1 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: They took a chance on me giving me that song 2 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 1: because when I was in the studio about to record it, 3 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 1: Martina McBride was on the phone begging for that song. 4 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: I really believed deeply that that was not the right 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: song for her, and that it was the right song 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 1: for me. 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: Episode five to eleven, Jessica Andrews. What was cool about 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 2: this was that, you know, she hasn't done a whole 9 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: lot in the past few years. She's been focusing on 10 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: being a mom, and she still was able to come 11 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 2: and sit for about an hour and talk. I did 12 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 2: feel I didn't want to be disrespectful and even mentioned 13 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 2: the term one hit wonder because I feel like that 14 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 2: could be taken in a derogatory way, and sometimes it is. 15 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 2: I never was going to say that she brought it up. 16 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to know something that she sent me, 17 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: because the thing is that Fodabad, well, she didn't really 18 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: have a whole lot of like we always asked for, like, hey, 19 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 3: your bio, what do you want to promote? She didn't 20 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 3: really have a whole lot of that. And she sent 21 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 3: me an article. She's like, this is the most recent 22 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 3: thing written about me, and it was an article about 23 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 3: her being a one hit wonder, and I felt a 24 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 3: little like, oh man. 25 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't want to do that. If she wanted 26 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: to say it, then we talked about it. But I 27 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: wanted to be so respectful because I was just interested 28 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 2: in her story of being a very young artist, a 29 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 2: teenager and making it and then kind of why she 30 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: fell off. And then you learn, yeah, like all the 31 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: dynamics of why someone loses a record deal, why someone 32 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 2: doesn't have So I thought it was super cool to 33 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: spend this time. I learned a lot about her. That 34 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: song who I Am rose Mary's Granddaughter, the Spiting Image 35 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: of my Father. That's a massive song. Still, I remember 36 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: seeing that music video all the time on CMT. So 37 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 2: a few fun facts about Jess Andrews her Instagram is it. 38 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: I will also say this, I wasn't as knowledgeable about 39 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 2: the weirdo stalker that she has. Dude, that sucked. She 40 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: talks about it. Yeah, that's socksy. It's crazy. 41 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 3: It just sucks, like searching her music and the other 42 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 3: stuff fubbing up. 43 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 2: At the age of seven, she underwent a surgery for 44 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 2: a spinal condition with a fifty percent chance of causing paralysis. 45 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: By age eleven, she had formed her first band was 46 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: performing locally at age fifteen. She released her first album, 47 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 2: Heart Shaped World, in nineteen ninety nine. She made her 48 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 2: debut at the Opera in ninety nine. She tore Trish Yearwood. 49 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 2: In two thousand and here she is, Jessica Andrews, Jessica, 50 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: thank you for coming. This is cool for me. Oh 51 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: my gosh, because this happened so weirdly. So I was 52 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 2: doing this show and Brett James was playing your song wow, 53 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:55,679 Speaker 2: and I thought, I know she lives around here. I've 54 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,399 Speaker 2: never met her, though, And so we were doing this 55 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 2: like a TV show and Brett was playing it and 56 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: my manager was with me, and I was like, do 57 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 2: you know her? And he said, no, I don't know her, 58 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: but i'll see what's up. Then he the next night 59 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 2: he's at the Opera and you're singing at the opry 60 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,679 Speaker 2: and he goes, we just talked about this, and she's here. 61 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: She was it a private was it a private showing? 62 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 2: The last month or so? 63 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: It was the Bob Kingsley Living Legend Word. They were 64 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: honoring Scott. 65 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 2: Worshette for it, and I was like, well, all these 66 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 2: worlds are kind of coming together. That's so cool, Like 67 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: is there anyway, like she still lives here, I think. 68 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 2: And so how did they get in touch with you? 69 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: Because we haven't met. That's crazy. We we've never met. 70 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 4: That is cool. That's a really cool story. Who is 71 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 4: your manager? That's what I love. Tom. 72 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: Everybody knows Tom. 73 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 4: Everybody. 74 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I worked with him briefly, but they got in 75 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: touch with me. It is like Tom call, not Tom 76 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: John Zarling who works with closely with Scott. And he 77 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: called and said that they were going to be doing 78 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: the he was going to be one of the recipients 79 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: or the recipient for this year for the Bob Kingsley 80 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: Living Legend Award, and they were going to have a 81 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: few artists, you know that were kind of instrumental throughout 82 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: his career. And then they asked me to come and sing. 83 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 2: And how quick of a yes is that? 84 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well, I mean, of course, I mean, 85 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 1: I'm I'm not really doing a whole lot these days 86 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: as far as you know, getting out and doing my 87 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: thing with singing. But that was you know, that's just 88 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: a no brainer because I mean, for one, that's just 89 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: something that is so important for Scott. 90 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 4: But also you know, that that was. 91 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: My only like one big song, you know, and he 92 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: was the person who made that happen. 93 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 4: He's the reason that was a big, big hit. 94 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: And I always I seem to think that when when 95 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: I was at tree Works, which was that was the 96 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: label that I was with for you know, most of 97 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: my career, Scott started to and behind the scenes, I 98 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: didn't know this at the time, but he was starting 99 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: to make moves to leave and start up his own thing. 100 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: And I've always felt like, if Scott was still there 101 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: and we were still working other I probably would have had, 102 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: you know, more more songs. 103 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 4: That did better. 104 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: But he just because he just there was just nobody 105 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: like him as far as radio promo and stuff. 106 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: So when did you meet Borchetta for the first time. 107 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 1: I met him probably when I was thirteen, maybe even younger, 108 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: because I signed my record deal when I was thirteen. 109 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: I think my first album came out at fifteen, and 110 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: he was he was there, you know, he was the 111 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: head of promotions at DreamWorks when I was first signed. 112 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 2: That's crazy that those numbers exist, thirteen and fifteen as 113 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 2: far as like and hardest now, I. 114 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: Know, when I look back on that now, I'm like 115 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: because I have a seven year old son, I'm thinking, 116 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you know, could he be like ready 117 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: for what I was doing at you know, twelve and thirteen. 118 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 4: And it's really like astonishing. 119 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I know there's kids out there that are 120 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: like doing it, you know, and it happens all the time, 121 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: but it's it's it's remarkable to think about the level 122 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: of you know, the game, what you're doing at that age. 123 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 2: You know, different environment though, I would say then as 124 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 2: to now, because now I kid can get on a 125 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 2: phone and do it right. Yeah, you've got to be 126 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 2: so different and special and the right person's got to 127 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 2: find you ten twenty fifty years ago, depending on anybody 128 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: from like the kid actors the Black and White days 129 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 2: to the young singers all the way up until probably 130 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: the early two thousands, Like you had to be really special, yeah, 131 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 2: really good, and have be really lucky at somebody who 132 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 2: can see that that they find you. 133 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: And so yeah, to be so many stars have to 134 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: align and back back then as opposed to now with 135 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: technology and everything. 136 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: What was like the luckiest thing like a star? What 137 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 2: was that star aligning for you way early on at 138 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 2: thirteen fourteen, even up to sixteen or seventeen then aligned 139 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 2: and you look back and you go, man, if that 140 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: wouldn't have happened, I don't know if anything would have happened. 141 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: There was quite a few of those moments for me 142 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: that were just, I guess meant to be. At that time, 143 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: I was twelve twelve years old singing in a band 144 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: that my parents had put together in West Tennessee. I 145 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: kind of grew up around music. My mom always had 146 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: bands and she was always singing and stuff. So I 147 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: was around that a lot. And so at some point 148 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: we've formed a band for me, and I had a 149 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: woman that was singing with me at the time in 150 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: my band, and she grew up with Byron Gallimore, who's 151 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: an amazing producer. 152 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 2: Yes I know, I'm from Tim McGrath producer. 153 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, all these years later, he's like he's produced a 154 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: lot of people, but tim'spen his like number one, like 155 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: from since the beginning, and she got in touch with 156 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: him somehow. They grew up together and she's like, I 157 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: work with this twelve year old and I'd love to 158 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: for you to hear. 159 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 4: So we we came to Nashville. 160 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: He was I think he did her a favor obviously 161 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: he's like, okay, you know, sure, I love you and 162 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: you know we grew up together, but okay, we'll do 163 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: we'll do that. And I sang for him in that 164 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: in an office and he was very dismissive at first, 165 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: you know, he was just like, okay, you know, it's 166 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: so nice to meet you. But then I started singing 167 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 1: and he just stopped me right there in the room 168 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: and he's like stop. You know, let's I'm in, let's 169 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: do this. That was a moment, you know, I was 170 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: just like, oh my gosh, you know. And I had 171 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 1: a few of those, you know. I and in those 172 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: early days, Byron was also producing Faith Hill. They had 173 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: just started to work together, and Faith kind of took 174 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 1: me under her wing and was just like, hey, I'm 175 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: doing a tour and come out and open up for me. 176 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 4: And so I did. That was awesome. 177 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, Tim and Face were really big champions of 178 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: me in the in the beginning, and and Byron, you know, 179 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: he was he was like he did everything for me. 180 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: We lived with him, he got me, took me to 181 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: record companies, and ultimately, you know, he. 182 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 4: Signed with DreamWorks. 183 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 2: Who's we? 184 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: I say we just because it's yeah, it was like 185 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: a you know, my parents and all of us, you know, 186 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: if we all felt like a family, he felt like family, 187 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: you know. 188 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 4: But it was James Stroud. 189 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: He was the he was the president at the time, 190 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: and yeah, signed pretty quickly, and we did spend a 191 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: while making that first album. Like we didn't just rush 192 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: out and put it out. 193 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: Did you shop other places once you felt like they 194 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 2: liked you or was it just hey, we like you 195 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 2: and you signed with them. 196 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 4: There was a. 197 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: Little bit of that, But I think that James was 198 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: was really vocal about like, you know, we want to 199 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: do this, this is where you belong, and so we didn't. 200 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 1: There wasn't a whole lot of that. I just think 201 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: he just made a really compelling argument like be here, 202 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 1: this is where to be. And so we did that 203 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 1: fairly quickly. 204 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: Your mom saying, what's her story? When did she start singing? 205 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:23,359 Speaker 2: What were her career ambitions? 206 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: You know, she just always was probably musical her whole life, 207 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: you know, saying, and loved to sing as well. My grandmother, 208 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: but and she had bands, like she was always having bands, 209 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: and my dad would run sound and stuff like that, 210 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: and I was always around that. It was just something 211 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: that she did, I think for fun. I don't think 212 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 1: it was ever a like, you know, a career and 213 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: try to make it. No, No, it wasn't anything like that. 214 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: It was just she loved it. It was a passion, 215 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 1: so she did it. At least not that I've ever known, 216 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: you know, I don't think she's ever wanted to do that. 217 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 1: But it was just a passion and that kind of 218 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: got passed on to me a little bit. Although I 219 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: was very shy in the beginning about it. 220 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 2: Would you sing with her ever, like get on stage? Yeah? 221 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 4: We did, We would sing together. 222 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. Would you ever feel not so shy while on stage? 223 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 4: I used to hide behind her, Like that. 224 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 2: Was so you were so shy on stage? 225 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? 226 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:24,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm kind of shy by nature. Really, yeah, 227 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: big time. But you know, over time you kind of 228 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 1: you have to have to adapt a little bit, I think. 229 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: But I was just, you know, so young too, Like 230 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: it was awkward a little bit at times, so you know, 231 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: that was part of it for me. 232 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, all the awkward years though you kind of did hear. 233 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 2: The awkwardest years are like eleven to sixteen and a 234 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 2: half or like right when you're fifteen and a half, 235 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 2: sixteen years old, like all. 236 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: That, I'm going through all of it in front of everybody, 237 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 4: you know. 238 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 239 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 4: Yeah. 240 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 2: So you say the record took a little bit of 241 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 2: time to make, why, Like what were you guys doing? 242 00:11:58,600 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: Were you just finding songs? Right? 243 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 4: Like I wasn't. 244 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: I was not a writer back then, Like I didn't 245 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: even have any aspirations to do that. But Byron has 246 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: always been a song guy, Like he is just a 247 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: you know, find great songs. His wife, Missy Gallimore, who's 248 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: an amazing A and R person, they both just are 249 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: known to be really really good people A and R 250 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 1: and that was just very important to him to have, 251 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: you know, the right songs, and you know, I would, 252 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 1: I'll admit I was slow out. 253 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 4: The gate as far as my first album. 254 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: It came out when I was fifteen, and we took 255 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 1: a long time to make it. But there wasn't really 256 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: anything that, you know, worked from that record. I think 257 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: my first single was was from a movie soundtrack, Prince 258 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: of Egypt. 259 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 4: It was an animated movie. 260 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 2: Did you go to school here or did you do homeschool? 261 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 4: Homeschool? 262 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: I went to school like up until eighth grade and 263 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: then were to homeschool and no it was in West Tennessee, 264 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: where I'm from, and then at some point when we 265 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 1: started making all the trips to Nashville back and forth, 266 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: we were like, Okay, we're going to have to domeschool. 267 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 2: Now, so we what age did you to just moving here? 268 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 4: Well, it's funny. 269 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: We lived with Byron for probably a year, kind of 270 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: off and on through the week then we'd go home 271 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:19,719 Speaker 1: on the weekends. And then by fifteen fourteen probably was 272 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: when we got an apartment, I think, but fifteen it 273 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 1: was permanent. 274 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I've been here a long time. 275 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,839 Speaker 2: Well that's a big move for a kid, like you're 276 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 2: really going to go and do this, but you may 277 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 2: not even understand what's happening. I mean, at fifteen you 278 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 2: kind of understand. But your mom, everybody moved with you, 279 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 2: right with you. 280 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: Well, I have a sister. She didn't at the time. 281 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 1: She didn't move because she's seven years older than me, 282 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: and she was she just I don't I think she was. 283 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 4: I can't remember. 284 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: She had no she was getting married, didn't have a 285 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: baby yet, but she. 286 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 2: Was old enough though, Yeah, make her own decisions exactly. 287 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 2: Your parents must have really believed though, if they're going 288 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 2: to move with you. 289 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 4: Oh oh, they were all in. 290 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 2: That's support. 291 00:13:56,760 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, everything. They give up everything, like so our 292 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: house that you know I was born and raised in 293 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 1: and well not born in, but it was our my 294 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: childhood home and we just left everything, you know. I 295 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: think about that now, I'm like, oh my gosh, you 296 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: know that that is so uprooting, you know, like uprooting 297 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: your entire world. And I guess you know, they just 298 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 1: knew it had to be done, like this is this 299 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: is the new the new chapter we're in. 300 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 4: Let's do it. 301 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 2: Wow, that is quite sacrificing. 302 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. 303 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: So were you as a eleven twelve year old? Were 304 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: you so much better than everybody not in Nashville, because 305 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 2: like for someone here, you know, because here now you're here, 306 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: I'm here. I go to other places, people will be 307 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 2: like you got to hear this person sing, and I'm like, yeah, 308 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: that's pretty good. But now she Felle's kind of like 309 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: the land of Giants right where everybody is good. 310 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 4: The bar is like, yees, so much different. 311 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 2: It's like a good ballplayer at a single layer double 312 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: a high school, like most of the time, it's a 313 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 2: good ballplayer at a small school. Every once in a while 314 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 2: there's somebody who's a But for the most part, it's like, 315 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 2: well if they played in the bigger leagues. But it 316 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 2: must have been something special, super special about you to 317 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: not be hearing someone from here see you and go, oh, 318 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 2: you're awesome. Did you feel awesome? 319 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: Gosh, I'm such a terrible person, Like I'm the wrong 320 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: one to ask because I hate to, but I ask. 321 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 2: You're not ragging. That's the difference, because you must have 322 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 2: been because Byron. Byron has everybody to choose from the 323 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 2: lives here. Yeah, everybody is from fifteen year olds to 324 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 2: thirty five year olds. 325 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I would say that he has great ears. 326 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: He knows he has a knack for weeding through that 327 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: I guess and finding the things that I'm asking. 328 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 2: You don't talk about you like, were you just crushing 329 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 2: it as like an eleven year old, you know? 330 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: I mean I was probably to a degree. Yeah, when 331 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: you're younger, you don't get in your head. You're not thinking, 332 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: You're just like doing it, you know, And I did. 333 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: I would just I'd show up, open my mouth and bam, 334 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: like things started happening. 335 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 2: Did your mom work with you on singing or was 336 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 2: it pretty natural. 337 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, she did. 338 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we had vocal lessons all those things that you 339 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: want to do to try to cultivate your craft, you know, 340 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: and learn how to take care of it, those kind 341 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: of things, and she was very helpful with all that 342 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: and putting me with the right people for, you know, 343 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: for how to take care of my voice and things 344 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: to make it better. 345 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 2: Your band were they older? They were? 346 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. I was always around. 347 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 2: Older, older folks in a small town or not even 348 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 2: just smallish town. I'm sure you have to find older 349 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 2: people that know how to play. There's not a lot 350 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 2: of eleven year olds. How old were the people in 351 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 2: your band the twenty thirties older? 352 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: Probably yeah, now that I'm thinking about it, they were 353 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 1: probably older my parents' age probably probably gosh, well, if 354 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about it back then, so yeah, it was 355 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: probably forties, maybe thirties, gosh, something like that. 356 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 2: When you're a kid, that feelts like a hundred I 357 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 2: know exactly. Yeah, Like I will never be old. 358 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 1: And so when I'm done with this, I'll go back 359 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 1: and I'll think about it, and they're probably like, no. 360 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 4: They weren't. They were like thirty two. I don't know, 361 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 4: but they do. 362 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 1: They did seem like a lot a lot older at 363 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:19,239 Speaker 1: the time, but they were they were so awesome. They 364 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: were great, you know, like I could see like when 365 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 1: you have this kid, you know, like, oh gosh, I'm 366 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna go play an instrument in a band 367 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 1: for a kid, you know. But they were so respectful. 368 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 1: I've been so blessed to have a lot of people 369 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 1: around me that always respected my opinions about things and 370 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 1: and just didn't treat me like, you know, they didn't 371 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: shrug me off like you don't know anything. It was 372 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 1: never it's never been like that for me. Even Byron 373 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: was just always asking me, you know, this is this 374 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: is you, your career, your name, everything, Like what do 375 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: you think, how do you feel? 376 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 4: What do you want to sound? 377 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 5: Like? 378 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 4: What kind of songs do you want to do? You know? 379 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 1: So because because you're not only just doing going through 380 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: the motions, I mean, I'm learning, I'm the go you know, 381 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 1: I had no experience with anything and as a kid, 382 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: So that's kind of what it's like, is you're just 383 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 1: you're just figuring it out as you go and learning, 384 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: and you have all these hopefully you have all these 385 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 1: people around you who are really good and helpful, you know, 386 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:21,919 Speaker 1: and are are guiding you in all the right ways. 387 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 2: The first record that you put out you said at fifteen, 388 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,199 Speaker 2: that was did that feel successful? Because again it was 389 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 2: later until it really hit for you. Yeah, did that 390 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: feel successful to you? 391 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: It was a good well, well, I'll say in hindsight, 392 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,399 Speaker 1: it was a good start off point for me, I 393 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 1: feel like, But it wasn't until we started to go 394 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: in and make the second record that was the one 395 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 1: that I found. 396 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 4: The song who I Am? 397 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:49,679 Speaker 2: Was it because you knew more of what you were 398 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 2: looking for because you just did it, so now you 399 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 2: had a better idea of what you wanted. 400 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,919 Speaker 4: I do think, so I do. I really do. 401 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: And you also have to remember too, when I came 402 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: out nineteen ninety nine, two thousand, this was in an 403 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:08,920 Speaker 1: era with leanne rhymes that was like the big phenomenon 404 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 1: of that time in country music. There'd been no one 405 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: since like Brenda Lee, you know all of that. You know, 406 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 1: Tanya Tucker, So there had not been any kind of 407 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:22,400 Speaker 1: child star in the mix in decades in the industry 408 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: in country music. So I came out like I was 409 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: kind of a little bit in her shadow in those 410 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: early days, like LeAnn Rhymes was was doing really well. 411 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 1: So I feel like that first record, I just think 412 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: we were we might have overthought it, trying too hard 413 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: figure out what I was. And I think the second 414 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: record we just we knew a little bit more about 415 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 1: what to do. 416 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 2: Did it come together quicker? It? 417 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 3: Did? 418 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 4: It did? 419 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: And I think we just made a point to make 420 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: it quicker too, not to spend so. 421 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 4: Long, not to record a thousand songs. 422 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,159 Speaker 1: You know, We're like, we've done this, we know, you know, 423 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: let's just let's move it, move it along. 424 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 2: Did they give you confidence and saying, hey, we're sticking 425 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 2: with you for another record. 426 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 1: That was the other thing too, is DreamWorks was committed, 427 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 1: you know, they were. They were in it for the 428 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: long haul for with me, which was great. And during 429 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 1: that process of finding songs, looking for songs for that album, 430 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: was was when the little old song who I Am 431 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: came along, which was you know, Brett James Troy Vergess, 432 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 1: two writers. It was Troy's first cut, first song you'd 433 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: ever gotten cut by an artist, not Brett. Brett had 434 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:39,120 Speaker 1: had some other you know, success, but but they took 435 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 1: a chance on me giving me that song because when 436 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: I was in the studio about to record it. I 437 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: remember Martina McBride was on the phone begging for that song, 438 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 1: and I remember at the time thinking like, I. 439 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 4: Don't really feel like, you know, she's a mom, she's 440 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 4: got children. 441 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 1: This song seems more like a a song that is 442 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 1: somebody who's like trying to find their way, they don't, 443 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 1: you know, and Martinez more settled, you know, got I 444 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 1: just didn't feel like I really believed deeply that that 445 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: was not the right song for her and that it 446 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: was the right song for me. And thankfully, you know, 447 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,919 Speaker 1: Brett and Troy agreed they could have they could have 448 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 1: given it to Martina, who's you know, it was so successful. 449 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 2: Did you feel like that was the song as you 450 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 2: were recording it or was it once it was recorded 451 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 2: you were like you knew that was the one. 452 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the even just listening to the demo, 453 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 1: we knew that was a great song. Than recording it 454 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: all the way, I think everyone knew throughout the whole process, 455 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: like we have a single, we have a first single, 456 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 1: you know, this is it. It just it just became clearer, 457 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,360 Speaker 1: you know, through every phase of making that record that 458 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: that was going to be the lead off. 459 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 2: Did that song hit different, meaning when it came out 460 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 2: you felt it quicker than any of the songs prior. 461 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, if you're. 462 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 2: From outside, you just like wow that it was well received. 463 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that that song it was just super special and 464 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 1: it was so it's like a song. In fact, to 465 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: this day people ask me if I wrote it, you know, 466 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: because it sounds personal. It sounds like a like a 467 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: song that I would have written, because it is so 468 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: personal sounding. And to this day people still will ask me, 469 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,439 Speaker 1: is your grandmother Rosemary? 470 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 4: You know that? 471 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: Which it's not right, which it's not, No, it's not, 472 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 1: but but uh yeah, I just feel like that song 473 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 1: was is so special. And in Scott Burshetta at the time, 474 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 1: who was the head of promotion at DreamWorks, he just 475 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 1: put together this super amazing campaign at radio. 476 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,119 Speaker 4: At that time and worked. 477 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: I think I told the story that night when I 478 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: was honoring him that he was like, Okay, we're gonna 479 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: go do a radio tour for this song, and we're 480 00:22:55,480 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: gonna It came out in like late later in the year, 481 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: and so we had to do a radio tour right 482 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: up until Christmas. 483 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 2: How old are you at the time, sixteen, Yeah. 484 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: Sixteen because I think it went number one when I 485 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 1: was seventeen, but it came out the end of the 486 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 1: year the prior year, and so we just we we 487 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: did a strong radio game with it, and you know, 488 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: nobody does it better than Scott Like he just had 489 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: a he felt like, man, we got a great song. 490 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 4: Let's go. 491 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 492 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 2: What was the biggest and craziest it got with that song? Well, 493 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 2: I mean, did you play the award shows? 494 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 1: I did, Yeah, won an award. I I always think 495 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 1: this is funny, Like I was nominated for Horizon. It 496 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: used to be called Horizon Award, right alongside Brad Paisley 497 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: and Keith Urban. And it's funny, like those guys have 498 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,479 Speaker 1: gone on to have such amazing careers and I was 499 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,399 Speaker 1: like right there with them at the time, like we 500 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: were all three like doing all the same things together. 501 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: And I won Top New Female Vocalist at the ACMs 502 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:01,680 Speaker 1: all the things. 503 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was, it was. It was life changing for me. 504 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:10,120 Speaker 2: What did your grandma's name, Her name's Patsy. I am 505 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 2: pet of syllables, I know, right. Did you try to 506 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 2: say that like pat miss Patty? Then I'd be like, 507 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 2: I am miss Patsy. 508 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 1: On third streets grand It just didn't fit, it didn't work. 509 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 4: It was cute. 510 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 1: I remember her saying like people would come up to 511 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 1: her and say, are you Rosemary? And she used to say, well, 512 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: you know what, if this song's a big hit, then 513 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'll be Rosemy. 514 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:34,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna change my name to Rosemary. It was so cute. 515 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 6: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 516 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 6: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 517 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 2: The label one of the labels that you're on, they 518 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 2: didn't even put out your record because they folded. Oh yeah, 519 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,399 Speaker 2: it was later, but I have friends it's said that's 520 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 2: happened to as well. 521 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had the worst craziest luck know, I will 522 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 1: say this. 523 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:03,359 Speaker 4: So after. 524 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: After we had you know, my really good run at 525 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 1: DreamWorks and behind the scenes, things started shifting with Scott 526 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: Burssetta wanting to leave and start his own thing, which 527 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know any of this at the time, but 528 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: I remember thinking like, man, if he leaves, like it's 529 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: going to be different for me because we have such 530 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 1: a connection. He really was, and it was really him 531 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: and Jimmy Harnan, who now has gone on to be 532 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 1: you know as successful as Scott. But those two guys, 533 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 1: they were just magic and they were in my corner. 534 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 1: And so once he left, I you know, I did 535 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: do another album after the Who I Am record, but 536 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: that was the after nine to eleven. Nine to eleven 537 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 1: had happened and everything shifted very patriotic, and so it 538 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: was different. The tone, the tone was different, and I think, 539 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 1: had that not happened, you know, well who knows. So 540 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 1: then DreamWorks folds becomes under the umbrella of Universal. I 541 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: get moved over there, I do a record there and 542 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: it doesn't come out. We parted ways, got dropped, so 543 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: they say, or you know, you know the words, we 544 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: get dropped. And then years later I signed with Disney 545 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: Lyric Street which. 546 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 2: Music though, by the way, on that record, what happened 547 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 2: to that music? 548 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:39,959 Speaker 1: That music never came out officially, although you can probably 549 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: find it online. 550 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 4: Someone got a hold of it and you know, released it. 551 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 2: Themselves, so they never put it out. 552 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 4: Never put it out now, Yeah, and that funny. 553 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 2: Seems like a lot of work to just not put it. 554 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:52,200 Speaker 4: Out, I know. And that was that was a fun 555 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 4: record to make. 556 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 1: We went down to Miami to do that album in 557 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: a really cool studio like a famous studio called Criteria. 558 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: I think Missy Elliott was doing an album in the 559 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 1: room next to mine, in the studio next to me. 560 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's you know, at the time, it's like 561 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: a heartbreaking, but you as over time you learn, like, man, 562 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 1: this happens to so many people. It's just like the 563 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 1: age old story of you know, falling in the cracks 564 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 1: of music business, you know, shuffling and whatnot. And for 565 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: me that just seemed it kept happening. 566 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 4: And you know, I moved on. 567 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: To Carrol Wood Records, which was like an imprint of Disney. 568 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 4: Same thing happened there. 569 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: We made a record really with Jada Marcus from Rascal Flats. 570 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,359 Speaker 1: He's such a great producer. We did an album together. 571 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: It was awesome, and it never never saw the light 572 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 1: of day. 573 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a lot of music that people didn't get 574 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 2: to hear it. 575 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 4: I know, Yeah, it's crazy. 576 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:51,439 Speaker 1: Thankfully, though, that album has not made it into the 577 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:57,200 Speaker 1: wrong hands, like I have an imposter person that somehow 578 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: gets these unreleased songs, they'll put it out, but that 579 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: album remains untouched, thankfully, So I don't know, maybe maybe 580 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 1: I can get that, get. 581 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 2: That and there's a posture you. 582 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. Yeah, yeah, it's kind of brutal. 583 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,159 Speaker 1: I've had I've had a fan for years who just 584 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 1: won't accept that I, you know, that I'm really not 585 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 1: making music anymore, like not not actively putting out music. 586 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:30,679 Speaker 1: And so at first they found anything out there that 587 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 1: they could unreleased, and they would try to find that 588 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,640 Speaker 1: and put it out. But then after they ran out 589 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: of material, then they would just start singing themselves. 590 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 4: But then yet they'll release it under my name. 591 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: So if you like, if you go on Apple Music 592 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 1: right now, you you can find all of this focus horrible, 593 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: horrible sounding stuff. 594 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 4: The quality's bad, and I'm like, oh my. 595 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 1: Gosh, people, I really hope people don't think that the 596 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: I'm putting out these you know, these songs, it's just terrible. 597 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 2: That's so bizarre. 598 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 1: And they and they've booked shows, no interviews. 599 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 2: I've had you. 600 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 1: As mean social media sites you are you you? 601 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 2: Or are you the impostor No. 602 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 4: It's it's they've duped so many people. 603 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 2: That's because I've had stalkers and I've had really crazy 604 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 2: people and we've had to get the FBI involved in 605 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 2: oh really, but never that's a whole different I don't 606 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 2: know how you feel with your safety, but the fact 607 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: that people are impersonating you, I would say publicly as 608 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 2: far as like someone's acting like you, I've never heard 609 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 2: of that before. 610 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 4: It's us. It's really frustrating. 611 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 2: Do you know who it is? Oh? Yeah, have you 612 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 2: been like a season desist and nothing? 613 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 4: We haven't. 614 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh yeah, yeah we did. We did the whole thing. 615 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: We found out she has a criminal history. 616 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 2: No surprising. Usually people that are crazy to do other 617 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 2: crazy things. 618 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, pretty sure. She knows where I live. 619 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 1: It's it's crazy, and I'm just like, why won't you 620 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 1: move on to someone else? 621 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 2: That she was singing And. 622 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's her that sings, but but 623 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 1: I do know that she's the mastermind. 624 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 4: That puts it all together. What about the interviews, same thing. 625 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:10,959 Speaker 4: I don't know. 626 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,719 Speaker 1: I think sometimes it's her and then sometimes it might 627 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: be someone else. But I mean, she'll signed contracts, she 628 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: books things. I've had people that will get in touch 629 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: with me and say, you didn't show up. 630 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 2: This is the crazy thing I ever heard, Jessie. I'll 631 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 2: be honestly, I mean, I've been talking to a lot 632 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 2: of people for a lot of times I never It 633 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 2: is a crazy thing I ever heard. Like I feel bad, 634 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 2: like I want to punch somebody, and I'm blown away 635 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 2: at the same time that somebody would have the audacity 636 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 2: not to just get on social media and scam people 637 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 2: out of money, because people will do it under my name, 638 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 2: and I'm like, if there's no blue check mark, it 639 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 2: ain't me. You know that happens. Yeah, that's different because 640 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 2: that's somebody in like South America that's just like grabbing. 641 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 2: Anybody's trying to the fact that they're acting like you. 642 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 1: No, they've been committed like for years with this and 643 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 1: nothing really fazes her. 644 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 4: I know that it's her. 645 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I know, like all the anything legal that 646 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: you'll throw, She's just doesn't really care. So at this point, 647 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 1: I don't really know what to do about it because 648 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 1: we just kind of combat it as it as we 649 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: see it, like get it down, take it down. 650 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 4: You know, it's really big headache. 651 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: Is she a fan? 652 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how it started. And I believe that that 653 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,719 Speaker 1: at the root of it. She believes that she's helping 654 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: sustain my name out there. I think that's what I 655 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: think that's her endgame. 656 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 2: Okay, you are not helping exactly. You are hurting. You're 657 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 2: hurting me. I'm gonna start acting like you. I wanta 658 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 2: find out who you are. I'm gonna put our stuff 659 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 2: as you. 660 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 4: I could give you her name. 661 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 2: Melissa, I'm gonna put our stuff as Melissa, whatever the 662 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 2: crap your name is. I'm gonna put out that stuff. 663 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 2: I joke. But I'm also very very sorry to hear that, 664 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 2: because we have dealt with mm hmm unfortunate circumstances similarly, 665 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 2: and we'll move off of it. But I hate that, Like, 666 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 2: I hate that for you, as crazy as it is, 667 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 2: and I'm like, wow that I can't believe that. Yeah, 668 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 2: that sucks, Yeah, it does. That just sucks. 669 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, And mainly you just don't want people out there 670 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 1: thinking that you didn't show up for a show or you, 671 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,719 Speaker 1: you know, because she'll book things, you know that that 672 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 1: kind of thing. 673 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 4: I just don't. 674 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 2: I don't like that you own you, nobody else owns you. Yeah, 675 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: and it's like they're trying to take ownership of a 676 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: part of you. Dang. I hate that. 677 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's frustrating. 678 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 2: So I was watching you sing at the Opry and 679 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 2: you sound you were there that night. No, but I 680 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 2: watched a lot of tape. Really well, I didn't know 681 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 2: you were going to be that. The whole thing was, 682 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 2: I was talking about you because Brett Dames was playing 683 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 2: the song we were shooting for. 684 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 4: The show Love that he does that song. 685 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and everybody's going crazy. And then again I'd asked 686 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 2: Tom Lord, hey do you know her? I don't. I 687 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 2: never met her. It's not a huge town. Never even 688 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,479 Speaker 2: bumped into you. And he was like, I don't. But 689 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 2: then he went to the opry thing and sent me 690 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,959 Speaker 2: a video of you. He's like, this is the weirdest 691 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 2: thing because she's here tonight and saw you singing. You 692 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 2: sounded so good. Oh so do you still sing out 693 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 2: of all to keep your voice in shape? You know? 694 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 1: I'm there's things for sure, yeah, that that will come up, 695 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: like I've had friends that we do you know, writers 696 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: write around type things and yeah, for sure, yeah, I 697 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: mean obviously if things come up here and there, I 698 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 1: will do it. 699 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 4: It's not like I'm completely. 700 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 2: I don't know because you said you like not no, no, done. 701 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 2: I didn't know if you just were like, I'm I'm 702 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 2: not saying it's true. 703 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: I mean, i I'm I have been in like mom, 704 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 1: mom Land for the last seven years. But but no, 705 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: I'm not like Anti's I'm not singing anymore. 706 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 4: But it just. 707 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 1: I will definitely say yes to things that you know, 708 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: like make sense and that are fun to do and 709 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 1: things like that. So writers things that I love to do, 710 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: and I've done several of. 711 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 4: Those in the last few years. And it's funny. 712 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 1: I'm I actually try to say yes because my kids 713 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: are getting to the age where I do like for 714 00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 1: them to see that side of me, Like I. 715 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 2: Was gonna have about that because they probably obviously they 716 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 2: didn't get to see that as you were doing it, 717 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 2: but do they understand it now? How was your oldest 718 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 2: My son is seven, so maybe just starting to kind 719 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 2: of yeah, yeah, he's. 720 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,879 Speaker 1: Seen me sing and and he was there that night 721 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: at Auprey, so yeah, And it's important for me too 722 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: because I want, you know, I want him to know, 723 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 1: you know, like, hey, you know, if I'm always going 724 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 1: to be your cheerleader and telling you to go after things, 725 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 1: you know, I also wanted him to see that, you know, 726 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 1: mom has has done a lot of cool stuff and 727 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 1: I'm not your just you know, the one Megan snacks. 728 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,800 Speaker 2: All the time, you know, is your mom still alive? 729 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:39,399 Speaker 4: Uh huh. 730 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she was able to see your success. 731 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she was. She was with me, traveled with 732 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: me everything. Oh my gosh, yes, oh yeah, oh yeah. 733 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,240 Speaker 4: She was amazing. 734 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: She was never one of those like stage moms that 735 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 1: you know, try to control everything behind the scenes. And 736 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: you know, you hear so many stories of people who 737 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 1: had success as kids and then they have some kind 738 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: of falling out with their parents. 739 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,720 Speaker 2: Because of they stole their money. 740 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, all kinds of stories like that. Never the case. 741 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 2: So then I guess she wasn't a mom that was 742 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:14,760 Speaker 2: just living vicariously through years. 743 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 4: She was in a way like because she just was enjoying. 744 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 2: It all and it wasn't like dominating her not at all. Now, 745 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 2: Really it was full and rare for a parent of 746 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 2: a child that gets really successful. 747 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,960 Speaker 1: I know, yeah, it is because that can boy that 748 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 1: can really end. Lots of divorces happened because of it. 749 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,200 Speaker 1: And I will tell you, like that could not have 750 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 1: been easy because we were traveling so much, and my 751 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 1: dad but he would he would come, you know, as 752 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 1: much as he could, but there were times when he 753 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: had to hold it down and you know, have a 754 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: job and we weren't making money in the beginning, and 755 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,839 Speaker 1: so that had just been so hard, you know, to 756 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 1: keep a marriage together, my oldest and my older sister 757 00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: and so but yeah, they we came through it, and 758 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: there weren't easy, Like it wasn't always super easy, but yeah, 759 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 1: they were the best as far as support and just 760 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: loving the opportunities that we were given. 761 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 4: You know, we knew that this was a ride of 762 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:16,280 Speaker 4: a lifetime. 763 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 2: I have a very close friend whose daughter is doing music. 764 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 2: His daughter's about the age that you were when you 765 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 2: were starting music. And he's a great dad and she's 766 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 2: a great kid. And she played at the Rhyman with 767 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 2: me a few did a few weeks ago. I guess 768 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:37,840 Speaker 2: she's so good, right, and one of the land of giants. 769 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 2: But she's so good, such a great songwriter. Wow, But 770 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 2: she's a kid. How old they're twelve thirteen? 771 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a kid. 772 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 2: That's a kid. That's a kid. 773 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:47,720 Speaker 4: To me, it's like a baby. 774 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's so weird that she's a kid. But 775 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 2: then when she's on stage is like a movie something 776 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,920 Speaker 2: that just isn't a young child. It's like she has 777 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,319 Speaker 2: she's more mature on stage than I would ever be 778 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 2: doing it one hundred more years. There's just something that is. 779 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 1: What that is you asked me that earlier. That is 780 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 1: something that people used to say about me. They wouldn't 781 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 1: have never guessed I was that young when I was 782 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:16,960 Speaker 1: on stage doing you know, singing. 783 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,920 Speaker 2: There's an irrational confidence that she has. And I tell that, 784 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 2: like I told her during sound checks, like you shouldn't 785 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,520 Speaker 2: be this confident, Like right, yeah, like you you should 786 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 2: because you're that good. But you're young, you know it? Yeah, 787 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:28,239 Speaker 2: they don't. 788 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,400 Speaker 4: Kids don't get in their head. They're not overthinking. 789 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 1: They're not worrying about who's watching me, what I needed 790 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: to you know what I mean? Like adults, do we 791 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 1: care too much about all of the other stuff. 792 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:42,839 Speaker 4: Kids just get up there and do it. 793 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,560 Speaker 1: You know, it's fun, they know you know, hey I 794 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,719 Speaker 1: can do this, so I'm gonna do it. So there's 795 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,879 Speaker 1: not a lot of overthinking for them. And that's what 796 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 1: it just comes. It's so effortless in that way. 797 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 2: What advice would you give a kid if they were like, hey, 798 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 2: I'm twelve, got because she's got like big managers now 799 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 2: like all just but also what advice would you give 800 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 2: the parents? Like two different sets of advice, and so 801 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 2: talk to the kid first, because you were the kid 802 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,359 Speaker 2: in that, like, what would you say to. 803 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:13,719 Speaker 1: Them, Well, I would, I would say, first, have so 804 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: much fun with it, because while it is a business 805 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 1: and it can get really crazy and hectic, you can 806 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 1: lose sight of that sometimes you can, for you can 807 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: easily forget and the exhaustion and the and the schedule 808 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 1: and all of that. You can forget about the part 809 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,280 Speaker 1: of I'm a kid, So I need to be making 810 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:38,839 Speaker 1: sure I'm enjoying this and for the parents as well. 811 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 4: Make sure of. 812 00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,360 Speaker 2: That, you know, make sure the kids enjoy me. 813 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 4: Make sure that. 814 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:46,319 Speaker 1: You can whatever however crazy and hectic it can get, 815 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,760 Speaker 1: you know, try to try to make it fun. 816 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,720 Speaker 4: And and then also is I mean. 817 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: Who you surround yourself with is so important too, Like 818 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 1: if you've got really great people around you, I mean, 819 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,399 Speaker 1: that is a game change, I feel like. And I 820 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 1: was so blessed to have the best I mean, I 821 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 1: think all you know, the Byron Gallimore and Scop Shudd 822 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: and Jimmy Harnen, I mean, Scott Simon was my manager 823 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,800 Speaker 1: who's still to this day, Ti McGraw's manager. 824 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:17,480 Speaker 4: You if you. 825 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 1: Really and I always felt like I had good instincts 826 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,880 Speaker 1: about people even I guess yeah, and I think my 827 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 1: parents did too, And so I think that's important if 828 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,040 Speaker 1: you are if you've got a good, good instinct about 829 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 1: people and who this person? 830 00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,320 Speaker 4: This kid? Is it a girl? You said? Girl? 831 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:34,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 832 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, who you need to work with? And that's that's crucial. 833 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 1: I think what about the parent, what would you tell 834 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 1: the parent? Well, since they are the parent, I mean 835 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:49,439 Speaker 1: they're going to be instrumental and who surrounds her and 836 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 1: that's just important. 837 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 4: I mean that's so. 838 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 1: It just it matters. I mean not just on a 839 00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 1: level off that's a child, but just someone that, like 840 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:05,440 Speaker 1: I said, they always respected my opinions and including her 841 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,800 Speaker 1: in the mix, you know, not just everybody making decisions, 842 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 1: you know, make sure she feels a part of it, 843 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:11,319 Speaker 1: you know, even though they're so young. 844 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 4: She's so young, I mean, she's maybe. 845 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 7: The Bobby cast will be right back, this is the 846 00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:29,280 Speaker 7: Bobby Cast. 847 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 2: Was there ever an imbalance because you start to have 848 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,680 Speaker 2: success and get famous and your mom was your mom 849 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 2: before you started, your mom is still your mom, but 850 00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:41,520 Speaker 2: now you're kind of famous. Yeah it was. Did the 851 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,880 Speaker 2: balance ever change? Where You're like, but you're also like 852 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 2: a teenager and you're already questioning what your parents do. Anyway, 853 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 2: it's such a war. 854 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 1: I had such a node, like nothing was normal with mine. 855 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 1: It's funny my my husband now, I met him when 856 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: I just turned eighteen. He's a songwriter too, and I 857 00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 1: just turned eighteen when I met him, and we joked 858 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 1: about it then and we still joke about it about 859 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 1: how I nothing about my teenage years were normal. He 860 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 1: went to college, he did da DA, I didn't. I 861 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 1: didn't go to high school, none of that. And so 862 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:17,120 Speaker 1: I think years years later, I would I started to 863 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:22,160 Speaker 1: unpack a lot of that, you know, about just how 864 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: non typical everything was for me. But it but it 865 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,839 Speaker 1: felt normal. I didn't know anything different. So I guess 866 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,359 Speaker 1: it's just relative to what you what you know, and 867 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 1: that's all that I knew. But there was never any 868 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 1: kind of imbalance with my family, nothing like that, probably 869 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:45,399 Speaker 1: because they I had people that took care of things. 870 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 1: I had a business manager, a manager. No, they weren't 871 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 1: ever involved in that. They were just parents. And you know, 872 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,640 Speaker 1: I will say that that was that was important to me, 873 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: that they just remained parents. 874 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:55,879 Speaker 4: That was it. 875 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,879 Speaker 1: And I would say the same thing for the young girl. 876 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:00,960 Speaker 1: You know, make sure you're parents are just your parents. 877 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 1: They'd let them just lovingly adore and admire and so 878 00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 1: that all those other things don't get blurred. Do you 879 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 1: know what I mean, all the business stuff. Sure, yeah, 880 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:12,720 Speaker 1: that's it because it can. 881 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, mine gets blurry now I'm an adult. 882 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I can't. I would never ever want 883 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 1: to blur those lines. 884 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:20,319 Speaker 7: You know. 885 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 4: I wouldn't want my parents to manage me or I just. 886 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 2: If you're your kid in five years, like I want 887 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 2: to go do music. 888 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: You did, Oh, oh that would be great. I would 889 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:37,480 Speaker 1: that would be encouraging. It's not like I would be like, no. 890 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 2: Seven year old boy, right, is he like to sing? 891 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:44,479 Speaker 4: He's an amazing drummer. He's very he can sing. 892 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,840 Speaker 5: Because the other from both sides, you and his dad. Yeah, 893 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,799 Speaker 5: so he's drawn to the drums. Yeah, he's great. He's 894 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 5: really really good, and he actually can sing too. But 895 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 5: you know, he's just he's going through like a little 896 00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,759 Speaker 5: shy thing right now, very similar to how I was 897 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:00,960 Speaker 5: at that age when. 898 00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,960 Speaker 2: When you were seven that were you singing though at all? 899 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:04,920 Speaker 1: I know your mom, but like around the house, I 900 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: was loud and all of that. But the minute you 901 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:08,799 Speaker 1: would put me on the spot to do it, then 902 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: I would I would clam up and want to hide. 903 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 5: You know. 904 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,080 Speaker 2: But did you ever come into like a windfall of money? 905 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:17,359 Speaker 4: No, it was like. 906 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 1: A gradual thing, you know, and and with who I am. 907 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,799 Speaker 1: I mean it's still to this day, I'm like, gosh, 908 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 1: I didn't write that. I wish I did, because I know, 909 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 1: you know those Brett and Troy still see, you know, 910 00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: good money from that song. No, it was it was 911 00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,319 Speaker 1: never like a oh you know, cash is flowing now. 912 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 4: It was it was. It was gradual. 913 00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 1: I mean, I did a good tour one year that 914 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 1: was really successful and great. 915 00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,160 Speaker 2: Are you ever somewhere and people are singing it like 916 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 2: either a karaoke place because I heard sing it, or 917 00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 2: at the grocery store and it's playing over the top 918 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:48,359 Speaker 2: of you. 919 00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's happened for sure. But I would say lately 920 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 1: it's it's had a few little TikTok viral moments. I 921 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 1: think a few years ago it did, and then literally 922 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,319 Speaker 1: just like a month ago, I started getting all these 923 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 1: videos and tags from like people and I'm like, oh 924 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,520 Speaker 1: my gosh, you know, it's having a little moment again 925 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 1: and it's it's so funny. I'm not really on TikTok 926 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 1: by choice just because I I probably I would just 927 00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: become too addicted to it. But it's it's it's on 928 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,400 Speaker 1: there and I see all the videos and it's crazy. 929 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 4: My son, you know, like gets I think that's that 930 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 4: he gets a kick out of that. 931 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,200 Speaker 2: Did anybody ever see it on the shows like The 932 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,400 Speaker 2: Voice or yeah, because I was on American Idol for 933 00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 2: a bunch of years, But yes, I feel like it 934 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,160 Speaker 2: was saying by like in the audition. 935 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 1: And Daniel Bradberry the Voice did that song on the Voice. 936 00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:42,839 Speaker 2: That's pretty cool. 937 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:44,840 Speaker 4: Yes, she did an amazing job. 938 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,840 Speaker 1: And then she went on to actually sign with Scott Worshetta, 939 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,839 Speaker 1: which is kind of funny. But yeah, it's done. Yeah, 940 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:54,960 Speaker 1: that song's done. And I'm telling you that song is 941 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: just it's gonna continue to have a life. I think 942 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: as as newer generations you know hear it. Do you 943 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,520 Speaker 1: get tired of singing it one of those timeless songs? No, 944 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:12,040 Speaker 1: I don't, because you know, you'll figure out ways to 945 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:13,799 Speaker 1: sing it and make it, you know, like like I 946 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 1: did at the Opry, I kind of slowed it down 947 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 1: and it did probably didn't sound very much like how 948 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:24,560 Speaker 1: the recording does, but you know you kind of reinvent 949 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:25,919 Speaker 1: well County Crows. 950 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 2: I was watching them sing yesterday. It's my favorite band, 951 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 2: and he it counting. Yeah, he sings. He sings different 952 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 2: the whole time, and I love him, but it's like, man, 953 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 2: it's hard to sing along. I heard yours. I could 954 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 2: sing along with yours with the tempo was just slowed down. 955 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,719 Speaker 2: But he like sing mister Jones. I'd be like mister 956 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 2: Jones me. Oh, like, dude, there's nothing like the one. 957 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 2: How much sing along to that? 958 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:45,760 Speaker 4: Right? Oh? 959 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,880 Speaker 1: So he's making it a point to like it not 960 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: be a sing along type song. 961 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the times and he's just kind of like, man, 962 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 2: I can't do it again exactly. 963 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:54,880 Speaker 4: That's exactly what that is due. 964 00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:02,759 Speaker 2: If you sing the song, it's so branded to you. 965 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,360 Speaker 2: And I think I try to put myself and shoes 966 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,319 Speaker 2: of somebody who had something that was so they were 967 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 2: known for. Did you ever have a bad relationship with 968 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,200 Speaker 2: it for a while afterward or was it always positive? 969 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,600 Speaker 1: You know what I think about that is in recent years, 970 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:21,680 Speaker 1: I think that people don't really know they haven't made 971 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 1: the connection with who sings that song because of social media. 972 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: Social media wasn't around when the song was a hit, 973 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 1: and so now these days I feel like it's they 974 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,600 Speaker 1: know the song, you know, but they're like, oh, I 975 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:38,799 Speaker 1: did not realize it was so and so, and then 976 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:40,400 Speaker 1: they'll have to kind of do a little bit of 977 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:44,719 Speaker 1: digging or connect the dots somehow and then figure it 978 00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 1: out that way. But I think that's just a time 979 00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 1: thing because its social media. 980 00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 2: Were you ever like twenty two or twenty three and 981 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 2: you were like just kind of over it for a minute. 982 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:58,800 Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. No, I've never felt that 983 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,880 Speaker 1: way about that song. It's such a great song man. 984 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 1: When you have a song that is connects with people 985 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,880 Speaker 1: and it continues to do that, I think I just 986 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,680 Speaker 1: always knew and felt lucky to have had a song 987 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:13,120 Speaker 1: like that. 988 00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:17,960 Speaker 2: Your husband, now I was reading about him, but he's 989 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,080 Speaker 2: still he's still active in the industry kind. 990 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:21,920 Speaker 4: Of yeah, kind of. 991 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,279 Speaker 1: I mean he's kind of in the same boat as 992 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: me as far as like when we have kids your world. 993 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:27,759 Speaker 2: Kind of does he right? 994 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:29,359 Speaker 4: So yeah, he does. Right. 995 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 1: He's not actively writing for a publisher, but he does write. 996 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,719 Speaker 1: I mean, he's a writer any writer will probably tell 997 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,720 Speaker 1: you that you're those. 998 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, creative is always creating regardless. 999 00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,240 Speaker 1: So that's him basically, yes, do you guys? He wants 1000 00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,319 Speaker 1: to though, he really does want to get back and 1001 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 1: like write, right. 1002 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,399 Speaker 2: What about you? Do you want to get back? I think, well, 1003 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:51,879 Speaker 2: I mean not right, just you just want to get 1004 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,960 Speaker 2: back and sing more? Do more shows? Be more? I 1005 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 2: don't know what do you want? Because obviously you love 1006 00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:57,719 Speaker 2: being a mom? 1007 00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 4: I do. 1008 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,879 Speaker 1: That's that's a really great question, and that's one I 1009 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:07,719 Speaker 1: ask myself a lot. I really do, because I think 1010 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:12,840 Speaker 1: that probably for every woman who has kids and becomes 1011 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 1: a mom is going to probably wrestle with that a 1012 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,080 Speaker 1: little bit. You know, got men don't really have to 1013 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,239 Speaker 1: think of it in that same way. But you know, 1014 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:24,960 Speaker 1: there's just a lot more thought that goes behind. If 1015 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: I would ever really want to I'm always gonna sing, 1016 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,880 Speaker 1: But if I ever wanted to like jump back into 1017 00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,480 Speaker 1: like doing it as a as a you know, get 1018 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,239 Speaker 1: back in the game kind of thing, I don't know, 1019 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 1: because I just there's a lot to consider and think 1020 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,640 Speaker 1: about when you're raising babies, you know, And I think 1021 00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:48,319 Speaker 1: about when I was fifteen and when I went out 1022 00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 1: on tour. My first tour was Faith Hill and she 1023 00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:58,399 Speaker 1: was probably in her early thirties and she was raising 1024 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: babies too, man on that too or she had two 1025 00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: little ones, I mean little the whole time on the road. 1026 00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,240 Speaker 1: So you know, I know it's like possible, and people 1027 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:09,839 Speaker 1: do it. You know, you do what you gotta do. 1028 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,440 Speaker 1: I guess it's just a bigger question for me is 1029 00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 1: if what kind of balance would I want to? You know, 1030 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,719 Speaker 1: you have to strike a balance somehow, and how can 1031 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: you do that? I think I wrestle with that, I'll 1032 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 1: be honest. I mean I don't I don't know what 1033 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,360 Speaker 1: the real answer for that is. I you know, it 1034 00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:27,960 Speaker 1: would it would have to be something that some some 1035 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 1: bigger thing would need to give me the answer to that. 1036 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,319 Speaker 1: You know, something would have to feel great, feel right. 1037 00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 1: But I'm always gonna sing, you know, it's we'll just 1038 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 1: we'll see how things align. 1039 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,040 Speaker 2: How was Faith Till toward you? 1040 00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,080 Speaker 4: She was so awesome. She was like a big sister. 1041 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:48,280 Speaker 1: I mean she gave me clothes, took me out on tour, 1042 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:54,200 Speaker 1: really just told me and like whatever whatever I can do, 1043 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,239 Speaker 1: you know, to help, and and she did. 1044 00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:58,440 Speaker 4: I mean she was really. 1045 00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:01,759 Speaker 1: Great to her and in both they were just. 1046 00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,520 Speaker 4: They were they've done that for a lot of people. 1047 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 1: I think Taylor Swift would in the beginning of Taylor's 1048 00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 1: career too, she said the same thing they've faced. Just 1049 00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,719 Speaker 1: all would always say that Riba did the same thing 1050 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: for her when she was getting started. So I think 1051 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,440 Speaker 1: she just felt that, you know, that's that's what you 1052 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 1: do when when there's up and coming artists, you just 1053 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:26,920 Speaker 1: kind of you have to show them that same you know, support. 1054 00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:29,440 Speaker 2: Well, this has been really awesome for me. I'm so 1055 00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 2: happy you came and sat and oh my god. Again 1056 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,880 Speaker 2: it was all just kind of random, and I. 1057 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,080 Speaker 4: Was like, may really really is yeah. 1058 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:38,839 Speaker 2: And then it went from really cool to like, wow, 1059 00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,240 Speaker 2: that's twice in like twenty six hours. 1060 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,960 Speaker 1: That's one of those things where things line a line, 1061 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 1: and you know, so. 1062 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:48,360 Speaker 2: I really appreciate you coming over and thank you sitting 1063 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 2: and talking. 1064 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,719 Speaker 1: I've enjoyed this so much. I'm so glad you asked what. 1065 00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 2: Did you think about during this that maybe you haven't 1066 00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 2: thought about in a while, because I don't happen on 1067 00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 2: me sometimes if someone's talking about something like oh, I 1068 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,200 Speaker 2: kind of forgot it right because you know, I talked 1069 00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,879 Speaker 2: about early records and some buyer and stuff anything come 1070 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:05,440 Speaker 2: to mind. You're like me, you know, I don't really 1071 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:06,479 Speaker 2: thought about that in a long time. 1072 00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,880 Speaker 4: Oh well a lot. I mean, you know, it's funny. 1073 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:13,440 Speaker 1: I I mean, I think the Scott thing is funny 1074 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 1: because when I was asked to do. 1075 00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:15,879 Speaker 4: That a month ago, it was just a month ago. 1076 00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:18,600 Speaker 4: I mean, everyone. 1077 00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 1: Knows the the career that he had, he's had because of, 1078 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,880 Speaker 1: you know, signing the biggest artist on the planet. But 1079 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 1: I think when I was singing that song and talking 1080 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 1: about him on stage a little bit, it just got 1081 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: me thinking, like, whoa, this is crazy, you know, like 1082 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:40,120 Speaker 1: he he went on to to sign another young female, 1083 00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 1: you know, and people have asked me that a few times. 1084 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:44,720 Speaker 4: They're like, oh my gosh, how did that make you feel? 1085 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,000 Speaker 1: You know, to know that he left and then went 1086 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:50,320 Speaker 1: on to do something, and it's never I mean. 1087 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:53,400 Speaker 4: I understood he I got the pick the big picture. 1088 00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I hate the circumstances of you know, falling 1089 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:02,120 Speaker 1: through the cracks and album getting shelved and things like that. 1090 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:04,800 Speaker 1: But I you know, I never really had thought about 1091 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:08,440 Speaker 1: it all that much until until I was on that stage, Like, 1092 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,799 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you know. And it's funny I had 1093 00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 1: run into him. I didn't tell this story when when 1094 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:15,600 Speaker 1: I was honoring him. I would I wouldn't have done that. 1095 00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 1: But like one year at the CMA's backstage, I ran 1096 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:24,200 Speaker 1: into him on the red carpet and he was he 1097 00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:24,799 Speaker 1: gave me a hug. 1098 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:25,760 Speaker 4: He's like, and I think. 1099 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: Taylor had her Fearless album was just getting ready to 1100 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: come out, and he came up, gave me a hug. 1101 00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:32,520 Speaker 1: He's like, oh my gosh, great to see you. And 1102 00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:37,040 Speaker 1: and I can't remember exactly what we said, but he 1103 00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 1: he's I feel like he. 1104 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:40,200 Speaker 4: Kind of was. 1105 00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:42,920 Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to say he was apologizing, 1106 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,240 Speaker 1: but he said, you know, yeah, you know, I feel 1107 00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:47,920 Speaker 1: great that I got to, you know, start up my 1108 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,040 Speaker 1: own thing. And goes like I got to do everything 1109 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 1: with Taylor that I never got to. 1110 00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,520 Speaker 4: Do with you. And I was like, oh wow, you know, 1111 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 4: like you know, but I think that. 1112 00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 1: Was his way of saying that he he got the 1113 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,080 Speaker 1: creative control he always wanted, you know, and to do 1114 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,160 Speaker 1: his own thing, and he had all those big ideas 1115 00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:06,440 Speaker 1: with me. 1116 00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:08,239 Speaker 2: But that's what it felt like to me. And you 1117 00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,880 Speaker 2: said that they felt like he that you had the 1118 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 2: situation been a bit different, that could have been you 1119 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,839 Speaker 2: because you had the talent to also do that with him. 1120 00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:21,560 Speaker 1: I think Scott wished he was at the helm, you 1121 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 1: know of dream Works, so that he really could have, 1122 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,120 Speaker 1: you know, made all the decisions. I think that was 1123 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 1: ultimately what he was saying was and that's how it 1124 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:31,799 Speaker 1: came out. And when he said I got to do 1125 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,719 Speaker 1: all these things with her that I never got to do. 1126 00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 2: With you, because he thinks he could have done it 1127 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:37,719 Speaker 2: with you because of what he saw on you and 1128 00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,000 Speaker 2: what you did while you were with him. 1129 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean because he was he was a big 1130 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 1: champion of mine. So yeah, I thought of you know, 1131 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 1: that story did play in my mind when I was 1132 00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:49,759 Speaker 1: up there talking about him. I was like, wow, but 1133 00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 1: you know, we had a moment, you know. And and 1134 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,239 Speaker 1: when I said my little thing about that we had 1135 00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 1: we had one you know, one hit, I said, I'm 1136 00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:58,319 Speaker 1: all right, all these years later saying I was a 1137 00:53:58,320 --> 00:53:59,279 Speaker 1: one hit wonder, you. 1138 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,799 Speaker 4: Know, I think it's you know, I don't. I don't. 1139 00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,920 Speaker 1: That doesn't hold any kind of like stigma for me, 1140 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,319 Speaker 1: Like I think it's great. I'm I'm honored that I 1141 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:11,200 Speaker 1: had like an amazing song that is finding new audiences 1142 00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: still to this day. So I kind of I kind 1143 00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,720 Speaker 1: of own that a little bit, you know, like nobody 1144 00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:18,520 Speaker 1: knows what the future holds, you know, you never know, 1145 00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 1: but for a for a moment, you know that that 1146 00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,000 Speaker 1: was for me, like my like my one hit. So 1147 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:28,719 Speaker 1: but it was just an honor that we got to 1148 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,400 Speaker 1: do that together and we did some good stuff. 1149 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,200 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for being thank you, and 1150 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 2: I would do like, hey, follow, but you know what, 1151 00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 2: you're smart. Your Instagram's private. What's that? Your Instagram's private? 1152 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:40,920 Speaker 2: You're smart? Yeah? 1153 00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 3: Is it? 1154 00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? It is private? 1155 00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,799 Speaker 1: Right, That's that's That's the thing with me too, is 1156 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:48,840 Speaker 1: I kind of like, yeah, secluded myself because of because 1157 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,839 Speaker 1: of ye all that craziness that's I did. 1158 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm hiding everything. 1159 00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:55,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to share anything because I don't want 1160 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:56,640 Speaker 1: them getting a hold of it. 1161 00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:58,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's crazy, that's crazy. 1162 00:54:59,360 --> 00:54:59,640 Speaker 4: I know. 1163 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,319 Speaker 2: We had a Yeah, we had the FBI. It was 1164 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:06,120 Speaker 2: a whole situation. I had to kill him. No, I'm 1165 00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:07,640 Speaker 2: kidding all right, and that we're gonna go. 1166 00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:12,719 Speaker 6: Jessica, thank you, thank you, thanks for listening to a 1167 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:13,960 Speaker 6: Bobby Cast production.