

1506
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 2: you did have a gun. Warren Robinson, defender, said Colley

1507
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 2: was a heroinautic despert for money who did not succeed

1508
01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:58,759
Speaker 2: and still in anything or left without causing any violence.

1509
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 3: Guess the race. White cares going white. Let's check the

1510
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:11,599
Speaker 3: chat room. Let's wait on these negroes to comment. All

1511
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:14,679
Speaker 3: these white people stand in their ground. He gotta be black.

1512
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 3: Go ahead, make my day white.

1513
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:23,720
Speaker 2: You're feeling lucky, punk white, white white boy, rick white.

1514
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 3: White. The correct answer is white. He was really bad

1515
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 3: at robbery, really really bad at robbery. I mean, if

1516
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:47,639
Speaker 3: you stay, I feel, I don't know why.

1517
01:13:47,640 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 5: In my mind.

1518
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:51,320
Speaker 3: But if you all, I don't know why.

1519
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 2: But in my mind, if you put your finger in

1520
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 2: your pocket and pretend it's a gun, you immediately start

1521
01:13:56,840 --> 01:14:00,559
Speaker 2: talking like a nineteen twenties gangster to me. Put him up,

1522
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 2: stick him in the air, see get him by read

1523
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:04,880
Speaker 2: right into the sun.

1524
01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:12,040
Speaker 3: You see. I don't know copper is ever gonna get

1525
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:12,640
Speaker 3: the best of me.

1526
01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 2: You tell them old muddy two boots came in here

1527
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:17,800
Speaker 2: and stole everything I know.

1528
01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 4: Give me all of your gold coins, put them in

1529
01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:24,200
Speaker 4: the sky like I don't know why, But in my mind,

1530
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 4: you're now not catching me.

1531
01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 3: We gotta beat it. But fuzzes here can't.

1532
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 1: Riding them cars without seat belts and ship you.

1533
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 3: Have a fucking finger guts.

1534
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 2: There's no way you like I'm about to rob this motherfucker.

1535
01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 2: It's got you gotta be talking. You gotta be talking

1536
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 2: like a bugs Buddy cartoon.

1537
01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, rock Old, cut it, stick him up.

1538
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: Oh got the worst criminal.

1539
01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:58,679
Speaker 3: Ever wife and miss killing her husband after he purchased porn?

1540
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 1: Oh it ain't is it to divorce him?

1541
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:03,479
Speaker 5: Then? I mean who.

1542
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 3: Buys porn anymore? I don't blame him. Nah, he caught

1543
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 3: him stealing porn, okay, streaming porn.

1544
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 2: Patricia Hill is the first admitted she killed her husband

1545
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 2: after he purchased porn. Now he'll sixty nine, has been

1546
01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 2: arrested in charge of capitol murder after her husband, sixty

1547
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 2: five year old Frank Hill, was found dead. Frank Hill,

1548
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:26,760
Speaker 2: hope is not related to Hank Hill.

1549
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 1: I hope not either. I see he like I'm a

1550
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:30,639
Speaker 1: little older, Bobbie.

1551
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 2: The Jefferson County Shrif's office received at nine one one

1552
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 2: call around three pm Saturday from Patricia Hill herself.

1553
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:39,960
Speaker 3: She told police she had shot her husband.

1554
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:44,840
Speaker 2: Debuties responded and they found Patricia Hill standing in the

1555
01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 2: front yard.

1556
01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 3: She was immediately detained.

1557
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 2: The body of Frank Hill was found on the floor

1558
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:50,719
Speaker 2: inside the utility shed at that home.

1559
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:54,040
Speaker 3: He had suffered two gunshot wounds at least.

1560
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:57,000
Speaker 2: Two oh During an interview with athartist, Patricia Hill said

1561
01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:59,080
Speaker 2: she had arrived home, walked to the utility shed to

1562
01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 2: confroned her husband. She said she disagreed with his purchase

1563
01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:04,280
Speaker 2: of video for Night Free, so she canceled the order.

1564
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:07,720
Speaker 2: Frank Hill managed to place another order. Oh, I see,

1565
01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:08,600
Speaker 2: that's why he fucked up.

1566
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:12,639
Speaker 3: That's see. That's when it went from a mild stabbing

1567
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:14,000
Speaker 3: to two shots.

1568
01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 2: Patricia Hill told investigators that she had asked her husband

1569
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:20,559
Speaker 2: to leave the shed, but he refused.

1570
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 3: This is my masturbating shed and I'm never getting out

1571
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 3: of here, Patricia.

1572
01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 2: You hear me.

1573
01:16:25,640 --> 01:16:28,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Patty. He was like, I'm old and you

1574
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:29,960
Speaker 1: ain't gonna stop. What you're gonna do?

1575
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:32,720
Speaker 3: Woman, you gonna You're gonna I will die. You have

1576
01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 3: to pride this poem for my cold dead hands.

1577
01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:36,560
Speaker 1: He was like, but we gonna arrange that.

1578
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:39,280
Speaker 3: Give me liberty or give me pawn.

1579
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:43,639
Speaker 2: Uh. She then went inside the home, grabbed her twenty

1580
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 2: two caliber pistol, went back to the shed and shot

1581
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:47,599
Speaker 2: her husband twice, hitting.

1582
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 3: Him in their head and the leg.

1583
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:50,360
Speaker 1: Good God did.

1584
01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:52,799
Speaker 3: She returned to a home Call nine one one reported

1585
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 3: to shooting.

1586
01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 2: She's currently being held at the w C dub Brassell

1587
01:16:57,000 --> 01:16:59,320
Speaker 2: All the detention center without bond.

1588
01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 3: Guess the right of Patricia Hill White.

1589
01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:09,800
Speaker 1: But shit, it wasn't that serious. I'll leave your fly brow.

1590
01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:10,839
Speaker 1: Your brain's out.

1591
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:16,240
Speaker 3: For buying porn. Well, did he like just start buying porn?

1592
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 3: I mean, like, why was that so shocking? She had

1593
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:18,840
Speaker 3: to kill this nigga?

1594
01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 4: M you know, like I said, he Oh, so he

1595
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 4: probably didn't have They probably ain't got no whifi at

1596
01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 4: the house, so you know, he probably ordered to box set.

1597
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:28,120
Speaker 3: These niggas be lying. Man, can't be lying to your wife.

1598
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:29,679
Speaker 3: Man to tell the truth. I watched porn.

1599
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:32,160
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe we shouldn't get married if you can't handle this,

1600
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:35,679
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna be watching it, right And she niggas

1601
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:37,560
Speaker 2: be lying their whole life and finally get caught in

1602
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:40,639
Speaker 2: the back cave at fucking seventy five and now you're dead.

1603
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 3: She called out on one White she was cooking upset White.

1604
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:48,639
Speaker 3: She called the police on herself. White sounds white cut

1605
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:49,479
Speaker 3: queen White.

1606
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 2: Oh man, I guess nobody thought it was the BBC,

1607
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 2: so the correct answer is white.

1608
01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:08,559
Speaker 1: Someone said it has take no poem Patty White, right.

1609
01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:12,800
Speaker 2: Right, pornography, no poem. Yeah, she was down on the

1610
01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 2: porm man, that dude. Also, what a horrible way to

1611
01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:18,000
Speaker 2: find out, like your granddaddy dead?

1612
01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:20,559
Speaker 3: Right, what happened to whatever?

1613
01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:23,120
Speaker 1: Because it's gonna be all over the news and ship.

1614
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 2: What happened to Grandpaul? Frank Paul Paul, Oh, don't read

1615
01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:30,080
Speaker 2: the news. She just he died in a very tragic way.

1616
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 1: It's just why grandma in jail.

1617
01:18:33,000 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 2: He h he ordered some uh some bang ros and

1618
01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:40,680
Speaker 2: uh now he's dead. All right, Let's go to the

1619
01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 2: bumus round, double up and the rast. That's right, double,

1620
01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 2: the double race and the bonus round. A guest the

1621
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 2: race so far, Karen is two for Twoyay, we'll see

1622
01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:08,680
Speaker 2: if she can keep it all the way up.

1623
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:11,599
Speaker 1: I will try, all right, we'll see.

1624
01:19:14,040 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 3: Let's see how about.

1625
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:19,720
Speaker 5: Uh.

1626
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:25,000
Speaker 3: Gretna doctor was caught on camera finaling a patient.

1627
01:19:25,520 --> 01:19:25,680
Speaker 1: Oh.

1628
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:29,559
Speaker 2: A patient who was suspicious of her doctor's behavior during

1629
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:31,599
Speaker 2: the exam set up a hidden camera during the second

1630
01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:35,439
Speaker 2: visit and caught Gretna physition the Gretna physician finaling her

1631
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:36,400
Speaker 2: breast and genitals.

1632
01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 3: Doctor James Dice.

1633
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 2: Fifty seven was arrested Thursday and booked on two counts

1634
01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:47,799
Speaker 2: of sexual battery and one kind of simple battery. Dice

1635
01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:53,160
Speaker 2: practices internal medicine. His business, Dice Medical Center, is located

1636
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:56,880
Speaker 2: at twelve West Bank Expressway, Gretna, with a satellite office

1637
01:19:56,920 --> 01:20:00,000
Speaker 2: in Slide L. Dice only sees his only patients referred

1638
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 2: to him by attorneys.

1639
01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:02,840
Speaker 3: Okay.

1640
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:07,519
Speaker 2: The victim of thirty five year old woman told police

1641
01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:10,639
Speaker 2: she felt Dice may inappropriate sexual advances towards her during.

1642
01:20:10,479 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 3: The previous visit for back issues.

1643
01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 2: At her next appointment, the woman set up her cell

1644
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 2: phone in her purse to record video the exam.

1645
01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 3: She presented us with video of him following her by

1646
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:22,760
Speaker 3: the way. She knew they wouldn't believe her unless she

1647
01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:24,880
Speaker 3: had video, right, let me tell you a lot.

1648
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 2: Based on her complaint and the video, detectives obtained a

1649
01:20:27,960 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 2: warrant for his arrest.

1650
01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 3: They took him into custody.

1651
01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 2: He declined to speak with investigators, according to Lawson on

1652
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:37,600
Speaker 2: Monday that he directed questions about the matter with to

1653
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:43,000
Speaker 2: his attorneys. They declined to comment. He's booked in Jameson

1654
01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:45,439
Speaker 2: Parish Correctional Center, but it was at least the same

1655
01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:50,439
Speaker 2: day oh, twenty five hundred dollars bond. Guess the race

1656
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:51,960
Speaker 2: of doctor James Dice.

1657
01:20:53,280 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 1: The dice was white. The Dice man, Oh, I guess

1658
01:21:02,320 --> 01:21:03,519
Speaker 1: he wrote that nigg eyes.

1659
01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:07,760
Speaker 2: A plus d says that dicey motherfucker is white. A

1660
01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:10,080
Speaker 2: your tits catch these hands?

1661
01:21:10,120 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 3: White?

1662
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:19,599
Speaker 2: Doctor Strange white, white. Yeah, released the same day white.

1663
01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:22,599
Speaker 2: Everybody's going white on this. It's three whites in a row,

1664
01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 2: and you guys are all correct.

1665
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 3: Damn. Yeah, that's from like speaking of ordering Port.

1666
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 2: That dude thinks life is Oh, you can't just grab

1667
01:21:45,240 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 2: no and look at him, don't finally want him to

1668
01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 2: grab anyway, right, Not that it's Bill.

1669
01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:52,360
Speaker 4: Okay is attractive, but he looked like the beginning of

1670
01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 4: them people that were like, I need the headline for men.

1671
01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:58,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, he definitely wasn't confused, if you know what I'm saying. Oh,

1672
01:21:58,760 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 3: I just thought she was really too, really into it.

1673
01:22:01,720 --> 01:22:03,880
Speaker 3: I had no idea that.

1674
01:22:05,640 --> 01:22:08,560
Speaker 1: She was going to record it. He probably did that

1675
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:11,519
Speaker 1: to a lot of other women. She was not the

1676
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:12,240
Speaker 1: first person.

1677
01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 3: All right, well, do one more?

1678
01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:17,120
Speaker 2: Okay, since we yay, all right, here we go. This

1679
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:20,559
Speaker 2: is the fourth one, Karen, the bonus one for all

1680
01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:24,080
Speaker 2: the marbles. A woman spends hours at a Harvey bar

1681
01:22:24,200 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 2: without ordering to drink, and then it comes back to

1682
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:26,519
Speaker 2: rob it.

1683
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:28,439
Speaker 9: Yeah.

1684
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:37,080
Speaker 2: Jefferson Pairs Sheriff's Office, New Orleans, Great arrested woman.

1685
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:40,560
Speaker 3: Accused of robbing a Harvey bar at gunpoint.

1686
01:22:41,200 --> 01:22:46,759
Speaker 2: Levonzel Jordan, twenty eight, of Marrero, was booked Tuesday morning

1687
01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:48,600
Speaker 2: with armed robbery.

1688
01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:49,519
Speaker 3: And a legal drug possession.

1689
01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:54,400
Speaker 2: According to Lieutenant Jason Rivard, spokesman for the department, She's

1690
01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 2: accused of a July sixteenth hold up at Peggy Sue's Lounge.

1691
01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:04,240
Speaker 2: Peggas Sus investigators also arrested Jordan's alleged accomplished, Kelly Bellinger,

1692
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:06,560
Speaker 2: thirty one. I don't know their race, their pictures in

1693
01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:09,599
Speaker 2: their hair. Bellinger is accused of acting as the getaway driver.

1694
01:23:09,880 --> 01:23:12,160
Speaker 2: A female bartender at the business told investigator she was

1695
01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:14,639
Speaker 2: cleaning up around eleven forty five pm when a person

1696
01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 2: wearing a Great Ski mask walked into the bar, pulled

1697
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:19,760
Speaker 2: out a pistol, and demanded money. According to authorities, the

1698
01:23:19,840 --> 01:23:22,639
Speaker 2: robber walked behind the bar and pistol whipped the bartender.

1699
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:25,720
Speaker 3: The bartender fought back, starting.

1700
01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 2: To tussle that ended with the robber kicking the woman

1701
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:30,439
Speaker 2: in their head several times and ordered her into the restaurant. Meanwhile,

1702
01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:32,840
Speaker 2: a witness outside who spied the ski masks class rober

1703
01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 2: walked into the bar, told deputies she decided to go

1704
01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:36,759
Speaker 2: in and confront the suspect.

1705
01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's brave of you to not call the police.

1706
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:43,719
Speaker 2: The witness said she turned around and headed back outside

1707
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:45,200
Speaker 2: the bar when the r and robber told her to

1708
01:23:45,280 --> 01:23:46,080
Speaker 2: get the fuck out.

1709
01:23:47,439 --> 01:23:49,600
Speaker 3: Hey, can hell get the fuck out? Okay, well, so

1710
01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:50,120
Speaker 3: I tried.

1711
01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:52,439
Speaker 2: The robber made off with an undisclosed amount of cash

1712
01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:55,679
Speaker 2: from the business at the bartender. Detectives reviewed the surveillors

1713
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:58,599
Speaker 2: video from the business and learned from other witnesses that Jordan,

1714
01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:02,559
Speaker 2: who massed the physical descript description of the robber, spent

1715
01:24:02,760 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 2: several hours in the bar earlier in the evening without

1716
01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:07,320
Speaker 2: ordering to drink suspicious much.

1717
01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 1: Not a food, not an appetizer. I mean, you just

1718
01:24:11,280 --> 01:24:11,760
Speaker 1: sat down.

1719
01:24:13,040 --> 01:24:16,280
Speaker 2: Detective Stephen Keller identified Jordan as a robbery suspect and

1720
01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:17,639
Speaker 2: obtained a warrant for her arrest.

1721
01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:19,599
Speaker 3: She was taken into custody Monday night.

1722
01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:23,080
Speaker 2: Bellinger was arrested Monday and booked with theft an obstruction

1723
01:24:23,200 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 2: of justice to obstruction charged them from allegations she tried

1724
01:24:26,000 --> 01:24:29,599
Speaker 2: to destroy evidence. Jordan was booked in the parish Jefferson

1725
01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:34,639
Speaker 2: Parish Correctional Center in Gretna, where she was still being

1726
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,280
Speaker 2: held in LIU two hundred and five thousand dollars bond.

1727
01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:43,120
Speaker 3: Guess the race of Levonzel Jordan Lavonzie.

1728
01:24:43,320 --> 01:24:44,040
Speaker 1: That's a Negro.

1729
01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:46,160
Speaker 2: All right, Let's check the chat room and see what

1730
01:24:46,240 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 2: they believe. Ralph Angel's next baby Mama Black. Oh, it's

1731
01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 2: fard set it off. Black was able to set it off.

1732
01:24:58,720 --> 01:25:00,800
Speaker 2: Was able to stay at the bar all night without

1733
01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:02,360
Speaker 2: buying a drink. That's some nick shit.

1734
01:25:02,520 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 3: Black.

1735
01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:06,200
Speaker 2: She also did not tip and complained about how much

1736
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:07,880
Speaker 2: alcohol was in the drink she didn't order.

1737
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 3: She wouldn't have tipped anyway. Black, Levonzel, she must. Why

1738
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:13,320
Speaker 3: am I all on that? I just said to say?

1739
01:25:13,400 --> 01:25:13,559
Speaker 5: Joe?

1740
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:15,439
Speaker 3: She must? She must?

1741
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:20,599
Speaker 2: She must be a nig. Black sounds like les shot black.

1742
01:25:20,800 --> 01:25:41,080
Speaker 2: The correct esser is black. She doesn't look too pressed

1743
01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 2: for a thief.

1744
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:42,200
Speaker 5: She just like.

1745
01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:45,639
Speaker 3: People get caught anyway.

1746
01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 2: How's everything going to here in jail, guys, tough crowd,

1747
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:54,040
Speaker 2: All right, let's get to the story of ratchetness.

1748
01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 3: Oh wait, I scrolled down too far. Now here we go?

1749
01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:14,640
Speaker 1: Is that Papa John's gonna be fighting Papa John's over

1750
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:15,080
Speaker 1: that money?

1751
01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:25,320
Speaker 3: Then I guess somebody's gonna get sliced.

1752
01:26:35,560 --> 01:26:37,680
Speaker 1: Either way it goes. Nobody's gonna walk away with a

1753
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:38,320
Speaker 1: whole pie.

1754
01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:49,240
Speaker 3: They just gotta get their piece of the prophets.

1755
01:26:55,560 --> 01:26:58,160
Speaker 1: See, that's what happened. When you don't get hand tossed.

1756
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:04,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what that.

1757
01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:07,960
Speaker 1: Oh like throwing hands tossing?

1758
01:27:08,120 --> 01:27:11,960
Speaker 3: Oh so you don't want to see these hands or something?

1759
01:27:12,120 --> 01:27:14,040
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I praised it badley.

1760
01:27:14,240 --> 01:27:14,719
Speaker 3: That's fine.

1761
01:27:14,840 --> 01:27:17,639
Speaker 2: You knew there was something there, Yes, I did. Yeah,

1762
01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:20,160
Speaker 2: And honestly, when you get going like that, there's no

1763
01:27:20,880 --> 01:27:21,840
Speaker 2: toppings it.

1764
01:27:28,200 --> 01:27:29,320
Speaker 5: All right, Let's move on.

1765
01:27:30,520 --> 01:27:31,759
Speaker 3: Jokes are getting crusty.

1766
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:41,599
Speaker 2: A naked Munsey man held hostage with shower rod after

1767
01:27:41,680 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 2: being attacked by samurai sword. A twenty five year old

1768
01:27:44,920 --> 01:27:47,479
Speaker 2: Monsey man's accused of holding another man hostage after attacking

1769
01:27:47,560 --> 01:27:51,080
Speaker 2: with a samurai sword. Monsey Police Department officers arrested Justin

1770
01:27:51,160 --> 01:27:54,839
Speaker 2: Shills guess to raise White early Wednesday morning after responding

1771
01:27:54,840 --> 01:27:55,720
Speaker 2: to a domestic call.

1772
01:27:56,439 --> 01:27:58,080
Speaker 3: According to court docments.

1773
01:27:57,760 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 2: The arriving officer found Shills standing in the bathroom at

1774
01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:04,640
Speaker 2: the bathroom door, and naked oh right standing at the

1775
01:28:04,680 --> 01:28:07,280
Speaker 2: bathroom door, and a naked, bleeding man heldled in the shower.

1776
01:28:07,760 --> 01:28:09,800
Speaker 2: The man said Shields had stabbed him and then kept

1777
01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:12,760
Speaker 2: him in the bathroom with a shower rod. Shields faced

1778
01:28:12,840 --> 01:28:15,960
Speaker 2: multiple charge accusing battery with a daily weapon and criminal confinement.

1779
01:28:17,120 --> 01:28:21,120
Speaker 3: Damn, how did they even find How did they know

1780
01:28:21,680 --> 01:28:22,320
Speaker 3: to get there?

1781
01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:26,839
Speaker 1: Didn't have the iPhone?

1782
01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:29,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, like they didn't even say how they knew?

1783
01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:30,479
Speaker 5: What the fuck?

1784
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:34,240
Speaker 2: How to get to that that something was happening. Somebody

1785
01:28:34,320 --> 01:28:38,040
Speaker 2: must have overheard it or something. I don't know anyway, guys,

1786
01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:40,720
Speaker 2: thank you so much for coming out to.

1787
01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:45,040
Speaker 3: Our ted talk. All right, We appreciate y'all. We'll be

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01:28:45,240 --> 01:28:48,800
Speaker 3: back tomorrow. Until then, I love you.