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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Joy in Charlotte. Joy writes,

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend is a crybaby and I'm embarrassed by him.

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Speaker 1: His son lost his little league game and my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: cried over it. This child is ten. The child is

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Speaker 1: ten years old and he held it together better than

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Speaker 1: his dad did. Is it great that he's so sensitive?

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Speaker 1: Or is this a sign of weakness and men?

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Speaker 2: Well, here's a deal.

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Speaker 3: You can be sensitive, yeah, or you can be emotional.

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Speaker 2: You can't be both.

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Speaker 1: What's the difference?

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Speaker 3: Sensitive is you'll I don't want to use the word

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Speaker 3: to describe a word, but you are in touch with

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Speaker 3: not only your feelings but others, you know, like like

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Speaker 3: I'm sensitive to if you're having a bad day, I

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Speaker 3: could be sensitive to that. Yeah, you know, if I

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Speaker 3: could be sensitive to that emotional?

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Speaker 2: Is this here? Though you're having a bad day? How

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Speaker 2: bad is your day? I have a bad day too? Hey? Hey,

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Speaker 2: hey dog? Hold up.

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Speaker 3: So now you're sensitive and emotional. You get to pick one.

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Speaker 3: As a man could be sensitive or emotional, You don't

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Speaker 3: get to pick two. He both of them sensitive to

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Speaker 3: his son's.

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Speaker 1: Loss, crying about it, and his son isn't even ten

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Speaker 1: year old? Son?

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Speaker 2: Isn't hey.

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Speaker 3: Sensitive and emotional to everything? That would be a problem. Now,

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Speaker 3: there are certain things that a man or a woman

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Speaker 3: should be sensitive and emotional too.

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Speaker 2: Grief is one of them.

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Speaker 3: You know, you should be sensitive and emotional about that.

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Speaker 3: That's acceptable, you know, grief. After that, though, we gotta

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Speaker 3: start watching you.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what she wants to know. That's what Joy

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Speaker 1: and Charlotte wants to know. Is this a sign of

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Speaker 1: weakness and men?

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, yeah, because let me explain something. If he

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Speaker 3: cried over the loss of a little game, and what

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Speaker 3: you think would happen if he lose his job?

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Speaker 2: Woh indicator, great guy, great guy, you great job. Guys

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Speaker 2: hanging there, Craig, Yeah right, yeah, you gonna have a promo.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Hassim and Auburn, Hassim writes, my ex

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Speaker 1: wife asked me if we can have sex. I'm all

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Speaker 1: for it, but she's getting married on December twentieth. She

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Speaker 1: cheated on me when we were married, so I'd hate

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Speaker 1: to help her cheat on her fiance. But she's great

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Speaker 1: in bed. Should I give her what she wants? What?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, let's go over a couple of technical things. Okay,

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Speaker 3: let's go Number one, she not married.

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Speaker 1: Not until December twentieth.

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Speaker 2: Number two, she asked you.

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Speaker 1: No, so he has to oblige because she has.

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Speaker 2: Number three, she's great in bed. I don't know how

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Speaker 2: you're not over it. Wait, you don't know how. I

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Speaker 2: don't know how you ain't over there? Right now? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I will. I would be typing this letter from the hotel.

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Speaker 1: Room to this question, should I give her what she wants?

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Speaker 3: Your response, well, bro, you know she cheated on you

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Speaker 3: and all this here. You know this is not a

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Speaker 3: good person, so I don't I wouldn't advise it. I

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Speaker 3: wouldn't advise it. But then I don't know how you're

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Speaker 3: not gonna do it. See, Tommy, Tommy, it makes a

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Speaker 3: lot of sense.

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Speaker 2: Look problem that you're trying to make sense That she

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Speaker 2: listened to me.

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Speaker 3: Tommy, Tommy, it makes perfect sense. Do you know how

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Speaker 3: many times we have advised ourself against something and done

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Speaker 3: it anyway?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, okay, See how that don't make sense.

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Speaker 3: I've told myself not to do it. I gave myself

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Speaker 3: all the reasons why I shouldn't do it. Yeah, my

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Speaker 3: stupid behind what over that?

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Speaker 2: Did it? Anyway? God don't.

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Speaker 1: But when you were younger, right, more so when you

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Speaker 1: were younger, right.

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Speaker 2: Stuff?

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Speaker 3: I told myself not to do I did something at sixty.

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Speaker 3: I did something I should and it did at sixty.

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Speaker 2: Huge mistake at sixty, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Kamika and Queens, Kamika writes, I already

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Speaker 1: bought lots of Christmas gifts for our three daughters. My

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Speaker 1: husband flipped out because he instructed me to buy one

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Speaker 1: really nice gift for each girl. Since we're taking them

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Speaker 1: to Paris? Why can't I do both? Should I return

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Speaker 1: all of these gifts.

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Speaker 2: And go to Paris? What is what? How are these kids?

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Speaker 2: She doesn't say they don't know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't say she bought lots of Christmas gifts

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Speaker 1: and were going to Paris?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do you know where?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what's waiting on you in Paris? Emotion

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Speaker 3: that goes to do? Paris is for shopping and eating?

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know that.

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Speaker 3: Now you can go over there, you can look at

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Speaker 3: the louver and all that. I'm not a museum guy.

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Speaker 3: Don't ask me to go I don't want to walk

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Speaker 3: around look at your old pitches.

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Speaker 2: That ain't. I don't like that. I don't get who

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Speaker 2: painted it white? Mona, listen, little ugly white woman. Why

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Speaker 2: do we keep looking at her like this is such

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Speaker 2: a nice pitch. I'm going who is she? She's not

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Speaker 2: an attractive woman. Dog. It ain't like they drew nobody. Fine,

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Speaker 2: it's the crooked smile, you know, you know, I.

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Speaker 3: Just don't get it, you know, the sixteen chappling all

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Speaker 3: all these white people up on this wall.

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Speaker 2: But it ain't. No, ain't no black angels. What is weak?

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Speaker 2: Why is oh man, it's weak? Going to heaven? Why

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Speaker 2: is everybody else? All the cherubs is white? White? At

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Speaker 2: the white kid got these bow and arrows and shooting?

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Speaker 3: Where is the black kids out not sitting over here

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Speaker 3: watching this.

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Speaker 2: Black chairdren woman.

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Speaker 3: No, and mother Mary, and Jesus is black anyway, And

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Speaker 3: I saw him in Croatia.

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Speaker 2: They got a museum in Croatia.

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Speaker 3: With the original artwork of Jesus' mother Mary and everything.

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Speaker 3: They got the artwork in this museum. When the Italians

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Speaker 3: and Romans came over there and took over, they whitewashed

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Speaker 3: all them pictures. Where as them pictures at Wow, Now

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Speaker 3: all the all the all the hiccaic, come hic, Come

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Speaker 3: Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: All these little white babies with these bow and row

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Speaker 2: stopped shooting me.

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