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Speaker 1: The Nicky Gliser podcastser here's Nikki. Hello here, I am

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. It's Nicki Glaser Podcast. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for joining us. I'm here in my podcast studio. I

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Speaker 1: was gonna say guest room, but it's really just a

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Speaker 1: podcast studio at this point. It literally there's no other purpose.

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Speaker 2: There's no bed in here for a guest.

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Speaker 1: No, there is no guests but there let's just yes,

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Speaker 1: there's a guest Yeah, there's there is a guest chair.

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Speaker 1: We're redesigning. By the way, my mom's here. Everyone, Hello Mom,

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Speaker 1: NK and Brian Francie's back with us too from Death Valley.

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Speaker 1: You made it back. Yes, he's he's got well.

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Speaker 3: I had a horrible time. I had a good time

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Speaker 3: in a bad time. But on New Year's Eve, Ali,

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Speaker 3: who is a kind of witchy, she we did a

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Speaker 3: witch spell to try to that's fun for the death

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Speaker 3: of of twenty twenty three and all the negative energy.

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Speaker 3: And we did this spell. And then the next day

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Speaker 3: I got food poisoning and I puked all day, which

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Speaker 3: I viewed as like a purging.

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Speaker 1: Did you lose?

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Speaker 3: I know you'd be very jealous, because I I like.

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Speaker 1: So, did you look at your stomach afterwards, and was it.

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Speaker 3: Like it was amazing? I was like Olivia Rodrigo, I

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Speaker 3: came out of there. No, but it was crazy because

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Speaker 3: I was like, I feel like this is a purging

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Speaker 3: of negative energy that's coming out.

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Speaker 4: Of me right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh what the which spell is the world took? What

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Speaker 1: did you eat? The Chipotle took?

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Speaker 3: It was either the spell or that barbecue Jimmy's restaurant

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Speaker 3: that I had. And yeah, a rear.

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Speaker 1: Again, this is not special, it is, but.

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Speaker 3: Just for fun, but just for fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just for fun. Say had diarrhea and uh,

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Speaker 1: you're puking for a whole day because of fun? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was because because of magic. That makes sense. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well have you felt good since then? Did you wake

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Speaker 1: up New Year's Day like feeling refreshed and good?

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Speaker 3: No? No, I feel the same after it. But I

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Speaker 3: I mean no, I felt worse because you know, we

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Speaker 3: actually get food poisoning. You feel sick for a couple

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Speaker 3: more days. But man, uh, I really hope it was

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Speaker 3: the negative energy because it would have been cool.

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Speaker 1: Maybe stop eating meat. I think I don't think that

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Speaker 1: people ever get food poisoning from not eating animals. People cuisine,

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Speaker 1: A lean cuisine, that's what you got it.

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Speaker 4: Not me, but a former coworker of mine. She got

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Speaker 4: so sick from like a pasta lean cuisine.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was probably just because it's the

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Speaker 1: line cuisine, because it was bad from. I've never gotten

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Speaker 1: food poisoning oyster.

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Speaker 5: Me yeah, oyster, yeah, I knew as soon as I

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Speaker 5: ate it I went that was.

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Speaker 1: Start getting sick more often. This isn't fair.

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Speaker 5: I was thrown up like five times in my entire,

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Speaker 5: really entire, Like why I just don't throw up?

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Speaker 1: So you'll just be nauseous and you'll like you just

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Speaker 1: don't want to throw up?

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Speaker 2: No, I just can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 2: There's there's no way I can do.

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Speaker 1: But does this it gross you out or something? And

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Speaker 1: then how have you done it five times? Because it

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Speaker 1: was I couldn't stop it. Oh but otherwise, so you

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Speaker 2: No, I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: But you did it five times? Well, I got didn't

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Speaker 1: do it? Something else did it? I know you've been

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Speaker 1: wildly hung over too. That's when throw up comes up

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Speaker 1: for most people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't. Nothing happens like that.

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Speaker 1: Do you so you just suck? Do you feel does

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Speaker 1: your body feel like it wants to throw Is it frustrating?

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Speaker 1: Like is it like being contipated but the other way?

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Speaker 2: No, I get it the other way.

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Speaker 1: Okay, got it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. You get throwing up so amazing once you know

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Speaker 3: it before you before you do it out. Before you

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Speaker 3: getting it out is such a relief. It feels so good.

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Speaker 1: That's what I feel about diarrhea. The other day I

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, babe, and she goes, oh, wait, no, you

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Speaker 1: love diaryhea, and I was like, I really do, because

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Speaker 3: And kick it up.

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Speaker 1: I have it for two sets, like less than ten seconds.

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Speaker 1: I wipe, I go about my day and I go, oh,

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Speaker 1: not just like it's not even a problem. It feels good.

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Speaker 1: But people who have diarrhea that are like, it's awful.

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Speaker 1: I don't I want something. I want to just get

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Speaker 1: a little physically sick. And I know this sounds I

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Speaker 1: don't know, it doesn't sound nice because I'm belittling people's

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Speaker 1: pain by being like I want that. But I just

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Speaker 1: everyone in my life gets sick all the time. I

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Speaker 1: never get sick. I never get any sympathy. I fell

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Speaker 1: so hard, really really like just on some a sheet

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Speaker 1: didn't look like I didn't know what I was doing.

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Speaker 1: I just felt kind of like I was trying to go,

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Speaker 1: body kept going towards the like I just fell kind

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Speaker 1: of into the hill. But I did do it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: on the side. I did do it right below a

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Speaker 1: chair lift, so that's the most embarrassing. It sucks, and

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Speaker 1: it's right where they're all boarding, so even the people

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Speaker 1: at the bottom of a chair lift, so embarrassing, but

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Speaker 1: it felt I felt. I was like, oh, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: it was radiating. I couldn't even ski after it. It

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Speaker 1: like a little sore. It was like, this is a

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Speaker 1: bone bruise. Nothing, no brs I I told Chris and

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Speaker 1: Curran when I got back, I was like, you, you

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Speaker 1: guys are gonna be amazed at what this turns into.

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Speaker 1: I waited two hours. I go to the bathroom to

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Speaker 1: check it. Nothing. Waited three hours. Nothing. It's been three days.

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Speaker 1: It's still you've hit any bruise. It wouldn't even nothing

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well no, that's the well you know, from a

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Speaker 3: good to show it you want so when you're requesting

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, that's what you want.

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Speaker 2: Are you still sore?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's I'm touching on it right now and it's like.

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Speaker 3: Nothing to show for it's no bruise.

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Speaker 1: It was going to be black because.

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Speaker 2: You have a bruise there, but you don't see it.

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Speaker 1: It's it's very very light and current and Chris were

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Speaker 1: laughing because I was saying, you wait, do you see

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Speaker 1: this thing? It's going to be crazy because I don't exaggerate.

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Speaker 1: I bruise all the time on my legs, right, and

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what causes.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you've ever exaggerated. I'm trying to think.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever heard you exaggerate one time, unlike.

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Speaker 1: A glad exaggerated at least a thousand times in the

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't know that you don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Like, well, Dad gaggerates thirty percent in either direction. So

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Speaker 1: it's either you can just always if it's a good story,

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Speaker 1: and he's saying, and we got there, there were like

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Speaker 1: you could always do by thirty percent either way. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess catch myself exactly.

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Speaker 3: Exaggerating is the American way thirty percent below is the

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Speaker 5: Oh well, oh but really that's right, Oh that's right.

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Speaker 3: That no, well, it's like the difference between American humor

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Speaker 3: it smells, you go, this place stinks like shit. And

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Speaker 3: if it's if you go into a room and it

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Speaker 3: smells in Britain, you go, well, this doesn't very smell

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Speaker 3: very good, does it. That's the same joke Jimmy Carr.

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Speaker 3: Jimmy Carr would go, I went into a room and

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Speaker 3: it smelled, and I was and something about Hitler.

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Speaker 1: It smelled like the Holocaust, and I thought, and then

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Speaker 1: small of the Holocaust. The cars he writes offensive jokes, right,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna get them canceled someday. I will say that.

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Speaker 1: I just I felt really bad today because I went

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Speaker 1: in to go get my retainer that by the way,

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Speaker 1: after I finished in Visilin, and they gave me two

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Speaker 1: retainers that I thought would last at least a lifetime.

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Speaker 1: The retainers, Wait, do they not last? They're not viviscof ones.

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Speaker 1: I just learned that, Oh that's not the brand. I

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Speaker 3: You're wearing them overnight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wearing them overnight, like you know, for like I

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Speaker 1: think I wore them like three weeks each, and they

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Speaker 1: both have ripped. And yes, I don't take them off

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Speaker 1: has a retainer that is thick like a table top,

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Speaker 1: to go pick them up. They're four hundred dollars per pair.

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Speaker 1: And which is I go, so, am I gonna have

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Speaker 1: every two months because these things break? And they go,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you could do our retainer for life program.

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Speaker 1: And I said, what's that? She starts digging through a

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Speaker 1: filing cabinet. You pay one thousand dollars one time, and

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Speaker 1: every time you need a new retainer it's seventy dollars. Oh,

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Speaker 1: And I go, oh, so they know these are crap,

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Speaker 1: and she goes, I go, they know these are shit?

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Speaker 1: And I said it kind of like as loud as that,

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Speaker 1: And there were kids in the in the waiting room,

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Speaker 1: and I go, I mean crap, which is I think

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Speaker 1: crap is even a bad word to kids. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not great. It's not a good word. Pooph today

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Speaker 1: are idiot And he was like, Nikki said idiot, And

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Speaker 1: I said, I didn't say about my sister. I said

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Speaker 1: it about football.

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Speaker 3: Can we stop with that? Can we stop teaching kids

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Speaker 3: to be narcs? I mean a word?

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Speaker 1: Or why don't we just say words around kids because

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Speaker 1: they're going to learn them anyway. It doesn't like everyone

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Speaker 1: just takes so much offense that their kid is going

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Speaker 1: to be a foul mouth person. So what if your

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Speaker 1: kid you can blame it on TV or the internet.

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Speaker 1: Like it's not like we're all learning how to cuss

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Speaker 3: Like just who cares? Just cuss?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's the only tens that those tens hang

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Speaker 5: I'm just trying to think of people I know, but Marks,

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Speaker 3: Are you saying everyone's always equal with who they are?

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Speaker 1: No, there's no chance, maybe one out of every hundred

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Speaker 3: Does that happen?

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Speaker 3: Does it? Do you do actually wind up turning into

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Speaker 1: But I think that you know, if someone I don't

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Speaker 3: You'd be like, well, don't blame me, blame it's natural

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Speaker 1: Yes exactly, I would. I would say this, and I

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Speaker 1: But if you've read any studies about kids growing up,

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Speaker 1: It's mostly nature. They've taken twins that were and raised

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Speaker 1: no matter if they have amazing parents or kind of

435
00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 1: mediocre ones. And that has been studied and I would

436
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 1: say peer reviewed like that is the way it is.

437
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:13,960
Speaker 1: And it's a bummer for people who want to adopt

438
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,080
Speaker 1: because you think that you can have this great impact

439
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,520
Speaker 1: on a kid's life. Yes, taking them out of a

440
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,080
Speaker 1: home with crack addicted parents is probably going to be

441
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 1: very beneficial for them, but they're not going to turn

442
00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 1: out better than if you were.

443
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Speaker 3: Well, you can give them an opportunity because if they

444
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,679
Speaker 3: have the same skills and the same whatever, But if

445
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 3: they don't have the opportunity to go to school or whatever,

446
00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 3: then they're not going to become successful.

447
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 1: And people don't.

448
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,440
Speaker 5: You can kind of carve that child, but a little bit,

449
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,159
Speaker 5: but not really.

450
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll I'll send you the research. Yeah, beat them up,

451
00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,560
Speaker 1: that can change them, but not beating them up all

452
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Speaker 1: the way up to being the best parent in the world.

453
00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,719
Speaker 1: Does is really negligible.

454
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Speaker 3: So the only thing you can do is make them worse.

455
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, it's kind of a disappointment, but it's kind

456
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,880
Speaker 1: of freeing. As if you want to be a parent

457
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,280
Speaker 1: and love something, but know that you aren't responsible for

458
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,160
Speaker 1: how this kid turns out, you might be a little

459
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 1: bit have a better life. Okay, that's my theory. We'll

460
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: be right back after this.

461
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 3: Don't think of that.

462
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,920
Speaker 1: All right, we're back. You've had seconds to think about

463
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,400
Speaker 1: my theory, You've had time to mull it over. What

464
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 1: do you make of it? I think that you can.

465
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Speaker 5: Basically, I'm saying that, yes, you if you have a

466
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 5: damaged genetic child, it's.

467
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Speaker 1: Kind of like having a step kid. You can just

468
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,159
Speaker 1: go not my problem.

469
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, but you can definitely have an impact

470
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 5: on that child.

471
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Speaker 1: Yes, I mean, teachers have impacts on kids and stuff.

472
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I will send your article at better schools,

473
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: and because it's a socioeconomic status, and because it reflects

474
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Speaker 1: on them, and because people are obsessed with people thinking

475
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 1: my kids the smart that's way people, you know, bribe

476
00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: schools to get them into better schools. It's not about

477
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: their kid actually being smarter. Their dumb kid is lying

478
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Speaker 1: about being on the rowing team so that she can

479
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,439
Speaker 1: go to l so it can look good. We can

480
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 1: put the bumper sticker on a car. Our friends and

481
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: family will think we're cool. It's not really about your

482
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: daughter getting a better education and having a better life.

483
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Speaker 3: But people so society level, but not biologically.

484
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta I'll read the research again and share

485
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 1: it on the next episode.

486
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Speaker 3: Yeah. That's the thing is the crux of your argument

487
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 3: is based on the research, and that I don't have.

488
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 3: I don't believe the research yet. I believe that there's

489
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Speaker 3: got to be research that says the opposite of what

490
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 3: you're saying as well as what you're saying. And then

491
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Speaker 3: it's not decided yet. Nature versus nurture. Okay, but if

492
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Speaker 3: what you're saying is true, then that sucks.

493
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Speaker 1: But all I realize, well, I think all I want

494
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Speaker 1: is that nurture to be.

495
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Speaker 4: Is that better than if we sorry, so, like, if

496
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 4: we look at ourselves and like the work that we

497
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 4: do to kind of like work out the kinks from

498
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,919
Speaker 4: like our family of origin, like family history, then it

499
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 4: means that like, we can't do it either.

500
00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:02,719
Speaker 3: That's a good point of therapy. Can fix the problems. Yeah, listen,

501
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 3: nobody can fix anything. Nobody could do anything. All you

502
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 3: worse jump off.

503
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 1: All I know is that this is this, this whole

504
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 1: thing I'm talking about, this research that I did read

505
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: at another time, and I'm gonna find the sources to

506
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,719
Speaker 1: back it up. At some point. I was upset when

507
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: I read it because because adoption is my only thing

508
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: that I would probably end up doing, I do want

509
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,159
Speaker 1: to have a huge impact on my kid's life and

510
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 1: for them to be able to be funny like me,

511
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 1: and be critically thinking like they be, and forgiving like me,

512
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 1: and all the things that I like about myself. I'm

513
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,640
Speaker 1: a narcissist. I would love for those to be imposed.

514
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: So when I read this research, I was bummed out.

515
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: This isn't suiting my vision for what I want for

516
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 1: my life. So that is why I'm saying to trust

517
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: me about this. The article I read was a huge

518
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 1: bummer to me because I was like, then, what's the

519
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: point if I'm not gonna have any kind of But

520
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 1: I think the point now for me is that I

521
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: will have a better time being a parent, and my

522
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 1: child would have a more comfortable experience being whatever they are,

523
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,679
Speaker 1: because what they are is what they are. If I

524
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: didn't take it so personally that they are what they are,

525
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: and I would have a better time doing it. It

526
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: would just be an easier road, because I think that,

527
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 1: you know, I think even Dad, like when the kids

528
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 1: act up or do something a little bit weird, he'll

529
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,199
Speaker 1: be like, that's the green side of the family. I

530
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: don't think he like blames it on. Yes, he's done

531
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: it before. Well, our side of the family doesn't act

532
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: like this. We've never said anything like this. We don't

533
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: have these issues, and so he'll blame it. I've heard

534
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: that before because Dad has you know, he wants glazer

535
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: blood to be strong and smart and and exaggerate.

536
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Speaker 3: Okay, really, it's a Scientific American article and it says

537
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 3: those hacks the hacks in the nature nurture War, nature wins.

538
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 3: Environmental influences are important too, but they're largely unsystematic, unstable,

539
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 3: and idiosyncratic, and I think I found the the line

540
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,719
Speaker 3: understanding the importance of genetic influence is just the beginning

541
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 3: of the story of how DNA makes us who we are.

542
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 3: Studying genetically informative cases like those of twins and adoptees

543
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: led to some of the biggest findings in psychology because

544
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 3: for the first time, nature and nurture could be disentangled.

545
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 1: Yes, so twins that were accidentally separated at birth.

546
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 3: The scientists have conducted long term studies on special relatives

547
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 3: like twins and adoptees to test the effects of nature

548
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 3: and nurture. The research has built a mountain of evidence

549
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 3: showing that genetics contributes importantly to all psychological differences between us.

550
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Speaker 3: In fact, inherited DNA differences account for about fifty percent

551
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Speaker 3: of the differences between us and our personality, mental health

552
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Speaker 3: and illness, and cognitive abilities and disabilities.

553
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Speaker 1: So that's split, man. Yeah, keep reading, Bran.

554
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 3: Sorry, that's the only time they mentioned twins.

555
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: Oh no, but I just mean, like, we'll look at

556
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,919
Speaker 1: that again because I just I just remember I have

557
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 1: no dog in this fight, except I wanted adoption to

558
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: be way.

559
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 2: More no dog because we have both your dogs.

560
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: Yeah you do, and one of them is I'm thinking

561
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: about getting. But now I know adopting doesn't have any

562
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: imp stuck with the crack dog. Yeah, I want a

563
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 1: little crack dog. I mean I rehabilitated Luigi pretty well.

564
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: I mean he's still scared, but he's not like shaking

565
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: in the corner like he used to be.

566
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: He still wants pizza hut bad.

567
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: He's still he was just he was my whole theory.

568
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: But I used to have a joke about it, but

569
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: it never ended up on any special But when I

570
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 1: was like looking for dogs, I would read these, like

571
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 1: you know, Petfinder ads or whatever for these dogs, and

572
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: they they lie about the dog's stories so that you

573
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: want to get the dog more.

574
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 2: Right, No, he's got a good story.

575
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was discovered behind a pizza Hut and van NY's.

576
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: He was using a pepperoni as a blanket. That's what

577
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 1: That's what Chris always says whenever we have pepperoni. He

578
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: was like uh, and I'd get can we get half

579
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: blankets half cheese? And I'm like, wait what? And then

580
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: he goes remember Luigi, And I go, oh, yes, And

581
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 1: then and then yeah, the story was that a little

582
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: there were some kids throwing firecrackers at lunge and a

583
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: little boy said stop, stop and he went over to

584
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,199
Speaker 1: the dog and he took Luigi home. But his mom

585
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: wouldn't let him keep it. Call may Day Rescue. That

586
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: was the story. And I believe the story because Natalie

587
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: is not a liar and she has no reason to lie.

588
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 1: But I, as I was reading Petfinder stories, I was like, man,

589
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: these are good ones. Whatever you can do to sell

590
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: get it, not sell a dog, Get a dog a home,

591
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: give a story to it, give it a cute name.

592
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: I love when photographers come in and volunteer their resources

593
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 1: to take beautiful pictures of dogs, because I was looking

594
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: at may Day Rescue, which is where I've rescued both

595
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 1: my parents' dogs formerly my dogs. Nay my dogs, nay.

596
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 1: Great crossword, uh me nay. What's nameing like your Julie

597
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: Glazer Neae Burke. Now n it's nay in French because

598
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: it has an apostrop a gool. So I think maybe

599
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: Americans say ni, but I've so uh oh. So I

600
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 1: was looking at the may Day Rescue thing, and I

601
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: was looking at because I'm looking for a new dog,

602
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: and I've got my eye and a couple that are

603
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: in circulation there, and I was looking and like, the

604
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: dogs that have the cuter photo have so many more likes,

605
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 1: Like it's all about the photo, like, there's a good

606
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: photo of this one dog that I'm looking at. I'm

607
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: not gonna say it's name, and it has like thousands

608
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 1: of likes, and then that same dog has some kind

609
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: of shitty photos a little bit later. No, like hardly any.

610
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 2: Likes, and it's like, should the one?

611
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: No, I always want to I always want a black

612
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: dog because black dogs don't get chosen as much as

613
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: any other dog. I always that's what I'm looking for

614
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: right now. I want I want the ugliest dog. I

615
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: almost got a dog with one.

616
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 5: I have one white dog, one brown dog, and we

617
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 5: need a black dog.

618
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: I know, well, you're gonna get one. Shadows coming up,

619
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: little shadow. Yeah, And it's it's just it's crazy to

620
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: me that people care that much about stuff. But yeah,

621
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: we're we're.

622
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 2: Well, it's like adopting. It's your adopting.

623
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to hear that story about your kid.

624
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 3: You have been behind a pizza place, eating rocks and

625
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 3: being covered.

626
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want a good That's why people adopted from Africa.

627
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: They want people to know. And I don't think that's everyone,

628
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: but it's there is something about like I am a

629
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: hero because and there's a part of me that wants

630
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,719
Speaker 1: an ugly dog, not because I want people to think

631
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm a hero. I really don't. I would admit that

632
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: about myself if that was part of it. I think

633
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: that's something I could admit. It's really because I think

634
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: less people want this thing, so I want it. It's

635
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: almost like a rare bag any attention. Yeah, like I

636
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: want the thing that is probably going to be put

637
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: down because I don't want it. I don't want to

638
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: be someone who's selective about animal looks. I think that's

639
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: so weird.

640
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 3: My friend, my friend Michael is actually a hero and

641
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 3: rescued a dog literally when he was in the Peace Corps.

642
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 3: And he was a Peace Corps Mauritania, which is in

643
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 3: Western Africa, and the dogs there there stray is all

644
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 3: over the streets there and people just kill them. They'll

645
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: just throw rocks them because the dogs will like eat

646
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,719
Speaker 3: your food and stuff for like wild dogs. Right. So

647
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 3: there was this little dog he was just walking the

648
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 3: streets and these kids were throwing rocks, this little dog,

649
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 3: and he got between them and the kids and he

650
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: said stop throwing rocks, and they chased off the kids

651
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 3: and then the dog was rocks the kids. He started

652
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 3: throwing rocks of the kids and they killed all four kids.

653
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 3: And then he drank their blood and he became some

654
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 3: kind of demonic superhuman who now flies through the sky. Yeah,

655
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 3: now he has a spaceship. No, but the dog was injured.

656
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 3: He took the dog to a vet. The vet got

657
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 3: the vet took care of the dog. But then he's like,

658
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 3: the only way to save this dog is I have

659
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 3: to get him out of Mauritania. Otherwise he's just gonna

660
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 3: be put back on the street. But it's illegal to

661
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 3: take a dog across the border, so he had to.

662
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: Is ones that repair rock wound every dog that comes.

663
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: I think he's sick, has a heart issue. Was like,

664
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: where would did the rock hit him? The rock.

665
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 3: Failure?

666
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: There must be rocks involved, Okay, go on.

667
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 3: He had to illegally transport this dog over hidden in

668
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 3: some train car to get him to like some other

669
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 3: country like Morocco or something, and then he could and

670
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 3: then he got the dog. Yeah, Morocco, that's kind of

671
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 3: what that's that's annoyed the dog made when it got.

672
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: Hit more rock.

673
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 3: But he managed to get the dog from Africa to

674
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 3: America and then it was his dog for the next America. Yeah,

675
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: and then he took him and he lived out his

676
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 3: days in Little Rock, Arkansas, where the dog felt a

677
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 3: lot better because the rocks were little. That it was

678
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: a real rescue.

679
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 1: Literally, that's amazing.

680
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 3: This dog from the streets of Mauritania and took him

681
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 3: to America, and then it was his dog for today.

682
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: I learned that Central America is part of North America,

683
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: it's not a separate continent. And I also learned that

684
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: there's a place called Mauritania. I never knew that was

685
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: a country. Did you know?

686
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 3: Two countries?

687
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 5: And I thought that was like a holding area or something.

688
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 5: I didn't know what that meant.

689
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, what to Africa.

690
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 4: Two countries.

691
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 3: There's one country called Mauritania and there's one country called Mauricius.

692
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Mauritius.

693
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 3: I've heard like islands.

694
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: He was in my fifth grade class. Serious, I swear

695
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: behind Yeah, that's uh. There there are country names that

696
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: I don't know the names of it. I mean, there's

697
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: like how.

698
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 3: Much I could name one hundred countries that you probably

699
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 3: don't know the name of it.

700
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: I bet you could. You've got that kind of brain.

701
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm impressed.

702
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 3: I didn't have to do it.

703
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, so go on, let's do I'm just kidding.

704
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: Please don't turn off the podcast. He's going to start listening.

705
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: I could listen two hundred and seventy countries off the

706
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 3: top of my head?

707
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: Is that how many there are? Are you serious this debate.

708
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 3: About how many there are? But two hundred and seventies?

709
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 3: Like standing you could?

710
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: You could do them all.

711
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 3: All to seventy?

712
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: No question France, Actually no, I would forgot.

713
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 3: I can't name France.

714
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: Do you ever forget about states? Like there was one

715
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: time that I heard about New Hampshire and I was like,

716
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 1: I have not thought about New Hampshire in twenty years,

717
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: Like I forgot New Hampshire was a state. That's one

718
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: where I forgot about. That's a hot one Ian, I

719
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: know it, but I really was like, oh my god,

720
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: you don't ever think about New Hampshire.

721
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: No, really, it's that's.

722
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

723
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 3: And then the Caucuses, yeah, well yeah, it's the first

724
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 3: state that does the primary in something Knobs Gap or

725
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 3: whatever the city's called. They're trying to take it away

726
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 3: from them though, and give it to some other state

727
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 3: like South Carolina, because it doesn't mean because New Hampshire

728
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 3: doesn't matter.

729
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 4: Nobody remembers South Carolina clearly, right, No, I remember that.

730
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: That's for every twenty years. You'd go, oh yeah, that's

731
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: the thing. Mom. What was the best Christmas gift you

732
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: got or like memory or anything you mean from this year?

733
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, Nikki, you gave me a beautiful coat.

734
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 1: Oh I wasn't even trying to leave that.

735
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: You gave me the best gift.

736
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay, that coade has a story. Oh I knew it,

737
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: you knew? What do you know? I just know you

738
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

739
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 2: Because you were like I screwed up with the presents

740
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 2: this year.

741
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: I did screw up with them.

742
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 5: And then I was like, and she's like, I didn't

743
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 5: get you guys anything anything, And.

744
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: I was like, I could made a made well order

745
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: for my mom and sister that had like nine things

746
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 1: in it, you know, like it was a big ass order.

747
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: And I was so proud of myself to get all

748
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 1: my Christmas shopping done in one day. I ordered from

749
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: all these different places and I got it done. And

750
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: it was during my special planning. So I was like

751
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: writing my special at Starbucks and I was like, actually,

752
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just shop real quick. I got it all done.

753
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: Good deals on stuff, great sizing, everything, the right color

754
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: and everything. I was like, yes. And then I get

755
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,760
Speaker 1: back from my trip like the special, and I'm going

756
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: to go go through all the boxes. It's a giant

757
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: wall of boxes to start wrapping things. I saw your

758
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: wall of boxes and I go, where's the Maid wall box?

759
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 3: What's going?

760
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: And I go, oh no, And so I went to

761
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:42,479
Speaker 1: maidwell dot com. Look at my shopping cart. The number

762
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,439
Speaker 1: nine is right there. That means there are nine things

763
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 1: still in my shopping cart. It has not been checked

764
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 1: out yet. Every single thing in the shopping cart is

765
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: sold out now. It's all the sale prices are gone

766
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 1: like it was. It was during like a sale that

767
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 1: I did this at the right time. So I go,

768
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 1: I have nothing for them. This is Christmas Eve.

769
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 5: I was okay with this, you guys, and so I

770
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 5: went over.

771
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: My parents also. I was like, I have nothing for you.

772
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 1: But then I remembered that I over ordered gifts two

773
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,879
Speaker 1: years ago. You gotta be and I've had that coat

774
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 1: in my closet for two years waiting to give you,

775
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 1: and I forgot to give it to you for last Christmas.

776
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 1: N you could have had that coat for two now.

777
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: You gave me a coat last year. No, it's two

778
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: years ago. The long really hmm, it was dose those

779
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, yeah, I like last year. No, it's

780
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: long coat. Yeah. And also Lawrence coat also part of

781
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: the coats from two years ago that I bought, and

782
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: I was so glad that I had them stilled the

783
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: tag on them. I keep the tag on everything I

784
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: own because my mom might want it some day. And

785
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 1: if I gave her just a thing that I used

786
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 1: to wear, she might go like, I like it, but

787
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 1: if it stills the tag on it, it could smell

788
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: totally funky, but you'll still like it because the tag's

789
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: on it. You got that right, You got that right.

790
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: I keep all my tags on.

791
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think what you gave. I sent my

792
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: mom a bunch of Poshmark those boots. I love this.

793
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: I haven't worn them. You really like it, but I

794
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: just the new thing is send people what you want, yeah,

795
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: down months in advance, and then you forget that you

796
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 1: ever even sent it, and then you get this thing

797
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: that you already.

798
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 5: Like, Yeah, I bought that purse, it's so nice months ago.

799
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,240
Speaker 5: And I was like, I gotta get another gift for Nikki,

800
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 5: and I went in the closet that I had other

801
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 5: stuff in and I found that box.

802
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I got that purse for.

803
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 1: It was good. I do have to be a more

804
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: gracious gift receiver because I just sometimes gifts to me.

805
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,280
Speaker 1: It's so rude to not be a good gift receiver.

806
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: But when it's people that I like so good. No,

807
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: remember I went through a rough patch. Yeah, teens and twenties.

808
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 5: I was as a child. We have videos of you.

809
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 5: Every present you opened, you were going, I love this.

810
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 5: You were telling all your friends that came to your

811
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 5: little party. You were like, I just love this. It

812
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 5: was the cutest thing where I was.

813
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: A people pleaser from the very good go because I

814
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: to you, I didn't like all those gifts.

815
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you probably.

816
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: I even I saw footage of me putting something that

817
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: I hated, and I remember hating it. But I go,

818
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 1: oh my god, calking Grandma call it and it speaks gift,

819
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, it's like easy, Jesus love.

820
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 2: Actually, Oh, I was so proud of you the way you.

821
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was a real no no good little girl

822
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 5: two years ago. You left every gift I gave you

823
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 5: at our house. I mean I think I gave you

824
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 5: like six gifts and they were still there, and I

825
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 5: was like.

826
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,399
Speaker 1: I was like, you just keep these here? You want that? Yeah,

827
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 1: that's what I always say, I go, do you want this?

828
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: I just try to give it back because generally I'm

829
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: getting gifts that my I think people give gifts that

830
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: they like themselves, like I would want this. I think

831
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: that's an easy way to like, it's the right way.

832
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 1: It is a mistake, a mistake.

833
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 3: You got to think about what the other person. I mean,

834
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 3: this is so obvious to me. I don't understand why

835
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 3: it needs to be said. But you got to think

836
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 3: about what the other person would want and get that

837
00:38:59,440 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 3: for them.

838
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 1: Well, we live in a society that lacks empathy. We

839
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: don't really understand what it's like to walk in someone

840
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: else's shoes. We think about walking someone's else's shoes with

841
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: our feet. What it really means is walking in someone

842
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 1: else's skin. The shoes thing needs to be changed because

843
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: everyone just goes, well, if I had her shoes on,

844
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,399
Speaker 1: and I know they don't think that literally, but they

845
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: just go I wouldn't be I would just do things

846
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: you go, No, you have to be born in my skin,

847
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: raised by my parents.

848
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 3: That's how shoes wouldn't even fit me, Like I would be.

849
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: Mean, Yeah, exactly, I would be over pronated in those.

850
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: Well that's what I was worried about.

851
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 2: Your boot rocks.

852
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you would never walk in those shoes. Do it

853
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: a high heel. At least when I'm on stage, the

854
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 1: adrenaline makes it not hurt. But I Dad gave me.

855
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: Dad always goes out to West County Mall and Christmas

856
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: Eve and gets he gets us journals. So this year

857
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: when he went out, I go, Dad, don't you buy

858
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: me a journal? I have too many journals. Ironically enough,

859
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 1: I do need a journal, and I just ordered one.

860
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: I should have told him to get me one. I

861
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,839
Speaker 1: was social li bitch, but I was like, don't get

862
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: his calendars. And Mom goes, I want a calendar, and

863
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,959
Speaker 1: so I got one. So he goes to the calendar store.

864
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 1: He goes to Barnes and Noble. He like, he likes

865
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: getting like little fun gifts the night before great thing,

866
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: but he's paying full price. Mom knows that like that kidding. No,

867
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: he wanted to go to Barnes. He wanted to go

868
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: to Barnes and Noble. That's big thing, I know, and

869
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: that's what he got me. So I got a gift

870
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: from him on christ He goes like, let's just give

871
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: rid on Christmas Eve. This is a fun one. So

872
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: you hand it over and I open it up and

873
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: immediately I see the word Trump, and I'm just like,

874
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: I don't even want to read this word. I hate

875
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: this person so much. And it's a bobblehead. No, it's

876
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: just a little a little figure. It's just like a

877
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 1: toy figure of Donald Trump in a jail suit, like

878
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 1: in an orange jumpsuit, like imprisoned. And it's his exactly

879
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: a three printer perfectly printed his face from the mugshot,

880
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 1: which is I hate that photo too. Yeah, I just

881
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: I know it's a joke and it's like Trump in prison.

882
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,439
Speaker 1: Let's try to like, let's celebrate this. I don't want

883
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 1: a Trump finger figuring in my house, in my eyeline.

884
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 1: I don't want. I don't like him. It's like giving

885
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: me a Hitler thing, like I don't want to look

886
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: at Do people have Hitler toys for jokes? I don't

887
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: think so, Like I don't like this. I hate him

888
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: more than anyone. And so I just was instantly like

889
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: I don't want this, and I was really a bitch

890
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: about it, but I wasn't a bitch. I was just

891
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 1: like can you And Dad goes, we'll keep it.

892
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 5: I go, great, or we'll give it to yeah, somebody, TV,

893
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 5: Bob or whatever.

894
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: And I was like great. And it wasn't a contentious thing.

895
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 1: I was just like, I don't want to see him name.

896
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 2: He is actually very bad.

897
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: Not I don't want to say triggering, because anyone who

898
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: likes Trump is gonna be like, oh, you snowflake, you

899
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: can't handle Trump. I I just know it's just it

900
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 1: has a negative connotation to me, and I can't handle it.

901
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 1: And so I was just like ugh, and I handed

902
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: it off and I go, that's really sweet thought, but

903
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: I don't want this in my possession. And then the

904
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: next day, Christmas Day Chrismiss Day, my dad gave the

905
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: same present to my sister and Matt, not the same

906
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: one he gave me. He wasn't regifting. He bought two

907
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: of them. And then I saw Lauren open it up

908
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 1: and she was like, Oh, this is great, this is funny.

909
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: I could tell she felt the same way about it

910
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: as I did, but she had a better response that

911
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: she can just throw it away now, Like I was

912
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: too honest. I think I lost that little part of

913
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: me that is cordial and kind to my loved ones,

914
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: and shouldn't be that be the ones we're the kindest to.

915
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,720
Speaker 2: You know, you're honest.

916
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, then people are scared to give me gifts.

917
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 2: Now I'm not. You just tell me what you want.

918
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: Well, mom brought me something yesterday she was at Goodwill,

919
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: and we'll tell you what it is after the break, Okay,

920
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: I like, how you go? Okay, like you don't know?

921
00:42:54,120 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: All right, So yesterday you were at Goodwill or Saint Vincent,

922
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: I mean one of the good Will And by the way,

923
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: Taylor yesterday on the podcast was like, I got to

924
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: get your mom to the bins because she says she

925
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 1: never runs into you at the bins, therefore you're probably

926
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: not there.

927
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 2: I don't go to the bin.

928
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 5: Why don't you go to the bins because it's like

929
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 5: a madhouse bins. It's the it's the outlet, the Goodwill outlet,

930
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 5: and they come out with this huge bind. They dump

931
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 5: this stuff on this big tables and hundreds of people

932
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 5: fight over it.

933
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 3: It's like insane and expensive goods.

934
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 5: No, and it's all everything's weighed by the pounds, so

935
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 5: you could get a pair of boots for fifty nine cents.

936
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: It's like I think you would love, but you don't

937
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: like the chaos of all.

938
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 5: Oh, I don't like the competition and the chaos now

939
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 5: and their competition either.

940
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 2: I don't like it people.

941
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: You know why, because we're actually very competitive. Oh and

942
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: so we This is what I learned. I used to

943
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: think that because I don't like you know, I don't

944
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,280
Speaker 1: like going to I have to go to a plate's

945
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: class today because my instructor isn't available. So it's like

946
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: a fourth of the price to go to a class

947
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: versus individual, but I pay four times the price because

948
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: I don't like feeling competitive with other people that are

949
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 1: clearly going to be better than me. Oh, it really

950
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 1: bothers me. So I don't go to those classes. And

951
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: I used to think it was because I just don't

952
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: like competition. I don't want to be competitive. I don't

953
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 1: want to compete against others. It's the opposite. I love

954
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 1: competition and I desperately want to be the best. And

955
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: if I can't be the best, I want Nope, I'm

956
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 1: a little baby bitch and I don't want any part

957
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: of it. It's really not a good way to be.

958
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm forcing myself to do more classes

959
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: this year. I want to like get rid of this

960
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 1: sense of competition I have with people that don't even

961
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: know because I can't. I know that I can't because

962
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: pilates is not something I'm good at, and I'm even

963
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: going out of my comfort zone to do a thing

964
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: I'm not good at in the first place, and so

965
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 1: to then be against people. I used to have a

966
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: joke that when I am on a treadmill and there's

967
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: a girl next to me. It happened yesterday actually at

968
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: the gym. Chris and I went down to our gym

969
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 1: and there was a girl already down there on the treadmill,

970
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, I can't get off this treadmill

971
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: until she gets off hers, right because I started after her.

972
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: There's no way that I can quit before her. I

973
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 1: looked over at her screen. This pitch is on forty

974
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: eight minutes and I'm on twelve minutes, and I go,

975
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: who goes more than thirty minutes on a treadmill? You

976
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: have an eating disorder. If you do that no offense,

977
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 1: you're either training for something or you have an eating disorder.

978
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 1: Of offenses, go at the training. Okay, I'll say that

979
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: to be nice. But you don't need to be on

980
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: a treadmill running for an hour unless you're running from

981
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: and your brain of endorphins calories.

982
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, all that I.

983
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: Used to that's because you were. But okay, so what

984
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: were you doing.

985
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 3: I would just run for as I would watch football

986
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 3: while while running, and so I would just be able

987
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 3: to watch. When you're watching something that's fully engrossing.

988
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,919
Speaker 1: She was engrossed in a reunion episode of some reality show.

989
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: She didn't seem like she had an eating disort, it

990
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 1: didn't seem unhealthy. She wasn't going at a crazy pace

991
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 1: or anything I'm projecting, But I think that's I don't

992
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: think anyone needs to do cardio long than it's bad

993
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: for intense cardio. Oh it is. I think it's bad

994
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 1: for your bones. I think it's bad. I think it's

995
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: bad for you.

996
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 3: Eventually it starts to hurt you. I mean, that's why

997
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 3: you're not supposed to increase your heart rate past a

998
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 3: certain point for more than like ten to fifteen minutes

999
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 3: or something like that. Yeah, I forgot what the reasoning,

1000
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 3: but it'll kill.

1001
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: I just know that people who are working out to

1002
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: burn calories are that's the wrong reason to work out.

1003
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: I get it if you're trying to like lose a

1004
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 1: bunch of extra weight in your like, but if you

1005
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: were already, if you're already like a thinnish person and

1006
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 1: you're trying to eat burn six hundred calories because you

1007
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: ate seven hundred or something like, that's not a healthy

1008
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: That's not what I want to be anymore. And so

1009
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: I don't do workouts for calories. I don't look at

1010
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: the calori anymore, which is a huge change in my life.

1011
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: But anyway, I used to have a joke that if

1012
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: I go and I'm working on treadmill next to someone,

1013
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: I move the treadmill up a couple of inches, so

1014
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,399
Speaker 1: I'm just constantly beating them. It wasn't a good joke,

1015
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: but it was just that's that's how I feel in

1016
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: my in my brain competitive wise. So you don't like

1017
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: into the bins because of that because it's a madhouse.

1018
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: Uh no, thank you.

1019
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,280
Speaker 3: It's Friday.

1020
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 2: It's like Black Friday.

1021
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's really everyone is grabbing everything.

1022
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: They will hurt you. I mean these people.

1023
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 5: And there's a group of older, older men that are

1024
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,760
Speaker 5: scary that I mean it used to be women.

1025
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's the mill in the Salvation Army.

1026
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 5: Yeah they I think they live next door. And yeah,

1027
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 5: they live in the Salvation Army. But honestly, it's kind

1028
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 5: of scary.

1029
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: I get it. So, and it's really not in a

1030
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: great part of town. Yeah, Taylor is into that kind

1031
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: of stuff. Taylor's not scared.

1032
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 5: She's young. She can handle herself. But if somebody pushes

1033
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 5: me over, I'm probably be like, but she'd probably knock

1034
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 5: them out or something.

1035
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: No, she's she's pretty soft as well, like soft like

1036
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: as a person. Yeah, she's a gentle person, but she

1037
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,120
Speaker 1: I can see her being. But she likes s it's

1038
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: a fredics. She likes crazy people. She likes the homeless.

1039
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 1: She her dream when we used to talk about like

1040
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: your dream job. She's like studying the homeless, working with

1041
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: the homeless, which is so admirable. She just likes she

1042
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 1: likes people who are crazy. She she's fascinated by it.

1043
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,959
Speaker 1: She likes all these murder stuff, like she likes things

1044
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: that are up is interesting. It's so you got to

1045
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: listen to this JFK podcast.

1046
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm telling you.

1047
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 1: I know. Dad's talking about it on SUP. He keeps

1048
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: trying to give me spoilers. I'm like to stop telling me.

1049
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,959
Speaker 2: He did it it I know.

1050
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: The final thought. My best gift that I got was

1051
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: Guitar Hero from Chris. Have you played Guitar Hero, Brian?

1052
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 3: Well, it was at that hotel in last Yeah.

1053
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was staying at a hotel and in the

1054
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 1: lobby they had Guitar Hero, which is a game that

1055
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: has not existed or been made new twenty ten.

1056
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:48,839
Speaker 2: Don't we have that at our house?

1057
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: Yes? I bought it for Dad for Christmas in two

1058
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 1: thousand and because it was a gift I wanted. I

1059
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 1: did the thing. It's I think it has to Brian,

1060
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: because we played it. We are so we played it

1061
00:48:57,680 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 1: in that lobby of that hotel and you were there too,

1062
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 1: And then since then Chris got it for me for Christmas.

1063
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: We play every day. It is so addictive, It is

1064
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: so fun, and I am fascinated by the fact that

1065
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 1: it disappeared. It was I was reading up on it

1066
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 1: and all of these rhythm games were so big from

1067
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: two thousand and seven to two thousand and eleven at

1068
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 1: the latest and like rock Band, Dance, Dance Revolution, Guitar

1069
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: Hero and then vanished, like you can't buy a new

1070
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 1: game for Guitar Hero, rock Band's gone too, Like they're

1071
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: all a good way and they are. So if you

1072
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: ever see a Guitar Hero game for play station three,

1073
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: will you get it?

1074
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 2: Wait the game? Or I see the guitars all the time.

1075
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: We'll take a guitar too, But the games or a

1076
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: microphone or rock band or anything will I will pay

1077
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 1: for that?

1078
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 3: I want a theory again, probably wrong, but that coincide

1079
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 3: just on a timeline standpoint with when online gaming became

1080
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 3: most popular. So people were now playing smart comooters, Minecraft,

1081
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 3: all online working together, and Guitar Hero and other pattern

1082
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 3: games don't really lend them themselves to group activity play too.

1083
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: Because Chris and I rock band. You play with a

1084
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 1: whole game band, play with a band, drum, someone singing.

1085
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 3: But online it's hard doing it all together, syncopated.

1086
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: You have to actually have friends. That's the and that's

1087
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 1: probably why it failed. Yes, because actually this was the

1088
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: proliferation of smartphones with which isolated us from friends starting

1089
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: around to we hang out with people.

1090
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:30,240
Speaker 3: This was this was the minds predicted. Starting around twenty twelve,

1091
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 3: people stopped having real friends and they had online friends.

1092
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 1: Dude, we are obsessed with it. And I have to say,

1093
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: I am so Chris and I are both competitive. I

1094
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 1: am so better. No, he's he's very, very good. We

1095
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: started on the same level. We both haven't played in

1096
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 1: ten years. You can kind of tell he's probably better

1097
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 1: than me back in the day. He's just better at

1098
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: hand eye coordination things. He's a natural born athlete in

1099
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: NBA is what I call him. But he he just

1100
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: is good that that stuff. He's already doing songs on

1101
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,760
Speaker 1: hard very well, like seventy to eighty percent.

1102
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:07,800
Speaker 4: Stop you right there, You actually play guitar. I remember

1103
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 4: when I played that game. I didn't like it because

1104
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 4: not because I sucked or whatever, but even when I

1105
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 4: was trying to practice, I was like, this is nothing

1106
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 4: like playing guitar.

1107
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 1: It's more like, no, it is a percussion instrument. It is.

1108
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: It is exactly. It's like playing bass a lot of

1109
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 1: times because it's not on the guitar rhythm even when

1110
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: you push guitar, because you can choose bass. But guitar

1111
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: is most it's mostly it's it's not even a lot

1112
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: of the songs suck, like some songs are right on,

1113
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: and you get to go like, lord, I was born

1114
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 1: a rambling man brain ernie like it'll but then sometimes

1115
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 1: it'll be like bang baner name, but it'll be like

1116
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 1: bme bear instead of and so you'll vote deanner name

1117
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: and then you'll fuck up and you're like, why am

1118
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: I playing the weird bass lick to this? Whatever? There

1119
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: are some songs that are great and so fun. Hotel, California.

1120
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: We play five times a day. We're getting very good

1121
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: at it. We've advanced from easy too hard in a

1122
00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 1: very short amount of time. But I am like, I'm

1123
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: looking at that score the entire time. And now I

1124
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: started to realize I think he looks at the score too,

1125
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: because we both know exactly what we've done at the end.

1126
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of things about guitar that I

1127
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: don't like. Like if Chris oftentimes I will get a

1128
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:14,960
Speaker 1: better percentage of all the notes hit, I will have

1129
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 1: a better streak run, but he will beat me because

1130
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: he goes he does the wah wah thing of like,

1131
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 1: or he'll get like the right streak, so then he'll

1132
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 1: start getting double points sooner, and it bugs me. I

1133
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 1: think it should be a meritocracy of who does better

1134
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: and that should be what we celebrate. But sometimes he

1135
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: wins and gets more points because of all these little

1136
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:36,840
Speaker 1: tricks he's doing. We need to learn those. They confuse me.

1137
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 1: And man, it's it is very different than guitar. But

1138
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 1: I started crying probably a week ago because we you

1139
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,399
Speaker 1: can calibrate the so you're pressing the guitar part where

1140
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: like and sometimes people like it's it's lagged behind because

1141
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: it has to. It's a guitar that's connecting with the thing,

1142
00:52:58,040 --> 00:52:59,720
Speaker 1: so there's a lag on it. So you can calibrate

1143
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: your gondar and we were trying to like and it

1144
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: gives you a beat kind of like a metronome, and

1145
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: you have to go with the beat, and it sees

1146
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 1: if you're off or not. And I have bad rhythm,

1147
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 1: Chris had Chris. Dad just tells you a bad rhythm

1148
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: you don't have all the time because Dad's jealous because

1149
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 1: you have good rhythm. But yes you do. You do.

1150
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: See you've been infiltrated. Dad has made you believe something

1151
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: about yourself. That isn't true, because.

1152
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 2: Dad, no, I really don't rhythm.

1153
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: Well, you can try it on a guitar Hero and

1154
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: find out if you have bad rhythm or not. I

1155
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 1: started crying. Chris was like, what's wrong? And I was like,

1156
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: I try to be good. I'm bad at everything. Everyone

1157
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: is naturally better at everything in me. I started going

1158
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: down a whole spiral because of guitar Hero.

1159
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god, and I don't think.

1160
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 1: And then he explained to me I. He goes, you

1161
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: might have great rhythm, but you're actually doing it on

1162
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: the right time. But there's a lag because as communicate

1163
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: with the PS three then the TV, like there is

1164
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,919
Speaker 1: a you could be right on. I think I purposely

1165
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: lag because I'm used to video games. I played them

1166
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 1: so much as a kid. I know that the is

1167
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 1: it perfect. So he tried to he talked me off

1168
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 1: the ledge. He's not even so to speak literally, he

1169
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 1: talked me off the ledge of like you're not flawed,

1170
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 1: You're okay. But I started just going down like it

1171
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:14,799
Speaker 1: made me question everything because I have bad rhythm. Because

1172
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: if you have bad rhythm, you should just give up

1173
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:21,200
Speaker 1: being a performer. Okay, I will, You don't have that.

1174
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 1: So then I started watching YouTube videos where it was

1175
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 1: like this African man teaching kids how to do rhythm

1176
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: to see if because I guess rhythm is something you

1177
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: can learn. Rhythm is the dancer that's a song?

1178
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 2: Oh, rhythm is a dancer.

1179
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 1: Why is is that a name of a dancer in

1180
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 1: the song?

1181
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 2: Said Taylor Swifts?

1182
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 3: No, certainly not but two thousand songs or something.

1183
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mom, have you been listening to Taylor Swift?

1184
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1185
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 1: As much as I can, as as much as Dad

1186
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: lets you kind of. Dad doesn't love Taylor Swift, but

1187
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 1: he can't say it. He does he he actually has

1188
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: to act like I think he can't say it, not

1189
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: because he doesn't want to offend us, but because he

1190
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 1: knows he's wrong, and he knows that he doesn't like her,

1191
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: because he's just jealous. She's as good as the Beatles,

1192
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: And I think that's why he can't say something. Dad,

1193
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 1: if you're listening, that's my theory. It's not that you

1194
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 1: actually don't like her, it's because you sense that if

1195
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: you don't like her, you know you're wrong, but you

1196
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 1: don't like her for other reasons.

1197
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 5: Upon if he starts liking her, it'll make him look

1198
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 5: like he was Yeah, he's given up on the Beatles, yes,

1199
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 5: like okay, like, but.

1200
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 1: Why is there a competition? And if it was a man,

1201
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,959
Speaker 1: I think people would have no problem giving this to her.

1202
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 1: There's so many articles that came out this year that

1203
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 1: at the end of the year that said, this is

1204
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: the year of oversaturation of Taylor Swift. This is the

1205
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 1: year Taylor Swift became so annoying. And I've heard the

1206
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 1: times of the year though, yes, and people don't. I

1207
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,239
Speaker 1: have to think. I know it's a woman thing, and

1208
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: that's okay because women benefit in many ways from being women.

1209
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 1: But I also believe that this is a thing that

1210
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 1: people can't stand a woman getting this much attention.

1211
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,360
Speaker 3: It happens to men to like, look at Dane Cook.

1212
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 1: Yes that's true too, Yes, yeah, that is a good point.

1213
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 1: I thought Dane Cook was on. Did you watch the

1214
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:12,720
Speaker 1: Chapelle's Special yet?

1215
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 3: No, there's a special? What a new one?

1216
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:17,359
Speaker 1: Yeah? What a closer? Or I'm not the Closer? Sorry

1217
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: it's called The Dreamer.

1218
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 3: Oh no, I haven't. I gotta watch it.

1219
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk about it next week. Yeah, Netflix, Okay,

1220
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: we'll get into that and your trip. We got to

1221
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 1: go because I gotta go get botox in my I'm

1222
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 1: getting a lip flip and I'm getting into my jawline

1223
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 1: and I'm getting in my neck for my singing.

1224
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:36,399
Speaker 5: Oh my god, do not do that?

1225
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,399
Speaker 1: What where do they do that? They do in your neck?

1226
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: It's it's for aesthetic purposes because your neck is so

1227
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: muscly and strained that this can cause a lot of lineage.

1228
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: But I'm doing it because I want I keep so

1229
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: much at tension in my neck. So I'm wondering where

1230
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: it'll go if I don't put in my neck and

1231
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 1: I go to my abs or something.

1232
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 2: Did you worad about this or no.

1233
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: I got consulted by Curran's girlfriend is a a doctor esthetician.

1234
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 1: She's a literal empty and she was like, oh you

1235
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 1: should just You're a great candidate for the lip flip.

1236
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: And I used to get it all the time, but

1237
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: I just want a fuller lip again. So everyone look

1238
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: forward to that. I'll see you next week. It might

1239
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 1: not even work by then. I think botox six two

1240
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 1: weeks so, but just look for it. It'll be there.

1241
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: Look go to our YouTube channel. If that incentivizes you,

1242
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: go sign up for that. Comparing contrast this week to then,

1243
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: like look at my lips right now, yeah, and now

1244
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: look at them next week. And also if you get

1245
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: these marionettelines and around your jaw, it's this is always

1246
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: pulling on your lower lip constantly. So women, just women

1247
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,439
Speaker 1: and men just tend to get a scowl because this

1248
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: muscle from your master your jawline is pulling down on

1249
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: your lips. And when that becomes botox your lips even

1250
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: it raises your eyes. So my eyes might see a

1251
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: lift because I'm getting botox on my Jawlnes, she explained it.

1252
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 1: I don't really understand it, but I'm you're excited because

1253
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 1: I am desperate for an eyelid.

1254
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 2: I wonder if they know that at your place.

1255
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to them about it.

1256
00:57:59,320 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 2: Knows everything.

1257
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 1: Nayak Is. I love them and I trust them with

1258
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: my face. If you're in Sant Louis, nayak isy end

1259
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 1: me saying I love them. What.

1260
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:09,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1261
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 3: So the place in New Hampshire is called Dicksville Notch

1262
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 3: and it's the first the first city in America that

1263
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 3: releases its American presidential voting results every year and the

1264
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 3: population currently is four, so four people vote at midnight

1265
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 3: and they say kidding me, Yeah, that's that's Is this

1266
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 3: a joke? No, this is they're clamp to fame.

1267
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: Why would anyone.

1268
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 3: Goes down?

1269
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 1: Don't take this from them, don't Four.

1270
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 3: People vote and they go, we voted.

1271
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: Where's Old Hampshire? Oh, I guess that's in England? Is it?

1272
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: It probably is your Hampshire, York Old Hampshire, Old Hampshire.

1273
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've got all the news New Mexico.

1274
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 2: All right, that's good.

1275
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 3: You look that up.

1276
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 1: That's great, Thank you so much. Follow up on some

1277
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: more things, and go see me on tour. I'm coming

1278
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: to Florida Fort Pierce in Atona Beach next week next

1279
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: weekend Friday and Saturday. I think it's the eighteenth and nineteenth.

1280
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 1: And also go back and watch an old episode of

1281
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,920
Speaker 1: I Can See Your Voice that's on Fox that's airing tonight,

1282
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 1: but it's this won't come out until the day after

1283
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:18,440
Speaker 1: I apologize for that, so it was last night is

1284
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 1: I Can See Your Voice. And then you should also

1285
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: watch another Fox reality show called We Are Family that

1286
00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: I hear is really really good for it during I

1287
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 1: don't know what week you should watch it, but I

1288
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 1: think you should just watch every week because I think

1289
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: there's gonna be tons of celebrities. Apparently it's a show

1290
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: where a celebrity relative performs and then you have to

1291
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 1: guess who the celebrity who that person's relative. The relative sings,

1292
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: and then there's a celebrity behind a curtain kind of thing.

1293
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 2: Is there money involved?

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Speaker 1: I think there's money involved for a studio audience of

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Speaker 1: people who guess who that was, the studio audience guessing

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Speaker 1: it's not people at home. Oh wow, you get fun

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Speaker 1: as I would make. It's like mass singer, but instead

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Speaker 1: of a mask a big thing, it's someone's dad. Oh

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Speaker 1: potentially wow, or a brother or a cousin. But I

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Speaker 1: hear so many celebrities are on it, and maybe even

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Speaker 1: ones that you or I know.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't wait to call we Are Family. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's Channel. I think it's on Fox. I'm almost yes,

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Speaker 1: it is on Fox because Fox does reality shows almost

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Speaker 1: the best. I love the Mask Singer. I love keep keep.

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Speaker 3: Wait what it's just saying a celebrity that Palmer.

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Speaker 1: It could be Key Key Palmer, who her? It could

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Speaker 1: be her cousin?

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Speaker 2: Who's key Key Palmer?

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Speaker 1: Uh? I don't I don't know. Okay, all right, I

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Speaker 1: don't is she is she married to someone famous too?

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Speaker 3: No podcast?

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Speaker 2: That's a guy.

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Speaker 1: And she's got a pot Oh yeah, you guys, she's

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Speaker 1: got a podcast. We were yeah, we were mentioned alongside

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Speaker 1: Key Key Palmer's podcast show.

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Speaker 3: Today.

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Speaker 1: Today Show did a list of the twenty one funniest

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Speaker 1: podcast and we're on the list. You are kidding, We

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Speaker 1: are not kidding the I am not, I am not,

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Speaker 1: but you're good. All right, bye, guys, thank you for listening. Uh,

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Speaker 1: don't pic and just watch. I can see your voice

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Speaker 1: in All in the Family. New Fox shows that I'm

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Speaker 1: not paid to promote, but I think you should watch them.