1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Hey, hor Hive, I have a wonderful announcement. I am 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: super excited to let you guys know that I am 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: putting together a back to school drive with some of 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 1: your favorite podcasters this Thursday, August eighth. Mark your calendars 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 1: and come out to the well that is at to 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:19,479 Speaker 1: seventy two mess Roll Street. The entry is free, however, 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 1: we do ask for donations at the door, so whether 8 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 1: it's school supplies or a minimum of a five dollar donation, 9 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: it will get you in the door. 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Now let's get on 38 00:01:54,880 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: with the show. Wake up bits well Ship. They probably 39 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: already a woke They at work home, I know, but 40 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: like you know, damn and I don't even gonna hold you, bitch. 41 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: I'll be waking up early, even though I gotta go 42 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: to work. Everybody has a job to listen to the show. 43 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: They do have jobs, broke. We have jobs, but they're 44 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 1: not all heard working listeners like the holes listen to 45 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: and they work hard, but they listening to us on 46 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: their way back from way. I guess that's the job. 47 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 1: It is a job, and we got a whole job 48 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: working right here today, So I'm exacted. Whole job, the 49 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: whole job worker. Hey guys, it's Monday. Welcome to yet 50 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl, may dB Hi, 51 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: I'm wheezy, Welcome to the show. I'm excited really quick. 52 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 1: I want to say to all of the Latino listeners, 53 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: I want you guys to band together because, as some 54 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: of you know, I don't really get party about fourteen Street, 55 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: but somebody took me to two hunety seven. That's above me. 56 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: So what happens when I go uptown? Like a lot 57 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: of our listeners listen up to look like our uptown. 58 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: So I'll go somewhere and they'd be like hot in there, 59 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I'd be like, oh shit, 60 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: like mad listeners for the show. Nobody, nobody even spoke 61 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: to me in English, and then when I told them 62 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: that I don't speak us, bunny, They're like why you 63 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: never learned, like why are your mom made teachers? It's 64 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: and then I'd be like, okay, bitch, that's it. You 65 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: just gotta do to welcoming. It was like I was 66 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: deep the goddamn in there. And then what I realized 67 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: is like, these bitches are hoes, like amazingly hose, and 68 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: I just feel like, why can't we blend them in 69 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: together as people of color with our black girl listeners 70 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: in the seventeen white listeners? Whatever you guys, I don't 71 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: know if you dropped down because we'll be talking shit, 72 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: but I just want all of any of our Latino 73 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: listeners spread this ship to other Latina friends. I'm telling you, 74 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: these holes were lit well. I want to go ahead 75 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: and extend that to our Afro latina's. Yeah because yeah, 76 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: because we got an email from a Puerto Rican who 77 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: apparently is one of the white Latinas and felt that 78 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: we exclude her from the conversation. I'm gonna be real 79 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: with you. I don't like that sometimes, and I think 80 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: I've even made this mistake and I've had to learn 81 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 1: I used to when I was in high school. Can 82 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: tell me if y'all feel this way or even colleg 83 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: or whatever, and like Latino will say, nigga could be 84 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: cool with it. But the more I get to know 85 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Latino like because I'd be like, oh, the niggas too, 86 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: but they're not, not all of but I would be 87 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: around a lot of Dominicans, so they are black to me. 88 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: A lot of them are more so Cubans are. So however, 89 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: that's the thing too with Dominicans. They're darker and skin color, 90 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 1: especially because they share the island of Haiti like it's split. 91 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: But they are the most and I'm sorry to say 92 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: that they don't want to hear the basis Dominicans acknowledge 93 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: that the other one I hate it. So the older 94 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: I've been getting, I have been getting to know, like 95 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 1: I don't know Latino culture and realizing a lot of 96 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: them are whitest and tell them y'all can't say that 97 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: in word amore, and they really cannot tell you. I'm 98 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: so glad you said this bit. I just had this argument, 99 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: So I'm so glad you say I don't think that 100 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: they should be allowed to say at this point. I 101 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: don't think so either. But I didn't always feel that 102 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: way because my Latino friends were black. But we're also, 103 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: I think it's different growing up also in Florida's I 104 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 1: think it's different being up here. I didn't know how 105 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: much it was like we are us and black people 106 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: are them, like they separate themselves from blacks. But it's like, yeah, 107 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: you know, you shouldn't be able to say the N 108 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 1: word that in Florida. I think it doesn't feel like 109 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: that because it's already so racially charged. So white people 110 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: make anybody feel like so you do be like okay, 111 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: And not only not only that, I went to all 112 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: black schools and it wasn't many African Americans. A lot 113 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 1: of like the black people that I grew up with 114 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 1: were Haitian, Jamaican. Yeah that's Florida, especially Orlando. So I mean, yeah, 115 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 1: so I'm glad you said that. Yes, we got to 116 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: take the N word away from them. If you're Latina 117 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: friends that are not afrol Latina, you know, just to 118 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: give them a little you know, Latina. What's the Latino 119 00:05:53,920 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: nigga in? What do they say? So? So I know 120 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: the word that each other what it's spick right, that's 121 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: the slur, but they don't call that but nigga technically 122 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: was they haven't reclaimed. They haven't claimed it yet, reclaimed 123 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: not just like Asians haven't claimed changing because it's crazy. 124 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: Is we embraced we embraced ho and slut on this podcast, 125 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 1: But yeah, I just told her like agents haven't embraced 126 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: chink either. Those are still slurs. The black people took 127 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: nigga and embraced it and changed it into uh. And 128 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: that's the one word. That's why I'm very adamant to 129 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: on the F word with gay men and women they 130 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: have because they don't use it for it ain't no 131 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: what I'm you know, No, they don't so like and 132 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: and bit too. By the way, I've had to stop, 133 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 1: like when I meet a girl for the first time, now, 134 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: i'd be like, oh, that's that's a bit and yet 135 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,919 Speaker 1: and I mean, that's that's what weis becoming for me 136 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: because our very first venue, it was in d C. 137 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: And she was she started off just cool as by 138 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: the end of the show, I was like, yeah, a 139 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: bit and I was like, oh, hold on, let me 140 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: let me tell this story because Mandy's wilding right now. 141 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: I didn't do it at this gridgeous theater. I don't know. Actually, 142 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: one of the best staff they were great shout out 143 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: to DC Arena Stage A stage one of our best 144 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: Amzo White Girl. We get in and so I'm on 145 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: the phone with her and I'm letting her know about 146 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: the show, and she's friend and fun, like fun and 147 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: friendly on the phone. So once we arrive, I'm like, 148 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: you know, this is like a really bast show. She's like, 149 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: people have been outside. They are so invested. I mean, 150 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: we have a theatrical performance going on, and even they're like, 151 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: what's going on on this side? And you know, we 152 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: just there was a divide there was we love your energy. 153 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: So we do one show. They're they love it right there. Dope, 154 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: there's like lesbian chicken back. So we live. So by 155 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: the time the show was over, Mandy says to the girl. 156 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: The girl gives us up. She's like, I hope you 157 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: guys come back. And Mandy goes, oh, bitch, we've got 158 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: to come back. Look at it because I'm not as 159 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: she was so cool like during our whole thing. Wait, 160 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: the staff was also so cool. During our homemail portion, 161 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: one of the fucking um workers asked a question. They 162 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: did it was but one of our sta She was 163 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: jarred a little bit, and I said Mandy, and so 164 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: Mandy apologizes. So on our way out with the girl girls, 165 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: Hey Mandy, bye bitch. She did. It was so cute. 166 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: It was so cute. It's crazy. How um. So sometimes 167 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: Mandy and I have walked into theaters and they kind 168 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: of look at a shady and then the second it's over, 169 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: they're like, wow, oh, let me we're updated. Look at 170 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 1: you guys with your little business. She no, I was 171 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: actually wait wait wait no, I was gonna bring up 172 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: l A. So first off, in l A we did 173 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: the matinee Bullshit four to six because when we hit 174 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: up these comedy clubs, they're like, y'all comedians, y'all can 175 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: have the time slot that nobody wants, but we can't 176 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: give you our prime time slot. So we did l 177 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: A improv um Hollywood improv in l A. And the 178 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: first day it was rocking on us. They was like, okay, 179 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: this is cool. We got the no name God damn 180 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: bottle water and ship. The first day like thirsty, here 181 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: you go. Oh. The next day they were like Fiji, 182 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 1: here you go. That's right, Yes, they gave us fig 183 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: The next day they was like, you know what, we'll 184 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: be more hands on. They like provided next curity. The 185 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: next day, they was like, we've never had a matinee show. 186 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: Do this well? And your audience, how are they so 187 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: lively at four o'clock in the afternoon, basically turned up. 188 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: It was so you gotime you have, which is funny 189 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: because one of our venues, I know, you know what 190 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: you're talking about, treat us like ship so much so 191 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: that Ian who manages Joe Budden's podcast, we were like, 192 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: he came back stage to see us. He was like, 193 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: y'all good, and we're like, no, like d D He's like, 194 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: what y'all want me to do? It was second the 195 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: show was done. These people sold mad liquor. Now they're 196 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: hitting us up to give us the venue for free. 197 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: Mandy and I spent five racks. This was our most 198 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 1: it's the venue, they said, but not only not only 199 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: not only free the prime time slot that they didn't offer. Yeah, 200 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: so but yeah, anyway, enough about that, We're gonna do 201 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: a look quick catch up. Um. We haven't done catchups 202 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 1: in a while. We have been super guest field and 203 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: we have a great guest today which we're gonna get 204 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: into you because bitch, I'm ready for you. You guys 205 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: met on a great fune. I actually wasn't there that 206 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: episode that they recorded that I was out of town, 207 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: so I didn't make the recording. But when I saw 208 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: this episode that I wasn't a part of, I was like, oh, bish, 209 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: I like you, Like she just speaks so well on everything. 210 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 1: She just so I wanted to bring her in all 211 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: the time. I think around that the same time I 212 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: found her on Instagram out the guy she likes, don't 213 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: he speaks so well that it's like maybe I'm more 214 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: of a said like the white lady who just like 215 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: you little nigga bit just you and I and good 216 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 1: for you. I hate you, know, but I wanted to 217 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 1: catch up on some recent sex paides. Recently UM Wheezy 218 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: and I were recording UM Patreon and she was like, 219 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 1: I want to save this story from other fucking A 220 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: regular because she was ready to tell you now it's 221 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 1: something that good, and you know, it's like it's good. 222 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: So I met this dude into the East party. We 223 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: went on some dates, super attractive, but I don't know 224 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: why we just weren't connecting. It was weird and it's funny. 225 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 1: The last time we had someone from Great Ryan which 226 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: was aisha. I mentioned how we slept in the bed 227 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 1: together without sleeping together. Wait, that was when you that's right. 228 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 1: We talked about intimacy before being intimate. So he was 229 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: looking so good the other day on Instagram. I was like, 230 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 1: you want to go to dinner? He was like yeah, 231 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: I get to the place, the restaurant by where he lives, 232 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 1: which I figured he lived in the area because he 233 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: mentioned even before. I was like, already know what's up. 234 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:45,719 Speaker 1: And to be honest with you, I knew I wanted 235 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 1: to suck him like. I was like, fuck it. We 236 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: had some weird dates whatever. I get in there and 237 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 1: he's looking at me and he's like a word because 238 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: I had my tities out. He was like, okay, that's 239 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 1: what you are. I was like yeah, And then he 240 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 1: told me I had something on my top and like 241 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: brushed by my nipple and he was like, you look 242 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: really good. I was like you. So then we started 243 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: talking and I'm like, you know, why didn't you call 244 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: me back? Like because we were vibing and you could 245 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: feel it. I'm like, why why didn't you like hit 246 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 1: me up to see me another time? He's like, when 247 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 1: I was in your bed, you made me feel like 248 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: you were uncomfortable that I was there, and I completely 249 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: felt the opposite, and I was like, really, why is that? 250 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: And he was like, well, like you were turning her 251 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: back to me, like you weren't like really letting me 252 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: touch you. So I said, like, I knew I didn't 253 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: want to have sex, so I didn't really know how 254 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: to touch you think, and he was like, yeah, like 255 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: I was scared to even put my hands on you. 256 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 1: He was like, I wasn't even on that type of 257 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: ship but you. And it's crazy because I knew he 258 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: wasn't pressed for pussy, but I also thought if I 259 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: lean on him too much, is that going to give 260 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: him the wrong idea? And it's so that's very interesting. Yeah, 261 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: I think that's very the small things we think about, 262 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 1: like women. She remembered it, and I remembered it. But 263 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: with the crazy part though, is how you had such 264 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 1: a different response and thought we were so intimate and 265 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: I love that we were in bed together and didn't 266 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: have sex, and he thought that you weren't coomfortable the 267 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:11,959 Speaker 1: whole time. I think it's crazy how that happened, he 268 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: was saying, Because I was like, I even I told him. 269 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: I even talked about you on an episode like how 270 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: I was. He was like, you told me when I 271 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: came upstairs we were gonna have sex, like I already knew, 272 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: so I was. I didn't know, and I just thought 273 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: if I was, you know, that don't mean because i'll 274 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: get you, I'll selling nigga we ain't have a sex 275 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: and they'll be like and they'll know. Still try so yeah, 276 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 1: I get so anyway, um, he was like, but you good. 277 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: You know I'll send you the bober when we've done, 278 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,719 Speaker 1: even if that's you know, I'll get you. I'll get 279 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: you home, and I was likely, so hold on. He 280 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: takes me to his place, and what was so great 281 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: about it is I like we both knew we were 282 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: gonna fuck, and I could. Very few times in my 283 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: life do I know it's gonna be good, and very 284 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: few times this good the first time. So we go 285 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: smoke a little bit, he gives me something to drink. 286 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: I take like my pants off, having a body suit. 287 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 1: He's touching me and I take a shower. I come 288 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: out and he starts eating my pussy like he's already 289 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 1: ate my pussy a million times. Well, normally the first 290 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: time they got to show out right now, he knew everything. 291 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: I like when niggas eat my pussy from the side, right, 292 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: No fucking way, he knew all I'm talking about that. 293 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: I only do that our live shows. So he was 294 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: he out my pussy right. I'm on the couch. He 295 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: stands up over me. I started sucking his dick and 296 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: he's talking to me while I'm doing it, and he's like, yo, 297 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: I knew it was gonna be like this. I knew 298 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 1: he was gonna suck my dick like this, like to 299 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: you right, And I was like, we start sucking. He 300 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: takes two pumps, bitch, and he's like, oh, you're sucking 301 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: me all the time and looks at me again after 302 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: he's sucking me, and he's like, why do you kept 303 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: this pussy for me? And I was like, I don't know. 304 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: So good, like his dick fit me, like it was 305 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: meant to be in this pussy. Bro. The entire time 306 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: we were sucking, we kept talking about how good it was. 307 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: He's like, I knew it was I was right, could 308 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: not stop sucking talking, and then we were done fucking. 309 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: He was looking at me and I'm like, I know 310 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: you gotta wake up. He's like, oh no, no no, no, no, 311 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: no, no no no no no, like you stay here. I 312 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: want you to be comfortable, like because you're sucking me 313 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: in the morning again was good at so, like you 314 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: know you might have a local regular d I can't 315 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: wait to get up amazing sex. And then like I'm 316 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 1: about to start getting dressed, he's like, what niggas you 317 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: tell me you to leave ship And I was like, 318 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: I know. I was like, nig's not be treating me 319 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: like that. He was like, you stay as long as 320 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: you want, like I could feed you if you want. 321 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: I like shit. He got dressed in a little soup 322 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: bish dog. So the next day, it's two o'clock in 323 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: the morning, right some nig is talking to me. The 324 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: niggas lame and I text the dude. I'm like, yo, 325 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 1: I can't get you out of my head. He text 326 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: me back a second later he's like, where are you? 327 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: I tell him where I am. Ten minutes later he's there. 328 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: He comes up, kisses knees, like you're sucking me again tonight, bitch. 329 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: We leave the club and I'm telling you, dog, I 330 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: mean not for my life, but for my pussy. But 331 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: when I say that, ship above. You want to be like, 332 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: that's your boyfriend. You don't want to just do video 333 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 1: trying to get to listen you phony. He's just like 334 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: my model nigger. You know what I'm saying. He's bougie. 335 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: He was in the South of France. I love all 336 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: that ship and not ly that's my white boys, because 337 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: I like that bougie. But the end of the day, 338 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: he's a fucking nigga. Damn bit I'm talking about God. 339 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: I love that you didn't found you possibly some forever dick, 340 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: because I was just with seven And I don't know 341 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: how I keep saying this, Like, first off, I didn't 342 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: think there was anything left for me to do, especially 343 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: with him. We've been sucking damn near seven years coming up, 344 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: So I'm just like, what the funk. So I'm with 345 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: him the other day. I see we're getting on a 346 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 1: pattern now, like I'm seeing him either as soon as 347 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: he gets back from out of town or right before 348 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: he leaves. So I'm like, all right. So I go 349 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:04,959 Speaker 1: to see him and he slumped. We're trying to like 350 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: different ship, but not really different ship. So I'll tell 351 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: you one of the different ships we did. So he 352 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,199 Speaker 1: was slumped in the car. Actually, when I pulled up, 353 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 1: I didn't even know he was sucking. Like. I was like, 354 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 1: why are you not answering your phone? So I'm at 355 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: the door and I look in the car. I'm like, 356 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,719 Speaker 1: hearing something vibrate. This nigga slumped in the car. I'm like, 357 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 1: what the fuck? So I see his phone vibrating in 358 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: the car, and I opened the door to get his phone. 359 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: I'm thinking he left in the car. He's in the car. 360 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: Oh my, this nigger, I said, wake up. So he's 361 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 1: so he turns around, he sees me, he smiles. He 362 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 1: pulls me into the goddamn car, and I'm just like, really, 363 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 1: just like, what the fuck. So we're in the car. 364 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 1: He of course starts smoking, smoking his blunt. I go 365 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 1: to suck his dick. Okay, can somebody make a cartoon 366 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:48,640 Speaker 1: out of this? Can please make Mandy? Seriously, I'm dead 367 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: as serious. If you've had the graphic design skill, the 368 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: Lord knows, I don't. I'm gonna pay you a decent amount. 369 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 1: That can't because it's about to be pouring. You're not 370 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: letting me finish. So we're in the back seat now, 371 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: we in the car to the Oh yeah, there's more 372 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: to the car, so he pulled me in the car. 373 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: He smart. He starts smoking his blunt, and bitch, I 374 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: see his little his little boxes rise, So, bitch, you 375 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: aren't already boom, I ain't gotta do much work get 376 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 1: you up. So I pull his pants down, start sucking 377 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: his dick, and I'm just like like sucking a dick, 378 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: and he's talking how much how good I am sucking 379 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: a dick, and I love it. So then I go 380 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: down to the balls, but because we're in the back seat, 381 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: there's not that much room. So then he just pulls, 382 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: like pulls down his pants and he's like hop on top. 383 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: Y'all know I don't like writing, so I'm literally the 384 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: front seat is pushed all the way to the front. 385 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: So I get to where I'm riding his dick, but 386 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 1: like my legs are together. He's sitting on the seat 387 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: and I'm bouncing up and down. But now we're in 388 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: a position to where he noticed something weird and he 389 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 1: liked it. So let me tell y'all, So his because 390 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: of how we were sitting and how my how far 391 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 1: up my my legs work, he noticed that his balls 392 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,679 Speaker 1: were like hitting the soles of my feet and he 393 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 1: was turned on that his balls were kind of being 394 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 1: massaged by my feet. It was like, oh, your feet 395 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 1: on my balls? Like he even mentioned it and he 396 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 1: liked it. So I started like kind of moving trying 397 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 1: to get the visual in my head. I'm like, so 398 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,959 Speaker 1: I'm literally like the cat, Wait, Taylor and many can 399 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: you guys show us? Let's do it? So yeah, sit down, 400 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 1: hold on, I'm about to show you. So we're in 401 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 1: the back seat. Wait, let's get what balls? Can we see? 402 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 1: I hate you? Those are not the balls. So we're 403 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 1: sitting in the back seat, so the front seat is 404 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 1: pushed all the way up. So I'm like this, like 405 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: but you see how my feet have to come up 406 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 1: because it's the ground and this is ain't strong. So 407 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: I'm like this and I'm going up and down and 408 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: he screwed it up on the seat so his balls 409 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 1: are hanging and they're hitting the bottom. Okay, I picturing, Yeah, 410 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 1: I picture. You got it right? Now, you got it 411 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: right yet? Now you got face to face okay. So basically, yeah, 412 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 1: so that started. He was like, oh, let's go inside, 413 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:54,360 Speaker 1: So bitch, we go inside. He sucks the ship out 414 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: of me. Up, No, no, no, but so he gets crazy. 415 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,040 Speaker 1: It becomes so that was the first, but then you 416 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 1: reach another first. So he was sucking the ship out 417 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: of me so bad. I was just like, oh, okay, 418 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 1: I'm relaxing. You sucked the ship out of me. I 419 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: want anal sex today. So I was like, okay, bit 420 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: you ain't. You ain't eat nothing. Crazy, it's too early 421 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 1: to have coffee. I thought, my booty hole, I'm good. 422 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, put your thumb on my butt. 423 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, open her up. I'm ready. So tell me 424 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:25,479 Speaker 1: why he he goes because we're on the couch for 425 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: the first time in my life. Y'all know, I don't 426 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 1: even ride dick. How did I ride reverse cow girl 427 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: in my ass? It was amazing too. I came. I 428 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: didn't think I could. No. No, So my pass was faring, 429 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 1: but my ass wasn't. So my pussy was far and 430 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:43,919 Speaker 1: then he was putting all the air in my pussy. 431 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: But so he lays back on the couch anything and 432 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: I mount him. What pussy parts when you're ass? No, 433 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 1: my pussy was farting before he went in my ass, 434 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: Like I'm just saying, he fluked shut out my pussy. 435 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 1: I wanted to give my pussy air because that's kind 436 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:02,640 Speaker 1: like science. So he lays back and I mount him 437 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 1: from the back like this, first off my legs here, 438 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: I feel like a bit to stair master. So I'm 439 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: holding myself up while he's laying down. He's in my 440 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: ass and I'm writing like how they do on the 441 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 1: gay porn, and I was like, I feel like real 442 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 1: good right now. And I literally I will say ladies 443 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: for those of you because he tried putting it from 444 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: like the back, and it hurts like hell. It actually 445 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: didn't hurt while I was writing it control. That's why 446 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: I didn't know this because I don't ride. But bitch, 447 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: if y'all want to try, you may want to try 448 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,360 Speaker 1: getting on top first. And again I did said that. 449 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: Who said that we had? I don't know what you 450 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 1: have couple that I interviewed once, They talk about first 451 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: time an I've heard that a lot. I mean, you 452 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 1: gotta have strong legs, because sis, I woke up the 453 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,160 Speaker 1: next morning, I said, what is this called? So my groin, 454 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 1: my hamstrings, everything lower body was on fire. Um, but 455 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: if it actually felt good, and I came, well, I 456 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: mean you're gonna be able to come because you have 457 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: anal sex a lot with him, right, Well, you had 458 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 1: a lot of experiences, like two or three months with 459 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: You've had enough with him right to know that. I 460 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: was reading that even women that have had anal sex 461 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 1: ten times in life still have an increased anxiety on 462 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 1: if it will go to deep powetal hit. So I 463 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 1: wonder if you were able to come so hard because 464 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 1: you were controlling your own like asking that could have 465 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,199 Speaker 1: been it so you can really relax. All I know 466 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 1: is every time I come to this show, I'm thinking 467 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:38,960 Speaker 1: you and Ida did every goddamn thing, and I know 468 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 1: how we keep sucking having news did this made me 469 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 1: think of something having with Beard Babe. I don't know 470 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 1: if this is when he lose in Miami or what, 471 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: but I remember he asked me to get reverse Kyl Girl, 472 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: and I already didn't want to because I'm like, we 473 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 1: always talk about you know, he loves my legs, but 474 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: he like, you got a cute little booty, but you 475 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: know it's mainly my legs, and so I know my assets, 476 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So when he asked to 477 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: get reverse cow Girls, like damn, because like I'm good 478 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: at riding, but not from the back. I thought, so, 479 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 1: this nigga likes my feet. And what I realized was 480 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 1: so he's laid down. I'm in the bed, and I'm 481 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: like this, you gotta do the feet trick. Then he 482 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: was looking at the other way. You gotta let him. 483 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 1: It wasn't in the ball my feet. I know he 484 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 1: was looking at them ships and I could tell because 485 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: I was looking at him, and I'm like, I guess 486 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 1: if I had to ask to look at that would 487 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: be the visual. However, he was like, fuck it, we're 488 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 1: gonna do these people look at the feet. You gotta 489 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 1: you gotta try the foot Imagine if you did the 490 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 1: foot trick. He already loves a bit. He gonna come, 491 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,119 Speaker 1: bitch with a little tickling to do feet on the balls. 492 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 1: He gonna come be. But you have down like this 493 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: like no, look looks she missed the instructions. I'm a 494 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: draw a picture for you, Sis, I'm a draw a 495 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: picture for you. Well, we did pictionary on Viceland and 496 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: you can't draw? Can you give me a notepad? I'm 497 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: gonna no, no, no, no no. Since you're a I 498 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,119 Speaker 1: have to practice, I'm gonna I'm gonna get some I'm 499 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 1: gonna get some of this. But but wait, we do 500 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 1: have a guest. Guys, y'all hear a third voice in 501 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 1: the motherfucker's studio today. So I want to introduce our guests. 502 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: Go ahead and let them know because I don't know 503 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 1: if you're gonna give an aliens or not what what 504 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: they know you as. But go ahead and let our 505 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: listeners know who is. So my government name is Taylor, okay, never, 506 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: but my clients call me Mistress Marley, Mistress Marley. So 507 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 1: if you guys have not known by Mistress Marley, can 508 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 1: you let our listeners listeners know what it is that 509 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:40,159 Speaker 1: you specialize in. So I'm a pro dominatrix specializing in 510 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 1: financial domination. What's pro dominatrix? So pro dominatrix, you have 511 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 1: two difference, Okay, So there's pro and there's lifestyle. Lifestyle 512 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 1: dominatrics they just want to do it for the fun 513 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: of it's me pro They want to make money while 514 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,360 Speaker 1: they're doing it. They want to charge I've never heard 515 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: those neither, So that's interesting. Okay. So lifestyle dominatrix are 516 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: ones who just are me. They want to make people. 517 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: They want to be in the community. They just want 518 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: to experience, you know, learn new things whatever. Okay, but 519 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: I need my goddamn coins. So you could either be 520 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 1: a pro ho or just a man. I guess wait, 521 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: I like, okay, well, I like to do both too. 522 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 1: Though I can be lifestyle with just it has to 523 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 1: be certain people. I can't just be lifestyle just to 524 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 1: be lifestyle, like, of course, I can't be lifestyle with 525 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 1: these white boys. They know have the progom treatment and 526 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,160 Speaker 1: that's it. So you're a prodom. So I'm gonna guess 527 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: you don't suck for money. No, oh, this is gonna 528 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: be good. Well, because you said finndom right, And like 529 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: the more I've kind of been like learning about escorts 530 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,959 Speaker 1: and stuff, I find that and I think mistress Unknown 531 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 1: too doesn't work for money. Like being a sex worker 532 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 1: doesn't mean having sex all the time. Oh no, it's 533 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 1: a lot of things that fall under the sex work umbrella. Period. Yeah, 534 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 1: you guys watch. So I've been I've been talking to 535 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: my friends and I'm like, you know, I quit my job. 536 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 1: This is going well. Everyone wants me to make a 537 00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: foot page and then I don't know, if you see, 538 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: it's so much bread and not that. Um shout out 539 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 1: again to Sophia Gray. They hit us back up and 540 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: we are willing to set up a page. Yes, I 541 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: saw that our panties. I don't know if you're interested 542 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 1: in selling panties on the fun They want your panties 543 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: that you've worn all days? Want what because I don't 544 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 1: want people to have that much access to me. But 545 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: it's just your panties. It's not you. But what about 546 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 1: your sample? I go hold you. I saw a wheezy 547 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: story the other day. She said, I'm putting words over 548 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: my feet just because y'all are really at I did. 549 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: But now let me tell you why. I got some 550 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: coin in there, some coin my pedicure off live exactly. 551 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 1: Just show me your foot on live, I said, send 552 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: me a cash to pay for my next pedicure. He did. 553 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: It's just some of them are just a lot, and 554 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: it's not like I'm uncomfortable, but okay, it really is 555 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: from an experience I had in person. Um, I go 556 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 1: to this bar called Maxi Fish all the time. It's 557 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: my neighborhood bar, and so I always tell listeners because 558 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 1: they'll pull up and I kind of like enjoy that. 559 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 1: So this one dude came up and he was like, yo, 560 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 1: I love the show. Did it? I was like, oh, 561 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 1: thank you? And he goes and your feet out too. 562 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 1: So I was like okay, right, so I'm by myself 563 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,640 Speaker 1: because there's a bar tender downstairs always kicking with sob 564 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 1: rolling up alone. He's like, get your feet out too. 565 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: So I was like, so I started clinging to the 566 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 1: nigga that it's at the bar right, shout out to 567 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: my nigga, James. He came to our shows and ship 568 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,919 Speaker 1: and I'm just like, oh no, hold me close to me. 569 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: And the dude was like, so you still single, right, 570 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: And I was like, bro. I was like, I ain't 571 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 1: looking that and he was like oh. He was like 572 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I just want to make sure nigga cool. 573 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: You know, as soon as they do the feat that 574 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,479 Speaker 1: I get pedicures. I was like, well, I don't have 575 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,880 Speaker 1: anything to offer my feet, like that's not I don't 576 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 1: really do anything with my feet or anything like that. 577 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 1: He's like, I'll teach you if you want me to wheezy, 578 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 1: like that's no problem, I'll teach you. And he was 579 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: having this like like when people like I'm like oh, yeah, 580 00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 1: you know, I'm trying to work on audio and stuff. Oh, 581 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 1: I'll teach you. He said the same thing with my feet, 582 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 1: just as if it was a craft that is hilarious 583 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: angles pictures like yeah, and he was like, it could 584 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: be other people, if you want to make some extracrash, 585 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: it could be just me. And I'm sitting fucking terrified 586 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 1: for my goddamn well, I'm ready, y'all can send me shoes. 587 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 1: I'm getting a peel box. Um, I'm gonna set you 588 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: all up with all of that because I'm about to 589 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: do the whole foot page and probably seal these draws. 590 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: So we're gonna go ahead and get into We're gonna 591 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 1: go ahead and get into our vanilla ship for this episode. 592 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: And it only makes sense because New York just got 593 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 1: over a goddamn heat wave. It was hot as fuck, 594 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: and then everywhere in the goddamn States apparently except for 595 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 1: l A. I'm hearing l A y'all getting in the 596 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 1: sixties at night this I clicked on him. Look at 597 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: the messages. I wish you weren't so afraid of guys 598 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 1: with food fetishes. Look, everything is about say your souls 599 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 1: in the background. Damn I would have paid for that 600 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: petty you get in girl, you playing really paying for 601 00:28:55,520 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: a massage today? Wow? So them vanilla ship for this 602 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: week actually comes from Metro Lifestyle. It is a UK 603 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: site and the title is how to Have Sex when 604 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 1: the weather is Unbearably Hot. So you know, well, I 605 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 1: feel like we've all made comments about this, yeah, like 606 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: it's just so hot. It's like, damn, I don't even 607 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: know if I want to be around anyone. There's like 608 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 1: you don't want to cuddle, you touch, It's just fucking hot. 609 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 1: So here are some tips for some of you people 610 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: who are in the hot weather, like New York who 611 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: just had the heat wave for Florida, Georgia, the fucking 612 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: Southern Belt whatever that heat waves it was. It was 613 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 1: on a Saturday. It was fucking invited me to the 614 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 1: pool and I was like, no, it's I saw your 615 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: fucking chats and then he's like, okay, you want to 616 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:53,959 Speaker 1: go eat and so hot. So here are some tips 617 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: for you all who are looking to steal get your 618 00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,360 Speaker 1: goddamn freak on in the blunt of the summer. So 619 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 1: one would be ice cubes um. However, make sure you 620 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: use them with caution. Do not put ice cubes directly 621 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: on your genitals unless you want a painful tongue on 622 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 1: a lamppost situation. Um. Something else which I really like 623 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 1: is that you can take sex out of the bedroom. 624 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 1: Lelo sexperts Too says that the bedroom tends to be 625 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 1: one of the warmest spots in the home thanks to 626 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 1: all of the bedding. And if you live in a 627 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: house rather than a flat, being that you're elevated. So 628 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: also for apartments, if you live on higher floors rises. Yes, 629 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: so you can actually take sex to other parts of 630 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 1: the bedroom outside of the bedroom, including the shower another 631 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 1: I hate shower sex to another tip of the bitch, 632 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 1: you could just have sex outside sometimes sex outside outside, 633 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: I mean, but it's outside. How about this in front 634 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: of the freezer. Well, you could do that too. You 635 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: can do that too. Here is actually one of the 636 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,120 Speaker 1: best tips that they said is, Um, this is the 637 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: best time for you host to get lazy. It's hot, 638 00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 1: so don't get fancy with wild positions and super energetic thrusting. 639 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: Take your goddamn time so slow. We don't have to 640 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 1: get by the way. Um. I was at Kinfolk on 641 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: Saturday in Brooklyn. Uh, there's this gay couple that's making 642 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: out right, two men, and I said, no one is 643 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: next to me. I'm sucked up. It's like three am. 644 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 1: But I'm watching them kiss, right, And I said, these 645 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: niggas is really kissing in this heat. So they turned 646 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: around and look at me because they heard me, and 647 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, like I'm not I'm not homophobic. 648 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: It's just really hot and you guys are like making 649 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: out and they're looking at me, and I said, the 650 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: whitest ship that could ever, I'm totally gay. I'm gay friends. 651 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 1: I was like, I have a black friend. I've I 652 00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: see how white hot, so because I've never that's never 653 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 1: happened to me. And then they start laughing. I'm like, no, 654 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 1: like I really like I me eating pussy dog. I 655 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: have a whole lass bitch, like I'm gay as fun, 656 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: like for real, like I said what I said, Like 657 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 1: I said what I said. So then one of them 658 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: is laughing and the other one is not. I'm like, 659 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 1: how about y'alls drinking? And he was like, I guess 660 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 1: you need to because the and I was like, oh dad, 661 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: I felt so bad, but really, like you see two 662 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: people making out and the heat, and I just I 663 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 1: didn't even know I said it was hot. Really? I mean, 664 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: but we do say sometimes we're hot and bothered, like 665 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: sometimes hotness can make you horny a little bit? No, 666 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 1: does it not. I'm just did you guys go out last? Yeah? 667 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 1: I was at the pool though, Okay, I had my 668 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: swinger party, so I was a nice Joe was like, 669 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: it feels like a hundred degrees. I got a few 670 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: people coming over. I want to do the pool. I'm like, hell, yeah, 671 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: they're the pool. I'm in New York. But you're also 672 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 1: go in right now, which is good. So I went 673 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: out with my home girl, veenis enis Sex and we 674 00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: go to the strip club right and it's nice and 675 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 1: cold in there. When we stepped outside, it felt like 676 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:04,959 Speaker 1: you would step you were stepping in a club. That's 677 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: how hot it was. It was five am that the 678 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 1: daylight was out. I was light was out. Well, I 679 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: don't know what I mean. That's like me saying, is nighttime? 680 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: What would I say? It is dark time? Wait? The 681 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 1: sun wasn't out, but the light was out. It was 682 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: lighthouse there we go. Hold on, wait, how did I 683 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: rephrase this? God? Damn, I feel dumb. Hold on it's dawn, 684 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:32,840 Speaker 1: the sun sunrise. It was sunrise. Damn Donna thumbers. Everybody 685 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 1: on me right now? Um yeah, I just saw your 686 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 1: kink and that's how I lost my virginity. Yeah, so 687 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 1: it's funny. So the kink of the week I wanted 688 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: to bring up because of course I have been enjoying 689 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: anal sex and so I was just looking for different things. 690 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,479 Speaker 1: I wanted to know if also our guests may know 691 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 1: what it is. So the kink of the week for 692 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 1: this week is hot dogging. What would be your guest 693 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: if you had to think of what hot dogging was? 694 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, Multiple Dixie. You know, there's just like 695 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 1: Jeff were like, I've seen these. I thought of the gif. 696 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: You know, it's jiff me me me whatever they got, Okay, 697 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 1: definitely me bro Hey, do y'all a nigger? Me me, 698 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: no bitch, just me. So for any of you guys, 699 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 1: I would love to know what you guys maybe have 700 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 1: thought hot dogging was when you heard the term. But 701 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 1: for those of you who did not know, it is 702 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 1: actually when someone rubs their penis between another person's butt cheeks. 703 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: Not about annal penetration, although it can lead there, but 704 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:49,840 Speaker 1: It's literally just the act of putting a penis. I 705 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 1: used to do it. Funny it was with Jamie, who 706 00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 1: was the guy. How how me and Mandy fucking met 707 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 1: because like if you guys have heard the story me 708 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: and Mandy, I dated a guy, then she dated him. 709 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 1: So I never had sex with Jamie, but my cherry pop. 710 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 1: So what happened was we would do that because it 711 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: would rub on my clay. I would like it, and 712 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: he would come that way like he would never be insertion. 713 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 1: My mom ran to Publix, so we had time. So 714 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: he was, he was sliding and it was feeling good 715 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 1: and then suddenly, damn. I screamed because I felt it. 716 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 1: He pulled out and there was a stream of blood 717 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 1: ring my leg and I freaked out and I was like, 718 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 1: oh my god. But it started with him having his 719 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 1: dick between your butt. She was it was we were 720 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 1: hot dogging. Yeah, I was. I think I was on 721 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: my stomach. Um, I freaked out. Actually we never did 722 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,840 Speaker 1: it again. We never had penetration. So like it was 723 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:37,720 Speaker 1: like the cherry popped with no set. It was crazy. 724 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: I mean it was literally right at the edge, so 725 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:44,320 Speaker 1: my cherry was low ready to go. All the sex 726 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 1: chat rooms I was in. I was ready. I used 727 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:57,359 Speaker 1: to be in the Yahoo chats. I liked all that. 728 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,719 Speaker 1: So I actually used to be really into just the 729 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 1: message boards where they created like sex stories there and 730 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: read'll be like thinking I was sucking a b two 731 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 1: k oh, my god. I used to read no ship 732 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 1: I wrote one one time, bitch, I thought, you know 733 00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,240 Speaker 1: what the fun I was talking about? Never has sex 734 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 1: on that dollar? I used to. I used to read 735 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 1: all Oh, I wish I could go back and find it. Yeah, 736 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: I was hanging with a little fist. Then O Marion 737 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,799 Speaker 1: came over and it just there was one where they 738 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 1: had to force them in a closet and they took 739 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,800 Speaker 1: this bitch Virginity, she loves her Virginny and the threesome 740 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: from I don't know if they're still up. But if 741 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,919 Speaker 1: y'all want to ever read sexual erotica from message boards, 742 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if you could just look up message 743 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: boards took. But it used to be a whole bunch 744 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 1: of like maybe teenage girls or young twenties, but they 745 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 1: used to sex stories. I ain't read middle school message 746 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if gonna message board fan fiction there 747 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 1: go there you go do. Y'all remember these message boards, 748 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: which one which good under? Oh my god, they were 749 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 1: so good, and my mama didn't know what the funk 750 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: I was doing, but I was getting my pussy real 751 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 1: wet in middle school reading these goddamn favor and then 752 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 1: they would bring in bow wow little Romeo before you. No, 753 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,440 Speaker 1: I haven't started. Okay, there's a girl there who writes 754 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 1: fan fiction and the show yeah, yeah, so good. But um, 755 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,839 Speaker 1: I'm sure people told you get anyway, there's a girl 756 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: there who's not that popular in regular school, but online 757 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 1: she's popping because she writes dope ass fan fiction. And 758 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 1: it's so funny because I had that feeling when I 759 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 1: was around sixteen, like I would go out and like 760 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 1: I'd have a good time, and I was like, you know, 761 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: you know, Dan screw, but I was really enjoying myself, 762 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 1: and in school it was just like this. Hell yeah, 763 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: it's so crazy how like teenagers, especially with online ship, 764 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 1: can live a double life. 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Listen, 801 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 1: we have our dope as Um guest today, Taylor, who 802 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,919 Speaker 1: not only works a nine to five from time to time, 803 00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:56,320 Speaker 1: she's in corporate America. She also gets money out these niggas, 804 00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 1: so she's a pro do ho name my bio. We 805 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 1: are going to talk about how it is possible that 806 00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 1: you could not only be working your job, but you 807 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:14,240 Speaker 1: could also be a part time sex worker on the side. 808 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 1: So before we get into this conversation, knowing that that's 809 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 1: what you do. I want to know how can a 810 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 1: woman get into sex work? Um, if they want to 811 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 1: do it part time on the weekends at nine People 812 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 1: ask us this all the time, all the time, So 813 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,520 Speaker 1: how can they do it? Since you've achieved it? So 814 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,160 Speaker 1: my thing is, if you want to get into sex work, 815 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:32,879 Speaker 1: you gotta know what type of sex work you want 816 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,120 Speaker 1: to do, because it's all you gotta know if you 817 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 1: want to be a stripper, escort, dominatrix, sugar baby, because 818 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 1: that's still sex work to the people. Is definitely sex yeah. Yeah. 819 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,239 Speaker 1: A lot of people think it's not, but it is. Yeah. 820 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:48,759 Speaker 1: So I feel like if a woman wants to get 821 00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:50,359 Speaker 1: into a part time you just need to figure out 822 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 1: your schedule. You need to figure out how it works 823 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: for you. You gotta be able to separate your corporate 824 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 1: job from that job. You can't run into your corporate 825 00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 1: job saying this ship they're telling people about this. You 826 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,319 Speaker 1: gotta know how to fucking separated. So I want to 827 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,839 Speaker 1: ask you because I think, um, a lot of people 828 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,040 Speaker 1: don't know how to do it themselves, so they may 829 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 1: go about trying to find someone to help them. Would 830 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 1: you suggest they go through a pimp? Or agency. Okay, 831 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,759 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on don't go through a pen 832 00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,160 Speaker 1: or sex agency because one, not only are they gonna 833 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,839 Speaker 1: treat you bad, be ruthe like, they can do whatever 834 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 1: they want to you. They're gonna take your money. You 835 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: don't make it agency. I'm curious to know agencies seem 836 00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 1: to offer protection for girls, which is their main selling point. 837 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 1: So can you talk or speak to that? So in 838 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,520 Speaker 1: my opinion, like there's agencies and escort and right, and 839 00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,879 Speaker 1: they they they feed off or tell you that they're 840 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: going to offer protection. That's just to get you in. Um. 841 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,399 Speaker 1: In my opinion, they honestly and from what I've seen, 842 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 1: they take your money. They take a percentage, right, So 843 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,879 Speaker 1: you're doing all these they get you clients, but they 844 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: take your money. So my thing is, I just recommend 845 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,520 Speaker 1: everybody be independent. Yes you have to do more work, 846 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,399 Speaker 1: Yes you have to do more research, whatever, but you're 847 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 1: gonna keep your full profit. You're gonna be able to 848 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 1: make clients that you're more personal a wit, and you're 849 00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 1: not gonna even like be subjected to the abuse that 850 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,560 Speaker 1: could possibly happen because it's not always physical abuse, it's 851 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 1: emotional abuse and mental abuse that can funk with you 852 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: in that way. So I met this girl in the 853 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: airplane and I've got new feelings about sex agencies coming 854 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 1: back from Miami, and we just start clicking, right We're 855 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 1: s she was black, so are we talking? So anyway, 856 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 1: she says, I'm like, so, what do you do? And 857 00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 1: she's like, what do you do? So once I tell 858 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 1: her I have a sex podcast, she was like, oh bitch, 859 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,400 Speaker 1: She's like hermo. So she starts telling me as she 860 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:33,880 Speaker 1: has scores and I was like, oh, well, how do 861 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 1: you find your clients? You use Twitter and stuff, And 862 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 1: I was asking if I can interview her and she's like, honestly, 863 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 1: I've worked through an agency. She was like, it's a 864 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 1: very upscale agency, and I was like, why would you 865 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 1: do that when you can make your own money? First 866 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 1: thing out of my mouth, she's like, it's a set 867 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 1: dollar amount. They already pay her. I don't have to 868 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: deal with begging niggas for my money. I don't have 869 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 1: to deal with all that bullshit. Then she mentioned she 870 00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 1: was like, the background checks that they do are so 871 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: much better. She used to be independent. However, Aliott Triple 872 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 1: X revealed on a very old episode, I think it's 873 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: forty six maybe madam something. Um, how there were websites 874 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:16,279 Speaker 1: removed where like there was forums about protecting yourself. So 875 00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 1: she joined an agency after that, She's like, granted, they 876 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,560 Speaker 1: take which is really high, but all the guys have 877 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 1: been safe. They treat me well, and I'm already fucking paid. 878 00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 1: She's like, they've paid before. They were saying, what is 879 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: your experience as being independent? And like what red flags 880 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,480 Speaker 1: would would you know? Do you see when you have 881 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,880 Speaker 1: to try to be safe by yourself, you have no 882 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,839 Speaker 1: one but yourself when you're being an escort by yourself, right, 883 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, so, um, I personally have never done escorting, 884 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 1: but I do have escorting friends. Um, but you still 885 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:54,360 Speaker 1: meet men escort. But so escorting is more of like 886 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,839 Speaker 1: a they called a girlfriend experience when you're an escore. Yeah, 887 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: so I think people get escort in prostitution mix up. 888 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,720 Speaker 1: Prostitution is more so I just need you for this hour, 889 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 1: this time, and then that's it. Right. Most of the 890 00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 1: time with escort, and they want to take you to dinner, 891 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,719 Speaker 1: They want to do the whole girlfriend experience, They want 892 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 1: to have conversations, and girls charged for that too. Of 893 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,759 Speaker 1: course they'll charge separately from the sex. They'll just charge 894 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:20,800 Speaker 1: for conversation period. Yeah, So I always thought like escorts 895 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,919 Speaker 1: could be booked by the hour. They can't. You can't 896 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,920 Speaker 1: be booked by the hour. But it's more within it, 897 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,399 Speaker 1: Like so it prostitution is like, I'm booking for the hour, 898 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:29,800 Speaker 1: We're just gonna have sex, I'm gonna talk to you, 899 00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:31,960 Speaker 1: let's just funk, let's just do what we gotta do whatever. 900 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 1: And I have a friend um who she escorts, and 901 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,120 Speaker 1: they'll she'll get booked for an hour or two hours, 902 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,560 Speaker 1: but literally they may only have sex for like ten minutes, 903 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,720 Speaker 1: and then they lay up and she's talking, she's taking 904 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 1: in all of the stuff that they do from work, 905 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 1: then complaining about their wives, and so that's a part 906 00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,480 Speaker 1: of the hour. But then they also want to lay up. 907 00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:56,799 Speaker 1: She sometimes has to wipe them down and you know, 908 00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,840 Speaker 1: give the massages and all of this is with the 909 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 1: out they call a companionshipship. If I had to pick 910 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 1: one of the two, prostitution, probably don't want to prostitute. 911 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:10,000 Speaker 1: So I think a lot of women do escort, and 912 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,319 Speaker 1: because within that you can network so much, because some 913 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 1: of these men are actually taking you to like their work, 914 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 1: events too, when you're think does feel more and I 915 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: think in the head for women, it feels more like 916 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,360 Speaker 1: you're doing some elite ship. Yeah, and you feel like 917 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 1: you're securing more of a bad because not only do 918 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,000 Speaker 1: you got him, you at his event with all his 919 00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:31,720 Speaker 1: other friends. And think about the word itself, like escort 920 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 1: does sound better than prostitute? Why because we've been thinking 921 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 1: that our whole lives well, speaking of prostitution, they've been 922 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,480 Speaker 1: proposing recently and clearly, seeing all of the laws that 923 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,279 Speaker 1: are going against women rights and our bodies, it's never 924 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 1: gonna happen. But what are your thoughts about legalizing prostitution 925 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:50,120 Speaker 1: and do you think that would be a good thing 926 00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 1: or a bad thing for the for the woman. I 927 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,200 Speaker 1: don't think it should be legalized because what's going to 928 00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,239 Speaker 1: happen is when it's legalized, you're gonna have more people 929 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:00,839 Speaker 1: that want to make money off of it. You're gonna 930 00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,160 Speaker 1: have more people that yeah, you're gonna want to have 931 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 1: more people that want to come in. You're gonna have 932 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 1: corporations that are gonna start like monetizing off and stuff. 933 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 1: I'd rather I'd rather be be criminalized as and if 934 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,839 Speaker 1: you get caught. There's nothing that's gonna happen to you. 935 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,360 Speaker 1: There's no more getting caught. And we need to decide 936 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on the legalization of prostitute. She 937 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,360 Speaker 1: didn't say the decriminalizing things so now, because I was 938 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,480 Speaker 1: gonna say absolutely not, because women are got a fucking record. Now, 939 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,040 Speaker 1: so where else am I gonna work? And then I'm 940 00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:28,680 Speaker 1: gonna keep going to jail because now I can't get 941 00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: a job because I'm a sucking hello all over the damn. 942 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:34,759 Speaker 1: I'd rather be decriminalized. But together, have you ever been 943 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,279 Speaker 1: to a place where prostitutional legal? Have you ever traveled somewhere? No, 944 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: I haven't, but it's it's legal in Vegas, in Vegas? 945 00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 1: Not is it not Vegas? It's Nevada, but it's not Vegas. 946 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,280 Speaker 1: Where do you know if there's somewhere out of the country, 947 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 1: you know, is where the brothel is? I think it's 948 00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 1: only I don't know if it's out calls. We should 949 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:58,360 Speaker 1: definitely look Amsterdam too, it's she's been well. My recent 950 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 1: experience was in Panama, where they're a lot of sex 951 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 1: to them because tourism, because it's legal, and they do 952 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:06,279 Speaker 1: have identification cards and required certain health. UM. Oh well 953 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,000 Speaker 1: that's good. So that's why when I thought about it 954 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 1: being legal. I don't know from what I know, a 955 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 1: lot of sex workers pushed for it to be illegal, 956 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 1: and I can't speak for it myself, but I feel 957 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 1: like they must be doing it for a reason because 958 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 1: it must really be hard out there. So it's it's 959 00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,840 Speaker 1: very interesting because this topic was actually had on the 960 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 1: grape Vine. UM. So I want to shout out to 961 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,000 Speaker 1: Ashley A. Kuna and if you guys are looking for 962 00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 1: UM another show that really digs into deep rooted conversations 963 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:35,600 Speaker 1: and issues and concerns from different people, UM, check out 964 00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 1: the grape Vine. But Aisham, who was also a guest 965 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,440 Speaker 1: on our podcast, she actually said, what's crazy is the 966 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,920 Speaker 1: part that is criminalized is the act of receiving the money. 967 00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,200 Speaker 1: So it's not even the act of having sex. It's 968 00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:50,920 Speaker 1: huge charging for sex, which is the crazy part. And 969 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,640 Speaker 1: what I wanted to do is because we do identify 970 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,640 Speaker 1: as we look for equal rights on this podcast, we 971 00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 1: consider our self feminists, we are also pro sex work. 972 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,240 Speaker 1: One of the guests on the Grapevine UM said something 973 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,319 Speaker 1: and Chris is gonna pull something up. Wheezy, I want 974 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 1: you to take a listen to this because I think 975 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:08,800 Speaker 1: a lot of the guys on this show feel the 976 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,920 Speaker 1: same way. Can you go ahead and play that? And 977 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 1: you know, on one side have a narrative of must 978 00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 1: value women, women are eager, right, But at the same time, 979 00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 1: I'm able to bind it right and and that and 980 00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,560 Speaker 1: that's something that I've always been struggling with in regards 981 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: to people who are in regards to people who are 982 00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 1: feminists that are pro sex worker, uh, because like, like, 983 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,759 Speaker 1: how how do you not going to erode this sort 984 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 1: of perception like women are valuable if I could get 985 00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:45,480 Speaker 1: like two for one specials on Black Friday. I hate this. 986 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 1: I know, I'm not actually uncomfortable with the idea get 987 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,799 Speaker 1: him on the show. I know, hold on, you know, 988 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,239 Speaker 1: bi sex from women, because like it's not like it's 989 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,880 Speaker 1: not like any other physical labor, Like I pay a barber, 990 00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:10,359 Speaker 1: he has a skill for that. Construction workers sex Let 991 00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:14,760 Speaker 1: let it either all right, let's go ahead and and 992 00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,600 Speaker 1: and pause that. So I feel like a lot of 993 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: men who do listen to our show may have that 994 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,360 Speaker 1: same thoughts. So what are your thoughts to grow sex worker? 995 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,480 Speaker 1: First of all, we know why we are because it 996 00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:28,520 Speaker 1: gives me the choice over my own body. I can 997 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:32,040 Speaker 1: make my own decision. One too, I'm going to tell 998 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,680 Speaker 1: you right now, I can't do what you do only 999 00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,919 Speaker 1: because and I admire your work, but I'm too emotional. One, 1000 00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 1: I'll get too attached to three. I don't think I 1001 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 1: could be that safe or not. Lack of daisical, not relax. 1002 00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:49,839 Speaker 1: I know escorts and sex workers that talk about how 1003 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,840 Speaker 1: they won't drink with their clients. I can't see me 1004 00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,239 Speaker 1: not needing a drink to relax and calm myself down. 1005 00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 1: That's a fucking profession that you have drink with my 1006 00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,760 Speaker 1: clients because a lot of them aren't nervous, because maybe 1007 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,960 Speaker 1: you can't handle that. But what if I couldn't? Yeah, 1008 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,200 Speaker 1: you can. I don't think I could, which is the 1009 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,800 Speaker 1: same in the strip club a lot of women, but 1010 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 1: they do drugs and liquor just that. But to be 1011 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 1: able to perform while under an influence and still do 1012 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:19,920 Speaker 1: a job. It's to say that that's profession in the 1013 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 1: world because it is something that is necessary. Another thing 1014 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,439 Speaker 1: that I find interesting that he said is like, you're 1015 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 1: born with the vagina, why do I have to pay 1016 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:29,120 Speaker 1: for it? Right? Like why do I need to buy it? 1017 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 1: We know how much time and effort it takes to 1018 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:33,880 Speaker 1: get to know someone and then you may end up 1019 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,200 Speaker 1: having sex with them and it may suck. Why would 1020 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 1: I not want to go to a professional? How many 1021 00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 1: times people offer us make up for freemandy? Oh a 1022 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 1: whole lot? And how many times do we say? Now? 1023 00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,799 Speaker 1: Pretty much every time? Exactly? You know why? Because I 1024 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,840 Speaker 1: know there are fucking professionals that deserve my money instead 1025 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 1: of someone thirst didn't do it for free. Yeah, you 1026 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,040 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and I'm not saying every month. 1027 00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 1: Part is just the level of skill at that point, 1028 00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,040 Speaker 1: which is why, Like you're good at what you do 1029 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,200 Speaker 1: as a dominatrix. Like, so for someone who does want 1030 00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,479 Speaker 1: to become submissive, you can't all the time just talk 1031 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,360 Speaker 1: to anyone you're saying and say, Hey, I like to 1032 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 1: be submissive, can you be my dom? So, knowing that 1033 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 1: you're a professional, they're coming to you because they're going 1034 00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 1: to get the experience that they're looking for. His argument 1035 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,479 Speaker 1: is even really interesting perspective to let's talk about free 1036 00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:23,799 Speaker 1: sex when a dude is in the club. A matter 1037 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: of fact, that's just happened to me. In beard bab 1038 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,960 Speaker 1: We went out and these two girls was on his 1039 00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 1: dig hard and I was like, damn. And at first 1040 00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 1: we were both looking at it. She's like, damn, these 1041 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,239 Speaker 1: girls are fine. By the end of the night, it 1042 00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,440 Speaker 1: was almost ridiculous, And there was another really, really beautiful 1043 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,319 Speaker 1: girl that was smiling at him but not giving him 1044 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,319 Speaker 1: no play. By the end of the night I saw him. 1045 00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:45,000 Speaker 1: All he was doing was talking to his girl right oncent. Sure, 1046 00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:46,959 Speaker 1: he probably wouldn't ever be able to suck this girl, 1047 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:48,839 Speaker 1: But these other two girls, like, were you all about 1048 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,920 Speaker 1: to go what you're doing today? Why is it that 1049 00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,440 Speaker 1: that one was so attractive? Because we all want something 1050 00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: that's like you know what I'm saying, We don't want 1051 00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 1: someone that's two pressed women are the same way. This 1052 00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,239 Speaker 1: thing is blowing me up. So what happens is when 1053 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,760 Speaker 1: you have something for free, it doesn't have that much value. 1054 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,399 Speaker 1: I could be sitting here talking about sex all day, 1055 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 1: how I'm so fucking great, and y'all might feel like 1056 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 1: I'm the woman that's more quiet than me. You might 1057 00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,319 Speaker 1: find more attractive. Because that's the anomaly about it, and 1058 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 1: what happens with women that are quote unquote civilian hose. 1059 00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,319 Speaker 1: You don't really know what you gonna get with that. 1060 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,400 Speaker 1: When you have someone that's confident and is there like, 1061 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,040 Speaker 1: oh it is so good and you have to pay 1062 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,319 Speaker 1: for it. That is exactly why we're attracted to do 1063 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,879 Speaker 1: your research. You do all of these things. So as 1064 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,479 Speaker 1: I guess we're gonna look into financial domination. You said 1065 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,400 Speaker 1: you don't have sex with them. So when people contact you, 1066 00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,160 Speaker 1: what are the things that you do as a financial dump? 1067 00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,719 Speaker 1: So basically the act of findom is a fetish, just 1068 00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,759 Speaker 1: a kink of controlling someone else's wallet. Right, So you 1069 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,040 Speaker 1: have these men, most of these men have high positions, 1070 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,080 Speaker 1: there in control all day, so they need even it's 1071 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,160 Speaker 1: just for an hour two hours, they need that power 1072 00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,160 Speaker 1: stripped away from them. That's why I will say a 1073 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,239 Speaker 1: lot of my clients are law streatment because there used 1074 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 1: to be in power all the time. So basically, like 1075 00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:01,920 Speaker 1: with financial domination, will come to me and say, mistress, 1076 00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,600 Speaker 1: please drain my wallet. Mistress, I'm spending too much money. 1077 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,279 Speaker 1: Please take it from me like it's and they get 1078 00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:09,480 Speaker 1: off by you talking ship to them. You're telling them 1079 00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 1: don't go spend your money, you don't go do this, 1080 00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 1: and then there's things like a TM meets where I 1081 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,600 Speaker 1: just meet a guy, tot a t M, take his money, 1082 00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:18,800 Speaker 1: walk away, might talk him, might spit on him, he 1083 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,279 Speaker 1: might kiss my feet in public, whatever, and he walks away. 1084 00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,000 Speaker 1: But that's how they get off. And I'm like, who 1085 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:24,799 Speaker 1: am I to judge how you get off when I'm 1086 00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,640 Speaker 1: making bread from it? And in a way that so 1087 00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 1: a lot of women maybe like that's it. I could 1088 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,719 Speaker 1: do it. So what are the things that you would 1089 00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,560 Speaker 1: say you've done to become a prodom to where you 1090 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 1: know what to say. I'm sure you've looked up like 1091 00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,800 Speaker 1: how do I need to talk to these people? Because 1092 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 1: we may think damn, I could do that, but it's 1093 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 1: actually a skill, which is what he took away from sexually. 1094 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,680 Speaker 1: What are things that you've looked up and maybe could 1095 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,839 Speaker 1: you give some of the words that you might use. 1096 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna get it a role playing. Okay, you pull up. 1097 00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 1: We got a pocket fool, but she gonna go to 1098 00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,479 Speaker 1: the A t M. This is this is your John. 1099 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,320 Speaker 1: What do you say as you guys, as you're approaching 1100 00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:04,800 Speaker 1: the A t M with this man? Well, hold on, 1101 00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 1: I want to ask you a question. Are they normally 1102 00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:10,760 Speaker 1: asking you to say something to them. They already happened 1103 00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 1: on this. They already have the assumption, and I'm going 1104 00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 1: to do that. They when they when they come into it, 1105 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,880 Speaker 1: they they're expecting I know, she does a service, is 1106 00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:23,440 Speaker 1: what I'm expecting. So basically, here we are. I'm in there. Okay, 1107 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,799 Speaker 1: hi mistress. Why the funk are you talking to me? 1108 00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:29,279 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, mistress. I just wanted to just get 1109 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:31,000 Speaker 1: the money off the A T M. Talking. What do 1110 00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 1: I put? What do I do? How much do I 1111 00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 1: take out? What amount you think is right? Saying amount hundred? 1112 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 1: Are you suing playing with me? I'm sorry, mistress, No, 1113 00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:41,480 Speaker 1: not take out five dars right now? I only have six. 1114 00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:48,279 Speaker 1: Take out six hundred dollars. Word and then you take 1115 00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,200 Speaker 1: it out. And that's how it is. And the crazy 1116 00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:52,480 Speaker 1: thing is it's all about getting out of your own 1117 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:56,120 Speaker 1: head because naturally, I'm from the South. I'm a Southern sweetheart, period, 1118 00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,399 Speaker 1: So I really got it. Yeah, and I'm and I'm 1119 00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,400 Speaker 1: okay with has that like I'm okay with it, And 1120 00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: a lot of women have to get into character for it. 1121 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:05,919 Speaker 1: But once you get into that, character becomes a part 1122 00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:09,640 Speaker 1: of you. And now I want to ask you because, um, 1123 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:14,279 Speaker 1: you are beautiful black queen. Do you feel like your 1124 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:18,080 Speaker 1: clients come to you because of your skin color at all? Definitely? 1125 00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,479 Speaker 1: They hit me with that ebony goddess ship all the time. 1126 00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:24,640 Speaker 1: Ebony goddess. I want to worship your ebony goddess ass. 1127 00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 1: Like you're okay with you're paying me, You're gonna You're 1128 00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:32,120 Speaker 1: gonna lick this ebony goddess ass. How about that? That's why? 1129 00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 1: And some of them wants to be slaves to black 1130 00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:39,720 Speaker 1: women and you're that, we both said, and you're okay 1131 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,840 Speaker 1: with playing the slave master role type ship in reverse? 1132 00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:48,080 Speaker 1: I say it is? Why not? Why not? Okay, it's 1133 00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,440 Speaker 1: crazy that you say that because the other um dominatrix 1134 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,600 Speaker 1: that we've had, we've had the Lisa Splsson and we've 1135 00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,759 Speaker 1: had I believe god us unk. Both of them were 1136 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,080 Speaker 1: not into um that type of plan love it. Wait 1137 00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:03,399 Speaker 1: wait wait no, no, no, no, they weren't. Lisa, she 1138 00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:06,640 Speaker 1: doesn't like it the other way. That's the way I 1139 00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 1: think both of them were. I think she didn't. Damn, 1140 00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,719 Speaker 1: I can't remember. There was something specific about her. We 1141 00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,799 Speaker 1: gotta have her back, yeah, um, but I I don't 1142 00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 1: know if it was them acknowledging that she's black or what. 1143 00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 1: But there was something specific about one of them, and 1144 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 1: you love getting into those types of Yeah, I only 1145 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:25,040 Speaker 1: have one sub right now. Sub short for submissive. Only 1146 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,760 Speaker 1: have one sub right now. That's into like ebony everything. 1147 00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:29,840 Speaker 1: What's the least bit of money you'll take from a man? Like? 1148 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,799 Speaker 1: What's a waste of your time? Honestly, I'm gonna say 1149 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,759 Speaker 1: anything under twenty five because there's something I call it 1150 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:39,319 Speaker 1: initial tribute where if you at least pay twenty five dollars, 1151 00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:40,880 Speaker 1: I know you got your ship because there's something that 1152 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:42,840 Speaker 1: wish your time all day. They won't even pay five dollars. 1153 00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:46,719 Speaker 1: They broke five just online. Talk to me. That's that's 1154 00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 1: a message me. That's just a message. Yea. They know 1155 00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,080 Speaker 1: what's up if you message me and you ain't paid. 1156 00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 1: I'm not responding to anything you say. I'm gonna start that. 1157 00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:56,319 Speaker 1: You're gonna be on red. You're gonna see that. I 1158 00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:58,759 Speaker 1: read it, but I'm not rested. As soon as they 1159 00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 1: write you, you say in order to can in you 1160 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 1: this convo send, I don't even say that to them. 1161 00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:04,960 Speaker 1: So wait, how do they know? Let me tell you, 1162 00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:06,960 Speaker 1: Because some men will try to play. So some men 1163 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: get off. So a lot of girls come in. When 1164 00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:10,759 Speaker 1: they first start out, a man could message him and 1165 00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:12,680 Speaker 1: be like, God is blah blah blah, I love you, 1166 00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 1: I love the way you look. They'll keep replying back 1167 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 1: like tribute. Then the man wilply back, God is, I'm 1168 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,000 Speaker 1: such a loser. Then the one where like the more 1169 00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:20,640 Speaker 1: you reply back to them, and where they get off, 1170 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,640 Speaker 1: like they're getting off for free. This is what Lisa 1171 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,640 Speaker 1: talking about, letting them get free and sh like, stop 1172 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 1: fucking talking exactly like putting her cash out because they're 1173 00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,480 Speaker 1: getting off for free. They're getting on. We got Benson. 1174 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 1: You want to come on the mic. Hold I feel 1175 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 1: like maybe hold on, hold on, I can't remember, Get 1176 00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 1: on Mike, Get on the mic, Get on the mic. 1177 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:42,960 Speaker 1: We got our to God. Un you trained me. I 1178 00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 1: got fifty bucks, but I scared them off because it 1179 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 1: can afford me. So you're a cash master. You're a 1180 00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,520 Speaker 1: cash master. That's what they call men. Cash master. Me. 1181 00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm super just are not like that. Yeah, so there's 1182 00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,360 Speaker 1: many find they call him cash masters. So wait, what happened? 1183 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,840 Speaker 1: Please shout out to God his uncle, shout out to 1184 00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 1: my tattoos. Also nutcakes. She was actually a dumb also, 1185 00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,360 Speaker 1: and then we connected and then like I was actually 1186 00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,200 Speaker 1: about the team up with her, go to get flood out. 1187 00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 1: You were going to get fluid out. I mean he 1188 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: was bro He wanted to wait, wait for a for 1189 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:15,320 Speaker 1: a man. H wait you a culde. Some men like 1190 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,000 Speaker 1: to watch other women get fucked, but so what was 1191 00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:20,120 Speaker 1: going He wanted to get beaten by the girl while 1192 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 1: I watched, and just like just cut cold, yeah, just 1193 00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:29,600 Speaker 1: cut cold, shut a little horse. Yeah because even looking, 1194 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:34,760 Speaker 1: because he knows what's good for real, so and so 1195 00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,800 Speaker 1: a man, so a man can do this as well. 1196 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:42,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, men and women. I really thought, you know, look, 1197 00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:44,640 Speaker 1: it's okay. We shout out to Alex who used to 1198 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:46,800 Speaker 1: war a video. We had our Corald man, you whom 1199 00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 1: doing a video more fun. I'm like, Benson's a nice, 1200 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:55,920 Speaker 1: sweet guy. He probably it's so safe, Okay, Benson, I'm sorry. 1201 00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,040 Speaker 1: I have this little brother feeling with him and out 1202 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,400 Speaker 1: here like the more in his hand, like put me 1203 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,920 Speaker 1: in the game, coach. Please send us emails to Horrible 1204 00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:06,360 Speaker 1: Decisions at Gmail. Let us know about your video skills, 1205 00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 1: because I can't do this. I love this. Well, we're 1206 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,920 Speaker 1: gonna go ahead because there's another part to this that 1207 00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:12,640 Speaker 1: I wanted to get into. Oh wait, wait, wait wait 1208 00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:14,640 Speaker 1: quick questions go ahead. Where do you meet them? That's 1209 00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:21,760 Speaker 1: what everybody wants Twitter Twitter community the hashtag findom pay pig, 1210 00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 1: pay pigs, somebody pays you, um, ebony, dum, cash meat, 1211 00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,400 Speaker 1: all of that hash meat. We'll put these. We'll put 1212 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,880 Speaker 1: these hashtags as well in the description. Men walking for 1213 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,040 Speaker 1: this so much. By the way, I made a joke 1214 00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:38,480 Speaker 1: about many black women. What my sugar daddy? Oh Andrew 1215 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,439 Speaker 1: posted an old man picture of himself. I was like, Yeah, 1216 00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,160 Speaker 1: that looks like my little sugar daddy. Four people wrote 1217 00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:47,480 Speaker 1: me because they're searching the words sugared out. Yeah, it's crazy, 1218 00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:51,520 Speaker 1: it's disgusting. I'm excited. I'm excited though, because another part 1219 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:55,560 Speaker 1: of you, um is that Taylor actually throws swinger parties 1220 00:59:55,960 --> 01:00:00,520 Speaker 1: for black people black people. Um. So our mail this 1221 01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:05,000 Speaker 1: week um actually is titled parent and Child at Swingers 1222 01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:08,640 Speaker 1: Party Together. So here we go, evening, ladies. We were 1223 01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:10,800 Speaker 1: at a party last night at our swingers club and 1224 01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:14,120 Speaker 1: we noticed two men, two men and woman couples we 1225 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,680 Speaker 1: had never seen before. It's a private club, so you 1226 01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:18,720 Speaker 1: leave so you see a lot of the same people 1227 01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:21,920 Speaker 1: over and over. One couple was probably in their fifties 1228 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,240 Speaker 1: and the other in their late twenties or early thirties. 1229 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 1: Don't think anything of it until I'm talking with one 1230 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,080 Speaker 1: of my good friends at the club and she tells 1231 01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,080 Speaker 1: me that the two men are father and son. It 1232 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,480 Speaker 1: really caught me off guard, like, who would want to 1233 01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,360 Speaker 1: bring oh, who would want to be at a swinging 1234 01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 1: party with their child? So later on the even later 1235 01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:41,960 Speaker 1: on in the evening, after my friend has been in 1236 01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 1: the hot tub with both couples weird again, she comes 1237 01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,960 Speaker 1: over and sits by me and we start talking and 1238 01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,400 Speaker 1: this is where she gets really crazy. She told me 1239 01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,120 Speaker 1: that they were insinuating that all four of them wanted 1240 01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,400 Speaker 1: to take her to a private room. Not to kink, 1241 01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:59,360 Speaker 1: shame or judge anyone, but what the fuck? Thank you, 1242 01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:02,560 Speaker 1: b So this was one of our male listeners and 1243 01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 1: he was thrown off right. I don't know who it was. 1244 01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:08,720 Speaker 1: It could have been um, but he wrote us saying 1245 01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:12,760 Speaker 1: that he saw uh father and son. Okay, the guy 1246 01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,400 Speaker 1: was writing it. Noir Swingers is his Twitter name, and 1247 01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:18,800 Speaker 1: he tagged us in it, and I was like, please 1248 01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:21,160 Speaker 1: email me this story. He's like, I wonder what horrible 1249 01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:22,840 Speaker 1: pod would say this. I'm like, email me the story 1250 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,080 Speaker 1: that was so fucking weird. What is that something that 1251 01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 1: you've ever seen at your party? And is that something 1252 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,840 Speaker 1: that do people bring their moms and children to sing? 1253 01:01:32,200 --> 01:01:33,920 Speaker 1: Do they go together? Is that a thing to do together? 1254 01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:37,600 Speaker 1: I've never seen that, but I kind of look at 1255 01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,919 Speaker 1: it at a look at it as like, look how 1256 01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,200 Speaker 1: men view their son's kind of kind of like we're 1257 01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:44,760 Speaker 1: gonna make him a man, you know, you know how 1258 01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:46,800 Speaker 1: men are like they like the older the men get, 1259 01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 1: they want to know like are you what you know? 1260 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:50,400 Speaker 1: Like they want us, And especially if he was a 1261 01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:53,080 Speaker 1: legal age, like it's different with like a mom and 1262 01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:54,480 Speaker 1: a daughter. They're not going to go to no ship 1263 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 1: like that. I ain't gonna hold you. I was almost 1264 01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:59,640 Speaker 1: going to invite my mom to Jamaica and passport. I 1265 01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 1: would have like my mom's heto funny you say that 1266 01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:07,400 Speaker 1: because um my mom was like are you really going 1267 01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:08,840 Speaker 1: to go alone? And I was like, yeah, I'm just 1268 01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 1: gonna experience it. I end up not going alone. And 1269 01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:12,760 Speaker 1: she was like I'll just go and I was like, no, 1270 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: you won't. She's like, but it's a free like, why 1271 01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:18,960 Speaker 1: wouldn't I go? I don't understand. My mom would never 1272 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:20,880 Speaker 1: do that anything like that. But crazy thing is, my 1273 01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:24,920 Speaker 1: mom supports everything I do. But I never no, honestly 1274 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,320 Speaker 1: that it would have been too much, too uncomfortable. But 1275 01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,400 Speaker 1: I've never seen that she looked at it as a 1276 01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:31,760 Speaker 1: nudist resort, which is why my mom wasn't thinking you 1277 01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 1: would be uncomfortable as a sex resort. My daddy is Jamaican, 1278 01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 1: she was he back in the nineties. Okay, my mama 1279 01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,080 Speaker 1: know what that is. It's crazy. So I wanted to 1280 01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:45,760 Speaker 1: get into the conversation. You throw swingers parties? What are 1281 01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:49,760 Speaker 1: swingers parties? Are different than sex clubs? So what are 1282 01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:53,160 Speaker 1: swingers parties? I think swinger parties are more intimate. I 1283 01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:54,920 Speaker 1: kind of know my list. I know who's coming. I 1284 01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:57,040 Speaker 1: might know them personally, I might vet them, like you know, 1285 01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:59,320 Speaker 1: I know who's coming. I think it's sex clubs, anybody 1286 01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 1: can just pop up, they paid a fee then get in. 1287 01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:04,680 Speaker 1: But a swinger parties is like, Okay, you crazy, I 1288 01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:06,400 Speaker 1: know you're not coming for sure. Like it's kind of 1289 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:08,840 Speaker 1: like it's a personalized list, like I might how many 1290 01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:11,120 Speaker 1: people would be at your party this past Saturday, I 1291 01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,520 Speaker 1: had thirty five people. That's the most I've ever had. 1292 01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:16,880 Speaker 1: That's like orgy almost everyone kind of how big is this? 1293 01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:22,880 Speaker 1: That felt that to me, I'm like orgy that okay. Origins, 1294 01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 1: I think club sex club. Then when I hear something 1295 01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:30,040 Speaker 1: small like that, I'm thinking group sex orgy. So basically, 1296 01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 1: I got an airbnb in Brooklyn. It was like a duplex. 1297 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:35,680 Speaker 1: It was huge. It had like three bedrooms, but in 1298 01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:40,600 Speaker 1: all there was thirteen beds. Because a party or anything, yeah, yeah, 1299 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,960 Speaker 1: So like there was like all these beds. The couches 1300 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,120 Speaker 1: would pull out beds. I had. It was bring your 1301 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,400 Speaker 1: own bottle. But I had my best friend bartending, like 1302 01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,720 Speaker 1: he was there bartending for me, like I had the 1303 01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,560 Speaker 1: upstairs rooms. I ordered food like all that little ship 1304 01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:54,600 Speaker 1: because I charged him a good amount. So it's like 1305 01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:58,880 Speaker 1: I gotta have something. So so for the sex clubs again, 1306 01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:01,240 Speaker 1: I've been to college A single girls can get in 1307 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,920 Speaker 1: there for twenty five couples or eighties, sometimes one fifty. 1308 01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:06,240 Speaker 1: She's been to sex clubs that ranged from two to 1309 01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,120 Speaker 1: three to four hundred dollars for a couple to get 1310 01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:11,280 Speaker 1: in the most expensive one I've been to. I actually 1311 01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,480 Speaker 1: can't even say the name of it. Was a thousand 1312 01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:18,720 Speaker 1: dollars for a couple. Um a guy his girlfriend backed out, 1313 01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:20,640 Speaker 1: went on like two dates with him. He was like, hey, 1314 01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 1: not interested in having sex, but I don't want to 1315 01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:24,720 Speaker 1: waste this ticket, and I feel like it'll be good 1316 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 1: content for your show. What ended up finding out I 1317 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:28,920 Speaker 1: couldn't say the name of it. When I walked in 1318 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:30,760 Speaker 1: the name, he signed something and my phone went in 1319 01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,439 Speaker 1: a lot. So for your swingers party, if you don't 1320 01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:35,320 Speaker 1: mind asking, like or even if you want to do 1321 01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,160 Speaker 1: just a generalization, what would you say that the generalized 1322 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:41,720 Speaker 1: pricing would be to attend a swingers party? Mm? So 1323 01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 1: personally for me, my swinger party, I had his past 1324 01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:45,840 Speaker 1: Saturday was my first one I've ever thrown in my life, 1325 01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,200 Speaker 1: and you had almost forty people come down. Yeah, yeah, 1326 01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:51,600 Speaker 1: so I charged well. Single women were free because for 1327 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:53,040 Speaker 1: the most part, you want to get the single women 1328 01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:54,800 Speaker 1: in there. And I know it was my first one, 1329 01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:57,040 Speaker 1: so like, I didn't know how many, mind you, The 1330 01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:58,640 Speaker 1: whole time, I was thinking, the hardest thing is gonna 1331 01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,760 Speaker 1: get these single women in here, especially our age like 1332 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,200 Speaker 1: our age ranger. So I was like, let me make 1333 01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:04,920 Speaker 1: them free. When I tell you, I a lot of 1334 01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,720 Speaker 1: twenty single women tickets, all of them were gone in 1335 01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:10,200 Speaker 1: less than a week. My y'all was scared of that. 1336 01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:11,760 Speaker 1: I was like, no women gonna come, It's just gonna 1337 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:14,280 Speaker 1: be a sausage fest. The ship sold out. So then 1338 01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:17,680 Speaker 1: I charged single men one dollars like even, and I 1339 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,160 Speaker 1: charged couples seventy dollars. So and I had people try 1340 01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:23,280 Speaker 1: to buy tickets a day of Biden allowed at because 1341 01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,440 Speaker 1: I was my only host. So having all those people 1342 01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:29,240 Speaker 1: like my next one. Yes, I'm having another one Halloween 1343 01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:33,160 Speaker 1: edition in October, Okay, so definitely put her in. It 1344 01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:36,760 Speaker 1: was it exceeded my expectation. I did a Halloween party 1345 01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:40,680 Speaker 1: at Chemistry like two years ago, and it was like 1346 01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:43,800 Speaker 1: I think it was fifty couples, two hundreds, and I 1347 01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:45,959 Speaker 1: remember thinking like, oh my god, some of these people 1348 01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:50,160 Speaker 1: are weirdos. But also like I like that. I feel 1349 01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:51,560 Speaker 1: like if you spend a certain amount of money, they're 1350 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,320 Speaker 1: committed to a certain level of experience. So when you 1351 01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:56,280 Speaker 1: charge a couple of something like that, like you're like, okay, 1352 01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:58,080 Speaker 1: like they're in this. They didn't just pop out by 1353 01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:00,640 Speaker 1: to get a nut off. I don't know of Caligula 1354 01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:04,000 Speaker 1: was during a Halloween party and it was like, yeah, 1355 01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 1: so I wanted to know, Um, I guess what was 1356 01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:10,320 Speaker 1: the most wildest thing that you saw at your swingers party. 1357 01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:13,040 Speaker 1: It really exceeded my expectations because I came in thinking 1358 01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:14,480 Speaker 1: this ship about to be lad. I'm gonna be honest, 1359 01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:15,800 Speaker 1: I was like, this ship about to be lame. It's 1360 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,440 Speaker 1: my first one, but fun people are spending their money. 1361 01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 1: This one couple, mind, we was having like an icebreaker. 1362 01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:23,600 Speaker 1: So we did an icebreak where like I was spanking people, 1363 01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:25,200 Speaker 1: we was tying. There was one guy that was like 1364 01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,720 Speaker 1: experienced and bondedge. She was tying people up like we 1365 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:29,600 Speaker 1: made it interactive before. You just don't come in and 1366 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,440 Speaker 1: fuck like because almost everybody there was new beasts. It 1367 01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,800 Speaker 1: was their first time. So the crazy thing to me, 1368 01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:38,240 Speaker 1: this one couple came in didn't even say hey to nobody. 1369 01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:42,160 Speaker 1: They walked straight upstairs and started fucking like right away, 1370 01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:45,560 Speaker 1: like crazy started before. It was both like they were 1371 01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:48,840 Speaker 1: both like they were a BBW couple, like they were okay, 1372 01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:52,240 Speaker 1: and they went downstairs after that got something to eat 1373 01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:54,440 Speaker 1: and dip. I didn't even say I was like, they 1374 01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 1: got any money's worth for sure, but yeah, no, no, 1375 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:00,520 Speaker 1: but no. The craziest thing I saw all I think 1376 01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:04,360 Speaker 1: was how many people are watching them? Everyone? Yeah, so 1377 01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,680 Speaker 1: it became a part like people started going upstairs to 1378 01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,480 Speaker 1: play like gravitating. People are downstairs too, but everybody went 1379 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:11,560 Speaker 1: upstairs and may be in a host, I'm checking on everybody. 1380 01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:12,840 Speaker 1: So I went upstairs for the first I was like, 1381 01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 1: oh yeah, because like where did I go? Right? And 1382 01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:16,960 Speaker 1: I when up stairs everybody was up there fucking like 1383 01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:19,240 Speaker 1: there were so many orgies. There was so much scoring 1384 01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:20,840 Speaker 1: going on. I did a scot show in the beginning, 1385 01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:23,160 Speaker 1: like I just laid down and I said, this is 1386 01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,400 Speaker 1: how we're gonna do part of the icebreaker, and everyone 1387 01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 1: just watched me score and it was just like I 1388 01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: was like, that's what I was like, that's what you're 1389 01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:33,160 Speaker 1: getting out the host tonight because y'all looking at me 1390 01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:37,560 Speaker 1: like who's gonna start it off? Right? But yeah, it was. 1391 01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:39,800 Speaker 1: It was. It was crazy. There was people fucking outside 1392 01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 1: on the back patio. Get people to find you. I 1393 01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:47,200 Speaker 1: just put it on Instagram. Yeah, and she literally made 1394 01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 1: a flyer like it was a club partur So I 1395 01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:52,720 Speaker 1: love it because I guess that that would be the 1396 01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:54,840 Speaker 1: next part is how can people find these in their place? 1397 01:07:54,880 --> 01:07:57,640 Speaker 1: And I'll say you can even easily go on Google 1398 01:07:57,680 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 1: typing swingers, party swingers, club swingers. Now you got me. 1399 01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:03,920 Speaker 1: Because Mandy and I have like the Scott We discussed 1400 01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:05,680 Speaker 1: this horrible like we like, like, what can we do 1401 01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:08,080 Speaker 1: with fans? I ain't friend? Is that fucking y'all can 1402 01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 1: make it lit? Yeah, y'all can make it. Letting a thing. 1403 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:11,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real with you. Ain't sucking at the 1404 01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:13,320 Speaker 1: party where horrible decisions listener to that, but I will 1405 01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:18,240 Speaker 1: definitely an I would be a great job. I sucked 1406 01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:19,960 Speaker 1: at the party, but I sucked the funk buddy. I 1407 01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:22,679 Speaker 1: waited till he got there. Oh so you invited some Yeah, 1408 01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:24,640 Speaker 1: because I was a hostess mall all night. It was 1409 01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:26,680 Speaker 1: so hard to just like break off and fun. But 1410 01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:28,519 Speaker 1: like around one two am because the ship ended it 1411 01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:30,360 Speaker 1: like four or five, And I allow people to stay 1412 01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:32,000 Speaker 1: tonight if they needed to because it is an airbnb. 1413 01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:34,439 Speaker 1: I had it till eleven o'clock next morning, So if 1414 01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:35,960 Speaker 1: you got too funked up and can't go home or 1415 01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:37,639 Speaker 1: you live way uptown because it was in Brooklyn, because 1416 01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:39,120 Speaker 1: I live in Washington Heights, so I'm like, I'm not 1417 01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,639 Speaker 1: going so I want people to stay. All the sex 1418 01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 1: parties minus in Queen's. I've been to one in like Midtown. 1419 01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:48,880 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, that was the expensive one. I want to 1420 01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:53,240 Speaker 1: but it was. But I will tell you this, the 1421 01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:54,920 Speaker 1: one that I went to that was that expensive. I 1422 01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:57,040 Speaker 1: was in shock how hot they were and I see 1423 01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:59,000 Speaker 1: why they took my phone. I was like, WHOA had 1424 01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,719 Speaker 1: to be Victoria's secret. But like even at my party, 1425 01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:05,600 Speaker 1: the amount of attractive people, like I was expecting weirdos, 1426 01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:08,760 Speaker 1: because I think that's almost everyone expects that when they 1427 01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 1: go to sex clubs or anything that involves sex. They 1428 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,439 Speaker 1: either think that everyone's going to be skinny sixty years old, 1429 01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:16,880 Speaker 1: or they expect that everyone's going to be ugly as 1430 01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:19,040 Speaker 1: fucking not attractive. I think the oldest I had there 1431 01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:23,559 Speaker 1: was thirty two, and I was the youngest at but 1432 01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:28,280 Speaker 1: it was a good range. Yeah you did, you knew everybody? 1433 01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:31,200 Speaker 1: So did you make everyone send I DS? Like? So 1434 01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:34,000 Speaker 1: I made them send like their instagrams, like especially they 1435 01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:36,160 Speaker 1: had a couple, like send your Instagram. Single men definitely 1436 01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:38,719 Speaker 1: vetted the hell out of them, like like some nigguld 1437 01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:40,120 Speaker 1: try to come and I looked at his Instagram. I 1438 01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:42,920 Speaker 1: was like, no, baby, like no, no, I didn't tell him. 1439 01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:47,000 Speaker 1: Nobody just didn't reply. I was like with men with women, 1440 01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:48,920 Speaker 1: it was it was such a different amount, like group 1441 01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:51,200 Speaker 1: of women, all shapes and sizes, but everybody just had 1442 01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,559 Speaker 1: so much fun, like nobody and the truth be told, 1443 01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:55,479 Speaker 1: it is sexist, is and is gonna be like damn 1444 01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:59,080 Speaker 1: the bitches, here's the truth. Men have proven themselves over 1445 01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,240 Speaker 1: time to just be the more threatening person in a 1446 01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:05,200 Speaker 1: space with with women. So I I completely understand what 1447 01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:06,439 Speaker 1: you did. And that was big on privacy, Like I 1448 01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:08,560 Speaker 1: only allow phones at the bar area, Like you're not 1449 01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:10,120 Speaker 1: about to just be sitting here on your phone. You 1450 01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:12,000 Speaker 1: can go somewhere else for that Like that, why come 1451 01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:13,320 Speaker 1: to the sex party just be on your phone the 1452 01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:15,120 Speaker 1: whole time. That's the same with the sex club I 1453 01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:17,479 Speaker 1: go to. They have lockers and things, but once you 1454 01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:22,000 Speaker 1: get upstairs, belonging to everything exactly. I provided condoms, lupe, 1455 01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:23,760 Speaker 1: I had toys, I had all that ship like I 1456 01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:29,240 Speaker 1: went all out toys. But if guys, that's there. But 1457 01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:31,479 Speaker 1: now like the icebreaker, like the vibrators and stuff like 1458 01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,840 Speaker 1: the clip stimulators, strap ones. I had all that stuff. 1459 01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:37,040 Speaker 1: I did do U like the city and ride, but 1460 01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:39,280 Speaker 1: they surran wrapped that. They made me feel safe on it. 1461 01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:40,640 Speaker 1: When I went to chemistry. Do you guys know what 1462 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:42,400 Speaker 1: citian rides? I don't know what that is. You can 1463 01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:44,559 Speaker 1: get on top of this thing. I guess it could 1464 01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:48,240 Speaker 1: look like you saddle up and it's like bound to 1465 01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:51,920 Speaker 1: the floor and you're just like, are you is there 1466 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,240 Speaker 1: something inside of you strong? I was just to they 1467 01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:57,200 Speaker 1: have the bounty balls like that too, Like it's like 1468 01:10:57,240 --> 01:11:04,920 Speaker 1: the bounty, but I feel like I we will over well. 1469 01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you were here to join us 1470 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,360 Speaker 1: for this. And guys, if you guys have any questions 1471 01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:14,280 Speaker 1: about Finndom Femdom, we're gonna put the hashtags in the bio. Also, 1472 01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:19,200 Speaker 1: she has another swingers um party coming up in our edition. 1473 01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:22,080 Speaker 1: If you guys are in the New York City area, again, 1474 01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:25,599 Speaker 1: we're gonna put her description in this bio. Go ahead 1475 01:11:25,640 --> 01:11:27,360 Speaker 1: and let all of our listeners know where they can 1476 01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:30,679 Speaker 1: find you um and yeah, drop your drop your ship. 1477 01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:34,439 Speaker 1: So my Instagram is at Taylor McFly t a y 1478 01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:37,599 Speaker 1: l O R M c f l Y also run 1479 01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,080 Speaker 1: a private Facebook group for black women that want to 1480 01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:43,880 Speaker 1: be dom's. It's called the Black Doms Sorority. Yes, it's new, 1481 01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:45,320 Speaker 1: it's only like a week o. But I have like 1482 01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:49,400 Speaker 1: we all yeah, we all talk, we all give every 1483 01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:52,200 Speaker 1: type of vice, talk to each other about confidence, all 1484 01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:56,000 Speaker 1: that ship. I want to know before before this goes up. 1485 01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:59,000 Speaker 1: I want to know how many people were in that group. Yeah. Yeah, 1486 01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:00,320 Speaker 1: it's a lot of people. It's like to have to 1487 01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:02,720 Speaker 1: so what are the ump what was the name of 1488 01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:06,040 Speaker 1: that group? Again, Black dom Sorority? And this is on Facebook, Yes, 1489 01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:07,840 Speaker 1: on Facebook. So I have to prove you to come 1490 01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,320 Speaker 1: in into like a private group, like you know whatever, Okay, 1491 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,920 Speaker 1: and we'll put the link for that. Yeah. And then 1492 01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:15,599 Speaker 1: in September, I'll be at the sex Expo. I gotta 1493 01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 1: exhibit and where it's in Brooklyn September. It's gonna be 1494 01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:23,280 Speaker 1: so many people there. I think Candy from Real Housewives 1495 01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:25,880 Speaker 1: gonna be there with her product. Oh yeah, yeah, it's 1496 01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:28,920 Speaker 1: gonna I think, what's the webcam website cam Soda is 1497 01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:31,840 Speaker 1: gonna be there. It's gonna be It's not like it's 1498 01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:35,479 Speaker 1: like an exact like yeah, go Sex Expo is like 1499 01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:38,599 Speaker 1: everybody black, white, whatever, and they have it in Brooklyn 1500 01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,559 Speaker 1: is more for I think, I don't know, it's been 1501 01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,919 Speaker 1: around a while. Yes, Sex Expo is more like products, businesses, brands, 1502 01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 1: stuff like that. Well, we hope you guys enjoy Taylor 1503 01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:53,200 Speaker 1: on the show UM once really good. Yeah, I think 1504 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:54,960 Speaker 1: you were that. This is a lot of a ton 1505 01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:57,479 Speaker 1: of info to taken. I hope that you guys, you know, 1506 01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:00,559 Speaker 1: are still learning more about yourselves, your sexual all the 1507 01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:02,800 Speaker 1: things that you may like to experience. And before we 1508 01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:03,960 Speaker 1: get out of here, I want to give a huge 1509 01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:07,720 Speaker 1: shout out to all of our patron members. Because of Patreon, 1510 01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:10,400 Speaker 1: we have been able to do so much um, including 1511 01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:13,320 Speaker 1: our last tour. But something that you guys may not know. 1512 01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:15,439 Speaker 1: If you guys are just tuning in and trying to 1513 01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:18,080 Speaker 1: catch up with all of our episodes, we give three 1514 01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:22,639 Speaker 1: bonus episodes per month, so you guys get every Monday 1515 01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:24,920 Speaker 1: right here. But if you guys are all caught up 1516 01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:26,760 Speaker 1: or getting caught up with all of our episodes and 1517 01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,960 Speaker 1: what more, we do drop three episodes a month. Weezy 1518 01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:31,759 Speaker 1: has gone on there and talked about so many different 1519 01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:33,760 Speaker 1: things from Game of Thrones. She was on there with 1520 01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:36,519 Speaker 1: an astronaut before I brought my friends on. We've talked 1521 01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:39,439 Speaker 1: about the astronaut, we're talking about sex and I mean 1522 01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:42,400 Speaker 1: honestly thinking about dropping. She was really like talking about 1523 01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:45,360 Speaker 1: how you have to stay connected because the more you pump, 1524 01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:49,840 Speaker 1: you repel, so you gotta like a sleeping bag. Yeah, 1525 01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,120 Speaker 1: we've literally talked about everything. So if you guys are 1526 01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:57,880 Speaker 1: interested in getting more sex um more guests, UM, definitely 1527 01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:01,400 Speaker 1: go to patreon dot com Backslash Horrible Decisions. You have 1528 01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:03,519 Speaker 1: to do it that way because it is eight team 1529 01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:06,600 Speaker 1: plus UM. We dropped porn links on there, and we 1530 01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:08,880 Speaker 1: definitely just have a community where we open up about 1531 01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:10,880 Speaker 1: a lot of things sexually, and we just started doing 1532 01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:14,599 Speaker 1: something really cool, so we have when patrons send homemail 1533 01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:17,599 Speaker 1: in the message to us, we don't share their name 1534 01:14:17,680 --> 01:14:20,599 Speaker 1: or anything, but we'll post the homemail and the entire 1535 01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:23,280 Speaker 1: community can then comment with their advice. And it was 1536 01:14:23,320 --> 01:14:25,040 Speaker 1: really there was there's men in there that do it, 1537 01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:27,519 Speaker 1: there's women. I loved that. That was really fun. Yeah, 1538 01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:30,519 Speaker 1: it's super dope. So once again, go ahead and visit 1539 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:34,559 Speaker 1: Patreon dot com back Slash Horrible Decisions and stay tuned 1540 01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:36,599 Speaker 1: because at the end of this episode, we are going 1541 01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:38,599 Speaker 1: to share a five minute clip from one of our 1542 01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,960 Speaker 1: bonus episodes. So thank you, guys, and once again this 1543 01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:51,080 Speaker 1: has been yet another episode of horrible decisions by al Right, 1544 01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:53,800 Speaker 1: So guys, we're taking a break real quick because one 1545 01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:57,240 Speaker 1: of our recent guests, you guys know her as Taylor McFly. 1546 01:14:57,560 --> 01:15:00,240 Speaker 1: She has not yet been on the show start overs whatever, 1547 01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:04,920 Speaker 1: because she's not recent. Okay, hey guys, we haven't had 1548 01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:07,479 Speaker 1: her yet on the podcast, but she is bringing a 1549 01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:12,160 Speaker 1: ton of good tips and things about ben Dom ben 1550 01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:15,759 Speaker 1: Dom and swinging to Taylor McFly, who was a future 1551 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:17,840 Speaker 1: guest that you guys will be listening too soon, has 1552 01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:21,679 Speaker 1: also experienced hedonism too at a girl Jamaica, and so 1553 01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:23,920 Speaker 1: we're now sitting with her now and wanted to kind 1554 01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,880 Speaker 1: of bring up some of your experience since Wheezy and 1555 01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:29,679 Speaker 1: I have gone through ours. So what was your experience like? Who? 1556 01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:31,720 Speaker 1: So let's start with who'd you go with? So? I 1557 01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:35,480 Speaker 1: want with a girlfriend. She is very very like conservative 1558 01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:38,080 Speaker 1: about sex, so I had to convince her and that 1559 01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:40,720 Speaker 1: was very interesting. Why did you guys choose hedonism? Um? 1560 01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:42,200 Speaker 1: I brought it up to her. I'm like the friend 1561 01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:45,400 Speaker 1: that's always like suggesting the crazy ship and she's just 1562 01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:48,160 Speaker 1: like I'm just like, girl, I'm gonna quarius. You know, 1563 01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:51,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna suggesting a friend that you would have fucked. 1564 01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:55,639 Speaker 1: Is she a friend you would have fucked? Yeah? Okay, 1565 01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:57,280 Speaker 1: So like while I was there, a he know, like 1566 01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:59,160 Speaker 1: I did eat her pussy and we played a lot 1567 01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:01,519 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. She's really kind of strict about 1568 01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 1: what men she kind of interacts with or whatever, but 1569 01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:06,720 Speaker 1: she's she loved just being an environment. So when we 1570 01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:08,200 Speaker 1: got there, the first place we went to was the 1571 01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:11,160 Speaker 1: beach where you know it's all nude and ship Yeah. Yeah, 1572 01:16:11,200 --> 01:16:13,000 Speaker 1: And immediately, like guys just started coming up to us. 1573 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:14,360 Speaker 1: I was like, look at your thirsty ass. Like we 1574 01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:17,360 Speaker 1: literally just sat down, like y'all been here? How long? 1575 01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:20,200 Speaker 1: But yeah, so it was just just seeing everybody naked. 1576 01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:22,360 Speaker 1: But when I went, it was so many young black people. 1577 01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:25,519 Speaker 1: I went during Young Swingers Week. Okay, so they mentioned 1578 01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,920 Speaker 1: that to us before, So what what kind of crowd 1579 01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:30,840 Speaker 1: was that Young Swingers Week? Because definitely the time we went, 1580 01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,600 Speaker 1: they were definitely older. So what type of crowd was 1581 01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:35,639 Speaker 1: that Young Swingers Week? And we're they're black people? Yeah, 1582 01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:37,599 Speaker 1: so it was majority black. A lot of them came 1583 01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:40,200 Speaker 1: from Canada. Um, just like an age range maybe between 1584 01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:41,719 Speaker 1: twenty five and thirty. It was a lot of singles. 1585 01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:43,519 Speaker 1: It wasn't a lot of couples. Yeah, it was a 1586 01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:46,080 Speaker 1: lot of singles. And the guys were like fine, fine, 1587 01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:49,960 Speaker 1: like fine, I don't know what they did, but I'm 1588 01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:54,000 Speaker 1: glad it was there. They playing. Um, they were playing. 1589 01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:55,400 Speaker 1: And then they were part of like they were having 1590 01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:58,920 Speaker 1: like a bodybuilding pageant going on because they have so 1591 01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:00,679 Speaker 1: they were in two separate path just they had one 1592 01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:02,640 Speaker 1: for best ass, so like the women were doing like 1593 01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:05,639 Speaker 1: the ass pageant or whatever, and that was during dinner, 1594 01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:07,840 Speaker 1: like so while you're eating, they have like on stage 1595 01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:09,920 Speaker 1: or whatever doing ship. And then they had a separate 1596 01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:13,360 Speaker 1: one for the men and they all had ripped ass box. 1597 01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:18,080 Speaker 1: When did you I went June? It was June. Yeah, 1598 01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:20,120 Speaker 1: it was like June fifth through the tenth something around 1599 01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:23,920 Speaker 1: and your friend Marcy. I don't know why, I just 1600 01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:28,120 Speaker 1: that's did you and Marcy? Did you guys go into 1601 01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:32,920 Speaker 1: the sex club together? Yeah? How does she feel about it? 1602 01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:35,040 Speaker 1: It's just weird with her, Like she loves the environment 1603 01:17:35,080 --> 01:17:37,639 Speaker 1: and loves watching and love seeing ship, but like she's 1604 01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:40,519 Speaker 1: very like conservative about who she will touch. That's how 1605 01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:44,320 Speaker 1: my friends were. I'm just like whatever, they were all 1606 01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:46,479 Speaker 1: vanilla until we got there. Then I was just like, 1607 01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:48,200 Speaker 1: I don't know what the fun got and they got 1608 01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:52,559 Speaker 1: damn drink. It was so fun. What was your favorite moment? 1609 01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:57,760 Speaker 1: Definitely the jacuzi and like the pool area. Yes, the dudes. 1610 01:17:58,080 --> 01:17:59,840 Speaker 1: I did some fucking over there. Yeah, because you know 1611 01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:01,479 Speaker 1: there's like the pool and there's like this whole little 1612 01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:04,200 Speaker 1: cabanah thing or whatever. People go inside and then when 1613 01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:06,280 Speaker 1: they're fucking, it's like ripe aside. I'm curious to know 1614 01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:07,920 Speaker 1: because from what I know, you didn't have sex that 1615 01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:10,920 Speaker 1: he doesn't, right, And no, I didn't have sex. So 1616 01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:12,680 Speaker 1: I brought someone so I had sex with him and 1617 01:18:12,680 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 1: we use condoms. But I'm curious to know, like being 1618 01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:17,720 Speaker 1: out and about were you having safe sex? How did 1619 01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:20,639 Speaker 1: that go? Like? Oh, all my followers, No, I don't 1620 01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:23,160 Speaker 1: play about safe sex. So were you bringing condoms or 1621 01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:24,360 Speaker 1: do they have it? Or how did that go? So 1622 01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:27,599 Speaker 1: he do provides them? Right? Yeah, so he don't provides them. 1623 01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:30,040 Speaker 1: I always make sure there was condoms. Um, because I 1624 01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:32,080 Speaker 1: didn't just see him by the I thought they were 1625 01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:34,479 Speaker 1: in designated sex areas, but I did see a lot 1626 01:18:34,520 --> 01:18:36,800 Speaker 1: of people sucking at the pool, and I think a 1627 01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:39,080 Speaker 1: lot of them were like couples, are married, couples that 1628 01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:43,000 Speaker 1: used to just having sex. I'm protected. I think that's 1629 01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:44,920 Speaker 1: what it was like. So a lot of the couples definitely, 1630 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:47,280 Speaker 1: we're having sex. I'm protected. But if you want someone else, 1631 01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:50,479 Speaker 1: I know that, even the married people, they brought condoms. Yeah, 1632 01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:53,439 Speaker 1: he does provide for sure. You gotta standon ship like always. 1633 01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:55,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was it was a good time. Would 1634 01:18:55,160 --> 01:18:57,799 Speaker 1: you go again, definitely. I'm trying to go on in October. 1635 01:18:57,840 --> 01:19:00,439 Speaker 1: They're having another Young Swingers Week. Really think it's the 1636 01:19:00,439 --> 01:19:05,840 Speaker 1: beginning of October. Okay, I'm trying to go long. How 1637 01:19:05,880 --> 01:19:08,280 Speaker 1: many days were you there? I was only there for 1638 01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:10,280 Speaker 1: about like four days, say, but I want to do 1639 01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:12,599 Speaker 1: like a week. What was your biggest takeaway? Like what 1640 01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:15,960 Speaker 1: what did you enjoy the most? The people really out 1641 01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:19,320 Speaker 1: here doing this ship and and just being like care 1642 01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:21,599 Speaker 1: free and don't give a fuck, Like that's what I understand. 1643 01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, people funk all the time. Just go experience 1644 01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:25,519 Speaker 1: like one time, even if you don't funk. There was 1645 01:19:25,520 --> 01:19:27,880 Speaker 1: a lot of people just watching just as voyers. People 1646 01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:32,040 Speaker 1: ought to be voyers naturally, so I experienced like the 1647 01:19:32,120 --> 01:19:34,280 Speaker 1: voyers um or whatever, but until we got to the 1648 01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:36,439 Speaker 1: sex club. Oh that's right, I didn't go with you. Um, 1649 01:19:36,479 --> 01:19:38,040 Speaker 1: I guess Mandy will tell you as a story. But 1650 01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:40,920 Speaker 1: she was saying that she was on the bed and 1651 01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:43,120 Speaker 1: like her and her friends were pretending like they were pretending. 1652 01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:45,040 Speaker 1: We was moaning, but we just wanted to watch everybody 1653 01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:47,639 Speaker 1: around up because I'm not going front that sex club. 1654 01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:50,280 Speaker 1: There's one thing that was very particular. It never happened 1655 01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:52,519 Speaker 1: to me. So we're exploring. I think this is the 1656 01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:55,439 Speaker 1: first night because the nick I was with gossa lessie, 1657 01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:57,679 Speaker 1: so I was like, all right, this is walking around right. 1658 01:19:57,960 --> 01:19:59,479 Speaker 1: So we walked up to the door of the sex 1659 01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 1: club and you had to remove your everything and your 1660 01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,760 Speaker 1: drink had to be down. So it's really not even 1661 01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:08,680 Speaker 1: like because when I've been a sex parties, I've sit 1662 01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:13,040 Speaker 1: my drink and watched and I've been clothed. I was like, oh, 1663 01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:15,639 Speaker 1: you had to take off before you even get into 1664 01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:17,559 Speaker 1: the room. They make you. At one point at the 1665 01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:19,160 Speaker 1: news side, I want to get pizza and I had to. 1666 01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:21,599 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you about it. Yeah, it was amazing, 1667 01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:25,000 Speaker 1: So I guess what what advice would you give to 1668 01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:28,040 Speaker 1: any of the listeners who may want to attend Hedonism 1669 01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:32,519 Speaker 1: or any other sex like resort. What would be your advice? 1670 01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:35,240 Speaker 1: Go to open mind. First of all, just know you're 1671 01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 1: about to see people fucking, like fucking fucking yeah. Yeah, 1672 01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:40,000 Speaker 1: Like I think some people go and think, oh they're 1673 01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:41,599 Speaker 1: gonna suck, but it's gonna be in a private room 1674 01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:43,720 Speaker 1: and I ain't gonna see it. No, people gonna sunk 1675 01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:46,040 Speaker 1: wherever they want to fuck, and you're gonna see that ship. 1676 01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:48,000 Speaker 1: Did you see a lot of that daring young swingers 1677 01:20:48,000 --> 01:20:51,040 Speaker 1: with yeah, just sucking everywhere. I was shocked. I was. 1678 01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:53,760 Speaker 1: I didn't see. I saw a lot at the prude side, 1679 01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:55,760 Speaker 1: and I wasn't ready for food side. So what I 1680 01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:59,519 Speaker 1: didn't understand, I will say I thought the frud side 1681 01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:01,639 Speaker 1: ment you do keep the clothes on, It just means 1682 01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:04,040 Speaker 1: you can keep them on if you want to, because 1683 01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:07,040 Speaker 1: the nude side you're required to take them right exactly. 1684 01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,840 Speaker 1: So it was the whole goddamn resort. There's no escaping 1685 01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:12,800 Speaker 1: this goddamn at all. Well, I'm glad that you were 1686 01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:15,200 Speaker 1: able to share a little bit of your experience. Um, 1687 01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:18,280 Speaker 1: thank you again Taylor for letting us know how you 1688 01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:23,880 Speaker 1: experience here. Alright, it's bonus, bitch, that's how we start this. 1689 01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:27,240 Speaker 1: You already know we are here in the studio once again. 1690 01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:29,479 Speaker 1: I know y'all is like, damn, you don't really dropped 1691 01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:32,360 Speaker 1: no bonus. But there's five weeks in July and we're back. 1692 01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:34,320 Speaker 1: I know it's a lot of weeks. It's made us 1693 01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:37,320 Speaker 1: feel like we weren't putting our content, but um, yeah, 1694 01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:39,960 Speaker 1: we're back. And I was gonna try to do one 1695 01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:41,760 Speaker 1: in Miami, but I was like, no, I want to 1696 01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:44,400 Speaker 1: make sure we're together. I missed you guys, hope you 1697 01:21:44,439 --> 01:21:47,280 Speaker 1: missed me too. And we're joined by two other ladies 1698 01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:54,760 Speaker 1: are really adorable. One of them is Caucasian. Very well, 1699 01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:59,400 Speaker 1: we're here with the Super Trip Podcast. I met one 1700 01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:02,720 Speaker 1: of these ladies and I did a seminar podcast studios 1701 01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:08,599 Speaker 1: last year. Damn yes, but um she was like, yeah, 1702 01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:11,360 Speaker 1: I have a PC about like acid. We should do 1703 01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:13,840 Speaker 1: it together. That's what this girl said to me. You know, seriously, 1704 01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:19,680 Speaker 1: that was your introduction. That was over here totally. So 1705 01:22:19,720 --> 01:22:24,280 Speaker 1: it's called super Trip Talk, the podcast with Brianda and Puffy, 1706 01:22:24,360 --> 01:22:27,719 Speaker 1: and it's a podcast about radical self improvement and self 1707 01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:32,080 Speaker 1: growth through the antidote that is healing, which is whatever way, 1708 01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:34,599 Speaker 1: whatever the healing is for you. It looks different for everybody, 1709 01:22:34,600 --> 01:22:36,680 Speaker 1: and we just want to make other people also want 1710 01:22:36,680 --> 01:22:39,679 Speaker 1: to heal. So healing is. But are those vices because 1711 01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:42,599 Speaker 1: you guys said, you talk about drugs and or y'all 1712 01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:44,599 Speaker 1: are at least smoking babes while you're on there, so 1713 01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:47,720 Speaker 1: are you Is it self healing through your vices? No? No, 1714 01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:52,799 Speaker 1: So we like to look at cannabis as a medicine Okay, 1715 01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:55,960 Speaker 1: not really a drug. Okay, you're what you're seeing right now. 1716 01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:57,519 Speaker 1: What we're doing is fun. We're in the studio. We 1717 01:22:57,600 --> 01:23:00,720 Speaker 1: like to record smoking in the studio, but we're very 1718 01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:03,759 Speaker 1: much lucid throughout the day and have we execute tasks 1719 01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:05,920 Speaker 1: and we're productive. But I understand what you mean by 1720 01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:09,040 Speaker 1: vice or escapism, which I think is a fraction of 1721 01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:10,880 Speaker 1: it too. I'd be lying if I said that part 1722 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:13,240 Speaker 1: of it wasn't so I numbed some stuff. But because 1723 01:23:13,240 --> 01:23:16,400 Speaker 1: I think that, so when I think of someone who's 1724 01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:21,040 Speaker 1: smoking or enjoy smoking, it's a relaxation, it's it's their advice. 1725 01:23:21,120 --> 01:23:23,720 Speaker 1: Because people still don't technically view it as medicine, even 1726 01:23:23,720 --> 01:23:25,760 Speaker 1: though you can get a medical card to go and 1727 01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:28,240 Speaker 1: get it. It's still kind of considered that people do 1728 01:23:28,240 --> 01:23:30,479 Speaker 1: a lot of vice every morning, right, Like when mine 1729 01:23:30,520 --> 01:23:34,599 Speaker 1: is coffee, Yeah, I love coffee. Coffee has something that 1730 01:23:34,800 --> 01:23:36,160 Speaker 1: is their thing where they're like, oh, if I don't 1731 01:23:36,160 --> 01:23:38,439 Speaker 1: have it, I can't. It's a routine. My coffee cannabis 1732 01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:41,759 Speaker 1: combination is everything. Right, you have a coffee cannabis combo. 1733 01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:43,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, a little hit a little cup of 1734 01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:46,000 Speaker 1: coffee in the morning, and I like make my to 1735 01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:48,919 Speaker 1: do list and then I thought it was an infused coffee. 1736 01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:53,280 Speaker 1: Oh no, doesn't exist though. Flowering cod shout out to 1737 01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:56,400 Speaker 1: Flowering Code. They have like this awesome cannabis seem like 1738 01:23:56,400 --> 01:23:58,080 Speaker 1: weed coffee. I've had it. They sell it all over 1739 01:23:58,120 --> 01:24:00,280 Speaker 1: the city, right, but it makes They're like yeah, basically 1740 01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:02,080 Speaker 1: it'll go up, but like no crash and I'm like 1741 01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:05,759 Speaker 1: so much. They're charging for nothing. It's just an up charge. 1742 01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:10,360 Speaker 1: I'm getting my child difference. That's a good as question though, 1743 01:24:10,520 --> 01:24:13,040 Speaker 1: that that really is, But that's not how that's not 1744 01:24:13,080 --> 01:24:15,880 Speaker 1: the angle we look at it as. If anything, we 1745 01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:19,200 Speaker 1: want to destigmatize marijuana like that and the use of 1746 01:24:19,200 --> 01:24:22,360 Speaker 1: psychedelic drugs to aid, and I think that we also 1747 01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:25,000 Speaker 1: just speak very much about like our experiences with these things. 1748 01:24:25,000 --> 01:24:28,040 Speaker 1: So your self care, right, so fucking trending now to 1749 01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:30,800 Speaker 1: say stupid like self care. But at the same time, 1750 01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:33,800 Speaker 1: we all are very much trying to improve ourselves, whether 1751 01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:37,080 Speaker 1: it looks like a stupid Instagram housetag or not um, 1752 01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:40,479 Speaker 1: but for like, it's a real thing. No, we're not 1753 01:24:40,520 --> 01:24:43,200 Speaker 1: even social media people. Like, we straight up check each 1754 01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:45,800 Speaker 1: other all the time because that's the core, that's the vein, 1755 01:24:45,960 --> 01:24:47,760 Speaker 1: that's the skeleton of super trips. How long have you 1756 01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:51,000 Speaker 1: guys been friends? Are five? Four and a half years? 1757 01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:57,040 Speaker 1: Like the break up? So your Brianda, right, Brianda, Brianda, 1758 01:24:57,320 --> 01:24:59,680 Speaker 1: what's your age? What's your sexual orientation? Tell us? So, 1759 01:24:59,760 --> 01:25:03,080 Speaker 1: I'm twenty six years old and I identifies hetero, very 1760 01:25:03,160 --> 01:25:07,920 Speaker 1: sexual a lot of Listen, I've had sex with women. 1761 01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:12,160 Speaker 1: You know what it is? We mistake friendly for like 1762 01:25:12,240 --> 01:25:14,479 Speaker 1: flirty all the time. I just I just did some 1763 01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:18,160 Speaker 1: heterosis male ship. You're like smiling, You're like, yeah, you gept. 1764 01:25:18,160 --> 01:25:22,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, she wants to fuck me. I just I'm friendly, 1765 01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:25,639 Speaker 1: I'm bubbly, I'm friendly. But it's funny because we actually 1766 01:25:25,680 --> 01:25:28,439 Speaker 1: just got um a homemal and we haven't read it yet. 1767 01:25:28,439 --> 01:25:29,800 Speaker 1: I don't know when we're going to read it. But 1768 01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:32,519 Speaker 1: that was the question. She identifies as a straight woman 1769 01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:35,680 Speaker 1: but wants to have sex with women, and she was like, confused, 1770 01:25:35,840 --> 01:25:38,160 Speaker 1: but you just identified a straight but yet you've had 1771 01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:41,960 Speaker 1: sex with women. If any man walks around here and says, hey, 1772 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:44,519 Speaker 1: I'm straight, but I've had sex with men that we 1773 01:25:44,520 --> 01:25:47,559 Speaker 1: wouldn't allow them to consider themselves hetero, I should have. 1774 01:25:47,560 --> 01:25:50,000 Speaker 1: But I mean there's context missing here, like what were 1775 01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:52,479 Speaker 1: those sexual experiences? Like the very first one, I was 1776 01:25:52,520 --> 01:25:54,559 Speaker 1: coerced by a man and I was eighteen years old 1777 01:25:54,760 --> 01:25:59,280 Speaker 1: and this man like manipulated me and it wasn't get deep. Yeah, 1778 01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:01,160 Speaker 1: I was in time for sure. It was fun and 1779 01:26:01,320 --> 01:26:03,479 Speaker 1: this girl was beautiful and I was obsessed with her 1780 01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:06,599 Speaker 1: mind and it was so cool. The third time, Oh 1781 01:26:06,720 --> 01:26:10,120 Speaker 1: look your friend Helen. What do you talk? Wait? No? 1782 01:26:10,479 --> 01:26:14,880 Speaker 1: Which one? Which time we talk? Time? No? Listen? Okay, 1783 01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,639 Speaker 1: here's the thing. People, Lespian's love me like if you 1784 01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:21,400 Speaker 1: can come across and I'm sorry, and I have like 1785 01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:25,280 Speaker 1: polyamorous leanings in that, like if you're a beautiful last person, 1786 01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:27,799 Speaker 1: God damn it's hard for me not to take sexual 1787 01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:31,120 Speaker 1: meaning there you don't pant sexual sorry and and Polly, 1788 01:26:31,200 --> 01:26:33,880 Speaker 1: but pant sexual leanings and that at some point if 1789 01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:35,840 Speaker 1: I just meet someone that's beautiful and if they if 1790 01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:37,600 Speaker 1: they're showing me that they adore me and ship and 1791 01:26:37,600 --> 01:26:39,800 Speaker 1: treating me like a deity, that the ego and me 1792 01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:42,280 Speaker 1: is like fun. So we're just gonna say you're you're 1793 01:26:42,360 --> 01:26:45,800 Speaker 1: on the spectrum, but you're not all the way I think. 1794 01:26:46,080 --> 01:26:48,000 Speaker 1: But but I mean, I'm on a goal now to 1795 01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:50,479 Speaker 1: find like a life partner. So I mean you have 1796 01:26:50,479 --> 01:26:53,320 Speaker 1: a life partners still diving down. That's true. That's that's 1797 01:26:53,320 --> 01:26:54,000 Speaker 1: not true. You're right,