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Speaker 1: This is from Travis on Steve HARBFN. Travis says, when

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Speaker 1: I was in high school, my mom and dad had

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Speaker 1: a few issues and almost divorced over my dad having

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Speaker 1: questionable relationships with women. My parents got therapy and made

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Speaker 1: it through it, but I know it was tough and

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Speaker 1: my mom. I'm back living at home now while I

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Speaker 1: apply for graduate programs, and I've noticed my dad is

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Speaker 1: hanging out late. I'm worried that it's happening again. I

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Speaker 1: love my parents, and I feel sick knowing that they

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Speaker 1: could be headed for another trouble patch. Should I say

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Speaker 1: something to my pops or do I need to stay

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Speaker 1: out of their marriage?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Mom, you know, man, you could say something to

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Speaker 3: your father.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just going to tell you, man, he gonna

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Speaker 2: explain it.

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Speaker 3: Away in a way that makes him look good, so

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Speaker 3: you can Your dadd is staying out late.

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Speaker 2: It's it's tough, man, It's tough. It's tough.

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Speaker 3: I see, I don't know what type of father you've got,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know y'all's relationship, you know, because because

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Speaker 3: why you staying there while you get your graduate program together?

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Speaker 3: You could get put out, So I don't know your

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Speaker 3: relationship with your daddy. So I don't want to recommend

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Speaker 3: to you what to do. I think your best bet

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Speaker 3: is to just go on and try to put your

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Speaker 3: life together and try to be the best man that

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Speaker 3: you can be. I don't know that you talking to anybody.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna change anything, will I tell you what it

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Speaker 3: will do? Though it will make your father tighten up.

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Speaker 3: It ain't gonna stop it, but he gonna tighten up

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Speaker 3: and handle things a little bit differently since he know

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Speaker 3: you noticed. But I want you to understand something. So

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Speaker 3: I bet you ain't noticing moding your mama. Yeah, just

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Speaker 3: just know that you ain't no this and molding your mama.

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Speaker 3: So I know it's tough on the young man, but

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Speaker 3: you know, life happens. It ain't the end of the world,

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Speaker 3: and people are now know people perfect, And I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: teach you one other thing I've shared with my sons.

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Speaker 2: Temptation is undefeated.

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Speaker 1: Oh like the Internet. Huh wow?

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Speaker 3: You Internet, temptation is undefeated. Nobody escapes that. Not throughout

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Speaker 3: your life. You're gonna yield to something. You can't stay

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Speaker 3: away from the ice cream to do nuts. You can't

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Speaker 3: stay from this, stay away from this man. You can't

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Speaker 3: stay away from this woman. Something gonna get you though.

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Speaker 3: You can't stop smoking cigarettes, You just can't. You can't

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Speaker 3: get off the drugs, temptations.

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Speaker 1: Undefeated man, man, Wow, Wow, Thank the Lord for you.

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Speaker 1: All right, and we're moving on. We have time for

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Speaker 1: another one. This is from Lana on Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 1: She says, my roommate. It's also one of my closest friends,

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Speaker 1: and our lease is up soon, but I've decided I

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Speaker 1: don't want to renew it with her. Living together has

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Speaker 1: made me realize how different we are, and I feel

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Speaker 1: like her constant negativity and lack of motivation are starting

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Speaker 1: to affect my own mindset and goals. I still care

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Speaker 1: about her and don't want to blow up the friendship,

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Speaker 1: but I can't keep sharing a space with someone that

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Speaker 1: feels like they're bringing me down. I'm worried she'll take

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Speaker 1: this as a rejection or judgment. How do you tell

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Speaker 1: someone you don't want to live with them anymore without

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Speaker 1: losing their friendship?

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Speaker 2: This is real simple. Just say hey, look, I need

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Speaker 2: to talk to you. You know what, I've decided for

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Speaker 2: my own.

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Speaker 3: Self development, for me as a person, I need to

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Speaker 3: learn how to be alone. I need to learn how

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Speaker 3: to have my own thoughts. I need to learn how

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Speaker 3: to carve and make my own weight, so that in mind,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to sign a lease with you again.

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Speaker 3: It is time for me to grow up fully. It

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Speaker 3: is time for me to learn how to take care

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Speaker 3: of myself, and it's time for me to learn how

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Speaker 3: not to share bills. I've got to be totally dependent

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Speaker 3: of myself, and it's time that I go learn this lesson.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not gonna be signing the least with you

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Speaker 3: and make it all about you. You don't even have

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Speaker 3: to talk about her, you know. Look, you can't cook

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Speaker 3: you in here, your trifle, your negative all this here.

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Speaker 3: You're wearing my clothes and stuff right here. You can't

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Speaker 3: left your patters in the flow. Ain't gotta go through

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Speaker 3: all of it?

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Speaker 2: All right? All right?

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Speaker 1: Coming up, and thank you Steve. Coming up, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 2: Haven't supplied. This is stantasia. I can't call it. This

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Speaker 2: your man cedric d entertainer. And you're listening to the

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: That my doubt you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show,