1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, are more, please 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVEFM dot com by clicking 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: on submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: You never know, it could be yours. 8 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 3: You never know again if I should turn my microphone on, 9 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 3: you never know. Bucket up and hold on tight. Here 10 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 3: it is Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject this romance is a problem for me. 12 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm dating an old school player, but 13 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: he is only forty four. I'm thirty eight, and we've 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: been dating for eight months, and he has all the 15 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: characteristics of his sixty eight year old dad. He idolizes 16 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: his parents' relationship and whenever he witnessed them doing whatever 17 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: he witnessed them doing. 18 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: He does that with me. 19 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: Most of it is really sweet and romantic, but some 20 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: of it just causes me to do extra work. For instance, 21 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: he loves to give me a sensual foot massage on 22 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: Friday evenings because he knows I've had a long week 23 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: on my feet as a nurse. His oil of choice 24 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: is baby oil, and it's ruined two of my good comforters. 25 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to stop the massage to tell him 26 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: to watch where he's putting baby oil, so I've started 27 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: laying down a towel to avoid an oily disaster. Then 28 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: there's our Sunday evening bubble bats in his tiny apartment bathtub. 29 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: He schedules are bubble bats in advance, so I have 30 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: to plan my day around it. I've been at brunch 31 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 1: and had to cut it short so I can go get. 32 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 2: In the tub with him. 33 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: He says it's our way to reconnect and talk about 34 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: our week ahead, but to me, it's a nasty mess. 35 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: Once we are. 36 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: Done, I have to go home and take a shower 37 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: afterwards so I can get that grime off of me. 38 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: When we do it at my house, I have to 39 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: scrub the tub. His romancing is always extra work for me. 40 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: He likes wine before bed, and last week he spilled 41 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: wine on my nightstand and we. 42 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:06,559 Speaker 2: Woke up to ants everywhere. 43 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: I don't mind the romancing, but I need him to 44 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: be a little more neat with it. If I have 45 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: to sit in a nasty tub of water one more time. 46 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to lose it. Would it be rude if 47 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: I told him that his romancing isn't romantic? Or should 48 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: I stay quiet? Well, of course you should talk to him. 49 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: If you're not pleased. And uh, let me get this straight. 50 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: You guys get in the tub without washing or showering first. 51 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 1: I mean, that's not romantic, that's nasty. Dirt and doing 52 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: it do not go together. They don't, and it didn't. 53 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: We just talk about this the other day. You have 54 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: to shower before you get in the shower with another 55 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,399 Speaker 1: person or a bath. You have to do that. Cleanliness 56 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: is first and foremost. Cleanliness is king. Okay, if it's 57 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: already clean, see, then you don't have. 58 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 2: To worry about that stuff. 59 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: You don't have to worry about, you know, being nasty 60 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: and not getting romantic. Yeah, come on now, scrubbing the 61 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: tub and all of that afterwards, you don't have to 62 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: do that if you're already clean. On another note, I 63 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: do think it's sweet that your man is so thoughtful 64 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: and gives you foot massages and all of that. Oh 65 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: and Steve, by the way, would love the baby oil touch. 66 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: You know how much Steve loves baby oil. But yes, baby, 67 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 1: oil is greasy and it's messy, So take your good 68 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: comforter off the bed, all right. During that time, I 69 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: really think you should keep this man. He sounds like 70 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: a good man. Just make sure you guys talk and 71 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: the space is clean. You got to talk about this stuff. 72 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: You shouldn't have to do so much work after romance. 73 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: That's when you're tired and you just want to relax. 74 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 3: All right, nephew, fairly, here a good man, but here 75 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 3: a dirty man, and she got talk. He's a dirty man, 76 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: and that's the hard part here. The worst thing in 77 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: the world is dirty love. He's a good man, but 78 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: he's a dirty man. So here's what I want you 79 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 3: to do, baby girl, cause you gonna you got some work. 80 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 3: You gotta that you gotta do. You gotta go down 81 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 3: here to home deep point and get you go to 82 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 3: the painting section and get you a roll of this 83 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 3: plastic because we got to get this. This all is 84 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 3: too much. We got this all everywhere. So if you know, 85 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 3: if you're gonna, if you're gonna do all this dirty 86 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 3: love stuff, let's at least lay it out. Because you 87 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 3: all this were messing up, tiles, were messing up to bed. 88 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 3: Let's at least get to the point where we got 89 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 3: it laid out where we can slip and slide all 90 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 3: over this plastic. I used to have all this plastic, 91 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 3: So I used to do this, all this, all this 92 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 3: dirty love stuff. I used to do all that. I 93 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 3: used to have all the plastic laid out everything. What elly, 94 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 3: you already know I used to do that. You know. 95 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 3: I used to do biscuit booty brunch, do all that 96 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 3: kind of stuff I used to do. I used to 97 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 3: do all that slipping and sliding, baby, all all that 98 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 3: I used to you know, I know what y'all doing. 99 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 3: But the fact that when you get through bathing, we 100 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 3: still got all this dirt running around this to that's 101 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 3: letting me know how dirty y'all really really are. And 102 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: I'm not saying this you. I'm not saying this you, 103 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,559 Speaker 3: But I'm saying it's him. I know it's him because 104 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 3: he the one got the ants in the house. Now, 105 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 3: he's the dirty one. Okay, he's the filthy one, and 106 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 3: I get it. So if you really want to get 107 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 3: to this to some clean loven, you're gonna have to 108 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 3: get this plastic shower down. Everybody got to shower down, 109 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 3: all right, and he need that. He need that lv 110 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 3: or soap. You understand what I'm saying. He need that 111 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 3: real stuff, that hard soap. Because I can tell you 112 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 3: got a dirty man. I don't know what he do 113 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 3: for a lipt, but you got a real dirty man. 114 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 3: Say it again, a real dirty manly dirty all behind 115 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 3: his earls. He just a dirty man. He dirty. What 116 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:47,919 Speaker 3: is all this? What? I don't get it? What is 117 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 3: all this leaving brunch early? 118 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: Now? 119 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 3: You're halfway longer when you get over here to get 120 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: into tub with this dirty man. You get in there, 121 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,559 Speaker 3: the dirty man, you're still hunger. You got to slow 122 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 3: down and start taking time for you. Stop all this 123 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 3: letting him play in these things in the tub is 124 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 3: too tight. That's another thing, y'all ready, it's too tight 125 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 3: up in there. It's this small environment. Let's let's let's 126 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: spread this out. Get you some plastic and that's what 127 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 3: I used to do, and get you one empty room 128 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 3: in the house and just get the slide and all 129 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 3: over the play. Ain't nothing worse than a dirty man 130 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 3: in a tiny house. That's a lot, thank you. 131 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: The romance is a problem for me is the title 132 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: of today's Strubberry letter. 133 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 3: What you got? 134 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 4: You know, I just first of all, it made me 135 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 4: feel some way because I'm forty four, I ain't no 136 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 4: old school player. 137 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 2: May hold on hold that thought. 138 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: All right, we'll come back with part two of today's 139 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Subject is this romance is a problem for me. 140 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. 141 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 2: You're listening Morning show. 142 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: All right, we have to recap today's Strawberry letter. The 143 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: subject is this romance is a problem for me? A 144 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: woman thirty eight years old wrote in and said she's 145 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: dating an old school. 146 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,359 Speaker 2: Player, but he's only forty four. 147 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: He has all the characteristics of his sixty eight year 148 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: old dad. 149 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: She says. He idolizes his parents'. 150 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: Relationship, and he tries to emulate his dad, what his 151 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,679 Speaker 1: dad does to his mom and all that. She says, 152 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: most of it is really sweet. She loves it, is romantic, 153 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: but it causes her to do a lot of extra work. 154 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: First of all, you know, when they get in the 155 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: tub together, he massages her feet and he uses baby old. 156 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: Baby old gets all over her, the comforter, all over 157 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: the bed and stuff. 158 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: That's a mess. Then they get in the tub. 159 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: Evidently they're not showering first, and it's grimy in the tub. 160 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 2: It's the bath water's nasty. 161 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: You know, the guy is a sweet guy, but he's 162 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: a mess. The nephew said, he's a dirty he's a 163 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: what nephewding man, he's. 164 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 2: A dirty mess. 165 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: So she's wanting to know, Uh, should she say something 166 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 1: or should she be quiet? Would it be rude if 167 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: she told him that she doesn't care for the way 168 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: he romances her? 169 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 2: So that's the question, junior, Let me cure you something. 170 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 4: Now, I just see this like this shirty Every Friday, 171 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 4: you got to pull your feet out to get rubbed 172 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 4: over frist Every Friday you're getting the foot rubbed, okay, 173 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 4: with baby oil and all this stuff. But then you 174 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 4: wish you really could skip Sundays. See you, you got 175 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 4: to get in this tub, this dirty man, and how uncomfortable. 176 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 4: You know, I had an apartment. I seen the tub 177 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 4: I had in my apartment. 178 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 2: It ain't enough room. 179 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 3: For anybody in there. 180 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 4: Let one me adding two people in it. Let me 181 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 4: tell you something. It's all how coomfortable. 182 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 2: Is this bad? 183 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 4: With your knees in your chest, both of y'all you 184 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 4: got your the grime is coming off this man look 185 00:08:55,400 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 4: like a like a shoreline, just dirty. Now, now you 186 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 4: gotta take this rag and dip it under this water 187 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 4: and then rag and then dirt on the ring. Why 188 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 4: y'all just don't try to shower? Has anybody thought that? 189 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 4: Just trying to show it again? Stand up now all 190 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 4: of a sudden, I just see water just going over 191 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 4: the edge of the tub because y'all keep moving here, 192 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 4: trying to twist and turn. Now you face like his 193 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 4: leg is his leg that dirty knee in your throat? 194 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 3: Just what is we doing? 195 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 2: Why? 196 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 3: This is not roman. 197 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 4: It ain't working for none of us on this shelf. 198 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 4: This don't make And then here it is he talking 199 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 4: about washing my back, and you take that dirty rag 200 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 4: and slide it down this casting back. Now that ring 201 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 4: around the tub just keep floating, and I'm sitting and 202 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 4: trying to sing out. 203 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:51,719 Speaker 3: What is sucking about this? 204 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 4: I just tell him I'm not getting in the damn 205 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 4: tub with you this subject. 206 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 2: I'm not doing it. 207 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 4: You gotta just tell him all this up now you 208 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 4: scrub in the tough after you even got out. Now 209 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 4: you gotta take another shower. No, for love, I'm not showering. 210 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: It's much for love. One more time. 211 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 3: I like it. 212 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 2: It's much for love. 213 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 3: No, not every sunday. 214 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 2: I get we got this tough. 215 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 4: I gotta go find some Chlorx whites and get some 216 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 4: get some bleaching. Hen, we gotta do all this every Sunday, 217 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 4: and you just keep I don't know what kind of 218 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 4: work he does. 219 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 2: He shard that much dirt in the tough. The word 220 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 2: she used was grime, grime. 221 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 3: You know what you're not? Dirty? 222 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: Grimy, dirty, grease and yeah, it's. 223 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 3: Just it's grain and everything. 224 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm not. 225 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 3: Clean. Your back, lean your back up against that fascet. Yeah, 226 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 3: in the tub. You know how much that hurt right now? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 227 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 3: tell you some time. 228 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 4: You know how dirty when you just dip your arm 229 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 4: into the water and you bring it up the water 230 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 4: and it's just just just glistening with dirt on it. 231 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 4: This don't him man saying this, No, no, got know 232 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 4: this don't mean. 233 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 3: Not for love? Not make that chain and pull that 234 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 3: stop out and let this. 235 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 2: Stop. 236 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 4: I ain't even white right here, yeah, stop, not even white. 237 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 2: I say, you wouldn't lose it? 238 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 4: Now? 239 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 1: Now what about the wine that he's filled on the 240 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: night stand? Guys, what about that? 241 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 2: You know, I know. 242 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 3: I know. The ants are drunk. That's what they think. 243 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 4: It's a pool party they're in. 244 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: They getting it's just making work for her. He's just making. 245 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,839 Speaker 1: He's not a neat man. She needs a clean and 246 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: neat man. He's a good man. 247 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 3: I don't know if you're a good man. I don't know. 248 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 3: Not dirty. Mean, I don't know that me and time 249 00:11:59,440 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 3: a good means. 250 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: But we ain't dirty. But you can be taught that right, you. 251 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 3: Know if I'm not a baby all guy, I'm just now. 252 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: That's your uncle, that's your uncle. Yeah, sure, yeah, he 253 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: loves the baby. 254 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 255 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 3: And he smelled like a big old baby when he 256 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 3: got it out. You don't never see. I had to 257 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: get all the guards. Yeah, I had to go get 258 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 3: it because he just slipped and failing that baby all before. 259 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know. 260 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 2: What was that story? 261 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 3: My uncle back getting the way back in the day 262 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 3: and then slipped and failing some baby all out there. 263 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 3: Call him said a while, n I gotta go get 264 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:42,319 Speaker 3: his ass. He'd hear a puddle up baby all damn 265 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: broke his ankles and just just stupid. 266 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 5: He loves that baby, well, he loves that baby. Oil 267 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 5: so that this guy in uh in uh in the letter. 268 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 5: But yeah, they need to go back to square one 269 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 5: with this. 270 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 3: One in this driveway. Let me just hold you. 271 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: Forget in this terribook. All right, guys, thank you. 272 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 1: Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram. It's 273 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: Steve Barby at them and check out the Strawberry Letter 274 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: podcast on demand on the free iHeartRadio app. 275 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 3: Now. 276 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right 277 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show