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Speaker 1: with the show. Wake up bits well Ship. They probably
Speaker 1: already a woke They at work home, I know, but
Speaker 1: like you know, damn and I don't even gonna hold you, bitch.
Speaker 1: I'll be waking up early, even though I gotta go
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Speaker 1: not all heard working listeners like the holes listen to
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Speaker 1: their way back from way. I guess that's the job.
Speaker 1: It is a job, and we got a whole job
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Speaker 1: whole job worker. Hey guys, it's Monday. Welcome to yet
Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl, may dB Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm wheezy, Welcome to the show. I'm excited really quick.
Speaker 1: I want to say to all of the Latino listeners,
Speaker 1: I want you guys to band together because, as some
Speaker 1: of you know, I don't really get party about fourteen Street,
Speaker 1: but somebody took me to two hunety seven. That's above me.
Speaker 1: So what happens when I go uptown? Like a lot
Speaker 1: of our listeners listen up to look like our uptown.
Speaker 1: So I'll go somewhere and they'd be like hot in there,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I'd be like, oh shit,
Speaker 1: like mad listeners for the show. Nobody, nobody even spoke
Speaker 1: to me in English, and then when I told them
Speaker 1: that I don't speak us, bunny, They're like why you
Speaker 1: never learned, like why are your mom made teachers? It's
Speaker 1: and then I'd be like, okay, bitch, that's it. You
Speaker 1: just gotta do to welcoming. It was like I was
Speaker 1: deep the goddamn in there. And then what I realized
Speaker 1: is like, these bitches are hoes, like amazingly hose, and
Speaker 1: I just feel like, why can't we blend them in
Speaker 1: together as people of color with our black girl listeners
Speaker 1: in the seventeen white listeners? Whatever you guys, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you dropped down because we'll be talking shit,
Speaker 1: but I just want all of any of our Latino
Speaker 1: listeners spread this ship to other Latina friends. I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: these holes were lit well. I want to go ahead
Speaker 1: and extend that to our Afro latina's. Yeah because yeah,
Speaker 1: because we got an email from a Puerto Rican who
Speaker 1: apparently is one of the white Latinas and felt that
Speaker 1: we exclude her from the conversation. I'm gonna be real
Speaker 1: with you. I don't like that sometimes, and I think
Speaker 1: I've even made this mistake and I've had to learn
Speaker 1: I used to when I was in high school. Can
Speaker 1: tell me if y'all feel this way or even colleg
Speaker 1: or whatever, and like Latino will say, nigga could be
Speaker 1: cool with it. But the more I get to know
Speaker 1: Latino like because I'd be like, oh, the niggas too,
Speaker 1: but they're not, not all of but I would be
Speaker 1: around a lot of Dominicans, so they are black to me.
Speaker 1: A lot of them are more so Cubans are. So however,
Speaker 1: that's the thing too with Dominicans. They're darker and skin color,
Speaker 1: especially because they share the island of Haiti like it's split.
Speaker 1: But they are the most and I'm sorry to say
Speaker 1: that they don't want to hear the basis Dominicans acknowledge
Speaker 1: that the other one I hate it. So the older
Speaker 1: I've been getting, I have been getting to know, like
Speaker 1: I don't know Latino culture and realizing a lot of
Speaker 1: them are whitest and tell them y'all can't say that
Speaker 1: in word amore, and they really cannot tell you. I'm
Speaker 1: so glad you said this bit. I just had this argument,
Speaker 1: So I'm so glad you say I don't think that
Speaker 1: they should be allowed to say at this point. I
Speaker 1: don't think so either. But I didn't always feel that
Speaker 1: way because my Latino friends were black. But we're also,
Speaker 1: I think it's different growing up also in Florida's I
Speaker 1: think it's different being up here. I didn't know how
Speaker 1: much it was like we are us and black people
Speaker 1: are them, like they separate themselves from blacks. But it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, you shouldn't be able to say the N
Speaker 1: word that in Florida. I think it doesn't feel like
Speaker 1: that because it's already so racially charged. So white people
Speaker 1: make anybody feel like so you do be like okay,
Speaker 1: And not only not only that, I went to all
Speaker 1: black schools and it wasn't many African Americans. A lot
Speaker 1: of like the black people that I grew up with
Speaker 1: were Haitian, Jamaican. Yeah that's Florida, especially Orlando. So I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'm glad you said that. Yes, we got to
Speaker 1: take the N word away from them. If you're Latina
Speaker 1: friends that are not afrol Latina, you know, just to
Speaker 1: give them a little you know, Latina. What's the Latino
Speaker 1: nigga in? What do they say? So? So I know
Speaker 1: the word that each other what it's spick right, that's
Speaker 1: the slur, but they don't call that but nigga technically
Speaker 1: was they haven't reclaimed. They haven't claimed it yet, reclaimed
Speaker 1: not just like Asians haven't claimed changing because it's crazy.
Speaker 1: Is we embraced we embraced ho and slut on this podcast,
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just told her like agents haven't embraced
Speaker 1: chink either. Those are still slurs. The black people took
Speaker 1: nigga and embraced it and changed it into uh. And
Speaker 1: that's the one word. That's why I'm very adamant to
Speaker 1: on the F word with gay men and women they
Speaker 1: have because they don't use it for it ain't no
Speaker 1: what I'm you know, No, they don't so like and
Speaker 1: and bit too. By the way, I've had to stop,
Speaker 1: like when I meet a girl for the first time, now,
Speaker 1: i'd be like, oh, that's that's a bit and yet
Speaker 1: and I mean, that's that's what weis becoming for me
Speaker 1: because our very first venue, it was in d C.
Speaker 1: And she was she started off just cool as by
Speaker 1: the end of the show, I was like, yeah, a
Speaker 1: bit and I was like, oh, hold on, let me
Speaker 1: let me tell this story because Mandy's wilding right now.
Speaker 1: I didn't do it at this gridgeous theater. I don't know. Actually,
Speaker 1: one of the best staff they were great shout out
Speaker 1: to DC Arena Stage A stage one of our best
Speaker 1: Amzo White Girl. We get in and so I'm on
Speaker 1: the phone with her and I'm letting her know about
Speaker 1: the show, and she's friend and fun, like fun and
Speaker 1: friendly on the phone. So once we arrive, I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, this is like a really bast show. She's like,
Speaker 1: people have been outside. They are so invested. I mean,
Speaker 1: we have a theatrical performance going on, and even they're like,
Speaker 1: what's going on on this side? And you know, we
Speaker 1: just there was a divide there was we love your energy.
Speaker 1: So we do one show. They're they love it right there. Dope,
Speaker 1: there's like lesbian chicken back. So we live. So by
Speaker 1: the time the show was over, Mandy says to the girl.
Speaker 1: The girl gives us up. She's like, I hope you
Speaker 1: guys come back. And Mandy goes, oh, bitch, we've got
Speaker 1: to come back. Look at it because I'm not as
Speaker 1: she was so cool like during our whole thing. Wait,
Speaker 1: the staff was also so cool. During our homemail portion,
Speaker 1: one of the fucking um workers asked a question. They
Speaker 1: did it was but one of our sta She was
Speaker 1: jarred a little bit, and I said Mandy, and so
Speaker 1: Mandy apologizes. So on our way out with the girl girls,
Speaker 1: Hey Mandy, bye bitch. She did. It was so cute.
Speaker 1: It was so cute. It's crazy. How um. So sometimes
Speaker 1: Mandy and I have walked into theaters and they kind
Speaker 1: of look at a shady and then the second it's over,
Speaker 1: they're like, wow, oh, let me we're updated. Look at
Speaker 1: you guys with your little business. She no, I was
Speaker 1: actually wait wait wait no, I was gonna bring up
Speaker 1: l A. So first off, in l A we did
Speaker 1: the matinee Bullshit four to six because when we hit
Speaker 1: up these comedy clubs, they're like, y'all comedians, y'all can
Speaker 1: have the time slot that nobody wants, but we can't
Speaker 1: give you our prime time slot. So we did l
Speaker 1: A improv um Hollywood improv in l A. And the
Speaker 1: first day it was rocking on us. They was like, okay,
Speaker 1: this is cool. We got the no name God damn
Speaker 1: bottle water and ship. The first day like thirsty, here
Speaker 1: you go. Oh. The next day they were like Fiji,
Speaker 1: here you go. That's right, Yes, they gave us fig
Speaker 1: The next day they was like, you know what, we'll
Speaker 1: be more hands on. They like provided next curity. The
Speaker 1: next day, they was like, we've never had a matinee show.
Speaker 1: Do this well? And your audience, how are they so
Speaker 1: lively at four o'clock in the afternoon, basically turned up.
Speaker 1: It was so you gotime you have, which is funny
Speaker 1: because one of our venues, I know, you know what
Speaker 1: you're talking about, treat us like ship so much so
Speaker 1: that Ian who manages Joe Budden's podcast, we were like,
Speaker 1: he came back stage to see us. He was like,
Speaker 1: y'all good, and we're like, no, like d D He's like,
Speaker 1: what y'all want me to do? It was second the
Speaker 1: show was done. These people sold mad liquor. Now they're
Speaker 1: hitting us up to give us the venue for free.
Speaker 1: Mandy and I spent five racks. This was our most
Speaker 1: it's the venue, they said, but not only not only
Speaker 1: not only free the prime time slot that they didn't offer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so but yeah, anyway, enough about that, We're gonna do
Speaker 1: a look quick catch up. Um. We haven't done catchups
Speaker 1: in a while. We have been super guest field and
Speaker 1: we have a great guest today which we're gonna get
Speaker 1: into you because bitch, I'm ready for you. You guys
Speaker 1: met on a great fune. I actually wasn't there that
Speaker 1: episode that they recorded that I was out of town,
Speaker 1: so I didn't make the recording. But when I saw
Speaker 1: this episode that I wasn't a part of, I was like, oh, bish,
Speaker 1: I like you, Like she just speaks so well on everything.
Speaker 1: She just so I wanted to bring her in all
Speaker 1: the time. I think around that the same time I
Speaker 1: found her on Instagram out the guy she likes, don't
Speaker 1: he speaks so well that it's like maybe I'm more
Speaker 1: of a said like the white lady who just like
Speaker 1: you little nigga bit just you and I and good
Speaker 1: for you. I hate you, know, but I wanted to
Speaker 1: catch up on some recent sex paides. Recently UM Wheezy
Speaker 1: and I were recording UM Patreon and she was like,
Speaker 1: I want to save this story from other fucking A
Speaker 1: regular because she was ready to tell you now it's
Speaker 1: something that good, and you know, it's like it's good.
Speaker 1: So I met this dude into the East party. We
Speaker 1: went on some dates, super attractive, but I don't know
Speaker 1: why we just weren't connecting. It was weird and it's funny.
Speaker 1: The last time we had someone from Great Ryan which
Speaker 1: was aisha. I mentioned how we slept in the bed
Speaker 1: together without sleeping together. Wait, that was when you that's right.
Speaker 1: We talked about intimacy before being intimate. So he was
Speaker 1: looking so good the other day on Instagram. I was like,
Speaker 1: you want to go to dinner? He was like yeah,
Speaker 1: I get to the place, the restaurant by where he lives,
Speaker 1: which I figured he lived in the area because he
Speaker 1: mentioned even before. I was like, already know what's up.
Speaker 1: And to be honest with you, I knew I wanted
Speaker 1: to suck him like. I was like, fuck it. We
Speaker 1: had some weird dates whatever. I get in there and
Speaker 1: he's looking at me and he's like a word because
Speaker 1: I had my tities out. He was like, okay, that's
Speaker 1: what you are. I was like yeah, And then he
Speaker 1: told me I had something on my top and like
Speaker 1: brushed by my nipple and he was like, you look
Speaker 1: really good. I was like you. So then we started
Speaker 1: talking and I'm like, you know, why didn't you call
Speaker 1: me back? Like because we were vibing and you could
Speaker 1: feel it. I'm like, why why didn't you like hit
Speaker 1: me up to see me another time? He's like, when
Speaker 1: I was in your bed, you made me feel like
Speaker 1: you were uncomfortable that I was there, and I completely
Speaker 1: felt the opposite, and I was like, really, why is that?
Speaker 1: And he was like, well, like you were turning her
Speaker 1: back to me, like you weren't like really letting me
Speaker 1: touch you. So I said, like, I knew I didn't
Speaker 1: want to have sex, so I didn't really know how
Speaker 1: to touch you think, and he was like, yeah, like
Speaker 1: I was scared to even put my hands on you.
Speaker 1: He was like, I wasn't even on that type of
Speaker 1: ship but you. And it's crazy because I knew he
Speaker 1: wasn't pressed for pussy, but I also thought if I
Speaker 1: lean on him too much, is that going to give
Speaker 1: him the wrong idea? And it's so that's very interesting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's very the small things we think about,
Speaker 1: like women. She remembered it, and I remembered it. But
Speaker 1: with the crazy part though, is how you had such
Speaker 1: a different response and thought we were so intimate and
Speaker 1: I love that we were in bed together and didn't
Speaker 1: have sex, and he thought that you weren't coomfortable the
Speaker 1: whole time. I think it's crazy how that happened, he
Speaker 1: was saying, Because I was like, I even I told him.
Speaker 1: I even talked about you on an episode like how
Speaker 1: I was. He was like, you told me when I
Speaker 1: came upstairs we were gonna have sex, like I already knew,
Speaker 1: so I was. I didn't know, and I just thought
Speaker 1: if I was, you know, that don't mean because i'll
Speaker 1: get you, I'll selling nigga we ain't have a sex
Speaker 1: and they'll be like and they'll know. Still try so yeah,
Speaker 1: I get so anyway, um, he was like, but you good.
Speaker 1: You know I'll send you the bober when we've done,
Speaker 1: even if that's you know, I'll get you. I'll get
Speaker 1: you home, and I was likely, so hold on. He
Speaker 1: takes me to his place, and what was so great
Speaker 1: about it is I like we both knew we were
Speaker 1: gonna fuck, and I could. Very few times in my
Speaker 1: life do I know it's gonna be good, and very
Speaker 1: few times this good the first time. So we go
Speaker 1: smoke a little bit, he gives me something to drink.
Speaker 1: I take like my pants off, having a body suit.
Speaker 1: He's touching me and I take a shower. I come
Speaker 1: out and he starts eating my pussy like he's already
Speaker 1: ate my pussy a million times. Well, normally the first
Speaker 1: time they got to show out right now, he knew everything.
Speaker 1: I like when niggas eat my pussy from the side, right,
Speaker 1: No fucking way, he knew all I'm talking about that.
Speaker 1: I only do that our live shows. So he was
Speaker 1: he out my pussy right. I'm on the couch. He
Speaker 1: stands up over me. I started sucking his dick and
Speaker 1: he's talking to me while I'm doing it, and he's like, yo,
Speaker 1: I knew it was gonna be like this. I knew
Speaker 1: he was gonna suck my dick like this, like to
Speaker 1: you right, And I was like, we start sucking. He
Speaker 1: takes two pumps, bitch, and he's like, oh, you're sucking
Speaker 1: me all the time and looks at me again after
Speaker 1: he's sucking me, and he's like, why do you kept
Speaker 1: this pussy for me? And I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: So good, like his dick fit me, like it was
Speaker 1: meant to be in this pussy. Bro. The entire time
Speaker 1: we were sucking, we kept talking about how good it was.
Speaker 1: He's like, I knew it was I was right, could
Speaker 1: not stop sucking talking, and then we were done fucking.
Speaker 1: He was looking at me and I'm like, I know
Speaker 1: you gotta wake up. He's like, oh no, no no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no no no no, like you stay here. I
Speaker 1: want you to be comfortable, like because you're sucking me
Speaker 1: in the morning again was good at so, like you
Speaker 1: know you might have a local regular d I can't
Speaker 1: wait to get up amazing sex. And then like I'm
Speaker 1: about to start getting dressed, he's like, what niggas you
Speaker 1: tell me you to leave ship And I was like,
Speaker 1: I know. I was like, nig's not be treating me
Speaker 1: like that. He was like, you stay as long as
Speaker 1: you want, like I could feed you if you want.
Speaker 1: I like shit. He got dressed in a little soup
Speaker 1: bish dog. So the next day, it's two o'clock in
Speaker 1: the morning, right some nig is talking to me. The
Speaker 1: niggas lame and I text the dude. I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: I can't get you out of my head. He text
Speaker 1: me back a second later he's like, where are you?
Speaker 1: I tell him where I am. Ten minutes later he's there.
Speaker 1: He comes up, kisses knees, like you're sucking me again tonight, bitch.
Speaker 1: We leave the club and I'm telling you, dog, I
Speaker 1: mean not for my life, but for my pussy. But
Speaker 1: when I say that, ship above. You want to be like,
Speaker 1: that's your boyfriend. You don't want to just do video
Speaker 1: trying to get to listen you phony. He's just like
Speaker 1: my model nigger. You know what I'm saying. He's bougie.
Speaker 1: He was in the South of France. I love all
Speaker 1: that ship and not ly that's my white boys, because
Speaker 1: I like that bougie. But the end of the day,
Speaker 1: he's a fucking nigga. Damn bit I'm talking about God.
Speaker 1: I love that you didn't found you possibly some forever dick,
Speaker 1: because I was just with seven And I don't know
Speaker 1: how I keep saying this, Like, first off, I didn't
Speaker 1: think there was anything left for me to do, especially
Speaker 1: with him. We've been sucking damn near seven years coming up,
Speaker 1: So I'm just like, what the funk. So I'm with
Speaker 1: him the other day. I see we're getting on a
Speaker 1: pattern now, like I'm seeing him either as soon as
Speaker 1: he gets back from out of town or right before
Speaker 1: he leaves. So I'm like, all right. So I go
Speaker 1: to see him and he slumped. We're trying to like
Speaker 1: different ship, but not really different ship. So I'll tell
Speaker 1: you one of the different ships we did. So he
Speaker 1: was slumped in the car. Actually, when I pulled up,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know he was sucking. Like. I was like,
Speaker 1: why are you not answering your phone? So I'm at
Speaker 1: the door and I look in the car. I'm like,
Speaker 1: hearing something vibrate. This nigga slumped in the car. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck? So I see his phone vibrating in
Speaker 1: the car, and I opened the door to get his phone.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking he left in the car. He's in the car.
Speaker 1: Oh my, this nigger, I said, wake up. So he's
Speaker 1: so he turns around, he sees me, he smiles. He
Speaker 1: pulls me into the goddamn car, and I'm just like, really,
Speaker 1: just like, what the fuck. So we're in the car.
Speaker 1: He of course starts smoking, smoking his blunt. I go
Speaker 1: to suck his dick. Okay, can somebody make a cartoon
Speaker 1: out of this? Can please make Mandy? Seriously, I'm dead
Speaker 1: as serious. If you've had the graphic design skill, the
Speaker 1: Lord knows, I don't. I'm gonna pay you a decent amount.
Speaker 1: That can't because it's about to be pouring. You're not
Speaker 1: letting me finish. So we're in the back seat now,
Speaker 1: we in the car to the Oh yeah, there's more
Speaker 1: to the car, so he pulled me in the car.
Speaker 1: He smart. He starts smoking his blunt, and bitch, I
Speaker 1: see his little his little boxes rise, So, bitch, you
Speaker 1: aren't already boom, I ain't gotta do much work get
Speaker 1: you up. So I pull his pants down, start sucking
Speaker 1: his dick, and I'm just like like sucking a dick,
Speaker 1: and he's talking how much how good I am sucking
Speaker 1: a dick, and I love it. So then I go
Speaker 1: down to the balls, but because we're in the back seat,
Speaker 1: there's not that much room. So then he just pulls,
Speaker 1: like pulls down his pants and he's like hop on top.
Speaker 1: Y'all know I don't like writing, so I'm literally the
Speaker 1: front seat is pushed all the way to the front.
Speaker 1: So I get to where I'm riding his dick, but
Speaker 1: like my legs are together. He's sitting on the seat
Speaker 1: and I'm bouncing up and down. But now we're in
Speaker 1: a position to where he noticed something weird and he
Speaker 1: liked it. So let me tell y'all, So his because
Speaker 1: of how we were sitting and how my how far
Speaker 1: up my my legs work, he noticed that his balls
Speaker 1: were like hitting the soles of my feet and he
Speaker 1: was turned on that his balls were kind of being
Speaker 1: massaged by my feet. It was like, oh, your feet
Speaker 1: on my balls? Like he even mentioned it and he
Speaker 1: liked it. So I started like kind of moving trying
Speaker 1: to get the visual in my head. I'm like, so
Speaker 1: I'm literally like the cat, Wait, Taylor and many can
Speaker 1: you guys show us? Let's do it? So yeah, sit down,
Speaker 1: hold on, I'm about to show you. So we're in
Speaker 1: the back seat. Wait, let's get what balls? Can we see?
Speaker 1: I hate you? Those are not the balls. So we're
Speaker 1: sitting in the back seat, so the front seat is
Speaker 1: pushed all the way up. So I'm like this, like
Speaker 1: but you see how my feet have to come up
Speaker 1: because it's the ground and this is ain't strong. So
Speaker 1: I'm like this and I'm going up and down and
Speaker 1: he screwed it up on the seat so his balls
Speaker 1: are hanging and they're hitting the bottom. Okay, I picturing, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I picture. You got it right? Now, you got it
Speaker 1: right yet? Now you got face to face okay. So basically, yeah,
Speaker 1: so that started. He was like, oh, let's go inside,
Speaker 1: So bitch, we go inside. He sucks the ship out
Speaker 1: of me. Up, No, no, no, but so he gets crazy.
Speaker 1: It becomes so that was the first, but then you
Speaker 1: reach another first. So he was sucking the ship out
Speaker 1: of me so bad. I was just like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm relaxing. You sucked the ship out of me. I
Speaker 1: want anal sex today. So I was like, okay, bit
Speaker 1: you ain't. You ain't eat nothing. Crazy, it's too early
Speaker 1: to have coffee. I thought, my booty hole, I'm good.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, put your thumb on my butt.
Speaker 1: I'm like, open her up. I'm ready. So tell me
Speaker 1: why he he goes because we're on the couch for
Speaker 1: the first time in my life. Y'all know, I don't
Speaker 1: even ride dick. How did I ride reverse cow girl
Speaker 1: in my ass? It was amazing too. I came. I
Speaker 1: didn't think I could. No. No, So my pass was faring,
Speaker 1: but my ass wasn't. So my pussy was far and
Speaker 1: then he was putting all the air in my pussy.
Speaker 1: But so he lays back on the couch anything and
Speaker 1: I mount him. What pussy parts when you're ass? No,
Speaker 1: my pussy was farting before he went in my ass,
Speaker 1: Like I'm just saying, he fluked shut out my pussy.
Speaker 1: I wanted to give my pussy air because that's kind
Speaker 1: like science. So he lays back and I mount him
Speaker 1: from the back like this, first off my legs here,
Speaker 1: I feel like a bit to stair master. So I'm
Speaker 1: holding myself up while he's laying down. He's in my
Speaker 1: ass and I'm writing like how they do on the
Speaker 1: gay porn, and I was like, I feel like real
Speaker 1: good right now. And I literally I will say ladies
Speaker 1: for those of you because he tried putting it from
Speaker 1: like the back, and it hurts like hell. It actually
Speaker 1: didn't hurt while I was writing it control. That's why
Speaker 1: I didn't know this because I don't ride. But bitch,
Speaker 1: if y'all want to try, you may want to try
Speaker 1: getting on top first. And again I did said that.
Speaker 1: Who said that we had? I don't know what you
Speaker 1: have couple that I interviewed once, They talk about first
Speaker 1: time an I've heard that a lot. I mean, you
Speaker 1: gotta have strong legs, because sis, I woke up the
Speaker 1: next morning, I said, what is this called? So my groin,
Speaker 1: my hamstrings, everything lower body was on fire. Um, but
Speaker 1: if it actually felt good, and I came, well, I
Speaker 1: mean you're gonna be able to come because you have
Speaker 1: anal sex a lot with him, right, Well, you had
Speaker 1: a lot of experiences, like two or three months with
Speaker 1: You've had enough with him right to know that. I
Speaker 1: was reading that even women that have had anal sex
Speaker 1: ten times in life still have an increased anxiety on
Speaker 1: if it will go to deep powetal hit. So I
Speaker 1: wonder if you were able to come so hard because
Speaker 1: you were controlling your own like asking that could have
Speaker 1: been it so you can really relax. All I know
Speaker 1: is every time I come to this show, I'm thinking
Speaker 1: you and Ida did every goddamn thing, and I know
Speaker 1: how we keep sucking having news did this made me
Speaker 1: think of something having with Beard Babe. I don't know
Speaker 1: if this is when he lose in Miami or what,
Speaker 1: but I remember he asked me to get reverse Kyl Girl,
Speaker 1: and I already didn't want to because I'm like, we
Speaker 1: always talk about you know, he loves my legs, but
Speaker 1: he like, you got a cute little booty, but you
Speaker 1: know it's mainly my legs, and so I know my assets,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So when he asked to
Speaker 1: get reverse cow Girls, like damn, because like I'm good
Speaker 1: at riding, but not from the back. I thought, so,
Speaker 1: this nigga likes my feet. And what I realized was
Speaker 1: so he's laid down. I'm in the bed, and I'm
Speaker 1: like this, you gotta do the feet trick. Then he
Speaker 1: was looking at the other way. You gotta let him.
Speaker 1: It wasn't in the ball my feet. I know he
Speaker 1: was looking at them ships and I could tell because
Speaker 1: I was looking at him, and I'm like, I guess
Speaker 1: if I had to ask to look at that would
Speaker 1: be the visual. However, he was like, fuck it, we're
Speaker 1: gonna do these people look at the feet. You gotta
Speaker 1: you gotta try the foot Imagine if you did the
Speaker 1: foot trick. He already loves a bit. He gonna come,
Speaker 1: bitch with a little tickling to do feet on the balls.
Speaker 1: He gonna come be. But you have down like this
Speaker 1: like no, look looks she missed the instructions. I'm a
Speaker 1: draw a picture for you, Sis, I'm a draw a
Speaker 1: picture for you. Well, we did pictionary on Viceland and
Speaker 1: you can't draw? Can you give me a notepad? I'm
Speaker 1: gonna no, no, no, no no. Since you're a I
Speaker 1: have to practice, I'm gonna I'm gonna get some I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get some of this. But but wait, we do
Speaker 1: have a guest. Guys, y'all hear a third voice in
Speaker 1: the motherfucker's studio today. So I want to introduce our guests.
Speaker 1: Go ahead and let them know because I don't know
Speaker 1: if you're gonna give an aliens or not what what
Speaker 1: they know you as. But go ahead and let our
Speaker 1: listeners know who is. So my government name is Taylor, okay, never,
Speaker 1: but my clients call me Mistress Marley, Mistress Marley. So
Speaker 1: if you guys have not known by Mistress Marley, can
Speaker 1: you let our listeners listeners know what it is that
Speaker 1: you specialize in. So I'm a pro dominatrix specializing in
Speaker 1: financial domination. What's pro dominatrix? So pro dominatrix, you have
Speaker 1: two difference, Okay, So there's pro and there's lifestyle. Lifestyle
Speaker 1: dominatrics they just want to do it for the fun
Speaker 1: of it's me pro They want to make money while
Speaker 1: they're doing it. They want to charge I've never heard
Speaker 1: those neither, So that's interesting. Okay. So lifestyle dominatrix are
Speaker 1: ones who just are me. They want to make people.
Speaker 1: They want to be in the community. They just want
Speaker 1: to experience, you know, learn new things whatever. Okay, but
Speaker 1: I need my goddamn coins. So you could either be
Speaker 1: a pro ho or just a man. I guess wait,
Speaker 1: I like, okay, well, I like to do both too.
Speaker 1: Though I can be lifestyle with just it has to
Speaker 1: be certain people. I can't just be lifestyle just to
Speaker 1: be lifestyle, like, of course, I can't be lifestyle with
Speaker 1: these white boys. They know have the progom treatment and
Speaker 1: that's it. So you're a prodom. So I'm gonna guess
Speaker 1: you don't suck for money. No, oh, this is gonna
Speaker 1: be good. Well, because you said finndom right, And like
Speaker 1: the more I've kind of been like learning about escorts
Speaker 1: and stuff, I find that and I think mistress Unknown
Speaker 1: too doesn't work for money. Like being a sex worker
Speaker 1: doesn't mean having sex all the time. Oh no, it's
Speaker 1: a lot of things that fall under the sex work umbrella. Period. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys watch. So I've been I've been talking to
Speaker 1: my friends and I'm like, you know, I quit my job.
Speaker 1: This is going well. Everyone wants me to make a
Speaker 1: foot page and then I don't know, if you see,
Speaker 1: it's so much bread and not that. Um shout out
Speaker 1: again to Sophia Gray. They hit us back up and
Speaker 1: we are willing to set up a page. Yes, I
Speaker 1: saw that our panties. I don't know if you're interested
Speaker 1: in selling panties on the fun They want your panties
Speaker 1: that you've worn all days? Want what because I don't
Speaker 1: want people to have that much access to me. But
Speaker 1: it's just your panties. It's not you. But what about
Speaker 1: your sample? I go hold you. I saw a wheezy
Speaker 1: story the other day. She said, I'm putting words over
Speaker 1: my feet just because y'all are really at I did.
Speaker 1: But now let me tell you why. I got some
Speaker 1: coin in there, some coin my pedicure off live exactly.
Speaker 1: Just show me your foot on live, I said, send
Speaker 1: me a cash to pay for my next pedicure. He did.
Speaker 1: It's just some of them are just a lot, and
Speaker 1: it's not like I'm uncomfortable, but okay, it really is
Speaker 1: from an experience I had in person. Um, I go
Speaker 1: to this bar called Maxi Fish all the time. It's
Speaker 1: my neighborhood bar, and so I always tell listeners because
Speaker 1: they'll pull up and I kind of like enjoy that.
Speaker 1: So this one dude came up and he was like, yo,
Speaker 1: I love the show. Did it? I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: thank you? And he goes and your feet out too.
Speaker 1: So I was like okay, right, so I'm by myself
Speaker 1: because there's a bar tender downstairs always kicking with sob
Speaker 1: rolling up alone. He's like, get your feet out too.
Speaker 1: So I was like, so I started clinging to the
Speaker 1: nigga that it's at the bar right, shout out to
Speaker 1: my nigga, James. He came to our shows and ship
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, oh no, hold me close to me.
Speaker 1: And the dude was like, so you still single, right,
Speaker 1: And I was like, bro. I was like, I ain't
Speaker 1: looking that and he was like oh. He was like
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I just want to make sure nigga cool.
Speaker 1: You know, as soon as they do the feat that
Speaker 1: I get pedicures. I was like, well, I don't have
Speaker 1: anything to offer my feet, like that's not I don't
Speaker 1: really do anything with my feet or anything like that.
Speaker 1: He's like, I'll teach you if you want me to wheezy,
Speaker 1: like that's no problem, I'll teach you. And he was
Speaker 1: having this like like when people like I'm like oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm trying to work on audio and stuff. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'll teach you. He said the same thing with my feet,
Speaker 1: just as if it was a craft that is hilarious
Speaker 1: angles pictures like yeah, and he was like, it could
Speaker 1: be other people, if you want to make some extracrash,
Speaker 1: it could be just me. And I'm sitting fucking terrified
Speaker 1: for my goddamn well, I'm ready, y'all can send me shoes.
Speaker 1: I'm getting a peel box. Um, I'm gonna set you
Speaker 1: all up with all of that because I'm about to
Speaker 1: do the whole foot page and probably seal these draws.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna go ahead and get into We're gonna
Speaker 1: go ahead and get into our vanilla ship for this episode.
Speaker 1: And it only makes sense because New York just got
Speaker 1: over a goddamn heat wave. It was hot as fuck,
Speaker 1: and then everywhere in the goddamn States apparently except for
Speaker 1: l A. I'm hearing l A y'all getting in the
Speaker 1: sixties at night this I clicked on him. Look at
Speaker 1: the messages. I wish you weren't so afraid of guys
Speaker 1: with food fetishes. Look, everything is about say your souls
Speaker 1: in the background. Damn I would have paid for that
Speaker 1: petty you get in girl, you playing really paying for
Speaker 1: a massage today? Wow? So them vanilla ship for this
Speaker 1: week actually comes from Metro Lifestyle. It is a UK
Speaker 1: site and the title is how to Have Sex when
Speaker 1: the weather is Unbearably Hot. So you know, well, I
Speaker 1: feel like we've all made comments about this, yeah, like
Speaker 1: it's just so hot. It's like, damn, I don't even
Speaker 1: know if I want to be around anyone. There's like
Speaker 1: you don't want to cuddle, you touch, It's just fucking hot.
Speaker 1: So here are some tips for some of you people
Speaker 1: who are in the hot weather, like New York who
Speaker 1: just had the heat wave for Florida, Georgia, the fucking
Speaker 1: Southern Belt whatever that heat waves it was. It was
Speaker 1: on a Saturday. It was fucking invited me to the
Speaker 1: pool and I was like, no, it's I saw your
Speaker 1: fucking chats and then he's like, okay, you want to
Speaker 1: go eat and so hot. So here are some tips
Speaker 1: for you all who are looking to steal get your
Speaker 1: goddamn freak on in the blunt of the summer. So
Speaker 1: one would be ice cubes um. However, make sure you
Speaker 1: use them with caution. Do not put ice cubes directly
Speaker 1: on your genitals unless you want a painful tongue on
Speaker 1: a lamppost situation. Um. Something else which I really like
Speaker 1: is that you can take sex out of the bedroom.
Speaker 1: Lelo sexperts Too says that the bedroom tends to be
Speaker 1: one of the warmest spots in the home thanks to
Speaker 1: all of the bedding. And if you live in a
Speaker 1: house rather than a flat, being that you're elevated. So
Speaker 1: also for apartments, if you live on higher floors rises. Yes,
Speaker 1: so you can actually take sex to other parts of
Speaker 1: the bedroom outside of the bedroom, including the shower another
Speaker 1: I hate shower sex to another tip of the bitch,
Speaker 1: you could just have sex outside sometimes sex outside outside,
Speaker 1: I mean, but it's outside. How about this in front
Speaker 1: of the freezer. Well, you could do that too. You
Speaker 1: can do that too. Here is actually one of the
Speaker 1: best tips that they said is, Um, this is the
Speaker 1: best time for you host to get lazy. It's hot,
Speaker 1: so don't get fancy with wild positions and super energetic thrusting.
Speaker 1: Take your goddamn time so slow. We don't have to
Speaker 1: get by the way. Um. I was at Kinfolk on
Speaker 1: Saturday in Brooklyn. Uh, there's this gay couple that's making
Speaker 1: out right, two men, and I said, no one is
Speaker 1: next to me. I'm sucked up. It's like three am.
Speaker 1: But I'm watching them kiss, right, And I said, these
Speaker 1: niggas is really kissing in this heat. So they turned
Speaker 1: around and look at me because they heard me, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, like I'm not I'm not homophobic.
Speaker 1: It's just really hot and you guys are like making
Speaker 1: out and they're looking at me, and I said, the
Speaker 1: whitest ship that could ever, I'm totally gay. I'm gay friends.
Speaker 1: I was like, I have a black friend. I've I
Speaker 1: see how white hot, so because I've never that's never
Speaker 1: happened to me. And then they start laughing. I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: like I really like I me eating pussy dog. I
Speaker 1: have a whole lass bitch, like I'm gay as fun,
Speaker 1: like for real, like I said what I said, Like
Speaker 1: I said what I said. So then one of them
Speaker 1: is laughing and the other one is not. I'm like,
Speaker 1: how about y'alls drinking? And he was like, I guess
Speaker 1: you need to because the and I was like, oh dad,
Speaker 1: I felt so bad, but really, like you see two
Speaker 1: people making out and the heat, and I just I
Speaker 1: didn't even know I said it was hot. Really? I mean,
Speaker 1: but we do say sometimes we're hot and bothered, like
Speaker 1: sometimes hotness can make you horny a little bit? No,
Speaker 1: does it not. I'm just did you guys go out last? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was at the pool though, Okay, I had my
Speaker 1: swinger party, so I was a nice Joe was like,
Speaker 1: it feels like a hundred degrees. I got a few
Speaker 1: people coming over. I want to do the pool. I'm like, hell, yeah,
Speaker 1: they're the pool. I'm in New York. But you're also
Speaker 1: go in right now, which is good. So I went
Speaker 1: out with my home girl, veenis enis Sex and we
Speaker 1: go to the strip club right and it's nice and
Speaker 1: cold in there. When we stepped outside, it felt like
Speaker 1: you would step you were stepping in a club. That's
Speaker 1: how hot it was. It was five am that the
Speaker 1: daylight was out. I was light was out. Well, I
Speaker 1: don't know what I mean. That's like me saying, is nighttime?
Speaker 1: What would I say? It is dark time? Wait? The
Speaker 1: sun wasn't out, but the light was out. It was
Speaker 1: lighthouse there we go. Hold on, wait, how did I
Speaker 1: rephrase this? God? Damn, I feel dumb. Hold on it's dawn,
Speaker 1: the sun sunrise. It was sunrise. Damn Donna thumbers. Everybody
Speaker 1: on me right now? Um yeah, I just saw your
Speaker 1: kink and that's how I lost my virginity. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: it's funny. So the kink of the week I wanted
Speaker 1: to bring up because of course I have been enjoying
Speaker 1: anal sex and so I was just looking for different things.
Speaker 1: I wanted to know if also our guests may know
Speaker 1: what it is. So the kink of the week for
Speaker 1: this week is hot dogging. What would be your guest
Speaker 1: if you had to think of what hot dogging was?
Speaker 1: I don't know, Multiple Dixie. You know, there's just like
Speaker 1: Jeff were like, I've seen these. I thought of the gif.
Speaker 1: You know, it's jiff me me me whatever they got, Okay,
Speaker 1: definitely me bro Hey, do y'all a nigger? Me me,
Speaker 1: no bitch, just me. So for any of you guys,
Speaker 1: I would love to know what you guys maybe have
Speaker 1: thought hot dogging was when you heard the term. But
Speaker 1: for those of you who did not know, it is
Speaker 1: actually when someone rubs their penis between another person's butt cheeks.
Speaker 1: Not about annal penetration, although it can lead there, but
Speaker 1: It's literally just the act of putting a penis. I
Speaker 1: used to do it. Funny it was with Jamie, who
Speaker 1: was the guy. How how me and Mandy fucking met
Speaker 1: because like if you guys have heard the story me
Speaker 1: and Mandy, I dated a guy, then she dated him.
Speaker 1: So I never had sex with Jamie, but my cherry pop.
Speaker 1: So what happened was we would do that because it
Speaker 1: would rub on my clay. I would like it, and
Speaker 1: he would come that way like he would never be insertion.
Speaker 1: My mom ran to Publix, so we had time. So
Speaker 1: he was, he was sliding and it was feeling good
Speaker 1: and then suddenly, damn. I screamed because I felt it.
Speaker 1: He pulled out and there was a stream of blood
Speaker 1: ring my leg and I freaked out and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god. But it started with him having his
Speaker 1: dick between your butt. She was it was we were
Speaker 1: hot dogging. Yeah, I was. I think I was on
Speaker 1: my stomach. Um, I freaked out. Actually we never did
Speaker 1: it again. We never had penetration. So like it was
Speaker 1: like the cherry popped with no set. It was crazy.
Speaker 1: I mean it was literally right at the edge, so
Speaker 1: my cherry was low ready to go. All the sex
Speaker 1: chat rooms I was in. I was ready. I used
Speaker 1: to be in the Yahoo chats. I liked all that.
Speaker 1: So I actually used to be really into just the
Speaker 1: message boards where they created like sex stories there and
Speaker 1: read'll be like thinking I was sucking a b two
Speaker 1: k oh, my god. I used to read no ship
Speaker 1: I wrote one one time, bitch, I thought, you know
Speaker 1: what the fun I was talking about? Never has sex
Speaker 1: on that dollar? I used to. I used to read
Speaker 1: all Oh, I wish I could go back and find it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was hanging with a little fist. Then O Marion
Speaker 1: came over and it just there was one where they
Speaker 1: had to force them in a closet and they took
Speaker 1: this bitch Virginity, she loves her Virginny and the threesome
Speaker 1: from I don't know if they're still up. But if
Speaker 1: y'all want to ever read sexual erotica from message boards,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you could just look up message
Speaker 1: boards took. But it used to be a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of like maybe teenage girls or young twenties, but they
Speaker 1: used to sex stories. I ain't read middle school message
Speaker 1: I don't know if gonna message board fan fiction there
Speaker 1: go there you go do. Y'all remember these message boards,
Speaker 1: which one which good under? Oh my god, they were
Speaker 1: so good, and my mama didn't know what the funk
Speaker 1: I was doing, but I was getting my pussy real
Speaker 1: wet in middle school reading these goddamn favor and then
Speaker 1: they would bring in bow wow little Romeo before you. No,
Speaker 1: I haven't started. Okay, there's a girl there who writes
Speaker 1: fan fiction and the show yeah, yeah, so good. But um,
Speaker 1: I'm sure people told you get anyway, there's a girl
Speaker 1: there who's not that popular in regular school, but online
Speaker 1: she's popping because she writes dope ass fan fiction. And
Speaker 1: it's so funny because I had that feeling when I
Speaker 1: was around sixteen, like I would go out and like
Speaker 1: I'd have a good time, and I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, Dan screw, but I was really enjoying myself,
Speaker 1: and in school it was just like this. Hell yeah,
Speaker 1: it's so crazy how like teenagers, especially with online ship,
Speaker 1: can live a double life. Hell yeah, I definitely when
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Speaker 1: but we're gonna get into our horrible Decision. I'm super
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Speaker 1: you just know, because all of our listeners have jobs. Listen,
Speaker 1: we have our dope as Um guest today, Taylor, who
Speaker 1: not only works a nine to five from time to time,
Speaker 1: she's in corporate America. She also gets money out these niggas,
Speaker 1: so she's a pro do ho name my bio. We
Speaker 1: are going to talk about how it is possible that
Speaker 1: you could not only be working your job, but you
Speaker 1: could also be a part time sex worker on the side.
Speaker 1: So before we get into this conversation, knowing that that's
Speaker 1: what you do. I want to know how can a
Speaker 1: woman get into sex work? Um, if they want to
Speaker 1: do it part time on the weekends at nine People
Speaker 1: ask us this all the time, all the time, So
Speaker 1: how can they do it? Since you've achieved it? So
Speaker 1: my thing is, if you want to get into sex work,
Speaker 1: you gotta know what type of sex work you want
Speaker 1: to do, because it's all you gotta know if you
Speaker 1: want to be a stripper, escort, dominatrix, sugar baby, because
Speaker 1: that's still sex work to the people. Is definitely sex yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: A lot of people think it's not, but it is. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I feel like if a woman wants to get
Speaker 1: into a part time you just need to figure out
Speaker 1: your schedule. You need to figure out how it works
Speaker 1: for you. You gotta be able to separate your corporate
Speaker 1: job from that job. You can't run into your corporate
Speaker 1: job saying this ship they're telling people about this. You
Speaker 1: gotta know how to fucking separated. So I want to
Speaker 1: ask you because I think, um, a lot of people
Speaker 1: don't know how to do it themselves, so they may
Speaker 1: go about trying to find someone to help them. Would
Speaker 1: you suggest they go through a pimp? Or agency. Okay,
Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on don't go through a pen
Speaker 1: or sex agency because one, not only are they gonna
Speaker 1: treat you bad, be ruthe like, they can do whatever
Speaker 1: they want to you. They're gonna take your money. You
Speaker 1: don't make it agency. I'm curious to know agencies seem
Speaker 1: to offer protection for girls, which is their main selling point.
Speaker 1: So can you talk or speak to that? So in
Speaker 1: my opinion, like there's agencies and escort and right, and
Speaker 1: they they they feed off or tell you that they're
Speaker 1: going to offer protection. That's just to get you in. Um.
Speaker 1: In my opinion, they honestly and from what I've seen,
Speaker 1: they take your money. They take a percentage, right, So
Speaker 1: you're doing all these they get you clients, but they
Speaker 1: take your money. So my thing is, I just recommend
Speaker 1: everybody be independent. Yes you have to do more work,
Speaker 1: Yes you have to do more research, whatever, but you're
Speaker 1: gonna keep your full profit. You're gonna be able to
Speaker 1: make clients that you're more personal a wit, and you're
Speaker 1: not gonna even like be subjected to the abuse that
Speaker 1: could possibly happen because it's not always physical abuse, it's
Speaker 1: emotional abuse and mental abuse that can funk with you
Speaker 1: in that way. So I met this girl in the
Speaker 1: airplane and I've got new feelings about sex agencies coming
Speaker 1: back from Miami, and we just start clicking, right We're
Speaker 1: s she was black, so are we talking? So anyway,
Speaker 1: she says, I'm like, so, what do you do? And
Speaker 1: she's like, what do you do? So once I tell
Speaker 1: her I have a sex podcast, she was like, oh bitch,
Speaker 1: She's like hermo. So she starts telling me as she
Speaker 1: has scores and I was like, oh, well, how do
Speaker 1: you find your clients? You use Twitter and stuff, And
Speaker 1: I was asking if I can interview her and she's like, honestly,
Speaker 1: I've worked through an agency. She was like, it's a
Speaker 1: very upscale agency, and I was like, why would you
Speaker 1: do that when you can make your own money? First
Speaker 1: thing out of my mouth, she's like, it's a set
Speaker 1: dollar amount. They already pay her. I don't have to
Speaker 1: deal with begging niggas for my money. I don't have
Speaker 1: to deal with all that bullshit. Then she mentioned she
Speaker 1: was like, the background checks that they do are so
Speaker 1: much better. She used to be independent. However, Aliott Triple
Speaker 1: X revealed on a very old episode, I think it's
Speaker 1: forty six maybe madam something. Um, how there were websites
Speaker 1: removed where like there was forums about protecting yourself. So
Speaker 1: she joined an agency after that, She's like, granted, they
Speaker 1: take which is really high, but all the guys have
Speaker 1: been safe. They treat me well, and I'm already fucking paid.
Speaker 1: She's like, they've paid before. They were saying, what is
Speaker 1: your experience as being independent? And like what red flags
Speaker 1: would would you know? Do you see when you have
Speaker 1: to try to be safe by yourself, you have no
Speaker 1: one but yourself when you're being an escort by yourself, right,
Speaker 1: So yeah, so, um, I personally have never done escorting,
Speaker 1: but I do have escorting friends. Um, but you still
Speaker 1: meet men escort. But so escorting is more of like
Speaker 1: a they called a girlfriend experience when you're an escore. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I think people get escort in prostitution mix up.
Speaker 1: Prostitution is more so I just need you for this hour,
Speaker 1: this time, and then that's it. Right. Most of the
Speaker 1: time with escort, and they want to take you to dinner,
Speaker 1: They want to do the whole girlfriend experience, They want
Speaker 1: to have conversations, and girls charged for that too. Of
Speaker 1: course they'll charge separately from the sex. They'll just charge
Speaker 1: for conversation period. Yeah, So I always thought like escorts
Speaker 1: could be booked by the hour. They can't. You can't
Speaker 1: be booked by the hour. But it's more within it,
Speaker 1: Like so it prostitution is like, I'm booking for the hour,
Speaker 1: We're just gonna have sex, I'm gonna talk to you,
Speaker 1: let's just funk, let's just do what we gotta do whatever.
Speaker 1: And I have a friend um who she escorts, and
Speaker 1: they'll she'll get booked for an hour or two hours,
Speaker 1: but literally they may only have sex for like ten minutes,
Speaker 1: and then they lay up and she's talking, she's taking
Speaker 1: in all of the stuff that they do from work,
Speaker 1: then complaining about their wives, and so that's a part
Speaker 1: of the hour. But then they also want to lay up.
Speaker 1: She sometimes has to wipe them down and you know,
Speaker 1: give the massages and all of this is with the
Speaker 1: out they call a companionshipship. If I had to pick
Speaker 1: one of the two, prostitution, probably don't want to prostitute.
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of women do escort, and
Speaker 1: because within that you can network so much, because some
Speaker 1: of these men are actually taking you to like their work,
Speaker 1: events too, when you're think does feel more and I
Speaker 1: think in the head for women, it feels more like
Speaker 1: you're doing some elite ship. Yeah, and you feel like
Speaker 1: you're securing more of a bad because not only do
Speaker 1: you got him, you at his event with all his
Speaker 1: other friends. And think about the word itself, like escort
Speaker 1: does sound better than prostitute? Why because we've been thinking
Speaker 1: that our whole lives well, speaking of prostitution, they've been
Speaker 1: proposing recently and clearly, seeing all of the laws that
Speaker 1: are going against women rights and our bodies, it's never
Speaker 1: gonna happen. But what are your thoughts about legalizing prostitution
Speaker 1: and do you think that would be a good thing
Speaker 1: or a bad thing for the for the woman. I
Speaker 1: don't think it should be legalized because what's going to
Speaker 1: happen is when it's legalized, you're gonna have more people
Speaker 1: that want to make money off of it. You're gonna
Speaker 1: have more people that yeah, you're gonna want to have
Speaker 1: more people that want to come in. You're gonna have
Speaker 1: corporations that are gonna start like monetizing off and stuff.
Speaker 1: I'd rather I'd rather be be criminalized as and if
Speaker 1: you get caught. There's nothing that's gonna happen to you.
Speaker 1: There's no more getting caught. And we need to decide
Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on the legalization of prostitute. She
Speaker 1: didn't say the decriminalizing things so now, because I was
Speaker 1: gonna say absolutely not, because women are got a fucking record. Now,
Speaker 1: so where else am I gonna work? And then I'm
Speaker 1: gonna keep going to jail because now I can't get
Speaker 1: a job because I'm a sucking hello all over the damn.
Speaker 1: I'd rather be decriminalized. But together, have you ever been
Speaker 1: to a place where prostitutional legal? Have you ever traveled somewhere? No,
Speaker 1: I haven't, but it's it's legal in Vegas, in Vegas?
Speaker 1: Not is it not Vegas? It's Nevada, but it's not Vegas.
Speaker 1: Where do you know if there's somewhere out of the country,
Speaker 1: you know, is where the brothel is? I think it's
Speaker 1: only I don't know if it's out calls. We should
Speaker 1: definitely look Amsterdam too, it's she's been well. My recent
Speaker 1: experience was in Panama, where they're a lot of sex
Speaker 1: to them because tourism, because it's legal, and they do
Speaker 1: have identification cards and required certain health. UM. Oh well
Speaker 1: that's good. So that's why when I thought about it
Speaker 1: being legal. I don't know from what I know, a
Speaker 1: lot of sex workers pushed for it to be illegal,
Speaker 1: and I can't speak for it myself, but I feel
Speaker 1: like they must be doing it for a reason because
Speaker 1: it must really be hard out there. So it's it's
Speaker 1: very interesting because this topic was actually had on the
Speaker 1: grape Vine. UM. So I want to shout out to
Speaker 1: Ashley A. Kuna and if you guys are looking for
Speaker 1: UM another show that really digs into deep rooted conversations
Speaker 1: and issues and concerns from different people, UM, check out
Speaker 1: the grape Vine. But Aisham, who was also a guest
Speaker 1: on our podcast, she actually said, what's crazy is the
Speaker 1: part that is criminalized is the act of receiving the money.
Speaker 1: So it's not even the act of having sex. It's
Speaker 1: huge charging for sex, which is the crazy part. And
Speaker 1: what I wanted to do is because we do identify
Speaker 1: as we look for equal rights on this podcast, we
Speaker 1: consider our self feminists, we are also pro sex work.
Speaker 1: One of the guests on the Grapevine UM said something
Speaker 1: and Chris is gonna pull something up. Wheezy, I want
Speaker 1: you to take a listen to this because I think
Speaker 1: a lot of the guys on this show feel the
Speaker 1: same way. Can you go ahead and play that? And
Speaker 1: you know, on one side have a narrative of must
Speaker 1: value women, women are eager, right, But at the same time,
Speaker 1: I'm able to bind it right and and that and
Speaker 1: that's something that I've always been struggling with in regards
Speaker 1: to people who are in regards to people who are
Speaker 1: feminists that are pro sex worker, uh, because like, like,
Speaker 1: how how do you not going to erode this sort
Speaker 1: of perception like women are valuable if I could get
Speaker 1: like two for one specials on Black Friday. I hate this.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm not actually uncomfortable with the idea get
Speaker 1: him on the show. I know, hold on, you know,
Speaker 1: bi sex from women, because like it's not like it's
Speaker 1: not like any other physical labor, Like I pay a barber,
Speaker 1: he has a skill for that. Construction workers sex Let
Speaker 1: let it either all right, let's go ahead and and
Speaker 1: and pause that. So I feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: men who do listen to our show may have that
Speaker 1: same thoughts. So what are your thoughts to grow sex worker?
Speaker 1: First of all, we know why we are because it
Speaker 1: gives me the choice over my own body. I can
Speaker 1: make my own decision. One too, I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: you right now, I can't do what you do only
Speaker 1: because and I admire your work, but I'm too emotional. One,
Speaker 1: I'll get too attached to three. I don't think I
Speaker 1: could be that safe or not. Lack of daisical, not relax.
Speaker 1: I know escorts and sex workers that talk about how
Speaker 1: they won't drink with their clients. I can't see me
Speaker 1: not needing a drink to relax and calm myself down.
Speaker 1: That's a fucking profession that you have drink with my
Speaker 1: clients because a lot of them aren't nervous, because maybe
Speaker 1: you can't handle that. But what if I couldn't? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can. I don't think I could, which is the
Speaker 1: same in the strip club a lot of women, but
Speaker 1: they do drugs and liquor just that. But to be
Speaker 1: able to perform while under an influence and still do
Speaker 1: a job. It's to say that that's profession in the
Speaker 1: world because it is something that is necessary. Another thing
Speaker 1: that I find interesting that he said is like, you're
Speaker 1: born with the vagina, why do I have to pay
Speaker 1: for it? Right? Like why do I need to buy it?
Speaker 1: We know how much time and effort it takes to
Speaker 1: get to know someone and then you may end up
Speaker 1: having sex with them and it may suck. Why would
Speaker 1: I not want to go to a professional? How many
Speaker 1: times people offer us make up for freemandy? Oh a
Speaker 1: whole lot? And how many times do we say? Now?
Speaker 1: Pretty much every time? Exactly? You know why? Because I
Speaker 1: know there are fucking professionals that deserve my money instead
Speaker 1: of someone thirst didn't do it for free. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and I'm not saying every month.
Speaker 1: Part is just the level of skill at that point,
Speaker 1: which is why, Like you're good at what you do
Speaker 1: as a dominatrix. Like, so for someone who does want
Speaker 1: to become submissive, you can't all the time just talk
Speaker 1: to anyone you're saying and say, Hey, I like to
Speaker 1: be submissive, can you be my dom? So, knowing that
Speaker 1: you're a professional, they're coming to you because they're going
Speaker 1: to get the experience that they're looking for. His argument
Speaker 1: is even really interesting perspective to let's talk about free
Speaker 1: sex when a dude is in the club. A matter
Speaker 1: of fact, that's just happened to me. In beard bab
Speaker 1: We went out and these two girls was on his
Speaker 1: dig hard and I was like, damn. And at first
Speaker 1: we were both looking at it. She's like, damn, these
Speaker 1: girls are fine. By the end of the night, it
Speaker 1: was almost ridiculous, And there was another really, really beautiful
Speaker 1: girl that was smiling at him but not giving him
Speaker 1: no play. By the end of the night I saw him.
Speaker 1: All he was doing was talking to his girl right oncent. Sure,
Speaker 1: he probably wouldn't ever be able to suck this girl,
Speaker 1: But these other two girls, like, were you all about
Speaker 1: to go what you're doing today? Why is it that
Speaker 1: that one was so attractive? Because we all want something
Speaker 1: that's like you know what I'm saying, We don't want
Speaker 1: someone that's two pressed women are the same way. This
Speaker 1: thing is blowing me up. So what happens is when
Speaker 1: you have something for free, it doesn't have that much value.
Speaker 1: I could be sitting here talking about sex all day,
Speaker 1: how I'm so fucking great, and y'all might feel like
Speaker 1: I'm the woman that's more quiet than me. You might
Speaker 1: find more attractive. Because that's the anomaly about it, and
Speaker 1: what happens with women that are quote unquote civilian hose.
Speaker 1: You don't really know what you gonna get with that.
Speaker 1: When you have someone that's confident and is there like,
Speaker 1: oh it is so good and you have to pay
Speaker 1: for it. That is exactly why we're attracted to do
Speaker 1: your research. You do all of these things. So as
Speaker 1: I guess we're gonna look into financial domination. You said
Speaker 1: you don't have sex with them. So when people contact you,
Speaker 1: what are the things that you do as a financial dump?
Speaker 1: So basically the act of findom is a fetish, just
Speaker 1: a kink of controlling someone else's wallet. Right, So you
Speaker 1: have these men, most of these men have high positions,
Speaker 1: there in control all day, so they need even it's
Speaker 1: just for an hour two hours, they need that power
Speaker 1: stripped away from them. That's why I will say a
Speaker 1: lot of my clients are law streatment because there used
Speaker 1: to be in power all the time. So basically, like
Speaker 1: with financial domination, will come to me and say, mistress,
Speaker 1: please drain my wallet. Mistress, I'm spending too much money.
Speaker 1: Please take it from me like it's and they get
Speaker 1: off by you talking ship to them. You're telling them
Speaker 1: don't go spend your money, you don't go do this,
Speaker 1: and then there's things like a TM meets where I
Speaker 1: just meet a guy, tot a t M, take his money,
Speaker 1: walk away, might talk him, might spit on him, he
Speaker 1: might kiss my feet in public, whatever, and he walks away.
Speaker 1: But that's how they get off. And I'm like, who
Speaker 1: am I to judge how you get off when I'm
Speaker 1: making bread from it? And in a way that so
Speaker 1: a lot of women maybe like that's it. I could
Speaker 1: do it. So what are the things that you would
Speaker 1: say you've done to become a prodom to where you
Speaker 1: know what to say. I'm sure you've looked up like
Speaker 1: how do I need to talk to these people? Because
Speaker 1: we may think damn, I could do that, but it's
Speaker 1: actually a skill, which is what he took away from sexually.
Speaker 1: What are things that you've looked up and maybe could
Speaker 1: you give some of the words that you might use.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get it a role playing. Okay, you pull up.
Speaker 1: We got a pocket fool, but she gonna go to
Speaker 1: the A t M. This is this is your John.
Speaker 1: What do you say as you guys, as you're approaching
Speaker 1: the A t M with this man? Well, hold on,
Speaker 1: I want to ask you a question. Are they normally
Speaker 1: asking you to say something to them. They already happened
Speaker 1: on this. They already have the assumption, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to do that. They when they when they come into it,
Speaker 1: they they're expecting I know, she does a service, is
Speaker 1: what I'm expecting. So basically, here we are. I'm in there. Okay,
Speaker 1: hi mistress. Why the funk are you talking to me?
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, mistress. I just wanted to just get
Speaker 1: the money off the A T M. Talking. What do
Speaker 1: I put? What do I do? How much do I
Speaker 1: take out? What amount you think is right? Saying amount hundred?
Speaker 1: Are you suing playing with me? I'm sorry, mistress, No,
Speaker 1: not take out five dars right now? I only have six.
Speaker 1: Take out six hundred dollars. Word and then you take
Speaker 1: it out. And that's how it is. And the crazy
Speaker 1: thing is it's all about getting out of your own
Speaker 1: head because naturally, I'm from the South. I'm a Southern sweetheart, period,
Speaker 1: So I really got it. Yeah, and I'm and I'm
Speaker 1: okay with has that like I'm okay with it, And
Speaker 1: a lot of women have to get into character for it.
Speaker 1: But once you get into that, character becomes a part
Speaker 1: of you. And now I want to ask you because, um,
Speaker 1: you are beautiful black queen. Do you feel like your
Speaker 1: clients come to you because of your skin color at all? Definitely?
Speaker 1: They hit me with that ebony goddess ship all the time.
Speaker 1: Ebony goddess. I want to worship your ebony goddess ass.
Speaker 1: Like you're okay with you're paying me, You're gonna You're
Speaker 1: gonna lick this ebony goddess ass. How about that? That's why?
Speaker 1: And some of them wants to be slaves to black
Speaker 1: women and you're that, we both said, and you're okay
Speaker 1: with playing the slave master role type ship in reverse?
Speaker 1: I say it is? Why not? Why not? Okay, it's
Speaker 1: crazy that you say that because the other um dominatrix
Speaker 1: that we've had, we've had the Lisa Splsson and we've
Speaker 1: had I believe god us unk. Both of them were
Speaker 1: not into um that type of plan love it. Wait
Speaker 1: wait wait no, no, no, no, they weren't. Lisa, she
Speaker 1: doesn't like it the other way. That's the way I
Speaker 1: think both of them were. I think she didn't. Damn,
Speaker 1: I can't remember. There was something specific about her. We
Speaker 1: gotta have her back, yeah, um, but I I don't
Speaker 1: know if it was them acknowledging that she's black or what.
Speaker 1: But there was something specific about one of them, and
Speaker 1: you love getting into those types of Yeah, I only
Speaker 1: have one sub right now. Sub short for submissive. Only
Speaker 1: have one sub right now. That's into like ebony everything.
Speaker 1: What's the least bit of money you'll take from a man? Like?
Speaker 1: What's a waste of your time? Honestly, I'm gonna say
Speaker 1: anything under twenty five because there's something I call it
Speaker 1: initial tribute where if you at least pay twenty five dollars,
Speaker 1: I know you got your ship because there's something that
Speaker 1: wish your time all day. They won't even pay five dollars.
Speaker 1: They broke five just online. Talk to me. That's that's
Speaker 1: a message me. That's just a message. Yea. They know
Speaker 1: what's up if you message me and you ain't paid.
Speaker 1: I'm not responding to anything you say. I'm gonna start that.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be on red. You're gonna see that. I
Speaker 1: read it, but I'm not rested. As soon as they
Speaker 1: write you, you say in order to can in you
Speaker 1: this convo send, I don't even say that to them.
Speaker 1: So wait, how do they know? Let me tell you,
Speaker 1: Because some men will try to play. So some men
Speaker 1: get off. So a lot of girls come in. When
Speaker 1: they first start out, a man could message him and
Speaker 1: be like, God is blah blah blah, I love you,
Speaker 1: I love the way you look. They'll keep replying back
Speaker 1: like tribute. Then the man wilply back, God is, I'm
Speaker 1: such a loser. Then the one where like the more
Speaker 1: you reply back to them, and where they get off,
Speaker 1: like they're getting off for free. This is what Lisa
Speaker 1: talking about, letting them get free and sh like, stop
Speaker 1: fucking talking exactly like putting her cash out because they're
Speaker 1: getting off for free. They're getting on. We got Benson.
Speaker 1: You want to come on the mic. Hold I feel
Speaker 1: like maybe hold on, hold on, I can't remember, Get
Speaker 1: on Mike, Get on the mic, Get on the mic.
Speaker 1: We got our to God. Un you trained me. I
Speaker 1: got fifty bucks, but I scared them off because it
Speaker 1: can afford me. So you're a cash master. You're a
Speaker 1: cash master. That's what they call men. Cash master. Me.
Speaker 1: I'm super just are not like that. Yeah, so there's
Speaker 1: many find they call him cash masters. So wait, what happened?
Speaker 1: Please shout out to God his uncle, shout out to
Speaker 1: my tattoos. Also nutcakes. She was actually a dumb also,
Speaker 1: and then we connected and then like I was actually
Speaker 1: about the team up with her, go to get flood out.
Speaker 1: You were going to get fluid out. I mean he
Speaker 1: was bro He wanted to wait, wait for a for
Speaker 1: a man. H wait you a culde. Some men like
Speaker 1: to watch other women get fucked, but so what was
Speaker 1: going He wanted to get beaten by the girl while
Speaker 1: I watched, and just like just cut cold, yeah, just
Speaker 1: cut cold, shut a little horse. Yeah because even looking,
Speaker 1: because he knows what's good for real, so and so
Speaker 1: a man, so a man can do this as well.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, men and women. I really thought, you know, look,
Speaker 1: it's okay. We shout out to Alex who used to
Speaker 1: war a video. We had our Corald man, you whom
Speaker 1: doing a video more fun. I'm like, Benson's a nice,
Speaker 1: sweet guy. He probably it's so safe, Okay, Benson, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I have this little brother feeling with him and out
Speaker 1: here like the more in his hand, like put me
Speaker 1: in the game, coach. Please send us emails to Horrible
Speaker 1: Decisions at Gmail. Let us know about your video skills,
Speaker 1: because I can't do this. I love this. Well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead because there's another part to this that
Speaker 1: I wanted to get into. Oh wait, wait, wait wait
Speaker 1: quick questions go ahead. Where do you meet them? That's
Speaker 1: what everybody wants Twitter Twitter community the hashtag findom pay pig,
Speaker 1: pay pigs, somebody pays you, um, ebony, dum, cash meat,
Speaker 1: all of that hash meat. We'll put these. We'll put
Speaker 1: these hashtags as well in the description. Men walking for
Speaker 1: this so much. By the way, I made a joke
Speaker 1: about many black women. What my sugar daddy? Oh Andrew
Speaker 1: posted an old man picture of himself. I was like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that looks like my little sugar daddy. Four people wrote
Speaker 1: me because they're searching the words sugared out. Yeah, it's crazy,
Speaker 1: it's disgusting. I'm excited. I'm excited though, because another part
Speaker 1: of you, um is that Taylor actually throws swinger parties
Speaker 1: for black people black people. Um. So our mail this
Speaker 1: week um actually is titled parent and Child at Swingers
Speaker 1: Party Together. So here we go, evening, ladies. We were
Speaker 1: at a party last night at our swingers club and
Speaker 1: we noticed two men, two men and woman couples we
Speaker 1: had never seen before. It's a private club, so you
Speaker 1: leave so you see a lot of the same people
Speaker 1: over and over. One couple was probably in their fifties
Speaker 1: and the other in their late twenties or early thirties.
Speaker 1: Don't think anything of it until I'm talking with one
Speaker 1: of my good friends at the club and she tells
Speaker 1: me that the two men are father and son. It
Speaker 1: really caught me off guard, like, who would want to
Speaker 1: bring oh, who would want to be at a swinging
Speaker 1: party with their child? So later on the even later
Speaker 1: on in the evening, after my friend has been in
Speaker 1: the hot tub with both couples weird again, she comes
Speaker 1: over and sits by me and we start talking and
Speaker 1: this is where she gets really crazy. She told me
Speaker 1: that they were insinuating that all four of them wanted
Speaker 1: to take her to a private room. Not to kink,
Speaker 1: shame or judge anyone, but what the fuck? Thank you,
Speaker 1: b So this was one of our male listeners and
Speaker 1: he was thrown off right. I don't know who it was.
Speaker 1: It could have been um, but he wrote us saying
Speaker 1: that he saw uh father and son. Okay, the guy
Speaker 1: was writing it. Noir Swingers is his Twitter name, and
Speaker 1: he tagged us in it, and I was like, please
Speaker 1: email me this story. He's like, I wonder what horrible
Speaker 1: pod would say this. I'm like, email me the story
Speaker 1: that was so fucking weird. What is that something that
Speaker 1: you've ever seen at your party? And is that something
Speaker 1: that do people bring their moms and children to sing?
Speaker 1: Do they go together? Is that a thing to do together?
Speaker 1: I've never seen that, but I kind of look at
Speaker 1: it at a look at it as like, look how
Speaker 1: men view their son's kind of kind of like we're
Speaker 1: gonna make him a man, you know, you know how
Speaker 1: men are like they like the older the men get,
Speaker 1: they want to know like are you what you know?
Speaker 1: Like they want us, And especially if he was a
Speaker 1: legal age, like it's different with like a mom and
Speaker 1: a daughter. They're not going to go to no ship
Speaker 1: like that. I ain't gonna hold you. I was almost
Speaker 1: going to invite my mom to Jamaica and passport. I
Speaker 1: would have like my mom's heto funny you say that
Speaker 1: because um my mom was like are you really going
Speaker 1: to go alone? And I was like, yeah, I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna experience it. I end up not going alone. And
Speaker 1: she was like I'll just go and I was like, no,
Speaker 1: you won't. She's like, but it's a free like, why
Speaker 1: wouldn't I go? I don't understand. My mom would never
Speaker 1: do that anything like that. But crazy thing is, my
Speaker 1: mom supports everything I do. But I never no, honestly
Speaker 1: that it would have been too much, too uncomfortable. But
Speaker 1: I've never seen that she looked at it as a
Speaker 1: nudist resort, which is why my mom wasn't thinking you
Speaker 1: would be uncomfortable as a sex resort. My daddy is Jamaican,
Speaker 1: she was he back in the nineties. Okay, my mama
Speaker 1: know what that is. It's crazy. So I wanted to
Speaker 1: get into the conversation. You throw swingers parties? What are
Speaker 1: swingers parties? Are different than sex clubs? So what are
Speaker 1: swingers parties? I think swinger parties are more intimate. I
Speaker 1: kind of know my list. I know who's coming. I
Speaker 1: might know them personally, I might vet them, like you know,
Speaker 1: I know who's coming. I think it's sex clubs, anybody
Speaker 1: can just pop up, they paid a fee then get in.
Speaker 1: But a swinger parties is like, Okay, you crazy, I
Speaker 1: know you're not coming for sure. Like it's kind of
Speaker 1: like it's a personalized list, like I might how many
Speaker 1: people would be at your party this past Saturday, I
Speaker 1: had thirty five people. That's the most I've ever had.
Speaker 1: That's like orgy almost everyone kind of how big is this?
Speaker 1: That felt that to me, I'm like orgy that okay. Origins,
Speaker 1: I think club sex club. Then when I hear something
Speaker 1: small like that, I'm thinking group sex orgy. So basically,
Speaker 1: I got an airbnb in Brooklyn. It was like a duplex.
Speaker 1: It was huge. It had like three bedrooms, but in
Speaker 1: all there was thirteen beds. Because a party or anything, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So like there was like all these beds. The couches
Speaker 1: would pull out beds. I had. It was bring your
Speaker 1: own bottle. But I had my best friend bartending, like
Speaker 1: he was there bartending for me, like I had the
Speaker 1: upstairs rooms. I ordered food like all that little ship
Speaker 1: because I charged him a good amount. So it's like
Speaker 1: I gotta have something. So so for the sex clubs again,
Speaker 1: I've been to college A single girls can get in
Speaker 1: there for twenty five couples or eighties, sometimes one fifty.
Speaker 1: She's been to sex clubs that ranged from two to
Speaker 1: three to four hundred dollars for a couple to get
Speaker 1: in the most expensive one I've been to. I actually
Speaker 1: can't even say the name of it. Was a thousand
Speaker 1: dollars for a couple. Um a guy his girlfriend backed out,
Speaker 1: went on like two dates with him. He was like, hey,
Speaker 1: not interested in having sex, but I don't want to
Speaker 1: waste this ticket, and I feel like it'll be good
Speaker 1: content for your show. What ended up finding out I
Speaker 1: couldn't say the name of it. When I walked in
Speaker 1: the name, he signed something and my phone went in
Speaker 1: a lot. So for your swingers party, if you don't
Speaker 1: mind asking, like or even if you want to do
Speaker 1: just a generalization, what would you say that the generalized
Speaker 1: pricing would be to attend a swingers party? Mm? So
Speaker 1: personally for me, my swinger party, I had his past
Speaker 1: Saturday was my first one I've ever thrown in my life,
Speaker 1: and you had almost forty people come down. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I charged well. Single women were free because for
Speaker 1: the most part, you want to get the single women
Speaker 1: in there. And I know it was my first one,
Speaker 1: so like, I didn't know how many, mind you, The
Speaker 1: whole time, I was thinking, the hardest thing is gonna
Speaker 1: get these single women in here, especially our age like
Speaker 1: our age ranger. So I was like, let me make
Speaker 1: them free. When I tell you, I a lot of
Speaker 1: twenty single women tickets, all of them were gone in
Speaker 1: less than a week. My y'all was scared of that.
Speaker 1: I was like, no women gonna come, It's just gonna
Speaker 1: be a sausage fest. The ship sold out. So then
Speaker 1: I charged single men one dollars like even, and I
Speaker 1: charged couples seventy dollars. So and I had people try
Speaker 1: to buy tickets a day of Biden allowed at because
Speaker 1: I was my only host. So having all those people
Speaker 1: like my next one. Yes, I'm having another one Halloween
Speaker 1: edition in October, Okay, so definitely put her in. It
Speaker 1: was it exceeded my expectation. I did a Halloween party
Speaker 1: at Chemistry like two years ago, and it was like
Speaker 1: I think it was fifty couples, two hundreds, and I
Speaker 1: remember thinking like, oh my god, some of these people
Speaker 1: are weirdos. But also like I like that. I feel
Speaker 1: like if you spend a certain amount of money, they're
Speaker 1: committed to a certain level of experience. So when you
Speaker 1: charge a couple of something like that, like you're like, okay,
Speaker 1: like they're in this. They didn't just pop out by
Speaker 1: to get a nut off. I don't know of Caligula
Speaker 1: was during a Halloween party and it was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I wanted to know, Um, I guess what was
Speaker 1: the most wildest thing that you saw at your swingers party.
Speaker 1: It really exceeded my expectations because I came in thinking
Speaker 1: this ship about to be lad. I'm gonna be honest,
Speaker 1: I was like, this ship about to be lame. It's
Speaker 1: my first one, but fun people are spending their money.
Speaker 1: This one couple, mind, we was having like an icebreaker.
Speaker 1: So we did an icebreak where like I was spanking people,
Speaker 1: we was tying. There was one guy that was like
Speaker 1: experienced and bondedge. She was tying people up like we
Speaker 1: made it interactive before. You just don't come in and
Speaker 1: fuck like because almost everybody there was new beasts. It
Speaker 1: was their first time. So the crazy thing to me,
Speaker 1: this one couple came in didn't even say hey to nobody.
Speaker 1: They walked straight upstairs and started fucking like right away,
Speaker 1: like crazy started before. It was both like they were
Speaker 1: both like they were a BBW couple, like they were okay,
Speaker 1: and they went downstairs after that got something to eat
Speaker 1: and dip. I didn't even say I was like, they
Speaker 1: got any money's worth for sure, but yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: but no. The craziest thing I saw all I think
Speaker 1: was how many people are watching them? Everyone? Yeah, so
Speaker 1: it became a part like people started going upstairs to
Speaker 1: play like gravitating. People are downstairs too, but everybody went
Speaker 1: upstairs and may be in a host, I'm checking on everybody.
Speaker 1: So I went upstairs for the first I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, because like where did I go? Right? And
Speaker 1: I when up stairs everybody was up there fucking like
Speaker 1: there were so many orgies. There was so much scoring
Speaker 1: going on. I did a scot show in the beginning,
Speaker 1: like I just laid down and I said, this is
Speaker 1: how we're gonna do part of the icebreaker, and everyone
Speaker 1: just watched me score and it was just like I
Speaker 1: was like, that's what I was like, that's what you're
Speaker 1: getting out the host tonight because y'all looking at me
Speaker 1: like who's gonna start it off? Right? But yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: It was. It was crazy. There was people fucking outside
Speaker 1: on the back patio. Get people to find you. I
Speaker 1: just put it on Instagram. Yeah, and she literally made
Speaker 1: a flyer like it was a club partur So I
Speaker 1: love it because I guess that that would be the
Speaker 1: next part is how can people find these in their place?
Speaker 1: And I'll say you can even easily go on Google
Speaker 1: typing swingers, party swingers, club swingers. Now you got me.
Speaker 1: Because Mandy and I have like the Scott We discussed
Speaker 1: this horrible like we like, like, what can we do
Speaker 1: with fans? I ain't friend? Is that fucking y'all can
Speaker 1: make it lit? Yeah, y'all can make it. Letting a thing.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real with you. Ain't sucking at the
Speaker 1: party where horrible decisions listener to that, but I will
Speaker 1: definitely an I would be a great job. I sucked
Speaker 1: at the party, but I sucked the funk buddy. I
Speaker 1: waited till he got there. Oh so you invited some Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I was a hostess mall all night. It was
Speaker 1: so hard to just like break off and fun. But
Speaker 1: like around one two am because the ship ended it
Speaker 1: like four or five, And I allow people to stay
Speaker 1: tonight if they needed to because it is an airbnb.
Speaker 1: I had it till eleven o'clock next morning, So if
Speaker 1: you got too funked up and can't go home or
Speaker 1: you live way uptown because it was in Brooklyn, because
Speaker 1: I live in Washington Heights, so I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 1: going so I want people to stay. All the sex
Speaker 1: parties minus in Queen's. I've been to one in like Midtown.
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, that was the expensive one. I want to
Speaker 1: but it was. But I will tell you this, the
Speaker 1: one that I went to that was that expensive. I
Speaker 1: was in shock how hot they were and I see
Speaker 1: why they took my phone. I was like, WHOA had
Speaker 1: to be Victoria's secret. But like even at my party,
Speaker 1: the amount of attractive people, like I was expecting weirdos,
Speaker 1: because I think that's almost everyone expects that when they
Speaker 1: go to sex clubs or anything that involves sex. They
Speaker 1: either think that everyone's going to be skinny sixty years old,
Speaker 1: or they expect that everyone's going to be ugly as
Speaker 1: fucking not attractive. I think the oldest I had there
Speaker 1: was thirty two, and I was the youngest at but
Speaker 1: it was a good range. Yeah you did, you knew everybody?
Speaker 1: So did you make everyone send I DS? Like? So
Speaker 1: I made them send like their instagrams, like especially they
Speaker 1: had a couple, like send your Instagram. Single men definitely
Speaker 1: vetted the hell out of them, like like some nigguld
Speaker 1: try to come and I looked at his Instagram. I
Speaker 1: was like, no, baby, like no, no, I didn't tell him.
Speaker 1: Nobody just didn't reply. I was like with men with women,
Speaker 1: it was it was such a different amount, like group
Speaker 1: of women, all shapes and sizes, but everybody just had
Speaker 1: so much fun, like nobody and the truth be told,
Speaker 1: it is sexist, is and is gonna be like damn
Speaker 1: the bitches, here's the truth. Men have proven themselves over
Speaker 1: time to just be the more threatening person in a
Speaker 1: space with with women. So I I completely understand what
Speaker 1: you did. And that was big on privacy, Like I
Speaker 1: only allow phones at the bar area, Like you're not
Speaker 1: about to just be sitting here on your phone. You
Speaker 1: can go somewhere else for that Like that, why come
Speaker 1: to the sex party just be on your phone the
Speaker 1: whole time. That's the same with the sex club I
Speaker 1: go to. They have lockers and things, but once you
Speaker 1: get upstairs, belonging to everything exactly. I provided condoms, lupe,
Speaker 1: I had toys, I had all that ship like I
Speaker 1: went all out toys. But if guys, that's there. But
Speaker 1: now like the icebreaker, like the vibrators and stuff like
Speaker 1: the clip stimulators, strap ones. I had all that stuff.
Speaker 1: I did do U like the city and ride, but
Speaker 1: they surran wrapped that. They made me feel safe on it.
Speaker 1: When I went to chemistry. Do you guys know what
Speaker 1: citian rides? I don't know what that is. You can
Speaker 1: get on top of this thing. I guess it could
Speaker 1: look like you saddle up and it's like bound to
Speaker 1: the floor and you're just like, are you is there
Speaker 1: something inside of you strong? I was just to they
Speaker 1: have the bounty balls like that too, Like it's like
Speaker 1: the bounty, but I feel like I we will over well.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you were here to join us
Speaker 1: for this. And guys, if you guys have any questions
Speaker 1: about Finndom Femdom, we're gonna put the hashtags in the bio. Also,
Speaker 1: she has another swingers um party coming up in our edition.
Speaker 1: If you guys are in the New York City area, again,
Speaker 1: we're gonna put her description in this bio. Go ahead
Speaker 1: and let all of our listeners know where they can
Speaker 1: find you um and yeah, drop your drop your ship.
Speaker 1: So my Instagram is at Taylor McFly t a y
Speaker 1: l O R M c f l Y also run
Speaker 1: a private Facebook group for black women that want to
Speaker 1: be dom's. It's called the Black Doms Sorority. Yes, it's new,
Speaker 1: it's only like a week o. But I have like
Speaker 1: we all yeah, we all talk, we all give every
Speaker 1: type of vice, talk to each other about confidence, all
Speaker 1: that ship. I want to know before before this goes up.
Speaker 1: I want to know how many people were in that group. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a lot of people. It's like to have to
Speaker 1: so what are the ump what was the name of
Speaker 1: that group? Again, Black dom Sorority? And this is on Facebook, Yes,
Speaker 1: on Facebook. So I have to prove you to come
Speaker 1: in into like a private group, like you know whatever, Okay,
Speaker 1: and we'll put the link for that. Yeah. And then
Speaker 1: in September, I'll be at the sex Expo. I gotta
Speaker 1: exhibit and where it's in Brooklyn September. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: so many people there. I think Candy from Real Housewives
Speaker 1: gonna be there with her product. Oh yeah, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: gonna I think, what's the webcam website cam Soda is
Speaker 1: gonna be there. It's gonna be It's not like it's
Speaker 1: like an exact like yeah, go Sex Expo is like
Speaker 1: everybody black, white, whatever, and they have it in Brooklyn
Speaker 1: is more for I think, I don't know, it's been
Speaker 1: around a while. Yes, Sex Expo is more like products, businesses, brands,
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Well, we hope you guys enjoy Taylor
Speaker 1: on the show UM once really good. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: you were that. This is a lot of a ton
Speaker 1: of info to taken. I hope that you guys, you know,
Speaker 1: are still learning more about yourselves, your sexual all the
Speaker 1: things that you may like to experience. And before we
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Speaker 1: has been yet another episode of horrible decisions by al Right,
Speaker 1: So guys, we're taking a break real quick because one
Speaker 1: of our recent guests, you guys know her as Taylor McFly.
Speaker 1: She has not yet been on the show start overs whatever,
Speaker 1: because she's not recent. Okay, hey guys, we haven't had
Speaker 1: her yet on the podcast, but she is bringing a
Speaker 1: ton of good tips and things about ben Dom ben
Speaker 1: Dom and swinging to Taylor McFly, who was a future
Speaker 1: guest that you guys will be listening too soon, has
Speaker 1: also experienced hedonism too at a girl Jamaica, and so
Speaker 1: we're now sitting with her now and wanted to kind
Speaker 1: of bring up some of your experience since Wheezy and
Speaker 1: I have gone through ours. So what was your experience like? Who?
Speaker 1: So let's start with who'd you go with? So? I
Speaker 1: want with a girlfriend. She is very very like conservative
Speaker 1: about sex, so I had to convince her and that
Speaker 1: was very interesting. Why did you guys choose hedonism? Um?
Speaker 1: I brought it up to her. I'm like the friend
Speaker 1: that's always like suggesting the crazy ship and she's just
Speaker 1: like I'm just like, girl, I'm gonna quarius. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna suggesting a friend that you would have fucked.
Speaker 1: Is she a friend you would have fucked? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: So like while I was there, a he know, like
Speaker 1: I did eat her pussy and we played a lot
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. She's really kind of strict about
Speaker 1: what men she kind of interacts with or whatever, but
Speaker 1: she's she loved just being an environment. So when we
Speaker 1: got there, the first place we went to was the
Speaker 1: beach where you know it's all nude and ship Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And immediately, like guys just started coming up to us.
Speaker 1: I was like, look at your thirsty ass. Like we
Speaker 1: literally just sat down, like y'all been here? How long?
Speaker 1: But yeah, so it was just just seeing everybody naked.
Speaker 1: But when I went, it was so many young black people.
Speaker 1: I went during Young Swingers Week. Okay, so they mentioned
Speaker 1: that to us before, So what what kind of crowd
Speaker 1: was that Young Swingers Week? Because definitely the time we went,
Speaker 1: they were definitely older. So what type of crowd was
Speaker 1: that Young Swingers Week? And we're they're black people? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it was majority black. A lot of them came
Speaker 1: from Canada. Um, just like an age range maybe between
Speaker 1: twenty five and thirty. It was a lot of singles.
Speaker 1: It wasn't a lot of couples. Yeah, it was a
Speaker 1: lot of singles. And the guys were like fine, fine,
Speaker 1: like fine, I don't know what they did, but I'm
Speaker 1: glad it was there. They playing. Um, they were playing.
Speaker 1: And then they were part of like they were having
Speaker 1: like a bodybuilding pageant going on because they have so
Speaker 1: they were in two separate path just they had one
Speaker 1: for best ass, so like the women were doing like
Speaker 1: the ass pageant or whatever, and that was during dinner,
Speaker 1: like so while you're eating, they have like on stage
Speaker 1: or whatever doing ship. And then they had a separate
Speaker 1: one for the men and they all had ripped ass box.
Speaker 1: When did you I went June? It was June. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was like June fifth through the tenth something around
Speaker 1: and your friend Marcy. I don't know why, I just
Speaker 1: that's did you and Marcy? Did you guys go into
Speaker 1: the sex club together? Yeah? How does she feel about it?
Speaker 1: It's just weird with her, Like she loves the environment
Speaker 1: and loves watching and love seeing ship, but like she's
Speaker 1: very like conservative about who she will touch. That's how
Speaker 1: my friends were. I'm just like whatever, they were all
Speaker 1: vanilla until we got there. Then I was just like,
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fun got and they got
Speaker 1: damn drink. It was so fun. What was your favorite moment?
Speaker 1: Definitely the jacuzi and like the pool area. Yes, the dudes.
Speaker 1: I did some fucking over there. Yeah, because you know
Speaker 1: there's like the pool and there's like this whole little
Speaker 1: cabanah thing or whatever. People go inside and then when
Speaker 1: they're fucking, it's like ripe aside. I'm curious to know
Speaker 1: because from what I know, you didn't have sex that
Speaker 1: he doesn't, right, And no, I didn't have sex. So
Speaker 1: I brought someone so I had sex with him and
Speaker 1: we use condoms. But I'm curious to know, like being
Speaker 1: out and about were you having safe sex? How did
Speaker 1: that go? Like? Oh, all my followers, No, I don't
Speaker 1: play about safe sex. So were you bringing condoms or
Speaker 1: do they have it? Or how did that go? So
Speaker 1: he do provides them? Right? Yeah, so he don't provides them.
Speaker 1: I always make sure there was condoms. Um, because I
Speaker 1: didn't just see him by the I thought they were
Speaker 1: in designated sex areas, but I did see a lot
Speaker 1: of people sucking at the pool, and I think a
Speaker 1: lot of them were like couples, are married, couples that
Speaker 1: used to just having sex. I'm protected. I think that's
Speaker 1: what it was like. So a lot of the couples definitely,
Speaker 1: we're having sex. I'm protected. But if you want someone else,
Speaker 1: I know that, even the married people, they brought condoms. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he does provide for sure. You gotta standon ship like always.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was it was a good time. Would
Speaker 1: you go again, definitely. I'm trying to go on in October.
Speaker 1: They're having another Young Swingers Week. Really think it's the
Speaker 1: beginning of October. Okay, I'm trying to go long. How
Speaker 1: many days were you there? I was only there for
Speaker 1: about like four days, say, but I want to do
Speaker 1: like a week. What was your biggest takeaway? Like what
Speaker 1: what did you enjoy the most? The people really out
Speaker 1: here doing this ship and and just being like care
Speaker 1: free and don't give a fuck, Like that's what I understand.
Speaker 1: I'm like, people funk all the time. Just go experience
Speaker 1: like one time, even if you don't funk. There was
Speaker 1: a lot of people just watching just as voyers. People
Speaker 1: ought to be voyers naturally, so I experienced like the
Speaker 1: voyers um or whatever, but until we got to the
Speaker 1: sex club. Oh that's right, I didn't go with you. Um,
Speaker 1: I guess Mandy will tell you as a story. But
Speaker 1: she was saying that she was on the bed and
Speaker 1: like her and her friends were pretending like they were pretending.
Speaker 1: We was moaning, but we just wanted to watch everybody
Speaker 1: around up because I'm not going front that sex club.
Speaker 1: There's one thing that was very particular. It never happened
Speaker 1: to me. So we're exploring. I think this is the
Speaker 1: first night because the nick I was with gossa lessie,
Speaker 1: so I was like, all right, this is walking around right.
Speaker 1: So we walked up to the door of the sex
Speaker 1: club and you had to remove your everything and your
Speaker 1: drink had to be down. So it's really not even
Speaker 1: like because when I've been a sex parties, I've sit
Speaker 1: my drink and watched and I've been clothed. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you had to take off before you even get into
Speaker 1: the room. They make you. At one point at the
Speaker 1: news side, I want to get pizza and I had to.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you about it. Yeah, it was amazing,
Speaker 1: So I guess what what advice would you give to
Speaker 1: any of the listeners who may want to attend Hedonism
Speaker 1: or any other sex like resort. What would be your advice?
Speaker 1: Go to open mind. First of all, just know you're
Speaker 1: about to see people fucking, like fucking fucking yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I think some people go and think, oh they're
Speaker 1: gonna suck, but it's gonna be in a private room
Speaker 1: and I ain't gonna see it. No, people gonna sunk
Speaker 1: wherever they want to fuck, and you're gonna see that ship.
Speaker 1: Did you see a lot of that daring young swingers
Speaker 1: with yeah, just sucking everywhere. I was shocked. I was.
Speaker 1: I didn't see. I saw a lot at the prude side,
Speaker 1: and I wasn't ready for food side. So what I
Speaker 1: didn't understand, I will say I thought the frud side
Speaker 1: ment you do keep the clothes on, It just means
Speaker 1: you can keep them on if you want to, because
Speaker 1: the nude side you're required to take them right exactly.
Speaker 1: So it was the whole goddamn resort. There's no escaping
Speaker 1: this goddamn at all. Well, I'm glad that you were
Speaker 1: able to share a little bit of your experience. Um,
Speaker 1: thank you again Taylor for letting us know how you
Speaker 1: experience here. Alright, it's bonus, bitch, that's how we start this.
Speaker 1: You already know we are here in the studio once again.
Speaker 1: I know y'all is like, damn, you don't really dropped
Speaker 1: no bonus. But there's five weeks in July and we're back.
Speaker 1: I know it's a lot of weeks. It's made us
Speaker 1: feel like we weren't putting our content, but um, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're back. And I was gonna try to do one
Speaker 1: in Miami, but I was like, no, I want to
Speaker 1: make sure we're together. I missed you guys, hope you
Speaker 1: missed me too. And we're joined by two other ladies
Speaker 1: are really adorable. One of them is Caucasian. Very well,
Speaker 1: we're here with the Super Trip Podcast. I met one
Speaker 1: of these ladies and I did a seminar podcast studios
Speaker 1: last year. Damn yes, but um she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I have a PC about like acid. We should do
Speaker 1: it together. That's what this girl said to me. You know, seriously,
Speaker 1: that was your introduction. That was over here totally. So
Speaker 1: it's called super Trip Talk, the podcast with Brianda and Puffy,
Speaker 1: and it's a podcast about radical self improvement and self
Speaker 1: growth through the antidote that is healing, which is whatever way,
Speaker 1: whatever the healing is for you. It looks different for everybody,
Speaker 1: and we just want to make other people also want
Speaker 1: to heal. So healing is. But are those vices because
Speaker 1: you guys said, you talk about drugs and or y'all
Speaker 1: are at least smoking babes while you're on there, so
Speaker 1: are you Is it self healing through your vices? No? No,
Speaker 1: So we like to look at cannabis as a medicine Okay,
Speaker 1: not really a drug. Okay, you're what you're seeing right now.
Speaker 1: What we're doing is fun. We're in the studio. We
Speaker 1: like to record smoking in the studio, but we're very
Speaker 1: much lucid throughout the day and have we execute tasks
Speaker 1: and we're productive. But I understand what you mean by
Speaker 1: vice or escapism, which I think is a fraction of
Speaker 1: it too. I'd be lying if I said that part
Speaker 1: of it wasn't so I numbed some stuff. But because
Speaker 1: I think that, so when I think of someone who's
Speaker 1: smoking or enjoy smoking, it's a relaxation, it's it's their advice.
Speaker 1: Because people still don't technically view it as medicine, even
Speaker 1: though you can get a medical card to go and
Speaker 1: get it. It's still kind of considered that people do
Speaker 1: a lot of vice every morning, right, Like when mine
Speaker 1: is coffee, Yeah, I love coffee. Coffee has something that
Speaker 1: is their thing where they're like, oh, if I don't
Speaker 1: have it, I can't. It's a routine. My coffee cannabis
Speaker 1: combination is everything. Right, you have a coffee cannabis combo.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, a little hit a little cup of
Speaker 1: coffee in the morning, and I like make my to
Speaker 1: do list and then I thought it was an infused coffee.
Speaker 1: Oh no, doesn't exist though. Flowering cod shout out to
Speaker 1: Flowering Code. They have like this awesome cannabis seem like
Speaker 1: weed coffee. I've had it. They sell it all over
Speaker 1: the city, right, but it makes They're like yeah, basically
Speaker 1: it'll go up, but like no crash and I'm like
Speaker 1: so much. They're charging for nothing. It's just an up charge.
Speaker 1: I'm getting my child difference. That's a good as question though,
Speaker 1: that that really is, But that's not how that's not
Speaker 1: the angle we look at it as. If anything, we
Speaker 1: want to destigmatize marijuana like that and the use of
Speaker 1: psychedelic drugs to aid, and I think that we also
Speaker 1: just speak very much about like our experiences with these things.
Speaker 1: So your self care, right, so fucking trending now to
Speaker 1: say stupid like self care. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: we all are very much trying to improve ourselves, whether
Speaker 1: it looks like a stupid Instagram housetag or not um,
Speaker 1: but for like, it's a real thing. No, we're not
Speaker 1: even social media people. Like, we straight up check each
Speaker 1: other all the time because that's the core, that's the vein,
Speaker 1: that's the skeleton of super trips. How long have you
Speaker 1: guys been friends? Are five? Four and a half years?
Speaker 1: Like the break up? So your Brianda, right, Brianda, Brianda,
Speaker 1: what's your age? What's your sexual orientation? Tell us? So,
Speaker 1: I'm twenty six years old and I identifies hetero, very
Speaker 1: sexual a lot of Listen, I've had sex with women.
Speaker 1: You know what it is? We mistake friendly for like
Speaker 1: flirty all the time. I just I just did some
Speaker 1: heterosis male ship. You're like smiling, You're like, yeah, you gept.
Speaker 1: I'm like, she wants to fuck me. I just I'm friendly,
Speaker 1: I'm bubbly, I'm friendly. But it's funny because we actually
Speaker 1: just got um a homemal and we haven't read it yet.
Speaker 1: I don't know when we're going to read it. But
Speaker 1: that was the question. She identifies as a straight woman
Speaker 1: but wants to have sex with women, and she was like, confused,
Speaker 1: but you just identified a straight but yet you've had
Speaker 1: sex with women. If any man walks around here and says, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm straight, but I've had sex with men that we
Speaker 1: wouldn't allow them to consider themselves hetero, I should have.
Speaker 1: But I mean there's context missing here, like what were
Speaker 1: those sexual experiences? Like the very first one, I was
Speaker 1: coerced by a man and I was eighteen years old
Speaker 1: and this man like manipulated me and it wasn't get deep. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was in time for sure. It was fun and
Speaker 1: this girl was beautiful and I was obsessed with her
Speaker 1: mind and it was so cool. The third time, Oh
Speaker 1: look your friend Helen. What do you talk? Wait? No?
Speaker 1: Which one? Which time we talk? Time? No? Listen? Okay,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. People, Lespian's love me like if you
Speaker 1: can come across and I'm sorry, and I have like
Speaker 1: polyamorous leanings in that, like if you're a beautiful last person,
Speaker 1: God damn it's hard for me not to take sexual
Speaker 1: meaning there you don't pant sexual sorry and and Polly,
Speaker 1: but pant sexual leanings and that at some point if
Speaker 1: I just meet someone that's beautiful and if they if
Speaker 1: they're showing me that they adore me and ship and
Speaker 1: treating me like a deity, that the ego and me
Speaker 1: is like fun. So we're just gonna say you're you're
Speaker 1: on the spectrum, but you're not all the way I think.
Speaker 1: But but I mean, I'm on a goal now to
Speaker 1: find like a life partner. So I mean you have
Speaker 1: a life partners still diving down. That's true. That's that's
Speaker 1: not true. You're right,