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Speaker 1: Hi am Kate Hudson, and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and

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Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling, railvalry. No, no, sibling.

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Speaker 1: You don't do that with your mouth, si Vely. That's good.

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Speaker 1: It was very interesting to have this next family that

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Speaker 1: we spoke to on the phone because they are on

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Speaker 1: the other end of the horrors of which this virus

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Speaker 1: and at the very beginning, as many people know, Nick

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Speaker 1: Cordero passed away from complications of Corona virus of COVID

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Speaker 1: nineteen and we got to speak with Amanda Clutes and

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Speaker 1: her sister and brother about not only that time and

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Speaker 1: how devastating it all was, but the importance of the

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Speaker 1: family and the family coming together and the silver linings

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Speaker 1: of it too. I mean, Amanda seemed to be a

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Speaker 1: big silver lining girl, which was interesting. You know, all

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Speaker 1: How she deals with the grief is to try to

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Speaker 1: really find the silver lining. Yeah, and you know, connecting

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Speaker 1: it to siblings. Her greatest silver lining was that she

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Speaker 1: got to reconnect be with her siblings, live under the

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Speaker 1: same roof, and her family the closeness that they always had.

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Speaker 1: Really even though they were all you know, they get

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Speaker 1: into all this, but they've always had they were always

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Speaker 1: super solid and had each other's back forever. You know,

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Speaker 1: them altogether. And then it really did highlight the importance

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Speaker 1: a loss of a partner, husband, the father of her child,

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Speaker 1: and how they pick up, you know, and her brother

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Speaker 1: really taking on that sort of really supportive role, male

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Speaker 1: role and wanting to be there for his sister. I

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Speaker 1: got off of the episode and I just cried because

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Speaker 1: I think that the human spirit is so it's so strong,

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Speaker 1: it's so resilient, and there's this family is such a

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Speaker 1: wonderful symbol of that that we can we can have

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Speaker 1: the most devastating tragic things happen and then we can heal,

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Speaker 1: or we can at least attempt to look at something

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Speaker 1: positive moving forward and move forward with love. And grace,

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Speaker 1: And I just feel like that's what she and her

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Speaker 1: faith played a big part in that, you know. I

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Speaker 1: mean she's a she has a lot of faith. She's

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Speaker 1: and that's a powerful, powerful thing. Whatever you're believing in

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter, just the faith, faith that there is something bigger.

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Speaker 1: You know, that there is something out there, something that

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Speaker 1: just give me something to believe in? Wow, what what

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Speaker 1: a call in? Nollie? What are you? What is that? Game?

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Speaker 1: Is something to believe in? Yeah? Warrant is it? No,

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Speaker 1: it's not warrant, It's it's up on Jovi. It is

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Speaker 1: again missing to believe in? Is the White Sneak or

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Speaker 1: or Motley? I mean one of one of them will

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Speaker 1: work for me, you know, mm hmm. We need to

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Speaker 1: just get to the course. I know we will still

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Speaker 1: too long. People are loving this right now, I guarantee

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Speaker 1: they're like they're they just want us to get to

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Speaker 1: the chorus. Ali, the people just want to hear go

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Speaker 1: D give something to believe in. No, it's great, let's go. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so this this episode was absolutely beautiful. I

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Speaker 1: loved it. I'm so grateful for them coming on and

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Speaker 1: sharing their story with us, their family, and and also

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Speaker 1: opening up about her loss and and Elvis's loss, and

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Speaker 1: know with four four sisters I know. I said to them,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you're like Derek Huff. It's like the Huts,

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Speaker 1: right they they're totally mirrored, you know. Anyway, please everybody

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Speaker 1: enjoy This is Anna Todd and Amanda Cleats. Hi, Hi God,

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Speaker 1: it's nice to see you again. Nice to see you too.

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Speaker 1: I think I just want to by saying I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: I did Creature. You're going back to Paris. You're in

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Speaker 1: Congratulations on that. That'll be so awesome and it'll be

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Speaker 1: little bit about your travels. That's just I want. I

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do whatever I want. I don't care what

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Speaker 1: Where's everyone else had like the focus on like making

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Speaker 1: their job and their thing in the It's like so typical.

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Speaker 1: Here's a good story. It would be like the dead

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00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,760
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Speaker 1: like blizzards and my sister Alison, who lived like a

482
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: couple of blocks from me, would send me a picture

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Speaker 1: of Anna in the Maldives and a hammock, being like

484
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: life is so wonderful, And she texted me. She'd be like,

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00:30:52,600 --> 00:31:01,719
Speaker 1: good morning, and I'd be like, and you know what

486
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: I love, Todd is that you're the older brother. What

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00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: does that feel like for you? Do you feel a

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Speaker 1: paternal kind of feeling more towards your sisters than sibling? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I do. It's definitely something has obviously evolved as we've

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00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: all gotten older, Like I feel like we're obviously siblings.

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Speaker 1: As we've gotten older, we've become like of it, like

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Speaker 1: the best of friends. But then especially like recently, yeah,

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00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: like even more of like paternal kind of like instincts

494
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: kick in for sure. Well, Todd the all dad too.

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00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: He's like the best dad in the entire world to

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Speaker 1: his two boys. Oh thanks, and he's like the most

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Speaker 1: caring Like Todd took care of the two of us

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00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: all summer, Like would wake up and bring us coffees

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00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: and they'd be like lattes, like warm lattes waiting when

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00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: Amanda and I got up, because he got up for

501
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: us like anything. It wasn't all like please help, like

502
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: we don't know. Yesterday our tire pressure was well, we

503
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: were like, call Tod, what does this mean? To do

504
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: funny too, because like during quarantine, I felt like a

505
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: lot of the paternal stuff was also like definitely me

506
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: taking things that my were things that when we were

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00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,959
Speaker 1: growing up that my dad did, and they were they

508
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: were like directly translating into our life when we were

509
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: living together this summer because it was like these two

510
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: girls packages were constantly arriving at the house like it

511
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: was insane, and there was only so many like boxes

512
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: that we could fit in the recycle bent into like

513
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: every day like had this ritual of like chopping up

514
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: cardboard boxes and it just like harken back to when

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00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 1: we were little and my dad was like he had

516
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: this like weekly ritual of like the trash compaction that

517
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: he would do and he would always come back and

518
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: be like, oh man, I just wish that people would

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00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: do a better job of putting stuff in the trash. Right,

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00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: So I didn't do this job every week. So Todd,

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00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: you went you left first, So where did you go

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00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: to college? I went to college in Miami, Miami University

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Speaker 1: of Ohio, so southern Ohio, just north of Cincinnati And

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Speaker 1: when you left, what was that like for all the girls?

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00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: We all sobbed. We drove home our giant family conversion van.

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00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was a bus to fit all of us. Gladiator.

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00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: It's a gladiator across the town. We used to fight

528
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: over who in the captain's chairs, the two in the back.

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Speaker 1: There was a TV in it. We would go from that.

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Speaker 1: In that van, we would drive two days from Ohio

531
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 1: to Florida or Ohio to North Carolina for summer vacation

532
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: every year, and like that was one of the most

533
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: like the biggest things to fight over was who got

534
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: the captain's chair for sure? Wow, I'm dealing with that

535
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: right now, like shotgun and oh yeah, I mean the

536
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: ship captain's chair. By the way, it was, I was

537
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: never I could call it. It didn't matter you were

538
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: the captain's chair, exactly. I don't deserve a captain's chair.

539
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 1: When we pulled away and left pod at college, it

540
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: was so sad. I will never forget this. We all

541
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: have like faces planted to the back window. And Todd

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00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: was standing on the steps of Dennison what was it

543
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 1: called Dennison And he's like weaving to us in his

544
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: oversized khakis and we're like hearing at him sobbing sobbings

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00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 1: as we drove away my mom and dad, who never cries. Yeah,

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00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, that's one of the first times

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00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: I remember seeing dad cry. Was that day that like

548
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 1: really got to me. Oh members one by one. This

549
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: happened when Amanda left and we took a man out

550
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: of college. It was just me. I cried the whole

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00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: next week. And then I got a puppy out of it.

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00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, because then four, I mean, I have to say,

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00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 1: you know, Anna it is. And then all of a sudden,

554
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: Ia goes to colleges and then it's all like they're

555
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: just dropping like flies, like everyone's going to college like

556
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: one year or the next year. And then it's like,

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00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: oh no. And then one by one my mom started

558
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: replacing us with dogs. By the time we were all gone,

559
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 1: my mom had three dogs and no children at home.

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00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: So growing growing up where they're because there were five

561
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: of you were there clicks, you know, it was like, oh,

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00:35:55,280 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: we're a little crew, were hanging out together. There's exclusion

563
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 1: in an inclusion. Maybe that changed, you know, throughout the years,

564
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 1: or God would have a sign on his door, do

565
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,240
Speaker 1: not enter. We couldn't. Todd did not want us around

566
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: at all. Ali and Tracy my two older sisters. They

567
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: were a clique for a while and they would sometimes

568
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: let me in. But I was three years younger than Ali,

569
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: so Allie is always trying to be cool for Tracy.

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00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 1: So they only really let me in when they needed

571
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: like a minion, and so then I would be allowed in,

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00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,479
Speaker 1: But then they would then if they were in a fight,

573
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,959
Speaker 1: then they would one of them would take me as

574
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: like their buddy. One would be alone. I was never

575
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 1: anyone's click except Tracy. Sometimes would take me on what

576
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: she called best friend days, because Tracy was always very

577
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 1: maternal towards me. She me and Tracy are ten years

578
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 1: so Tracy would take me on, like let's go on

579
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 1: best friend days, and me and Tracy had our own

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00:36:56,000 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: little handshake and we would like do little days. How

581
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: secret isn't that how secret breakfast got invented? Secret breakfast? Yeah,

582
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: Tracy took you on a best friend morning and it

583
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: was a secret breakfast morning. You took photos of it, remember,

584
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: because I still carried that pressure on with my kids.

585
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: Oh what is it? I want to know you? You

586
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: before you go to bed, like I'll one of my boys.

587
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 1: I'll be like, dude, secret breakfast tomorrow, just you and me,

588
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 1: and then they wake up early, they wake me up,

589
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 1: and then we go and have secret breakfast alone. And

590
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: the legend that I've told them is that Anna and

591
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: Tracy invented this. When Tracy was in college. She would

592
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: come home and she had missed Anna, and so she's like,

593
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: you and you and me will go to secret breakfast together.

594
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: That's a good that's a great idea, you know. I

595
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 1: mean I do dates. I'll take my daughter on dates,

596
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 1: going to dates, of course, because I started with that's right,

597
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 1: So you can't take that for Oliver. That was that's

598
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 1: a family ession, as like Paul used to take me

599
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: on dates and I'd get to pick where I wanted

600
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: to go, and then Mom would take ol of her. No, no, no,

601
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: I would take mom. Oh right right, right right? Yeah.

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00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 1: I mean not that I would pay or drive because

603
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: I was like five years old. But you know, wait,

604
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: so now, Amanda, you wait, so you would all guys

605
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Speaker 1: did bad, But when did you start dancing? I started

606
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: dancing at the middle school that we all went to

607
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 1: that had arts. So that was in sixth grade. No,

608
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: fourth grade, I started dancing, so like ten or eleven

609
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: years old, and then was the dedication to dance for

610
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: you your own or was it also kind of you know,

611
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: because I know for me it was like once I

612
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: got to like thirteen fourteen, I was like, I'm not

613
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: going to dance class. My Mom's like like, hell, you're

614
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: not going to dance class. You're going to dance class,

615
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: you know. No, I fell in love with it. So

616
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: I started in fourth grade. And then around sixth grade,

617
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: my dance teacher was like, you know, you might you

618
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,479
Speaker 1: might be able to do something with this, and I did,

619
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: like my first performance, and I remember doing my first performance,

620
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,959
Speaker 1: which ironically was to Elvis Presley's Jail House Rock and

621
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: it was a tap dance, and I remember being on

622
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: stage being like, I want to do this for the

623
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: rest of my life. And then I wrote an essay

624
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: like in sixth grade about how I'm I'm going to

625
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: be on Broadway and be a radio city rocket. You

626
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 1: love the manifestation of like how you because I mean,

627
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I had the same thing as like

628
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: I just knew. I was just like this is what

629
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do. But how fun. Oh my god, that's

630
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 1: so awesome. We see audition process for that. Yeah, audition

631
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: process is great. It's brutal. The so I auditioned a

632
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: couple of times, didn't get it. The third time I

633
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: went in. You know, they have these like tours, So

634
00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,799
Speaker 1: I auditioned for the tours first, and then the third

635
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Speaker 1: time my audition was for the actual radio city, like

636
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Speaker 1: the Truth, the you know the girls that are there.

637
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Speaker 1: And I went to an open call. There were a

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Speaker 1: thousand girls, they had twelve. It was over two days,

639
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Speaker 1: from ten to six pm. And this would never happen today.

640
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Speaker 1: But when I auditioned, the last like half hour of

641
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Speaker 1: the audition, we stood in a line and you had

642
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Speaker 1: to step forward in your perfect level and you had

643
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Speaker 1: to just stand there and they like just walked around you,

644
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Speaker 1: just like looking you up and down and you had

645
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Speaker 1: to stand there like just perfectly. I mean that never

646
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: that would never happen now. But but yeah, that was

647
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Speaker 1: a two day process. Like I said, a thousand girls

648
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Speaker 1: they needed twelve. It's very it was it's a lot,

649
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 1: and it's you know, you have you can't make a mistake.

650
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: You have to be perfect and sharp, and uh, it's

651
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Speaker 1: and show that you can dance with other people and

652
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Speaker 1: blend in because it's not about being you know, broadways

653
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 1: about like having your own personality and your own flair.

654
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: And they hire Anna because of she's Anna, and they

655
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 1: hire me because I'm me. Rockets. You're hired because you

656
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 1: can fit into a line. So it's a little bit different.

657
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,359
Speaker 1: Leg right where it's supposed to be. If it's not,

658
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: you're out. So let me answer a question though, do

659
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Speaker 1: you have to measure your leg? Like do you have

660
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: to know exactly where to kick? Like how do you know?

661
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: I mean, is it like right to your shoulder and

662
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: then stop? Or you know the eye high? So like

663
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: where your toe has to go to your eye, so

664
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: it can't go above and it can't go below. It

665
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: has to go right to your eye. And the tallest

666
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: girls are in the center of the line, so I

667
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: was the tallest, and then the shorter girls are on

668
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 1: the end. It gives the illusion that the line's the same,

669
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: that everyone's the same height. But as long as everyone

670
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: kicks to their eye, it also gives the illusion that

671
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: we're all kicking at the same height. So fun, you

672
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 1: know what the rocket thing? If you're if you love dance.

673
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: It's it's just it's sort of just like a you know,

674
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: it's like if you could be a roquette, like even

675
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: for a minute. It's sort of like one of those

676
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: accomplishments that you're like, oh my god, I can't believe

677
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: I did it well. And our dad, our dad took

678
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: us to New York, the whole family to New York

679
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: and saw the christ Show and the Easter Show. And

680
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: then that's when I was like, I want to be

681
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: a rocket. And then my opening night, the opening number

682
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: was the girls Flapped out of the Christmas Tree and

683
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: it was to Happy Holidays, and my mom and dad

684
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: and my whole family were like right there and wow,

685
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: out of the tree and like, my opening does it pay? It?

686
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 1: Does it pay anything? He does know, it's play really well.

687
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: They give you scholarship money, they give you an really insurance.

688
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: They have pt on the top floor. You can get

689
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: physical therapy every single day, which you do you sit

690
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: in ice tubs, like I mean, they take really good

691
00:42:55,160 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: care of you. Yeah, awesome. Well, I know going after

692
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:08,840
Speaker 1: this year. Our parents, especially Dad, like Dad, anytime he

693
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: introduces Amanda to anyone ever, he's like, you know, Amanda,

694
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: was a radio City rocket. It was like the thing

695
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: the problem, like, it's such a rocket Ford Todd. How

696
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: did you deal with all this, especially with sisters and

697
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 1: boys and your sister's a roquette and your friends? I mean,

698
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: was ever like hey dude, your sister is a roquette,

699
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 1: Like she's hot. I mean, did you have to deal

700
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: with that guy stuff that I had to deal with

701
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: my sister being like hey man, like Kate, I'm like,

702
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: ah no, let's not go there. Yeah. In high school, definitely,

703
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: there were some of my best guy friends who were

704
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 1: after my oldest sister, Tracy, and they would be like,

705
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: you know, I'd always knew it was coming because there

706
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: was like some sort of like awkward sort of like

707
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: he so, you know, is it cool if I asked

708
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: your sister to homecoming or asked your sister out on

709
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:12,240
Speaker 1: a day, so like yeah, that that happened several times.

710
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 1: It was weird. It was even weirder when my sisters

711
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 1: weren't into the student and I'd have to be like

712
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: the giver the news. Oh you were that brother. My

713
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:27,879
Speaker 1: brother would never do that. What you like, let down

714
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 1: the guy easy, No, he's yeah, yeah, Oliver. You felt

715
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: you didn't know, you didn't need it. You just tell

716
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: me Anna, you went to college and you went to

717
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: New York. Amanda's there, but you're seven and a half

718
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: year years difference was it? Like? First of all, where

719
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: did you go to college? I went to f I

720
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: T I went to the fashions your technology. So I

721
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: had decided that I wanted to go to New York

722
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: because we started going to New York as kids and

723
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 1: then kept going. And then once Amanda was there for college,

724
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: we were going up all the time to see her,

725
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: like reviews and things she was doing. So New York

726
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: just started to feel like home, and I was like,

727
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: I want to go to school here too. And then

728
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: it basically as soon as I got there, we just

729
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: started hanging out all the time. I basically I have

730
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: two friends from all of college because I just didn't

731
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: even try to make friends on campus. I was like,

732
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: I have a sister who lives uptown. Why would I

733
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 1: need new people? So, and then you are aware at

734
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: this point there were just the two of us were

735
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: there at that point, right, Ali was in DC still,

736
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: was she? Yeah? Those early years, I don't think Ali,

737
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah. Allie came later Yeah, we were there

738
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: together alone for a couple of years all the time,

739
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: would like go up to Amanda's house and sleep there

740
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: and hung out all the time. And it was nice

741
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: because she also was on this weird, you know, not

742
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 1: normal nine to five schedule and that never ended. Like

743
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: the whole time we were new together, we would always

744
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 1: be both on this like unconventional work schedule and would

745
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 1: just we would always call each other and go, what doing,

746
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Anything? Want to hang out these

747
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: weird fun days of fun. Was everyone super supportive of

748
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,439
Speaker 1: each other, you know, or was there ever any sort

749
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: of jealousies or you need to be doing this or

750
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 1: I wish you were doing that? Now? Everyone was really supportive. Yeah,

751
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,280
Speaker 1: really supportive. And we've all like lived together, like Todd

752
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: and Tracy live together. Ali and Tracy live together. I

753
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: lived with Ali for a long time. I've also kind

754
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: of lived with Biggie, I mean me, Biggie and Amanda

755
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: have now lived together. We've lived together now. Yeah, we

756
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 1: and we all really it's very odd. We all really

757
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: get along and love each other a lot. Yeah, that's awesome, Kate.

758
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: We got to figure this out because we never did it.

759
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: We never did any of this stuff. You know, I

760
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 1: feel like we're close, but a lot of people are closer,

761
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like we're doing

762
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: just fine. I have plenty of you and I don't

763
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: need more, exactly, that's exactly. But we're totally fine. Like

764
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 1: it's all good and all right. But if you need more, Oliver,

765
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: I want you to be happy. I'm here for you.

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848
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,720
Speaker 1: And that's kind of what sparked me moving to Paris

849
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: in January. I kind of had to figure out my

850
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 1: whole life again, because it was I was living in

851
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,760
Speaker 1: New York with my ex husband and I was working

852
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 1: for him, and so I suddenly kind of was like,

853
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: I have nowhere to live in no job, and so

854
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to moved to Paris, Like

855
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,760
Speaker 1: that was always my dream, and like if I wouldn't

856
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 1: have led this life that's now over, what will my

857
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 1: life have looked like if I just went for my

858
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 1: own dad. So that's why I moved to France. Anna

859
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: tell this story of your final zoom call under the

860
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 1: sparkling pink Eiffel Tower because of because of obviously COVID

861
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: courts aren't open, so I would have had to go

862
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 1: to Ohio to finalize this divorce and like in court

863
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 1: and like sit there as the judge like with her gavel.

864
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 1: But it happened on zoom and it was scheduled for

865
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: October first. But I already had plans on October first

866
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: to go watch the Eifel Tower because it was pink

867
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,919
Speaker 1: for one night only for breast cancer awareness, and pink

868
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: is like my favorite color and it's like me and

869
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 1: I love Eiffle Tower, and so I was like, I'm

870
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,800
Speaker 1: just going to do my zoom at the Eiffel Tower.

871
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm not going to miss the pink Eiffel Tower. So

872
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,959
Speaker 1: I was on zoom like getting divorced with the pink

873
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: Eiffel Tower sparkling at my background. Wow, and the judge

874
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: was loving it. The judge was like, no Canoe from

875
00:53:56,600 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: Paris And I was like, hi, your honor in the

876
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:06,880
Speaker 1: store last night, like so she was like okay, like

877
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: you have to stay your name and where you live.

878
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm Anacoutes. I live in Paris, France.

879
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,919
Speaker 1: And I was like and then we would just say

880
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: like you know all the things and raise our hands

881
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: and like the Eiffel Tower sparkling me. And she's like okay,

882
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 1: like it's final, like we'll get the paperwork in thirty days,

883
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 1: and she goes go enjoy Paris, Anna, and I was like,

884
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:31,920
Speaker 1: thank you, you're honor. I was like, I love that.

885
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 1: The judge was like living vicariously through you, like there

886
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: was a part was a female judge of course. Yeah.

887
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: She was like I love this. She's like, I'm a

888
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:46,360
Speaker 1: divorce I'm in Paris. Yeah, oh yeah, oh god, oh

889
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: I feel like I want to be Anna when I

890
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: grow up. Y'all, Oliver, we all do you guys have

891
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,799
Speaker 1: been through everything. It sounds like Todd, you are with

892
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: two children. I'm assuming and my sons are named Oliver

893
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:14,400
Speaker 1: and Hudson. What Oliver, let it get to your head. Wow,

894
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 1: take it in and let it amazing, Take it in

895
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:24,800
Speaker 1: and let it go. That's half hour on this. This

896
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 1: is amazing. This is a beautiful day for me. Hey, Todd,

897
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 1: thank you. He was a huge fan of rules of

898
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: engagement and you know that's right. How old are the boys?

899
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 1: The boys are eleven and nine. But honestly, you know,

900
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: you guys, it's funny like we talk about this and

901
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: you've been through everything, I mean, religious weddings, divorces, the

902
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: terrible tragedy, and I wonder have you seen your sibling

903
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: bonds change through these years or do you feel that

904
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: you've always had that are now more than ever that

905
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: the bond is as tight. No, o, Kate, I think

906
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: you're so right. Like, I mean, this goes back to

907
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: when we were kids and it was like, you know,

908
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: if Tracy had a choir concert, we all went to

909
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: support Tracy. If you know, Todd had a piano recital,

910
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,839
Speaker 1: we were all there to support. If I had if

911
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 1: I had a show, everybody came. It was like and

912
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: there was no like, well, but my best friend asked

913
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: me to go to a movie. It was like no,

914
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: and you didn't even want to go with your best

915
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: friend of the movie because you were like, no, Todd

916
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: has a piano recidle, like we're all gone. And I

917
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: think like that was just instilled in us in like

918
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: that young age. It was like this family unit and

919
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: I think it and you know, even like what what what?

920
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: What just happened? It was like as soon as Nick

921
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 1: got sick, Anna was in Ohio, Tom was in San Francisco.

922
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:57,399
Speaker 1: Todd's like, I'm on my way, I'm in my car,

923
00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: I'm driving, and Anna was like, Amanda, as soon as

924
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 1: I can get there, I'm there, and it was just

925
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 1: like it's bad. It's like, yeah, we have each other's backs.

926
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:06,799
Speaker 1: Our parents taught us that though they were like, you

927
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 1: are family, We take care of each other. We prioritize

928
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,839
Speaker 1: each other like your family are the only ones who

929
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 1: at the end of the day have to be your family,

930
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: Like you're never going to get rid of them, This

931
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 1: is always your sister. And when we would fight, we

932
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: had to read Versus from the Bible and apologize to

933
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: each other, like we weren't allowed to stay mad. We

934
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: all even like we never the concept of like going

935
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 1: on vacation with a friend or bringing a friend on

936
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 1: vacation did not exist in our family, like we were

937
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: each other's friends. And I experiencing going through all these

938
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 1: hard times together and going through all these hard things

939
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: only strengthen that bond and made us realize like all

940
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: the more like boy, or mom and dad right, Like,

941
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, your siblings will show

942
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: up for you in a way that no one else will,

943
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: and they'll understand you in a way no one else will.

944
00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: And the way we were able to just start naturally

945
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 1: taking care of each other and anticipating each other's needs,

946
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: Like Amanda would come out of the bedroom being like

947
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm starving, and I would be like, I just whipped

948
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: up lunch, and like you can preemptively anticipate what your

949
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: sibling needs because you've lived with them your whole life

950
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: and you know them inside out, and that only exists

951
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: with siblings, and that bond only gets stronger as you

952
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 1: go through these hard times and you realize, like, boy,

953
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: no one is there for me, like my family love that.

954
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: Are you guys? Are you guys brutally honest with each other?

955
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 1: Can you express when you are not liking something? You know,

956
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 1: when when when you've been rubbed the wrong way? Is

957
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 1: the communication between everyone pretty open and the bad even

958
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 1: with the bad stuff? Yeah, I think yes, I think

959
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 1: it starts with another sibling though, like I'll call someone

960
00:58:56,440 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: else to like initially complain to someone else. I'll start

961
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 1: playing with Amanda with biggie, I'll be a biggie. I'll

962
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I know, and then you can usually

963
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: address the person if you need to, but you bet first,

964
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: like check what you're gonna say with another or it'll

965
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 1: happen where then Todd will call me and be like,

966
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: just you know, Annie's mad at you because you did this,

967
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, I didn't mean to do that,

968
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, well, just so you know she's mad.

969
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 1: One other sibling will break the news to you a lot.

970
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: That's you have that thing where like people judge your choices,

971
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: where like one will be like, why is she doing that?

972
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: And I think that that she should. Yes, I don't know, no,

973
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 1: I think sometimes yeah sometimes actually yeah there's yeah, yeah,

974
00:59:56,520 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 1: like uh like Todd was just you know, texting me before.

975
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 1: Are we going on about how Anna's running away from

976
01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: her problems by going to Paris? Like that You're the

977
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 1: only person I felt understand Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

978
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: definitely I think to a certain extent. Yeah, even either

979
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 1: night you said, like me and Ali and Amanda used

980
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: to hang out a lot because we were all in

981
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: New York together, and Amanda the night was like yeah,

982
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: well sometimes we'd all hang out and then you'd leave

983
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 1: and me and Ali would be like, why did she

984
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: just say that? Like what was that about? Yeah, so

985
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: that happened, Anna and Amanda. You are writing a book. Yeah.

986
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 1: So it's a memoir of everything that happened this past

987
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 1: year with starting you know, in March with Nick, and

988
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: then you know, being rescued by Anna and Todd and

989
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: then my family, and and then just going through that

990
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: whole process and the highs and the lows, and there

991
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 1: was a lot I shared on Instagram. There's a mountain

992
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: underneath that no one knows. And so it's all of

993
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 1: that and beautiful, really funny, crazy stories that will make

994
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: you laugh. And then you know the next pager in tears,

995
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: and in writing it, we've you know, when Anna's in Paris.

996
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 1: I finished writing, I put Elvis down for bed, and

997
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: then I usually start writing and then I go to sleep,

998
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 1: and as I'm going to see she's waking up in Paris,

999
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 1: so I'll text her and be like, sister, I'm done.

1000
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: I just finish this chapter and I'm in tears and

1001
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: I can't believe this happened. And then she would wake

1002
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 1: up and she's like man's I know, you know, I

1003
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: was writing something the other day, but I was like

1004
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: laughing because I was remembering us, you know, wearing the

1005
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: like face masks and watching Gilmore Girls, and you're just like,

1006
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 1: you know, so it's just like a mix of everything

1007
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 1: that that time was. We sent Todd the other night.

1008
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 1: Now that we're together, we're reading through it all as

1009
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: like the final to our publisher in December, and we

1010
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 1: sent Todd chapter ten because we read through it and

1011
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: we were laughing because it's just a after about what

1012
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: it's like to live together as siblings for the first

1013
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 1: time in fifteen years. Other people like it was me

1014
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 1: Todd in a manner our spouses are not there and

1015
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: we're just siblings again with a baby. With the baby,

1016
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 1: so it was cated, yeah, cracking up, and it's it's

1017
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 1: we've noticed the book too is a beautiful tribute to

1018
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: to what it's you know, to family and siblings and

1019
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: and you know, Nick's family and Nick's mom, Like it's

1020
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: really just a beautiful tribute to relationships and family bond

1021
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 1: as as much as it is about the story, Like

1022
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: it's it's gonna be great. It's really a beautiful it's

1023
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 1: It's beautiful in so many ways. I look forward to

1024
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: reading it. And Elvis is a is a lucky boy

1025
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 1: to have such great aunties and uncles. Yeah, Elvis took

1026
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: a like to Todd very early on. Todd drove down

1027
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: when we first moved to la in September of gosh,

1028
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:12,840
Speaker 1: what was that twenty nineteen, Nicks, Yeah, you drove down

1029
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: and met Elvis for the first time, and Elvis just

1030
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: like went right to Todd. And so then when Todd

1031
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: came down to live with me in April, it was

1032
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: very cute because Elvis, you know, really, you know, he

1033
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,439
Speaker 1: needs he needs that male energy, you know. And so

1034
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:36,400
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that he has Todd just six hours north,

1035
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 1: because whenever Elvis sees Todd now it's the cutest thing,

1036
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: like run seas like it's so cute, and just goes

1037
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 1: right to Todd and Todd's boys, and it's really really sweet.

1038
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: I feel very lucky to have him there and have

1039
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: such a great uncle. And then Anna is like another

1040
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: mom to him. Man. I still remember that first time

1041
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: meeting Elvis because I got there like just before lunch,

1042
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: and I got to do the like byb naps on

1043
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 1: you thing which was the best, the best, because I

1044
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 1: just oh, it was just like get to beat the

1045
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 1: new nephew and like get to do the baby nap,

1046
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 1: which is uh you You're just like I feel so whole. God,

1047
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: Sunday football with my first kid, and and he would

1048
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 1: just fall asleep on me and I'm watching football. I'm like,

1049
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: it doesn't it doesn't get much better than that right now?

1050
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: Oh God, I just have a question. You know, when

1051
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: you were going through this this sort of oscillation between

1052
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 1: hope and despair, you know, it's like there's hope and

1053
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 1: then it gets stripped from you and then and then

1054
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: the hope comes back. I mean, how was that roller coaster?

1055
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: And how did you just even mentally, how did you

1056
01:04:54,920 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: mentally deal with that? Yes, and it was it was

1057
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 1: exactly that, like every two minutes it would change. The

1058
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: phone would ring in the house, and it was like

1059
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 1: it was it we were, we had we had a

1060
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: whole thing. Anna would take Elvis outside because Elvis would

1061
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 1: you know, once he was taken from me, he was

1062
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 1: stay screaming. So Elvis would go outside. Todd would set

1063
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 1: up the recorder like he would grab his phone, set

1064
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 1: up the recorder and then also they get a pen

1065
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: and paper like to take notes. I would put the

1066
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 1: doctor on speaker, and so we had this whole system

1067
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 1: and innately, you know, it was either good news or

1068
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,360
Speaker 1: bad news, and then we would hang up the phone

1069
01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 1: and then literally like a half hour later, the phone

1070
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 1: would ring and it would be the exact opposite news,

1071
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 1: and you would and so it was just literally like

1072
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:47,440
Speaker 1: this constant daily like high and low. I remember Biggie

1073
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 1: you saying something to me one day you were like, gosh,

1074
01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 1: the high and low. It's like one day you're high,

1075
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: the next day you're low. Because it's like literally you

1076
01:05:55,760 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: can't honestly, I don't know how. I don't know how.

1077
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 1: And we all did it, so I mean like they

1078
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 1: were all there. I mean I think I just foused

1079
01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 1: on getting through and I truly did believe you guys

1080
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 1: that the end would be hope. So I think I

1081
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: think I just got there thinking this is this is

1082
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 1: a roller coaster of up and up and downs and

1083
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 1: circles and twists and loops, but I'm going to ride

1084
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: in at the end like mm hmm. You know, So

1085
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 1: I just focused on that. But were you able to

1086
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 1: be in the hospital, I don't I mean yeah, or

1087
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: you were yeah, finally yes, yeah, oh god. She was

1088
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 1: also another high and low because you'd be at the

1089
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: hospital and I'd leave drive and I'd have to like

1090
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: drive home, so I'm my way home from Cedars. I'd

1091
01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 1: be like crying, but then I would have to walk

1092
01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 1: in the door and Elvis would be walking towards me,

1093
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: like with the biggest smile on his face, and so

1094
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,520
Speaker 1: I had just immediately switched into mom mode of like

1095
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 1: because he hadn't seen me in like four or six hours.

1096
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: And so, so what is this? What's the silver lining here?

1097
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, like you did with this

1098
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:15,959
Speaker 1: experience that has been so public and you know, it's

1099
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: just so intense. Really, there's so I believe in silver

1100
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:22,480
Speaker 1: lining sort of for everything, and that's been sort of

1101
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: the buzzword with this whole COVID experience. Just in general,

1102
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 1: I think everyone is trying to find that silver lining.

1103
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 1: I think there are many of them, if any, what

1104
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 1: is what is the silver lining here for you at

1105
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 1: the end of the day. There I mean, honestly, there

1106
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:43,959
Speaker 1: were so many and even in a horrible tragic thing

1107
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 1: that happened to me, to us, to next family, you know,

1108
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 1: the fact that we all got to live together and

1109
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:56,919
Speaker 1: got to be so close. Anna, Todd and I now

1110
01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 1: have a new bond we call a new circle in

1111
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:02,760
Speaker 1: our have a new circle in our family, and it's

1112
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: the three of us, and we're very close. We're forever

1113
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 1: bonded now in a way that you know is undestructible. Elvis.

1114
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 1: The fact that Elvis got to know his auntie and

1115
01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: uncle so well, to know my family, my grandma, his

1116
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 1: grandparents so well, hit Nick's mom so well, that time,

1117
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 1: I mean, that time together we would never have. I mean,

1118
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 1: you guys know, as a big family, you never are

1119
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:34,839
Speaker 1: all together for ninety days, you know, with others as adults,

1120
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 1: are lives and jobs. Like the fact that we all

1121
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 1: got to be together, nixt mom from Canada got to

1122
01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:44,439
Speaker 1: come and be with us, like that will never happen again.

1123
01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 1: And the fact that it did and we got to

1124
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 1: all be so close and be together huge silver ligning.

1125
01:08:52,280 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: I mean, my my faith it got stronger. I mean

1126
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 1: that's a huge silver lining me personally, just like you

1127
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:03,679
Speaker 1: talked to him, Do I talk to Nick? Yeah? Yeah,

1128
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,519
Speaker 1: I talked to Nick a lot. Yeah, yeah, I talked

1129
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 1: to him a lot. When I'm driving drivings. Drivings my

1130
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: hardest time driving and at night or when I like

1131
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 1: am most sad. So I talked to him at night

1132
01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 1: a lot and driving around town in LA and you know,

1133
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 1: act like he's sitting in the car next to me.

1134
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 1: Have you had experiences, you know, I mean visitation experiences, dreams,

1135
01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:31,160
Speaker 1: feel like feelings. You know. I've had one, which I

1136
01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 1: talk about in the book. So I can't share it.

1137
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 1: But that's it. And I am so mad that, you know,

1138
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:40,479
Speaker 1: other people will text me and be like, I dreamt

1139
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 1: of Nick last night, and I'm like, great, I wish

1140
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:52,559
Speaker 1: I did. So. Yeah, have you guys tat Have you

1141
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:56,880
Speaker 1: dreamt him Nick? No? No, I haven't dreamt of it.

1142
01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: But I like, I called the girls a while back

1143
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 1: because I I'm clearly still processing everything, and I remember

1144
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:04,600
Speaker 1: this actually goes back to your question, Oliver about the

1145
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 1: silver linings, is that I felt like of all of

1146
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 1: the sisters, I actually unfortunately didn't know Nick as well

1147
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:18,880
Speaker 1: because of you know, the majority of their time together,

1148
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:24,320
Speaker 1: Amanda Nick were in New York and so by the

1149
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 1: time by the time I got to LA, he was

1150
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:29,759
Speaker 1: in the hospital. But one of the biggest silver linings

1151
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 1: for me was that the I got to see like

1152
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 1: the best of humanity, like consistently showing itself to my

1153
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: sister to help. And I feel like that not only

1154
01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:52,439
Speaker 1: a like the result of how Amanda was processing it

1155
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 1: so publicly and remaining so positive, but also a reflection

1156
01:10:56,439 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 1: of like who my brother in law was as a person. Yeah.

1157
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:05,280
Speaker 1: So for me, it's like, in a way, I feel

1158
01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:08,759
Speaker 1: like I've gotten to know him, like I've I've gotten

1159
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 1: to see aspects of his personality through the responses to

1160
01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 1: him from other people, like just saying like how how

1161
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 1: much he meant to him. Even when I was just

1162
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:26,240
Speaker 1: with Amanda, like for my birthday and she was We're

1163
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:27,920
Speaker 1: sitting at dinner and she's like, I've got to show

1164
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: you this reel that Nick used to go on the auditions.

1165
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 1: In this the guy that would film the auditions put

1166
01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 1: together this reel, and he he prefaced it with how

1167
01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:44,120
Speaker 1: he always enjoyed working with Nick, and like, no matter

1168
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 1: what the circumstances were when Nick was preparing for these roles,

1169
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 1: how it was always like an enjoyable experience despite whatever

1170
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: the stresses of me have been. And so Amanda and

1171
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: I were watching this reel and so It's just like

1172
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 1: another piece of that, like of his life that I've

1173
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: gotten to see through through the experience, and also like

1174
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 1: being able to know Nick's mom and Nick's siblings better

1175
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:13,680
Speaker 1: through all this. So yeah, those are those are a

1176
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:17,840
Speaker 1: lot of the silver linings for me. And did you

1177
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: this year good? This would have been the first year

1178
01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 1: like in twenty nineteen when it started. In all of

1179
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: twenty eighteen, we've all there's always been at least two

1180
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:32,200
Speaker 1: or three of us in the same place at once,

1181
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:36,200
Speaker 1: like the siblings living in the same city. In twenty

1182
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:39,600
Speaker 1: nineteen was going to be the first year ever that

1183
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 1: we were everyone was in a different city. I was

1184
01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 1: in Paris, Thomas and San Francisco. Ali is now in Canton,

1185
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 1: Tracy's in Houston, and Amanda was in La It was

1186
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 1: like what, like no clueses are together, Like we were

1187
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:56,280
Speaker 1: all like this has never happened, and instead it ended

1188
01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 1: up being the year where we were all we were

1189
01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 1: all together in the same house for ninety days, together

1190
01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 1: like more together than ever. It was. It was a

1191
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:09,439
Speaker 1: weird thing, like it was that we were supposed to

1192
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:11,439
Speaker 1: be a part and instead the world was like, I

1193
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:16,760
Speaker 1: don't think this is a good idea. I feel like

1194
01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: there's going to be so many people who are going

1195
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 1: to feel just a lot of love from the story,

1196
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 1: a very intense reminder like it's just we need our

1197
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 1: family and the importance of family and also you know,

1198
01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:36,120
Speaker 1: like too, I think one thing another silver lining I'm

1199
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 1: big on silver linings too, Oliver, is that if you

1200
01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 1: aren't close to your family, like try try to. Like

1201
01:13:43,479 --> 01:13:45,360
Speaker 1: this is when you need to like try to reach out,

1202
01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 1: Like I think, you know, I think it's important to

1203
01:13:49,479 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 1: cross that barrier. And if you've had a fight with somebody,

1204
01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 1: it's like pick up the phone and be like, you

1205
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 1: know what, Like life is short, Like what are we

1206
01:13:57,080 --> 01:14:00,720
Speaker 1: fighting about? Still? Is it still important? Can we work

1207
01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 1: through this? Can we get past this? Can we like

1208
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 1: learn to love each other again? Is that possible? If

1209
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:09,080
Speaker 1: it's if there's like an inch of possibility, like can

1210
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 1: we try to get there? I think that's like so

1211
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 1: important because it's just this pandemic. What I think hopefully

1212
01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 1: it has taught us is that we have to, you know,

1213
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 1: remember how important life is and be grateful for the

1214
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 1: things that we have, and if we have them, don't

1215
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:31,040
Speaker 1: push them away, bring them closer. Yeah, it's so it's

1216
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:34,120
Speaker 1: so true. Yeah, all right, let's do the speed round.

1217
01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:37,720
Speaker 1: This has been so awesome. Yes, ok okay, one word

1218
01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 1: to describe each sibling, Okay, oh my god, you go first.

1219
01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 1: For Todd. For Amanda, I would say like like ambitious,

1220
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:56,479
Speaker 1: Amanda's ambitious, go get her, Todd. I think OCD comes

1221
01:14:56,560 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 1: to find. I'm sorry, I'll say Todd helpful. Anna fund Yeah,

1222
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:15,600
Speaker 1: I would say Anna, Anna hilarious, Amanda gregarious. Ooh, that

1223
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 1: was a lot of us music on repeat you listened

1224
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 1: to as a kid. This will actually probably be different

1225
01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 1: because you guys are are different in ages. Yeah. What

1226
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:35,120
Speaker 1: was that album that just stayed on? Yes? Yes, I

1227
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 1: still know all the lyrics to every song. I think

1228
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: New Kids on the Block. That's me and me and Amanda. Yeah,

1229
01:15:46,120 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 1: for me, it was probably like Huey Lewis the News

1230
01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:54,640
Speaker 1: Is album four. Wow, that very specific. That's not you

1231
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: can tell your question mark, but it was very I mean,

1232
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 1: what is you knew exactly what it was. Who's who's

1233
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:13,719
Speaker 1: the most competitive? Most competitive? I'm going to say it's Amanda.

1234
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:17,479
Speaker 1: Oh it has to be here. In our siblings circle,

1235
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 1: I think Allie. Allie's like the if you're playing a game.

1236
01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:24,720
Speaker 1: Ali wants to win. Oh yeah, true, yeah, no, no,

1237
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 1: no, no no. Tracy is super competitive too. Think of all

1238
01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:30,680
Speaker 1: those contests Tracy won super Bowl contest, that contest at

1239
01:16:30,680 --> 01:16:35,560
Speaker 1: work where she uh yeah, Tracy is a good competitor.

1240
01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:47,000
Speaker 1: Maybe is the rule breaker? Anna, I think that we've

1241
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:51,799
Speaker 1: number one quote is that's not real, that's not a rule.

1242
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:58,960
Speaker 1: Like I'll be like, Anna, I pregnant. I can't you know,

1243
01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:02,519
Speaker 1: I don't associate. I'm like, that's not really you can

1244
01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:05,919
Speaker 1: have sushi And I'm like you don't you been pregnant?

1245
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:15,720
Speaker 1: Who's the comedian in the house? Anna, Oh yeah? Or

1246
01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:21,679
Speaker 1: Allison Alison? Yeah. I would say Ali and Anna are

1247
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 1: a lot of the genesis. A lot of a lot

1248
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: of the comedy comes from those two. Like, yeah, I

1249
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 1: like create, I might start a lot of the comedy.

1250
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:33,720
Speaker 1: If I need a comedy pickup, I'm calling Biggie. I'm

1251
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:38,439
Speaker 1: calling Tot. Really, I feel like I'm I'm only funny

1252
01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 1: if I'm really frustrated, or if I'm reacting to something

1253
01:17:42,800 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 1: that you guys are doing and you think my reactions, Biggie,

1254
01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 1: you're always frustrated. That's how you're okay. The brain Amanda

1255
01:17:59,280 --> 01:18:01,639
Speaker 1: I think got the didn't you have the best GP

1256
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:05,000
Speaker 1: A no, four point one two six. I was ten

1257
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:08,200
Speaker 1: in the class. You had a four hundred. I had

1258
01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:13,720
Speaker 1: six hundred in my class one six. Yes, I I

1259
01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:15,639
Speaker 1: was also above a four point zh and I had

1260
01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 1: higher a CT scores. I had the higher the family.

1261
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:24,160
Speaker 1: I am. We should revisit. That was the most competitive question.

1262
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:35,519
Speaker 1: Uh what about first celebrity crush? Oh the guy from

1263
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: Sugar Ray, he was on my planner. Oh, Mark McGraths,

1264
01:18:39,760 --> 01:18:50,320
Speaker 1: my marks, Aron High School, zach Efron, zach Efron High School, musical,

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Speaker 1: zach Efron. Okay, what was yours? Bigs? Oh? For sure?

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Speaker 1: Carrie Fisher, Oh from Starford from Star Wars, the old

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Speaker 1: Bikini from Return of the Ji. Yeah of course, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Who's the most laid back? And uh yeah

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Speaker 1: I agree? Yeah. Who do you go to for relationship advice? Oh?

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Speaker 1: That is complicated. They all go to me once it's

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Speaker 1: in a crisis mode. But the sisters, like my sense

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Speaker 1: in anyway is that before it hits crisis, they'll be

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Speaker 1: talking among themselves and then I get a call. I'm

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Speaker 1: like the red phone, pick it up, and it's like

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Speaker 1: people are in tears. I call someone different depending on

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Speaker 1: what the relationship thing I'm seeking advice is on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're like, how scandalous it is? So you're so you've

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Speaker 1: got a lot of would be Amanda, and it would

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Speaker 1: go down from there to trade Tracy. You can't talk

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Speaker 1: to trade if there's a scandal. You never called Tracy.

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Speaker 1: First concert Spice Girls, Amy Grant, Amy Grant, Yeah, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, like nineteen eighty five, Amy Grant. I think

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Speaker 1: that's awesome, Amy Grant, that's amazing Cleveland Cland Yeah, are

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Speaker 1: you guys drinkers? I mean or just you are? Okay?

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Speaker 1: What are we drinking? What are we like? Oh? Negroni

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Speaker 1: is my favorite with jin Or mescal I love. I

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Speaker 1: live in France now I drink wine with lunch and

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Speaker 1: I want to called what the you know, the want

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Speaker 1: you know the pastie? Oh yeah, wait wait wait wait

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Speaker 1: wait I ordered pastise. You guys. I thought that it

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Speaker 1: was like a not very alcoholic option and then later

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Speaker 1: learned it's like forty seven percent alcohol and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like uzo. I want to wait wait, you guys

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Speaker 1: know when I was twenty one and it was a

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Speaker 1: piece is like a licorice, a liquorice based. Uh, it's

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Speaker 1: it's supposed to be like an oh okay may uh

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Speaker 1: may did bez you my pastie with a little bit

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Speaker 1: of almonds, syrup and water and then it doesn't taste

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Speaker 1: like liquorice anymore because I hate licorice. But I'm just

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Speaker 1: like to do anything the French do, so I fit in.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, wait, bars a pant drink. It's like

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Speaker 1: a bar of pan and fennel. Okay, guys. Last question

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Speaker 1: we ask everybody is It's a two part question. The

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Speaker 1: first part is if you could if you could emulate

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Speaker 1: something of your sibling, a characteristic what would that be?

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Speaker 1: And the other part of the question is if you

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Speaker 1: could alleviate something from them that would actually you feel

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Speaker 1: would make their life more fulfilling? What would that be?

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Speaker 1: I know my alleviate for Todd stress stress, get rid

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Speaker 1: of the I want all stress removed from big I

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Speaker 1: want him to stress free and just fral it problic

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Speaker 1: in the fields of San fran. I want to in

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Speaker 1: the Maldives and have him enjoy it instead of Yes,

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Speaker 1: I would love to emulate Biggie's level of thinking of

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Speaker 1: other people and like just in a constant state of

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Speaker 1: like what can I do to make this person's little

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Speaker 1: day or moment more special and like better for them?

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Speaker 1: That's very tough. I would like to take Todds. I

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Speaker 1: hope to be a great I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 1: using the right words. I want to be a great parent,

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Speaker 1: Like my brother, you are a great parent, what do you? Well,

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Speaker 1: I know, but my baby's only eighteen months and you

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Speaker 1: know you're you've been a great parent for eleven years.

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Speaker 1: So I want to be So I would want to

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Speaker 1: take Amanda's positivity because I'm a super negative person. I

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Speaker 1: would want to take Anna. I think like comedic like

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Speaker 1: filter that she has like on her like worldly outlook,

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Speaker 1: Like she's always telling me these hilarious stories of like

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Speaker 1: she told me this one about how she was in

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Speaker 1: this market in Paris and there was like this person

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Speaker 1: walking away with this whole like basket of leaks, and

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Speaker 1: she's like, my head immediately went to, like what is

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Speaker 1: this man going to do with all those leaks? Follow

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Speaker 1: the leaks? I was like, the fact that you have

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Speaker 1: these thoughts that's just constantly well through a weird lens.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, yeah, I agree. I'll take your

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Speaker 1: weird lens and I will alleviate your adhd D the worst. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would take you're ADHD away from you trying to

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Speaker 1: get host. I would make you stay focused on an issue.

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Speaker 1: I know things. I like that an now, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: would love to alleviate Amanda's destructive qualities of in the whole. Like,

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Speaker 1: Amanda is the messiest person I've ever met. I wish

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Speaker 1: I could just for some organization help that she could

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Speaker 1: stick to. It's a disaster and when you're li like

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01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:17,960
Speaker 1: like the kitchen is like the kitchen crazing is a disaster.

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01:25:18,520 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 1: Tod and I send each other secret videos of destruction

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Speaker 1: and exchange like look what I booked today. We were

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Speaker 1: doing at throughout courting. The whole time, I was sending

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Speaker 1: like four theme movies and sending them to Todd. I

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01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:35,880
Speaker 1: wish I could help you with that because and from

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Speaker 1: your life big time. And I wish I if I

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Speaker 1: could take something from Mandy your Amanda's work ethic is

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01:25:44,360 --> 01:25:47,840
Speaker 1: the most insane thing I've ever witnessed. She never stops,

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Speaker 1: She goes, goes, goes all day long, no matter what

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Speaker 1: job she has, no matter how many jobs she has,

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Speaker 1: she just will continue to work for herself and now

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Speaker 1: her son. I've never seen anyone do and that is

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Speaker 1: not me at all. I'm like, let's take a three

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Speaker 1: hour lunch with wine, So that would be a great

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Speaker 1: thing to be able to steal because you work hard.

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Speaker 1: I love it you guys. Thank you for doing this.

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Speaker 1: But before we go, I do want to ask, are

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Speaker 1: you still going to do workouts? Yes? Yeah, I'm still

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Speaker 1: going to because right now. You know, luckily, with Quarantine,

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Speaker 1: I just started off a subscription series. I'm turning that

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Speaker 1: now into an app, so that will just be something

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Speaker 1: I'll just spit into my schedule at some point and

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Speaker 1: then I teach these live classes on Saturdays. So luckily

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Speaker 1: I'm able to still keep it going. I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: you know, I built that business from the ground up.

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Speaker 1: It's like my baby, and it's what I started for

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Speaker 1: myself after my divorce. It's such a part of me

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Speaker 1: that I definitely and I love teaching, so I don't

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Speaker 1: want to I don't want to stop that, you know.

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Speaker 1: Good for you. Cool? All right, well you guys, I

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Speaker 1: love you. Thank you guys. Thank you. Happy holiday. This

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Speaker 1: was really fun. Happy holiday. Yeah, back at you you guys.

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Speaker 1: Very You're inspiring. You know. I love your love. It's awesome.

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Speaker 1: It's really really awesome. I wish Katie and I could

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Speaker 1: have even half of what you guys have. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: We're getting there, all right, guys. Happy Sibling Revelry is

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Speaker 1: executive produced by Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson. Producer is

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Speaker 1: Alison Present Music by Mark Hudson a k A Uncle

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Speaker 1: Mark