WEBVTT - #333: You're An Astro-NOT 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:07.160 Start Up, dot Up, Start Up, Brooklyn Boys, Start Up, 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:10.479 Brooklyn Boys, start Up, Up Up. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:15.560 They making Noise Up, start Up Up, udt ut. 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:20.720 Up Episode three thirty three. It's the Brooklyn Boys Podcast. 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:24.160 These are things like just yesterday we did two to 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:26.920 two and one one. Is this your angel numbers? You 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:27.760 have angel numbers? 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:28.479 I don't know, you know in the. 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:31.920 Three numbers, it's an insuccession number. You know me with that, 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:33.760 you don't like it. A lot of people have angel 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:36.680 numbers of four four four. We've talked about this before. 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:38.680 You're still gonna die at some point in your life. 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:41.360 You don't people have no People actually wear changing around 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:43.479 their neck with like you know, seven seven seven or 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.920 eight eight eight. But the four four fours and the 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:47.760 eight eight eight are a lot of angel numbers for 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:50.120 some people. You're you're looking at men have five heads. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.479 Whatever makes you happy? You still you're still just as 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:56.120 likely to get sick and be in plane crash like whatever. 0:00:56.600 --> 0:00:58.040 Thanks, whatever makes you happy, you. 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:02.360 Know, listen, I'm I'm talking will not one to believe. 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:04.440 I'm not one to believe that things affect other things. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:07.440 I just really not. I'm a little bit like that, 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.760 though I'm a little superstitious, A little bit. I don't know, 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.959 are you very superstitious Stevie wonder? I know, No, I just. 0:01:15.920 --> 0:01:18.759 I always look at things that you know me like 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:22.360 did you ever like you have a crumple up a 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:25.840 piece of paper and try and uh throw it into 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.399 the waste paper basket from across the room, and say, 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:31.160 if I make this shot, then this is gonna happen. 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.400 No, I do it all the time, like, yeah, how's 0:01:34.440 --> 0:01:36.240 that working out? Like you probably haven't hit a shot 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:37.120 in five years. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:40.600 Look, if I make this shot, yeah, then I'm gonna 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:43.600 come into some money next year. You know that kind 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:48.320 of masturbate with a dollar bill. Yeah, of course, yeah, 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:53.560 come into some money. That's an old one. Yeah. You know, 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:55.480 I don't believe not of stuff like that. But you know, 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:57.240 you don't do that to yourself. You don't like psych 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:00.560 yourself into things like say, what were you? You know 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.120 you basically you set up you set up like an 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:06.280 obstacle course or something, a challenge for yourself, and if 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:10.200 you can make the challenge happen, then whatever you wish 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:11.600 for comes true. 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:15.800 No, who's granted me that wish? Because I got to 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:17.560 the top of the steps before my dog did. 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:21.800 Right there you go, or if you could like walked across, 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:24.359 if that ship worked, we'd all be rich and live forever. 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:25.640 But we don't, and we aren't. 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:29.440 But sometimes it's like a it's like a hope and 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:31.639 a dream. I I you know, I blame Disney fan 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.919 to play the lottery. It means a dollar in a dream. 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:36.840 I blame Disney for this because it's all about if 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:40.639 you think about of course, if you everything in Disney 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:41.360 is about the. 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:42.480 Cartoons, dude. 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.840 But but Disney, I know the concept of Disney, of 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:49.639 going to Disney is is hopes and dreams. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.840 And you've seen every Disney movie. 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:54.680 Your parents have to die miserably first before anything can happen. 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:57.280 There a single parent. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:59.280 Every almost every Disney movie, you're a child of a 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.760 single parent because one of them got killed or something. 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:05.320 I know, Bambie, Oh awful. 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:10.480 Nemo, the father is captured or whatever happens Bamby, Yeah. 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:13.600 The terrible shit happened? Lime King, where's the father? And 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:19.160 toy story doesn't exist? Well, they're trying to My god, 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:20.320 you have to crush everything. 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:23.320 You're dashing. You're dashing my hopes and dreams. But like 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:24.400 you're taught that. 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:27.760 Kids are taught this growing up about it's it's the 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:28.600 magic of Disney. 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:29.800 Everything's magical. 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.480 Yeah, Disney is magical, Yes, but it doesn't. Yeah, Okay, 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:36.440 the lines are still long, so listen miss the question. 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:39.080 You're an angry bassador. No, I'm not. 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:42.040 I'm just I'm cynical, and I believe it. I believe 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:43.360 in I believe, but I believe in things that can 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:43.760 be proven. 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.920 That's why. That's why I love you. Yeah. 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:48.360 So so let me ask you the inverse, because this 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:52.640 happened yesterday on social media. Some people believe that you 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:54.720 can will good things to happen, or you know, good 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:58.440 people get good things whatever yesterday or the day before, 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:01.560 and police slices. I don't want negativity in the talk back, 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:03.000 and you guys would, and you guys are all cool. 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:07.560 The story came out that little little nas X that 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:09.200 the right side of his face he can't move the 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:13.760 right side of his face. Yeah, terrible thing. And some people, 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:16.599 you know, their internet doctors. I bet he had a stroke. 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:21.040 I bet he has Bell's palsy. I bet he had 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:25.320 had a drug reaction. Everybody knows exactly. But then there 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:32.480 were those people I feel like religion of any kind 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:38.000 should make you compassionate, right and not judge people. They're 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:41.120 all like, well, he got what he deserved what a 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.719 lot of yes, well he did. 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:44.799 He did terrible things. 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:49.359 He blasphemed Satan and God and I don't know his videos. 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:55.320 He deserves this. I I feel like that's not for 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:56.040 us to say. 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:59.000 And I also don't think that you have a stroke 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:04.200 or Bell's Paul's because you did uh a weird music video. 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:08.039 So you do not believe in karma, is what you're saying, 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:10.640 because everyone says karma is a bit. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:11.320 I'll tell you what. 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:14.640 I'll tell you why, because lots of good people have 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:18.520 strokes and they'll have bells ballsy right, lots of good 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:23.080 people absolutely cancer people. It happens to everybody that don't nothing, 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:26.640 who does, people that did nothing wrong, people that not 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:27.200 deserve this. 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:27.680 People. 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:30.680 People don't focus on that. They don't focus on childhood cancer. 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:32.640 They just go, oh, oh he did he did a 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:34.560 video I don't like that made God look bad. 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:38.440 That's why he got. Karma's a bitch. Yeah, everyone says that. 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:41.760 That's like the catch phrase of our lifetime. Oh he's 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:46.240 got what it was coming to him, right, the foos 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:50.040 fuck around, Yeah, funk around and find out if he's 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:50.520 found out. 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.520 But then when somebody like becomes rich, they're like, oh, 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.200 fuck him, I hate him. He's a billionaire. Fuck him, 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:55.840 I hate him. 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:59.000 But what about what if karma was good to him? 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.680 Like, you can't pick and shoes, you have to you know, 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:05.200 a lot of people say that if you're an evil 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:11.800 individual and you're you, you are no good, and you 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:15.320 have a lifetime of wrongdoing, you will eventually get yours. 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:19.040 A lot of people believe, let's be honest, how many 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:23.800 evil people live great lives? How many evil people are millionaires? 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:27.600 And I'm just I'm saying they're very wealthy. Uh, they 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:28.680 murder people. 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:31.760 They're in charge of country, never have it coming. 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:36.120 Yeah, they live to be a Listen, there's communist nations 0:06:36.160 --> 0:06:38.960 in the history of a world where the leaders of 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:42.760 those countries oppress their people, killed them, tortured them, and 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.120 they died rich and powerful. 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:46.560 You know. 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:49.520 So, I don't know about the karma thing. If karma 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.600 was a bitch, there'd be a lot more bitching going on. 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:53.920 I can think of a lot of people who need 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:55.840 some karma and they don't get it. 0:06:57.000 --> 0:07:00.280 So the karma, Well what about the josh one in 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:02.040 one said instant karma is gonna get you? 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.279 Yeah, I think if you if you're a dick to 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:08.760 Lil nas X, that calmer should get you. Like, wouldn't 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:10.800 it be the ultimate irony if people who made fun 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:12.840 of Lil nas X for having let's say a stroke 0:07:13.320 --> 0:07:16.280 had a stroke like good people people think they're good people, 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:19.680 then what would be the excuse? Well, I didn't I 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:21.480 didn't make a video about God, So why did I 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:22.080 get a stroke? 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:23.000 Yeah? 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:24.760 Well maybe because you made fun of the guy who did. 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:27.320 I don't know, and the thought I think you know. 0:07:27.680 --> 0:07:30.360 But this goes back to can we bring it back 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:34.400 to the hopes and dreams and dream holts and dreams. 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:35.120 We're gonna have. 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:37.360 Something to look whatever gets you through the day, slic 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:39.920 You gotta have something to look forward to or something 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:42.560 that can get you out of where you're at. Like 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:44.720 scary if you look at a clock and it says 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:46.680 it's twelve thirty four and you're like one two three 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:47.800 four and it makes you smile. 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:49.640 Yeah, God, bless you dude. 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:51.440 Every time I you know, we've talked about it on 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.000 this podcast before. Every time I see if I look 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.520 at the clock and it's eleven eleven, I'm making a wish. 0:07:57.040 --> 0:07:59.440 Yeah, anytime I see if. 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:01.240 It's three thirty three or four forty four or five 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:02.880 fifty five, I'm making wishes. 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:08.120 If next year, on March third, you listen to episode 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:12.280 three three three on three three, God bless you listen. 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:14.480 If you wait until the year twenty If you wait 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:18.239 until the year thirty thirty twenty thirty three and listen 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:21.240 to this episode, I'd say played lottery that day? 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:21.680 Sure, why not? 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:25.679 Eight on three three three Given these things, God listen, 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.040 it's only what is it eight years from now? Less 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.720 than eight years from now will be three three thirty three. 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:33.200 There'll be people looking to get married that day, Yes, 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:34.760 so that they can remember their anniversary. 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:36.480 That data you can never forget. 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:42.480 My uncle Peter on eight eight eighty eight, he decided 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:46.559 to bet on horse number eight in the eighth race 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:50.920 of Mommoth Mammoth Park Racetrack, Okay. On eight eight eighty eight, 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:56.360 he bet on horse number eight, and he's like, he 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:57.640 put like one hundred dollars on. 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.840 This horse in the eighth rae hundred dollars. 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:08.079 He paid one hundred dollars yeah, the horse came in eighth, not. 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:11.680 Even kidding good by the way, three three thirty three 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:12.920 is a Thursday. 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:17.560 That's a doable wedding date. Oh, you already know weddings 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:22.000 are probably Yeah, how many people know the eight years? 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:23.920 So now I bet you there's some women who've already bought, 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:25.920 they booked the date just because they might not have 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:26.360 met their. 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.560 And men men may have listened, mostly women. 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:29.880 Wait, don't you know. 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:32.960 A while ago I was on that talk show It 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:35.120 never made it to air. It was the Carlos Watson Show. 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:38.120 It was a pilot and the woman had had chosen 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:41.520 and bought her wedding dress and didn't even meet the 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:44.840 guy yet said no, I'm buying my wedding dress because 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:47.360 this is it. And maybe someone out there do that, 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:50.400 buy a wedding dress. Think about that for a second. 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.720 You're gonna spend all this money and you haven't even 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:57.080 met the guy, right, you're just sayingle So yeah. 0:09:57.280 --> 0:09:57.640 Second. 0:09:57.960 --> 0:10:01.480 May second is a Friday. That's five two two five. 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:03.960 That's Robin's birthday, is it? 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:04.880 Yep? May second? 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:06.960 What a great day, What a great day to propose 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:09.360 five to two five. It's a friday, you see, her 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:12.040 on the weekends. No, this is what you can remember. 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:13.480 I got. 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:17.400 I remember the day I proposed to I proposed on well, 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:23.200 i'll tell you what I proposed in May without a ring, right. 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:26.240 But then when I gave my my at that time, 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:30.760 my fiance a ring, it was six nine nine six. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:33.920 Mm hm. 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:42.120 Six nine nine six yeah, yeah, all right, who knew 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:42.840 six nine? 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:45.160 I doubt you remember that. That's a palindrome. 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:48.840 It is yes sixty nine in it. So yeah, I 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.000 didn't plan it that way. I didn't plant that way. 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:52.600 I didn't even notice the date when I gave the ring. 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:53.920 I'm just like, oh, wait, oh. 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:57.520 Did you say your thermostat to sixty nine? No? Oh, 0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:57.800 I do. 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.120 I set my life life to it, by. 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:02.959 The way, just I just so I can walk by 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:04.440 it and chuckle. I said. 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:07.600 Brian adams big hit, Summer of sixty nine, which I 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:10.240 believe he released in nineteen eighty five. If you do 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:12.839 the math, he wouldn't have been old enough to have 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:16.160 the experiences he says he had in nineteen sixty nine. 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:16.920 So he's lying. 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:21.520 No, he the song's actually about a Summer of sixty nine, 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:24.120 ing from what rumor is. 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:30.560 Oh, so wait a second so oh, you're googling it? 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:33.000 No, I want to want to read the exact definition. 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:40.080 Please do go ahead, I'm waiting. Yeah. 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:43.520 Brian Adams says that it was just the song is 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:46.080 about a year in his life, but it was a 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:49.199 playful reference to a specific sexual act. 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:52.760 So it was about sixty nine. 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:57.040 In the summer writing about he was writing about it 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.920 a year or just you know, everybody chose that number. 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:01.120 Oh because of that? 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:05.840 Because of that, Yeah, that's pretty cool. But how old 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.520 would he have been in nineteen sixty nine? What year 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:09.520 was Brian Adams born? 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:12.080 I mean, they'll tell me he was eleven. 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:13.240 He would have been ten. 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:15.280 Oh that's gross. 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:18.880 Yeah, actually he would have been nine because of it 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:21.360 would have been well, yeah, the summer of sixty nine, 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:22.040 he was nine. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:25.280 Like I said, it wasn't about how oly in a. 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:27.839 Second he's nobody's singing like it's his story. Like me 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.760 and some guys were from school, had a band and 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:31.720 we tried, we played real hard. 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:33.719 But it did it didn't happen in nineteen sixty nine. 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:35.640 The fuck man, I feel cheated. 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:39.000 He was twenty six when he when he sang that song, 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:43.200 but the summer sixty nine he was nine, right, it 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.520 was probably about nineteen seventy eight, but it didn't fit 0:12:45.559 --> 0:12:49.560 as well in the sut you Adam of seventy eight. Ayah, 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:57.400 bullshitcast scary the things you learned. See now, if an 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:00.760 artist see if an artist sang like in the in 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:05.000 the in the nineties, the two thousands, it would make sense, yeah, 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.160 to be saying on summer sixteen nine, but it didn't 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:09.800 make sense for Brian Adams, who was nine at the time. 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:10.600 Yeah. 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:12.559 Is this sort of like how I grew up listening 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:15.840 to Nicki Minaj where the years were all fuzzy like that? 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:17.959 Yeah, all fuzzy. 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:21.360 Oh man, dude, I got an invite to a wedding. 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.679 Another one, yet another wedding. Well, another one is on 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:26.760 another one Long Island? Is it on Long Island? 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:30.280 Again? In the drive two hours? Yeah? No, this one's 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:31.040 up in Westchester. 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:36.000 Oh okay, another long drive another Yeah, Well that's okay. 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:39.320 I like Westchester. Westchester is best Chester. I'm a big 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.280 fan of Rockland and Westchester because I don't go up 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:43.160 there often enough, but when I do go there, I 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:44.320 find some solace in peace. 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:45.960 I feel like it's Oh, it's very nice. 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:48.080 That's it's wonderful, and it's so close a nice rural 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:51.920 area not that far from an Not rural, it's suburbia. 0:13:54.000 --> 0:14:00.240 I mean, come on now, rural, dude, Rural is like Barstow, California. 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.240 Come on anyway, So yes, so I got I got 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:04.800 a wedding invite, yet another. 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:07.040 One where period the word I'm gonna read you. The 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:10.360 definition of rural. Rural refers to areas outside of towns 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:14.240 and cities characterized by lower population density UH and more 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:21.000 natural landscape. Westchester is rural, Like it's rural. 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:23.000 It's not rural. It's not rural. 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:27.840 It's I consider it's a suburb, suburbs, suburbs, suburbs, a suburb. 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:30.680 It's not rural. When I think rural. 0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:33.200 I think of like the middle of the desert somewhere, 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:35.720 a little town of five thousand people. 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:37.400 That's rural. 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:42.640 No, come on, they include they include urbanized hold on 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.520 closely linked to the definition of so. 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:49.440 By that, by that logic, Clifton, New Jersey, is rural. 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:53.600 The US Census Bureau defines rural as any population, housing, 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:57.960 or territory not included within an urban area. West Chester 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:01.480 is not part of the tri state area, not that 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:02.320 far up. 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:03.840 It. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:09.800 So Cherry Hill is rural because it's not in Philly. Yeah, 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:13.520 get the fuck out of here. Come on, rural, it's 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:14.640 not rural. 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:19.880 You Cherry Hill, New Jersey have a subway system. No, 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:22.880 but it's not. It's a suburb. That's what r I 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:24.480 didn't really make the way rural up. 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:26.920 I would never use it in any sentence because I'd 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:28.720 sound stupid if I called it rural. 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:32.640 If you say that to anybody out loud, I'd be embarrassed. 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:37.920 Would you say that Westchester has open spaces? Yes, okay? 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.400 And natural landscape of course, beautiful? 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.440 Thank you. Definition of rural, it's not rural. I don't 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:43.680 care it. 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:47.360 On date, I'm reading multiple definitions. What is a simple 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:51.000 definition of We don't care what country. You wouldn't speak 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:52.920 it out last to a city or town. You wouldn't 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:56.320 say it out loud. That ain't If you live in Westchester, 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:59.320 please leave us a talk back and confirm that it's rural. 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:03.920 It's not, it's the suburb. It's suburbs. Okay. Can a 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:07.920 rural area also be a suburb? Of course? 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:12.320 The answer is yes, but you can't. A suburb can't 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:15.440 be a rural area, though. Is that the question you 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:16.000 want to ask. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:20.120 Okay, I'm okay. If you go to the southern part 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:25.200 of Westchester, that's not that's not rural. But Westchester goes 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:26.200 up pretty far north. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:30.520 No, no, because then it gets cut off by Dutchess 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:34.120 County or there's other there's other counties in there. Right, 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:38.160 once you go above Westchester, right, Dutchess. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:38.800 I'm not going to west Chester. 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:42.720 If you go to Puttnham Putnam County, that's still not rural. 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:45.120 That these are suburbs you were talking about, the suburbs 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:49.240 Orange County, go above Gay, go in Rockland, Rockland County. 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:51.400 Rockland County's rural. No scary. 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:54.520 A kid from Brooklyn Staten Island is rural compared to Brooklyn. 0:16:54.680 --> 0:16:58.640 Come on, it's not anyway, I digress. I got a 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:02.520 wedding coming out aggress, Yeah, up by the cows. 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:06.639 Go ahead. So and it says on the card black tie. 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:10.280 Oh, it's bad enough that my entire life all like 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:13.080 the option. It's the money has been going in one 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:17.000 direction out, never money coming in, because I've never had 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:18.840 a celebration of a wedding of my own. And it's 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:21.440 of course it's by my own device for my own devices, 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:26.160 by my own devices. But here we are again, okay, 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:29.240 and with another with another wedding that I'm going to 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:33.680 go to, and it says black tie, which means because 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:36.000 I don't have a black tie, I don't have a 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:39.879 tuxedo that would qualify. Looks like I'm gonna have to 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:45.720 go do another rental. And it just sucks because who 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:49.760 are people to dictate if the wedding should be black tie? 0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:54.600 Is that a little bit uh selfish? 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:59.000 What do you think? I don't that means tuxedo. For guys, 0:17:59.359 --> 0:18:02.240 that means a top. I'm not kidding. I'm not the 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:03.040 one married. 0:18:03.359 --> 0:18:06.160 My wedding, if I remember correctly, was black tie optional 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:10.080 or sometimes sometimes it may have been black tie preferred, 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:11.640 if I remember correctly. 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:16.119 But as soon as you say the word preferred, you 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:18.439 pretty much mean you better wear black tie. 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:20.159 You're gonna look for Well. No, there were people at. 0:18:20.000 --> 0:18:22.120 My wedding that didn't wear tuxedos, and we didn't borrow 0:18:22.160 --> 0:18:24.960 them from it. But the family I married into is 0:18:25.240 --> 0:18:27.840 a black tie type of family. They like, they like 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:31.959 dressing up, they like black tide. That was you know, so, uh, 0:18:32.160 --> 0:18:34.159 my wedding was black tie. But I bought a tuxedo 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:38.480 for my wedding after after I rented a tuxedo for 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:42.080 my wife's oldest sister and middle sister. So I needed tuxedos. 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:44.439 I rented, rented, then I bought, and then whenever there 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:46.080 was a black tie wedding, I was thrilled because I 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:49.040 had a tuxedo, like, oh, I'm done, I just throw 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:50.600 a tuxedo want him to do I have to think 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:54.920 about anything. I had a vest and a matching bow 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:59.160 tie whatever. I was set. Now that tuxedo is long 0:18:59.160 --> 0:19:02.119 gone because it's out of style. So now when somebody 0:19:02.119 --> 0:19:04.920 says black tie, I'm like, all right, well that's that's 0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:07.480 another two hundred dollars and I gotta give you a gift. 0:19:07.560 --> 0:19:09.080 So doesn't that beg the question. 0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:14.680 Shouldn't the maximum people require at the wedding be black 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:18.080 tie optional? So this way they can because everyone with 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:20.440 black tie optional, at least you know everyone's gonna come 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:22.960 nice and neat. I know you want people well dressed 0:19:22.960 --> 0:19:25.760 for your affair. I get all that. I understand it's 0:19:25.800 --> 0:19:28.359 your day. Blah blah blah. Everyone's going the talkbacks is 0:19:28.359 --> 0:19:31.760 gonna start rolling in now. But at the end of 0:19:31.760 --> 0:19:35.720 the day. I think the maximum you should demand in 0:19:35.760 --> 0:19:39.719 a wedding it should be black tie optional. This way, 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:42.120 you know you're gonna everyone's going to be in a suit, 0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:45.280 but they don't have that. It doesn't have black suit mandatory. 0:19:45.320 --> 0:19:47.800 It doesn't have to be a tuxedo. Although I don't 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:50.720