1 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: Hi guys, and welcome to a new episode of Couch 2 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 1: Talks on it You Need Therapy Podcast. My name is 3 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: Kat and I am the host. If you are new 4 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 1: and are not sure what couch Talks is, it is 5 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: the special bonus episode of You Need Therapy where I 6 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: answer questions that you guys send to me and you 7 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: can send those to Katherine at You Need Therapy podcast 8 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: dot com. Now. Usually we answer one question a week 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: and we always keep it anonymous. So if you're worried 10 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: about somebody finding out that it was you, if you 11 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: and all your friends listen to You Need Therapy every 12 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: week and you' all text about it, you have a 13 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: question and you're like, well, I don't want to send 14 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: it in because then they're going to know it's me 15 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: and maybe I'm talking about one of them. Good news 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: is it's anonymous, so just don't give me any details 17 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: that you wouldn't want to give me and nobody will 18 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: ever know. So this week we're going to go along 19 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: with the normal theme, answer one question, and it's actually 20 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: one that I think is going to spark a full 21 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: episode because there's just so much conversation to be had 22 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: about this topic. 23 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: So let's just get into it. Here is our question. 24 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: Hey, kat I love the podcast and thought of you 25 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: today as I have been having a difficult time coping 26 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: with an aspect of my work lately and can't help 27 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: think you or someone else might feel this way in 28 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: a similar line of work. I'm a recreation therapist and 29 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: work with cancer patients who are in the hospital going 30 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: through chemotherapy and radiation. My focus is on helping them 31 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: engage in a meaningful and purposeful leisure activities to promote 32 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: a positive quality of life while they're in the hospital. 33 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: I've been in the setting for twelve years and I 34 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: love what I do. It's so rewarding. But for the 35 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: past few years I've been feeling more drained from a 36 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: typical day. I feel like a broken wheel with some 37 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: of my patients lately, trying to encourage, motivate, and support 38 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: positive coping strategies active listening is really hard work. I 39 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: take time after work on my days off to rejuvenate 40 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: by just seeing what I preach all day, but am 41 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: finding lately lack of motivation and motivating others. 42 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 2: Do you feel that way too? 43 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: Sometimes in your job, Compassion fatigue is a real thing, 44 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm in that spot now. I 45 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,679 Speaker 1: have some vacation time coming up and looking forward to 46 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: a much needed breakaway from the hospital. 47 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 2: Thanks for all you do, oh my gosh. 48 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: And I chose this email today because this is like 49 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: the most real email I've ever received, and I'm so 50 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: glad that this person sent this. And I say that 51 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: because I think a lot of people, in helping professions 52 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: or even just being a human in general, get a 53 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: little nervous and scared and tiptoe around this idea of 54 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: being tired and exhausted from being helpful or a good 55 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: person or offering compassion. 56 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: And it's a very human experience to have. And my 57 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: response is going. 58 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: To involve a lot of both, as there's a lot 59 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 1: of dialectics here too, things that are true at the 60 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: same time that feel contradictory, but both can exist at 61 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: the same time. And we live in a world where 62 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: we don't really like that, and that doesn't If it 63 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: doesn't make sense, then it can't be true. And you 64 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: can't like something and struggle with it. You can't have 65 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,839 Speaker 1: a lack of motivation and still be good at your job, 66 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: like you can't have these two things at once. 67 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 2: But the reality is you can. 68 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 1: And I remember a time, which is funny to look 69 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: back on, but I remember a time when I was 70 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: learning about burnout and how to avoid it and what 71 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: to do when it comes up back in school, and 72 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: I of course thought that that was something that happened 73 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: to other people, and so. 74 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 2: I don't really need to pay attention to this part 75 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 2: of the class. I'm not going to be burnt out 76 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: for my job. How that ever happened. 77 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: And it's kind of like that idea where people think 78 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: that things like house fires or cancer could never happen 79 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: to them until it happens to them, and then they 80 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: realize that nobody is really immune. And the truth is, 81 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: I love my job, and sometimes I don't want to 82 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: do it. Sometimes I experience burnout. I'm over it. Sometimes 83 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: I have no patience and I just want to scream. 84 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: And there's a lot of things in my head that 85 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: I want to say. Most of the times they don't 86 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: say them. Sometimes they do come out, and there's some 87 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: prepair to be done. And then sometimes I feel so calm. 88 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: I have all that energy in the world. I feel 89 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: like my compassion is just overflowing. I just am exuding 90 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: kindness and love and understanding, and I think that is 91 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 1: honestly something that can be true of anything that we 92 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 1: really love or like. For example, if you love pizza, right, 93 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: how could you ever get sick of pizza? We'll eat 94 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: it for every single meal for a month, for three months, 95 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: for six months, for a year, you would probably start 96 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: to get sick of it and you would probably want 97 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: something else. And with our jobs, most of us are 98 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: doing the same thing every single day, over and over 99 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: and over again. And while specifically a job like mine 100 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 1: is very rewarding, sometimes it's not rewarding, and sometimes there's 101 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: a lot of it's like your the reward is the future. 102 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: Reward is something that you might not ever actually see, 103 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: where a lot of times I'm planting seeds and it's 104 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: rewarding knowing that, but it's also using my imagination to 105 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: know that what I'm doing is being helpful, and it 106 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: feels kind of pointless or just for a lack of 107 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 1: a better word here, exhausting in the moment. It's not like, oh, 108 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: and I'm prefacing this with I think every job can 109 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: be hard its own, right. But let's say you are 110 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,359 Speaker 1: a baker and maybe you decorate cakes. You get to 111 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: see the reward of your labor. When you're done with it, 112 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: you get to see that. And helping professions sometimes you 113 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: don't get to see that. Sometimes you're helping hopeful, hoping 114 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: that in the future it will stick, it'll mean something. 115 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 1: And also sometimes what we do doesn't really help much. 116 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: And so I mean, I think I've talked about this. 117 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what the actual statistic is now, but 118 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: I remember in my internship a therapist telling me that 119 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: one in every ten clients that we get and treatment 120 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 1: will actually stay sober. 121 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: I don't know where that. 122 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: Statistic came from, but regardless of that, it probably has 123 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: some truth to it. And what's it's saying is, yeah, 124 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: we have you might have eight clients. You're gonna work 125 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 1: just as hard with every single client knowing that maybe 126 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 1: one of them is going to actually stay sober. And 127 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 1: that can be really hard because it feels like a 128 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: lot of what you do doesn't matter. But when you 129 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: really sit down with it and you have all the 130 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: energy and you have the regulated emotions, you can see, Okay, 131 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: well I would do that to save that one person. 132 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: It does make sense. In the thick of it. It 133 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: can be very discouraging. Now, like I said before, I 134 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: very much believe that my job isn't harder than anyone 135 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: else's job, per se. Most jobs come with their struggles, 136 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: and I really try to use that view when I 137 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: look at what I do and when I look at 138 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: what the people around on me do. So I'm not 139 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: sitting here being like although I've talked about how sometimes 140 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: I dream of working at the post office, I also 141 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: know that that would come with its own hard and 142 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: so when it comes down to it, I do have 143 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: gratitude for the hard that I get to deal with. 144 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 1: And while I can have that gratitude, sometimes it's difficult 145 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: and frustrating and I'm over mustering up the strength to 146 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: tackle the hard, I very much do get burned out, 147 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: contrary to what I thought my life was going to 148 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: be like when I was in grad school. And I 149 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: know part of my job is to maintain and hold 150 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: hope for those who struggle to be able to muster 151 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: it up at times. And I imagine that your job 152 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: as a recreation therapist is similar in that regard. And 153 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: while I love this, sometimes I don't want to work 154 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: this role. Sometimes I want to switch roles, and that 155 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: doesn't mean I don't enjoy my job. That wouldn't mean 156 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: that you don't enjoy your job. It doesn't mean I 157 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing it. It just means I'm a human 158 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: and I get tired and maybe there's something I need 159 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: right now. So yes, practicing what you preach is important. 160 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: The balance of outside of work things is important. Life 161 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: outside of work. It's important to remember that you are 162 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: not your job. You're a human that works a job, 163 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: and part of your unique human qualities help you do 164 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: that job. But you are not a machine created to 165 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: work this job. We need breaks, we need rest, we 166 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: need maintenance more than an actual machine, because we're humans 167 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: and we can't be perfectly programmed. And I also just 168 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: want to add that it's very natural to compare yourself 169 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: to people in your field. But two things that I 170 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: want to mention here. We're all different, and too, you 171 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: never really know someone else's insides. They could say they're fine, 172 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: they could say they don't struggle with burnout, they could 173 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: say all that, and it could be true. We also 174 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: don't know, and so we need to be really careful 175 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 1: of comparing what we're going through with what we think 176 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: or what somebody is telling us they're going through and 177 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: I think of this time when I was on a visit. 178 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: I was visiting a treatment center with a group of 179 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: therapists a couple of years back, and we were eating 180 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: lunch together and they put us at tables with different people, 181 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: and obviously you're talking to those people there, therapists that 182 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 1: I didn't know, and we were just chatting about work, 183 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: and this one lady told our table that she sees 184 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: eight clients a day, and I was shook, I mean shook. 185 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: I was like, what, huh. I'm not going to say 186 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: that I've never done that before, because I have plenty 187 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: of times. But if I saw eight clients a day, 188 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 1: for five days a week, I would not be okay 189 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: and I would probably not be working this job anymore. 190 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 1: I would be miserable at work, and outside of work, 191 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: I don't think my clients would want to see me anymore. 192 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 1: My sweet spot is four to six and I only 193 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: see clients four days a week. That doesn't mean that 194 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: I'm not as good as this lady. It just means 195 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: I'm different. It doesn't mean that she's doing something wrong. 196 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: It just means that she's different. I have a different 197 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: threshold and I don't need to hold myself to that 198 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: person's standard. She's not better, I'm not better. We're just 199 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: different and we both can be good. And I wish 200 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: that was something that more people believed, that things can 201 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: be different and both can be good. There's not always 202 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: a ranking system that needs to be put in place 203 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: for these kinds of situations. And so I say that 204 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:12,839 Speaker 1: at the end of this episode, because we always can 205 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: look to our left, look to our right, look in 206 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: front of us, look behind us, and see that somebody 207 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: is doing something more, or somebody is doing something less, 208 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: or somebody's doing something a different way, and it's natural 209 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 1: to say, huh, should. 210 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 2: I be doing that? 211 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: And sometimes maybe it is helpful to ask that question. 212 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:36,199 Speaker 1: But I also think if we're going to ask that question, 213 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: we need to be asking that question should I be 214 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: doing that? Versus I should be doing that, just because 215 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: it needs to be a question that we investigate versus 216 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: they're doing this. So that means blank because I shouldn't 217 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: be seen eight clients a week. I don't need to, 218 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be. 219 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 2: Helpful to me. 220 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: To me, and there doesn't even have to be any 221 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: more discussion around that, I for sure would be experiencing 222 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 1: more burnout than I do now and so and closing 223 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: this whole episode up, I just want to say thank 224 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: you for sending this email and I hope that even 225 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: just writing it was therapeutic for you and cathartic and 226 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: let some release out, allowing yourself to be. 227 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 2: Human that way. 228 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: And my hope is too soon, whether it's next week 229 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 1: or the week after, in the next couple of weeks, 230 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: do an episode on compassion fatigue, because something that was 231 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: talked about a lot during the pandemic with helping professionals, 232 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: but it's something that is alive all the time and 233 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: nobody is immune from experiencing that, and it's a real thing. 234 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,319 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that you're bad or wrong or in 235 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: the wrong field. So hopefully we'll be doing more on that. 236 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: And if you have any experiences with that, things that 237 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 1: helped you realize that you were experiencing compassion fatigue or burnout, 238 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: or things that helped you when you were in that space, 239 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: please send those to me. I would love to share those. So, 240 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: just like these Wednesday couch Talks episodes are conversations within 241 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 1: the community or Monday ones can be as well. So 242 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 1: I hope you guys are having the day, the week, 243 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: the hour that you need to have. I will be 244 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: back with you on Monday,