1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Wind Downs with Janet Kramer and Michael Coffin and I'm 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: her radio podcast. 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: Hey, what's up. It's Jana and Easton. Hey, winding down 4 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: from New Iberia, Louisiana. Did you ever think you'd ever 5 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 2: come to New Iberia. 6 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 3: I never thought my career would take me here. It's 7 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 3: it's an unreal experience. 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: So I am in obviously New Iberia, Louisiana. And if 9 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: you guys have been following me, I booked a lifetime 10 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 2: Christmas movie. It's called Christmas in Louisiana. I'm really excited. 11 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 2: It's been a lot of fun. It's been it's been 12 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 2: a lot of long hours, but it's been incredible. I've 13 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 2: truly enjoyed, you know, getting back to work and acting 14 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: and you know, just being on set. And so obviously 15 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 2: we do not want to miss a wind down Monday. 16 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: So I made sure that we were able to get 17 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 2: Easton here to be able to record a podcast together. 18 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 2: And you know, he's like, where are we going? Oh? 19 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 2: Are we going to like, you know, Park City, Utah? 20 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,919 Speaker 2: Or are we going to like Hawaii? And I'm like, no, baby, 21 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:18,639 Speaker 2: New Iberia, Louisiana. But it's actually a really cute quaint 22 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: town and all, like all the shops have put up 23 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 2: Christmas decorations on main Street, so it looks really cute. 24 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 3: It's crazy, the whole town transformed into this winter wonderland 25 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 3: and ninety five degree. It's great. 26 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 4: It's hot. 27 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: It's so hot, yeah, crazy hot. But luckily today we're inside. 28 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 2: And I just took Easton on his first movie set 29 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 2: and funny thing happened. So I was holding, well, I'll 30 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 2: let you explain it, Easton. 31 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, Janet took me on to the set, and 32 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 3: she's such a pro. She's like, here you go stand 33 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 3: in here. I'm gonna go do my thing. She walks 34 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 3: out in front of the cameras and I'm watching it 35 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 3: through the monitors and looks cool because it looks like 36 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 3: a movie, you know, like like I feel like I'm 37 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 3: already watching Lifetime Vision Woman and and I see, uh, 38 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 3: Jana is in this. You know, there's like four different 39 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 3: cameras on her. She's in the shot and she's on 40 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 3: her phone and we were just hanging out by backstage. 41 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 2: I guess that's you know, we were hanging hanging out 42 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 2: in the holding area. 43 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 3: We're in the holding are hanging out and like we 44 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 3: were just on our phones, and so I thought she 45 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 3: was continuing like like while they're because they're still setting 46 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 3: up the shot and everything, she's on her phone. And 47 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 3: then they call rehearsal and she's still on her phone, 48 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh, I mean, I know Jana is 49 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 3: like first on the call. She here, She's being pretty 50 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 3: cavalier with this. So and then they start rolling and 51 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 3: like it's like they call action, they do the whole 52 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 3: clapboard thing, and Jana's like still on her phone and 53 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, like like did she know 54 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: he started? 55 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 2: And Easton's like starts freaking out and he's about to 56 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 2: be like, Janna, Jenna your phone. 57 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 3: I was going to text you and say I think 58 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 3: they're rolling, but. 59 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 2: And so he got in the car and he's like, hey, 60 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 2: so On were you were you supposed to have your 61 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 2: phone in that scene, because you know, you were on 62 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:00,839 Speaker 2: your phone. I was like, that was the whole part 63 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 2: of the scene. 64 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 3: I'm understanding now, Yeah, you were like supposed to be 65 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 3: like texting or somebody. 66 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 2: It was supposed to be texting, and then my mom 67 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: was supposed to come up, and I was supposed to, 68 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 2: you know, be like I'm preoccupied, mom, But it was 69 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 2: just so funny. It's like, you know, you were saying 70 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: there you didn't know what was going on, thinking they 71 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 2: were probably man, she's like a little like not professional, 72 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 2: like on her phone. 73 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 3: Was that your actual phone? 74 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 2: No, they give you. They don't let you have your 75 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: own phone. Okay, so it's a stunt because it probably 76 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 2: would distract you too much. But yeah, no, it's a 77 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 2: it's like a it's a set phone. Props. Well, they 78 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: say props phone. 79 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 3: That's the thing. 80 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 2: He the biz name the movie the Biz. Yeah, when 81 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: they say the Biz. The breakup Sarah, Sarah, my girl, 82 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 2: Sara would have got that. 83 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 3: I saw the breakup too. I'm very disappointed myself. So good. 84 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 2: You know what's funny though, I kind of want to 85 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: Sarah almost s Gretzky instagrammed a clip from the breakup, 86 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: and it's funny because then that to Instagram. I know 87 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: this scene is very famous. 88 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 4: I I don't. 89 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: He's like, you know, I want I want you to 90 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: want to do the dishes. Gary, He's like, why would 91 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: I want to do the dishes? It's not about you 92 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: wanting to do the dishes, Gary, it's about you wanting 93 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 2: to help me, and so I just have always loved 94 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: that scene. But it's so true. It's so true, and 95 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 2: it's fascinating because it's I mean, it's not like we 96 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 2: want to be doing the dishes. 97 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 3: No, no, you don't, not at all. 98 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 2: Do you help your wife? 99 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I do. 100 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 1: You know. 101 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 3: We talked about this the other day though, that there's 102 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,919 Speaker 3: a did. I did something for her right before I 103 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 3: left to come to New Iberia, and she she was 104 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 3: thanking me profuse, like I had bought her a gift. 105 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 3: And I saw it as like, oh, this should have 106 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 3: just been like, oh great, thanks, but she was acting 107 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 3: like it was the greatest thing ever I got. I 108 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 3: got her wedding dress cleaned. It's been we haven't gotten 109 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: clean since we got married two years ago. 110 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's so thoughtful. 111 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 3: See, I thought it's been it's been an errand I've 112 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 3: been putting off for months in the back of my head, 113 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: so like I felt like, oh man, I've been really 114 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 3: dropping the ball, like I should have done this a 115 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 3: long time ago. But there's stuff like that will happen, 116 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 3: and I think that, like I don't know, I just 117 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 3: like sometimes I think like, oh, I should be helping 118 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 3: out more so this doesn't seem like a miraculous thing 119 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 3: that like I did something. 120 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's interesting what we see and then what 121 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. I just always find it so fascinating. 122 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: I feel like Mike and I do a pretty good 123 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: job with things around the house. I know we've talked 124 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 2: about it before, but by the way, Mike is home 125 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 2: right now with Jolie. I decided to take Jase. The 126 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: entire time, I wanted to take Jolie, but you know, 127 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 2: she's just got like her routine and everything, and it's just, 128 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: you know, I don't want to get her out of that. 129 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: But she is coming this next week, so I'm really 130 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 2: really excited to have her. And then Mike will be 131 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 2: on next week's episode, so that'll be nice to have 132 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 2: him because I haven't seen him in a few weeks 133 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 2: being out here. But yeah, and then I'm really excited 134 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:04,679 Speaker 2: because I have just really gotten close with my grandma 135 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 2: on this movie. We've created such a like an amazing 136 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 2: like is Kinship Award, Yeah it is. I just feel 137 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 2: like we connect on such a different level. And So 138 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 2: her name is Dee Wallace and she is the mom 139 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 2: from E T. I mean, if you look her up. 140 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 3: I mean her, she's been in so much stuff. I 141 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 3: looked at me earlier. 142 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 2: It's like one hundred and eighty something films and TV 143 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 2: shows she's been in. She's she's just incredible, and she's 144 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 2: got a ton of stories, especially working with Steven Spielberg 145 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 2: and just life and love and loss. H and so 146 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 2: I'm really excited to have her come in the trailer 147 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 2: whenever we're because we're actually working right now. This is 148 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 2: in between takes. We are doing this. That's because how 149 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 2: much I love y'all. So yeah, so I'm excited to 150 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: have her come in the trailer and do a little interview. 151 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 2: But before I want to take a quick break, I 152 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 2: think something else too. That is something I'm kind of 153 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 2: dealing with right now, is well two things. I have 154 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 2: really bad mom guilts, obviously like other moms do, But 155 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: I also am struggling so bad with anxiety that I 156 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 2: honestly think I might have to up my medicine. And 157 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 2: I don't want to, like I feel it's making me 158 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 2: sad because I don't want to. I don't know, don't 159 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 2: I don't want to rely on something. But at the 160 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 2: same time, I feel so anxious all the time. Now, 161 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: and I don't know if that's because and this is 162 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 2: like I don't mean to go and I don't want 163 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: to go dark, but at the same time, Okay, So 164 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: we got to New Iberia like a week and a 165 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:57,679 Speaker 2: half ago, two weeks ago, and we went to Target 166 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 2: and I was totally fine in the car ride and 167 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 2: I was with Jace and the nanny, and then I 168 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 2: just finally hired an assistant because with everything I'm doing 169 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 2: on socials and the Wine Down Tour, which by the way, 170 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 2: I'll you know what's tell you guys about, but just 171 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: everything else that's kind of going on, I just I 172 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 2: really feel like I need some extra help because I 173 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 2: just feel a little overwhelmed. And so we're in the 174 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: car and everything was fine. I was totally good, and 175 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 2: then we go to Target, and all of a sudden, 176 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 2: I just have this massive anxiety attack, and I like, 177 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 2: I just, you know, Lauren and Kylie they're sweet girls, 178 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: but I, you know, I get so embarrassed when I 179 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 2: have anxiety attacks. So I kind of just what I 180 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 2: do is I just shut down. And I was just 181 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: like I had a total plan. I wanted to get 182 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 2: Jolie Barbad Barbie Dolls, I wanted to get her, like 183 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 2: I had a whole list. I wanted, you know, stuff 184 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: because she's coming. You know, I want to make sure 185 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 2: Jolie has all her things, and I want to surprise 186 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: her with this big dollhouse. And you know, I wanted 187 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 2: to get Jason food and and you know, I wanted 188 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: to get some there was it was like one of 189 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: those super targets. Yeah, so you know, I was like, 190 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 2: all right, I want to get strawberries and great so whatever. 191 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 2: And I go in there and I was like, oh, 192 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just gonna Amazon all of it. 193 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 2: And they're like what, oh, yep, I'm just gonna I 194 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 2: just I don't know, I just want to Amazon all 195 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 2: of It's it's fine. And this was We drove about 196 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,959 Speaker 2: thirty five minutes to a Target because it's in Lafayette, 197 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 2: and they were like, okay, I thought you wanted to 198 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: come here. I was like I do. I just I 199 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: just I now am deciding that it's just easier to 200 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 2: just go on Amazon and I'm just gonna I'm just 201 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 2: gonna get Barbie dolls. And they're like, okay, all right, yeah, well, 202 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 2: let's just get the at least the things for Jason'm like, 203 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 2: mm okay, And then I started to really dissect it. 204 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, well, I've always had anxiety, I 205 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 2: get that, but what else was it? And it was 206 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:48,199 Speaker 2: because of the shootings? Oh yeah, I was like I 207 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 2: I the second I got there. I cause it was 208 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 2: because two days before that, I read something about how 209 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 2: the mom and dad were protecting their baby that just died. 210 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 2: I know, and I'm not trying to go like, but 211 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 2: I'm just like, I grabbed Jay so tight because I'd 212 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 2: first put him in the in the parking or in 213 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 2: the in the cart, and then I grabbed him really 214 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 2: fast when I get in there, and I was just 215 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 2: like and I started looking around and I was just 216 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 2: and and I thought it was just my normal anxiety. 217 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 2: But then I realized where my anxiety was coming from. 218 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 3: I mean, like, how do you not think of that 219 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,079 Speaker 3: now when you go to when you go to a 220 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 3: place like that. 221 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 2: But it's like you shouldn't live in fear. But at 222 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 2: the same time, now I'm like, oh my god, that 223 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 2: is totally where it came from. Because I'm like, I'm 224 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: in a city I don't know, and I'm like, I 225 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 2: don't know these people around and I'm like, you know, 226 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 2: and it's honestly, it's anywhere, even if even if it's 227 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 2: but I'm like if they do it at a Walmart 228 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,959 Speaker 2: and at a church and at a movie theater, I 229 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 2: mean the list, I mean, it's just like goes on 230 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 2: and on. I'm like, I don't feel safe to even 231 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 2: go to a flipping target. 232 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 3: You know, in my in my life because I'm a 233 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 3: I'm a white male, I've had a lot of privilege 234 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 3: in my life, Like I've never had to worry about anything, 235 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 3: and I always think like, oh that that stuff never 236 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: happens to me. I'll never bring uh my wife. And 237 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 3: I went and saw Elvis Costello the other night, and 238 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:06,599 Speaker 3: where's at the Greek Theater in la And I was 239 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 3: like looking around and ye clocking guys like that guy's 240 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 3: acting weird. And then it's like, Okay, if something goes down, 241 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 3: where am I going to go? And it's like it's 242 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 3: just crazy that that you have to think that way now, 243 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 3: and uh, and I totally understand feeling like that type 244 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 3: of intense anxiety from doing that, and like someone like 245 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 3: you that already struggles with anxiety, like my god, you know, 246 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 3: like that's going to happen more. 247 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 2: I'm just I just felt like almost helpless. I'm like, 248 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 2: if something happens, I mean, I was holding him where 249 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 2: it was like I can protect him and if I 250 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: get shot, he'll be like, he'll be okay. I'm like, 251 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 2: that is what's going through my head. It's so effed up. Yeah, 252 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 2: but I'm like, but I'm like, well, I don't. I 253 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: know it's also good not to live in fear, but 254 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, how how can I how can we not 255 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 2: exactly because I know, I'm sorry, I don't need to 256 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 2: like bring it down. I'm just like I'm really struggling 257 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 2: with that because I'm like, I don't want to leave 258 00:11:56,400 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 2: my house now. I protect my children, you know, I'm like, 259 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 2: or so that I don't die and then they don't 260 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 2: have a mom. 261 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: It's it's crazy. I don't know. I don't know what 262 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 3: the answer is, because you can't you can't just stay 263 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 3: home all day. But and you don't want to have 264 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 3: it totally affect your life like that, But also how 265 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 3: can you not think of that? 266 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 4: Yeah? 267 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 3: You know it's because before it's like, oh, well, I 268 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 3: you know that happens at a that could happen at 269 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 3: a bar. With a disgruntled person, but like, no, now 270 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 3: it's at Walmart, like everywhere. It's happening everywhere. 271 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 2: I know. I didn't mean to like bring it down. 272 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 2: I just was like, that's where it's just another layer 273 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 2: of anxiety now where I'm just like, man, this is 274 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 2: just I just I don't know what the answer is. 275 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 2: I'm not I don't even want to get to like, 276 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 2: I don't want to get political because I have a 277 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 2: gun and I would like to keep my gun, but again, 278 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 2: I just to protect myself and my children and my family. 279 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, I think there's certain things we 280 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 2: can do, but at the same time, I don't want 281 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: to get into it, yeah, because I just I don't know. 282 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 2: But I just know that I'm curious what how you 283 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 2: guys are reacting, and what you guys think and what 284 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 2: and what how you guys feel about going to public 285 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 2: places and what you do and how you think of it, 286 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 2: because I don't know what it is. Sometimes when I 287 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 2: think about death and I believe and I love you know, 288 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,439 Speaker 2: I believe in God, and I believe in heaven, and 289 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 2: I believe all those things. But when I start to 290 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 2: really truly think about it, I go down this rabbit 291 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: hole where it's just like, but my kids are they 292 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: going to be okay? And then they're not? And like 293 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, but if I go to I'm like, it's 294 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 2: just like rabbit holes. 295 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 3: Me. 296 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. Help me, guys, I'm asking for help. 297 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 2: What do you guys do? What's the email East and 298 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 2: give it to them? 299 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 3: Wind down at iHeartRadio dot com. 300 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,319 Speaker 2: Wind down at iHeartRadio dot com. I promise I'll bring 301 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 2: it up after this, guys. I just had to let 302 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 2: y'all in on why if anyone saw me in Target 303 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 2: and Lafayette while I ran out of there terrified. And 304 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,559 Speaker 2: Lafayat's a great area too, you think, oh yeah, it's 305 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 2: it's it was a whole Foods right next door. Like 306 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 2: but I'm like, hey, you never. 307 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,839 Speaker 3: Know when you when you perform concerts, does that go 308 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 3: through your head? 309 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 2: It didn't until so one girl I think she was 310 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 2: on the voice something. 311 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 3: I think she got Christina Grimy. 312 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 313 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 2: That was terrifying. 314 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 315 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 2: And then I played Route ninety one the year before 316 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 2: the shooting. Oh my god, terrifying because I'm like, wow, 317 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 2: but no, there are definitely times I with I'm on stage. 318 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 2: I mean even here on set, I'm just like, Okay, 319 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: where am I going to duck? Where am I going 320 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: to go? It's so it's so disturbing that that's like 321 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 2: where our minds have to go to. Or maybe it's 322 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 2: just mine. 323 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. 324 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 2: I don't think it is because no, do you see 325 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 2: that outbreak at that mall where everyone started like it 326 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: was a massive like stampede because people thought there was 327 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 2: an active shooter. 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I have never been more excited to welcome 378 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 2: a guest than I am right now on our show. 379 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 2: Don't roll your eyes at me, the one and only 380 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 2: Miss Dee Wallace. Hi, I have I am so excited 381 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 2: that you said yes, first of all, that you would 382 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 2: talk to me. 383 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 4: Well, I'm honored you as the only thing. 384 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 2: That I'm really upset about, though, is the fact that 385 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 2: we don't have wine with us right now because let 386 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 2: me let me tell you, guys, my first stop with 387 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 2: d Okay, So, I've obviously been a fan of yours 388 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 2: for a very very very long time. You were beautiful, 389 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 2: You're an amazing actress. I just I just love you. 390 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 2: So when I found out that you were playing my Grandma, 391 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:52,199 Speaker 2: I about crap myself, Like, I was so excited, and 392 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 2: I just, you know, they always say to not I 393 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 2: get scared to meet the people that I that I've 394 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 2: watched and grown up with and loved, because what if 395 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 2: you were a complete b you know. 396 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I do know. I've been there. Yeah, I was 397 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 4: with them, you know. 398 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, well here's the thing I'm going 399 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 2: to just I'm like, okay, my favorite thing is wine, 400 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: So I hope she loved wine. And then I'm thinking, God, 401 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 2: what is She's an alcoholic? And I go to her 402 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 2: door and then I give her a bottle of wine 403 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 2: and she's like, I'm an alcohol you know, or just something. 404 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, she's gonna hate me the rest of the time. 405 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 4: We shoot. 406 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 2: So anyways, I d was in the hallway and I 407 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 2: knew she was there. And I went up to you 408 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 2: and I gave I was like, hey, I know, coming 409 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 2: to New Iberia is kind of crazy. It's a very 410 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 2: small town. I'm ordering food, so I got you some food, 411 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 2: got you happy. But then the cherry on top was 412 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 2: then I brought you the red wine. 413 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 4: Ohmg, you were in like baby like. 414 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 2: And she basically said, will you marry me? And I 415 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 2: was just like, from that moment on is when I 416 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,719 Speaker 2: knew that we were going to be best friends. I 417 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 2: just love it. No, but you've just been incredible to work. 418 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 4: But we just have a heart connection. 419 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 2: We do for sure, and I want to talk about 420 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 2: that because you say you do a lot of healing 421 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 2: work and we haven't been able to touch on it 422 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 2: on set. So that's why I'm glad that I got 423 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 2: to steal you away from set. Oh wow to talk 424 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 2: about it. Where did that come from? And when did 425 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 2: you know you had that innate ability to be able 426 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 2: to not only heal, but to have that that feeling 427 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 2: and that to recognize it. 428 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:26,160 Speaker 4: You know, we all have it. 429 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: It's not some big mysterious thing. The inner information of 430 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: the universe is out there for anybody. But you have 431 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,439 Speaker 1: to hold your intention to get it and ask for 432 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: it and be open to it. 433 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 4: And when I was a. 434 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:50,439 Speaker 1: Little girl, I would get hits like one time, my 435 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 1: it was I don't know, two or three in the morning, 436 00:19:55,400 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: and I was around eight or nine years old, Kansas City, 437 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: and I was very very close to my grandmother, who 438 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 1: raised me for a lot of my life because we 439 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 1: were poor and my mom had to work all the time. 440 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: And I woke my mother up and I said, something's 441 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 1: wrong at Grandma's house. And God bless my mother. She 442 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: got up and we went in and called to Grandma, 443 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: and Grandma didn't answer, so oh no. We got in 444 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: the car and we drove over there and the cat 445 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 1: had gotten up on the stove and turned all the 446 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: gas on, and Grandma was in her bedroom and just 447 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 1: hadn't heard the telephone, but the place was filling up 448 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 1: with the gash. 449 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 4: So we all get little messages like that. 450 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: You've all had those thoughts where I should call blah blah, 451 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: you know, and then you either do or you don't, 452 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: and then you go, gosh, darn it. 453 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 4: And I wish i'd called blah blah. You know. 454 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 1: Walked by my neighbors two months ago and I won 455 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 1: When you know, I should really go see Francis. I 456 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: really kind of feel a calling to go see how 457 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: she's doing. 458 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 4: She died two days later. 459 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: So we all get the messages, we just don't listen, 460 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: and if we listen, we kind of let them go. 461 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 1: So now I ask for the messages intentionally. And it 462 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: all started actually when again when my husband of eighteen 463 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: years passed away suddenly, and I kind of dropped my 464 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 1: knees and I said, I don't want to be pissed 465 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 1: off and I don't want to be a victim. I 466 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 1: want a way we can heal ourselves. And I really 467 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: believe that's what in the Good Book it means by asking, 468 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 1: you receive, because literally within thirty seconds I got my 469 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: first message, which was use the light within yourself to 470 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: heal yourself. So I've just been learning and expanding on 471 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: that for twenty five years. 472 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 2: And you were on set when he found out about that. 473 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 2: What about your husband of eighteen years? 474 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was in Newfoundland shooting the Newfoundland No New Zealand, 475 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: Hellooundland was a whole other different movie, New Zealand shooting 476 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 1: the Frighteners, Okay, and he had a heart attack and 477 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 1: I flew back and they did the angioplasty. 478 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,919 Speaker 4: He was fine. They were holding filming, so he said. 479 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,959 Speaker 1: Honey, I'm fine, I'm going home tomorrow, go back, and 480 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: I did. And four days later he got up and 481 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: a blood clot hit his heart and he was gone. 482 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 4: And my baby found him, my little girl. Yeah my. 483 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 2: Oh no, I mean, oh gosh, yeah. 484 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 4: Yeah. So you know, you can imagine. 485 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: So I flew back home again, put on his party service, 486 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: took my kid and my nanny and we flew back 487 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: and I finished the film. 488 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,479 Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, damn. 489 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 1: But that's really when it started opening everything up. I 490 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: had one of the largest acting studios in Los Angeles 491 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: at the time, and I would be watching scenes and 492 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: get slammed with information, just slammed with information. And so 493 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: all my students' lives started to change. They started to 494 00:23:54,920 --> 00:24:00,359 Speaker 1: book jobs, find mates that they'd been looking for for ever. 495 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: Then their parents wanted me to work with them, and 496 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: then their friends, and now I've got clients all over 497 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 1: the world. 498 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 2: So what are you doing? That's that's what I want 499 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 2: to lead into. Where can my listeners basically, where are 500 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 2: you doing this? Where are you spreading or do you 501 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: hold workshops? Is it the email that you showed me. 502 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:19,439 Speaker 1: I do hold workshops and I do speak, but I 503 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: do private sessions all over the world every day when 504 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm not shooting. You know, it's the dichotomy of d 505 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 1: I do horror films and then I and then I 506 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 1: heal people from fear. Go figure it works for me. 507 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: But you can book a private session at I am 508 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 1: am I AMD Wallace dot com and just email me 509 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:54,399 Speaker 1: through there incredibly powerful sessions and you can ask the channel. 510 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm a clare Audiant channel, which means I hear message 511 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 1: and sometimes they get pictures too. Sometimes I don't call 512 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: myself a medium, but a lot of times I talk 513 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 1: to the other side too. 514 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 4: Wow. 515 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 2: So I just think that's fascinating. I really do, because 516 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:13,120 Speaker 2: I believe in it, and I think there's. 517 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't deny. 518 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: You cannot deny what comes through when person after person 519 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: oh my god, because you know, the channels say it 520 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:28,679 Speaker 1: happened at three years old with your dad, what happened, 521 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: and then the tears come and it's like, oh my god, 522 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 1: that's when my baby brother was born, or that's when 523 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 1: so and so died, or you know, And I think 524 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 1: I shared with you too that because I want to 525 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 1: share this with the listeners because I think it's so 526 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: important for us to get some insight into what's running us. 527 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 1: Is that the way we see ourselves in the world 528 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 1: and the way we see the world seeing us, it 529 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 1: is all set in stone by the time we're seven 530 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:03,640 Speaker 1: years old. 531 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember you saying that on set. 532 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 1: So if you really want to know what's running you 533 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 1: and why you can't get on top of it, go 534 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 1: back and see what was taught to you verbally, what 535 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: was modeled to you that's a big one, or what 536 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 1: you erroneously put together that's probably incorrect, you know when 537 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 1: you were little. 538 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh man, I love that. Can I get a 539 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 2: private reading later? I will pay for it. I will 540 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 2: email you. 541 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 4: I will I keep telling you come on over, to 542 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 4: come on over to my room. 543 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 3: Baby. 544 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:41,360 Speaker 4: I know you do. 545 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 2: Know. It's funny because we were talking about how eystemes. 546 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 2: I feel like I get really close to things, especially 547 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 2: with work, and then it doesn't end up. But I 548 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,920 Speaker 2: think it's because I'm I'm holding myself back. 549 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 4: We're all holding ourselves back the world. 550 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 2: How do you break free from that? Though, Because it's like, 551 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 2: even when I want to talk about that, like I 552 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 2: can't because I'll just start crying because I know I'm 553 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 2: doing it. It's like I know what I'm doing and 554 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 2: I can't stop it. 555 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 4: Yes you can, but how well. 556 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: You can't find the how if you say you can't, 557 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 1: So I can find what's running me. I can heal myself. 558 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: I can be my own truth. You know, we spend 559 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: most of our lives saying I don't know, So there's 560 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 1: no way your brain's going to find out if you 561 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: keep directing it not to know. Yeah, and what most 562 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: people don't get see, we're all energy. Everything's energy. We 563 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 1: learned that in fifth grade, guys. And energy has to 564 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: have direction. 565 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 4: It has to. 566 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: Most of us are allowing our energy to be directed 567 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 1: by other people's thoughts, other people's comments, other people's belief 568 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: systems and perceptions, including religion, whatever religion you were brought 569 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: up with by the time you were seven years old, 570 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 1: past lives, things that are passed down. 571 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 4: To us genetically. 572 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: And my channel has a really interesting take on genetics 573 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: because according to my channel, and I have never known 574 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,880 Speaker 1: my channel to be wrong yet. 575 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 4: Of all the private sessions I've done. 576 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:34,880 Speaker 1: Ever, my channel says that genetics is just an idea 577 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: that we've all said, Okay, I'll buy into that that 578 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: runs in the family. 579 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 4: I'll accept that. 580 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 1: But if we truly are the directors of our own energy, 581 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: which we are, because nobody else is going to choose 582 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 1: our thoughts for us, nobody else is going to choose 583 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: how we want to feel or experience things, We're all 584 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 1: at choice about those things, and that choice is your freedom. 585 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 4: Or your Hell. 586 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 2: Hey Men's sister he no, on set, she'd go, that's 587 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 2: always when we know before they say and camera and 588 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 2: and action, that last last be okay, I just have 589 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 2: to switch gears, just like a little teeny weeny bit. 590 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 2: So obviously, you know you had a I mean you have. 591 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 2: I mean how many you and Barry were talking about it? 592 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 2: One hundred and eighty three. 593 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 4: No, two hundred. I just passed my two hundred movie. 594 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: That's incredible. 595 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 4: I don't know when that happened. 596 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 2: No, but that's that's incredible. I mean, what do you 597 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 2: out of all the films and TV shows that you've done, obviously, 598 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 2: do you think people are know you most from ET 599 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 2: or is that what the what's usually the you know? 600 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 1: I think it's a toss up between e T and 601 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 1: Kujo and the Howling Okay. 602 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 4: If I go to Disneyland, for sure, it's et. 603 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I go to a horror convention, it's 604 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: all Kujo. 605 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 3: In the Hawling. 606 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 2: What's been your favorite project you've worked on to work on? 607 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 1: What? 608 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 2: No, what's the favorite like of those two hundred, What 609 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 2: has been your favorite Kujo Kuja? 610 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 4: Hands down? 611 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: I just think I went as far as I could go, 612 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 1: as honestly as I could get there. And in a 613 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: project like that, that's not easy because you, by the 614 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 1: very genre, you want to overdo and overact and over 615 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: dramatize the the emotion instead of always going for the 616 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 1: truth and allowing that to then blossom in the most 617 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 1: real way that it can. I mean, obviously, I will 618 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: always be indebted to the universe for bringing me et. 619 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 1: I cannot tell you the number of stories that I 620 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: have where that film has changed people lives. 621 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 2: But you've also have nightmares of the E T Phone 622 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 2: Home that people like me come up to you and say, 623 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 2: E T Phone home. No you did not, Yes I did. 624 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. Oh MG, oh MG, listeners MG. 625 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 2: Don't walk up to d Wallins and say E T 626 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 2: Phone home. Okay, take it from me. Not the right 627 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 2: thing to do. I love you so much though, because 628 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 2: you were an open book. I mean the second we started, 629 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 2: the second we started talking about how many marriages we 630 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 2: both had together, I mean that's I was like, this 631 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 2: is my lady, I just what have you learned the 632 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 2: most out out of love and your experiences with love 633 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 2: and the relationships that you've had, Because you know me, 634 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 2: I came and crying today in the trailer because I'm 635 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 2: you know, what have you learned? What's the best piece 636 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 2: of advice that you can I think the. 637 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 4: Biggest thing. 638 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 1: That screws this up in relationships is that we can 639 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 1: taue you to look for the other person to define 640 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: who we are, and we continue to let their needs 641 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 1: and their feelings and their well belief systems instruct us 642 00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 1: as to what's okay with us. And I think if 643 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 1: if everybody could go okay, I'm going to become the 644 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: most complete, balanced, centered me that I can be, and 645 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 1: then I'm going to attract someone who's complete and balanced, 646 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: and then in both our completeness, we don't complete each other, 647 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: but we create a complete relationship. I think that's the 648 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: biggest challenge for all of us, especially women, because you know, 649 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 1: God forbid we eat an apple and the snake comes. 650 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 1: I mean, we've been inundated, right with the fact that 651 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 1: we're second class citizens since the beginning of time. 652 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 2: Have you seen any change in that though? 653 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:30,959 Speaker 4: Well? Sure, I mean, you know, piecemeal, piecemeal. 654 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: The suffragettes got us the vote, and now we've got 655 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 1: the hashtag me too moment, and I think more and 656 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: more and more women are claiming they're right. I mean, 657 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 1: you know what, thirty forty years ago, we didn't even 658 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 1: have the right to go to college. What Yeah, most women, No, No, 659 00:33:55,960 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: it wasn't accepted, wasn't accepted socially everybody. You were supposed 660 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: to get married, have the babies, clean the house, and 661 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 1: have the. 662 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 4: Dinner ready at six o'clock. 663 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:11,400 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that there's anything wrong or less 664 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:17,959 Speaker 1: for that life, but not to have the choice. See, 665 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: when you take choice away from people, what. 666 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 2: You're like see when yeah, she's rev up. 667 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:31,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, when you take choice away from people, you screw 668 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:38,240 Speaker 1: with consciousness. And then and consciousness doesn't just create itself. 669 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 1: It's not something that's just there. You define your consciousness. 670 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:48,399 Speaker 1: You choose how conscious you want to be. And if 671 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 1: somebody takes your choice away from you, which is everywhere 672 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: in our world right now? That limits you from your 673 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,840 Speaker 1: self creation and that's not okay. 674 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I I one hundred percent agree with you 675 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 2: on that for sure. Where do you want to what 676 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 2: would you want to do next? Like do what's your 677 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 2: dream role? What's your Have you already done it? Are 678 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 2: you kind of just loving where you're at where you're 679 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 2: at now, or is there something that you haven't done 680 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 2: yet that you want to do. 681 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: I want to play a none that's really tormented and 682 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 1: searching about her faith and what the truth is. I've 683 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,839 Speaker 1: always wanted to play that part. Don't ask me. 684 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 4: Why I don't it. It's interesting. 685 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 1: I kind of have faith running in and out through 686 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:41,840 Speaker 1: my family pattern. This kind of sums up my family. 687 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 1: My older brother was a Methodist minister and he worked 688 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 1: his way through seminary shooting pictures for Playboy. That's kind 689 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: of sums up my entire family right there, Die echotomy. 690 00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: I have just commissioned an awesome script for my daughter, 691 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 1: Gabrielle Stone and myself. 692 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 2: Who By the way, Gabrielle Stone, her daughter, has a 693 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:11,320 Speaker 2: book out. It's fantastic. It's called Eat Prey hashtag FML 694 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 2: and great story about her life and relationships. It's it's 695 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,839 Speaker 2: so great. So you guys definitely go check that out 696 00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 2: as well. 697 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,760 Speaker 4: Thank you for that. Of course, we're having a love moment. 698 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 4: We are. 699 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 1: But it's a road trip, a mother daughter road trip, 700 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:33,320 Speaker 1: and all kinds of weird things happen. You don't really 701 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 1: know what's going on. I'm telling her, Yeah, go sleep 702 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,839 Speaker 1: with that guy. And I brought some coke. You've never 703 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 1: tried it to have some, you know. And and little 704 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,400 Speaker 1: by little, by little, you find out that we're on 705 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: a road trip to Portland for an assisted suicide because 706 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 1: she's dying of cancer. 707 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:53,360 Speaker 4: Oh my heart. 708 00:36:53,600 --> 00:37:02,840 Speaker 1: But it's a beautiful, wow, beautiful, poetic, funny, heart wrenching scripts. 709 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,839 Speaker 4: And so that's my that's my big goal. You know. 710 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 1: We've we've really been focused for a few months now 711 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: on springing her book and you know, making a success 712 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: out of that. She also is a director and has 713 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 1: an option on a best selling internet book called Spilled Milk. 714 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 2: Oh Awesome, which is a true story. 715 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 1: About a young woman who was sexually molested by her 716 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: father for years and gave herself up for that to 717 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 1: protect her other siblings. And in high school, her counselor 718 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: talked her into bringing him to court and he was 719 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 1: convicted and he gets out in two years. 720 00:37:59,040 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 2: What. 721 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:05,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so uh, we're really focused on financing and 722 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 1: raising money for that both those projects now and getting 723 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 1: those off the ground. 724 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 2: Amazing. Well, I love it. And again, everyone go to 725 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 2: imd Wallace dot com for an amazing read and to 726 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 2: connect with her world, because I'm telling you, I've I've 727 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 2: been blessed to have her entermind and I hope that 728 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 2: she sticks around. 729 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 4: Oh, because that's just the worst though. 730 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 2: I feel like it's like summer camp and then people 731 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 2: leave upsets. And that's what I hate the most, is 732 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 2: because you form that friendship and that heart connection that 733 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 2: I don't I don't want to ever lose that. And well, 734 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 2: it takes. 735 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 4: It takes an effort, it takes, yes it does, and choice, 736 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 4: but we've already made that, haven't. 737 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 2: Okay, do you thank you for coming on? 738 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 4: I appreciate it, my great pleasure. 739 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:49,720 Speaker 2: Do we have an emails? 740 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,360 Speaker 3: Yes? We do. This one is from Katie Uh. She 741 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 3: says she loves the show. First of all, thank you 742 00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 3: Katie Uh. She's twenty five years old. She was with 743 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,239 Speaker 3: a guy for two and a half years. They had 744 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,399 Speaker 3: two dogs. They lived together, made a lot of life 745 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 3: changes together, but then he broke up with her about 746 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,600 Speaker 3: a year ago, and she was expecting they were going 747 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,239 Speaker 3: to live their life together. When he broke up with her, 748 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 3: he said she was a hard person to love. There's 749 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 3: a phrase she replays in her head over and over 750 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 3: and over. It's become her mantra, and she says, in 751 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 3: the year since he's broken up with her, she's made 752 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 3: a lot of bad decisions. Her eating has changed, her 753 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:31,400 Speaker 3: mood has changed, and she started sleeping with him on 754 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:35,040 Speaker 3: and off, kind of as a crutch, and then finally 755 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,400 Speaker 3: in May of this year, she blocked him. Hasn't spoken 756 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 3: to him since, but she wants some advice on how 757 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 3: to get out of that funk and how to ignore 758 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 3: or how to react to that phrase. What do you 759 00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 3: do when someone says you're hard to love? 760 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like that's not when someone says like, 761 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:54,640 Speaker 2: you're a hard person to love. I would just switch 762 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 2: it and be like, well, what's maybe there's something for 763 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,880 Speaker 2: them that they're a hard person, Like they like they 764 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 2: have their own projecting. It's yeah, it's projecting onto her. 765 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,719 Speaker 2: So it's like, don't don't take his stuff because so 766 00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 2: this kind of brings me to kind of what Michael 767 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 2: and I struggle with. He'll be like, it's never good enough, 768 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 2: and I was like, no, it is, but that's how 769 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,360 Speaker 2: you feel like it's not good enough because you have 770 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,880 Speaker 2: your own issues of not feeling good enough. So just 771 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 2: because I'm like, I've said good job to this and this, 772 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 2: but he's like, but but then you're not happy about this, 773 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,760 Speaker 2: and I'm like, but I am, but you're you're taking 774 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 2: it in a difference. It's like, just because you have 775 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 2: you feel because you struggle with not feeling good enough, 776 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 2: you're projecting that onto me when I've never I haven't 777 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:43,879 Speaker 2: said anything that even doubted what just I loved that date? 778 00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 2: That was amazing. What do you mean it wasn't good 779 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 2: enough just because I said, next time, let's go to 780 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 2: the movies, or I would, hey, this was so much fun. 781 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:51,680 Speaker 2: Way maybe next date we should go to the movies. 782 00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,920 Speaker 2: That'd be so much fun too, you know where it's like, 783 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,319 Speaker 2: that's not I was not like saying, And I get 784 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,520 Speaker 2: like the timing of things with that situation, but I 785 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 2: also think it's also they're projecting their feelings on you. 786 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,799 Speaker 2: And you know not to. I don't want you to 787 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,919 Speaker 2: go to other to blame too. I think you should 788 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:09,840 Speaker 2: look into yourself. Okay, what are the parts that I 789 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,239 Speaker 2: should work on? What are the parts like? So for me, 790 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I can be a little passive aggressive, Okay, 791 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,279 Speaker 2: let's work on that, you know, and so how so 792 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,919 Speaker 2: I can be a little easier to love. 793 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,440 Speaker 3: And the important thing Katie to think about is that 794 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 3: she says here like because I'm hard to love, I'm 795 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,799 Speaker 3: never going to have a family, I'm never going true. 796 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 2: Yeah no, and don't and don't let that define you, 797 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 2: because you are you and you know someone's gonna I mean, 798 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 2: Lee Bryce wrote a damn song about it, and it's 799 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 2: about you know, Sarah Bryce. It's like, yeah, so it's 800 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:46,399 Speaker 2: you know, it's don't make it easy. It's just such 801 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 2: a good song and it's fine. And I just you know, 802 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 2: don't let that define you and just know that you 803 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 2: know you're you are who you are, but also work 804 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:56,720 Speaker 2: on yourself. 805 00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:58,760 Speaker 3: It's good advice. 806 00:41:58,960 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 2: Thanks Easton. 807 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 3: Here's one uh. This is from Danielle. 808 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:05,480 Speaker 2: Okay. 809 00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,600 Speaker 3: She loves listening to you and Mike on the podcast 810 00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 3: and following you on Instagram. That is your Instagram is great. 811 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 3: I'm a big fan, been a big fan for a 812 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:12,439 Speaker 3: long time. 813 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,640 Speaker 2: I love you and everyone loved your dancing. 814 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 3: On your Instagram, you talk about howmuch you love wine. 815 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,319 Speaker 3: What are some of your favorites. She says that after 816 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,360 Speaker 3: being pregnant, her chaste, her taste for it, she loved changed. 817 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 3: She's always looking for new wines to try. So, what 818 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:28,360 Speaker 3: are some of your favorites. 819 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 2: I'm a big cab girl. I love red wine, so 820 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:34,480 Speaker 2: I like Camus is my favorite, Camus Special Select. And 821 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,440 Speaker 2: then I like Honig anything from Orange Swift. I'm a 822 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:41,760 Speaker 2: huge fan of orn Swift, so abstract. And then I 823 00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:45,600 Speaker 2: love I Love I can never know if it's how 824 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,280 Speaker 2: it's pronounced, but I think it's called papillon pep. 825 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 3: Pep French for butterfly. 826 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 2: Oh it's really good. Those are probably my favorite. And 827 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 2: then a nice like middle of the middle of the 828 00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:00,359 Speaker 2: road wine. It's called Saldo. It's like about like twenty bucks, real, 829 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,120 Speaker 2: real tasty. 830 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:02,439 Speaker 4: And then. 831 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 2: This wine called It's a blend, a red Schooner from 832 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,080 Speaker 2: the brother of Kmus. 833 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Well, if you want to sip like Jana, and. 834 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,360 Speaker 2: If you want to drink some wine and wind down. 835 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:23,600 Speaker 2: We are coming to Michigan, Chicago, Maryland, Pennsylvania. In Chicago, 836 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 2: I think I already said that, and we are coming Louisville. 837 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 2: So we're going on tour. It's like a comedy session 838 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,640 Speaker 2: meets a therapy session meets me singing music. 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That's clutter dot 866 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,360 Speaker 2: com slash Jana. Enter promo code Jana at checkout. 867 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 3: So here's one last email before we wrap this bad 868 00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 3: boy up. 869 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 870 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 3: This is from Brittany Britain. She would like Mike to 871 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:06,320 Speaker 3: be included on this, but maybe you know, sorry Brett, 872 00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 3: maybe maybe it's better without him. Free to talk about this, uh, 873 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,759 Speaker 3: she wants you to talk about your recent triggers and 874 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 3: how you're overcoming them. Woof Yeah, too heavy of one 875 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,280 Speaker 3: to end the show on. 876 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:23,040 Speaker 2: But oh Easton, I want to and then a good note. 877 00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 2: We talked about heavy stuff today. Look, triggers are hard, 878 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 2: Triggers are tough. We were going through right now. We're 879 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 2: in a season where it's it's it's been really tough. 880 00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,560 Speaker 2: But how do I deal with my triggers? 881 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:38,719 Speaker 3: Yes? How are you overcoming them? 882 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 2: I think the healthiest way to deal with triggers to 883 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 2: talk about him. What I've learned in the past is 884 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,879 Speaker 2: that I used to shove things down and not talk 885 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 2: about it, and then it'll it would come out so sideways, 886 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:51,279 Speaker 2: so I would be like upset at him about a lampshade, 887 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,640 Speaker 2: but really I'm talking about the trigger that I felt 888 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,120 Speaker 2: two weeks ago that he had no idea about. So 889 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 2: I think it's staying ahead of it and being like, hey, 890 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,840 Speaker 2: I'm triggered right now, and I just I feel sad 891 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,879 Speaker 2: and I feel lonely. And what the other person needs 892 00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 2: to do is meet you with empathy and grace and 893 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:08,799 Speaker 2: say I'm sorry you're feeling that way. What can I 894 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,920 Speaker 2: do for you? And just that's been the best thing 895 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,359 Speaker 2: for us because we've been able to really do that. 896 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 2: But it's the days where we don't and we let 897 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,840 Speaker 2: we trigger, we let the triggers swallow, and it's bad 898 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 2: because it does not come out in a beautiful light. 899 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,279 Speaker 2: So just try and stay ahead of it and be 900 00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,399 Speaker 2: honest and be vulnerable. I know that's hard because I 901 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,200 Speaker 2: get it wrong all the time, but I think that's 902 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,440 Speaker 2: the best thing that you can do in a relationship 903 00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 2: when you have triggers come up. 904 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:39,239 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's hard to I mean, I think it's 905 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 3: hard to think about that stuff when you're in it. 906 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 3: So it's so important to remember these words for when 907 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,880 Speaker 3: you're experiencing that because that's a good way to get. 908 00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,400 Speaker 2: Out of it. Yeah, for sure. All right, Well this 909 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,399 Speaker 2: has been fun. Hope you guys have had fun on 910 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,680 Speaker 2: set in my trailer in New Iberia, Louisiana. Talk to 911 00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 2: you next week. El mamamm mhm