Speaker 1: The Nicky Gliser podcastser here's Nikki. Hello here, I am
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. It's Nicki Glaser Podcast. Thank you
Speaker 1: for joining us. I'm here in my podcast studio. I
Speaker 1: was gonna say guest room, but it's really just a
Speaker 1: podcast studio at this point. It literally there's no other purpose.
Speaker 2: There's no bed in here for a guest.
Speaker 1: No, there is no guests but there let's just yes,
Speaker 1: there's a guest Yeah, there's there is a guest chair.
Speaker 1: We're redesigning. By the way, my mom's here. Everyone, Hello Mom,
Speaker 1: NK and Brian Francie's back with us too from Death Valley.
Speaker 1: You made it back. Yes, he's he's got well.
Speaker 3: I had a horrible time. I had a good time
Speaker 3: in a bad time. But on New Year's Eve, Ali,
Speaker 3: who is a kind of witchy, she we did a
Speaker 3: witch spell to try to that's fun for the death
Speaker 3: of of twenty twenty three and all the negative energy.
Speaker 3: And we did this spell. And then the next day
Speaker 3: I got food poisoning and I puked all day, which
Speaker 3: I viewed as like a purging.
Speaker 1: Did you lose?
Speaker 3: I know you'd be very jealous, because I I like.
Speaker 1: So, did you look at your stomach afterwards, and was it.
Speaker 3: Like it was amazing? I was like Olivia Rodrigo, I
Speaker 3: came out of there. No, but it was crazy because
Speaker 3: I was like, I feel like this is a purging
Speaker 3: of negative energy that's coming out.
Speaker 4: Of me right now.
Speaker 1: Oh what the which spell is the world took? What
Speaker 1: did you eat? The Chipotle took?
Speaker 3: It was either the spell or that barbecue Jimmy's restaurant
Speaker 3: that I had. And yeah, a rear.
Speaker 1: Again, this is not special, it is, but.
Speaker 3: Just for fun, but just for fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just for fun. Say had diarrhea and uh,
Speaker 1: you're puking for a whole day because of fun? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was because because of magic. That makes sense. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well have you felt good since then? Did you wake
Speaker 1: up New Year's Day like feeling refreshed and good?
Speaker 3: No? No, I feel the same after it. But I
Speaker 3: I mean no, I felt worse because you know, we
Speaker 3: actually get food poisoning. You feel sick for a couple
Speaker 3: more days. But man, uh, I really hope it was
Speaker 3: the negative energy because it would have been cool.
Speaker 1: Maybe stop eating meat. I think I don't think that
Speaker 1: people ever get food poisoning from not eating animals. People cuisine,
Speaker 1: A lean cuisine, that's what you got it.
Speaker 4: Not me, but a former coworker of mine. She got
Speaker 4: so sick from like a pasta lean cuisine.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was probably just because it's the
Speaker 1: line cuisine, because it was bad from. I've never gotten
Speaker 1: food poisoning oyster.
Speaker 5: Me yeah, oyster, yeah, I knew as soon as I
Speaker 5: ate it I went that was.
Speaker 1: Start getting sick more often. This isn't fair.
Speaker 5: I was thrown up like five times in my entire,
Speaker 5: really entire, Like why I just don't throw up?
Speaker 1: So you'll just be nauseous and you'll like you just
Speaker 1: don't want to throw up?
Speaker 2: No, I just can't.
Speaker 1: You can't.
Speaker 2: There's there's no way I can do.
Speaker 1: But does this it gross you out or something? And
Speaker 1: then how have you done it five times? Because it
Speaker 1: was I couldn't stop it. Oh but otherwise, so you
Speaker 1: can do it?
Speaker 2: No, I can't do it.
Speaker 1: But you did it five times? Well, I got didn't
Speaker 1: do it? Something else did it? I know you've been
Speaker 1: wildly hung over too. That's when throw up comes up
Speaker 1: for most people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't. Nothing happens like that.
Speaker 1: Do you so you just suck? Do you feel does
Speaker 1: your body feel like it wants to throw Is it frustrating?
Speaker 1: Like is it like being contipated but the other way?
Speaker 2: No, I get it the other way.
Speaker 1: Okay, got it?
Speaker 3: Yeah. You get throwing up so amazing once you know
Speaker 3: it before you before you do it out. Before you
Speaker 3: do it, you feel so shitty and queasy, and then
Speaker 3: getting it out is such a relief. It feels so good.
Speaker 1: That's what I feel about diarrhea. The other day I
Speaker 1: got diarrhea a little bit and I told Anya. We
Speaker 1: were texting about it, and she was like oh, she goes,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, babe, and she goes, oh, wait, no, you
Speaker 1: love diaryhea, and I was like, I really do, because
Speaker 1: it feels like a cleansing, like you're getting the thing
Speaker 1: out that's making you feel sick. And I have said
Speaker 1: to her, I want to be clear to you. I
Speaker 1: get diarrhea. Sometimes I get it for twenty minutes and
Speaker 1: it's not I'm sitting on the toilet for twenty minutes.
Speaker 3: And kick it up.
Speaker 1: I have it for two sets, like less than ten seconds.
Speaker 1: I wipe, I go about my day and I go, oh,
Speaker 1: still not done, and I go sit back down. I'm
Speaker 1: not just like it's not even a problem. It feels good.
Speaker 1: But people who have diarrhea that are like, it's awful.
Speaker 1: I don't I want something. I want to just get
Speaker 1: a little physically sick. And I know this sounds I
Speaker 1: don't know, it doesn't sound nice because I'm belittling people's
Speaker 1: pain by being like I want that. But I just
Speaker 1: everyone in my life gets sick all the time. I
Speaker 1: never get sick. I never get any sympathy. I fell
Speaker 1: so hard, really really like just on some a sheet
Speaker 1: of ice. Like it looked cool the fall itself. It
Speaker 1: didn't look like I didn't know what I was doing.
Speaker 1: I just felt kind of like I was trying to go,
Speaker 1: you know, and slow down, but I hit a patch
Speaker 1: of ice, so it just kept going, and then my
Speaker 1: body kept going towards the like I just fell kind
Speaker 1: of into the hill. But I did do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: on the side. I did do it right below a
Speaker 1: chair lift, so that's the most embarrassing. It sucks, and
Speaker 1: it's right where they're all boarding, so even the people
Speaker 1: in the line could see me. It was. It was
Speaker 1: at the bottom of a chair lift, so embarrassing, but
Speaker 1: it felt I felt. I was like, oh, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have such a good bruise because it was janked up. Man,
Speaker 1: it was radiating. I couldn't even ski after it. It
Speaker 1: was hurting so bad. Like usually you fall and you're
Speaker 1: like a little sore. It was like, this is a
Speaker 1: bone bruise. Nothing, no brs I I told Chris and
Speaker 1: Curran when I got back, I was like, you, you
Speaker 1: guys are gonna be amazed at what this turns into.
Speaker 1: I waited two hours. I go to the bathroom to
Speaker 1: check it. Nothing. Waited three hours. Nothing. It's been three days.
Speaker 1: It's still you've hit any bruise. It wouldn't even nothing
Speaker 1: that shows. I want my pain showing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well no, that's the well you know, from a
Speaker 3: person who has pain, it doesn't show at all. It's
Speaker 3: good to show it you want so when you're requesting
Speaker 3: the pain, you want visible pain so you can have
Speaker 3: the empathy from other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, that's what you want.
Speaker 2: Are you still sore?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's I'm touching on it right now and it's like.
Speaker 3: Nothing to show for it's no bruise.
Speaker 1: It was going to be black because.
Speaker 2: You have a bruise there, but you don't see it.
Speaker 1: It's it's very very light and current and Chris were
Speaker 1: laughing because I was saying, you wait, do you see
Speaker 1: this thing? It's going to be crazy because I don't exaggerate.
Speaker 1: I bruise all the time on my legs, right, and
Speaker 1: I don't even know what causes.
Speaker 3: I don't think you've ever exaggerated. I'm trying to think.
Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever heard you exaggerate one time, unlike.
Speaker 1: A glad exaggerated at least a thousand times in the
Speaker 1: past minute.
Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't know that you don't do that.
Speaker 1: Like, well, Dad gaggerates thirty percent in either direction. So
Speaker 1: it's either you can just always if it's a good story,
Speaker 1: and he's saying, and we got there, there were like
Speaker 1: stroud people in line. You can guess it was probably
Speaker 1: forty people in the right or or you know whatever,
Speaker 1: you could always do by thirty percent either way. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess catch myself exactly.
Speaker 3: Exaggerating is the American way thirty percent below is the
Speaker 3: British way?
Speaker 5: Oh well, oh but really that's right, Oh that's right.
Speaker 3: That no, well, it's like the difference between American humor
Speaker 3: and British humor. American humor goes you walk into a room,
Speaker 3: it smells, you go, this place stinks like shit. And
Speaker 3: if it's if you go into a room and it
Speaker 3: smells in Britain, you go, well, this doesn't very smell
Speaker 3: very good, does it. That's the same joke Jimmy Carr.
Speaker 3: Jimmy Carr would go, I went into a room and
Speaker 3: it smelled, and I was and something about Hitler.
Speaker 1: It smelled like the Holocaust, and I thought, and then
Speaker 1: he would change it and be like, I like the
Speaker 1: small of the Holocaust. The cars he writes offensive jokes, right,
Speaker 1: they're gonna get them canceled someday. I will say that.
Speaker 1: I just I felt really bad today because I went
Speaker 1: in to go get my retainer that by the way,
Speaker 1: after I finished in Visilin, and they gave me two
Speaker 1: retainers that I thought would last at least a lifetime.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The retainers, Wait, do they not last? They're not viviscof ones.
Speaker 1: I just learned that, Oh that's not the brand. I
Speaker 1: don't know. They gave me some off brand. So I
Speaker 1: walk in. So both of the retainers have broken, Like,
Speaker 1: I take them out and they've they've ripped.
Speaker 3: You're wearing them overnight.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wearing them overnight, like you know, for like I
Speaker 1: think I wore them like three weeks each, and they
Speaker 1: both have ripped. And yes, I don't take them off
Speaker 1: from the back like you're supposed to. But the Chris
Speaker 1: has a retainer that is thick like a table top,
Speaker 1: like it's gigantic, and mine's like a thin little thing.
Speaker 1: So I go, I ordered some new ones. I went
Speaker 1: to go pick them up. They're four hundred dollars per pair.
Speaker 1: And which is I go, so, am I gonna have
Speaker 1: to pay four hundred dollars the rest of my life
Speaker 1: every two months because these things break? And they go,
Speaker 1: I don't know, you could do our retainer for life program.
Speaker 1: And I said, what's that? She starts digging through a
Speaker 1: filing cabinet. You pay one thousand dollars one time, and
Speaker 1: every time you need a new retainer it's seventy dollars. Oh,
Speaker 1: And I go, oh, so they know these are crap,
Speaker 1: and she goes, I go, they know these are shit?
Speaker 1: And I said it kind of like as loud as that,
Speaker 1: And there were kids in the in the waiting room,
Speaker 1: and I go, I mean crap, which is I think
Speaker 1: crap is even a bad word to kids. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not great. It's not a good word. Pooph today
Speaker 1: are idiot And he was like, Nikki said idiot, And
Speaker 1: I said, I didn't say about my sister. I said
Speaker 1: it about football.
Speaker 3: Can we stop with that? Can we stop teaching kids
Speaker 3: to be narcs? I mean a word?
Speaker 1: Or why don't we just say words around kids because
Speaker 1: they're going to learn them anyway. It doesn't like everyone
Speaker 1: just takes so much offense that their kid is going
Speaker 1: to be a foul mouth person. So what if your
Speaker 1: kid you can blame it on TV or the internet.
Speaker 1: Like it's not like we're all learning how to cuss
Speaker 1: from our parents anymore.
Speaker 3: Like just who cares? Just cuss?
Speaker 1: Don't let them cust.
Speaker 3: Thing that's hilarious.
Speaker 1: Then cannot to do it breakfast? Yeah, you can't cuss
Speaker 1: as an adult. Everywhere you get in trouble for cussing
Speaker 1: as an adult's people think you're crazy.
Speaker 2: You can't.
Speaker 1: They definitely did today, And so I go, oh, so
Speaker 1: they know these are ship And I was just being
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to call out this woman. She has
Speaker 1: nothing to do with it, the receptionist. But be with
Speaker 1: me on this. You just pulled the paper out that
Speaker 1: has a retainer for life program, because that you have
Speaker 1: to pay one thousand dollars. The retainers should be for
Speaker 1: for at least six months more. If they're four hundred
Speaker 1: dollars a piece a retainer for.
Speaker 2: Life, you only got two months out a year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and now I have to pay one thousand dollars
Speaker 1: and then I'll have to pay seventy dollars each time.
Speaker 3: So you te to be like, yeah, you're right, they
Speaker 3: are shit. It's a scam.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a scam. But she can't say that
Speaker 1: because I can't do that. So then I guess someone
Speaker 1: heard the commotion, and the orthodontis came out. I've never
Speaker 1: met my Orthodonnis's husband. He's a striking man. Oh, he's
Speaker 1: a gorgeous man. Comes out from the back and it's like,
Speaker 1: what's the problem here, And I'm like, who is this
Speaker 1: model that's coming out to talk to me? And then
Speaker 1: I call him down because I'm like, okay, not because
Speaker 1: he was like hot or anything, but because he just
Speaker 1: it just seemed to be like I was causing a commotion,
Speaker 1: and I felt bad that I said shit. I did
Speaker 1: say it loud, and it was crowded, and I did
Speaker 1: feel bad. I don't want to be that type of person.
Speaker 1: I don't like I'll cuss in front of morn and
Speaker 1: Matt's kids.
Speaker 2: He just went in there.
Speaker 1: I went in there a little hot. Yeah, I went
Speaker 1: in hot. I was running late for the podcast. I
Speaker 1: was annoyed that it was because I had already paid
Speaker 1: half the bill, but I didn't remember what half what
Speaker 1: the amount was, And then when they gave me the
Speaker 1: other half, and I'm like, two hundred and twelve dollars,
Speaker 1: so four hundred and fifty dollars or four hundred twenty
Speaker 1: five dollars every and I go, so I have to
Speaker 1: pay four hundred twenty five dollars over two months for
Speaker 1: those I said that, and they go, no, you can
Speaker 1: do this program. Oh so, why don't they just make
Speaker 1: them stronger? I said. My boyfriend's retainer is so thick.
Speaker 1: Why can't I get one like that? I said, I
Speaker 1: think I'm probably gonna go elsewhere. Yeah, because I can,
Speaker 1: because all's doing is keeping my teeth in the place
Speaker 1: that they are.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: My teeth are different because I've done in visil line.
Speaker 3: You can get in Visiline retainers that are thicker and
Speaker 3: they last longer.
Speaker 5: Wait, why don't you just get one of those retainers
Speaker 5: that for grinding teeth. Once you set those in, teeth
Speaker 5: will be set. The teeth are already set in the
Speaker 5: right position.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not doing this again. But anyway, the the
Speaker 1: striking orthodontis, who is he strike I was like, if
Speaker 1: he did, it wouldn't show up, nothing to show for it.
Speaker 1: But I was just like suddenly like sorry, okay, so
Speaker 1: what's the other option? And he was very understanding. You
Speaker 1: could just tell he was the guy that comes out
Speaker 1: and talks to crazy lady. And I didn't like the
Speaker 1: I didn't like the guy coming out to talk to
Speaker 1: c And listen, they so in the right I know
Speaker 1: they're going to hear this. Someone's gonna send this to them.
Speaker 1: You guys, you were right. We all know that guy
Speaker 1: is striking. I'm not saying anything indecent. Even Chris talks
Speaker 1: about because Chris went to high school I think with
Speaker 1: this guy and he's on the way out, he goes, oh,
Speaker 1: say I had a Chris for me. I was like,
Speaker 1: he goes, I'm aj and I'm like, oh, you're my
Speaker 1: Jenna's husband. And Jenna is a looker too. I mean,
Speaker 1: these two are just gorgeous people. Because I remember when
Speaker 1: I when Jenna I started going to Jenna, Chris was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: she's married to AJ from school, and he goes, I
Speaker 1: bet she's so hot, and I go she is. He
Speaker 1: goes because Aj is hot. Hot people find each other.
Speaker 1: A ten doesn't end up with not a ten, unless
Speaker 1: unless it's a ten woman, and then she she canna
Speaker 1: end up with a guy that has ten zeros behind his.
Speaker 2: Guys salary.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's the only tens that those tens hang
Speaker 1: out with. But yes, so yeah. Have you ever seen
Speaker 1: a mismatched hot couple that is the woman is the
Speaker 1: uglier one.
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to think of people I know, but Marks,
Speaker 5: I have seen that when.
Speaker 2: I don't know when.
Speaker 1: No, you don't know when because it doesn't happen. It
Speaker 1: doesn't know there. Women are always what about like Danny DeVito,
Speaker 1: they're they're equals, they're before And I say, this was
Speaker 1: no judgment, but me for saying perlans afore, Well.
Speaker 3: Are you saying everyone's always equal with who they are?
Speaker 1: You're either equal? This is what I said in my
Speaker 1: last I said it in one special I did, You're
Speaker 1: either equal or the woman is hotter. The best a
Speaker 1: woman can do is equal to her, or the worst
Speaker 1: of what man will do is equal to him.
Speaker 3: Different you're in the closet or something like the Yes.
Speaker 1: Yes, a man can be in the closet, or have
Speaker 1: low self esteem, or have an ugly mother that he wants.
Speaker 1: Maybe he wants to recreate his childhood a little bit
Speaker 1: sometimes nothing worth.
Speaker 2: But it's but poor people.
Speaker 1: No, there's no chance, maybe one out of every hundred
Speaker 1: men with an ugly woman be.
Speaker 3: Dropped off to school with an ugly mother.
Speaker 2: Okay, people to.
Speaker 1: Have it all the time. It no having an ugly
Speaker 1: mother would hurt your feelings to be because men always say,
Speaker 1: whether they do it or not, they always say they
Speaker 1: look at the mother to see what you're going to
Speaker 1: turn out like.
Speaker 5: And I can imagine had said once, and I was like,
Speaker 5: that's really cute.
Speaker 3: Does that happen?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Does it? Do you do actually wind up turning into
Speaker 3: your mother? Like you look like them? Exactly?
Speaker 1: I think so? Or it just shows kind of what
Speaker 1: your what your genetics are going to look like long term,
Speaker 1: And I think that that's important people. Oh, can I
Speaker 1: share my new theory that I'm obsessed with. Sure, O,
Speaker 1: this is so exciting. I think it's groundbreaking. I think
Speaker 1: it's really important. Okay, I was thinking about adoption and
Speaker 1: how people are not don't want to do it quite
Speaker 1: often because they want their kid to look like them.
Speaker 1: And you can give me any excuse you want for
Speaker 1: why you're not doing adoption and why you want to
Speaker 1: have your own kid. But you're having your own kid
Speaker 1: because you want something that you and you want your genetics,
Speaker 1: and that's okay, that's nothing wrong with that. Don't make
Speaker 1: other excuses though. That's why you do it. Otherwise you
Speaker 1: would adopt. It's the better thing to do. There are
Speaker 1: people without homes. You're doing it because you're a little
Speaker 1: bit of an arcissist, But we all are. It doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: We all have mirrors everywhere we go. We all are.
Speaker 1: It's no problem. What I would say is a good
Speaker 1: thing about adoption because now I'm thinking about my only
Speaker 1: option is adoption, and that is a rhyme. Uses is that?
Speaker 1: I think it was COOLi oh, that said that and
Speaker 1: Gangster's Paradise. I think it was one of the lyrics
Speaker 1: because my only adoption option is adoption. I think I
Speaker 1: am starting to just try to think about, like, what
Speaker 1: are the good things about it? And I came up
Speaker 1: with a great one. Okay, So I think a lot
Speaker 1: of the problem with people in general is that they
Speaker 1: grow up and people that have insecurity issues, people that
Speaker 1: have low self esteem, people that have I'm not good enoughness, perfectionism, procrastination,
Speaker 1: all these things. It's the root. It can be caused
Speaker 1: from their parents putting a lot of pressure on them
Speaker 1: to be perfect, to be to be better, and that
Speaker 1: the parent sees them as an extension of them. Therefore,
Speaker 1: if my child is failing in school, I am a
Speaker 1: failure somehow. If my child doesn't look a certain way,
Speaker 1: I'm failing. If my child is fat, if my child
Speaker 1: is ugly, it's somehow an extension of me. There's something
Speaker 1: wrong with me. Now, if you adopt, if your child
Speaker 1: is dumb and ugly, you can just blame it on
Speaker 1: where the parents had it. Therefore you can, yeah, you
Speaker 1: can protect yourself. Now, this isn't a conscious thing. It's
Speaker 1: a subconscious thing. I think that if my kid were
Speaker 1: adopted and he was bad in school or like some
Speaker 1: kind of thing that I or may feel insecure about
Speaker 1: how I rate my genetics, I wouldn't care as much.
Speaker 1: I just accept him for what he is and try
Speaker 1: to work with what we have as opposed to taking
Speaker 1: it as some like wound on my family tree and
Speaker 1: my heritage and my lineage. And so it would be
Speaker 1: I would have a better response because when my friends
Speaker 1: are and ugly, I don't go like and I'm I'm
Speaker 1: saying this as a joke. To be honest with you,
Speaker 1: dumb and ugly, I don't cared, No, no, no, I
Speaker 1: do have dumb and ugly friends. But it doesn't mean
Speaker 1: that I don't think that I think worse of them
Speaker 1: or something. But yes, sometimes I can be dumb and ugly.
Speaker 1: Like I thought that there was no God in Judaism.
Speaker 1: I thought they just had no God. I missed some things.
Speaker 1: I thought that Mexico was South America until last week.
Speaker 1: I did not know that Mexico was North America. I
Speaker 1: just thought everything because im America. Oh, okay, central America.
Speaker 3: I'm just talking about continents. Then there's only North and
Speaker 3: South America.
Speaker 1: I just will say I can be dumb too, right, exactly, Okay,
Speaker 1: I check and I say exactly, like, I just didn't
Speaker 1: find that out from Brian. So when someone says a fact,
Speaker 1: you can say exactly and you aren't lying. You sound
Speaker 1: like you knew it already, but you could just be
Speaker 1: saying yeah, exactly. So it's a safe thing to say
Speaker 1: after and said something smart and you're not technically lying.
Speaker 1: But people do infer that you might have known it before.
Speaker 1: But I think that you know, if someone I don't
Speaker 1: I'm not related to, is ignorant or act in a
Speaker 1: fool or embarrassing and crying, I don't like take it
Speaker 1: as me. You know, I don't take I can help
Speaker 1: them in a way that is isn't like I'm taking
Speaker 1: it personally. And I think that if I had kids
Speaker 1: that were act in fool, I wouldn't be as like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be as well.
Speaker 3: If you adopted the kid and it's having a temper
Speaker 3: tantruma at a grocery store and you won't feel embarrassed.
Speaker 3: You'd be like, well, don't blame me, blame it's natural
Speaker 3: racket mom.
Speaker 1: Yes exactly, I would. I would say this, and I
Speaker 1: know that that's not right, maybe because you should take responsibility.
Speaker 1: But if you've read any studies about kids growing up,
Speaker 1: you kind of turn out the way you are because
Speaker 1: of your genetics. There's really little that nurture can do.
Speaker 1: It's mostly nature. They've taken twins that were and raised
Speaker 1: them in two different accidentally were raised in two different environments.
Speaker 1: They turned out the same. Barring intense neglect or abuse.
Speaker 1: A child's going to kind of turn out the same
Speaker 1: no matter if they have amazing parents or kind of
Speaker 1: mediocre ones. And that has been studied and I would
Speaker 1: say peer reviewed like that is the way it is.
Speaker 1: And it's a bummer for people who want to adopt
Speaker 1: because you think that you can have this great impact
Speaker 1: on a kid's life. Yes, taking them out of a
Speaker 1: home with crack addicted parents is probably going to be
Speaker 1: very beneficial for them, but they're not going to turn
Speaker 1: out better than if you were.
Speaker 3: Well, you can give them an opportunity because if they
Speaker 3: have the same skills and the same whatever, But if
Speaker 3: they don't have the opportunity to go to school or whatever,
Speaker 3: then they're not going to become successful.
Speaker 1: And people don't.
Speaker 5: You can kind of carve that child, but a little bit,
Speaker 5: but not really.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll I'll send you the research. Yeah, beat them up,
Speaker 1: that can change them, but not beating them up all
Speaker 1: the way up to being the best parent in the world.
Speaker 1: Does is really negligible.
Speaker 3: So the only thing you can do is make them worse.
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, it's kind of a disappointment, but it's kind
Speaker 1: of freeing. As if you want to be a parent
Speaker 1: and love something, but know that you aren't responsible for
Speaker 1: how this kid turns out, you might be a little
Speaker 1: bit have a better life. Okay, that's my theory. We'll
Speaker 1: be right back after this.
Speaker 3: Don't think of that.
Speaker 1: All right, we're back. You've had seconds to think about
Speaker 1: my theory, You've had time to mull it over. What
Speaker 1: do you make of it? I think that you can.
Speaker 5: Basically, I'm saying that, yes, you if you have a
Speaker 5: damaged genetic child, it's.
Speaker 1: Kind of like having a step kid. You can just
Speaker 1: go not my problem.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, but you can definitely have an impact
Speaker 5: on that child.
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean, teachers have impacts on kids and stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I will send your article at better schools,
Speaker 1: and because it's a socioeconomic status, and because it reflects
Speaker 1: on them, and because people are obsessed with people thinking
Speaker 1: my kids the smart that's way people, you know, bribe
Speaker 1: schools to get them into better schools. It's not about
Speaker 1: their kid actually being smarter. Their dumb kid is lying
Speaker 1: about being on the rowing team so that she can
Speaker 1: go to l so it can look good. We can
Speaker 1: put the bumper sticker on a car. Our friends and
Speaker 1: family will think we're cool. It's not really about your
Speaker 1: daughter getting a better education and having a better life.
Speaker 3: But people so society level, but not biologically.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta I'll read the research again and share
Speaker 1: it on the next episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah. That's the thing is the crux of your argument
Speaker 3: is based on the research, and that I don't have.
Speaker 3: I don't believe the research yet. I believe that there's
Speaker 3: got to be research that says the opposite of what
Speaker 3: you're saying as well as what you're saying. And then
Speaker 3: it's not decided yet. Nature versus nurture. Okay, but if
Speaker 3: what you're saying is true, then that sucks.
Speaker 1: But all I realize, well, I think all I want
Speaker 1: is that nurture to be.
Speaker 4: Is that better than if we sorry, so, like, if
Speaker 4: we look at ourselves and like the work that we
Speaker 4: do to kind of like work out the kinks from
Speaker 4: like our family of origin, like family history, then it
Speaker 4: means that like, we can't do it either.
Speaker 3: That's a good point of therapy. Can fix the problems. Yeah, listen,
Speaker 3: nobody can fix anything. Nobody could do anything. All you
Speaker 3: worse jump off.
Speaker 1: All I know is that this is this, this whole
Speaker 1: thing I'm talking about, this research that I did read
Speaker 1: at another time, and I'm gonna find the sources to
Speaker 1: back it up. At some point. I was upset when
Speaker 1: I read it because because adoption is my only thing
Speaker 1: that I would probably end up doing, I do want
Speaker 1: to have a huge impact on my kid's life and
Speaker 1: for them to be able to be funny like me,
Speaker 1: and be critically thinking like they be, and forgiving like me,
Speaker 1: and all the things that I like about myself. I'm
Speaker 1: a narcissist. I would love for those to be imposed.
Speaker 1: So when I read this research, I was bummed out.
Speaker 1: This isn't suiting my vision for what I want for
Speaker 1: my life. So that is why I'm saying to trust
Speaker 1: me about this. The article I read was a huge
Speaker 1: bummer to me because I was like, then, what's the
Speaker 1: point if I'm not gonna have any kind of But
Speaker 1: I think the point now for me is that I
Speaker 1: will have a better time being a parent, and my
Speaker 1: child would have a more comfortable experience being whatever they are,
Speaker 1: because what they are is what they are. If I
Speaker 1: didn't take it so personally that they are what they are,
Speaker 1: and I would have a better time doing it. It
Speaker 1: would just be an easier road, because I think that,
Speaker 1: you know, I think even Dad, like when the kids
Speaker 1: act up or do something a little bit weird, he'll
Speaker 1: be like, that's the green side of the family. I
Speaker 1: don't think he like blames it on. Yes, he's done
Speaker 1: it before. Well, our side of the family doesn't act
Speaker 1: like this. We've never said anything like this. We don't
Speaker 1: have these issues, and so he'll blame it. I've heard
Speaker 1: that before because Dad has you know, he wants glazer
Speaker 1: blood to be strong and smart and and exaggerate.
Speaker 3: Okay, really, it's a Scientific American article and it says
Speaker 3: those hacks the hacks in the nature nurture War, nature wins.
Speaker 3: Environmental influences are important too, but they're largely unsystematic, unstable,
Speaker 3: and idiosyncratic, and I think I found the the line
Speaker 3: understanding the importance of genetic influence is just the beginning
Speaker 3: of the story of how DNA makes us who we are.
Speaker 3: Studying genetically informative cases like those of twins and adoptees
Speaker 3: led to some of the biggest findings in psychology because
Speaker 3: for the first time, nature and nurture could be disentangled.
Speaker 1: Yes, so twins that were accidentally separated at birth.
Speaker 3: The scientists have conducted long term studies on special relatives
Speaker 3: like twins and adoptees to test the effects of nature
Speaker 3: and nurture. The research has built a mountain of evidence
Speaker 3: showing that genetics contributes importantly to all psychological differences between us.
Speaker 3: In fact, inherited DNA differences account for about fifty percent
Speaker 3: of the differences between us and our personality, mental health
Speaker 3: and illness, and cognitive abilities and disabilities.
Speaker 1: So that's split, man. Yeah, keep reading, Bran.
Speaker 3: Sorry, that's the only time they mentioned twins.
Speaker 1: Oh no, but I just mean, like, we'll look at
Speaker 1: that again because I just I just remember I have
Speaker 1: no dog in this fight, except I wanted adoption to
Speaker 1: be way.
Speaker 2: More no dog because we have both your dogs.
Speaker 1: Yeah you do, and one of them is I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about getting. But now I know adopting doesn't have any
Speaker 1: imp stuck with the crack dog. Yeah, I want a
Speaker 1: little crack dog. I mean I rehabilitated Luigi pretty well.
Speaker 1: I mean he's still scared, but he's not like shaking
Speaker 1: in the corner like he used to be.
Speaker 2: He still wants pizza hut bad.
Speaker 1: He's still he was just he was my whole theory.
Speaker 1: But I used to have a joke about it, but
Speaker 1: it never ended up on any special But when I
Speaker 1: was like looking for dogs, I would read these, like
Speaker 1: you know, Petfinder ads or whatever for these dogs, and
Speaker 1: they they lie about the dog's stories so that you
Speaker 1: want to get the dog more.
Speaker 2: Right, No, he's got a good story.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was discovered behind a pizza Hut and van NY's.
Speaker 1: He was using a pepperoni as a blanket. That's what
Speaker 1: That's what Chris always says whenever we have pepperoni. He
Speaker 1: was like uh, and I'd get can we get half
Speaker 1: blankets half cheese? And I'm like, wait what? And then
Speaker 1: he goes remember Luigi, And I go, oh, yes, And
Speaker 1: then and then yeah, the story was that a little
Speaker 1: there were some kids throwing firecrackers at lunge and a
Speaker 1: little boy said stop, stop and he went over to
Speaker 1: the dog and he took Luigi home. But his mom
Speaker 1: wouldn't let him keep it. Call may Day Rescue. That
Speaker 1: was the story. And I believe the story because Natalie
Speaker 1: is not a liar and she has no reason to lie.
Speaker 1: But I, as I was reading Petfinder stories, I was like, man,
Speaker 1: these are good ones. Whatever you can do to sell
Speaker 1: get it, not sell a dog, Get a dog a home,
Speaker 1: give a story to it, give it a cute name.
Speaker 1: I love when photographers come in and volunteer their resources
Speaker 1: to take beautiful pictures of dogs, because I was looking
Speaker 1: at may Day Rescue, which is where I've rescued both
Speaker 1: my parents' dogs formerly my dogs. Nay my dogs, nay.
Speaker 1: Great crossword, uh me nay. What's nameing like your Julie
Speaker 1: Glazer Neae Burke. Now n it's nay in French because
Speaker 1: it has an apostrop a gool. So I think maybe
Speaker 1: Americans say ni, but I've so uh oh. So I
Speaker 1: was looking at the may Day Rescue thing, and I
Speaker 1: was looking at because I'm looking for a new dog,
Speaker 1: and I've got my eye and a couple that are
Speaker 1: in circulation there, and I was looking and like, the
Speaker 1: dogs that have the cuter photo have so many more likes,
Speaker 1: Like it's all about the photo, like, there's a good
Speaker 1: photo of this one dog that I'm looking at. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say it's name, and it has like thousands
Speaker 1: of likes, and then that same dog has some kind
Speaker 1: of shitty photos a little bit later. No, like hardly any.
Speaker 2: Likes, and it's like, should the one?
Speaker 1: No, I always want to I always want a black
Speaker 1: dog because black dogs don't get chosen as much as
Speaker 1: any other dog. I always that's what I'm looking for
Speaker 1: right now. I want I want the ugliest dog. I
Speaker 1: almost got a dog with one.
Speaker 5: I have one white dog, one brown dog, and we
Speaker 5: need a black dog.
Speaker 1: I know, well, you're gonna get one. Shadows coming up,
Speaker 1: little shadow. Yeah, And it's it's just it's crazy to
Speaker 1: me that people care that much about stuff. But yeah,
Speaker 1: we're we're.
Speaker 2: Well, it's like adopting. It's your adopting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to hear that story about your kid.
Speaker 3: You have been behind a pizza place, eating rocks and
Speaker 3: being covered.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want a good That's why people adopted from Africa.
Speaker 1: They want people to know. And I don't think that's everyone,
Speaker 1: but it's there is something about like I am a
Speaker 1: hero because and there's a part of me that wants
Speaker 1: an ugly dog, not because I want people to think
Speaker 1: I'm a hero. I really don't. I would admit that
Speaker 1: about myself if that was part of it. I think
Speaker 1: that's something I could admit. It's really because I think
Speaker 1: less people want this thing, so I want it. It's
Speaker 1: almost like a rare bag any attention. Yeah, like I
Speaker 1: want the thing that is probably going to be put
Speaker 1: down because I don't want it. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be someone who's selective about animal looks. I think that's
Speaker 1: so weird.
Speaker 3: My friend, my friend Michael is actually a hero and
Speaker 3: rescued a dog literally when he was in the Peace Corps.
Speaker 3: And he was a Peace Corps Mauritania, which is in
Speaker 3: Western Africa, and the dogs there there stray is all
Speaker 3: over the streets there and people just kill them. They'll
Speaker 3: just throw rocks them because the dogs will like eat
Speaker 3: your food and stuff for like wild dogs. Right. So
Speaker 3: there was this little dog he was just walking the
Speaker 3: streets and these kids were throwing rocks, this little dog,
Speaker 3: and he got between them and the kids and he
Speaker 3: said stop throwing rocks, and they chased off the kids
Speaker 3: and then the dog was rocks the kids. He started
Speaker 3: throwing rocks of the kids and they killed all four kids.
Speaker 3: And then he drank their blood and he became some
Speaker 3: kind of demonic superhuman who now flies through the sky. Yeah,
Speaker 3: now he has a spaceship. No, but the dog was injured.
Speaker 3: He took the dog to a vet. The vet got
Speaker 3: the vet took care of the dog. But then he's like,
Speaker 3: the only way to save this dog is I have
Speaker 3: to get him out of Mauritania. Otherwise he's just gonna
Speaker 3: be put back on the street. But it's illegal to
Speaker 3: take a dog across the border, so he had to.
Speaker 1: Is ones that repair rock wound every dog that comes.
Speaker 1: I think he's sick, has a heart issue. Was like,
Speaker 1: where would did the rock hit him? The rock.
Speaker 3: Failure?
Speaker 1: There must be rocks involved, Okay, go on.
Speaker 3: He had to illegally transport this dog over hidden in
Speaker 3: some train car to get him to like some other
Speaker 3: country like Morocco or something, and then he could and
Speaker 3: then he got the dog. Yeah, Morocco, that's kind of
Speaker 3: what that's that's annoyed the dog made when it got.
Speaker 1: Hit more rock.
Speaker 3: But he managed to get the dog from Africa to
Speaker 3: America and then it was his dog for the next America. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and then he took him and he lived out his
Speaker 3: days in Little Rock, Arkansas, where the dog felt a
Speaker 3: lot better because the rocks were little. That it was
Speaker 3: a real rescue.
Speaker 1: Literally, that's amazing.
Speaker 3: This dog from the streets of Mauritania and took him
Speaker 3: to America, and then it was his dog for today.
Speaker 1: I learned that Central America is part of North America,
Speaker 1: it's not a separate continent. And I also learned that
Speaker 1: there's a place called Mauritania. I never knew that was
Speaker 1: a country. Did you know?
Speaker 3: Two countries?
Speaker 5: And I thought that was like a holding area or something.
Speaker 5: I didn't know what that meant.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, what to Africa.
Speaker 4: Two countries.
Speaker 3: There's one country called Mauritania and there's one country called Mauricius.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Mauritius.
Speaker 3: I've heard like islands.
Speaker 1: He was in my fifth grade class. Serious, I swear
Speaker 1: behind Yeah, that's uh. There there are country names that
Speaker 1: I don't know the names of it. I mean, there's
Speaker 1: like how.
Speaker 3: Much I could name one hundred countries that you probably
Speaker 3: don't know the name of it.
Speaker 1: I bet you could. You've got that kind of brain.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm impressed.
Speaker 3: I didn't have to do it.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, so go on, let's do I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: Please don't turn off the podcast. He's going to start listening.
Speaker 3: I could listen two hundred and seventy countries off the
Speaker 3: top of my head?
Speaker 1: Is that how many there are? Are you serious this debate.
Speaker 3: About how many there are? But two hundred and seventies?
Speaker 3: Like standing you could?
Speaker 1: You could do them all.
Speaker 3: All to seventy?
Speaker 1: No question France, Actually no, I would forgot.
Speaker 3: I can't name France.
Speaker 1: Do you ever forget about states? Like there was one
Speaker 1: time that I heard about New Hampshire and I was like,
Speaker 1: I have not thought about New Hampshire in twenty years,
Speaker 1: Like I forgot New Hampshire was a state. That's one
Speaker 1: where I forgot about. That's a hot one Ian, I
Speaker 1: know it, but I really was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you don't ever think about New Hampshire.
Speaker 2: No, really, it's that's.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
Speaker 3: And then the Caucuses, yeah, well yeah, it's the first
Speaker 3: state that does the primary in something Knobs Gap or
Speaker 3: whatever the city's called. They're trying to take it away
Speaker 3: from them though, and give it to some other state
Speaker 3: like South Carolina, because it doesn't mean because New Hampshire
Speaker 3: doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: Nobody remembers South Carolina clearly, right, No, I remember that.
Speaker 1: That's for every twenty years. You'd go, oh yeah, that's
Speaker 1: the thing. Mom. What was the best Christmas gift you
Speaker 1: got or like memory or anything you mean from this year?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, Nikki, you gave me a beautiful coat.
Speaker 1: Oh I wasn't even trying to leave that.
Speaker 2: You gave me the best gift.
Speaker 1: Okay, that coade has a story. Oh I knew it,
Speaker 1: you knew? What do you know? I just know you
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: Because you were like I screwed up with the presents
Speaker 2: this year.
Speaker 1: I did screw up with them.
Speaker 5: And then I was like, and she's like, I didn't
Speaker 5: get you guys anything anything, And.
Speaker 1: I was like, I could made a made well order
Speaker 1: for my mom and sister that had like nine things
Speaker 1: in it, you know, like it was a big ass order.
Speaker 1: And I was so proud of myself to get all
Speaker 1: my Christmas shopping done in one day. I ordered from
Speaker 1: all these different places and I got it done. And
Speaker 1: it was during my special planning. So I was like
Speaker 1: writing my special at Starbucks and I was like, actually,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just shop real quick. I got it all done.
Speaker 1: Good deals on stuff, great sizing, everything, the right color
Speaker 1: and everything. I was like, yes. And then I get
Speaker 1: back from my trip like the special, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to go go through all the boxes. It's a giant
Speaker 1: wall of boxes to start wrapping things. I saw your
Speaker 1: wall of boxes and I go, where's the Maid wall box?
Speaker 3: What's going?
Speaker 1: And I go, oh no, And so I went to
Speaker 1: maidwell dot com. Look at my shopping cart. The number
Speaker 1: nine is right there. That means there are nine things
Speaker 1: still in my shopping cart. It has not been checked
Speaker 1: out yet. Every single thing in the shopping cart is
Speaker 1: sold out now. It's all the sale prices are gone
Speaker 1: like it was. It was during like a sale that
Speaker 1: I did this at the right time. So I go,
Speaker 1: I have nothing for them. This is Christmas Eve.
Speaker 5: I was okay with this, you guys, and so I
Speaker 5: went over.
Speaker 1: My parents also. I was like, I have nothing for you.
Speaker 1: But then I remembered that I over ordered gifts two
Speaker 1: years ago. You gotta be and I've had that coat
Speaker 1: in my closet for two years waiting to give you,
Speaker 1: and I forgot to give it to you for last Christmas.
Speaker 1: N you could have had that coat for two now.
Speaker 1: You gave me a coat last year. No, it's two
Speaker 1: years ago. The long really hmm, it was dose those
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, yeah, I like last year. No, it's
Speaker 1: long coat. Yeah. And also Lawrence coat also part of
Speaker 1: the coats from two years ago that I bought, and
Speaker 1: I was so glad that I had them stilled the
Speaker 1: tag on them. I keep the tag on everything I
Speaker 1: own because my mom might want it some day. And
Speaker 1: if I gave her just a thing that I used
Speaker 1: to wear, she might go like, I like it, but
Speaker 1: if it stills the tag on it, it could smell
Speaker 1: totally funky, but you'll still like it because the tag's
Speaker 1: on it. You got that right, You got that right.
Speaker 2: I keep all my tags on.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think what you gave. I sent my
Speaker 1: mom a bunch of Poshmark those boots. I love this.
Speaker 1: I haven't worn them. You really like it, but I
Speaker 1: just the new thing is send people what you want, yeah,
Speaker 1: down months in advance, and then you forget that you
Speaker 1: ever even sent it, and then you get this thing
Speaker 1: that you already.
Speaker 5: Like, Yeah, I bought that purse, it's so nice months ago.
Speaker 5: And I was like, I gotta get another gift for Nikki,
Speaker 5: and I went in the closet that I had other
Speaker 5: stuff in and I found that box.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I got that purse for.
Speaker 1: It was good. I do have to be a more
Speaker 1: gracious gift receiver because I just sometimes gifts to me.
Speaker 1: It's so rude to not be a good gift receiver.
Speaker 1: But when it's people that I like so good. No,
Speaker 1: remember I went through a rough patch. Yeah, teens and twenties.
Speaker 5: I was as a child. We have videos of you.
Speaker 5: Every present you opened, you were going, I love this.
Speaker 5: You were telling all your friends that came to your
Speaker 5: little party. You were like, I just love this. It
Speaker 5: was the cutest thing where I was.
Speaker 1: A people pleaser from the very good go because I
Speaker 1: to you, I didn't like all those gifts.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you probably.
Speaker 1: I even I saw footage of me putting something that
Speaker 1: I hated, and I remember hating it. But I go,
Speaker 1: oh my god, calking Grandma call it and it speaks gift,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, it's like easy, Jesus love.
Speaker 2: Actually, Oh, I was so proud of you the way you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was a real no no good little girl
Speaker 5: two years ago. You left every gift I gave you
Speaker 5: at our house. I mean I think I gave you
Speaker 5: like six gifts and they were still there, and I
Speaker 5: was like.
Speaker 1: I was like, you just keep these here? You want that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I always say, I go, do you want this?
Speaker 1: I just try to give it back because generally I'm
Speaker 1: getting gifts that my I think people give gifts that
Speaker 1: they like themselves, like I would want this. I think
Speaker 1: that's an easy way to like, it's the right way.
Speaker 1: It is a mistake, a mistake.
Speaker 3: You got to think about what the other person. I mean,
Speaker 3: this is so obvious to me. I don't understand why
Speaker 3: it needs to be said. But you got to think
Speaker 3: about what the other person would want and get that
Speaker 3: for them.
Speaker 1: Well, we live in a society that lacks empathy. We
Speaker 1: don't really understand what it's like to walk in someone
Speaker 1: else's shoes. We think about walking someone's else's shoes with
Speaker 1: our feet. What it really means is walking in someone
Speaker 1: else's skin. The shoes thing needs to be changed because
Speaker 1: everyone just goes, well, if I had her shoes on,
Speaker 1: and I know they don't think that literally, but they
Speaker 1: just go I wouldn't be I would just do things
Speaker 1: you go, No, you have to be born in my skin,
Speaker 1: raised by my parents.
Speaker 3: That's how shoes wouldn't even fit me, Like I would be.
Speaker 1: Mean, Yeah, exactly, I would be over pronated in those.
Speaker 1: Well that's what I was worried about.
Speaker 2: Your boot rocks.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you would never walk in those shoes. Do it
Speaker 1: a high heel. At least when I'm on stage, the
Speaker 1: adrenaline makes it not hurt. But I Dad gave me.
Speaker 1: Dad always goes out to West County Mall and Christmas
Speaker 1: Eve and gets he gets us journals. So this year
Speaker 1: when he went out, I go, Dad, don't you buy
Speaker 1: me a journal? I have too many journals. Ironically enough,
Speaker 1: I do need a journal, and I just ordered one.
Speaker 1: I should have told him to get me one. I
Speaker 1: was social li bitch, but I was like, don't get
Speaker 1: his calendars. And Mom goes, I want a calendar, and
Speaker 1: so I got one. So he goes to the calendar store.
Speaker 1: He goes to Barnes and Noble. He like, he likes
Speaker 1: getting like little fun gifts the night before great thing,
Speaker 1: but he's paying full price. Mom knows that like that kidding. No,
Speaker 1: he wanted to go to Barnes. He wanted to go
Speaker 1: to Barnes and Noble. That's big thing, I know, and
Speaker 1: that's what he got me. So I got a gift
Speaker 1: from him on christ He goes like, let's just give
Speaker 1: rid on Christmas Eve. This is a fun one. So
Speaker 1: you hand it over and I open it up and
Speaker 1: immediately I see the word Trump, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I don't even want to read this word. I hate
Speaker 1: this person so much. And it's a bobblehead. No, it's
Speaker 1: just a little a little figure. It's just like a
Speaker 1: toy figure of Donald Trump in a jail suit, like
Speaker 1: in an orange jumpsuit, like imprisoned. And it's his exactly
Speaker 1: a three printer perfectly printed his face from the mugshot,
Speaker 1: which is I hate that photo too. Yeah, I just
Speaker 1: I know it's a joke and it's like Trump in prison.
Speaker 1: Let's try to like, let's celebrate this. I don't want
Speaker 1: a Trump finger figuring in my house, in my eyeline.
Speaker 1: I don't want. I don't like him. It's like giving
Speaker 1: me a Hitler thing, like I don't want to look
Speaker 1: at Do people have Hitler toys for jokes? I don't
Speaker 1: think so, Like I don't like this. I hate him
Speaker 1: more than anyone. And so I just was instantly like
Speaker 1: I don't want this, and I was really a bitch
Speaker 1: about it, but I wasn't a bitch. I was just
Speaker 1: like can you And Dad goes, we'll keep it.
Speaker 5: I go, great, or we'll give it to yeah, somebody, TV,
Speaker 5: Bob or whatever.
Speaker 1: And I was like great. And it wasn't a contentious thing.
Speaker 1: I was just like, I don't want to see him name.
Speaker 2: He is actually very bad.
Speaker 1: Not I don't want to say triggering, because anyone who
Speaker 1: likes Trump is gonna be like, oh, you snowflake, you
Speaker 1: can't handle Trump. I I just know it's just it
Speaker 1: has a negative connotation to me, and I can't handle it.
Speaker 1: And so I was just like ugh, and I handed
Speaker 1: it off and I go, that's really sweet thought, but
Speaker 1: I don't want this in my possession. And then the
Speaker 1: next day, Christmas Day Chrismiss Day, my dad gave the
Speaker 1: same present to my sister and Matt, not the same
Speaker 1: one he gave me. He wasn't regifting. He bought two
Speaker 1: of them. And then I saw Lauren open it up
Speaker 1: and she was like, Oh, this is great, this is funny.
Speaker 1: I could tell she felt the same way about it
Speaker 1: as I did, but she had a better response that
Speaker 1: she can just throw it away now, Like I was
Speaker 1: too honest. I think I lost that little part of
Speaker 1: me that is cordial and kind to my loved ones,
Speaker 1: and shouldn't be that be the ones we're the kindest to.
Speaker 2: You know, you're honest.
Speaker 1: Yeah, then people are scared to give me gifts.
Speaker 2: Now I'm not. You just tell me what you want.
Speaker 1: Well, mom brought me something yesterday she was at Goodwill,
Speaker 1: and we'll tell you what it is after the break, Okay,
Speaker 1: I like, how you go? Okay, like you don't know?
Speaker 1: All right, So yesterday you were at Goodwill or Saint Vincent,
Speaker 1: I mean one of the good Will And by the way,
Speaker 1: Taylor yesterday on the podcast was like, I got to
Speaker 1: get your mom to the bins because she says she
Speaker 1: never runs into you at the bins, therefore you're probably
Speaker 1: not there.
Speaker 2: I don't go to the bin.
Speaker 5: Why don't you go to the bins because it's like
Speaker 5: a madhouse bins. It's the it's the outlet, the Goodwill outlet,
Speaker 5: and they come out with this huge bind. They dump
Speaker 5: this stuff on this big tables and hundreds of people
Speaker 5: fight over it.
Speaker 3: It's like insane and expensive goods.
Speaker 5: No, and it's all everything's weighed by the pounds, so
Speaker 5: you could get a pair of boots for fifty nine cents.
Speaker 1: It's like I think you would love, but you don't
Speaker 1: like the chaos of all.
Speaker 5: Oh, I don't like the competition and the chaos now
Speaker 5: and their competition either.
Speaker 2: I don't like it people.
Speaker 1: You know why, because we're actually very competitive. Oh and
Speaker 1: so we This is what I learned. I used to
Speaker 1: think that because I don't like you know, I don't
Speaker 1: like going to I have to go to a plate's
Speaker 1: class today because my instructor isn't available. So it's like
Speaker 1: a fourth of the price to go to a class
Speaker 1: versus individual, but I pay four times the price because
Speaker 1: I don't like feeling competitive with other people that are
Speaker 1: clearly going to be better than me. Oh, it really
Speaker 1: bothers me. So I don't go to those classes. And
Speaker 1: I used to think it was because I just don't
Speaker 1: like competition. I don't want to be competitive. I don't
Speaker 1: want to compete against others. It's the opposite. I love
Speaker 1: competition and I desperately want to be the best. And
Speaker 1: if I can't be the best, I want Nope, I'm
Speaker 1: a little baby bitch and I don't want any part
Speaker 1: of it. It's really not a good way to be.
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm forcing myself to do more classes
Speaker 1: this year. I want to like get rid of this
Speaker 1: sense of competition I have with people that don't even
Speaker 1: know because I can't. I know that I can't because
Speaker 1: pilates is not something I'm good at, and I'm even
Speaker 1: going out of my comfort zone to do a thing
Speaker 1: I'm not good at in the first place, and so
Speaker 1: to then be against people. I used to have a
Speaker 1: joke that when I am on a treadmill and there's
Speaker 1: a girl next to me. It happened yesterday actually at
Speaker 1: the gym. Chris and I went down to our gym
Speaker 1: and there was a girl already down there on the treadmill,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I can't get off this treadmill
Speaker 1: until she gets off hers, right because I started after her.
Speaker 1: There's no way that I can quit before her. I
Speaker 1: looked over at her screen. This pitch is on forty
Speaker 1: eight minutes and I'm on twelve minutes, and I go,
Speaker 1: who goes more than thirty minutes on a treadmill? You
Speaker 1: have an eating disorder. If you do that no offense,
Speaker 1: you're either training for something or you have an eating disorder.
Speaker 1: Of offenses, go at the training. Okay, I'll say that
Speaker 1: to be nice. But you don't need to be on
Speaker 1: a treadmill running for an hour unless you're running from
Speaker 1: and your brain of endorphins calories.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all that I.
Speaker 1: Used to that's because you were. But okay, so what
Speaker 1: were you doing.
Speaker 3: I would just run for as I would watch football
Speaker 3: while while running, and so I would just be able
Speaker 3: to watch. When you're watching something that's fully engrossing.
Speaker 1: She was engrossed in a reunion episode of some reality show.
Speaker 1: She didn't seem like she had an eating disort, it
Speaker 1: didn't seem unhealthy. She wasn't going at a crazy pace
Speaker 1: or anything I'm projecting, But I think that's I don't
Speaker 1: think anyone needs to do cardio long than it's bad
Speaker 1: for intense cardio. Oh it is. I think it's bad
Speaker 1: for your bones. I think it's bad. I think it's
Speaker 1: bad for you.
Speaker 3: Eventually it starts to hurt you. I mean, that's why
Speaker 3: you're not supposed to increase your heart rate past a
Speaker 3: certain point for more than like ten to fifteen minutes
Speaker 3: or something like that. Yeah, I forgot what the reasoning,
Speaker 3: but it'll kill.
Speaker 1: I just know that people who are working out to
Speaker 1: burn calories are that's the wrong reason to work out.
Speaker 1: I get it if you're trying to like lose a
Speaker 1: bunch of extra weight in your like, but if you
Speaker 1: were already, if you're already like a thinnish person and
Speaker 1: you're trying to eat burn six hundred calories because you
Speaker 1: ate seven hundred or something like, that's not a healthy
Speaker 1: That's not what I want to be anymore. And so
Speaker 1: I don't do workouts for calories. I don't look at
Speaker 1: the calori anymore, which is a huge change in my life.
Speaker 1: But anyway, I used to have a joke that if
Speaker 1: I go and I'm working on treadmill next to someone,
Speaker 1: I move the treadmill up a couple of inches, so
Speaker 1: I'm just constantly beating them. It wasn't a good joke,
Speaker 1: but it was just that's that's how I feel in
Speaker 1: my in my brain competitive wise. So you don't like
Speaker 1: into the bins because of that because it's a madhouse.
Speaker 1: Uh no, thank you.
Speaker 3: It's Friday.
Speaker 2: It's like Black Friday.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's really everyone is grabbing everything.
Speaker 1: They will hurt you. I mean these people.
Speaker 5: And there's a group of older, older men that are
Speaker 5: scary that I mean it used to be women.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's the mill in the Salvation Army.
Speaker 5: Yeah they I think they live next door. And yeah,
Speaker 5: they live in the Salvation Army. But honestly, it's kind
Speaker 5: of scary.
Speaker 1: I get it. So, and it's really not in a
Speaker 1: great part of town. Yeah, Taylor is into that kind
Speaker 1: of stuff. Taylor's not scared.
Speaker 5: She's young. She can handle herself. But if somebody pushes
Speaker 5: me over, I'm probably be like, but she'd probably knock
Speaker 5: them out or something.
Speaker 1: No, she's she's pretty soft as well, like soft like
Speaker 1: as a person. Yeah, she's a gentle person, but she
Speaker 1: I can see her being. But she likes s it's
Speaker 1: a fredics. She likes crazy people. She likes the homeless.
Speaker 1: She her dream when we used to talk about like
Speaker 1: your dream job. She's like studying the homeless, working with
Speaker 1: the homeless, which is so admirable. She just likes she
Speaker 1: likes people who are crazy. She she's fascinated by it.
Speaker 1: She likes all these murder stuff, like she likes things
Speaker 1: that are up is interesting. It's so you got to
Speaker 1: listen to this JFK podcast.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: I know. Dad's talking about it on SUP. He keeps
Speaker 1: trying to give me spoilers. I'm like to stop telling me.
Speaker 2: He did it it I know.
Speaker 1: The final thought. My best gift that I got was
Speaker 1: Guitar Hero from Chris. Have you played Guitar Hero, Brian?
Speaker 3: Well, it was at that hotel in last Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was staying at a hotel and in the
Speaker 1: lobby they had Guitar Hero, which is a game that
Speaker 1: has not existed or been made new twenty ten.
Speaker 2: Don't we have that at our house?
Speaker 1: Yes? I bought it for Dad for Christmas in two
Speaker 1: thousand and because it was a gift I wanted. I
Speaker 1: did the thing. It's I think it has to Brian,
Speaker 1: because we played it. We are so we played it
Speaker 1: in that lobby of that hotel and you were there too,
Speaker 1: And then since then Chris got it for me for Christmas.
Speaker 1: We play every day. It is so addictive, It is
Speaker 1: so fun, and I am fascinated by the fact that
Speaker 1: it disappeared. It was I was reading up on it
Speaker 1: and all of these rhythm games were so big from
Speaker 1: two thousand and seven to two thousand and eleven at
Speaker 1: the latest and like rock Band, Dance, Dance Revolution, Guitar
Speaker 1: Hero and then vanished, like you can't buy a new
Speaker 1: game for Guitar Hero, rock Band's gone too, Like they're
Speaker 1: all a good way and they are. So if you
Speaker 1: ever see a Guitar Hero game for play station three,
Speaker 1: will you get it?
Speaker 2: Wait the game? Or I see the guitars all the time.
Speaker 1: We'll take a guitar too, But the games or a
Speaker 1: microphone or rock band or anything will I will pay
Speaker 1: for that?
Speaker 3: I want a theory again, probably wrong, but that coincide
Speaker 3: just on a timeline standpoint with when online gaming became
Speaker 3: most popular. So people were now playing smart comooters, Minecraft,
Speaker 3: all online working together, and Guitar Hero and other pattern
Speaker 3: games don't really lend them themselves to group activity play too.
Speaker 1: Because Chris and I rock band. You play with a
Speaker 1: whole game band, play with a band, drum, someone singing.
Speaker 3: But online it's hard doing it all together, syncopated.
Speaker 1: You have to actually have friends. That's the and that's
Speaker 1: probably why it failed. Yes, because actually this was the
Speaker 1: proliferation of smartphones with which isolated us from friends starting
Speaker 1: around to we hang out with people.
Speaker 3: This was this was the minds predicted. Starting around twenty twelve,
Speaker 3: people stopped having real friends and they had online friends.
Speaker 1: Dude, we are obsessed with it. And I have to say,
Speaker 1: I am so Chris and I are both competitive. I
Speaker 1: am so better. No, he's he's very, very good. We
Speaker 1: started on the same level. We both haven't played in
Speaker 1: ten years. You can kind of tell he's probably better
Speaker 1: than me back in the day. He's just better at
Speaker 1: hand eye coordination things. He's a natural born athlete in
Speaker 1: NBA is what I call him. But he he just
Speaker 1: is good that that stuff. He's already doing songs on
Speaker 1: hard very well, like seventy to eighty percent.
Speaker 4: Stop you right there, You actually play guitar. I remember
Speaker 4: when I played that game. I didn't like it because
Speaker 4: not because I sucked or whatever, but even when I
Speaker 4: was trying to practice, I was like, this is nothing
Speaker 4: like playing guitar.
Speaker 1: It's more like, no, it is a percussion instrument. It is.
Speaker 1: It is exactly. It's like playing bass a lot of
Speaker 1: times because it's not on the guitar rhythm even when
Speaker 1: you push guitar, because you can choose bass. But guitar
Speaker 1: is most it's mostly it's it's not even a lot
Speaker 1: of the songs suck, like some songs are right on,
Speaker 1: and you get to go like, lord, I was born
Speaker 1: a rambling man brain ernie like it'll but then sometimes
Speaker 1: it'll be like bang baner name, but it'll be like
Speaker 1: bme bear instead of and so you'll vote deanner name
Speaker 1: and then you'll fuck up and you're like, why am
Speaker 1: I playing the weird bass lick to this? Whatever? There
Speaker 1: are some songs that are great and so fun. Hotel, California.
Speaker 1: We play five times a day. We're getting very good
Speaker 1: at it. We've advanced from easy too hard in a
Speaker 1: very short amount of time. But I am like, I'm
Speaker 1: looking at that score the entire time. And now I
Speaker 1: started to realize I think he looks at the score too,
Speaker 1: because we both know exactly what we've done at the end.
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of things about guitar that I
Speaker 1: don't like. Like if Chris oftentimes I will get a
Speaker 1: better percentage of all the notes hit, I will have
Speaker 1: a better streak run, but he will beat me because
Speaker 1: he goes he does the wah wah thing of like,
Speaker 1: or he'll get like the right streak, so then he'll
Speaker 1: start getting double points sooner, and it bugs me. I
Speaker 1: think it should be a meritocracy of who does better
Speaker 1: and that should be what we celebrate. But sometimes he
Speaker 1: wins and gets more points because of all these little
Speaker 1: tricks he's doing. We need to learn those. They confuse me.
Speaker 1: And man, it's it is very different than guitar. But
Speaker 1: I started crying probably a week ago because we you
Speaker 1: can calibrate the so you're pressing the guitar part where
Speaker 1: like and sometimes people like it's it's lagged behind because
Speaker 1: it has to. It's a guitar that's connecting with the thing,
Speaker 1: so there's a lag on it. So you can calibrate
Speaker 1: your gondar and we were trying to like and it
Speaker 1: gives you a beat kind of like a metronome, and
Speaker 1: you have to go with the beat, and it sees
Speaker 1: if you're off or not. And I have bad rhythm,
Speaker 1: Chris had Chris. Dad just tells you a bad rhythm
Speaker 1: you don't have all the time because Dad's jealous because
Speaker 1: you have good rhythm. But yes you do. You do.
Speaker 1: See you've been infiltrated. Dad has made you believe something
Speaker 1: about yourself. That isn't true, because.
Speaker 2: Dad, no, I really don't rhythm.
Speaker 1: Well, you can try it on a guitar Hero and
Speaker 1: find out if you have bad rhythm or not. I
Speaker 1: started crying. Chris was like, what's wrong? And I was like,
Speaker 1: I try to be good. I'm bad at everything. Everyone
Speaker 1: is naturally better at everything in me. I started going
Speaker 1: down a whole spiral because of guitar Hero.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, and I don't think.
Speaker 1: And then he explained to me I. He goes, you
Speaker 1: might have great rhythm, but you're actually doing it on
Speaker 1: the right time. But there's a lag because as communicate
Speaker 1: with the PS three then the TV, like there is
Speaker 1: a you could be right on. I think I purposely
Speaker 1: lag because I'm used to video games. I played them
Speaker 1: so much as a kid. I know that the is
Speaker 1: it perfect. So he tried to he talked me off
Speaker 1: the ledge. He's not even so to speak literally, he
Speaker 1: talked me off the ledge of like you're not flawed,
Speaker 1: You're okay. But I started just going down like it
Speaker 1: made me question everything because I have bad rhythm. Because
Speaker 1: if you have bad rhythm, you should just give up
Speaker 1: being a performer. Okay, I will, You don't have that.
Speaker 1: So then I started watching YouTube videos where it was
Speaker 1: like this African man teaching kids how to do rhythm
Speaker 1: to see if because I guess rhythm is something you
Speaker 1: can learn. Rhythm is the dancer that's a song?
Speaker 2: Oh, rhythm is a dancer.
Speaker 1: Why is is that a name of a dancer in
Speaker 1: the song?
Speaker 2: Said Taylor Swifts?
Speaker 3: No, certainly not but two thousand songs or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mom, have you been listening to Taylor Swift?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: As much as I can, as as much as Dad
Speaker 1: lets you kind of. Dad doesn't love Taylor Swift, but
Speaker 1: he can't say it. He does he he actually has
Speaker 1: to act like I think he can't say it, not
Speaker 1: because he doesn't want to offend us, but because he
Speaker 1: knows he's wrong, and he knows that he doesn't like her,
Speaker 1: because he's just jealous. She's as good as the Beatles,
Speaker 1: And I think that's why he can't say something. Dad,
Speaker 1: if you're listening, that's my theory. It's not that you
Speaker 1: actually don't like her, it's because you sense that if
Speaker 1: you don't like her, you know you're wrong, but you
Speaker 1: don't like her for other reasons.
Speaker 5: Upon if he starts liking her, it'll make him look
Speaker 5: like he was Yeah, he's given up on the Beatles, yes,
Speaker 5: like okay, like, but.
Speaker 1: Why is there a competition? And if it was a man,
Speaker 1: I think people would have no problem giving this to her.
Speaker 1: There's so many articles that came out this year that
Speaker 1: at the end of the year that said, this is
Speaker 1: the year of oversaturation of Taylor Swift. This is the
Speaker 1: year Taylor Swift became so annoying. And I've heard the
Speaker 1: times of the year though, yes, and people don't. I
Speaker 1: have to think. I know it's a woman thing, and
Speaker 1: that's okay because women benefit in many ways from being women.
Speaker 1: But I also believe that this is a thing that
Speaker 1: people can't stand a woman getting this much attention.
Speaker 3: It happens to men to like, look at Dane Cook.
Speaker 1: Yes that's true too, Yes, yeah, that is a good point.
Speaker 1: I thought Dane Cook was on. Did you watch the
Speaker 1: Chapelle's Special yet?
Speaker 3: No, there's a special? What a new one?
Speaker 1: Yeah? What a closer? Or I'm not the Closer? Sorry
Speaker 1: it's called The Dreamer.
Speaker 3: Oh no, I haven't. I gotta watch it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk about it next week. Yeah, Netflix, Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll get into that and your trip. We got to
Speaker 1: go because I gotta go get botox in my I'm
Speaker 1: getting a lip flip and I'm getting into my jawline
Speaker 1: and I'm getting in my neck for my singing.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, do not do that?
Speaker 1: What where do they do that? They do in your neck?
Speaker 1: It's it's for aesthetic purposes because your neck is so
Speaker 1: muscly and strained that this can cause a lot of lineage.
Speaker 1: But I'm doing it because I want I keep so
Speaker 1: much at tension in my neck. So I'm wondering where
Speaker 1: it'll go if I don't put in my neck and
Speaker 1: I go to my abs or something.
Speaker 2: Did you worad about this or no.
Speaker 1: I got consulted by Curran's girlfriend is a a doctor esthetician.
Speaker 1: She's a literal empty and she was like, oh you
Speaker 1: should just You're a great candidate for the lip flip.
Speaker 1: And I used to get it all the time, but
Speaker 1: I just want a fuller lip again. So everyone look
Speaker 1: forward to that. I'll see you next week. It might
Speaker 1: not even work by then. I think botox six two
Speaker 1: weeks so, but just look for it. It'll be there.
Speaker 1: Look go to our YouTube channel. If that incentivizes you,
Speaker 1: go sign up for that. Comparing contrast this week to then,
Speaker 1: like look at my lips right now, yeah, and now
Speaker 1: look at them next week. And also if you get
Speaker 1: these marionettelines and around your jaw, it's this is always
Speaker 1: pulling on your lower lip constantly. So women, just women
Speaker 1: and men just tend to get a scowl because this
Speaker 1: muscle from your master your jawline is pulling down on
Speaker 1: your lips. And when that becomes botox your lips even
Speaker 1: it raises your eyes. So my eyes might see a
Speaker 1: lift because I'm getting botox on my Jawlnes, she explained it.
Speaker 1: I don't really understand it, but I'm you're excited because
Speaker 1: I am desperate for an eyelid.
Speaker 2: I wonder if they know that at your place.
Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to them about it.
Speaker 2: Knows everything.
Speaker 1: Nayak Is. I love them and I trust them with
Speaker 1: my face. If you're in Sant Louis, nayak isy end
Speaker 1: me saying I love them. What.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So the place in New Hampshire is called Dicksville Notch
Speaker 3: and it's the first the first city in America that
Speaker 3: releases its American presidential voting results every year and the
Speaker 3: population currently is four, so four people vote at midnight
Speaker 3: and they say kidding me, Yeah, that's that's Is this
Speaker 3: a joke? No, this is they're clamp to fame.
Speaker 1: Why would anyone.
Speaker 3: Goes down?
Speaker 1: Don't take this from them, don't Four.
Speaker 3: People vote and they go, we voted.
Speaker 1: Where's Old Hampshire? Oh, I guess that's in England? Is it?
Speaker 1: It probably is your Hampshire, York Old Hampshire, Old Hampshire.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've got all the news New Mexico.
Speaker 2: All right, that's good.
Speaker 3: You look that up.
Speaker 1: That's great, Thank you so much. Follow up on some
Speaker 1: more things, and go see me on tour. I'm coming
Speaker 1: to Florida Fort Pierce in Atona Beach next week next
Speaker 1: weekend Friday and Saturday. I think it's the eighteenth and nineteenth.
Speaker 1: And also go back and watch an old episode of
Speaker 1: I Can See Your Voice that's on Fox that's airing tonight,
Speaker 1: but it's this won't come out until the day after
Speaker 1: I apologize for that, so it was last night is
Speaker 1: I Can See Your Voice. And then you should also
Speaker 1: watch another Fox reality show called We Are Family that
Speaker 1: I hear is really really good for it during I
Speaker 1: don't know what week you should watch it, but I
Speaker 1: think you should just watch every week because I think
Speaker 1: there's gonna be tons of celebrities. Apparently it's a show
Speaker 1: where a celebrity relative performs and then you have to
Speaker 1: guess who the celebrity who that person's relative. The relative sings,
Speaker 1: and then there's a celebrity behind a curtain kind of thing.
Speaker 2: Is there money involved?
Speaker 1: I think there's money involved for a studio audience of
Speaker 1: people who guess who that was, the studio audience guessing
Speaker 1: it's not people at home. Oh wow, you get fun
Speaker 1: as I would make. It's like mass singer, but instead
Speaker 1: of a mask a big thing, it's someone's dad. Oh
Speaker 1: potentially wow, or a brother or a cousin. But I
Speaker 1: hear so many celebrities are on it, and maybe even
Speaker 1: ones that you or I know.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't wait to call we Are Family. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's Channel. I think it's on Fox. I'm almost yes,
Speaker 1: it is on Fox because Fox does reality shows almost
Speaker 1: the best. I love the Mask Singer. I love keep keep.
Speaker 3: Wait what it's just saying a celebrity that Palmer.
Speaker 1: It could be Key Key Palmer, who her? It could
Speaker 1: be her cousin?
Speaker 2: Who's key Key Palmer?
Speaker 1: Uh? I don't I don't know. Okay, all right, I
Speaker 1: don't is she is she married to someone famous too?
Speaker 3: No podcast?
Speaker 2: That's a guy.
Speaker 1: And she's got a pot Oh yeah, you guys, she's
Speaker 1: got a podcast. We were yeah, we were mentioned alongside
Speaker 1: Key Key Palmer's podcast show.
Speaker 3: Today.
Speaker 1: Today Show did a list of the twenty one funniest
Speaker 1: podcast and we're on the list. You are kidding, We
Speaker 1: are not kidding the I am not, I am not,
Speaker 1: but you're good. All right, bye, guys, thank you for listening. Uh,
Speaker 1: don't pic and just watch. I can see your voice
Speaker 1: in All in the Family. New Fox shows that I'm
Speaker 1: not paid to promote, but I think you should watch them.