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Speaker 1: Good Morning against the Fred Show. Hey, Lexi, good morning,

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Speaker 1: How are you, good morning, How are you guys? Lexi? Well, um,

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Speaker 1: welcome to our show. Stay or go? People hit us

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Speaker 1: of stories about their their lives, their relationships, they're whatever's

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Speaker 1: going on and um, and so this is about your

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Speaker 1: husband Andrew. Um, we want to hear all of the

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Speaker 1: all the dirty year. Tell us what's going on? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well it's about something he did. Um recently, I was

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Speaker 1: looking on his phone searching for a photo, you know,

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Speaker 1: which I've done many times, no problems, But I found

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Speaker 1: an app that was connected to cameras that are in

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Speaker 1: our house. And the problem is that I didn't know

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Speaker 1: that we had cameras in our house. Well, you didn't

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Speaker 1: know you had any cameras in the house? No, Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean, are these things where First of all, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry to stope your story. Where are the cameras local? Well,

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Speaker 1: that's the thing. I knew that we have some outside

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Speaker 1: for security, but these are inside in our main rooms

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Speaker 1: of the house. And it's like it just kind of

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Speaker 1: freaked me out knowing that because when you're alone, you

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Speaker 1: think you're alone. I mean, like, I didn't know that

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Speaker 1: I was being recorded. And I know it's a normal

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Speaker 1: thing to have cameras for security, but I would have

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Speaker 1: like to have known about it. So this dude, your

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Speaker 1: husband's like, yeah, we're having cameras put in the house. Um,

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Speaker 1: and then that was sort of the end of it.

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Speaker 1: So you think they're outside, turns out that they're in

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Speaker 1: all the rooms. I mean we're not talking like bathrooms,

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Speaker 1: like really nasty stuff here. How could you how could

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Speaker 1: you live in the house and I know there were

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Speaker 1: cameras there, Like where do he conceal these things? Well,

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Speaker 1: you can't really, you can't see them. And it's like,

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Speaker 1: I mean I know that that's a normal thing for

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Speaker 1: people to have cameras, and you know they have nanny

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Speaker 1: cams and stuff like that, but I mean he said

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Speaker 1: that he doesn't even check them, he doesn't watch them,

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Speaker 1: like he wouldn't unless something went wrong. But I still

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Speaker 1: think that I deserve heads up. I mean, am I right?

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Speaker 1: Am I you say, Hey, I was going through your

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Speaker 1: phone and I noticed on this app that we have

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Speaker 1: cameras in more places than I thought we did, and

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Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, yeah, I'm everywhere, but I don't I

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Speaker 1: don't look at him or whatever. But yeah, you are here.

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Speaker 1: You are will and nearly walking through the house doing

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Speaker 1: whatever you're doing. Now, are you doing stuff that he

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be? So? Right? What are you doing? I'm not

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Speaker 1: trying to turn this on you. I mean, you're allowed

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Speaker 1: to do whatever you want in your house, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: if there stuff that happens in your house, do you

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Speaker 1: have something to be concerned about it? I guess of

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Speaker 1: what I'm asking, Like, Oh, no, it's not that. It's

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Speaker 1: just a weird feeling, like like, if you're being filmed

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Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I think you should know, you should

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Speaker 1: have a right to know. It's not like I'm doing

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Speaker 1: anything objectionable, but it's like I said, if you think

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Speaker 1: you're alone, you're alone. Like we all probably do things

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Speaker 1: that we wouldn't do in front of understandable for sure.

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Speaker 1: Oh I would conduct myself differently in my home if

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Speaker 1: I knew there were cameras in there exactly. Yeah, saying

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Speaker 1: so you guys understand, I thought it made me feel weird,

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Speaker 1: also kind of shady. That I mean usually like when

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Speaker 1: you put a camera in the house, it's in plain sight.

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Speaker 1: The fact that you can't see the camera, like for

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Speaker 1: what reason, Like you know, if if a burglar was

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Speaker 1: going to come into your house, I'd rather have them

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Speaker 1: see the camera then not see the camera. The cameras

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Speaker 1: right right. I think if he's gonna put cameras in

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Speaker 1: Because if everybody doesn't know, is there any chance he

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Speaker 1: told you and you just sort of skimmed over because

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Speaker 1: you don't care. I would think I would remember. That's

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Speaker 1: the kind of thing I'd remember, Yeah, I don't like this,

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Speaker 1: And this dude's like I'm not looking at him, so whatever,

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Speaker 1: people I know who have, like my sister has those

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Speaker 1: ring cameras or whatever. They both have the app, correct,

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Speaker 1: put these cameras and let me sell the thing on

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Speaker 1: your phone, so that you know. That's weird to me.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point because I didn't specifically ask. I

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Speaker 1: as well, corect. I don't like this, Lexi. I think

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Speaker 1: you know what I think. I think there's a website

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Speaker 1: called Lexi Gone Wild, dot edu and or something. I

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Speaker 1: think that he's selling the footage. Are you walking You're

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Speaker 1: probably walking around naked. We all walk around naked in

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Speaker 1: probably footage of and you should be able to walk

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Speaker 1: I'd be concerned about. I don't like it, Lexie. Let

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Speaker 1: me get to some phone calls. Have a great day, Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I want to know what you think about

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Speaker 1: this that I hate to think that there's something sinister

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Speaker 1: stuff in a pervy way, I gotta think, because I

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Speaker 1: just don't think that's something that you just breeze over.

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Speaker 1: Is he I had cameras installed in all the main

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Speaker 1: to tell you about it, right, because she knew about

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Speaker 1: the ones outside. Yeah, I mean, and they're not in

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Speaker 1: plain sight, Like and where was she when they were

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Speaker 1: getting installed? Like he had to plan that she wasn't there, right, Like,

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Speaker 1: you know, look what uncle Mark is doing. Like I'm like,

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Speaker 1: why are you watching him? I don't like And he's

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Speaker 1: that you get weird and you forget your spouse can

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Speaker 1: like see you. I don't like to have cameras, especially

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Speaker 1: if you don't have kids, Like like, I understand the

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Speaker 1: I should know what it's called. I'm not getting paid

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Speaker 1: to say it, though, So it doesn't matter that the

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Speaker 1: and then and then you can push it and then

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Speaker 1: it spits the treats out at him. And I have

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Speaker 1: the log into it. But it's in our living, like

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Speaker 1: our family room when my mom and dad sit and

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Speaker 1: watch TV every night in Arizona. And like, so one

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Speaker 1: night I log into this thing and I'm like spitting

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Speaker 1: you know what. I'm going to erase this because I

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Speaker 1: don't need to accidentally log onto this and you know,

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Speaker 1: naked in their house. Oh, in the moments, right, you know,

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Speaker 1: God bless them. I hope the moments right. But I

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Speaker 1: don't need to accidentally see that. Um. Hey, Jane, good morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you Jane? Great? Thanks for calling. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about this story. I don't know about

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Speaker 1: this dude. Um. And if you're just tuning in Alexei's

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Speaker 1: husband and sold cameras, it turns out they're all over

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Speaker 1: if he just forgot But it does sound weird that

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty creeped out, and I feel like there's a

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Speaker 1: because I think, I mean, especially if you're married, why

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Speaker 1: everybody have access to the same information. That's it. That's

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Speaker 1: a really good point. That's the thing everybody I know

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Speaker 1: where you can or what's going to be seeing, what's

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Speaker 1: not going to be seeing. Yeah. No, if my husband

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Speaker 1: sit down and you talk about. Right. I agree. I agree,

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Speaker 1: that's something weird going on. I don't like it. Thank you, Jane,

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Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah, let me Yeah, I love

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Speaker 1: it's a ghost situation, but I don't know how you

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Speaker 1: excuse me, like a control thing too, like even if

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Speaker 1: don't know. And actually needed cameras in the living room.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's what I'm saying, Like we need them

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Speaker 1: well you know, I mean if somebody breaks in, you

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Speaker 1: guest room, this is another reason why I'm staying people's homes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Like if you have cameras every time

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Speaker 1: everyone or like even anesem like I've had people go

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Speaker 1: back and you know there's audio from an esque m

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Speaker 1: you don't know you're drunk, you know, in the living

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Speaker 1: feel like there needs to be a sign or something

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Speaker 1: for everyone involved, because that's creepy. Is that the new standard?

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Speaker 1: Now there's a sign like, like, you know, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: the film In the real world, there's a big sign

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Speaker 1: somebody everything. Yeah, I gotta put that on my front door. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I would for sure see something dumb, especially if I

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Speaker 1: was drinking. And I don't need you to have that audio,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna do. I'm gonna put some I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna put that I don't have cameras in my house.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put that sign up anyway and just see

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Speaker 1: if anyone pays attention, and when they walk in my house,

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Speaker 1: it'd be like camera everything. Everything that happens in the

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Speaker 1: confines of this house is property of me. Hey, Michael yeah, hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning. You're not worried about this. I think he's

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Speaker 1: growing it out of proportion. I think you probably knew

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Speaker 1: I think the professional lighting is what gives it away.

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Speaker 1: lighting is everything, and a ring light doesn't do it. Hey, Mandy, Mandy,

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Speaker 1: researchers have looked at how women flirt, and they have

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Speaker 1: But you also talk a lot, like you're a talker

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Speaker 1: hanging from the seely freakingm deacons whatever works, you know

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00:19:54,760 --> 00:20:02,120
Speaker 1: what it appears to be working grass and a beautiful

422
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,720
Speaker 1: child you created at that. What about you, Polly, I

423
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:06,399
Speaker 1: feel like you're a little more obvious. I feel like

424
00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,720
Speaker 1: you go for the gold. Yes, I have to also

425
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,399
Speaker 1: know though first first things, First, you are flirting with me,

426
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,120
Speaker 1: because if you're just here, like trying to say what's

427
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,520
Speaker 1: up or can I get on the radio or something,

428
00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:16,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, and that happens. Like But that's the

429
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:20,160
Speaker 1: point though, is how so someone has to actually say

430
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,359
Speaker 1: to you, Paulina, I am flirting with you. No, I

431
00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 1: can't flirting commence again, I know I can tell because

432
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 1: they're interested again body language and one thing that I

433
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:32,679
Speaker 1: do when I'm flirting back, and I do as all

434
00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 1: the time. As I'm touchy, I will touch your arm,

435
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,360
Speaker 1: I'll like hite you because they're so funny. Yeah, I'm

436
00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 1: one of those girls. I'm one of those girls, like

437
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 1: I'll get close to you, I'll touch and then it's

438
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 1: not a good thing. I shouldn't be touching people. But

439
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,159
Speaker 1: I like a little flirt, you know. I like to

440
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 1: be close to somebody. The researchers found that a few

441
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:54,040
Speaker 1: expressions were identified by most of not all men, as flirting.

442
00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 1: The most effective non verbal, non physical method of signaling

443
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 1: flirting is when women turn their head to one side

444
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:04,159
Speaker 1: while tilting it down slightly, had a slight smile, and

445
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:08,879
Speaker 1: their eyes were facing towards the target. Yes, psychology today,

446
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 1: this is like legitimate research. Here, they published eleven most

447
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:17,480
Speaker 1: frequently used flirty behaviors by women. The solitary dance. While

448
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 1: seated or standing, the woman moved her body in time

449
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:24,159
Speaker 1: to music playing. So just like bopping your head to

450
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 1: the music, that's it. That's a flirty move. If I

451
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 1: see you dancing by yourself, I think that you're flirting

452
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 1: with me. The room encompassing glance the woman looked around

453
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 1: the room for about five to ten seconds without making

454
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: eye contact with others. One way I'm probably guilty of

455
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 1: flirting is looking at you to the point that you like,

456
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 1: not like creepily, but like you know I was looking

457
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,680
Speaker 1: at you. Then you look back at me. I look away. Yeah.

458
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:48,200
Speaker 1: It's like I want you to know that I was

459
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 1: looking at but I don't. But I do that what

460
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 1: I'm stopped that I stopped like too, and I'm looking

461
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: at people in other cars. I'm like, I'm looking at you.

462
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 1: Then they look at me and I look down. I

463
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: look away. These are the most frequently used flirty behaviors

464
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:04,440
Speaker 1: by women. Short darting glance. The woman gave a sideways

465
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,120
Speaker 1: two to three second glance at a man of interest.

466
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,679
Speaker 1: Gaze fixate. The woman made eye contact with a man

467
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,239
Speaker 1: of interest for more than three seconds. I can't make

468
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,159
Speaker 1: eye contact if I'm flirting. It scares me too. The

469
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: head toss. The woman flipped her head backward and lifted

470
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: her face up briefly. I feel like all these moves

471
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 1: are like slow motion. I know the hair flip, we

472
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 1: know what that is. A smile, a lean the woman

473
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 1: moved her torsone up her body forward, closer to the

474
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:39,679
Speaker 1: manap neck presentation, the woman tilted her head to one

475
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 1: side about forty five degrees, exposing the opposite side of

476
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 1: her neck. The laugh giggle, generally laughing giggling, was a

477
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:50,200
Speaker 1: response to a conversation with a man. Head nod. Usually

478
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 1: in conversation with the man, the woman nodded in agreement.

479
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,719
Speaker 1: So if I say something nod, that means you're flirting

480
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,120
Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, this might give men the rod. Yeah.

481
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm just nodding because I greed. It's fantastic. I

482
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 1: didge with you, like, so are you hungry? Yes, she

483
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: wants it. Here, here's some food you lean forward to

484
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 1: get it. Clearly she's targeting me right now. So Calin

485
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: has a crush and it shouldn't. I'm so much stammering

486
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 1: around like I don't know how, Um, it shouldn't surprise

487
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 1: me when the Kalin has a crush. It's just dude,

488
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: it should be you know, it might surprise you who

489
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 1: the crush is on Fred show one or three five

490
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,359
Speaker 1: kiss eight five five five nine one three five Go ahead, Kalin?

491
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 1: Who is it? You have a crush on this person

492
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 1: that many people, while they might admire fictionally they don't.

493
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 1: They may not see the appeal. Yes, So I am

494
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 1: rewatching the Sopranos, which I mean, if you haven't seen it,

495
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: what the hell are you doing? I could see start.

496
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 1: It's been long enough, I could start over again. So

497
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: good like it still it's still tracks. But anyways, so

498
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: his daughter's hot in that show. I still have a crush. Yeah, yeah,

499
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 1: what is that? Who's that Jamie Lynn? Yeah? Yeah. So

500
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: I've been rewatching it, and you know, slowly I'm realizing

501
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, Like I'm really attracted to

502
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: Tony soprano. And so I text my mom, who's a therapist,

503
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 1: and I'm like, are you at all concerned about this?

504
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 1: Because it's not because he's like has a sweet side.

505
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 1: It's not because he's hot obviously, because he's not jam

506
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: But I'm like, really, like I would, really I would

507
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 1: be into him. So you don't think the character, role

508
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 1: or anything about the character has anything to do with

509
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 1: while you're attracted. It has to, that's what That's what

510
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 1: it is. But it has concerning because it's I think

511
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,239
Speaker 1: it's the bad stuff he does. I don't. I mean,

512
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: he's just he's the boss and it's hot, like he

513
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 1: calls the shots. Everybody respects him. He kind of does

514
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: everything like super casual, Like he doesn't even flinch, you know,

515
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 1: he does it, he walks away. He's got all these

516
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 1: hot like babes who want to do him. I don't know,

517
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: he's like he's in charge. He's in charge, and you

518
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 1: like that, you're into that. I mean, I I'm but

519
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: I'm worried for myself because I'm like, he's not like

520
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: classically handsome, and also I think it's an attraction for

521
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: the wrong reason. So what I'm saying to you men

522
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,719
Speaker 1: out there who listen to the show is if you're

523
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: interested in Kalin and you're a murderer, then things you're

524
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: gonna go quite well, actually like a murder organized crime leader.

525
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: Then you know, hit us up. No, no, please, don't

526
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 1: um three five? Who comes to mind for you as

527
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: you drive to work or get ready for or do

528
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: whatever you're doing whatever people do these days. I have

529
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: no idea who is the person? Who is you know,

530
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: I guess you could say classically not attractive, because you know,

531
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 1: I don't know, like David Beckham or Brad Pitt or

532
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,919
Speaker 1: or whoever. You know, people are like that's obvious, right,

533
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,919
Speaker 1: everybody thinks they're attractive. But I'm talking about who are

534
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: you attracted to that other people might say really? Um.

535
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: For example, I am attracted to the pioneer woman on

536
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: the Food Network. I don't know what. I gotta google

537
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: her name. She's a contessa hellier, refuse wait this, this

538
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: barefoot contessa lady, and she and Jeffrey read drum yeah,

539
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: read drummond yeah, redhead lady. I don't know. She looks

540
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: like I would. I'd go to the I'd go to

541
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: the homestead or wherever she lives. I let her make

542
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: me an ice cream cake, and I would just this

543
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: could be you with this cowboy hat on her. She

544
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: has a how a cowboy husband? Yeah she does. She

545
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: lives on the homestead. What about hers? I don't know.

546
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 1: I just I dig it when she's on I watch it.

547
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: But the barefoot contessa, hell no, let me go to

548
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: the fish monk Jeffrey, Jeffrey's coming home from the city,

549
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: shut up and standard no. I I like this this lady,

550
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 1: this pioneer woman. I think she's very attracted. Also like

551
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: Bonnie Hunt, which I think is very interesting that I

552
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: do like Hunt. I met money Hunt a couple of

553
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: years ago, and I tried, Yeah, she had a boyfriend,

554
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: but I was like, honestly, are you down. She's like no,

555
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 1: the like you are not only a legend, but you

556
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: know you kind of appealed to some mother. I don't know,

557
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: but there you go. What's I had a great mom.

558
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: I don't have mom issues or something. You know what

559
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, you like women. You want women to

560
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: like nurture you. That's what I'm saying, is no, because

561
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: your mom did, and so you you're looking for that

562
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Probably you want to be taken care of.

563
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: But well, I don't even know if that's true, because

564
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: if you I feel like sometimes what you were attracted

565
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 1: to is what you didn't tab or what you Maybe

566
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: that's what you sometimes it's what you had or what

567
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: you're used to. You want to be treated like to

568
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 1: that level. But that doesn't even ad. It's not even that,

569
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: it's just a I don't know, it's just the whole

570
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: vibe going on. Hey Nicole, Hey, hey morning, who are

571
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: you attracted to? That which surprising people. So I was

572
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: just watching American Horror Story She's gonna watch for the

573
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 1: first time, and Evan Peter that first he is kind

574
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: of a little it's not that cute, but he really

575
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: grew on me and now I have a huge crush

576
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: on her. Say t, yeah, Evan Peters hot, even when

577
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: he's the bad guy. I'm like, oh, yeah, okay, I

578
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: didn't watch, so I need to go look at it.

579
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 1: He's in like every season. Yeah, he was with Emma

580
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: Roberts for a little bit. Yeah he was. She just

581
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: get married pregnant with Garrett Headland's baby. Who am I

582
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: thinking of it? Just got married somebody else, not Emma Roberts,

583
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: somebody else, right, I don't know. I look at it.

584
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, is that Julia Roberts. Yeah, I'm thinking

585
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 1: of somebody else. Did the Roberts get married this? I

586
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: don't know anyway, So um, Evan Peters for you, Thank you, Nicole,

587
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: have a great day. He's not not attractive. He's I

588
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: think because he plays like a skinny weird else Ye,

589
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: people are like weird or like a murderer. I guess.

590
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, Hi, yeah, good morning, how are you. Oh

591
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm folks. I love you, thank you. We're

592
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: excited to have you on the on the show. So

593
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: who is it that people might go really when you

594
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: say that you're attracted to them, Yeah, it's que friend.

595
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: Actually he hasn't think for years that he is super

596
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: attracted to post Malone, which I think is so weird.

597
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: But it's mostly like his voice. I think I've heard

598
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: that before. Yeah, because it's like you hear him and

599
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: he sounds like a certain way, and then I think

600
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: the way he looks just doesn't matter at all. It's

601
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: also really nice, which helps you. Nana kal Dana. But

602
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: she actually dated him briefly, so yeah, they had a

603
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: short thing. Yeah, and then she's for me. Yeah she

604
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: actually didn't meet him at a restaurant one time. But um, yes, okay,

605
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: so post Malone I get it. So people might post

606
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: Malone weren't post Malone. I don't think so many people

607
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 1: are attracted a postalone that makes sense. Start just like

608
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: a no go for me because he was just Austin Post. Yeah.

609
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: Maybe so with his musical talent though, like that Nirvana

610
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: said he did he was wearing a floral nightgown. I

611
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: guess that's what I'm saying is if he can't do that,

612
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: then I don't know if anyone's going oh I don't

613
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: evenink we're having this conversation, Zoe. Thank you, have a

614
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: great day. Thank you, and thank you for listening. Okay,

615
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: Angela that this one's out there, Angela, Yeah, I attracted

616
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: as person who isn't it's Malcolm Bladlove. Have you ever

617
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: seen Malcolm gladwellth the uh the Tipping Point. He's fantastic.

618
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: He's so smart. I'm sure you read all the books then, right,

619
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And he's so smart and he has

620
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: like an unbelievable podcast. Oh look at those. Do we

621
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: know is does he have a wife or a husband

622
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: or do we even know? I get the impression he's

623
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: kind of asexual. I don't think he's married. I don't

624
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: know about Yeah, I don't know. But he was on

625
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: to my husband Ben to watch this this guy is

626
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: your husband's like, really, you're gonna leave me for this guy? Um, nobody.

627
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: He's brilliant. He's written books Tipping Point, the one that

628
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Speaker 1: mostly he's probably no most known for very very brilliant guys.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, um, podcast, I gotta listen to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Can we stop pluging podcast right now? The podcast? We

631
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Speaker 1: can talk about podcas afternoon. Okay, but not right now.

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Speaker 1: I mean people to listen to this thing. Okay, thank you, Angela,

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00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah, I'm sure it's available on

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Speaker 1: the iHeart Radio app after, but not until noon podcast.

635
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: We don't open him up until noon on the I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio app. That's a lie, Caitlin, Hello, who are

637
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Speaker 1: you attracted to? That's maybe I'm gonna call it unconventional, AKA,

638
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Speaker 1: people think you're crazy. So I am super attracted to

639
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Speaker 1: have Bill Hayter from Saturday Night Live. He's done. Yeah,

640
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: I don't think that's that surprising. I mean, yeah, he's

641
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Speaker 1: not bad looking, and he's very talented. He's just he's

642
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: so funny. And I read that the movie that he

643
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: did with Amy Schumer, I guess he was like such

644
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: a nice guy. Yeah, okay, right, you know I get that.

645
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: He's also a big day Lain NBC fan. And he

646
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: did a video with Keith Morrison. They he met Keith Morrison,

647
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: the old dude, the white hair dude, and he lost

648
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: his mind the same way that I did. So I

649
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,959
Speaker 1: feel like we're friends. It could be friends. Yeah, um, Caitlyn,

650
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Speaker 1: I like it. Thank you, have a great day. To

651
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Speaker 1: love you. Yeah, I love you too, Thanks so much.

652
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: For calling Hey, Joe, Hello, I think you and Rufio

653
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: have this in common. But you got you are attracted

654
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: to this person. Oh my god, we're gonna laugh at me.

655
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: So it Ken John, that's my guy. Really, Today's Ken's

656
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: day too, Man, Ken's day. Like you would, you would

657
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Speaker 1: make love to him. You would sweet love attracted too.

658
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: So if you walked in and he was like, hey, hey,

659
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Speaker 1: you know he does this, I'm getting Hey, Joe, would

660
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: me and then and that you would do it, you'd

661
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: go home with him totally, totally. He's hilarious. They could

662
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: put a smile. Definitely. And he's a doctor too, so

663
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: he is he actually is a medical doctor. Yeah, it's

664
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Speaker 1: kind of amazing. Um, thank you, Joe, have a great

665
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: day now this Joe Joe. Another Joe Joe. Um, I

666
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: get this one too. Less so these days, but I

667
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: used to get this one. Go ahead, man, Rachel Rachel Ray, Yeah,

668
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: I used to get it. These days, I don't know,

669
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: you know, her husband kind of looks homeless, and I'd

670
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 1: give up. I feel, do you watch these days? Because

671
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: I respect that she's doing it from home and doesn't

672
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: have all the makeup on and everything. And then you

673
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: don't have to do all that. But I just sort

674
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Speaker 1: of watched and I think you do know you're on TV, right,

675
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: Like I sort of sort of wonder if she cares. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely,

676
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: she cooks kinds of humor. She's normal, it's there. She's

677
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 1: just perfect. Yeah, I agree, thirty minute meals Rachel could

678
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Speaker 1: get it. In my opinion, you know, if you're a

679
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Speaker 1: bit of a historian of the Rachel right, thirty minute

680
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Speaker 1: meals Rachel and her EVO, I would rub her an

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Speaker 1: ev o O and we'd and we'd go to town. Hey,

682
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Speaker 1: have a good day, thanks for calling, is it aston? Yes?

683
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Speaker 1: Hey morning. So this person and this all starts because

684
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Speaker 1: Kalin's attracted down to James Gandelfheni in the Sopranos though Tony, Yeah,

685
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: it's got to be Tony. Can't be James has to

686
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: be Tony, and people might think that a little bit unconvention.

687
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 1: I gotta go watch again. I gotta start from the beginning.

688
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Speaker 1: Who is it for? You asked him, John Travolta, But

689
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 1: it says you're old John Travolta with his normal hair.

690
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: Oh you're okay, sorry, I get that. The grease John

691
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: Travolta makes sense. The scientologist John Travolta freaks me out.

692
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Speaker 1: I'm fell in love with either when even when the

693
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Speaker 1: hairpiece falls off, and it's crazy. All right, so be it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, have a great day, and thanks for listening. Hey, Brittany, Hi, Hi,

695
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: good morning. Thank you for having us on. Who Is

696
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Speaker 1: It for You? Voco from The Practical Joe? I know

697
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Speaker 1: the show. I guess I don't know which one sell

698
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Speaker 1: Volcano is? No is the like kind of like? I

699
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Speaker 1: guess like one that's on U snap not snapcha, hold on,

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Speaker 1: we're about to Yeah that's cute. Yeah, I'm real that,

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, okay, all right, fair enough, Thank you, Brittany,

702
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: have a good day. That she was pretty funny too,

703
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 1: do you know what I'm Hey, Diana, who is It

704
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Speaker 1: for You? The unconventional Hot? Who is It? Robbie Gold?

705
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: I love him the Bears, but I've always thought he

706
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 1: was so hot. Well, I think the Bears left him.

707
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't think that was his fault. I don't know

708
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: what happened there. But he's a very nice guy and

709
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: he also right now currently is doing something for Cal's Angels,

710
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: the group I work with every Madfield goal is five

711
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Speaker 1: hundred bucks for Cal's Angels. He's on the forty nine ers,

712
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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you I did an event

713
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: with him earlier this year pre COVID for Cal's and

714
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: women love that. I was pissed. I'm like, can we

715
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Speaker 1: get this guy out of here? Because I need to

716
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Speaker 1: be the center of atment this event. And you know,

717
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: here comes to you. A million dollar kicker man comes

718
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Speaker 1: in and he's charismatic, and you know, I'm like, you,

719
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 1: I'll get out of here. Dude. Well, I gotta be

720
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: so good. I went to a Bear's game and I

721
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: made a sign that said I'm a gold digger. Obviously. Yeah. Yeah,

722
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: I'm sure he's never heard that. I mean, maybe you

723
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 1: could be. You would still do it even though he

724
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 1: plays for the Niners. I hear he plans he's going

725
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: to retire as a Bear. That's what I'm told. I'll take. Yeah,

726
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: he still calls Chicago, he still lives here in the

727
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: off season. Yeah, I think so, Yeah, it does. Okay,

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Speaker 1: have a good day, Diana. Thank you. Robbie Gold. He's

729
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: a super nice guy. I met him at the golf show.

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Speaker 1: How a picture with him? Your Gold and you and

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Speaker 1: your kicking you and your charitable donations and Damneid shown

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Speaker 1: up life from the Winters Studios in America's greatest city,

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Speaker 1: Chicago and I Heart Radio station. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody, Tuesday, The Freend Show's on. Hi Christie,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hi Klen morning, Hi rufy Yo. Hi Paulina

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Speaker 1: on a boy um the Entertamber report in about fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: What's coming up, Klein? I'll tell you who said they

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Speaker 1: stopped acting because they started winning razzies. Those awards were

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Speaker 1: really bad movies. Frend Show one h three five, The

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Speaker 1: f Show. Why were you left waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 1: All right, good morning, Christopher morning, welcome to our show.

742
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: We call this waiting by the phone. Of course, let's

743
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: hear about Mila. How you met any days that you've

744
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: been on where things are now? Well we met now,

745
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: I think pretty much everybody meets these days. We met

746
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: on Tinder. Well, you know, now, hold on Tinder. That's

747
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: like that's a bang bang app Now, isn't it like

748
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,800
Speaker 1: absolutely okay? Because I guess I thought there were like

749
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 1: different you know, Hinge I thought was the respectable one

750
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: and Tinder was like a little more respectable one, it

751
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: wasn't more respectable. Yeah, no, I don't think anybody. I

752
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: don't know, self respect is limited. I beating but I

753
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: and I'm speaking for myself, but I thought, I guess

754
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: I thought tender was a little more pointed and the

755
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 1: rest anyway, So I don't know what you were after,

756
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 1: but you guys met there. Then what happened? Well, so

757
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: we met, We just you know, exchange numbers, sected for

758
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: a hot second and said, hey, you know you want

759
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: to be in person. Um, So we went to those

760
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,959
Speaker 1: one of those uh most COVID friendly outdoor igloo things

761
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: you know. Oh yeah yeah, the containment ted with the

762
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: gas heater inside. Yeah yeah exactly. I mean it's hold outside,

763
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna sit outdoors. I can't sit indoors,

764
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: so yeah, um, but yeah, I mean I thought everything

765
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 1: was pretty normal, no red flags on my part or

766
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,360
Speaker 1: on her part. I think everything went pretty good. And

767
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: so now you know, mash and ghost in me and

768
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: I'm pretty in the dark here. Okay, Well that's where

769
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Speaker 1: we coming. We're gonna call her, um, Mila, We'll see

770
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 1: if we can get her on the phone. Ask some

771
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: questions on your behalf. You'll be on the phone too,

772
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: and you can jump in at any point, but can

773
00:38:58,520 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: give us a couple of seconds to get some in

774
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:01,919
Speaker 1: before you. But hopefully we can straighten all of this out,

775
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: and if we can, we'll set you guys up on

776
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: another Iglue date and we'll pay for it. Okay, can

777
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 1: you hang on for a second, I'd say right here,

778
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 1: you've got to hear what happens next. We'll do part

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Speaker 1: two of Waiting by the Phone right after this song

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Speaker 1: on one O three five. Good Morning Guys, Friend shows

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Speaker 1: on one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit

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Speaker 1: music station, Part two Waiting by the Phone. Christopher, Welcome back.

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00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 1: Let's call Mela. You met on tender You guys texted

784
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: for a little bit, exchange numbers, and then went out

785
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: for drinks and you thought everything went great. Many people

786
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: often do. You're being ghosted. Now you want us to

787
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:45,240
Speaker 1: figure out why, and let's do it right now. Good luck? Hello?

788
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: Hi is this Mela? Yea, Hey Mela, good morning. It's

789
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Speaker 1: Fred from the Fred's Show. The whole crew is here

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Speaker 1: one O three five Kiss FM in Chicago, and I'm

791
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 1: sorry to bother, but I do have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now. I need

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Speaker 1: your permission to continue with this call. Is that okay? Yes, yes,

794
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: that's okay, although I'm confused. Yeah, well, um, we appreciate that,

795
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 1: and we can end the confusion right now and get

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Speaker 1: right to it. We're calling on behalf of this guy

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00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 1: named Christopher who reached out to us. Apparently you guys

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Speaker 1: met on a dating app on Tinder and went out

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Speaker 1: for a date. Okay, okay, so he liked you a lot,

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Speaker 1: and I guess he was, you know, feeling optimistic about

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00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 1: the date after you guys went out, except he says

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Speaker 1: that you're not responding to any of his correspondence. He's

803
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:27,919
Speaker 1: trying to get you to go out with him again.

804
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,479
Speaker 1: You're ghosting him, and so he wanted us to figure

805
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 1: out why, and so he called a radio station. Yeah, yes,

806
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:38,240
Speaker 1: we called. Well, you know, we're more like his friends.

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Speaker 1: Well let's see what he did first. But I'm not

808
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Speaker 1: We're not going to be his friends until we know

809
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Speaker 1: what he did first. But what happened? Why don't you

810
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Speaker 1: calling him? Yeah? I mean, okay, I am. I have

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Speaker 1: kind of ghost with him, which isn't cool. I shouldn't

812
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: have done that, but it's it's just not going to

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Speaker 1: work out. I think we're just on different pages. And

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Speaker 1: okaytaut know what really happened? No, Like you're being nice

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00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: now and that's fine and I appreciate that. But that's

816
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: like the PC answer. That's like, uh, we still care

817
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: for each other deeply, but we're breaking up. Like probably

818
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: not what actually happened that led you to not call him?

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00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: If you don't mind, I just think he's gross. Honestly,

820
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 1: here we go. Why it's so awkward? Um, okay, we

821
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Speaker 1: went out for some drinks. Um, basically, like I know,

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Speaker 1: things are whatever. Anyway, we went out for some drinks

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Speaker 1: and basically, as soon as the drinks were served into us,

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Speaker 1: um I'm in public, very graphically took out his retainer

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Speaker 1: and while slurping and being so loud, left it on

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Speaker 1: the table for the rest of the day. So what

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Speaker 1: does he do. He grabs onto this retainer and he

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00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: like slurps in any residual like spit that collects on it,

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Speaker 1: and then just sets it on a like a napkin

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Speaker 1: or something not a napkin. No, but yes, correct all

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Speaker 1: that precepts the nap didn't We put it right down

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Speaker 1: on the little tabletop. But you have to do that.

833
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Speaker 1: I had in visiline for years and it was embarrassing.

834
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: But like, you have to take it out and there's

835
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: a lot of slive, but you don't want that to

836
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: go everywhere, so you gotta slurp your bathroom. I mean,

837
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: couldn't you not do that in front of the person

838
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: if you if you were concerned, you want me to

839
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: go to the bat that's take so much time out

840
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 1: of your day every time you take it out, Yes,

841
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: honey on your first date. No, you would do the

842
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 1: same slurping mechanism thing and go and then stick it

843
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: on the table. I mean he's not like wiping out

844
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: of condom. He's right on the table you put it.

845
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,399
Speaker 1: I guarantee you would put it in your bag. Yeah,

846
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: why did he not have a case? Like if you're

847
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 1: saying you did that too, I'm no friend grossed out

848
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: by you too? Because why don't you have a cake?

849
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: Because I forgot the case? Sorry, that's Christopher. I forgot.

850
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: I apologize, I forgot to mention. I actually forgot that

851
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 1: he was here distracted, we were talking more with you. Um,

852
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: so you forgot the case. There was no subtle way

853
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: to do it. I've seen people do it. I had

854
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: an invisilized too. I just wouldn't wear them on dates

855
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 1: and somehow it still worked. But you know, I don't

856
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: recommend it, but but I've seen people and they're very

857
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 1: discreet about it. You know, they'll like take them out

858
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: and kind of like do the leanover things you don't

859
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: really see, and then they stick it in their bag.

860
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: I've seen it. Yeah, I like you noticed then, like

861
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,800
Speaker 1: you forget that you're wearing them. So I forgot that

862
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 1: I was wearing them and I didn't want to be

863
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: without them for like, you know, four or five, six, seven, eight,

864
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: however many hours, you know what I mean. And I

865
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 1: was like, okay, so, but I never took about to drink,

866
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: though you have to take them out to drink. Yeah,

867
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 1: I think. I like, there's like a fruit like in

868
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: the top of the drink, and I wanted to like

869
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: eat that, and let's talk about let's talk about you

870
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 1: ordering a fruity. We normalized retainers here because I mean,

871
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: like adults are getting a diswine. Like it's not just

872
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:01,320
Speaker 1: for no yeah, no, no, no one's making fun of

873
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: you for having a retainer. I do think there's a

874
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: subtle way to handle that though, And I probably wouldn't

875
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: set it on the table for a couple of reasons.

876
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: One because I don't think anybody wants to necessarily look

877
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: at that too, because I would probably forget it, like

878
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 1: if it gets trapped, it a happet or something like

879
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 1: you just saw it. Yeah, right, I think as a kid,

880
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: I did though on the table he supposed to put

881
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: it though, he like a forgot it's visible, so he

882
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: doesn't lose acket go wash him off later the table

883
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: was that anywhere about the team? Yeah, I would agree

884
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 1: with me anywhere. But let's talk about why you're ghosting

885
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: him for that reason, Like you can't so the guy

886
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: forgot his case. It's a one time deal. You know.

887
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: It sounds like that's not his normal, you know, standard

888
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: operating procedure. Would you give him another shot? Mila? Oh,

889
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: first of all, you have no idea that's on his

890
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,320
Speaker 1: standard operating procedure. Like he's just saying that we're on

891
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: the freaking radio, like for all I know he always

892
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 1: does that. Right. Also, it literally almost made me puce

893
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: and dely was a one date, one time. I don't

894
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 1: feel like I have to be like giving him this

895
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: in depth novel about Well, that's another that's a different debate,

896
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: but you know, I we've had that debate by the before,

897
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 1: by the way, and I'm so glad that some people

898
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: need to have an answer after one day, because that's

899
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:16,760
Speaker 1: that's sort of kept our show afloat for a decade

900
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 1: um with this thing. But I also I kind of

901
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: agree with you that one date doesn't necessarily require, you know,

902
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: um a mia colpa, you know, or some sort of

903
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: narrative where I call you and tell you I'm not

904
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: going to call it one date, but I do. But

905
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 1: he wanted to know, and you taught him, and you

906
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 1: will not give him another chance, though I will. And

907
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: I again like it's super tweet. You wanted to calm

908
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 1: find out, and I do. At this point three, it

909
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: should have been me just saying like, hey, it's it's

910
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: not gonna work out, and then you would have known.

911
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: I didn't even have to tell you it's because it's

912
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: super disgusting with your retainer. Let guy, Christopher's only getting better.

913
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 1: He's going to have really straight, like like laser straight

914
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: teeth here very very soon, and you're gonna miss out

915
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: on that on that mouth now, I think it's a

916
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: chance I'm willing to take at this point, but I

917
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 1: do with Tim. Okay, disgusting and gross, this isn't I

918
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: mean not, Christopher. Don't you worry. I take my retainer

919
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 1: out to like that and no one's called me disgusting

920
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: or gross on the ratio nobody. They just didn't call you,

921
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 1: and then you didn't have those resource So actually, Christopher,

922
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 1: don't take my love advice. I'm gonna say, Christy, come

923
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,479
Speaker 1: some numbers of those guys because we'll do waiting about

924
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: the phone on them. Figure out. I want to know

925
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: why they didn't go out with Listen to me, Christopher.

926
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 1: I'm always wrong, um, but I would. I just I

927
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: can't excuse yourself bath there's a way to do it now,

928
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 1: there is a way to do it. But nonetheless, I'm

929
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: sorry Christopher, Emila, thanks for your time, and I wish

930
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 1: you both the best of luck. Than Jordan, this is

931
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: it from Jordan. I work at a dental office. Within

932
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: visit line. You can drink with them, just rinse them after.

933
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: Shouldn't have left it on the table, though, so I

934
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: used to drink with them on I think I also,

935
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: I think I just got lucky that they worked because

936
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:56,879
Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't think I wore them. I don't

937
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: think I was all that compliant, but they did work.

938
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: My teeth. My bottom teeth were messed up. That was

939
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: after braces and after a retainer. So I came back

940
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: to that in my late twenties because I wasn't. Yeah,

941
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,320
Speaker 1: I had bad teeth as a kid, like, Yeah, I

942
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: had nice teeth now though, thank you so much, appreciate it.

943
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: Thank you. No, I cost me some dough, cost my

944
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 1: parents some dough, and then I didn't wear to my retainer,

945
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: cost my parents a lot of dough, didn't wear my retainer,

946
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 1: and then I went back and out of pay for

947
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 1: it myself. Um, but yeah, I used to drink with

948
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: them on. But yeah, I think that dentist was lying

949
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,240
Speaker 1: because my dentist told me if you drink any sugary

950
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: drink with them on, you can get cavities because it

951
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: like tracks sugar about your teeth. I mean, it's just

952
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,240
Speaker 1: like a forty eight hour day. It's just like Survivor

953
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: or something like. You go home a couple hours later

954
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 1: and you take them off and brush your teeth. I

955
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 1: don't know, I didn't take it out. Yeah, Kalin's right,

956
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 1: take it out. It feels like it would stick on

957
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: there or get dirty or like change color over time. Well,

958
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: especially if you're drinking, you know, strawberry dactory like this

959
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 1: fruit on top you whatever. This guy, this is a meal.

960
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:07,879
Speaker 1: Got one of those bloody Marys with a hammer. Yeah,

961
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: that's the one that's blue. Right, Yeah, you got that.

962
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: That's what I heard. Either way back Alley drink, how

963
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: do it on the South Side? Don't have the copyright?

964
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: Today Kiss FM, The latest entertainment news is on the

965
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,760
Speaker 1: Fred Show. Alec Baldwin posted a fourteen minute long video

966
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:39,240
Speaker 1: yesterday defending Woody Allen and Andrew Cuomo what then quickly

967
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: deleted it. In the video, he said, I'm not defending

968
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: someone who's guilty of something. I'm choosing to defend someone

969
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: who has not been proven guilty of something, and last

970
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: I checked, there is a profound difference. He then decided

971
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 1: to delete the video, insisting in a shorter follow up

972
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 1: that the last one quote went on too long, so

973
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: he sort of explained himself. He said that he was

974
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:06,479
Speaker 1: basically saying that canceled culture is getting out of hand.

975
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: I hear you, Alex, but not the way to do it.

976
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 1: You can say that, but defending people that we don't

977
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: know what happened. I thought he got rid of his

978
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 1: social media after they made fun of Hilariaia. He got

979
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: rid of his Twitter for sure. And then yeah, last week,

980
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: if you remember, they announced that they had this like

981
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 1: surprised baby and people were dragging him again. So it

982
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: seems like he's really going through it with the internet,

983
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: and he's maybe misdirecting some of his anger about him

984
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:38,240
Speaker 1: in Ilaria towards other people. But yes, I mean, canceled

985
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: culture is wild, but we should be careful who we defend,

986
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:46,319
Speaker 1: as we don't know what happened. He wasn't there. Eddie

987
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: Murphy said he stopped acting after quote spitty movies earned

988
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: him razzies. Obviously he said the real word. He said,

989
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: I was going to take a break for a year,

990
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, six years go by

991
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting on the couch and I could sit

992
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 1: on that couch forever and knock it off of it,

993
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: but I don't want the last bunch of spit they

994
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: see me do to be a bunch of bs. Lots

995
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:10,799
Speaker 1: of swears from that one. His redemption movie Dolomite led

996
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: the Razzie Awards to give him a corrective prize at

997
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 1: the twenty nineteen ceremony with the Razzi Redeemer Award. I

998
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: didn't know that they had one of those. That's funny. Yeah, so,

999
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: I mean they were like, we were wrong. Speaking of Eddie,

1000
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: Coming to America had the biggest streaming opening weekend over

1001
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 1: the past year. My stepdad was actually watching it when

1002
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: I got home last week. In the film's debut topped

1003
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: that of Wonder Woman at nineteen eighty four and the

1004
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: latest four rat Have you seen it yet? Yeah, it's

1005
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:40,919
Speaker 1: it's it's got some nostalgia to it. Obviously, they're coming

1006
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: to America. The classic original hilarious, but it's nice to

1007
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 1: see the cast come together. But it's been too long

1008
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: in my opinion. Yeah, yeah, it's hard to redeem your

1009
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: stop and to make a better movie than the original,

1010
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 1: especially like even if the original wasn't that great, I

1011
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: feel like people's in nostal jaw is just like raises

1012
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: it up so high. You know what I'm saying. Mort

1013
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: start going online today. Selena Gomez looks beautiful on the

1014
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:09,879
Speaker 1: cover of Vogue and everything from the International Women's Day

1015
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: Show yesterday. If you said that's on French show radio

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Speaker 1: dot com one on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number

1017
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Speaker 1: one in music station. I want to know what everybody's

1018
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 1: watching right now eight five five five nine one one

1019
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: three five. The reason being because I watched American Murder

1020
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 1: over the weekend. What is it called American murder? Some

1021
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: what if our listeners tweeted about it? It's on Netflix? Uh?

1022
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 1: I mean American Murder the Family next Door? I am, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yes,

1023
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: I was sick and this is disgusting story. I don't

1024
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: understand this. You know, I watch a lot of uh

1025
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: huh true crime. You guys know that I love day

1026
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: Lana whatever. I've actually spoken to the dateline people about this,

1027
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:54,359
Speaker 1: Like I actually had a conversation at Crime Con last

1028
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 1: year with Josh Mankowitz and Keith Morrison where I'm like, dude,

1029
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 1: why do people like? Okay this, dude? The premise here

1030
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:07,240
Speaker 1: of this show, the guy is married, they have two kids.

1031
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: He needs another woman at work, younger, hotter or whatever,

1032
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,439
Speaker 1: and not even know if she's hotter, and the girl

1033
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: his wife's pregnant with a third kid. He decides to

1034
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 1: murder his entire family and then pretend they're missing. Yeah,

1035
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: and then so all of this so that he can

1036
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: be with this new girl. Oh my god, it's like, what,

1037
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:32,359
Speaker 1: get a divorce? I know, I think that's the only way.

1038
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: It's like, get a divorce. Like you you think that

1039
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,959
Speaker 1: if you murder everybody, that somehow that they're all gonna

1040
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: be I get them. I get what you're thinking. They're

1041
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: all gonna be gone. Maybe you get some mow if

1042
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,919
Speaker 1: you're a psychopath, Yeah, they're all they're all gonna be gone.

1043
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: Maybe you get some insurance money. And then off you

1044
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: go with no obligation. You're some sort of victim. And

1045
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 1: then you know, you go off into the sunset with

1046
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: this other lady. But in the meantime, he's been lying

1047
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: to her too so and she's the one who kind

1048
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: of out of him because you know, here they're gone

1049
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: and they don't know where the family is, and he's like,

1050
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. And he busted like a ring camera,

1051
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: like a doorbell surveillance or something like that. Um, well,

1052
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,320
Speaker 1: he backs his truck up to his garage and his neighbors.

1053
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: That's the other thing you got to think about all

1054
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: this stuff. Now, this isn't like the nineties. Man, everybody's

1055
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 1: got a camera in their house, on their house, so

1056
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 1: so you think you're getting away with something because your

1057
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: cameras are turned off. No. No, your neighbor watched you

1058
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: back your pickup truck up to the back of the

1059
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:29,439
Speaker 1: thing and then throw something the back of the truck.

1060
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: But I don't know. He might have gotten away with

1061
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 1: it if this woman hadn't come forward, because they were like,

1062
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: are you having in a fairy? Says no. Then this

1063
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: woman comes forward, was like, oh, yeah, he's having an

1064
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,359
Speaker 1: affair with me, and then the whole thing unravels because

1065
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 1: then there's motive, you know, and then it's like, whoa,

1066
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: well you did this because because you're you want this

1067
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: other woman or whatever. Well, the other woman's not gonna

1068
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: watch you after your family gets I just don't understand.

1069
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: I don't get it. But it's it's an hour and

1070
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: a half that you Uh, it's pretty captivating and it's

1071
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: pretty sickening too. But you know, this guy probably get

1072
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: letters in prison from women trying to date him. You know,

1073
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 1: all these guys do Scott Peterson does, all these murderers,

1074
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: these terrible people, so bad there's a whole show about that. Too,

1075
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 1: like women who write to men in jail or something.

1076
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find the name of it. My nail

1077
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: girl told me about it. Well, then there's the show

1078
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 1: on We or whatever, other people who marry those peoples

1079
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: after lock up or whatever. It is a lot of

1080
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:21,879
Speaker 1: those people they don't know each other ahead of time

1081
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: they meet. That way tells you, Yeah, it's got to

1082
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: be like a fetish or just something that you're into. Right, Oh,

1083
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 1: in jail. I don't know bad real bad boy, I guess,

1084
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: but there's I won't give the story away. But it's

1085
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 1: even worse when you'll get even more angry when you

1086
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 1: watch it because how this guy tries to deflect. It's

1087
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: messed up. I'm very dark. Yeah, well I don't know.

1088
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, well started, Yeah, I did well. I

1089
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 1: started a long time ago and then I kind of

1090
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:56,359
Speaker 1: fell off. And where are you in it? I think

1091
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: I'm on like the seventh episode of the first season.

1092
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: It's good. Now, gonna started to shoot this week, Okay,

1093
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: but you gotta keep going because it gets in my opinion,

1094
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: it gets really good. Like season three on Well, I

1095
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 1: feel like I have to won every single emmy. Season

1096
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 1: six just dropped on Netflix. Yeah, watch the whole thing

1097
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 1: so you won't do what I do, which is watch

1098
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: the end of season five thinking that was the last episode. God,

1099
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: like what that other thing end? Um? Also, I gotta

1100
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 1: watch an episode came out last night on HBO Max

1101
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: of of that Nexium. Yeah, that's week by week I think. Yeah,

1102
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: I know. I hate when they do that. Put the

1103
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: whole thing out so I can ruin a weekend. Um,

1104
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 1: what are you guys watching? I just finished watching Kingdom.

1105
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 1: I told you about this. It was on It's on Netflix.

1106
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: It was on Audience TV. It got canceled, It's on Netflix.

1107
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: It's like MMA meets Sopranos meets like Sons of ANARCHYTS

1108
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: like sex, drugs and MMA. It's it's a really good show.

1109
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 1: It's the show that Nick Jonas was on. Oh yeah, yeah,

1110
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 1: it's only three seasons. It's great. Frank Gillo's on there.

1111
00:55:55,640 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: Um yeah, it's it's a really good show, really good drama. Yeah.

1112
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: The problem is, like, now I'm really looking for stuff

1113
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 1: because usually when I'm in the middle of something, then

1114
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 1: people start recommending other stuff and I forget about it.

1115
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't watch it, and then of course there's a

1116
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: what is that the best show I've seen it? Maybe ever?

1117
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: It's with Senda. It's it's about like messed up high

1118
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: school kids. But it's so good, it's so unique. The

1119
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: soundtrack is amazing, very different. You'll blow through it. It's

1120
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 1: just one season. Okay, you have to what do you

1121
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: mean what you just asked? No? No, no, I was

1122
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: watching Cobra Kai. I'm not. That's really funny. Laugh. Yeah,

1123
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm not. I gotta watch that. I'm not doing it. No,

1124
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 1: I'm either that's the thing that happened that Cobra Kai.

1125
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: What do you mean? You know watching? What do you mean? So?

1126
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 1: But everybody, well, if you like the crime stuff, then

1127
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:52,439
Speaker 1: you'll be It's hard to say you'll like this because

1128
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 1: it's a tragedy. But um, but it's one episode. It's

1129
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 1: just a it's just as it's one. No, it's one thing.

1130
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if the I don't have a American

1131
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: Murder itself as a series, I don't. I don't know.

1132
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, Um. That being said, if you don't

1133
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 1: want to watch anything and you don't want to do

1134
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 1: anything in your life, he's want to sit and do nothing.

1135
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 1: That actually is a is a thing that apparently is

1136
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 1: of great value. Um, there's a Dutch magazine that featured

1137
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: the art of I'm sure I'm not saying it right

1138
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 1: Nixon and I can't CN or doing nothing. The art

1139
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 1: of doing nothing is called Nixon m So the concept

1140
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: of doing nothing seems hugely appealing. This is a person's

1141
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 1: person's first person sort of an account of doing this. Um,

1142
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 1: whenever I allowed myself to sit down, my house started

1143
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 1: talking to me, do this, do that. The laundry would

1144
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: whisper in an unsexy way. She says, scrub the kitchen, YadA, YadA, YadA.

1145
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: Because it's true, especially if you have a family. I'm

1146
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: sure you sit and you mean the idea of doing

1147
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: nothing probably makes you feel guilty. And that's what she's saying.

1148
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: Between my children, our home husband, long hours of work,

1149
00:57:56,160 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: YadA YadA. So she read this article about the idea

1150
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 1: of doing nothing. So yeah, there's the actual thing, as

1151
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: regular as clockwork. The Netherlands takes top spot on the

1152
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: World's Happiness Index, and they believe in the idea of

1153
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:20,919
Speaker 1: practicing doing nothing. The Dutch nix means In Dutch, nix

1154
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 1: means nothing. It's just a small step from an I

1155
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: k s, which is a noun, to nix in, which

1156
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 1: is a verb which means nothing. In precise definitions vary

1157
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 1: even from the Dutch, but doing something without a purpose,

1158
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 1: such as staring out a window sums it up. One

1159
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 1: expert that she spoke to for the book said a

1160
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 1: Sunday morning kind of feeling. Another said that it was

1161
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 1: being with one's own thoughts without judgment, or simply sitting

1162
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 1: and soaking up the sunline. In practice, it's lying on

1163
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 1: the sofa daydreaming, or idly ambling back and forth from

1164
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 1: the shops, letting your mind wander in a supermarket queue,

1165
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: or sitting with a cat on your lap, gazing as

1166
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 1: you sit on the bus. Whatever, it's doing nothing. Do

1167
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 1: you think you could do it? My problem with doing

1168
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: nothing is that my brain starts to work. Ye spin,

1169
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: and even if I don't have anything to do, like

1170
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: I don't have to feed a child or something, I

1171
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: still feel like I'm thinking about It's the reason I

1172
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: can't meditate, because I just sit there and then Okay,

1173
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to focus on whatever this person saying, on

1174
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: whatever app and then all of a sudden, I start

1175
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: thinking about, oh my god, I've graduated that Bill or

1176
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: I got do this thing for the show or whatever.

1177
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: I can't do it. So I feel like it it

1178
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: wants to be more work to focus on nothing than

1179
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: just to do the thing. It is work to meditate,

1180
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: that's for sure. And then you start thinking about like

1181
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 1: what you did in like October of two thousand and

1182
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: eleven or something, and that's when it really gets crazy.

1183
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: That's why I can't sleep sometimes. I'm always thinking about

1184
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 1: October two th eleven. Can you meditate? Because you and

1185
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: I know, Shelley, you and I have like similar sensability

1186
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 1: of neuroticism. Yeah, I actually I can meditate. I've gotten better.

1187
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: I've also gotten better doing nothing. I would say I've

1188
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: tried to really just say yeah, yeah, I'm Nixon during

1189
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: this quarantine because social media, I feel like, makes it

1190
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 1: really hard because when you're just sort of in that

1191
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: place of doing nothing, like, oh, let me check the Instagram,

1192
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: you know, Can I watch TV and Nixon or I

1193
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: think that's doing something. Oh I think Nixon has to

1194
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 1: be saying there no stimulus. Yeah, I'm taking a lot

1195
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: of walks, and just like in my thoughts, is that nothing?

1196
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 1: That's nothing? I think that's the same that's the thing. Yeah,

1197
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: it's nothing. Yeah, I know it's the thing. Could you

1198
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 1: do it? You can do it because you're home. Then

1199
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: you got Ashland and he's not gonna let you do nothing. Yeah,

1200
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 1: can't you tell the kid I'm doing right now? Do

1201
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: you do? Nixon would love let's go, especially when you're

1202
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: yelling at it's not gonna work for you. Never minded

1203
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 1: one or three five show? Yeah they talk better than

1204
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: they tie. These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

1205
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: Okay Audio journals six fifty eight fifty um Christie Neugro.

1206
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: Christie is doing a blog. I can't wait go dear blog.

1207
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: Gotten another fight over the weekend with my boyfriend, golf

1208
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 1: guy I call him, I call him James guy, you

1209
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 1: call him Jess. Guys. During your interview process, all I

1210
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: heard about was how the dude sleeps in bed with

1211
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 1: jeans on very stress Yeah yeah, I very weird texture

1212
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: for me, Like didn't even imagine what that must feel

1213
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 1: like anyway. And then under the blankets and everything, Yeah,

1214
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 1: he's going like he naps in them, you know, because

1215
01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: he's so busy during work. Are these like jeans he

1216
01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 1: went outside with? That's the other thing does inside that's

1217
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 1: the other thing. Outside. Nothing, nothing from the outside goes

1218
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: in the bed. Yeah, fall on the couch and I

1219
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: only have like forty five minutes. I'll lay in my

1220
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: jeans on the couch because I'll have time to like change.

1221
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: But the bed, there are bed clothes for the bed.

1222
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 1: There are clothes clothes for the for the world. Yeah, yeah,

1223
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: I don't. You don't mix those things though, in my opinion,

1224
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 1: the bed is a anyway, I'm sorry, you want to

1225
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 1: listen to me if I told him that? Anyway? Fred,

1226
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 1: because over the weekend we got in a fight because

1227
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: he is following these women on Instagram who are like

1228
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 1: these half naked influencers, which I don't judge a woman

1229
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: for doing that, but the fact is he follows like

1230
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 1: a thousand of them, Like I would say, yeah, I've

1231
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: got eight hundred half naked women on Instagram, And when

1232
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 1: he scrolls, I'm always seeing their booty's popping up, and

1233
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, can you just unfollow them? Does he do

1234
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:24,919
Speaker 1: that fast scroll where he's just like he flows the sea? Yeah,

1235
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: you know you have to run too. I follow like

1236
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: celebrity people that that happened to post. Oh my god,

1237
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 1: that's his job, his jobet. It's not my fault that

1238
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 1: she's posting. We got all the time. You gotta be

1239
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: on these platforms. You gotta stay relevant. Yes, you gotta

1240
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 1: follow these people so you know what's going on in

1241
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 1: the world. I totally agree. He's in finance. He has

1242
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: no reason to follow these half naked women. And I'm

1243
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 1: not judging the woman for posting. I'm judging the man

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01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: for ogline like, you don't need to follow him when

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01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: you're in the relationship. Yeah, googling, ooglogling. I thought it

1246
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 1: was maybe that's what they say. Okay, So I got

1247
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 1: a lot of questions. I got a lot of questions.

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01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: First questions, So you don't follow anybody that he might

1249
01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 1: find objectionable. No, you don't follow anybody who's like shirtless

1250
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 1: or good looking. I don't know. I don't see them,

1251
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 1: but they're not on my feet, but I don't think so.

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01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: The second thing is why spend any time looking at

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01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: who he follows? Is that a common thing for people

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01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: to do, because I don't do that. He's sitting there

1255
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: scrolling on Instagram and I see them that way. You

1256
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 1: didn't let you go and look at who you follows. Yeah,

1257
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: why are you looking at what he's looking at? Because

1258
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 1: we play like word games on his phone when we

1259
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: go to bed. But he was just scrolling on Instagram

1260
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: and then they pop up. You know, why don't put

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01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 1: this on trying to put this on me? If your

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01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: girlfriend is uncomfortable with who you follow, why not just unfollow?

1263
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 1: Why is it such a big deal? Why are you uncomfortable?

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01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: I guess this is my question, Like what does it

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01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 1: really matter? These aren't real people that this is aren't

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01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 1: real people, and like they're posting you know what I mean,

1267
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,919
Speaker 1: We're just beautifully edited photos that make me feel less

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01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 1: about myself. And like I say that all the time

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01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:02,439
Speaker 1: on my Instagram, Like, you know what if you don't

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01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 1: feel good about the things I'm posting, unfollowed me, Like

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01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: I don't want you to do that. I don't feel

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01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: good about the things that he's seen, but he doesn't care.

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01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:10,840
Speaker 1: But because it's not he doesn't see it the same

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01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 1: way you do. I would imagine he's not comparing to you.

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01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 1: It would be my guests. Why look at them, they're

1276
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 1: not even like they're massive celebrities. Yeah, but I mean

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01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: then then I guess my argument, Christie would be then

1278
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 1: why even walk outside like he's gonna see with his

1279
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 1: eyes all kinds of other people who aren't you. I

1280
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: don't know that everything is a comparison. Yeah, okay, so

1281
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 1: in your mind maybe, but in my mind, I compare

1282
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: myself to everybody all the time. So you want him

1283
01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 1: to unfollow every attract everyone you find attractive on Instagram? No,

1284
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 1: just the women who are posting naked? Just those? Are

1285
01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: you mad that he's donating to their cash appet to

1286
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: see if he subscribed to any of those pages, because

1287
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 1: you can check your Instagram to see what you recently purchase.

1288
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 1: You're going away. I wanted to make sure he wasn't

1289
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: subscribing to only fans. How'd you check? You have his phone?

1290
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: I follow us. I saw a TikTok on how to

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01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 1: check if they follow only fans by check you're on

1292
01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: that algorithm? By my head, I don't know if I'm

1293
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,919
Speaker 1: sure there are other women doing this. I'm sure I'm

1294
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: sure that other people you guys, And I'm not saying

1295
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: men don't do it, but I usually hit the stories

1296
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: from women about the level of the snoop, the level

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01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: of you guys go to a different level of Rufio

1298
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: does it too. Um Rufio is one of the girls.

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01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 1: He does the level of the fin it's it's it's

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01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 1: beyond what I can even I even knew. You know,

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01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: you'll you'll look at who is looking at your stuff.

1302
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 1: You'll look at the people that they've searched somehow. You'll

1303
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 1: look at new follows. You'll look at you know, cash

1304
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 1: app to see who they're sending money too. I mean,

1305
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 1: you guys aren't immune to this either. No, I don't

1306
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 1: think he's cheating. Like by no means do I think that.

1307
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 1: I don't want him to be following naked women on Instagram.

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01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 1: That's my only I just don't like it. It makes

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01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 1: me uncomfortable. Every Man though, like that, every man does that?

1310
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 1: Do you follow half naked women on ig? I don't

1311
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: follow very many people? Yeah, you follow like, listen, one

1312
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 1: hundred people. He's got. The most boring is Instagram. Ever, Okay,

1313
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,920
Speaker 1: his feet is boring. His feet is like eight people.

1314
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 1: So you really doesn't see a lot? Yeah, I don't

1315
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: see a lot. So you're saying that I'm being irrational. Yes,

1316
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 1: he could be honest with me, Yes, I don't. I

1317
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 1: don't think it's anything worried see commenting like like pictures

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01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Oh, brop you ever did that?

1319
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:18,440
Speaker 1: Never is sending? Is he putting pictures of eggplants in

1320
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 1: the comments? Right? Because that's that an issue. He's just

1321
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: looking he doesn't even like him. Hold on, hold on,

1322
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 1: hold on, guys, Paulina, I get the impression. Maybe you're

1323
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 1: on the same page here. No, I agree with Christy.

1324
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 1: I do because I'm kind of like, what's the point

1325
01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:37,480
Speaker 1: of following them, like as far as like you're never

1326
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 1: gonna get with them, but on top of that, on

1327
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: top of them like or on top of all of that,

1328
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, I could get a

1329
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:45,520
Speaker 1: little jealous. I will admit that. Yeah, but do you

1330
01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: know that's it's irrational, Like like no, it's not. They

1331
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 1: could easily message him or like like that's very doing.

1332
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 1: But that but that's that's another level, right, like like

1333
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 1: looking at and following people men or women and then

1334
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 1: taking it to the point of message and corresponding and cheating.

1335
01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: I mean that's you're now you're racing like you're really

1336
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 1: good not you know that's yeah, I don't. I mean

1337
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 1: the same thing could be true in real life, right.

1338
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 1: The guy could walk down the street and see a

1339
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 1: hot woman and acknowledge that she's hot, and in his

1340
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: mind thinks she's hot. But then it's a whole different

1341
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 1: step to then say, Hi, what's your name? I'm golf

1342
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:18,480
Speaker 1: guy who I wear jeans in bed and I want

1343
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: to go home with you and I want you to

1344
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 1: see my jeans. But are you going to follow a

1345
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 1: hot woman on the street around a few blocks? No,

1346
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,440
Speaker 1: but you're gonna follow her on Instagram. I just feel like,

1347
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 1: no offense, guys, but I feel like that's thirsty in

1348
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: my opinion, and I don't want to be known as

1349
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 1: the girlfriend of mister thirsty. Yeah, I mean crazy, okay,

1350
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 1: But then you're then it's okay for you to like

1351
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 1: everything and say that Bad Bunny is the hottest person

1352
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 1: on the planet every day or the Dwayne Waite different

1353
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 1: Dwayne Wait, look at Duayne Wade ouvie. Did you see

1354
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 1: he posted on Instagram? There's no difference. It's the same time.

1355
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: I don't follow Bad Bunny, even though I love him.

1356
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm very hard checking over who I follow for you here,

1357
01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 1: but there's no fallin you. You were looking at all

1358
01:07:58,280 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 1: his stuff, but you may not follow him, you're looking

1359
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:01,560
Speaker 1: at all his stuff all the time. I share it

1360
01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 1: because he's a celebrity, the number one biggest artist in

1361
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:06,720
Speaker 1: the world. Not you know missus Nicky Baby who works

1362
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 1: bottle service at under mist of all, first of all,

1363
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 1: nick Miss Niki Babies. It's a content creator and she's fantastic,

1364
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 1: Miss Niki Baby. Okay, she she's always doing things for

1365
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:25,840
Speaker 1: other people. Okay, like you should see you should see you.

1366
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:29,320
Speaker 1: The way that she distributes bottles, it is like no other. Um,

1367
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:33,599
Speaker 1: Miss Niaky Baby's fantastic. Okay, I want you to get

1368
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 1: off her nuts. Okay, that's not cool at all. I

1369
01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 1: will I will look a bad from Miss Nikki Baby

1370
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 1: any day. Um. I know, there is no difference. There's

1371
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:45,720
Speaker 1: no difference between following celebrities who are in bikinis, in

1372
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:49,240
Speaker 1: shirtless and whatever else and looking at these people on

1373
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:51,720
Speaker 1: Instagram to look. It's just look. I don't There's a

1374
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:54,840
Speaker 1: big difference between looking and and engaging and touching. It's

1375
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:57,599
Speaker 1: a whole different level. No, even if you're following somebody

1376
01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:00,559
Speaker 1: a man that's a very attractive man and he doesn't

1377
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 1: have to be shirtless all the time, but he's a

1378
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 1: very attractive man. And you see his Instagram all the

1379
01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: time and you comment that he's an attractive man. There's

1380
01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:07,800
Speaker 1: no difference. It's the same thing. I also think his

1381
01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:10,080
Speaker 1: feudal to spend any time Christie even looking at that,

1382
01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:12,759
Speaker 1: like it doesn't this is like it's not even relevant,

1383
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,640
Speaker 1: Like there's no point in even paying attention to it.

1384
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 1: It's embarrassing. It's embarrassing that he follows like almost eight

1385
01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:22,320
Speaker 1: hundred naked women accounts. How many people doesn't follow a total?

1386
01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:24,560
Speaker 1: I don't do you think? I don't know. I don't know.

1387
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:27,560
Speaker 1: If it's more than eighty percent of his of his

1388
01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:30,640
Speaker 1: Instagram that I would say that's weird. Yeah, But but

1389
01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 1: if it's if he follows a thousand people and two

1390
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 1: hundred or hot girls, I don't think that's you know,

1391
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 1: out of line. That's a lot that there's a lot

1392
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: of women who don't know that you're just following because

1393
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: you like their body. I feel like that's just weird.

1394
01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:45,080
Speaker 1: And where is like Loki thrive off of it? Yes,

1395
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:46,880
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, why is my borefer got to

1396
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: be so thirsty? Wait a minute, Okay, I don't mean

1397
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 1: to turn this on you, but you you post a

1398
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 1: lot of pictures of your body and I don't trap.

1399
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:57,799
Speaker 1: I don't yes, thirst traps. She's admitted their third straps

1400
01:09:57,920 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 1: they're thirst traps. But I don't do bikinis in all.

1401
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 1: I'll wear like a tight dress. Yeah, I remember you did.

1402
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 1: You did a naked Selena Selena Gomez cover. That was

1403
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, how is that? And I'm not

1404
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:14,200
Speaker 1: trying to turn this on you, but I'm saying, you're

1405
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:17,639
Speaker 1: you're putting that content out there because you want guys

1406
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 1: to like it too, So how can you hate on

1407
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:21,519
Speaker 1: a guy. I don't think I ever went on the

1408
01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: Graham and said I hope guys like this. Yeah, someone's

1409
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 1: boyfriend likes it. He didn't do it for likes. No,

1410
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:29,559
Speaker 1: I feel because it's my content, and it's not naked pictures.

1411
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 1: It's not bikini pictures. That's the same thing these women

1412
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 1: are doing. They're doing it because that's their content. It's

1413
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 1: not their fault saying that's okay, But why does my man? Mister,

1414
01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: my boyfriend got to be thirsty. That's why I love

1415
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:43,680
Speaker 1: my friend. How did you meet your boyfriend? How did

1416
01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 1: you meet your boyfriend? Yes? Dating app okay? So other

1417
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,639
Speaker 1: So other men can like your photos, but he can't

1418
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 1: like other women's photos, even though it clean to be

1419
01:10:56,479 --> 01:11:00,719
Speaker 1: okay with with guys commenting you're so beautiful, I love you, Pauline,

1420
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:02,960
Speaker 1: Oh you look so good. But he can't just look

1421
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 1: at a photo of a woman and not not even

1422
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 1: like it. He can look again, don't like it. Why

1423
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:09,479
Speaker 1: if my boyfriend have to be thirsty with the likes?

1424
01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 1: You know what I'm trying. Yeah, And you know what

1425
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: if your boyfriend follows me on Instagram and it makes

1426
01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:16,080
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable, let me know and I'll block him. I

1427
01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 1: don't want to be the girl. Don't. Don't contribute to that.

1428
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 1: Don't feed into absolutely I'm feeding into let guys, it's Instagram.

1429
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 1: It's not real serious. We got to remember that. And

1430
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 1: here's the other thing. If you start limiting what he's

1431
01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: allowed to do on the internet, he's gonna start doing

1432
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:32,800
Speaker 1: stuff that he's hiding from you, and then you're gonna

1433
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 1: be like, why are you hiding it from me? And

1434
01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:38,040
Speaker 1: it's probably benign activity, but I don't. I don't unless

1435
01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:40,439
Speaker 1: the guy's commenting or you find him dming or being

1436
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:42,639
Speaker 1: an appropriate trying to go out with these girls. It's

1437
01:11:42,640 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 1: just I don't it's the Internet. I don't you know,

1438
01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 1: does he do you know he watched is porn or

1439
01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:50,080
Speaker 1: he watches Oh and you're going with that, Yeah, it's fine.

1440
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 1: How is that? Wait a minute? Who whoa? How is that?

1441
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 1: That's that would be worse? Well, that is totally separate.

1442
01:11:57,479 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 1: That's like, oh, that's that's different. Following a woman on

1443
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 1: Instagram who has like ten thousand followers, like, that's very accessible.

1444
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:06,680
Speaker 1: That's a very accessible. I think you can easily look

1445
01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 1: up the person who you saw on the video if

1446
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:10,040
Speaker 1: you wanted to and follow them. Yeah, but she doesn't

1447
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 1: see that you watch her video. The woman on Instagram

1448
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:15,240
Speaker 1: sees that you follow her. It's very different. It's too accessible.

1449
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 1: It's too dirty to me, and it's embarrassing. I'm trying

1450
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 1: to follow along with the logic from both of you

1451
01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 1: ladies here and I just don't, um, but I don't know.

1452
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:25,600
Speaker 1: A man's gonna do what a man's gonna do a

1453
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 1: woman as well. But I'm what we're trying to say

1454
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 1: is like giving the attention to these you know, chicks

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01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 1: with the large followings and the bikini picks. It's just

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01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:36,120
Speaker 1: you know, being someone's girlfriend. It's kind of embarrassing. I'll

1457
01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:38,040
Speaker 1: embarrass my men like that. Like I don't go out

1458
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 1: and go, oh, look at you know the manager at Underground. Oh,

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01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 1: he's so fine. I'm gonna go follow it. Und I

1460
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:48,600
Speaker 1: don't know. Are people coming through Paulina and be like, yo,

1461
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:50,920
Speaker 1: your man is liking all these photos all the time. Well,

1462
01:12:50,960 --> 01:12:52,639
Speaker 1: but they might one day. What if I run into

1463
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: one of these women and like, my boyfriend follows her. No,

1464
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:57,560
Speaker 1: I have women, I have friends who are influencers. I

1465
01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 1: have over two hundred thousand followers. What if one day

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01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, like solo, is one of them that I meet.

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01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:06,600
Speaker 1: That's embarrassing. Yeah, I'll be honest. My boyfriend follows like

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01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:09,840
Speaker 1: forty people and it has been the most beautiful relationship

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01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:13,719
Speaker 1: of my life. Yes, I don't. I can't follow along

1470
01:13:13,840 --> 01:13:16,160
Speaker 1: right now. Like there are plenty. I think I have

1471
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:19,560
Speaker 1: forty some thousand Instagram followers. I'm sure a lot of

1472
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:21,640
Speaker 1: them are married, and I have a feeling that most

1473
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 1: of their husbands don't care. Well also we or their

1474
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 1: wives don't care or whatever. You know. It's like because

1475
01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:29,600
Speaker 1: because we're content creators and we're developing a relationship and

1476
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 1: some of them comment and I message some of them

1477
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 1: and it's all benign, you know. Um. But anyway, and

1478
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 1: back to Rufie's point, just really quick. You did say, oh,

1479
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 1: my boyfriend has accepted. He did have to do. We

1480
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:42,160
Speaker 1: had that conversation like I'm gonna get heart eyes and

1481
01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 1: kisses or whatever. But I don't know who Bobby five

1482
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:48,720
Speaker 1: six nine is, nor are you messaging him friends. They're

1483
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 1: friends