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Speaker 3: Daddy's buying today.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna come to your bedside tonight.

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Speaker 1: My goodness.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: So have you ever been on vacation and you find

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Speaker 3: out that the toilet you've been using has been used

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Speaker 3: by a celebrity? Yes? Yes, scary.

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Speaker 5: So I was down in the dr on vacation and

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Speaker 5: we rented a villa where people like Tiger and post

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Speaker 5: Malone state and I'm sitting there and I'm thinking, like,

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Speaker 5: this is awesome, this is awesome, and then I realize,

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Speaker 5: oh my god, I'm sitting on the toilet, and I'm like,

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Speaker 5: post Malone use this.

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Speaker 6: Toilet in the post Malone.

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Speaker 3: Stadium unless he brought his own seat.

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Speaker 5: Yes, but I'm sitting there, and now I couldn't get

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Speaker 5: going crazy. But yeah, true story, But yeah, I kind

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Speaker 3: Want to know celebrity toilets Well says nineteen l nineteen.

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Speaker 3: Is Alyssa you actually used the celebrities. Well, hello, you

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Speaker 3: used the celebrities toilet? Which celebrity did?

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Speaker 7: So I used Rob Zombie's toilet, all right?

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Speaker 3: So where did this happen?

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Speaker 8: That scary?

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Speaker 9: So he's actually married to my cousin's cousin and they

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Speaker 10: Away some furniture that my cousin wanted.

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Speaker 7: Stuff up, and we just kind of spent the day there.

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Speaker 10: We had lunch there, and eventually, you know, I had

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Speaker 12: So that's how I used Rob zombie toilet.

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Speaker 3: Did you blow it up? You didn't blow it up,

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Speaker 13: No?

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Speaker 7: No, I didn't blow it up.

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Was it clean or were there like dead bodies around?

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Speaker 11: No?

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Speaker 7: It was very clean.

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Speaker 12: His house is so nice.

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Speaker 14: There's so much like funky.

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Speaker 7: Cool like dark art on the walls.

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Speaker 3: All right. Well, good, thanks for sharing your celebrity toilet story.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to celebrity toilet stories. All right, listen, thanks for

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Speaker 3: listening to us. You go have a good day, okay

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Speaker 3: you guys, of course, love you too. Now listen to

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Speaker 3: this one. Froggy Online nineteen Christina Christina, tell Froggy, where

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Speaker 3: whose toilet you used?

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Speaker 7: Toby Keith?

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Speaker 13: Oh wow, you know the late Toby Keith's very sad

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Speaker 13: for me right now. But I had a friend who

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Speaker 13: it was if you guys remember Intrepid. He played on

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Speaker 13: the Intrepid back in like ninety eight or something like that.

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Speaker 13: And we went and I had to use the bathroom

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Speaker 13: They're like, yeah, yeah, let's go, and I'm like okay.

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Speaker 13: So I was sitting on his toilet and I was

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Speaker 7: I was like, God, toilet, this is so amazing.

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Speaker 8: What am I going to take?

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Speaker 7: I took nothing.

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Speaker 13: But then when I came out, the band was there,

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Speaker 13: so I was having a beer hanging out with them,

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Speaker 13: and like, Toby came on the bus and I was

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Speaker 15: I have to use this toilet though, yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: I that's pretty cool. Because you also got to hang

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Speaker 3: to be invited to the bus. I love that. Great

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Speaker 3: story and perfect timing. Excellent, Christina, thank you, thanks for listening.

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Speaker 3: We love toilet stories.

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Speaker 15: This is help me.

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Speaker 3: This is how low we go, We go very low.

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Speaker 3: Look at the text messages. I used Ralph Mancio's toilet,

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Speaker 3: Roddy kid. My mom used Gloria Gainer's toilet in her

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Speaker 16: I used Chris Rock's toilet, remember, and then I stole

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Speaker 16: the toilet paper on Halloween. No, it was not on Halloween.

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Speaker 16: It was I went there for a meeting for something once.

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Speaker 8: And I went in. He had the toilet paper and

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Speaker 2: You remember.

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Speaker 8: I ripped up a whole bunch and took it with me.

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Speaker 8: What did you do with it? I just kept it.

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Speaker 3: I know, but no one else is talking about this

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Speaker 3: about Yes, Nick, what's going on?

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Speaker 17: Hey?

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Speaker 18: Hey, you doing guys?

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Speaker 3: Good morning, good morning, we're doing okay, Okay, whose toilet

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Speaker 3: did you use? Claire Beans Claire Danes.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I got contracted to instole appliances in her apartment.

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Speaker 3: See, I wonder it's sort of related to what you're

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Speaker 3: sort of related to what you're saying, Nick, How many

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Speaker 3: plumbers install new toilets in new homes owned by celebrities

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Speaker 13: Well, that's that's what happened.

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Speaker 4: The plumber had put it in and.

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Speaker 15: I needed to use this toilet. He said, well, we

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Speaker 3: So who in the room because I've got a few

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Speaker 1: Oh, of course you should say.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, first, Gandhia said she doesn't recall ever using

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so.

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Speaker 19: I mean unless these bathroom around here count where like

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Speaker 19: after I've never done it. But I would like to

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Speaker 19: know which celebrities blew up our bathroom?

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Speaker 11: Ye?

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Speaker 3: Right, who else on the did anyone on the show

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Speaker 18: Yeah, I'm using Glacis toilet on his plane.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that wins the Boogy prize.

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Speaker 18: Sorry I wasna airplane part out, but whatever.

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Speaker 3: That's awesome it is.

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Speaker 3: Well, I will tell you that there's a resort we

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Speaker 3: so I know I used her toilet. Oh wow, And

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Speaker 3: in the same resort. Next time we went, we stayed

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Speaker 8: The rumor is Beyonce brings her own toilet seats.

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Speaker 3: So I don't I bet you know what. Okay, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: But you might have gotten jay Z's.

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Speaker 3: But maybe I know. When we stayed at the Hard

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Speaker 3: We rented the old Frank Sinatra house in Palm Springs,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, Frank Sinatra used to Papa Squad exactly

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Speaker 19: And even if it's not the same toilet, your waist

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Speaker 8: That's right.

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Speaker 3: Yes, thank you for sharing. Yeah, Gandi is the ultimate optimist.

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Speaker 20: For that very reason, soaking it in anyway, Baby Bruce

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Speaker 5: We just got a text I used Limp biscuits, torbus toilet.

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Speaker 3: Oh, well, there you go. I think we've really wrung

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Speaker 2: Ever wondered what we look like? Do you think I

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Speaker 1: I do follow us.

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Speaker 2: On Instagram at Elvis Duran Show Elvis Duran in the

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Speaker 2: Morning Show. This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: I have a question for single guys. You don't have

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Speaker 3: any well? And Josh, Yeah, where's Josh? Is he here?

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Speaker 3: weirdest thing this weekend. One in eight guys always carries

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Speaker 3: a condom to a funeral.

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Speaker 19: What capitalize on emotional vulnerability?

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Speaker 1: That's disgusting.

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Speaker 3: One in four guys always takes a condom to a reunion.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense. I get that.

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Speaker 3: So my question is this, who is his condoms on them?

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Speaker 1: I feel like you should as a responsible dating single fella.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Well I don't know because i've I've never

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Speaker 3: they're all having sex. So, mate, when you were single,

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Speaker 3: did you always have a condom with you?

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Speaker 21: Not?

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Speaker 6: Always?

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Speaker 3: Would you make sure you had a condom if you

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Speaker 3: were going to a funeral that would be the last thing. No,

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Speaker 3: So what I'm getting from What are you getting from this, Danielle.

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Speaker 3: If a guy always insist on taking a condom to

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Speaker 16: He thinks he's going to get some anywhere he goes,

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Speaker 16: like that's a good place to meet single women or

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Speaker 2: And need you.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, vulnerable. They're vulnerable and Barney accorney to him.

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Speaker 16: But you know those guys who have it in their

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Speaker 3: That was scary, a condom in your wallet.

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Speaker 6: I mean it's been years, but I used when I

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Speaker 3: Where is he don't know?

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Speaker 4: We're wrong.

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Speaker 16: Maybe we're missing something. Maybe it is a good place

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Speaker 16: I mean somebody tried to set me up with their

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Speaker 3: Here you go, so we're a wedding. You go to

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Speaker 3: Sure, sure, I'm gonna miss him. He was a nice guy.

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Speaker 8: Hap it behind the headstone when you get to the funeral.

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Speaker 3: That stone has a different mean, there's much better pickup. Well,

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Speaker 3: I brought a condom if you want to take a ride.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Sure you want to call them?

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Speaker 1: She sound like Betty Boople and mister Beale.

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Speaker 3: Here's something about her funerals that make me hearty.

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Speaker 15: You know, he's not the only thing stiff at this funeral.

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Speaker 16: That is a better line, though, Let's just crawl in

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Speaker 8: Oh my god, come on now.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know. I don't know. I think it's

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Speaker 19: Yeah, bring your condom as as guys, were you weirded out?

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Speaker 3: Good? No, no, no, no, I think I'm ready to

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Speaker 16: By the way, Wait, wouldn't it they like fly? Like

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Speaker 8: It going like fly?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, take out nine I've never tried. All right,

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Speaker 7: Yep.

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Speaker 3: Do we have that going on.

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Speaker 3: That does not mean you're a loser. It just gives

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Speaker 3: Job security, no, no thanks are I'm finally at this

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Speaker 8: Look, it's scary space. I wish he's shaking his head

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Speaker 3: I'm a loser and it does not mean you're a loser.

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Speaker 3: you're winning in life when you have your addictions and

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Speaker 3: Whatever taps your vulnerability, you have it sorted out if

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Speaker 3: to function, your health, work, study, relationships, whatever. So if

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Speaker 3: any of the above porn, alcohol, drugs, food, money, shopping, emotions, moods,

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Speaker 3: and sex, if you have an issue with any of

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Speaker 3: those things in those categories and it keeps you from

452
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Speaker 3: doing the things you know are moving you ahead in life,

453
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Speaker 3: then maybe there's an issue.

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Speaker 18: If a reminder of my phone to check pornhub, then

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Speaker 18: that's a problem.

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Speaker 3: I've never met anyone who had a reminder in their

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Speaker 3: phone to check Pornhub's that?

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Speaker 15: Oh well, then I don't. I don't do that either.

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Speaker 15: Then I don't do that either. Hold on, there it goes.

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Speaker 16: Do they like put up a new video that you

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Speaker 16: need to watch or a picture like how does it work?

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Speaker 2: You heard? You heard?

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Speaker 3: The only thing on this list that gets in my

464
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Speaker 3: way a little bit is it is alcohol, because I

465
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Speaker 3: can't drive anywhere after I drink. And so if you know,

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Speaker 3: if you once you have a glass of wine and

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Speaker 3: someone calls and says, hey, can you come out, well

468
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Speaker 3: I can't. It's the same as you know, I call

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Speaker 3: it a Nate, Nate, can you go out tonight? Why?

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Speaker 3: I can't? Because I have chicken in the refrigerator that's

471
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Speaker 3: getting old. I want to waste it. Okay. The ways

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Speaker 3: you're winning in life number six, you treat yourself well.

473
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Speaker 3: Consistently Loving yourself is not the goal. It's easier than that.

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Speaker 3: All you have to do is treat yourself as well

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Speaker 3: as you can respect.

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Speaker 1: Your said one. Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 3: And finally you have something in your world that makes

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Speaker 3: you come alive. Not another person, but what what do

479
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Speaker 3: you just run across, you stumble cross, or you actively

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Speaker 3: seek out and you know as soon as you get

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Speaker 3: it in your in your sights or in you can

482
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Speaker 3: hear it or smell it, you know that the adrenaline

483
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Speaker 3: starts to flow and you become excited.

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Speaker 16: Yep, puppies, puppy, puppy.

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Speaker 19: I feel like I have so many. I mean, the

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Speaker 19: smell of the outdoors, like when it's about ter rain,

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Speaker 19: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I love being outside.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 19: When I open a new can of paint, it smells

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Speaker 19: so good, like there's just.

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Speaker 1: So much of food smell.

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Speaker 16: How about the smell of a pool float.

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Speaker 3: Those chemical smells from new paint and pool floats, those

495
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Speaker 3: are going to kill you.

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Speaker 6: Just videos, yeah, kitten.

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Speaker 3: Video, kitten videos. Well no, so, so make sure you

498
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Speaker 3: collide with these things that give you excitement every day.

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Speaker 3: Not not people people do the same thing, but the

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Speaker 3: things that you can kind of control and you can

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Speaker 3: actually you can run out to wall. Warn't buy a

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Speaker 3: pool float today. If you want, they can just snort

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Speaker 3: it right there in the parking.

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Speaker 4: Check it out.

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Speaker 17: You're so appreciated and I love you.

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Speaker 11: Guys so much.

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Speaker 2: Elvis ter Ran in the Morning Show, Elvis Duran.

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Speaker 3: In the Morning Show, question, what little irritating habits do

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Speaker 3: you have around the house that really says a lot

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Speaker 3: about you? For instance, my habit to people get so

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Speaker 3: bent out of shapeover is I'll stop the microwave oven

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Speaker 3: like with two seconds left because I just feel like

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Speaker 3: it's been on enough. And I'll leave two seconds on

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Speaker 3: the on the on the display, and I get yelled

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Speaker 3: at for that. Is that really that irritating?

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Speaker 6: Is that bad?

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Speaker 1: A monstrous kind of monsters?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not monstrous at all. Someone checks it in

519
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Speaker 3: saying that her husband is the over tidier. She'll take

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Speaker 3: the milk out of the refrigerator to make cereal, and

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Speaker 3: but she'll turn around to get it and he's already

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Speaker 3: put it away. He's like, wait, I just took it out.

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Speaker 3: She But she is the shdder. She sheds things that

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Speaker 3: she walks through the house. Jacket here, sweater, their hairclips here.

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Speaker 8: Oh that drives me nuts. Do not do that?

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Speaker 11: Well?

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Speaker 3: See that drives you nuts, Dad, yet, But what what

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Speaker 3: irritating habits do you have at the house. I'm sure

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Speaker 3: you have it your.

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Speaker 16: Closet, right, I have to oh, yeah, yeah, my closet.

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Speaker 16: Oh you know what Sheldon hates. So my closet has

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Speaker 16: a mirror on it. But I have so many handbags

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Speaker 16: and you know, toap bags and stuff that it blocks

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Speaker 16: the mirror because they're hanging.

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Speaker 8: So I open up his closet and I use his mirror, and.

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Speaker 16: It drives him nuts because he's like, then I locked

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Speaker 16: the cats in there accidentally, and they scratched at the

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Speaker 16: rug to try and get out on poor I think

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Speaker 16: that is probably I get yelled for that twice a week,

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Speaker 16: three times a week.

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Speaker 3: The cat the cat thing aside. I mean, at what

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Speaker 3: point can you own a mirror? You cannot use my

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Speaker 3: that's my.

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Speaker 16: He says, clean your bags out, throw half of them away,

545
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Speaker 16: and then you have to use my mirror usually, right.

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Speaker 3: Why can't you use his closet?

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Speaker 16: I don't understand what the because I cause issues with

548
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Speaker 16: the cats and then his rug is all ripped up

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Speaker 16: from the cats.

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Speaker 3: Okay, where's that?

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Speaker 18: He gets on your own closet and your own mirror

552
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Speaker 18: you use your stuff.

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Speaker 15: He uses his way.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure Alex is still asleep. He's not listening. I

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Speaker 3: told you what he does. He'll he'll be like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go ahead and fix stuff around the house.

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Speaker 3: He'll he'll pull all the tools out of the tool

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Speaker 3: drawer or whatever, and he'll leave them everywhere. He never

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Speaker 3: puts anything away, or he'll take the wrapper off a

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Speaker 3: new hammer or something, just leave the wrapper right there.

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Speaker 3: I have to tow all that away. It's it's irritating.

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Speaker 3: So what other things are on this list? That? They are?

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Speaker 3: The irritating habits we have around the house that irritating.

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Speaker 19: The people who leave dishes to quote soak, the people

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Speaker 19: who leave cabinets open, the people who take who eat

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Speaker 19: something and leave one bite or one sip left. The

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Speaker 19: people who instead of mopping, use like a Clorox wipe

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Speaker 19: and a foot Yes, you know all that I'm leaving,

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Speaker 19: leaving leftovers in the fridge way past their expiration date.

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Speaker 1: All these things.

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Speaker 16: How about the water bottles around the house. This is

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Speaker 16: what happens in my house with the boys. They take

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Speaker 16: three steps of the of the Poland spring and then

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Speaker 16: I find nine water bottles.

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Speaker 3: This is why you should people do that? People? Yes, yes, scary,

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Speaker 3: which I object.

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Speaker 5: I'm a dish soaker and I sit there, did the

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Speaker 5: dishes sit there overnight?

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Speaker 6: And they soak?

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Speaker 5: And I gotta tell you, the grime comes off that

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Speaker 5: much easier.

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Speaker 6: In the morning.

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Speaker 3: Well, I know it. Sometimes we let them quote unquote

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Speaker 3: soak because we're just lazy. We could easily just I

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Speaker 3: soak them. I soak all my dishes.

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Speaker 1: Well, just wait till you read what this says about

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Speaker 1: your personality.

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Speaker 3: Scary, let's talk about it. What does that mean?

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Speaker 11: You want to hear?

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Speaker 3: Let yeah, go ahead and connect the connect the dots.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 19: So this says your ability to make life more difficult

593
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Speaker 19: is unmatched. Instead of handling something that's mindumbingly easy, you

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Speaker 19: choose to soak it in a rancid cesspool of procrastination.

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Speaker 19: By the time you make the decision to do something

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Speaker 19: about it, someone else has come along and cleaned up

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Speaker 19: your mets, which is what she wanted all along.

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Speaker 8: Wow, well I.

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Speaker 6: Live alone, so I'm blaming myself.

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Speaker 14: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So, which is in a text a clorox wipe and

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Speaker 3: a foot that's my sister.

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Speaker 19: Oh, I would totally do that instead of mopping an

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Speaker 19: entire floor if there's just like one little spill in

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Speaker 19: a little area, Clorox lightfoot.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Who's Tara? She's online nineteen. Let's go talk to her. Hello, Tara,

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Speaker 3: how are you hi?

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Speaker 7: Good morning?

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Speaker 3: Well, good morning? So what irritating things are going on

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Speaker 3: in your house?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 23: So first off, one thing that I gotta say is

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Speaker 23: what you said with Alex tools everywhere my husband one.

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Speaker 7: My kitchen table has become his toolbox.

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Speaker 24: But besides that, me, I walk with a heavy foot,

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Speaker 24: always have, always will.

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Speaker 7: I'm not a big person.

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Speaker 1: I'm five two.

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Speaker 23: If that I like to give I pad my my height.

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Speaker 7: Because I'm not very big.

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Speaker 23: But I walk with a heavy foot, stomping on the

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Speaker 23: floor across the house no matter where I am, Like,

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Speaker 23: stop running, I'm not, I'm just walking.

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Speaker 3: Well. Good, at least we always know where you are. Hey,

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Speaker 3: let me ask you that someone just sent this text

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Speaker 3: in Tara. The people who leave toilet paper on the

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Speaker 3: counter instead of putting it on the roll thing, Oh

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Speaker 3: do you do that?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 23: First off, you got to put it the right way,

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Speaker 23: with the paper hanging away from the wall, not into

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Speaker 23: the wall.

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Speaker 3: That's amen, Amen, Amen.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, that'll drive me nuts. Or you just use

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Speaker 7: the last piece and you don't put it on the roll.

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Speaker 1: That drives me bananas.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: These are the little lazy things we do at the house.

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Speaker 3: But you know the thing is we can get away

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Speaker 3: with it at the house because no one else is

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Speaker 3: there to witness this stuff anyway. Best alert to you, Tara,

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Speaker 3: Well exactly, Thank you so much, and good luck with

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Speaker 3: your your tool counter on the dining room table. Hey

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Speaker 3: line twenties, Katie, she's got problems. You really open a

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Speaker 3: can of worms with this article? Hi, Katie? What's up?

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Speaker 23: Hi?

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Speaker 16: So that's something I do.

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Speaker 13: But when I walk downstairs in the morning and I

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Speaker 13: walk in the kitchen and the cabinets are wide open,

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Speaker 13: and the dishes are next to the sink and not

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Speaker 13: in the think.

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Speaker 15: That is my husband.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'll live with one of those two. You're not alone,

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Speaker 3: it's just that you're some pressing. Does that too?

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Speaker 16: Do you bring them over to the sink and I

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Speaker 16: go watch this. If you just push it a little bit,

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Speaker 16: it goes right into the sink.

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 3: It's so close?

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Speaker 11: We empty the dish slasher and they just sit on

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Speaker 11: the counter.

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Speaker 7: The cabinet's right there.

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Speaker 8: Put it in this cabinet.

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Speaker 3: It's right there, absolutely all right, Well, thank you, Katie,

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Speaker 3: best of luck of that. Yeah, Gandhi, what's up?

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Speaker 1: So Brandon does the cabinet thing too.

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Speaker 19: I will come down in the morning and every single

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Speaker 19: cabinet looks like a raccoon broke into the house and

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Speaker 19: rummaged for snacks. I don't know what takes him over

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Speaker 19: in the middle of the night. I think it's like

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Speaker 19: a tapeworm from hell. But he goes down there, eats

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Speaker 19: all the snacks and just leaves it.

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Speaker 7: It's crazy.

675
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: He's also the overcleaner, so it doesn't make any sense.

676
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 15: Oh right.

677
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: Text, When he opens a beer, he leaves it on

678
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 3: the stove instead of putting the can in the garbage

679
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 3: next to the stove. It's right there. People are complaining

680
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 3: about people like me who refuse to clear the timer

681
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 3: on the microwave. What does it matter? But what does

682
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 3: that matter? That's not littering, it's just a digital display.

683
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 18: There's his two as well, and I can't see the clock.

684
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 15: Then when I look in the kitchen, I don't see

685
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Speaker 15: the clock.

686
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 3: I see.

687
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 19: Though, you're leaving another step for the next person that

688
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 19: comes along so that I have to clear your time

689
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 19: and reset their time.

690
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: And it's just monsters.

691
00:30:59,520 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 4: No one.

692
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 3: This is the microwave exept for me, But I get

693
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 3: yelled at it says two seconds on the microwave. It's

694
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 3: been there for all the whole weekend. Who cares? It

695
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 3: doesn't use extra energy, it doesn't hurt anyone. Yeah, what

696
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 3: what's up frog?

697
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 18: Doing laundry and taking it out of the dryer, and

698
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 18: doing the laundry doesn't mean taking it out of the

699
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 18: dryer and draping it over the door that's swung open

700
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 18: and just leading it there.

701
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 1: Yes, no, it doesn't laundry done.

702
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 18: No, you can't just take it out of the dryer,

703
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 18: drape it over the door and go okay, I'm done.

704
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 15: No, it has to go where it belongs.

705
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 3: Well, scary, I know, I was at scary apartment not

706
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 3: long ago. He uses his kitchen chairs as coat hangers,

707
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 3: And so you have like an entire season, an entire

708
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:42,479
Speaker 3: winter of coats piled up.

709
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 5: By March, my entire coat closet is piling up on

710
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 5: my chairs, one over the next, over the next, over

711
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 5: the next, over the next.

712
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 3: Oh line nineteen Lisa, Hello, Lisa, what's going on in

713
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: your house? Like extra well, doing well, but what's going

714
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 3: on in your house?

715
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 14: It's extra irritating, Oh, irritating and disgusting. So my husband

716
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 14: when he gets out of the shower has to get

717
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 14: the big bottle of gold bond, opens his underwear, shakes

718
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 14: it in there until when I tell you the floor,

719
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 14: the rug, the wall, I actually now you. I don't

720
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 14: even use our manster bathroom. I use the guest bathroom.

721
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 3: Wait, you know, you know we have quite we have

722
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 3: quite the optics, quite the visual of your husband just

723
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 3: pulling his underwear out. I was like shaking the pad.

724
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:40,719
Speaker 7: It everywhere shower.

725
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 14: He won't do it as a walk and shower, and

726
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 14: wait till it gets out, so and then there's so

727
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 14: much in there, it goes up the back and then

728
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 14: he has it like straight up his back, out of

729
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 14: his back, and I yell at him.

730
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 7: All the time.

731
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 14: We went to we went to Costa Rica like two

732
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 14: years ago, and I asked him, I said, please, can

733
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 14: you do that in a shower, because when he did

734
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 14: it the first day, it was like just picture like

735
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 14: your cameratops full of flour and you make an indention

736
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 14: in there I walk, my feet are in his powder,

737
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 14: and so now I don't even use the bathroom. I

738
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 14: just I have by everything set up in the guest bathroom.

739
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 14: I started like brushing my teeth and it is that

740
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 14: this gross teaste, and I realized this powder is going everywhere.

741
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 3: Now once you might hold.

742
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 14: Yes, so when you walk into his bathroom, it's like

743
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,239
Speaker 14: it looks like it's like three hundred years old, with

744
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 14: dust set everywhere. Everything's so.

745
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 3: At least he's not scratching his nuts all the time.

746
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 7: Well, you know, he says, my thighs get chased.

747
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 14: Okay, that's fine, do it before you come out of

748
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 14: the shower.

749
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 3: Okay, okay. So it's just one of those little irritating Well,

750
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Speaker 3: thank you, thank you for sharing with us.

751
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 19: What else, Oh, you want to know what the.

752
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: Habit says about you?

753
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 15: Yeah?

754
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 19: Well, first of all, we talked about soaking dishes in

755
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 19: the sink. What about people who leave unopened mail just

756
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 19: piling up?

757
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 8: Anyone here do that?

758
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 9: Oh?

759
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 19: Yes, Sometimes you're likely someone who doesn't check their voicemail

760
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 19: because it makes you anxious. You have an extreme fear

761
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 19: of the unknown, and you are marginally, if that, equipped

762
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 19: to navigate adult life.

763
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:31,839
Speaker 1: Leaving kitchen cabinets open.

764
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Speaker 19: It says you're made of equal parts courage and fear,

765
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 19: brave enough to start any old test that pops into

766
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 19: your mind, but too afraid to finish one god forsaken project.

767
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 19: You leave doors open in life in general, so you

768
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 19: never fully leave a situation. Your life is dominated by

769
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 19: what ifs, and you'll likely never learn to take definitive action.

770
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 15: Oh God, how can you were doing that?

771
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 8: Walk around with the cabinets open. Don't drove me nuts.

772
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 3: Crazy clo I mean, it takes no effort whatsoever to close.

773
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 3: My favorite thing is walking across the bathroom floor with

774
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 3: my bare feet and I'm like, what's that? And I've

775
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 3: lift my foot up and there's an old toenail stuck

776
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 3: to the bottom of my foot.

777
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: No sick.

778
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 19: If you want to know about the people who leave

779
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 19: one bite or sip, it means you're self absorbed in

780
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 19: a free spirit, too busy thinking about your own life

781
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 19: to care about anybody else's. Your fun is hell to

782
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 19: be around because you live in the moment, But when

783
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 19: faced with the consequences of your own actions, you claim

784
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 19: it's not your problem, when you, in fact are everyone's problem.

785
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 8: You're a douche bag.

786
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 3: That is, Yeah, someway. Apparently we bitch and moan about

787
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 3: the people that we live with that do these things.

788
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 3: I'm sure we do things as well.

789
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: I think I do almost all the things on that list.

790
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 3: The microwave timer is and when I'm guilty. But I

791
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 3: don't see what the problem is with that still. I

792
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:54,240
Speaker 3: just I just don't.

793
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 2: The Mercedes Benz.

794
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 3: Welcome home, honey. At Mercedes, there's a reason they go

795
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 3: the extra mile, from testing their vehicles in desert heat

796
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 3: and arctic cold to creating AI that can anticipate your

797
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 3: needs and preferences on the road. They demand every car

798
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,280
Speaker 3: is worthy of their star because it's Mercedes Benz.

799
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 2: Elvis d ran in the Morning Show. Elvis ter ran

800
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 2: in the Morning Show.

801
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 3: So Nate approached me yesterday and said, you know what

802
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 3: this list is for you? Yeah, so I looked at

803
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 3: it this morning. The headline is fifteen reasons why the

804
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 3: older you are, the more you hate everyone.

805
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 1: So true.

806
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 3: See, okay, see you're all younger than me. But I'm

807
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 3: telling you, if you're not feeling these things now, Froggy Danielle,

808
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: you will Gandhi scary, you will oh God.

809
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 6: The older you.

810
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 3: Get, the more often people let you down, okay, and

811
00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:00,240
Speaker 3: have let you down. As you age, you become more

812
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 3: or burned out. Have you noticing this these things with me?

813
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 3: I'm guilty.

814
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you're burned out.

815
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 3: Number three you learn over time that people ruin all

816
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 3: the coolest things.

817
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: Yes, that's true.

818
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 3: Do you ever find yourself saying I hate people?

819
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 6: Yes?

820
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, because they run on the gun stuff like earth.

821
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: They destroyed it, they did.

822
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 3: Number four You find that most people you meet are

823
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 3: boring as hell.

824
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 21: Yeah.

825
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, where did we get this? We gotta give them credit.

826
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 3: We'll find out. Yes, I find a lot of people

827
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 3: are boring. Number five you discover that ninety nine percent

828
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 3: of the people you meet are total fakes.

829
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:39,720
Speaker 1: Also true.

830
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 3: They sugarcoat things that shouldn't be sugarcoated. They don't tell

831
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 3: you the truth. When you're my age, Danielle, you'll see that.

832
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: Okay, did you write this list?

833
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 3: Number I'm living it. Number six you realize that dealing

834
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 3: with people's drama is exhausting. Oh yeah, I'd rather be

835
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 3: alone or hiding under my bed than deal with your bs.

836
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 8: I'm with you with that.

837
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 3: Oh, this is one I've definitely learned this past year,

838
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 3: and maybe you have as well. You become more introverted

839
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 3: as you age. Yep, my batteries are charged up. When

840
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 3: I'm alone, I want to put.

841
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 16: A big bubble over the house. Let certain people into

842
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 16: the bubble.

843
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: Number eight fifteen reasons why the older you are, the

844
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 3: more you hate everyone. Number eight as years past, you're

845
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 3: tolerant for people judging you and telling you what to do.

846
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 3: Shrinks to zero. Oh yeah, hey, Elvis, I think you

847
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 3: should shut up.

848
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, don't care what you think.

849
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 3: Number nine may not be true or not, but you

850
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 3: sure feel it. The longer you've been alive, the worst

851
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 3: people treat you in general. When you're a kid, everyone

852
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 3: coddles you and loves you. When you're older, like, bam.

853
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: That's true.

854
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 19: You get away with all kinds of stuff as a

855
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 19: kid because you're cute, and as an.

856
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 1: Adult it's weird. If you like dinosaurs, it's true.

857
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 3: Number ten. By the time you're thirty, you realize that

858
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 3: your pets are more mature than the people you hang

859
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 3: out with.

860
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 8: Oh my goodness.

861
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 3: Number eleven. There's a certain point where you just can't

862
00:38:56,120 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 3: deal with people's shallow behavior. I know, I feel that way. Twelve.

863
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 3: People have really messed up expectations about how others should

864
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 3: treat them versus how they treat others. Oh yeah, we

865
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 3: live in a whirl full of a holes. That's why

866
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 3: we have to get together every morning so we can

867
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 3: be our own little a little click of a click

868
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 3: of a hole. Number thirteen. When push comes to shove,

869
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: Getting older also means you realize that most people just

870
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:26,479
Speaker 3: aren't worth your time. Number fourteen. As you get older,

871
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 3: you become more stressed, and you might become a little

872
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 3: more depressed as well, And I'm feeling that a touch

873
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 3: of that from time to time. And finally, as you

874
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 3: get older, you might develop some sort of social anxiety bingo.

875
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 3: I hate you, I hate all of you. To be

876
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 3: perfectly honest, I love people, and I love the people

877
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 3: I work with every day, and I'm blessed. But you know,

878
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 3: every once in a while, when you see the news,

879
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 3: you hear about what's going on not only here but

880
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 3: around the world and how people treat each other. Yeah, yours,

881
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 3: like God, there's no escaping it. So you have to

882
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 3: make your own circle of sun. You got to. You

883
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 3: have to bring in only the people that you love

884
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 3: and trust and the ones you don't stay away?

885
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 16: Right, you want to come in my bubble that I'm

886
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 16: going to get for the house.

887
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 6: I mean this big white bubble.

888
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 3: I'll be nice.

889
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 8: It's going to be over the house. I'm only letting

890
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 8: in like certain people. That's all.

891
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 3: I found that online on Elite Daily Elite thank you. Look,

892
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 3: I don't mean to be like a mean old bastard,

893
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 3: but you know what, it's okay. I think it's good

894
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 3: for us to be in touch with these feelings where

895
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,479
Speaker 3: we're disappointed by other people. But at the same time,

896
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 3: you know, give credit to those who bring light into

897
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 3: your life. And I'm sitting in front of five or

898
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 3: six of them right now. Who's that?

899
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 6: That's Kelly?

900
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 17: Hello, Kelly, Hello, good morning.

901
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 3: Good morning. Are you here to be sunshine or be awful?

902
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 9: No?

903
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 2: Awful?

904
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 10: I hate people.

905
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 8: You can come into the bubble. Do you want to

906
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:58,280
Speaker 8: come into the bubble.

907
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 17: I would love to have a big bubble, a work bubble,

908
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 17: a home bubble, many bubbles.

909
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 3: Look, you know, let me, may I translate. I don't

910
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 3: know if this is this applies to you, but I'm

911
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 3: hoping it does because it does to me. I don't

912
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 3: hate people. I just have higher expectations from people than

913
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 3: I should have. My dad used to tell me when

914
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 3: I was a kid, Kelly, lower lower your expectations of people,

915
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 3: and you'll be better off. And I don't think we

916
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 3: should do that, do you. I mean people should be cool.

917
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,399
Speaker 17: Yeah, no, I don't think you should have to lower

918
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 17: your expectations. But I think we expect more out of

919
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 17: people that we a lot of times are let down.

920
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,359
Speaker 22: My mom wake up to Elvis drain in the Morning show,

921
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 22: exactly right.

922
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, so the problems hours then, are we expecting too much?

923
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 4: Yeah?

924
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 1: No, it's everybody else for.

925
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 10: Sure, exactly.

926
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 17: I got to blame everybody else but Kelly.

927
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 3: On the other side of that, don't you have people

928
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 3: in your life that are Thank God I have them

929
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 3: in my life. I mean they are the people that

930
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 3: bring the light in Oh.

931
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,919
Speaker 17: You always have that one special friend. And of course

932
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,240
Speaker 17: then you have your family. I'm married with two children

933
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 17: and love them to death. Without them, life would really

934
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 17: be miserable.

935
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 3: Okay, is this why we all agree on this statement.

936
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 3: The older you get, the less friends you have.

937
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

938
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 17: Oh yeah, you whit you know, you whittle away the

939
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 17: ones that are, like you said, that are fake and

940
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 17: you find out as you get older that that's one

941
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 17: hundred percent true and.

942
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 19: It's not a bad thing. I think it's actually a

943
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 19: good thing. Like when I heard that when I was younger,

944
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 19: I thought it sounded sad, like, no, I'm not going

945
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 19: to have any friends when I get older. But then

946
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 19: it's like no, you realize you're going to have the

947
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 19: good people in your life, and then it's so much.

948
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, tennis places, you.

949
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 17: Don't want them in your life anymore. So you move

950
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 17: on and you become actually a happier person. You learn

951
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 17: to love yourself and love everybody else for what they are.

952
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 16: The tennis place, we the soccer bubble, Like there's those

953
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 16: big white bubbles and then like you go inside and

954
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 16: there's a turf field. Whenever I just keep thinking, I

955
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 16: put trees in there, some oxygen.

956
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 3: You can't. Okay, in reality, you can't do that.

957
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 8: I think I can.

958
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 3: Okay, that's Georgia.

959
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 17: In soccer, and that's a lot of the drama. Parents

960
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 17: or just have lost their minds these days. They all

961
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 17: think their children are going, you know, to play US

962
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 17: national team. So that's pretty fun.

963
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 3: You said that, Okay, So what should we do differently?

964
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 3: Because I must admit I do get some sort of

965
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 3: weird satisfaction going online and seeing Karen's yelling at people

966
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 3: in parking lots and stuff. But at the same time,

967
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, gosh, where can we slither off to to

968
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 3: get away from that? So we need to find a

969
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 3: way to regulate it in our hearts and in our

970
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 3: minds and souls and and understand that that's that's going

971
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 3: to that's going to be our life for the rest

972
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:40,919
Speaker 3: of our lives. So we need the balance with the good.

973
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 8: So how many times a day do you say? What

974
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 8: the hell is wrong with people? Every day?

975
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 3: All right? Kelly?

976
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 12: Thank you?

977
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 3: I hope you have a great day to day and

978
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 3: not every.

979
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 5: I love you guys.

980
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 17: I've listened to you for years and years, and honestly,

981
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 17: I'm a nurse practitioner. You guys kept me saying so

982
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 17: thank you very much.

983
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 10: I appreciate all of you.

984
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 3: Ah, you just admitted being sane. How's that going for you?

985
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 3: Hight I'm with it, Kelly, thank you very much. It's

986
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 3: a pleasure.

987
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 2: Don't answer the phone, Elvis Duran, the Elvis Duran phone tap?

988
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 4: All right?

989
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 3: Scary? What is your phone tap all about?

990
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 5: Said the emailed us wanting to phone tap her husband John,

991
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 5: who's obsessed with shoveling snow as soon as it falls,

992
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 5: and no matter how much or little is out there.

993
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 3: He's neurotic about his property.

994
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 5: And last time they had a storm up north, they

995
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 5: came by with the plows pushed all the snow back

996
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 5: in front of his property.

997
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 6: He's filed a complaint with snow removing people, and he

998
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 6: has not heard that. All right, guess who I'm going

999
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 6: to be.

1000
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 3: Let's head up north, as you call it, for a

1001
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 3: little a snow stap, a snowtap here, let's listen to

1002
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 3: a scary's phone tap.

1003
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 11: What going on?

1004
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:51,959
Speaker 2: You're not going to believe it?

1005
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:53,360
Speaker 3: Well, the Department of Sanitation.

1006
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 16: It is a truck.

1007
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 10: And he keeps going around the block again and again

1008
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 10: and again.

1009
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 3: You're going with the same and.

1010
00:44:58,160 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 2: The car it's all covered up again.

1011
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 3: He gets one packed again, the same truck, same jock,

1012
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 3: same jock.

1013
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 15: Say right, god, I know, I know, I.

1014
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 12: Know you work so hard.

1015
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 16: I mean either he's been out there.

1016
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 2: For three all off the guy.

1017
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 3: Okay, I want to talk to him.

1018
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 9: I want to light this one. Okay, don't let him go,

1019
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 9: all right, he's coming down the tea, Go go, go go.

1020
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 15: I'm not there.

1021
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,399
Speaker 3: I want to talk to I wanted, I want to write.

1022
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 9: I am so sick of cleaning up that day.

1023
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 3: Get him put on the phone.

1024
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 11: Now, what do you want?

1025
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 3: What emergency?

1026
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 6: What's going on?

1027
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 14: Hey?

1028
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 11: You hear me?

1029
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 3: What did I do? What's going on?

1030
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 21: What do you?

1031
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 11: What do you?

1032
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 22: Hey?

1033
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 2: Hello?

1034
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 10: Is this your hell?

1035
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 4: Can you hear me?

1036
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 3: What's your bad?

1037
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 6: Bruno?

1038
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 3: Brut what does the matter?

1039
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 21: You are?

1040
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 3: You're the guy? Are you the guy that you? Is

1041
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:45,399
Speaker 3: this your route?

1042
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 21: Do you do?

1043
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 5: You do you work this route regularly?

1044
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 21: Do?

1045
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 5: I'm tired of firing a dozen complaints with the pop

1046
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 5: in sanitation and never getting in an ass up to

1047
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 5: answer me.

1048
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 3: Now you're the one. Hey, you listen to what I

1049
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 3: have to say. Bruno, Okay, you have been covering my

1050
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 3: car every time you while the neighborhood.

1051
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 5: I am tired of shoveling, insulting my driveway and then

1052
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 5: have you pile that in front of my house like

1053
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 5: they get.

1054
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:08,959
Speaker 4: Out of my house?

1055
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 6: Do you know you almost got me suspended?

1056
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 4: You know what?

1057
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 3: You should be suspended, you son of a bitch. You

1058
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 3: have no right to cover my driveway like this. I'm

1059
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 3: so sick of you're going.

1060
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 5: There because you live on the right side of the

1061
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 5: street and the plow blades face to the right. If

1062
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 5: there's snow in the street, it's going on your property.

1063
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 3: You sunt up bit. I'm on my way right now.

1064
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 16: I'm fifty minute, I kick yours.

1065
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 5: This is four storm's worth of slush and snow and ice,

1066
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,240
Speaker 5: and this car has been sitting here the whole time.

1067
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: So I want you to move your car.

1068
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 15: All that I have said, sick powers get in my

1069
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:37,240
Speaker 15: car out.

1070
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 5: After you've buried it, and you've done it from the

1071
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 5: fall time, talking to every car on my street.

1072
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,280
Speaker 4: It's got stuck couse.

1073
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 5: Of you people keep throwing snow into the middle of

1074
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,760
Speaker 5: the street. I'm coming by with my plow. I'm sorry

1075
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 5: if your car is in the way, but I gotta

1076
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 5: tell you right now, I got to remove the rest

1077
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 5: of this snow, so your car's.

1078
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 4: Gonna get done.

1079
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 15: I have the right.

1080
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 5: You don't have the right to do that to people

1081
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,919
Speaker 5: who live in this neighborhood. You do not have the right, okay,

1082
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 5: And you don't have a right to comple to my

1083
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 5: superiors about the job I'm doing.

1084
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 3: I want to talk to you no more.

1085
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 15: I'm gonna do there ten minutes to get.

1086
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 3: My wife on the phone.

1087
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 6: Now, gonna write you guys up here, take your phone.

1088
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 6: I gotta get back to work.

1089
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 2: Oh he's really pissed off.

1090
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 3: Where's it going?

1091
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:12,320
Speaker 7: Oh?

1092
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 11: Oh my god, you just got the snuff and it's

1093
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 11: just this is luck and he's pushing it back up

1094
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:18,280
Speaker 11: the street.

1095
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,280
Speaker 3: What he's pushing it all back into the street.

1096
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 4: We put you back.

1097
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 12: Oh, here he comes.

1098
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 15: I'm gonna.

1099
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 7: I have.

1100
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 12: I to do the top ray you don't have it.

1101
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 11: You gotta calls.

1102
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 6: I want you to look all the breeze.

1103
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Yeah, I got my eye.

1104
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what.

1105
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 2: Suck it.

1106
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 10: I'm gonna being five minutes.

1107
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 3: You keep him back, I'm gonna be a proct You

1108
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 3: tell you.

1109
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 5: Want to keep him for a hundred dollars, I'll dig

1110
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 5: your car right out for you.

1111
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 9: Why am I talking to you?

1112
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 3: Get my wife on the phone right now.

1113
00:47:53,800 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 5: You've been phone tapped, even phone tapped John John's Scary

1114
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 5: Jones in the Morning Show.

1115
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 6: No you love me, John, you love me? You love

1116
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 6: your wife.

1117
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 3: I can't believe you.

1118
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 2: Elvis Dan's phone tap.

1119
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 5: This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by

1120
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 5: all participates.

1121
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 2: The Elvis Terran phone tap only on Elvis Duran in

1122
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 2: the morning show.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know who on the show did this,

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Speaker 3: but I want to thank you, But don't fess up.

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Speaker 3: Someone sent a text in and said, hey, w t

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Speaker 3: e F what's up with this show? It sounds like garbage,

1127
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,879
Speaker 3: and someone sitting back a text you know what's up.

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Speaker 3: We're blocking you, that's what's up, and they bothered.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 3: I don't want to know who did it, but I

1131
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 3: thank you.

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00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: Can we say if we didn't do it, because we

1133
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 1: know we're the suspect.

1134
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 3: Did you do it?

1135
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 4: No?

1136
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't want to know. It doesn't matter. Okay,

1137
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 3: So here's my point. You're gonna take the time to

1138
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 3: pick up your phone and texts that come at us.

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00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 22: Yeah, it's not nice you first of all, and your

1140
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 22: family and your pets, not the pets, and whoever whoever

1141
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,399
Speaker 22: pumped gas into your car last night, f them too.

1142
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 6: Yeah, Nate, what it.

1143
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,479
Speaker 3: Wasn't even that good of an insult, to be honest

1144
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 3: with you, it was. People have come at us much harder.

1145
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. Oh yeah, that's why we now have a

1146
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 3: new segment on text only. It's called come at Me Pro,

1147
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 3: which is basically another day in the life of Gandhi

1148
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 3: on social media.

1149
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay, I can take this.

1150
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 3: Let's go all right, So come at us. You now

1151
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 3: have just a few moments where you are allowed to

1152
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 3: come at us on text at fifty five one hundred.

1153
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 8: I think you should put a time limit on it though,

1154
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 8: Like tell me what time.

1155
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, anyone who comes at us, Bros. Any bros that

1156
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 3: come at us after seven thirty East Coast time, you

1157
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:52,720
Speaker 3: will be blocked.

1158
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 21: You have.

1159
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 3: You have twenty minutes to come at us.

1160
00:49:58,719 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 8: Come at us.

1161
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 3: Here we are sitting a golden tower awaiting our pizza

1162
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 3: to be delivered. Yeah, life is good for us. We

1163
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 3: can take a little bit of heat. So come at us, bro.

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00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 3: Text and data rates may apply, Bro, So come at

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00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 3: us at fifty five. What's scary?

1166
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 4: They say?

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00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 5: It's always good to vents. So this is like a

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00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 5: therapy session for everybody listening.

1169
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 3: This is beat us to make yourself feel better. No,

1170
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 3: all right, I'm waiting waiting for all the bros to

1171
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 3: come at us. It here you go play some f

1172
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 3: and music. Here we go here we go. The bros

1173
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 3: are coming at us. We can laugh and laugh and laugh.

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00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 6: What Elvis, you've got a case of botox face? I do,

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00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 6: I do?

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00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 3: I don't know you're talking about. They're blocked. They're blocked

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00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 3: on mine but not yours. I know, but why is

1178
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 3: it not blocked? That means they were blocked at one point? Bro,

1179
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 3: you suck? What what? None of your voices match your

1180
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:10,240
Speaker 3: goofy faces. That's why we do radio.

1181
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 11: Hello.

1182
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 3: Let's see. You guys are the best, no matter what

1183
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:18,399
Speaker 3: anyone says. See that's not fun. You're not you're you're

1184
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 3: you're two nice. Come on, bro, come at me.

1185
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 8: We appreciate you that.

1186
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,439
Speaker 3: Your mom is a monkey. Oh thank you, My mom's

1187
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 3: passed away. But I appreciate that. Scary looks like the

1188
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 3: kind of guy who would pay for a hot girl's

1189
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 3: fart over the internet. Come at us, bro fifty. This

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00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 3: is the text number. Oh my god, your show is

1191
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 3: nothing without Greg Tea. Okay, thank you texting us. I

1192
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 3: can give you his address if you want to go

1193
00:51:56,600 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 3: follow him. Stf you put the music on. You guys

1194
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 3: are bitches.

1195
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god. They were coming in so fast and furious.

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00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 3: The keyword is furious, come out, his come out, his

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00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 3: pro You know what, I'm gonna give you like seven

1198
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,799
Speaker 3: more minutes and then we're gonna start walking around. My

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00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 3: deaf son even hates Daniell's laugh Yondi's voice is annoying.

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Speaker 18: Foggy doesn't do jack S word. He sits at home

1201
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 18: in Florida. I'm in a studio, your dumb ass.

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00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 8: Hey, you can't go back at them.

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00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: I can't say anything.

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00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 10: You can.

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00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 6: What what is a five out of ten?

1206
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 3: There you go. I've heard better music at a funeral?

1207
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 3: Says this.

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00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,720
Speaker 1: Oh god, he looks like piglet at first Lance.

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00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 4: Wait, wait, which which.

1210
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 16: Your late night show host does this where they have

1211
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 16: him read their.

1212
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: What?

1213
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 6: What does Nate seem like the guy that would judge

1214
00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 6: his own kid?

1215
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 8: Oh my goodness.

1216
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 15: I like the people that think they're blocked but they're not.

1217
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,959
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Daniel needs to do her reports without

1218
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 3: saying uh, I don't think so. Daniel's laughing so irritating,

1219
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 3: like nails on a shockboard. Also, I'm not a bro,

1220
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 3: I'm a hoe. Okay, oh boy, yeah, there's something's so

1221
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 3: bad we can't read the Froggy looks like the creepy

1222
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 3: old bus driver that you wanted nothing to do with. Okay, good,

1223
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 3: Nate looks like a murderer if you bro in your

1224
00:53:55,040 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 3: stupid segments. All right, it is great, Come at us,

1225
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 3: bro No one wants to touch this.

1226
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 4: Anyway.

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00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,760
Speaker 3: They were done for at a time. Join us again

1228
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 3: as we get together for another session of come at me,

1229
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 3: brok you. That was a good idea there, Nate. Nate

1230
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 3: had an idea.

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00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 6: What they're still coming in?

1232
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 3: I mean, we gotta let you go to your microphone.

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00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 3: You have a microphone over there. Why are you coming

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00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 3: to mind? This is? This belongs to scary in me.

1235
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 3: El Miss's voice is too smooth and sexy for his appearance.

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00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 3: Oh thank you.

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00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 8: That's like one of those poop that.

1238
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 3: Is that's a crap sandwich. It's like a compliment, and

1239
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 3: a dig would use it. Nate would use his own

1240
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 3: child to shield himself from harm. That's my hatred for

1241
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,760
Speaker 3: Elmo has grown because of Danielle.

1242
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 4: I hate you.

1243
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 3: Scottie Be looks like he spells like cat pee.

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00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 6: I sometimes do.

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00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 3: Wait, here's someone who says, don't block me, all right,

1246
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna block them.

1247
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 15: No, don't all right?

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00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:13,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're coming fast, fast, and furious.

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00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 6: All right, Oh what.

1250
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 19: Someone got Danielle and I in one text. Danielle's laugh

1251
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 19: is of noxious and Gandhi's a bitch.

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00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 3: Come at me, bro? What's this one? Right here? My

1253
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 3: deaf son can't stand your guys laugh.

1254
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 15: You already used that joke. Find a new one.

1255
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 3: No, no, this is another one. A lot of deaf

1256
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 3: kids have parents that listen to our show.

1257
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 6: Who knew?

1258
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 3: Please be Helen Keller and talk with your hands and

1259
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 3: play some music.

1260
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 8: Wow, that's rude. That's not nice.

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00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 6: Scary smells like expired mustard and onions.

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00:55:56,480 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 3: Onions, Yeah, mustard, just mustard expire. All right, I think

1263
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 3: we're done. From now on, all insults will be blocked.

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00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 3: Thank you for playing.

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00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:11,359
Speaker 2: Come mat me Burrow Elvis ter Rands After Party.

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00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 3: Okay, Danielle, if you're gonna go.

1267
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:18,399
Speaker 2: Topics you've never here on the air, Oh God, get

1268
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 2: away from Katy that listen now on the iHeartRadio app

1269
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 2: or wherever you.

1270
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 9: Get your podcasts.

1271
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 3: It is the what is it called.

1272
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 2: Elvister Rands After Party? Ask for it by names Elvister

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00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 2: in the Morning Show, Elvister, Elvis ter Ran and the

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00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Quick Question, I want you to think about it. What

1276
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 3: is something you thought would be really easy to do,

1277
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:44,319
Speaker 3: but when you did it, it was the most difficult thing.

1278
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 3: Just think it through. Okay, we've got a great text

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00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:52,839
Speaker 3: from Wayne. Hi Wayne, Hey, Elvis, how are you doing well?

1280
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 3: So Wayne is with Kristen and Uh. They're driving from

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00:56:56,200 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 3: Saint Louis to New Jersey with a cryotherapy chain. We're

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00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 3: in the back of their giant trailer.

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00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 15: Wow.

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Speaker 3: This is a first for me talking to someone who's

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00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 3: driving across the country with the cryotherapy chamber. What's going on?

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00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 3: Why are you doing this?

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00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 9: It's the first for us as well. We never drove

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00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 9: trailer before, so it's really fun. We're doing this because

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00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 9: cryotherapy can help in so many ways. It helps people

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00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 9: struggling with addiction, people with pain, a holistic way to

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00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 9: help heal. We work with a lot of people who

1292
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 9: struggle with rheumatoris writis, which is why I opened it.

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Speaker 6: For my mom.

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Speaker 9: She was on multiple medications, had mobility issues, and within

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Speaker 9: three sessions she was doing amazing. They're only three minutes each.

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Speaker 9: We work with a lot of people with addiction as well,

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Speaker 9: and it's simply amazing because you boost so many endorphins.

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Speaker 6: While you do it.

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Speaker 9: We are eight hundred calories in three minutes too.

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Speaker 3: So cryotherapy, if you're wondering what it is, I mean,

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00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 3: imagine pumping into a coffin, right sort of with.

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Speaker 9: We cooled, We cooled the body teamber. We called the

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00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 9: body Temp're down about thirty degrees.

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00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 3: Right, It's a coffin filled with cold water, and you

1305
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 3: close it. You stay warm.

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00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:07,479
Speaker 6: Are you say dry?

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Speaker 15: It's completely dry?

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00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 3: It's dry. Oh it's a cryotherapy. Was what's the one

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00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 3: with water? I'm thinking, what's the other one?

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00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 6: A cold funds? You're thinking a cold.

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00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 3: Fun well anyway, So okay, back to cryotherapy. It's a

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00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 3: it's a dry coffin you close.

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00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 8: Not the thing that they said Walt Disney.

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00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 3: Was no, no, no, no no. That's where they cut

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Speaker 3: his head off and freeze it.

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00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 4: Oh.

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00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 3: So you're not cutting people's heads off and throwing them

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00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 3: in a freezer, are you, Wayne?

1319
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 21: No? Not yet?

1320
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 3: Okay, So cryotherapy describe Describe the chamber in Layman's terms

1321
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 3: so we can understand. Go ahead.

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00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 9: It looks like a stand up tanning bed that your

1323
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 9: head sticks out of, and then we fill it with

1324
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 9: nitrogen gas. The nitrogen gas cools the body temperage down

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00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 9: about thirty degrees, taking away your pain and inflammation.

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00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 3: Right, inflammation is what's killing us. Inflammation is the killed.

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00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 6: The cause of most disease.

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00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 3: So what is the one where you float in the

1329
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 3: water that's a float tank? Isn't that sensory deprivation? Is

1330
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 3: that what you're thinking of? I don't know, I'm so confused.

1331
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 3: Are you thinking of the Cold Play? And what's the

1332
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 3: thing Daniel is talking about where they cut off Walt

1333
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 3: Disney's head and do it in a freezer?

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00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1335
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 3: That they liked, you know, didn't they like cryogenics? And

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00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 3: so it's cryo but not therapy, just genics. Yeah, you know,

1337
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 3: you don't want to get the address of that appointment.

1338
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 3: Uh okay, But there's more to this story. So Wayne

1339
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 3: is with Kristen and they're driving from Saint Louis to

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Speaker 3: New Jersey with the cryotherapy Uh chamber in the back

1341
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 3: of a trailer. You've never driven a trailer. You're coming

1342
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 3: to New Jersey, the East coast. Now why are you

1343
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 3: coming here? Are you starting a business here? Oh?

1344
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, we have a.

1345
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 9: Store in Asbury Park called Cryo Lee, and we're opening

1346
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 9: another store in Red Banking Jersey and we're doing this

1347
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 9: because it's mobile so we can bring.

1348
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 6: It to you.

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00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 3: Oh wow.

1350
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 7: So our goal, Yeah, our goal is.

1351
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 9: To be able to go to like corporation and do

1352
00:59:56,960 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 9: corporate wellness and then bring into schools and do character building.

1353
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 3: But I know, but you're doing it down the Jersey Shore.

1354
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 3: This is something Snooky should have been a part of.

1355
01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 3: She could have used it. We love Snooky anyway, So

1356
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 3: I love this. I love that you're starting, that you're

1357
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 3: growing a business, You're going to a whole new part

1358
01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 3: of the country, You're you're traveling with a trailer behind

1359
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 3: your truck. I mean, you're doing a lot of firsts.

1360
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 3: And I think that's what we should all be striving

1361
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 3: to do. We should always striving to do something new

1362
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 3: and different. I think that's great.

1363
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 21: Yeah.

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01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 9: And one thing like I learned is like I heard

1365
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 9: a really good podcast and ladies like my dad used

1366
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 9: to ask me every day, what did I fail at today?

1367
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 9: And if she didn't say anything, he wouldn't really give

1368
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 9: a reaction, but if she failed at something, he would.

1369
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 6: Really praise her.

1370
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 9: And I feel that's a new way for us to

1371
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 9: look at things, because if we're not failing.

1372
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 3: We're not trying well exactly, and a lot of people

1373
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 3: are so afraid of failure, me included. I mean, look,

1374
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 3: you know, no one wants to fail, but when you

1375
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 3: do fail, you learn, you need to learn. You don't

1376
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 3: think about it as like a big blip of negativity

1377
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 3: in your life. If you think about it is okay.

1378
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 3: This is an opportunity to learn what I could have

1379
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 3: done differently, or what I need to be doing differently altogether,

1380
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 3: I mean something different. So anyway, I love that you're

1381
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 3: doing this. And when you land in New Jersey, would

1382
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,439
Speaker 3: you get in touch with us and we'd love to

1383
01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 3: hook you up. I'd like to stand I'd like to

1384
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 3: stand in your chamber for a minute, if you know

1385
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

1386
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 7: Absolutely, that's so cool.

1387
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 3: Oh there's Kristin. Hi, Kristin, I thought you were taking

1388
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 3: a nap.

1389
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 15: Hey, we just stopped off with some refreshment, so I'm kin.

1390
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 7: You know the legwork.

1391
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 3: The nice question for a friend? What what does a

1392
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 3: guy do with his package when he's being subjected to

1393
01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 3: sub zero temperatures?

1394
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,160
Speaker 7: Why time tell someone to put a.

1395
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 6: Sock on it?

1396
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 3: Put a sock on it?

1397
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 2: Oh?

1398
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 3: Does he the problem? Take care of itself. What doesn't

1399
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 3: the problem take care of itself?

1400
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 8: I mean you could, No, you definitely need to cover it.

1401
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 8: Why you could freeze and fall off?

1402
01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 6: Well you get prop.

1403
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 15: By Oh damn, even it was possible.

1404
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 3: I don't listen to even listen even try it? Well, look,

1405
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 3: thank you so much for spending time with.

1406
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 9: Us, too, brown Burn only to seet and.

1407
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 15: Listen to you.

1408
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 3: Be very careful on the road and drive safe. Okay,

1409
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 3: thanks for listening to us.

1410
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:18,080
Speaker 6: Thank you guys, have a good one.

1411
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 3: There you go. Wayne and Kristen driving around with a

1412
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:23,920
Speaker 3: cryotherapy chamber in the back of their trailer. What are

1413
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 3: you doing today? Seriously? Text me? Now what weird? I'm

1414
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 3: not saying that was weird? What unusual thing are you

1415
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 3: doing right now? But wait, I brought up a topic.

1416
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 3: It is they're going to go what what did you

1417
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 3: think was easy to do? But once you did it,

1418
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 3: you're like, no, I was very wrong. Yeah do you

1419
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 3: have one?

1420
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1421
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, frog go.

1422
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 18: So when I was when I was a kid and

1423
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 18: was always out on the water, my friends could always

1424
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 18: barefoot water ski.

1425
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 15: I'm like, God, it's not that hard. You just stand

1426
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 15: up and just do it. Oh yeah, that went bad.

1427
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1428
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 15: Yeah, it's much much, much harder than it looks.

1429
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 3: I would think it would be. What about you, Danielle?

1430
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 16: So I have two What is French braiding hair? I

1431
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 16: cannot figure it out for the life of me. I

1432
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:09,439
Speaker 16: watch tutorials. It looks so easy, but nope. The other

1433
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 16: is knitting and crocheting. My mom has been trying to

1434
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 16: teach me because she makes all these really cool things.

1435
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 8: I cannot figure it out. I'm like, nope, it's too hard.

1436
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 8: I can't figure it out.

1437
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I would think those would be difficult too.

1438
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 3: I would never think either of them was easy. Scary

1439
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 3: real quick.

1440
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 5: What do you got when my brother, well, when he

1441
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 5: was younger, he used to skateboard and he's like, dude,

1442
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:29,400
Speaker 5: he goes, you could do it too, And he tried

1443
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 5: to get me to skateboarding.

1444
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:33,439
Speaker 6: I fell in my ass several times. Not a good thing.

1445
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 3: So it's not for everyone.

1446
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 6: I thought it was gonna be easy, but you know,

1447
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:37,960
Speaker 6: he's gonna jump on and just roll down this hill.

1448
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 3: Okay, here's mine riding a mechanical bull Oh yeah. Oh

1449
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:46,520
Speaker 3: now you're like, well what, yeah, you just sit on

1450
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 3: it and get a grip of the handle and it

1451
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 3: and it goes really slow. Then it turns and I

1452
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 3: fall off within the first two seconds. And you're like, well,

1453
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 3: it's moving slowly, why are you falling off? Because you

1454
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 3: just do it because it turns and twists your body

1455
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 3: and weird gyrations and yeah, riding a mechanical bull and

1456
01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 3: I got to tell you all of the above, crocheting,

1457
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:16,320
Speaker 3: skiing without skis, riding a skateboard, and what was yours? Well,

1458
01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 3: I've got I've got several. Give me your number one favorite. Okay,

1459
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 3: playing a piano. I thought it would be so easy,

1460
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 3: and then I could never get past Oscar the Octopus

1461
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 3: when I was doing that. You know that that kids

1462
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 3: primer on how to play right, play this song Oscar

1463
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 3: the Octopus, and I never learned. And I can play

1464
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 3: a piano, never learned Oscar the Octopus. But I think

1465
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 3: all of the above are very difficult. Playing a piano

1466
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 3: is not easy at all. No, but you know, once

1467
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 3: you get started, whoa raising children? People are texting in

1468
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's definitely not easy.

1469
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 15: There's no manual for that.

1470
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 9: No.

1471
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 3: Being an adult, right, go into the driving range. Oh

1472
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 3: I can't, I can't hit a golf ball to save

1473
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 3: my life either. I cannot golf froggy, and people that

1474
01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 3: try to teach me they lose patience quickly.

1475
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 15: I've been playing for a long time and I sucked too.

1476
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 3: So no, you don't, you're good. Well, here's a difficult

1477
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 3: day for Jen Hi, Jen Hi. Hello, So you have

1478
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 3: a difficult thing to do today? You want to tell

1479
01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 3: everyone about it? What do you have to do?

1480
01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 21: So? I have to fire my first employee, and I'm

1481
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 21: so nervous about it because I'm a nice person and

1482
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 21: I'm just freaking out.

1483
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 3: Don't freak out. It's a part of it. I mean,

1484
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 3: you're so, you're I'm assuming you're in management.

1485
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 4: Newly.

1486
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, I love a week ago.

1487
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 3: But you know you want to practice on Nate practice on?

1488
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 3: Can you let me let Nate go? Just fire him?

1489
01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 13: I'm sorry, you've murdered too many people, and I'm I'm sorry.

1490
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 3: I got let you go. You know what you're You're

1491
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 3: probably gonna surprise yourself at how well you get through this.

1492
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 3: But I know your heart's beating, you got butterflies in

1493
01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 3: your stomach. It's it's it's got to be nerve racking.

1494
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 16: Now, Wait, do they have do they deserve to be

1495
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 16: let go or is it just something that unfortunately has

1496
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 16: to happen.

1497
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 23: Yeah, between attitude, latenesses and like calling out last minute.

1498
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 7: Oh okay, it's nothing warranted.

1499
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 3: All right, Well it's time to move on. You know

1500
01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 3: when I when I sit down at the boss's desk

1501
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:18,680
Speaker 3: and the first words out of their mouth is, you know, Elvis,

1502
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 3: this is never easy. Oh god, good, here's do you.

1503
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 3: There's also there's a level of guilt in there, Isn't

1504
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 3: there a little bit? Oh yeah, yeah, here's the thing

1505
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 3: about that, and I'll address that.

1506
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 24: Uh.

1507
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 3: And this may sound kind of cold, but what you're

1508
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 3: about to do is release them to go find another

1509
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 3: job and another opportunity, and you wish them well. The

1510
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 3: thing is that you have to trust that they're gonna

1511
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 3: be okay without you, without you protecting them from unemployment.

1512
01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 3: And you know, being fired is just a sad reality.

1513
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 3: And you know I've been fired many times and probably

1514
01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:02,640
Speaker 3: at the end of today, no let go. But it is.

1515
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 3: You know, I had to let someone go because of

1516
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:07,800
Speaker 3: of money issues. And a friend of mine said, why

1517
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 3: are you feel so guilty about this? Is it because

1518
01:07:09,600 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 3: I want to protect the people that work for us?

1519
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 3: You know, I want to make sure everyone's okay. Well,

1520
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 3: and I know we have they have to go. You know,

1521
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 3: I understand that. And his words to me were, you

1522
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 3: know what, get off your high horse and stop thinking

1523
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 3: that you're the only thing that's keeping this person afloat

1524
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 3: and alive. They have a brain, they are smart, they

1525
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 3: are gonna be okay, don't think that you are You're

1526
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 3: so great and powerful that you're then their only hope

1527
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 3: in life.

1528
01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 21: And I'm like, okay, I think it's like an it's

1529
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 21: an empathy thing too.

1530
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, he put yourself in there.

1531
01:07:42,960 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 16: Choose.

1532
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, yeah, of course. And it's it's a it's

1533
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 3: a it's a rough road out there. But listen, best

1534
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 3: of luck to you, Jen, and uh do what you

1535
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 3: gotta do. And uh, you know what, let us know

1536
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:56,919
Speaker 3: Texas tomorrow and let us let us know that you're doing. Okay,

1537
01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 3: give us a thumbs up.

1538
01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 8: Okay, Well he's got it's.

1539
01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 3: Take it easy, bye bye. What's up, Nate?

1540
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 15: It is never easy. I mean, I've been let go

1541
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 15: twice and it sucks.

1542
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:10,040
Speaker 3: But do I think back on that guy that fired

1543
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 3: me the first time and think do I hate him? Yeah?

1544
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 3: Am I glad he did it? Yes, yeah, because you

1545
01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 3: know what, it made me who I am today and

1546
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,639
Speaker 3: I learned lessons from that and here I am now.

1547
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 16: I feel bad for the messengers, like you know, like

1548
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,919
Speaker 16: if it's not the person who's really doing the firing,

1549
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 16: but they're unfortunately been put in the position to let

1550
01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 16: you know, and.

1551
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 8: Have you packed that one box?

1552
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 16: I feel bad for them because they're the one who's

1553
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 16: going to get the blunt of your nastiness because you're pissed.

1554
01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:40,080
Speaker 3: Look, you know, and here we are sitting in this

1555
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 3: room talking about being fired and we have jobs. Look,

1556
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:45,920
Speaker 3: and people out there have ends to meet, they have

1557
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 3: kids to feed, and I it's not good. It's not good.

1558
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 3: It is not to make fun of the line, but

1559
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:56,439
Speaker 3: it isn't easy to let people go. You know, it's scary.

1560
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 3: Has never been fired?

1561
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 5: I think my lucky stars that I've never ever been

1562
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:00,680
Speaker 5: fired from a job.

1563
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:03,440
Speaker 3: Can you see me after the Showpleay.

1564
01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 15: Let's not start now.

1565
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 8: Knock on wood, scare, knock on.

1566
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 3: Wood, as they say, as they say, and I know

1567
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 3: this is cliche, but when one door closes, another opens,

1568
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 3: Like you were saying, you were glad you got fired

1569
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 3: because other opportunities came your way. I was working at

1570
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 3: Q one o two in Philly, where we're now doing

1571
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 3: the morning show. They fired me, and I needed a job,

1572
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 3: and I got a job at a little station in

1573
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 3: New York called Z one hundred. It was the only

1574
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:33,400
Speaker 3: job I could get. You would not be here unless

1575
01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 3: you got fired from there, exactly right. Thank you, thank you,

1576
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 3: whoever you are, you ahole who fired me, I wouldn't

1577
01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 3: be here. And then I tried to get fired from Z.

1578
01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,759
Speaker 8: One hundred, and you did I remember that.

1579
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 3: They wouldn't fire me. I had a job offered to

1580
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 3: go across the street to k t U. I was

1581
01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:55,759
Speaker 3: gonna go work with Rue Paul and do a morning

1582
01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:59,600
Speaker 3: show in Yeah, I know they were gonna I was

1583
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 3: ready to go, and then the boss, Tom Palmer says,

1584
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 3: you're not going anywhere. We're gonna move you to the

1585
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 3: morning show. I'm like, no, worst idea ever. So they said, well,

1586
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 3: you're under contract. You can't go across the street. You

1587
01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 3: got to do the morning show. I'm like, I don't

1588
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 3: want to do a morning show. It will never work.

1589
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,880
Speaker 6: I stop to think about how life would have been different.

1590
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 6: I mean, you would have never started.

1591
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 3: Yes, it would have been awesome doing a morning show

1592
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 3: with Rue Paul.

1593
01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 8: How do you know, maybe it wouldn't have been.

1594
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:37,280
Speaker 20: We wouldn't be standing here today, not my problems. Wait,

1595
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:43,679
Speaker 20: where would scary be? You need a grilled sergeant.

1596
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 3: I don't care. I don't care what you'd be doesn't

1597
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 3: And I say that. I say that for a reason.

1598
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter because it didn't happen.

1599
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 8: Right, and you wouldn't have known him, so it wouldn't

1600
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 8: have mattered.

1601
01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:53,599
Speaker 6: Exactly.

1602
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:55,200
Speaker 3: You couldn't blame me for your failure.

1603
01:10:58,360 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 8: I got fired from McDonald's.

1604
01:10:59,880 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 16: I think that if I hadn't, I might have been

1605
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:04,519
Speaker 16: like owning all these McDonald's now and running the ship

1606
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 16: and everything.

1607
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:09,120
Speaker 3: Who knows it would be Danielle's McDonald's. You might have

1608
01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 3: been anyway, So here we are. They didn't fire me,

1609
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 3: so now we're stuck together. Anyway. I liked this text

1610
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:19,200
Speaker 3: one time I was fired and I thanked them. I said,

1611
01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 3: you know, this is the best news I've had all day,

1612
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Can I leave now? They said

1613
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 3: it was a stressful job and I needed the push

1614
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 3: to get out. Some people getting fired completely devastated. They're saying, wow,

1615
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 3: of course, oh this is interesting. I worked for my dad.

1616
01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:38,640
Speaker 3: He had to fire me. Can you imagine firing your kid?

1617
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 3: Go to your room, don't come back to the office

1618
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 3: you fired.

1619
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 2: Telvister ran in the Morning show.

1620
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 4: Come On, Wake Up, Wake how thistran in.

1621
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:04,800
Speaker 2: The Morning Soon.

1622
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 3: Hey, we're talking before about the fact that you hear

1623
01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 3: these stories all the time. I don't know how they

1624
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 3: do it, how they find time to do it. But

1625
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 3: their husband's fathers out there who actually will have a

1626
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:17,920
Speaker 3: family on the west side of town and also another

1627
01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:20,160
Speaker 3: one on the east side of town. And they're living

1628
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:22,880
Speaker 3: these double lives with two families, and they get away

1629
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,719
Speaker 3: with it. And so Gandhi made a comment. I thought

1630
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:27,679
Speaker 3: this was very, very telling. Go ahead and tell everyone.

1631
01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:29,599
Speaker 19: So I saw a tweet the other day that said,

1632
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 19: I feel like the female contribution to the family can

1633
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:34,920
Speaker 19: be summed up in the simple fact that mothers could

1634
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:37,799
Speaker 19: absolutely never have a secret second family.

1635
01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, that's so true.

1636
01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 3: Never thought of it that way, but it is true.

1637
01:12:42,680 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 16: I can't even handle my first family.

1638
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 8: I'm so exhausted.

1639
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:50,240
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. So okay. It says a couple of things.

1640
01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:53,639
Speaker 3: Number one about how being a mother is a full

1641
01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 3: time job. Right, you don't have time for two full

1642
01:12:56,920 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 3: time jobs an other job as well. Maybe, but also

1643
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:04,440
Speaker 3: being a guy, being a father in this type of relationship,

1644
01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:07,240
Speaker 3: you have some wiggle room to go out there and

1645
01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 3: pull off some shenanigans, you know exactly.

1646
01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:11,439
Speaker 16: And you know what I also noticed, like when you're

1647
01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:13,599
Speaker 16: a girl, say you want to get your hair done,

1648
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 16: and you have kids in a family, you have to say, Okay,

1649
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 16: I need a babysitter, or I need to get someone

1650
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 16: to cover the kids, or anywhere. A guy, normally in

1651
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:24,479
Speaker 16: a normal situation will go, I'm going to get a haircut,

1652
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:25,679
Speaker 16: and watch out the door.

1653
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 1: Is he really going to get that haircut?

1654
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 8: We're going to get his other child's haircut? Who the

1655
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 8: hell know.

1656
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 3: Look, we're talking about one part of society, and we're

1657
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:43,280
Speaker 3: talking about married couples or couples with children. Okay, it

1658
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 3: really shows you another example of how guys really true

1659
01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:50,320
Speaker 3: have it, truly have it much easier than women. We

1660
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:53,679
Speaker 3: really do, I mean without doubt. And that is proof

1661
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:55,280
Speaker 3: right there with what you're talking about, Gandhi.

1662
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:57,880
Speaker 19: Yeah, I mean even just the biology of the whole thing.

1663
01:13:58,200 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 19: As a mom, you're the one that's getting pregnant, then

1664
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 19: having the baby, and then you're taking care of it

1665
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,640
Speaker 19: as a newborn, where your physical body is very important

1666
01:14:05,880 --> 01:14:07,880
Speaker 19: for those first you know, few months to a year.

1667
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:10,280
Speaker 1: Guys just you know, get to drop the seed and leave.

1668
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: It's amazing.

1669
01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 3: Well that's a nice visual, all right. Well, I tell

1670
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:19,760
Speaker 3: you what. All these texts coming in about what we're

1671
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 3: talking about. It's totally easier for a husband to have

1672
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:27,679
Speaker 3: a secret family across town and neither family know about

1673
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:30,559
Speaker 3: each other than a woman, than a wife, yeah, than

1674
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 3: a mother. They can't do it. If you can, God

1675
01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 3: bless you, man. I don't know, you must have some

1676
01:14:36,960 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 3: crazy resources. People are texting in a lot. Someone actually said, well,

1677
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:44,439
Speaker 3: people have step families all the time. Well, absolutely they do,

1678
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 3: and they're not unusual. I'm talking about two totally top

1679
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 3: secret families.

1680
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:51,080
Speaker 15: Wow, you know, I don't.

1681
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 1: Know, totally different thing.

1682
01:14:52,479 --> 01:14:54,080
Speaker 3: And a lot of people are texting and saying, you

1683
01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 3: know what you said in that comment about how guys

1684
01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 3: have it much easier than women, Well, I work really hard.

1685
01:14:58,760 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 3: Please understand what we're saying, what we're talking about before

1686
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 3: you get butt hurt. Really, we're talking about people who

1687
01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 3: have the ability to have secret families that know nothing

1688
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 3: about each other, and it's very obvious in our opinion,

1689
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:12,880
Speaker 3: it's easier for men to do that than women. That's

1690
01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:15,200
Speaker 3: what the topic is about. Let's stay clear on that line.

1691
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:18,320
Speaker 3: Twenty is Jay from Rutherford, New Jersey. Hello, Jay, what's

1692
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:18,720
Speaker 3: going on?

1693
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 23: Hi?

1694
01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:21,120
Speaker 7: How are you well?

1695
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:23,679
Speaker 3: Is it Jay? Or do I have a dirty blotch

1696
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 3: on my screen? Is your name Jay?

1697
01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 17: Yeah?

1698
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:27,360
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1699
01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 21: Just Jay?

1700
01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:28,640
Speaker 23: All right?

1701
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 3: So you always thought your husband was cheating? What did

1702
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:31,759
Speaker 3: you find out.

1703
01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 11: Though?

1704
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 21: I had always found text messages and he denied it.

1705
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 21: So I finally left him, and then I needed something

1706
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 21: for health insurance, and I went on to his health

1707
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 21: insurance and found another child's names and found out he

1708
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 21: had had a child. He got the woman pregnant while

1709
01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:55,559
Speaker 21: we were so married, and then when.

1710
01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 7: I found out it was two years later.

1711
01:15:57,000 --> 01:16:00,120
Speaker 21: So he had a baby and then kept the baby.

1712
01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:02,160
Speaker 7: He great for two years.

1713
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:05,439
Speaker 21: Even though my daughter was also around this baby. Oh wow,

1714
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 21: and his and his whole family knew too well.

1715
01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 3: And so he was Was he active as a father

1716
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:15,120
Speaker 3: or did he just visit and pay money every once

1717
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:17,600
Speaker 3: in a while. And how actively was he into that

1718
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 3: other family?

1719
01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 13: Oh?

1720
01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:21,160
Speaker 7: He was?

1721
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:22,759
Speaker 21: He was never at home.

1722
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 7: When we were when my daughter was little.

1723
01:16:26,360 --> 01:16:29,080
Speaker 21: Yeah, he was always out and said he was working.

1724
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:34,240
Speaker 3: But but Jade, did she know about you and his family?

1725
01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:38,599
Speaker 7: I believe now she did.

1726
01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 21: Yes, I don't know in the beginning and she did.

1727
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:45,880
Speaker 21: But yeah, she definitely knew about me when she was

1728
01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 21: pregnant because I had a three year old.

1729
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:49,400
Speaker 3: So you're still together.

1730
01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 2: They're still together.

1731
01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:54,760
Speaker 3: Oh, they're still together. And they have more kids.

1732
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 10: Came and the other and they have two more kids.

1733
01:16:57,040 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, okay, interesting, Yeah, has a different story, Jay.

1734
01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:05,960
Speaker 3: I wonder how many fathers are out there who tell

1735
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:09,679
Speaker 3: family A that they have a night job in family

1736
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:11,960
Speaker 3: B that they have a day job and they just

1737
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 3: basically don't work. Just go back and forth.

1738
01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:17,639
Speaker 15: I don't know. I mean a lot of work.

1739
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:19,519
Speaker 18: I mean, yeah, it is exhausting to keep all the

1740
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:21,559
Speaker 18: lies and all this stuff together.

1741
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,320
Speaker 15: That's so it's.

1742
01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:24,720
Speaker 3: Got to take a toll. It just got to take

1743
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 3: a mental toll. All right, Jay, thank you for listening

1744
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 3: to us, and you go have a good day. Best

1745
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:29,240
Speaker 3: of luck to you.

1746
01:17:29,280 --> 01:17:31,400
Speaker 21: Okay, thank you you too.

1747
01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:35,280
Speaker 3: All right. Jen is on twenty one currently the part

1748
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:36,920
Speaker 3: of a secret family, and you know all about the

1749
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:40,040
Speaker 3: other family. Now, are you okay? Living like that, Jen,

1750
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:42,519
Speaker 3: I mean, are you are you mentally cool with all this?

1751
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 10: No?

1752
01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:44,800
Speaker 7: Not at all.

1753
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:49,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's got to be very very taxing on.

1754
01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:50,920
Speaker 4: You, it is.

1755
01:17:50,960 --> 01:17:53,080
Speaker 7: But I mean, what else can I go? I mean,

1756
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:56,479
Speaker 7: you know what I mean? Like, we got two kids together.

1757
01:17:57,439 --> 01:18:00,160
Speaker 24: I like both of my efor I'm sorry, I'm wat

1758
01:18:00,439 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 24: my butt trying to support my two kids.

1759
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:02,720
Speaker 7: What else can I do?

1760
01:18:02,800 --> 01:18:06,000
Speaker 24: I like, I depend on him. I need his help

1761
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 24: with our children. It's not like and it's not easy now.

1762
01:18:11,760 --> 01:18:14,240
Speaker 3: Like it can't be. I cannot imagine what you're both.

1763
01:18:14,360 --> 01:18:17,479
Speaker 24: I mean, honestly, he does sit here and tell me

1764
01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 24: that he loves both of us, and he doesn't know

1765
01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 24: what to do.

1766
01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:24,200
Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know what to believe or what

1767
01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:24,960
Speaker 7: not to believe.

1768
01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 3: But you you know that you gotta keep something else

1769
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 3: in mind, Jen, Just a thought is if you take

1770
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 3: the kids out of the equation for a second, which

1771
01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:36,320
Speaker 3: is impossible, almost going but no, but no, but wait,

1772
01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 3: okay exactly so it really so it isn't about love.

1773
01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 3: It's about keeping your kids uh well fed and taken

1774
01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 3: care of along with the.

1775
01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 7: Right and they have a relationship with their father.

1776
01:18:49,680 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 3: M wow. So so you need to stay.

1777
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:55,720
Speaker 7: How can I seek that away from them? How can

1778
01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 7: I take that.

1779
01:18:56,240 --> 01:18:57,080
Speaker 8: Away from them?

1780
01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:58,240
Speaker 3: How old are your kids?

1781
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:01,360
Speaker 7: It's seen and gray.

1782
01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:04,639
Speaker 3: So they know what's going on. Yeah, well you're fifteen

1783
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:05,040
Speaker 3: year old.

1784
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 7: She has an idea about it.

1785
01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:12,479
Speaker 3: You It just seems like she needs to know the truth.

1786
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:14,400
Speaker 3: I would think. I'm not a parent, so I'm just

1787
01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 3: my opinion, and my opinion is not always right. Keep

1788
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 3: that in mind.

1789
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 24: I have no problem on that. I have no problem

1790
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 24: with her knowing the truth. But my opinion is it

1791
01:19:20,960 --> 01:19:22,360
Speaker 24: needs to come from him.

1792
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:22,560
Speaker 21: Not me.

1793
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 3: You know what can we talk about Jen? Can we

1794
01:19:27,479 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 3: talk about you and how strong of a woman you

1795
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 3: are and how as a matter of fact, to the

1796
01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 3: point of you're doing the best you can to be

1797
01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:39,960
Speaker 3: a good mom for these two kids. You got to

1798
01:19:40,000 --> 01:19:41,559
Speaker 3: I mean, I hope you stop down and give yourself

1799
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:43,840
Speaker 3: some credit, even though you're not in a position that's

1800
01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:47,679
Speaker 3: enviable at all, and you know that, but you you

1801
01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:50,240
Speaker 3: you are working your You're working your ass off, as

1802
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:52,760
Speaker 3: you said, and uh, I mean you you need some

1803
01:19:52,800 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 3: credit here for being a good mom doing your best.

1804
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:57,360
Speaker 24: I mean, thank you, But I can't look get it

1805
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,519
Speaker 24: that way. I mean, any mother would do this when

1806
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:01,559
Speaker 24: it comes your kids. You gotta do what you gotta do.

1807
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:05,320
Speaker 7: I mean you can't. You're a mom. You don't have

1808
01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:06,240
Speaker 7: the choice to fail.

1809
01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:09,360
Speaker 3: That's the way I look at Gandhi. What's your thoughts

1810
01:20:09,360 --> 01:20:09,639
Speaker 3: for Jen?

1811
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:13,639
Speaker 19: Do you ever wonder if those kids want to meet

1812
01:20:13,680 --> 01:20:16,479
Speaker 19: their half siblings from the other His daughter?

1813
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:19,240
Speaker 7: Oh, I know, I know my daughter does. I know

1814
01:20:19,320 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 7: she does. She's been asking about it since.

1815
01:20:22,840 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 24: I mean she was I mean four, she because you

1816
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 24: overheard somebody say something where we live and.

1817
01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 7: She was like, wait do I and was like, no,

1818
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:33,599
Speaker 7: you do not have brothers, No, you don't.

1819
01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:36,719
Speaker 24: And then as she got older, she actually found something

1820
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 24: in this car and she was like, who's death?

1821
01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:42,000
Speaker 3: And so so the other mom, the other mother has

1822
01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 3: no clue about you. You think you believe?

1823
01:20:45,120 --> 01:20:47,639
Speaker 7: No, I think she might have some idea. But I'll

1824
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 7: be honest with you.

1825
01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:52,120
Speaker 24: If it it would get it would be I could

1826
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 24: tell you right now, I will get physical.

1827
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 3: If it well yeah, okay, well that's a whole other layer,

1828
01:20:57,320 --> 01:20:59,639
Speaker 3: physical as in physically abusive.

1829
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:01,639
Speaker 4: If no, no, no.

1830
01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:05,240
Speaker 24: No, I think like she would probably try, and you

1831
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:07,240
Speaker 24: know it would it would turn into a.

1832
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:09,599
Speaker 7: Fitt fight more than likely then us just talking trash

1833
01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 7: to each other.

1834
01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 3: Well yeah right, but as far as your as far

1835
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 3: as the father of your your children goes, this is,

1836
01:21:17,600 --> 01:21:19,680
Speaker 3: this is, this is all on him.

1837
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 7: I don't think I don't want to kill him at times,

1838
01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 7: but how.

1839
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 3: I know that. But he's the issue. He's the problem.

1840
01:21:26,080 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 3: I mean, he really truly is the problem. He's the

1841
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 3: hinge on this door, right, Gandhi? I mean you agree

1842
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 3: with that right a thousand per Yeah?

1843
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 1: Absolutely so, Jen is he.

1844
01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 24: I've been given him the ultimatum, like, yo, you me

1845
01:21:39,720 --> 01:21:44,679
Speaker 24: or her. There's been many times where it's me or her, Okay,

1846
01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:45,719
Speaker 24: so with him.

1847
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 19: And so he goes and spends time with this other

1848
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:51,559
Speaker 19: family and then comes and spends time with you guys

1849
01:21:51,600 --> 01:21:53,719
Speaker 19: as a family. So it's actually like he has two

1850
01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:56,360
Speaker 19: full family units one.

1851
01:21:56,479 --> 01:22:00,400
Speaker 18: Yes, who is the first family? Were you the first family?

1852
01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:01,559
Speaker 18: Or were they the first family?

1853
01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:02,439
Speaker 9: No?

1854
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:07,679
Speaker 24: They were they were that I was told they weren't

1855
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:08,639
Speaker 24: to gather anymore.

1856
01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 7: It was what it was. Wow.

1857
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:14,559
Speaker 3: See this guy he does not sound like a good guy.

1858
01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:16,400
Speaker 3: He just does it. I mean, I'm sure he has

1859
01:22:16,439 --> 01:22:19,080
Speaker 3: great qualities and I don't know him.

1860
01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 7: He's not a bad guy at all. He's actually a

1861
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:23,679
Speaker 7: really good guy. He's an incredible father.

1862
01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 24: I know you may not think so, and I know

1863
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:28,400
Speaker 24: people are probably going to bash me for saying that,

1864
01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 24: but he is.

1865
01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,639
Speaker 7: His kids come first and that is the reason why

1866
01:22:32,680 --> 01:22:33,759
Speaker 7: he can't make a decision.

1867
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's one compartment, it's compartmentalizing. He's a great father,

1868
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 3: But everything else, he's sucking at everything else. Yeah, and

1869
01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:42,240
Speaker 3: you know, and you need a life as well. You

1870
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:44,280
Speaker 3: need a life as well with your kids. And I

1871
01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:46,040
Speaker 3: just I really think this guy needs to come clean

1872
01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 3: and fix it because he's going to live the rest

1873
01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 3: of his life like that. Who was to live like that?

1874
01:22:49,360 --> 01:22:51,880
Speaker 3: He is zero integrity when it comes to you and

1875
01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 3: your kids.

1876
01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:55,320
Speaker 19: And he can have a relationship with all of the

1877
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:56,360
Speaker 19: kids without having the.

1878
01:22:56,600 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 8: Relationship with the two of you.

1879
01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 25: No, no, no, no no, because the other one has

1880
01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:05,760
Speaker 25: flat out told him, if I ever fucked out that

1881
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 25: you are cheating on me or whatever, I'm taking your

1882
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:08,560
Speaker 25: kids away from it.

1883
01:23:08,600 --> 01:23:11,760
Speaker 7: And she means it. She literally has papers drawn up

1884
01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:12,640
Speaker 7: already stating this.

1885
01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:18,400
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, see the over the overarch, the overarching theme

1886
01:23:18,479 --> 01:23:20,719
Speaker 3: for all of us here and people who are listening

1887
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:24,320
Speaker 3: and try to make life decisions. Look at what a

1888
01:23:24,400 --> 01:23:26,840
Speaker 3: simple what you think is a simple decision can do

1889
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:29,040
Speaker 3: for the rest of your life. It can f your

1890
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 3: life up in this guy's life without a doubt, without

1891
01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:36,760
Speaker 3: a doubt that I can't.

1892
01:23:36,439 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 7: I can't take my kid's father. I thought about it. Listen.

1893
01:23:40,400 --> 01:23:42,920
Speaker 7: I've got times where my whole house has been packed

1894
01:23:43,200 --> 01:23:45,000
Speaker 7: and I was all my way to Florida.

1895
01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 24: Like I am not joking, plane tickets, bought, apartments, running out.

1896
01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 7: We were done. I am dead.

1897
01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:52,599
Speaker 4: It was over.

1898
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:55,000
Speaker 7: And I mean not just Florida.

1899
01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:58,360
Speaker 24: There's been other places too where I've literally I've tried

1900
01:23:58,360 --> 01:23:59,720
Speaker 24: to uproot my whole life and.

1901
01:23:59,680 --> 01:24:00,920
Speaker 7: Been like, will never find me.

1902
01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:03,519
Speaker 24: My family ain't gonna say anything to him, They ain't

1903
01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:07,720
Speaker 24: gonna tell him, and it it would always turn out

1904
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:09,720
Speaker 24: where I'm the idiot because then I sit here and

1905
01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 24: get a call and be like, I can't do that

1906
01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:11,960
Speaker 24: to my kids.

1907
01:24:12,160 --> 01:24:14,639
Speaker 3: Well, look, you know what, but you're You're not You're

1908
01:24:14,840 --> 01:24:16,600
Speaker 3: your kids are not the only victims here. You're a

1909
01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:19,280
Speaker 3: victim as well. And I just I hope that you've

1910
01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:21,160
Speaker 3: come up with a solution because you've been living like

1911
01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:24,920
Speaker 3: this for fifteen years. That's that's a chunk of your life.

1912
01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:27,320
Speaker 7: But I look at it like this is my part,

1913
01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:28,280
Speaker 7: I did something wrong.

1914
01:24:28,360 --> 01:24:31,760
Speaker 3: No, no, no, kids are not punished. Kids are not

1915
01:24:31,800 --> 01:24:32,360
Speaker 3: a punishment.

1916
01:24:32,760 --> 01:24:34,599
Speaker 7: Not a kid. I'm talking about my kids.

1917
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:38,680
Speaker 24: I'm talking about me making that choice to stay with

1918
01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:41,880
Speaker 24: him knowing damn Well, like when I was pregnant, we

1919
01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:43,840
Speaker 24: didn't found out I was pregnant with my first one

1920
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 24: until I was.

1921
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:46,840
Speaker 7: About three and a half months pregnant, and at that

1922
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:49,120
Speaker 7: point it was like what do I do?

1923
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,479
Speaker 24: And it was like I gave him the option, like yo,

1924
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:55,479
Speaker 24: you sign your rights over and get out, and he

1925
01:24:55,640 --> 01:24:56,120
Speaker 24: chose to.

1926
01:24:56,040 --> 01:24:59,000
Speaker 3: Say, hey, other than us, I mean, do you have

1927
01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 3: a circle of friends you can talk to about this

1928
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:04,120
Speaker 3: and kind of vent and bounce? I okay, good, because

1929
01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 3: you need friends you need well, of course they do. Well,

1930
01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:12,280
Speaker 3: you know, I don't blame him, to be honest, right, Well,

1931
01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 3: they hate him because he's a he's a turd, to

1932
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:17,000
Speaker 3: be honest, but a good dad. I won't give him that.

1933
01:25:17,439 --> 01:25:17,920
Speaker 15: I don't think.

1934
01:25:18,160 --> 01:25:20,160
Speaker 3: I don't think. I just don't think he's being a

1935
01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:24,200
Speaker 3: good dad at all because he may support and and whatever,

1936
01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:27,519
Speaker 3: but this isn't good for anyone. Look, we got to run.

1937
01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:29,760
Speaker 3: But I want nothing but good for you and I

1938
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 3: hope that your I hope your friends can keep you

1939
01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:35,320
Speaker 3: in check because you need we all need to be

1940
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:37,240
Speaker 3: put in check from time to time, and you need

1941
01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:39,640
Speaker 3: support from them as much as possible. And it's just

1942
01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:42,120
Speaker 3: all the best for you. And you actually gave us

1943
01:25:42,160 --> 01:25:44,400
Speaker 3: a slice of life story that we had never heard before.

1944
01:25:44,439 --> 01:25:46,639
Speaker 3: And I think it's important for people to know this

1945
01:25:46,680 --> 01:25:49,840
Speaker 3: is going on, so you make the right decisions in life.

1946
01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:50,320
Speaker 3: And there you go.

1947
01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 7: You don't believe everything they say.

1948
01:25:54,800 --> 01:25:59,000
Speaker 3: I agree with that, believe me. All right, thank you

1949
01:25:59,040 --> 01:25:59,880
Speaker 3: for being a part of it.

1950
01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:02,760
Speaker 7: We love you guys, so thank you.

1951
01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:05,479
Speaker 3: Well, no, thank you and all the best to you. Thanks,

1952
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:10,840
Speaker 3: thanks a lot by and there you go. I know,

1953
01:26:11,320 --> 01:26:13,600
Speaker 3: I know it's her reality though, you know, and it's not.

1954
01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:15,639
Speaker 3: It's not as easy as seeing, oh, just leave him.

1955
01:26:15,640 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 3: Well no, that's it's not that simple.

1956
01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:18,040
Speaker 12: You know.

1957
01:26:18,160 --> 01:26:20,320
Speaker 3: You may have that ability to just pick up and leave.

1958
01:26:20,520 --> 01:26:24,720
Speaker 3: Not everyone does. And that's why. Geez, it's it's good

1959
01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:27,280
Speaker 3: to hear. It's good to hear other people's stories.

1960
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:30,640
Speaker 2: The Mercedes Benz Interview Lounge.

1961
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:33,360
Speaker 3: Master of Me is her new biography. It is Kicky Palmer.

1962
01:26:33,520 --> 01:26:35,439
Speaker 8: Hey, I have a question about the book. If I

1963
01:26:35,560 --> 01:26:37,160
Speaker 8: listen to it on like an audible.

1964
01:26:37,400 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 2: Are you telling the story?

1965
01:26:38,600 --> 01:26:46,320
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1966
01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:48,920
Speaker 3: there's a reason they go the extra mile, from testing

1967
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1968
01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:56,280
Speaker 3: AI that can anticipate your needs and preferences on the road.

1969
01:26:56,560 --> 01:26:59,639
Speaker 3: They demand every car is worthy of their star because

1970
01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 3: it's Mercedes Beds.

1971
01:27:01,280 --> 01:27:05,840
Speaker 2: Elista ran in the Morning show, a mistran in the

1972
01:27:05,880 --> 01:27:09,360
Speaker 2: Morning Showy.

1973
01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:11,080
Speaker 3: So Gandhi says she's never been, never been to Disney.

1974
01:27:11,400 --> 01:27:13,439
Speaker 3: All right, don't get mad at me anyone, but I'm

1975
01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 3: gonna tell you I found this out firsthand from a

1976
01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:17,080
Speaker 3: friend who did it. If you want to get on

1977
01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:19,960
Speaker 3: the ride faster, order a wheelchair when you get there.

1978
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:23,960
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's true. No, it's true.

1979
01:27:24,120 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 8: That's horrible, because it's horrible.

1980
01:27:25,880 --> 01:27:27,920
Speaker 1: I tore my acl senior year of high.

1981
01:27:27,760 --> 01:27:29,719
Speaker 15: School, and sure it still hurts.

1982
01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:34,000
Speaker 19: Yeah no, but we did like a senior night at

1983
01:27:34,040 --> 01:27:36,000
Speaker 19: not Disney, but a different theme park, and my friends

1984
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:37,080
Speaker 19: used me to get to the front of lawn.

1985
01:27:37,080 --> 01:27:39,959
Speaker 3: See that's awful. Of course, when I suggested, when I suggested,

1986
01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:42,320
Speaker 3: you get a wheelchair, of course, I'm kidding, do not

1987
01:27:42,400 --> 01:27:44,600
Speaker 3: do it. But because I know someone who did it,

1988
01:27:45,320 --> 01:27:47,000
Speaker 3: and I yelled at them, I said, don't do that.

1989
01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:50,400
Speaker 3: The wheelchair access should be for people who want to

1990
01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:52,599
Speaker 3: enjoy Disney, but they can't without a wheelchair.

1991
01:27:52,680 --> 01:27:55,120
Speaker 8: That's bad karmas for you, it's bad, bad karma.

1992
01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:57,760
Speaker 3: Then I told I told this a story to a

1993
01:27:57,800 --> 01:27:59,679
Speaker 3: friend of mine who happens to be in a wheelchair.

1994
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:04,000
Speaker 3: His life is in a wheelchair, and he says, yeah,

1995
01:28:04,040 --> 01:28:07,040
Speaker 3: you know what, you think all life is grand because

1996
01:28:07,080 --> 01:28:08,639
Speaker 3: you can go to Disney and get on rides faster

1997
01:28:08,680 --> 01:28:11,200
Speaker 3: in a wheelchair. He says, no, the world still is

1998
01:28:11,280 --> 01:28:13,600
Speaker 3: not a perfect place for people who are in wheelchairs.

1999
01:28:13,640 --> 01:28:15,760
Speaker 3: It just isn't. And he told me about some of

2000
01:28:15,840 --> 01:28:18,160
Speaker 3: the challenges, and it's like, oh god, I would never

2001
01:28:18,160 --> 01:28:20,439
Speaker 3: wish that on anyone. So no, don't do that trick.

2002
01:28:21,120 --> 01:28:23,240
Speaker 3: But then he says he has other friends who are

2003
01:28:23,280 --> 01:28:27,200
Speaker 3: in wheelchairs who are total jackasses and take advantage of it.

2004
01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:29,839
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, and they really need a wheelchair.

2005
01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:31,760
Speaker 3: Oh no, if they get mad at someone, they'll run

2006
01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:32,439
Speaker 3: over their feet.

2007
01:28:32,840 --> 01:28:33,040
Speaker 9: Yes.

2008
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:35,080
Speaker 3: And I'm like, well, look, you know, for a guy

2009
01:28:35,080 --> 01:28:37,519
Speaker 3: who's not in a wheelchair, we have you feel weird

2010
01:28:37,760 --> 01:28:39,960
Speaker 3: yelling at someone in a wheelchair who's running over people's

2011
01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:41,639
Speaker 3: feet and you can tell they're doing it on purpose.

2012
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:46,160
Speaker 3: He said, no, challenge them every time. If you see

2013
01:28:46,200 --> 01:28:49,920
Speaker 3: someone recklessly driving in their wheelchair, say something. The whole

2014
01:28:49,960 --> 01:28:53,000
Speaker 3: point is they want to be thought of as not

2015
01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:56,160
Speaker 3: different from you, but they're setting themselves apart by doing that.

2016
01:28:56,520 --> 01:28:59,719
Speaker 16: You look like a rude jackass if you say something

2017
01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:00,919
Speaker 16: this I know in a wheelchair.

2018
01:29:00,960 --> 01:29:02,240
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, I know, I know, but.

2019
01:29:02,880 --> 01:29:05,679
Speaker 3: He's like, no, never hesitate in saying something to someone

2020
01:29:05,760 --> 01:29:07,840
Speaker 3: who's in a wheelchair and they're abusing it. I'm with

2021
01:29:07,960 --> 01:29:09,679
Speaker 3: your friend, Why would what happened?

2022
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:11,640
Speaker 19: Okay, so I grew up with somebody who was in

2023
01:29:11,840 --> 01:29:14,840
Speaker 19: an automated wheelchair and he used to deliberately run over

2024
01:29:14,960 --> 01:29:16,720
Speaker 19: toes all the time. And then he would look at

2025
01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:19,439
Speaker 19: you and smirk and laugh, and I'm like, dude, come on, man,

2026
01:29:19,920 --> 01:29:22,040
Speaker 19: just just because this is going on doesn't mean you

2027
01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:23,720
Speaker 19: get to then run over my toes all the time.

2028
01:29:23,800 --> 01:29:25,479
Speaker 1: Now, I say, you stand up for yourself.

2029
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:27,640
Speaker 8: I think it's rude, but I think that you look

2030
01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:28,280
Speaker 8: like a jackass.

2031
01:29:30,240 --> 01:29:32,320
Speaker 3: And I guarantee there are people who think were jackasses

2032
01:29:32,360 --> 01:29:34,200
Speaker 3: by bringing it up. But now it's a part of life.

2033
01:29:34,520 --> 01:29:36,320
Speaker 3: What's that straight? Now I'm going to take the side

2034
01:29:36,320 --> 01:29:39,280
Speaker 3: of people in wheelchairs. I'm sorry because when I was

2035
01:29:39,320 --> 01:29:41,479
Speaker 3: in the hospital, I was in a wheelchair geting wheeled around,

2036
01:29:41,640 --> 01:29:44,000
Speaker 3: and you're not at eye level so people don't see you.

2037
01:29:44,560 --> 01:29:47,080
Speaker 3: We get that. Yeah, so now we're taking that into account.

2038
01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:48,920
Speaker 3: You get a little angry when people don't see you

2039
01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:51,280
Speaker 3: and you're stuck in a wheelchair. I couldn't walk, I

2040
01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:53,720
Speaker 3: couldn't get around, get out of my way. And I

2041
01:29:53,760 --> 01:29:56,439
Speaker 3: think it's always an important it's an important lesson to

2042
01:29:56,520 --> 01:29:58,720
Speaker 3: be able to walk in someone else's shoes or ride

2043
01:29:58,800 --> 01:30:01,519
Speaker 3: in someone else with wheels. I get that. I understand that.

2044
01:30:02,040 --> 01:30:05,439
Speaker 3: And you know, if we're fully functioning and walking just fine,

2045
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:09,200
Speaker 3: I understand. How Look, we will never truly understand what

2046
01:30:09,280 --> 01:30:12,760
Speaker 3: it's like. But as my friend in the wheelchair said,

2047
01:30:12,840 --> 01:30:15,439
Speaker 3: there are many who do take advantage of it, of course,

2048
01:30:15,600 --> 01:30:19,040
Speaker 3: and they do it to actually f with people. Sometimes.

2049
01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:20,400
Speaker 3: I could see if I was stuck in it for

2050
01:30:20,479 --> 01:30:22,160
Speaker 3: longer the week, I'd be pretty upset.

2051
01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:23,920
Speaker 19: I mean, you gotta think of it this way, Nate. Right, Like,

2052
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:25,960
Speaker 19: I'm a short person, A lot of people don't see me.

2053
01:30:26,360 --> 01:30:28,639
Speaker 19: But if I'm trying to walk through and people aren't moving,

2054
01:30:28,720 --> 01:30:29,960
Speaker 19: I just go step on their toes.

2055
01:30:30,120 --> 01:30:33,000
Speaker 3: That would be weird if I could see you. I

2056
01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:35,360
Speaker 3: got a little little short gandhi coming through. Excuse me,

2057
01:30:35,560 --> 01:30:38,519
Speaker 3: sounding like one of the characters from Wizard of Oz.

2058
01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:44,160
Speaker 8: Lollipop Guild coming.

2059
01:30:47,840 --> 01:30:53,040
Speaker 3: I'm down here all that. Someone's talking to me. Look

2060
01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:55,439
Speaker 3: over there, she's down there. What do you want, little girl?

2061
01:30:57,320 --> 01:30:58,920
Speaker 19: I think there's a lot of stuff that we understand,

2062
01:30:58,960 --> 01:31:00,960
Speaker 19: but you don't get a free past to like injured people.

2063
01:31:09,160 --> 01:31:10,320
Speaker 1: Oh, smish your toes.

2064
01:31:10,120 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 3: If you don't get out of my lane, lady, but

2065
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:16,799
Speaker 3: stas allow. I'm down here by the armpits.

2066
01:31:16,800 --> 01:31:25,720
Speaker 1: Allo, I'm down here by the I am always by

2067
01:31:25,760 --> 01:31:26,639
Speaker 1: the armpits and the boobs.

2068
01:31:27,120 --> 01:31:30,320
Speaker 3: So he was in a high school, of you or

2069
01:31:30,320 --> 01:31:32,880
Speaker 3: what middle school? Where do you keep in touch with him?

2070
01:31:33,000 --> 01:31:34,640
Speaker 19: No, not so much anymore. We got into a lot

2071
01:31:34,680 --> 01:31:38,160
Speaker 19: of wars online about things, and uh in front.

2072
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:41,519
Speaker 3: Of him, okay, political stuff, well.

2073
01:31:41,680 --> 01:31:45,400
Speaker 19: Like what so he started like going off on rants

2074
01:31:45,400 --> 01:31:48,640
Speaker 19: about certain cultures getting handouts from the government, and it

2075
01:31:48,720 --> 01:31:50,320
Speaker 19: really just set me over the edge.

2076
01:31:50,280 --> 01:31:55,879
Speaker 3: Right yeah, yeah, all right, Well, there was in a wheelchairs.

2077
01:31:56,640 --> 01:31:58,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't that. It was just I was like, man,

2078
01:31:58,360 --> 01:31:58,880
Speaker 1: hold on, Hick.

2079
01:31:58,920 --> 01:32:07,040
Speaker 3: It was gone, hey up, hey up, let's carry poster boy.

2080
01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:08,880
Speaker 3: Josh just whispered in my ear.

2081
01:32:09,040 --> 01:32:12,839
Speaker 5: That's the interesting fact about Disney is they updated their policy.

2082
01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:15,920
Speaker 6: Uh and the wheelchair people have to wait like everybody else.

2083
01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:18,840
Speaker 6: Now that they are they've done away with them for.

2084
01:32:21,240 --> 01:32:24,960
Speaker 3: As as long as look, wheelchair accessibility is it's paramount,

2085
01:32:25,160 --> 01:32:27,080
Speaker 3: were important. We cannot live in a world without it.

2086
01:32:27,479 --> 01:32:29,880
Speaker 3: We can't. It's not fair. It just is not fair.

2087
01:32:30,840 --> 01:32:31,360
Speaker 3: But there you go.

2088
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:33,760
Speaker 1: But you don't get to run over my toes.

2089
01:32:33,840 --> 01:32:37,479
Speaker 3: Don't don't run over the Cotti's toes. Maybe maybe even

2090
01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:39,040
Speaker 3: in a wheelchair, you're still too short for them to

2091
01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:41,960
Speaker 3: for you to see you use your short I am,

2092
01:32:42,080 --> 01:32:44,760
Speaker 3: but like I also have a little feet.

2093
01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:46,200
Speaker 4: Get out of the way a little.

2094
01:32:49,640 --> 01:32:51,960
Speaker 19: To run over my feet, it has to be a

2095
01:32:52,040 --> 01:32:53,920
Speaker 19: calculated move. You gotta get real close because I have

2096
01:32:53,960 --> 01:32:56,160
Speaker 19: little feet. If you're running over my feet, I'm mad

2097
01:32:56,160 --> 01:32:56,320
Speaker 19: at you.

2098
01:32:56,439 --> 01:32:57,559
Speaker 8: I'll tall Are you on a good day?

2099
01:32:57,880 --> 01:32:59,960
Speaker 1: Five foot five one on a good day?

2100
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:06,000
Speaker 3: What he got over there? Straight names? We'll put on?

2101
01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:08,880
Speaker 3: What line is she on? Pardon me while I go

2102
01:33:08,960 --> 01:33:12,960
Speaker 3: talk to Melissa online twenty four high Melissa, Hi, Hi,

2103
01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:15,400
Speaker 3: so uh yes, how do you want to add or

2104
01:33:15,479 --> 01:33:16,599
Speaker 3: subtract from this conversation?

2105
01:33:17,400 --> 01:33:19,840
Speaker 12: So, my son is five years old. He has fine

2106
01:33:19,880 --> 01:33:23,000
Speaker 12: ambits with us, and he's in he uses a wheelchair

2107
01:33:23,080 --> 01:33:24,639
Speaker 12: part time, and he's a jerk?

2108
01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:29,960
Speaker 3: Does he does? He feel like he's like in a

2109
01:33:30,040 --> 01:33:32,200
Speaker 3: in a go cart trying to race people and run

2110
01:33:32,280 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 3: them over and stuff becomes a wheel.

2111
01:33:35,360 --> 01:33:37,400
Speaker 12: He'll wheel away from me all the time in like

2112
01:33:37,479 --> 01:33:41,000
Speaker 12: crowded places, and if he gets mad, he just goes

2113
01:33:41,439 --> 01:33:43,479
Speaker 12: that's what I'm gone, and just wheels himself away.

2114
01:33:44,920 --> 01:33:47,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god. And keep in mind, I mean he's

2115
01:33:47,200 --> 01:33:48,960
Speaker 3: he's five years He's a five year old kid, so

2116
01:33:49,160 --> 01:33:51,600
Speaker 3: he's already precocious and out of his mind, right, I mean,

2117
01:33:51,760 --> 01:33:53,720
Speaker 3: he's a kid. He's doing what kids do. But when

2118
01:33:53,760 --> 01:33:56,040
Speaker 3: you do it, when you do it on wheels, it's

2119
01:33:56,120 --> 01:33:57,120
Speaker 3: faster and more fun.

2120
01:33:58,240 --> 01:33:58,720
Speaker 10: He loved it.

2121
01:33:58,880 --> 01:34:01,280
Speaker 12: He loves his chair and I love the independency he

2122
01:34:01,360 --> 01:34:03,360
Speaker 12: has in his chair. But he could be a real jerk.

2123
01:34:03,200 --> 01:34:08,479
Speaker 3: Sometimes, you know, Melissa, I bet you're a great mom.

2124
01:34:08,640 --> 01:34:08,800
Speaker 21: You know.

2125
01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:12,240
Speaker 3: Congratulations on everything that you're doing with your son and

2126
01:34:12,360 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 3: keeping him out there. But you know what, look at

2127
01:34:15,160 --> 01:34:17,759
Speaker 3: five years old, he's a little boy. He's he deserved

2128
01:34:17,800 --> 01:34:18,160
Speaker 3: to be a jerk.

2129
01:34:18,400 --> 01:34:19,720
Speaker 8: He's doing his little boy things there.

2130
01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:21,680
Speaker 12: You that's why I allow it.

2131
01:34:21,840 --> 01:34:22,360
Speaker 11: I allow it.

2132
01:34:22,479 --> 01:34:23,920
Speaker 24: Sometimes I'm that mom.

2133
01:34:24,080 --> 01:34:25,000
Speaker 10: I do allow it.

2134
01:34:25,320 --> 01:34:27,760
Speaker 12: You know, he's got a lot of obstacle stats against him, saying,

2135
01:34:27,760 --> 01:34:28,920
Speaker 12: you know what, if you want to be a jerk,

2136
01:34:29,000 --> 01:34:29,960
Speaker 12: sometimes be.

2137
01:34:29,960 --> 01:34:32,960
Speaker 3: A Jerkah, all right, thanks for listening, Melissa, have a

2138
01:34:32,960 --> 01:34:33,320
Speaker 3: great day.

2139
01:34:33,320 --> 01:34:34,080
Speaker 15: Okay, thank you.

2140
01:34:34,720 --> 01:34:37,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. This reminds me of the time that Scary went

2141
01:34:37,479 --> 01:34:41,280
Speaker 3: to get on his plane ride and it's three seats

2142
01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:43,439
Speaker 3: and his is the window seat. So he wants his

2143
01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 3: window seat, but there's a nun sitting there.

2144
01:34:46,160 --> 01:34:46,760
Speaker 6: So what do you do?

2145
01:34:47,600 --> 01:34:50,800
Speaker 3: Well, I would say, I'm sorry, but that's my seat.

2146
01:34:50,840 --> 01:34:51,599
Speaker 3: May I have my seat?

2147
01:34:51,680 --> 01:34:51,840
Speaker 7: Yeah?

2148
01:34:51,840 --> 01:34:52,439
Speaker 1: You move the nun.

2149
01:34:52,920 --> 01:34:55,040
Speaker 15: You you may have paid extra for that seat, exactly.

2150
01:34:55,080 --> 01:34:57,000
Speaker 3: So we talked about this something there Na people called

2151
01:34:57,080 --> 01:35:01,720
Speaker 3: up saying, you're screw I don't care if you're a nun,

2152
01:35:01,800 --> 01:35:02,559
Speaker 3: get out of my seat.

2153
01:35:02,680 --> 01:35:04,280
Speaker 5: She has booked in the middle and I was booked

2154
01:35:04,280 --> 01:35:06,080
Speaker 5: at the window and she was sitting in that window seat.

2155
01:35:06,360 --> 01:35:08,840
Speaker 8: She does a lot of good for people, she doesn't

2156
01:35:08,840 --> 01:35:09,479
Speaker 8: matter you do.

2157
01:35:09,960 --> 01:35:11,000
Speaker 7: What do you do?

2158
01:35:11,640 --> 01:35:14,080
Speaker 3: Look, there is a level, a higher level of respect

2159
01:35:14,120 --> 01:35:14,519
Speaker 3: for None.

2160
01:35:14,600 --> 01:35:15,040
Speaker 4: I get that.

2161
01:35:15,320 --> 01:35:19,040
Speaker 3: But at the same time, you know, don't pull this

2162
01:35:19,120 --> 01:35:19,680
Speaker 3: holier than that.

2163
01:35:20,000 --> 01:35:22,599
Speaker 18: Right, what's what's scary is scary? If that was his seat,

2164
01:35:23,000 --> 01:35:24,800
Speaker 18: he paid extra for a window seat, then that's what.

2165
01:35:24,800 --> 01:35:25,160
Speaker 4: He should have.

2166
01:35:25,560 --> 01:35:28,120
Speaker 1: You weren't forced into the nunnery either. No, you chose that.

2167
01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:29,400
Speaker 1: You get the middle seat.

2168
01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:32,040
Speaker 3: If that's she pulled out a slapping your hands, you

2169
01:35:32,160 --> 01:35:34,120
Speaker 3: get right here.

2170
01:35:34,320 --> 01:35:39,679
Speaker 16: You get extra points when you get to those gates

2171
01:35:39,720 --> 01:35:40,880
Speaker 16: if you give up that seat.

2172
01:35:43,080 --> 01:35:44,960
Speaker 1: Does the nun lose points for stealing a seat?

2173
01:35:45,040 --> 01:35:47,800
Speaker 3: Nope, she does she can do.

2174
01:35:48,160 --> 01:35:48,200
Speaker 9: No.

2175
01:35:48,360 --> 01:35:50,559
Speaker 3: Now, you shouldn't use your nunnery or whatever.

2176
01:35:50,720 --> 01:35:53,000
Speaker 18: And I think Ghandi deserves extra points for using the

2177
01:35:53,040 --> 01:35:57,439
Speaker 18: word nunnering you Yeah, play the nun card.

2178
01:35:58,720 --> 01:36:01,840
Speaker 19: I wonder though, with the nuns or with somebody in

2179
01:36:02,080 --> 01:36:05,840
Speaker 19: a wheelchair, do people purposefully use those things to take

2180
01:36:05,880 --> 01:36:06,759
Speaker 19: advantage of the system.

2181
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:08,200
Speaker 1: I would love to hear ways people do.

2182
01:36:08,320 --> 01:36:10,040
Speaker 8: I don't know what None is going to do that.

2183
01:36:10,120 --> 01:36:12,080
Speaker 4: Maybe I want to.

2184
01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:14,639
Speaker 3: Hear people who use whatever it is they have going

2185
01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:19,200
Speaker 3: on for him. If you use that to to like

2186
01:36:19,280 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 3: take advantage of the system. Yes, because I told you

2187
01:36:21,400 --> 01:36:22,760
Speaker 3: my friend in the wheelchair. He said, people do it

2188
01:36:22,840 --> 01:36:24,720
Speaker 3: all the time. I bet, and he says, call him

2189
01:36:24,720 --> 01:36:25,040
Speaker 3: out on it.

2190
01:36:25,640 --> 01:36:29,280
Speaker 8: Scary uses the Z one hundred Elvis Durant's show card

2191
01:36:29,320 --> 01:36:31,200
Speaker 8: all the time. Even at Applebee's.

2192
01:36:31,240 --> 01:36:31,960
Speaker 7: He made me use it.

2193
01:36:32,400 --> 01:36:32,880
Speaker 3: And that's sad.

2194
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 8: Give me a reservation.

2195
01:36:34,479 --> 01:36:38,400
Speaker 3: If you're a non please call us, you guys man,

2196
01:36:38,479 --> 01:36:39,160
Speaker 3: you know what happens.

2197
01:36:39,200 --> 01:36:40,240
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you're going to hell.

2198
01:36:40,400 --> 01:36:45,080
Speaker 15: No, we're not going anyway. We're doing You're going on No.

2199
01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:48,760
Speaker 3: No, we are so great on this show. I got

2200
01:36:48,800 --> 01:36:50,599
Speaker 3: an email the other day saying, we're all in. We're good,

2201
01:36:51,920 --> 01:36:53,000
Speaker 3: we have guaranteed positions.

2202
01:36:53,040 --> 01:36:53,519
Speaker 1: Oh goody.

2203
01:36:53,840 --> 01:36:55,760
Speaker 3: You know he was a gandhi talking about how her

2204
01:36:55,840 --> 01:36:58,960
Speaker 3: friend what broke her call her bone ten years ago.

2205
01:36:59,120 --> 01:37:01,760
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and still using her parking paths to park

2206
01:37:01,800 --> 01:37:02,599
Speaker 3: in handicap parking.

2207
01:37:02,760 --> 01:37:04,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's such a turn in. The best is

2208
01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:06,320
Speaker 1: that she gets out in limps, and I'm like, that's

2209
01:37:06,320 --> 01:37:07,840
Speaker 1: not even what you hurt in the first place.

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01:37:07,880 --> 01:37:11,040
Speaker 3: She's limping because she broke her collar bone. I know,

2211
01:37:11,120 --> 01:37:13,519
Speaker 3: But she's got great parking. She's taking advantage of the

2212
01:37:13,520 --> 01:37:16,080
Speaker 3: system that's not taking Hey, Kate, are you still there?

2213
01:37:16,880 --> 01:37:17,439
Speaker 10: Good morning?

2214
01:37:17,560 --> 01:37:20,400
Speaker 3: I'm still care well, good morning. So your mom took

2215
01:37:20,400 --> 01:37:22,920
Speaker 3: advantage of the system. What did your your mom? I'm like,

2216
01:37:22,960 --> 01:37:24,519
Speaker 3: what a bad example for her daughter?

2217
01:37:24,600 --> 01:37:25,120
Speaker 4: What did she do?

2218
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:26,479
Speaker 21: I know?

2219
01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:28,720
Speaker 12: I make fun of her so bad? She was running late,

2220
01:37:28,840 --> 01:37:30,320
Speaker 12: the parking lot was super packed.

2221
01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:33,960
Speaker 10: She took my grandmother's handicapped parking permit and used it,

2222
01:37:34,360 --> 01:37:36,240
Speaker 10: but to make it look authentic, the same thing as

2223
01:37:36,280 --> 01:37:36,840
Speaker 10: gandhi friend.

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01:37:36,920 --> 01:37:38,439
Speaker 12: She limped in and out of the store.

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01:37:41,280 --> 01:37:43,040
Speaker 1: But like, what about in the store the whole time?

2226
01:37:43,160 --> 01:37:44,240
Speaker 1: Was she just walking around normally?

2227
01:37:44,479 --> 01:37:45,639
Speaker 3: Is she limping in the store too?

2228
01:37:45,760 --> 01:37:46,400
Speaker 15: Or just at the door?

2229
01:37:46,720 --> 01:37:51,599
Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't understand. Really, why can't you just park

2230
01:37:51,640 --> 01:37:54,320
Speaker 3: your car and if you can, you just walk and

2231
01:37:54,400 --> 01:37:56,479
Speaker 3: didn't have to have to act like you have a limp?

2232
01:37:56,560 --> 01:37:57,439
Speaker 3: I think that's so funny?

2233
01:37:57,479 --> 01:37:57,960
Speaker 7: Is you riff?

2234
01:37:57,960 --> 01:37:58,519
Speaker 2: You were in a hurry?

2235
01:37:58,560 --> 01:38:01,280
Speaker 8: I have a friend who wanted parking the pregnancy parking.

2236
01:38:01,360 --> 01:38:02,880
Speaker 8: She wasn't pregnant. She took a pillow with her and

2237
01:38:02,880 --> 01:38:03,640
Speaker 8: would shove it up there.

2238
01:38:03,800 --> 01:38:04,519
Speaker 3: Are you serious?

2239
01:38:04,800 --> 01:38:05,559
Speaker 4: Because it was.

2240
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Speaker 15: Closer to God?

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01:38:07,240 --> 01:38:09,479
Speaker 3: All right, Kate, thank you so much? Hello Abby?

2242
01:38:10,640 --> 01:38:10,800
Speaker 4: Hi?

2243
01:38:11,280 --> 01:38:13,360
Speaker 3: How are you we're doing okay. So this is about

2244
01:38:13,400 --> 01:38:16,120
Speaker 3: your father taking advantage of the system. What happened?

2245
01:38:16,920 --> 01:38:19,240
Speaker 10: So my father is deaf, he's been death since he

2246
01:38:19,320 --> 01:38:21,600
Speaker 10: was about two years old, and he kinda ties a

2247
01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:23,599
Speaker 10: little bit of a lead foot. So he gets pulled

2248
01:38:23,640 --> 01:38:26,559
Speaker 10: over a lot, and he's never once gotten a speeding

2249
01:38:26,600 --> 01:38:30,240
Speaker 10: ticket because police officers feel bad and they never issue

2250
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:31,920
Speaker 10: him a ticket, so they always just give him a

2251
01:38:32,000 --> 01:38:32,639
Speaker 10: verbal warning.

2252
01:38:33,439 --> 01:38:35,840
Speaker 3: Well, so what does he do? Does he really play

2253
01:38:35,920 --> 01:38:37,160
Speaker 3: it up heavily.

2254
01:38:37,560 --> 01:38:40,720
Speaker 10: That he's he's been around hearing people his whole life,

2255
01:38:40,800 --> 01:38:43,840
Speaker 10: so he's gottenlip breading down to a t. But he

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01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:46,160
Speaker 10: just kind of pretends that he can't understand what the

2257
01:38:46,240 --> 01:38:48,839
Speaker 10: officer is trying to tell him. That he just pretends

2258
01:38:48,880 --> 01:38:49,679
Speaker 10: he can't lip breathe.

2259
01:38:51,040 --> 01:38:54,960
Speaker 3: So the police officers like, just go, you just go.

2260
01:38:55,800 --> 01:38:58,000
Speaker 10: Yeah, They're like, you're fine, have a nice rest of

2261
01:38:58,040 --> 01:39:00,160
Speaker 10: your day. He's like, try to slow down. But you know,

2262
01:39:00,320 --> 01:39:02,120
Speaker 10: my dad has that heart and a lot of other

2263
01:39:02,200 --> 01:39:03,880
Speaker 10: aspects of his life. So this is kind of the.

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01:39:04,960 --> 01:39:10,200
Speaker 3: Goll So you're saying, like the universe is it's equaling

2265
01:39:10,280 --> 01:39:13,840
Speaker 3: it all out? Yes, equalizing All right, Well, thank you Abby,

2266
01:39:14,320 --> 01:39:17,320
Speaker 3: let's go talk to who are this is twenty one?

2267
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:19,639
Speaker 3: I don't know who it is. Hello?

2268
01:39:19,760 --> 01:39:20,160
Speaker 4: Are you there?

2269
01:39:21,240 --> 01:39:21,400
Speaker 10: Good?

2270
01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:24,719
Speaker 3: Oh Shelley, there you go, Shelly, Sorry, my screen is stupid.

2271
01:39:25,000 --> 01:39:29,040
Speaker 3: Hi Shelley, Okay, so talk to me, Shelley. Who is

2272
01:39:29,120 --> 01:39:30,599
Speaker 3: it taking advantage of the system here?

2273
01:39:31,479 --> 01:39:33,519
Speaker 11: Well, it was my daughter, so it was kind of me.

2274
01:39:34,120 --> 01:39:38,080
Speaker 11: But she was coming off of foot surgery, so she

2275
01:39:38,200 --> 01:39:40,400
Speaker 11: had been on crutches for about two months when we

2276
01:39:40,479 --> 01:39:41,600
Speaker 11: went on vacation.

2277
01:39:41,439 --> 01:39:44,040
Speaker 17: And the doctor told her to wear the boots, but she.

2278
01:39:44,080 --> 01:39:46,519
Speaker 11: Could start walking without it. So by the time we

2279
01:39:46,640 --> 01:39:49,360
Speaker 11: came home from vacation, she didn't really need it anymore,

2280
01:39:49,840 --> 01:39:51,920
Speaker 11: but we didn't have room in the suitcase to bring

2281
01:39:52,000 --> 01:39:53,680
Speaker 11: it home with us, so we made her wear it.

2282
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:57,040
Speaker 11: And we got out of the taxi at the airport

2283
01:39:57,320 --> 01:40:00,639
Speaker 11: in Kuntakana and we had an escort and right over

2284
01:40:00,760 --> 01:40:03,200
Speaker 11: to us, put her in a wheelchair, which she was

2285
01:40:03,320 --> 01:40:07,200
Speaker 11: not happy about, and ran up. We had help doing

2286
01:40:07,280 --> 01:40:09,519
Speaker 11: our customs paperwork. He got us to the front of

2287
01:40:09,560 --> 01:40:12,000
Speaker 11: the line to check our bags, got us through security,

2288
01:40:12,240 --> 01:40:15,920
Speaker 11: got us so I said, we're cheaping that boot. We're

2289
01:40:15,960 --> 01:40:17,400
Speaker 11: gonna use it every trip there.

2290
01:40:19,360 --> 01:40:22,120
Speaker 3: Keep the bod just because you couldn't fit in in

2291
01:40:22,200 --> 01:40:25,519
Speaker 3: the suitcase. Your daughter, Your poor daughter. I mean, did

2292
01:40:25,920 --> 01:40:27,680
Speaker 3: she really really get mad at you from making her

2293
01:40:27,720 --> 01:40:28,519
Speaker 3: do that for the family?

2294
01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:31,200
Speaker 11: Oh my god. I have a picture of her with

2295
01:40:31,280 --> 01:40:33,600
Speaker 11: the most powerfuls face in that wheelchair.

2296
01:40:34,360 --> 01:40:39,040
Speaker 3: I would be too im like Mom, I wish it's America.

2297
01:40:39,080 --> 01:40:41,479
Speaker 3: I'm healed. Mom's a fraud, all right, Shelby.

2298
01:40:41,520 --> 01:40:43,320
Speaker 8: Can you imagine are your mom under the bus?

2299
01:40:45,360 --> 01:40:47,360
Speaker 19: I still like that the police officer gave a death

2300
01:40:47,439 --> 01:40:50,679
Speaker 19: man of verbal warning. Yeah, doesn't seem that effective.

2301
01:40:51,240 --> 01:40:54,160
Speaker 3: I shouted a verbal warning you can't hear me.

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01:40:55,160 --> 01:40:59,599
Speaker 12: Hello, Heather, Hello, I'm so excited. I was the siding

2303
01:40:59,640 --> 01:41:01,840
Speaker 12: between listening to your book on Audible this morning or

2304
01:41:01,880 --> 01:41:03,320
Speaker 12: calling or listening to the show.

2305
01:41:03,439 --> 01:41:04,519
Speaker 17: And I listened to the show.

2306
01:41:04,640 --> 01:41:07,040
Speaker 3: I liked it because Audible you can listen to on

2307
01:41:07,200 --> 01:41:08,840
Speaker 3: your own time. You know what I'm saying. But this

2308
01:41:08,960 --> 01:41:11,920
Speaker 3: is our time with you, one on one live Heather. So, anyway,

2309
01:41:11,960 --> 01:41:13,520
Speaker 3: your mother in law is the culprit.

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01:41:13,320 --> 01:41:16,280
Speaker 12: Right, Well, actually no, my sister in laws and I

2311
01:41:16,320 --> 01:41:18,400
Speaker 12: am the culprit went out blast.

2312
01:41:18,200 --> 01:41:20,639
Speaker 10: Friday shopping and we took her vand because it was bigger,

2313
01:41:21,040 --> 01:41:23,280
Speaker 10: and we just used.

2314
01:41:23,080 --> 01:41:24,920
Speaker 12: Her parking pass to park in the front of the

2315
01:41:24,960 --> 01:41:27,280
Speaker 12: parking lot, so we didn't have to, you know, run

2316
01:41:27,320 --> 01:41:29,200
Speaker 12: all over looking for a spot, and we got to

2317
01:41:29,240 --> 01:41:29,920
Speaker 12: the front of the line.

2318
01:41:30,280 --> 01:41:32,679
Speaker 3: You know what I do, Heather, If I see someone

2319
01:41:32,720 --> 01:41:35,240
Speaker 3: getting out of their car and they've parked in handicapped parking,

2320
01:41:35,680 --> 01:41:38,360
Speaker 3: I stay. I watched to see if, okay, what's wrong

2321
01:41:38,400 --> 01:41:41,600
Speaker 3: with them? And then, thinking that I'm a trained physician,

2322
01:41:42,160 --> 01:41:45,200
Speaker 3: I scan their full body to say, okay, what's wrong,

2323
01:41:45,600 --> 01:41:48,519
Speaker 3: parking lot police? They seem to be walking just five?

2324
01:41:49,680 --> 01:41:51,519
Speaker 3: But what about to do nothing? Use a letter?

2325
01:41:51,800 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 16: No, you should do You should travel with like a

2326
01:41:53,520 --> 01:41:55,400
Speaker 16: microphone and just pretend you're doing an interview.

2327
01:41:55,520 --> 01:41:56,920
Speaker 15: Hey, I'm from the news. What's wrong with you?

2328
01:41:57,040 --> 01:41:59,000
Speaker 8: Why handy got parking?

2329
01:41:59,080 --> 01:42:00,280
Speaker 3: Why do you? Why do you have I had to

2330
01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:02,599
Speaker 3: keep a parking slip whatever.

2331
01:42:03,680 --> 01:42:05,160
Speaker 12: It wasn't our best judgment call.

2332
01:42:05,280 --> 01:42:07,840
Speaker 3: But how it happened, Well, I know, but it doesn't

2333
01:42:07,840 --> 01:42:09,280
Speaker 3: sound like you have one ounce of kilt.

2334
01:42:09,560 --> 01:42:11,680
Speaker 16: No, I well it was.

2335
01:42:11,800 --> 01:42:14,439
Speaker 12: It's a good memory, alright.

2336
01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:16,880
Speaker 3: Heather, Thank you for listening to us. And sometimes we

2337
01:42:16,960 --> 01:42:20,519
Speaker 3: do things we're not we're not supposed to do, supposed

2338
01:42:20,560 --> 01:42:22,880
Speaker 3: to do. I'm ashamed of it, but I'm going to

2339
01:42:22,920 --> 01:42:23,400
Speaker 3: talk about it.

2340
01:42:23,439 --> 01:42:23,880
Speaker 4: On the radio.

2341
01:42:24,120 --> 01:42:25,880
Speaker 19: But you know what I noticed in all these calls

2342
01:42:26,080 --> 01:42:28,640
Speaker 19: is that it's the people who are not disabled in

2343
01:42:28,720 --> 01:42:30,640
Speaker 19: any way who were the a holes taking advantage of

2344
01:42:30,680 --> 01:42:32,960
Speaker 19: the system, and people who are actually disabled didn't call

2345
01:42:33,000 --> 01:42:33,439
Speaker 19: and tell us.

2346
01:42:33,400 --> 01:42:36,240
Speaker 1: They were doing anything bad, good for them or way

2347
01:42:36,280 --> 01:42:37,040
Speaker 1: to keep your secrets.

2348
01:42:38,760 --> 01:42:39,960
Speaker 4: Hey, this is Taylor Swift.

2349
01:42:40,439 --> 01:42:40,720
Speaker 9: This is.

2350
01:42:42,720 --> 01:42:44,920
Speaker 1: And you're listening to Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

2351
01:42:53,439 --> 01:42:55,040
Speaker 2: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

2352
01:42:56,880 --> 01:42:58,960
Speaker 3: All right, so you find someone you want to date

2353
01:42:59,000 --> 01:43:02,240
Speaker 3: and they're really cool and everything. You date him, then

2354
01:43:02,320 --> 01:43:04,080
Speaker 3: you start finding out more about their family. Didn't you

2355
01:43:04,120 --> 01:43:07,719
Speaker 3: realize you have a connection to them and you daren't

2356
01:43:07,880 --> 01:43:10,320
Speaker 3: bring it up? Tell the story that we that we read,

2357
01:43:10,439 --> 01:43:11,559
Speaker 3: Gandhi listened to the story.

2358
01:43:11,400 --> 01:43:12,080
Speaker 4: Guys, Lisenkay.

2359
01:43:12,400 --> 01:43:15,360
Speaker 19: A guy went through what he calls a bye phase

2360
01:43:15,479 --> 01:43:17,599
Speaker 19: a few years ago, and during that phase, he says

2361
01:43:17,640 --> 01:43:20,920
Speaker 19: he slept with anyone and everyone, men, women, whomever. Then

2362
01:43:21,000 --> 01:43:23,040
Speaker 19: he meets the love of his life and he says

2363
01:43:23,080 --> 01:43:25,439
Speaker 19: that this partner now is his everything. So he decides

2364
01:43:25,479 --> 01:43:27,680
Speaker 19: he wants to propose they go out to dinner. He's

2365
01:43:27,680 --> 01:43:29,800
Speaker 19: sitting with his mom and dad with the woman's mom

2366
01:43:29,840 --> 01:43:32,720
Speaker 19: and dad, and he realizes, oh, my god, during my

2367
01:43:32,800 --> 01:43:35,479
Speaker 19: by phase, I slept with this woman's father. And the

2368
01:43:35,560 --> 01:43:37,519
Speaker 19: father is sitting across the table staring at him.

2369
01:43:37,600 --> 01:43:38,880
Speaker 3: He slept with his girlfriend's dad.

2370
01:43:39,080 --> 01:43:42,360
Speaker 8: Ye, my goodness, So he says.

2371
01:43:42,479 --> 01:43:44,400
Speaker 19: She gets up to go to the bathroom. The mom

2372
01:43:44,479 --> 01:43:46,240
Speaker 19: went with her, and dad looks at him and says,

2373
01:43:46,320 --> 01:43:48,559
Speaker 19: you break up with my daughter right now?

2374
01:43:48,880 --> 01:43:53,640
Speaker 4: Wow? Do whoa? What do you do?

2375
01:43:53,800 --> 01:43:56,360
Speaker 3: I think, yes, well, if you're really in love with

2376
01:43:56,439 --> 01:43:58,720
Speaker 3: his daughter, you've got to like talk it out right right?

2377
01:43:58,960 --> 01:44:00,520
Speaker 1: Oh what am uncomfortable conversation?

2378
01:44:00,960 --> 01:44:01,960
Speaker 15: No, you can't do that.

2379
01:44:02,439 --> 01:44:06,160
Speaker 16: And at that point when dad I my opinion is

2380
01:44:06,280 --> 01:44:08,360
Speaker 16: that the dad has to do the right thing. And

2381
01:44:08,439 --> 01:44:09,960
Speaker 16: if the guy doesn't break up, you have to sit

2382
01:44:10,000 --> 01:44:12,439
Speaker 16: down and say, listen, you need to know something.

2383
01:44:12,720 --> 01:44:15,120
Speaker 3: Why do they have to break up? Well, people can

2384
01:44:15,200 --> 01:44:17,200
Speaker 3: be bisexual. No no, no, no, you can.

2385
01:44:17,320 --> 01:44:19,200
Speaker 15: But once you've slept with one person, it's like sleeping

2386
01:44:19,200 --> 01:44:20,360
Speaker 15: with the other people by proxy.

2387
01:44:20,560 --> 01:44:22,799
Speaker 3: Okay, you get froggy, Daniel.

2388
01:44:23,040 --> 01:44:25,680
Speaker 8: I can't if it was me, I can't like know

2389
01:44:25,880 --> 01:44:28,360
Speaker 8: that my dad slept with the guy that I'm dating, and.

2390
01:44:28,479 --> 01:44:32,479
Speaker 3: Like, no, what about what if it was a sister.

2391
01:44:32,560 --> 01:44:34,240
Speaker 3: You dated one sister, then you dated the other sister.

2392
01:44:34,760 --> 01:44:36,400
Speaker 8: I don't want you touching my family members.

2393
01:44:36,479 --> 01:44:38,880
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, that is not fair. That is

2394
01:44:39,000 --> 01:44:42,200
Speaker 3: not fair. Sometimes these things happen. And if you're if

2395
01:44:42,240 --> 01:44:45,439
Speaker 3: you're finally clicking with someone, who's right. Okay, so I

2396
01:44:45,520 --> 01:44:46,960
Speaker 3: had sex with your dad, let it go.

2397
01:44:47,520 --> 01:44:51,320
Speaker 1: You you would be able to date someone that's left

2398
01:44:51,360 --> 01:44:51,800
Speaker 1: with your father?

2399
01:44:52,040 --> 01:44:52,840
Speaker 6: Yes, you lie?

2400
01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:53,920
Speaker 4: Well?

2401
01:44:53,960 --> 01:44:56,680
Speaker 3: No, okay, maybe if you just didn't talk about it.

2402
01:44:57,000 --> 01:44:57,960
Speaker 3: Can't it be a secret?

2403
01:44:58,280 --> 01:45:01,040
Speaker 16: No, that's that's a hard secret to keep, especially if

2404
01:45:01,080 --> 01:45:03,000
Speaker 16: they get married enough kids for the rest of your life.

2405
01:45:03,080 --> 01:45:04,960
Speaker 3: Right, I bet, I bet you one hundred dollars. Scary

2406
01:45:05,000 --> 01:45:06,439
Speaker 3: is the only one in here that agrees with me.

2407
01:45:06,600 --> 01:45:06,960
Speaker 3: Let it go.

2408
01:45:07,360 --> 01:45:11,040
Speaker 6: I agree, I can compartmentalize. I think.

2409
01:45:11,439 --> 01:45:14,120
Speaker 5: I think your past does not dictate your present, which

2410
01:45:14,200 --> 01:45:16,280
Speaker 5: doesn't dictate your future exactly.

2411
01:45:16,600 --> 01:45:20,080
Speaker 16: If you found out that Robin slept with your mother

2412
01:45:20,280 --> 01:45:22,280
Speaker 16: or your father, you'd be okay with that?

2413
01:45:22,720 --> 01:45:23,559
Speaker 6: What would the past?

2414
01:45:23,720 --> 01:45:25,760
Speaker 8: Is the past the front door?

2415
01:45:26,560 --> 01:45:27,720
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, let's look at this.

2416
01:45:28,040 --> 01:45:30,800
Speaker 15: Look, guys, guys, guys, listen to me.

2417
01:45:31,320 --> 01:45:36,559
Speaker 3: Look, all relationships have challenges. So this is the challenge

2418
01:45:36,560 --> 01:45:37,160
Speaker 3: with this one.

2419
01:45:37,920 --> 01:45:40,920
Speaker 8: Challenges in relationships. You don't need someone that slept with

2420
01:45:41,000 --> 01:45:41,839
Speaker 8: one of your parents.

2421
01:45:42,120 --> 01:45:45,280
Speaker 15: Really, If I find out my dad, I'd be like,

2422
01:45:45,320 --> 01:45:46,720
Speaker 15: WHOA wait a second, we got to talk.

2423
01:45:47,080 --> 01:45:49,680
Speaker 3: I got a question for you. So, and someone sent

2424
01:45:49,760 --> 01:45:51,640
Speaker 3: his text in what about the other story? Did the

2425
01:45:51,880 --> 01:45:56,040
Speaker 3: dad cheat on the mother of his girlfriend to have

2426
01:45:56,200 --> 01:45:58,840
Speaker 3: sex with him exactly? We don't know the answer to that.

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Speaker 19: He looks like he did, and he hadn't come out

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01:46:01,760 --> 01:46:04,559
Speaker 19: himself and told the story to the family either.

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01:46:04,680 --> 01:46:06,960
Speaker 3: So this is so multi Okay. Now, okay, with that

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01:46:07,200 --> 01:46:11,280
Speaker 3: added layer, I will say, okay, maybe no if you cheated, okay,

2431
01:46:11,600 --> 01:46:13,400
Speaker 3: this is okay. If you're just turning us on here,

2432
01:46:13,560 --> 01:46:19,080
Speaker 3: hear me out. I dated a guy, okay, and we

2433
01:46:19,240 --> 01:46:22,160
Speaker 3: broke up. Then later on, since I'm bisexual, I dated

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01:46:22,240 --> 01:46:25,680
Speaker 3: a woman. Find out her dad's the guy I had

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01:46:25,720 --> 01:46:29,040
Speaker 3: sex with, and he cheated on my current girlfriend's mother

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01:46:29,320 --> 01:46:32,160
Speaker 3: to have sex with me several years ago. Okay, that's

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01:46:32,200 --> 01:46:34,080
Speaker 3: where we are. By the way, this is but I'm

2438
01:46:34,160 --> 01:46:36,360
Speaker 3: talking not about me. I'm talking about the person in

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01:46:36,400 --> 01:46:39,400
Speaker 3: the story right right anyway.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm pretty open minded.

2441
01:46:42,040 --> 01:46:43,560
Speaker 3: But nope, So this is what I want to do.

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01:46:44,040 --> 01:46:46,200
Speaker 3: I want to open it up. You know, there's other

2443
01:46:46,400 --> 01:46:49,640
Speaker 3: complicated relationship relationships out there that have to do with

2444
01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:52,600
Speaker 3: the past and family members, right, Hm, who's gotta be.

2445
01:46:53,200 --> 01:46:56,479
Speaker 1: I want to hear things cousins, aunts, uncles.

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01:46:57,280 --> 01:47:00,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to hear from you because I once dated.

2447
01:47:01,200 --> 01:47:03,680
Speaker 3: I went on like two dates with a guy who

2448
01:47:03,720 --> 01:47:06,439
Speaker 3: used to work with my father. Oh, and they were

2449
01:47:06,479 --> 01:47:09,280
Speaker 3: business partners and a couple of things. And uh, I

2450
01:47:09,360 --> 01:47:12,680
Speaker 3: thought that was gonna get creepy and it didn't it it? Well, no,

2451
01:47:12,840 --> 01:47:14,840
Speaker 3: and I didn't. I know, I would never tell my dad,

2452
01:47:14,880 --> 01:47:17,880
Speaker 3: but but you know, there was my dad knew the

2453
01:47:17,920 --> 01:47:20,240
Speaker 3: guy was gay, whatever, there was no you know, my

2454
01:47:20,400 --> 01:47:23,360
Speaker 3: mom wasn't involved, you know what I'm saying.

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01:47:23,800 --> 01:47:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, So where would you draw the line personally?

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01:47:27,840 --> 01:47:31,280
Speaker 3: Well, no, if I found out that my dad cheated

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01:47:31,320 --> 01:47:33,320
Speaker 3: on my mom to have sex with my boyfriend, I

2458
01:47:33,400 --> 01:47:35,160
Speaker 3: think at that point I would draw the line. Right,

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01:47:35,320 --> 01:47:38,240
Speaker 3: So you guys with me. I'm with you on that one, Danielle.

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01:47:38,640 --> 01:47:41,200
Speaker 3: But they didn't. Let's say it was before. You know

2461
01:47:41,240 --> 01:47:43,320
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, I don't know. It's kind of difficult.

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01:47:43,439 --> 01:47:44,840
Speaker 19: I mean I say this all the time, like I

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01:47:45,160 --> 01:47:47,360
Speaker 19: and I know Danielle's very close with her sister too.

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01:47:47,800 --> 01:47:51,639
Speaker 19: Once someone dates my sister, it's it's they're off off

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01:47:51,840 --> 01:47:52,920
Speaker 19: any radar anything.

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01:47:52,960 --> 01:47:54,720
Speaker 1: They basically become like you to me.

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01:47:54,920 --> 01:47:57,880
Speaker 3: So what you're saying, Gandhi, if a guy dates your sister,

2468
01:47:57,960 --> 01:48:02,559
Speaker 3: he's no longer able to have sex with your father. Okay,

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01:48:02,600 --> 01:48:03,439
Speaker 3: I think that's what I heard.

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01:48:06,600 --> 01:48:09,559
Speaker 2: Tell this durand Elvis Duran in the Morning show.

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Speaker 3: All right, we are done, but were coming back. Don't

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Speaker 3: you worry until next time. Say peace out everybody. Peo